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MOOD FOR LIFECharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:00 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTCharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 11:12 PM
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LIES MEN TELLCharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 08:21 AM
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STAY WOKECharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:24 PM
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LVM LOGICCharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:42 AM
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NAH, SISCharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:25 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYCharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:25 PM
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STAY WOKECharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:50 AM
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COUCH CREATURESCharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:56 PM
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RANTCharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:26 PM
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SEEKING ADVICECharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:44 PM
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SEEKING ADVICECharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:50 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYCharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 05:09 PM
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SEEKING ADVICECharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:01 AM
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SEEKING ADVICECharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 07:28 PM
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#JustLVMThingsCharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:37 AM
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SEEKING ADVICECharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:52 AM
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SEEKING ADVICECharTheCatMom/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:54 PM
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This is relationships in general, to be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:30 PM
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We understand the question was how to vet sex. But if you don't know how to vet men in general...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:04 PM
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What did he invest in the relationship that warranted sex, is my question. A lot of women say they've vetted a man, including me, and in reality, it wasn't vetting at all. Time is also not an indicator of whether to sleep with a man or not. What did he DO to earn your body, time, and attention other than lip service and performing oral sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:46 PM
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Oh dear God. I took a six month break and come to see this? Yeah. I need another break. And a drink. I can't with these women. Just let them go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:24 AM
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It's like going down a staircase into hell. Every paragraph below the next gets worse and more cringey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:34 PM
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Men failing after they've hurt a woman is my kink. dontkinkshameme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:40 PM
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Boop!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:40 PM
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Gaslighting 101.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:39 PM
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What the hell does that even mean? So someone who is insecure is undeserving of good treatment? What an absolute loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:39 PM
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God damn this was a whole ass SERMON!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Edit: So good I had to watch it twice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:33 AM
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Omg this quote is amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:28 AM
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I did too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:27 AM
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BAAAAAAAARRRSSSSS!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:27 AM
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I think admiring men and not touching them is a great strategy lol. I'm off to create a collection! 🏃🏾‍♀️💨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:23 AM
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Everything about this is lovely. Just beautiful. The aesthetic 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:21 AM
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Crying over a man who earns minimum wage at the age of 30 and doesn't brush his teeth in the morning. No ma'am! We're better than that! 💅🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:18 AM
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I'm actually mad for you just reading this post...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:24 PM
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💅🏾💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:31 PM
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I'm of the belief that a high percentage of men are sexually attracted to child like features, which in turn, is a sign of pedophilia. If we really accepted the true nature of men, we wouldn't be able to handle it. I'll leave it at that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:59 AM
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Assuming Hillary Clinton is an innocent victim. Might want do some research on that witch sis. Just sayin'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:56 AM
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I just read the comments on the post and I'm annoyed and disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:47 AM
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My sympathy for women like this is at this point non existent. Seriously. You have to ask a group of strangers if it's okay to not hurt your partner's fee-fees and endure his bad hygiene? What is this elementary school? We're adults. Adults should not be acting this stupid. Seriously. Enough is enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:43 AM
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Oh my fucking god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:41 AM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:33 AM
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"Premium entertainment." 💀😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 10:07 AM
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The funniest part of this is watching him completely unravel and not one reply was sent by OP LOOOOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:20 PM
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14 though lol 😂 Add about 14 years to that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:02 AM
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Thank you to the sweet person who gave me gold! 🥰 I can't see your username to thank you, so I'm doing it here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:32 AM
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Thank you! But all the praise goes to my Aunt and her gorgeous apartment decorating skills 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:34 AM
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I think it's called Marrying Millions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:33 AM
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Marrying Millions, I believe it's called.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:32 AM
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🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:40 PM
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Translation: From Women: "Your high standards are offensive to my low standards and disinterest in raising them. I'm intimidated by your high self esteem. From Men: Your high standards cannot be met by me because I'm low value and disinterested in leveling up for you. I'm angry because you won't lower your standards to be with me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:10 PM
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"Get a drink with me." BLOCKED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:06 PM
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Didn't realize his number was in the screenshot. #Oops 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 01:26 AM
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Then I guess he shouldn't ask me to pay half the rent, cellphone bill, or utilities since we're not a team 😌 But he took it upon himself to do these things because they're his pets as well, up until yesterday. Not even a week ago, he asked me to pick up juice from the store. So clearly, this is to be petty, not because he doesn't have a part in caring for the animals we adopted together (including one that he personally saved from the street and brought home without me knowing)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:47 AM
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We're seperated but still living together, now all of a sudden within the past two days, the cats are now "my cats" and he's refusing to provide food for them any longer. He has been buying them food, toys, and litter for years, now all of a sudden, their my responsibility alone. See how "Men" act when you take things from them? Vindictive, spiteful, childish. Level the fuck up ladies, these Men aren't worth a damn thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:38 AM
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💀💀💀💀💀💀😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 10:23 AM
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Use him for the free dinner and block as soon as I start my car to go home 💅🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 10:14 AM
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I guarantee you this is a performance issue and not a size issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 10:11 AM
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I used to watch him a lot when I was in my "I hate my employer and jobs in general" phase, but as time went on, I clearly saw him evolve into wanna be Chad douchebag. And guy, if you're reading this, the chad act isn't working for you so you should consider being the Incel that you truly are. It's easier to be yourself, trust me. Anyways, this woman he's with won't be around long. He clearly isn't into her, and the woman...idk what type of arrangement they have where being ignored and not defend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 10:08 AM
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"...To be with someone and figure out the rest together." BLOCKED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 02:51 AM
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PERIODT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 11:32 PM
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Bingo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 06:41 PM
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It's a game. They just want their woman to be plain so they have no competition. I got it now, lesson learned. Now I'm wearing whatever I want, doing my hair however I want, all types of experimentation. Men are now irrelevant and I'm loving it! 😎💅🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 06:38 PM
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Some of y'all are doing the most. It's not that deep. Stop overanalyzing everything. Why would I lie about the intent of my message to an audience of strangers, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:47 PM
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ALWAYS do whatever you want, no matter what that is. That was my second point too, thanks for reminding me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 12:33 PM
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Both women are beautiful. The message is about the hypocrisy of men. Don't overthink it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 12:32 PM
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Exactly. Don't overthink the message please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 12:30 PM
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Omg, as if I needed more ideas of how to spoil my cats to death! Welp, custom collar is added to the list 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 08:18 AM
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Don't be sorry. There's only so much of this you can take before it's like, girl, grow a pair and leave. You're causing your own demise by enabling this behavior. We as women know the truth about men at this point, do it's now our responsibility to act accordingly. Drop the fairytales you heard about in elementary school and get in touch with reality. I don't have much sympathy for this type of behavior anymore because there's too many resources, too much information, and too many people who hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:34 PM
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My favorite high value hobbies are playing instruments, learning new languages, and crafting of some sort. For example, I plan to remodel furniture pieces when I get my own place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:28 PM
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"Monogamous."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:20 PM
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Great advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:05 PM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:04 PM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:04 PM
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Yes. Now I look at interactions with men as a game. That's not what I wanted, but it's necessary. Tried emotional route and I learned early on, that's not how men operate. So the next situationship I get in with a man will be to my benefit, meaning he has to be able to provide for me to even consider him an option. Broke, non ambitious men are a no-no. I don't care what else he brings to the table. So relationships with men have become a transaction for me. And honestly, that's the point of rela…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:02 PM
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Men claim to dislike promiscuous women, then turn around and watch porn. Stop listening to men. They don't make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:43 PM
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I'm also very introverted and trying to develop ways of exuding confidence, since that doesn't come across well for introverts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 10:10 AM
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A a woman being pretty has never stopped a man from doing anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:49 AM
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Just curious, what about this sub specifically turned you off from it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:44 PM
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Eh, this doesn't change my mind to be honest. This still looks like an act of entitlement and jealously than a desire for love and commitment. The article specifically states that men want commitment when women are in short supply. Yeah. Figures. When there's less women then there are men, every man is now your competition, so of course you're going to want to lock your woman down so she doesn't stray to the thousands of other options she has available. When there's less women to men, they go on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:42 PM
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So...you want to be sexually involved with him, but at the same time, remain friends and not make it awkward? No. He's not your friend, he's an opportunist who took the opportunity you granted him. Please read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:35 PM
