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Outer Game Best-Yesterday1216/r/seduction07/03/26 07:32 PM
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Outer Game Best-Yesterday1216/r/seduction19/04/26 08:51 PM
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Why are people downvoting us?
/r/seduction19/07/26 07:42 PM
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Yeah the ugly friends always cock block
/r/seduction19/07/26 03:49 AM
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I need advice on that. How do i overcome that
/r/seduction17/07/26 01:03 AM
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How though? I seen some women who lost weight that look amazing but wouldn’t they want me to be fit too
/r/seduction17/07/26 12:12 AM
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I realize my issue is im just a shy ass dude while remembering that looks are subjective but losing weight will increase my dating pool
/r/seduction15/07/26 06:12 AM
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How can i improve my game? And define good game to me
/r/seduction15/07/26 12:26 AM
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Im not gonna stop talking to women or try to date but im way too self conscious about my facial structure and body plus im attracted to them gym rat women. So i wanna meet that standard
/r/seduction14/07/26 03:58 PM
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I am 5’7 240 with 30%+ body fat. You can i am fat by my face. I have a chubby face manboobs and huge gut. It’s my biggest weakness because i eat like shit and i goon too much
/r/seduction14/07/26 01:50 PM
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Im 5’7 240 with 30+ body fat percentage but big muscles and alot of muscle hiding. I have a chubby face very round with a high gut and manboobs
/r/seduction14/07/26 01:48 PM
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Yea it did. Im more a direct person because i dont like to beat around the bush. I remember getting a number while being nervous and just asking the older black woman(38) Just for the number as a opener and she liked my authenticity and thought it was cute and told me straight up what she was looking for. She admitted to not liking cocky or arrogant men and didn’t mine me being 7 years younger.she honestly looked my age and we could vibed but i got impatient and ruined it because she had a 9 wee…
/r/seduction13/07/26 01:25 PM
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I also gotta be quick with it because i mostly be in a rush and don’t like small talk. Imma get straight to point . Letting the woman know what my intentions are from the jump.
/r/seduction13/07/26 11:42 AM
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Fair enough thanks for the help. Im at stage 0 when i fumble because i might look fat in my outfit and or not my best. Also still trying break through anxiety of doing it around alot of people
/r/seduction13/07/26 11:39 AM
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Just approaching and knowing what to say
/r/seduction02/07/26 12:39 PM
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So be bold
/r/seduction30/06/26 12:17 PM
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Im curious to know why you went down this path and what caused it?
/r/seduction29/06/26 03:09 AM
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Damn what happened man?
/r/seduction29/06/26 03:08 AM
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Dude i feel your pain. Idk what you look like or anything But i understand that you feel ignored or not knowing what to talk about. You gotta do more things in your life, so you have stories and stuff to talk about Ignore them dickheads and cut them off if they’re your friends. You need to build up your confidence and assertiveness because people see you as a joke and or a doormat. You gotta let mofos know, im the one It may make you mad but don’t let your pride get in the way and just walk away…
/r/seduction28/06/26 08:24 PM
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Stop hanging out with dude. I use to hang out with people that done that dumb ads bullshit and it was corny and lame. It got so annoying that it was constant arguments and arguments led to fight with me getting hurt because dude was bigger than me
/r/seduction27/06/26 09:44 PM
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Shit at least you get matches on these fking apps
/r/seduction07/06/26 11:00 PM
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I feel you bro. That the main reason when i go out, i gotta have some drinks because i don’t like or tolerate drunk people sober. Idk i just don’t like conversations with drunk people sober
/r/seduction07/06/26 12:02 AM
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Most the friends i had that went out. I cut off because i got tired of being belittled,clowned and disrespected by them. The real friends i got don’t like to go out or do anything fun and we barely hang out. That are kinda boring to be around them
/r/seduction05/06/26 02:53 PM
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Thanks man. I am tired of it. Im tryna figure out when the best time is to go to the gym but i work alot of overtime so i think imma start with a 3day program. Friday-Sunday or go before work. I be tired and get home late when my gym bout to close, but i have two membership because PF is 24hrs
/r/seduction04/06/26 01:19 PM
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Yea idk but i think imma have to boss up and leave my excuses at home and just do it. Worse she can donis say no. Idgaf about the embarrassment or rudeness
/r/seduction01/06/26 12:19 PM
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Wtf are you talking about. You don’t know me .
