Good men with a backbone > Bad men with a backbone > men without a backbone - Attraction hierarchy.

And with men without a backbone, you never really know if they're good or bad coz they tend to wimps and resentful doormats.

And the resentment is not because of women's behaviour, it's due to their expectations and lack of boundaries.

They simp endlessly even when there's no reciprocation and keep resenting it instead of just acknowledging disinterest and backing off.

And the eternal jealousy that she's fucking other men instead him? That's also due to lack of trying to focus efforts on finding someone who's more into them than wallowing in jealousy and self pity.

Scared to approach, scared to decide, scared to stand out - all this is extremely unattractive to a woman regardless of how good or bad you are.

And the bad ones get chosen NOT BECAUSE they're bad but inspite of it. Because they're not wimps. A good man with a spine? That's the best ofcourse.