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I totally get what you mean. My spirit and attitude is definitely high value, I just don't look the part, you know what I mean? It's the lack of a perceived high value appearance that bothers me. I want to look the way I feel, and right now, it doesn't match up. Hopefully that makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:07 AM
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Okay maybe I'll check this lady out 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 03:16 PM
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Coercion 101.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:05 AM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:34 PM
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Damn LMFAO!!!! 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:51 PM
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OMG LOL! The name though 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:50 PM
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Men play games too much, that's why I'm over them completely. It doesn't matter what you do, they're never satisfied: Just entitled. They'll complain about you not dressing up for their subpar sex, then the minute you put on something sexually appealing, they don't appreciate it. They literally rip it off of you within seconds of you throwing it on. So what's the point? Idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:04 PM
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Thank you! Speaking it into existence! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:01 PM
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My Husband has admitted he's not added value as a Husband to our relationship. Do they think that's gonna make us ball into tears and cradle them in our arms like a baby for reassurance? Lol, yeah you're right. I DO deserve better, hence why I'm leaving your ass. Thanks for the honesty though 🙃😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:52 PM
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I actually laughed lol, damn if this isn't true though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:48 PM
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I'm going to continue to tell myself this isn't real as a self protection mechanism. My brain cannot handle this level of depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:45 PM
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I'm gonna flood a table with stacks of cash and say, "No man can take care of his wife and family like this 💯💯💶💶💶💶💶🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🙌🙌🙌🙌🤩🤩🤩" Watch me get called all types of b words and gold digger. Truth hurts boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:17 PM
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I sure will! 💅🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 08:15 PM
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Actually, I did not. I literally wrote, "consuming the works of a LVM," but okay then 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 08:12 PM
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I don't have to boycott or hate them, but to call yourself a fan...nah. Not a good look. Not pointing fingers, it's an opinion. Do you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 08:09 PM
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Consuming the works of LVM doesn't seem very high value if you ask me...but to each her own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 08:04 PM
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Yeah, I think trigger warnings for posts describing sexual coercion and abuse are needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:42 PM
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I already had the FDS mentality before I knew it even existed, but was gaslit into believing I was "asking for too much." Once I started looking for likeminded folks, I found FDS and finally was validated. No turning back now! 💪😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:11 PM
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I'm seeking the same actually! A strong group of ambitious girlfriends I can travel around with from time to time. That is my DREAM! I also struggled (and still do) with depressoon but finding the right medication and coping mechanisms has literally transformed my spirit. I hope you find what works for you! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:45 PM
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I'm well aware, lol. But I'll cross that bridge when I get to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:39 PM
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Good to know I'm not the only one. It may come across like my views are stemming from my impending divorce, but I promise you, I felt the same before I even began dating. I always knew I'd be sacrificing a lot myself to be with a man, but I chose it anyway because I thought he would be worth the sacrifice. I've learned now, no man, not even a HVM is worth those sacrifices. I'm just not wired that way, to think men are worth giving up dreams and freedom and aspirations for. I'm not interested in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:38 PM
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I get where you're coming from for sure. For me though, I've had the same opinion about men even before I was married. My marriage, this sub, and a host of other evidence just confirmed what I already knew! Thankfully I don't feel bitter anymore, but I have accepted the nature of men and have chosen to opt out as a result. I've gained more by making this decision than I would've gained sacrificing anything for a man again. Being single is not the worst thing in the world to me, and I've craved i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:16 AM
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That would be perfect for me. No rush now of course, just thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:52 AM
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At this point, I don't care about finding "the one." I would just like a reliable partner who I can have a good time with. Serious relationships with Men aren't for me, that I can say for sure. It's not worth the sacrifice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:51 AM
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That's a good idea, I've actually seen some others mention finding a guy you're not entirely into too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:48 AM
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This fool sleeps on the floor, lol. Thank you! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:46 AM
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So glad I will never have a man's child. Reason number 2 right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:28 AM
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Yes! I'm telling you, this would be revolutionary. This is what also motivates me to work harder: So I'll have the money and time to give back to causes that are important. This will be one of them. And thank you for the suggestion! I also have CPTSD, so this is useful. I need to get some lavender (LOVE lavender!) but everything else I have sitting in my bathroom. I'll definitely be taking a nice stress soak tomorrow evening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:04 AM
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BINGO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:26 PM
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Nah, I don't worry about that honestly. There are people you can hire to take care of you when you're old, you can still build and maintain deep connections (friends) in old age, so the concept of being alone isn't something I fear to be honest. I'm also an introverted person by nature so that also helps!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 10:27 PM
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I'm going to do it. Mark my words. And I'm leaving it visible here for accountability. This needs to be a thing. We need to realize the power in putting women first. The revolution this would start...I can only imagine. I have a lot going on right now so I need to focus on myself first, but I'm willing to invest in this and collab with anyone else who'd be interested in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 09:46 PM
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Goals...because he made a video picking her up? Side note: This a low key (but obvious to me) typical interracial fetishizing attempt. Half the videos she has is showing her ass. NEXT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:25 PM
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I would totally start a site where you can donate to help women get out of LV/NV marriages and relationships. In my other post, I mentioned saving up money for my friend who is also married to a LVM, just in case she sees the light one day. I really appreciate the offer but I couldn't ask for that myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:26 PM
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It really needs to be a thing sometimes. We need to show the reality of what being with a LVM is like. Maybe that will save some women from the pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:24 PM
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I'll look that up! Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:23 PM
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Thank you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:23 PM
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Divorce is coming next year 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:22 PM
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Me: As soon as I'm financially able, which I'm striving for, although it's very difficult. Him: As soon as I move, or end the lease. Highly unlikely that he'll move before I do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:22 PM
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Thank you 💕 Personalizing the home has been keeping me sane. Positive energy and images really do help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:21 PM
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It's full of more cat shit today: Still not cleaned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:20 PM
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I clean my cats litter twice a day! Just went in the room a minute ago: Litter box still full, even more so. Wish you all could smell the room right now. And this idiot had the AUDACITY to question whether I would take good care of the cats when we divorce, simply because I don't leash walk them and he occasionally did. But this is the same man who doesn't clean their litter. Scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:19 PM
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Right! I'd trade him in for another cat in a damn heartbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:17 PM
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We're still living together for the time being, but seperated. He has his room, I have the living room and the spare bedroom. He will be my EX husband next year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:16 PM
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Thank you! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:15 PM
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Thank you all, nobody deserves this shit except the men who create it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:15 PM
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Coming from someone who used to be into violent video games (Like GTA violent, not THIS level of violent), I'm slightly disturbed. Just the fact that he's doing it in VR makes me uncomfortable. It's supposed to be realistic and he's moving in a very calculated way with it, like he's literally beating the shit out of someone in real life. Nah, this is unattractive. I wouldn't be okay with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:22 PM
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"As a women." Can't even English properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:18 PM
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Totally agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:19 PM
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I understand men's nature completely and at the age of 28, I've accepted it. With that being said, I will never commit to a man ever again. I'll get what I can out of them and bounce. But on my terms and not at my expense. See, the difference though is Men treated women like shit so they smartened up and realized, if I'm not going to get the emotional support I need from men, I might as well take what they can offer me: Financial stability. Women didn't want to do this. Most women want capable, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:18 PM
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This is so true, it's sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:12 PM
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For everyone who asked, this is my current Husband. I am getting a divorce next year, but hopefully by some miracle I can move out sooner. Unlikely, but I'll do what I can. And to clarify, this is a daily occurrence. His room has always looked like this. It was actually worse before I decided to take a video. Before this, the doors on the closet were pulled off and leaning on the wall...for months. I waited to see if he would take care of it on his own. Of course, he didn't. I called maintenance…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:45 PM
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I'm officially done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:09 AM
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🙂🔫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:52 AM
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I'm probably going to delete this, but for now...🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:57 PM
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My best friend is married to a LVM and recently called me to rant about his antics for nearly two hours. I've started sending her memes from this sub and also sent her the link to this sub and r/loveafterporn. When she's ready, the seed has already been planted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:08 PM
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A beautiful sparkly ring will be the gift I give to myself once I accomplish my financial goal of 5K a month. And yes, I will be putting it on my ring finger. Commit to yourself if the right Man can't. That's how I look at it now 👸🏾💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:04 PM
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It's highly likely, yes. If you treat women like objects, you see women as consumables. A man who sees women as consumable objects will not have the empathy, self control, or emotional maturity to not be unfaithful. If he's willing to slither around you to secretly masterbate to images of women that aren't you, why would cheating be out of the realm of possibility? You're already OK with lusting after other women and sneaking around to do it. Cheating and porn use exhibit the same behaviors and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:41 PM
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I don't understand this couple. Like, who matched them? Why are they a thing? What even is this???????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:14 AM
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💀😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:32 AM
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Wow, all she did is ask if he has a job and dude went into full blown trigger mode, LOL! Hit a nerve there didn't she, ya bum! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:10 PM
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I think anyone who is bad at sex can improve. Whether it's a small improvement or a significant change is dependent on the man and his willingness to learn and please. That's something I'm more inclined to say you either have naturally or you don't. Making a man unselfish is very difficult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:04 PM
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So proud of you, congrats on your new mindset shift! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:26 PM
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Ditto. But here's the thing: Romance is like, 1% of all the different types of things you could spend your time focusing on or experiencing. And that 1% even if you do have it, let's face it, isn't going to last. You have 99% to fill with whatever you want. Literally anything else! When I think of it this way, it's way easier to accept.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:26 PM
19

