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Field ReportTodayOrTmrw/r/seduction04/11/24 12:08 AM
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22

How about focusing on your career so you can tell them that you have a great career?
/r/seduction28/05/26 10:25 PM
1

Just watch
/r/seduction10/05/26 04:00 AM
1

It helps but it’s not doing all the work lol.
/r/seduction10/05/26 04:00 AM
7

Bro go for it
/r/seduction26/04/26 08:19 AM
1

There is some truth to what you’re saying. Although, I never said you can’t be a big guy. I just said be the best version of you. Defiantly doesn’t mean skinny. I’ve seen everyone win.
/r/seduction06/04/26 06:16 PM
3

Canada and in Toronto where everyone thinks they’re the best. (The woman).
/r/seduction06/04/26 06:14 PM
2

Attraction alone without knowing what to say is not good majority of the time. I’ve seen this plenty of times lol.
/r/seduction06/04/26 06:13 PM
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Honestly, I was already a confident person before but each rejection definitely lowered it lol. I feel more confident now. I’ve been doing this for 3 years now.
/r/seduction06/04/26 06:12 PM
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Lol, did I say something wrong? A target refers to someone you are targeting.
/r/seduction06/04/26 09:40 AM
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Whoever said girls aren’t visual is a big liar. That’s the #1 thing.
/r/seduction06/04/26 09:39 AM
1

Heck yeah. You are doing what I did when I started but I didn’t get as many rejections. I respect you for giving effort and trying. One thing that made me great at flirting is paying attention to my mistakes and improving the next time. It’s a process
/r/seduction12/01/26 06:19 AM
1

Then you just need to figure out what’s wrong with you socially in person.
/r/seduction05/11/25 04:04 AM
1

Listen matey. If you can get dates online then you can get them in real life. getting matches and dates online means you are attractive enough and present a great personality. If you can’t IRL, you need to work on your social skills. I also don’t give a f if you don’t believe me.
/r/seduction04/11/25 04:16 PM
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Mate, she’s not interested but she had fun. Leave it at that. 2 days no reply means she’s NOT interested. When a girl is interested, it’s impossible to get them to leave you alone even if you’re an asshole. Ask me how I know
/r/seduction04/11/25 04:09 PM
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Get a life lol
/r/seduction14/09/25 08:10 PM
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lol I’m not coaching my best friend. He isn’t even really interested in the same scene that I am. So seriously what you are trying to lecture me about lolol
/r/seduction14/09/25 03:14 PM
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Exactly lol. I can only offer so much advice. It's up to people to just listen. I know what i'm talking about. I'm far from an amateur in this scene up till now. It's way too easy when you know what your doing.
/r/seduction13/09/25 03:39 PM
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Agreed with every girl is different but there are indeed many traits that they all have in common to an extent. You have your experience and I have mine. I’ve been doing consistent pickup and approaches throughout different countries and I truly believe women aren’t that unique. I hate to say it but I always end up with the same conclusion. “All woman are the same”. Even if they present themselves one way, the reality is always the same. You can tell the same lie to them all. You just need to re…
/r/seduction12/09/25 07:57 PM
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You are correct that different girls may feel different ways about it and attention. At least for me, I don’t like clingy girls but I want to make it clear that I’m not advocating for you to ignore her but don’t make her feel like you’re too needy. From experience, most girls do not like that.
/r/seduction12/09/25 05:54 PM
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I understand but the picture im trying to paint is that as a man you need to let them chase you. Make them want you. Plenty of guys can’t understand that because they get too attached too quickly. Let her do that to you
/r/seduction12/09/25 05:52 PM
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I have no need to brag. It’s solid advice. I’ve been posting here for years giving advice by sharing infields explaining exactly what happens.
/r/seduction12/09/25 05:51 PM
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You need to kill it when your out on a date. Thats the opportunity to shine. When I make posts, I can’t paint out the whole picture for everything each time but that’s important. The date is how you make them feel this way about you. It’s your one opportunity to prove why your a catch.
/r/seduction12/09/25 05:50 PM
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Guys you do not need to worry about this. Just go, you can find Japanese girls who like foreigners the same way they like Japanese guys. No need to hang out at hunting locations lmao
/r/seduction14/08/25 08:30 AM
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Thanks and yeah
/r/seduction02/06/25 04:18 AM
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Better hurry because you don’t always get a second chance
/r/seduction16/05/25 02:29 AM
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Agreed. At the end of the day, I believe the best thing to do is become extremely sociable. Learn to be witty, quick on your tongue and confident. You will suceed.
/r/seduction08/05/25 01:59 PM
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What? Lol. Half of your reply your agreeing with me and half your not. I agree that you should focus on what you can change. I need to stand by my point of not being willingly ignorant to reality. People say they don’t want to grow up in a sensitive world but then want to hide the truth? We’re on a pickup forum focused on seduction. The people who are serious about this stuff need to grow a pair and get down to business. They are going to meet some pissy/ rude / brutal women who will in fact hur…
/r/seduction08/05/25 02:29 AM
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Thank you for confirming my point. Why on earth would a girl let her friend pull her away when she likes you? Lol. Girls want guys too. They have their goals when they go out just like dudes.
/r/seduction08/05/25 12:28 AM
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Which is completely fine. Do what you gotta do.
/r/seduction08/05/25 12:26 AM
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You said it perfectly. I witness so many guys with so much potential fail just because they haven’t had the proper guidance. I use to suck at night game and approaching. If people really put the effort in, everything can change. The worst is when guys can’t read social cues. It’s so important to know when to disengage and when a women is uncomfortable.
/r/seduction08/05/25 12:26 AM
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What’s the point of avoiding the realities of life ? Do you prefer to be lied to instead? I wonder.. I remember when I use to avoid social media because I hated seeing people more successful, better bodies, more popular, etc. Yes, you can’t change yourself but you can work on yourself to reaching your full potential. Everyone is insecure about shit. I’m insecure about plenty of things, but yet I don’t avoid the truth anymore. So if a guy is not blessed in a department, research how to counter it…
/r/seduction08/05/25 12:23 AM
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Hard to believe that. If your good looking; women will approach but I’m not saying every single time you go out but here and there
/r/seduction07/05/25 04:29 AM
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bro doesnt know what hes talking about lol. Solo is way harder and most guys are too scared to even approach while being solo. Don't know why he's trying to fight a losing battle. It's just facts. Most guys are scared even to approach when their with their friends lmao.
/r/seduction06/05/25 09:07 PM
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You will never be pursued by women. wrong. They do pursue lol. Just depends on the guy and you do not need to be brad pitt or famous. Everything else you said, good.
/r/seduction06/05/25 09:03 PM
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I did mention that we haven’t even spoke and I got the comment. So it’s not the case
/r/seduction06/05/25 08:31 PM
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Just being well groomed and taking care of yourself really helps you stand out
/r/seduction06/05/25 01:47 AM
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Well you can be attractive but there’s levels to attraction. So we aren’t on the same level
/r/seduction06/05/25 01:47 AM
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Maybe, maybe not. Either way I didn’t make this post to complain. Whatever I’m doing works since even still girls approach me and come home with me
/r/seduction06/05/25 01:46 AM
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That’s pretty funny actually haha.
/r/seduction06/05/25 01:45 AM
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I’m not changing anything. I have lots of success so I respect what you said. Why change if nothing is wrong?
/r/seduction06/05/25 01:45 AM
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I respect it. Agreed with all points
/r/seduction06/05/25 12:07 AM
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Yes she actually came onto me lol in a bar. Even kissed me
/r/seduction05/05/25 10:35 PM
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Exactly. Dudes fall for this trap all the time. Bring lovey dovey always available with nothing going on. Red flag
/r/seduction01/05/25 10:42 PM
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Look as good as possible
/r/seduction28/04/25 10:45 PM
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This is only relevant for guys similar to yourself who have lingering feelings. After my breakup, I felt free and had lots of fun immediately
/r/seduction28/04/25 10:42 PM
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It’s funny because even when I don’t get a haircut and my hair is bad I still succeed. Prior I keep thinking I need to groom before being able to get success but idk. Either way I make sure to get a haircut when I can. The point I’m trying to make is confidence prevails all.
/r/seduction28/04/25 10:40 PM
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Girls be weird asf dw
/r/seduction28/04/25 10:39 PM
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I agree with you. I’m at the gym now and I even get girls who look at me and still I’m not gonna approach. I personally believe time and place for everything. It’s so easy to get P outside of the gym that I don’t see the need to do it there lol
/r/seduction18/04/25 02:56 AM
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Do it. Have the fun while you can and then settle
/r/seduction16/04/25 05:01 PM
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I personally haven’t approached a women in a gym but I’ve approached in every other setting. The only thing stopping me from doing it in a gym is the possible rejection and making things awkward. Maybe I won’t get rejected but who knows. I go to the gym to work out hard so I just admire From a far and then go to bars for approaching
/r/seduction16/04/25 01:28 AM
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Life’s too short man. Gotta have fun
/r/seduction20/02/25 10:05 AM
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My best advice is don’t over think. I started late too. Just be confident and go for it. It’ll either work or not. Then you improve
/r/seduction20/02/25 09:45 AM
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Well I’m not sure what to tell ya lol. Girls don’t typically approach, I know. But once again, I’m not anything special to me. I don’t know what they see. You have all the typical best traits according to people so you should have much more than 3 in your entire life if your saying your above average. I’ve been approached way more than that since I was in high school.
/r/seduction20/02/25 09:45 AM
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Not worried about my net worth. I’m handling it and having fun.
/r/seduction20/02/25 09:42 AM
1

Of course
/r/seduction20/02/25 09:42 AM
2

Well stop dancing your heart out haha. Just keep it simple dude. I also live an hour away. Doesn’t matter, just keep her entertained. If she’s down, she will travel no matter the distance.
/r/seduction20/02/25 09:41 AM
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Of course it’s nerve wracking. You are alone in an environment where everyone or most people are in a group or with a friend. You need to just be brave and confident. There is no secret. It takes practice.
/r/seduction20/02/25 09:40 AM
1

Regular guy. A lot of money over the years
/r/seduction20/02/25 09:38 AM
1

I’ve posted a lot of past threads about that.
/r/seduction20/02/25 09:38 AM
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Lol you are funny. No matter what I say, you won’t believe me. I never thought I’d be having a debate regarding being slighter higher than average. I’m def not Chad. I’m not 6ft either and I’m not white
/r/seduction18/02/25 09:38 PM
1

Bro I’m not that good looking or tall. Just above average enough and dress well to stand out
/r/seduction18/02/25 09:24 PM
1

27
/r/seduction18/02/25 09:24 PM
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Sure, I’m 27
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:47 PM
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Learning to love myself first. Being happy with the way I look and improving myself in every way. You need to be confident first before being able to get good at this. It takes time but practice makes perfect.
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:47 PM
1

I’m solo 99% of the time. I don’t need anyone but I sometimes pair up with strangers if they seem cool. Guys usually approach me to talk. It’s weird but a lot of guys will legit walk up and talk to me.
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:46 PM
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Eh I don’t regret anything. I’m just tired lol. I will still go out and have fun but not as much as before.
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:45 PM
2

