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So please explain what does it hr mean
/r/seduction29/07/26 05:05 AM
8

Yet plenty of Indian guys with white girlfriends in NA.
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:20 AM
25

You don't need to leave the country to get escorts lmao
/r/seduction29/07/26 03:28 AM
2

So what about women around your age ? It sounds like you're not exactly on the same wavelength socially as the people you're going for..?
/r/seduction29/07/26 12:46 AM
2

Are you asking how to talk n flirt with women...?
/r/seduction27/07/26 11:52 AM
1

He's really trying hard to defend his plan...lmao and making up weird shitty analogies definitely isn't helping his case that he's not doing exactly what you said lol
/r/seduction26/07/26 11:45 PM
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More bartenders in general are whores lmao. Working in night life isn't a bunch of conservative/reserved people lol. Doesn't mean they'll be whoring out for everyone and anyone who talks to them though.
/r/seduction26/07/26 11:44 PM
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Women are human and follow the exact spectrum of men. I’ve tried to stress this on here but always get called out for i Yeah cause Major of people here don't even talk to women and have them on a pedestal and think things like "biological differences" are actually a thing.
/r/seduction26/07/26 10:34 PM
1

Most people in college aren't financially independent sooo
/r/seduction26/07/26 10:13 AM
1

I mean true, but there's nothing to capitalize on when you spend a bunch of time yno trying to find each other... There's nothing to lose but ask her out now
/r/seduction25/07/26 08:42 PM
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I mean yeah especially considering he's talking about "you only met once" So you got an Instagram because you were too pussy to ask them out there , you evidently didn't build any rapport because you're not continuing conversation from meeting. And now trying to figure out how to "cold dm" someone you met. Instead of doin it when you met them. There is no secret sauce, or anything. It's the same as in person but you evidently struggle there already. And you'll already have way lower results thro…
/r/seduction25/07/26 08:40 PM
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As a dude would you go for the indian girl or any other girl in the club. This is literally racist.... Full stop lmao. And is not universal like I just explained.... Plenty of Indian guys and girls dating non indians in NA. which is, an Indian will have a harder time dating in Western world. He said a lot more than that lmao. If you think your race is the issue and you don't live in some hick town. It's not your race.
/r/seduction25/07/26 08:36 PM
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And if it this doesn't work go get medical help and stop trying to put your head into a wall repeatedly trying to break through.
/r/seduction25/07/26 08:34 PM
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I would choose the Indian girl....like my last ex. Lol But sure let's listen to your dweeby racist views on your blank account.
/r/seduction25/07/26 07:36 PM
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What does out of your interest zone mean. You're not interested in her?
/r/seduction24/07/26 09:57 PM
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This is what the sub had come to.... Asking/answering made up made up hypotheticals...
/r/seduction24/07/26 07:04 PM
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This isn't a fkn Israeli sub , the vast majority aren't speaking Hebrew. 0 clue why you keep tryin to post in it.
/r/seduction23/07/26 09:43 PM
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She's either wants to sleep with you already or she doesn't. And if she doesn't, she'll reject you. The biggest lie in recent years is that she will always make her decision about you in the first few seconds. Most of the time, women make their decision about a man a lot later on. What ? You're directly contradicting yourself. Women don't decide that they want to fuck you in a moments notice when you first go up to them. They are deciding in those few moments whether you're worth giving their nu…
/r/seduction23/07/26 09:32 PM
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That's unequivocally false. Plenty of times across humanity, women had some sort of rights.
/r/seduction21/07/26 09:20 PM
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Matriarchal societies existed. That throws your whole belief of woman wanting to be captured and raped out the window.
/r/seduction21/07/26 09:10 PM
4

You haven't given real world examples. All you've shown is a fundamental misunderstanding of science lmao. Your misconstrued beliefs are not "real world examples" lmao
/r/seduction21/07/26 09:09 PM
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Now we're getting into psychology. Not evolution of cavemen times.
/r/seduction21/07/26 09:07 PM
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I think you need to do some more studying of actual science and evolution... why so many women are into rough sex, bdsm, or are in abbusive relationships? No? To answer your question. No.
/r/seduction21/07/26 09:06 PM
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In ancient times men would be limited to their tribe. Not that many to chose from! In "cavemen times" theyd attackk the other human species to capture their women to rape them. Happened both ways too. Not just one sided. Wtf has that have to do with possession? The women were forced. Not swooning over the men that killed their family/friends and captured them to rape.... doesn't mean every single women was captured from somewhere else and brought back to be raped. Very weird concerning logic you…
/r/seduction21/07/26 09:03 PM
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It doesn't make sense on multiple levels and regardless of what he's asking this isn't the sub for it.
/r/seduction19/07/26 08:12 PM
2

"discreet fun connections" means his gf? Idk what world that makes sense.
/r/seduction19/07/26 08:02 PM
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This isn't the place to find someone to cheat on your wife with
/r/seduction19/07/26 12:57 AM
1

Plenty of people love bomb without having NPD/narcissistic traits. Those aren't mutually inclusive.
/r/seduction17/07/26 04:16 AM
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Npd is extremely rare. You're not engaging with a few let a lone many to make such generalized statements. Lmao. This is like guys/girls saying all their exes were crazy.
/r/seduction16/07/26 08:01 PM
2

Girl who makes money luring tourists in to spend money on drinks so they make money..is luring you in and making you spend money on drinks so they make money and you think your special/different?
/r/seduction16/07/26 07:36 PM
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Yeah meth will fix the issue too yet don't see anyone suggesting that. "But just get drunk to talk to girls" is just as stupid.
/r/seduction16/07/26 06:33 PM
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The answer your looking for if you don't want any games is to move on that's it
/r/seduction16/07/26 06:31 PM
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Okay then move on ? Idk what special secret answer you're hoping for lmao.
/r/seduction16/07/26 06:22 PM
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You can neg anyone....it's not exclusive to romantic interests lmao Why would you think that?
/r/seduction16/07/26 03:05 AM
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I always thought negging is to knock the girl off the pedestal "Negging is an emotional manipulation tactic that involves delivering a backhanded compliment or thinly veiled insult to deliberately undermine someone's confidence." Yes but it was about her friend not her...? That's not negging. Unless your target was actually the friend that was being annoying lmao..
/r/seduction16/07/26 01:41 AM
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Sure still isn't negging when you're talking shit about the friend in direct response to her being annoying.
/r/seduction16/07/26 12:14 AM
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Talking shit about her friend being annoying isn't negging lmao
/r/seduction15/07/26 11:59 PM
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I mean not much more to this. You can start off more non chalant if you want "what are you working on today" aks her if she's using x, or how many sets she has left etc. Then do this. In places where it can be "awkward" because you both frequent (like a gym) I think it's better to do it like ripping off a bandaid then prolonging it and being overly sheepish
/r/seduction15/07/26 08:08 PM
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He's 18, frequent USMC subs and is making title only post to whine on this sub.... Yeah I think the crayon munching is probably his biggest issue.
/r/seduction15/07/26 08:03 PM
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Now I really want to know more about the women you've had experiences with this if this is your take.
/r/seduction15/07/26 08:02 PM
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Where TF did immigrant come from. What le fuck
/r/seduction15/07/26 08:01 PM
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Sexual compatibility is what you find out by having sexual interactions including intercourse. Same way you find out if you're socially compatible by being social with them (aka talking to them) You don't have to have sex with anyone you're not comfortable with.
/r/seduction14/07/26 08:00 PM
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Lmao what
/r/seduction14/07/26 07:48 PM
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why are you assuming she wants some committed relationship just because she like being around you? You're jumping the ship from "like to being around me , to wants a committed relationship with me" You're both grown adults not teenagers. You don't have to be overly concerned about the others wants they aren't vocalizing. Unless you're being deceitful in some way don't worry about it.
/r/seduction14/07/26 04:17 AM
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Dw You're good bro 👍
/r/seduction14/07/26 04:05 AM
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Fair enough she's an escort why are you assuming she wants some committed relationship just because she like being around you?
/r/seduction14/07/26 04:04 AM
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Why is your last post about your wife.....lmao
/r/seduction14/07/26 04:02 AM
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How tf are you saying an instant date is the same as a response to message. The first one is valid the latter is fucking irrelevant if she doesn't end up going out with you. You talk about reframing success but your own framing is shitty.
/r/seduction12/07/26 09:57 PM
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Yeah this just seems like OPs projecting what they want/think about onto a situation they witnessed.
/r/seduction12/07/26 03:08 AM
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It's Florida you don't need to be Casanova.
/r/seduction12/07/26 02:40 AM
1

What are you saying to these women 🤦
/r/seduction12/07/26 01:12 AM
0

What are you saying? is a good start. We don't need some scientific study mate.
/r/seduction12/07/26 01:10 AM
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No I think what you're saying is probably the highest issue not the least....lmao. Because unless you sound disabled, or have a terrible voice. (Stuff you'd already know ) It the least likely issue.
/r/seduction12/07/26 01:06 AM
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Looooool.
/r/seduction11/07/26 10:44 PM
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Do you think guys with boats just go up to random girls and ask if they wanna go on a boat? And girls don't want to be on just any boat...(Barring you're not already on the water)
/r/seduction11/07/26 10:31 PM
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Then what advice do you expect? (Other than listen to people in such context lol)
/r/seduction11/07/26 10:24 PM
2

Well evidently be better at listening to people lol. You're story doesn't have much to go off off. Was she showing interest and you just weren't picking it up or..?
/r/seduction11/07/26 10:13 PM
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Lmaaaooo
/r/seduction09/07/26 11:35 PM
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Just because you have chemistry from a date /night out doesn't mean you guys are soul mates like you're acting. Overthinking it won't help you either
/r/seduction09/07/26 04:15 AM
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Lmao what
/r/seduction08/07/26 11:05 PM
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Yeah exactly I call It "Interaction without intention". There's 0 ulterior motive other than simply talking. Doesnt matter if it's not happily received (ie cashier having a bad day doesn't want to chit chat), or it's well received. Because your simply making conversation, saying benign stuff. Just like saying hi to everyone you come across/walk by . Doesn't matter if someone ignores you or gives you a cherry hello back cause you were literally just saying hi. The that turns into interaction with…
/r/seduction08/07/26 11:02 PM
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This isn't a friendship relationship sub
/r/seduction04/07/26 06:23 PM
1

About which part
/r/seduction04/07/26 03:28 AM
1

You're thinking about this way too much lmao.
/r/seduction04/07/26 03:05 AM
2

Instead of just asking her you're now doing weird stuff and asking if it's stalking.
/r/seduction04/07/26 02:58 AM
1

Do you see the flaw in your thinking now?
/r/seduction04/07/26 02:45 AM
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So make friends that do go out ...lmao
/r/seduction03/07/26 10:00 PM
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"normal chit chat" ie how's your day, going? You just need to interact with women in normal/neutral ways first. It's like learning to step before running.
/r/seduction02/07/26 02:00 AM
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Yes just normal interactions with strangers. Like talking to cashier, giving a compliment while checking out.
/r/seduction02/07/26 01:56 AM
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Start talking to woman in everyday non hitting on em situations.
/r/seduction02/07/26 01:53 AM
1

No you're being insecure. Plenty of short guys have tall girlfriends.
/r/seduction30/06/26 05:41 PM
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You start by talking to them lmao
/r/seduction30/06/26 03:23 AM
3

Stop worrying what you are in relation to them and just worry about having good interactions. There's no behavior specific to x # attractiveness. You're just interacting with them differently whether you notice it or not. Ie you don't know how to act if they're not suddenly warm to you.
/r/seduction29/06/26 10:41 PM
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Guess you're not a 7.5 lmao
/r/seduction29/06/26 10:38 PM
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So how are we supposed to help you lmao
/r/seduction29/06/26 08:03 PM
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There's nothing to go about? You asked and got your answer lmao.
/r/seduction27/06/26 07:08 PM
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why do you think you can did anything wrong? Girls can be kike this platonically and not be romantically interested. Just like guys can do with guy friends and not he actually gay. The only way to know is to make a move. Which you did. And now you have your answer. Just be chill about it now.
/r/seduction27/06/26 05:31 PM
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Why are you double replying to yourself....?. You sound like a malding kid mumbling under their breath
/r/seduction26/06/26 08:40 PM
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Why are you so emotional?
/r/seduction26/06/26 08:39 PM
2

I think you just need to learn to internalize things less and just get out there mate
/r/seduction25/06/26 09:24 PM
1

A dating coach can't help a friend you made having a jealous boyfriend....
/r/seduction25/06/26 09:19 PM
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met dumped me as a friend because she has a jealous boyfriend. So what's the issue? Why TF would you need a dating coach for other people's behavior.
/r/seduction25/06/26 09:14 PM
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I'm saying the women are arrogant and entitled Unlike you who is nothing but humble and charismatic.....? Oooh the ironyyy
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:57 PM
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Right so let's go through this.... you've made your profile for the "female gaze"....' they're dumb enough to fall for it" yet it's not working...so evidently the issue is you .
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:46 PM
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Hundred percent, guys have an emotional tizzy over not getting the attention he thinks he deserves. It's rather quite ironic giving the context
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:33 PM
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Yeah I'm sure it has nothing to do with your fragile ego .... No projection here right mate. But thanks for the laugh. *He's now replying talking shit and deleting it lmao Really unhinged behavior
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:32 PM
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Omg you have a 6 pack why aren't girls waiting in line to suck you off?
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:25 PM
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No it's all the women fault you can't get dates. Nothing to do with you always the women.
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:24 PM
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Oh yeah social skills and awareness like Tom brady choosing his job over his wife....and oh look bill Ackerman....the same... ahahahah fuck. Absolutely hilarious bell end behavior. What's next Elon is the smartest man in the world?
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:23 PM
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There's no special universal secret to second date places... especially when you're stuck not being outside at all basically.
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:22 PM
1

..... Did you not talk about anything either of you would like to do?(Together)
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:02 PM
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Bill ackman...and Tom brady.... Are your two examples....holy fuck.... No wonder woman don't want to talk to you. You think being rich and successful is the end be all ... to a happy relationship lmao
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:00 PM
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Okay
/r/seduction25/06/26 10:28 AM
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I can say with enough certainly that your only issue was falling for the love bombing. As I mentioned earlier. Especially based on your other replies. A neurotypical well adjusted woman doesn't act like that. It's very amusing seeing the other bullshit commenters are trying to make up. And it's almost sad that this sub has fallen so far from men who actually interact and get with women that "bitches he crazy" is no longer a default reply/assumption. Even if I don't like the connotation personall…
/r/seduction25/06/26 04:48 AM
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Has nothing to do with finding a partner. So yes you're completely wrong. You're projecting what you would be like/what you wish you could do. If you're an attractive guy you could also easily fuck around/cheat , if you're not you could just get a hooker in probably 1 hr or less if you're in a city or get some not very attractive but horny girl the same. Committed relationships aren't based on not being able to ever get with anyone else.. like you're some loser who can't get anyone else if they …
/r/seduction25/06/26 04:39 AM
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What I said has nothing to do with sex. As it's emotional love bombing. Most things about her I like though: good relationship with both parents that are still together, had actual hobbies, she had many friends, very social and outgoing, she was nice, etc…. yeah I ignored or tolerated red flags but everyone has red flags/flaws. She didn’t seem too out there. I mean that's nice, but again irrelevant because we're talking about the emotional love bombing not all the things she checked off for you …
/r/seduction25/06/26 02:41 AM
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"the flame that burn brightest burn fastest." Coming on that strong is a massive red flag and you ignoring it and getting swept up by love bombing basically was your only mistake.
/r/seduction25/06/26 02:32 AM
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I don’t think it’s possible to get a good long term partner in the modern era. Women can literally get a new guy in an hour on dating apps, so you have to hope she never gets that impulse to cheat once in your entire lifetime together. I Great incel logic lmao.
/r/seduction25/06/26 02:30 AM
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Yeah the issue is evidently what youre doing on the first date ....not the way you ask for a second lol....
/r/seduction25/06/26 12:14 AM
1

And you think asking in a different way is suddenly going to change that?
/r/seduction24/06/26 08:50 PM
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Because they're not the same people with the same game trying to bang the same waitresses? I know people who've banged several and people who've struck out every time, do you think either are relevant to whether I have success?
/r/seduction24/06/26 01:59 AM
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From a 9 day old account too whose just spams this in multiple threads ... I'm sure he'll get lots of attention...lmao
/r/seduction24/06/26 12:03 AM
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Whatever the fuck that means
/r/seduction23/06/26 09:09 PM
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Thanks for proving me right
/r/seduction23/06/26 08:57 PM
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And if thread -case closed- lol. Congratulations to op for approaching. But yeah "omg I talked to a hoottt3girlll" does not mean anything for her side regarding you.
/r/seduction23/06/26 07:51 PM
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These are exactly the people you don't listen to on the sub. "You weren't the girl lol cope" They have nothing to add and have 0 game to actually speak of.
/r/seduction23/06/26 07:49 PM
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Irrelevant their success rate has nothing to do with your situation or girl your talking about.
/r/seduction22/06/26 04:50 AM
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What are you scared of? Lmao It's always awkward to hit on people at their work because they can't tell you to fuck off. If you're not being weird regarding that /being inappropriate... just ask.
/r/seduction22/06/26 04:45 AM
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I mean plenty are definitely single. Don't know why'd you say that. I've met multiple people over the years who had similar relationships. Not necessary all 30yos cause it was across a decade+. But they exist...it's usually daddy's money. If it's not you'd have a much harder time even being with one.
/r/seduction22/06/26 04:41 AM
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Millionaires bro....is not old money exclusivity lol. You can meet them same as regular people.... They just frequent nicer places.
/r/seduction22/06/26 04:39 AM
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Stop whining because the result isn't what you want , and just enjoy the moment you had. You sound like the fox and the sour grapes being like "I wish I never talked to her wahhhh my feelings got hurt boooohoo" This was a fully you and your emotions problem. Stop complaining and be happy you had a nice moment on. A plane with a random. There is nothing given just because you have a positive time/reaction. Especially the "well I could never to do that fo someone" drop that bullshit line of thinki…
/r/seduction22/06/26 04:32 AM
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Right on brother , not much else to say other than you're doing far better than all the defeatists/incels/chuds 💪
/r/seduction21/06/26 03:05 AM
2

I mean it's a fwb not a partner lol. But the latter should definitely be discussed beforehand regardless lnaooo
/r/seduction21/06/26 02:47 AM
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Ask them to or create situations to hang out a lone. If they don't want to , usually a sign. And when a lone you can hit on them in a less awkward way. But I'm talking about actual friends in a social circle, not just aquaintences. If you're trying to hit on every girl you meet in a social setting then you're just being that guy. Lol.
/r/seduction19/06/26 08:56 PM
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Get it boyyy, but we don't need your affirmations. Come back with results
/r/seduction18/06/26 10:10 PM
1

Very weird opinion to have then lmao
/r/seduction18/06/26 10:08 PM
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Your sad lmao
/r/seduction18/06/26 10:04 PM
1

Are you an adult make virgin?
/r/seduction18/06/26 10:04 PM
0

What
/r/seduction18/06/26 04:05 PM
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Idfk
/r/seduction18/06/26 11:44 AM
2

Not the sub your looking for
/r/seduction18/06/26 11:41 AM
2

Yeah or else your up for a recipe of a disaster from you assuming. And you'll only have yourself to blame.
/r/seduction18/06/26 03:45 AM
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How long? What? You become exclusive by communicating and agreeing...not based on a timeline...
/r/seduction18/06/26 03:38 AM
2

Wtf did I just read
/r/seduction18/06/26 02:16 AM
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Oh haha I get your comment now
/r/seduction17/06/26 10:19 PM
1

They think they're studying for an exam lol
/r/seduction17/06/26 10:07 PM
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I don't think over Carin about text game to the point your using a bot to "practice" is really the way to go...
/r/seduction17/06/26 09:44 PM
2

Yeah this guy posts in passport bros alot too.... Nothing sus there.
/r/seduction17/06/26 08:41 PM
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I see no value in having a line just for dating, unless you are planning something nefarious and shady so you can cut ties Yeah literally the only reason for this.... unless your thing* is psycho woken...which is a problem in itself
/r/seduction17/06/26 08:23 PM
1

Yeah this is the dumbest or most weirdest behavior ever ..
/r/seduction17/06/26 08:21 PM
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Brother talking about PUA artists like this is book club. Y'all need to stop worrying about learning and just do.
/r/seduction17/06/26 08:18 PM
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Yes this is why people don't like approaching/hitting on people at places like work and gym. Talk to everyone so you're not just the guy talking to/hitting on girls at the gym. Makes it less weird if they reject you
/r/seduction17/06/26 01:39 AM
1

Again still nothing to do with game. So unless you have some deeper issues then just struggling to talk to more woman...not really useful strategy lmao.
/r/seduction16/06/26 02:08 AM
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Yeah guys refractor period is different. If your making your getting your girl off though it's not going to matter if you're not banging again.
/r/seduction15/06/26 09:38 PM
0

Umm okay?
/r/seduction15/06/26 09:36 PM
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On the spectrum? Or just very naive and dumb?
/r/seduction15/06/26 09:29 PM
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If she thinks you're hot, she's not gonna not wanna bang you because you speak slow or fast This has nothing to do with game. If you're a fast talker. You're hurting your game.
/r/seduction15/06/26 09:28 PM
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Yeah but that's not the context. That's nothing to do with game...that's literally just exposure therapy...lmao
/r/seduction15/06/26 09:02 PM
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So you're a decent enough to talk to for a stripper who wanted a break ? Doesn't really have anything to do with "game"...lmao
/r/seduction15/06/26 09:02 PM
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Sure.... whatever you say mate. Im not a gen z but have plenty of friends /people I know that are. The ones who fast talk are all pretty annoying...and the ones that aren't have no problems picking up woman why the former does. But sure I'll "trust you "
/r/seduction14/06/26 10:35 PM
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You telling yourself to speak slow doesn't make your speech suddenly turn into molasses. It makes you more understandable and people more likely to listen then going blabbermouth lmao I hate listening to slow speakers, personally. And stop using your internal bias as a reason for anything lmao.
/r/seduction14/06/26 07:58 PM
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Well first of all stop over thinking a random online conversation....you could say the exact same thing to another girl and have her end up at your place on all 4s... Ask them out and stop trying to fucking be a "good texter"
/r/seduction12/06/26 09:19 PM
2

At least you're tackling an actual problem
/r/seduction12/06/26 02:02 AM
1

Well with my last girl, I did ask and she was perfectly fine with it but later I got to know from our mutual friend that she was discussing how me complimenting her makes her feel cringed out. If your girl is telling you one thing but telling others something else that isn't a you problem...that's a problem with the girl. Letting the influence of bad relationship impact future, is called trauma. Don't let trauma make you second guess yourself. Just talk to your girl bro. If she wants to lie in y…
/r/seduction11/06/26 08:02 PM
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If she's still sending you pics....she's probably not against whatever you're saying...if she's still sending pics...use that crazy tool of communication and ask her. I know it's a wild concept getting the opinion of the person you're talking about but...you should try it.
/r/seduction11/06/26 07:26 PM
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You don't need a coach. You need to approach everyone. Not just people you're trying to fuck. People who have "game" are capable of talking to anyone. That's the difference between being remembered and being forgotten about. And if you can't talk to randoms with no intention of anything. You'll have 0 chances of talking up girls you're attracted to. Have random conversations with as many people as possible.
/r/seduction11/06/26 07:23 PM
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"having a deep voice" being an example does not sound like you learned the lesson you're trying to explain....
/r/seduction11/06/26 07:21 PM
5

Ditto and unless the dudes are being really weird, making women uncomfortable etc I hardly notice. I remember seeing some young goobers fair hilariously trying to go way out of their league. (Think highschooler hitting on milf). But only thought I really had than the chuckle and you go bro was that he has the same energy for actual potential prospects. Not just "this would be funny to my friends/I have no chance so it doesn't matter". Cause learning those skills early on is the biggest cheat cod…
/r/seduction10/06/26 09:15 PM
3

Ask a guy people ask me what my type is especially women and get all incredulous when I tell them I don't have a type. Oh how can that be yadda yadda. And I explain to them Everytime I had a type my next gf wasn't that. , I only date bunnetes, my next gf was blonde, I only date white girls my next gf was brown. And I tell them I don't believe you couldn't find me a woman from every race , color continent whatever that I wouldn't be attracted to so wtf is a type. It's just a preconceived notion i…
/r/seduction10/06/26 09:04 PM
25

Talk to a therapist lmao
/r/seduction10/06/26 02:04 AM
8

Holy fuck I've never been able to make a good analogy for female attraction being fleeting, especially to a guy who hasn't experienced fleeting attraction themselves...the hornibess thing is spot on.
/r/seduction09/06/26 08:35 PM
1

There's nothing glaring/obvious that we wouldn't just be playing the irrelevant game of anecdotal evidence to 50 guesses of what's going on in someone else's brain. From the story a lone /if I was watching you I'd be like "two thumbs up keep it up" Regardless of end result being non favorable. As that's basically outside your control.
/r/seduction09/06/26 08:32 PM
1

Stop overthinking it. Onto the next. Until you breach the barrier of "after the night out" any signs is really irrelevant for actually going out. If a girl fliryss with you at a party does it necessarily mean she wants to go out with you - no If a girl kisses you at a party does it necessarily means she wants to date you - no Etc etc If those 2 were automatic yes' I would have a bunch of girlfriends and my buddy would be downright fucking Rasputin. IG is also meaningless for "wants to go out wit…
/r/seduction09/06/26 08:05 PM
12

Stop approaching women you're only attracted to. You're goal approaching, to get better at approaching and overcoming that initial barrier I assume Women you're attracted to aren't some different species than ones you're not. Similar range if emotions, intelligence, etc etc. That's like saying I'm trying to practice my math skills but can't even do 1hr a day because I can't find many math problems I like. It's nonsensical. The best communicators I know (and thus pull from it) are good communicat…
/r/seduction09/06/26 07:14 PM
0

Are we teenagers here or grown adults. Based on your text you can't be older than school age. 2 years in grown adult years is different than 2 years in school years. (A lot bigger time gap/difference for the latter) It'll prob be pretty awkward if you fail with her after she rejects you and talks about it with other girl and others. So if you don't want to risk that do it. Girls will 100% flirt with you , with 0 intention of doing more. (Guys do it too but that's irrelevant here). So don't think…
/r/seduction08/06/26 07:31 AM
1