I literally went "YAAS!!!" in my head the second I read that sentence. SO PROUD OF YOU. NEVER COMPROMISE. YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:20 PM
3

So if I don't want to get married or be in a relationship, I'll be celibate for the rest of my life. Eh, I mean I guess it could be fine but I'm only 28 with one sex partner soooo....🤷🏾‍♀️ Wishful thinking and totally unrealistic, but I wish I could find a man who wants to be exclusive, but we do our own thing. You have your house, I have mine. We hang out, have a good time, have satisfying sex, but it's just between us. But life doesn't work like that so I guess I'll cross that bridge when I ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 03:23 PM
4

Well that's encouraging!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:25 AM
13

What helps me most is knowing all the shit I'll be avoiding from men by remaining single. I'll never have to worry about a man lying to me, cheating on me, secretly watching porn when I'm not around, making me feel inadequate, neglecting my emotional needs, needing to be trained to please me sexually, stunting my growth, etc. I don't have to deal with the uncertainties of relationships. Knowing that most men are porn users, cheaters, or consumers of women in one way or another is already a deal …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:19 AM
14

That's actually quite cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 09:14 PM
5

💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 09:03 PM
11

My porn addict Husband actually had the audacity to say to me, when he got caught relapsing, something to the affect of, "So you're going to blame me, for a problem I started when I was a kid??? I thought we were going to get better together." (Me getting better from the depression that I actually took upon myself to seek help for) This is the same man who a week prior cried, literally cried pleading that he's "not that person anymore" and how I'd never have to worry about him "going back." Who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:58 PM
11

DONE!!!! 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:13 PM
5

Recommended me some plz 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 07:14 PM
15

I'm not even gay and this sounds like the sweetest thing...that I kinda want to experience myself? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 07:12 PM
3

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 06:05 PM
23

MOLD HIM INTO A GOOD MAN, they say! FUCK OFF. Do you know how many times I've seen women left after they spent a quarter of their lives literally catering to and slaving for a man to "make him better?" Yeah, make him better for the NEXT woman he ends up with. Men are such a JOKE. They can't decide whether they're dominant and in charge, or weak and need women to coddle and hold their hand through life. Which is it? Are you strong or weak? Pick ONE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 06:00 PM
43

I almost choked on my food 💀😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:39 AM
7

Did she just refer to herself as a hoe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:35 AM
38

Imagine hating a group for having standards and demanding proper treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:35 AM
1

I'm not sure about her honestly. I think she's just a pickme, but who knows. The fact that she also felt the need to show me pictures of her and her husband was, in my opinion, out of place. Like is that supposed to make jealous? I don't want to be married, that does nothing to me lol. She also would say that she thinks I still love my Husband, and there's still feelings there...after I just told you he was abusive. But it's cool. She'll find out one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:32 AM
0

Still cook for him, lol 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:28 AM
6

