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Bad men with a backbone are FAR more desired than good men with a backbone. Good men with a backbone are actually indistinguishable from good men without a backbone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:21 PM
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When you hear that, what’s happening is… The women are choosing the men who show the least interest in them, and mistaking the little interest for high value, when in all actuality it is a more definite sign of…low interest. So, women date these guys, get pumped and dumped, ignore all the men in their inbox who clearly want to take them seriously, and then say “no men want commitment”. It’s a sign of a woman shooting beyond her league or trying to date men who just want to fuck. And tbh, a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:13 AM
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She might, I have no control over that. Still love her as my daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:28 PM
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I don't believe in showering your ideas, beliefs, and opinions on your children, as a parent. These things contour a person, and I don't think it's your job to contour your child as much as it is to let them grow into a morally-acceptable version of whoever they choose to be. Now, invariably your parenting style and household customs will reflect your beliefs and principles, but I don't believe in actively shaping children ideologically outside of basically "do unto others as you'd have done unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:43 AM
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I don’t hate women. I’d be a great dad. I just don’t want any intimate relationship with the mom. We can co-parent, and for the sake of the kids, we’d be cordial and might occasionally do things as a family, but I don’t want any association with the mother beyond that, nor any responsibility for the mom’s problems and/or being.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:34 AM
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I’d be a great dad, but the mom and I wouldn’t be together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:08 PM
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For me? Yes. I just don’t want to keep up with their mood swings and drastic changes of mind. They seem to not be very principled or loyal, which is fine, I just don’t want anything long-term with someone like that. I don’t even hang out with guys who are fickle, selfish, vain, or two-faced, so it’s not about gender it’s just that I’ve noticed women tend to be like this a lot more than guys. There’s always this transactional undertone with women too and I’d rather just not entertain any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:17 PM
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Because most men want to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:02 AM
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Women’s attraction is relative. Like, if you out Jason Momoa, Chris Hemsworth, and Henry Cavil in a room, whoever she’s attracted to the most, becomes the standard and the other guys are deemed “ugly”. So it’s not that men aren’t attractive, it’s just most of what women see is social media, and on social media, you get curated scenes of guys literally in makeup, posing with controlled lighting, and photoshopped touchups on top of already being top 3% in attractiveness. Understand, it’s not accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:06 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:31 PM
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They won’t admit it but this is true. Waiting to be asked out is filtering for a type of guy. So it makes sense that women all run into these types of careless, player-like men, when that is EXACTLY the type of guy that is likely to just approach you out of no where. Considerate men usually consider a woman’s comfort and boundaries and don’t approach. But here’s the kicker…women don’t ACTUALLY want considerate men. Women want the jackass…they just want to blame the jackass for being inconsiderat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:02 AM
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I say this as a guy…the biggest lie ever told to men by men is that you need to get your money now and date later. First of all, most of you just won’t get that money. The economy is such that it’s getting harder to make money, and most of you don’t have the connections to make money if you even have the skills, or don’t have the skills of it have the connections. Then, once you have both, you usually need capital. Upward mobility is INSANELY hard for men. Even if you do succeed in making money,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:29 AM
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Dating is as easy as women want to make it. Guys in here will even admit, there’s little difference in their actions between the relationship that lasted and the ones that didn’t…the ones that lasted usually lasted because the woman wanted them to…that’s it. Relationships work when women want them to…and the stats support that. Women, most of the time, are just impossible The problem is: -Women want a bad good guy, that’s still bad, but good, but not so good that he’s no longer mostly bad, but n…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:16 PM
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Call me crazy but there is no degree men can go to to advocate for women that women will be satisfied with. Think about it, what is something, anything, that women are satisfied with in this society? Mind you, there’s something like a 0.00002% chance a woman will be murdered in the US. About 4,250 are murdered each year, and 170,100,100 exist in the US. Women are empirically EXTREMELY safe, and are the freest, most privileged, most protected demographic of women - and honestly - of people, in hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 01:40 PM
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I actually focus ONLY on the woman’s pleasure. Women can’t really get me off. They just can’t. I’s rather jerk off to porn, but I like having women around. Good thing a lot of guys don’t realize is that women don’t really want their dick lol…women cum from clit and g-spot. Penetration doesn’t really do much for either of those places. I just make them cum, then go for it again, and then we stop. I’ll jerk off later to some porn or something when she’s sleep or not around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:33 AM
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Look at how many men on firearms compared to women…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:05 PM
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The male-on-female/female-on-male murder disparity is largely capacity related, not desire related. -women are more fearful than men naturally -women would lose almost every physical altercation with a man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:00 PM
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And? What’s wrong with OF subscriptions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:51 PM
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Not at all. I did everything a man traditionally did and even gave her the benefits of the modern man, which is "no expectations". Women basically want (although they won't say) a traditional man with regard to his responsibilities toward her, and a modern man with regard to his control over and expectations for her, which are none/nothing. I gave her the best of both worlds. I provided and protected, and didn't ask any questions about anything...no "who is he", "where are you going", etc. I spo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:41 AM
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Yes. I’m a pretty smart guy. I can see patterns quite well and analyze situations decently, and I already thought, for many reasons, relationships didn’t really benefit men. By benefit, I mean, men must acquire some weird, immaterial, altruistic-based, benefit from dating women because there isn’t any real, tangible, obvious benefit. With women, on the other hand, it’s usually extremely easy to see what they’re getting in the relationship and the benefits can usually be physically counted. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:11 AM
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Most relationships don’t end for cheating, and I’d argue women cheat FAR more than men. Most cheating numbers are self-reported and there’s a reason men would self-report more cheating than women given shame around sex. Women, however, cheat FAR more than men. Take two fat people who like doughnuts. Put one in a desert, and one in a free doughnut shop. Which one is going to eat a doughnut first? Women cheat more because cheating is INFINITELY easier for women to do. There is a very low impedance…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:55 AM
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Marriage was NEVER meant for happiness. If you childishly believe it’s about happiness, YOU shouldn’t be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:50 AM
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Marriage is not about happiness. It’s about compromise, duty and sacrifice. BINGO!!!!!!!!!!! 🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:49 AM
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Google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:47 AM
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That’s a result of the legal system combined with the men women usually choose to father their kids. Which gender is more likely to die for their spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:47 AM
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It is. I think a mature adult finds happiness by subduing their ego and being appreciative for what they have. Quitting, after you’ve vowed that you will stay, is a worse example for kids in my opinion. You and I aren’t going to agree on this. I’ve noticed the newer generations just don’t really understand why things in general succeed, and that reason is quite literally because of the mindset that “failure CANNOT happen”. You all just tend to see problems, whatever they may be, as signs of inco…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:44 AM
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How do you know are leaving because of lies, disrespect, cheating, and lack of help? I argue that women leave because that’s just what women do at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:37 AM
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The problem is, “lack of effort, support, and happiness” is vague. How much effort and support is enough? How is anyone responsible for someone else’s happiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:35 AM
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Not most men. And I don’t dismiss women’s wants and needs, I’m saying most men acknowledge them, but these days, women’s WANTS (really), are ideally unreasonable asks that no significant majority of women throughout history ever really obtained anyway yet still managed more harmonious and satisfying relationships with their husbands.Like with my prior example, it isn’t that the rich kid’s parents don’t pay attention to his desires, it’s that he likely can’t be satisfied as he already isn’t with …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:38 PM
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My point is, when you subdue your ego, you find happiness in things that aren’t superficial and vain. Happiness comes from service to others. Most women’s dating advice, and most women’s social media environment, is designed to inflate tor ego. Subsequently, less and less women are happy, because they’re told that they SHOULD want everything they want and SHOULD have everything they want. I think men are happy with what they get because men’s dating advice and men’s social media environment tend…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:28 PM
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Not really. There’s a quote, “women will sacrifice their family for happiness, men will sacrifice their happiness for family”. I’ve known that to be true. A lot of women’s “suffering” is the suffering equivalent to some rich kid “suffering” because his parents would buy him a McClaren. It’s not real suffering, but rather, them seeing the consequences of having convinced themselves that they’re deserving of something that either doesn’t exist or that they don’t deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:33 AM
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Men start off looking at each profile, then realize the wide net is the only way to catch fish, not the harpoon. Basically, when women swipe right on like 1 out of 1,000 guys, the predictable response is for men to swipe right on every woman if he wants a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:02 AM
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As a deeply red pill guy this is absurd. This statement, about any group other than probably people who are literally disabled, is just absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:43 AM
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I don’t think those women actually want an ordinary man…I think they can’t get a man and will, temporarily, appreciate an ordinary man. There’s a difference. It isn’t that the homeless man doesn’t want lobster, it’s that he’ll temporarily appreciate a McDouble if even they are in short supply. I actually think men are a LOT less shape than women. Men don’t really ask for much, and don’t really get much from women, and so they tend to be stubborn on the very few things they ask for. He’s gotta wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:02 AM
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Everything is a risk - I’m saying what I’m saying acknowledging risk, not ignoring it. Tbh, there’s less of a risk in helping a man than there is with trying to find a rich one. Men, contrary to popular belief, DON’T usually leave the woman they built their lives with. Men DO usually leave -if they even commit to at all- some random money-hungry chick that he knows wasn’t there before the money and wouldn’t be there without it. Men cheat on those women and leave them all the time…that’s almost t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:16 PM
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It’s weird because most women aren’t what they want, themselves. And most women are deludes by social media into thinking that what they want is in abundance. It’s also weird to me that it’s been lost on women how wealth is created. In our society, historically, men and women married VERY young and BUILT life together. Mind you, the entire purpose of a relationship is “help”. Women don’t realize that they’re more likely to be wealthy is they start young and build with a man, than they are if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:58 AM
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Most people don’t have careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:51 AM
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What “social cues” do you speak of?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 06:01 AM
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Me = not too high
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:13 AM
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As a redpill guy, I actually think it’s riskier for women. In short, you don’t typically get better than your baby daddy, and men are kinda designed to be repulsed by women with kids. Better guys don’t come along to raise lesser guys’ kids - just doesn’t happen. Women will say “the guy I’m with now is better” and that’s not true. He’s usually a cornball who never got attention from women and is “better” because he doesn’t require anything of her and has a ton of money because he doesn’t do anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:40 AM
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I’m not conflating anything, what you just described is friends. Women want to have the obligation of a friend to a guy, to be ashore to talk to whatever guy they want and not have to do girlfriend stuff, but want the guy to view her as a girlfriend ONLY with regard to his traditional masculine obligations to her, not with regard to traditional boyfriend privileges to her, which would require compromise on her end. And this the general relationship between men and women. You’ll notice that men’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:01 PM
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Love is inherently possessive. People tend to think outside of biology too much. “Love” serves two purposes. To acquire and retain a tribe for survival (family and friends), or to facilitate reproduction (lovers). That’s it. Because we’re talking about the ladder, men are possessive to ensure their genes get passed on without being cucked for their resources. Basically, promiscuous or detached women are a giant paternal risk for a man, as such women are likely to have involvements with other men…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:14 AM
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I doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:30 PM
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They do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:28 PM
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I don’t understand the first part of what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:28 PM
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No. You’re wrong in ask three paragraphs. Seeing eye to eye = agreeing, and agreeing is not necessary to be in love or love someone- at all. Lack of trust and a weakening bond can cause a breakup, but don’t necessarily cause break ups. Your comment was the only black and white comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:26 PM
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You can’t. I can’t love you then not care when you leave. I can’t be detached, but feel responsible enough for you to support you financially. This is the retarded ass female thinking that is ailing the dating landscape today. “I don’t want to commit or do anything, but I want all tire benefits of having done so”. “Let’s need together, but not together”. “Let’s love, but be detached”. Tf kind of autistic shit is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:46 PM
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Your father was still an asset. Whatever he made was that much more on top of what your mother made. Women tend to think that if a guy isn’t caring all the weight, he’s a burden. If she makes $100k, and the guy makes $35k, that’s $135k as opposed to the $100k she now has as a single mom. Besides, men’s wages were fucked by widen entering the workforce so if women really wanted providers, like it was before, they’d leave the workforce. It has always been funny to me how women want equal pay, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:43 PM
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I think interdependence is a delusion, a misnomer, and a defense mechanism women use to try and pry as much benefit from men as they can, without commitment, obligation, and offering anything that costs them something to offer. Did I call your husband a simp? I genuinely don’t recall doing so in this conversation at least. I know I called someone’s husband a simp, I think, yesterday. I tend to believe that most modern husbands are men who need to give a woman the world just to get laid, so I do …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:10 AM
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The problem is that you just said you don’t expect provision and protection, but objected when I took away the things that are mere signifiers of a man’s ability to provide and protect. This is why I see the entire “we don’t need no man” or “women don’t care money” or “we don’t need protection” stuff as laughable. The same women saying this select for men who make more than them, and men who are physically imposing. I’m not blaming them for being attracted to those qualities, I’m blaming them fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:03 AM
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Him benefitting doesn’t mean she isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:55 AM
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I’ve said the principle. “Don’t take responsibility for things you have no authority over”. You disagreed, and I don’t think you actually disagree with the principle, you just don’t want the conclusion I’m angling for (men shouldn’t provide and protect for women who want to act divested) to be validated by your agreement with that principle. So, to highlight that you actually agree with the principle, I pointed out that you wouldn’t pay for and maintenance a car that wasn’t yours. I did this bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:54 AM
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When women stop dealing with men based on money, and don’t care about a guy’s, height, musculature, and assertiveness, I’ll believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:34 AM
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For the same reason you don’t pay for and upkeep a car that isn’t yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:33 AM
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She’s benefitting from the ailing husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:31 AM
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You have legal guardianship over your children and they are legally your obligation and responsibility. That’s why you provide for and protect them. This is why when they are by default emancipated at 18, that legal obligation disappears. Even the philosophy that undergirds the law understands that only with ownership or something approximating it, should obligation to provide and protect follow. While I agree a man should care about a woman he’s in a relationship who holds your view, I don’t th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:49 AM
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Theoretically? Yes. Practically? No. Men’s thirstiness boosts women’s value far above men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:04 AM
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I think that if women expect men to think like this, then they should drop the expectations of provision and protection, as you don’t protect and provide for something that isn’t yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:02 AM
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It’s impossible to connect without feeling connected lol. And women should start to understand that the good aspects they like of men, come often come from the quality of possessiveness that men naturally possess. Women wonder why men don’t protect and provide anymore and it’s because men largely understand that women don’t belong to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:00 AM
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Not really. If the guy isn’t insanely attractive the only other reason she’s with him is because he’s got status and or money. Let’s not make it like women are these virtuous creatures and men are vain pigs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:08 PM
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Women like violent men. Ot It’s no secret that women’s attraction is really just to men who are most dark-triad. I tell guys all the time, stop looksmaxing, stop moneymaximg. Looksmaxing/gymmaximg will attract dudes and moneymaxing will get you women who basically treat you like a portal to money. You know what you do? DarkTriadMax lol. I’m serious. Become a serial killer and you’ll get bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:23 AM
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Because women make sex scarce. Not saying they should fuck more but I am saying a lot of the shit women complain about is because of their own doing. men ghost me Date men in your league. Most men don’t ghost, as women are rare for most men. If you’re being ghosted, you were swinging out of your league. men are low effort Men get rejected and sent mixed signals so often and they must spread their attention among many different women in order to snag one men fuck anything Because women don’t, lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:59 PM
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I argue women don’t find these guys hot despite the red flags, women find these guys hot BECAUSE of the red flags. Whereas men tend to find women hot despite red flags, not because of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:47 PM
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I’m telling you to answer that question. You asked it because you already presumed the answer and I’m insinuating that the answer you presumed is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:18 AM
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Answer that question
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:06 PM
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No. I’ve just had a girlfriend. I had a hot one. She cheated and left for some drug dealer. The hotness wears off quick. Pussy is loose as all hell and just doesn’t grip as well as my hand. They’re emotional, and never satisfied with anything. They cost money. There really is not benefit to them, only downside. I don’t think women provide anything worthwhile to men. But if some guy derives value from his relationship with a woman, that’s up to him and I respect that. It’s just, women aren’t for …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:01 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:35 AM
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I personally would rather jack off, but if I wanted a woman it’d definitely be an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:34 AM
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This isn’t naïveté. I’ll catch flak for this but women see a loyal man as a weak one. This is something guys don’t understand. What guys see as discipline and virtue, women see as passivity and weakness. Because to women, if you wanted to do something, you not doing it is weakness, not virtue. This is why women like bad boys - they do what they want. A cheating man is such a power move, women can’t help but respond favorably to it. Women are hypergamous. When you cheat on a woman, that is the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:29 AM
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It’s just easier all around to pay women. Because we men are logical, and women aren’t, there’s a more logical sequence of events, and thus a more controllable sequence of events, that comes with paying. When you’re doing the whole courtship bs, there really is no logical outcome for your inputs - that’s why courting pisses so many men off. The hot and cold, mixed signals, the games…just pay for what you want, she feels obligated to provide you it, you all leave and she goes and burdens some oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:13 AM
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Your analogies are bad. You don’t change teams just cause ti went to a different stadium The parallel for that is “you don’t leave your partner just because you cheated”. At which point, you’re proving my point that it’s hard to keep high body-count women loyal. Let’s just assume they don’t leave you after cheating (which they usually do) - THEY CHEATED. Lol. Btw, there are credible sources to back my claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:08 AM
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Why would she have a hard time? She’s gotten exactly who she wants and knows that if she wanted it had better she would have gotten with or stayed with them instead. YOU don’t even agree with you… People watch lots of movies. Only one is their favorite. People try lots of foods only one is their “go to best meal” If you don’t get it…you’re saying people go elsewhere despite having favorites…then you’re saying she’d go nowhere because she found her favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:49 PM
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My point is that a woman with a high body count will have a hard time staying faithful to one man. Because despite her having a favorite meal (and we’re assuming the guy she committed to is her favorite, because that isn’t always the case), she’s still likely to eat other meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:10 PM
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And despite having a favorite movie and best meal you still watch other movies and eat other meals. Did you mean to prove my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:59 PM
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It exists, just not how they think it does. If a woman has a lot of sexual partners, a man will have a hard time keeping her faithful and committed to the relationship in the same way a person that has tried a million different candies will have a harder time choosing one for their rest of their life. It actually does have dopaminergic roots too, but I won’t get into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:08 AM
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You’re assuming all women could get some rich landowner. Men are abundant for women but the best of the best men have always been scarce. Put it like this. rare > scarce > decent supply > abundant For the average man, poor women are in decent supply, good women are scarce, and the best women are rare. For the average woman, poor men are abundant, good men are in decent supply, and the best men are scarce. That’s not what I said. I’m saying when you have economic parity between men and women, or …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:17 AM
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Your statement assumes women’s attraction is objective. It isn’t. Women tend to show attraction to men on the basis of necessity. Basically, whatever guy is above them, tends to be eligible to be the subject of her attraction. Prime example is Elon. Elon wasn’t attractive before he was the richest man in the world. Elon is attractive because he’s on top. Women’s attraction sways based on a given man’s relative socioeconomic position to them. I say this because, women were, in fact, attracted to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:32 AM
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I'm trying to find some coherence in this and can't. I'm not being funny, I genuinely can't. I don't know what you're actually trying to get across.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 08:04 AM
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They actually are. Under patriarchy, the average man still got a good woman. Chad still got the pick of the litter, but most men weren't incels. As we move to a more matriarchy-driven society, more and more men are, and will become, incels. Men have ALWAYS been better off under the ideals of other men than under the ideals of women. Basically, left to their own devices, women would all have kids by the richest, most high status guy in society, then form a community where they all help take care …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:55 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:53 PM
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I’m a man. Men don’t just ask for sex. Sexual requests are almost always preceded by courtship and a relationship. You’re just lying to make your point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:52 PM
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It doesn’t scare women off. Women will use sex as an easy-in with a guy they deem attractive enough. If it didn’t work, these guys wouldn’t do it. The guys who can do it, do it because it can snag them both a fling AND a relationship, while a man putting that he’s interested in a relationship comes off to women as “needy and desperate” (yet another way women unnecessarily overcomplicate dating). Basically, women have made it such that dating is basically just a massive leverage competition where…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:55 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:51 AM
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So you proved what I was saying lol. Men want to get married young.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:47 PM
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Men say that because it’s know that you scare women off when you’re too serious. Even if you want marriage, you have to sell women the “it just happened over time” Disney-esque narrative or else they start acting weird. Most of dating as a guy is overcomplicating things for the sake of comporting with women’s overcomplicated approach to dating, as women largely control dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:42 AM
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Because you chased men who were out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:39 AM
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Way off. When women are younger, their mating strategy is often less mature than men’s. Today, it’s actually women who want to date around and taste all the flavors, then throw a Hail Mary at 30-35, snag a wealthy simp, and live happily ever after. Young men usually want the wife and kids fairly early on, but they just don’t find that women are interested in the same. Older bachelors play as though they’re just running through women but the reality is they’re not. Contrary to popular belief that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:24 PM
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Your way of dealing with your fear is different from theirs. Like I said, a lot of these guys WANT to be proven wrong about their worldview. A lot of this isn't as much a "pity party" as it is "so here is what I've gathered, and here is what I've concluded. Someone please give me a reason to believe something else" or basically "CMV". I don't think they're autistic for this, it's just a different way of coping. They need facts or more sound reasoning against their reasoning than they can - thems…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 09:04 PM
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They struggle with the psychosocial facets of life in practice, not theory. This is based off an unproven presumption that their data set is reddit or social media. Just because they deliver their critique of relationships on this platform, doesn't mean such platforms are the source of their data set. "slightly" I'll take that. I think women have become what a gender that is pandered to, coddled, and is biologically wired to be more susceptible to neurosis, would become under these conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:59 AM
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with fake people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:31 AM
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Precisely
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:30 AM
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Right, but that, to a thinker, just sounds like gratuitous optimism from gratuitous optimism sake. What purpose does viewing things like that serve? Basically, thinkers tend to be utilitarian. They dispense with fluff and get down to what matters, as the former just clouds the latter. I don’t think these guys are pessimistic, I think they’re actually disappointed realists. The guys I see on ppd ACTUALLY liked women, ACTUALLY treated them well, ACTUALLY wanted genuine, non entirely-transactional,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:37 PM
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Well if you make the assumption that they’re autistic, the autistic are known for being hyper-analytical. And I maintain that as I guy, today, it takes some ignorance and naivete to actually like, and be liked by, modern women. Abjectly-selfish, shallow, detached, vain, double-minded, manipulative, narcissistic, flaky, disloyal, are all pretty accurate characterizations of MOST modern women. Someone that can date that, I’d argue there is probably something more wrong with them than there is with…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 09:19 PM
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i think guys in ppd just understand more about society than everyone else does. They’re fish that have seen the ocean from the air.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 08:25 PM
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If you understand the dynamic between men and women, you’ll understand that getting I said is true. The Bonnie Blue comparison was hyperbole, but if you read along I explained it. No one can refute shit, Just make baseless claims shit who they think I am. Tell me why the begets of masculinity are redistributed so that every woman can get them regardless of her fitness for or deserves of them, yet femininity is only reserved for a select few men distinguished men? Bonnie Blue odds what parity, in…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 02:04 PM
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I don’t care what the outspoken dumbasses think. No one has debated anything I’ve said. You’re calling a lowered-rim “garbage” but you can’t dunk on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:51 PM
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They will, until they won’t. Everything evens out eventually. Pendulums swing. Meanwhile, gtfo of men’s societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:50 PM
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The state(men btw) is your bodyguard like a lottery is your retirement. Besides, women upset the original arrangement because THEY wanted to work, which doubled labor and halved wages. You make the mess, you should be responsible for cleaning it up. And you act like women still cook. Most women have outsourced food to the husband’s wallet in the form of ready-made-meals and takeout. Women can’t cook for shit. Men are better cooks than women nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:22 PM