/r/seduction01/06/26 05:11 AM
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Man coach kyle is okay, but alot of his approaches come as friendly and he does alot of fake laughs while talking. It sometimes come off as boring
/r/seduction31/05/26 08:53 PM
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Your right and a coach that goes for a certain type of woman. I be wanting to see coaches approach black woman but i have yet to see that
/r/seduction31/05/26 08:52 PM
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I think imma go hard on these areas Flirting and social skills Lose weight Find ways to make more money Improve wardrobe and how i carry myself Because i am fumbling and getting flaked and seen as a option and not a first choice
/r/seduction31/05/26 04:53 PM
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Yeah maybe your right. Maybe i need an abundance mindset and to learn how to talk to them and be more confident
/r/seduction31/05/26 04:12 PM
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Let’s just reword what i mean. i am extra cautious because some woman in their 20s be looking super young. Im in my early 30s. So im just cautious imo
/r/seduction29/05/26 01:17 PM
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Imma make sure i say something next time man. Especially if she looks that good man. I have nothing to lose and more to gain. Even if i don’t get the number i am building my confidence and social skills up. I haven’t wanted to cold approach this badly in a minute because i don’t see woman like that, that sparks my interest that high
/r/seduction29/05/26 01:05 PM
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That not what i be doing dick head. Im not even middle
/r/seduction29/05/26 11:33 AM
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I regret it man. She was about 5’5 or 5’7 Small waist, big thick legs, nice butt. Wearing all black gym fit with booty shorts so her legs was showing. Pretty attractive face, tan skin, long black hair. I was nervous af man, but she was alone on her phone and shit. I wanted to shoot so bad. She looked like a ig model. Build like kim kardashian but a natural body. Actually she basically looked like her ngl
/r/seduction29/05/26 11:11 AM
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Imma remember that next time man
/r/seduction29/05/26 11:01 AM
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Man imma be real i get anxious because of that when im at the mall
/r/seduction29/05/26 01:58 AM
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And you’re right. She is ought to be what im going after. She was like a IG model. That why i was nervous
/r/seduction29/05/26 01:53 AM
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We wasn’t at the gym. Was at target shopping and i seen her by herself
/r/seduction29/05/26 01:51 AM
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When i mean out of my league. I mean she’s more attractive than me by alot! That’s the only thing im saying.
/r/seduction29/05/26 01:51 AM
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Bruh I didn’t have the confidence man because of how i carried myself.
/r/seduction29/05/26 01:50 AM
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Bruh she made me wanna get back in the gym brother. That how good she looked
/r/seduction29/05/26 01:34 AM
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Bro i was desperate for a job because i gor fired
/r/seduction28/05/26 02:46 PM
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Nah im looking for a new job bro
/r/seduction28/05/26 01:27 PM
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My work schedule is monday- Friday 10am-6:30pm with alot of mandatory overtime being 2hrs minimum everyday. My job is physically demanding so i be wanting to go straight home after work. I usually be leaving by 8:30 and getting home by 9:30pm. Alot of time i be sleeping my day away on weekends and i feel i live a boring life now
/r/seduction28/05/26 01:14 PM
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I think imma have to. I have too many anti social tendencies and being a homebody who isolate himself didn’t help me either. Also i was gonna go out but the weather was bad last week so i stayed in
/r/seduction28/05/26 12:51 PM
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Im a 32 yo man. My work schedule is 10am-6:30pm monday-friday but my job gives alot mandatory ot usually being 1-2 hrs. My job is also physically demanding so idk if i should go before or afterwards. Because i leave work at 8:30pm and be in ny city by 9:30. I have a 45min to 1hr commute
/r/seduction28/05/26 12:49 PM
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I would say either move out, lose weight, or work on social skills.