You have to get over your fear of approaching/talking to girls.Your psyching yourself out because of your underlying "intentions". Do this by talking go to girls with 0 intent then talking/chatting. People usually refer to is as "warning up". If someone is looking at you smiling whatever well you're all there for similar reasons , and I don't know from your text if this is super local or like people coming from different places. But simply ask how they're enjoying the event, where they're from e…
/r/seduction07/06/26 11:31 PM
2

Valid af
/r/seduction07/06/26 01:27 AM
1

👍👍
/r/seduction06/06/26 10:03 AM
1

Thanks for sharing your daily life
/r/seduction05/06/26 11:51 PM
1

The sarcastic retort is cute.
/r/seduction05/06/26 11:48 PM
5

Nice but this isn't your personal journal.
/r/seduction05/06/26 09:52 PM
1

Well girls definitely approach.... didn't know I had to be the one to break that news
/r/seduction05/06/26 07:27 PM
3

It is larp advertising
/r/seduction05/06/26 06:39 PM
2

Lmao what? Are you a kid?
/r/seduction05/06/26 06:38 PM
2

Exactly lmao.
/r/seduction05/06/26 06:21 PM
2

Texting isn't "conversation". So I assume you mean texting. Just ask them out. That's what texting is for. If they want to text more before they say yes they'll let you know.
/r/seduction04/06/26 09:32 PM
3

Yes the vast majority of the guys here "that need help" are suffering from the "checklist to success" (what I dubbed it /seems fitting). They try to treat game like they're studying for a test/exam. So if they just read everything, do everything it says, (be well groomed, smile, make jokes etc)they'll definitely be successful and don't have to worry about being rejected. Then they either get totally flat stuck here because they're still too scared too approach or they do go out and realize their…
/r/seduction04/06/26 09:28 PM
1

Yeah it means they're not worth listening too lmao
/r/seduction04/06/26 09:24 PM
2

"unethically" bahahaha holy fuck buddy. Step away from reddit....
/r/seduction04/06/26 09:21 PM
3

Brother this is reddit....lmao No one gives a fuck about some other random guy saying to do volime too that he should be crediting. These aren't literary works for fucks sake.
/r/seduction04/06/26 09:21 PM
4

A good example I love to bring up is to take a look at group-photos / class photos from Navy Seals or other special forces. You will struggle to find a man in those line-ups that is legit ugly. Brother if you're bi for strong men in uniform just say that lmao .... Don't have to make this weirder than you already are.
/r/seduction04/06/26 08:51 PM
7

I can tell you not 1 women I would ask would use the words "disease and malnutrition" when talking about a man's hair. This sounds like someone on the spectrum made up a list of what they think women "actually care about".
/r/seduction04/06/26 08:50 PM
1

Then move on to next. Easy
/r/seduction04/06/26 08:45 PM
2

Getting a girl to go out with you in the first place is not "bringing women to bed"
/r/seduction04/06/26 12:01 AM
1

Says the guy who thinks getting laid is more important than not getting a lifelong STD lmao.
/r/seduction03/06/26 11:54 PM
2

that's like telling a girl your putting on a condom and you refuse andbthey refuse and you're like "well their are consequences to trying to use. A condom with 1NS" No the "consequence" is ensuring you don't get a lifelong STD....lmao I also like OP getting the "ick" from a girl who bangs around when he's trying to do exactly that ..top kek...
/r/seduction03/06/26 10:15 PM
0

He also makes 0 sense he says this is his only "complex in life" but his most recent post is him having to move back in with his "emotional abusive family". Soo either those are straight lies or he definitely has a lot of other stuff going on that he needs to sort out....not worry about a gf...lmao
/r/seduction03/06/26 09:56 PM
6

typical response. i get blamed for everythin This sounds like you want to have a little bitch pity party not fix it....
/r/seduction03/06/26 12:35 AM
3

The dumb leading the blind lmao.
/r/seduction01/06/26 10:46 PM
2

Yeah I know what and how it works I've done it plenty of times. It just has nothing to do with getting with girls but I see you mean it to overcome your issues talking to girls in first place just like liquid courage.
/r/seduction01/06/26 02:19 AM
3

I understand your point...but you don't need to do drugs to get women and haven't explain why you would...are you unable to talk to women while your sober or something?,
/r/seduction01/06/26 01:59 AM
1

Not lot of teens looking for wingman here mate lol
/r/seduction01/06/26 01:55 AM
1

.... And being on drugs suddenly makes that not cold approach...? Wut
/r/seduction01/06/26 01:54 AM
14

The best option for getting women is to do a ton of Molly every week and go to EDM concerts non-stop You don't have to do drugs at concerts lmao...
/r/seduction01/06/26 01:51 AM
0

Everyone trying to make themselves sound like philosophers while all standing around going " no your wrong it's actually" but it's all just different spices for the same soup
/r/seduction01/06/26 01:34 AM
1

As other commenter said, presidents? Or you're running on some decades old study. As tech and the nerdy billionaire kinda put and end to the big powerful CEO
/r/seduction01/06/26 01:20 AM
1

It's a nerdy analogy but it fits. If you're trying to get better at a game do you think it's smarter to look at what the pros are doin and try to copy and that or see what someone doing just above you (ie. A rank above) are doing and try to replicate that?. If you just tried and tried to play like a pro and failed and started whining, people would say WTF did you expect? Yet there's people similar height, build, race whatever you are that are succeeding.
/r/seduction01/06/26 01:18 AM
18

Yeah he was independent and free like OC said...lmao.
/r/seduction01/06/26 12:41 AM
3

Then stop going on expensive dates you can't afford...? Lmao you don't need to go on expensive dates to fuck a girl ... Evidently it hasn't been overtly successful for you hence your post complaining
/r/seduction30/05/26 02:34 PM
4

Why are you taking girls you're not interested in to expensive dinner ? Lmao I see the problem now
/r/seduction30/05/26 02:25 PM
5

What the fuck was the point of this ,
/r/seduction30/05/26 02:06 PM
2

No you didn't...you conflated anyone who is not from America and Canada as "not western" which is unequivocally wrong...as I've told you several times now that you just ignore. Your not right. You can make your own sub if you want for non western advice. Reddit is predominantly a western site*. So this sub will skew towards that. Again if you don't like it the sub doesn't have to change for you , go make your own.
/r/seduction29/05/26 03:34 PM
1

Immigrants and Neurodivergent people exist in North America....and the west isn't just north America...
/r/seduction29/05/26 02:03 PM
0

The west is more than just north America?
/r/seduction29/05/26 01:59 PM
1

I don't think that's true and no you're not going to be able to get people to assume most people are western on a western dominant site...lol
/r/seduction29/05/26 01:58 PM
-1

Fair enough mate.
/r/seduction29/05/26 01:27 PM
-1

Then you shouldn't get "real anxious" that you're possiblly talking to underage girls ...lmao
/r/seduction29/05/26 11:38 AM
-4

Then maybe you shouldn't be middle age looking for barely legal woman at a a mall ....
/r/seduction29/05/26 11:33 AM
2

well I never had a girlfriend and I am approaching 30. So? Women want to feel valued by your emotions like your choosing them out of all the girls out there. No women wants "PLEASE DATE ME I AM DESPERATE I WOULD DATE ANY GIRL WHo LIKES ME" no girl is going to feel special from that. And that's the attitude your giving.
/r/seduction28/05/26 07:37 PM
2

The reason why I "invest too mych time, thought and emotion into this" is because I get no women and I rarely get interactions/connections with women so if a situation like this happens it leaves an imprint on me like I will obsess over it for ever. Yes obsessing over nothing doesn't help your chances lmao ... It actively harms them.
/r/seduction28/05/26 07:18 PM
2

Westeners aren't going to have any advice to help with people who aren't westeners. Even advice from country to country varies dramatically. In the same light indians will post here with no actual useful information only to find out they're Indian trying to deal with some conservative family values , sexual repression etc etc that the vast amount of people here will have no experience with. This post is meaningless because it's not going to change anything. Westerns aren't going to suddenly star…
/r/seduction28/05/26 06:46 PM
2

Forgot to switch off your alt?
/r/seduction26/05/26 10:01 PM
2

These claims aren't very solid when it comes from the app developer. People pay for gym memberships they don't use so paying something doesn't automatically mean they're gonna use it lol.
/r/seduction26/05/26 09:00 PM
6

Well consider changing" I don't talk to girls I barely see girls" kinda have to go out of your routine then mate .. lmao
/r/seduction25/05/26 06:58 PM
2

That could be true too. long term marriage I’m paranoid I’d cheat. I feel like I couod Given I can get opportunities and it feels like it would be impossible to say no to a hot girl asking. Am I alone here? On too of that there the general jaded feeling towards women since they can be super mean and have terrible personalities besides sex (not all of them but seems like a lot do) But there's a lot go unpack here especially at your age id be looking to talk to a therapist about this. You shouldn'…
/r/seduction25/05/26 02:18 AM
2

See the difference from " I just want to bang bitches I don't want a relationship" is that you have done relationships you don't last past honeymoon stage as you said. Which seems like there's some underlying commitment issues holding you back.
/r/seduction25/05/26 01:59 AM
1

How old are you ?
/r/seduction24/05/26 06:06 PM
5

Yeah it was during a time where corporate wouldn't get a call for sexual harassment...even if you were fully harassing them ..lmao
/r/seduction24/05/26 05:22 PM
3

It is very dumb. I don't know what you mean by gross. But either way not smart move
/r/seduction24/05/26 05:20 PM
2

Where do you live
/r/seduction24/05/26 04:01 PM
36

Do you want to risk getting fired every time you hit on a random woman during work? As that would only take 1 phone call. Are you buff/ attractive? No one wants the fat/ugly delivery guy hitting on them... If you're answer is yes to both go ahead.
/r/seduction24/05/26 01:33 PM
1

Also clubbing and running games on women dont work in miami? Is it really that you need a yacht or a section? You can do that anywhere in the world. Going to have a maasive varying success rate. But no it's a very materialistic city. And if you're Korean...and not rich/successful you're not very high on that totem pole at all. Edm clubs is definitely more common now days in most places in NA than hiphop. But it definitely still exists. They all run on alcohol so no different there.
/r/seduction24/05/26 02:10 AM
1

Yeah if you're going to be a solo guy jumping from group to group in search of next women because you got rejected. People especially women are going to notice that. You look more like a creep. Vs if you do what guy did in story. you look like you know a lot of people/well liked and are having a good time One repulses, other attracts.
/r/seduction24/05/26 01:59 AM
2

Are you filthy rich? Can you buy attention with yachts, bottle service...well you don't like clubbing which is like 80% of Miami etc .. So no don't go to Miami. I really don't know what you're looking for there's no country that has a bunch of slav looking white women that are going to just swoon over some Korean guy.. But you would do best anywhere where it's highly multicultural.
/r/seduction24/05/26 01:57 AM
1

"the flame that burn twice as bright burn half as long" There's nothing you can do from a girl becoming obsessed with you to 1 day deciding she doesn't want to be with you, thinks your a pussy whatever. And dumps you because that has nothing to do with rational thinking. You were simply a long for the ride. When were talking about BPd, or other things under neurodivergence. It's not you it's them. There's basically nothing you did. Other than their emotions changing. Nothing you can do (in a sen…
/r/seduction24/05/26 01:44 AM
5

Cool but This isn't your personal journal
/r/seduction22/05/26 04:44 AM
6

There is no answer your looking for there is no set time or anything. When the vibe is right and you're not just randomly blurting out "want to go out with me". Usually it's due to finding something you'd both be interested in doing. Then get their contact info. Voila.
/r/seduction22/05/26 04:01 AM
1

Any type of nightlife is usually "easiest"
/r/seduction21/05/26 06:43 AM
0

I mean wasn't me you replied to...so no?
/r/seduction21/05/26 06:15 AM
2

Nah you definitely are too you're just in denial lmao. You like a lil dick as long as it's presented in a feminine way. It's 2026 that's okay.
/r/seduction21/05/26 06:09 AM
30

Tell her exactly how you feel " I would never date your face but I like your titties" and see what she says.
/r/seduction21/05/26 06:05 AM
27

You sound like you're 13 years old who have never been with a woman. Please don't tell me you're a grown adult man.
/r/seduction21/05/26 05:59 AM
6

I don't think a man asking to bang his gf and her friend at the same time has ever had a positive effect on continuing a healthy relationship.
/r/seduction20/05/26 10:39 AM
1

well first you're hot and then you have the confidence to talk to girls and it snowballs from there. Yeah maybe this worked for you or something. Which probably means you weren't actually awkward just shy/anxious. Actually awkward people don't just suddenlly become confident and able to talkl to girls just because one came up to them. what's the alternative path if you're fat and ugly? just get funny? how? The same way anyone becomes funny, charismatic, etc. Practice. Lmao
/r/seduction19/05/26 07:52 PM
1

What a stupid fucking response
/r/seduction19/05/26 07:50 PM
0

Just losers losing for any excuse not to better themselves
/r/seduction19/05/26 07:04 PM
1

To answer your question regardless ive been approached by women probably single digit times probably? I can't really say cause I don't care to categorize this stuff in my head. What happened? I talked to them, some of them I made out with some of them I didn't?
/r/seduction19/05/26 06:58 PM
0

Brother what the fuck are you talking about. Try n stick to the topic not try to set up some lame gotcha. If you have something to say say it. You're a grown man not a child.
/r/seduction19/05/26 06:57 PM
0

What?
/r/seduction19/05/26 06:55 PM
1

Awkward good looking guys who can't speak to women don't have "positive experiences" and suddenly become confident. It's incel belief that all you need is good looks , and suddenly you'll be confident with women swooning over you. Learn to fucking talk to women , make them laugh and you can be a fucking 5 bagging 9s. If you're a 5 you'll never be a 10 on looks so worrying about that is fucking stupid when you can worry about things actually in your control. Every non attractive guy you see with …
/r/seduction19/05/26 06:52 PM
1

how tf do you think guys got confident? Usually by talking to girls and getting with em. Not smashing their face with a hammer while doing meth to talk to girls because they're so autistic they can't normally...
/r/seduction19/05/26 06:36 PM
2

If you're awkward and pretty it's cute Nah dude that works before these "awkward" guys open their mouth and ruin all chances and thus becoming bitter. You'll get positive experiences anyway, which boosts confidence with time. Stop with this incel logic tom fooler buddy.
/r/seduction19/05/26 06:35 PM
2

Brother... anecdotally evidence...from his girl friends...real people that are girls he talks to and is friends with. Hard concept for a lot of the dweebs here to understand I know.
/r/seduction19/05/26 06:33 PM
1

Not every female traveler is solo. And if you're not getting a private room, socialization (or people trying to talk to you at least) is kinda expected
/r/seduction18/05/26 08:49 PM
1

Exactly, as I said there's nothing wrong with only having the emotional, mental, whatever capacity to deal with 1 potential partner at a time. But you actually have to get to that stage first. And that's not just a "I need to get the girl to like me enough to get there " Most guys forget the " I need to see if I like her enough " There's plenty of girls you will think are pretty/attractive etc who you wouldn't want to spend another day with after hanging out. So you should be talking to every pr…
/r/seduction18/05/26 03:15 AM
8

Seeing/dating one girl at a time is fine but you're not doing that. You're putting all your emotions into 1 girl you barely talked to. It's just not a winning strategy.
/r/seduction17/05/26 09:26 PM
9

A favorite crush should be one of the girls you're actual seeing/dating.
/r/seduction17/05/26 08:39 PM
43

Talk to more girls. You're talking about catching feelings from a girl you talked to 5 mins whose not interested...
/r/seduction17/05/26 08:18 PM
17

10 today is 10 more than someone that did 0. And 10 is not some absurd number to strike out on.
/r/seduction17/05/26 04:14 AM
1

Right .. whatever the fuck that means
/r/seduction15/05/26 01:15 AM
0

Well I hope you learn to talk to women and not be a self professed incel. Odds aren't in the favor with how you're already talking but rooting for you
/r/seduction14/05/26 07:38 PM
2

It is for you
/r/seduction14/05/26 06:37 PM
4

Yeah....you definitely need therapy.... especially with whatever religious issues you got going there too... I wish you the best of luck even though it's evident you won't get the help you desperately need. Hopefully you don't end up hurting yourself or someone else. Yikes
/r/seduction14/05/26 06:33 PM
36

You don't need a wing man mate. You need a therapist.
/r/seduction14/05/26 02:38 AM
1

Yeah if you find a good one that helps you no judgement here. Coming here to ask for validation of your incel beliefs because you heard it from a "dating coach" and "believe it's true" deserves nothing but ridicule. It's threads like these where guys with no bitches come to circle jerk that piss me off. Cause if helps no one but ensures these losers keep getting no girls.
/r/seduction14/05/26 12:17 AM
1

Lmao well when this sub becomes basically an incel echo chamber where I'm pretty sure sad losers give out advice of their sad loser self so others stay sad losers.... Like look at the random/Auto generated name accounts all going "yeah bro if she doesn't instantly fuck you she doesn't want you" And all the guys that get no bitches upvoting it as if it's actual advice.
/r/seduction14/05/26 12:14 AM
1

You're one step above being a complete idiot congratulations. So how many women have you been with to confirm such a (dumb) theory?
/r/seduction14/05/26 12:11 AM
3

Yet theres a reason you had to pay a dating coach lmaoooo
/r/seduction13/05/26 11:18 PM
6

Lmao I love the dumb leading the blind here with just making shit up.
/r/seduction13/05/26 11:17 PM
1

What
/r/seduction13/05/26 12:42 PM
2

"Eating healthy" is not a bad thing, just like you understand "being in shape" isn't a bad thing. Going past that to the extreme is the issue. Being absolutely shredded goes hand in hand with some extreme calorific restrictions/management. Eating healthy isn't that. Unless you look like a fat slob I don't think you need to advertise to people without it coming up in conversation that you eat healthy.
/r/seduction13/05/26 02:25 AM
1

In my country Sweden, in this feminist fucking bullshit hellhole, even saying hi to a woman on the street you dont know is seemed as "weird/creepy". The only interactions I've had with women in Sweden has been with foreign women, who are normal and not brainwashed like swedish women. Well as long as you harbour these toxic incel beliefs, you'll probably have 0% chance. Why would any girl want to touch you if you think they're brainwashed bullshit feminists...and vice versa question to you ?
/r/seduction12/05/26 10:37 PM
2

Knowing their geolocation and where/how they're meeting these girls help. Too many people leave out the most important information and it'll be like I don't get sex and then you have to ask and they'll be like oh I come from a super conservative culture in a super conservative party of the city in super conservative country.
/r/seduction12/05/26 09:43 PM
0

You forget 45-50% of people here are straight incels , 45-50% would fuck any girl that's interested in them regardless of age because they're desperate. And while there's nothing wrong with being interested in younger women , being a 30yo who specifically only goes for younger women , (like Op) is a creep 100% lmao.
/r/seduction12/05/26 09:37 PM
3

Yeah Ocs notion is completely silly and I bet if you asked why he thinks it makes girls want him more or something lmao.
/r/seduction12/05/26 09:34 PM
9

Yes that's exactly what they ment
/r/seduction12/05/26 09:33 PM
0

The fact your trying to "theorize" this stuff while you probably don't even talk to girls tells me everything I need to know
/r/seduction04/05/26 08:57 PM
1

... keep reading the conversation brother...you missed a lot
/r/seduction04/05/26 07:50 PM
1

.... lmao hahahaha no
/r/seduction04/05/26 07:50 PM
1

What the fuck...
/r/seduction04/05/26 01:29 AM
1

Have you tried not doing that? I really don't know what suggestions you're looking for.
/r/seduction04/05/26 01:14 AM
3

This is the human emotion vibe stuff. There is no answer there is no flirting enough. You're still thinking "checklist to succeess." Mindset which is wrong. Think of it in terms of humor you're asking "when do you think I've told enough jokes for people to think I'm funny"? Doesn't make much sense right? Because it depends how the people respond to your jokes. A girl could want to kiss you after 10 seconds or after hours.
/r/seduction04/05/26 01:03 AM
4

Yeah....like you should never work just to get women , that's dumb af. Being healthy and in shape helps every aspect of your life.
/r/seduction04/05/26 12:29 AM
3

After you go for a kiss and don't get rejected lol.
/r/seduction04/05/26 12:14 AM
3

Nah you're good I only ask to help out communication. I have ADHD and anxiety n shit too (could also be on spectrum). I don't have examples cause in similar light to what I said it's like saying tell me a joke so I can be funny. The same joke can get you crickets with one crowd and roaring laughter to another. So let's see what Ai says and we can go from there. "Effective flirting combines confident body language, playful banter, and genuine interest, such as holding eye contact, light teasing, …
/r/seduction04/05/26 12:12 AM
3

Yeah what you're talking about has nothing to do with flirting... You don't flirt with a girl than she's suddenly naked and your inside her...lol You're talking about communicating expectations before actually hooking up which is normal part of communication for anyone and everyone regardless of flirting. That all happens after flirting. You don't just go "hellow girl I would like to have sex with you but only that does this agreement suffice?" Before any flirting has happened.
/r/seduction04/05/26 12:02 AM
-1

No there is no recipe. I have to ask are you on the spectrum? Or just anxious individual? You sound like you're trying to get answers to prepare for a test. There's no checklist to success. If I told you how to ride a bike do you think you'd learn just from me telling you or you'd have to try it out ? That's basically flirting. There's nothing anyone can see here to "teach it " to you. The same way me telling you a joke to say doesn't teach you how to be funny. We can give examples or tell you h…
/r/seduction04/05/26 12:00 AM
4

I genuinely don’t wanna ruin a friendship And you think asking if they want to straight up fuck or something...is more appealing to women than flirting?
/r/seduction03/05/26 11:48 PM
1

... flirting is not a math concept...you cant just explain human emotions and attractions with words without doing it. You don't become better flirter by reading you get better by doing.
/r/seduction03/05/26 11:47 PM
1

That personality is irrelevant and every girl is always going to get with/choose some male model instead of you.
/r/seduction02/05/26 06:29 PM
1

The idea of looks mattering to people isn't some newfound incel idea, thats how humans have been wired since the beginning of time Complete strawman. Never once did I say looks did not matter nor was that the point of the argument... Would you like to try again or?
/r/seduction02/05/26 06:18 PM
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Well now you made it obvious you talk to 0 women... because your experiment does nothing but prove the 9/10 guy is conventionally attractive...yet girls usually talk to guys before banging... So ..How would the guy with Better personality do better in this photo contest...? I know it's hard to accept your insecurities are the only thing holding you back but arguing vehemently for this incel logic isn't it bro
/r/seduction02/05/26 05:52 PM
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Yet short , fat, not 9/10 guys are banging bitches everyday, getting in long term relationships etc... Almost like your made up data is wrong...lmao And every girl doesn't have 9/10 male models hitting her up either. Another incel belief
/r/seduction02/05/26 05:42 PM
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They won't believe anything that isn't furthering their self destructive pity party.
/r/seduction02/05/26 05:36 PM
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You can have a fat guy with better "game", who'll typically always lose out to a hotter guy with the personally of a brick. Nope false. Unequivocally and absolutely. Lmao. The fact that you think this and are asking such a fucking stupidity question just makes it evident you're looking to comfirm your self destructive incel beliefs.
/r/seduction02/05/26 03:56 PM
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Yeah brother nothing I said needed an essay as a reply, you made up a baseless assumption in the beginning and now you're making pathetic attempts to insult me. You're not that guy pal. Nor are you as smart as you think you are. Have a good one buddy *So you wrote an essay because of your anecdotal experience... hilarious
/r/seduction02/05/26 02:33 PM
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Yeah not reading that essay
/r/seduction02/05/26 09:30 AM
2

Low barrier of entry low barrier of exit. Movies are horrible because...you can't talk. And dinner is a lot of pressure to be forced sit across from someone you don't know.
/r/seduction02/05/26 06:41 AM
1

This has to be sarcasm...
/r/seduction02/05/26 06:38 AM
1

His behavior sounds like he isn't. But you could always ask to get drinks or something casual night lifey that leads to hookups type of "date" instead of romantic relationship typ date.
/r/seduction27/04/26 11:30 PM
8

What's your height and ethnicity I've known several short kings of various colors.
/r/seduction27/04/26 05:15 AM
18

Incels making burner accounts to be incels. "Why does no girl like me" Ahahaha fucking eh
/r/seduction27/04/26 05:12 AM
2

You know he's for sure single or?
/r/seduction27/04/26 01:54 AM
2

That's unequivocally false regardless of your own limited anecdotal experience but that's irrelevant to this scenario. Cause you can't make much of a difference in anyones life in this matter as you're just a random person trying to go on a date with them. As it the issue really has nothing to do with you.
/r/seduction27/04/26 01:50 AM
1

Science autist, uses powers on dating research? Cause this is next level...
/r/seduction27/04/26 01:45 AM
2

Then don't worry about it. Don't be the guy over staying his welcome and/or forcing himself where he's not wanted. But other then that you're fine.
/r/seduction25/04/26 06:00 AM
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Really depends if you're being quirky or just be an asshole and using ADHD as an excuse.
/r/seduction25/04/26 05:51 AM
1

So why don't you go out more ..?
/r/seduction24/04/26 10:42 PM
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They don't need a man whatsoever lmao. This is normal behavior. Especially when alcohol is involved. If it's surprising to anyone here idk what to tell you. But definitely shouldn't internalize it
/r/seduction24/04/26 09:57 PM
1

Yeah no... "No worries. I enjoyed meeting you, and hope you find what you are looking for." This isn't polite. If you think this is "just being polite" ,....I got bad news for you and now you evidently act yourself.... No one sees that as polite....it's so passive aggressive underhanded to someone who doesn't want to talk to you for whatever reason. Now if they actually rejected you over text sure...but your trying to over communicate with someone who wants 0 communication in this scenario you'r…
/r/seduction24/04/26 09:56 PM
3

.... right... whatever the fuck that means. But when you act like a petulant child...I'ma just assume you made the whole thing up
/r/seduction23/04/26 09:37 PM
5

