Can I approach at work?

drewster23 · 2026-05-24T13:33:04+00:00

Do you want to risk getting fired every time you hit on a random woman during work? As that would only take 1 phone call.

Are you buff/ attractive? No one wants the fat/ugly delivery guy hitting on them...

If you're answer is yes to both go ahead.

EsotericOcean · 2026-05-24T13:37:06+00:00

Focus on making money. Don't lose your financial stability chasing huzz.

bigolboooom · 2026-05-24T13:37:27+00:00

You run the risk someone will report you for harassment. I think you know this though, otherwise you wouldn't be asking

Best-Yesterday1216 · 2026-05-24T14:10:24+00:00

Man i be wanting to so bad. But i gotta focus on money but some of them be sexy af tho

Western-Month-3877 · 2026-05-24T13:53:15+00:00

You absolutely can. Back in the days there were a lot of jokes and funny stories how mail men and milk men approaching attractive housewives when their husband not at home.

The problem is if you still ask whether you can, then you probably don’t know how to do it subtly or correctly. Because a better question should’ve been “how to do it without getting fired.”

Seen_Any_Elves · 2026-05-24T17:11:58+00:00

Probably not

SalamanderNo3872 · 2026-05-24T19:08:12+00:00

Do you want to get fired ?? That will be the easiest sexual harassment claim ever.

TheMindthief · 2026-05-24T15:07:10+00:00

Flirting with customers can be okay depending on someone’s job. For yours? I would only recommend it if you don’t care about the job at all.

Splattered_ · 2026-05-24T19:28:22+00:00

Really gotta probe and read cues and ask indirect things

Excellent-Archer-238 · 2026-05-24T19:34:44+00:00

Yes you can, but you have to calibrate your approaches really well.

You can't use direct game because, as people have told you, it will take 1 woman calling HR to get you fired.

So what can you do? Just regular chit chat and banter. Be friendly and fun. If someone is interested in you, they will let you know.

oshnrazr · 2026-05-24T19:56:50+00:00

My strategy for girls at work.. is I only approach if there are unmistakable signs that she’s interested. Eye fucking me, etc.

You can test this out by being banterous with her, but not overtly so.

Never had any issues. Knock on wood.

DeadEyeTone · 2026-05-24T20:11:44+00:00

When i worked for the zon as a delivery driver. i only flirted with other amazon workers at the station or the van assignment location. Even then you still have to be careful.

Jack26918 · 2026-05-24T20:17:03+00:00

No, don't do this. It's even worse than hitting on coworkers. Besides, it's impossible to impress when you're a delivery driver.

HaloSpartan2 · 2026-05-25T08:23:29+00:00

level up first man.

Zillah345 · 2026-05-24T15:21:23+00:00

Coworker relationships happen naturally. Do not force it. Vibe it out and let them lead.

tiodosmil · 2026-05-24T16:02:06+00:00

Tbh I used to do your job & I think you should 100% take the opportunities presented to you! All you gotta do is not be creepy & the chances of you getting “reported” are next to zero %. Go for it my guy!

wilhelmtherealm · 2026-05-24T15:47:46+00:00

Bro you can approach anywhere.

Dgaf what others say....

Title	Can I approach at work?
Author	ShaneChhh
Upvotes	2
Comments	33
Date	May 24, 2026 1:28 PM UTC (2 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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