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Come on coward actually back up what you're saying.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/26 12:53 AM
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Ignoring that I stated several times that I like alt culture and engage with it a ton despite not wearing the right clothes. What am I allowed to like according to you? Seriously Mr. Gatekeeper, what am I allowed to like you fucking twat?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 10:50 PM
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They don't exist bro. Sorry to break it to you. People like the idea of a man opening up, but they hate it in practice. It gives them the ick.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 05:49 PM
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Oh I don't vent at all anymore. I keep all of my problems to myself irl. None of my friends know that I have depression or struggle with loneliness. And they'll never ever know. People have lost the privilege of knowing about that since they'll just drop me and treat me poorly if they did find out.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 04:55 PM
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Neither since I've sworn off telling people who aren't therapists any of my problems. But I've always shared. And then I would get shunned for it. Especially by people who complained about "Toxic Masculinity"
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 04:33 PM
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Opening up about problems to friends. It does not matter how you phrase it, if you make it slip even a little bit that you're struggling, people just drop you.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 04:24 PM
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Okay so you want me to wear clothes that don't look good on me.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 03:10 PM
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Except I don't really have a desire to dress alternative. I don't think the fashion is for me. I like the wardrobe I've cultivated anyway.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 08:53 AM
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My hair gets frizzy too. I have spent so much of my life trying to figure out the perfect routine to minimize frizz.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 02:34 AM
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Of those I probably like punk the most since it's kind of the origin of a lot of my favorite music genres. I'm also a big fan of The Clash (Ik that's a basic pick but I like them) and The Jam (idk if you'd consider them 100% punk though). Goth is cool, though I think my interest with that is through film, tv, and literature. I'm not really into metal.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 02:26 AM
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Idk I guess it's like a mixture of 50s, 60s, 80s, and early 90s. I wear a lot of cloth button ups tucked into high waisted trousers or jeans. I usually also wear a canvas sneaker like vans authentic. Also, the reason why I don't know how to take pictures of myself is because I was bullied and often made fun of for my appearance as a kid. So I never bothered to learn. Thanks for the compassion though.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 01:38 AM
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Brother that's what I'm trying to do! I've researched everywhere and there hasn't been a definite name for how I dress.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 01:29 AM
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No I'm not being lazy, I legit don't know what my style is called. I've looked all over the internet and no one has given me a good answer.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 01:26 AM
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I don't have a full body mirror so idk how to do that.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 01:24 AM
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Well I'm not like a tech bro quarter zip guy. Idk what to call my style though.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 01:22 AM
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Not really. I don't really have a preference for body types. Also I don't think any women in my adult life have seriously said they're attracted to me.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/26 01:15 AM
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What do you mean when you say "indie chicks"? Like, gimme an example.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 11:45 PM
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Just never really felt comfortable repping it. It never looked flattering on me and my body.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 10:48 PM
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So whom would I attract as someone who's tall, white, wavy brown hair, average built, sad looking, and who wears outfits that are semi-vintage inspired?
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 10:27 PM
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I usually stay friends with them and it's not a problem. Luckily I don't "confess" my feelings so nothing becomes awkward, or so awkward it becomes untenable. The attraction usually just happens, I don't scout for women who fit the niche, I usually just meet them organically. I try to look outside those subcultures, but it's like. Idk, I don't feel the same level of attraction. Like, there's nothing bad, I just don't feel the same way.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 10:23 PM
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You personally if that's okay.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 10:17 PM
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How do you personally feel confident in yourself?
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 10:15 PM
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Not fashion-wise, no. I consume a lot of the same media though.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 10:14 PM
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Seems like a catch 22 though. Like, if no one is going date me because I lack experience, then I need to date to gain experience. But no one wants to date me because I don't have experience. And so on.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 10:08 PM
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Okay I want to make it clear that no where in my post do I say that I keep pursing them after being rejected/it not working out. Fuck it's shit like this that makes me not want to post in advice forums because if I don't literally cover every single possible question then ghouls like you will just jump on me and spout some of the most wild shit.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 10:00 PM
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So I should just not think about dating then?
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 09:57 PM
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That wasn't my question dude. My question was why am I (keyword here is I) going for women that end up unavailable. Now you can either help me with that or piss off if you're gonna keep being gross and toxic.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 09:54 PM
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I don't get it what are you going to do? Are you going to try to force these women to have sex with you? No because I'm not a rapist? Holy fucking shit dude you're disgusting. I came here for help and you're just deciding to take literally everything I say in the worst way possible and coming up with horrid connotations.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 09:51 PM
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Because I don't like people snooping around and bringing up off topic shit?
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 09:48 PM
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Idk probably not.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 09:47 PM
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So I shouldn't do anything about this?
