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Question For MenChancyChancery/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:28 PM
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Gotcha. Yeah ☹
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:15 AM
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But not all psychopaths commit crimes. And you don't have to be a psychopath to commit a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:08 AM
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But people do talk about black crime like that? You're literally doing it. I don't understand why anybody wants to be a victim. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:07 AM
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That's bull. Why do men assume women can just wave their pussies around? Prostitutes are one of the most vulnerable populations. There's entire stretches of places throughout the US and Canada where prostitutes are routinely killed because no one searches for them and the police don't care. Anyone being a victim of violent crime is screwed up. But this is saying 1% of Americans were victims of violent crimes in 2019. That's such a crazy insignificant number that hedging survival rates on that is…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:04 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:41 AM
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Your evidence ranges from 1992 to 2016. Not that there isn't value in looking at that material, but you don't put up a very compelling argument if your information is outdated. A lot has happened and changed since 2016, let alone 1992. Also, as I'm sure you're aware, facts don't care about your feelings. You've spewed what you perceive the world is like rather than what it is. Removal of rights and Killing is happening --> Abortion rights; recent targeted mass shootings of Black and Asian Americ…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:40 AM
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Thats an interesting perspective but from a woman's pov, I grimace at the idea that being a woman is safer. Perhaps, protected is a better word? Protected is more nuanced and doesn't automatically imply safety and highlights the imposition of certain ideas onto women. Regarding the study, my experience as a woman doesnt contradict it. It doesn't matter if the men around me don't respect a particular guy, they won't ask him twice of he's sure, but they'll ask me, despite the fact I get better rev…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:22 AM
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Yeah, its not easy. But one thing I've learned is that focusing on what I can't change has only made me bitter and brought me pain without improving anything. You got this, I'm sure you have plenty of great qualities that someone will love!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 12:09 AM
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Sure, there are times where all I need is to see someone and I feel attraction. More commonly, I like to chat a bit to know the other person's not crazy. I've never been in a long term relationship or had even a short term relationship. So take this all with a grain of salt if thats your goal. It'll depend on the person whether it's a slow burn or it'simmediate and i cannot explain why one person is slow and the others fast. I've had crushes on people just upon seeing them; other times, I'll jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:51 PM
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I can agree with the last word.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:44 PM
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I take your point. But I think so much of what you said in that last paragraph is more universal than it is particularly applicable only to men. Those things you're saying are all things I've felt and I know the women in my life have felt (and obviously the men in my life have felt). I'm not trying to mitigate what you're feeling or what you're saying men experience (trust me, I'm from a patriarchal family- I've seen that in my dad's face), but I just want to introduce my perspective, which is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:41 PM
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I don't think you understand the meaning of entitlement. All of those things you said are forms of entitlement even if that's not the common parlance. When I do anything, I'm not conscious of it, but I presume I have the right to do it. I have the right to sleep in my bed, I have the right to take the train, I have the right to go to work, i have the right to have the same rights everybody else does, etc. Entitlement is having a right for certain benefits or privileges. A robber feels entitled t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:34 PM
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Hard disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:24 PM
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Testosterone is fascinating. Did you know it fluctuates wildly during the day?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:23 PM
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Oh yeah, that shit is crazy. I've seen some of those videos. Totally unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:21 PM
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I'm sorry you feel that way about your height. I know it sucks to be told you're not desirable. I'm really good at giving out advice that I wholeheartedly believe in but cannot get myself to follow, but therapy is a great thing! Any kind of self improvement is good. Also, if you can't change it, maybe try to focus on other things? Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:19 PM
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I've had crushes on many, many guys who were shorter than me. Growing up, I thought I'd have to be with someone taller than me because I got made fun of for towering over dudes. But then in college, some of you might be surprised, it was in my gender studies courses where I came to realize how harmful my beliefs were.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:16 PM
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You're so right. I need to do a media detox 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:14 PM
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I think some people would definitely feel entitled to all of those things you've listed. But that probably just comes down to personality. As for your last point, assuming I was born male/man, I think I'd have a lot more confidence than as a woman even in my current state. I probably would have been less invisible. In my culture, I would have been respected a lot more, and I would have had more time to do hobbies than helping around the house. I wouldn't be questioned or second guessed when I sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:12 PM