/r/seduction28/05/26 11:23 AM
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Don’t have a decent enough job to have my own apartment
/r/seduction28/05/26 11:21 AM
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I legit witnessed and heard people getting fired for getting caught doing sexual things to each other in the bathroom and a older guy getting fired for harassment 😂
/r/seduction24/05/26 02:23 PM
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Dawg i just read your profile and dawg. You better shoot ya shot. These aren’t co workers bro. This a lil different situation and story than mine
/r/seduction24/05/26 02:22 PM
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You are not lying. Job i work at. The delivery guy said to me people be lying on him and he’s on final warning and i think i know why 😂. Dude is fat and looks like a evil scientist with a huge bald spot on top his head
/r/seduction24/05/26 02:20 PM
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Bro a young woman who had the most fat butt made a joke to me because she was tired and now i wanna talk to her more 😭😭😭
/r/seduction24/05/26 02:12 PM
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Man i be wanting to so bad. But i gotta focus on money but some of them be sexy af tho
/r/seduction24/05/26 02:10 PM
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I feel like a uncle at day care when i go out to party and noticed the venue i chose is filled with college age 21yos lol. Now its attractive women that age but they look and act so immature for the most part bruh. Op is tripping man if he dating someone that young and taking them serious outside of casual EDIT: im 32 and have would rather date within a 5 year age gap. I almost dated a 24 yo tho but she was the type that felt dudes her age act like teenagers and didn’t mind the gap.
/r/seduction19/05/26 10:56 AM
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Bro thats alot dawg. I don’t got the time or energy for that
/r/seduction18/05/26 10:30 PM
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Appreciate your story because im 32 and was going gray at 27 and liked that you mentioned balding because the other stuff you did out shine that which alot of young women don’t like
/r/seduction18/05/26 03:48 PM
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Gotta have some social skills with charisma+ confidence.
/r/seduction18/05/26 01:33 PM
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I agree. Might get attention but if you are not mentally there yet with ya confidence and don’t have a mouth piece you gonna have a hard time.
/r/seduction18/05/26 01:29 PM
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Yeah that why i asked about social skills. Because just cause you have a good physique doesn’t qualify you to be Good automatically. You gotta have game too.
/r/seduction18/05/26 01:27 PM
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Good shit. Close mouth don’t get feed
/r/seduction18/05/26 11:59 AM
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I gave up relying on dating apps. Time waster if you’re not good looking or have your profile set up correctly to present yourself in a high value way I gave up alcohol, it makes me more social but comes with a high life damaging risk if not done responsibly and safe and you’re alone. Plus relying too much on it makes you a alcoholic. I cut myself silently from a toxic circle of people who wasn’t really my friends fr. It even got violent at one point and lead to me being stranded with blood on m…
/r/seduction12/05/26 02:44 AM
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I enjoy it honestly. Surrounded myself with the wrong people and I silently cut them off and i feel alot better even though i feel lonely at times. But they done alot of bs and sabotage my approaches and didn’t care
/r/seduction10/05/26 09:49 PM
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Never thought to ask that. If im just looking for hook up, age doesn’t matter but i don’t i would take anyone from clubs and bars seriously to date them
/r/seduction10/05/26 12:01 PM
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That’s what i did. I didn’t like the vibe and crowd of the first spot. Second spot was better. I didn’t approach because im getting use to going out and not drinking but it was the music and slightly more black women there. It’s not the year that the era played but the artist that were played. I.e. don tolilver not as popular as drake but if his music was played i would enjoy it, but those years i listen to the radio more than anything because i was in school and streaming wasn’t a thing back th…
/r/seduction10/05/26 11:58 AM
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Relying on alcohol just makes you a fucking alcoholic