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 09:46 PM
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I mean, I have my own style but it's not really alternative. Idek what it's called. It's not basic or anything. Guess I have closer media tastes though? Like in music and shit.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 09:41 PM
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What does that mean "Be realistic"
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 09:38 PM
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I meet them in college. Typically they're part of some kind of alternative subculture.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 09:27 PM
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I play guitar, though my playing has gotten stale and I've been trying to spice it up. It technically doesn't involve the internet but worldbuilding brings me peace. I basically just write in a google doc and make drawings in photoshop
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 11:57 PM
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Ignore this post, I apologize here.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 02:26 PM
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I've looked into it a lot and believe me, I got the cheapest option. It's just that I don't have a job and am broke so even the cheap rate is too much.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 02:14 PM
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I'm being kept in paperwork limbo. Plus I still have to pay for it after my time in college ends. I can't take seeing my tab get higher and higher. My school only offers 10 free sessions and then tells you to go kick rocks and find someone else.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 02:09 PM
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I was referring to my other comment in this thread talking about what I want. But okay, what I've learned is that whenever I get into an anger-depression spiral, I need to lock down and not go to any advice forum. Because if I do, it's just to look for a fight and to hear someone tell me that I'm hopeless.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 12:23 PM
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I'm trying to engage thoughtfully here.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 12:12 PM
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I honestly want to strive towards neutrality. I don't think I can be happy but maybe I can just not feel bad.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 11:59 AM
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I can't do anything right. I even tried apologizing here and no one gives a shit.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 11:54 AM
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I cannot do anything right.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 11:52 AM
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All of you have been saying that. I'm only here to rot and die slowly.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 09:56 AM
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lol narc
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 09:30 AM
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I don't need your pathetic "advice" go pollute the incelexit subreddit since that's the only thing you're good at.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 09:27 AM
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So basically I'll never have a relationship because I'm that mentally ill. And that I also can't kill myself. So what else am I supposed to do? Just be miserable until I'm 80?
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 08:51 AM
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No I can't, everyone here is telling me that I'll never find love and that I need to live out the rest of my life miserable and lonely because apparently I'm not allowed to kill myself.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 08:41 AM
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Yeah my attitude is the reason. Is what I would say if I didn't have a brain. It's not going to change just because I fake having a good attitude. That's not how life works.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 08:28 AM
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This is all just bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 08:25 AM
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You are, yeah
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 08:20 AM
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I didn't threaten it. I simply said I was going to do it. And you were in support of it.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 08:18 AM
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I don't have it all listed dude. Obviously the probability of you dating someone goes up as you age. No it fucking doesn't? Don't pull facts out of your ass. And no, most people started this thread by treating me like crap. One of them is literally cheering my suicide.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 08:14 AM
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Yep, they've always said no except one time where it was a pity date. Stfu I don't wanna hear about how young I am. I'm tired of hearing that cope. Maybe I'm unpleasant since people like you are treating me like an idiot.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 08:01 AM
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Those average men are not average, give me a break. And no I don't talk like this to women irl. So you're flat out wrong.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 08:00 AM
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Omg what a smug and lazy response. OFC I do I have female friends. JFC
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 07:41 AM
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Because I'm not interested in playing the suffering olympics.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 07:36 AM
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Yeah they'll say they're lonely and want connection and then blow me off because I don't fit some specific niche.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 07:36 AM
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Thanks for disrespecting me by completely ignoring my wish to never hear that cope.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 07:29 AM
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I already knew about that. And frankly, it shouldn't have any relevance to what I'm talking about. Unless your point is that I am actually going to die alone.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 07:25 AM
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I'm not answering that because I know what spiel is coming after. I don't want to hear it. Ever.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 07:16 AM
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IRL
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 07:14 AM
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Yeah I get it. Geez I didn't make this post just to get told that I shouldn't be complaining because women have it worse. Congrats all you've managed to do is remind me that rape exists. That doesn't help me in the slightest.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 07:13 AM
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What's to say that your take isn't also confirmation bias though?
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 06:59 AM
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Well then I suppose my eyes are just wrong because I see a lot of women who are good and decent partnered up with some really deplorable scumbags.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 06:55 AM
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Well women seem to get into relationships with redpill dudes pretty easily and will make up plenty of excuses as to why they stay. So idk why you're framing women as these all-knowing beings who have a sixth sense about shitty guys. So yes, there are women who will put up with bullshit as long as the guy is hot.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 06:39 AM
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Yeah because I'd like to be loved and to love someone. And yes, I've put a ton of work into my looks and personality. And no one has been attracted.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 06:24 AM
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Extremely unserious and lazy reply.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 06:13 AM
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Gee why didn't I think of that? I've already been doing that dude. I mention that in my post.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 06:08 AM
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Post here in good faith and immediately get downvoted. I'll just go fuck myself now.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/26 06:06 AM
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