As other guy said. No books. I just started going to clubs solo to figure it all out while reading threads from this subreddit.
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:44 PM
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I think so. I also do not get even close to hundreds lol but I don’t really use it like that. Once I get like 5 matches and at least 3 show interested and we meet; I can’t be bothered to meet more. It’s expensive and boring. I prefer real life
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:44 PM
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Before I even ever got approached in my life, I did all the approaching. Do not make excuses. I agree your confidence goes up when it happens(rare) but there are so many more things once you need to hold a conversation. If you don’t believe me, please just look around at how many guys can’t flirt or hold set. It’s really important. Being approached doesn’t mean you get everything either. It’s just a head set and then you need to lead the way.
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:43 PM
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This is simply not true though. I’m really not. When I say numerous girls, I’m not speaking about more than 10. Game is needed even if someone approaches you. Once again, it’s rare. Also you need to know how to speak and make her way you. Please do not focus on the wrong thing.
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:41 PM
0

I doubt it. Also not tall lol.
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:39 PM
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It’s better for me to include that information since it happened. I doubt no one else gets approached. Also, it’s not so common but it happens. Having game is more important than anything because most women will never approach a guy.
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:38 PM
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Honestly I took night game and improving extremely seriously from 2023. Every time I would fail a set, I would try to figure out why and simply try again. I found the best way to improve was by trial and error. Learning to be confident and making sure I was happy with myself in life first. I have a good sense of style and I make sure I always smell good. Girls sometimes approach me for different reasons. Either they are attracted to me or interested in some way. I don’t believe in anything speci…
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:37 PM
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Agreed and thanks for sharing. Most guys don’t get anything because they are too scared to even try! Anyone can go out and see for themselves..
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:33 PM
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Solo 70% of time. Other times either I find a random dude there or friend
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:32 PM
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No reason you should be a virgin willingly at 28. Based on your story; you just need a few pointers here and there. Closing is an art and is luck based too
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:32 PM
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Agreed and also with other guy too. Knowing if it’s worth even investing is a really good skill.
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:29 PM
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It’s so cute you think that. I withhold shit for a month or more many times
/r/seduction09/12/24 07:55 AM
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Mate go check my post history. I’ve been doing this for 2 years consistently. Obviously I’ve approached sober, tipsy, drunk, everything. I know the game my good man
/r/seduction08/12/24 10:58 AM
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Hahaha I can see why. It’s just the way I tell stories.
/r/seduction08/12/24 04:39 AM
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Jackpot my dude. I encounter the same scenario 100's of times because I practically always go out alone.
/r/seduction07/12/24 11:29 AM
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This guys here are amateurs lol it’s too funny. I get asked this question all the time. Girls respond positively to it every time and also they go on about how brave, confident, etc that I am. So seeing these redditors worry about lying is funny.
/r/seduction06/12/24 10:07 AM
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If she even slightly likes her, she’ll be playful back
/r/seduction05/12/24 12:52 AM
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You were dreaming ? Damn
/r/seduction03/12/24 06:15 AM
1

Being willing to dance and enjoy the music. Positive mood and vibes
/r/seduction02/12/24 01:42 AM
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It was quite the experience dude! Hella fun. I will do it again next weekend lmao. I didn’t even know there was places selling drinks all hours of day like this.
/r/seduction01/12/24 04:09 PM
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Gotcha. 2 cats, Paris Texas, locals only, lost and found. Those typically.
/r/seduction01/12/24 03:37 PM
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Thanks man. I’ve never been up this late before so it was a first for me as I explained. I can’t believe people do this every weekend lol.
/r/seduction01/12/24 03:28 PM
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This was not in Toronto. Different city
/r/seduction01/12/24 03:28 PM
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You probably missed the part but I was drinking red bulls all night. I had at least 5 or 6 small cans. I was fine until about 2pm and fell asleep at home. A lot of the people there should technically also be tired but I spoke to some of them and they were going to another party after that bar closes at 12 lmao. I couldn’t believe it.
/r/seduction01/12/24 03:27 PM
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Honestly, girls sometimes do that as a way to bait guys to buy them drinks. You did nothing wrong at all lol. Shit doesn't always go perfectly and that's ok. I sometimes buy girls drink but extremely rare. Typically, I would only do that if we already had a kiss and we were locked in. Just try to avoid doing so. It's not a big deal, its 1 drink but don't make it a habit. When I go out with my best friend, I have to tell him to stop buying girls drinks who always use him for a drink and then do t…
/r/seduction25/11/24 01:31 PM
1

It does work..
/r/seduction22/11/24 03:06 AM
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Some who live overseas. I had a side Moroccan for a while. She still checks in to smash sometimes
/r/seduction22/11/24 03:00 AM
1

It's a fun lifestyle which is why so many people want to do it.
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:47 AM
1

Not seeing the problem lol. I 99% of the time go to bars.
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:46 AM
1

Legit go to anywhere where there's bars and people. Crowded busy bar areas. Walk in, grab a drink if you want and then when your ready, move in.
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:46 AM
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Other guy gave a good answer. For me specifically, I go anywhere that there are people. It doesn't matter what place. As long as theres girls and a dive bar style where you can walk up to people and speak; you are good to go. Sometimes I still approach girls sitting down at a table. It really doesn't matter but I prefer standinf bars. First year was every weekend. Next was still sort of that. I mean I will still go out every weekend if im not busy. Thursday to Saturday. Sometimes Sunday but its …
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:45 AM
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No problem! People kept asking me to post some general advice so there it is. Enjoy and have as much fun as I am :)
/r/seduction20/11/24 02:29 PM
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I don’t need approval from you. Guys here will start succeeding once they stop caring about what others think. Also, the idea is to not gaf. Once you have that mindset, you can do anything. The bar is dark and we’re in a corner. I succeed because I’m extremely confident. The one thing many people are not but can be. I can go into much more detail about nasty shit but I didn’t because it’s not needed. God speed and good luck.
/r/seduction20/11/24 02:28 PM
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appreciate your response. makes sense to me
/r/seduction17/11/24 01:44 PM
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Yup, wrong call but trust me; anyone would think the same if you saw what I saw.
/r/seduction17/11/24 07:34 AM
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He stayed. Also, he actually started to dislike her lol. Im glad he didn't take it personally against me. Maybe he did but didn't show it; who knows. It's whatever. Never create problems over random girls.
/r/seduction17/11/24 07:33 AM
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It really didnt feel like it but since you guys are saying it's the case then it must be. Interesting.
/r/seduction17/11/24 05:43 AM
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Since I usually run solo game, it's not something i'm familiar with to be honest.
/r/seduction17/11/24 05:42 AM
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Jealous game is crazy. I seriously did not expect the night to go the way it did. If only you saw how invisible I looked lol. I would speak and basically be ignored. No eye contact, nothing. I was literally like "welp" LOL. Her friend was looking at me and had to tap her friend on the shoulder to even hear what I was trying to say.
/r/seduction17/11/24 05:41 AM
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You aren't wrong. Interesting points for sure. It's not a common situation but it does happen once in a while. Also, when I said I went away. I legit went away, speaking to other people for a while but she always ends up around me. So I wouldn't consider it hovering. Also, my friend also calls me back because we came together and at some point he just didn't care but more so wanted me around rather than doing my own thing since were friends. I was not trying to steal his target but if something …
/r/seduction17/11/24 05:40 AM
1

Well if you want to understand them; you should probably try sleeping with one first.
/r/seduction11/11/24 10:53 PM
11

You quickly realize how many people you could’ve been sexual with once you start getting the hang of it.
/r/seduction10/11/24 06:17 AM
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Yup. At that point you just take what you got and move on lol
/r/seduction10/11/24 06:17 AM
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Haha that’s the thing about this forum, you can write anything and it’s up to the end user to research more about whose making the claim. It’s funny to me seeing those comments about asking for kisses. There is nothing wrong with that and even some girls actually prefer if the guy asks esp if it’s their first time meeting. If you can’t read signs or body language, just ask.
/r/seduction10/11/24 06:16 AM
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Everyone qualifies to approach lol. Also, brag all you want; other redditors will decide how to take it. Look at it this way, I’m not tall and yet I still have a ton of success. So that doesn’t matter as much as people make it seem.
/r/seduction10/11/24 02:50 AM
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I have had that happen before. I'll give you the details of exactly what happened in that set. I was standing around at a bar table and this one girl saw me, approaches me, and the first thing she asked me was "Do you have instagram?". No names, no nothing simiarly to my story. We exchanged instagrams. The boldest thing a women can ever do is approach a guy she's interested in. That shit is not normal or common even for the best looking. So when that situation occurs, you just play it the same w…
/r/seduction10/11/24 02:28 AM
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Seems very forward and I respect it
/r/seduction09/11/24 03:00 AM
1

Totally get it. I’m a heavy weight when it comes to drinking. Like I won’t feel anything real until I’m at least 10 shots of straight vodka in lol. Beers are like juice. I think it’s because I’ve spent the last 2 years drinking here and there while going out infield. I still remember the early days of getting drunk super easily. The good ol’ days.
/r/seduction31/10/24 10:57 AM
2

I would have just walked. Then found somewhere quiet. Most people don’t have cars which means they usually choose a dark secluded area. Not saying we would be able to have sex but at least the other stuff
/r/seduction30/10/24 04:17 PM
5

Everyone should learn not to fk it up. That in itself takes practice. There is so much to learn for everyone.
/r/seduction30/10/24 11:32 AM
4

That’s the thing about understanding game and social skills. You learn to figure out instantly where you stand with the other person. It took me 2 years to get to this point. I can stir any conversation and initiate appropriately.
/r/seduction30/10/24 11:31 AM
2

I wonder when people comment this if their joking lol
/r/seduction30/10/24 11:30 AM
6

I don’t think you’re right. The responses seem to agree. If it was this easy to get laid then everyone would get laid. Also at this party, I was the only person out of the guys who actually had any action (including a kiss) even though they are all surrounded by beautiful women. So maybe for you, it’s common but you are not the majority at all.
/r/seduction29/10/24 11:38 PM
6

Ah okay if that’s what you want I can definitely update tomorrow after it happens.
/r/seduction29/10/24 07:50 PM
5

I’m in the same situation but I’m not 6’4 haha. Just last night was a great example. Girl assumes I’m a player blah blah blah. I ask her why she thinks so and she says just her feeling. We fucked after that so it doesn’t matter. I’m riding the high wave. If it bothers you, just make sure you don’t act like a player.
/r/seduction28/10/24 01:11 AM
1

I don’t get what you want me to say lol. What’s considered a rejection ? I would classify it as a girl who immediately does not show any interest when I open the conversation with them. That does happen but not often. I have a very high success rate. Also why would I write about a rejection lol. That just means nothing happened at all with the interaction.
/r/seduction27/10/24 04:07 PM
1

I don’t need to frame anything LOL. I don’t know if you’ve noticed but this shit is normal for me buddy. I have nothing to prove, I just share my wild nights out. Deal with it man; if you see a thread from me just keep it moving or block me. Don’t care
/r/seduction23/10/24 07:10 PM
-5

Yup. That’s why they always fall in love with me even though I tell them all the same sort of things. They can’t see I’m lying.
/r/seduction23/10/24 05:54 PM
1

