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| – | Women care about personality but only if they know you for some timeThe men here aren't just bad at dating, they're severely under-socialized. Wtf is even this post 🤣🙆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 04:27 PM |
| 21 | Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore.I was actually told this by my woman-bestie (who had rejected me). "You flirt well and you're treat me well but you do that to every fucking girl out there". 🤣😭 Honestly it was life changing to me. She later introduced me to her friends with whom I got on very well. The idea is they feel special when it's given sparingly and only to them. I'm glad she had that conversation with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 06:31 AM |
| 3 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.Approaching is 'part of the attraction'. Now entitled guys thing I approached and she's still not attracted 🤦 The whole idea that approaching to find out if she's attracted to you is 'risky' by itself is so ridiculous and indicates heavy under socialization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 04:00 PM |
| -3 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.'part of the attraction'. And there'll always be rejection 🤷♂️ I don't understand why you make such a big deal of rejection anyways. Self esteem issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 03:01 PM |
| 15 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.This forum will then be full of men complaining no woman's approaching them 🤷♂️🤣🤣 Approaching itself is a part of attraction that men create towards a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 02:34 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill is great strategy just to for dating.Why do you think they're not doing it along with learning RP worldview. To be clear, I don't particularly identify as an RP man, I just absorb useful information from everywhere, including RP and discard nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 01:15 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill is great strategy just to for dating.Yeah but plenty of us can also just use it as a tool (like any other worldview out there) to pick bits and pieces that are useful in our personal lives. Ofcourse there's a possibility that it's gonna drag people in but that's the case with almost any framework out there. I won't lie, it definitely helped me move from a resentful lil shit to someone more complete. It made me better with both partners and with women friends. We all genuinely enjoy each other's company. I used to do so much for wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 12:40 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill is great strategy just to for dating.Hmm idk. Most guys there probably just wanna use a bit of RP worldview to improve their dates lives and take off those rose tinted glasses they had been wearing during their youth. The hopeless ones who fantasise about screwing dozens of women while staring at a screen all day? Those are fucked but unfortunately very very vocal on online forums. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 12:08 PM |
| 0 | Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing?The whole point is you can't totally engineer social interactions like a math formula. Learning this is 50% of the job. It's very circumstantial. Just go say "hi, I wanted to talk to you" and see where it goes. Reading Anything more if you can't do it is mental masturbation. Advanced reading is for those who have learnt to do that. | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 06:36 PM |
| 83 | Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing?The one and only thing to do is say fuck it and talk to more women. People do everything other than the one thing to be done 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 04:48 PM |
| – | The utter revulsion women feel and openly express against the idea of coddling or nurturing their partners like a mother figure is conclusive proof that women do not actually love men for who they areDude you wanna be treated like a baby, there are plenty of women who will do that. But then you also want to be treated like a king while being a lil baby? I don't understand 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:23 PM |
| – | The utter revulsion women feel and openly express against the idea of coddling or nurturing their partners like a mother figure is conclusive proof that women do not actually love men for who they areAnd men love women who can't do anything for them? 🤣 Being salty is one thing but... ...Why the drama dude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Why are dominate alpha male traits like possession frowned upon by women but by not caring it is not?🤣🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are dominate alpha male traits like possession frowned upon by women but by not caring it is not?It's not possessiveness that's outright attractive or unattractive. It's possessiveness by whom? A low status man - no ways, eww. A high status man - yes, attractive. And status is highly relative and circumstantial. | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Why are dominate alpha male traits like possession frowned upon by women but by not caring it is not?Dude read my comment again. This will be enforced by stronger and higher status MEN. They still don't want lower status men stepping out of line. Has nothing to do with rights, more to do with maintaining status within the tribe. | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Why are dominate alpha male traits like possession frowned upon by women but by not caring it is not?Even I'm cavemen times, Possession by incels will still be frowned upon within the tribe(they'll be laughed at or punished violently) by higher up men. The high status ones will still be enjoying the all the rewards of being high status. Even in smaller numbers like 50 - 150, there'll still be men with abundance and men who aren't getting any 😺 | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 09:19 PM |
| 8 | Why are dominate alpha male traits like possession frowned upon by women but by not caring it is not?Possession by an incel makes one look like an incel because..... ......It's done by an actual incel. 🤷♂️ A man of high status displaying possession (without losing his shit) looks very attractive. It makes her feel chosen. | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Would you truly spend a year or more with a woman with zero intention of being serious/ married? And let her think otherwise?I've read that post and yes lots of men are shitty and intentionally tend to be ambiguous EVEN when asked about their intent. I totally agree with you on that. But the post was about something else(considering we read the same posts). It was drawing similarities to another situation men face - It's about women going on dates, accepting gifts and asking for all sorts of help for a long time while clearly knowing that the guy's interested but she's not(romantically or sexually). And when asked, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 06:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longerYeah I was drinking heavily for the past 2 weeks when it happened and also overwhelmed it even got that far lol. But I'm glad it happened coz I went on a journey of understanding pelvic muscles and other stuff. Lots of exercises, stretching, etc. a whole world of improving one's sex life I might never have considered if not for that terrible(😭) incident lol 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 09:32 AM |
| 9 | CMV: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longerThat's because you are trying to lead with money 🤷♂️ And who's problem is that? The men whom they enjoy having sex with are giving them good sex. You want those women more badly than they want you. And that's who's problem again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 08:26 AM |
| 11 | CMV: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longerWhy you so salty broo 🤣 Why you treating it like some highly important mission? Just don't do it with people you don't enjoy and stick to the ones you fully enjoy being with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 08:18 AM |
| 7 | CMV: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longerYeah exactly - lmao. Idk why this is such a big deal. I mean many times when a couple's madly in love and truly enjoy each other's company, these issues - doesn't matter from whom they arise, they'll tend to be graceful and work through it. The mere fact that any guy with this problem has to think and negotiate so much means sex isn't that enjoyable, not just because of PE but because the person himself isn't great to spend intimate time with. I once went soft with a girl I found really attracti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 08:04 AM |
| 10 | Outside of illegal prostitution, What's the easiest way to maximise my looks, repair my reputation and finally have sex with a beautiful woman at 25?What repair reputation? What have you done? | /r/seduction | 20/07/26 06:34 AM |
| 36 | Please explain to me what is actually game and how should I study it?Study it. Most importantly, practice it. 1 hour study for every 5 hours of practice. Don't fall into bs trap of endless studying. | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 03:59 PM |
| 2 | A man without female friends is a red flagThe problem was most of the times, the guys were interested sexually right off the bat but didn't have the balls to express it or just tried playing the long game. They'll want to be friends and then once the familiarity develops, they hope she 'gives' them a chance at sex/romance. Both of which are extremely lame. Spineless men are very very unattractive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 12:42 PM |