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Yes to robber example. Entitlement according to Merriam webster means "having a right to certain benefits or privileges." Robbers believe they have a right to certain benefits (guy's phone without paying for it). Yeah, so in that last example. Blake is rejected by Rowan. -> okay. Blake is sad. -> okay. Blake physically harasses Rowan. -> Blake feels he has the right to access Rowan's body (entitlement) & Rowan has a right over her bodily autonomy. Both have perceived rights/entitlements. Rowan's…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:53 PM
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I will say, you have a great way with words. Have you thought about writing? So, I really, really want to believe that people who do bad things have something wrong with them, but I just don't think that's always the case. The american justice system is fucked up, but, if that were the case, I'd imagine we'd see a lot more people in mental institutions than jail. Some people are just fucked, sometimes due to circumstances, and hurt people hurt people. Super long book but "the body keeps the scor…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:31 PM
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I think it comes down to individuals. Some people prefer pretty people and prioritize beauty in a partner over other qualities. Some people like people that make them laugh. Some people like people who can have indepth conversations about common topics. For me, I've noticed that I need more than an attractive face/body to feel attraction. I need to know they've got some other quality that I value. Often, I'm attracted to people who have qualities that I don't have or haven't mastered. Like, I li…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:23 PM
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I wish I could just ignore it! But it's everywhere!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:17 PM
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Yes, the robber feels entitled to harm another person in order to steal their property. That's wrong. A person can be upset for a myriad of reasons, but it's up to each individual person, especially adults, to deal with their emotions in a productive (or at least nonviolent) manner so they can continue being part of the social contract. Entitlement over another person's body is unacceptable and no amount of trauma, depression, mental health, or socioeconomic issues makes it okay. But one can sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:16 PM
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Pathophysiologically, every human is afraid of pain. That's the point. Also...women have babies. If they were so pathologically scared, they would certainly not be having children. Studies show that women have a higher threshold for pain than men. I never said women aren't entitled. Most of the things you've stated would improve the country for everyone and are not exclusive to women. I think its more bizarre that politicians are entitled to what happens in a woman's womb but woman can't feel en…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:07 PM
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I guess, both? They seem pretty intertwined to me, but I guess that's an individualized thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:57 PM
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This is written like a horrifying manifesto. I think you're projecting on all men because I don't believe all men are hardwired to be salivating, uncontrollable animals that are one popped shirt button away from ravishing another person. People can't blame evolution for their inability to respect other people's boundaries because people also have evolved a frontal cortex that allows you to mitigate those infernal hindbrain desires. And I'd argue that a ton of people who kill women don't do it be…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:51 PM
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Interesting. I think entitlement is the right word for how some men act. I'm not taking about men being upset at being rejected, that's normal. I'm talking about men who are violent against women who go as far as take their life because they rejected them. That is absolute entitlement over the agency and liberty of another person. Entitlement has broad meaning. I'm entitled to my rights (thr opposite of dehumanizing); you're entitled to your rights. No one is entitled to the unconsented use of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:41 PM
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I honestly wish this was a thing of the past, but I see plenty of these types of comments throughout the internet - Facebook, Twitter, reddit, and even officials in government still say things like this. And I haven't seen anyone say that about Uvalde. Def not as wide a discourse as the Muslim thing. I've mostly seen people upset with the police, even more so than the shooter. [As an aside, Isn't that an interesting problem that all our media and interactions on the internet are individually cur…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:32 PM
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Ah yes Brock Turner, the Convicted Rapist Brock Turner. Did I mention his name is Brock Turner comma Rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:14 PM
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I may not be attracted to someone physically right away, but the more I talk to that person and we vibe, the more I like them no matter what they look like. Like I had the exterminator come and the guy was a normal looking dude in his 40s. But he was friendly and genuine and we started chatting about topics im interested in and all of a sudden I was like oh...I'm attracted to him. I've been attracted to people based on what they look like but then I end up not vibing, and then I don't even think…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:12 PM
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Many people are lonely. It's an endemic among millennials. But many people also don't externalize their loneliness to negatively impact other people. That's what I'm curious about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:02 PM
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... 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:00 PM
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Not sure what you're trying to say, but please point out where I say or imply ONLY.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:58 PM
