| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 101 | Most people don’t approach because they’re afraid of rejection. Here’s the mindset shift that’s helped me | Inner Game | tyrwlive | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 10:33 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | What Are the Best Countries to Have Fun (with Girls)?What if you’re Asian? | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 10:42 PM |
| 4 | Why a woman would do thisLast minute resistance, it’s common. Also you messed up by asking if she likes you. You chased her, and when she rejected you; you threw a fit. That’s attachment lol | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Need advice for dance floor openersLmao | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with ApproachingWhen you see rejection as simply information, it becomes a brand new game | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 07:28 PM |
| 7 | Terrified of Day Game Cold approachNah, that’s timid. | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 05:38 AM |
| 66 | Where would i find a rich millionaire woman?They’re in private meetings, flights, private suites, exclusive hotel lounges; places you’ll probably never see unless you get your status up | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 01:46 AM |
| 2 | How to cold approach a woman?Great advice, but why should we never ask for their numbers? And how do you present yours to her? | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 05:21 PM |
| 208 | Something I've Noticed About Men Who Date a LotGetting into a social flow has been such a game changer for me | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 03:46 AM |
| 9 | YEAH, YOU’RE HOT, SO WHAT…I’d honestly just avoid telling them they’re beautiful/gorgeous/hot altogether; you’re already putting them on a pedestal once you drop that | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 03:23 AM |
| 31 | anyone ever been to an orgy?Lol | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 09:55 AM |
| 4 | Im 32 years old man no sex life no relationship . Younger kids sudcting tow or tree women but why im failed this game.i don't know why.Trying being more coherent with your grammar first, that could be a start | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 03:54 AM |
| 1 | do you prefer longer foreplay or longer penetrationI prefer rounding foreplay and penetrating up with longer | /r/seduction | 22/05/26 09:29 AM |
| 27 | What made you better/more natural?Not caring about the outcome, and taking rejection as simply information | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Crazy seeing so many attractive guys singleTook the words right out of my mouth | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 01:11 PM |
| 60 | Not GENUINELY getting butt hurt after a rejection is the most incredible paradigm shift for seduction.The best shift for me was viewing rejections as simply information | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Instagram or Phone Number?Correct.. they’re not all photos of me, but just enough so that it also shows some images of me doing various activities. I also have a business profile that is linked to my personal, so if they’re curious about what I do, they can click into it and see what I’m doing, and it acts as a kind of surprise. I basically let my profile do the talking | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Instagram or Phone Number?Not always, it really depends on the overall feeling I get from seeing her IG profile. The substance of her content matters a lot | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 03:09 AM |
| 15 | Instagram or Phone Number?Instagram for me, just because my page is pretty well-curated and it shows some of my personality. I’d also like to see what kind of things she likes to post as a way to qualify her | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 07:47 AM |
| 128 | A girl ghosted me after I got std tested like she asked.(Vent)I feel like she could sense the neediness from a mile away, and your “hey if you wanna invite me over I can come to you” line just killed it completely | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 01:21 AM |
| 12 | Dating appsCheck out Todd V’s online dating videos on YouTube, they really helped for me | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 11:06 AM |
| 3 | Why women don't chase men?Women absolutely chase. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 10:22 PM |
| 5 | I be complaining about not having a man but I got like 3 in my dms im just scared to talk to them bro😭Cool story bro | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 03:45 AM |
| 4 | Worst race for cold approach?Never had any luck with Viltrumites | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 09:36 AM |
| 1 | How do y’all even score second dates?Yes, you start seeding it on the first date (given that it’s going well and you’d genuinely want to see them again) until you find something that they are interested in | /r/seduction | 30/03/26 04:50 AM |