| 4 | If below average men were given experience they would even themselves out.Yeah one of the problems with these men is they wanna 'make up' for the lost years. Like even if a 35 yo virgin man finds a normal girlfriend, he feels her to be his stepping stone to a better dating life in general. He feels other men had multiple relationships, but doesn't understand that those guys probably thought it's gonna last until it didn't. They didn't start off as situationships right off the bat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 03:52 PM |
| 2 | The utter revulsion women feel and openly express against the idea of coddling or nurturing their partners like a mother figure is conclusive proof that women do not actually love men for who they are😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:55 PM |
| 32 | The utter revulsion women feel and openly express against the idea of coddling or nurturing their partners like a mother figure is conclusive proof that women do not actually love men for who they areLots of women are willing to coddle them like mothers. But don't expect sex and romance if you're expecting that. If you wanna be taken care of like a baby, you'll be taken care like one but don't expect adult stuff. Sex and romance is reserved for men who make the woman feel safe, desired and excited not for the ones who make them feel like a mom or an elder sister changing diapers. I say this as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.That's why you're a guy without standards and end up living such a resentful life. If you don't get that 100 within the timeframe you hoped for, a higher quality man would just leave. He can look back without resentment. Ofcourse equating that with getting 100$ itself is an idiotic thing to do but that's not even something to be discussed coz you totally misunderstand what sex is from a woman's perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:38 AM |
| 6 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Nope. She's not wrong. She can set her standards. And you can set yours. If you wanna be the guy who has sex within 3 dates, enforce those standards on YOURSELF. Just say goodbye after 3 dates. Have the balls to set and establish boundaries and follow through. Don't be be waiting for sex while secretly resentful about the whole thing. This is like saying you were slogging like a donkey for your previous job so why are you not doing it here? It could have been out of pressure or out of genuine in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Where do you get the enthusiasm to talk to women?This is where you're capacity to lead as a Man comes into picture. Develop it. You stop being bitchy and entitled first and learn to have fun. | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Exactly. If he wanted to be the guy who gets sex in less than 3 months, he should leave after 3 months. That's called setting and living by one's own standards. Instead he chooses to stay for longer while secretly sulking 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Most of success with dating in adult life is shaped by the early childhood environmentHaha. While I'm not particularly a shut in but I go through phases of extreme socialization and isolation. So idk, I kinda relate to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:00 PM |
| 5 | Most of success with dating in adult life is shaped by the early childhood environmentExactly. The COVID situation felt very comfortable (socially, not other stuff) for shut ins coz everyone else were kinda put in their situation. It's like "Damn, my daily life is what these guys call quarantine" 😁🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:05 AM |
| 0 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.Bullshit. The men with high self esteem and standards have no trouble setting boundaries AND having a great dating life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.Only desperate men get leveraged badly 🥱 That's their problem, not women's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 08:51 AM |
| 12 | No bs answer - how can I become a player?Not overthinking is not stupid. It's one of the smartest things to do with life. Some guy crushing math equations in his room while dying for a human connection is just smart at math not at life. Intelligence comes in many forms. | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 05:23 PM |
| 5 | Working on your self esteem will take you a LOOOOOOOONG way compared to any tips and tricks here.Not easy. But it can be done with daily observation and intentional efforts. I'd focus more on that than external game techniques. Coz it'll help in the game called life. | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 08:54 PM |
| 1 | When (and if) unattractive men get money and status as they get older, what happens?In sure lots of in-cels would love to be in relationships even if there's no genuine attraction. Why does it have to be 0 or 100? The mere fact that a couple are in a relationship means there's SOME attraction present except in very fringe cases. This kinda black and a white thinking is very bad for social interactions and it shows with the guys struggling with relationships here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Women who choose to remain single are viewed as empowered, men are not🤦♂️🤦♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 01:34 PM |
| 0 | Women who choose to remain single are viewed as empowered, men are notForget it, if they had that much understanding about emotions and social interactions, they wouldn't be saying that. These guys are treating it like some math equations 🤣 Like complaining about a natural disaster taking lives is the same as complaining about jaywalking coz complaining = complaining 🤦♂️🤦♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 01:21 PM |
| 5 | Women who choose to remain single are viewed as empowered, men are notFunny thing is incels look down on single dad's too like they're loosers 🤦♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Women who choose to remain single are viewed as empowered, men are notThose women are complain about men and thus not choose to be anyone. The men are complaining that no woman chooses to be with them. 2 different things 🤦♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Women who choose to remain single are viewed as empowered, men are notThose most eligible bachelors aren't involuntarily celibate 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 12:12 PM |
| 11 | How do you day game when every woman is STARING at her phone?Not their problem. Learn to approach in various circumstances. | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 03:08 PM |
| 56 | How do you day game when every woman is STARING at her phone?Go up and say hi. What else to do. It has never gone wrong with me except if she's really really busy. She doesn't know you're there to shoot your shot and it's definitely not her job to accomodate that. | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 10:58 AM |
| 11 | On the spot makeout & hookup, possible?Yes. But if you're asking about these.... Then most likely no. | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 07:35 AM |
| 1 | what to do if labeled a playerIf you're not actually a player but coming off that way, it's definitely because you're trying to show that you can sleep around easily/regularly and are charming with women in general in an attempt to impress her. Happens to the best of us. Part of the learning journey. As for not being able to move on from her, oneitis is always bad - make what you will out of it. | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 07:06 AM |
| 1 | As an Indian in Indian Tier 2/3 cities?It always works. Tier 2/3 cities are also full of people fucking casually for fun. Observe and learn more from real life than on the internet. | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 05:40 AM |
| 1 | The idea that most men who struggle in the modern sexual marketplace are socially inept is a blue pill caricatureBro this black and white thinking is your problem. So you either have to be an unruly barbarian or a total yes-sir? Nothing inbetween? Think for yourself truly for once and set your own acceptable boundaries. Most people do stuff that's fun but still within morally acceptable ranges. These are things you learn interacting with your peers in highschool while chitchatting, having lunch, playing sports, talking to your crush, etc. Not something thought to you with a logic diagram. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 07:36 PM |
| 8 | Anyone feel like it’s a shame how much energy is being diverted away from things that truly matter to this?If I tell you someone you know, you'd say they're famous or rich or whatever. If I tell you someone you don't know, well... You don't know them 🤣 | /r/seduction | 07/07/26 04:14 PM |
| 2 | The idea that most men who struggle in the modern sexual marketplace are socially inept is a blue pill caricatureDude are you crazy? Either you've to break all rules adults tell you or follow all of em? Use some sense. Observe the world around you and learn, not just what your mummy papa or teachers tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 02:20 PM |
| 0 | The idea that most men who struggle in the modern sexual marketplace are socially inept is a blue pill caricatureWhy do you speak in such extremes? I said observe the world around you and form your own independent opinions - that's a very attractive trait. You obviously observed in highschool that girls like certain kinda guys, and you should learn from those behaviours. Adults can be wrong. That's what is social intelligence. Personality development. You're expecting everything to be spoon fed, which is what makes one a manchild, not an ideal partner. I don't mean to insult you. Just give it a thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 01:57 PM |