/r/seduction10/05/26 11:21 AM
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Honestly i mainly drink energy drinks for the caffeine to stay awake and i vibe on the music. I just gotta work on actually approaching without alcohol in these areas where i relied on it
/r/seduction10/05/26 09:32 AM
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Bro i went out last night and it take some getting used to. Dont rely on alcohol. Build real confidence and don’t become a alcoholic. Being an alcoholic could fuck ya life up. I had a good ass time bro. I just gotta put myself out there more and pick the right venue, with my demographic of woman i like, age demographic, and the right music. Places that is dominated by white people. No offense but i have low interest and attraction to white women outside of the gym and or curvy build so i don’t t…
/r/seduction10/05/26 09:31 AM
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Solid advice! I need to get use to going out and having fun with no alcohol! I enjoyed myself. Even though i felt alot other than the crowd i was at. Age isn’t a factor but i do wanna be around mature looking women 25+ and not that nuch older than me
/r/seduction10/05/26 07:46 AM
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Yeah bro i noticed i dont need alcohol to have fun. Just good vibes and break the anxiety barrier. So imma just get use to chatting with strangers. That what i noticed sober. I need to learn how to vibe, flirt or socialize with strangers
/r/seduction10/05/26 07:43 AM
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I honestly like it and strangers vibe with ne randomly because they notice im alone
/r/seduction10/05/26 07:42 AM
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UPDATE: i gotta get use to going out more and socializing. I noticed the venue really matters to ne as in i wanna dance to reggaeton,hip hop, rnb music and or any music with nice rhythm. The demographic matters too because venues i pick. The crowd wasn’t really appealing because on average the people looked alot younger than me. I have a type honestly. I tend to be drawn more to black(lightskin, brown skin sometimes dark but not always.) Spanish women because im black myself and prefer their eth…
/r/seduction10/05/26 07:40 AM
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I love karaoke and love to sing man. Been practicing it alot
/r/seduction10/05/26 01:29 AM
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Not alot, but when im vibing i do get attention rarely tho But im short and lil chubby so it’s rare
/r/seduction01/05/26 01:45 PM
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Fat chicks who think they are 10s
/r/seduction26/04/26 12:15 AM
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Im not that good looking. I get told i look like 50cent alot smfh
/r/seduction25/04/26 12:49 AM
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I find it funny because these same women wont have the guts to approach or flirt with me in person. Idk why they have all that confidence now knowing my profile displays me wanting to get in shape
/r/seduction25/04/26 12:48 AM
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I get way more encouragement from strangers anyway. They see who i be eyeing and tell me to go for it! This group i was in use to clown and put each other down especially me and i got tired of it because its immature and i am always the butt of the joke when im around
/r/seduction23/04/26 02:55 PM
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Say less. The group i was in was treating me poorly and wasn’t good or reliable wingmans. Always wingman for the woman they thought was ducks
/r/seduction23/04/26 02:00 PM
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Man I approach a girl and sometimes they be too young for me. I get so anxious because I approached someone who ended up giving me their number and i forgot to ask their age and i instantly blocked them. Im only cold approaching when i know for sure that woman is a grown as woman and not someone who i think looks 20s and not
/r/seduction21/04/26 01:50 AM
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No it isn’t and don’t think just because someone gets more butt than you that they are cooler or better than you. It’s actually corny af especially if you don’t have a stable life everywhere else. I say a solid main jawn and keeping your options open is better than wasting time sleeping around . You gonna grow outta that for real and realize that its more to life than laying pipe
/r/seduction13/04/26 12:12 AM
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Why tho?
/r/seduction08/04/26 01:43 PM
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Got cha. Easy solution.