Doesn't exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:54 PM
14

💀💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:06 PM
5

You can always find another job, a side hustle, something. There's always a way, if you want it enough. My addict husband also supported me financially. That means very little. Support means being faithful and respectful to your partner as well. Money is financial support, not emotional support. But it sounds like you want to stay and try to change him so...good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:50 PM
1

I'm not saying monogomy doesn't exist. I'm saying don't be deluded into thinking it's somehow better with regular couples. Living a celebrity lifestyle or a normal lifestyle is irrelevant. People cheat. Regular people cheat more than we'd like to think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:45 PM
14

I've seen the burnout in so many women, myself and my family, friends, complete strangers...I just don't agree with it. It's too risky for women and not something I've ever aspired to do myself. I will never feel guilty for not putting men on a pedestal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:49 PM
29

In Hispanic and pickme culture, women do it all and are glad to do so because for some reason, men are deserving of servitude for simply existing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:49 PM
7

He's playing games with you, and he 100% will be watching porn again, if he hasn't already. It takes men like two minutes to ejaculate and having sex does not stop porn use. Sorry. I have a low tolerance for bullshit and he's clearly a liar who will betray you again if you give him the opportunity. Unless you want to continue being hurt and betrayed and being second best to pixels on a screen: LEAVE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:47 PM
25

It's patronizing. Like aww that's cute how smart and independent you are. Like patting a puppy on the head when it does something you didn't expect them to have the capability to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:43 PM
7

Dude can't even properly form a sentence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:41 PM
34

I have three beautiful cats that have given me more joy over the past three years than I could've ever imagined having. They're sweet, unintentionally hilarious, affectionate and fun to be around. I would never give them up for a man. Ever. That's like asking me to give up three children! The cats and I are a full package 📦 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:40 PM
15

Double yikes. And of course the slow women in the comments trying to clean it up saying, "oK bUt eVERyoNE DOeSn't wANt to gEt mArrIeD anD That'S Ok." Ok girl, whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:14 PM
2

Honestly, even regular people are cheating on each other left and right. I don't see much difference other than the illusion of monogamy with regular couples.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:09 PM
25

Exactly. I've learned to always put women first. I've made it a point to pretty much ignore men. Women get my time, my help, my empathy, my emotional support. I will always support women and build strong relationships with women going forward. Men can kick rocks as far as I'm concerned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:13 AM
44

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:35 AM
38

Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:34 AM
17

Oh my fucking God I'm so over this bullshit seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:32 AM
151

Two things to take from this: 1) Men are not platonic friends with women. Ever. You're either fuckable or invisible. And 2) Being sexually experimental will not make a man value you more. If anything, it does the opposite. This woman was totes cool with butt stuff and threesomes, and he still doesn't want to date her lol. Super yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:35 AM
7

Why is he masterbating while you're in the house? That's just gross and disrespectful as it is. And honestly, I don't see you having true healing in a clearlg triggering environment with a triggering partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:30 AM
23

All of them except for FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:27 AM
33

Familiarity, even shitty familiarity is to them, better than the unknown. Some people are ashamed of being divorced. Some don't believe in divorce. Some simply cannot leave immediately, or feel they can't manage on their own. Some stay "for the children." To them, having a two parent household, no matter how bad the spouse, is better than being raised in a single parent household. Some women with children are ashamed of becoming a single mother. Trama bonding. No other support system outside of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:26 AM
9

It's very eye opening seeing other people have gone through this. I truly thought I was the only one with an "issue." Now I see why deadbedrooms is a thing. And as per usual, men don't get it. If you're not begging them for penis everyday and don't want to be groped and ogled like a stripper 24/7, there's something wrong with you. Because any woman would kill to "have her man "love" her that much." So either you accept a man ignoring you, or consent to being objectified. Being single sounds more…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 04:17 PM
16

That's why these issues, what we discuss in this subreddit are so much deeper than people think. Having women feeling guilty or abnormal for not accepting objectifying and inappropriate behaviors is killing us mentally and emotionally, even literally. We need to start openly talking about these things and spreading the word, honestly. No woman deserves to feel like this and question her own sanity living in a society that is abnormal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:05 PM
3

If you need to vent or talk, please PM me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:03 PM
36

Holy shit. Everytime I visit this sub, my feelings are validated. Jesus. I always had a hard time explaining to people how I felt about this. My husband would turn an innocent kiss on the cheek or an affectionate hug into a sexual invitation. Every innocent thing, even me sitting on the couch singing a song that reminded me of my childhood was an invitation to grasp my breasts, put his hand down my pants, or make some stupid sexual comment. Cooking dinner or innocently dancing was an invitation …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:02 AM
2

In case anyone else may be interested in remote work, there's two sites I've used in the past and found good jobs: Remote.co and WeWorkRemotely. I saved some positions from the link you shared and will be applying to several others on the sites above tomorrow morning. Fingers crossed! ✌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:26 AM
2

Thank you! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:59 AM
2

I'm interested in collaborating seriously on this. We can chat and others can join in too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:59 AM
1

Don't get married to a LVM and don't get married at all are two totally different statements but ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:14 PM
4

Or don't risk it and stay single shrug
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:02 AM
16

Same. Knew it all along, and finding FDS confirmed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:29 AM
6

😭😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:23 AM
3

Absolutely, painfully pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:22 AM
15

We need to collectively brainstorm ways of effectively getting the FDS word out there, honestly. I'd volunteer to be on the Frontline!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:21 AM
96

If you want to move a man emotionally, don't cry, beg, plead, scream, or lash out physically. Whenever he tries to neg, just laugh at him. No words. Just give his ass a "awww you poor thing" look and laugh at him in response and walk away. Silence and laughter works tremendously because it destroys the ego. He'll be seething, guaranteed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:15 AM
13

Been there. Cringeworthy and a bag of yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:11 AM
165

It's easier to say women are crazy. What man is going to admit he's a useless cretin who abused women into a trauma induced state? Nah. Bitches just crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:10 AM
2

My previous position was a Tier 2 Technical Support Advisor for Apple. I could definitely find another remote job like that, I really enjoyed working from home it's just hard finding positions with like that with a reasonable schedule. My current job has me working 6-2PM which leaves me plenty of time to work an evening job. I'm pursuing a commerical cleaning business and training to become a notary for additional income so I'd like to have my evenings and weekends free to build those avenues to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:46 AM
19

Yeah, no. All they'd do is cheat, watch porn for hours, play video games,, order take out and you'll come home to a subpar cleaned home and bored children. I would never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:36 PM
19

I want to share FDS with my friend who's in a marriage with a LVM, but she'd probably be offended 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:24 PM
8

This is not wholesome at all. Edit: Are y'all really praising this dude for that dumbass comment? Wow...some people need a reality check.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:57 PM
1

I understand, and thank you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:08 AM
1

What I meant were my current feelings. Prior to this, I didn't leave because of the emotional tie. But now, my only worry concerning leaving is money. I'm completely detached from feeling anything romantic with him and our friendship is dead. If I had the money to leave tomorrow, I'd be gone without a second thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:29 AM
2

