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| – | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s riskyYeah, I was on a fense about who should pay on a date, but after ppd, I'm mostly in men should pay camp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 05:47 PM |
| – | Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt.For real, they are so good at this philosophical theorizing, they don't understand that it's life for us. Even more, it's their issue too, because that makes women tired and reluctant to be available to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 04:07 PM |
| – | Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore.Then have you talked to women? Like men suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 03:58 PM |
| – | Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt.https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1uy1ruv/women_being_sexually_selective_with_their_own/ You need to go into the comments to see that men don't understand and that OP actually complains about not being able to do the same, it's not that obvious in the post (tho it's pretty close to it imo) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 03:17 PM |
| – | Men following other men's advices because you "don't ask a fish how to fish" is pretty stupideThe thing is it's wrong because we assume that those men's goal is to get women. But what if we are looking at this wrong. What is those men's goal is to belong in some form of a brotherhood? They would need then to share common views or something in common, and in this case their ideology about dating and gender. Women are secondary here, they would add status points, but changing their view will mean losing so much, that no woman is worth it. So they follow gurus and they chat with their bro's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 02:45 PM |
| – | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s risky"That's a very generous interpretation - towards him, and very ungenerous towards her. Do you find it unbelievable that some men change after children? Or hide their characters until children are involved?" - do men show their true colors when they think that woman is locked? Yes. But do they show signs before - also yes. It's in woman's best interests to learn and spot those tells before she decides to do something drastic like marriage or having a baby Edit. to be clear, it's still his actions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 02:34 PM |
| – | What do you think of declining birthrates?Okay, yes, it's big picture. Pregnancy - women screwed. Dosage of any drug - women screwed. Diagnosis - women screwed Funding on health studies in general? about 1/8 of men's issues i think, if i remember correctly, and it also might be a joke, because i remember that study about endometriosis "are women with endo more attractive to men compared to healthy". But it's boring, because you don't see or pretend not to about what you actually did. And then looking at the big picture means argument in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 12:38 PM |
| – | Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt.Recently there was a post where a guy threw pity party because his ex let her abuser used her as a sex doll and didn't let do the same for this guy. What was interesting to me is how many men couldn't comprehend that this woman didn't enjoy that and didn't want repetition of bad experience. They simply called it kinky, and the fact that she didn't allow next guy kinky relationship that she did enjoy was because she was evil apparently. When i read threads like that and this one it's just obvious… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 12:36 PM |
| – | What do you think of declining birthrates?I still stand by that, and one example doesn't tramples my 100. If you don't want to be seen as nitpicking for the sake of arguing even if you're wrong, then look at the big picture and don't try to maliciously manipulate data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 12:25 PM |
| – | What do you think of declining birthrates?So basically you nitpicked my argument (in a stupid way to be honest because how breast cancer is connected to pregnancy, and erases other issues i don't know, it's just malicious misrepresentation of data), you did it in a way to make me sound wrong, but when pressed you started to pretend you didn't mean it that way. Yeah, maybe that "plausible deniability" would work on someone, not on me, tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 12:11 PM |
| – | Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt."Why is it okay if men give each other these strategies as advice but when we are talking about how these strategies are removing consent from women it is bad? Why are the alpha bros that spout this kind of shit on their podcasts glorified and they make a lot of money of it but when it is viewed through the lens of the victims of these strategies men are suddenly absolutely outraged how it is portrayed? This is such a hypocrite pearl clutching." Because that means that men who do that have to ad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 11:51 AM |
| – | Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s riskyAlright, hear me out. It is possible to be 50/50 and have children. But that requires agreements beforehand. And it's not romantic. It's financial agreements between partners and creating financial security for both of them. It's really not romantic to sit and talk about "hey, you want kids, then i want to be paid for being pregnant and lets decide how we separate costs for doctor visits and birth, i want to be paid for looking after child, because if i won't we would've paid a nanny, so i'll ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 11:35 AM |
| – | What do you think of declining birthrates?Alright, i'm wrong, women are totally studied and pregnant women have variety of drugs they can safely take if they are sick, women are rich all over the planet, the poor are only men, and there are no robots that are taking human's work. So what is the issue then? Seems like great world, only women for some reason lie about their issues, probably just spoiled, am i right. So why they don't want kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 11:24 AM |
| – | What do you think of declining birthrates?Oh, fuck, i wanted to write about couple of sentences but no, too much. Have no idea who is going to read that, but hell, i needed to say all of this. Why is this an issue? Just think about it. Less than century ago there were 2 billions of us. only 2. Now 8.5? Who said that we need to maintain that number or that we need to increase it? Honestly it feels like those fake weird issues. I remember how when i was a kid there was a panic about "we're overpopulating a planet, we need to stop", not it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 09:26 AM |
| – | Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore.Honestly, i liked sexting, but now i realized that ai is way better than men, and i'm satisfied and will probably never turn to men for sexting. At least ai knows women's anatomy and won't tell me "do you like to take my cock inside your clit".... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 07:47 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵the part where you described "woman's" life sounds like a horror story. Also i like how there is a women who supposedly enjoy strangers attention, but when you go to the male part suddenly women don't want to talk to strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 07:45 AM |
| – | Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore.yeah, when you stand on the other side of that "women get too much attention that it get into their head" you start to see all those men as crazy. "bb show pussy" supposed to get into my head? It's like saying that when homeless people ask for pennies it goes into men's head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 07:43 AM |
| – | Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore.Again, it wasn't valuable to begin with. It's not that i'm drowned in great attention so it's lost value. I'm drowned in shit, and it was never valuable. The good attention is still precious. It never lost value. Probably gained when i see how much shit is around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 06:28 AM |
| – | The cost of living crisis is in a large part contributed to by the ability of women to pursue careers.Exactly, selfish men, society is at risk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 06:25 AM |
| – | Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore.What most of you are missing is that you think that men's attention is some sort of prize, and i mean that it's high quality. And it's not. That's the issue. Attention can be different, and not all of it is pleasant. High quality attention is still one of the most sought after thing, it's precious. But it's rare to come by. This OP implies that women already getting what they wanted so when a nice guy comes into her life there is no place for him anymore, it's a race everyone lost already. And t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 06:23 AM |
| – | The cost of living crisis is in a large part contributed to by the ability of women to pursue careers.Sorry, nobody cares about men's tiers when economy falls! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 06:54 PM |
| 5 | Genuine question for feminists"This has always bothered me. It just reflects the truth. Female empowerment only seeks more power not justice. Western women have truly become insufferable imo" - how do you deal with the fact that this system was for centuries? Like why do you even blame feminists as if we implemented that? To answer your question, i have no position personally, it's complicated matter with obvious issues. One being human rights and personal right for his life. Another being protection of society, and if nobod… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 06:53 PM |
| 15 | Why do so many women end up choosing the guy who was simply more present?Why not? Why should i be attracted to someone who is useless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 06:45 PM |
| – | The cost of living crisis is in a large part contributed to by the ability of women to pursue careers.Don't care about what? Why do you care about what women want when you need to save society and economy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 06:44 PM |
| 8 | Could having standards that are too high be helped with therapy?Well what is your answer? I'm sure you're not attracted to ALL people, so what if you went to therapist with that issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 06:43 PM |
| 7 | Why do so many women end up choosing the guy who was simply more present?Well if i experience spontaneous desire that is independent of what a man does or says then it's not towards that man. It's just i'm feeling horny. "And why is that?" - why extraversion is more attractive? Because it's connected to social skills, and guess what, social stills are important and more advanced ones give well advantage in communication. obvious, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 06:34 PM |
| 16 | Why do so many women end up choosing the guy who was simply more present?and being extraverted is more attractive in general. So what confuses you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 06:24 PM |
| 27 | Why do so many women end up choosing the guy who was simply more present?A man has to be present for a woman to choose him, what a novel idea. And what's the alternative? Him being on the other side of the world and she met him in her dream?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 06:19 PM |
| 24 | Why do so many women end up choosing the guy who was simply more present?"I don’t think he was necessarily better-looking, more interesting, or more compatible with her." - and that's just your opinion. You don't know what she thought about him. "the one who checks in, spends time with them, listens, and gradually becomes part of their everyday routine." - one: it shows that she likes him because she lets him be a part of her life. and two: well duh? it's one of the attractive qualities, it also shows that he was interested in her. People like people who enjoy them, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 06:12 PM |
| – | The cost of living crisis is in a large part contributed to by the ability of women to pursue careers.Well because it's weird as fuck, but who cares about women's ick if you need to save the economy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 06:06 PM |
| -5 | Red pill failed menBasically "nuh-uh, trust me bro". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 05:40 PM |
| -2 | Red pill failed menWell that's failing men. It's not failing those at the top of the scheme, but it is destructive for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 05:27 PM |
| – | The cost of living crisis is in a large part contributed to by the ability of women to pursue careers.Well sacrifice for economy. Don't be selfish! Fix society! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 05:00 PM |