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Yeah, I think everyone everywhere should take their eyes off the comings and goings of the undercarriages of the people next to you. It's creepy. I haven't lost my v card and I hated it when my friends would ask if I've done it yet. Dating and sex are so closely intertwined with our insecurities and vulnerabilities. It took me a while to meditate on and learn about the concept of virginity and my (not society's) feelings around it. After educating myself, I feel much more comfortable with saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:57 PM
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That quote hits hard. Although I'm confused as to what you're saying. I'm hypocritical but your acknowledging that minorities are "acquainted with unwantedness"? That describes me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:50 PM
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What's the latter you are referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:42 PM
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Ha you said that better in 3 sentences than I've tried to say in 3 comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:39 PM
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Ooh yeah. Can't people just have normal human decency?? The disrespect is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:36 PM
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Hmm I think it's extreme to call them hated because if they really were hated, their problems would likely be far worse than cancelation or being bullied generally (like lynching, murdering, systematic raping, or removal of rights - which are all things affecting the protected group. Remember they're probably protected (like enshrined within the law) for a reason.) Individuals of protected groups also face bullying and cancelation. Just to be clear, I'm well aware of evil women. It just happens …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:26 PM
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I was trying to clarify my metaphor but womp womp. I think it's more general than that. Like, for example, rich people who lose a ton of money and commit suicide. They expected to be rich, felt entitled to it, and went as far to kill themselves because their expectations did not live up to reality. Poor kid A grows up poor, knows he'll probably stay poor. He's likely upset and angry with his situation, but there is no incongruity between the kid's expectations and his life. I guess I'm trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:15 PM
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Ohhh okay that wasn't clear. But I'm glad you don't feel that way about all women haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:05 PM
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Well my career centers around this type of research, so I'll just keep it up. True happiness and fulfillment is not going to come out of harboring such generalized beliefs about a whole group of people. I hope you're okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:56 PM
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But it has a lot to do with it! That's how our brains work. If you're inclined research dopamine and expectations. There's so interesting studies on primates. But thats the point, my metaphor acknowledges that the sun is not fundamental to my happiness because I don't expect it to be. You may still be miserable because there's no sun, but you're not angry at the sun for not appearing because you never expected it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:50 PM
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Nah, scarily, I don't even picture someone like that. Unfortunately, it's not so easy to tell. I watch a lot of true crime and murderers can be your totally normal next door neighbor. I think we're just going to have to agree to disagree on the first part. I think you think you're saying objective things but each of your sentences don't sound like good faith, and a lot could apply to either gender (like sexual assault not being convicted; lying; dicorce; emotional abuse). The stuff about abortio…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:48 PM
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But isn't that being entitled to one's pussy? If you're saying men don't want to put in the effort for pussy, that implies that if men put in effort they're entitled to pussy. A small minority, although shockingly large numbers of murdered women sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:43 PM
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Yes, absolutely! But what about those people who are given idyllic lives? Like convicted rapist Brock Turner? It's scary to realize the boogeyman exists in plain sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:40 PM
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I was trying to explain that I don't feel entitlement to a relationship or a man which partly explains why I don't have a festering anger towards the world. If I never expected the sun, I'm not going to be upset it's not sunny.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:39 PM
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Woof. There are plenty of stories of wives killing their husbanbs though, just because it happens less , doesn't mean women aren't capable of making their own horrible choices. Also, the things you've said are extreme stretches...it seems like you have a picture of a horrible seductress succubus woman in mind and you're overlaying that woman onto every other woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:36 PM
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You're lucky! I know a handful of men who feel this way. But I'm also from a patriarchal culture that prioritizes marriage between men and women. However, many of these men are liberals that I went to college with so you'd think they'd be above it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:33 PM
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Could you elaborate on what that means? Also, if anybody's interested, my question was sparked by Jay Black who killed both his current girlfriend and ex-wife and then himself. And he did it so nonchalantly while recording it. I just...I mean it was painful to watch. Those women did not deserve that date but it was clear that he felt entitled to taking their lives. Just so sickening.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:31 PM
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Haha I guess? But there seems to be a general sense of entitlement over women. The whole idea of sexual currency is ladden with an undercurrent of ownership or entitlement of another person. Edit- typo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:28 PM