| 6 | Anyone feel like it’s a shame how much energy is being diverted away from things that truly matter to this?Who the fuck is asking you to. Infact the ones having most sex are the ones who give least fucks about it and have a GENUINELY strong sense of purpose in their lives. | /r/seduction | 07/07/26 01:44 PM |
| -3 | The idea that most men who struggle in the modern sexual marketplace are socially inept is a blue pill caricaturePlenty of boys raised in same situations can observe the world around them and make a move themselves. Bring a goody two shoes who never challenges any authority isn't attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 01:31 PM |
| – | Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did.Idk if porn is the main reason. But I agree with your points. Especially 3. It hits hard as a former 'nice' guy. Now I'm in good space and can set boundaries and am having great relationships(and friendships) with women. I'm still a nice dude but I get respectfully vocal about my needs and boundaries. I'm still generous with my time, money and effort but not in an idiotic way. If I feel something's off, I just communicate and stop if I feel it's not good without turning it into whining. Surprisi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 12:17 PM |
| 6 | The idea that most men who struggle in the modern sexual marketplace are socially inept is a blue pill caricatureBro. If anything people switch a flip during office stuff. Having fun, joking around, and just enjoying life is what most people want by default - including the ones that are struggling with social lives otherwise they wouldn't be whining so much. Boring, dead discussions is the non authentic self. If you wanna play basketball, you need to be good at basketball. If you wanna do math, you need to be good at math. If you wanna be have a good social life, you need to be good at interactions obvious… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 11:48 AM |
| 4 | The idea that most men who struggle in the modern sexual marketplace are socially inept is a blue pill caricatureLots of people do just fine switching between mind numbing office jobs and then hitting their social lives having fun. Most men having trouble getting laid genuinely just lack social skills - they also tend not to have a great group of friends with mixed genders. They lack feedback and real life insights - mostly depend on books and internet to learn these skills which can make it worse infact coz they're 2 different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 11:41 AM |
| 0 | Women are not more emotionally intelligent, Men just complain lessDude we all know the core issue. Most of the guys complaining here are just extremely annoyed they're not having sex. No amount of trying to explain how a woman feels is gonna help. Because they don't give a fuck about actually understanding it. Sex is the the only thing that can solve it. Which they're unlikely to get coz they don't give a fuck about understanding in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 11:28 AM |
| 2 | The idea that most men who struggle in the modern sexual marketplace are socially inept is a blue pill caricatureIntelligence comes in various forms. Some guys sitting at home all day crushing math while dying on the inside to have some connection is intelligent at math, not life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 11:15 AM |
| 0 | The idea that most men who struggle in the modern sexual marketplace are socially inept is a blue pill caricatureKinda. But a smart man also knows when to let the monkey brain out - it's fun after all. It's not intelligence that's preventing men who don't get any from flirting, it's low self-esteem and wimpiness. People just say intelligence to cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 11:01 AM |
| -3 | Women are not more emotionally intelligent, Men just complain lessYes they should. Except simps don't have the balls to push back and set boundaries. They're just happy she's talking to him in a close manner. That's why there's so much resentment among them - I hear her out but she still doesn't put it out. Many times it's them hearing out about other men 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 10:58 AM |
| -2 | Women are not more emotionally intelligent, Men just complain lessWho the fuck is starting those wars in the first place? Mostly men right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 10:56 AM |
| 3 | Women are not more emotionally intelligent, Men just complain lessYou're the one saying you don't wanna burden others with your feelings. So that means processing internally. If you wanna express, do it in a non entitled way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 08:07 AM |
| 2 | Women are not more emotionally intelligent, Men just complain lessThen they should be able process it internally instead of it just turning into massive resentment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 04:03 AM |
| – | Women are not more emotionally intelligent, Men just complain lessIs it the women who are doing the recruitment? Use your fucking head instead of whining endlessly. It's not 'society', it's men who's running around and sending other men to war. And I say this as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Life as a woman in west is so much easierThey don't have a relationship because they're unhappy with life in the first place 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 02:22 PM |
| 8 | Life as a woman in west is so much easierYou're saying autistic women being taken advantage of is better than being alone like it's actually a plus point. That's insane. Imagine the desperation. Being taken advantage of is ok because they're getting laid? Are you mad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 02:16 PM |
| 7 | Life as a woman in west is so much easierYeah. Someone with such a terrible and bleak world view has no business dating in the first place, it'll just make both of em miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 02:10 PM |
| 7 | Life as a woman in west is so much easierYou don't think they're(autistic women) taken advantage of? 🤦♂️ Just because they're getting laid, everything else is ok? No wonder you guys lack emotional intelligence. And I say this as a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Whatever "it" factor is there I simply don't got itAuthenticity and not performance. | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 07:16 AM |
| -1 | Good men with a backbone > Bad men with a backbone > men without a backbone - Attraction hierarchy.You forgot the backbone part 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 12:41 PM |
| 2 | When you constantly say "Whatever you want honey", it often leads to contempt from herDecisiveness is masculine. | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 06:20 PM |
| 0 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️It has very little to do with the woman. It's about you setting boundaries and growing a spine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:40 PM |
| -7 | Men are told to open up more. The only thing they open up about is women not fucking them. And then wonder why it's backfiring 🤦♂️Only simps go through all this. A strong man with solid boundaries and a backbone wouldn't entertain any of this nonsense and still get the time of his life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 12:27 PM |
| 12 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.Many people goon out of anxiety and boredom too not just horniness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:01 AM |
| 6 | Q4A: If dating apps added conversation ratings, how do you think you'd score and how would this impact the experience of OLD?Bullshit. It's not that women are too picky, it's more like men got no standards. We're ready to hit anything that's a lil attractive to us. 🤦♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 04:21 PM |
| – | If you are looking for an obedient wife the red pill probably won’t get you there.So why are all those smart guys still single and resentful?? 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:15 PM |
| 8 | Women will never be stuck alone.Standards high enough to whine 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Women will never be stuck alone.Yeah if he ever saw the shit women will do for a man they are in love with ..... He'll never simp again 🙌 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 06:59 PM |
| 28 | Women will never be stuck alone.So go find someone and bail them out 🤷♂️ Oh if even those women aren't picking you, maybe....maybe...maybe you're a shitty dude?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 06:56 PM |
| 5 | Guys who have gotten addicted to cold approaching women tell us your story?The guys here won't like it coz they hardly have a social life - forget romantic lives. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠This is too real. I think lots of men go through this phase. I've been through it too. It's actually very eye opening and helps you move ahead in life. But for many men, it's not just a phase - it becomes a lifestyle. You should make a full scale post about this 🥳 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:50 AM |
| 1 | If our thougths are not even our own? Then what is attraction.💯💯💯💯 | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 08:08 PM |
| – | Men who think women are “better” than men and that they aren’t attracted to looks are actually being misogynisticYou've never seen a woman in love have you? The extent to which they go - for a man they like. If you've ever experienced that you'd never Chase and simp endlessly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 12:55 PM |