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He fucks, and must be valuable enough to where you want to fuck him..which is significantly harder for men than for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:13 PM
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She should have to compensate him for his contribution, s as you expect him to compensate her for her reproductive contribution despite him doing his reproductive half. If it must be transactional, let’s make it all the way transactional. You’ll find that the men are transacting is of far greater value than what the women are. My point is I’d count my blessings if I were a woman, and keep quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:08 PM
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You said “whatever”. Was worth a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:04 PM
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This would be the 50 she’s paying for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:56 PM
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Grown men not using 8-year-old girl amounts of emojis helps me sleep at night, mind helping with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:55 PM
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So should women pay for men being an inexhaustible ATM and being a constant bodyguard? You can’t even buy the first.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:49 PM
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Not a virgin. Incel? Maybe. Not a virgin You have an argument? Or are you tickled like a second grader after seeing titties on my profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:46 PM
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If you think a dissertation isn’t an explanation, I doubt your ability to read more than I do my ability to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:43 PM
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Work is traditionally my responsibility…the house isn’t. The kids aren’t, as far as the nurturing aspect is concerned. Just like I wouldn’t consider a woman weird for saying she’d help with the bills…as they’re not traditionally her responsibility. Or to use your analogy, it won’t be weird if I used the word “help” at work when doing a task for a department that isn’t typically my responsibility. I think you’re in search of a boogeyman and so you find one even where there isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:38 PM
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The most sensible thing you’ll read this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:30 PM
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I’m very open about my porn use. It doesn’t discount what I’m saying though.Tell me what I said was untrue? Or are you just another Western beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:29 PM
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That went straight over your head. I even explained it and it still went over your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 05:22 PM
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Imagine being a woman and saying sex is a self-sacrifice. It literally costs a woman nothing. Sex with women is the one thing that has kept men from dispensing with the gender that contributes comparatively nothing to the species’ non-reproductive furtherance. Women, non-reproductively, are a liability on men as a whole. They’re a class of abject consumers who whine and are profoundly uncooperative despite the little cooperation that its asked of them. The only people who actually sacrifice in r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:58 PM
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What does it say?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:37 PM
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The idea is 100%. So 50/50 is the maximal effort by each party, totaling a 100% effort. I do think the men should help around the house nowadays, and I have no problem with that. I just don’t think women who want men to provide, or men who are looking for tradwives but aren’t pulling $150k plus, are being unrealistic. Things change, times change. It’s weird because “trad” is only traditional if you’re counting Frontier time periods…for the vast majority of human history women actually worked. Du…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:25 PM
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50/50 is the most economically feasible relationship nowadays. I’d imagine under 10% of men can afford to 100% provide…it’s just not feasible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:02 PM
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You’re asking men to shame men with a high body count…when if women didn’t like his body count, he wouldn’t have a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 07:21 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:49 PM
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It really won’t. Self-help gurus just needed a problem to solve, to sell you something. -Breakup or rejection hurts? -Buy my product (watch to my vids for ads, patreon, buy my course, book a call, etc) -Does it work? -Fuck do I care, they bought it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:09 PM
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Men want to provide, they can’t, and it’s largely because men fulfilled a wish women had , the effects of which, killed the possibility of men being the provider for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:36 PM
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Please tell these men. They think everything has to do with their dick. But tbh, men would suck less at sex if women were more vocal and direct about what they want. The fact that the female orgasm remains a mystery is AS pathetic for women as it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:30 PM
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No. I think it’s just because men require no sexual skill on the woman’s part to get off. A man’s orgasm depends on the man’s performance. A woman’s orgasm depends on the man’s performance. Thus, heterosexual women suck at sex because they don’t need to be good at it. The slut-shaming stuff is bs. Hoes are going to be hoes and tbh, it’s not even really frowned upon anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:26 PM
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5 men (employees) are getting 10 of the 100 apples a tree produces, and 2 other men (owners)are getting 25. It takes 4 apples to provide for your family. 5 woken say they want a share, the same share as the employed men. The owners now give each woman 2.5 apples, and each man 2.5 apples. Those same women then look at those 5 employed men and say “you don’t want to provide” when, as a result of those women wanting an equal share of the apples, those men can no longer provide. Now, where those wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:14 PM
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That’s not even really an argument though. That’s like saying the sky is sometimes grey. I’m talking about the subject’s role relative to the opposite sex. Romance-themed movies for men revolve around a male protagonist saving a good or troubled female. Superman, Spiderman, King Kong, Forrest Gump…Romance-themed movies for women are always about her being conquered by a sinister man or about her cheating on the perfect guy. Women’s shows in general are about that. Say what you want, but we bad b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:55 PM
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because, tbh, the only thing that makes a woman cooperative in a day and age where women have access to virtually any guy they want, is engendering the qualities you just mentioned. Also, a woman that isn't those qualities, quickly creates an environment in which she will attract the men that aren't good for her, or run off the men who are. Let's break it down: A dominant woman: -attracts submissive men -runs off men that lead A selfish woman: -attracts simps/weak men -runs off strong men A disa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:13 AM
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I'm talking to men. I don't expect you to understand what I'm saying. You think that "a woman choosing a man is a gift to him" because you're inundated with so much male attention you can't help but think that women are God and men all want to get into heaven. But men know that literally the only thing women offer, seeing as they want you to handle everything else, is fertility, and if she's already had another man's kids, she's as good as a used condom...where, technically it will work...but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:55 AM
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For one, height isn't a preference. That's like men saying they prefer alive women. Who doesn't? What woman "prefers" a midget? I'm saying women aren't attracted to healthy masculine traits. OP is saying women are attracted to bad boys, but is also saying that bad boys have healthy masculine traits - they don't, otherwise they wouldn't be bad boys. Women far and wide are attracted to toxic masculinity, and it's even in women's erotica. Look at men's romance movies, or romance movies written thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:49 AM
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Women don’t like men the way men like women. Men’s love for women is self-sacrificial. Women love for men is self-serving. The quicker you understand that as a guy, the better off you’ll be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:09 PM
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No. Why is 'masculine' associated with impulsiveness, inconsiderateness, and antisocial behavior? Us men understand that the men women are usually attracted to are basically unrefined versions of men who are essentially what you get when you place an 8-year-old in a man's body. They have no rationing skills and no emotional control which is why they're quick to violence. They don't think, which is why they seem assertive. They're not wise, which is why it's easy to be inconsiderate. They lack im…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:18 AM
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Wtf are you talking about? I’ve been consistent in my belief, per my observations, that women choose objectionable men in their 20’s and then convince weak desperate men with a bit of cash to play ATM and Daddy Daycare in their 30’s. You won’t catch me saying women choose men who make less because than by-and-large they don’t. I said nothing about looks at all, because as an attractive incel I can tell you the guys in here massively overestimate the importance of physical attractiveness as a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:06 PM
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No, most women do this. The ones who don’t are usually the ones who don’t get attention from those Alpha-type guys…and it’s usually because they’re undesirable aesthetically.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:06 PM
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It really isn’t. They choose nice guys in their 30’s when they need someone to take care of their kids. Dual-Mating strategy. I hate to say it but it’s true…Alpha fucks, Beta bucks. And it’s weird because the dudes they get with aren’t Alpha, they’re just Alpha to those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:17 PM
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You’ve provided not one source this entire time. And what’s holding every man back from becoming a millionaire? Idk, 2nd grade level mathematics?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:42 AM
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Lol. If marriage predominantly benefitted men, women wouldn’t be in them. Women date up. If women date up, men must date down. Even if a man dates across, his output compared to his income is 99:1 Be a man for a day. Just try dating. Just try. Like, fuck dating, just try and get two responses from a woman. If you can do that, try to get a woman to initiate. That “initiate” could be a fucking “hi”. I’m serious. Is that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:11 AM
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I’ve actually said this before, and I don’t expect any unattractive guys to agree with me but for the my few fellow attractive guys in here, please back me on this. Being attractive is not what you think it is. Like, I’m a former model. I’m 6’1, 180lbs, tatted, dress well, etc.. and a lot of you “incels” I bet get more play than me. I’ve been with one woman, she was very attractive, but she cheated on me for a significantly less attractive guy. I’m kinda talking to a woman now who eyes me, she’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:00 AM
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Finally a guy that gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:41 AM
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This is the most laughably incorrect post on earth. If every man somehow was a millionaire, women would fuck the top 1% who are billionaires. That’s how that works, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:38 AM
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Women are largely romantic antagonists, men are largely romantic protagonists. I’ve come to realize women wish to block as many men as possible from reproducing, while men look to do the opposite. Guys should stop taking dating advice from women. Why? Because women genuinely don’t know men, and don’t care to learn. Why? Because why do they need to when success with men comes without learning them? Learning is expensive. So, what women usually think they know about men, I’ve found to be just proj…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:37 AM
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Tbh, men wanting sex is the only reason why any of us are here. If we left the survival of the human species up to women, we would die off…which is funny because modern dating is 100% controlled by women and…we’re dying off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:12 AM
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Not really. That sounds good but just isn’t true. Confidence is humble assuredness in oneself. Arrogance is boastful assuredness in oneself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:06 AM
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Never said it was healthy or unhealthy, I’m saying it’s all that’s on the menu for 95% of men. So if you have a problem with patrons eating that, provide something else or stfu. What do you care about men who ups not concerned with fucking, watching porn? Be happy they’re not in your face, and mind your business…or…bend tf over.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:01 PM
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I’m sorry but most of the guys in the comment section missed the mark. Her claim that men offer nothing needs to be directly refuted. Men ARE relationships. To be entirely honest, women don’t offer anything to relationships UNTIL kids arrive, and even then, that’s not offering anything to the man, that’s offering something to the kids. Men approach, men court, men lead, men provide, men protect. Women do what exactly? And I’m not being a dickhead, I’m genuinely asking. Modern dating is essential…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:27 AM
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It’s wild because statistically, violence against women is more likely to occur in lesbian couples than heterosexual couples. What the evidence points to, is that if men were wiped off the face of the planet, butch lesbians and studs would basically fill their role, and due to their emotionality, would be more violent than are men, currently. And if women have a problem with men using porn, fuck men more or stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:47 AM
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Money is of far greater value than sex. Sex doesn’t inherently cost anything. I know you like to think it does, but it doesn’t. You bring up the risks associated with sex, such as rape and pregnancy. 1. Rape isn’t likely 2. Pregnancy is a risk for men as well I’d argue the risks men take-on for dating are greater than the risks women take-on 1. Paying, and nothing ever coming of your interactions is FAR more likely to happen than a woman being raped 2. Even if you do get sex, and pregnancy resul…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:44 AM
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u/JollyRoger66689 is right. I’d argue women cheat FAR more than men nowadays. Put it like this, people don’t usually leave unless they have someone else lined up…and women leave men 5 times more than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:33 AM
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If a woman likes you, she will come to you and/or make it easy. If she doesn’t, she’s not for you. If no woman gives you that energy, you’re unattractive and may need to try, but realize, all you’re there to do is reproduce. Men lose over time with women. The longer you’re with her, the more you pay, the more you sacrifice, and the harder it gets to keep her. Realize you’re unattractive, score, and get out…this, ironically, will actually make her more attracted to you, as women tend to become ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 04:36 PM
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It’s always weird to me when women call men transactional… Men are the only beings who will finance your life and die protecting you, in exchange for your mere appreciation, shown by little more than words of affirmation and loyalty. Let me be painstakingly clear when I say, the transaction in heterosexual relationships is so SEVERELY lopsided, in favor of women, that we’ve all somehow seemed to forget that women dating “down” is literally taboo, and men dating down is SOP (standard operating pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:11 AM
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I’ma be completely honest, what women want from the 5% of men they’re after makes no difference to their or their children’s quality of lives. Basically, women are ruthlessly selective over shit that really doesn’t matter. It’s the difference between driving your kid to work in a G Wagon vs a Corolla. Eating Lobster vs Chicken. Living in a huge house in the country vs a decent sized single family home in the suburbs, or a single-family apartment in city limits. They won’t end up under a bridge, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:24 PM
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That’s true. A woman can be a flat-out failure, a drug-addicted failure, mountains of debt, worked not a day of her life, and can turn around tomorrow, paint her face right, suck the right dick, and become First Lady of the United States. You think men can do that? There’s no such thing as a woman being too (fill in the blank) to be in a relationship. Men will literally be told “you’re too broke, too emotionally immature/closed-off, too whateverl to be in a relationship. Why is that if men don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:07 PM
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Let me try to explain it like this…there’s two sets of questions below, Set A and Set B. You mist answer each question with “Man” or “Woman”. A. 1. Who approaches 2. Who courts 3. Who asks who for a relationship 4. Who, statistically, has the burden of financial performance? 5. Who must protect? 6. Who must lead the relationship? B. 1. Who cooks (somewhat, but not really)? 2. Who cleans? Now…of the sets of Questions A and B, which set contains tasks that are done by both sexes even when they’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:00 PM
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Exactly. This idea that simps have stopped simping just isn’t believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:31 PM
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I’ve seen the stats, I just don’t believe them. As much of a stat person as I am, there’s no stat you can have me believe that says the average weight of a cow is 15lbs. Stats need to, in some way, comport with our observable reality and I see FAR too many women with kids to believe ain’t no one fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:08 PM
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Relationships suck FAR worse for men than women. There’s a reason you don’t have to accomplish ANYTHING as a woman to be in a relationship and you have to accomplish a LOT as a man. Nothing is truly required of women in relationships and the pressure to make it all work is on the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:51 PM
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Maybe I’m just not a man because I swear there’s nothing addicting about repeatedly having your self-esteem jabbed-at via rejection, ghosting, and cheating. Tbh, dudes that chase, I genuinely think are less intelligent. They look like moths to a flame to me. Like, poking a hive for honey. I think refined men don’t do that shit. I’ve just never seen a guy I considered intelligent degrade himself by running like a knuckle-dragging brute behind some woman whose bills he’s gonna end up paying. All t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:13 AM
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I understand that that may be what you see on YouTube and TikTok, but if you’re caught in that algorithm, understand that the majority of male viewers in that space have some retribution fantasy of the tide finally turning so that things can change for the better…and so the content creators, knowing this, create titles and vids compiling and cherry-picking content around this subject that deliberately overstates the degree to which these changes are happening - as often, they’re not happening at…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:06 AM
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Most men don’t think a woman approaching masculine. It’s just some excuse women give to keep the onus of approaching on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:54 AM
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You have to make a sandwich every now and then and spray Lysol around a tub on the weekends…and you’re asking the sex who has to finance your lifestyle, in THIS ECONOMY, and take a bullet or ass-whooping for you if it comes to it, “what do I get out of this”? Lol. Be a man and try to do the things that attract women. There’s 3. 1, is out of your control. 2, is largely out of your control, and 3, is a little less out of your control than 2, but moving the needle on it is still improbable. 1. Be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:52 AM
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I promise, if you’re in any woman’s face you don’t know…she knows what you’re after. They’re not dumb. You can try and make it seem organic and non-thirsty as possible, but they know you have a phone or a watch or some random old dude standing around to tell you what the time is, they know you don’t need directions, and they know you weren’t just “walking by and happened to see” them…your ass was watching like a damn hawk - they know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:08 AM
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I’ve said this too. Women want to date like 5% of men and then have the audacity to complain about what the other 95% are doing. Lol. Go try to turn the bad boy into Mr. Rogers and leave us tf alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:26 AM
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No. Women aren’t more valuable. What it is is that in any cooperative effort, despite the varying degrees of contributions from those involved, the person who cooperates the least has the most power. For example. You and I are making chairs. I make 99% of the chair, and you make 1%. The second you decide to stop contributing your 1%, I now have to beg you in order complete a chair. It’s not that you’re contributing more than me, it’s that despite how valuable I am, my value means nothing if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:35 PM
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It’s easier for hot men to have sex than it is for other men, but it’s harder for men in general. Kinda like dunking. And we don’t shame people for breathing because breathing isn’t a conscious act that people voluntarily engage in…so there’s no shame or glory around it. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:19 PM
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In other words… Men understand how a woman acts when she’s attracted to a guy and choose not to engage with women who aren’t attracted to them? Lol Score 1 for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:22 PM
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For women, yes. You assumed the woman’s sexual partners desires a casual experience though. Being brutally honest, most men lie to women because they’re forced to. Lemme explain. In any negation the person who can say “no” easiest has the leverage. Now, the reality is that you are only truly quick to say “no” when you are not desperate for a “yes”. Given women have more sexual optionality than men, women have more leverage, and having more leverage makes them more likely to say “no”, meaning men…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:06 AM
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It’s bot patriarchy that discourages female promiscuity and encourages male promiscuity; it’s actually the same logic we apply to everything. When a high-schooler beats a first-grader in basketball, no one applauds. Why? Because it’s easy. When that first-grader beats a high-schooler everyone applauds. Why? Because that’s an impressive feat given the size and age disparity. When women sleep around, no one applauds because that’s easy to do given how sexually indiscriminate men are. When men slee…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:51 AM
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You assumed it was casual
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:40 AM
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yes, I've said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 11:20 PM
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No fr lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:52 PM
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I don’t think men don’t understand this, what I think men’s problem with is that you just admitted that the person to aspire to, for men to become attractive to women, is a bully, or at least, NOT a caring, loving, supportive man. So before you call everyone stupid, o near-sighted one, let’s just extrapolate-out what happens to a society that rewards negative characteristics in men. If I have a dog that attacks someone, and I give him a steak immediately after, what did I just do? What happens w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:29 PM
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“You’re stupid”. They teach that in debate school, don’t they? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:32 PM
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I’m just describing how things are, not how they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:24 AM
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Just formally forfeit next time. “🏳️” will suffice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:32 AM
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No, I’m not. “Felonious men and drug dealers” isn’t meant to only include those men, but rather as a blanket term for “bad boys”. Basically. Here is about half of society works with regards to dating as of now… Bad boys treat women horribly Women hate that they love “Number 1”, and pass up good man after good man in pursuit of the bad boy. Women chase bad boys because women are easily fooled by false displays of masculinity which are often - actually - just immaturity and unintelligence. Women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:13 PM
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That’s not true. Just look at the facts. -Marriages usually turn sexless, and despite that, women are still 4 times more likely than men to initiate divorce. -Women are 4x more likely to initiate divorce -Men take longer to get over breakups and are more negatively affected emotionally -It’s men who die in emergencies for women, not the other way around. There is no greater display of love than to die for someone. Those are just a few. And I’m being brutally honest here, it’s actually women that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:40 PM
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It means you beed to become an extrovert, at least appear as one. You need as many at-bats as possible. Start by just complementing chicks and keep walkingZ You won’t get blown off. Then, escalate from there. Maybe start asking them questions after a few days, etc. But if you know your height is a disadvantage, you have to gain an advantage somewhere else, and most men ain’t gonna talk to women randomly. There’s your opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 04:17 AM
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I’m a guy and I agree. I’m telling you what to do, for my sake, because what benefit to me is telling you what to do for your own sake? You’re right. I’d be rich if I were an attractive woman. It’s easy as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:00 PM
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And most of us don’t know the tooth fairy. What might be the reason for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 07:15 PM
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And a lot of men don’t provide today because women move too recklessly. You all are too fickle. You’re too apt to leave. And you understand men’s hesitance because if I told you someone was likely to default on a loan you gave them you either would say “they need a higher down payment and/or need to front some collateral”(which is basically you asking what they bring to the table), or you wouldn’t invest at all for fear of not getting any return. This is precisely why men don’t invest today. At …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:09 PM
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I think that women wanting parity in wages, yet wanting the man to take on 100% financial responsibility, testifies to the notion that men shouldn’t take cues from women. Guy working along railroad: I’m hungry Partner that is doing nothing: So am I Guy working: I’m going to get food Partner: Give me half of whatever you get Guy working: Why? I need energy, because I have all the responsibility of finishing the job Partner: Because we’re equal Guy working: Great, so if I give you half, I can expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:04 PM
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I hate to dickride you but you’re the only guy I see giving the proper responses. For women who ostensibly care so little about provision and protection, why do they go so hard after wealthy men and violent criminals? Why don’t that date some 5’5” 120lb nerd who sits at home all day and plays does nothing? Hell, I’m sure he’d even do the housework they claim is so much more important that providing and protecting, in exchange for an xbox live subscription.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:49 PM
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You don’t value provision and protection becomes it comes too easy. You realize that if you’re protected and provided for, you have 95% of life figured out? The entire world economy is driven off the scarcity and precariousness of provision and protection. People slave away their entire lives to get this, and you say it doesn’t matter. You’re proving u/Clutterbox correct. Men have simped so hard, that something invaluable is now meaningless to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:43 PM
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I wish I could give this comment an award. Fuck it 🥇will have to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:38 PM
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Yes, but not only that…we now have a society where felonious men and drug dealers are the ones with the most reproductive optionality, and genuinely good men are being entirely overlooked. Wifey message is that sending to men? Men do WHATEVER is asked of them by women to become desirable…and women are essentially saying “be felonious degenerates”. I’ll be honest, I don’t like a world where when are independent of men because women hold all - 100% - of the intersexual control and leverage, yet th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:31 PM
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Y’all are starting to uncover why women’s sexuality was controlled by virtually every nation, and still is by most.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:42 PM
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I’m going to just be honest…women are not logical. And the problem is, because men shield them from consequences, they don’t see a point in becoming logical. So you’re not going to sit here and convince a woman that she’s wrong because she’s hypocritical. Even if you do, they don’t care, because it doesn’t impact them. You can thank men for letting women have their cake and eat it too. For all of the men here complaining about women, YOU are them problem. You all don’t act up because women are u…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:00 PM
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Dating isn’t “really easy” for attractive men. Attractive women, yes. Attractive men actually really struggle in dating. Dating is easy for hypersocial men with status. I see a bunch of attractive, tall guys that struggle with dating. I see a bunch of rich guys that struggle with dating. I have never seen a socialite struggle with dating. Basically, be at least a 6, be at least 5’8, have “rizz”, and have social status, and you’re golden.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:58 AM
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True. 95%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:59 PM
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Wtf are you talking about. Men are too I’m not to show it to women because every time they do she’s usually madly in live with some guy that treats her like a pile of dog shit. Men love more than women. Significantly more. Look at what women get for mother’s day bs what men get for father’s day. Look at what women get for their birthdays vs what men get. Look at who dies for who when it comes to protection (no greater love than this that a man lay down his life for a friend). Look at who takes l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:57 PM
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This might upset you, but with how disloyal and prone to break up families modern women are, I actually think men should entertain as many women as they can. If as a woman, you’re going to be fickle, dodgy, and emotional, all a guy is doing is minimizing risk by talking to other women. Basically, if you can’t be the one pillar to lean on, don’t be mad when other pillars start popping up. Women so badly want loyalty but don’t want to give it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:05 PM
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Do all of this to get 99% of women obsessed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:34 PM
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Declining birthrates. Less partnering. Lower gdp. More loneliness. Etc. You know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:24 AM
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I just don’t believe you. Either you didn’t find them physically attractive or they didn’t find you physically attractive. Had a guy you found physically attractive, found you physically attractive, and you guys got familiar with each other - you certainly cheated. People just aren’t that principled; if they were, the world wouldn’t look the way it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:35 AM
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You just agreed with me. I also don’t really listen to what women say they would and wouldn’t do. Not just women, but men too, I just don’t date men so I don’t care. What people say they would and wouldn’t do is usually a word from their ambassador, that is, their ego tying to cast them in a good light. If you really want to know what someone would and wouldn’t do, test them. Pick a situation where the potential reward high, and the potential risk is low - and watch what they do. I’d venture to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:28 AM
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Fair enough. I’m just telling you where a guy’s heightened defenses come from. It’s not irrational. You’re a woman, virtually any man will fuck you. You thought your guy was good looking, then you got to know him, then you fucked. Therefore: Attracted + Familiarity = Relationship Attraction isn’t scarce. You are and will continue to be physically attracted to other guys. That leaves “Familiarity”, which is where most men draw issue. If he sees you hanging around attractive guys, you are becoming…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:19 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:14 AM
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I’m cautioning others against taking it because it’s bad advice. “I’ve fallen every time I’ve gotten on my bike” You: “gain some confidence and do it”. Reality: “confidence comes AFTER you become good at doing it” Women determine which guys can and can’t become confident with them - it’s not up to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:14 AM
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Not quite. Chivalry is born of submission. Chivalry was the acknowledgement that women were lesser, thus submission to the less capable. The pursuit of a woman is submission, and tbh, it’s why a lot of women don’t like that today. Women say they want a guy to pursue them, but that’s really because they don’t want to make the first move and want the validation; but in all actuality, women end up loving the guys they pursue. It’s simple. Women want men that are above them. The quickest way to sign…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:11 AM