You don't go out much do you ?
/r/seduction23/04/26 09:26 PM
1

Yeah no that just like. A weirdo nice guy behavior. "Kill them with kidness" Especially with mutual friends that's a good way to have it shared and people laughing at your silly comment. But people can't accept getting the last word in is a big sign of weekness/reeks of needing validation.
/r/seduction23/04/26 09:26 PM
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No one can read people's minds here other than make assumptions based on their anecdotal evidence. She could've been waiting for you to ask her out and got cold. She maybe was out of a relationship, not with someone, and feeling flirty. Maybe that changed. Maybe she persued someone else None of this matters because the only thing that matters is what you do or don't do
/r/seduction23/04/26 09:13 PM
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No it has nothing to do with that. It's the way you phrased it purposefully to act like it was something completely different than 1 encounter....that you had a ltr with ..lmao. Wrong wrong. Been in this situation all my life and all I get is promoted. Play the game or fail Isn't "I dated one of my bosses 1 time, and it went well" But I guess boosting yourself for validation of random redditors...is something you care about....
/r/seduction23/04/26 09:09 PM
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Yeah a lot of people don't like learning it's them thats the issue. Even though that means they're also the solution. Easier to blame their (shitty choices of) partners. Which goes for both men and women. Albeit it's kinda funny men who react poorly kinda act like dumbfounded , like it's not true. "Ignorance is bliss" type. Where women will get more angry , "how could you". Like they don't want it to be true.
/r/seduction23/04/26 09:04 PM
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So your 1 experience....got it
/r/seduction23/04/26 09:00 PM
9

Uhuh sure....
/r/seduction23/04/26 08:50 PM
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Okay. Cool? What's your point? Do you think your anecdotal evidence contradicts and objective fact ..? Like c'mon now buddy.
/r/seduction23/04/26 08:45 PM
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They'll never listen to that. It's one of the hardest things to get people to understand/accept.. You date a one off shitty person, they're a shitty person. If you constantly date shitty people...you're literally the one choosing shitty people over and over lol.
/r/seduction23/04/26 08:43 PM
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blind leading the dumb here
/r/seduction23/04/26 08:42 PM
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So she can literally be like “when I’m having sex with other guys it really comes from a place of feeling like you don’t love me enough” and it doesn’t matter what sacrifices you make for her, you need to make her feel heard and understood on that point. Brother what the fuck are you talking bout. Are you just talking out your ass because this is unequivocally false regardless of if you had a shitty couples therapist or something... Because no that's not how that works at all. This is incel leve…
/r/seduction23/04/26 08:41 PM
2

Yeah definitely sounds like some high key emotional issues. Which a lot a guys get "trapped" with.
/r/seduction23/04/26 08:40 PM
1

If yoire vibing a conversation. Ask for their number or simply Ask them out. The best way of developing a romantic relationship especially as your age is... making your intentions known. If you don't know if you were vibing. Ask them out and you'll learn.
/r/seduction23/04/26 02:31 AM
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No one's telling him "who to date" were trying to avoid scenarios that would reinforce his self defeating insecurities.
/r/seduction23/04/26 02:29 AM
2

Not at all. 30+ is probably perfect for you.
/r/seduction23/04/26 02:28 AM
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Unless you plan on hitting on woman a lot younger than you ..there should really be no concern of being called a pervert or similar. Are you going to go up to a girl and comment on her tits and say want to fuck? No probably not. And the vast majority of people who are concerned about being perceived as creepy are not creepy just insecure.
/r/seduction22/04/26 04:59 PM
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And plenty do and not for 1% men. It's like the blind leading the dumb here just making up bullshit to fit their shitty self defeating views.
/r/seduction22/04/26 02:14 AM
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Women chase men all the time lmao Go out and make friends with them as it doesn't seem you've ever talked to a girl platonically, asking silly questions like this
/r/seduction21/04/26 09:35 PM
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Lmao ...... Don't use reddit posts as your barometer for anything. Yes there's insecure chuds who can't handle their wife making more. That doesn't mean that's every guy 🤦
/r/seduction21/04/26 07:58 PM
1

Right....
/r/seduction21/04/26 04:42 AM
5

Little different not taking that to heart when philosophers were a thing.
/r/seduction21/04/26 04:30 AM
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Whatever you been smoking I want some. And if you haven't been under any influence, stop thinking so much. You're not a philosopher.
/r/seduction21/04/26 03:44 AM
2

Like really this sub isn't your personal journal...
/r/seduction17/04/26 09:22 PM
1

You know people other than just interested partners flirt right?
/r/seduction16/04/26 11:27 PM
0

Really shouldn't be your main concern there lol
/r/seduction16/04/26 12:34 PM
3

Well clav e-fame was spurred by tens of thousands of dollars in donations by Peter theil. Clav is also opposite of anything "manly man" bullshit right wingers/chuds would spew years ago. (Autistic, can't function in public so does drugs, also likely gay. Built like a twink more than an "alpha" etc) content are astroturfed to scapegoat the entire knowledge base of these fields. I don't know what this means. But seems pretty evident it's meant to keep men disenfranchised and angry/bitter
/r/seduction15/04/26 09:26 PM
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He is a byproduct of the incel/manosphere culture. And his e-fame was spurred by Peter theil. A gay autistic young man , spurred on by Peter theil , who has to take large amounts of drugs to try and cope with going outside and talking to people, was not who I expected to be the new face of the incel/manosphere chuds. But wild times we live in
/r/seduction15/04/26 09:20 PM
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Always the incels who show themselves when this topic came up Like you made an account just to comment that ? No wonder your life is so sad and has nothing to do with your physical appearance
/r/seduction15/04/26 09:13 PM
2

That maybe was a thing of previous generations but there's plenty of young women who feel the same as the old. But both are irrelevant because someone else's opinion in this matter is just that
/r/seduction15/04/26 06:39 PM
7

Lmao what
/r/seduction15/04/26 12:58 AM
2

That's the perfect mentality to have :)
/r/seduction14/04/26 07:51 AM
1

Yes that'd be best
/r/seduction14/04/26 07:45 AM
2

What do you think mentioning is going to accomplish? Do you think she forgot what you said?
/r/seduction14/04/26 07:43 AM
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They're not complicated, you're just tryin to have your cake and eat it too. Man up.
/r/seduction14/04/26 07:42 AM
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You want a friends with benefit relationship...you don't want to date her but you care that she texts other guys... Hmmmmmmmmmm There's nothing to "mess up" you made your intentions clear and she replied idk what else you expect to do lol . There is no opportunity to mess up yet
/r/seduction14/04/26 07:39 AM
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You're kinda conflating a couple things but you're not wrong at all at how much better it is. Making assumptions, regardless of how right or wrong they are intrigues people because you're making these guesses about them and most people want to know why you'd think something that's completely opposite of them. Or want to know how you so easily guessed right While this is better than q n a, and way better at opening conversation. You can't just make assumptions over n over or you're doing the same…
/r/seduction12/04/26 10:24 PM
2

Furthermore, a recent survey by Dating.com indicated something counterintuitive: almost 75 percent of singles prefer the “Dad Bod”, the body that appears a bit soft and just a little overweight? Unless dating.xom showed them a picture id take this with a grain of salt A lot of Women think marvel super heroe build with any extra fat is a "dad bod" But everything else you said is basically true. Every guy(and girl) should be working out in some way in general. Because girls on average like non fat…
/r/seduction12/04/26 10:17 PM
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Exactly. It's like me going to my gym sometimes you got the biggest baddies young to old. Sometimes it looks like an episode of " Wives of x" with all these rich milfs working out. Other times it looks like no females even step foot in the gym and you'll see me and just a few big boys there randomly in the day. If you did a day pass your experience/understanding of demographics could be vastly different depending on time and day.
/r/seduction12/04/26 09:47 PM
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Again this is a geographic based thing lol. Going to yoga in a class/area without hot women... doesn't make hot women randomly appear. Every 8 or 9 I know in person has done yoga or Pilates so yeah they definitely go to that.
/r/seduction12/04/26 09:30 PM
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Lol at all the incels responding to you with stupid bullshit. This is a geographic thing so idk what to tell you I've seen plenty of 8 n 9s when I go out to bars n stuff here. Lol What kind of places are you going to and where? Every place isn't crawling with hotties
/r/seduction12/04/26 09:25 PM
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When in doubt match their energy. A girl who is texting you often doesn't want to wait days for a reply....and vice versa if she's not interested in texting probably not worth it to force unnecessary conversation. . There's absolutely nothing universal regarding texting and girls themselves will give you totally opposite contradicting answers and everything in between...
/r/seduction11/04/26 10:03 PM
1

Statistically you'll never have better odds than a girl voluntarily coming over by herself just to hang with you
/r/seduction11/04/26 09:59 PM
1

Yes this is the issue itself.. You're telling yourself once you get with girls once you have validation from another source then you'll be happy. But that's not where happiness n self confidence comes from. Its more so that this is a giant insecuritu thags feeding on evergthjng about me. This isn't normal and healthy and it's pretty evident you should seek professional help like therapy. The lies you tell yourself about when or how you'll be happy regarding some external source are all lies. Peo…
/r/seduction11/04/26 09:51 PM
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No I'm not in favor of that because that's not easy to do. But you haven't told us anything about when and where your talking to women, what happens/what they say if you flirt with them etc. You've just complained.
/r/seduction11/04/26 09:45 PM
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idk what the hell is wrong with me This right there is the issue.
/r/seduction11/04/26 09:44 PM
2

Self confidence is learning that your worth is not based on the validation of opposite sex. It's evident you significantly lack this because you think confidence is from getting with women.
/r/seduction11/04/26 09:44 PM
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No you didn't you whined about not being able to get women.
/r/seduction11/04/26 09:42 PM
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Empathy is another issue that in my opinion, whether i even have it or not, has nothing to do with this. It’s not where i’m focusing my energy and i seriously doubt if i put my energy into being empathetic, that would chanfe tbe thinfs i’m talking about You really respond to confrontation well
/r/seduction11/04/26 09:42 PM
4

Yeah back then I didn't have to work everyday and could afford going out.
/r/seduction11/04/26 07:50 PM
2

This is literally just bullshit advice to push his $$$ job. It's straight advertising like anything else . Set a problem many people have and make it sound like you know the special stuff to fix it. So people think your worth spending money on to help them.
/r/seduction11/04/26 07:49 PM
2

Well the fact you just seem desperate to have sex isn't going to help your chances....
/r/seduction11/04/26 07:47 PM
2

Hahaha yeah I was like how tf am I the alt. If anything you'd be my alt!!!
/r/seduction11/04/26 07:14 PM
1

.... what? You sound unhinged only you are getting into a tizzy over a normal comment mate. Have a good one brother.
/r/seduction10/04/26 08:07 PM
3

Yeah you definitely don't sound like you're having an emotional reaction over his comment... It's not that srs
/r/seduction10/04/26 07:55 PM
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Across the board
/r/seduction10/04/26 07:34 PM
1

You don't need to defend American shallow women lol
/r/seduction10/04/26 07:33 PM
3

Cool? And neither are men. What's your point lmao
/r/seduction10/04/26 07:32 PM
3

Ahahaha fucking got em there. "Loser who can't get any women tries catfishing, still gets no bitches"
/r/seduction10/04/26 07:31 PM
3

And definitely way older than late 20s going for young 20s that age gap has nothing to do with a "sugar momma ". It's literally pretty normal "age gap" level.
/r/seduction07/04/26 09:54 PM
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She either never done it before and is saying it in an act of surprise/astonishment, or has 100% done it before but didn't want to be perceived differently than the former so acted accordingly. While it's more likely the latter Unless you ask you'll never know so idk why the fuck you're asking us about it.
/r/seduction06/04/26 12:08 AM
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Very vague question that I'm having a hard time even understanding what you mean... You asking a girl on a date or for their number...is a direct stating of your intentions... So unless your just pen pals and never plan to meet them? Sure sounds like. A great strategy. You know what's the best way to avoid ski accidents? *Don't go skiing."
/r/seduction06/04/26 12:01 AM
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That was a whole lot of nothing....
/r/seduction01/04/26 12:01 PM
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Because you don't need to rate women like draft picks... Brother said slim curved fit, not chubby women....so he wants some girl that has a small waist big tits/ass and not chubby. So do 90%+ of other guys and not even 50% of girls meet that criteria. And you and OP definitely aren't in the top 10% of males so.... Maybe focus on working on yourself and not loterry draft picks you have no hope of getting currently?
/r/seduction31/03/26 08:25 PM
1

Literally
/r/seduction30/03/26 05:04 PM
1

Fair enough lmao
/r/seduction30/03/26 12:25 AM
1

Thanks chatgpt bot
/r/seduction30/03/26 12:15 AM
4

Why would you show up an hour before the designated time then...?
/r/seduction29/03/26 02:03 PM
2

This is unequivocally true. I mean the data don't lie about gen z spending regarding alcohol n partying. And I know people significantly younger than me that go out a fraction of the amount my group did when I was their age. And people in my age group of young millennials are just trying to survive. Any type of casual nightlife still takes lots of $$$ now. And most have actual hobbies now instead of just partying.
/r/seduction29/03/26 10:30 AM
1

Take her out?
/r/seduction29/03/26 10:16 AM
2

Like 99% of this is "here is what I learned from my toxic relationship I will now internalize the trauma I got from it and act like it is all woman and become the issue myself this ensuring my next relationship is also toxic"
/r/seduction29/03/26 10:15 AM
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People hate hearing this but it is true. If you get into a toxic relationship, they are the problem. If all your relationships are toxic, you are the problem. And many people don't find this out until they go to therapy, that they're the ones actively looking and choosing toxic partners. Now this usually stems from a whole slew of various emotional issues/trauma etc. But when the problem is you it means the solution also is you.
/r/seduction29/03/26 10:12 AM
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This is the state of this sub now. Toxic self defeatist wrong bullshit like this gets all the incels and incel adjacents fired up, as it confirms their shitty self beliefs. A short man talking about his success from working on himself and becoming charismatic. A lot less upvotes and a lot more comments looking for excuses to try N find fault to confirm their negative beliefs aren't wrong.
/r/seduction29/03/26 10:08 AM
1

So you then definitely shouldn't listen to anything he says as "fact'....lmao
/r/seduction29/03/26 10:06 AM
2

Just the blind leading the dumb and spewing their anecdotal (traumatic) experiences, as unequivocal facts of life. Lmao
/r/seduction29/03/26 10:05 AM
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Dinner dates are definitely not ideal first date material. Idk what he meant by owe them that though....so... yeah. If you're gonna spend money , spend money on experiences. Always went well for me and never felt like I was wasting my time or money , because it was a good time regardless.
/r/seduction29/03/26 10:01 AM
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Ahahaha fucking got him there mate. Buddy definitely played the "self defeatist excuse card". Sad to see people throw away opportunities while making up excuses about how it wasn't them.
/r/seduction29/03/26 09:57 AM
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You can read up some scientific journals or books that examine the differences in how the male and female brains work, there is plenty on the topic. You mean the "studies" by conservative "family value" think takes that all the incels latch to on facts? Is that the science? Even if you just take into account the way mating works, women need to be a lot more selective about it, and therefore having sex with someone is a lot more personal and carries a lot more emotional weight and attachment. Eve…
/r/seduction27/03/26 04:19 AM
2

You're contradicting their self-defeatist attitude, so they're getting angwy they can't lie to themselves. As you basically shown that actually working on yourself, and becoming more charismatic leads to great success.
/r/seduction27/03/26 03:13 AM
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Do you not speak English either because why the blatant chatgpt story....? No the vast majority here can't help you with their experience because they're not middle age men choosing between arranged marriage or banging strangers. If you even have to ask this you're not ready for actual marriage you just want a wife slave who can't leave you because then it helps your relationship insecurity issues.
/r/seduction22/03/26 02:15 AM
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This is how you become unstoppable lol
/r/seduction22/03/26 02:01 AM
1

As I tried to explain there is no actual for sure signals. The same signals could be 2 opposite things. So you'll never know without making a move.
/r/seduction21/03/26 06:12 PM
2

You sound like you're on the spectrum (fine if you are) and being former fat you might not have learned this but there's a difference between flirting/showing interest and actually interested. Especially when it comes to people in your immediately proximity (work, school clubs etc). So people who aren't actually interested might act like they are while people who are interested might act like they aren't. And the biggest issue is that without making a move or similar, you're not going to get any…
/r/seduction21/03/26 06:44 AM
2

You're 18f....with a 4 year old account that only has 11 posts....that hides their history but posts "I'm so young and tiny with big tits gow do I get the sex" Uhuh. OF bot incoming.
/r/seduction20/03/26 09:13 PM
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Most people in both genders what healthy and physically developed bodies. They don't want male physique model level that are ripped with v tapers like you just said.... you're already moving the goal posts. No one here has to believe me , but unlike probably 99.99% of people here I'm actually surrounded by fit people. As I work out at a private gym thats full of national competitors, ifb pros, physique, bodybuilders , powerlifting etc. Full of men who have mens ideal body (id say mens ideal body…
/r/seduction20/03/26 08:32 PM
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Women literally are hardwired to like muscular men with a V taper Unequivocally false. But if it makes you feel better about yourself go ahead.
/r/seduction20/03/26 08:10 PM
2

Well we know by the way you word this question you're nowhere near having sex with a girl you don't have to pay for.
/r/seduction19/03/26 03:27 AM
1

Yeah simple text day of, night before , waste we eliminates all possibility of girls being turned away by no mention of it. You definitely don't need to be doing any conversation beforehand though save that for the date, and it's obvious she's not looking for text/phone attention.
/r/seduction17/03/26 08:29 PM
1

There's a big difference between going to a mall and hanging out at some store or cafe for hours creepily waiting/hoping for girls to come around. Considering youre going to walk around the mall evidently you're not the latter. Which would be no different if you went and walked outside and talked to people you came across. I wouldn't listen to 90% of the stuff people listed as creepy or "desperate" here. It's full of incels, high anxiety people and actual people with such low social skills/self …
/r/seduction17/03/26 07:11 PM
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I mean you showed up hoping some girl would land in your lap...what did you expect.
/r/seduction16/03/26 04:10 PM
1

I feel like most of the slut shaming now is internalized. Girls telling themselves that they can't have sex on the first date cuz that's "bad Lmao what?
/r/seduction15/03/26 10:00 PM
2

Umm what
/r/seduction15/03/26 02:14 AM
1

Well, a dude who would plan the 2nd date in a way that prevented sex would certainly spark curiosity, which is a key element of seduction Women like sex You don't need to trick a woman into wanting sex with you after already crossing physical barrier. The reason she is cold after a hot and heavy make out session, is she doesn't want to have sex with you. Well, a dude who would plan the 2nd date in a way that prevented sex would certainly spark curiosity, Do you even actually interact with women.…
/r/seduction13/03/26 04:12 PM
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There’s a post the other day about heavy makeout as a mistake. That’s what happens. The girl knows what you expect on the next date. You become predictable. You just become another guy who only comes to claim a bounty. That's not how that works. At all lol.
/r/seduction13/03/26 02:42 PM
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The hive mind here love thinking there's some checklist to success to getting into womens pants like it's some dating sim game where you just have to say the right thing. Idek why because it should help your ego knowing when someone puts up and objection like that, it doesn't have anything to do with you.
/r/seduction11/03/26 11:40 PM
1

Yes you can but you'll instantly flame out of a bunch of approaches that you could have done well with by not being so upfront. What? You only have the opportunity to pull one girl a night. The "missed" opportunities are irrelevant. Are you trying to fuck or have long conversations about the world with a bunch of random women. These are random girls at a club. There's no "I'll get em next time" lmao. 99.9% are never seen again. Again anyone can schedule house dates but for most men, the % of gir…
/r/seduction11/03/26 10:39 PM
1

Being clear with your intent is terrible advice. Not because you should lie and state you want a relationship because that is clearly immoral Not true In every sense. You can go up to girls and be like you look good I want to bring you home want to leave And you'll still pull girls home. My friend use to do it every time we went out. Just requires being willing to be turned down multiple multiple times. It's almost like it depends on the girl there...not you. In the same light you should never l…
/r/seduction11/03/26 10:08 PM
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Your real problem is probably that you're naturally good to talk to and come across as relationship material which isn't a bad thing This isn't true and you make it sound like every woman is , just some "maneuver ' away from a ONS. When these woman most likely simply aren't interested in that. And at his age group that has become a lot more common. Any women attracted to you who wants a relationship will start looking at you like "boyfriend material ". There's nothing you can do other than not s…
/r/seduction11/03/26 09:33 PM
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Don't even need abundance of options , just not desperate for attention for women and actually go on dates. You can really tell who barely go outside and cling to any women who talk to them. Especially when they bring up the "checklist of success". I don't know any men who actually date who have never said " yeah had a great time but just not feeling it " which is exactly what OP is experiencing from other side.... completely normal...human emotions. No incel sour grapes logic needed
/r/seduction09/03/26 07:58 PM
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Lmao incel logic go brrrrt. I love how this sub has just became a circle jerk of lonely miserable men. *Awhh boohoo I made the incels upset
/r/seduction09/03/26 09:40 AM
45

The people that need to hear this most probably won't listen
/r/seduction05/03/26 03:08 AM
7

I mean it's basically what the dude said above. Except horses don't just live with you, it takes a lot of time and money , both which they'd rather spend on the horse than you.
/r/seduction03/03/26 05:57 AM
0

Lmao ok "trust me bro" Yeah my anecdotal experience is different than yours so you must be right and I must be wrong. That's how that works
/r/seduction02/03/26 08:16 PM
2

Don't worry about a 6 pack if you're main goal is losing 60 pounds.
/r/seduction02/03/26 08:12 PM
0

Ok, so there must be scientific evidence on this constant of behavior aspect. Since it's so common and constant like you said. So you got that or we going back to "trust me bro I know"?
/r/seduction02/03/26 08:09 PM
2

This sounds like a "trust me bro" or a "my anecdotal evidence says" Trauma affects people differently. And all types of trauma can make someone a bad partner in a multitude of ways.
/r/seduction02/03/26 08:03 PM
25

You'd definitely have had a weird experience.....as I can not relate and most girls I've been with had dogs. Horse girls on the other hand....
/r/seduction02/03/26 08:02 PM
1

Yeah dude nothing you said about personality or being performative has anything to do with the irrelevant shit your concerned about you're describing.
/r/seduction02/03/26 03:47 AM
8

You don't need to live in abundance to not be interested in someone again. These are fleeting encounters not them falling in love lol. Or at least not as hyperbolic as you're saying. Simple things like girl actively wanting to get fucked that night and you being the best option at that time. Or they're in a flirty outgoing mood then compared to another time. Doesn't mean they're going to by dying to get with you forever. And this isn't like it's been a week based on OPs wording it sounds a lot l…
/r/seduction02/03/26 02:45 AM
-3

Ok cool?
/r/seduction01/03/26 07:13 PM
0

Nah I thought you were op is why. And again being a virgin is irrelevant in any case. OP doesn't need a virgin of any age lmao.
/r/seduction27/02/26 12:32 AM
-7

Did you read the rest of my comment... because virgins was the first thing I said followed by many more logical points... So when you come back being like "well idk about virgins" It makes me concerned for you. Because it sounds like now you just want a virgin teenager/young adult....and want us to help you be a sex pest and not a better person.... There's virgins at every age my friend. You wouldn't know at all because you have not been out talking and socializing with the other gender for the …
/r/seduction27/02/26 12:18 AM
2

You don't need to flirt you're not looking for a pen pal, the number is to get a date...so I assume you asked her out to get her number and then it's easy to plan If you didn't it's not much harder strike up conversation about your interaction in person and ask them out.
/r/seduction26/02/26 10:13 PM
36

You're 28 not 38. There's also girls your age who are virgins.. or haven't had a lot of relationships...or don't mind or like/accept your green thumb so to speak. And that will most likely go a lot better for you than you trying to go for the earliest of legal age woman....in any aspect.
/r/seduction26/02/26 10:03 PM
1

Yeah exactly texting only serves to ask them out/get the date. Once that is secured you gain nothing really by texting them more. On the woman's side they might want to talk more before going out with you to make sure you're normal, before seeing you in person. But anything after/above that is merely conversation you can have in person your date . And that way you don't slip into the trap of becoming easy attention for women ,being a Tommy texter, who have no interest in actually seeing you.
/r/seduction14/02/26 06:34 AM
1

I don't try to fuck my roommates. * Especially ones not showing any interest themselves.
/r/seduction14/02/26 05:20 AM
1

Yeah believing incel ideology is a great way to give subtle off putting hints to women. Lmao. Buddies gnna have a terrible time in Miami. Like speedrun back to depression, bad time
/r/seduction14/02/26 05:17 AM
1

Yeah this isn't some secret plan this works on emotionally broken women desperate for attention. If she's secretly pining for you sure. But if not this won't do anything. Same as if a mate you were living with started doing this.
/r/seduction14/02/26 03:31 AM
1

First question is how many times have you already approached women before asking this
/r/seduction03/02/26 01:48 AM
6

This is way past good looking. Unless you look equivalent to whoever is the new "sexiest man alive" for that year. Then maybe Having charisma is the biggest thing. And no one said all these women are 10/10 hotties. And men who "randomly" get girls like this , get girls like this because they're taking chances all the time by talking to random women.
/r/seduction02/02/26 02:36 AM
2

You're the one overly concerned with made up numbers and %s, because you can't handle that people out there are getting hot gfs without money lmao
/r/seduction01/02/26 08:28 AM
3

The "hot girl with broke loser bf" is a stereotype for a reason. And I've seen it plenty. 1/10 is pretty good lmao.
/r/seduction01/02/26 08:25 AM
2

Good sex is this magical button that turns women's emotions for you into MUSH. They will almost always want another date with you after that. So that solves the "I can't get a second or third date" issue to a large extent. Yeah you don't have much experience with women in this regard lmao if you think women aren't fucking around doing ons. This is more checklist to success bs. "If I do the sex just right she'll have no choice to fall in love with me, aha I cracked the code!"
/r/seduction01/02/26 02:03 AM
1

Women date/go for broke men all the time...and yes very hot attractive woman lmao Especially when they have money doing fuck all lmao. Every hot influencer doesn't have a hotter richer boyfriend lol If you want someone richer than you as a man, those types would actually be more successful for you if you're not rich. Type A high performing business women often get stuck wanting an even more successful man. In which most would have little chance. (Even if it bites them in the foot).
/r/seduction01/02/26 01:55 AM
1