/r/seduction06/04/26 08:54 PM
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Wouldn’t attention from her bf be enough. That’s what I don’t get and i guess it’s true that attention is woman’s drugs
/r/seduction06/04/26 08:50 PM
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Say less! If i was her bf i tell her to block me. So i thought that’s what it was
/r/seduction06/04/26 08:49 PM
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I respect you for losing the weight man
/r/seduction06/04/26 08:46 PM
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My fault i misread the last mention about being a virgin and forgot the first time you mention it because i was reading too quickly.Op should about being one but keep it discrete
/r/seduction06/04/26 01:11 AM
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Don’t stress about it man. You are literally doing yourself no good by stressing about being a virgin and never tell no one irl that you’re a virgin idgaf let them find out when you are actually in the bed
/r/seduction06/04/26 01:03 AM
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I said i don’t mind chubby as long as they are attractive to me. Like a lik overweight isnt bad just not a severely big obese woman. Basically women who don’t look that fat with clothes on
/r/seduction01/04/26 08:56 AM
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this is solid advice. I think my wardrobe could use some upgrading. Family be getting on me about my shoes and sneakers looking beat up. Wear alot of old clothes so i could use a change Plus i have some weight to cut and plan to do all those you listed
/r/seduction31/03/26 11:27 AM
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It easier to make friends when i go out alone honestly . People talk to me more and show love. I get alot more love from strangers than this circle i am in. This circle be tryna clown me and low key be annoying me because they do this in front of women and out in public.
/r/seduction31/03/26 11:10 AM
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Bet. I had a better choice and i liked the freedom when i was cold approaching
/r/seduction31/03/26 10:57 AM
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Nah its bs. That could turn him into a trick and addicted to strippers
/r/seduction23/03/26 10:04 PM
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Thats terrible because he might gain bad habits because he’s in a vulnerable state rn. Don’t listen to this bs.
/r/seduction23/03/26 10:04 PM
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Im doing it now man. Im good
/r/seduction16/03/26 02:31 PM
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Yeah my issue is im too transparent when i do land something eventually.
/r/seduction16/03/26 02:29 PM
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Yes when i am out alone. I get so much love from people man. People spark up random conversations with me and when they see me eying a girl hard they motivate me and tell me to go for i more than him. These are strangers man!!!
/r/seduction16/03/26 01:22 PM
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I done it a couple times and it just ended up in an argument every time and ended up in an actual fight in the past when we were drunk(i blame both of us but he didn’t need to take it that far)I feel like i need to move on
/r/seduction16/03/26 01:17 PM
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Funny thing is. He tried to cock block me with this older woman and she completely ignored him and remained loyal to me. That showed me alot that dude is DESPERATE AF AND NEED TO FALL BACK
/r/seduction16/03/26 01:12 PM
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Thats exactly what happen with me and him. We ended up in a fight and i gotten hurt. Scars and a messed up shoulder and I would not feel bad for cutting them off because people in their circle knows about it and use that incident to put me down.
/r/seduction16/03/26 01:10 PM
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Just not be around them when i talk to the women. I honestly do alot better and vibe with women. Danced with one that was so beautiful. Got the number but i think she forgot about me that same night lmao
/r/seduction16/03/26 01:08 PM
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I didn’t get mad in front of them. I just let it rock but was annoyed because i got them talking but since she said Yall. It was 3 girls but he seen that only one was talking and that was the one who was conversing with me after i spoke. I was gonna speak and keep it moving but she kept the conversation going by continuing by asking “where are yall going”.I was gonna speak and give a compliment and keep it moving but dude cock blocked and i told him about that. It was 3 girls my dude and he seen…
/r/seduction16/03/26 01:00 PM
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Thanks for reminding me. I noticed dude is an opportunist and i been done dirty before when we argued about this. Dude doesn’t have no sense of humility or admitting to my bad. Just wanna put me down and argue. Basically dude is annoying me and getting on my nerves basically and i have all reason to cut em off
/r/seduction16/03/26 12:45 PM
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Bet. Showing them your comfortable with yourself. I didn’t even try to talk the ones he open up with and she was just wrapping her arm around me because she was cold lol and she asked for my number but he gave her his and i told em and i was just being myself,quiet and didn’t even care that much.