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Confidence is naturally externally granted. You can’t be confident if your environment doesn’t allow you to succeed. Men who are confident with women have confidence with women because women have validated them. There’s no so thing as a man that doesn’t have success with women, who is confident with women. It just doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:03 AM
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It’s not that, it’s just that if you’re an attractive woman, you’re inundated with male attention. Fundamentally, the thing that opened the door for your guy was that you liked how he looked (enough), and then you spent enough time around him. Those two things are not scarce. You WILL see men you’re attracted to, everyday. Some of those men WILL approach you, and if any of them are naturally around you by virtue of occupation or school or whatever, you will come in contact with them and some sor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:01 AM
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You do have to understand that no woman that has every cheated has said “if I’m with someone, I’m NOT with them”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:55 AM
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Yes. You won’t have to do really anything at all. Women know they can get virtually any guy they want - they know this. They know this and they use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:49 AM
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“Get some confidence”. Dude said that like the Dollar General is having a $2 confidence sale lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:38 AM
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What made you list these things? Do women tend to display these things when they’re “bad”? If so, why do you think these characteristics appear in bad women so much? What inherently about women predisposes them to these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:36 AM
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Confirmed. -I can’t relate to women and my life is far more difficult than theirs. -There’s nothing men get from platonic relationships with women. There’s hardly enough men get from romantic relationships with women to justify the work; I simply won’t do platonic. -Even if I could relate, I wouldn’t want to. Tbh. They don’t really do anything interesting. Their life consists of chasing attention and either perpetual school or some obsession with a job they call a career for a company that doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:34 AM
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Okay, Paul, you go take your discipleship and “God” elsewhere. Hot take: Religion is for people who can’t tell right from wrong without a manual. May come as a surprise to you but some people can function and wipe their ass without having to carry around an ancient book. You can’t think for yourself so why come to a debate sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:00 AM
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We don’t really disagree on much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:52 AM
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I understand that those men pay women for their time, but that’s what those women want. And I used to model, not a career model but I’d get 1099’d by a few startups to mid-size businesses, so I know quite a few male models. I promise you women aren’t on them how I see women on jobless guys who play video games all day and sell weed every now and then. I’m going to be honest, the latter guy seems to be beating all men these days - those guys have their pick of the litter…and not from ugly women e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:49 PM
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So is so false I don’t even know where to start. But believe as you will. High quality attractive women care about money and status. Women in general, are slaves to their emotions. Which means, whichever dude fucks them the best and gives them an emotional high, basically whichever dude hijacks their emotions, will win them. Attractive “high quality” women usually get with men of means and status and end up leaving them or cheating on them because most of these guys are cornballs and their perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:41 PM
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You read that too literally…by “argue” I meant be combative. For some reason you’re taking a really defensive stance and I’m just trying to tell you the world isn’t this “if you’re a guy who is a 10, that’s all that matters”. And all you have is not even anecdotes, but a hypothesis, to refute my anecdotes. You don’t know that physically attractive men get all the women, and you haven’t even lived it. So if we both don’t have empirical data, but I at least have anecdotal evidence, it’s actually n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:07 PM
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This has to be satire
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:41 PM
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Thank you for sharing, people tend not to agree with me until someone else comes along and says “yeah, I live it, he’s right”. And I don’t even blame top tier guys for running through women because in all honesty, the women they’re running through wouldn’t deal with lesser men even if they weren’t being run through by top tier men. I don’t think most men understand the extent to which women would rather die alone than settle. Which is why I laugh when guys tell women “you’ll die alone”….and I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:02 AM
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You can go ahead and think what you want. I guarantee that if we did a poll of which guys are getting laid the most, by the most women, you’d be surprised that they look quite average. And no, I’m not approaching women, not cold, no. I will approach if I get a clear signal, but I’n telling you that’s never given to very attractive men because they’re usually more intimidated by him than they are by average guys. You’re trying to tell me my reality. You can even go on TikTok and hear attractive m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:31 PM
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It has nothing to do with looks. I’m a very attractive incel. I say this to make a point, not brag - trust me. When I tell you, there are models out here moving cross-country to be cheated on by ugly drug dealers who live in their mother’s house, I’m not exaggerating. I actually wish looks was all that mattered because I’d actually get some play then. You won’t believe this, but looks can actually hinder you. Women are less likely to approach a very attractive guy, and are more likely to be rese…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:44 PM
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Women REALLY don’t understand men, and this post shows it. First and foremost, posts like these show that a woman is chasing top tier men, because most men are loyal - they have to be. So when a b woman is telling you all men keep cheating, only few men even have that much sexual optionality, so what’s usually the case is that woman is trying to score guys out of her league. People, women included, are looking for the best possible outcome for themselves. There’s some calculus that women use to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:00 PM
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You realize women do what you just said the most?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:20 PM
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The less feminism in a society, the stronger the families. Actually, quite the opposite is true. The more patriarchal and misogynistic a society is, the stronger the families. Every where feminism is present, families are disintegrating. And I know someone will say “cOrReLaTioN isn’t cAuSaTiOn” - I know it isn’t, but you can’t acknowledge what feminism promote and say that feminism doesn’t impact families. It has an effect - that’s for sure. So the next logical question is, is that effect positi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:14 AM
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I understand that, which is why I didn’t state my position. I simply asked it a question first. “An omniscient alien descends to earth and must diagnose the dating problem. What percentage of fault do men have, and women?” The answer was 35% men and 65% women. Specifically, women’s issue was that they’re - essentially - delusional, a delusion created by endless optionality, and men’s issue was that they’re stubborn/not-evolved. However, when you question further, you quickly realize that no matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:07 AM
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Nope, where women are most liberated, there will be higher divorces. Women have a very destabilizing, regressive effect on family and intersexual relationships. If you look at societies where families are biggest and healthiest, they are heavily patriarchal and almost misogynistic. There’s a reason for all this, but I won’t get into it. Marriages don’t need constraints. I’m going to be honest, we just need to get back to a day and age where men said how it would be, and that’s how it was. Point.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:50 AM
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I would say that “yes”, most men settle for their wives. It’s weird because the sentiment from women is that they’re all too good for men but women only know what they feel, not really what “is”. Most men, objectively, settle for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:00 PM
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I hate anything that basically hides how they actually look, shapeshifters, pushup bras, makeup, extensions, lashes, wigs, etc. And it’s a hated born of principle; in that, men need to have so many things going for them to get a woman and none of them can be faked. Men can’t wear makeup or get surgery, men can’t fake their career or money, men can’t fake their height, men can’t fake their status. And these are all hard things to get, if they can even be gotten - some you’re either born with or n…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:51 PM
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I do though. I don’t like women with makeup. And women that are done-up signal to me that they are untrustworthy. I’m the wrong example for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 03:02 PM
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Not true. As a matter of fact, a lot of men prefer women less done-up. Besides, of course attractiveness sways, the point is that it is far more fluid in women than it is in men, and science will back that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:05 AM
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Men’s standards don’t change. Who a man will fuck today is who he’ll fuck tomorrow. That’s not the same for women. Women fuck based on hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 04:53 AM
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Everything about this is wrong. No, men can’t and shouldn’t be happy on their own. The only ascertainable reason scientists have for human existence is reproduction…you might even be able to deduce that protecting your tribe is apart of survival/reproduction. A man not being able to start a family with a woman is literally the failing of both of those things. Biologically and your neurochemistry literally won’t allow you to be happy having failed at that and that’s actually a healthy sign. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:28 AM
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Basically Men needed money to get sex. Women needed to give sex to get money. Porn and hookup culture made men able to get sexual satisfaction without providing money to women. Gender equality in education and employment made women able to get money without providing sexual satisfaction to men. Left to his own devices, and man who gets tons of sexual satisfaction won’t commit to a woman. Left to her own devices, and woman who gets tons of money won’t commit to a man. You’re basically asking why …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:18 AM
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Alright bud, you win. Women don’t like guys with high body counts. I don’t know who those guys fucked to get such a high body count…because it apparently wasn’t women. You’re right, women like virgin men…in fact…they like them so much, that they don’t fuck them just to keep them virgins. My fault. Again, you’re right. I concede defeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:30 PM
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So if everything is subjective, and we can’t at all generalize, tf is the point of having a conversation about human behavior on a macro level?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:59 PM
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Pointing out why you think the person you’re debating is biased, or has a conflict of interest, is absolutely debating. Attacking their credibility is debating. Ask any lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:55 PM
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You’re hard at learning I see. Peace buddy ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:39 AM
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Your entire last argument was the first personal attack on this thread. Bud, I don’t even feel like talking to you anymore with your petulant back and forths trying to virtue signal for karma. I’m your intellectual superior, clearly, and I feel like I’m sparring with a novice by engaging with you. Reply with some sense and stay on topic, or peace✌️.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:08 AM
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I think it’s odd because women: -want men to know what to do -don’t know enough about themselves to give them accurate information -don’t want to teach even if they do know -believe that the guys who should know will know and that the guys who shouldn’t, won’t -complain that men don’t know -cheat on men for not knowing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:46 AM
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I’ve stated why I don’t believe her. An argument consists of a premise and a conclusion. They’re both there. I’ve stated my grounds for not believing her a million times but the way you all think is you have a range of arguments that are emotionally acceptable, and if someone’s argument doesn’t fit in that emotional range of acceptability then you consider it illogical. I don’t speak without giving reasons. As a matter of fact, I explain too damn much. You all just disregard the explanations. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:38 AM
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No, the way I debate is by asserting that someone is a liar, and then providing reasoning as to why I think they are. I don’t make baseless emotional claims and then tell other men to do shit that I know I can’t enforce like some low-t fragile people in this forum. You’re mad over an innocuous position I had in a conversation…buddy, you’re the last person to be instructing anyone on how to behave. Go back to kindergarten and developmentally catch up to the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:30 AM
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Yeah, I just don’t believe you. Kinda like when the big 2A guys are asked “what would you do if the ATF showed up at your house demanding your firearms” and they all say it’s be the O.K Corral, the final stand, the last bastion of patriotism…bullshit. They’d throw a few curse words out and hand over their pewpews. Same thing here. Every woman says they’d reject some widely desired, conventionally handsome, uber rich, well-known guy until that guy is in their face.m asking them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:22 AM
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You can tell without asking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:18 AM
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Right. Okay, you win… Henry Cavill is ugly and doesn’t get women. Promiscuous men are actually gay, because it’s not women that are fucking them despite their promiscuity, it’s men who are. And rich and famous men aren’t desired by women. We’ll live in that bass-ackwards wolrd for the sake of you winning this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:17 AM
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It’s not a matter of buying, it’s a matter of him hitting all the conventional signals of attractiveness that nature made women desire. I get online and have this conversation and all of a sudden Henry Cavill is some unattractive dude who no woman would date…yet the reality is he can walk into a room and walk about with every woman there…so there’s a disconnect. Someone is lying, and it’s you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:16 AM
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Whatever. If you ask every woman this, they will respond as you have, which is weird because the slutty Henry Cavill’s of the world don’t seem to be struggling with women… Women like to think they’re a certain way, but aren’t. I’d argue that women’s best knowledge of themselves is actually what they think themselves to be, or the person they think they are, not who they actually are. If a promiscuous Henry Cavill was in your face, chick, you’d take him. And you’d do it because the women he goes …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:07 AM
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Isn’t that the point of a debate? To challenge positions? You mean, what’s the point of being in a debate sub if you’re gonna agree with what everyone says? Bud, there’s a reason girls who are sluts are frowned upon and men who are sluts are glorified. Female sluts = bad paternal investment. Male sluts = women must love this guy. As much as women say they don’t like male sluts, it’s just words.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:49 AM
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Tf ever. If a guy has the looks, money, and status, you’re going for it. Period point blank. All those “standards” matter on dudes you’re not really that into. If Henry Cavill walked up to you tomorrow and admitted he was a male escort in his younger years, your only response will be “when are we getting married and how many kids do you want?”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:37 AM
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False. I wouldn’t want a high body count woman. You may as well just not be in a relationship with them because all the stats say you’re relationship is all but guaranteed to end and not last very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:28 AM
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Go back and read what you wrote and tell me those are all words you’d find in the dictionary…dumbass
/r/seduction15/02/25 09:44 AM
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I was talking to you about someone else. C’mon bud.
/r/seduction15/02/25 09:43 AM
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Thank you for saying this. I didn’t feel like responding that bs. Bunch of quasi-philosophical drivel, and a good portion of it was just unintelligible.
/r/seduction11/02/25 08:17 PM
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I think most men do know, but just don’t care that much. As I get older, I’m starting to realize women are going to like what they like and not like what they don’t like. And women that like you, like you regardless of the marginal changes you can naturally make to your appearance…and the women that don’t like you, won’t like you regardless of the same. There’s that, and that all this “seduction” stuff is basically playing a role…a role that isn’t you, otherwise you wouldn’t need to learn how to…
/r/seduction08/02/25 06:59 PM
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Hot take: I don’t think most men care as much as the guys in this sub. For most guys here, there’s this autistic obsession with getting validation from women that most guys, although they care about, don’t care that much about.
/r/seduction07/02/25 04:11 PM
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I’ve been saying this and thank you for being the only one here cavalier enough to think for yourself. Your brain makes you frustrated if you can’t get women because the one purpose scientists can derive for human life, being reproduction, is something you’re about to miss out on. Kinda like how your brain makes you uncomfortable when you say a bear hauling-ass over a hill about to get to you…that discomfort is to promote action. Not for you to try to ignore it. I swear this tiktok-bro, liberal,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:49 AM
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This is cap. Human beings evolved to be social creatures. Men evolved to derive deep meaning from providing for their family. The portal to a family is a woman. Women, given they can no get what men offered without giving what men wanted, don’t cooperate, so it’s only deductively reasonable that men would be upset with women…and I think men have a valid point. We’ll watch birthrates and all of society collapse, and then claim men need to be Shaolin emotional experts and learn all of these feel-g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:42 AM
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Hear me out… I think women have too much optionality and that optionality causes them to never be satisfied with anything long-term. Its called the Paradox of Choice. Where you have so many options that you can’t be satisfied with any one of them because any flaw, or just boredom, will prompt you to think you settled, desire flaws and boredom because inevitable parts of literally every one of those options you’re going to choose. I think women committing divorce at a rate 4 times that of men, ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:07 PM
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Meh, the problems women run into with men stem from two things, both of which are women’s fault: The standards and expectations they have in men tend to subject them to highly-manipulative, uncaring, disloyal men. The tastes they have in exceptional men put them in situations where disappointment is all but guaranteed. Expectation: Women kind of expect a great man who is entirely loyal to walk up to them, sweep them off their feet, and make their life better. Reality: Good things (including men)…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:25 PM
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A loyal woman? I’ll believe that when bacon flies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:11 PM
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I actually think it’s the opposite. Whatever men do, women never like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:10 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:28 AM
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I promise you, as “disgusted” as they claim to be by promiscuous men, they don’t go after sexually inexperienced men. Don’t listen to what women say they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:04 AM
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Made up numbers to make your argument look good. How convenient! For you slow folks…they were exaggerated to basically mean “most”. Kinda like when someone “says there’s 99.999% chance it won’t snow tomorrow”. They don’t mean that literally, they mean “more than likely, it won’t snow”. We’re talking about porn, don’t change the subject. And even then most porn stars don’t make anything close to a construction worker, so that’s not even true. The logic here, again for the slow, is construction wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:58 AM
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It’s actually simple. A. Based on stats and common sense, if you’re a guy who wants to be married and stay married, you do not want a woman that’s been with, really, any other guys. This is for two reasons: Women who express a preference for variety will obviously not do well with uniformity. It is understated how unrelentingly loyal women are to their best sexual partner, and/or how accustomed they become to their best sexual experience. The more partners she’s had, the less likely she is to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:06 AM
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The amount of criminality in the porn world is significantly overstated to degrees I just don’t see other industries misrepresented to - the purpose of which is to demonize the industry far more than it’s worthy of being demonized, usually due to some personal disliking of it that isn’t rooted in empiricism or even reality. Most, and by “most” I mean I’d bet my life that 98%+ of the models you see are consenting. Doing shit you don’t want to do for money is exploitative…it’s also 99.999999% of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:45 PM
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The amount of criminality in the porn world is significantly overstated to degrees I just don’t see other industries misrepresented to - the purpose of which is to demonize the industry far more than it’s worthy of being demonized, usually due to some personal disliking of it that isn’t rooted in empiricism or even reality. Most, and by “most” I mean I’d bet my life that 98%+ of the models you see are consenting. Doing shit you don’t want to do for money is exploitative…it’s also 99.999999% of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:33 PM
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So just go grab a woman and do things to her? Or is it more involved than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:02 PM
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It’s not any more messed-up than any other industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:48 PM
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You’re too young to have an opinion on adult topics because you’re not an adult…you have no adult experience You’re definitionally, literally, legally, not a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:10 AM
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Why are you even here if you’re a minor lol? Don’t anger that question. Bye, kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:18 PM
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You could end your virginity in literally the next couple hours if you merely walked outside, found a guy you like, looked at him, smiled and said “hi”. And I understand your point now. I’m not trying to convince you to date guys who like porn. I thought you were (and still do think you are) judging people who watch it. I don’t think you can say something is vile, repulsive, and unethical, and then say you cast no moral judgment upon those that derive pleasure from it. There’s too many things lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:22 AM
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It’s no more messed up or exploitative than corporations paying people nothing in exchange for their entire lives because people have to afford the shit that corporation keeps hiking the price for - and that’s the entire economy. And I tend not to really consider women’s perspective on men who watch porn. They sound like a rich vegan giving their disapproval of a starving homeless man who eats pork. “I’d never eat from such a dirty animal.” Well, you’re also not fucking starving. For women, sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:45 AM
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In no instance, other than the instances in which we’re trying to negatively frame something, do we ignore the predominant good examples and allow the bad ones to characterize that thing. Most porn is fine, some producers, on occasion, are unethical. And if you’re talking about getting people down on their luck to do things they wouldn’t otherwise do…that’s the entire economy, at least pornstars can drive a Maserati for it. How is watching people have sex, fundamentally, grosser than the people …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:38 AM
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For the life of me I’ve never understood women who dislike men watching porn. Like, you don’t want anything to do with 95% of men…wtf do you care if they go “occupy” themselves? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:48 AM
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I agreed with you up until the men and women’s differences part. Men are actually much better suited for solitude than women. Women seem better suited for not having romantic relationships because they have friends groups that men often don’t have past a certain age. Men don’t benefit more from relationships than women. The man is servile too, just in a different way. A lot of men wish they could trade slaving-away in an office or field come rain, sleet, sickness, sunshine, or health for the lux…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:45 AM
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I’m going to just be opinionated as hell here. A lot of guys just want a cool as chick they can enjoy life with. They don’t want a constant audition for the place of “workhorse” in a woman’s life, that is promising the fastest way forward to a millionaire lifestyle. A lot of guys tried the grindset, realized “life is short and no one gives a shit about you” and kinda just want to enjoy this 1 in a million trillion chance at life before they keep over and face eternal nothingness…not spend it in …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:14 PM
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Wrong. Society focuses its efforts on controlling the sexuality of the elite few men. This is why laws against polygamy, and even Christianity itself formed. Christianity and anti-polygamy laws don’t control the average man as much as they control powerful men - average men are controlled by way of women’s hypergamy. The problem societies were having is that it was basically winner-takes-all when it came to women, and society couldn’t grow because: 1. You had no genetic diversity 2. There was no…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:11 PM
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Bud, where in history have women out-earned men? Where in history as AI taken jobs? And where, in the entirety of the social sciences’ literature, do ANY reputable names even remotely cite eugenics as explanations for human behavior? Patriarchy is, and will always be the governing hierarchal system in society. There is no, and I mean ABSOLUTELY NO, developed society that is a matriarchy - for a host of reasons, they just don’t work. Women actually want patriarchy and are the primary purveyors of…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:43 AM
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It is very likely. In fact, the direction we’re headed almost guarantees that. Women’s best ally is actually capitalism. Capitalism doesn’t want women at home because Capitalism needs farm animals on the barn. Problem is, Capitalism also needs people and women’s economic autonomy reduces the population. But in the current direction things are headed, with rapid population collapse, men having moved-over to allow women economic parity only to be told they need to recreate the original wage-imbala…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:38 PM
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It doesn’t make sense to control other men. Women’s mating strategy is such that society can never grow if their strategy is predominant. Women are easier to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:07 PM
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In my reply to you I never mentioned anything about myself or my own personal struggles. I don’t talk about those things for a reason - because they’re irrelevant. So how can you say I’m avoiding accountability and that this is all about my dating troubles? On porn…I’m not ignoring the studies. Just because experts say something doesn’t mean it’s gospel. You can do a Meta Analysis, which is basically a summarized position on an issue based on consideration of the aggregate collection of studies …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:26 PM
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What a dumb strawman. No, it’s not. If men’s capacity for protection is independent of their physical stature, then women should have no problem dating the shortest, scrawniest men. Most men simply are taller and stronger than us. I’m not looking for taller and stronger men, it’s a statistical anomaly that a healthy man is weaker than I am. That refutation would suffice if attraction to men didn’t increase beyond the threshold of merely being as tall or as strong as you. Turns out, it does, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:15 PM
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Women are working now; contributing to finances; yet still overwhelmingly expected to cook and clean. We are doing double, even triple the amount of work we were once expected to do. The reason women are working today is because they said it was patriarchal that men got to make all the money. And what baffles me is, you’d suspect that women would only date men less than them if patriarchy is when men make more…no, women go and make as much as they can, only to still look for a guy who makes more…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:13 PM
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Nah don’t apologize, I actually appreciate a serious response from someone and not someone mindless npc doing meme responses. To clarify, I wasn’t necessarily saying my comment was plausible, and I wasn’t prescribing an action. Yes, I get it. The people who don’t panic-buy during a pandemic so that a stable supply of food can remain fall victim to the self-concerned folks who see the abundance allowed by other people’s lack of panic-buying as an opportunity to panic-buy damn near everything. I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:14 AM
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But men don’t understand that chasing women less, if done by most men, would get men more women and better, more equitable relationships. The reason women today are so terrible in relationships is because men are a dime a dozen. The reason women seem like they don’t like men is because men are so ubiquitous and easily accessible that their presence is taken for granted. The reason women detest men is because men have made the entirety of what men provide practically free for women to access. Pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:36 AM
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Unless men go back to limiting women’s economic progress. Basically, stable relationships start to form when the majority of women’s socioeconomic ceiling remains beneath the majority of men’s socioeconomic floor. In layman’s terms, Briffault’s Law.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:20 AM
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Because it’s quite obvious women have infinitely more leverage than men. Women have maxed-out men’s offerings. Like, it literally can’t get any better for women. And I’m being as non-biased as I can. Basically, if a woman wants to have kids and die a kept, married woman, it is all up to her. If a man wants to reproduce and die a married man it is entirely up to women. If you don’t understand that, I don’t know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:18 AM
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What if I told you sociopathy correlates stronger with approaching than alpha-beta personality type?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:00 PM
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It’s weird. Because I bet you like thoughtful men, yet thoughtful men are least likely to approach…because they’re thoughtful. A lot of the qualities women look for in men are contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:20 AM
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Ahh, you’re one of those… Wants stereotypically traditional masculine man, isn’t stereotypically traditionally feminine. Her “preferences” all center around minimizing effort and maximizing reward, even if those preferences contradict her sociopolitical views… Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:19 AM
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You don’t know me. Yet you’re following me around. Hop off my dick lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:57 AM
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BS
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:34 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:34 PM
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What is it about them chasing you that is so appealing? Because I think you’re lying. Do you have any celebrity crushes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:54 PM
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That’s what women tell themselves to convince themselves that all the guys they crushed on but were too scared to approach, wouldn’t have been prospects anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:53 PM
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Because the power is in your hands?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:30 PM
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Bullshit. Then tell women start going for 4’4, 86lb men. There’s a reason women prefer taller and stronger men. There is no social scientist that would agree with you on this. Capacity for danger has everything to do with physicality. There’s a reason people would kick an aggressive chihuahua in the face but would run if an aggressive rottweiler came around. You’re being so intellectually disingenuous. Just say you don’t like my position, but I’m right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:27 AM