You get no puzzy for sure
/r/seduction23/10/24 05:38 PM
1

Wrong. Not everyone is that bad. Think first before commenting dude
/r/seduction23/10/24 12:59 PM
0

Ya ya whatever
/r/seduction23/10/24 04:44 AM
1

I get you but it’s still fun. Majority of girls I hook up with always wants to be my gf anyways but I don’t allow it.
/r/seduction22/10/24 03:39 PM
1

Lmao
/r/seduction22/10/24 02:01 PM
1

She wasn’t interested. I could tell by several things you said
/r/seduction22/10/24 01:04 AM
1

Girls don’t care if the girl is younger if they’re looking to have fun. Lol. She just wasn’t interested
/r/seduction22/10/24 01:03 AM
1

If you’re jealous just say that lol. I’m not going to reply to you further as it’s a waste of time.
/r/seduction22/10/24 01:00 AM
0

I hear this same thing for most things I post here lol. At this point, this kind of comment makes me laugh. I’m really not that bored that I’d write a fake story.
/r/seduction21/10/24 12:55 PM
1

Agreed. I feel like I was really patient though. I took it slow, I listened to his worries and problems. I couldn’t do anything more for him at that point.
/r/seduction21/10/24 05:46 AM
2

That’s funny lol. But I get it; I even tried to shrink it down. I omitted parts because it was getting long and yet it’s still long. Haha
/r/seduction21/10/24 04:43 AM
11

Running large groups just rely on your social skills. It’s hard to explain because you need to be able to speak about things that gets everyone involved at least for the first few minutes an then you can focus on an individual but it takes practice. At the end of the day it’s all social skills.
/r/seduction21/10/24 03:42 AM
1

Hahaha thanks you made my night. It was a super strange night but I just went with it. Keep slaying out there man and I’ll continue helping who I can.
/r/seduction21/10/24 01:59 AM
34

Thanks for saying that. I have a pretty good idea of many different situations and what to do. I will do just that next month.
/r/seduction21/10/24 01:58 AM
8

Thanks man :)
/r/seduction20/10/24 10:25 PM
7

Respectful response. When someone is paying me for something; I need to make sure they get as much value as possible. Those two free nights were just me getting to know this guy and seeing what his current state is like. So the question of asking if I learned anything; yes and it’s that many guys probably need much more help than I thought. I would approach the situation different for a guy like him. Focus on the super small baby steps and then build from there. Get him comfortable with rejectio…
/r/seduction20/10/24 10:19 PM
3

I don’t blame you. By not reading the rest, you don’t miss out on much. Just more bs
/r/seduction20/10/24 08:37 PM
2

I often get messages this entire past year of people in my city asking for me to go out with them and this is partially why I have been so hesitant. It’s not fun and I actually feel uncomfortable lol.
/r/seduction20/10/24 08:16 PM
102

That’s why I think it’s because to go to meetup groups with strangers and learn to just have basic relatable conversations. Jumping into the deep end at night bars is a little extreme if you aren’t there yet. It’s also not just about saying hello to girls at night. If you want to succeed, you need to be able to keep a girl’s interest at even a basic level or else they’ll just walk away or feel creeped out. I told him to keep making small steps but he needs to cut out the weird staring thing and …
/r/seduction20/10/24 08:14 PM
28

Totally get you. It sucks that I don’t have a friend that is on the same wave length as me. I get that I’m a very social person and I can carry that shit all the way to heaven but it would be great to have a duo. I love solo but we would kill it together.
/r/seduction20/10/24 08:12 PM
2

Exactly. At least if we were to charge something, it wouldn’t feel like such a waste of time. I was just being nice but it wasn’t worth my time.
/r/seduction20/10/24 08:10 PM
17

When I’m out with a friend or stranger. Trust me, I will carry the set and make us both look good but they need to help me out and carry their own weight at certain key points.
/r/seduction20/10/24 08:08 PM
105

Toronto ! Lol. Once you stop worrying about the outcomes of an approach; you stop overthinking and you can do anything.
/r/seduction20/10/24 08:07 PM
8

I have a phd in detecting guys who have no game
/r/seduction09/10/24 07:39 PM
14

Exactly. I personally say “I enjoy the night out alone”. Most girls say it’s impressive but they could never due it cause of anxiety
/r/seduction19/09/24 09:24 AM
2

It’s honestly the truth and as simple as it is. When I first started, I messed up a lot. Over and over but I pay attention to what I say and did until I realized what works lol
/r/seduction18/09/24 03:00 PM
0

Yes. Practice so much that you won’t fuck up.
/r/seduction18/09/24 02:39 PM
2

Eh. It depends. If the girl is sexually attracted to you, you can bathe them in compliments. I do it sometimes and the girls just end up wanting me more lol. They even confront me about it and tell me how much they love it
/r/seduction18/09/24 08:41 AM
2

I’ve done it so many times that I don’t care for it but I love the aspect of gaming women. It’s so much fun.
/r/seduction18/09/24 07:25 AM
1

Lol this is a normal day in my life. Proud of you but I feel good knowing I can relate. What I did was simply take a break and focus on myself. Make sure you have other goals and things going on for you. Having multiple women is great but you need to make sure you’re still building yourself.
/r/seduction16/09/24 08:08 PM
1

Of course
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:52 AM
7

What I do in order to get physical is start by first complimenting them on unusual things that they probably wouldn’t get complimented on first. I start with the eyebrows. They are always surprised because no one ever compliments girls on that other than other girls I’m guessing. So when I do that, I playfully tell them that I’m very detail-orientated and I’m paying close attention to them. Then I move on to the common stuff but I save the lips for last. If you save the lips for last; it can bec…
/r/seduction16/09/24 06:16 AM
3

27 years old. Toronto. Not rich. Average pay in tech. I just enjoy documenting nights out. Not Asian lol
/r/seduction16/09/24 06:11 AM
5

Thanks :) When you do feel free to let me know. I’d love to read it! I usually go out often so I tend to wait for the best night outs to share about. One thing everyone needs to do is start becoming more comfortable with approaching.
/r/seduction16/09/24 01:02 AM
1

This is what I hear sometimes although I’m not sure I agree with it. After getting in better shape physically, I’ve been getting asked out, told I’m attractive, having girls tell me they want relationships with me, fwbs, etc I created a Hinge profile and I don’t get matches that often. I’m a free user. I just got another like tonight but that was after like 2 weeks since my last like. For online dating, I think you need really good pictures to be sure.
/r/seduction13/09/24 04:06 AM
0

Not great at pulling. Tell that to the girl at my house right now. Dude just move on lol
/r/seduction31/08/24 03:55 PM
1

Hahahahahahaha
/r/seduction31/08/24 03:54 PM
1

Exactly. Second night with the girl alone in her room. You told him many great points. You didn’t say to do all of them. If he has any cells in his head. He can figure it out and if he can’t. Well, good luck.
/r/seduction31/08/24 03:39 PM
2

Alright dude. Thank god I don’t need help or answers from you. He was giving good general advice. If you have a brain, you can utilize some of the key points he listed.
/r/seduction31/08/24 03:38 PM
1

You got downvoted for speaking the truth
/r/seduction31/08/24 03:18 PM
10

He’s not wrong bro. I don’t understand the downvotes. It probably sounds creepy when typed but this dude knows what he’s talking about. You guys are funny for downvoting him. I’m laughing.
/r/seduction31/08/24 03:18 PM
91

But I’m also on Reddit n a girl is on top of me rn watching me type this
/r/seduction31/08/24 03:12 PM
28

Don’t touch me. Proceeds to touch you Don’t kiss me. Proceeds to kiss you. You touch her in that one spot and all of a sudden, she’s pulling your pants down wanting to have sex.
/r/seduction31/08/24 03:11 PM
1

Thanks man haha. Ppl think just because a girl shows interest in you… it’s complete. Lmao.
/r/seduction21/08/24 04:49 PM
1

This is Canada in Toronto. All types of people are here with different language barriers. Everyone speaks English to at least a basic level.
/r/seduction21/08/24 04:46 PM
1

Legit I was just bored replying lol. I usually don’t reply to those ppl ngl
/r/seduction21/08/24 04:44 PM
4

😂 okay dude
/r/seduction21/08/24 03:52 AM
1

That’s pretty funny. Anyhow hope yall enjoyed yet another milestone in my life
/r/seduction21/08/24 03:52 AM
5

It’s okay. He’s not a close friend
/r/seduction20/08/24 08:47 PM
5

My man 👊
/r/seduction20/08/24 08:22 PM
4

The bed was a gift from a friend. I didn’t buy it. I also didn’t even set it up. They did it for me in my house while I was away
/r/seduction20/08/24 08:21 PM
2

I know lol. Usually i'd just ignore but I had some time while at the gym today to respond.
/r/seduction20/08/24 06:38 PM
6

I was just playing it slow man and having good fun lol. I know what im doing. Ive done a lot but I appreciate the break downs. If you don't believe me, you can read my past posts.
/r/seduction20/08/24 06:38 PM
-5

I aced it by doing the same things I always do. The game doesn’t change. Usually when someone wants more information that I didn’t already include in the post, they DM me or post a question asking about it. Doesn’t seem like anyone cares in the comment section regarding that this time. She initiated, I responded appropriately.
/r/seduction20/08/24 04:37 PM
7

Agreed. I should have went in more sooner. I guess I was put off a bit by the situation.
/r/seduction20/08/24 04:10 PM
-1

I’ve posted maybe about 50 posts here that break down me approaching and picking up women. I think I can share a few situations of the opposite too. If a girl is seducing me, isn’t it still pickup. She initiated, I did a good job of keeping her interested through the time together. Someone less experience could have easily blown it.
/r/seduction20/08/24 04:10 PM
3

Agreed. Being basic is fine and I’ve been approached but if you can accessorize yourself then do it
/r/seduction20/08/24 04:04 PM
1

If he’s having bad luck with dates meaning they don’t want to contact after a first date. It’s you dude @OP. If you’re fun and interesting, trust me; they won’t leave your ass alone.
/r/seduction20/08/24 03:48 PM
2

Right? Dude drunk girls still have preferences. You think they’re making out with every guy randomly? Nope. They still need to be somewhat attracted to you.
/r/seduction20/08/24 03:47 PM
-22

Picking her up wasn’t a plan of mine. Post is just about what happened
/r/seduction20/08/24 03:45 PM
63

You’re welcome lol. It’s still seduction. Also she made the move but I still had to play my cards right. It was 3 meetings over 7 days.
/r/seduction20/08/24 02:32 PM
7

Haha okay this actually got me.
/r/seduction20/08/24 02:31 PM
1

Go through my post history. I lie about nothing and have picture proof for every story I post here. But thank you.
/r/seduction20/08/24 02:29 PM
5

I’ve written several posts here this year and last year. The occasional people who say they never happened is fascinating. I should definitely get into writing. As I said before, I would never lie about anything. I have no reason to. You mentioned you would not wait 7 days. I also didn’t mention the part when I told her at the festival that I would reach out to her on Thursday and I didn’t because I didn’t care about trying to sleep with her. She even brought it up when we met that I didn’t mess…
/r/seduction20/08/24 02:29 PM
7