/r/seduction16/03/26 12:42 PM
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Nursing ngl lmao I wanna do it for the money but being around woman would be just a plus fr. I know a couple of nurses that encourage me to get in the field because it pays good
/r/seduction16/03/26 12:31 PM
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The girls he open up with was getting real flirty(he was charging his tesla) by wrapping her arm around me when i walked them in the store, i didn’t expect that. He told me which one he wanted (the better looking one who was wrapping her arms around because she was cold) She thought he wanted her friend and asked me for my number when he walked into the bathroom and he came out. Ignore the less better looking woman i didn’t have no interest in and before i could give it to her he ignored my talk…
/r/seduction16/03/26 12:28 PM
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More confident and better mental health is the result I received. Im still trying tho
/r/seduction09/03/26 11:54 AM
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Im. Not a hero yet. Im in my training/redemption arc. But here is things im doing to become better I cut out porn and masturbating too much I deleted my dating apps so i can focus more on irl and or get better at social skills and cold approach Focus more hygiene and health Stop feeling sorry for myself Increase my self esteem and lower my social anxiety when i quit watching porn and beating off for a month(relapsed but positive affects still there) Stop simping and putting women on pedestals Ch…
/r/seduction09/03/26 10:42 AM
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I noticed from both genders on doing that and people watch. It happens just don’t take it personal or be out her age range. Also don’t talk to then while they’re actively working out. It’s a unpopular thing to do but i heard a mixed opinion on doing this
/r/seduction08/03/26 08:21 PM
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Been using them since i was 21. 32 now and i regret it!!!!
/r/seduction08/03/26 03:25 PM
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I mostly go for 7 and up. Not only 10s but some women who are above average in attractiveness to me. I hate dating apps for the fact it gives women more power and men less power if their profile sucks and have a low score on the algorithm. I just feel learning how to communicate better with them outside the apps will help better, increase looks, and just get a better profile. I lose interest quick because i feel im settling when dealing with some women on apps. I get matched with women i would n…
/r/seduction08/03/26 02:37 AM
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Atleast i wont be limited to people behind a screen. I will come back to apps when i learn how to get women irl and have a better profile. Im drained by them honestly. I wanna lose weight before i use apps again
/r/seduction08/03/26 02:30 AM
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If she was interested. It could work because if she interested he would not have to even try to say the right thing.She just wasn’t into him and thats okay. Move on and keep trying
/r/seduction07/03/26 10:17 PM
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Yeah i had to put in the reps when i was approaching and learned the hard way by being shy. Felled into depression for having bad addictions and now i have self control and not addicted to those anymore. So depression is being lowered and i have better self esteem. So im in a good head space mentally for this but i still need work on myself
/r/seduction07/03/26 10:15 PM
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Man tbh its not even just attraction. I lose interest over time because i only know them through their profile. Im tired of relying on these women. Im only 32 and wasted alot of time on these apps just to be ghosted , match with women i have low interest in and disrespect my time
/r/seduction07/03/26 09:31 PM
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Barely lmao. Most were average women i have no interest in and did not wanna travel far for. I got ghosted and disrespected alot by these women too. Rarely got ones i found attractive (10/10) It’s draining. I rather approach in person and get rejected because these women seem to waste time imo. My time is worth more than that
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:27 PM
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Just what i did honestly. Met a chick at a grocery store and she gave me the number effortlessly. City is small and my friend end up knowing her and she went to my gym but i never seen her there(probably switched gym) I just walked up, said what up and asked for the number lmao. She thought it was cute that i was nervous and or shy(i asked her) because she doesn’t like cocky guys. She showed interest heavy but she was a single mother with a new born that was 9 weeks old. So her time was taken up…
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:25 PM
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Yeah im not feeling it anymore. Im attracted to women i see in person more. I am picky yeah but i am more in control when it done person. Had better options in person tbh and women were more upfront
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:12 PM
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I been there done that. Converse with a beautiful gym chick who was a single mother. Banging body but nothing went anywhere tbh
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:10 PM
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Im just not into the women im matching with man. Honestly i see way more attractive women out of these apps.