Yeah dude no one is talking about being a doormat lmao
/r/seduction31/01/26 03:35 PM
3

Why are you talking to some girl online for a while. Are you looking for pen pals or ?
/r/seduction31/01/26 03:25 PM
3

It's irrelevant because if you're having these thoughts it isn't you nor will be something you can fake lol. And it depends what time of women you want lol.
/r/seduction31/01/26 10:14 AM
1

My own philosophy/working theory is that frequent rejections of even highly skilled guys point less to game deficiencies and more to immutable factors like simply not being her type Yes but the chuds who would rather read a thousand books than talk to one girl will cry you are wrong. Everyone actively posting here is either a chud trying to feel good about their "theory" they'll never put to application... Or is trying to sell you something in which being honest that sometimes it's out the windo…
/r/seduction30/01/26 11:53 PM
2

I mean everything you said is true except you can do everything right and the girl still not be interested. Acting like it's a fault of "their screening" is the same exact trap/fallacy I'm talking about...where guys think they're in control and everything regarding their success completely based off them /what they did/did etc. It's not cause that's not how life works when you have another human being on the other side.
/r/seduction29/01/26 07:19 PM
1

Be prepared for it to be awkward when you first meet and don't over think it if it is. Especially with two shy people who have been long distance the whole time.
/r/seduction29/01/26 05:57 PM
5

Yup hundred percent. Way too many people here get caught up thinking it's just a "checklist to success" when you can do everything right and the girl just isn't that interested. And then internalize n self destruct because of it.
/r/seduction29/01/26 05:25 PM
4

Should a boss? Absolutely not. And usually a violation of most company policies
/r/seduction28/01/26 08:28 AM
2

And this is exactly what I mean. Best of luck buddy.
/r/seduction26/01/26 09:23 PM
2

And no, conversation generally goes very smoothly. I hate the assumption that I'm some antisocial freak who can barely string a sentence together See I never said anything of the sort and you reverted to a "no I do conversation well" defense. When you evidently don't. No one said anything about you not being able to talk, you can talk all day with someone and still give 0 romantic connection/interest. Bwca there's nothing authentic about it Led the interactions consistently. Good quantity of tea…
/r/seduction26/01/26 09:18 PM
6

The way you talk and approach this sounds way too over analytical like you're conducting a science experiment not going on a date. And since most say stuff regarding romantic interest or similar. I say you're not actually making any connection with these women. You're probably going off some steps, check lost or guide in your head instead of actively responding to the situation. Which is why you have gotten these results. You think there's some checklist to success instead of actual communicatio…
/r/seduction26/01/26 08:45 PM
1

Feels weird to say their inducing submission when literally stuff like findom is a kink/fetish, not something the dom caused on their own lol. Same with femdom. Their not "causing" or "inducing" submission. Their fufilling fantasies for men with those kinks/fetishes. I think what you're getting at is the feigned intimacy and connection they can implore through their words/actions/mannerisms.
/r/seduction26/01/26 05:02 AM
2

Well luckily it doesn't cost anything to talk to women. I'm scared, Most people were scared when they were learning how to ride a bike. Vast majority of em know how to ride a bike now though. Being scared is allowed. Just like any other emotion. Still gotta learn.
/r/seduction24/01/26 04:35 AM
4

By going out and talking to them.
/r/seduction24/01/26 04:29 AM
8

Learn to talk to women
/r/seduction24/01/26 03:12 AM
1

You should try going to an actual gym, instead of Watching videos of people at a gym.
/r/seduction20/01/26 01:39 AM
3

Why is being quite creepy but yapping non stop about nonsense is considered normal. The Unknown is scarier than the known. Being quiet isn't necessary baseline creepy, being *overly quiet is. Because it goes against social norms. Yappers can be just as creepy but they'd usually end up talking about something weird or off-putting. So still not the "unknown" like being overly quiet is. This isn't a 0/1 , black n white thing it's a spectrum. Same with people's perception of these things. Actually i…
/r/seduction19/01/26 06:26 AM
3

I don't know how old you are but Ive met and known plenty of girls with similar "values/interests" in terms of dating.
/r/seduction19/01/26 04:00 AM
1

Well given your age , unless you currently live in a very open country sexually, then its going to be a lot harder to actually find that around your age. (If that's what you're looking for). So your best part is probably starting to look for girls older than you and then be open with what you want. There's nothing embarrassing about talking about sexual preferences, other than puritan society nonsense that's stuck in your head. It's not like you're going up to a girl randomly asking them to dom …
/r/seduction10/01/26 01:35 AM
1

You know there's bilingual lawyers n stuff right?
/r/seduction10/01/26 01:00 AM
3

If it was someone local that you had good rapport I don't think should I , is bad per say. When there's distance/difficulty/effort to meet, it could rub them the wrong way. Like a girl wanting to be wanted before putting in effort (traveling to meet you ) "I only miss girls I see more than once" could work and insunates meeting without being too warm/needy or cold.
/r/seduction06/01/26 12:57 AM
1

If you want to have a chance of seeing this girl again...you should probably say yes My second advice is stop trying to learn what the "correct" answer is. There is no optimal answer, you can't just read/learn everything to interacting with people without interacting with people. For every optimal answer there's someone who will react the exact opposite. No one else knows this person than you. Someone asked you a yes or no question here. In this context Did you actually think saying a serious no…
/r/seduction06/01/26 12:38 AM
2

With later stage, I just mean that my game is tight until f-closing (or similar). Afterwards there is not much material I studied since the M3 model ends there. I have 0 clue what any of these words mean mate. It's really not much of a test that a girl is asking a foreign boy they hooked up with if they miss them mate.... What do you think your options are? Do you think she's gonna come visit you if you say no lol. "Talking about visiting" when you first meet them doesn't mean much either just s…
/r/seduction06/01/26 12:29 AM
6

Later stage? Bro it hasn't even been a week and you're a foreigner who is back home? I don't think you understand the words you speak lol. Not everything is a shit test.
/r/seduction06/01/26 12:19 AM
4

Nothing like a little bro job between friends.
/r/seduction03/01/26 02:13 AM
9

Lmao Don't do that, people here will actually believe you
/r/seduction03/01/26 12:44 AM
4

Ask her out.
/r/seduction03/01/26 12:43 AM
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Unequivocally false lmao
/r/seduction01/01/26 08:57 PM
1

Lmao no it isn't kid
/r/seduction01/01/26 08:47 PM
4

Go to therapy.
/r/seduction01/01/26 08:46 PM
2

Go outside and do stuff /join groups surrounding your hobbies and interests.
/r/seduction29/12/25 12:55 AM
1

Hence online therapists exist too...
/r/seduction29/12/25 12:54 AM
3

You don't need to find someone of your "exact racial makeup. " You need someone who specializes in what you're going through....like those that deal with POC issues/minorities. Who are usually non white for obvious reasons. That's it.
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:57 PM
1

Where is here? What countries, state/province etc I highly doubt you live in an area with no access to non white therapists. Online therapy exists too. This is the solution so you're not being weighed down and forced to fail due to these toxic preconceived notions in your head. But you only tried twice and then just gave up... ?
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:51 PM
23

You need a therapist, not day game
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:27 PM
2

Yes next question
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:04 PM
1

You probably are, nothing wrong with that, it's most likely why people are having those reactions, which at least you know now. but we can't help you understand/learn social ques to be less off putting to people, that's what you have to focus on.
/r/seduction28/12/25 10:29 PM
1

Yup just by the way OP texts it's pretty obvious he's on the spectrum, or spectrum adjacent...
/r/seduction28/12/25 09:45 PM
0

What's left of the clubbing scene now mostly caters to junkies and private parties. Damn where do you live that this is what clubbing is now lmao
/r/seduction27/12/25 11:42 PM
1

If you befriend the staff. You can do it without the girls. But what you said isn't wrong lol.
/r/seduction27/12/25 11:41 PM
1

Yeah that's not true at all. You sound very young and dumb. I'm pretty sure the dozens of girls me or my friends have picked up from clubs, did not have boyfriends. "Just want attention" and girls at bars don't? And You think people that go to clubs never go to bars and vice versa? ? That's a hilarious inept belief.
/r/seduction27/12/25 11:39 PM
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I was gnna say I never seen more fake tits and roids boys then when I partied in Miami. And unless you're rich you being a normal person is pretty low end in Miami and Night life is the farthest thing from cheap/affordable.
/r/seduction22/12/25 09:50 PM
1

Why do you have to go out only with him? Like there's no real way around what you're talking about if he naturally pulls more girls in and you're stuck playing wingman.
/r/seduction22/12/25 02:40 AM
14

Your obviously inviting her over because you want to hook up. Or else there's no reason for you to go to your place....so IDK why you're trying to act like it doesn't mean anything. You went on one date...? And talked for a week. That's not really "knowing" someone at all....
/r/seduction18/12/25 05:28 AM
2

You're definitely not having an easier time with latinas in America than outside of America. So the travelling part here is irrelevant.
/r/seduction18/12/25 03:29 AM
1

Was this English?
/r/seduction10/12/25 04:22 PM
1

a man or woman who has endured several "failed" relationships, no longer dates; a man or woman who has tried to give up smoking or lose weight fails repeatedly and says, "Screw it." Let's go back to entrepreneurship There's not 1 successful entrepreneur who became successful because he stopped after failure. So why are you saying the opposite lol.
/r/seduction10/12/25 10:56 AM
3

Maybe you shouldn't take entrepreneur statistics and apply them to human emotions and relationships...lmao
/r/seduction10/12/25 06:01 AM
3

Thanks Plato.
/r/seduction10/12/25 06:00 AM
3

Brother... what? Get out of your own head and stop over thinking everything Jesus Christ. Stop seeking validation throug your partners.
/r/seduction09/12/25 03:53 AM
4

Good job. On your alt buddy lmao.
/r/seduction09/12/25 03:48 AM
3

Brother we know this is your alt account. Brand new blank account just dickriding. There's nothing racist about calling out Indian blog/email spam. Which is what this is.
/r/seduction09/12/25 03:48 AM
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This is bad free advice.
/r/seduction09/12/25 03:25 AM
1

Another blank account dickriding OP. The Indian spam is really in full swing.
/r/seduction09/12/25 03:25 AM
16

Thanks chatgpt , I definitely want to sign up to your bullshit email list. So I can get more chatgpt articles. "Indian guru " tries to target desperate plebs on reddit* I was wondering when the "entrepreneur " email list spam would start hitting here.
/r/seduction09/12/25 03:11 AM
10

It's also pretty basic ass /not interesting line to use that basically any girl of any attractiveness has heard. There was nothing deep or "wearing my heart on my sleeve" about that random comment to her lmao. What don't you understand about what I said here? You look fuckin hot is not "provocative" it's boring AF. It means nothing to most girls.
/r/seduction08/12/25 09:44 PM
9

Considering the only reason you talked to her is because she had provocative clothing and you weren't actually interested in her....yeah dude probably shouldn't do that lol. It's also pretty basic ass /not interesting line to use that basically any girl of any attractiveness has heard. There was nothing deep or "wearing my heart on my sleeve" about that random comment to her lmao.
/r/seduction08/12/25 09:35 PM
1

The only way you find out where you stand is by making your intentions clear. Period. And this week she didn’t bring up the bowling again or suggest another day If she's a conservative Christian, and upset by things like the guy not picking her up. The ball is in your court and your court only. Pussy footing around, expecting her to basically tell you she's interested is not what is going to help you.
/r/seduction08/12/25 12:44 AM
2

What are you scared of buddy? That when you talk to her and ask for her number it'll be obvious that you're hitting on her? Because yeah dude that's the point....
/r/seduction07/12/25 11:07 PM
1

Wouldn't it be obvious that what? The only obvious thing is exactly what you're doing, hitting on her /asking her number?
/r/seduction07/12/25 02:09 PM
4

There is nothing "specific" you can do regarding human behavior, you're not playing a video game. There's plenty of girls who will make out with you who have no interest in going home with you or someone else. Without knowing your actual issue because you didn't say anything you've tried or done, after making out, other than vague remarks of not being able to fully close. It's pretty hard to actually give any advice.
/r/seduction07/12/25 01:27 PM
6

I just feel like I am not being rewarded for the amount of effort I am putting in. You better get used to that, because that's called life.
/r/seduction04/12/25 03:08 AM
1

You'll figure it out eventually.
/r/seduction27/11/25 01:10 PM
2

That's a you problem that you have to solve. Trying to "pull someone's leg" to feel better abouy yourself, because you don't want to address the issue isn't the answer If it bothers you enough that it's a deal breaker for you , you'll have to address that sooner than later directly. If it's not that bad and just throws you off, just remind yourself that most people aren't late because they're selfish /being a dick. So they also probably are a bit frazzled about being late. Don't cut yourself sho…
/r/seduction27/11/25 12:42 PM
1

So the first question is determining if it's biological or psychological. So can you get a boner without a girl , you wake up with one, can get one jacking off etc? If yes then yeah it's a psychological issue not biological. You can see any therapists that specialize in sexual issues. Doesn't have to be a "psychosexoligist" You already mentioned anxiety so that would definitely be playing a part.
/r/seduction27/11/25 12:29 PM
1

And did you only talk and never see this person...? No. Because your relationship was more than just talking on the phone.
/r/seduction27/11/25 12:25 PM
2

Did you have to refer to smashing in order for that to happen? But yeah plenty of people on the spectrum can pull baddies. My spectrum friends are also in long term relationships.
/r/seduction27/11/25 12:24 PM
1

Getting to know you before a relationship...yes obviously. Demanding hours of your sleeping time each night but not seeing you? No that's using your for comfort.
/r/seduction27/11/25 12:21 PM
0

Are you on the spectrum? Because that's the only thing I can imagine with this lack of comprehension you are clearly displaying.
/r/seduction27/11/25 12:20 PM
0

Can you please show me any upvoted comment saying If it's a woman using men for free labor and free money, it's totally okay And no one is saying If it's a dude using women for sex that's automatically bad. Unless you're expecting sex for doing nothing/the minimal. And using someone for sex is bad... unless the feeling is mutual...from any gender.
/r/seduction27/11/25 12:19 PM
2

There is no race other than the one in your head if you're spending time and energy on a go who isn't interested in a romantic relationship with you thinking she'll eventually change her mind. There is no power balance to someone not interested in a romantic relationship with you... just your relationship of friendship lmao
/r/seduction27/11/25 12:17 PM
3

You always have options, just because you have no other current female options doesn't mean you dedicate your life and time to the only girl showing you no interest but platonic friendships hoping you'll eventually woo her throughout acts of kindness. The option is to not engage if you're not looking for platonic friendship and instead invest your time into finding what you're looking for..
/r/seduction27/11/25 12:15 PM
13

Nah it's gotten progressively worse. It's become less and less seduction and more "autistic level " of basic relationship advice for lack of a better word. And that's coming from someone on multiple spectrums.
/r/seduction27/11/25 12:14 PM
1

That's not how relationships work lmao. What decade is this?
/r/seduction27/11/25 12:09 PM
0

Your gut feeling eh.....after having to directly ask her and her avoid the question...
/r/seduction27/11/25 12:09 PM
1

All look it's the angsty kid lashing out on reddit because his parents didn't love him boohoo
/r/seduction27/11/25 12:08 PM
1

You can get pills as other said. I know shes frustrated and maybe feels unwanted or confused But both of this side should be communicated between you two. She should fully know how you feel from your own words before using any videos to help explain. And vice versa.
/r/seduction18/11/25 10:21 PM
1

Nothing you said about trauma is based on actual psychology. Lmao That made actually 0 sense. So might want to stop getting your "psychology".from text over pics on social media ...
/r/seduction18/11/25 07:45 AM
0

It's not a" fact" based in any science.
/r/seduction18/11/25 07:34 AM
14

Your first mistake is hitting up random girls on Snapchat...
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:24 AM
7

Wrong sub
/r/seduction18/11/25 01:55 AM
2

I do, because they’re not just looking to be another notch on my belt. Then you find other girls who are..... Cause yno not every girl is looking for a relationship mate...
/r/seduction18/11/25 12:49 AM
1

Whatever you say mate.
/r/seduction18/11/25 12:22 AM
4

which basically suggests a woman’s attractiveness determines whether she wants something casual. That has nothing to do with what I said at all lmao. All I said is your anecdotal experience... isn't accurate to all women. Don't know what that has to do with attractiveness, other then the ones you find attractive enough to seek out , don't want to have one night stands with you. So if anything if would have something to do with your attractiveness not theres. *Again idk what the purpose of postin…
/r/seduction18/11/25 12:18 AM
0

What?
/r/seduction18/11/25 12:07 AM
12

The only women you have a chance to sleep with is by leading them on.... doesn't mean that's all women. What am I going to change your mind on? That you're wrong and plenty of women just want to fuck like men. Because that's unequivocally true. Just hasn't been true for you obviously.
/r/seduction17/11/25 10:54 PM
12

Yeah no dude , most people here actually go outside and don't need a chat gpt story to tell them how to interact with girls mate...sorry
/r/seduction13/11/25 12:48 PM
3

Yeah it's so weird to care what happened before you. Like you're actively cucking yourself by thinking about other guys shes fucked...and not fuckin her yourself.
/r/seduction11/11/25 04:51 AM
-5

Trauma breaks women and Trauma strengthens men (it can). We're not the same Holy fuck lol. This sounds like those Indian "masculine" memes where they put "inspirational text" over a picture of a lion. So hilariously stupid.
/r/seduction11/11/25 04:49 AM
8

Holy fucking incel...no bro...that's not how that works at all
/r/seduction11/11/25 04:48 AM
4

Yeah dude don't do that. It's seen as inherently creepy by most of the sane world. Ig is one thing but definitely not linked in
/r/seduction10/11/25 03:53 PM
3

So because they share a mutual friend, the girl won't care that he's ugly..? Ummm what in heavens gave you this hilarious assumption?
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:56 PM
5

Yeah out of 8 billion people on the planet some exceptions exist, Why we changing our answer? You said status...why flip now after being questioned?
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:52 PM
8

But he wasn't a tall swedish hunk like you said...nor rich .... So what other status of your incel logic is there?
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:44 PM
3

Appreciate it ma dude now go be better
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:26 PM
2

Yes it's genuinely funny you think that.
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:18 PM
10

I've seen some of the ugliest men I know have girlfriends. And they were anything but rich . It's almost as if....to that girl he was attractive... Shock, gasp
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:08 PM
13

women react to power only, Unequivocally false NEXT
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:06 PM
4

Just another incel in the making thinking he can "overly intellectualize" women and emotions.
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:06 PM
11

so I'm very cautious when interacting with people and don't wanna make them feel bad That's your problem. Your being cautious for other peoples sake. That's not you being genuine and authentic to yourself. If you make someone feel bad it's up to them to tell you and then you can apologize if necessary. You don't need to overly concentrated yourself with other peoples emotions. As evidently you're not some narcissistic blatant asshole
/r/seduction10/11/25 08:16 AM
7

Nice guy syndrome is the difference of being nice to a girl (or guy) for the explicit reason of wanting something in return , vs jus doing it because you want to with no expectations. That's it. That means nice guys go out of the way to do things they wouldn't normally do because they think they're going to get something out of it from that person. It has nothing to do with being genuine or kind at heart. You're oddly thinking in black and white instead of levels. There is no one or the other. N…
/r/seduction10/11/25 08:14 AM
2

I scrolled down to the comments for someone go give me the tldr lol...not reading an essay for this benign scenario. Using AI to shorten this would've been better lmao.
/r/seduction04/11/25 08:45 AM
1

Yeah las Vegas shouldn't be your barometer for anything...
/r/seduction02/11/25 11:48 AM
1

You must live in a small population area because "party bars" here are no different, just usually shittier music blasting and just as crowded. So the cons are no different than a club.
/r/seduction02/11/25 11:31 AM
2

Literally..no different.
/r/seduction02/11/25 11:25 AM
3

You'll get there eventually.
/r/seduction02/11/25 09:36 AM
1

Do your friends get laid? Lol cause only ones I know who'd be like that would be more on the desperate side. (I'm also past the teens and 20s era).
/r/seduction02/11/25 09:09 AM
5

Id say most guys I know (same as women) can say someone is attractive without wanting to fuck them.
/r/seduction02/11/25 08:56 AM
2

As others said, the girl wasnt into the first guy. There should never be a point where you are talking to a girl for months before asking her out. This isn't the revelation you think it is. Is. My point.
/r/seduction01/11/25 09:51 PM
4

I think how often this happens says a lot about what girls really like. If you need to see first hand that being "nice" doesn't= pussy. Then yeah. But basically any guy whose been around the block could've told you this. Most people who act like that refuse advice and have to learn the hard way. It's a human thing not a woman thing. Would you bang a girl just for being nice to you if you weren't actually attracted?
/r/seduction01/11/25 09:13 PM
2

The fact you're asking this , shows being a confident asshole will 99% not work for you. And you should not concern yourself with how people are that you'll never be.
/r/seduction01/11/25 09:11 PM
1

Go away incel lmfao. Go outside
/r/seduction01/11/25 03:45 AM
3

I don't think anyone would think you're weird, creepy etc for approaching them (based on looks) unless you act weird, creepy etc. So I think you should just worry about working on your confidence and communication skills. Because that will be the issue. As in ,If a girl isn't interested based on your looks, it's just because she's not interested in your look, If that makes sense.
/r/seduction27/10/25 01:29 AM
1

What a weird fucking comment. Yes women can do whatever they want they have fucking free will.
/r/seduction26/10/25 02:34 PM
1

The only guys I know that would give their number without second thought or a peep would be desperate men..... Yno because if you're experienced with girls You're not desperate for the attention of a random broad who just came up to you just because she's attractive. And if you're experienced with girls you'd have first experience knowing the hot and crazy scale lol.
/r/seduction26/10/25 02:33 PM
16

If you think a high interest women can't quickly became low interest when she realizes you have a boring flat personality...I got news for you.
/r/seduction26/10/25 03:56 AM
1

What?
/r/seduction24/10/25 09:06 PM
57

Thanks for your chatgpt explanation
/r/seduction24/10/25 02:01 PM
6

Yeah dude nothing you said relates to not having emotions. You clearly don't understand you don't just "turn off your emotions" you just didn't fall for any of the other girls You'll be fine.
/r/seduction24/10/25 06:12 AM
6

Why are you a robot? Do you not understand how emotions work? You can't just say " I have no emotions now"
/r/seduction24/10/25 05:59 AM
55

"man discovers emotion" Honestly no clue what what the point of this rambling was mate.
/r/seduction24/10/25 05:45 AM
117

The going outside and talking to women system
/r/seduction22/10/25 11:12 PM
2

You haven't told us anything you've done or said other then went out and "had a nice time" and you expect us to somehow answer and know what you're doing wrong (if anything)? Are you physically escalating during this date?
/r/seduction21/10/25 11:33 PM
7

There is, it's called going outside and interacting with them more lol.
/r/seduction21/10/25 04:21 PM
4

It's called not putting women on a pedestal just because you're attracted to them
/r/seduction21/10/25 04:15 PM
2

There are some recent changes with Chinas influence and kpop, but that’s another story I mean it's not really another story when it's directly related to what you're talking about lol. Kpop worldwide popularity isn't some side note , when talking about western women being attracted to Asians.
/r/seduction21/10/25 05:53 AM
2

Your first mistake is listening to a dating coach. Your second mistake is listening to a dating coach on "race". Instead of yno going outside...
/r/seduction21/10/25 05:51 AM
2

I was going to say one of my buddies said he was like this. And since we were all friends in college including his gf, it wasn't that hard to confirm. It's called masterbation refractory period (basically the downtime in between orgasms) and it varies across the board.
/r/seduction20/10/25 08:59 PM
2

Wtf are you asking
/r/seduction19/10/25 09:56 PM
1

exposure therapy" never helped my RSD. Doing It made me feel good for about 0.1 seconds. And I was happy I did, but then the reality of it not changing my perception of myself over time and time again did nothing to help fix/heal it. It'd be akin going to work sick, it's something you have to do , but it's not going to suddenly make you feel better/not shitty next time you have to work sick. But I've had relationships, short and long, flings etc so it's not like I never talk to women. I'm not sa…
/r/seduction18/10/25 10:36 PM
1

Ha
/r/seduction17/10/25 05:55 AM
5

Yeah you're so grown up you don't understand how reddit works... cause I wasn't talking to you
/r/seduction17/10/25 05:52 AM
7

Hilarious incel logic. Go outside kid.
/r/seduction17/10/25 04:25 AM
4

Shouldn't ever be love bombing anyone lol. To those that reciprocate well to such behavior is because they've gone through trauma in their life (whether they realize it or not) that causes them seek out affection and approval.
/r/seduction14/10/25 08:09 AM
42

I think you dodged a bullet there
/r/seduction13/10/25 08:57 PM
2

Thanks man that's comforting. Real talk though Last relationship I gut dumped and the conversation went like "so Instagram started showing me these videos" lol so i guess I have some trauma. Unless it exposed you as being some asshole or something, don't think anything of it. Every girl sees these types of videos(be it o tiktok or other platform ) and before social media was everywhere their single friends were giving them bad advice the same. Stop over analysing shit, step 1 is to have fun. Tha…
/r/seduction12/10/25 07:17 PM
1

There is no next, go on with your life
/r/seduction12/10/25 07:49 AM
2

Yeah there was actually a study on like attractiveness difference in partners. And they found the bigger the difference (of one being hotter than the other) the longer they knew each other before dating. (Eg Friends/coworkers, not the random girl you see in class and don't talk to) While those that were both similar attractive usually knew each other less time before dating.
/r/seduction11/10/25 06:42 AM
7

Uhuh....
/r/seduction08/10/25 01:02 AM
8

Have a good one mate.
/r/seduction08/10/25 12:56 AM
11

Buddy this isn't an argument between me and you. You're just objectively wrong. Idgaf what you do with it you're complaining about wasting money on fancy dates
/r/seduction08/10/25 12:52 AM
27