| – | The cost of living crisis is in a large part contributed to by the ability of women to pursue careers.There is an easy fix. Women want to work, you want to save the economy - let women work and let men become homemakers. They should leave workforce and only allowed to work part time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 02:49 PM |
| 1 | If sex isn’t something to be ashamed of, then don’t hide your desires for it.Okay, this is just outright weird. "Sex isnt the only thing I want” So how long are you willing to wait before having?" - food also isn't the only thing i want but that doesn't mean i will wait. Okay, food is necessity. Just having pleasant conversations isn't the only thing i need for relationship, but i'm not going to wait for that conversation for months. It's okay if someone will, but i'm not, and there is nothing wrong with that. "If someone wasn’t that good at first, would you be OK teachi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 02:43 PM |
| 0 | Red pill failed menThen you're blind or decide to not call them red pillers for your comfort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 02:35 PM |
| -2 | Red pill failed menSo far i see red pillers blaming women for: being too quick to fuck someone, not being quick enough to fuck them, not approaching, wanting to be paid for on a date, being shallow, not being shallow enough, lying....from the top of my head | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 02:25 PM |
| 0 | Red pill failed menYeah, that's what i'm talking about. And a lot of red pill is simply feeding into that loser mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 01:57 PM |
| 0 | Red pill failed menSeems like many men don't enjoy the fall, whatever the fall supposed to mean. And they blame everyone for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 01:51 PM |
| -2 | Red pill failed men"The Red Pill is about learning all the negative & positive nature of women's behaviour and biology" - is it really? What do they do with it? they see some patterns and instead of looking for reasons and how they can use them, they chose the most venomous explanation for that patterns that portray women as some evil masterminds that want men to fail, and then just boil in their hate and self righteousness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 01:45 PM |
| 0 | Red pill failed menAlright, i'll take your word for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 01:43 PM |
| 3 | Red pill failed menI say "if they are to be trusted". But honestly? I've talked to some og redpillers even here, and they are different from others that i see. I also read oys on married red pill from time to time, and it's also different from what other red pill men do and say. I might disagree with values, but they have accountability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 01:38 PM |
| -9 | Red pill failed menAm i supposed to believe that? How many times have you heard "shut up man, your job is to fix my drawer and mown the lawn not talking, men are incapable of thinking"? What about "I don't care about men's personality, i just want to use them and dump them"? If you don't see how men hate women, then you have an issue in your perception of reality and dare i say you don't really talk to women and if you do, you're not close and not someone they can trust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 01:37 PM |
| -2 | Red pill failed menAgain, if og red pill was about how to become better, it decided to drop their own values to sell hate. Men before also came hateful, but if we trust og redpillers, they say that the rage phase wan't supported. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 01:33 PM |
| – | Red pill failed menJust curious, what makes misandrist serial? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Red pill failed menAnd yet many red pill men are. And then if we look at red pill influencers they are not really pillars of own your shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Red pill failed menYes, i understand all of that. And yet red pill fell victim to selling what is easy but destructive to everyone, men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 12:52 PM |
| 0 | Red pill failed menI'm not sure i'm willing to blame parents here. I have no desire to protect them, but there are factors that are complicate situation. 1) right now the conditions for kids are not ideal with men basically lacking male models, and it's not even men's fault completely, before than there was a village, and it's easier to find men role models in the village instead of nuclear family where father is also spends his time working. 2) i've heard some mention of a study that actually parents are not as i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 12:49 PM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.And? The analogy was used to show that there are expectations that are not written yet everyone understand by behavior. It doesn't mean that every mechanic is exactly the same in friendship and in dating. But to be more accurate if you want to play in analogy would be you helping a friend and when you need help he simply stops being your friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 12:11 PM |
| 3 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You both making me cry... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 12:02 PM |
| 1 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm sorry you feel this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 11:54 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.That would be one thing. Then they also refuse to put any effort into sex if it's just sex. And then most men as simply not pleasant especially for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 11:21 AM |
| 2 | A man who can effortlessly get sex is exalted. A man who desires to have sex but is unsuccessful is seen as "entitled "How is that weird? They don't have to get any sex to be entitled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 11:07 AM |
| 1 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No, they were never the issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 11:06 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.I think there just not enough women who are into hookup. Wonder why... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 11:06 AM |
| 2 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵women. Women engaging in good faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 10:50 AM |
| – | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.I cannot decide for other people what they want. I'm not in a habit to give advice based on MY wants and not another persons. So it's stupid to ask me what would i advise if i don't know what men even want to do with that. If they just want to go on then my advise would be to go on like that. If they want to change then it's a different issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 10:44 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.ah, yes, undersood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 10:36 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Sorry what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 10:29 AM |
| – | It is not true that consenting homemakers are considered "valid" by feminism."It is still seen as a pure negative, and the simple proof of that is that it is not considered a privilege, while women have significantly better chances at this than men to this day." - wonder why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 10:27 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric."If he directly promised something, you have a case. If she assumed he would, it's a bit more murky." - we're not in court. Human's relationship doesn't work like that and everyone knows it. When you become friends with someone you don't draft the contract with outlining of your intentions and help obligations, and yet everyone knows it and expects it because of how you behave. Can men change their mind - sure. But as i've said here to someone else, lets not play dumb and pretend that men don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 10:24 AM |
| 1 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Bad interactions with men don't have to come from someone women choose either, never stops the guys to tell to "choose better" or "it your fault for attracting such men" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 10:08 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.I seem to think that consent depends on many conditions, such as knowing intentions. Simply ask a question - if you were to tell the truth about how you feel would you get sex? if you have doubts or you know that the answer is "no" then what are you arguing about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 10:06 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Yes, sex is a thing you give in exchange for things. Things being - "you like me", "you make me feel desired", "you make me feel hot", "i like you"...etc. They are individual. So expecting sex from a stranger who doesn't like you and who you don't like is entitlement. Expecting sex from a woman simply because you find her hot is entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 09:49 AM |
| 1 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Then you'd understand my parody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 09:42 AM |
| 5 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I don't understand why men are scared of false accusations? Can they just not choose those women? Choose better, you're responsible for your choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 09:40 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.It's not hookup. Hookup is honest. This is exploitative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 09:38 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.On contrary, it's entitlement to expect sex without anything in return no matter your treatment of a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 09:36 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric."Why is consent such a difficult topic around here?" - because then they have to look at their questionable behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.If you mean they aren't horny dogs who see men's forearm and try to jump him and then blame him for their lack of control then yeah, women aren't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 09:27 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Men on this sub basically everyday: "Haha, he just pump and dump, what did you expect, all men want that, haha, of course he told her what she wanted to hear, all women demand a man being a jester and entertain her to get sex, men only want sex..... " Men when women say that they didn't agree to this: "We? we never wanted this. What if man just honest but changes his mind later? why did you assume that he had any intentions to use her for sex?" Is this weaponized idiocy or what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 09:03 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.I don't know about punishment. But i'm still calling out the behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 08:48 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Again, i told about consent under false premises, don't switch the subject. You know exactly what i'm talking about. This is ridiculous and insulting to be honest. Men can't shut up about how many men "pump and dump" but as soon as women say something about that, you make a surprise pikachu face and pretend you're completely innocent and that never happens and how dare i imply that men can be dishonest. fuck that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 08:47 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Seems like you don't understand the topic of conversations, and i have no idea about personally you and what you do to get sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 08:36 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Oh please, this is argument ad absurdum and this ignores reality that men and women know that men pretend and lie to get sex. And men fight for that "right" to lie because they won't get sex otherwise - which is in indicator that there is no clear consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 08:32 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Again, if they agreed under false pretences then they didn't enjoy it with you, they had sex with a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 08:31 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Oh please, don't pretend we all don't know that men lie and pretend to get sex. It's common knowledge and pretend that it's not so is just insulting everyone's intelligence including your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 08:30 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Women feel used when they were used for sex. Because they didn't just agreed to sex, they thought they guy was into them. So the guy lied and pretended to be into them, and wasn't honest and that's hot he got consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 08:04 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Where am i wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 07:59 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.You think men should lie to get sex under false pretence? Would you like a seller to lie to you to get your money because he really wanted it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 07:58 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Consent acquired under false premises isn't a consent. So if a man pretended to be someone interested in relationship and got sex in this conditions because of this lie - that wasn't consensual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.No? But i can't control men now, can i? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 07:32 AM |