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:10 PM
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Yeah, point blank period. I went to the gym. Seen the most beautiful women ever and I realize why even use dating apps when im not even attracted to these people because I don’t get a genuine connection from them at all I have women 10 years older than me try to match with me. Im not attracted to women that much older than me at all!
/r/seduction07/03/26 07:54 PM
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Yeah i am just tired of it. Same boring conversations too. It’s getting repetitive. I just prefer to see who i wanna talk to in person because i know most these women won’t even approach me in person anyway. Plus i notice some women who are more attractive than these women on dating apps checking me out too. I am just growing out of these apps and relying too much on it. I wasted too much time on it when women i find in person more attractive. It’s just getting old and i am tired of letting apps…
/r/seduction07/03/26 07:50 PM
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No take the rejection to the chin and move on. If a woman is being rude like that. Fuck her bro. Keep it pushing and keep going. Waiting for signals will have you waiting forever. Trust me.
/r/seduction07/03/26 07:43 PM
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Yeah and i am more attracted to woman i see at the gym in person anyway. Most women i match with just isnt my type and im settling and i dont wanna settle and waste someone’s time. Plus these women ghost alot, and have egos alot because of how the app is and works on their end. I just feel it’s difficult to be interested in any of these women because I don’t feel im being genuine because honestly i am a picky guy when it comes to how the women i talk to look like in person. So imma focus increas…
/r/seduction07/03/26 07:41 PM
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Say less man. I will focus on my charisma and social skills
/r/seduction03/03/26 03:20 PM
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I think that amount of ibs will get me lean or close to it
/r/seduction02/03/26 08:13 PM
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Youre right. I guess imma have to get over my insecurities and embrace em since they can’t be fixed
/r/seduction02/03/26 04:14 PM
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Yes sir. Been cutting out alot of things that stress me out. People always point out my grays so it gets annoying at times. So hopefully i can get my black hair back
/r/seduction02/03/26 03:25 PM
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Stressed been severe for me honestly
/r/seduction02/03/26 03:17 PM
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If i told you i have mental breakdown episodes would that make a difference. It started after i had a mental breakdownat age 27 durimg covid is when i noticed a small amount of them coming in.
/r/seduction02/03/26 03:17 PM
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How true is that for it returning. I thought once you go gray that it can’t be changed
/r/seduction02/03/26 02:44 PM
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Will do. Tryna be lean for the summer event and beach
/r/seduction02/03/26 01:35 PM
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I wanna lose about 60/27kgs. I wanna get a slimmer face. Smaller toned back, toned chest, 6 pack. I want a stronger and aesthetic look
/r/seduction02/03/26 01:08 PM
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I think the weight i have is making me look bad honestly. You can see the weight in my face and people can hear it in my voice. Imma lose like 60ibs of fat
/r/seduction02/03/26 01:05 PM
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Say less. Imma focus on losing weight. So my face look better alongside my body and etc
/r/seduction02/03/26 12:59 PM
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So i can attract women younger women but imma just let it shine tho. So far people saying embrace it
/r/seduction02/03/26 12:57 PM
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So i can mask me looking older than i am and or mask me looking stressed but imma lose weight to help look better too
/r/seduction02/03/26 12:55 PM
1

Im just dyeing my beard only
/r/seduction02/03/26 12:54 PM
1

Im too heavy to run anymore for long periods. Im gonna cut to 180
/r/seduction02/03/26 12:46 PM
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Im going to still talk as i lose the weight. Just im starting over because i relied too much on dating apps
/r/seduction27/02/26 05:43 PM
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Thanks man. Same to you. Im tired of making goals and not completing them because of my habits
/r/seduction27/02/26 03:04 PM
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I also wanna drop weight so my face slim up as well
/r/seduction27/02/26 03:03 PM
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Im not wearing nothing that huge my chest or core no more!!!! Hug my arms maybe
/r/seduction27/02/26 03:02 PM
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No slim fitted or tight clothing but i have high body fat but a muscular build meaning im chubby with decent size arms. People compliment my biceps alot
/r/seduction27/02/26 03:01 PM
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6 months to a year possibly. I have alot of muscle as it is hiding under the fat. My right bicep have a huge fainted vein when pumped
/r/seduction27/02/26 03:00 PM
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I should of worded this better. But i wanna attract fitness and healthy people. Especially with dating. I am way too attracted to gym rat fit women. So i wanna get in shape and look better so i have a better chance with them.