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Idk. I think it's kinda hot when men share their feelings. But I think some men use women like tissue paper because they may not have anyone else to spew their feelings to so it becomes overwhelming. Also, sexual currency is so bizarre...like okay so that person won't fuck you, but there's plenty more who would if you actually took a mirror to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:27 PM
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Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. It really does seem to come down to insecurity. I wish people would feel comfortable with being honest about their underlying feelings because anger is a secondary emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:24 PM
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Hmm that's an interesting point. Do you think the bitter people feel the way they do because they don't have control? I don't have control in the sense of i determine my destination, but I guess I do have emotional control.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:21 PM
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Yeah, but those woman don't tend to take up arms and physically harm people because they can't get a relationship. Far more men murder their significant others than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:20 PM
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Yeah, but I'm not angry. I want a relationship, but I don't get angry about not having one. If anything, I get mad at myself for not being good enough. It seems a loud vocal minority of men take to internet forums to complain or make horrible, harmful generalizations about women. Look at the NiceGuys reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:19 PM
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Why is there a ton of made up stuff in this question, but I can't ask a simple question about male entitlement. But here we have an example of female entitlement. Does that happen often on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:25 PM
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HA yes! So ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:13 PM
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Everything in this subreddit proves the opposite. Men clearly are trying to find ways to exploit women for sex, even with some saying they'd have sex with women they aren't attractive to. Men perceive that women are exploiting them because...I don't know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:19 PM
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Hahahaha wrong. I've gotten shit advice from both men and women. And people in general don't give great advice because were all jsut people who are also trying to jsur figure it out. And what works for the goose doesn't always work for the gander.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:17 PM
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....which is why he's getting some? He's a boner killer for women who's having sex with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:15 PM
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Yeah thats such a weird sentiment. Just because a woman is deemed undesirable to most doesn't mean she's not a woman... Also who the fuck cares if other people want to fuck your partner...they're a person not a trophy. Some people have the most screwed up mindsets. If you like a person and find them attractive, do you. Why must people bash others for liking certain people? Its so bizarre that others are so concerned with what's going on in somebody else's bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:13 PM
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Nobody's entitled to sex and nobody is forced to have sex with someone they don't want (lest were talking about rape, obviously).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:10 PM
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These dudes just want excuses to continue their lifestyles of overindulgence and hate. They say horrible things about women like straight up admitting some women don't count because they're overweight. But then they get sad when they can't get any woman. Shocking that having an awful view of women is pervading their attempts at seducing the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:07 PM
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Young but so aware. You've hit the nail on the head! Save yourself and leave haha 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:59 PM
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Yup! That is my life 🙃 I'm trying to get out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:51 PM
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Also...you're only 21. You have plenty of time for dating. Going on groups like this and those like it are corrupting you. Reddit and anonymous strangers online isn't really life, but it can cause a corrupt view of the world if you participate in an echo chamber. Get out there and enjoy things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:50 PM
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Womne remember the men who gave them a good experience, but they probably remember the men who have them a bad experience even more. Its much more important to LISTEN and REACT to what your partner is saying than to assume that every person from a certain identity is going to like a particular thing. Also...you don't know every woman in the world. Your polling is objectively poor and it's bad faith to use the woman you've talked to as sampling for all woman. Your goal shouldn't be to give someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:46 PM
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Define easy mode? And easy as opposed to what? Hard mode? All these items need objective criteria. But most of the answers are incredibly biased and fail to define what these terms mean to them. I think somebody's answer to this question says a lot more about them than giving any true response or answer to this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:41 PM
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I don't think it's so cut and dry. Living in America is easy mode compared to living in various other countries, like North Korea. But living in Missouri and being poor is less easy mode than living in Cali and being rich. But that goes for all genders. Then what about women who "live on easy mode" but have mental health issues or childhood trauma. Is that still easy mode? Maybe easier mode for beautiful woman than less attractive woman because of the halo effect, but is it easy if a beautiful w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:33 PM
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