Thanks. It’s not like it’s my friend’s sister or something. Also, we aren’t super close friends either. Just regular friends I see every few months. What I found most interesting about the situation was that it was totally unplanned and happened naturally.
/r/seduction20/08/24 02:24 PM
18

I’m experiencing a lot of firsts this year. Just a bunch of situations that never happened before.
/r/seduction20/08/24 02:23 PM
8

Lol maybe I made a mistake. I googled bed sizes and realized there is quite a few. This may be a “Full” instead of “Queen”. Doesn’t seem big.
/r/seduction20/08/24 02:21 PM
13

Agreed. It’s one of those things you should never say. I didn’t plan it, it just happened naturally.
/r/seduction20/08/24 02:18 PM
2

Interesting. I’ll have to check them out. I never even thought there were active forums for pickups out there.
/r/seduction16/08/24 05:48 PM
1

Lmaoo
/r/seduction16/08/24 05:48 PM
3

I’m not sure I can agree with you. I joined this sub over a year ago and since then I’ve learned everything from this sub. Bits and pieces here and there from actual useful posts. It’s a great place if you actually practice what’s being preached FROM the right people.
/r/seduction16/08/24 10:34 AM
1

Haha. From what I understand, if your D game is actually good; these girls do not stop talking about it. Seriously, I know I’m good because girls constantly talking about it even uncalled for. Telling you they miss you and shit hshahas
/r/seduction16/08/24 02:16 AM
2

Yeah haha
/r/seduction16/08/24 02:12 AM
3

Which subredddit would you prefer for pickup? I’m so curious
/r/seduction16/08/24 02:06 AM
1

I upvoted you. I did not mean they should want to. I was just curious about the state of the sub here and guys in general. I agree with your points. I’m a little disconnected with people who aren’t actively having sex so I forget whether or not it’s a challenging task.
/r/seduction15/08/24 10:21 PM
1

Honestly it’s probably for the best. I’m the same way.
/r/seduction13/08/24 01:00 PM
2

Completely agree. You realize these things as you get older. (Usually)
/r/seduction12/08/24 01:51 PM
12

That’s why I had to document it. Who knows when this will ever happen again.
/r/seduction12/08/24 01:51 PM
2

We can all do better if we make an effort. I never wanted to be a gym guy but hey, I gave it a try. My two brothers and dad religiously went to the gym for years but I was the odd one out. Not anymore.
/r/seduction12/08/24 01:50 PM
3

Heck yeah. One of the best decisions I’ve ever made. I always thought I preferred to have a very skinny build but I realized that wasn’t the answer. It can work, yes but the attention from a built body is much better!
/r/seduction12/08/24 01:49 PM
7

This situation is different than a girl simply asking for your number. This is walking outside of a social place and getting called out. I’ve had girls approach me at bars which is nothing new/special but I’ve never walked casually down the street and had a girl call me out.
/r/seduction12/08/24 05:15 AM
4

Toronto
/r/seduction12/08/24 03:38 AM
2

Is there room for 1 more ? Typically works well towards groups
/r/seduction10/08/24 08:42 PM
3

Hahaha. I won’t lie if it’s someone I want to get with long term. If it’s just a quick thing then you can say whatever
/r/seduction09/08/24 10:32 PM
5

I never really thought about doing that. Most ppl guess I’m 24-26 which is close enough. I tell them my age and nothing changes but it’s interesting that you just try to go off what they say.
/r/seduction09/08/24 10:09 PM
1

French girls are so freaky and thank god they are. One of my FWB’s are French and she is in love with me. She is the freakiest girl I’ve ever been with and I’m honoured she enjoys me this much
/r/seduction09/08/24 04:39 AM
0

I’d frame it as something that sounds much better. If the lie gets out then it sucks but just know if you are looking for something serious then starting on lies only leads to more. It’s a great question that you asked. Once I bring a girl over, they tend to ask what I do for a living and when I tell them I have my own business; they find it really cool.
/r/seduction09/08/24 04:36 AM
2

I’ve had house parties with over 60 people and with at least half being strangers and no one stole even if they looked like sketchy individuals. I was surprised but it made me believe more people are good than bad.
/r/seduction08/08/24 11:28 PM
19

My thoughts exactly. I respect him going to approach but video seems creepy
/r/seduction08/08/24 08:05 PM
2

Naw and I have very valuable stuff laying around
/r/seduction08/08/24 01:46 PM
6

You seem way ahead of yourself. She is probably gonna sleep alone unless she has some sort of interest in you.
/r/seduction08/08/24 01:35 PM
2

I typically enjoy meeting people in person but I still match sometimes with cute girls. Currently speaking to someone from hinge. We already had sex on the first day of matching. So maybe it still works ?
/r/seduction08/08/24 01:19 PM
2

Guys love watching but if they’re also approaching and causing a problem then that’s a problem.
/r/seduction06/08/24 11:00 PM
9

Can’t be serious
/r/seduction06/08/24 10:43 PM
1

Nope lol
/r/seduction06/08/24 06:57 AM
1

Well trust me, I’m not a model or anything special.
/r/seduction06/08/24 02:28 AM
2

If she said no I would have gone to another bar across the street lol. Since we were already outside.
/r/seduction05/08/24 06:30 PM
5

Proud of you for going out. I respect that. I’ve learned from experience that numbers lead to nowhere almost 99% of the time. You need to just focus on making out with these girls if that’s what you’re interested in. Otherwise, try to pull them home. Yes, that’s not an easy task but once you figure the game out; you can do it many times
/r/seduction05/08/24 06:21 AM
1

Loool I figured by your original comment so I had to set the record straight. Baddies only 🤞
/r/seduction05/08/24 06:04 AM
2

Aren’t ya funny. Here’s a picture of her body: https://imgur.com/a/5KZlFiR She was slim.
/r/seduction05/08/24 05:42 AM
1

This debate about height vs face has been going on forever. The facts are some girls value one over the other meaning if you are at least 5/10 but tall then that’s enough for some girls. Some girls want perfect face and height. You can’t have it all.
/r/seduction04/08/24 08:28 PM
4

That is wild and I’m extremely proud of :’) happy cake day.
/r/seduction04/08/24 08:25 PM
1

Lmaoo I just love the part about you being high on ketamine. That’s a solid super fast lay right there. So organic and natural as well.
/r/seduction04/08/24 08:24 PM
32

It sure as hell felt nice
/r/seduction04/08/24 12:59 AM
1

In my city, rain nor snow stops anyone
/r/seduction04/08/24 12:48 AM
8

Haha nice dude. You should go out tonight! I’m going out tonight as well :)
/r/seduction04/08/24 12:43 AM
17

The right place and right time lol. Wild how these things can happen.
/r/seduction03/08/24 10:59 PM
62

Haha wow. That is pretty insane. These are trophy situations and they deserve to be cherished.
/r/seduction03/08/24 08:11 PM
5

You sound like a nice guy but I’m curious as you didn’t mention it, did you try to make her feel an attraction to you? It doesn’t mean being sexual but instead making her desire you. She agreed to go on a date and she did which is already a W but I feel like you may have missed the mark on possibly getting a kiss or making or feel more special rather than platonic friends hanging out grabbing a drink
/r/seduction02/08/24 09:18 AM
2

Doesn’t matter
/r/seduction02/08/24 09:14 AM
3

I'd say do it at a gym that isn't your regular much smarter.
/r/seduction01/08/24 08:00 PM
2

I hear ya. I’ll probably do it one day when Im ready
/r/seduction01/08/24 05:55 PM
9

It’s rough. I see so many hot gym girls but I’m worried about approaching because the environment is very personal.
/r/seduction01/08/24 05:43 PM
7

Toronto Ontario? Nice, maybe I’ll run into you. I also have two small dogs (Maltese, Bichon) but I don’t bring them to pick up girls but yeah I guess when you have them, the attention is insane. Anyways, cool page dude!
/r/seduction31/07/24 08:45 PM
2

Haha what are the odds. Hope you enjoyed yourself. The Fry is my favourite place to go. Probably eat there too often ;)
/r/seduction31/07/24 01:22 PM
2

Are you kidding? Even if someone told you what to say.. what happens when you meet if you can’t communicate the same way?
/r/seduction31/07/24 04:08 AM
2

Thanks for sharing that and providing images for each example. I found it interesting but not that surprising that you used several locations from Japan. I’ve been to a few of those places and in Tokyo I’ve night game’d at many bars, lounges, dj bars, etc. I love how Japan has so many of those types of bars. It makes it more easy to focus on socializing compared to North America with all this sitting down shit lol. Very few standing bars in my city in Canada. DJ bars are definitely my favourite …
/r/seduction31/07/24 04:06 AM
4

I feel like height matters more here. It’s so damn dark in clubs, you can hardly see peoples faces. Whereas in bars you can see everything clearly.
/r/seduction31/07/24 03:56 AM
7

If you’ve never approached but are seeing success with girls who approach you, you can just chill dude. I recently watched this YouTube pickup video where several guys have to pickup the girls and the tallest guy did the worst. My immediate thought was he is probably use to naturally getting attention without having to game or approach. It is what it is. If you are happy then you have nothing to prove. I personally love approaching and game.
/r/seduction30/07/24 10:27 PM
5

Completely true from what I’ve observed. I remember a few months ago, I found it disgusting how some promoters get 7-10 girls in, lock them behind a table area section and then just keep all of them for themselves. Meanwhile the rest of the area is filled with dudes and your best chance is to buy a table for attention or just wait patiently for more girls to come in… which surprise, the workers also try to gate keep lol. I’m not saying you can’t have luck at clubs (as I’ve had many times), it’s …
/r/seduction30/07/24 09:53 PM
6

I’d like to think most of this subreddit would agree. I get so excited going to bars knowing I can test what I learn from this subreddit and just the thought of improving with women and communication over time.
/r/seduction30/07/24 09:51 PM
10

Upvoted. I see it happening at clubs often. Very tall guys get attention but I saw tall guys still get auto rejected lol. Everyone gets rejected but at least if you’re tall, you’ll have a much easier time in standing out from the crowd. You know your strengths and it’s at the club so I’d stay there.
/r/seduction30/07/24 09:48 PM
1

Do you mean with new girls or the same girls? If the same girls, I can get it every other day if I wanted to or probably every day. If new girls, if I wanted to; once each weekend. Notice I add “if I wanted to” because I really don’t always want to.
/r/seduction30/07/24 04:46 PM
3

Not going to disagree with you. The club is definitely more fun with friends. I honestly usually make friends when I go out. Tons of guys ask for my Instagram and we sometimes team up. Last night was strictly solo though. I’ve been going to clubs solo for the past year. It can work just fine but you are right about how girls may perceive you. I still stand by my last statement regarding bars and clubs.
/r/seduction30/07/24 04:08 PM
1

I usually go anywhere between 9pm and 11:00pm but I advise closer to 9pm. I do go to clubs sometimes but not as much as bars. The reason why is I’m kind of getting tired of being sandwiched between so many ppl but sometimes.. I’ll still go just only if friends wanna go too. Bars are for me
/r/seduction29/07/24 12:17 AM
3