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If some guy calls me a bitch, I’m going to challenge him. Tf does that have to do with women? Dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:23 AM
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Our media appeals to our desires. You think movie makers become successful by making unrelatable content? Like, why was Fifty Shades of Grey successful? It’s fiction, but why was their cucumbers found under the theater seats?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:20 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:44 AM
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Guess you proved me wrong. I concede, women are attracted to pacifists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:36 PM
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Never asked why I couldn’t get a woman. I don’t want one. Why? Purpose. And I’d make a great dad. Why? You said you don’t appreciate the presence of women. For the same reason Michelangelo wouldn’t appreciate TODAY’s half-assed, cheap art. Does he hate art? No, he’d hate what it’s become.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:43 PM
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Wasn’t aware how many women died at the hands or paws of animals and women as compared to men… So you use an umbrella, it keeps you dry, then you question why you need the umbrella if you’re dry? Or it exists because the most violent men chase off less violent competitors. Or both. Why do you assume that our evolutionary past was 100% consensual? Is it just that unpalatable to think about? No. Women expressly avoid any man who runs after being chased by another man lol. And I’m not even talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:36 PM
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You’re wrong…men protect from animals and other women as well. That’s something women don’t get. Patriarchy exists because women screw the most oppressive, most dominant men. Violence exists because women like violent men. Of course these things don’t exist solely for the reasons I gave, but in large part because of them. Women would earn more than men tomorrow if women stopped preferring to date up. The world would be without violence if women preferred soft men. I’m not saying women should do …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:26 PM
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Why do you think women prefer taller, buffer men on average? You don’t think it has anything to do with combat?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:05 PM
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You see it, you just don’t understand what you’re looking at when you see it. Like, what do you think a woman who wants a guy taller than you, and a man buffer than you is insinuating? Get knocked out in front of your wife or girlfriend and watch what happens. Why do you think guys get more defensive around their girl? Like, challenge a dude one on one and then challenge him when his girl is around? Men know that women pick the winners of combat and violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:01 PM
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…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:56 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:56 PM
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Never asked why I couldn’t get a woman. I don’t want one. I genuinely don’t like being around them. They’re expensive in more ways than money…they simply cost. If life were a mountain climb, having a woman would be a 200lb weight. Tbh, I want kids, not a woman, and I’m pissed at whatever hellacious deity placed fatherhood behind the hurdle that is “Women’s Cooperation”. Porn is better than sex. First time I had real sex I was severely disappointed. Nothing about it was good and when I looked up …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:55 PM
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And women still can’t seem to win. It’s odd to me. Women are set up to win in life and can’t figure it out. If I was a woman, a 5 or above, I’d be rich, I’d be having as much sex as I want, I would hardly work if at all, I’d date who I wanted and when I wanted…it’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:06 AM
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Definitely majority
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:05 AM
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I knew we’d have at least one of you in the comments. The “if you don’t eat nails for breakfast and fight giant squid 400m below sea level on a free-dive, do you even deserve to exist?”-types…It hurts how bad I wish dudes like you would eternally stfu. Like, we get it, respect is earned…you taught no one anything by saying that…somewhere there’s 50,000 Boomers simultaneously lecturing their grandkids, kids, the TV, or the open air about the cost of respect…but the point of the post is men aren’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:06 AM
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Bureau of Justice. I don’t really care to keep providing the link in comment thread after comment thread as it’s laborious and the stat isn’t salient to my argument…me providing it in prior comments was really just to appease the people who tried to do the Appeal to Authority fallacy as though “because someone with a PhD published a study on it” is the only way we can ever find the truth about anything. They know it’s not how most truths are found they’re just hoping you don’t have a study on-ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:58 PM
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A man’s size is a signifier of his capacity for danger. It may not be, singularly, accurate, but all things equal, a woman can assume that if she cloned the same man, and the clone was 2ft taller and weighed 150 more pounds, the clone would be more capable of danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:47 PM
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People can be incarcerated for non-violent or non-dangerous things, right? Doesn’t negate the point. The point is that women like men who are a danger to themselves and others. People who are likely to do stupid things are therefore more likely to do other stupid things (like having sex without a condom)? Therefore them having more kids is likely just because the sex they have tends to be more unprotected, which means that stat can’t be used to say they have more sex. I’d need sources supporting…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:44 PM
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Then if women provide and don’t need protection then why do they choose men best suited to fill these roles? This is like dunking on first graders on a 6ft rim…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:40 AM
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No. They’re usually never on the scene to begin with. Conflict breeds danger. The timid avoid conflict. The Transitive Property of Equality says if A = B and B = C then A = C. If Conflict = Danger and the Timid avoid Conflict then the Timid avoid Danger. Women tend to like, especially, Firefighters, Police Officers, Soldiers…who do you think dies more? These guys, or some nerd no woman is looking at tucked away behind a computer at Google Inc? I’m not saying women should or shouldn’t like either…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:39 AM
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Look, you have’t said anything but two lines worth of the most incoherent bullshit I’ve heard all day. I don’t even know what you’re arguing and tbh, you’re probably not here to argue anything and are just another bluepilled snowflake offended by my audacity. Argue something or stfu. I got other heads to slap on here little boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:27 AM
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I can just post stats, but I actually have them unlike you, I really don’t care who made the affirmative claim. My claim is that what women are attracted to is dangerous for men. 1.2 million adults are incarcerated in the US. 80% of those are men, and 92% of those are fathers (736,000). 60% of non-incarcerated civilian men are fathers. Women procreate with incarcerated men at a higher rate than non-incarcerated men, by at a rate of 1.5:1. This came from multiple sources But the primary source is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:25 AM
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So you don’t understand why your use of the word promoted a response to your use of the word, which used the word? Or are you running out of mental bandwidth?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:01 AM
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No, I said no is saying this stuff after YOU made the claim that they are, so the burden of proof is on you to prove that they are. You’re not going to hold me to a higher standard of proof than you. You haven’t provided not a single stat. Not one. We don’t really have to, because there is an “appeal to authority” logical fallacy that people like you use to disqualify everything that is said so as to not have to engage with anything that false beyond the realms of what some other scholar said an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:58 AM
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Put it like this, everything a man does for a woman can’t be replaced. You can’t buy someone to provide for you. Protection? You can’t buy someone to die for you. Everything a woman does for a man can be replaced. Making a sandwich? $11 a day at Subway… their cardboard 2-day old bread would actually taste better than 99% of the shit this non-cooking ass generation of women makes off the back of a Stovetop box. Hell, lots of guys have to spend that at Subway anyway EVEN while they’re supporting s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:53 AM
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We’re talking about ratios.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:20 AM
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YOU used the word incels. And somewhere there’s a five-legged horse, so do all horses have five legs now?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:19 AM
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Psyche damage vs Death, which is worse? Besides, no one but the Redpill is saying this stuff. Normal men don’t say this stuff to women. However, women do choose men based off of things that aren’t very beneficial to that man; whereas, usually the things men choose women for are beneficial to that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:17 AM
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Those aren’t outliers. And if women don’t do it outright, which most don’t, they run mental simulations on who would win. There’s a reason women’s choosing 5’6” men who weight 110 lbs. You’re trying to deny evolutionary psychology, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:15 AM
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0:46 https://youtu.be/no7FuVwcn6w?si=JZwVPk-L4LMxB_3K
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:06 AM
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Love this comment. Much butter than your other comment. But tbh, I don’t think there’s too many well-adjusted women as it pertains to their relationships with men. Hot take: the problem in dating isn’t men. It’s not that men don’t contribute, it’s that women can’t be satisfied. I think that when the underlying tone is that you can’t criticize women, or you’re a weak, incel, bitch like you called me on your other post, it’s easy to see how a group that can’t be criticized might grow problematic? …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:05 AM
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Women today don’t do 1% of that. Women today spend money, complain, and cheat. Stop playing lol. I’d take you seriously if this was 1950, but women today aren’t doing any of that. You know it. What this sounds like is the lazy guy on the job bragging to everyone about his job description when he doesn’t actually do 2% of what his job description says. What you listed is the job description of a traditional wife. That is a far cry from what modern women actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:01 AM
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I boxed from 15 to 27 and could hold a tighter group with a 45 subcompact at 20 yards with my offhand than you could with a tripoded rifle at 10 yards. Stop playing. I merely made an observation. This has nothing to do with me. You don’t know me. Stick to the topic. It’s weird because you wanna-be tough mofos are the first ones to go straight to catty gossip-style attacks when I have women on this thread that can engage with wtf I’m saying lol. Comical shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:56 AM
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Reread what I wrote. Incels don’t engage in conflict. Women aren’t attracted to incels. Men women are attracted to tend to be more likely than incels to engage in conflict. Conflict is danger. Danger leads to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:52 AM
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?? I’m genuinely lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:44 AM
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Why do you assume I’m speaking on myself and not just discussing a phenomenon I found interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:43 AM
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You know how many guys die per year fighting over women? So the fact that there exists no hyperbolic cultural example women physically fighting over men, but that hyperbole for men is in damn near every corner… …I can’t even finish that sentence I’m so triggered… -Spiderman -Beauty and the Beast -The Love Flower -Ex-Plumber -Cheers: They Called Me Mayday -Sex/Life -Divorce in the Black -Shrek -The Titanic -The Great Gatsby -The Notebook -Forrest Gump -Sweet Home Alabama -The Accidental Husband -…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:41 AM
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Not answering. Think in general bud. I’m not here to debate the outliers. What’s the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:18 AM
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How did that jeopardize the wellbeing of you or those guys’ wife, and if it did, how was it in anyway comparable to the health of men that is jeopardized by men trying meet women’s attraction triggers? My point is, men don’t show much of a desire violent, promiscuous, dark triad, impulsive, uncontrollable women…a guy who possess those traits however, is swimming in pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:16 AM
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You never see women do it either but okay. You actually do, and quite often. You can even hear women tall about how they like men fighting over them. There’s a reason men are mortified over losing a fight in front of a woman. It is a primitive fear, and usually those knee-jerk emotions have evolutionary allusions. The real question is, are you claiming that attraction can either be virtuous or sinful? No. I think men’s attraction isn’t more virtuous than women’s, but it’s more sustainable and he…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:12 AM
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There’s a 30% high rate of fatherhood among the prison population than among the civilian population. It’s also been proven women are particularly attracted to dark triad traits. I know women aren’t attracted to pussies - never said they were. I actually said the opposite - I said women are attracted to quite the opposite of a pussy, but pussies live longer. What I was saying is that the qualities that ensure a man is most safe, are actually hated by women. Riches require risk taking. Being fear…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:54 AM
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Then I’m not reading yours. Tf kinda nonsense you think this is where you don’t grant me the respect of reading what I wrote for you but expect me to read your pile of already-heard-of unoriginal feminist-drone bs? Lol. Foh. That’s some feminist logic if I’ve ever heard it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:28 AM
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I’m going to be brutally honest…men, on average, are much more well-intentioned and reliable when it comes to relationships, than women. The tumultuousness you see in dating today is because of women. Basically, it’s like this Meet women’s impossible demands + expect nothing of women = 35% chance you’ll remain married for life. Women have essentially injected a bunch of chaos into dating. And women’s justifications for their actions and the logical inconsistency between their actions is always p…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:09 AM
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Yeah, we can all be CEO’s, corporate lawyers, and investment bankers 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:12 PM
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You asked “men can’t be successful without patriarchy?” I qualified my statement by saying As a group? No. Any success they experience must be less than the aggregate success of women, less there be, by definition, a patriarchy. If men, as a whole, are more successful than women, that is a patriarchy. I really don’t understand what’s so hard about all of this. -Women want to marry men who make more than them. -Women don’t want men to make more than them. You can’t see the glaringly obvious contr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:18 AM
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Men: You deserve better Women: Do better Why? Because I think people need to hear the opposite of what they’re most told from time to time. Women who are told they’re beautiful should probably be told they’re smart. Men who are told they’re smart should probably be told they’re beautiful. Those told to be go-getters should probably be told to take a second and enjoy life, and those told they’re laid back should probably be told to pursue something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:53 PM
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Terrible advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:49 PM
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I literally said this is the advice women given to women vs the advice given to men and people here called me crazy. To men: You need to do (insert laundry list of things here) To women: You deserve (insert laundry list of things here)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:47 PM
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Everything is relative. To qualify…As a group, and more so than women? No, as that is patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 11:16 PM
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I couldn’t have said it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:18 AM
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They want no patriarchy…yet they wish to date up. You can’t have both. If you want a surplus of men who are wealthier than you for dating purposes, what you are describing is a patriarchy. If you want equality or even to be above men, you must understand that - by the definition of ‘hypergamy’ - you will not be able to exercise it. Women want to be the best player on the field AND only have teammates that are better than them…that doesn’t work. The cost of being the best player is teaming with l…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:58 PM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:48 PM
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I’m not making an argument FOR anything - there is no prescription here. I’m simply saying there can exist no society where women are hypergamous AND there is no patriarchy. You could argue that patriarchy is owed to hypergamy. Dating is essentially the men at the top throwing down or leaving whatever they don’t want to the men beneath them. It is zero sum in that regard. For men, it’s kind of like the movie “The Platform”. So, the goal is to be at the top…and that desire for the top is the life…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:52 PM
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Well, women don’t want men to monopolize power, but then women show sexually favoritism towards the men who monopolize power… that does 2 things It incentivizes men to monopolize power It makes it so that women, to satisfy their hypergamy, will always be beneath a man What I’m about to say is something I predicted before it even happened… there was a push for equal wages… now, me being a fair and rational guy believes that should women work, they should be paid such that there is no discriminati…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:43 PM
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I agree, I’m speaking to their delusion. Although I will grant them that a very small group of men do have all the power and control society. I think in terms of your everyday-man vs your everyday-woman, your everyday woman has infinitely more power, privilege, and influence than your everyday man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:15 PM
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I’d say the biggest thing that is upholding “the patriarchy” is hypergamy. Concisely, women socially wish for something they sexually hate. There’d be no patriarchy starting tomorrow if women dated down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:49 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:07 PM
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No, you tried to ignite a blaze of mockery but were unaware that: I’ll tell the word about my porn use, I’m not ashamed of liking sex No one would join in So when you found out you had to face the giant alone, you backed tf down and changed your position like the ashamed coward you mistook me for being. Projection is a mfer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:07 PM
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Nope. I’ve seen her steer clear of bad boy types following hearing my advice. Her current boyfriend actually requested mentorship from my dad in the areas he struggles with. Tbh, most women’s problem with dating today is that they want the utility of a Big Rig with the speed of a Maserati with regard to men. They want the thrilling devil-may-care face-tattoos and felonies bad boy to be the John Deere-on-Saturday-morning suburban button-down-and-slacks corporate attorney “Honey I’m home” type of …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:32 PM
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Underrated comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 12:33 PM
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Yeah, this person is very out of touch with reality lol. You get a few of them in this space…they swear up and down that if they step outside a horde of men will come sexually assault them and force them to make sandwiches in a kitchen wrapped with Andrew Tate wallpaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 12:32 PM
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Sounds like survivorship bias. If the guy’s qualities were overwhelmingly obvious to the point where some women were willing to break social conventions to lock him down than yes it can yield great results. I don’t know that these men were particularly remarkable. The impetus for them being approached may have had everything to do with the woman’s willingness to approach rather than the men’s quality. When you take into account that women commit 80% of divorces, and hist assume that number is pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 12:12 PM
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Yeah, this is patently false but I appreciate your viewpoint. Women today operate virtually carte blanche compared to most men. To do that as a man you need a LOT of status, money, and influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:39 PM
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Not an addict, but definitely a frequent user. I think you can call a guy who eats fried chicken a “fried chicken addict” when you remove him from an environment where the only thing to eat is fried chicken and he still continues to eat fried chicken. Until then, he’s just surviving.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:45 AM
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You selling content or just here to try and deflect and shame for karma? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:43 AM
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I think women think that competition = advice. It doesn’t. Women tend ti see attractive, fit women in magazines or on social media feeds and think “the message is that I need to look like her” when in reality it’s just someone minding their own business and you’re comparing yourself to them. And c’mon, MensHealth? Them and their two 60-year-old readers? Most guys of dating age are probably getting dating advice, if they’re getting any advice from the media at all, from TikTok, YouTube, or IG, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:36 AM
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I REALLY disagree with this. I just don’t see healthy advice for women on men at all. And this is not to bash just the ladies, because a lot of the advice women are getting is from guys, and it’s never actually about the actions of women, but more about what a man should:shouldn’t, would/wouldn’t do. Usually when a woman is receiving advice on what she SHOULD do is it always manipulative in nature. For example, people will tell a man to go be more emotionally available, stop watching porn, get b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:04 AM
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It’s technological dependence. I’ll admit, I’m terminally online. I’m probably more of myself online than I am in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:56 AM
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Women can’t approach the same way as men. Men are more visually driven. Even if they get to know a physically attractive woman and find themselves not wanting an LTR with her, they will still desire a STR. I can see that, that makes sense. Most women don’t seek a STR as much as men so there is no consolation prize for approaching. I think that’s even more the reason women should approach. I remember a study that said women who approached their guy had longer and more satisfying relationships. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:54 AM
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Tbh, that’s the best place to get it from. You can’t tell women this, but the women who have strong, healthy women or even men figures in their lives and who get advice from them, they always seem to have no issue with dating. My parents have been married 33 years and my sister saved a LOT OF heartache by simply listening to me, my mom and my dad. She’s now engaged to be married at 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:20 AM
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You don’t really have to talk to them then though and usually if you do, the topic is about what you’ve all come there for, not other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:16 AM
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I can’t really argue with you on your experiences considering: 1. I’m not a woman 2. I’ve asked you for your experience 3. I’m not you and don’t know you …but, in my scouring of women’s dating advice, I just didn’t see what you’re talking about. In fact, self-love prevailed over all fitness advice. Manifesting prevailed over all advice for earning and striving. And usually the gap between what a woman had and what she wanted was explained as an issue of not feeling she deserved it enough rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:14 AM
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I don’t think men only want one thing. I have two dogs, a Presa Canario(Baker) and a Husky/Great Pyrenees mix(Kota). I leave both dogs free in the house during the day with a timed feeder and waterer (I’m going somewhere with this). I accidentally locked a bedroom door but the door itself wasn’t closed, such that, if it were to close, the door would be locked. Kota went into that room and closed the door, locking himself in. Baker was out and got to eat, so when I came home, he was all over me -…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:00 AM
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I explained this to another woman… I actually think you’re running into sociopathic men because by not approaching, and by only choosing from the men who approach you, you’re selecting from men who are pathological enough to approach. I actually think sociopathy, not confidence, more strongly correlates with a man’s inclination to approach. I mean, I think caring, thoughtful, self-aware, emotionally intelligent guys understand that there is no way to read coming up to a total stranger of the opp…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:40 AM
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Most dating advice for women is simply to vet better. A woman can do many things to become more attractive but if she can’t pick a quality man it will amount to nothing. I actually think this is a big issue. So, yes, I do think women tend to vet poorly, but tbh, the “never approach” mentality kinda screws women. Here’s why. If you don’t approach, that means the men you can select from are selected for you; and, contrary to what many women believe, I’d argue some degree of sociopathy, not confide…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:26 AM
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I’d definitely agree with the second paragraph. Actually, more puzzling to me is that you’ve never looked up dating advice for women. Do you not need it or is dating just not your thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:09 AM
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Well, seeing as women usually don’t talk to men in public, and most men aren’t just going to randomly talk to a woman (probably for the sane reason a woman doesn’t randomly talk to a man) I don’t think it’s hard not to talk to 50% of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:05 AM
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I, for the life of me can’t understand why women just don’t shoot their shot then. Women are infinitely more picky Women have a much higher acceptance rate Women, usually, want a guy who is out of their league (hypergamy! Everything about women screams “we should just ask men out”. And not for nothing btw…I think women would get the guy they want if they simply went up to him and now even asked him out, but showed considerable interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:55 AM
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No. It’s just that, in a race to see who can get the most fish, the person being offered them is probably going to get more fish than the person who must go fish for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:46 PM
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I’m starting to learn that reddit is a bad test environment. Most people in reddit are heavy internet users, I mean, terminally online. They’re different. Most women IRL tend not to be as, allegedly, progressive and gender-indifferent as women on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:16 AM
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Being a male is infinitely worse than being a female.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:29 AM
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I think it’s weird that you like going on dates. To me that’s like someone saying they like going on job interviews that they have to pay for, where getting the job means they pay the employer in perpetuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:20 AM
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The problems men have with women nowadays all come from men’s lack of strength when it comes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:12 AM
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You probably don’t go up to them. They exist in large numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:48 AM
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I honestly wouldn’t date a woman under 25. And yes, that is advice. Women especially, are going to change their mind a million and one times before that age, and even a good bit after. It’s more a matter of “when” not “if” you’re going to separate with <25 year old women. Women need to go through the trenches of dating to some degree, in order to have their expectations calibrated such that they comport with reality, because the endless options they have often massively distorts their perception…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:39 AM
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Like every week in the news cycle there’s news of some hispanic immigrant offing some US chick. What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:04 AM
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Men expecting women to kick/in and pull their own weight isn’t a Mommy Issue, it’s expecting not to have a Parasitic Relationship with some lard-ass woman who thinks you exist for her endless entertainment. It’s just wild to me how a woman can make a sandwich and do a load of laundry and think she is somehow on the losing end of the bargain when she in return receives an all-expense-paid trip through life and a bodyguard that literally falls in her lap at no effort of her own. Your daily sandwic…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:25 AM
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By “strung along” you mean the man is being strung along, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:10 AM
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Your story is my story. I’m telling you dude, the effort you put it is not correlated to the output you get from them…in fact, if there’s any correlation at all it’s inverse…and by that I mean, they tend to be most loyal and put the most effort into men who don’t do everything you’ve done for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:06 AM
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Men aren’t lazy. Why would you pursue something that is merely an expense, indefinitely?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:02 AM
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That’s a bold-faced lie. I’ll just be completely honest, male-female relationships are the ONLY relationships I can find where the service provider chases and compensates the customer. If you want your toilet fixed today, YOU go INITIATE contact with a plumber, YOU pay HIM, then he services you. Male-female relationships are the only relationships where to plumber contacts you, pays you, then comes and services you indefinitely. I lied, the only relationship where that exists is in charities - a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:00 AM
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Perfect comment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:43 AM
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I highly doubt you’re chasing. Chasing is by definition, non-reciprocal. Like, if two things chase each other they can’t chase each other loo. Someone has to flee, and someone has to pursue in order for there to be a chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:41 AM
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If the chase is “valuing and treasuring” then why don’t women do it? Why can’t women chase men unendingly? So if “chasing” is “valuing and treasuring” then “not chasing” is “not valuing and not treasuring” and sense women don’t chase, then it’s only axiomatic to assume that women are the real ones who don’t value or treasure men, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:36 AM
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Men become complacent because the display of romance is almost entirely one-sided. Even in OP’s original post, notice all the action is emanating from one side. Basically, OP is complaining that men stop entertaining women. And mind you, people grow accustomed and desensitized to what they experience on the regular, so not only is OP expecting to be endlessly chased, she’s expecting that endless chase to intensify as time goes on. Most women have been fed a lie about what relationships are. Rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:32 AM
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Romance, in all actuality, = a ton of effort on the guy’s part. Imagine having to chase something your entire life…you’d be exhausted. Women like the chase because it is the act of them receiving. Men hate it because it means giving, and you can’t give forever before you run out of things/effort/time/patience to give. Women want the relationship to stay in the courtship phase and that’s not going to happen. Women really don’t understand how exhausting and humiliating courtship is for men. It is …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:22 AM
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As a guy I’ve noticed women don’t expect much from other women. Tbh, the relationship between modern boyfriend and girlfriend resembles that of a father to a daughter regarding the man’s responsibility to provide and protect, and he’s judged ruthlessly on his ability to do so, among other things. On the other hand, when women get with women, the relationship resembles more of a friendship. A quote by the Indian philosopher Osho comes to mind… ”Friendship is the purest love. It is the highest for…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:32 AM
