Hello,

Havent seen a topic like this so far.

Im 30+ and i notice i get alot of attention when going out. Not neccearly girls approaching me (happens though) but often girls looking at me and when i look back they just keep looking.

However, as i said, its often only girls 18-23 that do this and when i go over and ask their age and they ask mine, they are sometimes put off by my real age. I often get estimated 24-25 and go with the flow.

When i grew a beard the age of girls increased, however its still on the super low side.

I often heard girls find older attractive but what if my age rage thinks i am just 23 and automatically go for older? I never really had succes in my own age range, which is so weird.

Im seriously tempted to stop settling and enjoy life as this is quite an underrated problem.

Ofcourse its a luxery problem and you probably respond why am i crying, but im srsly looking for some serious answers and what would you do?

Friends keep asking when i settle down too so im really mixed in this