| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 103 | Underrated problem for babyfaced guys | Fundamentals | Chasin1337 | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 07:14 PM |
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| 1 | [seriously] Does high value men, approach girls and get rejected without hurting their ego or character in society?Girls wont give u the chance to tell them you are a doctor if you arent good looking/taking care of themselves. Stop focussing on the wrong things | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Went out alone tonight and pulledHere people are not allowed in sweatpants, wearing fanny packs as a guy or just trainers. It just attracts the wrong people usually, not saying you are | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 03:37 AM |
| 49 | Went out alone tonight and pulledThey shouldnt have let u in with sweatpants | /r/seduction | 04/05/25 09:34 AM |
| 37 | where did i fuck up ? Girl ghost me after great first dateJust reverse it, she didnt feel a connection just like you did for the other dates. Ghosting sucks but it happens | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 07:28 PM |
| 1 | How do you approach after an eyecontact ?Yeah could mean many things, or shy, but there is a higher chance in the second option, doesnt mean first option wont work | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 05:46 PM |
| 46 | How do you approach after an eyecontact ?Depends on the eye contact. If she looks at you, you catch her then look away high chances she finds you attractive but doesnt want anything more, as she most likely has a bf but still finds you attractive. If you catch her looking and she keeps looking and doesnt break, thats a go, thats the clearest sign you can have to go approach Doesnt really matter at this point aslong as u dont fuck it up | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 07:12 PM |
| 31 | How often do you think 6 and above women get approached?Just think about it, 9-10’s dont get approached alot because they are intimidating and you assume you are out of their league. 6’s get approached all the time because they seem easy. Thats why these ugly ass girls have so much confidence | /r/seduction | 11/03/25 07:16 PM |
| 2 | No opportunities to practice and few friends to hang out withGo alone , best thing i ever did | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Trying to get back into dating, is cold approaching still relevant or is their a better way?Everything is better than cold approach but doesnt mean its not succesful. Depends how you do it, but personally i hate cold approach just because i imagine myself being a woman just trying to get groceries, while random men speak to you, would be very annoying/creepy to me. Even in a bar i hate cold approach, because you are giving yourself worse odds. If you are somehow good looking/take care of yourself you can easily just look around in a bar/club and spot atleast some girls that are interes… | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 11:44 AM |
| 43 | Eye contact in a crowded roomMy grandma always said: If she gives you her eyes, she will open her thighs | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 11:03 PM |
| 17 | Dealing with “are you here alone?”Find an average looking friends group and ask if they can find a girl for you. Youll be surprised how motivated they get🤣 Or just say u lost your friends or say you are there for a business trip and say your colleagues are old and already left you. Just be confident in your response and it would NEVER be weird. Solo night game is my absolute favorite because you have all the freedom, use it Also maybe try to not have that Temu gangster vibe. Girls spot it so easily if you try to be more than you… | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 08:45 PM |
| 18 | Reading women’s eye contactBro girls dont look at guys in the club they dont find attractive. Simple reason that they dont want guys that they dont find attractive to misread and approach them. Yes girls look blank at you, they dont immediately smile because they test your confidence to see if you return the eye contact a few times, then approach her | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 03:02 PM |
| -1 | Night clubs…Eyes are everything in a nightclub. Yeah competition is harder as girls are in the minority and have much more options, however im sure if you look around you can get some girls glancing and catching their eyes. Dont focus too much on one girl to look at you, look around and probably you catch someone looking (if you say you are attractive) | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 10:01 PM |
| 6 | Just walked back from the club alone again and feel so depressed and don't know what to even try anymore.Solo clubbing is hard bro, it takes many months to get into the groove of it, dont give up. Also solo clubbing is the hardest game ever, as you need be the main character. You need ti have the aura when you enter the club and so many more things to consider. First of all, when you are alone you need to move alot, walk around , dont be in the same place for long. Also talk to everyone, bouncers, guys etc to show you are open and are a fun person. It really took me 5 months of solo clubbing and i … | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 08:55 AM |
| 26 | Going to a my first nightclub solo tonightRemembering names is a great tip, often I forget.. Also what i like to add is talk to everyone there, make also guy friends, it adds to your mystery and girls realise you are a fun person | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 05:21 PM |
| 8 | What to do if Girl grinds her ass on mine in the club.I never said to touch them. Read better. Ass to ass touching happens quite alot if you are standing in one spot the whole time. To test if she really doesnt mind it. just step forward and see if she leans back to start touching your ass again with her ass. The only thing i said. I said its weird to turn around and start grinding so i just let it happen most of the time | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 10:03 AM |
| 8 | What to do if Girl grinds her ass on mine in the club.They are not doing that with any guy, they have seen you before else they wouldnt touch you. Girls are super aware in clubs What i like to do by testing if its not just because it s crowded, is just take a step forward and then dont move and wait. Most of the time they lean back to start grinding again. Its super weird because you dont want to just turn around, but any touch/bump is usually a girls way of saying “notice me” | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 07:28 AM |
| 5 | What are your usual responses when women challenges you?I think just to test if i wasnt reacting mad or agressive to her saying it so blunt and randomly. Definately mindgames though | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 02:50 PM |