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The problem is women. Men are actually very simple. MOST MEN want a very traditional relationship that is painfully conventional, predictable, conservative, and monogamous. It’s WOMEN nowadays, where, no matter what they are given, the criteria for what is satisfactory changes to be whatever it is that they don’t have. Women want the hot chocolate, but get mad when it’s not cold. Then they get the cold chocolate, but get mad when it’s not hot. Then they got the 50% cold, 50% hot chocolate and ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:53 AM
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Women ABSOLUTELY can know who is good and who is not. Good people do good things, bad people do bad things. How many women say?: - He has a record but he’s genuinely a good guy? - He sells drugs but he’s genuinely a good guy? - He’s covered in tats and blasting steroids but he’s genuinely a good guy? - He has a violent streak but is genuinely a good guy? - He’s an alcoholic but is genuinely a good guy? I hear this time, after time, after time, after time, and they all end the same. I can PROMISE…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:26 AM
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As a guy who would be considered a strong 9 anywhere he goes, is buff, tatted, and had his girlfriend stolen by a hoodrat drug dealer who was at best a 4, I can tell you, your obsession with looks is probably because you’re making a mountain out of a mole hill encouraged by your own self-diagnosed lack of attractiveness, and projecting your disproval of your own attractiveness onto women. You’re doing the same thing women do when they think that men want women who have their PhD just because wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:49 AM
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I think a lot of women don’t have the basic requirements for a healthy relationships Appreciativeness Humility Principle and Oath over Feelings and Impulse Women lack these.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:38 AM
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Tbh, and I’ve even heard this from an older feminist (older women tend to be more truthful), “it’s been the nature of women that we’re never really content with anything”. I honestly think men give women too much for them to appreciate anything. Men are too easy. Getting things from men is too easy. What happens in humans is that they develop a new baseline when they’re in a situation of sustained heightened stimulus. A homeless woman will cheat on her homeless boyfriend for a man who makes $100…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:36 AM
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Not quite. As an attractive guy who is tall, I can tell you women don’t care how good you look. Attracting women is really about CLOUT, MONEY, and EXTROVERSION. Because women have their own money most men are simply less impressive…(I have a feeling this is why the forefathers barred women from the workplace.) Keeping them is kinda impossible, but mostly about SEX. I promise you, looks don’t matter all that much. They do, but it’s like, be a strong 5 and you’re good. If you’re a strong 5 you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:30 AM
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We’ve gone through this already. Women don’t like most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:38 PM
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(Gone men of yesteryear discovering women don’t really like men 200 years ago): Let’s make laws that hold them to their marital oath and not allow them ubiquitous access to the resources that would allow them to replace men (Men of 2024 who think humanity is the brightest it’s ever been despite society crumbling): “wOmeN cAn dO wHaT tHeY wAnT” 🤪 [as birthrates plummet and familial decay creates the weirdest most fragile, awkward, and dysfunctional generations this earth is likely ever seen]
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 12:57 PM
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PREEEEEAAAAACCCCHHHH.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:21 AM
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I REALLY don’t think relationships are about love. I think they are shut cost benefit analysis, just one that is conducted by the subconscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:45 PM
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Women have ruined modern dating. Or rather, men’s regard for the wayward opposite sex has ruined modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:00 PM
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*more redpilled than
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:15 PM
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The problem is that men are trying to reason with an opponent they can merely overpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:56 PM
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Not true. Middle aged women that were never married with no kids are the most miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:55 PM
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I don’t think dudes understand that should you - for whatever dumb reason - decide to get in a relationship, the woman’s best lay will always have, access to/influence over, her; therefore, whatever you build with her is only as secure as he allows it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:50 AM
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I’m advocating for immorality, how? I think most people prefer women? If so, why do I think that? Like, orient me. You said a lot, and while I’m not going to say you’ve said nothing, your comment assumes that I’m privy to a lot of context that you’ve never provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:48 PM
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Explain please
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:12 PM
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I’ve stopped trying too, as I’ve realized the juice isn’t worth the squeeze; but, this guy seems to want help in his position, so this is what I would do if I were him and I wanted what he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:30 PM
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Start advocating for the policies and conditions that best suit you, an average guy. You need to be as misogynistic as possible. See, here’s the thing, the men who get all the women, and those women, have advocated for a society that fucks you and benefits them; it depends on you, yet doesn’t believe you should receive shit for it. That’s fair? No. And guess what, They. Don’t. Care. YOU have to start advocating for yourself despite how it affects others, because they don’t care how what they’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:44 PM
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No, feminism made it less covert.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:47 PM
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Incorrect. Technology is what allowed that. Feminism basically unleashed women’s hypergamy. It’s easier for about 5% of men to get laid, hard for the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:13 PM
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No, that’s why if you understand hypergamy, you’ll understand why the family can’t exist without legislation limiting/governing women’s sexuality, and why such legislation/governance existed in the past and still does in the East. Women always want better. Maybe men do too, but the difference is that men don’t break families to obtain “better”; men can just sleep with a hotter woman (if they can) and that’s enough, women will break their family though. And so since women always want better, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:54 PM
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It’d be far more practical just to legislate the conditions that led to stable monogamy before, which is no women in the workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:44 PM
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I don’t think prison = alpha. This is a giant misconception.. women make the same mistake. Display of aggression doesn’t equate to capacity for aggression. Violent offenders aren’t the most violent, they just lack the most self control. Women don’t understand this either, which is why they can’t seem to understand why when they get with those kinds of men, the woman is always the provider, ADHD her life becomes so unstable, her role with these men actually resembles more of a mother than it does…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 01:33 PM
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I really don’t think that. I don’t see pronounced maturation in women’s dating choices until women usually pop out their first kid…it’s literally “bad boy warrior type” until they have the first kid, then it’s “Nice guy provider senator type”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:39 AM
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Well, what we know is that women are hypergamous, which means they don’t do marital favors…or in other words, a woman does not want to marry the man who would benefit from her presence, but rather the man who least benefits from her presence as a result of him being independently well-off. The real reasons men don’t the relationships because: The words “oath” and “duty” are exempt from the female lexicon but present in men’s. Women don’t speak in those terms. Men value both of those things so mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:03 AM
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I understand the forces driving what happens in the real world. Most people’s dating decisions are informed less by what they desire than they are by what they can afford (not just momentarily), which means most people settle and what most people end up with is not an accurate reflection of what they prefer. Despite most people working, the man is still expected to be the main provider. And if you disagree with that then maybe you should consider hopping online too because Liberal Fucktopia has …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:25 PM
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Provision and protection. Men’s looks don’t matter all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:12 PM
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I routinely see men give women all of what you’ve said women “just want”, and that seems like the recipe to have a woman leave you. If you actually look at who women choose, “peace” is bullshit. You don’t find men picking gang-members as girlfriends. You don’t find men ending their marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:44 AM
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Women try to portray themselves as functionally asexual and only interested in emotionally fulfilling sex as a side of a relationship. This is only half true. Women portray this side to men they deem are suckers/providers, and portray their wild side to men they believe are hot/breeders. Men brag about themselves as the opposite - unless they're trying to pretend otherwise for a woman. Both parties usually know whats up. Aren’t you admitting men and women aren’t the same then? Lol Both men and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:39 AM
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A woman asking“what does a woman gain in a relationship” is like a child asking a parent “What do I gain by staying in this house”? If you think about it, the resolutions between man and woman is actually akin to parent and child, in that in both, the obligation is to provide and protect she the expectation is that you be much better at doing both (man/parent). Women are hypergamous. That means the guys they are attracted to are better than them. So…..what women gain is a partner who is better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:08 AM
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Precisely
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:54 AM
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So? And you never get the time of day if you’re a guy who doesn’t have money, isn’t white or hispanic, isn’t tall, isn’t very attractive, and doesn’t have clout.. That’s just how it works. Women at least get to have their fun…it just ends somewhat early.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:56 PM
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I’m going to be honest. You probably don’t approach men. New generations of men are different. We don’t chase women. Go up to a guy and state your interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:52 AM
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I’d argue that low volume/high investment strategies for men are not pursued willingly, but are pursued by men as a result of them not having enough value to employ the low investment/high volume strategy AND have women still desire them. Most men implore women to accept their protection and provisioning because these men have come to realize they can’t keep a woman otherwise. I’d argue all men, with the exception of few, have a preference for high volume/low investment but only few have the val…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:18 AM
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For the last damn time they are not saying that percentage of women only date those men…everyone can look outside and see that 80% of women clearly aren’t married to 20% of women…it’s that a small handful of men (actually about 5%) are wanted by most women. Most women settle and end up dating or marrying guys who are not and would not be their first choice. Most women date 95% of men because they can’t get commitment from the 5% they want. That’s what that stat is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:05 AM
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You could ask a guy out or show interest in him. 9 times out of 10 you will score.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/23 11:19 PM
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Men actually don’t leave. What men do is hoard women, while women trade men. There are a few men that leave obviously, but You usually don’t see that. Also, men are notoriously less picky than women. Nice guys are easy to find. Nice girls are hard to find and don’t talk to people. You have to make yourselves available and show your interest nowadays. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:52 AM
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I agree, jerking off feels better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:13 PM
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You need a study to back up what you just said. Just like you’re uncharitable with allowing me to say anything that’s not been first said by an authority, I’m going to be the same way with you. I think it’s a dumb, intellectually lazy way to argue, but you started it. And I’m not fat or unhygienic. If you saw me you would think I had no problem getting laid. I do have problems because: I’m not a simp. I think dating modern women is such a lopsided deal for men nowadays that you have to fundament…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:05 PM
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Do you have a study for saying women are repulsed by porn addiction? (We can play that game)…Assuming I’m a porn addict, and assuming that has anything to do with this discussion. Women can’t not want to fuck most guys and also be mad those men have an alternative sexual outlet lol. I can make inferences. 1. Latest studies show that men an women cheat at the same rate 2. Women are less likely to any to cheating than men are due to stigma. And those studies are surveys. 3. Women have INFINITELY m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:27 PM
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It’s not that 10% of men get 90% of women it’s that 90% of women want 10% of men. Basically, it’s saying that 90% of women believe they are settling for the guy they have, which is why relationships end so often and also why (and no statistic will say this) women actually cheat far more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:15 AM
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No woman in her right mind would choose to have men’s dating struggles over women’s. Imagine if there were a dating show in which you had to outearn, outlook, outclass, outrizz, outfuck, outheight, outphysique 95% of women. Should you manage to be THAT well off, you have the luxury of having to convince a man who you are fundamentally better than (as they’re only attracted to women who are better than them), that you would be the best candidate for bearing the entire burden of their existence…. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:53 PM
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I would say that you are right - there’s no way of getting around saying that a DNA test is a sign that you don’t trust the woman. But, knowing women, I would encourage all men to check. As much as women claim relationships are about “love” and “trust”, women aren’t trying to love and trust men whom a commitment to wouldn’t be materially or reproductively advantageous. This means that the basis upon which a woman gets with a man is fundamentally self-serving; and for that matter, there is reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:55 AM
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It’s not damaging men. There’s this culture that basically shames everything you like and I’m so against it. Basically there’s this idea that because you suffer, you live a “better” life. Bullshit. How’s it damaging men? Because they do less work to get sexual pleasure? Lol. So your car is damaging you because that’s less you’d have to walk/exercise to get to work? So are your feet then damaging you because you could get a higher heart rate and stronger arms by hand-standing all the way to work?…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:21 PM
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I really don’t think women understand what sex dudes to them mentally. “I’m his”. No guy wants a woman who can say that about 5 different guys. *no man of considerable value or who holds hold in high regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:32 PM
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I’m trying to get men to see that hypergamy = the death of the family. Hypergamy + no fault divorce + sex before marriage = end of family. It’s almost like a certain book warned us of all of these things. It’s almost like that book has it figured out for us already but we went against it under the notion that were the most wise people to ever exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:42 PM
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Do you know how many news stories of female teachers sexual assaulting male students there are? That’s why I won’t send my son to school…. …that’s how you sound. Lady, if 91% of women were being sexually assaulted when they went out you wouldn’t see a woman anywhere, and if men assaulting women were that widespread, why in the hell of all hells do you think such an overwhelming majority of animosity toward women would result in young women now earning more than young men, men getting their ass k…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:53 AM
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You have to realize the average female redditor is browsing reddit from a laptop inside their kitchen cupboard because they’re scared a population-wide rape-hungry horde of men is actively trying to find them and unilaterally bust nuts… You can’t convince these chicks that the average guy is more concerned with what cheese he’s going to get on his dinner tacos than he is with approaching, insulting, or touching 99% of women. To them, life is The Walking Dead where the zombies are rape-obsessed m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:27 PM
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I refuse to believe guys are out here responding to women like that. Women can say “no” and reasonably expect to leave unharmed and not get verbally accosted. Women do this all the time… They overestimate the PROBABILITY that the worst things will happen, and hold all men accountable for the mere POSSIBILITY that these can happen when almost anything in is possible, but not everything is probable. It’s something that they don’t do anywhere else though…so for example …there’s a greater chance you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:15 PM
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No they don’t lol. Women will suffer the loneliest existence before they ever just say “hey, wanna get to know each other?” to a guy they’re interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:25 PM
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Haven’t we gone through this already? Women on dating apps swipe on about 5% of men. Women want the top 5% of men in looks money and status. Because women don’t need men anymore, their standards are on Cloud 9. That’s why most men are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:06 PM
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WEAK
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:39 PM
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With that thinking it isn’t. It’s already something we’ve put the lid back on numerous times throughout history, and something eastern cultures have kept the lid on because they heed the word of their forefathers…but I don’t think you’re willing to take the necessary action to do so. So, how this ends is, rather than do the hard part now, while society is still healthier than where it’s headed, we’ll wait until it dies and then inevitably do the hard part then in order to rebuild - makes sense r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:02 AM
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Time is the greatest killer of women’s interest. Of the guys they “desire”, they divorce 54% of them lol. I don’t think we sacrifice societal function for an endless buffet of options for women. I think we should get back to ensuring the fruitful future of the next generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:47 PM
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I’ve always thought this myself. That’s why I say this idea that women’s mate-picker leads them to the best mate, it’s bullshit. I’d actually say most crime comes from the kids off single mothers, and seeing as women control with men get sexual access, most of the crime in society comes from men but it’s caused indirectly by women. Women choose the WORST men to be fathers and husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:06 AM
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I’m a former model. 6’1, tatted, buff, and I have a body count of 1, my ex. Looks doesn’t have too much to do with it. I promise. People just think it does because they today don’t have it. But see that’s how the kind works…because I have looks but aren’t rich, I’m inclined to think money is what does the trick…until I meet a rich guy who can’t get laid (there are plenty). I’m going to be brutally honest…it’s about having a social circle, sighting cues, and capitalizing on them. The guys I see s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:27 AM
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That’s not an offering to the relationship and is, depending on which way you look at it, partially women’s fault. The imbalance in how “used” men and “used” women are perceived could be rectified if women simply saw men being used as a negative rather than a positive, as men do. Child-birthing is 9 months and it’s not agonizing. The agonizing part is during birth, so maybe an hour? I’ve always been against the idea that childbirth is the Ace of Spades that when played just trumps all other cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:38 PM
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Wrong. Men do not leave marriages as often as women they do leave sometimes. However men break up with women they aren’t married to all the time. Men are as likely to initiate breakups in non marriage relationships. Your absolutely insane if you think that the pickier sex who has romantic options stacked from here to the next universe, is dispensing with partners at the same rate as the other sex who is having editorials written and research institutions alerted about how lonely they are. That’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:01 AM
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I think you are using the word “prize” in two different ways. What makes a man a prize is different from what makes a woman a prize. Prize - a thing given as a reward to the winner of a competition or in recognition of an outstanding achievement. competing for a prize necessarily practices you from being the prize. Because women date up, men are the prize. If I wanted to partner with someone in upper management, they are -by the nature of the circumstance- partnering down. Therefore women cannot…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:01 AM
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Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:01 PM
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I never argued anything you’re claiming I argued nor did I argue against anything you’ve said. I said bars are a good place to meet alcoholics and borderline alcoholics and you said there’s plenty of wealthy individuals who are alcoholics… Again, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:17 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:44 PM
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Nah, bars select for alcoholics or at least borderline alcoholics
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:24 AM
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The only reason you’re suggesting I be gay is because you’re trying to insult me, not trying to prescribe a rational solution lol. And sweetheart, I’m going to be 100% honest with you, the statement that women don’t need men is equivalent to me being under an umbrella in a rainstorm and saying I don’t need the umbrella because I’m dry. The only reason women don’t need A SOLE MAN is because men have collectively done such an insanely good job civilizing and lining the modern world with convenienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:44 PM
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I’m telling you that women don’t have kids with guys who aren’t the prize, so if men ultimately are the prize, then why should they chase? And how do men show they are a “prize”? By paying for dates and what not. You’re literally agreeing with me while trying to disagree with me. No I’m not agreeing with you. Courting a woman is humiliating. It’s not a display that he is the prize. How the fuck is an applicant the prize? A guy courting a woman is placing himself beneath the woman, and this is ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:56 AM
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Florida State University Department of Psychology https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=912673#:~:text=To%20get%20that%20kind%20of,only%2040%25%20of%20men%20reproduced. About 44,500 people pay a hefty tuition to hear what “my ass” has to say. If you were wise you’d humble your smug, no-argument-having ass and listen too…I might just rid your stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:25 AM
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https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2019/mens-fertility.html
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:20 AM
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I mean, if you don’t want to scroll down and respond to the answer I posted to someone who already stated your argument and would rather try and fake like I’m avoiding answering because you can’t get a W otherwise, go ahead lol. But I’m not carrying on two congruent conversations just because you’re too much a lard ass to jump on the original thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:19 AM
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An abundance of options is always preferable to a dearth of options. And women know who will commit and who won’t. The issue is that stability is necessarily boring, and volatility is alluring. Volatility is by definition not stability and so women typically end up either bored and cheating on their stable guy or heartbroken single mothers from their volatile bad boy. And men, families, society and even women suffer while women play this constant back and forth between bad guy and good guy quite…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:16 AM
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It means a woman pushing out a guy’s kid is about as much a favor for the guy as a lotto player accepting a lotto check from the lottery organizer is a favor for the lotto organizer. When it comes to dating, women act like they’re handing out turkeys at a homeless shelter…no, they’re trying to load caddies at a billionaire’s club. The former has a good heart…the latter is trying to climb the ladder. In dating, women don’t do favors, men do. Women are EXTREMELY selfish when it comes to men. Every…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:01 AM
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You’re just pulling shit out of your ass now. I don’t think women bring shit to relationships - and I’m being as good faith as possible. -Men provide -Men protect -Men now help clean and cook -Women don’t cook and if they do it ain’t shit you’d wanna eat -Women’s orgasms are a lot harder to obtain often ruining sex -women are far more fickle in relationships almost gamifying relationships -women are no longer chaste. A man can look forward to some chick with fond memories of her ex giving her th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:32 AM
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No it doesn’t prove your point at all. Your point is that men should chase because women are the prize. I’m telling you that women don’t have kids with guys who aren’t the prize, so if men ultimately are the prize, then why should they chase? And the “top tier” men women are chasing are actually the least parentally or spousally adept. The men most committed to husbandhood and fatherhood are the men who would appreciate the opportunity to be both because they don’t have many opportunities to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:30 AM
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Same source, census.gov about 60% of men father children https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2019/mens-fertility.html You’re crazy if you believe that with birthrates in the toilet, you can grab 8.5 out of 10 random men and expect they have children. I’d even venture to say it’s less than 60%, much less.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:14 AM
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Women don’t want virgin men and men want virgin women. Women need to know that a man is selectable. Men need to know that a woman hasn’t been selected. Kinda like a roller coaster vs a car. You want a roller coaster to have a history of being used so you know it’s safe. You don’t want a car to have driven in before you buy it because you know you get less use from it. Kinda like this new cruse ship that’s coming out “Icon of the Sea”. I wanna go on it…I will go on it…I’m just not being the first…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:44 PM
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My last two gfs cheated. I was heavy against cheating. If I get back in a relationship, I’m definitely cheating in my next one for the sole reason of boosting my confidence. I’m going to cheat unendingly too and use the negative emotions it elicits from my girlfriend (assuming she finds out) to combat how worthless being cheated on, twice, made me feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:38 PM
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Read my most recent comment addressing someone who made a similar argument. Not ignoring you I just don’t want to have the same convo with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:33 PM
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So what I hear you asking for is modern stats… Roughly 60% of men are fathers. Roughly 90% of women are mothers. Explain that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:32 PM
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So since you’re the expert on reading comprehension…let’s grill. How does every man YOU know having a girlfriend PROVE that getting one is easy? Likewise, every Lawyer I know passed the bar exam so the bar is EASY? Lastly, 60% of men under 30 are single so what does that say about your sample size?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:29 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:23 PM
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Seeing as there’s nothing that would’ve precluded young women from dying just as equally…I think it tells you that ceteris paribus, women have an easier time finding reproductive success.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:22 PM
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No. And it’s 100% a self-respect thing. Like, if all the struggles you’ve endured, the wins you’ve taken, the losses you’ve taken, the mountains you’ve overcome have led to you accepting some chick who is only open to you because the bet she made on another guy fell-through, then I don’t know what to tell you… With how treacherous women are, how fickle they are, and how hostile the social environment is to what little loyalty women have, I need a ton of evidential momentum in the way of proving …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:19 PM
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Why do women act like reproducing is doing men a favor? Like, women don’t do “favors” for a men. If a woman is having a kid by a guy, it’s because she believes she’s maxed out with the caliber of guy he can get and she believes HE is the prize. Women have kids jovially not reluctantly. I’d agree with your statement if women were having kids with guys who have a poss poor shot at reproduction, but it’s not like that…women are lined up to have kids by guys for whom having a kid would be a blessing…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:09 PM
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“As much”? Personality doesn’t matter at all. It matters if she’s not attracted to you. When dealing with women I always ask myself this, “If I were Chris Hemsworth, words sure have a problem?”. Chris Hemsworth could shit on the girl you’re pursuing’s forehead and she’d sooner fuck him than she would you if you did absolutely everything you can think of to impress her. When a woman is attracted to you, there are no red lights, it’s all green, constant “go”, she’s 100% open, receptive, and and ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:01 PM
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I think dating is easy for men the dummer they are. When I sold cars, the people that loved dealing with me the most were typically stupid people that didn’t understand how bad of a deal they got. Smart people hated me, and for good reason. I think the Men who tend to find dating fun today are men who aren’t smart enough to detect how jacked-up a deal they’re getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:33 PM
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A man has to be in a position to date, a woman doesn’t, and the adjudicator of both positions, for men and women, is women. Meaning, if a man isn’t in a position to date women will bar him participation. If a woman isn’t in a position to date, she is barring herself participation. Dating is immensely harder for men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:29 PM
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Didn’t answer the question. Plus, throughout history 40% of men reproduced. Nearly all women have. That should tell you something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:25 PM
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For the same reason most people want to be celebrities instead but take some job they hate where they’re overworked and underpaid. I’ll help you out, they settle because not everyone can have the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:05 PM
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It would be where it’s going due to men not being attracted to the unfaithful ungrateful harlots that are women today. And if you don’t know where that is, look at every birth rate in countries that have embraced feminism…And then look at the replacement birthrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:01 PM
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I think that’s terribly selfish. Like, disadvantage the kid because you want a kid. I think that honestly sheds light on why dating is so messed up. Women are insanely selfish. I really wish I could blame it on the guys but the guys who give women what they want are pushovers who dry women up, and the guys who don’t are toxic assholes. It’s like no matter what women end up with it is never enough. Then they go and have a kid for god knows what reason as some sort of accessory they can play Cabba…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:32 AM
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Women don’t realize that they ask so much of men, that the only men w)9 can fulfill their demands are men they don’t qualify for. There’s that and they seem not to realize that a woman’s only real value to a man is her ability to have his kids. I think women need to put themselves in men’s shoes. Why would a man become a high-warning stud just to have some chick leeching off him because she can decorate a house on his dime and pack a lunch? That Guy wants something of actual value for the immens…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:49 PM
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It would be easier to outlaw women in the workplace than it would be to outlaw men simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:39 PM
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Men go for sex because it’s hard to get for men. That’s why. No more, no less. Nature programs men to reproduce, and sex is hard to get. Men just have a harder time surviving than women do…from a reproductive and perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:59 AM