There actually has been this one girl in the gym I’ve seen occasionally and there was one instance where we were leaving at the same time in the same elevator. I’ve never approached someone in day game or let alone at a gym so as badly as I wanted to speak to her; I just couldn’t make it feel like a good idea because I don’t want things to be awkward at the gym if it goes south. But honestly, I’m a king at night game so I shouldn’t be a pussy. I don’t know when she goes to the gym specifically b…
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:32 PM
2

I’ve seen plenty of advice about game or charisma. There’s always posts regarding it and I also try to help in that aspect. Just note. It’s impossible for someone to have a solution for conversations that haven’t even happened yet. No one can simply guide you through your future conversation that relies on several factors occurring at that time. We can simply give you advice on how to improve your communication with others and sample conversations from our sets.
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:13 AM
1

My man. These are the stories I like to hear. It can be that simple if you look good OVERALL. Girls notice
/r/seduction24/07/24 08:45 PM
1

Lol the problem that seems to occur is the girl falls in love with me. I’m currently talking to 3 and they like me more than I do them. Just like many other guys, I’m looking to go out to have fun and create more FWB’s. I’m not looking for any relationship.
/r/seduction24/07/24 08:24 PM
1

How does the interactions go after you get approached? Do you ever get laid or get to physical touches / kisses ? What’s the story
/r/seduction24/07/24 05:42 AM
4

If you are always seeing the same tips, then it just means the same rules apply. There’s no secret. You just need to practice. I’m not speaking only about being approached but rather sealing the set. I’m not over 6ft so I’m not hovering over many people lol.
/r/seduction24/07/24 03:54 AM
7

Thanks for sharing that. I’ve seen girls approach guys every time I go to the bar. Even if it only happens once or twice that night. Agreed.
/r/seduction24/07/24 03:52 AM
47

I did not smash otherwise I would’ve included that haha.
/r/seduction24/07/24 03:51 AM
11

I don’t believe im anything special. Probably just some girls type. Whether you approach or get approached, the challenge is sealing the set which is difficult if you don’t know what to say or how to escalate.
/r/seduction24/07/24 03:50 AM
2

I'll speak from my experience. Listen. It doesn't matter if you got to first base, 2nd, or even 10th base. If a women is interested in you; they will not leave you alone. That includes not meeting for 2 weeks/3 weeks. I personally think you did not leave they with anything to remember and that's not referring to sex. I'm referring to them feeling special from the last time they saw you. Why should they meet with you again over someone else?
/r/seduction23/07/24 09:38 PM
39

Don’t be body builder size but good muscles lean build helps
/r/seduction21/07/24 01:29 PM
6

It’s definitely a lot of fun
/r/seduction19/07/24 02:35 AM
4

I mean for some people sure but for me, no matter how drunk I get; it doesn’t make anything worse. Same results sober and drunk. Getting drunk is just fun asf
/r/seduction17/07/24 05:14 PM
6

I’m trying to make it a point to be more descriptive with my interactions so people can learn and imitate the same thing. Knowing what to say at the time is a skill and takes practice but once you get good at it.. oh ye!
/r/seduction17/07/24 06:25 AM
1

I think you did correct. Large/small groups are always going to be more difficult because if certain friends aren’t feeling you.. they can destroy the whole thing even if the girl likes you. I haven’t heard of that guy but I’ll check out his posts. Thanks
/r/seduction17/07/24 06:24 AM
5

Thank you! It’s one of my favourite things to do.
/r/seduction16/07/24 02:20 AM
6

I’ve noticed your comments on posts here and there. I really appreciate the compliment. Means a lot! I’ve done sets as big as 10 people. Here is when I was at a bar and these girls gathered all around the table as they are a big group of friends. Picture proof: https://imgur.com/a/SbNGJVk Also. How I approached this was standing at the end of the table and speaking to one friend first and then moving to the center. I ended up speaking to 3, and I was able to leave with 1.
/r/seduction16/07/24 02:02 AM
1

I know my reports are hard to believe but I don’t lie about anything. I’ll forgive you for the name calling but I have pictures of not only the girls, texts, but also videos ☺️ I document everything my good man. You can’t catch me bullshitting a story.
/r/seduction16/07/24 01:52 AM
2

Lol some people who hang out here are truly strange. Like I already knew that but wow I’m amazed more and more.
/r/seduction16/07/24 01:50 AM
-12

Believe what you want.
/r/seduction12/07/24 12:44 AM
4

Haha these inexperienced players really don’t understand women
/r/seduction12/07/24 12:44 AM
55

I have posts of this very topic. Japan was extremely easy and every night was doing something with a new girl. I actually laugh anytime I think about Tokyo because of how crazy those nights were. My advice is to go to bars to look for Japanese women. The streets do work too but as much as it would in any other country. My best results came from bars but clubs are cool too. The thing about clubs is that it’s harder to game as you just need to be physical right away. Most times I just end up going…
/r/seduction11/07/24 11:39 PM
1

Thanks, not OP but I was also curious about gym game
/r/seduction11/07/24 10:12 PM
1

No way. You actually switched partners?? Please elaborate about how that came about
/r/seduction11/07/24 10:07 PM
3

That’s ideally the plan. Will be a fun first experience for sure. If anything comes from it, it’ll be extra. Since it’s confirmed they’re coming over; all I need to do is game as usual.
/r/seduction11/07/24 10:07 PM
3

Well the girls are apparently cool. They’re going to come over to my house first. Should be an interesting day. Can’t wait to see how it turns out
/r/seduction11/07/24 10:06 PM
2

No matter how much I think of a double date, the logistics just feel so off. You’re both meeting the others for the first time with a pre-planned night but there are so many little things that can easily ruin it all in comparison to just one on one. Either way I’ll just go and I’ll report back. Hopefully with positive news.
/r/seduction11/07/24 09:44 AM
7

Honestly it’s almost impossible to tell with women and I’m sorry it’s not the answer you want to hear. Some women(most) are unfortunately really great at giving off the wrong signals. It’s not a matter of being “too nice”. Some of them don’t realize that the guy they are speaking with are interested in them. So if you’re interested in someone, just let them know. Do not waste time. Save yourself the trouble and just go for ir
/r/seduction11/07/24 09:30 AM
0

Very nice report dude. I respect the hustle. Never give up. Now your next goal when you start getting good signals like the last one is to get physical. Make it a goal to make out with her. Just another goal post to aim for after getting past the basically conversations with someone.
/r/seduction11/07/24 01:03 AM
1

Everyone
/r/seduction08/07/24 07:47 PM
2

Dude who cares.
/r/seduction05/07/24 07:51 PM
2

Glad you sorted it out. I’m rooting for you to have a ton of success. Just keep heading out and slaying my man. Bars are a blessing.
/r/seduction03/07/24 01:24 AM
3

You shouldn’t be the only one carrying the conversation lol. If this is the case for majority of your sets; it sounds like the other person isn’t as interested in you as you are in them. Here is a way to test it out I’ll share: When you strike up a conversation with a girl and she’s not immediately showing signs of interest such as smiling, complete eye contact, closeness, a happy expression, opened body language, or even asking questions back; I would just end the conversation. Everyone should …
/r/seduction03/07/24 01:23 AM
9

Ok first of all. You won’t always be able to take a girl home every time you go out to a bar and it’s time to leave… unless you’re a pro. Based on your situation, my advice is to become better at keeping interesting conversations. If you are running out of things to say then you aren’t gaming correctly.
/r/seduction02/07/24 05:31 PM
1

This is not what I would consider a small bar. It’s probably the biggest one in the area. It’s hard to give you an idea. Basically it’s majority a dance area / bar. Dive bar with lots of space to dance. Music was a mix between pop, hip hop, country. It depends on the night because they apparently rotate. Bars vs Night clubs: I completely prefer bars over night clubs and I’ve had success multiple times with both. Bars are just more laid back so you can really flirt hard core whereas in clubs, you…
/r/seduction02/07/24 05:05 PM
2

I started to learn people like to see what you say to girls during conversation so I like to include it. I don’t personally believe there is anything unique about me. I’m not over 6 feet and when I go out I just wear some sort of plain T-shirt. Maybe they like my face initially. Conversation is super important. My unique trait during conversation is that I always know what to say and when to say it. It also helps that I pick up on social cues easily so I also know when the best time to escalate …
/r/seduction02/07/24 05:02 PM
1

It’s not “old” but it’s the age where people may start calling themselves old and others may do so even if it’s a joke. I’ll be 30 soon enough. In the next 3 years.
/r/seduction02/07/24 04:59 PM
0

Picture proof just for you big boy: https://imgur.com/a/akyPoG1 I’m living an extraordinary life. There’s no need to fake anything online but I know it can be hard to believe.
/r/seduction30/06/24 12:07 AM
0

You don’t know me at all lol. The hundreds of messages I get after each party telling me I’m the best host they’ve ever known must be lies I guess. The constant messages from girls asking me to throw parties, hmm. I don’t always chase girls at my parties. I set my friends up and if a girl takes interest in me then I bring her to a private area. Me and you are not the same and we will never be.
/r/seduction29/06/24 11:53 PM
-2

Girls like me because I know how to show them a good time whether at a party or outside of one.
/r/seduction29/06/24 11:51 PM
2

Sorry to hear that. You need to start small and then grow
/r/seduction29/06/24 11:50 PM
1

At my house
/r/seduction29/06/24 10:20 PM
0

It’s not common knowledge to know that if you host events that would equal to more women?
/r/seduction29/06/24 10:19 PM
17

Is this some sort of shower thought lol. I throw parties monthly and invite over 70 people. I thought this was common knowledge. If you have the logistics, then you should intuitively go for it.
/r/seduction29/06/24 03:42 PM
0

Don’t need you to believe me ;)
/r/seduction17/06/24 09:23 PM
0

Lol dude I’ve made out with 5 girls in a single bar before back to back while they were all still present. Please don’t tell me what’s possible.
/r/seduction17/06/24 04:28 PM
3

I’ve been posting consistently for more than 1 year now on this subreddit. From when I first started until now. I’m not too sure how much looks play into the situation but I’ve been called many things from girls such as “playboy”, “ladies man”, “womanizer”, “smooth”, “direct”, “always says the right things”, etc. Even though I’ve had many compliments, I don’t see what others see when I look in the mirror. I don’t feel like I’m anything special but who knows. I get called those things based on my…
/r/seduction17/06/24 07:12 AM
2

Exactly. I mean a lot of people here have already given up as well. Game is game and if you don’t have it, you can learn or you can spam like OP and approach 20 girls until 1 of them say yes. What if I told OP, I can approach 20 and probably secure more than 10 just by using game and knowing how to play unlike someone inexperienced.
/r/seduction17/06/24 04:54 AM
2

What’s the best way to tell MY fwb that I dont want to see her
/r/seduction17/06/24 04:44 AM
1

Are you kidding? I’m not OP but I have plenty of field reports from my time in Japan and every night is practically a success. In fact, it almost feels too easy.
/r/seduction16/06/24 01:33 AM
2

I get it lol. As the other guy replied to you. Sometimes I may say things like “You’re lips are looking nice right now” “Let’s get closer” So you’re literally “asking” but your intentions are there and she’s aware of it. I’m all for just going for it as well. I like to keep things interesting
/r/seduction14/06/24 09:18 PM
1

