Not GENUINELY getting butt hurt after a rejection is the most incredible paradigm shift for seduction.

tyrwlive · 2026-05-06T13:05:07+00:00

The best shift for me was viewing rejections as simply information

OrlandoLasso · 2026-05-06T16:41:22+00:00

Okay, but can you explain how you reached that attitude? Rejection sucks for most people. I've never been rude to someone who rejected me, but it's always a bummer. Even today, I got rejected after finally meeting someone I'm attracted to after being in a Facebook dating group for people without kids. She thought I wasn't intentional enough because I said I'm looking for dating and friendship depending on how compatible we are. It's hard not to be bummed out when you completely fuck up your own chances.

WebNew9978 · 2026-05-06T19:36:36+00:00

This makes sense if you’re being rejected in short term sense and then later on have not get rejected. If you’re someone like me who’s been gone through 10+ years of constant rejection from women, it’s gonna bother you until you get the yes

tattooedpanhead · 2026-05-07T09:16:31+00:00

This is the way 👆💯 indifference is your most powerful tool.

DrBarackPendergrass · 2026-05-06T23:11:15+00:00

Dating Coach here — The Highest Levels of Men understand that there’s no such thing as “rejection” (It’s either “getting” or “knowing” over “wondering”)

ReindeerFun3762 · 2026-05-10T05:07:41+00:00

Our genes only care about 2 things: surviving and reproducing

Colortheglobe · 2026-05-12T17:48:32+00:00

Bad post.

Dandys3107 · 2026-05-08T08:14:50+00:00

Maybe you should not get carried away by negative emotions caused by rejection, but you should also not act like you are happy about it and nothing happened. Take the L, shit happens, process the feedback, look forward to next opportunity.

Title	Not GENUINELY getting butt hurt after a rejection is the most incredible paradigm shift for seduction.
Author	wilhelmtherealm
Upvotes	88
Comments	26
Date	May 6, 2026 9:13 AM UTC (3 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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