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The idea that because women work, men aren’t somehow still expected to provide is provably false.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 05:53 PM
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It’s because the roles are different. A woman dating a single father allots attention to his child. A man dating a single mother allots money to her child. Attention is a renewable resource, money isn’t. Plus, a man’s resources are largely how he is judged by women, and so men tend to be stingy with them, as money is hard to earn and competition for women is fierce. However a woman giving attention to a man’s child doesn’t really cost her anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:52 PM
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It will get worse. I think society will get worse and worse until we realize that the reason the founding fathers barred women entry into the workplace is because women ultimately jettison reproductive cooperation when survival is achievable by means other than a man. I’m not here to have a moral debate about how right or wrong allowing women to work is - there is a strong argument for both sides. I’m simply stating it is observably true that every country to liberate women from a survival depen…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:12 PM
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Through consequence. The point is that in every other position of true authority in life, the one in authority is able to unilaterally inflict consequence, consequence that does not involve the abandoning of that authority. In a relationship with a woman who can leave when she wants AND has as much legal power as the man, the only consequence the man can supply is leaving, conversely abandoning his position of authority which isn’t a consequence at all. If your kids don’t go to bed you can take …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:04 PM
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No the fuck it is not. Real authority os force. If your kids can tell you “no I’m not going to bed” when you tell them to, you have no authority. Because rule is only as effective as it’s enforcement, and authority is the supremacy of one’s rule, authority is only as true as one’s ability to enforce it. “Authority” reliant upon discretionary cooperation from its subjects, by definition, can’t be authority. In fact, it’s subjects weild the true authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:11 PM
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People are swimming in debt. And it’s not “i needed a surgery” debt, or “stated a company”debt… it’s “but the couple down the street has a pontoon boat, why don’t we?” debt. It’s “if we’re gonna start a family, we need a custom built farmhouse on 50 acres with horses we don’t know how to care for” debt. It’s “all the neighbors have pavilions and in-ground pools, we need those too” debt. And where does this type of debt usually come from? What sex? Who is the one making those comparisons and dema…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:22 PM
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My bad, you’re right, Crystal Hefner doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 08:37 AM
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I know why women are hypergamous but I’m saying your “blame the patriarchy” bullshit doesn’t matter because I’m not arguing why they’re hypergamous I’m arguing THAT they’re hypergamous. It’s like me saying to you “don’t move, Tigers see movement easier”. And you reply “but do you know why they do? It’s only because x,y,z” when I don’t care why they do, pick whatever reason you want, they point is that THEY DO, and if you move you get eaten. I don’t care WHY women are hypergamous, I care that THE…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:36 AM
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Easy. Because most women can’t get billionaires. Between what you want and you having it is your ability to obtain it, which is characterized by challenges including competition, logistics, etc. Basically, with this way of thinking, the only man acceptable is Elon Musk…because per hypergamy, he is the richest and thus the best man. So why isn’t every woman with him. Because not every woman can get him. So who women are with is usually the extrapolation of a hierarchy organized around “what they …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:32 AM
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I highly doubt that. I don’t think you realize how subconsciously achievement is programmed in men for the sake of reproductive opportunity. I often times get on women for this because women will say they don’t want to have kids and having children doesn’t affect their decisions…but still want a guy making more than them who is bigger and stronger than them…not realizing the only reason they are innately attracted to this is because this guy is the best bet for having and rearing healthy childre…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:23 AM
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I read this, but none of it means anything. Even women today cite “lack of economic attractiveness” to be a main reason among many reasons that they aren’t dating. It’s funny to me because women started off complaining that men being the breadwinners was oppressive to women… then women started working and demanded equal pay. Men gave them equal pay, only for women to now claim there’s not a surplus of men making more than them to date…as if they didn’t just complain that not paying them equally …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:14 AM
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You’re proving my point. According to census.gov “Among all adult men, 40.5 percent have no biological children, 37.5 percent have between one and two children, and 22.0 percent have three or more children”. You’re talking about men who are having multiple children, and per the stat above, that’s 22% of men which shows you all only deal with a handful of men who are preselected by other women. These men usually have more than one baby mama and YOU still deal with them. The black community is a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:01 AM
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More money doesn’t equal more disposable income.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:14 AM
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The rise single-mother households are due to a woman’s mating strategy being incompatible with familial success in modern society. Who women desire to have children with is different than the guy they’ll let take care of the children. You can see this time and time again how the attractive, bad boy, life-on-the-edge type of guy is usually the baby daddy; while, if she settles down later on, some balding mfer with gynocomastia and a stable job is the one taking care of the kid. You can see this T…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:57 AM
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Read the “results” and “conclusion”. https://scholar.google.com/scholar?hl=en&as_sdt=0%2C21&q=“economically+attractive”+men&btnG=#d=gs_qabs&t=1687931118075&u=%23p%3Dpm6IVHm3R44J
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:46 AM
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So I don’t really want women to like me. I’ve done relationships as a guy and they’re really just a shit ton of work and investment as a guy just to say you aren’t alone. I think most of the value in relationships for men is more in the fact that men are desperate to escape the perpetuity of loneliness that characterizes the male condition more-so than it is that women provide a net benefit to them. and Nothing I said is untrue. Factually, women leave relationships FAR more than men. If you want…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:42 AM
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No, I’m articulate and can speak for myself. Women are simply just insanely more likely to leave you than a man is. That said, if the end of the relationship is synonymous with the end of your lease, then you are inarguably better off living under a boyfriend than you are a girlfriend. This is just true. And the nature of the relationship between a man and a woman is that a man is more comfortable providing living provisions to a woman than a woman is to a man. Women literally are hypergamous, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:31 AM
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Men statistically seldom leave relationships, so having a boyfriend as your landlord doesn’t jeopardize the security of your living situation. Men’s sexual strategy is one of collecting reproductive opportunities, whereas women’s is one of securing the best possible reproductive opportunity, so men tend to not let go of women even should they find other women, whereas women tend to replace men when they find better men. This also means having a boyfriend as your landlord is less likely to jeopar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:25 AM
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Women’s fickle and emotionally predominant nature, as well as women’s sexual strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:39 PM
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For guys, you shouldn’t do it. For women, it falls in line with what you get a man for anyway, so I don’t see a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:29 PM
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Wrong. An attractive guy acting nice can turn a woman off. Women are nice…they’re nice because they fear confrontation though. They know this deep down, so they protect this onto men. She won’t think a nice guy has a spine or balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:49 AM
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You’re missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:17 PM
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I’m not worried about a win-win, I care about men not getting taken advantage of. Women already have the upper-hand in dating so I care about teaching men how to level the playing field a bit. If a woman fucks him quickly there’s a high probability she has burning desire for him. She may not, but women don’t typically fuck guys they’re not interested in. It’s that simple. You can try to say that women will make Henry Cavill and Chris Hemsworth wait for sex all you want but I guarantee you of you…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:56 PM
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If you’re a guy, you can tell when the sex is obligatory or enthusiastic… But you’re missing the point. Simply put, a woman who has sex with a guy is presumably more interested in that guy than a woman who doesn’t. That is true. It just is. You’re trying to float exceptions, and I’m not saying they don’t exist, I’m saying that they’re irrelevant when trying to figure out the best strategy for not getting men taken advantage of. The strategy is only invest in the women who sleep with you quickly …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:45 PM
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Again, if Henry Cavill or Chris Hemsworth steps into the average woman’s DM’s, they are fucking that night. Attraction is instant for women. I’m not saying you all match online and one message later you’re fucking, I’m saying plenty of women fuck on the first date even though you say it takes women a ton of time to develop attraction, and so it’s an indicator of high interest if she fucks you and MAY AS WELL BE an indicator of low interest if she doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:53 PM
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No, you’re trying to add gray area to keep me from making a point. Who is more likely to be attracted to a guy, a woman who sleeps with him or a woman who doesn’t? That’s my point. I’m talking probabilities that give men the best chance at not being used. It’s not that complicated. If a woman sleeps with a guy there is a higher likelihood she is actually attracted to him than if she doesn’t. Period. End of story. That’s just true. That’s painfully obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:23 PM
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Nah, that’s called limerence and obsessions. True love doesn’t come undone. You ll fall in and out of love like 5 times a year…that’s not love. That’s your body telling you “reproduce with this person”. Love takes a massive amount of time to build.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:43 AM
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Satire went right over your head… I mean…Men can’t just tell you “look, I like you, let’s get married”. Instead men have to do this dance with you all…a dance that is annoying as fuck and expensive. We have to make it seem like we were the high value hard-to-get guy who is somehow also wildly obsessed with you. We have to go “slow” because you all want to feel like it’s some highschool relationship turned happily ever after…when in reality you’re fucking adults…at this point it is “you like me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:21 AM
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No, it’s that a woman’s aptness to fuck os a good heuristic for the satisfaction a guy will see out of a relationship. When a woman is down to screw you, she is saying “I really like you”. When she’s not up for sex, there’s an 90% chance she doesn’t give a shit about you and if she decides to proceed with the relationship, that will show in how she treats you and in her inevitably leaving you. It’s not the sex. It’s that a woman isn’t willing to love a guy she’s not willing to fuck. You’re testi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:07 AM
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I recognize that. But you not having sex for reasons related to self-control, to me, is no different than a woman who just isn’t interested and may want to use me because, if we’re dating, I don’t know the reasons you aren’t having sex…I just know that you aren’t. So it’s just makes more sense to go with the woman who is giving me sex because her desire is evident, relative to yours. Basically, with you I have to gamble, with her, I don’t. P.S. In the back of men’s minds we kinda know that for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:02 AM
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I recognize that it’s possible, it’s just that I would still tell men to avoid sexually disinterested women and you would be an unfortunate collateral loss of a strategy suited to mitigate the most loss possible. If that was a bit confusing…put it like this. Most Lions will eat you. There may be some that won’t and that you could pet…and you may be one of those few. But I’m telling men to stay away from Lions, to avoid getting eaten, which inadvertently means to stay away you. By men being very …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:43 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:36 AM
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Nah, men 100% play games. We have to. I shit you not, once a man sees you’re not a hoe, you’re just intelligent enough not to leave his kids in a hot car, and you don’t have kids by any other men, he is ready to: Love you Marry you And not over the course of five years, but instantly. As SOON as men find out those things, it’s “marriage and kids”. But men CAN’T be that direct. Instead we have to act out the “it wasn’t supposed to be, but against all odds we prevailed” love-story where “we fight …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:30 PM
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Burning desire is lust, and it’s important because it cannot be faked. I tell men to get sexual with women quickly, because it forces her true intentions to the surface. Sexual attraction cannot be negotiated - it’s either there or it isn’t; however, women can stay in a non-sexual relationship with a guy where she benefits from materiality, endlessly. If she is not open to sex with you, that tells you she isn’t really attracted to you, but rather has a provider-agenda for you and although inexpe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:56 PM
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Extremely true. For the sake of neutralizing the argument that men or women can/can’t get widowed by “the one that got away”, let’s assume that both can be. Now, things like this only matter insofar as they have consequences. For example, let’s assume cars could take no damage, would you care about the next door neighbor’s kid’s baseball hitting your car? No. If alcohol abuse had no consequences, would you care if anyone abused it? No. So we only really care about being widowed by a desirable pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:46 PM
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If you’re a woman, you just won’t understand. Women not understanding why men put their self-worth in women’s hands is like a kid not understanding why their parents always have to work. So much of women’s self-worth being seemingly independent of men is because men value women so much that women can have this avoidant indifference towards men given the abundance of anxious obsessed men. You’re asking us why we’re not more like you, when the only reason you’re like you, is because we’re like us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:49 AM
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As a red pill guy, you are right. And I’ll air out a few things here. Yes, we do in fact want a woman’s youth at her expense. The truth is that you are right, men ARE desperate. Even the least desperate men are desperate relative to women. Men will compromise principles, morality, standards, and all for a woman. If you think about it, men give their lives for women so they will certainly give everything else. The most powerful of men who climbed to the top by being the most calculated, impenetra…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:17 AM
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I said “typically”, “typically”. Men typically have hobbies because the burden of performing to survive is heavier on men than it is women. My mother is a cook and drummer, yes I know women have hobbies, but they average woman, I’d bet, doesn’t m. They usually spend time trying to get attention because that’s a better use of time for them than is honing their utilitarian survival skills, which most hobbies do. Maybe you and I might doffer here, but taking selfies, trying on clothes, spying on wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:45 PM
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What’s the difference between: “Women don’t have hobbies” and “Women typically don’t have hobbies” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:34 PM
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I grieved the loss of women’s interest many years ago. I’ve shed that weight already.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:33 PM
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Self-respect comes from strength. Self-respect is the ability to stand up for yourself to others and to yourself, and strength is what that requires. Strength comes from resistance and nourishment, much like in physiology. Your mind is the same way. Resist the forces that try to break you, and fill your mind quality experiences and information and you will grow stronger and come to respect yourself naturally. And it’s against the odds because society resists men and puts bad food in the minds of…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:58 PM
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Confidence isn’t gained, insecurity is. Kids don’t start out comparing themselves to others…other kids start comparing the kid to other kids and insecurity is gained. A kid with a cleft palate is aware of their condition but doesn’t care until kids start making fun of them. Just like dick size. If we didn’t shame men for it no guy would be insecure about it despite his size. Why? Because hand size differs in men but no guy is insecure about it because we don’t shame men tor it. Here’s the thing,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:34 PM
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I don’t agree with that stance but whether I argue it or not doesn’t move the debate forward because it’s not at-all on-subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:57 PM
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Leisure isn’t a privilege. That’s where we disagree. Leisure has predominantly characterized the human experience up until recently, and even still, leisure is enjoyed by every class of people just maybe not for as long as we used to enjoy it, and to different degrees. And I never said women don’t have hobbies. Feel free to quote me. As a guy with a mom who loves to cook and play the drums, you wouldn’t hear/see me say/write that. You don’t think I can see that there’s women softball players, vo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:51 PM
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I care about truth not being liked. I’m a porn addicted loner and proud of it, tf do I care about decorum? You go ahead an enjoy your uniformity, but l let me do me. Tell me when you believe something I said is untrue, then I’ll care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:30 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:21 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:49 PM
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No, lifting doesn’t give confidence. I remember a Dr. K podcast where he explained that confidence isn’t gained, but rather insecurity is lost. This is important because if you tell someone that the way to confidence is through weights, that is creating insecurity because you’re placing security behind a paywall of weights. Notice when you were a kid, you had no inhibitions. You had to learn insecurity. And you learned insecurity precisely by doing things like saying being buff is the way you ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:29 PM
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You took my use of “sexually” too literally. I’m referring to the Sexual Marketplace. Women can find provision and protection anywhere and everywhere. Because of that, the bare minimum they’ll accept has risen. Basically, no one starving is turning down steak, potatoes, and shrimp. But you turn down even a solid meal like that when steak, potatoes, and shrimp are in abundance, setting your sights on crab, lobster, and caviar because, if worse comes to worse, steak, potatoes, and shrimp are alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:42 PM
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A 1, for that matter, will typically fare better than any 10, so why not choose a 1? It’s because looks matter to men. Better looking offspring are more likely to find reproductive opportunities. The body proportions men go after are linked to a higher chance of birthing success, a lower chance of producing disease-prone offspring, higher chance of healthier offspring in general. And here’s something that seems lost on modern women people struggle in dating because their animalistic desires clas…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:21 PM
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I was doing research on hobbies and hobbies are essentially the practicing of skills necessary for survival. This is why most male hobbies revolve around running, jumping, Strength, hunting/accuracy, outwitting, and competing. Women typically don’t have hobbies because their survival and reproductive opportunities are all-but-guaranteed at birth. So men having hobbies isn’t a privilege, not by a longshot. Men’s hobbies are representative of the fact that they must earn and compete their way into…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:44 PM
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Most men can’t and won’t “make it”. And women get to decide that. The problem that men have is that men are sexually indiscriminate. Meaning every woman can “make it”. Women are very sexually discriminate, meaning only some men can “make it”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:02 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:00 AM
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NO. With the way society is setup, it’s a shock that any man has self-respect. Self-respect in men comes against the odds. The experience of men in society is all upstream. The current of society tries to bring men down. With human beings be social by nature, most men live a life devoid of social validation and have to compete and beg for acknowledgement, regard, and a survival that is all-but-guaranteed to women. This is honestly why boss-culture only works for women, because majority of women’…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:17 AM
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Men never truly know their value. Women do. Not going to go to deep into it but in essence, one approaches, the other gets approached. Easy to know where you stand by who you get approached by, and being approached is invariable…but for the other, if you never approach, you never know…and most, given how unnatural and weird approaching is, in a society-wide social paradigm that discourages random interactions unilaterally initiated by men, most guys will never approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:43 AM
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No, I’m saying that what you think dating to be may be the rocket science for someone who doesn’t see it as you do. The guys who practiced pick up, for example, tried things your “easy” way and failed. They tried to “just talk to women” and that was too complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:34 PM
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False equivalency. An analogy is a comparison deliberately using foreign subjects to illustrate a common denominating concept; it doesn’t give any insight into how I think about dating no more than me using the fable of the Tortoise and the Hare to convey that faster isn’t always better, would mean than I believe people are tortoises and hares. But if I wanted to play Devil’s Advocate, the most insignificant of tasks are but a mathematical problem. You going to the fridge is some complex calculu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 01:29 PM
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Are Quadratics and Calculus just over-complications of mathematics?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:12 PM
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Watch this video, it’s short. https://youtu.be/6QX3P1V_Y9I Pay pay attention at 2:36 to what the host says. That suns up everything I’n trying to say. The less attention, respect, etc you give women, the more they obsess over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:29 PM
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I’m saying that your blue pilled way of dating is an over simplification of something that is replete with complexity. Women are neurotic, so you practically have to manipulate them in some way to have a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:18 AM
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https://youtu.be/WeWdlT8z9Nc Watch this video to understand what I’m talking about. It’s short. She breaks it down perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:29 PM
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No, I know what I said. You’re referring to no simping, and Im saying that even more than that, you need to be low-effort when it comes to women. You don’t really understand the psychology side of mating. It’s not as simple as “you like me, I like you, let’s live happily ever after”. Women are neurotic. You don’t understand how they think when it comes to mating. The hypergamy in women needs a challenge in order to be satisfied. If you come easy, they can’t feel like they’ve pulled the best mate…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:19 PM
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You’re right, women don’t want to be ignored, which is why you ignore them. You cannot be an easy conquest, less you run the risk of becoming like every other guy. People want what they can’t have. Women want to be the adorer, not the adored.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:40 AM
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I’m just waiting for people to realize relationships are over. Fundamentally relationships existed to help easier through life. We’ve managed to autopilot survival. People are only as committed as they are in the mood to be, and moods change.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:24 AM
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Pick a promising guy early, and stay with him come hell or high water. Tbh, women need less advice than men do. Dating is rough for men. It can be rough for women, but the roughness for women is because women have a retarded strategy, the toughness for men is despite having a bullet-proof strategy. Dating for women is like traveling down stream - it’s easy, but an idiot can fuck it up…dating for men is like traveling upstream - it’s hard for the best and worst of them. Really, an attractive woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:59 AM
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Nah, nice guys definitely finish last bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:34 AM
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Treating women like shit is just a mental hack. It’s a way of conveying social proof. It conveys that you’re used to chicks like her, otherwise if you weren’t, you’d probably be simping just like every other guy she comes across. You obviously don’t want to be deliberately a dickhead because that actually conveys that something is just wrong with you, but acting like she doesn’t exist conveys that you couldn’t care less whether she exists or not because you have an ample supply of the women you …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:31 AM
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Here’s my “talking point” https://youtu.be/80JqoyaL-p4
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:02 AM
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You don’t get it. So to address the blatant inconsistency in your words. If you’re supposing that my solution is that women fuck incels, implying that the problem is sexual, then how can you also say that other men can solve incels’ problem, when you know that these incels are heterosexual? Secondly, I’m not arguing women should fuck incels. Haven’t said that at all. And before I go on a reject the fact that a meth’d-out 600lb woman is the same as the average guy today that women don’t want beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:59 AM
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But the question was “What’s is your opinion of incels?” I gave my opinion that how they are treated is evidence of the very things the complain about… You all (feminists, I presume) came in and hijacked the convo as you all normally do when it seems people have any consideration for the problems of men, not realizing, you’ve exemplified the very behavior I was referring to that validates incel’s grievances.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:35 AM
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Beliefs are typically formed through experiences. They’re usually also broken the same way. For example. Most chairs will hold you. So having a belief that you’ll fall through a chair if you sit on it is irrational because if you go around sitting on chairs, reality is likely to grant you experiences that disprove that belief. This is to say, that for most men have this belief about women, and with time and experience, only solidify that belief, that tells you that there is something to the beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:11 AM
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That episode of The View where Joy Behar joked about a guy getting his dick cut off and thrown in the garbage disposal…the whole room laughed. We would have given men felonies for not bludgeoning the guy who dared make that joke about a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:56 AM
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Because the idea that I need to clean up every incel before we can talk about men’s issues is disingenuous. We don’t do that with anything else. You only focus on the dysfunctional minority to marginalize the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:53 AM
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There’s televised feminist mentioning of violence against men that get applause and laughter. This isn’t a whataboutism, but rather to point out that society has something particularly against men who struggle to get laid. And I’m granting you for the sake of my example, that ALL incels allow detestable behavior (even though they don’t and even though feminists don’t “take out the trash” as you say incels should)…why is it okay for women to promote violence against men on national television and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:34 AM
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Now I need you to think here. Do you think that I would say that a man who promotes tape and violence against women has a point? I’m speaking of ACTUAL incels who are just, by definition, men who want sex but don’t have it. Not all of them are ugly slobs either with bad temper, plenty of them are Adonis’s with social anxiety, or simply guys who don’t really see the point in dating given the current feministic “women shouldn’t be held accountable for anything” society we live in that just doesn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:30 PM
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I think the treatment incels get, is evidence that validates their grievances.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:19 PM
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Deception is force. I believe force should only be used to stop force. If the woman CHOSE to be in a relationship where she was financially dependent on a man, I don’t think she should force him into a situation he wouldn’t consent to, presumably as a means of escaping that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:47 PM
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Because men want a family, but women’s promiscuity of blocking men from starting successful ones. Men want to commit, but women have made it such that it is foolish for a man to commit. So men opt for casual sex. And no, men and women aren’t judged by the same sexual standards. Men with high body counts, given how hard it is for men to find sex, are sex as sexually accomplished. Women with high body counts, given how easy it is for them to find sex, are seen as sexual conquered. No man wants to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:24 PM
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Because the “risks” you refer to with casual sex only matter if the guy is planning to commit. Put it like this. I will fuck the hell out of Lana Rhoades (casual sex), never in a million tests would I commit to her. Also, the men here aren’t saying casual sex makes them repulsive, they’re saying it makes women repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:03 PM
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So, with modern women it’s like this… They’re hard to get They don’t offer anything They demand everything They don’t stay/they’re fickle So think about it. What would be the action you could gain the most from and lose the least from, assuming you engages in that action with someone possessing the qualities above? Would you go for commitment? No. Because of 2,3, and 4. Would you go for friendship? No, because of 2 and 4. Casual Sex is the only real action where you can engage with them and avoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:37 PM
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There is…be Chris Hemsworth. Just be insanely high value and high profile and preferably handsome along with it and women throw themselves at you. I’m not one of those guys, but I’ve seen their inboxes and when I say the tables flip, I mean it. So like, how prettier much any woman could have 98% of guys…when you’re that 2% guy, you can have like 100% of women and women tend to act for YOU, like the guys who pursue THEM. You know how 98% of guys would absolutely anything for a woman on a moment’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:10 PM
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Most guys are lol. Men with experience with women really only want relationships for easier sex. It’s the guys who don’t know how women are that project onto women this “Honey, I’m home” type of Al Bundy fantasy life that doesn’t really exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:38 AM
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It’s all how the woman perceives you. Let me explain. If you started talking to a woman that wasn’t attracted to you, you can talk to her less or talk to her more and she still won’t see you romantically or sexually. On the flip-side, if Chris Hemsworth starts talking yo that same chick, there’s almost nothing he could say that would take him out of her romantic/sexual category…because 9.9 times out of 10 she’s attracted to him. Furthermore, I will say that if you have to “game” a woman, she’s n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:24 PM
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No, a master key exposes bad locks, it doesn’t create them. Master keys don’t work on every lock, just the unsophisticated ones. A high value woman is impervious to the the advances of even a high value man UNLESS he engages with her respectfully. High value women are not the women high value men rack up their notch count with. A high value woman can’t be made low value. I stress that a high value woman can’t be made low value because your viewpoint seems to rely on your belief that men are tarn…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:51 AM