Mid twenties
/r/seduction14/06/24 09:16 PM
1

It’s honestly both dude. I’d say I have quite good game. Sometimes it’s nice to ask but other times, you can just go for it. It doesn’t hurt to switch things up plus if you really aren’t sure because no situation is 100%, you can ask in a non-lame ass way.
/r/seduction14/06/24 05:37 PM
1

Appreciate the response man. I’ll try to take it more serious with someone eventually.
/r/seduction14/06/24 10:50 AM
1

False
/r/seduction14/06/24 12:26 AM
2

Yeah I don’t want to be on that path. Currently I only drink socially which is once every 2 weeks
/r/seduction13/06/24 01:35 AM
1

I do take out my very close friends to dinner and activities, I also pay for everyone. I enjoy doing that. I sometimes host birthday parties for friends whether close or not and I decorate it all. I consider that altruistic. Although, when I think about it; maybe I’m doing it because I enjoy people seeing me as better but in my head I’m doing it because I can. Appreciate the comment, I’ll dive into something new.
/r/seduction13/06/24 01:35 AM
1

Lol I’ll bite. What’s in Dubai that you feel would make me happy? In fact, that was one place I said I wouldn’t want to visit because it seems so fake. In the sense that it’s all about luxury and to me, it’s not important anymore
/r/seduction13/06/24 01:31 AM
1

Thanks for sharing. Working on it. Something I enjoy doing is teaching game. I’ve replied to hundreds of dm’s from people asking for advice and I love giving it.
/r/seduction12/06/24 07:48 PM
2

This is an insane comment. I love it so much. I feel like you share a lot of qualities with me as well. In conclusion, life is boring me and I’m seeking for more. That was money but I quickly realized, once you start making a ton; it doesn’t make me feel any different. I drive a nicer car now, I get a lot of stares. At first it gave me a feeling of superiority but now I just don’t care lol. It’ll take some time but I noticed I started drinking more. Never thought that would happen but it appears…
/r/seduction12/06/24 07:45 PM
5

I have my own online business. You can a conversation flowing by first experiencing life. You have so much more to talk about. It’s not a joke, travel, learn, adapt and take what you learn to the women you meet. Know when to do tests both verbally and physically. Once you see the signs, you can make your move but you need to pay attention. I can’t speak for everyone but size does matter long term. Although I’m sure there are women who don’t care. You don’t need to be hung like a horse.
/r/seduction12/06/24 05:07 AM
2

Hell yeah. I’m still having fun but I don’t think many people realize you start to go cold lol.
/r/seduction12/06/24 05:05 AM
1

Appreciate the suggestion. I have not considered that. No harm in looking into new pathways.
/r/seduction12/06/24 05:04 AM
1

Thanks. I started going to the gym and also cycling, it's honestly a great way to clear the mind. Don't get me wrong, I still enjoy being around girls but I'm finding it more fun teaching others and giving advice.
/r/seduction12/06/24 01:06 AM
3

Nice.
/r/seduction12/06/24 01:04 AM
2

Not White. Not over 6 feet.
/r/seduction12/06/24 12:24 AM
1

Alright. Thank you for your response.
/r/seduction11/06/24 11:33 PM
2

Like guy? Or girl
/r/seduction05/06/24 11:53 PM
2

Eh depends on the girl. I remember one time I was such a pussy when I walked a girl to her door. I hesitated so much and stuttered regarding wanting to kiss her. It was extremely awkward and I was so sure I screwed up forever. A week after, we were banging and doing that for months. But generally yes, she probably won’t forgive you so don’t be a pussssy
/r/seduction28/05/24 10:23 AM
107

I’ve heard I’m good but I act like I’m not. Works every time.
/r/seduction28/05/24 09:10 AM
1

Yes that’s right
/r/seduction28/05/24 03:35 AM
2

One time, a girl came back to my house and started removing my clothes. No, I did not expect it. Other times It's actually she starts getting touchy and then either asks me if she can pull my pants down or just does it.
/r/seduction28/05/24 02:36 AM
5

Exactly. I have a high success rate but I still never get laid every time I go out. More often than not, I’ll make out with girls at the least but having sex is more challenging
/r/seduction25/05/24 10:09 AM
1

Don’t listen to these guys. A nice car always gives you an upper edge. Having a car in itself already gives you a +1 but if it’s a nice sporty car then it helps even more and quite frankly you want to do anything to make yourself look better. My suggestions of things you should get: 1. A nice watch 2. A nice car (the sportier the better) 3. Good wallet 4. Good shoes 5. An impressive house or apartment setup.
/r/seduction23/05/24 10:49 AM
0

I don’t but let’s put it this way. Out of the around 300 girls I approached or approached me over the last year+, it usually turns out to be someone who wants to either date, sex, or make out. Mostly make out / date. Sex could happen more frequently if I dated them.
/r/seduction23/05/24 10:45 AM
1

Everyone I invite, I know personally and if someone asks to invite someone; they need to make sure it’s someone they trust. So far, it’s worked quite well. Never any damage or problems. Just drinking and fun. I do not invite people I know have issues with alcohol or cause problems.
/r/seduction22/05/24 11:58 PM
5

1000 and only 2 lays is really bad. I respect you for approaching that amount though
/r/seduction22/05/24 08:51 PM
7

This lol. I try to make it a fact that I should NOT need to use the washroom during a set. It’s a lose lose situation. I know the washroom calls but take her elsewhere if you have to
/r/seduction18/05/24 02:57 PM
1

Lmao why on earth would you only want to attract girls who want your money
/r/seduction17/05/24 12:31 PM
1

You are correct.
/r/seduction15/05/24 09:14 PM
0

Typically lol
/r/seduction15/05/24 04:33 PM
1

I’ve seen it just this past Monday, 2 days ago. It was a open gender bathroom and people who just met were going in and doing the biz
/r/seduction15/05/24 08:52 AM
1

I forgot. I will
/r/seduction15/05/24 12:19 AM
-1

Use every approach as a way to practice your communication skills such as wit, charm, and keeping an interesting conversation going. Sometimes it’ll work against you if you’re too smooth because just last night and occasionally I get a “You really know what to say to the ladies”. From there, they assume you’re a player. Good luck.
/r/seduction14/05/24 10:47 PM
1

I was out last night at a new club and I saw that happen to guys. It just means they aren’t interested to be honest. I’ve had it happen before. I think everyone has..
/r/seduction14/05/24 10:44 PM
0

Oh well lol
/r/seduction14/05/24 08:12 AM
0

Right lol. All good
/r/seduction14/05/24 06:49 AM
0

Hahaha okay thats actually pretty funny.
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:05 PM
2

Haha, you're a cool dude. Looking forward to it. Thanks
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:04 PM
1

That’s right. I’ve been through so many crazy sets and every time I post about them. I’m somehow dreaming or making it all up. Lol
/r/seduction13/05/24 06:50 PM
1

I know right? I’m not a beginner in this night game stuff. I know when to back off and when to continue. I know how to test them as well.
/r/seduction13/05/24 06:48 PM
1

Majority of the time, girls are way too easy that I actually have a laugh about it. This was a fun challenge for a change.
/r/seduction13/05/24 06:47 PM
2

Honestly, I might be and still.. girls are attracted to me.
/r/seduction13/05/24 06:46 PM
1

I’m not sure but I don’t always ask girls for their socials unless I want to see them again. A lot of the time, I just want to leave the night as a memory. I’m sure many girls are the same because even if you do get their social, they may not even respond which is very common. Also, I just didn’t care because I enjoy meeting new girls each time I go out. TL;DR: Most people just go out to enjoy that night.
/r/seduction13/05/24 06:45 PM
1

Many times I just think of it during the conversation. If you DM me, I’ll give you some I usually go to at some point.
/r/seduction13/05/24 06:43 PM
0

You can probably almost say anything if the girl is already attracted to you. I’ve said much stranger stuff and I even do it as a joke just to see how they’d react.
/r/seduction13/05/24 06:32 PM
2

Appreciate that a lot. I realized after posting here for almost a year that my experience is not common at all.
/r/seduction13/05/24 05:46 PM
1

As the other guy said. I think some people envy me. They think every post I make is a lie and impossible to believe when in reality it’s not. Other dudes are out doing the same thing but I come here to share it.
/r/seduction13/05/24 05:45 PM
2

Dude lol. It’s weird as hell to go into detail. What more do you want to know? Damn
/r/seduction13/05/24 05:42 PM
4

Thanks for the advice. The more I can improve, the better I will become.
/r/seduction12/05/24 09:54 PM
2

Why do you guys comment about stuff you don’t understand? If she didn’t like me, she wouldn’t have been the one to pull my clothes off and engage further sexually.
/r/seduction12/05/24 09:52 PM
6

A lot of guys haven’t even approached a woman in their life and would’ve chickened out on the first sign of her disagreeing with them lol.
/r/seduction12/05/24 09:50 PM
2

It’s just this girl. We go out often and it’s never like this to be honest.
/r/seduction12/05/24 09:49 PM
2

One was easy and one was hard. I got the difficult friend. You’ll learn this as you go out more. It’s funny because usually when I go out with my friend, I’m usually the one who’s making out with girls and taking them where I want without trouble. I don’t mind that this girl was hard to get. It makes it even more fulfilling when you win.
/r/seduction12/05/24 09:48 PM
29

A win is a win lol. She had no obligation to do anything with me. She could have easily just went along with it without getting physical.
/r/seduction12/05/24 09:46 PM
1

I have to agree. I’m sure he doesn’t need to try hard to sleep with any of them.
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:51 PM
2

defined jawline, Hunter eyes, hair etc.
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:50 PM
1

Okay :)
/r/seduction08/05/24 08:13 PM
5

Nah don’t worry about it. This is just the reality of life. Some people have major advantages and that’s either looks, health, or money.
/r/seduction08/05/24 07:38 PM
1

I’m not sure if you’re trying to pick on me but it’s not going to work lol.
/r/seduction08/05/24 07:37 PM
2

I just made a whole post about another man. At this point, I’m in disbelief but that night was stuck in my head. I just couldn’t stop thinking “Damn, this dude can walk in anywhere and get anyone.”
/r/seduction08/05/24 07:36 PM
1

Dude lol. How can I just share some dudes Instagram on a public forum. He’s not a public figure. Someone will definitely message him about this thread. Trust me. He’s similar to the models I listed. I know it’s hard to beliece
/r/seduction08/05/24 07:34 PM
2

He was at least 6 feet.
/r/seduction08/05/24 05:00 PM
2

Because the reality of being attractive just hit me in the face.
/r/seduction08/05/24 04:59 PM
3

6’1 or maybe even just 6’0 on the dot. Lucky him
/r/seduction08/05/24 04:58 PM
1

The benchmark is in the sky.
/r/seduction08/05/24 04:56 PM
12

Honestly me too. I keep bouncing up and down in weight and unfortunately I need to lose another 20 pounds which I’m working on.
/r/seduction08/05/24 12:24 PM
-2

Boo hoo lol.
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:04 AM
1

The more you know, the better but mainly for those situations where a girl may not speak any English or extremely little. Thank you and my level is enough to pretty much converse. Not perfectly but clearly enough.
/r/seduction05/05/24 08:02 AM
1