I'm glad to hear you made it through and can provide for yourself. This divorce would be easy if it weren't for the worry of money. The best job I've ever had was a remote technical position through a staffing company. I'm working now, but considering taking another remote position temporarily until my other ventures take off. Working remote was the best situation for my mental health. But honestly, that's my only concern. I'm not going to lie and say 100% of my feelings for him are eradicated, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:00 AM
1

Thank you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:03 AM
6

I am currently in therapy! 💕 There's no way in hell I'd not be in this situation. It's keeping me grounded for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:44 AM
1

My Aunt plans to purchase a home, but that's a year from now. She did say she'd be willing to help, but I'm not sure to what extent. No friends in the area unfortunately that will take in animals. Right now I'm trying to set myself up financially so I won't be burdening anyone. If my money plans pan pit, I'll be able to afford an apartment on my own. If not, I'll have to rent a room like a basement temporarily. With three cats, my options are already pretty limited.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:43 AM
12

I'm calling around now! I don't have the money to afford a lawyer unfortunately but it wouldn't hurt to call a few for a consult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:39 AM
8

I so appreciate you for giving such detailed information. I'm blessed that I can go back to this and reference, but I'll screenshot it just in case! Thank you 💕 So far my husband has cooperated with my demands as far as ownership of the pets, his debt is his and mine is mine, and the only things in our home he's keeping are his clothes, a small TV, and an arm chair. Everything else is mine, he agreed. So while he's still in the denial phase, I wanted to get a seperation agreement drawn up and ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:39 AM
7

Wow, I had somewhat of a similar experience with my own mother. Long story short, I chose to go no contact. It's been one year since I've spoken to or seen her and I haven't regretted it. My mom was never there for me emotionally, but was all too eager to go out and have a good time, buy me clothes, shoot the shit, basically act like a girlfriend as I got older rather than a mother and daughter relationship. She did not support me when I experienced an attempted rape during my senior year of hig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:35 PM
33

I think Men have this ability to compartmentalize their emotions, like an on and off switch. They'll cry to a sad song one day, and 24 hours later he'll cheat on you with no remorse. Like a blink of an eye, they just flip the script on you.. That, or they're just sociopaths. I can't decide which.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 07:34 PM
1

Yes!! 😇💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:26 PM
3

That's all I've been doing for the past few weeks. Everything I do is with me in mind ONLY. I have so many more dreams and goals with him out of the picture. It's a great feeling 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:26 PM
1

In the process 😎✊🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:25 PM
2

I will check it out now, thank you! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:25 PM
3

Thank you! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:24 PM
2

I feel the exact same way. I never really liked anime for this reason alone. Even in high school, I always felt like the guys who watched anime and played games all day were creeps. I even mentioned that to my husband, in a way more insulting way, and it must have hit a nerve because he choked me mid sentence before I even finished my statement. He knows he's depraved. He just doesn't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:24 PM
1

You're 100% right! ✊🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:21 PM
2

"Release him back to his Mother!" 💀😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:21 PM
4

I used to think I was being petty for feeling some type of way about men playing video games to that extent. Now I know for a fact, I was right to feel that way. It's unattractive seeing a man making $15 an hour with no career, spending $10 and $20 here and there to buy virtual coins for a fantasy game, and actually spending valuable time researching strategies and watching video tips and....ugh. He's said to me once before that games are his hobby (escapism) and he would cut down, but he's not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:17 PM
2

That last line had me dying lololol 😂😂😂😂😂 You're right. He gives off this energy like he just needs help and doesn't know better, so my family have felt.sorry for him at times and labeled me as inpatient, mean, and immature (Apparently I'm immature for leaving a man who's sexually attracted to cartoon characters and jerking it to images of other women at work and in your own house, but okay mom...anyway...) You know, it's just pity. He'll never find someone like me again, and he'll probably end …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:24 PM
18

Silence is an answer 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:44 PM
14

I couldn't give two shits what Men like. I literally do not care anymore. Who are they? And why should I change or adjust myself to fit what YOU want? Why? No, I'm dressing how I want, wearing my hair how I want, eating what I want, and generally doing whatever the hell makes me happy and content. Male entitlement needs to die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:41 PM
2

Thank you! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:17 AM
34

A lot of women do that, especially female celebrities but they don't practice what they preach. Like Beyonce for example...they just speak on whatever is hip at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:40 AM
4

At this point, I don't care the reason they do it. Them doing it bothers me, period, regardless of where it stems from. And if all men are like that, I'm good single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:24 AM
31

She's been a pickme from the start tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:19 AM
24

Any Man of value wouldn't consume any media that reduces women to sexual imagery. Staying true to your standards feels so good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:17 AM
23

I downloaded Bumble for shits and giggles. I kid you not, I swiped through dozens of profiles and wasn't attracted nor interested in any of them. And I'm not picky. So no, it's not you. I've been saying for a long time that I don't generally find men attractive, but more based on their mental than physical appearance. Now I can think of plenty of beautiful women, but men that get me going? We'll be waiting a while on that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:54 AM
53

💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:51 AM
3

YES! Only good vibes and a great future from here! Bless you all 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:26 AM
5

I love your name, and thank you 💕 I'm so looking forward to reclaiming my peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:19 AM
2

My pleasure, you're doing the right thing for your peace. Trust me 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:17 AM
18

😂😂😂😂😂 You almost had me! Ironically, I've been told this before. Didn't believe it then, not falling for it now. Bump that 😎✊🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:16 AM
7

Trust me, if I could I would break this lease. I have a lot of credit card debt as it is. I'm trying to get my financial state together so I can end this lease earlier than next year, but I can't guarantee that. On the other hand...anything is possible. Could I establish something and earn enough to move out on my own and remain stable to support myself long term? Absolutely. I do have faith in that. I can't wait to live the single dream you're living. Trust me, I cannot wait to be free of this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:14 AM
59

Bingo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 11:53 PM
3

I hope you don't take this as a harsh answer, but I keep it blunt: I'd drop him as a friend and romantic interest altogether. The reason I say this is, I'm personally seeing some red flags that were immediately triggering and I don't want you to waste your time or energy on someone who's liable to drain it completely. Not only is he trying to manage mental illness on his own, but he's now asking YOU to help him work through it? Are you his Mom? No. That is so low value behavior, I can't even. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 11:49 PM
3

I'm so happy to hear when someone can feel my energy through my words. It makes me know I'm going down the right path, and truly listening to my intiuition guiding me to the right place. Thank you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 11:37 PM
7

My god, this touched my soul. Thank you. I swear, I'm going to print this out tomorrow and keep it in my motivation folder 💕💕💕💕 I love all of you 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 11:35 PM
39

Don't respond to him. Give him NONE of your enegry. Block his number sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:49 PM
5

Not harsh at all, you're telling nothing but the truth! It's hard when there are SOME good parts about a person, like he's very affectionate and we did have a good friendship and some compatible traits with some fun times in between,, but I'm not going to allow that to override the ugly (the sexual coercion, the lying, the physical retaliation, etc.) I know I haven't grown with him, and my mental health has been on a sharp decline since. I'm so looking forward to having peace for the first time …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:48 PM
3