| 6 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Ahaha, that's funny, thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 06:37 AM |
| 3 | JOIN DISCORD OUR DISCORD - N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYour stats are different? did you grind your flirt and charisma? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 06:29 AM |
| 5 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My opinion hasn't changed, i knew pretty much the situation for men already. All i learn here is what in men's head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.Women in general don't complain about lack of agency | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.No, because advice should come for people who want to change something, I don't see it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.And then men tell that they are desperate and it's hard...pff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.I have enough, I don't have issues with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.I don't buy that this is what was meant in OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.I don't buy it, that "women should approach only men they like", i feel like it's backtracking. The first part of op is totally about cold approach, so i assume it's all about cold approach, and women have been telling men a lot that they need to know a man to develop attraction. So it's either backtracking, or delusion to imagine that women are so interested in strangers, they just hold themselves back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.Do you think women don't do that already? Women either do, when they like the guy, or they want to be approached, and if a guy doesn't she isn't interested, it's her compatibility test. So i don't see how that will change anything. Men are way way more interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 04:29 PM |
| 4 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.But to pay for that they have to approach men they have no interest in? How is that better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Great in whose opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity."locking down commitment" doesn't mean much on itself. Commitment from who and on what conditions. And looks here again come at play. Because commitment by itself isn't some kind of prize. I can get the local homeless alcoholic commit to me easy peasy. Is it worth something to me? No, it's net negative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.They already do. Others they are not interested in, and are just willing to give a chance in a man in convincing. And there are women who want to be approached regardless because of their cultural norms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 04:04 PM |
| -1 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.But to pay for that they have to approach men they have no interest in? How is that better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsI don't describe women for two reasons. They are not the topic of conversation, and i don't fuck them, and unlike men i don't pretend to know how it is to fuck a gender i don't fuck. So your accusation is miles off. But that's okay, men rarely can handle any unflattering truth, and as i've said this thing they are not willing admit, nothing surprising here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsI just love how men think that "women do it too" is a form of disagreement. Lets assume you're right. So what? How does that change my statement? It didn't. So you just want to pull attention from men in attempt to make them look good and shiny. You said "women do it too" so you agree that men do it. So my statement is right, and then you just can't handle the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsDo they get pilloried by me? No, then i have nothing to do with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.Often women just sent "hi", how that changed your pace? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 02:52 PM |
| 4 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.Honestly it was stupid move. We already matched, why does he needs to wait until i initiate conversation, me matching is already consent. I feel like the idea of women approaching first and dating apps not really compatible because of mechanics of dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 02:44 PM |
| 8 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.I see that men benefit from women approaching, how women benefit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 02:25 PM |
| – | Contrary to stereotypes, older women are often much kinder, sluttier and less entitled than younger and same-aged womenthat's questionable. Also not really that easy to say about even one woman. I'm kinder to some men, and i'm angrier to some compared to younger me, that's what experience does. So am i kinder now or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 02:20 PM |
| 1 | JOIN DISCORD OUR DISCORD - N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThen orgasm gap is a fiction lol, none of the actors cum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsThere are too many assumptions about me to actually answer that question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 12:11 PM |
| – | Immediate disqualifying factors are viewed as something negative by the person disqualifyingDefine negative? Because the way i see it - it's negative in the meaning that i don't like it, but it might be neutral when i don't evaluate for dating. Examples are: 1) i don't want to date a man who is from different cultural background (for example). I think it will just lead to many frictions and miscommunications and issues when out cultures will clash. Not to mention language barrier that will probably also add to issues. But that doesn't mean i see all people with different cultural backg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 11:08 AM |