/r/seduction27/02/26 02:58 PM
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Also im working on increasing my baseline and I started by removing porn and masturbation out my life(going on a month of not doing that) and my mental is getting better because i dont have that shame no more weighing on me. Also i stopped drinking as much. I Wanna on ny fitness and health, conversation and learn what works for me.
/r/seduction25/02/26 05:58 PM
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Im gonna rely less on dating apps if I can’t do well in person. I had better and more opportunities in real life. Im going to approach more in person again and rely less on alcohol as well for cold approach at bars and clubs. I wanna build real genuine confidence
/r/seduction25/02/26 05:56 PM
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Honestly if you have no success and rely on it. It can make you insecure but im just like maybe i gotta adapt more and become a better option and have more game
/r/seduction25/02/26 05:54 PM
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I like the way you think man! I could do rhat
/r/seduction25/02/26 05:52 PM
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This I believe is what is happening. Im just the bunch that have gotten the number. Women on the app treat the men they have low interest like garbage because they have so much to choose from. I dated one i met off dating apps. 200+ likes ans every swipe was a match
/r/seduction25/02/26 05:52 PM
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I think i rely too much on dating apps. Thats my main stepping stone for meeting women. I don’t think im the worst looking but I could cut body fat down. Either competition Low interest Or my communication with them because if you see some of the potential dates i wouls have . I surprise myself. I also need to stop chasing
/r/seduction25/02/26 05:20 PM
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I already possibly killed a old addiction i thought was hard. So imma just build some confidence and work on myself and talk to them as i work on myself. Because some women on dating apps i match with. Just was some women I would approach in person but they had more than me and my game was weak.
/r/seduction25/02/26 11:59 AM
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I rely too much on dating apps too so I don’t approach much anymore. Have social anxiety
/r/seduction25/02/26 10:31 AM
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Think im done with dating apps
/r/seduction24/02/26 10:59 PM
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What did you do? I am getting back into this and fell off
/r/seduction24/02/26 08:31 PM
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You’re very much true. I felt alot better going up to a 10/10 in person than relying on who likes my pictures. My pictures aren’t the best honestly. I might take a break and come back once i made improvements in life because i have competition
/r/seduction23/02/26 06:27 PM
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Yeah thats what it seems like. I have competition and they are doing more well than me
/r/seduction23/02/26 06:22 PM
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You’re right. I wasted my time saying too much
/r/seduction23/02/26 04:04 PM
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Im trying to be but it’s difficult
/r/seduction23/02/26 12:45 PM
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Yeah but will take time for sure. Credit is poor atm and i dont have a skill that keeps jobs coming in
/r/seduction23/02/26 12:42 PM
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Guess imma hit the gym and cut some body fat down, but i also don’t have the best job and still live with mom and getting treated poorly their.
/r/seduction23/02/26 12:35 PM
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I didn’t spell check. Kinda rushed this man out of frustration
/r/seduction23/02/26 12:32 PM
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I get the numbers from the ones im attracted to but it leads to just me getting friend zone and seen a certain way once they find out I don’t have the best career or job
/r/seduction23/02/26 12:32 PM
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Same here can’t do co workers no more
/r/seduction23/02/26 12:21 PM
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