| 2 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.You're saying my statements are born out of some hatred towards women? It's the opposite. It's about trying to understand that They're so much more than the surface. For example, Obviously the way I handle a problem with a women during different phases of periods are gonna be different compared to the way I deal with a guy. I wouldn't make jokes that get on her nerves during luteal phase but I gladly would just to have fun(together) during normal phases. It's just understanding their present cir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 10:45 AM |
| 0 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.Eyy c'mon 💔 Not what I meant at all. My statement was in response to a very specific comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 10:30 AM |
| 1 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.Why may I ask? Women especially in romantic relationships, are obviously different from men. And that polarity is the fun(and frustrating 🤣) part ❤️ Human psyche is complex and there'll be differences. Not lesser, not dumber, not more volatile, just different. Obviously that's not the case in friendships, workspaces, etc. They're more or less the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 10:22 AM |
| 15 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.It takes more backbone to stand up to a bully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 10:19 AM |
| 11 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.You can have a backbone and also not be a bully? Plenty of men are like that and have amazing relationships. Why focus on the bullying part? That's not what she's attracted to. And yes being a Wimp with no boundaries and standards disqualifies you in majority of dates. It's not any different from being disqualified at MIT for failing the entrance test/interview. It's just a different requirement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:49 AM |
| 2 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.🙌 I'll dm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:45 AM |
| 3 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.How is it misogynistic? Did I mention they're inferior in any way? Different? Yes. All humans are different. If there was absolutely no difference at all why would they just not date within gender? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:34 AM |
| 11 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.Bullies don't get chicks because they're bullies. They get em because they're not wimps. Having a backbone is more important than an mit degree for dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:33 AM |
| 4 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.She IS communicating her feelings. Just not in your autistic vocabulary though 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:02 AM |
| 22 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.Hahaha. I got lucky I guess. Early Last year I met a woman - she was pretty into me. Some time down the line I told I wasn't looking for anything serious and she was genuinely confused why I was being all lovey dovey with her then. She obviously friendzoned the hell out of me but appreciated the fact that I didn't lie just to have sex. And she set me up with her friends who also weren't looking for anything serious. This girl(the one who rejected me) and me spoke daily for hours on phone about e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:45 AM |
| 2 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.You can just date a man if that's what you want lmao. Women are different from us, and this operating based on emotions is a part of what's attractive to a masculine man. And very frustrating to an anxious clueless boy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:32 AM |
| 10 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.Yep. A bad decision made by you is better than a good decision made for you. The problem if we perform too much is, we'll have to keep doing it even if it works and it WILL fall apart at some point. Better off being authentic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:29 AM |
| – | Having a backbone, understanding and enforcing your boundaries, and being firm with your needs aren't the same as being dominant, and having a good personality isn't necessarily being meek or being a people-pleaserDude you realise that she's not with him BECAUSE he was abusive right? She was with him inspite of that. He obviously made her feel excited and safe enough that she was looking past all that. Now you can be a guy who's exciting and safe and NOT abusive too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:27 AM |
| 19 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.I'm a guy who figured this out a lil late in life. But I'm glad I did coz life's been great since then 🥳 Basically say whatever is on your mind/heart without trying to control the outcome. Sometimes it's a yes, sometimes it's no but there's never a "ugh where's this going?" For both of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:20 AM |
| 4 | What are men wanting in terms of dating?Your lack of standards reflect in every aspect of life. Which is probably why women don't see you as a man in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠Dafaq? I'm agreeing with you 🙆♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠They're not getting ANY. That's the whole frustration 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠How about learning how to interact with women by ..... Interacting with women more ? Instead of learning it from catchy movie lines? 🤦♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 04:33 PM |
| 4 | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.Yeah lol this is something those commenters never probably thought of. They complain about the lack of women in this spaces but creep out the few women who do find themselves in those spaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.Yeah I get your point. But fighting back against authority (like parents) is very important for a child as it gives massive gains in adulthood for social and interpersonal skills. It's something only an individual can build for themselves. No one can do it for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 07:37 PM |
| -6 | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.Listening blindly to elders and mentors against your own common sense is what one makes a person without direction. A man who cannot lead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 06:40 PM |
| -10 | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.Bullshit. If that's the case, all men would be getting dates. Men aren't that much of a gentlemen. Most of the times, they're just wimps acting like nice guys who care about what women say - not because they genuinely respect them but because they're too cowardly to express their real feelings towards her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 05:22 PM |
| -11 | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.Or learn to read the room? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.It requires emotional intelligence and presence. No wonder you think it's pretending to be dumb 🤦♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Most 'Nice' guys aren't nice at all. They just lack standards, boundaries and integrity while making it as niceness.I don't mean harm towards women. I mean harm in general. So many of these meek, wimpy guys are some of the most vindictive people you ever come across - they just hide it with a mask of niceness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Most 'Nice' guys aren't nice at all. They just lack standards, boundaries and integrity while making it as niceness.They're not harmful not because they're good. It's because they're wimps. They carry so much resentment(not just towards women) in their hearts that they would inflict brutal harm if they could. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 02:39 PM |
| 4 | Most 'Nice' guys aren't nice at all. They just lack standards, boundaries and integrity while making it as niceness.Yeah the nice guys don't do that. They just act like they wanna be friends, initially they're mature about it but slowly the curtains fall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Most 'Nice' guys aren't nice at all. They just lack standards, boundaries and integrity while making it as niceness.No. But that's not whom I'm talking about. There are women who clearly understand what's going on but don't mind taking advantage. But lots of men(here in comments too) think women who genuinely believe they're friends are also just stringing them along which is plain stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 02:00 PM |
| 5 | Most 'Nice' guys aren't nice at all. They just lack standards, boundaries and integrity while making it as niceness.In this case yes - you're right. But there are clearly women out there who don't have any trouble taking advantage of men simping for them(just like men who do that to women too). I wanted to put that out there too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 01:55 PM |
| 0 | Most 'Nice' guys aren't nice at all. They just lack standards, boundaries and integrity while making it as niceness.Oh I meant more like an actually 'asshole' would also just cut things off just like a normal guy. But a 'nice' guy will continue to pretend hoping for something more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 01:53 PM |