I hear what you're saying. I personally wouldn't live life in fear based on the chance that someone sees you as a creep. I move like this. If she is receptive towards me and I notice she shows a sign of interest then I become physical. I remember one situation where I was standing too close to a girl even though she came to a bar from my invite and she still told me to back up because i'm too close lol. I simply respected her ask and moved away and stopped talking with her because clearly she wa…
/r/seduction05/05/24 07:59 AM
1

Interesting take
/r/seduction04/05/24 07:50 AM
2

I respect you for making a move overall. You have my respect.
/r/seduction02/05/24 12:56 PM
2

My man
/r/seduction01/05/24 10:05 PM
2

Honestly just stay home
/r/seduction29/04/24 06:52 AM
1

Llmaoooo I love this comment
/r/seduction23/04/24 12:22 PM
17

I was not expecting a tag haha but I’m glad you shared your report. Just getting out there and making any progress is still good.
/r/seduction21/04/24 03:49 AM
1

I can only speak of Japan which my answer remains the same. Worth trying
/r/seduction20/04/24 05:10 AM
2

It’s been good my bro. Lots of success
/r/seduction20/04/24 01:24 AM
1

Bro when I saw he spent 20 minutes making out, I laughed. This dude could have fucked but he is clearly not sexually experienced(don’t care if he had sex before). Kiss and escalate within 5 minutes. I’m not here to teach him though but he’ll learn.
/r/seduction19/04/24 08:44 AM
1

Lol okay 👍
/r/seduction18/04/24 09:00 PM
1

Okay I’ll update it in the edit.
/r/seduction17/04/24 05:08 AM
1

Lol if you actually went outside, you’d know it’s not that hard.
/r/seduction16/04/24 04:21 PM
3

I’ve written the ways many times time others who ask so I’m a little tired to rewrite it plus I’m heading out again soon. If you DM me, I’ll give you some advice. I honestly wanted to start a YouTube channel lol. I’ve learned so much in 1 year with pickup, online dating, you name it. Sex is not the only factor for me, I enjoy being a wingman and helping others.
/r/seduction16/04/24 10:17 AM
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We had fun in that karaoke room. Music and touching. Not sex. I actually, for the first time did day game approaching this morning. Out of 10 girls I approached on the street; I got around 4 instagrams and I got blatantly ignored by the rest. As it was my first time, I wasn’t expecting anything.
/r/seduction16/04/24 10:12 AM
1

Improve my verbal game and become an even better wingman.
/r/seduction16/04/24 10:09 AM
1

Yes, majority is in Canada. I haven’t noticed much difference in results between Japan and Canada. Girls are girls.
/r/seduction16/04/24 10:07 AM
1

I don’t want to spam the sub. It’s only been 3 days and it’s been a wild ride. Hitting up clubs again tonight. I got lucky with a DJ and she is getting me in a few clubs for free. I already know it’s going to be a good night tonight. You’ll love Japan.
/r/seduction16/04/24 10:05 AM
1

DM me like the 50 other people did
/r/seduction16/04/24 10:02 AM
1

Don’t be boring. Don’t be scared to approach multiple women. Learn to escalate from friendly to sexual. I’ve met other dudes while I’m out and they just can’t seem escalate beyond the talking stage.
/r/seduction16/04/24 10:02 AM
1

Depends on the guy
/r/seduction16/04/24 09:59 AM
1

Lol I shared the next night in a comment above. It made the first night seem so calm. I’m not desperate so I don’t need to quickly escalate to taking the first girl who gives me attention home to have sex. I can, and have posted about that many times. It’s not that interesting. The events leading up to it are more so. “Standing in a corner of a bar and imagining scenarios”? Holy shit lol. Thank fuck I don’t have to prove myself to you.
/r/seduction16/04/24 09:58 AM
1

Basic level. No worries, I enjoy documenting but I won’t spam this sub. I’ll update again after the trip is over I guess.
/r/seduction16/04/24 09:50 AM
9

It’s honestly amazing that me sharing that first night experience sounds so unbelievable. Should I also share that the next night I went out, I went up to 2 girls at a table; within 5 minutes I was making out with 1 of them. Then she suddenly told me she had a boyfriend. But that didn’t seem to stop her. Right after she and her friend left the bar; another girl at a nearby table I guess noticed and I went over to that table. Group of 3 people. Sat beside one of them, was making out with her righ…
/r/seduction16/04/24 09:46 AM
5

This is the comment. I’m actually surprised that people are arguing about this. Girls will walk right over to you.
/r/seduction16/04/24 09:18 AM
13

Not Asian. Not white.
/r/seduction15/04/24 12:02 PM
19

I’m not the only foreigner in the bars. Plenty other guys. It could be. Also people who go to these bars speak at least basic English so no need to speak Japanese. English is good enough.
/r/seduction15/04/24 11:12 AM
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I didn’t have the logistics set up to bring someone back home on the first night. Thus why I had to settle with a private karaoke room. Next time.
/r/seduction15/04/24 11:11 AM
16

“Creepy” is a term women call guys they aren’t attracted to. Once someone likes you enough, you can be a complete tard and it wont change anything. I’m sure we’ve all seen it.
/r/seduction15/04/24 10:13 AM
2

Ohhh noooooo
/r/seduction07/04/24 10:24 PM
1

Haha love this comment. He was right
/r/seduction07/04/24 10:24 PM
1

Naw it didn’t but maybe next time
/r/seduction04/04/24 10:17 PM
1

Did you decide to stay together post cheating ? Being single is only great if that’s the lifestyle you want
/r/seduction04/04/24 10:16 PM
5

I really don’t need her nor want her lol
/r/seduction04/04/24 12:35 PM
0

Also yeah the 30 day challenge is fun. I’m glad you are going for a challenge too.
/r/seduction04/04/24 12:33 PM
0

Guess I’m just not use to it. I did have a situation where I was with a friend and we met two girls. The next day we find out the girl he slept with had a whole boyfriend lmao. Wild
/r/seduction04/04/24 12:33 PM
49

If your approaching a group of girls, what always works: “Is this a closed circle?” It’s an easy way to get in lol. They will check you out and give you an answer.
/r/seduction27/03/24 12:38 PM
11

What are you talking about dude lol. If you like her; ask her out.
/r/seduction26/03/24 06:42 PM
2

What I learned was sometimes doing less is actually doing more lol. Just depends but not being needy or thirsty can be an advantage in your perceived appearance
/r/seduction23/03/24 01:25 PM
1

I honestly didn’t much during the card game. It was about 5 of us playing the card game together. So nothing special during that interaction.
/r/seduction23/03/24 01:22 PM
3

Dude relax. I’m not racist nor do I hate you. Your original comment is just extremely hard to decipher. If you don’t care then whatever. Conversation over?
/r/seduction21/03/24 03:42 AM
3

Lmaoo I speak 2 languages. The issue I had with you wasn’t about spelling. It’s actually regarding grammar. I’m giving you advice bro. Take up an English textbook and start studying again.
/r/seduction21/03/24 03:12 AM
4

Bro please stop and go take English classes
/r/seduction21/03/24 02:59 AM
1

Between 5’8 and 6 feet. That girl was actually pretty tall though but shorter than me
/r/seduction19/03/24 02:30 AM
1

Why
/r/seduction19/03/24 02:29 AM
2

Ah then that’s only pretty plausible. If you saw her on the Home Screen with a guy then there’s a high chance lol. It could be a myriad of reasons so we’ll chalk it up to, she’s just an odd one haha
/r/seduction18/03/24 07:17 PM
1

Lol bruh what the hell was that ending? Everything above it seemed pretty damn nice though
/r/seduction18/03/24 07:00 PM
3

You know that striking glare that makes it apparent that you want someone? That’s what I consider it haha. She’s a girl, I’m sure she will find another guy she’ll go crazy about lol
/r/seduction18/03/24 03:40 PM
5

Yes, we started as friends then dated. I didn’t want relationship so I told her. She still wanted to hook up and we still do but as friends
/r/seduction15/03/24 11:25 PM
31

I say embrace it. Have fun, life is too short. Many of us are in the same shoes as you.
/r/seduction15/03/24 11:20 PM
12

Ask to meet up and drink wine at her house or your house. Put a movie on and after a little while see if she lets you cuddle with her. If you successfully get to cuddle. Kiss her cheek and then if she doesn’t reciprocate, say now your turn and see if she does. If she does; hold contact and go for the kiss. Escalate to sexy time from there but only if she’s willing
/r/seduction15/03/24 10:57 PM
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Forget her lol. I’ve recently decided if someone takes a long time of more than 5-6 hours to respond, I’m not continuing the conversation. If someone wants you then they’ll message you much faster, let alone almost 24 hours or more. Just dumb goes. There’s more girls out there bro
/r/seduction15/03/24 09:59 PM
11

Sometimes you get lucky and she’s still dtf. Source: I use to like a hijabi girl who had a boyfriend. She would tell me all the freaky shit her and him did. She even fuked him one morning after a party while other guests and myself were still there loool. She finally got married and pregnant. Actually she just gave birth recently. I’ve recently found another Hijabi girl who I believe is flirting with me through the dms so we’ll see if I can convert her
/r/seduction15/03/24 09:57 PM
6

Never with intention. Just happens
/r/seduction14/03/24 02:42 PM
2

I hear you. When their friend does that, it does suck but if the main girl likes you enough then if you’re lucky she will tell you to come. Always get the numbers so even if you do get separated, you can text her right there and ask her to re-group. Trust me, they will text back if they’re feeling you. I love hearing your guys stories. I always have fun going out.
/r/seduction12/03/24 04:26 AM
1

I don’t think you did anything wrong. In that situation, you either follow them or leave them. Depending on how much they’re feeling you, might be creeped out or like it. I e been on both sides. I’ve followed and even took the train back together but it really depends on if she likes likes you
/r/seduction12/03/24 04:02 AM
1

That's right. For games, it does depend on the location but believe it or not but I sometimes bring Uno and get the whole group playing lol. It's portable and everyone loves it. You can also place bets for drinks (don't always do this unless ur ready to spend). One trick I also like to do with Uno if you can secure a table with the girls is make sure you have a friend and get your friend to sit beside the girl hes interested in and you sit with the other. You guys run teams and it allows you to …
/r/seduction11/03/24 11:03 PM
2

I honestly couldn’t tell if people wanted the entire dialogue of interactions or just the explanation leading up to the approach. It does seem people actually care about what was said word for word, possibly for practicing purposes.
/r/seduction11/03/24 05:36 PM
1

Okay I got you. I don’t follow pickup and infield YouTubers so maybe there’s not much leaders teaching now adays but I have no clue. I like to share and teach what I learn. It’s actually quite fun.
/r/seduction11/03/24 03:57 PM
2

That’s honestly a good scenario. When a stranger comes in to distract one of the friends it does make the job slightly easier but also it probably helps him too with focusing on the girl that he’s actually interested in. How did things work out with you and the girl that night ?
/r/seduction11/03/24 01:47 PM
3