| 21 | Does fucking 4s or below help you in any way with getting 5s and up?Damn | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 05:06 PM |
| 7 | Manufactured pre-selection is the ultimate cheat code. Here is exactly how I fake it.Your OG post had some nice subtle examples but this one just ain’t it | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Most people don’t approach because they’re afraid of rejection. Here’s the mindset shift that’s helped me👊🏽 | /r/seduction | 12/02/26 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Most people don’t approach because they’re afraid of rejection. Here’s the mindset shift that’s helped meClose; I AM the cilantro | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Most people don’t approach because they’re afraid of rejection. Here’s the mindset shift that’s helped meWell said | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 04:41 PM |
| 3 | What places you can find promiscuous women?I heard they dwell in the depths of the rainforest | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 03:07 AM |
| 11 | I'm going to kill myself if I cannot get laid with 20 girls by the end of 2025OP, you’re drunk, go home | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Iniciate fwb with an ex?Facts | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Iniciate fwb with an ex?Fun for short term, not so fun long term. Someone on one side usually always catches feelings, and it’ll get messy. Tread with caution | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Talking to girl in the gymI try not to engage at my gym. If it goes sideways, it’ll be fucking awkward after | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 01:46 AM |
| 1 | What to do after approaching girl from the side?Thanks for sharing! Do you remember what your opener was? | /r/seduction | 16/01/26 01:39 AM |
| 1 | What to do after approaching girl from the side?Damn.. what did you talk about with those girls at the mall? | /r/seduction | 15/01/26 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Girl at the gymBig ballsy move stalking her and then following. I would’ve at least said hi in person first | /r/seduction | 15/01/26 04:22 PM |
| 4 | Why do girls do this?This generation of dating sucks | /r/seduction | 10/01/26 02:32 AM |
| 48 | She pays for the datesMarry her | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 06:08 PM |
| 8 | What does heavy breathing while making out mean?Well like you said, it was your first times. She was probably turned on, mixed with a little anxiety and nervousness. Take this as a good sign | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 02:59 PM |
| 11 | Would you rather visit Vancouver, Canada or Miami to get laid?I’d honestly visit Montreal much rather than Vancouver if you have to pick Canada. | /r/seduction | 24/12/25 01:15 PM |
| 9 | Would you rather visit Vancouver, Canada or Miami to get laid?Lived in Van for almost 30 years, I second this. | /r/seduction | 24/12/25 01:14 PM |
| 36 | Would you rather visit Vancouver, Canada or Miami to get laid?I’ve lived in Vancouver for almost 30 years. I feel like people are more stuck up and are generally more inclined to hang amongst their ow cliques. Miami is better for having fun and gaming | /r/seduction | 24/12/25 01:13 PM |
| 3 | HELP! How Do I Stop Avoiding Approaches Because I'm Scared of Risking My "Cool Guy" Self-Image?OP, you are carrying a sword you have never swung. It looks beautiful. It gets admiration. But you refuse to use it because it might chip. A sword that has never been struck is not sharp, it is ornamental. Real confidence is forged through impact. | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 06:48 PM |
| 3 | It's all smoke and dust until she's in your bed. Don't get excited early.Relax, buddy. | /r/seduction | 15/12/25 05:50 PM |
| 1 | What’s the sexiest hairstyle a girl can have?High ponytail with face-forming hair strands | /r/seduction | 06/12/25 02:49 AM |
| 11 | I rejected a girl 15 minutes before we were meeting for our date (story time + identifying red flags pre-date)I’ve been scrolling for 30 minutes | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 12:53 PM |
| 3 | The #1 Red Flag That Turns a Pretty Girl Into a NightmareThis is 100% true, good for OP for pointing this out. I learned the hard way as well, and a great lesson for sure. Entitlement over time turns to disrespect and becomes corrosive. She starts to test your boundaries until you’ve had enough. Never put them on a pedestal, as love and make any man do this. Always do your best to identify this early on. | /r/seduction | 22/09/25 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Why eye contact is so important in cold approach and how to act on it.Original poster | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 05:02 PM |
| 10 | Why eye contact is so important in cold approach and how to act on it.This is great OP! Acting on eye contact is something I definitely need to work on. I always catch women look at me but I tend to always look away. But I’m just curious, is it too early to compliment on her beauty so soon (and twice for that matter)? Would there have been any more playful/man-to-woman openers that wasn’t too superficial? | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Logistics for second date if you just want a casual thing?There is absolutely nothing wrong with going to only first base on the first date. | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 11:41 AM |