Im inviting her over to meet me in the middle If your place is the middle what's the far end, your dick in her? That's not the fucking middle bro... Casual dates are coffee, ice cream, going for a walk etc. The two ends are fancy date and your place lol. It can't get any more low effort than you not having to leave. Maybe you didn't think about this before. And didn't realize what you're doing. But yeah bro definitely not the middle...
/r/seduction08/10/25 12:31 AM
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Yup Fucking hilarious . First the " no I've wasted money before on high key dates" yet only offers his place not actual casual low key places. So obviously just wants to fuck. Girl says no , he instantly folds , wastes 200$ and still doesn't get laid. Got played like a fiddle.
/r/seduction07/10/25 11:14 PM
3

Ask her out..?
/r/seduction07/10/25 03:16 AM
16

Well did you learn your lesson...
/r/seduction05/10/25 12:19 AM
8

Yes...?
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:11 PM
19

Just tell them beforehand that you don't drink but are happy to go to a bar. Springing it on them once you're already there ordering drinks..that you don't drink...would be ill advised.
/r/seduction30/09/25 09:54 PM
0

That's totally different and all those women are broken in some way
/r/seduction30/09/25 04:09 PM
2

Yikes no wonder she's ghosting you...
/r/seduction28/09/25 10:38 AM
1

It's not biologically passed on nor like being gay because it's made up bullshit lmao.
/r/seduction28/09/25 09:38 AM
2

Yeah it's one of those things where you don't need to be fit, be in great shape, have abs etc. to pull. But if you're 30-40 lbs overweight, you're a fat fuck. And you better be a funny/charming fat fuck if you don't want to change the fat fuck part. And you could still be funny/Charming and not be fat so ....* Better off not being fat
/r/seduction27/09/25 04:01 PM
6

You're 40 year old with a niche style...you definitely know by now you don't appeal to everyone. So....? Your fashion choices don't have anything to do with you being charismatic and fun to be around.
/r/seduction25/09/25 04:56 PM
1

Then I opted for a non surgical transplant/hair system What did you get?
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:17 PM
5

It means being authentic and not try to fake who you are. Which is good advice as its easy to see when people are trying to fake a personality they are not. You don’t need to learn charisma skills or dive into self improvement to stand out But you're definitely not wrong that it's over used in a way that implies don't do anything other than being yourself (vs working on yourself to be the best version of you)
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:12 PM
1

Yup his other posts show how weird he is...lmao.. definitely not surprised he would make people uncomfortable
/r/seduction24/09/25 10:22 AM
1

Literally this is all it is. And if you're like " nuh uh it doesn't work that " that means for whatever reason your negative experiences /thought patterns/trauma is deeper than self realization will fix and you need to go talk to someone.
/r/seduction23/09/25 12:08 PM
1

Being melodramatic and whiny isn't helping you or anyone else. If you can't handle minor heart break. You lack resiliency that will carry over to every aspect of your life. You think it's better to die than being rejected. That's not normal nor healthy. You should definitely speak to someone though if that's what you jump to whenever you have emotional struggle. Being a virgin is also irrelevant.
/r/seduction22/09/25 08:21 PM
1

60-70% conversion rate from a first date to a one night stand annoys you? Bruh.. in my view this about as good as it's gonna get. I think what annoys him is his success rate is from pre filtering before meet up basically girls who most likely just want to fuck and going full tilt on that. Eg if a girl wants to fuck and you say want to fuck, it won't have a bad reaction compared to a girl who doesn't want to or is unsure. His success isn't from chatting up a good game during the date. And when th…
/r/seduction21/09/25 09:47 PM
8

No I don't approach women unless I've been given a greenlight Yeah you're never going to pull in Toronto. Better go be a passport bro.
/r/seduction21/09/25 07:30 PM
4

"women ignore me" So you approach women and they don't respond or?
/r/seduction21/09/25 07:07 PM
2

Because saying " what if" when it's not relevant, is basically trying to rationalize doing a bad thing. oP fully knew she was in a relationship and chose to pursue her. If you don't have morals regarding this it doesn't matter to you, it doesn't mean it's not a social faux pax.
/r/seduction21/09/25 06:50 PM
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Because none of those things are relevant to banging married women.
/r/seduction21/09/25 08:31 AM
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"what if the scenario was different than it was" Well then it wouldn't be relevant to this scenario.
/r/seduction21/09/25 08:02 AM
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Irrelevant
/r/seduction21/09/25 08:00 AM
3

Guess you don't realize...You can kiss someone...talk deeply with someone etc...and still not be interested in dating /continuing a relationship with them
/r/seduction20/09/25 08:04 PM
1

It's definitely anxiety, but anxiety can be it's own disorder, or a symptom of one. (Like ADHD). Not saying you have anything more than anxiety, but just so you understand it can be stemming from other things. But there are still times where I'm like "damn, will ever be that guy we've all seen in the club that can just take home the hottest girl with ease?" A lot of it is an ego thing, and am more cognizant of that now, but know these thoughts are kinda all part of the journey. just want to give…
/r/seduction19/09/25 03:07 PM
2

Learn how to two step ( look it up) , youll be having a drink in hand so you don't have to worry much about anything else in terms of dancing. There now you know how to dance and if needed you won't need to stand there like a scarecrow. Dancing bad confidently, would probably get you more girls than dancing decently while looking unconfident.
/r/seduction19/09/25 02:31 PM
1

Yeah dude those no generic ,for everyday use, magical , 'sauve" lines
/r/seduction19/09/25 02:23 PM
11

You mean exactly like you're acting?
/r/seduction09/09/25 05:17 PM
3

Michael B Jordan and ASAP rocky are gay too. Got it. You don't sound very secure about this, considering for the second time I never called you gay but you keep bringing it up. Asap rocky and Michael b Jordan can have overly flamboyant activities/hobbies, just like you can and also not be gay. And ty for the link.
/r/seduction09/09/25 03:18 AM
1

I didn't call you gay, and the only thing overly flamboyant in your routine is your manicures. What is this scrubber? I've never heard of it lol.
/r/seduction09/09/25 03:04 AM
1

You can clean them?
/r/seduction09/09/25 02:40 AM
0

IDK wtf you have against loofas lol.
/r/seduction09/09/25 02:11 AM
1

I'd say you're both right. Take it at face value, there's nothing you should do but wait and see . But I've seen plenty of girls become warmer after not caring about their light refusal. So it's not always a death knell, but there's nothing else to do but play it cool and move on.
/r/seduction06/09/25 07:58 PM
1

Why does nice waiters have anything to do with getting to know your date?
/r/seduction06/09/25 07:50 PM
2

Just chill there's nothing you can do. Just play it cool and wait. If she doesn't reach out ,move on.
/r/seduction06/09/25 07:43 PM
3

Being miserable on reddit obviously
/r/seduction06/09/25 06:44 PM
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It's always amusing to see stories of men learning women , just like men come in a wide spectrum/array. And also like men, aren't always ones you want to actually be around/spend time with just because they're attractive.
/r/seduction05/09/25 04:22 PM
1

And if you want her to wear something specific you ask not "seduce her harder".
/r/seduction04/09/25 04:55 AM
11

No that's called communication... Seduction is getting them into bed.
/r/seduction04/09/25 03:19 AM
2

Nothin she did has anything to do with clubbing girls that just a toxic girl lmao.
/r/seduction25/08/25 01:12 AM
4

I never used the word "high maintenance" though I know which is why I was saying just because they have high needs doesn't mean they're actually high value themselves. (Because it usually entails" high maintenance"). Cause if they're an amazing women(and you can fulfill her high needs/isn't high maintenance or that doesn't bother you ) than this question is a bit dumb by OP.
/r/seduction21/08/25 10:57 PM
4

High standards usually means high maintenance and nothing to do with her being actually amazing/"high value" herself.
/r/seduction21/08/25 10:46 PM
1

Reading comprehension ain't your forte eh mate. Do we need to start at the beginning. What is a woman with "high standards" to you?
/r/seduction21/08/25 10:44 PM
0

oh no anyway
/r/seduction18/08/25 11:56 PM
4

You literally asked how to approach woman at malls here 1d ago...lmao
/r/seduction18/08/25 11:56 PM
3

Wow a 4 year relationship? Congratulations. I remember my highschool girlfriend too.
/r/seduction18/08/25 11:40 PM
2

Simmer down their incel. Adults are talking
/r/seduction18/08/25 11:40 PM
2

If you're trying to copy a persona, you're not going to be successful you need to stop trying to learn and start trying to do/apply.
/r/seduction15/08/25 11:30 PM
3

Yeah it's basically majority women dependant.
/r/seduction12/08/25 04:53 AM
4

Talk to as many women as possible With 0 intentions other than chatting people up. You can make someone smile, banter, with a couple sentences to anyone you come across. As this is a regular social skill not just for seduction, don't limit yourself to practicing on only girls you want to hit on.
/r/seduction12/08/25 12:36 AM
1

You yap a lot for such a "secure" guy.
/r/seduction11/08/25 08:56 PM
1

Cope with what? But anyways my friend I'm going to go back to working out , been fun arguing, have fun teaching the yutes
/r/seduction11/08/25 08:46 PM
1

Im sure your mom tells you that every night
/r/seduction11/08/25 08:45 PM
1

Seems to work for you.
/r/seduction11/08/25 08:34 PM
1

And here you are talking to me and not minding your own business Do you not understand social media? bro you literally almost have 300k comments on Reddit, I should go outside????? Yeah bro over a decade. It's not my fault people value my comments.. You have like a dozen in this thread a lone so simmer down with that misplaced ego.
/r/seduction11/08/25 08:33 PM
1

Holy fuck this is cringe AF. You need to go outside more if you talk like this.
/r/seduction11/08/25 08:21 PM
3

Yeah I've gotten with a girl by bitching about my unknown health problems all night before. She evidently didn't care and found it amusing. (I wasn't like malding I was just comically annoyed) But I wasn't thinking about her at all during my bitching. Didn't care how she'd react or what she thought cause I wasn't doing it for her. I was just being me.
/r/seduction11/08/25 08:20 PM
2

It's not a lazy analysing, I don't care what you do , I'm talking about your example of people avoiding hitting on women because they're scared/insecure.
/r/seduction10/08/25 10:39 PM
2

Then you lack emotional resiliency and self confidence and you think hiding from the problem is...the solution?
/r/seduction10/08/25 09:16 PM
0

There is no difference other than the walls you build in your head. There's a reason very few try it, in spite of all men having heard advice like this at some point in their lives. Cause anxiety is a bitch and most men rather pussy out than get over being uncomfortable? This isn't some novel phenomenon.
/r/seduction10/08/25 09:00 PM
1

Your angsty reply to valid criticism.
/r/seduction05/08/25 10:22 PM
1

Now I see why you'd want to waste money on a pua clown's "boot camp"
/r/seduction05/08/25 04:34 PM
5

Thank you mr.chatgpt for coming to the crazy new revelation, that women are attracted to status and wealth. If you've went into public in the last decades you wouldn't have had to use chatgpt to come to this useless realization.
/r/seduction05/08/25 03:01 PM
0

What
/r/seduction30/07/25 05:10 AM
1

And what if you get together and she cheats on you or something and now you have to work with her and be around her everyday?
/r/seduction29/07/25 10:10 PM
6

Survivorship bias, mate. How many times have you heard "at first I didn't like him, and now he's god knows where"? Never, no one registers such situations. You can't make conclusions from incomplete data. Exactly In addition, I as a man, have also said "at first I didn't like them" and ended up dating And know other men who have too. Just because you see or hear a girl do something doesn't make it gender exclusive. And in more scenarios than not it's because they're forced to be constantly aroun…
/r/seduction29/07/25 08:30 PM
1

She’s not your ex if you weren’t sleeping together. That's not how relationships work lmao
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:12 AM
1

Yeah ofc but Not showing immediate interest and "throwing up entire diva personality" are not the same thing though.
/r/seduction10/07/25 06:41 PM
2

So you do better with women who show they're interested in you..than women that show you they're not interested... And you want help getting cars who show they're not interested in you... instead of focusing on the ones that do.... Am I getting this right.....?
/r/seduction10/07/25 06:02 PM
-1

Well yeah I don't go on pua forums..the same way I don't go looking for bad advice. I see posts on this sub often and other than incels whining it is not a perspective that's actively reinforced. Because it's not true lol.
/r/seduction08/07/25 08:18 PM
1

Well yeah I don't usually go looking to find bad advice lol.
/r/seduction08/07/25 08:02 PM
-1

I think it's funny how this sub like all PUA communities sticks with the 'girls aren't visual' and 'girls don't care about looks' stuff lol I've never seen anyone say girls don't care about looks. I've seen plenty of people, say looks aren't the only thing and self eliminating yourself based on looks because you have low confidence is stupid. Because subscribing to incel mentality is dumb AF, and to focus on what you can change, and not what you cant. when you can see plenty of people who aren't…
/r/seduction08/07/25 08:00 PM
0

I mean since you're actions/reactions aren't necessary in those scenario, you can just smile and say thank you. OR if you want to call someone out cause you don't appreciate it , like in a professional setting just play dumb and ask them to explain what that means.
/r/seduction01/07/25 05:14 PM
1

This is really a ymmv, and everyone giving you advice has nothing objective to say other than their anecdotal bias. Some girls hate it, some dgaf. There's no objective universal rule. Even through the different generations. Other than using it too much in either case is going to be bad in the vast majority of cases. But there is really no absolute, for this. *And for clarity I use emojis, and haven't stopped for any women, even when called out. Still hasn't hurt my chances. And if someone cares …
/r/seduction01/07/25 04:27 PM
6

It's stories like these that make me question if these people participated in society, or grew up alone and under a rock. Exchanging a look between friends to show approval or not when out engaging with the opposite sex isn't some hidden secret art it's pretty standard for men and women. The only real difference is women can be a lot more subtle with it.
/r/seduction07/06/25 11:41 PM
8

"10s bring 10 problems" something like that. There's also behind every hot girl is a guy sick of their shit. I've experienced it first hand and anecdotally about other girls and guys from friends. I've also met a lot of people in the "pretty people club/rule# 1" who end up in a relationship with someone not at the same level because they couldn't find a suitable partner when only dating others of the pretty people club. The more attractive you are the less you've had to work on other attributes …
/r/seduction31/05/25 11:00 PM
6

This is probably something you should talk to a therapist about.... because that'd unresolved trauma that's affecting your ability to now communicate with women. The odds aren't high, but they aren't zero, because women like your mom exist the same. But idk if telling you the logical/rational of statistics being in your favor that most people don't act like your mom will help you get over your fear. Especially if you do meet someone who acts like her.
/r/seduction28/05/25 03:35 AM
4

Literally this..end of thread. Good question OP. *Women are human , you find humanity in humans by interacting with humans. If after interacting with more human, human stuff still makes you unreasonably frustrated, angry etc go talk to a therapist.
/r/seduction27/05/25 11:22 PM
1

Again, why should I boost their egos? Again, why should they boost yours? Either you're a narssIcus in the walking flesh, Or you're scared of rejection. Which is it?
/r/seduction27/05/25 07:51 AM
2

I do fine. You can lie to yourself all you want.
/r/seduction27/05/25 07:50 AM
1

And you wonder why no women wants to even have a second conversation with you....
/r/seduction27/05/25 07:45 AM
0

He needs an app to meet women* I highly doubt this guy has even approached double digit number of girls in his life in person lol.
/r/seduction24/05/25 06:55 PM
1

There is none. There is a devolution away from Apps as they have gotten to become such a shitty experience that more people are looking for social activities to meet potential partners.
/r/seduction24/05/25 06:54 PM
1

Little incels, thinking watching porn (object of sexual gratification) is the same as posting bikini pics (normal swim/beach wear) because they goon to the same photos.
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:56 AM
5

Unfortunately, it covers a lot more than BPD. But yeah BPD is definitely the most "intense" end of that spectrum.
/r/seduction18/05/25 12:42 AM
1

I continued cold approaching and dating but she is still on my mind, shouldn't I go for her, if that's what I want? (while still being transported with her) what don't you understand? YOU JUST WANT TO FUCK SHE DOES NOT YOU ARE INCOMPATIBLE MOVE THE FUCK ON. I literally shared with her sensitive part from my past to be honest and not to lie, but can't you seduce a girl like this to make her want to change you? (even if you won't change) No this is some simp shit. Makes no fucking sense. You seduc…
/r/seduction12/05/25 10:09 PM
1

How to game such girls You don't. Unless you want to just lie to their face. There is no "ethically seducing" a girl who is only looking for LTR/commitment. So unless you want to be a manipulative deuche bag you move on to girls who are actually dtf.
/r/seduction12/05/25 07:05 PM
1

Jesus Christ 🤦 So do you've anything that could actually be beneficial? Yeah dude stop being a fucking simp and move on. Evidently this is the only girl who has ever shown you attention.
/r/seduction12/05/25 06:32 PM
23

"A girl told me she was only into long term relationships , so I told her I don't believe in love and just do casual hook ups, but she left after hearing that, help what did I do wrong" With awareness as abysmal as yours, you must be on the spectrum.
/r/seduction10/05/25 09:15 AM
6

Dude he's getting laid. He doesn't have to fix a thing mate. And this isn't some unknown phenomenon, it means girls find him attractive lmao.
/r/seduction06/05/25 09:43 AM
1

That's different than copying and pasting your opener on two cold contacts who know each other lmao. Divide and conquer is a legitimate strategy. "Casting a wide net" so to speak off the rip, not as legitimate when you end up getting the same family of fish lmao.
/r/seduction03/05/25 11:48 AM
1

You're fucking so many bitches, talking to so many girls that's why you came running to reddit asking omg what do I do these two girls found out I can't even type an opener.. Yeah buddy okay..... Because we all know one thing men who fuck s lot have in common. They come running to reddit to ask for advice when they fuck up , instead of carrying on with all the other girls.
/r/seduction03/05/25 11:45 AM
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How long have you been going to therapy/on meds? Life doesn't unravel from it's messes that fast but you should be making progress still. This being a triggering event isn't surprising. But you mentioned 0 coping strategies and are asking for help, when you have a therapist and a psychiatrist, which concerns me though. Base on your talking in past tense of "I've worked on x with". Are you not longer actively in therapy and seeing a psychiatrist? Because you 100% need to be. A few months seeing a…
/r/seduction25/04/25 08:35 AM
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He's incapable of setting healthy boundaries, so effective /Strong communication is most likely a non existent skill of his. (His most recent post is complaining about nice guy syndrome so i didn't just make this shit up).
/r/seduction25/04/25 07:45 AM
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If you're not attracted to them at all they're not a fucking 6 are they bro? No one's saying bang 2s cause pussy is pussy. Lmfao
/r/seduction25/04/25 07:43 AM
10

but what if she's the one?". There's no such thing as "the one", statistically impossible. She could be "one of the ones" but at 2000km apart, seems highly unlikely this would ever get to in person, especially if she's as hot as you say.
/r/seduction14/04/25 04:12 PM
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I rarely see those people in our society? Rarely see what people? The characteristics he mentioned represent a significant part of the population lmao. They're separate indicators not a mutually inclusive list. There's no definitive answer anyone can give you because sexuality exists separately than any outward characteristic ones show.
/r/seduction11/04/25 06:27 PM
1

That's only because your internalizing the rejection and letting it deepen your insecurities. But when the girl ghosts you, your brain goes "NOT AN ACTUAL REJECTION, SHE NEVER REJECTED ME JUST NEVER RESPONDED TO ME AGAIN IM NOT THE PROBLEM". you should work on your insecurities, there is no way you're capable of having the emotional depth required of a healthy relationship, if you can't even handle a woman being upfront about her non interest.
/r/seduction04/03/25 05:34 AM
3

As a sarcastic bastard, who does what OP is trying to do on the regular. You have to understand there's two types of woman when you make jokes about them. Oh my God you're suuuuch a diiiick And Oh my God you're such a dick You can easily guess which ones I have success with. So those are write offs. But for the former You nailed it perfectly here. That said, my rule of thumb is: if she’s mad but still directing all her energy toward you, that’s actually a good sign. You only truly lose her when …
/r/seduction13/02/25 05:58 PM
1

girls also literally rejected me beause of my height, they directly said it Girls reject guys everyday for every possible reason.
/r/seduction09/02/25 06:30 PM
1

Yeah you need therapy. and deserving nothing less than a rich blonde 190cm guy I have plenty of friends in LTR who don't fit this bill. If you go outside enough around public places you'd see plenty of couples who don't fit this bill. These things only exist in your head.
/r/seduction09/02/25 06:29 PM
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If you think you're a loser of natural selection who can't have love, intimacy or sex which is known to be the greatest pleasure in life, Once your insecurities/trauma, etc dig in like this and you can't pull yourself out of it. You 100% need therapy. sex which is known to be the greatest pleasure in life, or pass on your genes as nature intended Cause this is some incel shit lol. At that point it's like you gotta force yourself to do something and sometimes you'll get temporary gratification fr…
/r/seduction09/02/25 05:35 AM
3

Yeah incel with incel ideology. Source of his claims : "trust me bro"
/r/seduction09/02/25 05:27 AM
2

how could you ever want to improve yourself? Because most don't want to die alone? If you're at the bottom you have nothing to lose by trying.
/r/seduction09/02/25 05:26 AM
2

Dude should definitely look for activity outside his school bubble. If he goes to a snobby school full of snobby people, he needs social interaction outside that element.
/r/seduction09/02/25 05:17 AM
1

You respond to wrong person or?
/r/seduction26/01/25 03:49 PM
3

While it may be true, emotional intelligence is taught/learned which is a much bigger factor, more than just the genetic racial basis. You can find many man who are just as quick to anger because they lack emotional intelligence. Socially emotional intelligence is taught/enforced a lot more to men then then women in their upbringing. Ones feelings are always valid but ones (re)actions may be not. But as a man you're taught a lot more you can't just freak out and lash out when angry then women ar…
/r/seduction26/01/25 12:25 PM
1

You also don't have to assume their preference and can simply ask. "Would you like me to pick you up on the way or would you prefer to meet there". Age and geographical location play a big factor too. Being young and having a decent/nice car goes a lot further than when you're older. Living in a city center where a car is not usually much faster or can even be slower, won't be of the same merit as if you lived in suburbia. And There is no one size fits all. Anyone acting like there is, is talkin…
/r/seduction08/01/25 09:49 PM
6

Have you met anyone in the world that ever had that on them in a non work environment?
/r/seduction08/01/25 09:32 PM
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I’m starting to think that maybe he actually enjoys the resentment he has toward girls. The only situation that validates his mindset. Fulfilling the self destructive prophecy, because it's easier than working on yourself, because change is hard. Which is why you see "no your wrong I'm right" whenever anything regarding self help/betterment is suggested. What's the line "those who say they can't and those that say they can are both usually right." So instead they build up walls and constantly lo…
/r/seduction05/01/25 11:43 PM
2

Or they were actually gay...stop being so miserable and pessimistic jfc. It's literally irrelevant why they're denying you they don't owe you anything.
/r/seduction02/01/25 10:35 AM
0

are clearly not required to create an account on OF and start posting porn. That is left up to the creators. Where tf did I say that lmao
/r/seduction26/12/24 07:35 AM
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You need to go outside and touch some grass lol bro. Taking opinions on society from your PC screen and not experiencing life itself isn't healthy for you. Your logic/points don't even make sense.
/r/seduction26/12/24 05:20 AM
5

Exactly it's like saying I'm upset some basement dwelling chronically online dude is making millions streaming but can't hold a regular job. Even though the vast majority aren't making minimum wage.
/r/seduction26/12/24 05:18 AM
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It will just take one really public event of an STD being spread of something of the like, and government will step in with regulations Lol uh what? Makes 0 sense. Local Laws around filming porn still apply to filming porn that goes on OF OF aren't the producers bro. Not how regulation/protection works lmao.
/r/seduction26/12/24 05:13 AM
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She also was the #1..... The average OF model isn't some retail worker making millions on side. Op sounds like some sad virgin.
/r/seduction26/12/24 05:10 AM
1

You ok there kid?
/r/seduction25/12/24 12:34 AM
1

Nope. Are you?
/r/seduction24/12/24 02:06 PM
1

It's the same as cutting off any potential relationship/suitor. If you're too scared to tell a girl it's over/you're not interested, you shouldn't be dating.
/r/seduction15/12/24 06:35 PM
14

Then simply stop talking to them...?
/r/seduction15/12/24 06:19 AM
5

If your scared of woman just say that
/r/seduction14/12/24 05:33 PM
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The only people I've seen parrot this are guys who don't actually approach women and just think this because what they see online, and guys who actually come across as creepy, don't take no as an answer, etc. To my knowledge (I can't know what a random woman I've never spoken to again thinks of me) I've been called creepy once. And was a friend of a friend of a friend at a party who I'd met once before. Why? None of us have a clue. Other than that she was pretty drunk. And when her friends broug…
/r/seduction20/11/24 02:25 AM
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Unless he meant one night stands not actually date , none of this would work.
/r/seduction20/11/24 01:44 AM
12

Relax kid
/r/seduction11/11/24 08:18 AM
0

Plenty of people don't drink and aren't high strung so....i think you'll manage.
/r/seduction02/11/24 08:05 AM
5

realize shes only gonna waste her time and he doesnt give a f&ck? You mean exactly like you are...?
/r/seduction25/10/24 11:01 PM
0

"If the only tool you have is a hammer, you tend to see every problem as a nail"
/r/seduction21/10/24 01:23 PM
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There's two types; cold approach elimination, and actual elimination. These things matter way more in cold approach because they have to make a decision basically on the spot. Self eliminating yourself is dumb no matter what because you're just giving into insecurity. But there's plenty of girls who are in relationships with smaller guys then them, who if you asked them previously, many would give the same candid answer about height mattering. Why do you think that is? Because I know one of the …
/r/seduction21/10/24 06:55 AM
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So is race/ethnicity, age, weight social status etc etc. Just like women who don't go for x , insert any of the above including height.
/r/seduction21/10/24 04:49 AM
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It's much easier to step back after trying to escalate too far. Than it is to escalate after the chance has passed. (As long as you're not overbearing, creepy etc).
/r/seduction18/10/24 02:40 AM
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Lol the incels are downvoting you. You're making them angwy
/r/seduction10/10/24 01:30 AM
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Statistically you're not wrong, but self limiting /excluding yourself is always a losing strategy. Because odds are never in your favor in general with cold approach, day game etc. and If you have absolutely no game, stumbling over your words kinda thing, you'll have just as little success in approaching people in your "league" then above it. And the older you get, (I don't mean old old, but going from highschool to uni, uni to the real world) the less and less the "pretty factor" matters in abs…
/r/seduction09/10/24 04:26 PM
13