Lol this is funny because now it’s a whole different topic related to kissing and closing. It’s not only about what you say. It’s about how you say it. You wouldn’t just say “let’s go f at my hotel” but rather “want to head back to my place?”. The key difference is you both know what it means but it’s more subtle. Chances are; you won’t be closing shit if you haven’t already been making out with her. Here’s a story time for you: I started at a bar, got to talking with her. Made her interested. T…
/r/seduction11/03/24 06:16 AM
1

Why would you feel like you’re a creep bro? All you’re doing is speaking to the opposite sex in a social setting. One goal of mine is to start day gaming but I’ve never done it before. I know the difference is it being in the day but I’m curious if the reception would be the same only because it’s not a “social setting” usually. I’ll work towards it
/r/seduction11/03/24 06:08 AM
2

Gotcha. A few months ago, I had a month challenge where I went out every single night to bars and clubs. Most success came from bars but honestly clubs were really good too. I’m not sure how we’re measuring success but I’ve never closed from a club but I made out with girls every time I went to the club. As for bars, I’ve pulled home multiple occasions.
/r/seduction11/03/24 05:10 AM
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The fact of the matter is that there are many variables for every person in terms of what matters to them. Voice, Delivery, Posture, Confidence to approach a group, Humour, Looks, etc. You want to maximize all of those traits out so she just has to decide what she likes the most about you. I didn’t actually fire each of those questions back to back. There is filler between each one. The conversation wasn’t recorded so I can’t remember every little thing I said but I know I made them laugh a lot …
/r/seduction11/03/24 05:07 AM
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I’m proud of you for even approaching. You’re ahead of most people just from that alone. Not everyone will be interested in you. Even if most interactions I open are positive, some are not. It’s normal. Keep doing it
/r/seduction11/03/24 05:02 AM
1

Recently my only intention going out is to be a wingman for my friend. So far we go out every weekend and it’s been successful. So yes HE has set up dates and I actually just checked in with him today. I already have 2 girls I talk to so right now I’m fine so even if I exchange contact, it’s just for show. There is a girl I reached out to because during our initial chat, she was into a sport that I do too so we set up a meeting for this week.
/r/seduction11/03/24 03:44 AM
2

I wrote an additional comment with the information. I’m not sure if I need to update the post again but just read my other comment. Is the main problem approaching girls or socializing with girls? I figured it was making the approach. Socializing is a whole different topic.
/r/seduction11/03/24 02:11 AM
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Well the focus on the post was actually just taking the chance with the approach and not the details of the approach. I can elaborate if you want to hear more lol. So pretty decently sized bar. Very packed on weekends. During the night, we’ve approached plenty of girls leading up to this but now Ive done a round in the bar looking for a potential target. Found this group of 3 ladies. As I mentioned, I scouted out the set beforehand and then I walked up to the three of them with no drink in my ha…
/r/seduction11/03/24 02:09 AM
2

Son, you are wrong
/r/seduction06/03/24 12:27 AM
1

The problem is you build no rapport with these approaches.
/r/seduction06/03/24 12:23 AM
12

These neckbeard white knights don’t understand that 😂 just because someone looks innocent doesn’t mean shit. Of all the girls I’ve been with, the freakiest mfs were the ones who you woulda never thought would be so wild
/r/seduction05/03/24 12:14 AM
1

I did not and I was not trying to but I know I can because I’ve done it before. My friend has a meetup with the girl he got so he’s 100% going to lay.
/r/seduction04/03/24 03:03 PM
1

Honestly I wasn’t sure if I was suppose to identify myself as a wingman but too late now. I think girls can guess it anyways when they see me only hyping up my friend lol. I definitely don’t feel that good looking.
/r/seduction04/03/24 03:03 PM
1

Just approach and start convo
/r/seduction02/03/24 01:36 AM
0

I don’t approach on the street so I’m unsure. I stick to environments such as bars and what not to approach. You know, places where that’s typically the purpose.
/r/seduction01/03/24 10:50 PM
2

Conversation is dependent on several factors with one being the environment your in, what she’s doing/you, the vibe, etc.
/r/seduction01/03/24 04:36 PM
2

I’m constantly called a player. I’ve developed this player aura apparently because I’m hearing rumours about it spread. I do deny it but it’s not like the girl believes me, so now I just run with it and it still works out. The girls who call me a player still end up wanting to go further lmao
/r/seduction01/03/24 03:04 PM
1

That's fine, just live as you want. I wanted to hear everyone's reasonings.
/r/seduction22/02/24 02:41 AM
1

Literally yes. I talk to anyone I want and many times they are friendly. You can then tag team because a lot of times they are usually wanting to meet girls too but aren’t brave enough. Or sometimes it’s what they also do. Solo but leave with many new friends and sometimes infield partners if their cool
/r/seduction22/02/24 12:52 AM
0

The beauty of humans is that everyone is different and some people are open to things that some aren’t. You won’t ever know unless you try
/r/seduction22/02/24 12:50 AM
2

😂 it’s just practice man. After many tries, you become better at socializing
/r/seduction22/02/24 12:09 AM
2

I can’t teach you communication skills from the basics. These are things you learn as you get older and socialize
/r/seduction21/02/24 11:50 PM
1

Use your environment to get it going
/r/seduction21/02/24 08:01 PM
2

“Hi, nice to meet you”
/r/seduction21/02/24 08:01 PM
0

Walking up to an individual or multiple and starting a conversation.
/r/seduction21/02/24 07:58 PM
2

That’s just one instance. What about all the other possibilities from women you’ve never approached? If you’re going to approach someone, somewhere you both frequent often; I would not initiate it with the intention of dating unless you have clear indicators that she’s interested in you in that way. I would keep dating approaches to places where it’s more acceptable.
/r/seduction21/02/24 05:03 AM
2

This guy fucks
/r/seduction21/02/24 02:02 AM
2

I’ve had it happen to me many times at the club. The best part is the other guy usually gets ignored / rejected lol. So don’t worry too much about it.
/r/seduction20/02/24 08:31 PM
2

Good luck
/r/seduction18/02/24 10:47 PM
3

Don’t worry dude. I did this a few months ago and she was still attracted to me. We became fwb’s because I told her I wanted to be friends(+). So now many months later we still meetup for fun shit lol. You don’t know it’s over until it’s over
/r/seduction18/02/24 10:47 PM
2

I sympathize with you. People tend to get nervous around the ones they care most about. I hear you completely. I’m actually the same way. I can be care free with girls who are just sort of whatever in my mind but freeze up with the one I really want even though I know she likes me. It’s a good thing for your self because it means you’re actually invested. It’ll probably take some time to get over it. If she shows you reassurance then take that and move forward with it
/r/seduction18/02/24 10:31 PM
2

Online dating it is then lol
/r/seduction18/02/24 10:28 PM
4

Bruh lol. You can meet woman anywhere. Believe it or not but you can even meet them right infront of your house. Go to malls, clubs, group meetups, friends of friends. People can meet literally anywhere. Bars are just an easier way because it’s usually a social place where people go to meet others. I honestly don’t go to bars more than once a month anymore but I’m thinking about doing it more because I seem to always get good reception.
/r/seduction18/02/24 10:05 PM
12

Go to the damn bar
/r/seduction18/02/24 03:10 PM
5

Don’t bro. Trust me, just move on until she comes back
/r/seduction18/02/24 07:09 AM
1

Haha, sick story. I never thought to ask what you asked because I guess the question make me uncomfortable. I'm just not use to it so to play off it quick enough is difficult because in my head im wondering "Did I say something sketchy", "what did I do for them to ask that question?"
/r/seduction16/02/24 04:01 PM
4

ideally if you try sexting and get her going; you’re bound to get something
/r/seduction16/02/24 04:16 AM
9

When you say not much results, what do you mean? I started at the start of 2023. I wasn’t doing well until like 6 months later lol.
/r/seduction15/02/24 10:03 PM
2

I traveled to different countries alone for the first time time and I knew nobody! I simply went to bars, and clubs and connected by approaching anyone. Both guys and girls. Even both sexes approached me. In the end, I made over 200 connections and friends so they now when I visit; I do have ppl who invite me out. Just break out of your shell and go for it. You don’t think I felt awkward initially? Everyone does.
/r/seduction15/02/24 01:32 AM
2

Speak for yourself. I hate the look of female models. I can’t see the attraction. I love regular looking girls though
/r/seduction14/02/24 07:14 PM
1

Shit test is pretty good. Thanks for the suggestion of a response lol. I'll do that if I get the comment again.
/r/seduction14/02/24 06:02 PM
1

I swear I don’t have mannerism issues even if some of you are suggesting it. I’m pretty stoic I feel like. I’m familiar with the possible behaviours that would be categorized as mannerism probabilities.
/r/seduction14/02/24 10:05 AM
2

Haha very interesting to read about your experience and features. It reminds me back in college when I was last also this weight, I had a gay guy in my class who became one of my friends and this dude would always hit me on lol. Like I always played it off but there is definitely a correlation to what you’re saying.
/r/seduction14/02/24 10:02 AM
1

I’m apart of a language group and that has led to dates n many other things lol. I also still study the language though
/r/seduction13/02/24 06:49 PM
2

Interesting. Not sure if my post came across like I wasn’t engaging and taking risks. Other than the annoying comments, it’s going well.
/r/seduction13/02/24 06:21 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/seduction13/02/24 06:20 PM
1

No but I grew them just a little
/r/seduction13/02/24 06:20 PM
1

Thanks man. Glad to hear that. I see the changes every 10 pounds I lost and I originally started at 210 to 155. Such a long and difficult time but I’m glad I stuck through it
/r/seduction13/02/24 06:19 PM
1

I doubt it’s because I look feminine. I have strong protruded eyebrows. They are also sort of shaped in a way where it makes me look more mean. I have a strong jawline presence as well.
/r/seduction13/02/24 06:18 PM
1

Dude I don’t.
/r/seduction13/02/24 06:17 PM
1

I’m having success. Just the gay comments have come up suddenly. Also, it bothers me a little just because it’s annoying to hear it when I know I’m only interested in girls. But I just try to laugh it off
/r/seduction13/02/24 06:16 PM
1

Naw. I went from wearing large shirts to medium. My arms in the short sleeve can breath.
/r/seduction13/02/24 03:55 AM
25

I'm glad to hear it's an actual thing. It's completely funny to me that I never got those comments before when I was overweight.
/r/seduction11/02/24 11:42 PM
3

Lol god. This happens so often that I feel awkward now.
/r/seduction23/05/23 11:46 AM
2

Thanks for sharing yours as well! Seemed like it worked out. The one thing I avoid is speaking about everything before meeting. That happened to me before after texting a girl for a whole month but still worked out as we dated for 2 years.
/r/seduction13/05/23 05:18 PM
1

Is it? Haha
/r/seduction13/05/23 08:28 AM
6

Thanks for sharing your story. The way I see it is that you never know what to expect. Expect the unexpected.
/r/seduction12/05/23 09:56 PM
3

Hinge
/r/seduction12/05/23 02:32 PM
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Lol I wasn’t trying to make it sound like a golden question. I fortunately remembered something from her dating profile that she was interested in and I used that to break the ice.
/r/seduction12/05/23 02:31 PM
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I guess I never considered that because I do feel like the guy has more pressure on him to make sure every step of the date goes well.
/r/seduction12/05/23 02:26 PM
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