| 5 | Most 'Nice' guys aren't nice at all. They just lack standards, boundaries and integrity while making it as niceness.Which is not attractive to a lot of women. And they wanna sheepishly get around it instead of growing a pair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Most 'Nice' guys aren't nice at all. They just lack standards, boundaries and integrity while making it as niceness.I've already mentioned some women definitely take advantage of the situation. Now the 'nice' guy can just cut things off instead of being used as an emotional tampoon. He know she's screwing someone else and not him, so why doesn't he just say ok bye? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 01:44 PM |
| 5 | Most 'Nice' guys aren't nice at all. They just lack standards, boundaries and integrity while making it as niceness.An actually nice guy wouldn't resent endlessly that a woman doesn't like him back. You mean not giving him love or sex is treating them like trash? That's insane. They just aren't interested (but why's she not interested even though he's nice?) that's irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Most 'Nice' guys aren't nice at all. They just lack standards, boundaries and integrity while making it as niceness.Honestly a lot of this is just due to under-socialization with the opposite gender in general IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 01:40 PM |
| – | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?Use those and get into a relationship then 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 07:17 PM |
| 1 | the art of habitsDo you wanna go on dates and have sex online too? | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 09:38 AM |
| 3 | the art of habitsFor majority of guys, it's volume that needs to be practiced. Just interacting with more women in general. Once you got that down, others can be tweaked. | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 10:06 AM |
| 4 | Men had their Enlightenment in the 17th and 18th centuries. Women’s may be about to comeWhat glorious thing have YOU done? Some men doing great stuff doesn't mean every man did it 🤦♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 09:36 AM |
| -1 | Cold approach has changed my lifeIt's highly circumstantial. In day game women are vary obviously in general, but the rejections are softer. In clubs, women are expecting men to approach them so they also reject harshly when someone whom they're not interested in approach. And these interactions aren't logic puzzles, they're highly circumstantial. | /r/seduction | 17/06/26 09:08 AM |
| 10 | Cold approach has changed my lifeNever had female besties did ya? They are actually very anxious due to safety issues, yes even the ones who seem super cool and confident. It's biological. | /r/seduction | 17/06/26 06:18 AM |
| 45 | Cold approach has changed my lifeNight game both rejections and the acceptance is very high. You can even get a same day lay on night game or get told fuck off to your face. Haha high risk - high reward. I usually do day approaches though, takes a while but feels a lot of stable to navigate the maze. I'd love to master night game too though at some point. | /r/seduction | 17/06/26 04:12 AM |
| 4 | Reducing HER anxiety is the biggest initial factor to an approachWhy wouldn't it? But it's obviously circumstantial. Human interactions aren't math equations to be solved with a formula. | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 04:10 PM |
| 28 | Reducing HER anxiety is the biggest initial factor to an approachNot being anxious is always a good advice for anything in life. | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Regretting Not Approaching a Girl at My Society GymYou don't do anything other than gym and office? That by itself is a problem, much more than dating or seduction. | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 05:06 PM |
| 2 | I practiced cold approaching last night at a club. Are women more hostile these days?But he wouldn't be so shaken up by such experiences. He'll just be in a good frame and go for another girl. | /r/seduction | 07/06/26 06:32 PM |
| 3 | I practiced cold approaching last night at a club. Are women more hostile these days?Your approach seems hostile. It's not the exact wording but the vibe you give off. I'm sure someone like Owen from RSD would be able to open up the exact same women 😉 | /r/seduction | 07/06/26 04:42 PM |
| 5 | Travelling to a different country to learn Cold Approach?Works temporarily until your inner game problems pop up again after the novelty dies. I won't say don't do it. But work on your inner game or you'll still feel like you're not enough. | /r/seduction | 05/06/26 11:36 AM |
| 3 | How do I playfully handle women who assume I'm gay?It's all about presentation. Any of these lines work. It's about how you're feeling on the inside. The same line will come off differently depending on if you're amused or bitter 🥳🥳 | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 05:18 AM |
| 2 | How do you have patience / money / time for dating ? If you are not intrested in relationshipBecause it's commonsense for time and effort? What answer do you even expect? Most people who game well genuinely enjoy the dates themselves so it doesn't feel like waste of time or effort. I'm sure you waste hours on your phone everyday, instead you can do this instead. And I actually wanna say don't manipulate women into thinking you want relationship just to sleep with them. That's a very low level idiotic game but I'm not gonna expand further other than the fact you're just hurting your own … | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 03:53 PM |
| 2 | How do you have patience / money / time for dating ? If you are not intrested in relationshipIf you're a fun presence, you can just sit at a park bench and it'll still be the best date for her. Develop those qualities. It's also a skill just like how you developed approaching. The other guy is being very passive aggressive so don't take it too seriously but you're trying to use external structure to help your game a lot. Nothing wrong with splurging money for women you like but it's obviously a problem if you're feeling it's hitting you financially. Another problem is you'll feel that y… | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 03:43 PM |
| 7 | How do you have patience / money / time for dating ? If you are not intrested in relationshipTake her for coffee or a walk in the park. Lead with presence. If you rely on providing, it's gonna be a crutch for you. It's ok if you did before - something all of us go through 🙃 | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 02:26 PM |
| 8 | How do you have patience / money / time for dating ? If you are not intrested in relationshipDon't lead with money brother. | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 02:09 PM |
| 6 | Should I text a girl a normal text message on whatsap after she gave me both her number and fake insta and ignored me on insta? how to proceed?You don't wanna SEEM desperate? You already are being desperate if you're overthinking this much. Just message once to see where it goes and forget about it if you don't get any reply. Don't invest too much time, thought and emotions over this. | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 07:10 PM |
| 1 | This sub assumes that everyone who is reading lives in a developed Western country and has decent income, or has the means to do it.The inner game concepts work well anywhere in the world. Even in most conservative countries. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 50s than my 30s))Ofcourse dumbasss 🤣 C'mon dude. It'll be harder in 80s So make the best outta what you've now. | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 08:08 AM |
| -5 | Can I approach at work?Bro you can approach anywhere. Dgaf what others say.... | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 03:47 PM |
| 38 | Just wanna share how things going in GermanyStop being so mechanical. Actually be there and talk to them like unique individuals. Also good job on developing the courage to do this 👍 | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 07:49 PM |
| 1 | To summarise seduction - "Just nut up and say you are attracted to her".Yeah it's almost like there's some hidden shame in desiring to sleep with women. That needs to go 🥳 | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 09:40 AM |
| 10 | To summarise seduction - "Just nut up and say you are attracted to her".Yepp - asking her out falls under clearly expressing attraction 🧲 🙂 | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 08:43 AM |
| 4 | To summarise seduction - "Just nut up and say you are attracted to her".Definitely agreed. But I see too many people focusing on skills and techniques without even being able express interest without any internal resistance. For a lot of men here, there seems to be some problem with sex being something they 'get' from women - they don't see it as something both mutually enjoy. You're also giving her a good time with your presence. This extreme focus on skills lead to endless mental masturbation because the fundamental is missing. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Had insane chemistry with a girl on my flight, didn’t ask for her IG, found it later — should I message her?No no. I mean this is the best advice you can give to any guy who wants to get a girl. All those theories can be condensed to 'just nut up and say you like her'. 🥳 | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Had insane chemistry with a girl on my flight, didn’t ask for her IG, found it later — should I message her?But next time just nut up as ask the girl for her number so you don’t have to result to this for a missed connection ffs. This. Is basically the summary of entire seduction. ❤️ | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 06:30 AM |
| 26 | Why Do The Lookmaxxers/Black Pill Community Strictly Focus On Looks And Not Sex Appeal?Because they can't get out of the analytical mindset. They don't understand the non logical aspect of attraction (which is like 99%). | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 01:04 PM |