As cringe as that shit test. Ask stupid questions get stupid answers.
/r/seduction26/09/24 12:55 AM
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Sometimes I would even have get-togethers inviting more than one of them putting them right in front of each other. I have no shits about them crossing paths or not. I call this the hunger games strategy. And as long as you're not inviting them to something datey (like you said in your example party/get together or hitting x club or bar with a group, it works perfectly well). My buddy did similar, and ended up marrying one who he gravitated most too and who made her intentions very clear because…
/r/seduction25/09/24 07:14 PM
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Assuming you're fucking, If one doesn't stand out among the rest, then they either aren't pulling you enough emotionally to make you want to commit, or you simply aren't actually interested in committing in general (Which is fine). Or you haven't reached that level of emotional intimacy stage yet(i don't know how long you've been dating them). And unless one is pressuring you to commit, there's no reason to pressure yourself to choose. But from everything I've experienced and seen it's usually "…
/r/seduction25/09/24 07:10 PM
1

Hahahaha Nah that's your made up insecure reality. "It's not the same because I'm a guy and I don't want girls judging me cause I want to have a 3some but I'll judge a girl" we call that insecure sad boy shit. because that's what it is
/r/seduction24/09/24 04:48 AM
1

Dump her and move on if you're so insecure, it's not going to suddenly change on its own without working on yourself. Go date a Virgin or something.
/r/seduction24/09/24 04:47 AM
1

It in secure incel shit. Dump her then and move on if you can't handle her past. It's not fucking rocket science. What if she doesn't want her man being with multiple women at once and only him? I doubt he'd be happy with another guy being in the 3 some. So it's straight hipocrtical ba. You having a 3some doesn't negate her past. So you're literally just making up shitty excuses.
/r/seduction24/09/24 04:28 AM
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Your insecure as fuck over her past. That's sad boy incel shit. Learn to fix your insecurities not force your partners into shit they don't want or else you're simply a scumbag. You'd have the experience, lose the girl, then become a sad boy over being fucking stupid and it not being worth it.
/r/seduction24/09/24 04:26 AM
2

And you didn't do any research beforehand?
/r/seduction21/09/24 03:35 AM
17

Why did you move to a new place without doing any research or tourism yet still had pre conceived expectations....
/r/seduction21/09/24 02:52 AM
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It is that simple, and if that doesn't work, therapy is the answer. The simple aspect is called exposure therapy which a therapist would easily recommend. But if you literally can't bring yourself to do it, like you're so scared anxiety ridden unconfident that even the thought of talking to a girl makes you quake, or you try and try and you feel no difference/feel worst etc, then yeah you need to speak to a a professional. Some level of Anxiety is normal and expected, which is the point of expos…
/r/seduction20/09/24 03:24 PM
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That's just how it goes sometimes Yup guys get caught up thinking there is a checklist to success. You can complete the checklist and still fail. And I've been on the flip side. After finally making out/hooking up with a chick realizing I was actually not as interested as I thought. Idk what it is, but women have this sith sense in knowing a guy they passed up on is suddenly getting attention. The vibe gets real desperate lol. But this is hundred percent facts. It's a wildly true phenomenon.
/r/seduction17/09/24 01:41 AM
1

Hookups from online with intentions just to fk maybe 1 in 100 chance lol Yup for 90% of people it's simply a numbers game.
/r/seduction07/09/24 04:58 PM
1

Don't know what girls you're matching with on tinder, but not one person i know is a 10, ripped or has a Ferrari and hadn't had an issue.
/r/seduction07/09/24 04:46 PM
1

"let me make up numbers numbersnand hypotheticals to prove my point" Right....
/r/seduction03/09/24 02:29 PM
4

Cope what? Ugly people get bitches every day, the only cope would be trying to blame your looks instead of working on yourself and becoming more attractive.
/r/seduction24/08/24 01:30 AM
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but how to open? How to close? This isn't cold calling, there is no precise script to use lol. And if you're asking how to talk to girls at a social setting like a run club, than one has to assume you don't know how to talk to girls at all in general.
/r/seduction20/08/24 05:30 PM
1

Incel logic isn't getting you anywhere.
/r/seduction19/08/24 04:22 PM
1

I have absolutely no idea why this is the case? I thought she was interested, I gave her a good time in bed. Felt like I was ticking boxes? Women are people too bro, just like you and me this isn't a video game where you have a check list to complete to "win" You could've done absolutely nothing wrong. And for any reason of her own she's not interested. That's just how Life works.
/r/seduction15/08/24 05:31 PM
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And it sure as hell ain't a eastern European thing lol. Late 30s and early 20s, is like a normal age gap for male-female. Even older isn't seen as faux paux.
/r/seduction15/08/24 03:53 PM
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Ok kid
/r/seduction15/08/24 01:26 PM
2

But yet is attached to the idea of being atypical because he cannot face him being uninteresting to women It's a diagnosis bro, your self opinion on it, doesn't somehow negate it. Eg I'm not attached to being ADHD as fuck, I am ADHD as fuck. It is me.
/r/seduction13/08/24 06:24 PM
6

Usually as tactic regarding your responses, not a monologue lol
/r/seduction13/08/24 06:21 PM
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Actually in a lot of things in life " the better" one doesn't necessitate getting x. But that's just a reality of life. But there is indeed always other people wanting the same.
/r/seduction12/08/24 07:28 PM
2

You’re 100% right sometimes I just need to hear it from someone else so thank you. I wouldn’t say I’m “reserved” necessarily, still myself but just toned down and not super bold (I feel like a lot of girls here get offended by wild comments that’d I’d like to make) but I’m going to work on that There's no real right or wrong other than trying to stifle your personality/who you are. You better off trying to explain more of your personality/what are these wild comments you want to say so we can be…
/r/seduction12/08/24 04:31 PM
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But yes gays and girls have different priorities for looks. Idk about gays choice really. But girls want muscular guy with big forearms I mean this isn't true lol. Girls like all shapes and sizes the same as gays. That's just up to personal preference. OPs question is kind of dumb though. Gay guys aren't females. Just because they also like guys doesn't mean it's the same dynamic. The gay guy aggressively hitting on OP is just a horny dude who wants to fuck him, he's not doing any other evaluati…
/r/seduction12/08/24 04:18 PM
2

I'm a straight dude. Little spaz.
/r/seduction12/08/24 03:41 AM
6

cringe
/r/seduction12/08/24 03:41 AM
11

Cause he's not being "alpha" at all , he's clearly lashing out cause his sensitive ego is hurt.
/r/seduction12/08/24 02:53 AM
8

yikes No wonder girls don't want to reply to you.
/r/seduction12/08/24 02:50 AM
19

Yeah exactly you're not supposed to do that shit. You're supposed to match energy.
/r/seduction10/08/24 04:40 PM
6

Because you're here bitching and whining. That's all the evidence one need *Oh no an incel said he blocked me
/r/seduction09/08/24 01:45 AM
7

grow from 5ft9 to 6ft2? get hair transplant surgeries? get facial surgeries? somehow change my genetics? Go outside bro, your whiny incel logic doesn't make you any better. None of that means you cant get bitches
/r/seduction09/08/24 01:31 AM
2

Stop projecting your trauma mate.
/r/seduction08/08/24 02:34 AM
2

Is clothing that big of a deal? I mean other than what your physical appearance is...the only other thing that makes up your look/appearance is your style . What changes would you recommend that doesn't conflict with lifestyle. Eg, I'm more of a minimalist outdoors guy, so investing in dress clothes feels weird. It doesn't mean dress formally for no reason , just means put effort in so you don't look lame/like a bum.
/r/seduction07/08/24 08:51 PM
5

You made this account today to just cry like a little incel bitch? And you don't understand why women don't want you? Go outside and touch some grass. See the world from not behind your pc screen.
/r/seduction04/08/24 10:00 PM
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What your generally referring to is code switching One thing I learned: when people talk to us and they change the way they talk (not the other way around), that means we’re the dominant one in the interaction. Which is a good thing. Don't know where you heard that. But code switching has nothing to do with "dominance'. It's just a natural phenomenon that when you're talking to different groups you'll naturally talk differently, in a more acceptable way eg talking to your gf/wife vs best mates, …
/r/seduction01/08/24 02:16 AM
17

Was this written by a 10 year old?
/r/seduction01/08/24 01:12 AM
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Great thing about personality/charisma, is its not genetic! (Unlike your appearance, where you can only go so far with self improvement) Anyone can work on being more charismatic, funny, entertaining etc. One of the most charismatic people I know that even rest of the group has taken insights from, is the shortest of us. But early on in life he realized, if I'm not going to be tall I better be able to chat it up like Casanova.
/r/seduction31/07/24 08:44 PM
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You're going to make the incels here angry with your factual information that goes against their negative self defeating beliefs. What OP is talking about really only applies to stuff like day game, where there's basically 0 "neutral " interaction, other than your approach and forcing an immediate decision. With an actual charismatic personality, like you evidently have, one can easily make up for lacking in the looks department, as long as you have opportunity to casually interact.
/r/seduction31/07/24 07:44 PM
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Yeah go out and do it and train your body , mind and cns to realize it's triggering off nothing and only doing you harm and causing more pain. Anxiety is meant to help us avoid actual painful stimuli. As in your life in danger, not this isn't my safe space tthis is hawwd. Saving you from uncomfortable feelings stops you as a person from growing. So by consciously putting yourself in that situation over and over , your subconscious body/mind learns it's firing off anxiety for no reason and is act…
/r/seduction28/07/24 03:20 AM
1

That's now advice you little incel.
/r/seduction28/07/24 01:27 AM
1

Except you didn't spread any advice,
/r/seduction28/07/24 01:08 AM
0

So making wide sweeping generalized observations based on personal anecdotal evidence...
/r/seduction27/07/24 10:18 PM
0

Errr Wrong
/r/seduction27/07/24 09:26 PM
3

"create the problem, sell the solution"
/r/seduction27/07/24 08:39 PM
2

Yes, this isn't a video game. You have a religious girl whose already brother/friend zoned you. There's no "seduction" to be had. You already have your answer.
/r/seduction26/07/24 02:25 PM
2

Lol.... good luck
/r/seduction26/07/24 02:18 PM
1

Sorry I keep forgetting English is a stupid mans language. Well that's the language we speak here soon Being an adult involves making distinctions between slight variations of stuff. Oh you mean like how you weren't earlier? It's not my fault your ESL mate.
/r/seduction25/07/24 06:49 PM
1

And to answer your question Because "seduction" isn't for children. L
/r/seduction25/07/24 04:56 PM
1

Not trying to slide in on a story of her singing lmao
/r/seduction25/07/24 04:56 PM
-1

uhuh whatever you say
/r/seduction25/07/24 04:40 PM
0

Because you being broke or rich, is irrelevant to who you are. Who you are as, a person is no different because of material goods. Many Rich people have become broke the same way many broke people have become rich. Hating being broke and hating yourself for being broke are not synonymous. If you think being broke means you cant get women that tells me you think you have nothing to offer women other than money. You being rich wont change that, you'll jus have more money to give women.
/r/seduction25/07/24 04:40 PM
2

I also like being in relationships where the girl loves me. I know I know weird right. Being in love is not "being obsessed" first of all. Lmao. But it sounds like you're young so I understand the confusion.
/r/seduction25/07/24 03:36 PM
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It's a matter of trial and error. You can't derive it's a mistake from one person. /Incident. That's completely counterintuitive. Some of us just don't throw shit at the wall and hope it will stick That's what everyone is doing you can't read your way to success in game. And without being there in person, we as outsiders can't accurately evaluate someone's game based.
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:43 PM
0

Every girl is different. Idk why y'all think there's some secret sauce because they're "goth".
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:37 PM
1

You're still acting like they're a subspecies... everyone is fucking different bro. We're humans.
/r/seduction25/07/24 01:36 PM
5

of not knowing what went wrong that bothers me about rejection You can only control what you do and you only really have 1 shot. So you figure out what works by trial and error , trying different things until you see what is best
/r/seduction24/07/24 07:34 PM
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Imagine if you had girls ask you out everyday. Wide variety, good amount, everyday Now imagine after a couple months how many would you say immediately yes to, vs being more selective. And how many would that no become a yes because something they did or could've done differently. I guess for me personally im a pretty overthinking, analytical person who wants to learn from all mistakes I make in life so i can make better decisions for myself Your first mistake is thinking you made a mistake in t…
/r/seduction24/07/24 07:26 PM
3

Yeah lol like wut. If you've already fucked and neither are looking to a relationship, then you don't to say anything extra. You can be more sexually forward with your messages instead of a bland come over/let's hang out etc. But you're not "seducing" then with your wittier version of let's fuck.
/r/seduction24/07/24 06:58 PM
2

Regardless of your answers (you don't need to be witty) you should be employing conversational threading. As this isn't a QnA session/your company sites FAQ section , where you just answer exactly where asked. Just giving the exact answer in a witty or eccentric way , doesn't change the fact you haven't given them anything to go off of/branch/thread the conversation to. So you should be extrapolating with more info, that allows the person to pick/choose where the conversation goes, creating natu…
/r/seduction24/07/24 06:40 PM
4

So yes if you're friends are anti social, that's not ideal
/r/seduction24/07/24 01:27 AM
-1

Yeah they don't mind. But I wasn't talking about the women in this scenario. I'd hate to be that emasculated guy at a restaurant way above my pay grade thinking should I order x y z since she's paying. That is the real nightmare. Long term you will feel like a woman and you'd have no value in her eyes but that of a comfort giver which she can replace in a heartbeat. Yes you just explained your fragile ego , that I already pointed out would be the only issue for a man Long term you will feel like…
/r/seduction23/07/24 07:26 PM
11

Money doesn't necessitate that, but what you're touching on is "high $$ value/success" women (like c level exec types, high level profession) usually still fall in the same archetype of wanting a more successful man. But that's not all of them and plenty don't mind being the bread winner/Uber professional one in the relationship. As long as the man doesn't have a fragile ego about it.
/r/seduction23/07/24 03:05 PM
1

So totally different scenario that asking someone on a date. Great example
/r/seduction23/07/24 02:57 PM
1

So you're asking a friend just to fuck not actually interested in dating so yeah that changes things. Glad you understand
/r/seduction23/07/24 02:02 PM
5

At least you have self awareness regarding your irrational brain. But just being self aware doesn't mean you're able to logic/rationalize your brain back into normalcy. What you feel is normal. Being hung up on someone for an extended period of time that you keep looking back to , judging future partners, or attaching your own self worth to , is not, nor is it healthy. If you feel you simply can't let it go/move on, and it's causing you distress, go talk to someone. That's exactly the kind of sh…
/r/seduction22/07/24 09:40 PM
1

So you're doing it to multiple girls in your group...and you think trying to pussyfoot around the initial ask, is going to somehow mean none of the girls in the group will talk... ? Especially if you're successful. Which unless you're also not telling a sole and neither are they the group will know. Right.... As I said great friend group
/r/seduction22/07/24 09:07 PM
1

Its for comforting her and the other people in the social circle, I must be talking to a bunch of highschoolers. Comforting them about fucking what? Lmfao. Your new friend can't handle being asked out, and your friends can't handle you asking them out? Great friend group I never said you had to ask her out in front of everyone lol.
/r/seduction22/07/24 08:57 PM
1

Yeah that's why i always suggest making soft plans, and then text them after to commit to hard plans. Makes it a lot easier to judges someone's interest then setting up a hard date while drunk on a night out.
/r/seduction22/07/24 08:50 PM
1

For rejection, people are advised to think of the worst-case scenario that could happen. So I asked, "Did she hit him or kick him?" What could be worse than that? I'm still waiting for OP's answer because I'm curious what could be worse than that. It's not, it never is.
/r/seduction22/07/24 08:41 PM
0