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It’s really simple and you’ve probably heard it a million times but in honoring your question it bears repeating… A key that can open any lock is a master key. A lock that can be opened by any key is a bad lock. Because women are extremely discriminatory regarding who they sleep with, a man who has met the criteria of many women is deemed by both women and men, a valuable man. Because men are extremely indiscriminate regarding who they sleep with, a woman who has slept with many men is deemed by…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:55 PM
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I agree. I think new couples do it because honestly there’s this underlying urgency to show a love that isn’t really felt yet…for the sake if deriving whatever benefit from the relationship that person wants. Actual couples who are secure in their love for each other don’t do much, if anything. I know the men tend to but the wife flowers or something small just as a “I don’t want yo be the husband/bf that didn’t do anything” or “I don’t want you to feel left out” kind-of gift, but it seems like …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:26 AM
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Noooo, the latter half of your essay was about linking alpha-dominant types to leadership, foundations, steadiness, and all this other bs that has nothing to do with that. Those are qualities unto themselves that have nothing to do with being dominant. I’m not saying your fetish is bad, I’m saying call it a fetish and be done with it. No need to insinuate that men who aren’t your fetish are someone less capable of leading, husbanding, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:31 AM
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Dating isn’t dangerous for women. What I’m realizing is this so-called “intuition” women claim to have for men is broken and needs to be recalled. Women are the type to think “let me go date a felon because he’ll protect me” and then get their ass beat, car stolen, etc.. and wonder what the hell happened? Dating isn’t dangerous, women just are retarded when it comes to choosing men. It seems, what is attractive to women is dangerous men. I understand the evo-psych reasons they give as to why, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:33 AM
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In my experience women like you have a fetish, and that fetish informs your decisions and judgments of men. The reality of it is that in modern times, if you took the most feminine, submissive man, and you “submitted” to him, your family would be just as well-off than if you did the same thing with a masculine, dominant, type of man. Largely the traits women select for in men do not translate to the real world outcomes they think these traits will yield. Brash and quick-to-speak doesn’t equal wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:25 AM
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The issue is that most shit tests are tests you aren’t aware of them and for that reason, shouldn’t really care about them. Kinda for the same reason it’s probably not best to try and play football on a minefield by guessing where all the mines are…but rather to play football on a field that doesn’t have mines. Listen, I’m going to try explain this as best I know how. Because men tend to be the sex that is told that our outcomes are affected by our own actions, rather than that out outcomes are …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:59 AM
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It’s objectively clear to anyone with eyes that men have it worse than women. That’s not even debatable. I’m not saying you all don’t struggle… but it’s the struggles of a princess compared to the struggles of a pauper.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:14 AM
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I’ll say this…Liberal women tend to advocate and denounce traditionalism and modernism when it fits them: They’re modern when they want: - same pay as men - equal opportunity employment - sexual promiscuity - not a housemaid/exempt from cooking and cleaning - equal say in household - not obligated as a wife to have sex - husband obligated to fulfill her sexual desires - fat acceptance - husband mustn’t mind close or even sexual relationships between her and other men They’re traditional when the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:03 AM
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You don’t think that number is higher? Seeing s as 1, they probably asked liberal men so the numbers are likely worse for conservative men, and 2, men overstate their sexual experience. And regardless of where Tate odds or whether you know Sneako, it doesn’t change the fact that what you all thought was a small incel portion of society is catching fire among practically all men who watch online content. Tate content had to be disallowed in schools, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:31 PM
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You don’t think that number is higher? Seeing s as 1, they probably asked liberal men so the numbers are likely worse for conservative men, and 2, men overstate their sexual experience. And regardless of where Tate odds or whether you know Sneako, it doesn’t change the fact that what you all thought was a small incel portion of society is catching fire among practically all men who watch online content. Tate content had to be disallowed in schools, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:29 PM
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I don’t feel like it But… - People are less social after the pandemic - Dating apps are mostly men, and most of them don’t get matched - “The Rise of Lonely Single Men” - JP. Morgan Chase predicting half of all women over 30 will be single and childless by 2030 - 1 in 3 men report no sex in the past year or ever - Birth rates are far below replacement - The explosion if red pill content and figures like Andrew Tate and Sneako When you start taking those things into consideration, not that any on…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:55 PM
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I understand women more than 99.999% of men and that’s why I can’t stand them. I know exactly how they feel, what their struggle are, and their interests are and I can tell you that don’t have a fucking thing to complain about relative to women. The overall reality for women is that being a modern woman is pretty fucking awesome, and the fact that women don’t think it is is because most western women are entitled/unappreciative. Being a guy for a year would absolutely break most women. They’d be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:58 AM
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There are stats that disagree with what you’ve states here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:26 AM
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Because honestly, unless you’re a man you don’t understand just how difficult it is. So when men hear you all complain about your situations which are objectively light-years better than ours, we just can’t grant you equal consideration. A woman asking a man for sympathy is like a princess asking a pauper for the same… no, our problems are not just “different”, it is tremendously easier being a woman than it is a man. Just off this situation alone… …an attractive woman can have, in-modern societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:55 AM
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I’m sorry but modern women make a REALLY compelling case for why the forefathers had basically a “barefoot and pregnant, don’t speak unless spoken to, hands off the levers of power, ask before you do” mentality with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:58 AM
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Yes. My body count is 1. Had a smoking hot gf at the age of 23. Thought “yes, finally lose my virginity”. It sucked. The relationship sucked, sex sucked. Well, tbh I’m a volcel. I just don’t e the point in tripping over myself to get a bunch of narcissistic sluts. And tbh, women are terrible but I truly hate men. I despise men. Because women are three way they are today because men are weak. There is nothing on earth weaker than the modern man. Men will abandon principle, morals, order, and them…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:30 PM
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N count - Here’s the thing, this doesn’t matter for sex, but this is THEE dealbreaker in a relationship. Why? Because of all the other things listed, this is the most consequential one as it pertains to the longevity of a relationship. Unattractive people can last. Overweight people can last. Career women can last. But the stats show high n count women are prone to relationship failure. Most guys don’t even understand how important this is and will date a high n-count woman and have their relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:01 AM
0

As a former model who is an incel, I can tell you, looksmaxing is not the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:47 AM
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I’m not looking for love. True love doesn’t exist for men - I’m as certain of that as I am that 2 and 2 is 4. The only woman that will ever love you in the way you think love should exist, is your mother. If your relationship with her is good and she’s still around, honor and spoil that woman because you will never know a love even poorly approximating the love she has for you. Even though what she (my ex) put me through hurt like no pain I’ve ever felt, it taught me two invaluable lessons about…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:45 PM
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I remember there was a study on this...I have to comb through Google Scholar to retrieve it...but the three biggest risk factors for women's infidelity were: Proximity..namely if they worked in a multi-gendered environment Liberal Political Alignment which also tied into Religion, with devoutly religious, conservative women being less likely to cheat. Education..the more educated, the higher the likelihood of her cheating And I'm going to be honest with you, that sounds about right. But as a per…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:14 AM
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Fantasies are expressions of desire… and the outcome here doesn’t matter. Why? Women wanting dark triad men but ending up with nice guys is why the divorce rates are so high lol. Fantasies are indicative of desire, unfulfilled desire over time is the formula for repression, repression creates resentment, and resentment causes divorce. No, your analogy is false. Citing a movie with dragons as proof of dragons is wrong because dragons are known not to be real, and the movie is a deliberate interpr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:43 PM
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Yup. And I did EVERYTHING for that chick. Doordashed lunch every day to her job. Rented out entire box sections in the JFK threater routinely for her and I on date nights, after which I’d usually drop over $500 on her at Carmine’s for dinner. We went to Bora Bora a few times, a few Virginia log cabin resorts, trips to Phuket, Paris, and Switzerland. Paid all the bills. Rocked her world sexually although I did have ED and had trouble staying hard but I always made sure she orgasmed. Routinely bou…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:18 PM
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They don’t want to date good guys in those communities. Trust me, I didn’t grow up in those communities but I went to school with a lot of those kids…the women don’t want the best those neighborhoods have to offer, they categorically go after the trouble-makers and it’s proven in the social science literature that women broadly express a preference for men with dark triad traits. It’s why 50 Shades of Grey broke records and expectations in both cinemas and books, and why theaters reportedly foun…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:02 PM
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It’s not just the drug dealers, it’s being run through in general. You wouldn’t believe how much men’s disgust with promiscuous is not “insecurity” or “misogyny” but rather a pretty reasonably arrived-at position that women who’ve expressed a tendency to have short-term encounters are likely not good long-term partners. And given all a man risks in a relationship, he needs to know that the woman isn’t a flight risk and what better way to ascertain that than by selecting for women who have few bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:53 PM
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What two examples are caricatures? Good women will take the guy you just described lol. Good men don’t want the woman that I described though. That’s the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:37 AM
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Lol. Has nothing to do with women statistically preferring dark triad traits…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:01 AM
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Go watch the documentary on Pazuzu Algarad if you think u/ChengduThrowaway is lying. “Social deviant” in an understatement. We’re talking a human the embodiment of Satan that Satan himself would even envy. Chief degenerate. Guy had multiple girlfriends, they knew he was fucking other chicks around town and still remained his girlfriends, and this guy constantly pissed off friendly neighborhood dads who’d find their little apple-of-my-eye daughters getting slayed by this dude. Not to mention ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:40 AM
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I was with you until that last sentence. Yes tf they are being settle for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:30 AM
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There’s a study that says something like 80% of men with criminal records have children vs some relatively extremely low number for men without records
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:28 AM
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BULLSEYE 🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:25 AM
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Well women seem to think that a man is genuinely looking for a 30-50 year old baby momma of a drug dealer to spend their lives with. Let’s stay you wanted to start a bloodline as a dog breeder - basically, a family of dogs. Would you choose the old female who had given birth already, who had been traumatized by an abusive family prior and had a mountain of issues you had to comb through? Or would you want the young female that was, essentially, untouched - untouched sexually, untouched by the ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:24 AM
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Yep. My ex was the most beautiful, soft spoken, nicest, most responsible person on earth. Cheated on me and left me for a drug dealer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:15 AM
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You have capitalism to thank for that. Lost on us is the real reason women were barred from the workplace: If you want any significant portion of society to be families, you need to make sure that the criteria for starting a family is met, and tat criteria for women is that the man they are with earns more; meaning, it’s only axiomatic that by capping or flat-out disallowing women’s earnings, every man becomes at least a somewhat plausible mate, and more families develop and stay together. Given…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:48 PM
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“High value” people attract everyone. The problem then becomes discerning who is posing and who isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:10 AM
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As blackpill as I am, your response seems reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:44 AM
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You’re proving my point lol. A playground for fools is a minefield for wise men, vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:18 PM
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Help me out here… I’m legit confused as to whether or not you’re being sarcastic for comedic sake or if you’re dead serious…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:20 PM
1

Hard to name a crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:34 PM
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I watched the arrogant foolish Left rip the steering wheel from the Right, the Right who had steered this country in the right direction long enough for it to become the greatest nation on earth. So I presumed, because of the Left’s adamancy on having control, that they knew something conservatives didn’t…that they’d take the country to a better place, faster… And so as I lay eyes on the dumpersterfire that is the non-economic portions of the US, the fire that has engulfed and absolutely torched…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:01 PM
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The responses to this post show prove OP’s point better than the post itself. Guy [does anything but sit complacently on the sinking ship of Western feminism and man-hating]: People: Loser, Beta, Predator, Oddball, Weak Woman [posts man-hating, man-blaming, zero-accountability, zero-introspection post about dating in the West]: People: Queen, Men are terrible, Men are substandard, Yaaaaasss Guy [leaves West] Same People: Why you leaving? It’s the most male-welcoming environment over here, the ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:31 PM
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It is. Getting women in the west isn’t the flex you think it is. Sure it’s harder here in the West, but you’re competing for garbage here. The women look good, but they’re whoremongering, narcissistic, commitmentphobes who wreck their own homes routinely. While it’s easier in the East, the women are actually women over there, they put their families first, they haven’t been screwed by every guy down at the gym, and they understand that the title of “wife” entails work not leisure and don’t mind …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:21 PM
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Lol. If it’s either give all men life sentences for stupid offenses so that your unreasonably scared ass can calm your heart rate, or I’m sexist then I guess I’ll take “sexist” lol - I’m cool with being that. Shaming language just doesn’t work on me. It keeps you sheep herded but it doesn’t mean anything to me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:05 PM
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Again, you tend to apply the slippery slope fallacy to everything…something that feminists often do. This “if we don’t castrate all men when one offends then they’ll all just start offending women”. Speeding tickets are nothing to rich men yet they get less tickets than people who can’t afford them. Rich men are the minority of the population, and most rich men didn’t become rich by making poor decisions, as they have a reputation to maintain and are wise about doing so. The idea that Execs are …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:36 PM
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I don’t mind locking up sexual abusers. What I do mind is her not defining what “first sign of abuse” is because plenty feminists will argue just being a straight man is a “first sign”, and I also mind not differentiating between degrees of sexual misconduct when determining sentencing, saying that all of such deserves a life sentence. Some guy slapping a chick’s ass doesn’t deserve the life sentence that a serial, predatory rapist does. I’d do something like a $500 fine for first offense on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:20 AM
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“Generosity” means money, specifically, a lot of money and the willingness to splurge.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:55 PM
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I’ll break the truth to you. Attractive women don’t settle down until 1 of two things happens: They meet a man significantly beyond the levels of the men they’re used to or the level of the man she believes she can get. Basically, if he’s way out of her league, she will understand how much of a rarity he she will uproot her life and agenda for him. For example, if Chris Hemsworth happens upon your small town hottie who is dating 20 men, in college, wants to focus on her “career”…she’s becoming a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:09 AM
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Not true in the least bit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:02 AM
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I just don’t see how women offer anything to men. I’m sorry I don’t. If I had a man in a survival scenario he’d be a million times more useful than a woman. That’s just facts, and a cursory glance at society would prove that. Where does your food come from? Where does your construction come from. Where does your defense come from? Where does your infrastructure come from? Where does your internet come from? Where does your everything come from? Other men. I think you’re deliberately ignoring the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:49 AM
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Bullshit. Now you’re being disingenuous. I mean, according to you women are unconditionally loving, understandable women who don’t care about height, money, or status. I mean, if that’s actually your circumstance, congratulations, or maybe you’re just exaggerating your circumstances because you like hearing that you’re exceptional, but I call bullshit. If women were what you say they were, I can promise you society wouldn’t have the problems between men and women that it has. You’re “no pill” bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:21 PM
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You think male friendships end more than male-female relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:07 PM
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I just don’t tend to see guy friends that only associate with you based on height, looks, income, social status, and ability to fight… at least not as much as I see women do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:58 AM
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And the main difference between the love you have for men and the love you have for women is the potential for what? Btw, I actually believe male love between friends is stronger than the love between a man and woman. Your friends are there for you because you’re you. A woman is there for you insofar as it benefits her. Fuck up and lose a fight and watch how your friends respond vs your woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:06 AM
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Fair enough. So, men don’t love their friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:45 PM
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I don’t have a bias against women I just lack the normal bias that men have in favor of women. Men pursue romantic relationships with women because: They’re told to/rite of passage They seek ass by means if a relationship And I didn’t ignore what you said. I said in my example that women are supportive and encouraging but I said that in value, the pales in comparison to what men give, and I used that example of the two guys in the survival scenario to illustrate that. Surely, if the encouragemen…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:44 PM
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Buddy, you need to swing your nuts. Flex the muscles you have. Your life is together. You will be able to get a degree of femininity out of women that most men won’t. If money is your strong-suit, work it. “But women won’t like me for me”…as opposed to what? Women don’t like any man for who he is, they like men for what they represent to them. Start by understanding where you have the leverage and how you should play the game. Your leverage is money. If you’re playing the money game you have to …
/r/seduction01/11/22 11:08 PM
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My answer is an indictment of your intellectual capacity so it’s best you provide me with yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:51 AM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:50 AM
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I wasn’t estimating time spent I was estimating portion of male motive for being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:49 AM
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Tell me if I’m close… Love, companionship, a partner, regular sex, and emotional support. Respectively: .02, .05, .02, .90, .01
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:08 AM
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I don’t think trp is a sexual strategy. And I don’t want to play semantics because I hate those types of people…but I really don’t think it’s a strategy. I think trp is just a blinders-off way of looking at the world. Trp is kind of like the guy who doesn’t go to the family reunions, and when asked why he says “well tbh, no one wants to be there. They don’t call each other throughout the year. So why waste time pretending to be cordial with people I know less than my neighbors, my neighbors who …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:02 AM
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I can’t judge your relationship accurately, but I don’t think the love you believe to be there is actually there. Sort of how a lot of employees think their employers and them have an interpersonal relationship until they get axed for no real reason…I think what you think is driving your relationship are factors that aren’t. How attractive is your wife? Not to be offensive. But typically attractive women don’t commit to men who make less than them. It is not uncommon to find unattractive, high e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:52 AM
1

Uhh, your comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:42 AM
1

I might, you never know
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:42 AM
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In my experience, “warm and cozy” comes at the cost of a woman viewing you as “protector”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:41 AM
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My problem with the modern feminist-leaning way of thinking is that is seeks power and agency with no responsibility. The idea that for someone to expect something reasonable from you they should finance the effort of making life unreasonably easier for you, is laughable. It’s like me saying “If you want me to not drive like a maniac you should petition my boss to relax his punctuality demands”. No, I should just drive like I have damn sense and wake tf up earlier so I’m not rushing to work. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:36 AM
1

Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:20 AM
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Wise man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:19 AM
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Respectable. Thanks for your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:19 AM
1

Can you “r/“ that because I still don’t know what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:17 AM
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Why the assumptions?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:16 AM
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Might I ask you to apply a Weighted Average to those qualities?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:15 AM
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Thank you for honestly answering the question. If you put two men in a survival scenario, or rather, removed “sex” from the equation, and one man offered the other what the average woman offered the average man, the other guy would very rapidly feel used and feel like the other guy is dead weight. I kinda knew that already I just either A. Wanted someone to find flaw in my logic or B. Wanted someone else to proof-check my logic - which you did. I appreciate your honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:14 AM
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I’ll take that as a “There is no valid reason”. Thank you for your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:10 AM
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But you can get love from a male friend. Why a woman? As for the money, your relationship is the exception. Not to discount it, I still respect the guy who is able to get a woman to date down and stay committed (assuming the latter is the case), but you must realize your relationship isn’t 99% of other relationships (less than 99% but you get the gist).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:09 AM
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A. Because men are more complimentary to other men than women are. It’s weird because the second your friends started acting like your woman, you would ask why they’re acting like a “bitch”? B. I feared I’d get a lot of “incentive for harder work” responses. Basically where the woman is replaceable with ‘owing money to a cartel’. The idea that you work harder because you have to support someone who’s otherwise leave you is virtually the same as working harder to appease a cartel that would other…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:05 AM
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I see what you’re saying. I just don’t see how substituting the woman for a man would be any difference. I guess, you highlighted the, mostly, intangible benefits of having a partner, not necessarily a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:56 PM
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What is “the daily”?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:37 PM
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If you knew what it cost men to deal with women, you’d understand where I’m coming from. Most men are inherently disadvantaged in dating. By way of being a man you’re already at a disadvantage. Add to that, men have to offer far more than women do, and that, honestly in 2022, women don’t offer anything - at all. The two minor things they offered to a man decades ago were cooking, cleaning, and they don’t even do that anymore. Instead they’re “honest, emotionally stable, and hardworking” like tha…
/r/seduction30/10/22 04:54 AM
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Asia and non-westernized Latin America. Good luck. You can go to Africa but physical attraction to the women down there might be an issue, and you can go to the middle-east and india but you make come back in a body bag…they guard their women heavy over there from foreigners and have a very overt in-group preference. Other than that, I really don’t know what to tell you. The West is fucked as it pertains to dating If traveling seems too extreme, and if you must date western women, stay as far aw…
/r/seduction29/10/22 06:40 AM
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You should NOT be online dating for a lot of reasons I won’t really get into but here’s some. -60% of users are men -of the 40% of women available, most of them have NO intention whatsoever of hooking up. It’s sheerly to get an ego boost over matches and attention -because the numbers are so skewed, men who are WAY out of the leagues of certain women must compete for women who could never get a guy like them. You wouldn’t believe how many good looking, 6ft. +, decent earning guys on there are co…
/r/seduction29/10/22 05:48 AM
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Law is created by man. That’s false, and even if it were true, I still believe the ones who can do it safely should be allowed. Blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:31 AM
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It’s a made up number. She so badly needs to impose the problems of the trafficked onto the non-trafficked because that’s the only way she can justify banning prostitution. You see this even with abortion. Pro-abortion is an all-around bad argument so what they’ll do is argue the extreme cases in which it’s necessary i.e incest, health complications, and rape, and try to brush all other abortions under the canopy of acceptance for those abortions. Same here. “Some women are trafficked therefore …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:29 AM
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I no longer care. Have a great weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:53 PM
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Of course I asked you questions based on beliefs I hold, I’m trying to test the validity of your beliefs relative to mine. Two replies ago I agreed with the top half of what you said but I didn’t agree on the bottom, which was reason for questioning you further, which is what I did, and you buckled. The only reason I’m red pill is because they have better arguments than you all. Their explanations for why the world is the way it is are just stronger than yours. Maybe less men would be red pill i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:18 PM
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So I tried to ask you questions and understand your point of view. All of those 7 points were questions. You haven’t supported not one think you’ve said this entire time. You claim you’ve given examples that I’m “ignoring” when you’ve given none. Deep down you know I’m right, which is why the only thing you can do is deride and avoid. Every time I debate one of you blue pillers your horrid debate skills and lack of situational awareness in these discussions only solidifies my views. With every a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:46 AM
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Okay, we actually agree on a lot then… But let me ask… What percentage of society do you believe would stop in one month, if men ceased working versus if women did the same? Do you not agree that women tend yo date up? If you do agree, doesn’t that mean that men date down? And if you don’t agree, why do most spousal support payments go to women? While I can’t prove that women don’t love men, the trueness of love can be measured by the costliness of sacrifice. You’ll find that those that love you…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:25 PM
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So do you think Red pill men are just batshit crazy? Like, there’s no legitimacy to their claims about women and feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:38 PM
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Listen I’m not going to argue with you any further on this. Believe it or not, I don’t want women to get raped. I also think sexless men is a problem that could be solved be the free market. That’s it, no more no less. I’m just not with this hyperprotectionism of women. Maybe at one point I was, but as a guy, when you get beaten over the head with “we’re equal”, “my body my choice”, “you’re a man, you have no opinion here”, “stop mansplaining”, is it really such a hard to fathom idea that I aban…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:15 AM
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False for every society that has ever existed. Women have always contributed quite a lot more to men and society than your pathetic caricature. Yet you can’t list any. You’re good at making claims without providing proof, and assuming the claims themselves are sufficient for the mere fact that you’ve stated them. For someone who thinks women have no value, why do you not shut up about them? When I think something is worthless, I don’t spend hours and hours prattling on and on and on and on about…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:59 AM
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Imagine telling a men, who created law, not to “mansplain” law lol. But you even using the word “mansplain” let me know that you’re just some feminist crackpot missing a few marbles. Sort of how if you’re talking about relationships with a guy and he uses the words “Chad” and “Stacy”, you think “he’s one of those” lol. So I don’t expect to gain any ground here with you despite how right I am. There’s really nothing to argue though. There are women sex workers who engage in sex work properly and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:18 PM
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Sounds like a tough day on the job. I’n still not going to allow you to use the peculiarity of her situation to invalidate the positive experiences of the many women who engage in sex work and find it extremely gainful employment. Quite frankly, I don’t care about the woman in the article. She’s a number whose story went left, tough shit, it happens, that’s life. Her story is no more invalidating of sex work than the death of a construction worker on the job is invalidating of construction. Suck…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:10 PM
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I wouldn’t hate them. I tend not to blame trees for falling on me if I go into a forest and start cutting them down. To avoid unwanted penetration by men…this may sound like a revolutionary idea but please bear with me…you should probably not…take….a job that….requires….they sexually penetrate you. Absolutely groundbreaking discovery, I know. Thank me with hot chocolate please.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:05 PM
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Men have not built a single country or society on their own either. You are childishly refusing to acknowledge it, but women have contributed throughout history in every society. No society built solely by men will ever last more than a half a generation. BS. But for the mercies of nature which forces men to go through women in order to reproduce, women would be ENTIRELY worthless to mean. Women’s ONE redeeming quality is that they’re so reproductively inefficient, that we need more of them than…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:59 PM
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A man who wins a traitor has won his own betrayal.