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| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.This is idiotic. Now say the same things about sailors. Say the same things about mothers. Say the same thing about lizards. That's how ridiculous that sounds. Every situation, generalized it might be calls for different conclusions and reactions. But it was obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 08:45 AM |
| -1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.I'm sorry you don't understand my points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.You can imagine whatever allegory you want, it doesn't make it prettier, not makes any sense to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 08:40 AM |
| 5 | JOIN DISCORD OUR DISCORD - N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhy do some men think they know how other men fuck women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 07:23 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm laughing that you think you got me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 07:02 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I like how the most stupid men think that they are logical because men are logical. When stupid people don't have skills but they want to feel superior they always go for generalizations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 06:36 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The risk of autism in kinds is heavily associated with father's age, and scientists recommend him to be no older than 30. Seems like men have the wall now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.a lot of text to say that women should compromise on looks, and my question is why should they? Men treat it like all women have to choose a man, but they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 05:11 AM |
| 2 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?No, you didn't, but we can stop here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 07:24 PM |
| 2 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?This is everything but answer to my question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 06:55 PM |
| 5 | We pathologize male passivity in dating but reward female passivity and nobody can explain why without circular logicAnd yet filtering it's pretty active process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 06:52 PM |
| 8 | We pathologize male passivity in dating but reward female passivity and nobody can explain why without circular logicWomen don't approach because they don't have to, unless they are really interested, as you've mentioned, and don't want to wait or risk losing a chance. Men have to approach in modern reality because they can't just create a dating app profile and get so many matches that all they have to do is vet. This is simply reality right now, and that's why people give different advice to men and women. Women are waiting for the one they like. Their issue isn't lack of male attention, it's lack of men who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 06:51 PM |
| 5 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?Then why are you measuring by financial contribution and not working hours? Would it be fair if you could work 2 hours a day and bring twice as much as her for 8 hour shift and for her to do chores since you brought more money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 06:07 PM |
| 1 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?Okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 06:06 PM |
| 7 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?Do you expect her to work also? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 05:31 PM |
| 4 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?"willing to pull her weight," - what do you mean by that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 05:29 PM |
| 4 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?Fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 05:29 PM |
| 11 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?your gender likes to pretend that they are logical, well lets use logic. When did she imply that men are capable of making women do everything they want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 05:28 PM |
| 8 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?Totally valid response. I know that "what do you bring to the table" is usually transactional, but i do think that people who value different things would understand that those are also on a table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 05:22 PM |
| 3 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?Of course, but from their perspective they will see what women bring to the table from the point of what they value. then they also might not see many things that they value but think are default. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 05:07 PM |
| 1 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?Fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 05:06 PM |
| 5 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsSex workers sell fantasy that men want. Now your turn, why do you think you know more about men in sex in dating than i do? Why do you think that simply being a man trumps everything i know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsDo what you want, i'm just saying that it's weird when you have your circumstances and she has hers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsNah, it's not like that. Just like for those women it's not like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 04:47 PM |
| 4 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsEven if it's 20 it's bigger observation pool than yours of another straight man's. You don't know how men behave in dating in sex. You know what they say. You know what they and you like to think. You don't know more than you know. and that is apparently really hard pill to swallow. somehow i have to have more than a 1000 men experience and my observations are still don't count, but men can just imagine something, and he is all good. Misogyny or stupidity? Or both? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 04:28 PM |