what happens when women have an oxytocin spike and how long it lasts “ Never reply to a women with weird biological shit. Unless you're both already nerds in that sphere. Better off unless it's an open group discussion, to not combat it and just take it with a grain of salt because she's just telling you what her own wants/feels. Nothing to do with generalized advice. Make sure she doesn’t know you have romantic intentions. Girls advice for getting girls is usually terrible because other than th…
/r/seduction22/07/24 08:39 PM
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If you set a date on the spot and she gives u a real number and you withhold heavy communication before the date she is likely going to show up. That's not necessarily true. But by limiting the over texting (that many guys do) it eliminates much of the risk of you being the one to fuck it up before the date. Plenty of flaky girls exist, especially if you're trying to make hard set plans when they're drunk. And it can be pretty weird/aggressive trying to make hard set plans with an individual in …
/r/seduction22/07/24 08:27 PM
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For example, in nightgame it is perfectly fine to start with a compliment but in daygame it is not okay to start with a compliment unless you have nothing else in your mind. Not entirely true in the blanket way your applying it. 99% of people you come across in day game are people you're stumbling across in public momentarily. There isn't much to notice other than ones appearance, so trying to act like you're talking to them for alterior reasons other than they're attractive, when you are isn't …
/r/seduction22/07/24 08:11 PM
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His logic makes no sense considering snap and text ain't any more communication friendly than IG for "asking questions". If she cared to. Id stick to the other advice more, just play it casual and leave it to you meet in person.
/r/seduction22/07/24 07:57 PM
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I'm aware that's why I said pussy footing around is stupid and counter intuitive. Don't know why this is so hard for you to understand. Unless you're asking a friend just to fuck not one will "think they're a slut" from you asking them out. Ops logic being wrong/flawed doesn't mean we cater to OPs flawed/wrong logic
/r/seduction22/07/24 07:22 PM
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Yes.... you ask them out, if they say no you go back to being friends. Unless you're in highschool this isn't an unheard of concept.
/r/seduction22/07/24 06:59 PM
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I paused my movie for this The fuck I care what you're doing when you decide to reply? oh I didn't ask you out my friends took my phone You're not making it any less weird by not being upfront with your intentions, and not being upfront just makes it easier for one to misconstrue your intentions, completely sidestepping the purpose of asking them out. Asking a girl out isn't professing your undying love for them.
/r/seduction22/07/24 06:21 PM
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Sure *if you're in highschool and are trying to fuck around in a toxic friend group Then yes this will work.
/r/seduction22/07/24 05:39 PM
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The fuck you need plausible deniability for. You're asking a girl out , not committing a crime. If you're too pussy to be able to accept a girl turning you down, then you shouldn't be asking girls out.
/r/seduction22/07/24 05:38 PM
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Unless you can meet her naturally through other means than no you're simply just one in the sea of thousands.
/r/seduction22/07/24 04:48 PM
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White Knighting is also coming to their "defense", like acting like every girl is a damsel in distress and you'll be their "knight in shining armor" by helping them. They usually take the responsibility of helping onto themselves, without even being asked. But with alterior motives/expectations for helping like you mentioned.
/r/seduction21/07/24 04:38 PM
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What are you 12?
/r/seduction20/07/24 03:12 PM
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Ah I get it. And yeah that generally applies in a varying degree. But as I said, you can't apply logic/rational/generalization to mentally unstable people. Not one person here or yourself can reliably predict the outcome in any reasonable fashion other than the odds of it ending badly /negative ly are significantly higher.
/r/seduction19/07/24 09:35 PM
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If a girl thinks you're a creep for asking them out/hitting on them, she is the problem. If a girl thinks you are a creep because she said no and you keep trying thinking she's playing hard to get or that she's "lying" about having a bf, you are the problem no means no, you can have your conscious clean that you are not doing anything wrong. A lot of girls that I approach and rejects me say thank you for the respectful way I talked with them, despite not being interested Yeah it's almost weird(b…
/r/seduction19/07/24 09:17 PM
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There is no question, she's mentally unstable, I still don't know what pre selection is nor do I really care because I know it will not apply to someone mentally unstable. There is no logic/rationale to apply to those who are irrational. She most likely will care less after getting with you, or fall in love with you for a short time before getting bored.
/r/seduction19/07/24 08:40 PM
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I have no clue what the fu k you're talking about with pre selection, but you're literally asking should I go for the mentally unstable girl who only wants me due to jealousy and need for validation or girl who straight up wants me and wants to fuck me. I'm not answering that for you because you should be smart enough to figure that one out. And if not you'll learn sooner rather then later.
/r/seduction19/07/24 08:24 PM
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I started the car and said thank you I got my answer. I got really sad and then she asked me why I was so sad, so I told her that I really thought that we would kiss before I leave, to which she replied “do you think I am that kinda women who’ll kiss anyone” I told her no I don’t want her for just hookups You're leaving the country bro...so how would it not be this lol. To answer your question You act normal tomorrow like nothing happened. You got your answer. Now suck it up.
/r/seduction19/07/24 06:41 PM
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Hey good job mr pimp. First time I've agreed with you because your logic is pretty on point, and not flawed. You're improving. The only point I add, is people confuse "faking confidence" with being not sincere /true to who you are like making up a completely different/false version of themselves. Eg say you just had your first time kissing a random girl on a night out. Faking confidence would be acting like it's no big thing, even though inside you're giddy as a school girl. That doesn't mean yo…
/r/seduction19/07/24 04:30 PM
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whatever you say little troll
/r/seduction18/07/24 05:45 PM
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Well I wouldn't say can I chat with you. Because you sound foreign/ESL as fuck. And it's super weird to slide into dms saying can I chat with you, since that's what you're doing anyways if she replies. Is she a random or do you actually know her lol. Easiest is just commenting something on their story as an icebreaker.
/r/seduction18/07/24 05:12 PM
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I don’t understand why so many women do it, it’s the most unattractive shit ever like bruh this is a first date calm down 😭 Dude he propositioned sex, she didn't just say it out of the blue on a first date. Calm down there young blood. If you think women putting up soft rejections/barriers is the most unattractive shit ever, you evidently don't understand women , nor going to get far with that mentality.
/r/seduction18/07/24 03:33 PM
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uhuh
/r/seduction18/07/24 02:58 PM
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Tried it 50+ times, it always works Prove it then lmao.
/r/seduction18/07/24 07:37 AM
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Nope not how that works.
/r/seduction18/07/24 07:36 AM
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Hahaha I mean hey it's your life. Definitely out of pocket though.
/r/seduction18/07/24 02:18 AM
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One way I see it people may say it’s a numbers game and I am wasting my time. How are you wasting your time? You evidently don't have any hotter chicks taking up your time to even be asking this soo.... And I've definitely fallen for girls I've completely had off my radar , until getting to know them.(Not that that happened through dates) As long as it's not a significant opportunity cost, as in you have better things to spend your time on nor whining and dining/ shelling out for them, id say...…
/r/seduction18/07/24 01:57 AM
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I made the decision long ago that I prefer having pretty children more than actually tolerating their mom Well that's one way to ensure you instill childhood trauma in your offspring.
/r/seduction18/07/24 01:49 AM
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5-10 drinks is not "just a few drinks to get you in the mood" mate ..
/r/seduction17/07/24 09:45 PM
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If you have to be drunk to be confident enough to talk to strangers, there's inner issues you're not addressing and just using a substance as a crutch.
/r/seduction17/07/24 09:34 PM
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Nothing you said is "game" , I simply don't need excuses or silly "reasons" to ask a girl out, or escalate physically to protect my ego because Im not unable to handle rejection. As my self worth/inner confidence is not tied to the validation I get from the opposite sex. Evidently you are and need to apply these silly methods not based in any sensible logic. Which, hey , whatever works for you. But it's not some secret sauce like your acting it is. And your time and effort is better spent gettin…
/r/seduction17/07/24 09:24 PM
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Yeah I don't need a YouTube video to teach me physical escalation I don't have any issues with intimacy like OP. No, if you have a reason. For example, if you tell her: "I know where they have the best pancakes in town, we should go there tomorrow at 5 p.m." so you are indirectly asking her out. Is there something creepy in this? You trying to "rationalize" it , doesn't change the fact that a girl could find it creepy the same. In this example you're literally just asking her out the same. Your …
/r/seduction17/07/24 09:06 PM
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Those things are a reward for her being a good girl. Found the creepy person in the comments
/r/seduction17/07/24 08:01 PM
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Cause you've done nothing to instill comfortability. You've just tried to be funny and went back to "so anyways we gonna fuck"? And if she wanted to just come and fuck she most likely wouldn't be talking about being comfortable/you a stranger. Because nothing you say over text can actually alleviate the fact you two are total strangers who've never met.
/r/seduction17/07/24 07:59 PM
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Dude who I knew got laid the most from cold approach while out, (rip my mate), would go up to dozens of girls a night. He wasn't anything special looks wise, he wasn't flaunting wealth, he wasn't Casanova spitting fire while drunk he was finding a girl who also wanted to fuck. Don't even think he even talked to any of them after/could tell you their names. Because neither side was looking for a relationship or anything like that. But everyone who you suggest doing similar (like OP) will give som…
/r/seduction17/07/24 07:55 PM
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Because they don't wave a flag saying " I'm into metal heads come talk to me" You're just scared of rejection. Period. Exposure therapy, aka asking 100 girls out helps show you that there's nothing to be scared of. Your world won't crumble. And you have 0 clue if it'll work or not because you've evidently never done it and thus have nothing to go off of but your own negative view of your self worth/value.
/r/seduction17/07/24 07:52 PM
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Everything you said, it's still contact/intimacy. For someone with fear of intimacy, touching her hand, or grabbing her by waist or neck (the neck example i wouldn't recommend either, that's pretty fkn aggressive) is no different. Everything you said has the exact same "risk of being creepy" for someone with these preconceived misaligned perceptions. His fear of intimacy is the issue at hand. Tryin to act like it's creepy (when it's not) unless you "have a reason" is completely counterintuitive.…
/r/seduction17/07/24 07:49 PM
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If you have a witty/playful attitude, maybe, just maybe it is not creepy, but it is still a case of "high risk - high reward This only exists in your head.
/r/seduction17/07/24 07:26 PM
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Yes, of course it is creepy to touch them or grab their hand, Except it's not. Unless you're doing this to random people on the street, physical escalation isn't "creepy" and only exists in OPs head that it's creepy to physically escalate.
/r/seduction17/07/24 06:58 PM
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Based on that logic a therapist can't help your addiction to drugs if they've never been an addict, can't help your childhood SA trauma if they've never been SA'd as a child. They don't need to personally relate to you to help solve your problems. which won't help you change in the permanent, powerful ways you need to change Ops issue isn't some unheard of phenomenon that , only males would be able to address. And not every male has issues with intimacy nor anywhere near same life experience in …
/r/seduction17/07/24 06:56 PM
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You don't need a therapist to be able to "personally relate" to you in order to help solve your problems. And this issue OP is having, isn't some rare/unheard of phenomenon.
/r/seduction17/07/24 06:53 PM
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If his line didn't work , yours isn't any different. Ops thinking there's some secret sauce, when there isn't lol. You'll know if they're down by talking to them. If not they'll reject you like OPs
/r/seduction17/07/24 06:08 PM
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So then you never have to worry about high body count, ruining your frail ego, she can just lie to you, just like she will in bed.
/r/seduction14/07/24 09:23 PM
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It's hard for ugly girls to have bunch of sexual partners that are attractive males. The same way it's hard for you to pull attractive girls. Attractive men and women do not have this issue the same. This it is not a male vs woman issue. If you lowered your standards to the bottom it'd be easy. But neither side wants to do that generally.
/r/seduction14/07/24 09:08 PM
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Congratulations kid you're growing up. Proud of you.
/r/seduction14/07/24 09:06 PM
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Lol yeah some twitter incels "data finding" is not a research study for one. Nor does it prove the claim OC said. You found a relationship between indefinitely/cheating and high partners. That does not say "women who sleep with more people lose the ability to form an emotional connection" I don't expect you to understand that, that that isn't the same thing.
/r/seduction14/07/24 09:06 PM
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White knight soyboys like you are whats killing this sub. Hahaha yeah, the sub not validating your incel logic is killing this sub. You lot fucking kill me.
/r/seduction14/07/24 09:02 PM
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It’s HARD to have sex with ATTRACTIVE girls. Don’t lower your standards. Same with girls. So exactly what I said.
/r/seduction14/07/24 07:34 PM
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Just a bunch of lonely , insecure, sex obsessed redditors who further incel logic. The only ones getting bitches with this type of incel logic, are already vastly more attractive than these types so their toxic traits/flaws are less relevant. If you get bitches there's 0 reason to lurk on this sub unless you're talking about your experiences/trying to help others. And considering not one of these people ever relate this logic to personal stories and experiences is pretty evident they are not tha…
/r/seduction14/07/24 07:30 PM
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So the idea is a woman feels an emotional connection to her sexual partners but when she has so many she loses the ability. Prove this claim. Send me the scientific evidence that this is a thing, that women "lose" the ability to have emotional connection in a way men can not. We don't have to argue over your analogy, let's argue over your scientific claims your analogy is based on.
/r/seduction14/07/24 07:27 PM
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Nope your shit analogies don't work, fucking other people is not any different between sexes. Whatever incel logic you choose to believe to try to rationalize that , is irrelevant. You guys try so hard to be faultless and not just accept you have a hypocritical belief. People would respect you more if you just admitted it
/r/seduction14/07/24 07:17 PM
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Hahaha I'm not concerned buddy. Incel logic isn't getting any of you bitches high body count or low anyways.
/r/seduction14/07/24 07:15 PM
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Exactly, it’s HARD to have a high body count as a man, so therefore it’s praised No it's not. If you're trying to make sweeping generalizations, that does not fit. And just like ugly men don't want to bang ugly women, ugly women don't want to bang ugly men. So the same thing applies about it being "hard".
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:25 PM
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Best sex/head of my life was from a high body count women. Even dated for a bit, because she was past that stage in her life. Fizzled out for different reasons but not cause of the sex.
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:23 PM
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That's a weird way of saying "lie to me so I feel better and don't get self conscious"
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:22 PM
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This is not a "double standard" or hypocritical in any way... it's no different than if a woman wants to date a taller man. She's short so she has no right to a taller man? Lol that's silly. Just as this is Also silly. Trying to rationalize being a hypocrite, with genetic traits that one does not choose is fucking hilarious logic. You're allowed to be a hypocrite. You don't have to make up shitty illogical analogies try and rationalize and make yourself feel better. You're allowed to be flawed, …
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:21 PM
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We as humans live in the 21st century, we're thousands of years past hunter gatherer stage. It all comes down to your beliefs. If you’re belief is more rooted in history and biology Yeah, racist and homophobes use this same logic, it doesn't make it's right because it's their "beliefs"
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:18 PM
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It wouldn’t make you a hypocrite if you’re able to explain why a man’s body count is different than a woman’s Attempting to rationalize your double standards , doesn't make u not a hypocrite lmao. Everything after is incel logic ’m not sure where I personally stand on this yet but the common argument is woman experience sex with much more emotion then men do and the idea is this is because of biology. In primitive times a woman having sex meant she relied on the man she chose to provide and prot…
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:16 PM
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Yeah, that's why I specifically said socialization. And being around people is better than you, and trial and error is how you learn to be better at it. Unless you struggle to understand social queues /human emotion, which reading about it, isn't going to suddenly help you. It's not some technical skill that requires "education". Playful banter is about understanding human emotions/reaction. That literally requires the human element. You can't just describe every possible variable in a book for …
/r/seduction11/07/24 09:15 PM
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"how do I find a book for this socialization skill, because practicing it while socializing isn't working for me" Uh...what Unless OP has no friends, and never met anyone while out and about, who is good at it. The logic does not compute. Because that's how people literally learn/improve those skills.
/r/seduction11/07/24 06:38 PM
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Sounds like a great "mentor"
/r/seduction11/07/24 05:47 PM
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Plenty of people approach people in everyday scenarios and find success. Not going to take advice from someone who calls themselves e-simp and signs each comment as if it was an email. While also linking some scam online gambling website in his profile
/r/seduction11/07/24 05:24 PM
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Yeah being creepy and not understanding social ques and harassing women is easy way to get banned. Approaching women at a mall does not necessitate any of that above. In which you wouldn't be trespassed for. No one said go up to every girl you see and don't take no for an answer lmao.
/r/seduction11/07/24 04:55 PM
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If mall security tells you to leave and you dont, you are absolutely going to get cops. Who said don't listen to security? Oc commented doing this gets you kicked out, you replied also trespassing charges. Nor OP nor OC in this chain said "spamming" anything nor don't listen to security. So are you confusing your comment chains? Or just adding in other aspects to make yourself right?
/r/seduction10/07/24 10:17 PM
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You're not getting a trespassing charge for approaching women lmao. Unless you've actually crossed into illegal/dangerous behavior. What malls do you fucking go to that they're just handing out trespassing notices like a stamp. Especially when it has to come from the establishment not just the whim of a security guard.
/r/seduction10/07/24 10:09 PM
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oh no...anyway
/r/seduction09/07/24 11:31 PM
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And what's the nearest town/area that does have social events/your age demographic that isn't a whole days drive away? Talking to girls you can't reasonably reach is honestly a poor waste of time. Like dangling cake in front of a fat kid behind a window.
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:02 PM
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Where do you live that has 0 social events that aren't the pub? Zero matches on dating apps has nothing to do with what I'm saying nor indicative of social activities you're not going to lmao. Real world and dating apps aren't synonymous/equal
/r/seduction09/07/24 09:56 PM
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Lol yeah, that's it. There's nothing wrong with OP, it's just his penis that's not getting girls. I wonder how your type even exists in the real world.
/r/seduction09/07/24 08:32 PM
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How much time are you spending each week going out and doing social activities to actually meet people in your vicinity?
/r/seduction09/07/24 07:52 PM
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Where do you think the term "passport bro" comes from
/r/seduction09/07/24 07:46 PM
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they should be very concerned about it because once you have a wide enough reputation of a creep then it's completely over This is laughable what are you, in highschool? Unless you're being an actual creep you're not going to have a "wide reputation" of a creep. But sure then just don't talk to girls, problem solved?
/r/seduction09/07/24 06:47 PM
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Do you understand that it only takes a few of these experiences to make you want to stop approaching? Which is a you problem, for internalizing it. It's not anyone elses fault you take it personally. Not one successful approacher is overly concerned about looking like a creep. Doesn't mean they've only had positive interactions. But if you want to have a pity party over "it's hawwwwd and uncomfortable" , then sure go ahead. Won't bring you any closer to success in any capacity.
/r/seduction09/07/24 05:52 PM
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You can stick your head in the dirt and pretend this is only an issue with a very small amount of girls if you wish, but I disagree. And you can either realize you did nothing wrong, and you're not the problem and carry on. Or internalize it which will simply lead to inaction. Has nothing to do with "sticking my head in the dirt" it's just irrelevant in the grand scheme. One bad experience doesn't somehow change that. And No successful approacher is overly concerned about being seen as creepy.
/r/seduction09/07/24 05:19 PM
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Those women's behavior is not indicative of the entire female mind set. Those people just has some crazy ego/narcissistic tendencies/extreme desire for attention. Idk if that's still a trend or not now, but if that's not actively looking for something to be creeped out about idk what is. And indeed it is. But anyone jumping to "they're a creep" for normal behavior, is indicative of them being flawed not you.
/r/seduction09/07/24 04:08 PM
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This is only really true if you're super ugly, like people would be concerned to be beside you on the street. It's also an irrelevant misnomer, as long as you understand social queues it's never going to be an actual issue. And it's relative. As attractive guys can easily follow into the creep category. And there's no objective scale that every woman is going adhere too and suddenly accept any negative/toxic behavior. Being pushy and not taking no for an answer easily gets you into this territor…
/r/seduction09/07/24 03:48 PM
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false NEXT
/r/seduction09/07/24 12:10 AM
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Doesn't mean that at all lol. But guys on here always like to think if you just fuck em good they fall in love and that's all there is to it. But ops logic is flawed, he thinks if he somehow checks off the boxes, does the steps then boom long term relationship. But there's nothing really to go off of here, as we just have one sided take, and not much information. For one they don't want a relationship means they don't want a relationship with you. And for most girls, even guys, this is how it ba…
/r/seduction08/07/24 11:10 PM
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The offspring thing being attributed to Genghis isn't even accurate, he wasn't even the most prolific "father" of them. He had 15 sons. Khan's eldest son, Tushi, is reported to have had 40 sons. Documents written during or just after Khan's reign say that after a conquest, looting, pillaging, and rape were the spoils of war for all soldiers, but that Khan got first pick of the beautiful women. His grandson, Kubilai Khan, who established the Yuan Dynasty in China, had 22 legitimate sons, and was …
/r/seduction08/07/24 08:07 PM
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My approach for attracting girls is often eye contact, smiles and acting nonchalant really because i have no confidence to speak to them and nothing to say unless she makes her interest obvious then i have no problem. But i am not shy, have no issue speaking to people my age i know and new people who are older and i am not trying to seduce in a relationship manor. This is a lot of nothing to say you're scared of direct approach lol. But good thing Charisma and confidence are not just inherent tr…
/r/seduction08/07/24 04:00 PM
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That wasn't hundreds of thousands of years ago lol. Nor was it all from just Genghis lol.
/r/seduction08/07/24 03:56 PM
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Dude he was being facetious about turning your flirtation towards the bf lol.
/r/seduction08/07/24 02:50 PM
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100 percent clean and never caught herpes, even went to doctor had my blood checked. That doesn't answer when. So was that this month last month? Several years ago? Because they realize their pussy is really not all that special on a pedestal like they use it to manipulate men.... I'm. Grown man mate, and not once did I get offended , just laughing at you. Ahh little incel logic. Now I understand
/r/seduction05/07/24 06:47 PM
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What a cop out. Answer the question, when was the last time you got tested for herpes? You care so much about if others have it but can't even verify you're 100% clean? But hey go ahead and ask random girls for a recent STD report , before kissing them. It's your life not mine. And you shouldn't be having piv sex with anyone without a condom period.
/r/seduction05/07/24 06:33 PM
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No , infection rate is not 100% So it doesn't work that way And hsv1 and hsv2, are not the same thing either and transmission % is different for both. And both can be spread without having symptoms/lesions aka asymptomatic spreading,/shedding. And 50-80% of Americans age 14-49 have hsv1. Usually from their childhood. AND 80% of people with genital herpes aren't aware they have it. So do you not kiss girls before seeing a recent std test? Hsv1 causing genital herpes is lower probability than hsv2…
/r/seduction05/07/24 06:20 PM
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..... You're worried about cold sores?...Lmfao You know 50-80% have of American adults have "oral herpes" and can have it without getting cold sores /still spread it. You know that's not the same as genital herpes right?
/r/seduction05/07/24 03:03 PM
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If you're a sad incel yeah
/r/seduction05/07/24 01:28 AM
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You've went on 1 date? That's not small talk lmao, I'm saying that's as far as you should go about preplanning future events. Worrying is just being afraid of something that hasn't happened/doesn't exist yet. It either is fine, or not fine. Nothing you can do to change that. Id wait a week from what she's back to see if she reaches out, if not you can reach out to gauge interest/invite her out to something less intense
/r/seduction04/07/24 07:30 PM
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Rookie move indeed, don't be afraid to establish, potential/hypothetical plans regarding similar interests and hobbies and stuff. "You've never done x , then I need to take you " "oh you like x too we should do that sometime" But don't try to lockdown the next date before she's even processed the one you've just had.
/r/seduction04/07/24 06:26 PM
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If you live in any normal NA city, this seems pretty reasonable. But if they 20 mins the opposite direction and thus are going 40+ mins away from home, their might be hesitation if you're not offering to Uber then home
/r/seduction04/07/24 04:55 PM
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Ahaha, nah you're good bro. Just from that comment alone, you've wiped any concern id have about you being a potential "pseudo -intellectual" type. Whatever helps you better understand these things and be more effective.
/r/seduction04/07/24 04:15 PM
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Dude...you didn't have to try to be plato here, making up your own theories for what's boiled down to charisma /conversational ability ol.
/r/seduction04/07/24 09:51 AM
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Dude women out in social gatherings are there ..to be social..not fake being impressed by your magic trick. While i could play a part As an opener to talk to a girl it's a terribly stupid idea.
/r/seduction04/07/24 09:50 AM
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You're not confident and funny, you already described yourself as ugly and said you have no interests passions or hobbies. I don't know anyone with those traits who are "funny" unless you mean being the butt of the joke. No wonder your girl ran away to something better.
/r/seduction04/07/24 09:48 AM
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So go pay for one, you're in Europe. Dream accomplished.
/r/seduction04/07/24 09:01 AM
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So why would a girl want to fuck a self proclaimed loser with 0 personality, 0 hobbies or interest, and 0 going for him? Just pay for sex and realize everything you've based your entire mindset on is a lie/meaningless and then work on peicing together your whole personal identity together bit by bit.
/r/seduction04/07/24 09:00 AM
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You need professional help dude. And since you live in a conservative Muslim country...you probably never will. I don't have my own desires or ambitions and I do not plan to get any So why the hell would any girl want to fuck you? Are you some chiseled 6ft Adonis looking man? Because without that , women are only going to see a sad sex repressed child with nothing going for him.
/r/seduction04/07/24 08:59 AM
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And only really matters for first impression/approach. It's not a replacement for being charismatic/having a personality. Ex #1 had a friend fawning over this guy, 6ft something , fit, tattoos , etc. has it made right? My friend eventually went out with him and reported back basically saying she lost all attraction, because he was more boring than a wet noodle. And being ,6ft whatever, fit with tattoos was literally his personality. Nothing else. Ex#2 dude with the best game in my group, and the…
/r/seduction03/07/24 07:45 PM
2

You should go outside more instead of "reading about attraction". Now it's too late and I missed out on my prime to attract someone. False
/r/seduction03/07/24 02:21 PM
1

Why /how? That's not something to occur normally
/r/seduction03/07/24 02:20 PM
2

That's not called communication that's called making assumptions based on someone's actions.
/r/seduction01/07/24 05:19 AM
4

Magic thing called communication
/r/seduction01/07/24 05:15 AM
2

You're choosing to respond my friend. If someone calls me and I don't want to talk to them I don't pick up. And then we don't spend all night talking. You want to spend all night talking to this friend so you choose to pick up. Not picking up because you have a life and can't spend all night talking, isn't childish or cold. When a girl im talking to texts me at work I don't reply, why? Because then we'd spend the next hour talking and I have to deal with big boy things instead like..work. Same f…
/r/seduction30/06/24 09:52 PM
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Quit to try hard at stuff u actually need for your survival and your family's comfort. This, and this goes for anything you use to significantly preoccupy your time, bring comfort /solace to you and give your brain hits of dopamine it needs. Hard things are always hard until you start overcoming hard things then your brain literally grows and adapts and becomes better adjusted at tackling future hard things.
/r/seduction29/06/24 01:46 AM
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No it doesn't lmao. What dumb logic. Just be yourself literally applies to any type of relationship. You think girls are only going to be attracted to you by pretending to be something you're not? The whole principle of that statement, is it's easier to be yourself than pretend you're something you're not in the hopes of gaining validation and attraction of others.
/r/seduction28/06/24 10:50 PM
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He asked if you're genuinely feel the things you say or just saying things you think will get in their pants. Being authentic>thinking there's some magic /secret trick to say. Most beautiful girls know they're beautiful and don't need you to remind them as your first opening/interaction nor care unless you're even more attractive, but obviously that's not the case here.
/r/seduction28/06/24 06:23 PM
1

Not how that works.
/r/seduction28/06/24 06:14 PM
3

Yes buddy I'm aware, but hooker has already been said, and he refused to believe it, squawking like a parrot about it's a hooker isn't going to change that. Which is why my point was, if it wasn't a hooker or still wasn't some fumble.
/r/seduction27/06/24 11:26 PM
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I mean as a stoner, if some girl is interested in getting high, and possible sexy times, I don't normally jump the gun on the planned sesh and go right to attempting sexy times. So idk if this is really a fumble. Hindsight is always 20/20, but you don't exactly know she would've been down if you tried earlier. If you tried nothing and didn't kiss that would've been a fumble. But if she actually wanted to have sex with you then and there, and x minutes later after kissing and seshimg , she's not …
/r/seduction27/06/24 10:29 PM
1

Lol what does this mean?
/r/seduction27/06/24 09:01 PM
1

"normies and non normies" aren't any "type" of classification regarding women lol, at least not in context of OC you replied to. He's talking about being overtly specific and afraid to branch out. If you refuse to talk to anyone you don't immediately classify as "non normies" than yeah that would be an issue.
/r/seduction26/06/24 03:32 PM
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That sounds a lot more than a "single type" mah dude.
/r/seduction26/06/24 03:24 PM
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And what's that?
/r/seduction26/06/24 02:49 PM
3

So funnny too "Sometimes in Toronto they're cautious when I approach, in Miami it they're not like that "...they just ask for money and gifts after And it's like yeh dude.... you wouldn't be nervous being approached by potential customers pitching you offers for your business would ya now compared to randomly on their street. For them it's the same thing , as their business is simply whoring themselves out.
/r/seduction26/06/24 02:30 PM
6

I mean if you're into bimbo aesthetic then yeah.
/r/seduction26/06/24 02:25 PM
2

"I go on perfect dates where I am amazing but still get ghosted" "Don't tell me to fix my beliefs" Nah bro you need to fix yourself cause obviously you're doing something wrong. Probably because they realize you're putting on a fake persona you're not for their attention and it becomes evident on a date.
/r/seduction26/06/24 01:51 PM
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What if i’m an edgy smart gangster. That sounds like someone who spends too much time behind the computer being sarcastic would say. If you can't make a girl laugh at all, you're boring. But If she expects something you can't achieve, like being a comedian every 5 seconds. Than she's not for you. I think i’m just going for the wrong crowd of women sort of, i’m mostly a very serious person. But yes on a macro level your approach/target is definitely off.
/r/seduction20/06/24 05:00 PM
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Yes most girls don't want to fuck boring uninteresting losers. Which is irrelevant if you actually are, because that's how you're coming across through your actions.
/r/seduction20/06/24 04:36 PM
1

Yes that's what happens when you go meeting girls who are looking for relationships lol.
/r/seduction20/06/24 04:35 PM
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Lol I love seeing this incel logic. What the fuck is a dominance hierarchy Because if not, you won't find any luck at clubs, bars, music festivals too. I mean just unequivocally false. But hey , have a pity party because that's easier than improving yourself and your communication abilities.
/r/seduction20/06/24 04:32 PM
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It's very tiring to someone like myself because I have to do well more than 10x the work of other men but for 10x less reward. This is just how life is and there's nothing you can do to change it. This is a defeatist attitude, and unnecessarily hyperbolic. Comparison is the thief of all joy Your logic is extremely flawed. And if that's your current results you're doing something wrong. Also Insanity is doing the same thing over and expecting a different result. So if you've put in 10x the effort…
/r/seduction19/06/24 09:21 PM
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Yup, it's advice I've given two people over the years. "You'd go 80% farther in life, if you talked 20% less". They were both blabber machines, filling any airspace with their voice. No purpose/intention or goal to what they're saying. And it's not like they had a voice like Morgan Freeman where you'd happily listen to anything. One was recent, and his "effectiveness/attractiveness" on any given night was like an bell curve, or upside down parabola. Starts of strong because he's unavoidably loud…
/r/seduction19/06/24 08:57 PM
3

Rock climbing and pickleball (if it's a thing in your area). And it's not like you have to be super fit/in shape /amazing at it.
/r/seduction19/06/24 08:37 PM
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Happens all the time. Yeah because you only passed the vision test...lol But whatever helps you cope at night.
/r/seduction19/06/24 08:36 PM
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Looking better is all relative to those above and below the average No it's not. I look better in shape than a fat fuck I don't need to start graphing distribution of average weight of other men to conclude that. I also don't work out only for aesthetic purposes. That’s really my point. If everyone is great than no one is, if everyone is rich then money loses its value, if everyone is attractive the bar just gets raised. Which is a useless point because you will never have everyone rich or every…
/r/seduction17/06/24 03:29 AM
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If you're not making it exclusive for no reason and open to other possibilities while still exploring this one because you think it's worth it and it's too early to tell. Then nothing else matters We aren't you and our anecdotal evidence has no bearing on your situation.
/r/seduction15/06/24 11:59 PM
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If anyone starts talking about cavemanen they subscribe to incel biology and should not listen to them. Being committed to one woman and not fucking everything possible to have multiple babies would make you weak human too. But this is 21st century so doesn't make any sense. There's nothing wrong with what you did. Don't spend on lavish , extravagant stuff because that is unnecessary and doesn't come off as genuine. (Showering with gifts/extravagant stuff is often a manipulative tactic like love…
/r/seduction15/06/24 10:52 PM
2

You're talking about hyper focusing, which is common for ADHD and autism. (As they're both part of similar venn diagram of neurodivergency). Not that, that a lone necessitates you have either. A lot of people have some degree of high interest/Attention over something they're really passionate about. But just on surface level from your comment you seem a step above that degree tbh. Especially since it's something active/physical.
/r/seduction15/06/24 12:19 AM
1

Yes, bullshit parameters are going to be common on dating apps. The same girls who say 6ft and above are not holding that exact same standard in person.
/r/seduction14/06/24 05:25 PM
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What is the incel logic. How old are you ten? Have you gone outside your neighborhood much? Guys can be skinny, fat, obese , short, tall, shredded, jacked, and still get a gf. That's why there's this thing called personal attraction/preference. If you're skinny and girls are rejecting you, your issue isn't that you're skinny.
/r/seduction14/06/24 05:23 PM
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Yeah people seem to conflate advice of matching their energy with showing intent. Matching energy is fine, in texting communications as in don't be sending 20 texts in ,5 mins to her 1 every few hours ,Or vice versa. And similar in person, if they're expressive and open , don't intentionally be closed off , stoic/solemn as fuck. But Like... stop being fucking weird about talking to girls. There's no reason to keep it short or wait days, which is a fucking eternity, mind you, just to hit her up t…
/r/seduction14/06/24 04:47 PM
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Why does every guy here have one negative scenario and try to make wide sweeping generalizations about their lives and want to change their life/very being over 1 person not working out. The same way a sample of 1 is absolutely meaningless for any type of study/to pull any conclusion. Your reaction with 1 girl is meaningless. It is not data to pull conclusions from its a single scenario. Just as you see here plenty of feminine guys get pussy. I've met very feminine guys that'd one would easily a…
/r/seduction13/06/24 03:47 PM
1

I think this is better than the getting heart broken again. Wrong, that's called trauma.
/r/seduction13/06/24 01:56 PM
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Negative/toxic attachment styles stem from your childhood/upbringing. Negative stimuli from back then manifests into how you deal with/handle emotional relationships. No clue how to fix it tho cos I’m still the same as you Talking to a trained health professional is the "simplest" way to help solve/overcome these negative stuck thought patterns. Especially when you feel helpless/unable to help yourself.
/r/seduction13/06/24 08:16 AM
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I mean that's not abnormal. You never actually liked them /have feelings for them if you feel like that after banging lmao you just wanted to bang them, the attraction was purely physical, that's fine. But this or i start to feel that im falling in love. I will freeze up, or start to overthink that eventually we will part ways, and i will suddenly be overcome by the urge to find a new girl. Is a problem. And sounds like it is rooted in some deep seeded insecurities regarding relationships/abando…
/r/seduction13/06/24 08:11 AM
1