| 5 | Hostel Hookup strategy?Dude 😑 That's highly circumstantial. Be fun, be bold, be chatty, flirt a lot, don't get butt hurt if rejected. That's all. | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Hostel Hookup strategy?Private room in the hostel will make a big difference for logistics. But don't confine yourself to your room, always be out talking to people. | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 02:44 PM |
| 0 | is confidence supposed to equal attraction?When you're confidenent, you genuinely wouldn't care if the other person's attracted to you or not... Which ironically makes them more attracted to you.... But then you don't care anyway and just navigate your life with joy 🤣 | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 12:36 PM |
| 1 | How To Show Interest to Women Without Looking DesperateActually being abundant will take you much farther than idiotic 'techniques'. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 08:54 AM |
| 3 | How To Show Interest to Women Without Looking DesperateBeing abundant will automatically show abundance. So build abundance. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 08:54 AM |
| 105 | How To Show Interest to Women Without Looking DesperateAbundance. Until you actually get there you'll be desperate. And it's ok. Being desperate -> Learning to deal and overcome desperation -> enjoying abundance Is part of the journey. Most 'naturals' just had it early on. | /r/seduction | 16/05/26 10:18 AM |
| 2 | How do you get over approach hesitation in the moment?The ultimate answer is to just go for it regardless of fear, anxiety, laziness, whatever. | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 07:03 AM |
| 2 | How do you get over approach hesitation in the moment?Coming out of freeze is a skill by itself that needs to be practiced. You know sometimes you don't wanna go to gym? But you still do it anyway? Sometimes you don't wanna eat or shower or whatever, but you still push? This is the same. Yes practicing other uncomfortable situations help but you still have to do the direct thing itself. That's why there are guys out there who can jump off cliffs but not say hi to to a girl. Don't put yourself in a self improvement masturbation. Learn to do the actu… | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 06:20 AM |
| 2 | How do you handle the 'friends trying to save her from you'?You got it all wrong. If the girl likes you, she'll just choose to continue to talk to you instead of being dragged away. And the friends must be charmer too. Obviously social circle matters a lot to the girl. Just like how you're doing dhv, she also shouldn't appear easy to her friends. And stop being so anxious about other's actions FFS. | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 05:05 AM |
| 1 | 34m someone teach me how to not be a total dork to women.They are always around. Thousands of them 😏 | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 07:18 PM |
| 3 | 34m someone teach me how to not be a total dork to women.Talking to more attractive women can teach you far more than anyone else here. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?Once I start talking and the conversation gets going yes, I'm kinda natural. But to get there is a BIG TASK for me due to self esteem issues 🫠 | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?Hmm that's interesting. Because for me (or most of us here) it was mostly due to lack of trying. Because whenever I did put myself out there, I kinda succeed to a decent extent. Atleast a date if nothing else. But I always go back my default wimpy / victim mindset which I really wanna get rid off. I'm not putting you down.. it's really interesting because I can't relate. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?How many times have you been rejected? Like you clearly asked them and they said no? | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?Why? I meant once you start getting used to rejections and going for what you want, it becomes pretty normal part of life - especially when done during late teens. And people progress incredibly fast, it's only the initial stages that are very difficult. I was a completely different person after my first initial 'success'. It wasn't going from level 1 to level 2, it was more like 1 vs 100. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 10:54 AM |
| 3 | So close, yet so far (but a confidence booster none the less)Your mistake was answering directly. "Let's see if you find out by kissing me". Or anything. Doesn't matter. Playful banter. Never forget that 😉 | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Where to Go Out Solo without being around rowdy/stupid people?I would rather hangout around guys who can pickup girls than a bunch of guys who are losers Would they hang out with you? What value would you add to the group vs what will you leech off? Be the guy that brings the girls to parties. | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 02:42 PM |
| 7 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?You learn to deal with and embrace rejections early on in life like they're no big deal. The fear of rejection is what keeps every guy from approaching right basically? That's out of the way early on 🥳 | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 02:03 PM |
| 28 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?Exactly. People here don't just suck with women, they are severely under socialized in general. | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 07:25 AM |
| 161 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?Some guys just risk it and ask girls out at a younger age. Like during late teens is the best time to just kinda risk it with minimal blowbacks. And once you get into that zone, It's natural to learn about human interactions. I'm sure most men here have some sort of childhood traumas or self esteem issues that prevented them from taking action earlier. It's not natural to read about seduction for ever while taking minimal action. | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 06:02 AM |
| 3 | How long does it take a woman to decide that she wants to have sex with you?It's all circumstantial c'mon. Now creating those circumstances? It's well within your power 😜 | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 05:18 PM |
| 52 | How to act like a player or a fboiBe direct. Don't try too hard. Don't get butt hurt when rejected. | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 09:11 AM |
| 2 | has anyone figured out how to reduce flakes during daygame ?Be more direct. | /r/seduction | 05/05/26 04:51 PM |
| 115 | How to give out vibes that get me hookups or get me laid?Be more direct. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 12:18 PM |
| 1 | game is dropped boysThat's why it's a great opportunity to reassert your self esteem. You being rejected means you're not compatible. It doesn't mean you're less valuable. | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 08:44 AM |
| 5 | game is dropped boysYeah and I don't get the entitlement also like if you're rejected you can't be in touch with them anymore. That's just ego. The girl who rejected me is my best friend today. She set me up with a couple of her other friends with whom I had a better chemistry. If I had followed that advice, I'd have missed out on such an amazing friendship. | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with dating : beeing constantly seen as just a friendIf they're not reciprocating, turn down your listening. Don't be an emotional tampoon if your needs aren't being met. The risk is you'll completely cut them off - but it's worth it because it could also spike attraction. | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 05:25 PM |
| 89 | game is dropped boysYes. THIS ❤️ and the second most important thing is to not get butt hurt when things don't go your way. If she doesn't want your advancea, just respect it and take a step back. | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 10:51 AM |
| 5 | Women are individuals, not a collective hivemind that thinks alike. You can stop trying to conform to social consensusExactly! This is a result of people learning basic socializing skills on the internet instead of talking to people. | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 06:20 PM |
| 2 | The Magic PillIt's just like going to gym. You go even when there's internal resistance. Over time it becomes a habit. You just go say hi. You do it even with internal resistance. Over time it becomes a habit. Although it has worked without any signal also, one signal I look for a eye contact ONCE - if my eyes locked with her for just 1 second, that's my cue - I will approach at some point if not immediately. Initially it'll be stiff and robotic, over time it'll be fun and smooth. These approach 🥳 Again, no e… | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 03:43 PM |
| 2 | The Magic PillGo and say hi. That's the only rule. You'll figure out everything yourself. It'll be related to something unique to yourself. You'll learn to observe the environment and say something interesting in the moment. I'm not bullshitting. But you won't do shit unless you say hi. It'll take 15-20 'hi' before you get the ball rolling though. Don't keep any expectations. I've been friendzoned by girls whom I've cold approached but I still was good friends with them. Guess what? They introduced me to thei… | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 03:16 PM |
| 4 | Why Shit Tests existGreat post. That is why passing her tests is twofold. One is dealing it moment to moment (eg. ignore it, or agree and amplify). Second is being in a position to do so. For example, would you treat your boss as if he/she was testing you in a similar situation? Can you give an example?.. (can be seduction related or otherwise). | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Why Shit Tests existOmg. You don't have relationships because you've low self esteem. Forget 5'9"… There are thousands of 5'3" guys out there in relationships FFS 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 06:14 PM |