| 5 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsGood luck with that, and this is simply not reality. Because i'm a woman, and when i say i want to have sex, my issue is to vet all men who are interested. Yours is to find a woman who will be interested. the circumstances are not equal, so doing equal effort is simply weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsThey would fuck differently. They would talk about it differently. If you actually want to understand, imagine a woman, who doesn't want to have sex, but does it to keep a man and get benefits from him. Can you imagine a woman like that, not the whole gender, just one. You'd see that, right? At least eventually. So you'll know there is a difference in how people fuck when they want to fuck, and when they want something else they can get through fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 04:07 PM |
| 4 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?that is as vague as it could be. Can you be more specific? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 03:51 PM |
| 2 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?Which part of question did you answer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 03:33 PM |
| 1 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?And what do they bring already? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsNo, again, you're theorizing based on what men tell. I tell you based on what i saw, and what other women saw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 03:25 PM |
| 4 | What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add?this is answer to which part of the question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 03:14 PM |
| 17 | Women should not have friends (man, woman, child, or animal).Oh, haha, it's rare to see a post on this level. Thanks for the entertainment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 03:05 PM |
| 17 | Many women have been socially programmed to be self-centered and narcissistic.Did you notice that you continue to repeat "always thinking of themselves" like that's separate argument with each repetition? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsWell do you have experience dating men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsOh, so it wasn't honest question, it was "know your place woman" question. Well pleasure to meet you. How many men have you dated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsHow am i supposed to answer your question? Name all of them or something? Think you'll know them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Alot of guys dont have friends and that really hurts their dating life.Where did you see hate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 02:37 PM |
| 1 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's different when you cook for yourself and when you cook for even two people, let alone family. When it's only me i just see what i want to eat, if i'm too lazy i don't bother and either eat something simple or go for takeout, it's pretty relaxed. Cooking rarely this complicated of a chore. But i was in relationship when we decided to cook together. We switched weeks so it was equal. But still, it's completely different. I had to account for another person's wishes and mine too, and it's not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 02:37 PM |
| 4 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsThat's not "men fuck uggos". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 02:19 PM |
| 45 | Many women have been socially programmed to be self-centered and narcissistic."The self-centredness of many women" - why shouldn't they be? Serious question. Who else will care of their interests if not them? "Many men have also realised that catering to this self-centeredness in women helps them get dates and to get laid," - so to get something from someone you must do what they like? what a novel idea. "This self-centeredness and narcissism also makes it so that these women end up only interested in having vapid and inane conversations with no real substance, and no int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsSorry, simply no. They don't care about sex, many don't enjoy sex, many see it as a chore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 01:57 PM |
| 8 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsSo that comment is basically everyone who isn't hot is uggo. Well that tramples all "men attracted to majority of women" myth. I was under the impression that average is average, and uggo is below, but well, thanks for correcting me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 01:49 PM |
| 4 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationships"How does you being a “slut” make you an expert on men and male behavior?" - experience. "You’re claiming to know more about the male experience and psychology than the actual man you are responding to." - yep. because again, experience. "A man would never get away with this if the roles were reversed." - dunno, don't care. "There would be no aura of credibility in the eyes of a woman if a man were to insist his arguments have merit because he’s slept with tons of women." - dunno, don't care. Bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationships"Having sex with uggos does not lower a man's status compared to having no sex, where are you getting this idea from?" - easy. It's like imagining a teen being a friend with some kid who is bullied, or being alone. Alone - nobody cares about him. Being friends with outcast - decrease in status. I imagine it's the same everywhere. Like imagine fraternity and there are two men. And one will tell that i don't get sex for now, i'm busy/not in the mood/whatever excuse, and another will tell that he g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.He imagined that - he should explain. I don't see how i would end up in that situation in the first place. Which i did say the first time. If you think that i will end up in that situation - then burden of proof is on you (and now i will watch you ignore that and either disappear or make another ridiculous comment about how i'm wrong) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 01:32 PM |
| 4 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsOh no, i'm comparing it to getting 0 sex. The logic isn't what you've said. The logic is either he can get average/hot woman, or he can imagine that he can. Going for uggos destroys that illusion. Illusion worth more than whatever sex with uggos bring. And maybe it will bring decrease in status. "but yes I would say men in general put plenty of effort, you just don't notice how much that men do is simply due to their desire for women." - mhm. if that's true, then the issue is that they are exhau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 01:23 PM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵So women are allowed only moral standards? No looks? No anything else? Only judge character? Can you give me a list of what i'm allowed to think about when i choose a man i will fuck and live with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 01:20 PM |