Thank you so much. I'm currently in therapy and doing whatever I can to keep my mental state on a high. This is a tough situation, but so am I! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:43 PM
9

Yes! I saw that post yesterday and immediately thought of my own marriage. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:06 PM
14

My pleasure Queen 😇💕💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:59 PM
11

Thank you so much, that really means a lot to me. This sub is an absolute blessing 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:56 PM
29

As it should be! ✊🏽💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:55 PM
18

Thank you so much. I know I truly deserve better, even if I have to be alone, I'm okay with that! Like you said, sane and happy is what I know I'll be once he's out of my life. It will still be hard, but it's right. The trauma he caused me left me unstable, physically abusive and many other things I'm too embarrassed to even mention. I would've died staying with him, and that's the honest truth. I'm saving my self, my life, and my sanity leaving him. This is the first time I can say confidently,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:54 PM
31

Thank you so much, I truly appreciate you 💕 I'm doing okay, much better than I anticipated but I have my moments for sure. It's nearly all due to financial stress and concern, so I'm trying to stay positive and work my ass off these next six months to find a place and start my life over. This threw me for a loop, but I'm looking forward to new possibilities I wouldnt have had as a married woman. Maybe school, traveling for sure, the chance to explore new careers...I just need to get my money and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:46 PM
6

If he's not actively trying to get better and is wishy washy with self care, do NOT pursue him romantically. Him trying to manage it on his own is a huge red flag. My husband thought it would be cool to "manage" his porn addiction and ADHD on his own. Take a lucky guess how that ended... I suffer from moderate clinical depression, anxiety and OCD and take medication for it as well as attend therapy. There's no excuse to wallow in mental illness. There's tons of resources out there, and it's a ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:32 PM
18

I'm gonna say this 100% did not happen because, I mean, come on...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:32 PM
2

These are absolutely beautiful. My Aunt got me into purchasing flowers. I was never a flower person, but now I buy different arrangements every week or so. I can't imagine not having them now! Also simple additions like baths, soothing body wash, candles...they really bring a calmness and peace to my life that I would've never imagined. It really is the little things that make the biggest impact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:44 PM
26

Men are parasites. And I don't say this to be insulting or comical, or come across as a "man hater." It's just the truth. They take your energy, your focus, your time, your self esteem, your identity away...even the "good one's." Men are just...mentally and emotionally draining. And how much do women get from Men in return? Think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:12 PM
3

Thank you! 💕 It's not easy, but it will be worth it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:54 PM
44

Never fully trust a Man. They will fool you every time, please know this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:51 PM
38

Because Men don't befriend women they don't have an interest in. If you can't do anything for him, prepare to be invisible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:46 PM
4

Oh don't worry! We're separated and he'll be my ex husband next year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 10:44 AM
8

You won't ever know, but that's my point. Sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:06 PM
5

No lies told here. At all. Male gamers are the epitome of low value. My husband literally has 1, 2, 3, 4, and 6 crossed off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:49 PM
9

A-fuckin-men' 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:37 PM
24

I'm not dating a man who is faithful to me, but secretly fantasizes about having sex with other women. That makes no sense, nor is it even logical to think a man thinks, but doesn't act. And if you're of the Christian faith, it's especially unacceptable and considered a sin (I'm not religious, but just throwing that out there for those who are) If my man doesn't watch porn, but secretly fantasizes about pornographic acts while we're having sex, when we're out and about, or just in general, I wou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:27 PM
2

That's a great idea, I'm going to start looking for some! Oddly enough, I think I'd be satisfied with just fantasizing, at least I have the option to dream 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:04 PM
8

You're lucky to be in a situation like that which is beneficial to you. I don't think I could detach myself that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:54 AM
20

This gentleman looks way too old to be making posts like this on Instagram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:02 PM
35

Even a FWB wouldn't be for me. I'm not into open relations and I would never trust a man to honor a relationship arrangement. Especially one that's already pretty loose, for lack of a better word. Ugh, there's really no happy medium, at least for me. Someone needs to take a cue from Black Mirror and make a create-a-husband so I get what I want without the male inadequacy 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 10:59 PM
76

Sex isn't worth the pain that inevidently comes from being in a long term "monogamous" relationship with a man. As mentioned, get a good ass vibrator, maybe throw in a realistic dildo if you feel the need, make a lot of money, enjoy your hobbies and tough it out. But to be honest, I wish I could find a guy who just wants "vanilla" sex and cuddling, but also is okay with not living in my house. This doesn't exist, but my imagination makes me feel better 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 10:51 PM
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GIRL CONGRATULATIONS! 🥳🥳🥳💙💙💙 I see you were in a dark place ten months ago, and look where you are now. You made it through stronger and better off. You should be so proud of yourself. I am 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 10:43 PM
8

They get off on making a woman change her mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:54 PM
3

Prior to being married, I always felt like marriage is a trap for women. At least the independently minded. Now that I am married and separated, I would not get married again. Even if it were to a "good guy," I value my independence and emotional health far too much to sacrifice for another person again. The cons of marriage vastly outweigh the pros, in my opinion. There is just too much to risk for such little pay off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:18 PM
30

Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:32 PM
2

You're lucky to have understanding friends. There's been SO MANY times where I just wanted one of my family members to let me lay on their chest like a baby and pat my hair and cuddle, but I'm 28 years old and if I asked a grown ass woman that, she'd think I was either gay or a weirdo 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 12:29 AM
9

Uh...where'd you buy the love of your life from? I'd like to purchase asap. Seriously, link? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 12:25 AM
7

A lot of people have mentioned great suggestions already, some I'll be exploring as well. I'm married but separated and have had moments of missing physical affection and sex. Eventually it subsides, but what helps me is knowing that the temporary sadness I may feel from not having physical intimacy from a man is not worse than the potential consequences of sex with men. Diseases, infidelity, relationship stress and expectations, pregnancy risk, emotional pain, mental anguish, potential for sexu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 12:11 AM
2

I'm heterosexual, but I'd totally go for a snuggle with a cute affectionate friend. I just want a platonic cuddle. Why is this so hard lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 12:04 AM
15

I've always loved SOAD. I actually avoided this song years ago when I read the title, thinking it would turn me off to the band. Apparently I was wrong about this one, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:54 PM
5

Well, God speed to y'all. I'll take my chances and be happy with my sanity and pets 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:24 PM
22

I'm trying to figure out where some of these FDS folks are finding men who don't watch porn. That's the better question because as far as I'm concerned, they don't exist. And if it's not porn, it's weird anime, scantily clad photos of women, cam girls, soft core movie scenes, etc. I'm choosing not to seriously pursue a relationship with men at all because this behavior is a deal breaker for me and I will not change that. If that means I'll be single for the rest of my life, so be it. I've dated …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:04 PM
28

