Looks advice

Worth_Wait · 2026-03-02T12:56:43+00:00

chasing youth is a losing race bro embrace the "man" look

JackSquirts · 2026-03-02T12:53:07+00:00

Never dye your hair unless you're doing something crazy cause you're a punk/goth/whatever.

zebratito · 2026-03-02T13:23:07+00:00

Focus on your physical shape bro work out and regularly visit your barber, embrace what you cant change

Total_Obligation_371 · 2026-03-02T14:07:17+00:00

The gray hair doesn't matter nearly as much as having a decent hairline, low body fat, some extra muscle, clear skin, and some fashion sense. Starting in their late 20's, girls start to care waaaaay less about gray hair.

You said in a comment on this post that you're going to focus on weight loss. This is the way to go. The universal thing that every girl finds unattractive is extra fat. Hair style/type (bald/short/long etc), race, fashion choices, personality, body type etc have a lot of subjectivity, but ZERO girls would rather have an overweight guy compared to a fit guy.

It's so important that I don't even accept clients that are overweight anymore because their percentages are so low it's not even worth it for them to approach until they lose weight. Get to AT LEAST sub 20% body fat before starting approaching.

Your facial structure pops more, your overall body shape is more appealing, you have more energy, clothes look better on you, all hairstyles look better etc. There's just so many benefits to being lean it's insane.

sabaron8 · 2026-03-02T17:39:26+00:00

Looks don’t matter just groom and look clean

norwegiandoggo · 2026-03-02T14:43:03+00:00

Reduce the stress and gray hair will often return to normal color for people still in their 30s and 40s. Make sure to eat well, sleep well, reduce drug use etc.

You can do color touch ups if you want. It works - but costs money and takes time. Nothing problematic with this. People do it all the time

Matter_Still · 2026-03-02T14:45:53+00:00

Listen to these guys. If you’re 32 and concerned about looking old, you’re going to have a very hard landing when you’re 45 or 50. And 60 or 65? Stay away from open windows in high rises.

I’m serious. Dealing with the inevitability of aging is best done when you’re young and the best way to do that is by enjoying every f’ing minute you’re not in pain or experiencing the diminishment age brings.

Grey hair? You’ve got hair. Happy days.

AttractionIntel · 2026-03-03T15:20:04+00:00

Looks is literally 20% of female attraction. Also, you're not balding so a bit of greying shouldn't be much of a hindrance.

Main needle mover is how you actually communicate with the girls you talk to (non-neediness, charisma, flirtation,

Girls feel attracted (or repelled) based on the way they feel around you. Not necessarily the way you look. And this comes from your behavior/energy. You need to focus on dialing that in.

Davus_P · 2026-03-06T16:07:47+00:00

It's been scientifically proven that men with some (not all) grey hair are perceived as more attractive by most women.

Title	Looks advice
Author	Best-Yesterday1216
Upvotes	6
Comments	36
Date	March 2, 2026 12:49 PM UTC (5 months ago)
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