If you' were social and outgoing, had various friends/groups, did various activities, then school should be easier. - I wish this was the case. I did all that and I couldnt ever get a date. Did you talk to girls and ask them out? LoL But that's also my point, the things I list do make it easier, but many people find themselves/be comfortable and secure with themselves and become an all around more attractive person, post school. I wasn't giving a recipe for success. Just why people can find it e…
/r/seduction12/06/24 12:46 AM
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There's nothing stopping you from being this way after college. College took up way more than 40 hours/week for me and I had to work an extra 20hr/week job then too. Oh of course that was my point I was getting at. If you fit in the bubble you could have an easier/better time. If you didn't fit the bubble you'd have a better/easier time post school, just requires a little effort. I was in commerce and I found out I had basically the lightest course load compared to others. Like sciences I rememb…
/r/seduction11/06/24 08:01 PM
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Yeah It really just depends on your social life/surrounding. If you' were social and outgoing, had various friends/groups, did various activities, then school should be easier. Because you're simply surrounded by more people in similar life stage as you, without a lot less life worries/stressors that those in the workforce had. Post school as a full time working man. Other than going to the gym , I don't want to do anything after work including going out. At school that wasn't an issue and my gr…
/r/seduction11/06/24 07:19 PM
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Yeah exactly, if you have severe social anxiety that it stops you from being able to engage people in public, that's not normal. And using a substance to overcome that rarely ever solves/addresses the underlying problem. The same way an addict abusing a substance to escape/avoid their trauma doesn't actually work/solve the issue. It's just a negative/toxic coping strategy. "Exposure/rejection therapy" (where you set out with the goal to not succeed but say get turned down 10x in a night can be e…
/r/seduction11/06/24 07:12 PM
2

double down on being nice to them might piss them off even more I thought that was the point because they can't look good to being bitchy towards nothing but politeness/kindness . And gives no opportunity for anyone else to have to pick sides/be against you. So it's the most "neutral ' stance possible.
/r/seduction11/06/24 05:33 AM
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Yeah that's fair.I totally get where you're coming from now. Thinking about it more, For OP specifically , there's definitely issues of escalating/vibe before that end close though. Because setting that tone/vibe doesn't necessitate nor is it solely predetermined on kissing at end of date/during. So while some girls might care about that you shouldn't/wouldn't have 100% no second dates, if you were checking off the rest of boxes to them during the date. *I also don't like trying to set up a seco…
/r/seduction09/06/24 10:01 PM
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Which is fine but dude doesn't need to bring a girl back to his place to kiss her for the first time lmao. You're just adding more complex layers as a solution to a problem that needs none. And unless there's some cultural issues with OP, which would be understandable, I haven't met one who was against me soft escalating in public.
/r/seduction09/06/24 09:30 PM
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Yes it's perfectly normal to feel horny then. And unless your so unhorny during the other time that the thought of doing sex or anything sexual would turn you off , than your fine in that regard too and it won't cause you problems in a relationship. And everyone's different in this regard, a wide spectrum of personal preference. But unless there's more evidence to believe of hormonal/biological problems with your body, you're all good.
/r/seduction09/06/24 09:27 PM
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If these girls are looking for relationships vast majority are not going to go to his place after a first date. So that's definitely not the solution. Also...who the fuck cares if there's people around? What is this highschool? You're kissing not having sex on the street.
/r/seduction09/06/24 08:59 PM
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Yeah I'm not reading any of that. No I've never been cheated on, stopped caring to read after your lane attempts of ad hominen attacks But yes keep typing paragraphs about how much you don't care and how not triggered you are. It really proves your point I'm not going to read it though. I simply don't care that you're upset for me clearly pointing out you don't apply the same logic you speak. You're free to continue.
/r/seduction08/06/24 09:09 PM
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yap yap yap Uhuh whatever you say buddy. Yup you're a definitely psychologist here. Saying it's justBasic human psychology and then saying he doesn't disrespect women. Fucking peak irony So if I cheat on every single partner cause cave man want much sex for many babies it's just human biology right? I didn't disrespect any women? Whatever helps you sleep at night
/r/seduction08/06/24 08:39 PM
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You and your friends evidently don't go to a bar for any purpose...so no your point doesn't make any sense and "didn't work for you" because there was no choice made to begin with. I can say don't look for Muslim girls in a church, but if your Muslim you'd never be going to church in the first place so while 100% correct it doesn't make any actual fucking sense lmao.
/r/seduction08/06/24 08:37 PM
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Me posting lay reports and disrespecting women , not sure how you connected that logic ? This you? If you let it out easily , it’s very easy to assume you don’t respect yourself and the guy wouldn’t either Aka you don't respect women your banging Don't act dumb and naive buddy.
/r/seduction08/06/24 07:52 PM
2

"some people just get triggered" No projection here at all Fucking l o l
/r/seduction08/06/24 07:51 PM
0

So your comment doesn't make any sense with that logic whatsoever, nor would it apply to vast majority of word like your pitiful attempt of a point your trying to make. If drinking is so faux paux in your country you wouldn't be going to a bar for any purpose would you then mate? DOH
/r/seduction08/06/24 07:38 PM
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That commenter posts "hook up reports" so he has nothing to comment on "respecting women" whatsoever. But just because a guy bangs you doesn't mean he wants to be emotionally involved. The solution isn't to be emotionally unavailable to men who just want to bang you that'd be irrelevant to them. But to look for men who want to be emotionally involved not just bang you.
/r/seduction08/06/24 07:36 PM
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Genius independent people..are definitely at bars. If you said didn't drink then would definitely make more sense. 3 in the night is a bit of a weird parameter though.
/r/seduction08/06/24 02:28 PM
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Exactly. And a "bad" reaction vs "good reaction" is not based on any absolute/objective values, it is only made relevant by you /your insecurities. Only you are putting value/relevance to it. The only difference between A girl telling you to fuck off, or " sorry mate, I'm not interested have a good night" is how polite she is regarding rejecting advances. It tells you nothing about yourself. Both could find you ugly AF, both could have found you attractive but just got out of a relationship and …
/r/seduction02/06/24 09:12 PM
1

No it's not. Pushing someone's boundaries is not "whole point of seduction"
/r/seduction31/05/24 02:23 PM
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Yeah as a dude, I don't mind this at all. Id rather know your intentions just as much than play blues clues of testing boundaries
/r/seduction31/05/24 01:25 AM
1

So you don't need to become arrogant. That's like tipping a teeter totter to other side, insecurity still remains though. You just need to work on improving your source of insecurity.
/r/seduction27/05/24 12:29 AM
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I generally don't care too much about the approval of others. I really only care about what I think. However that also means I don't feel good when I get compliments or positive attention. This isn't humblesss, this is self conscious/insecurity. but for some reason that hasn't increased my confidence one bit. I still feel like a nobody. X2 You don't need to become more arrogant you need to become more self confident inside. Not needing others approval/validation is a good thing. But truly humble…
/r/seduction26/05/24 11:51 PM
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I can understand your sentiment. But unless you're partying often in very crowded places in busy area. (Like major cities downtown core). It's basically impossible to have enough options to take someone home every night. And If we're talking campus/college towns, even being on vacation. That's not indicative of pulling 100% in rest of society. Now I use to know a guy (RIP) who pulled better than the rest of us. We had better talkers/smoozers, better looking, taller, more successful in the group …
/r/seduction24/05/24 06:30 PM
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He brings the same girl to the bar that he takes home.
/r/seduction24/05/24 06:11 PM
2

One evolutionary part would be the woman getting attached unless she's sleeping around. Men can get attached just the same.
/r/seduction22/05/24 05:31 PM
3

Calm down incel
/r/seduction22/05/24 05:27 PM
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I've had and seen it both ways. There's no absolute/general answer that'll apply to everyone. But that's why you need healthy communication. But I've never really seen a FWB end without one side getting attached or the other. Only other scenario I've seen, is some leave because they wanted a partner, but most were willing to have FWB as a partner. So idk if that exactly counts as "getting attached" cause they left that situation due to their needs now not being met/wanting more.
/r/seduction22/05/24 05:27 PM
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but there are definitely some baked in reasons from an evolutionary standpoint as to why there is a double standard for a lot of people in that regard. You're trying to fuck not have babies. Women like to fuck just like men like to fuck. Or else there'd never be any fwb. Trying to bring up evolution to excuse the fact you want to have your cake and eat it too makes you sound like an incel.
/r/seduction22/05/24 05:23 PM
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What... That's not how that works whatsoever. Never had a gf have you?
/r/seduction20/05/24 03:25 AM
16

Get help my dude
/r/seduction10/05/24 01:25 PM
4

They reach out to meet. It doesn't mean stone cold shun them lol
/r/seduction09/05/24 06:45 PM
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This type only works on damaged/insecure people. (I say people because it's not gender specific phenomenon). Now this is indeed a lot of damaged/insecure people out there. And as you said use it at your own risk to whatever morals you may have. *This also only works if they're unwilling to communicate their needs/wants (with goes hand in hand to damaged people). Because if they're willing to ask, you're going to have to answer which would 99% end there (or directly lie).
/r/seduction09/05/24 06:43 PM
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Lol it definitely has nothing to do with being rich.
/r/seduction03/05/24 01:09 PM
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do you expect a woman to say? “Please, only hookups”? Not gonna happen they would feel like sluts. Most of those women hookup for fun without expecting any long term commitment even if they out that’s what they want. You guys in highschool or something? Because yes theyd say "not looking for a relationship or commitment just looking for fun" is exactly what girls say lmao. Ones I've been with, ones I've been friends with etc. Not gonna happen they would feel like sluts Saying they're not looking…
/r/seduction02/05/24 09:27 PM
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You'll encounter a whole spectrum. Don't think anything of it. cold right after I shoot my shot? Simply on to the next one. If they're cold/reject you never take offense/act dejected. You merely got an answer. That's it.
/r/seduction02/05/24 04:52 PM
3

You're rich bro, money talks lmao. Doesn't take years to establish friends and connections
/r/seduction27/04/24 05:36 AM
1

However, I don't understand one of your points : you're telling me that honoring her need for space was a wrong move. How so? I thought that if a girl takes space, if you neglect that boundary, she might be turned off even more? He was saying because of her trauma she's going to be predisposed to toxic guys until the trauma is resolved (if/when, doesn't matter) you are not toxic so you didn't have a chance. There's nothing you can do. Other than accept it.
/r/seduction26/04/24 08:32 PM
1

Thanks buddy I never knew. What op is talking about is called a relationship, it happens after successful seduction. You'll get there one day
/r/seduction26/04/24 03:51 PM
3

You should sleep with other womem Average redditor relationship advice. LMFAO
/r/seduction26/04/24 03:41 PM
1

The speaker matters (See the first rule - be attractive) Be attractive to them* It's not simply the first rule. You can see plenty of attractive women swoon over not universally attractive guys or same caliber. You basically answer how to be attractive to them in next point which is the crux of the matter. Which is why not doing that can be so effective at polarizing and attracting them, In similar light to ops point. Telling a beautiful girl she's beautiful on first contact/approach doesn't't r…
/r/seduction24/04/24 11:37 PM
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Don't listen to redditors here for actual advice lmao. They're mostly horny virgins. Should a 24 year old male want sex regardless of whatever past experience they have or not have? No. But it could be cause for concern There's a biological vs emotional component. Do you get horny, do you have sexual desires/fantasies (libido), do you get boners, like morning wood. These are important to rule out any physical/biological issues. If those are all 0s, it could be biological issue. Then there's emot…
/r/seduction24/04/24 11:11 PM
3

All gud mate
/r/seduction23/04/24 06:25 PM
3

Did you reply to right comment? I only have 1 sentence there
/r/seduction23/04/24 06:16 PM
6

Why do you act like it's mutually exclusive lmao.
/r/seduction23/04/24 05:39 PM
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Did you even read the words after spreading the net wide. He's talking about using all the available options (various apps) lol.
/r/seduction23/04/24 05:38 PM
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I don't know what more direct inviting someone to your house who wants to fuck you. I mean yeah saying do you want to fuck is more direct. But if she's never been to your place already there's no real way of misconstruing that. I also wish putting general age range was mandatory as that changes things for advice but I'm assuming your low 20s.so here we go. Firstly there is no "right answer" me or anyone here can give you, because there's about half a dozen different valid reasons/variables for a…
/r/seduction18/04/24 03:31 AM
0

Well between that and this make you feel bad because you turned them on It's a good thing they're in the past
/r/seduction17/04/24 07:35 PM
3

but they can't have sex because they're on their period Nothing is stopping you other than u 2.
/r/seduction17/04/24 05:03 PM
1

Yeah a guy acted like my best friend in highschool , we weren't friends. I tolerated him cuz i wasn't an overt dick to people. Id put him more as my gfs friend. Always super friendly and chummy with her. Never felt genuine to me and I'm pretty good at reading people (anxiety and adhd superpower of hyper focusing on others). But back then I wasn't as knowledgeable on this shit. He'd be like "heyyy drewster how's it going buddyyyyy" everytime he saw me but there was realistically no reason for him…
/r/seduction10/04/24 10:06 PM
5

Then you don't know "nice guys" It's not that complex
/r/seduction10/04/24 07:11 PM
0

It's a kinda weird way to respond to picture of food in anger Sure if she didn't say give me some lmao. Which makes perfect sense in that context.
/r/seduction09/04/24 08:37 PM
3

I don't think I've seen any woman (barring maybe my mother), use an angry when they're actually mad/upset.
/r/seduction09/04/24 07:58 PM
1

Why do you need plausible deniability. That means you're scared to make your intentions known. Looking for hobby mates and asking a girl out are two different things.
/r/seduction06/04/24 08:41 PM
3

Ahh so you just need to go outside and touch some grass. Or actual ass.
/r/seduction04/04/24 09:53 PM
10

My Instagram isn't full of insta thots because i don't follow those types of accounts nor go looking through them fantasizing.
/r/seduction04/04/24 03:14 PM
4

Yeah definitely don't listen to this idiot who tries to sell a scam course.
/r/seduction01/04/24 08:25 PM
1

And if you find you need alcohol to be confident and talkative, you got some inner workings to address.
/r/seduction25/03/24 07:33 PM
2

What makes more sense when approaching a problem. Doing the path of least resistance. Or trying again and again to try and force something that only slightly worked the first time, but you "just know" you can make it work. If you expect a girl to plainly say to you everytime they're not interested in you, you're going to have a bad time. Don't make things more complicated then they are by ruminating in your head. First step - Girl seems interested, flirty talkative. 2nd step- Askin her out or if…
/r/seduction21/03/24 05:05 PM
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As the other said you don't know unless you ask. Asked a girl out in a similar scenario through dms. She ignored it. Crossed paths again, she was friendly and i responded in kind. Which i was happy with. I didn't want it to be awkward or uncomfortable or anything. i was happy with myself for even shooting my shot. Got the answer, So now she's just a gym friend.
/r/seduction21/03/24 04:55 PM
3

Uhuh whatever you say
/r/seduction15/03/24 11:09 PM
9

Yeah, op unless you're a child (like a dumb teenager ) don't do this. the the odds will never be in your favor regardless
/r/seduction15/03/24 10:54 PM
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A lot of you need to accept that Men and Women can't be friends. One party is always usually interested in more than just a platonic friendship and 9/10 times it's the dude. You in highschool or something? Because this is pure teenager logic. Or "red pilled " men Men and women can easily be friends. What you are right about is it doesn't work when you're not actually interested in friendship, just holding on to hopes of banging. And If you're a desperate guy who'd resort to banging any female wh…
/r/seduction11/03/24 06:30 PM
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Yeah it' wasn't very informative it's basically understanding the ebbs of flow and communication and attraction. If there's no decisiveness or polarization you're bland/boring. But guys try to be agreeable , not rock the boat, cause they're scared. example scenario A girl i went out with recently, has a very..simple diet. Became a topic of conversation, because people also say I'm picky eater just because i don't like certain foods.( for ex. we went for icecream she got just a plain vanilla scoo…
/r/seduction07/03/24 05:30 PM
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That doesn't just make it true lol.
/r/seduction06/03/24 07:22 PM
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Sure, but that's not the general reason of why night game is easier /people find more success which is what we're talking about.
/r/seduction05/03/24 09:49 PM
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You said it's because people are drunk and make rash decisions. Which isn't the key point. As the macro concept is the environment/purpose which means more willingness to socialize/meet people. Doesn't hinge on drinking.
/r/seduction05/03/24 09:36 PM
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Can't give you exact openers, effectiveness would also very greatly on the person saying it but Do you stop them when they are walking and say something or do you seek only contextual situations like if she is browsing on some store or waiting lets say at the bus stop and then start a convo The latter is your better option. Someone walking has somewhere to be. You want to approach in situations where you're interupting/inconvening them the least. Able to make positive interaction Which also allo…
/r/seduction05/03/24 08:56 PM
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You're missing the key point. Why are people out at night? (Irrelevant to if their drinking or not), they're going out to have fun and socialize. During the day the vast majority are just people trying to go about their day. You're also forcing a decision on them with minimal interaction to judge/evaluate you.
/r/seduction05/03/24 08:48 PM
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You don't need to fully escalate on every first encounter.. especially when you're meeting multiple girls in a night. Unless your only goal is to find someone to fuck that night. As that's the only thing you're going to find out..whose dtf that night/have a one night stand. Have gotten laid plenty of times, never on first encounter/one night stand. Because I'm not interested in one night stands, and have turned down such in the past. In example 2, there’s a serious hesitation to invite the gal t…
/r/seduction27/02/24 09:28 PM
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If you say mistruth or you say one thing and do another you are a liar in both cases And when someone acts like they want to hang but doesn't make the effort... it's not easy for one to instantly label them a "liar", as they haven't directly lied to you.... In my personal experience i always try twice then after that Ball is in their court. I don't know why you guys are concerning yourselves with people who should have already left your thoughts. This post is literally advice on how to appropria…
/r/seduction27/02/24 09:20 PM
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Anna said that she won’t be able to tell her parents that she’ll travel alone so that’s why I need Eric and his girlfriend to come along as well. Reading comprehension kiddo, i know it hard.
/r/seduction27/02/24 03:12 PM
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Did you even read the message? The girl is fully interested...and would be spending money same as him.
/r/seduction26/02/24 08:31 PM
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You're clearly triggered.... Emotionally unstable and obsessed over models... yikes
/r/seduction16/02/24 04:20 AM
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Uhuh..... Good luck with that you're clearly mentally well adjusted..
/r/seduction16/02/24 04:16 AM
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uhh Wat? You okay there bud? Talking about self respect when you fetish/obsess over models. LoL
/r/seduction15/02/24 02:56 PM
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The only purpose of that would be to put out a feeler of their reception of you actually doing it. Which...is dumb. Find a way to talk to her more then once. Askin someone out you see but never talk to is kind of weird(especially a coworker). Then ask her out through your conservations, that's not an awkward abrupt question). Which is youd only choice currently
/r/seduction14/02/24 11:37 PM
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"My friend said i should ask you out" Is basically the same thing. Do you think that is having a positive effect on women or anyone? If a coworker came up to you and said " my boss said i should say hi to you" Would you feel like that's a genuine interaction you just had or awkward?
/r/seduction14/02/24 11:10 PM
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Oh you know a lot of models personally and see them in their everyday lives? No you don't or else you wouldn't have such dumb belief based on false perceptions.
/r/seduction14/02/24 08:11 PM
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and like I’m fetishizing them That's entirely what you are doing. Models don't wear sexy outfits everyday of their life. You're living in a false perception imaginary world/view.
/r/seduction14/02/24 06:48 PM
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So you just invalidated you're entire silly black/white comment on attractiveness.... Not the brightest are you? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder isn't just some made up fictitious line.
/r/seduction14/02/24 06:46 PM
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I'm assuming it had something relevancy to the survey. Or else that's definitely an odf thing to throw in.
/r/seduction13/02/24 10:30 PM
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Who cares...?
/r/seduction11/02/24 05:26 AM
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You communicate/ask, what are they looking for by being on the app. Theres no secret sauce DaVinci code, for non communication. As long as you're not lying about youe intentions, dw about it so much tbh. Most people start casual and end up in LTR. But never expected to. Doesn't really matter for a first date, what you're looking for. There's 0 emotions/attachment established at that point. Casual dating vs 1 night stands are different things completely though. So that's going to be your real dis…
/r/seduction09/02/24 06:01 PM
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Realise that girl "looking for casual hookups" can (almost) never be said. Tf is this? And how old are you? This isn't the 50s, plenty of girls getting fucked casually,(1 night stands/1st dates). that she will gatekeep sex until you commit to relationship , You sound like a little incel whose never really experienced women. Almost every relationship/couple i know (short term, long term, fiances,married) all were banging before "committed relationship"
/r/seduction09/02/24 05:58 PM
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if they're judging me based on my reputation as a regular customer who spends a lot of time alone working on his computer, with no social life. I think your issues are internal not external
/r/seduction06/02/24 02:39 PM
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I was gnna say, the black guy fat girl(usually white) is like a true stereotype (even here in Canada) because that's them "settling" punching below the belt, for easy sex.( Not saying they're not happy or anything. , some dudes like em bigg) It'd be the same as anyone here Goin for desperate whales. Even in racist parts...girls go for black guys, they might not introduce you to their parents...but that's completely different lol.
/r/seduction17/01/24 07:59 PM
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Better question to ask a good barber, because i can't fully grasp the dimensions of your head from a pic But if you search modern Asian haircut you'll see some decent ones. Easy ones are similar fade on sides you have but grow your hair out on top so you can actually style it.
/r/seduction13/01/24 07:03 AM
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As i said before you need a more modern stylish haircut. If you were to do only 1 thing at all to see the most difference in how people treat you/see you it'll be that. You look basic asian (no offense). But a good haircut will give you easy 2-3 point boost. It's a gamechanger because that's what anyone and everyone will see/notice first. Your face is fine other then that Nothing wrong at all. **and a lot of girls won't bother with a basic asian. But a sauve looking Asian girls start Goin 😏 who …
/r/seduction13/01/24 06:59 AM
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It's good, could be bigger (but no girl is going to complain once you take your shirt off if yno what i mean) but you're not going to neglect chest when working out anyways im assuming anyways, so it doesn't matter. Keep doing what you're doing. It's working well. * Just make sure to keep eating/hitting macros like protein so you continue to grow.
/r/seduction13/01/24 06:45 AM
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You're physique is good, but remember, 99% of people/woman ain't going to see you shirtless. no girl is really going to care more if they do , than the shredded look you already are. So focusing on being more shredded would not affect your gains in the women department. Shoulders, arms(fore arms,tris,bis) are Goin to be what's noticable with clothes on. So focus that if anything. You should get a more modern stylish haircut. Yours kinda look stereotypical basic. And everyone sees that.
/r/seduction13/01/24 06:41 AM
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on track to earning more” is offensive, but the whole point is so a woman can breastfeed in peace and can be a SAHM or have the option to be one. So you're either allowing them to lie to themselves or furthering their lies which is it? Because a women doesn't need a man to make half a mill or more to her before children quarter mill, for her to be a SAHM. She/they want to be a 0.01% housewifes of x level stay at home mom. Being wined and dined and given the nicest designer clothes without ever w…
/r/seduction27/12/23 09:49 PM
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And the uber succesful men that do exist, they're in the comfortable position to choose out of women like food in a buffet- they go for the easy-going pretty 21 year olds, not the tough career-driven 30-somethings. I mean age doesnt have to be biggest factor. At least not at the level what you/everyone else here is making it. Every person i know successful pulling in multiple 6 figures to millions the biggest age gap is 10 years. Most being 3-5. Most 21yos arent looking to settle down and have a…
/r/seduction27/12/23 09:43 PM
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Most of them are open to dating men who presently earn less but are on a track to out-earning them. So overachievers who aren't comfortable actually comfortable overachieving in a relationship. Their wealth isn't the issue, Their lack of being comfortable with themselves is. Can tell, already they're significantly flawed and without their accomplishments/wealth wouldn't be worth much.
/r/seduction27/12/23 09:22 PM
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Spoken like a man whose never dated a girl with significant mental problems who will make them your problems only further increasing all the ailments you mention you have and setting you back multiple years in your mental health journey. This is not the way Everyone is on their own path and timeline. Your on yours. Seeking out validation, and pleasure from others isn't going to drastically change you for the better , only open up significantly increased possibility of making you worst. But it's …
/r/seduction08/10/23 10:18 PM
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My comments had nothing to do with eastern europe vs usa. I was specifically replying to your comments about girls with smelly guys .......which has nothing to do with geographic region.
/r/seduction19/09/23 09:03 PM
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Not everyone is mentally well adjusted, im not saying "bitches be crazy", I'm saying there's a lot of people predisposed to toxic relationships (symptom of a lot of mental disorders), co dependency, self confidence/esteem issues etc. Your acting like girls don't vary like the whole array of a rainbow and are somehow the exact same in both scenarios. Newsflash they are not. And you shouldn't have to "give them everything" for them to be content. That's not recipe for succesful relationship.
/r/seduction19/09/23 08:53 PM
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It's definitely not "feminism".
/r/seduction19/09/23 04:27 PM
2

I literally have set up my friends in scenarios like this. Easy slam dunk. Instant street cred, much fame, wow.
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:15 PM
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sorry my guy. It wasn't you it was oc above. Disregard that abrasive part. The point still stands. Girl being upset you reject her but like her friend, is having the same faults as OP.
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:01 AM
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she doesn't like me, but I like her so no one can have her
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:57 PM
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YUP, that's where people agreeing with OP and thinking it's some how right mentality get in bad mental states. The only emotions and opinions your entitled to are your own. Getting rejected after 6mos of fawning over someone /something, with idealization and fantasizing most likely running rampant in your mind, would upset most sane people. BUT how upset would OP actually be if he got rejected 1week in then x months later she goes after his friend. We as individuals are our own worst enemy.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:54 PM
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Calling things red flags that are anything but that, is naive /immature behavior. Sorry for assuming tho. Having your feelings hurt isn't a "red flag". Accepting Rejection and not looking for others for validation, is a core concept everyone needs to learn in life, if you want to be happier. Doesn't matter if a guy rejects go (like your scenario) or vice VERSA (like ops) * I've literally set my friends up after I struck out and the girls showed interest in my friends. My mates are oblivvious and…
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:47 PM
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Could've saved himself 5mos with one easy trick. Asking her out.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:39 PM
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No why would It? That has absolutely nothing to do with her attraction and emotions. Like unless she's literally going after your best friend to purposefully hurt you or something it's irrelevant. So if a girl likes you, but you don't like her back you're not allowed to have feelings /want anyone she's friends with? I assume you're in high school or something, because that's pretty naive take.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:00 PM
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Single Girl wants boy that's not you. "FUCKIN RED FLAG". That ain't it mate. No one's entitled to another's emotions. And based on the info, there was no mirroring of these feelings by her/leading him on. Things like these are simple facts of life.
/r/seduction14/08/22 10:33 PM
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Ah my bad that's what is here in Canada.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/22 02:44 AM
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Afaik a life sentence is usually x years(I think 25?) that's why multiple life sentences stack up, and depending on crime, time till chance of parole/getting out on good behaviour/early will be much longer than a single life sentence .
/r/PussyPassDenied17/07/22 10:01 PM
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Lol nice try kiddo
/r/PussyPassDenied12/06/22 04:17 PM
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Girls only hug you in your dreams eh?
/r/PussyPassDenied12/06/22 03:38 PM
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