/r/seduction25/10/22 09:21 PM
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Okay, now we’re getting somewhere. So you and I actually agree more than you think. If a woman feels degraded and dehumanized by sex work, she shouldn’t engage in that work, and she in anyway be made to. Oversight and proper legal avenues should be in place to penalize those who traffic women, engage in sexually explicit acts with women they know are trafficked, those who egregiously violate the terms agreed upon prior to the sexual engagement, and those who engage with minors. Women can control…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:01 PM
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Wouldn’t matter if I did. Fuck feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:37 PM
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The account of one woman? Lol. Ban construction because one worker died lol. You can tell by that chick’s language too that she just has a problem with men in general. Prostitution will be legalized again, because who are we to control women’s bodies? Lol. As the country’s morality slips and slips sex will eventually lose all sanctity and sex work will be fully legal. Mark my words.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:36 PM
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Women engage in sex. Sex work, is women being paid to engage in sex with men they wouldn’t be otherwise have sex with. A plumber, plumbs his house. A plumbing job is a plumber being paid to plumb someones house he wouldn’t otherwise plumb. An artist draws and paints. An art job is an artist being paid to draw and painting for someone who he wouldn’t otherwise draw and paint for. You starting to get the gist here? Work, is doing something you wouldn’t otherwise do for free for someone, for money.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:50 AM
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“Tl dr” lol. I don’t want women to praise men. Me personally? I don’t want a woman at all; as I’ve said before, the juice isn’t worth the squeeze. I just think the performative rebellion from women as though they have something to prove to the sex that makes the world go around is hilarious, and that they should give up the act because in the end they won’t win and it isn’t even in their best interest to. I’ll be impressed when women finally go off and start their own societies and stop followin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:45 AM
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Your problem is that literally every definition you’re giving of sex work, can be applied to any job. Work is the exploitation of someone for gain. Whether that exploitation is physical or mental, and whether that person is male or female. Sex work is work. And honestly, the crux of the issue is that you have a serious problem with men,especially with with men deriving pleasure from women - that pisses you off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:29 AM
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PART 2 of 2 And of course all your claims also boil down to assuming anything a man desires from a woman is inherently inferior and anything a woman wants is automatically superior— she has bigger tits than he does, but he’s not dating up because what men desire is inferior, apparently; she has wider hips, but that’s inferior; she has softer skin: inferior; she is gentler or kinder or more nurturing, so she’s inferior to him; she has a higher voice: inferior; she has a stronger immune system: in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:43 PM
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PART 1 of 2 I didn’t say most men do. Most men don’t, and most women don’t either. We’ll just have to agree to disagree on this one. Women end the overwhelming vast majority of relationships and I guarantee will be in more relationships than men…you can’t tell me they don’t see men as disposable objects. But you do, evidently, as that’s how you’re describing women right here, and you’re projecting your own view that men “carry 99% of the load” in exchange for sex on all women. I’m not projecting…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 10:42 PM
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No it’s mot. A person is using their body to render you a service. I can name countless professions where that is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:16 PM
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Which is a form of work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:02 PM
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And the majority of people period wouldn’t do what they do at work if they didn’t need the money lol. You really don’t understand what “work” is, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:24 PM
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Normal decent men appreciate their partners. Most people do not view others only as tools to be exploited and thrown away the way you seem to be describing. No, most MEN don’t view their partners as tools, WOMEN do. As Briffault’s Law states, “Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.” Those are the exact conditions upon which your engagement with a tool is determined - only if it serves a substantial benefit which justifies its cost …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:22 PM
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Men don’t appreciate women because they can’t. Women are hypergamous, meaning you all pick guys who are better than you. As a matter of fact, you guys pick guys along the basis of them not needing you. Basically the less a guy needs you, i.e the more women he gets, the more money he has, the stronger he is, the more you like him. How can you expect to be appreciated by your partner when you demand they carry 99% of the load? That’s like hating a job for firing you after you demanded they do your…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:57 AM
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No. Out of 100 men and 100 women, maybe 90 women have sex and 40 men. But those men are banging 90 women, meaning they have more sexual INSTANCES than women, not that men, per capita, have more sex that women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:49 AM
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Do you know what a strawman is?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:46 AM
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I speak in generalities. Those who can stay in love are the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:45 AM
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Even if that were true, it still doesn’t mean sex work should be banned, it just means you need more oversight lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:44 AM
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Sex work is work lol. What is it called again? Sex…wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:43 AM
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Never did. I just support sex work along with the many women that do and participate in it.How does this concern you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:42 AM
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Sex work isn’t inherently predatory. Your prejudice towards men is informing your opinions on sex work. What part is? The sex? Because that’s done in abundance. Or the fact that she gets paid for it? I see no issue, and most sex workers don’t see an issue. And money is the basis of everything in this society. There are certain things we rule out, like preying on children, mainly because the child isn’t old enough to consent. But when you take two consenting adults, their affairs, when voluntaril…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:49 PM
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Tl dr
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:21 PM
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Found the misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:20 PM
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But masseuse’s hands are? You don’t have a right to define what other women consider sacred on their body. Sex workers consider their bodies tools to make them money. Just like athletes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:20 PM
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Work isn’t supposed to be pleasurable. This is why I don’t like arguing with women, because you all don’t understand jack shit about the world. Work needs to be done and is unpleasant. Because it’s unpleasant, someone seeks money in order to do it. In turn, the work gets done, and that person uses that money to accomplish whatever end their seeking. That’s how work works. I used to build foundations for large buildings in construction, one of them was a women’s non-profit that didn’t hire men. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:18 PM
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Your argument only makes sense when you paint every sex worker as a slave lol. That’s simply not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:13 PM
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No one is loved truly unconditionally. The statement was to illustrate that love just kinda comes to women and children, men have to climb a mountain to get someone to care, and they only then care insofar as them caring keeps you around so you can keep benefitted them. Everything a woman does for a man is for her own survival. And no, I don’t actually love women…because I know them far too well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:11 PM
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How is me saying sex work should be legal saying that men should have a right to sex? You’re so reactionary that you hear what you want to hear. You’re arriving against a ghost. For the men that can afford a hooker, they should be able to seek their services. Wtf about that is entitlement? Read and comprehend, read and comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:06 PM
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I’ll be honest with you, right off the bat your utilitarian thinking is fantastical and would only work in a perfect society, it would have implications for women that you wouldn’t like. “For the greater good” would definitely place women barefoot and in the kitchen - for one. And I’d love to get into the penalties for the emotional manipulation most women do in relationships that in your world, would land them in jail for life. In your society there’s be no free men and free men are why you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:19 PM
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I supposed being a waste water diver is going to land you in perfect health? I supposed being an armed services member is completely safe. Jobs are AS SAFE AS WE MAKE THEM, but them being dangerous or risky doesn’t disqualify them from being valid jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:15 PM
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And abortion isn’t a need, it’s an option after you elect to have sex, and I don’t think we should go around killing kids to serve the whims of immature women. How’s that for not inconveniencing one part for the sale of serving another? Mind you, the very nature of jobs is that you inconvenience one party, to service another. Having a job is servicing others, and many jobs are dangerous, yet we don’t ban them. And plenty of women elect to go into sex work. And I will say sex is a need, just beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:13 PM
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…what “first signs” are you talking about? Realize why we have a legal system though that doesn’t assume guilt before the culprit of the prospective commission has committed the unlawful act.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:03 PM
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As for trafficking, you make laws for oversight to prevent it. The fact that some people are harmed at work isn’t good enough reason to disallow the work. Armed forces get killed to protect you. Stop that line of work? You know how many construction workers get killed or seriously injured making the buildings you sit comfortable and bitch about men from? How many delivery drivers pull muscles and get in accidents delivering things to a 95%-female customer base? And my care isn’t to help women, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:01 PM
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No but that’s not the point…. How does getting fucked disqualify sex work from being considered work? Because of physical touch? Because of pleasure? So is massage therapy not work? At its core, you’re rendering a service for someone else with a desire for it. Is that not what mcdonalds does?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:53 AM
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Sweetheart, what do you think a job is, if not a dedication to serving the needs of others?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 11:49 AM
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Marriage is about duty. Love is a feeling, and feelings change. If you want your marriage to be permanent, don’t base it on things that change. If you understand humans, you understand that love diminishes as familiarity increases. Which means that it’s normal to grow out of love. Which is why your relationships should be about duty if you want them to last. You’re asking women about love and relationships and seeing how often they leave relationships, I’d say that’s a bad idea. I promise you th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:14 AM
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You couldn’t be more wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:09 AM
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The problem is that this same argument could be made of every man became the ideal man today. Women would want the top 10% of those men. Then you’d come through with the sane argument of “men need to step up”. It’s best that you go understand how percentages work. No matter how good women get, women will only desire about 5% of men. You have to understand that nature balances. Men will reproduce non-stop…natures balance is that women throw a wrench in that. The wrench is that men will reproduce …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 04:07 AM
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Because there’s no such thing as an open relationship. Relationships are inherently exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:57 AM
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And toothbrushes don’t remove all bacteria so we shouldn’t use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:56 AM
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I used yo be against it but I’m for it. I think it actually helps women. As women desire less and less men, porn and prostitution (both sex work), are going to stave off the negative effects of an increasingly sexually repressed male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:27 AM
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Yes and no, sex is a necessity for humans to survive as a species. Of course you don’t need it, but again, it’s easy for a woman to say she can do without something she has access to an abundance of. And if sex work is in fact, work, I don’t see how the customers are any different than people ay a fast food joint buying food. There’s this idea along feminists where they decouple and couple sex from sanctity when it suits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:15 AM
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To be laconic, attraction extending from women to men is in large part driven by a man’s ability to protect, and getting fucked isn’t the role of a protector. Whereas, attraction extending from women to women is in large part driven by physical attractiveness and a genuine regard for the other person and their personality, and being the fucker or the fuckee doesn’t compromise either of those qualities. Chris Rock said it best, “Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:31 AM
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If you were a guy, you’re opinion would likely be different. As a guy, saying you’re against sex work is like a homeless person saying they’re against soup kitchens. There are two things humans need to survive 1. Protection/Provision 2. Reproduction Men are born into scarcity in both those areas. Men must gain, typically through mastery of some sort of skill, money, which gives them a shot at sex. It’s extremely hard to come across provision abs reproductive opportunities as a man. Most of the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:11 AM
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Yet women swear up and down these guys are top tier. Adam and Eve. It is easy to get women to bite fruit, as they are easily given to temptation. Not that I am or am not religious, but the sheer age of these stories shows just how far back the knowledge of men and women’s nature goes…yet somehow we don’t consult these timeless sources. It’s funny because if you let feminist apologists tell it, women know what’s best for them. I’m sorry, but you simply can’t deny the fact that women’s guy-selecto…
/r/seduction20/10/22 02:36 AM
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Np
/r/seduction26/09/22 02:00 AM
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Just get an escort. Honestly, modern women aren’t worth a damn if you’re looking for a relationship. When I say they are “dead weight” in relationships, I mean I can’t find a more quintessential example of “dead weight” than the modern woman. Their standards rose, meaning they expect you to be more, make more, etc..but they do less. All they really had to do was cook and clean to begin with…stuff they’d presumably be doing already as adults but now they practically stop cleaning when in a relati…
/r/seduction25/09/22 02:44 AM
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Yet more cliche advice. In this world the language is cut throat or get throat cut as far as relationships are concerned. Women see men s as a vehicle for safety and provision, and it’s time men stop looking at women as the loyal, soft, understanding, supportive, and motherly beings they want them to be and start seeing them as the self-absorbed, parasites they are. Yes I said parasites. A parasite picks a host and sucks the host dry of some sort of nutrients until the host falls ill and dies, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:09 AM
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This just simply isn't true, especially since everyone on this subreddit knows that even a below-average woman has ample opportunities for easy sex, whenever she desires it. Remember, we are talking about casual sex (and by extension, the possibility to cheat), not finding relationships. There’s a massive disparity between the average quality of a woman’s Available Sexual Options(guys who will fuck her), Desired Sexual Options(guys who will fuck her who she also wants to fuck), and Desired Avail…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:06 PM
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Never let a person’s lack of options convince you that they’re loyal. Chicks who who aren’t promiscuous tend to be physically undesirable. And no I’m not projecting. Women are serial monogamists. You are right that men tend to want harems, and women prefer one guy…but women have an almost insatiable desire for the BEST guy , and the pursuit of that guy is what makes them disloyal as the best guy is only the best guy until she meets a better guy, which, in a world of 3.5 billion men is a matter o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:10 PM
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Yeah, they’re spelled differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:18 PM
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Yeah that’s exactly what I meant, I meant to literally be Chris Hemsworth. I’m entirely sure every man can clone Hemsworth’s genetic makeup and superimpose it over their own, and then time travel so that they can go back and relive every experience Hemsworth had that gave him the disposition and success he has today. But apparently that’s impossible, which I didn’t know, so thanks for telling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:49 PM
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It’s what the redpill hints at but is too Chicken shit to say. The red pill is notorious got acknowledging the reality of circumstances but never acknowledging the inevitable results of their extrapolation. For example, a black piller will say “the room is filling up with water and there’s no way out…we are dead” a red piller will say “the room is filling up with water and there’s no way out…but if you looks max and grindset we can live”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:44 PM
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Yeah. Basically TRP Advice = Every guy needs to be Chris Hemsworth with regards to looks, money, and status. That’s not possible. Even if it were possible, it wouldn’t fix the problem of hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:24 AM
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If I ever get another girlfriend, I’d cheat. Absolutely. Men, being the risk takers, hunters, tribesmen, and warriors that we historically are value loyalty a lot more than women. Men value loyalty as a principle, women value loyalty as a tool, only useful insofar as it furthers some end they’re trying to meet. Women actually don’t understand loyalty all that much. If you look at how women pledge loyalty, it goes something like “I’ll be loyal to you so long as you remain the best, most convenien…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:14 AM
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A lot of “average” guys don’t even realize good looking “above average” guys aren’t getting laid either. Take it from me. Call me crazy but I’m starting to understand why me before us inhibited women’s sexuality so much. It’s like a fire, the more free you allow to be the more destructive it becomes. I say this because the most successful man on earth just came out and said population collapse is the most prescient issue facing civilization and it is only, I repeat, only, a first world problem. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:00 AM
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Doesn’t work. Terrible advice. Those are instructions to get cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:34 AM
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After 3 the chance of divorce skyrockets
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:50 PM
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Boom 💥
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:30 PM
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Ignore them. Any response is giving them what they want. Women can’t stand, and I do mean CANT STAND being ignored.
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:48 PM
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I don’t think so. For a woman yes, because the opportunities come to you. For guys, it’s like trying to get noticed by a casting director in a casting lineup deep as the population of Beijing. 1/3rd of men 30 and under now report no sec or intimacy within the past year, and/or virginity. Even if you’re a really good looking guy, if you don’t work a job where there’s a bunch of women and aren’t basically throwing yourself at chicks, the chances of you getting any are slim to none. Guys have to ch…
/r/seduction10/06/22 04:03 PM
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About being a virgin? Probably a lot, considering everyone is one at some point.
/r/seduction10/06/22 09:10 AM
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Yes. Women don’t care. Much like a dwarf telling you about her dating struggles. The best she’ll get is “I’m so sorry for you”…and you may genuinely be, but that won’t compel you to go out and date a dwarf… so in essence, what good did her alerting you of her struggles do unless it served as some kind of cathartic rant for her? Women are very much the same. There was a time when most women desired most men because women couldn’t work/ no that they can provide what the average man can provide, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:08 PM
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Here’s what I’m getting at. Thinks that aren’t actively kept in order, grow out of order. My issue with you has been that you seem to think women are above scrutiny, and that a man who calls them out on their bs is complaining or gay, or less than a man. My point is that like anything else, if you don’t check women, they will get out of control. Men check each other all the time. Our reality checks us. Life is hostile towards men, we are humbled day in and day out. But women, with dudes like you…
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:11 AM
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Yeah but what happens when grass isn’t cur, and what happens when you don’t bathe?
/r/seduction08/06/22 11:02 PM
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I’ve kinda noticed that they seem to be inseparable from pickup…like, pickup is life for them. It’s actually crazy because the more emphasis they put on getting women, naturally the more they will pedestalize them, and naturally the more odd they will come off to women. Here’s some real game…so many guys throw themselves at women that women tend to notice the guys who DON’T, not the ones that do, unless the ones that do are an insanely valued guys.
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:58 PM
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Okay, why do you bathe? And why does your landlord cut the grass?
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:52 PM
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Let me ask you something. Do you cut your grass, bathe, or cut your hair? Serious question too.
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:41 PM
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Nope, just revoking what’s mine because female tenants can’t uphold a reasonable standard.
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:42 PM
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Lol. I guess when I landlord enumerates everything he’s evicting you for he’s crying too.
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:39 PM
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These guys in the comments don’t know shit. It’s dick size. Women talk. Once word gets out that you’re hung, women. Will flock to you. All this other bullshit these dudes are mentioning is just that, bullshit. For every quality they associate with the guy you described I can name you a thousand dudes who have those same qualities and get no pussy. Trust me when I say this, having a big dick is the what is blessing that guy. Look at the most hung dude on earth, Jonah or whatever his name was…look…
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:35 PM
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Things are the way they are. When have I cried?
/r/seduction08/06/22 07:11 PM
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I said what I mean what I said. Since when are my decisions required to make sense to you?
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:50 PM
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Where did I say I liked men?
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:00 PM
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Seeing as going up to a stranger and asking to get to know them is something of the sort of weird that most men wouldn’t even consider doing to other men if merely looking for a friendship, I suppose not approaching random ass women with “I’d like to get to know you”, a poorly disguised request to fuck, is less about bravery and more about proper social calibration.
/r/seduction08/06/22 04:57 PM
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I. DON’T. WANT. A. WOMAN
/r/seduction08/06/22 04:43 PM
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Where was I crying uncontrollably? Where wasn't I being rational? And why is masculine ole you pontificating about masculinity with a fucking female as an avatar? Is this some kind of joke?
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:55 AM
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If you’re a guy it seems quite reasonable that you’d be 30 and kissless and a virgin. Basically, if you’re not out running a fucking ad campaign for dates and pestering the fuck out of women, there’s a good chance you’re a virgin.
/r/seduction07/06/22 11:55 PM
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I must’ve forgotten, nature didn’t make men with emotions. Silly me lol.
/r/seduction07/06/22 11:45 PM
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I’ve come to view women this way as a result of dealing with women. I’m the substitute teacher who became jaded AFTER teaching the rowdy class, not before. I don’t “struggle” with women anymore though because I don’t date. I’ve realized there are some stilts that held relationships up and have been kicked down by feminism and family law, and because the foundation necessary to sustain relationships has itself collapsed, nothing can be built on it. Tell me what institution, given to women, and en…
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:28 PM
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That exists, but the bitch in attractive women comes out when you get to know them. Attractive women paint a stellar picture on the outside. When you see their bottomless inappreciativeness, how manipulative and wickedly deceitful they are, and our cutthroat and remediless their infidelity is, you’ll understand what I’m saying.
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:15 PM
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I’ve been telling guys this. I’m an absolute stud when it comes to looks, and I’m 6’1. I have the same problems a lot of these self-proclaimed “incels” have. Now, I’m not well off. I think I do okay financially at $60k, but I’m nothing to look at when it comes to money so I can’t speak to the ease or difficulty of getting women AND getting them to cooperate as a guy with money…but as a guy with looks, women are still: Disloyal Unlikely to initiate ANYTHING Worthless considering they require you …
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:33 PM
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Same
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:01 PM
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A dude, honest truth here. Dating today is messed up. If you come to like someone, truth is you will get attached. It’s normal, it’s healthy. God forbid a close relative die, but you will be sacked by their passing. That’s healthy, that’s normal. This is why I don’t date. I’ve been screwed over, seen guys get screwed over, and so forth…and I’ve seen these attitudes on both sides of the fence. Bud, dating isn’t about love or companionship. It’s about mating. It’s somehow the only thing we make li…
/r/seduction06/06/22 11:35 AM
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Bud, if you can't figure out where to meet chicks...in college...you are in for a living hell when you get out. I'd have an easier time meeting chicks in college than I would if I worked at a nail salon...because it's a good chance that in the nail salon it's only married women and single moms. College is like ground-zero for dating and relationships and men are outnumbered. Figure it the fuck out, "engineering" student...engineer a way to walk your ass down to the cafeteria and start a convo lo…
/r/seduction05/06/22 04:41 PM
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Statistically she will cheat on those guys. Statistically, if they get married there’s a little over a 1 in 2 chance they will divorce, and 88% of the time she will pull that trigger. And statistically most relationships fail before they ever reach marriage. My point is, relationships are largely a joke and I think you think of them far too seriously. I say this because should you get one, you will likely be too overinvested to keep it - yeah, you read that right. And even before that, you’re pr…
/r/seduction19/05/22 01:13 PM
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is Point to where I claimed my life was great… This whole back and forth is because you have some contrived image of who you think I am rather than a fragment of an actual idea of who I am. You foolishly assume the only people who could possibly critique the infallible modern woman are guys who has never been laid… because geniuses reach such coherent conclusions apparently…I will commend you on your SJW act…it’s believable, among other things…
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:37 PM
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Nah I just think it’s a tired lackluster insult people who lack the intellectual capacity to think for themselves use to herd the ones who do back into the flock. The problem is, as a sheep, shame is something you react highly to, so you project that and assume a mere name has the same effect on the intellectually brazen individuals you despise for being the outspoken trailblazers you lack the testicular density to become. If you were smart you’d realize there are plenty of 6’1, buff, tatted, mo…
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:21 PM
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Am I supposed to care that you call me incel lol? It’s damn near a badge of honor these days because the only guys who get the label are the only ones who ever dare criticize a woman.
/r/seduction17/05/22 11:15 PM
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Put it like this, when it comes to dating and getting high quality results, ask yourself, “what would a quality brand [McClaren, Hermes, Balmain, Gucci, Bentley] do?” Do they chase people? Do they “approach”? Do they really even act like they’re pressed about customers? No. They focus on their product, let those who come, come, and only treat well those who buy frequently. Walk into a Bentley dealership and don’t look like a million bucks, watch how you get treated Waste a Balmain reps time and …
/r/seduction13/05/22 09:37 PM
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Someday men will learn, the less of a fuck you give about women, the mote attracted they are to you. I can’t stress this enough. Stop. Giving. A. Shit. About. Women. Don’t pay them any mind. Don’t even acknowledge them. They will eventually think “why isn’t that guy kissing my ass like literally every other guy does?” And boom, there’s the interest. Schedule a date? Don’t. What dude with a life bothers with a fucking date? You want to see her? Say “we should fuck sometime”. She’s flakes or think…
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:55 PM
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Man, I wasn’t born yesterday. You can’t get women. You’re not rich. And you’re not talented. You’re some miserable low life prowling the forum to try and derive some dignity in trolling people with the same problems as you to convince yourself that for once in life you’re better than someone at something. Get the fuck on with your bullshit bud. Pathetic pos.
/r/seduction13/05/22 01:18 PM
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Sure you are, that’s why you’re on r/seduction lol
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:07 PM
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Your lack of knowledge of history is apparent. Look up the case on Metropolitan where editors were encouraged to promote the single life for the sake of profits. Single women rent apartments, buy cars, and are slaves to their jobs, not the families they don’t have. Look at Tinder, wtf do you think that is? You think it doesn’t make money? You’ve got about as much knowledge as a squirrel bud, which is sad because the world is still happening to you all the same…you’re just at the mercy of luck be…
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:47 PM
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Nah, I just think capitalism deliberately dealt a death blow to relationships via feminism for the sake of profits and no one seems to understand yet that capitalism will turn everything into a profit motive.
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:35 PM
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Bud, a lot of men are in your predicament. Don’t feel alone. Dating today for men is an absolute shitshow. I would feel comfortable telling guys not to do it. I was actually happier pre my first ever relationship than post. Women are RUTHLESS and dating is pretty much just about them. Dating for 95% of guys is really just like a season of the Bachelorette where you’re doing back flips, busting money, and pouring your heart out to get a mere text reply from a chick you know is getting piledriven …
/r/seduction11/05/22 06:35 AM
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Well then you don’t deserve to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:49 PM
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Make shitty music, make a mockery of your appearance, and be polarizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:18 PM
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Agreed. But there’s also the fact they swear up and down dating has to do with looks. I promise you, status and money will change everything. Kodak Black pulls DYMES! Tell me that’s because of his looks… and dude is like 5’6.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:25 PM
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Terrible advice. OP shouldn’t continue pursuing. If women want men to do all the work in the courting process the very fucking least they can do is carry a conversation. Who gives a shit about her social anxiety, that’s not his problem. He should leave her alone.
/r/seduction05/05/22 08:11 AM
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Just go out. A dude who is in a dance class, whether a woman wants to admit it or not, is instantly perceived as a bitch. Got out. Make eye contact with a woman, just don’t be a creep about it. Women who like you will look at you occasionally, women who don’t, won’t. If they give you the green light, say something. If they don’t, keep it moving. It’s simple.
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:36 AM
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Save yourself the embarrassment
/r/seduction05/05/22 01:18 AM
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Men think this way because if you’re not Chris Hemsworth in the looks department, you getting an above-Mama-June looking woman unless you’re something at least somewhat resembling rich is slim to none nowadays. Guys obsess about money because life doesn’t start for most guys until they have enough of it. It’s like, at some point guys stop believing the “pErSoNaLiTy aNd cOnFiDeNcE” bs when they look at Kenan Thompson and examine why the fuck they share the same goofy-ass looks and beta-ass charac…
/r/seduction05/05/22 01:14 AM
1

She likes you. Women who don’t like you won’t respond. Every girl “has a boyfriend”, especially of they’re hot. Listen, I don’t have respect for cheaters at all or the people that provoke cheaters. All the chicks out here and you have to meddle in what someone else has… Just realize, what goes around does come around.
/r/seduction03/05/22 07:19 AM
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Bud, she likes him.
/r/seduction03/05/22 07:15 AM
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No guy is a chick magnet. You probably whored yourself out, played the numbers game, and saw more success than most guys because you were a bit better looking. Drake, Chris Hemsworth, Jason Momoa are “chick magnets”. To be a chick magnet as a guy, looks matter very little. You just have the fame and money to go with the looks.
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:10 PM
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Correction, if you don’t apptoach you will avoid all the women not meant for you. By being selected, you filter out the ones who don’t truly like you. Guys tend to think that by approaching you somehow increase a woman’s attractiveness to you. If a woman goes to the store, doesn’t want a banana, and a banana jumps in her cart, do you think she wants that banana any more than she did before? Approaching a woman is like not getting invited to a part and then asking the host for an invite. Bud, she…
/r/seduction20/04/22 12:49 PM
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She still knows you wanted HER, not the other way around… I’m telling you, women select in dating so it’s best to just leave it to them. You do NOT want to be the guy she took for any other reason than she was insanely attracted to you. When you’ve settled into a relationship about 60% of her interest in you disappears anyway because women will always imagine men to be more attractive than they are (which is actually why you should never commit to a woman). So approaching women is how a lot of h…
/r/seduction19/04/22 12:56 PM
4

I don’t want to tell you what to do, but that’s what I’d do. Women are weird man. For the ones under 30, you get better results the less effort you put into them.
/r/seduction18/04/22 01:04 PM
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Be indifferent to her presence. If I take a Lamborghini from an average man, he will fight, kick, and scream. If I take a Lamborghini from Jeff Bezos, so fucking what. When you become indifferent to her coming and going, she knows that you can replace her, and the only person capable of replacing valuable people is a valued person. Basically, however compelled by your endorphins you are to act a certain when she’s around, act the exact opposite. Women will tell you don’t do this but I shit you n…
/r/seduction18/04/22 12:28 PM
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I genuinely don’t think smart men approach. Like, if you understand what a man must be in order to be considered by a woman, the work that goes into it, and understand the risk factor in approaching, a genuinely intelligent man would not approach a woman. Suffice it to say that there’s a link between women’s constant complaining about dumb assholes in relationships and dumb assholes being the only men dumb enough to approach. A man approaching a woman would be like Bugatti throwing fliers into p…
/r/seduction14/04/22 11:40 PM
5

Let her go dude. Women will go after what they’re attracted to. Attraction isn’t negotiable, especially not with women. If she’s “losing interest”, she has typically lost interest and is only texting you out of guilt. Leave her alone and go find something else.
/r/seduction09/04/22 08:17 AM
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You’re trying to argue morality. To an older man wanting to fuck a younger girl, he’s never going to understand my point of view. Most of society understands though, so you’re the one who’s the odd one out here. Much like there’s nothing technically wrong with shitting in public but a moral, civil society doesn’t do it…
/r/seduction06/04/22 06:11 PM
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Again, a 40 year old man would’ve been a sophomore in college when his 20 year old wife is just being born. A 20 year difference is what you expect from a parent to child, not two romantic partners. It’s predatory because we know there’s nothing the two have in common other than the fact that they’re both predatory. The woman typically wants his money, and he’s typically prowling for young tail. It’s a prostitution-themed relationship.
/r/seduction06/04/22 12:11 AM
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Lee WS, McKinnish T. The Marital Satisfaction of Differently Aged Couples. J Popul Econ. 2018 Apr;31(2):337-362. doi: 10.1007/s00148-017-0658-8. Epub 2017 Jul 15. PMID: 31598035; PMCID: PMC6785043. “We investigate how the marital age gap affects the evolution of marital satisfaction over the duration of marriage using household panel data from Australia. We find that men tend to be more satisfied with younger wives and less satisfied with older wives. Interestingly, women likewise tend to be mor…
/r/seduction05/04/22 07:51 PM
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Buddy, come down from Mars…Everything you said I’ve heard before, but the problem is these suppositions about how men and women behave don’t comport with reality. Women getting with older men is statistically anomalous and when it does happen the relationship has a hardly above zero chance of lasting. You got to ask yourself why if younger women are so attracted to older men, them going for older men is a shooting star event in the dating atmosphere? Even with the ones who do go after older men,…
/r/seduction05/04/22 06:35 PM
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Women choose men their age. Older men and younger women were typically a result of force. The woman was sold off by her father to the older guy.
/r/seduction05/04/22 03:44 PM
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You’re definitely too old for her. She wasn’t born and you were a sophomore in college…
/r/seduction05/04/22 01:28 PM
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