| 8 | What are your best openers for talking to a stranger on the street?Any examples? | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 03:24 AM |
| 12 | Sent me a paragraph wishing me a happy birthday 3 weeks after she rejected me. What did she want?Facts | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 10:38 AM |
| 84 | Sent me a paragraph wishing me a happy birthday 3 weeks after she rejected me. What did she want?Attention, probably | /r/seduction | 18/07/25 09:56 AM |
| 4 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”Ba-ZING!! | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 12:31 AM |
| 8 | Have yall ever recovered from an LI haven’t slept well in years | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 11:16 AM |
| 21 | Is it a coincidence that the women I treat like a second thought, generally care more about me than those I apply pressure on?This is it | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 07:40 PM |
| 8 | She's Hot, She's Broken, She'll Ruin You(unless you're him and how to be him)Perfectly described my ex. Sex was amazing, but it wasn’t worth all that emotional investment. I broke up and found someone MUCH better after a month. | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 07:30 AM |
| 6 | Do you need to be humourous?It’s an incredible asset to have as a skill. I taught myself through watching stand-up comedy. The key though is to not make too many self-deprecating jokes. | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 07:26 AM |
| 8 | How to kiss her“You know.. we’ve talked too much.. come here.” Has worked well when the convos are great and the vibe is right | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 07:32 AM |
| 15 | Dated a girl, then got triggered, stopped contact, now she misses meThe truth is, deep down you wanna keep her around because the sex is good, I get that. But you also have feelings, which can only increase if you continue to have sex with her. My advice? Let her go. I’ve been with avoidants and they are mentally fucking exhausting; it will only cause unnecessary pain. But if the sex is great, nobody can tell you what to do otherwise. | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 07:57 AM |
| 1 | I catch so many looks at the gym…The gym is my sanctuary.. I don’t like other people’s auras affecting my focus | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 05:58 PM |
| 4 | And what if the sex is bad?But you still beat. Learn from it. Practice kegel exercises. Eat pumpkin seeds. Exercise/do cardio. Practice breathwork. Look up positions. The more you do, the more you learn, as with anything in life | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 04:25 AM |
| 1 | How should I kiss a guy who is shorter than me without making him uncomfortable?Be romantic and give him a stepladder | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 06:45 AM |
| 1 | I matched with a girl on Bumble, and her opening question is: ”What makes you special and why should someone date you? :)“Bro, you dropped some gold nuggets | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Does hitting a girl up after she already rejected you and some time has passed and asking out her out again ever workChances are slim but shoot that shot, make sure it’s a nice re-entry | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Girl says I HAVE TO bring her a gift on our first dateWhat does she like? I’d say be as cheap as possible, in the most sentimental way. You don’t want to spend so much on a first gift | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 12:09 PM |
| 4 | Left on delivered after make fun of her messageDude.. context. | /r/seduction | 07/01/25 06:48 PM |
| 1 | When was the last time you got laid? Asking just to see were the average lies.A | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 06:47 AM |
| 3 | What do you have on your music playlist for inviting a girl back?What if it’s country? | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 01:01 PM |
| 8 | Dating if you have moneySome women dont typically value handsomeness as their top priority. Also, Elon is a crazy figure to use. He’s not just rich, he’s got status, intellect, drive, etc. Many women are drawn to that, despite what he looks like physically. Dating him would also give them status as well | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 02:23 PM |
| 8 | Dating if you have moneyMost women want security, and many come in the form or gold diggers. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 01:35 PM |
| 32 | How a girl actually thinks!This is 100% the truth - OP needs more experience. Women will love you but still lie. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 03:00 AM |
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