| 2 | What are your usual responses when women challenges you?I know right, i honestly thought it was just over wtf | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 02:34 PM |
| 51 | What are your usual responses when women challenges you?Had a girl once say after 30min of talking : “i dont want you, so you know”. Then i just shrugged it off and said, ah such a shame with a smile. Then she was all over me. Found out that she had abusive guys past and just wanted to test my reaction. Always act with confidence | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 10:34 AM |
| 0 | Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive?You want to be it, but you dont want to become it. Thats your mistake | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 03:30 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up the best opportunity I've ever hadMore like keep hyping yourself up after something like this happens. Keep telling yourself what can you do better and dont just feel sad or emotional when you mess up, but rather learn from itt | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 09:06 PM |
| 6 | Do women not find me attractive enough?Yes most likely, especially in a bar/club environment where 75% is male | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 09:56 PM |
| 108 | I fucked up the best opportunity I've ever hadKeep working on your appareance phyiscally and mentally and opportunities like this will only multiply. The fact you noticed this and see it is a mistake, own it and tell yourself what you would do the next time. | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 07:21 PM |
| 6 | Why are so many guys putting looks on piedestal?Because if u dont have the looks, u cant show your inner game | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 07:19 AM |
| 13 | I've come to the conclusion some guys go out solely for the purpose of cockblocking.Yeah happens often. Its so sad too, also for the girls to be in clubs tbh, they get these weirdos the whole day | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 12:23 PM |
| 86 | I've come to the conclusion some guys go out solely for the purpose of cockblocking.So relatable though. Happens so many times and 90% of the time its delusional guys with fanny packs and brocolli hair | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Underrated problem for babyfaced guysYeah same, barely had any attention in my 20, but now alot. Tbh i would prefer this than looking good in your 20’s, so just be patient sir🙏🏻 | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Underrated problem for babyfaced guysYeah some girls dont mind, but its like 50% who does mind because “decency” | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Underrated problem for babyfaced guys34 | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 10:07 PM |
| 6 | Underrated problem for babyfaced guysDamn sounds like an invitation to stay single till 50 lol🤣 | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Underrated problem for babyfaced guysMeh, i dont see this at all. Girls always go for older, also my friends (girls) say the same | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 09:40 PM |
| 4 | Underrated problem for babyfaced guysYess im doingn the same lol, but its not a long term goal | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 09:39 PM |
| 10 | Underrated problem for babyfaced guysSounds like the way lol ahahah | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 07:49 PM |
| 5 | Underrated problem for babyfaced guysThats why i said im not crying about it and mentioned the dilemma i am having lol. Its not all fun and games at the end | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 07:35 PM |
| -2 | Cold approached for a few days. Need helpThis is why women choose the bear | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 01:34 PM |
| 15 | I hate this shit..Lol imagine blaming her for this🤣🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 10:46 AM |
| 8 | I've used AI to help me with cold approaching. Is it ethical?My god, will u wear headphones during the date with AI assisting you? How can u not see its a bad idea? | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 05:50 PM |
| 7 | Past a certain age(30+), are most people married or in relationships?Its the worst thing to do actually. Men peak age is 30-45 (just workout, nice clothes, take care of yourself), go enjoy, because it was never this easy before. Answer to your question: go for younger (20-28) You can always marry later, or not, who cares | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 12:01 PM |
| 53 | Rejected at partyMaybe they saw that you were approaching every girl so they got turned off by that. Especially in a party environment it is really easily noticable what you are doing and what your intentions are. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 03:13 PM |
| 27 | Do cute (6-8) girls act more stuck up than hot (9-10) girls?Lost me at “bombshell”. Where u probably consider most of these girls with oompa loompa make up and fake tits a 10. Nah they are a 6 at best. The real 10’s are these cute faced innocent girls with a big booty hiding between their non slutty clothes. Those are generally nicer than these oompa loompas too | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Is my Tinder profile that bad or is my algorithm just completely dead?Yeah same went to a new country and got 8 likes on bumble within 1 hour and on tinder only 1. Tinder is just way too strict | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 01:58 PM |
| 46 | How important is that initial eye contact?Yes, its literally a confirmation to approach her with succes. If you have eye contact while going out its definately an invite as girls only look st guys they like. However, dont rely on one time locking eyes too much, always make sure its 2-3 times so you know it wasnt an accidental lock eyes, because that also happens. Also if you look around and catch her looking, thats a straight up invitation because girls are very sneaky in checking guys out and she would look away the moment you are turn… | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 12:52 PM |
| 4 | Since when is cold approach not seduction?To me cold approach is basically approaching without having eye contact with the woman/man before. If you had eye contact theres an invitation so its not really cold. The real cold aproach usually only works when you are either super attractive or try with every girl and succeed with 5%. Id never approach without locking eyes as i really think its creepy and weird, but hey for some guys it might work, but dont be surprised u get a drink in ur face | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 11:30 AM |
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