| 1 | The day you stop feeling that seducing women is a strenuous task and treat it like play is the day you figure it all out.C'mon they do enjoy dating or else why would they do it? They just don't like the process which is an attitude issue. | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 10:44 AM |
| 16 | The Magic PillTHIS. Learning how to talk to people is primary. People do everything else but the main thing (actually socializing) and then wonder why they've no romance. Like "I did a 100kg bench today but still no girls" 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 12:18 PM |
| 3 | The Magic PillHahaha yeah. For me personally, I don't have trouble being spontaneous or holding conversations or leading towards something sexual. I personally rely on cold approaches mostly due to my situation - I work a fully remote job and don't have a strong social circle to introduce me to potential partners. But yeah different people have different starting points but even 1 approach a day can take people very VERY far. | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 12:16 PM |
| 8 | The Magic PillHahaha yeah but I feel that is kinda an extreme case. I think most men wouldn't have trouble if they truly commit to their approaches - they can probably do it in far less than a 100. I'm sure most of those 1000 approaches were just a simple 'hi' and then maybe a couple of sentences dip out from there right? But it's fine - coz those 'light' approaches were helpful to start making more 'heavy' ones. I get your overall point though. I think we both are in agreement 🥳 | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 11:49 AM |
| 23 | The Magic PillYepp. No one should ever say they're bad with women unless they've asked out a 100 women. Most men here don't lack anything. They're just under socialized for a very long time. | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 11:38 AM |
| 14 | has anyone heard of a guy like this in their social circle ?It's not just extrovertism. It's about him being a fun cool dude instead of an overthinking, gloomy and complaining man. | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 04:11 PM |
| 10 | has anyone heard of a guy like this in their social circle ?If he's respected and is seen as a fun guy to be with in all those groups, then obviously his sex appeal will go up. It's a no brainer. | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 04:06 PM |
| 1 | The Most Common Issue I See With Unnatural MenWhat you say is true but plenty of men do end up having normal dating and social lives. Definitely the biggest problem is the way were raised, but the way we responded to their events are also a part of who we are. Like a boy getting overtly controlled by parents might just give up and submit to authority. He'll end up unable to express himself as an adult. Another boy in the same situation will be like fuck you, even if he gets beaten or whatever he'll still rebel and assert his sovereignty. He… | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 04:06 PM |
| 4 | Difference between us and mainstreamThe big problem with tech guys is we don't understand the emotional and social aspects of interaction at all. We approach those also with logic and try to come up with some kinda formula to 'solve' the equation 🤦♂️🤦♂️ It's the other way round too - people who are bad at socializing often end up sitting infront of computer screens and later end up in tech jobs 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 03:26 PM |
| 60 | has anyone heard of a guy like this in their social circle ?Charm, social competence, a generally masculine presence and attitude towards Life easily supercedes any 'game' unless it's off the charts. And relative social status has a lot of impact on attraction. The more girls hit on him, even more other girls will continue to hit on him. People learn game because they lack these in the first place. That guy is gaming without even realising if he's casually able to blend into extended social circles 🥳 | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 03:16 PM |
| 3 | 'Monk mode' will ruin your life. It'll forever keep you in "I'm not ready yet" attitude.You can work on yourself while being with a woman. Monk mode to work on something is different from monk mode to avoid confronting reality 🥳 | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 10:50 AM |
| 12 | 'Monk mode' will ruin your life. It'll forever keep you in "I'm not ready yet" attitude.These subs attract argumentative weirdos. One of the reasons why they can't get a woman 😝 They wanna be 'technically' correct at the cost of everything else. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 07:21 PM |
| 6 | 'Monk mode' will ruin your life. It'll forever keep you in "I'm not ready yet" attitude.This is a great algorithm to live by 😁 | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 07:20 PM |
| 12 | 'Monk mode' will ruin your life. It'll forever keep you in "I'm not ready yet" attitude.Obviously it's good if you're focused on a specific goal. But for the guys who are seduction forums? They already suffer from under socialization 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 02:51 PM |
| 2 | I listened to yall but need more advicePractice is the only answer. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Stop treating dating/women like the 'final boss' of a video game. This attitude is a self worth issue.There's nothing messed up at all. it works exactly the way it's supposed to. It's just that we think of I do this then I'll get girls while the fundamental understanding itself is wrong. The fact that we feel we can't get women until we do something itself is a self worth issue that needs to be addressed 🥳 | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 05:22 AM |
| 119 | The Most Common Issue I See With Unnatural MenThese are things a normal person would learn during their teens if they had a healthy socialization with both genders. But some men have to learn it later in life. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 04:58 PM |
| 11 | How do I meet women in university?Just know you're right now in the best time, age and place to find a relationship. Most of us were regret not socializing at the university to the fullest extent. You will regret this a LOT in future. So just go and say hi. Overcome your fears and hesitations. You'll be glad you did. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 06:21 AM |
| 89 | Cold approaches are one of the healthiest things men can do.Be respectful and don't have any expectations. | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 07:24 AM |
| 3 | Best way to recover/ avoid hangover?Just drink water and sleep well. And reduce drinking. | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 06:03 AM |
| 3 | What is the “hair done, makeup and gorgeous outfit” equivalent for a short king (as opposed to the ladies)?Because they want EXACT THINGS that work like solving some math equations with a formula. But they don't understand it's all about presence, charm and situational awareness. | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 06:02 PM |
| 1 | 20,000 cold approaches - AMAFastest lay? | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 05:22 PM |
| 2 | What is the “hair done, makeup and gorgeous outfit” equivalent for a short king (as opposed to the ladies)?Say it clearly without hesitation. That you find her pretty, that you are very happy to be around her. Even stuff that pisses you off - say it clearly. Like I dislike these things about you. Fully express yourself without hesitation. Even with actions, don't do half assed nervous moves. Make slow, deliberate, clear moves like leaning in for a kiss or playing with her hair or anything. Most importantly, be ok with losing her. Like truly ok. You can dress and look like shit and still have a great … | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 04:09 PM |
| 1 | What is the “hair done, makeup and gorgeous outfit” equivalent for a short king (as opposed to the ladies)?Expressing your desires clearly with both words and body language. That's all. | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 01:02 PM |
| 4 | Does It Mean Anything If A Girl Follows You Back?Could be a lot of things. It's highly individual and situational. The only way to find out is by asking them directly. Who knows it could lead to something great 😁 | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 02:59 PM |
| -2 | Women give me headachesIf you feel a country full of women are stuck up, your inner game must be at rock bottom 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 02:31 PM |
| 6 | Sex is not happening to me at all!Dude if there's one thing I learnt. NEVER TALK ABOUT SEX. NEVER TALK ABOUT SEX. Unless you're already regularly having it with them. Sex is something that's just supposed to 'happen in the moment' 😏 if you can understand what I mean. So don't get into arguments or beg or demand sex. Only when you're actually together in private, make a move and see if she reciprocates that's all. Other times, keep it fun. | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 02:12 PM |
| 7 | Why you have no energy to go out and meet womenYep the dopamine you're getting from other places like porn or reels is off the charts and very easy to obtain. Remember when you were in high school or college and REALLY look forward to meeting that one girl? 💗 That dopamine spike has been short circuited. | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 01:09 PM |
| 8 | How does one flirt effectively?Switch off logic. It's not a math problem. Just make fun observations and comments. | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 08:10 PM |