How dare we not pat them on the head for their half assed efforts. The audacity, I tell ya... Men are so used to being accepted for their mediocrity. That's the problem. It makes it even harder for women to uphold their standards when everyone around these men are telling them their half assed efforts are deserving of praise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:41 PM
87

This reminds me of the first time my Husband referred to me as, "stuck up." Never fully explained what that meant to him, but it doesn't matter. I already knew the answer. Translation: Your standards are too high and I'm frustrated you won't lower them in order for me to measure up. These are the same Men who will agree with you when you say you deserve better. They'll whine about "trying," yet fail repeatedly. NEXT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:25 PM
48

Ex military, BDSM, non monogamous, and poor. Wow what a catch. Let me swipe right immediately, I don't want to miss out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:23 PM
93

He made you drive an hour away to go to an expensive Restaurant, made you pay for your own meal, AND had the expectation of a 50/50 financial relationship. Nah, you made the right decision. Deep down, you know you did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:53 PM
14

So many women have gone through this, including me. Just be glad you have your own and you didn't marry this dude. I DID. Enjoy your life, friends, freedom, and cats! Trust me, I have begun to pour all of my life and effort into giving my fur babies and myself a good life, and spending all my time with my friends and family that I once put second to my husband. You will have a Rollercoaster of emotions, but just stay level headed and don't revert back. You have your whole life ahead of you now! …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:19 PM
4

😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:41 PM
11

Self pity echo chamber is right. The main reason I stopped going to my local S-ANON meetings. It was full of grown women staying in relationships with actively offending addicts. How are you growing and healing if you're staying in a sick environment with the very person who has caused you to be here in the first place? That never made sense to me, so I stopped going. And that subreddit is the same. Women echoing the same excuses on why they stay and wallowing in self pity. Some even asking for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:38 PM
19

You're so right. It's difficult to break the habit of making excuses for Men and their poor CHOICES, especially when the closest people to you do the same. But we have to listen to ourselves and go with our gut Ladies. I have trusted myself the least, and yet always in the end, turned out to be right. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:53 PM
1

Correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 12:07 AM
28

All Men consume women in one way or another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:08 PM
2

You're 100% correct. That is the sad truth, which is why this isn't surprising to me. I don't know of any woman who is in a relationship or marriage with a decent male partner either. They'll claim their men are decent, but it's more a matter of sweeping his faults under the rug. Just like with my friend: a year prior to this, she mentioned that she knew he was "the one." Only to find out he's a lying porn user that objectifies women in front of his wife and has left her insecure about herself. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 10:11 PM
17

They're referring to masturbation. The UV light reveals bodily fluids in a room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 05:42 PM
12

I recall confiding in my Mother years ago that my partner was badgering me for it, and I had ZERO interest in it. Ever. She proceeded to suggest that's something you do when you're married, and it "feels so good" to her. I was like twenty years old, if that, by the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:50 PM
11

We don't have to accept a damn thing. You can cry and scream and beg and plead, and they'll still choose their addiction. It's a deeply engrained mental and emotional problem these men have, and it's up to them to acknowledge and change. And if they don't, that's on them. But I refuse to accept it and allow my life to suffer because of it. There is more to life than a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:51 PM
7

Thank you so much 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:05 PM
26

I feel you, trust me. At multiple times in my life, and even now, the more I learned about men the more I came to the conclusion that I wouldn't find the partner that I desire and if my marriage didn't work out, that was it. I'm destined to be alone without a man for the rest of my life, and I'm only 28! But I realized that I can't be upset over not finding something out there that doesn't exist to begin with. It's not like there IS that unicorn out there and I just can't obtain it. No. That man…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:44 AM
51

You're right. They never change. Okay so here's my story: I have a soon to be ex husband who was a porn addict our entire relationship. I spent years giving him self help books to read, YouTube videos, he was going to SA weekly,, heart to heart talks and he really in his heart believed he was in recovery. Then all of a sudden, the pandemic happened and he used that as an excuse to stop going to SA meetings. But this man claimed to be in recovery, would cry and get angry whenever I would bring up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:10 AM
7

Thank you. Yes, that is a great idea. I just remembered, she even said she'd be interested in doing a business venture with me if we can think of something. I'm pursuing a cleaning business in my state so I could hire her to do some work for me in the future as a sales representative or something that matches her skill set. Wow, I never even thought of that! I'll try and throw some of these suggestions at her in a subtle way over time and hope to God she follows through on it. I agree, getting h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 10:53 AM
3

You're so kind, thank you! And she's always been there for me through thick and thin. I love her to death and it really took going through my own rock bottom recently to see how many people in my life have loved and cherished me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 10:49 AM
5

Overseas was the wrong word lol, sorry. But thankfully it isn't one of those situations. Still, being financially dependent on this man, estranged from family, no friends in another country is a dangerous situation to be in. I wonder sometimes if she thinks about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:18 AM
6

Once I get myself established and on my feet, I'm secretly stashing money away for her. And I'm dead serious. She lives in Canada, so she's not too far from me in the US. She wants me to come visit her next year, but being around that husband of hers? I don't think I can do that. I keep it honest, and she knows it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:08 AM
10

I hope she does too. Maybe one day...thank you 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:44 AM
7

Thank you 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:43 AM
8

Sadly, I think she's not as happy as she makes it out to be. She just needs him for the stability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:43 AM
6

Thank you all, I really appreciate your responses. It's just hard, because I know how this is going to end and it's going to be three times as worse throwing property and children into the mix. I don't want that for her, but sadly there's nothing that I can do. In the past, I recall sharing the link to FDS with her when I was thinking about my own marriage issues but nothing came of it apparently. Ugh, I just hate this. Like, I've been in a relationship with a guy who is a porn user and has had …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:42 AM
41

The conversation should've ended at "hmm" to be honest. Classic low effort behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:08 PM
64

I wasn't even having sex at the age of 16. High school children are having open relationships now? Like, what the actual fuck? This world is getting more and more depraved by the second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:16 PM
22

No lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:46 PM
3

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it. I'm looking into many things now. So I'll be moving out of state close to my family and applying for low income housing. I was also in the process of starting my cleaning business and becoming a notary for extra income. It's a lot, but I'll be okay. I just keep telling myself that. Being without him is not the end of my world, by any means. And I've suffered so much being with him, and the little happiness I had from our friendship is not worth the hear…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:00 PM
2

If I could break the lease and make it on my own in a few months, I would. Trust me. But right now, I'm unemployed, trying to start a business, and looking for work. And I have three cats to take care of, so there's that added to the mix. It's a bad situation, I'm not even going to sugarcoat it. But I'm trying to consider every possible option to get out as soon as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:25 PM
3

How did you stand it? Honestly. I'm frustrated with myself because of the whirlwind of emotions. I started off confident, anticipating a new life, able to detach, and it took one conversation about our impending divorce to backtrack me into an angry, hysterical crying tirade. I will never allow him to change my mind. Our marriage is over. But having any remaining feelings for him is painful because I don't WANT to feel anything for him. I'm considering declining a new job offer and waiting to ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:56 PM
7

