Man, you seriously cannot make this up.

So for majority of 2025 up until July, I was fit, lean, looking great. I went out and had no lie a 95% success rate. Then I went through a difficult time in my business and put on weight. I also stopped going out for majority of 2025, but then November came around.

When November came around, i decided to hit up one of my boys that I always have success with. He was of course the same visually. So anyways, we go out and do the usual. We find a target and approach.

Man, I would approach 3-4 girls and they would look at me after I introduce myself but they very quickly let me know they’re not interested lol. I honestly could not understand what was happening, I was still the same me.

Anyhow, we chalked up this night to an L. I try again in December, and probably got like 1 number but just not what I expected.

That night I came home and looked into the mirror. I thought I looked fine and not bloated / chubby but I think it’s because I was use to seeing myself.

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In December, I decided I’m not going out again until I’m fit again. I went low key, started counting every calorie again, tracking every meal from December 1st until now.

I finally went back out this month lol and man. It’s a different game again. My words actually have meaning now that they give me time of the day.

Last last Saturday, went out; success. Easy.

Went out this past Saturday with my boy, he opened a girl in front of me suddenly; very cute girl. He tried the dancing approach and she dance for like 5 seconds but then it was clear she wasn’t like super into it.

So I then tried to wing man and support. I started talking to her since she turned her back on him. The focus of conversation was him but she said she had a “boyfriend” and she was there alone at the club.

Well, I mean idk if she’s telling the truth or not but I started talking more and little bit of flirting and then she gave me her insta and started liking my pictures lol.

Anyways, we drank together and we’re gonna meet up again in 2 days.

That same night, I opened up 2 girls who were instantly interested, me and my boy were locked in with them, typical social exchange as well. I ended up making out with one but that was it.

Even one of my side chicks who still fucked with me while I put on weight told me just last week that I’m looking slimmer and nicer. That was the best compliment. That girl has tried to lock me down so many times and even after I’ve rejected her several times; she can’t seem to let me go lol.

All I’m saying is, guys become the best version of you visually as it’ll get you in the door but you still need to learn seduction. Learn to flirt, escalate, etc. looks won’t do all the work.