| 6 | American dating advice is useless in europePick up isn't the same as dating 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Worst race for cold approach?Even races will be based on personal beliefs and experiences no? There's no universal answer to this. | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Worst race for cold approach?What's myth about it? For different people it's gonna be different races. Find what works for you. No different than other stuff in life. Some guys do very well with party girls, some with nerdy ones, some with highly outdoor/athletic ones, some with others. Personally, I do very well with strangers I meet during trips better than the ones I meet during my day to day activities/events. | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 09:47 AM |
| 9 | Worst race for cold approach?Dude.... It's highly situational and personal c'mon. | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 08:54 AM |
| 2 | fastest way to get a gf or just a fling?Ask our 100 girls. Simplest fastest and straightforward if You actually manage to do it. | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 08:06 AM |
| 10 | Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you?It's in your head bro. They've already rejected you. Mind your own business. | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 06:46 PM |
| -1 | How true abundance feels like?Those guys aren't on seduction forums 😭 | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Men who understand women don't argue with them because the universe doesn't care who is right or what's fair in a relationship.Nope. Understand and master emotional intelligence so you can live an amazing and fun life with women 🥳 Instead of whining like most guys when things don't go as expected 🤣 | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 12:55 AM |
| 19 | How the fuck are meant to meet women if you don't like socialising?How are you supposed to fulfill your hunger if you don't like eating food? 🙄 | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 03:56 PM |
| 0 | You don't need more techniques or information... You've to grow a SPINE. No way around it.The whole point is to be not so mechanical. You observe what others are saying? Incorporate it into your conversation. | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 07:26 PM |
| 3 | You don't need more techniques or information... You've to grow a SPINE. No way around it.I mean why do these spaces always attract weirdos 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 05:09 PM |
| 7 | Where to meet women?Not analysing every social interaction with autistic details would be a great step 🥳 Be present and actually have a genuine interaction while expressing your sexual and romantic interests according to the actual situation at hand. Don't be butt hurt if they disagree. That's all. | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 03:04 PM |
| 14 | Where to meet women?Dude there is no math formula. This is not a logic puzzle to solve. There are no 'steps'. Each of these interactions are unique. The more present you are, the more you'll enjoy them. Read one or two books or videos. Anything is fine. Don't fall into the trap of constantly consuming information. You've to start actually interacting. Just say hi and go from there. The first few times are gonna be messy but you'll get a hang at it. Good luck 🤞 | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 12:06 PM |
| 10 | Where to meet women?That depends on your daily routine and personality right? These are highly situational things. Like you can talk to people anywhere. In fact I recommend you just start saying hi to men wherever you go and try to get friendly. You'll get a hang of things and feel socializing with random people around you isn't really that weird. | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 11:39 AM |
| 47 | Where to meet women?EVERYWHERE around you there are thousands of women. Couples meet in all kinds of circumstances. You just have to make a decision and say 'hi' and see where it goes. Don't try to force an outcome. Just enjoy the interaction. | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Are guys men supposed to have common sense or instinctively naturally know how to never be weird or creepy around women? Or is that part of the learning improvement process?No they cannot. It's just that men are simps and let them get away with it. That's their problem if they're not enforcing their standards. You would too if women simped around you. And stop complaining and whining. It's unattractive. Develop a solution oriented mindset. | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 10:25 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle ambiguous answers to a date invite?WTF. Be totally aloof or be the super cool guy girls always say yes to dates immediately? You know most average people just ask and pursue a couple of times right? That's how any average couple meets and gets together. I'm so sorry we're just average men with average dating lives Mr. James Bond 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 08:54 PM |
| 10 | Is an insult in a group a DLV?Dude stop thinking about it like a math equation. It's highly situational. How you respond is much more important than what happens. Go insult some cool, charming dude and he'll turn it right back at ya without breaking a sweat or losing his shit 🥳 It's all about charm. That's what you should be going for. | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 11:37 AM |
| 18 | Did she want me to take her home?You win or you learn bro. Good luck 🤞 | /r/seduction | 02/04/26 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Are guys men supposed to have common sense or instinctively naturally know how to never be weird or creepy around women? Or is that part of the learning improvement process?Nope. Endlessly reading about seduction is actually detrimental. It is a way to feel good temporarily. The fact that OP was able to write those paragraphs means he has read the theory and has done enough introspection. Any more is just avoidance. He has to actually start talking instead of thinking now. Realising that simply talking to other people is not 'tonne' of work and preparation is a part of progress. | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 12:24 PM |
| 230 | Always Remember That Women Treat Men Differently Based On Their Level Of Attraction…..No shit obviously 🤷 Do you treat all women the same way? | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 08:40 AM |
| 40 | Are guys men supposed to have common sense or instinctively naturally know how to never be weird or creepy around women? Or is that part of the learning improvement process?You know you'll figure these things out by talking to 5 girls instead of overthinking and typing out 10000 word essays right? 🤷 | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 08:38 AM |
| 1 | How to Approach Mixed sets and 2 or more sets. (Nightgame)Talk to all of them. Befriend all of them. Learn to diffuse. There's no formula. It's situational. You have to be calm and control the frame. | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 03:20 PM |
| 1 | How to Approach Mixed sets and 2 or more sets. (Nightgame)Try to get comfortable having normal conversations with mixed sets. No hitting on girls initially. Then once you're comfortable with that, move to the next step. Break your problems down into pieces and solve them one by one. You'll get good in no time (like get VERY GOOD within a few weeks) if you actually be consistent. Good luck 🤞 | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Resources to help with converting dates into a relationshipI know the problem coz I'm kinda in this situation. I'm good at attracting women because I've developed a good 'game' and have a great understanding of interactions. Can remain present and calm all the time, etc, etc. But relationships are a bit different. It's about inviting another person into your life without the filters. And if you're not secure about that, it's always gonna be a problem. I have a great rapport and am in touch with all the women in my past ❤️ But I just can't get them to be… | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 02:59 PM |
| 22 | Would you get into serious relationship if the girl has previous experience of ONS/FWBHave you never had any? Was it purely out of choice? | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 07:21 AM |
| 96 | You Fixed Your Body and Bank Account - But Still No GirlsYeah. Talk to more people especially girls you're attracted to daily. Make it a normal thing so you can take some pressure off. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 10:20 AM |
| -1 | Actually hitting on 5 girls will teach you a lot more than reading seduction content for 5 years straight.Already mentioned in the post - it's cultivated through actual interactions. Don't put pressure on yourself for a specific outcome. Don't try to say lines you read and practiced. Observe what comes to your mind at that moment and see if you can say that. But to be able to do these, you need a few shitty interactions where you're totally in your head first. You'll slowly get out of your head after a few bad interactions. That's what I meant. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 04:34 AM |
| 0 | Actually hitting on 5 girls will teach you a lot more than reading seduction content for 5 years straight.I'm talking about endlessly consuming content. | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 10:21 AM |
| 4 | Honesty Is The Best PolicyAbsorb the useful, discard the useless. This way we can learn from any information that comes to us. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/20 11:04 AM |
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