Honestly, do any of us have many options? It has nothing to do with your age. Good men are unicorns. Your options are slim either way. That's just the painful truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:04 PM
6

Lmao omg 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:55 PM
8

I needed to read this today. Currently living with a LVM (who I'm unfortunately married to and preparing to divorce) This seven month lease is going to be one hell of a ride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:49 PM
6

I needed it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:48 PM
103

They're not mad that they lost you. They're mad that they can't manipulate you into staying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:46 PM
7

My BFF has always been heavy chested. She just told me recently she caught her husband gawking at a blonde women who also had large breasts at the movie theater. She also mentioned that he ignores her when she changes in front of him, but will have his eyes glued to the TV whenever an attractive woman appears on the screen. Now she's insecure about her body, her weight, her shape...it makes me so upset for her I can't even...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:24 PM
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Don't be upset. Continue to speak out about being anti porn. Start podcasts, post anti porn stickers in public places, talk to your friends and family about it, just speak up whenever possible and don't stop. The more they try to silence us, the louder you need to scream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:30 PM
17

Do. Not. Send. Risky. Photos. To. Anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:26 PM
10

I love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:24 PM
1

I needed to hear this. Thank you 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:10 AM
5

"dID i DOdGE A bULLet Here???" No sir. SHE did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:24 AM
10

Girl, a cat will never let you down. I have three myself, one in particular that I love to pieces. He cuddles with me, he sleeps with me (I woke up to him sleeping on my chest last night!), he's happy to see me and kneads his paws on my belly when he's comfortable. Cats are just amazing, hilarious, entertaining creatures. I've gained so much joy and companionship from them, more than any Man could ever give. I'm so excited you're getting cats, and I wish you the best 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:09 AM
9

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:51 AM
19

My Mother in a nutshell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:49 AM
156

Well...what can you even say after reading that? I'm going to go with my gut and just enjoy my female friends, family, and cats, and money, and freedom and youth, and.... There's so much to gain for a woman when Men aren't in the equation. Honestly, this isn't even something I want to feel. Men in general are just...incapable. I can only love men for what I wish they were. That's sad. But it's okay. Being single isn't the end of the world and I refuse to allow it to negatively impact my life. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:47 AM
13

Do it. A woman's intuition is a blessing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:25 PM
11

I needed to hear this today, you don't even know. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:47 AM
9

RIGHT!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:17 AM
8

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:15 AM
8

These are wonderful quotes. I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:14 AM
18

Sounds like someone who would cheat and say, "Yeah I was wrong but...." Bullet dodged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:03 AM
27

I was going to say this as well. Never let a man be your only source of income. That's the most dangerous situation you can place yourself in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:58 AM
24

I visited r/divorce earlier today and the drama those couples with kids have to go through is horrifying. I'd rather die than be in that situation, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:23 AM
41

Don't be a supporting actress sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:48 PM
27

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:06 PM
5

Thank you, and thanks to all of you for your well wishes and support. It felt SO GOOD to finally get this off my chest. Cheers to new beginnings! 🥳🥳🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:40 PM
26

My husband had a porn habit and used it throughout our relationship. We've been together for 10 years, married for four. I seperated from him for six months after I discovered he was searching photos of scantily clad women on YouTube and Google search. He attended SA meetings, was willing to go to therapy and I even had him install a parental blocker on his phone. Two years later, he's claiming to be in recovery and "staying vigilant," but i discovered that, obviously, it was a lie. A few days a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:19 PM
6

I can't imagine pleasuring a man this way again. Men make everything sexual to be painful, degrading, or aggressive. I'm over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 01:02 PM
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Thank you, I appreciate it. Everyday it's a whirlwind of different emotions since we still live together, but I always had one foot out the door. In my heart, I knew. I always knew. Now I'm preparing and plotting to make this divorce as painless as possible, and he can continue to feed his sickness on his own. I'm so ready to start living again, you don't even know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:57 PM
44

Yes ma'am, soon to be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:54 PM
144

Porn addicts, sexually attracted to cartoon characters. My husband chose anime over our marriage so trust me, this is fucking embarrassing as shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:25 AM
84

Being single sounds so good man, I swear. Imagine having to consume semen to keep a man sexually interested in you. Jesus fucking Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:24 AM
24

I can't tell you how many times I've seen women get with men who are below their standards or generally underachieving, pour their heart, energy, and soul into the man (at her expense) only for that same man to resent her for it and dog her out in the end anyways. You're literally a stepping stone for him to advance better...for another woman. Men are literal parasites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:21 AM
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All this tells me is Women deep down have low expectations of men. They expect men to be mediocre. That's why pictures of fathers doing normal parenting activities go viral. Because it's surprising to see, and unexpected for men to do. The bar is so low for men, and by telling women to settle for less, you're basically admitting that men don't meet the standards of most women so take what you can get. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 02:48 AM
6

I hope this is a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:28 AM
16

This is actual goals. Just a beautiful successful woman and her kitty 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:05 AM
3

Staying in touch with this community is my saving grace, truly. I have seven months to figure my life out. I never expected this. Right now I'm unemployed but was in the process of starting a cleaning business which I pray to God takes off within this time enough to support myself since I'll be on my own. I'm so scared, but I'm trying to stay focused and not worry. I just have to bust my ass and take it one day at a time I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:03 AM
9

Girl I'm done with them too. Good for you. It's so sad, like it actually hurts my heart that these men could be great, men and women could build empires together and yet they choose sickness over love. I think they're incapable of genuine love, if you really want me to be honest. I used to feel that way out of bitterness, but now, I truly believe it. I'm not even mad about it anymore, it's just a sad reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:58 AM
5

Glad a lot of women are learning. Any porn is too much. I refuse to accept it in my life. And if that means I forfeit romantic relationships with men, so be it. I hit rock bottom recently and hospitalized myself due to six years of abuse and unresolved trauma that occurred during my marriage to an addict. Make no expection because you will eventually regret it. Please learn from us who are in it and have been there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:55 AM
20

Even when you're married...trust me. That license doesn't change a damn thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:37 PM
2

Thanks for posting this. I'm in the same situation now, but married unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:32 PM
18

And porn-like material. Don't be gaslighted when they use the ol' "BuT ItS NoT PoRn!!" excuse on you like it's been done to me. Ogling scantily clad, half naked women and adult cartoon and anime characters are also soft core porn to Men. Intent matters. Don't let them make you out to look like a fool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:11 PM
34

"it's like giving a standing ovation to a fish for swimming." GIRL LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL!!!! I actually laughed out loud, woo I needed that one! 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:01 PM
6

Learned this the hard way too. And another lesson: Your Nigel is no exception. If you think you find prince charming amongst the frogs, think again. If you really start asking those hard questions, and really monitor their views and behaviors, you'll see at the core, men are just men. Period. And your husband, father, boyfriend, coworker is no exception. It's hard to accept, but it is what it is. There are other things to put your energy into, thankfully. But it doesn't make it any easier to acc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:51 PM
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