| 6 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsWhile i do think that if people in general had more sex they would be happier and less neurotic, it's not really realistic due to socialization and whatnot. And i do see your argument about scarcity mindset. There is one issue tho, and this is a piece of truth many men don't realize and will never admit. Men don't have sex to have sex. If they did, that would be a solution (somewhat, because there is still attraction at play). Men have sex to have status among men, and this status will be provid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 01:08 PM |
| 0 | Why doesn't the red pill push for expanded views of attractiveness?"why don't Red Pill influencers spend more time asking why so many of their followers aren't attracted to women who are also routinely excluded from conventional dating standards?" Oh, i know, i know! Because they don't admit their existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 12:22 PM |
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| 0 | Alot of guys dont have friends and that really hurts their dating life."It does, especially for someone who takes vetting seriously, doesnt want their judgement clouded, if she’s strictly looking for something long term, etc." - no it doesn't. Because no matter what there should be some interests, and that interest should be of romantic and sexual character. It doesn't matter if they will not act on it, if it's small and will build overtime. It's okay. But it should be there. And if it's not, it's simply two friends chat or two people negotiate relationship. "For a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 11:43 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵For example men complaining that they have to approach and that women should instead. That's not looks. And that's the standard many women put in a place for a reason. For example women not wanting to have sex early in a relationship. Don't tell me you didn't see men ridiculing that and pressuring women to change. That's also not looks nor superficial. Men paying for a date. Also not looks. Then for example when i told that i want my life to be better with a man that without, i got many outraged… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 11:40 AM |
| 4 | Alot of guys dont have friends and that really hurts their dating life.women socialized differently and their antisocialness displayed differenty. men and women want different things from each other. she is hot and "get a man" means he is willing to use her body for his pleasure, which is hooray, such a prize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 11:21 AM |
| 4 | Alot of guys dont have friends and that really hurts their dating life."Okay but not everyone goes into a first date with the intention of getting fucked at the end of it." - that doesn't matter. You still need to appear sexy, appear interesting in something more than just chatting like with a colleague. "Spark doesnt have to automatically mean sexual tension. Also, Im talking about the “He cant hold a conversation” type of problems. " - it kind of does. along with romantic too. and that needs to be created. And yes, i agree there are men who can't hold a conversat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 11:19 AM |
| 4 | Alot of guys dont have friends and that really hurts their dating life.I disagree. I met guys who were nice to talk with, but there wouldn't be anything with them if i wasn't already horny and got on a date with them with intention to get sex. They didn't disqualified themselves, they just didn't qualified themselves either. Guy who date need to actually appear sexy, flirt and create sexual tension, those are all separate skills. Without that it's easy to be discarded with "there is no spark" comment. Now, sometimes it's just natural and you have a chemistry with p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 11:04 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I wish. I feel like everything women want is simply wrong in men's opinion, because every standard will discard someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 10:59 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵They are just as shitty with less qualities to compensate for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 10:57 AM |
| -3 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Male loneliness epidemic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 10:14 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 09:06 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No, it's not "obvious" because men use "looks" as an excuse more often than not. But tell me you didn't hear about men being bitter for needing to be nice, or "banding over backwards" or anything like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 09:02 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No, not "obviously". And they don't know how many of them are abusive pieces of shit as you've put it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Then 1) you don't understand my point 2) i explained exactly how men hate women for humanity 3) you decided to argue about something you don't understand by telling that women do it too? 4) you don't even have any confirmation that women do it too, you just assumed??? 5) and based on this you told me that i'm wrong in making generalization. Cool, all i can say that this level of self-confidence is outstanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 08:48 AM |
| 2 | do you truly believe the bar is lower for men?This post is so ignorant that i have conflicted emotions. It's like a farmer will come to a slave and say "well, i'm paid for my work, it's the norm, do you really think the standards are different for you"...And i mean i get it, you lived your whole life in the norm of being paid for the work, and people you are close to also get paid, and if someone doesn't it's usually wither fixed by law or he screwed up, so it's not crossing his mind that it might be different. The standards are the same. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.1) assuming based on what 2) how does that change men's behavior 3) do you see my points at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.So you're not arguing, you're just saying "women too"?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.What are you replying to? Like how is that relevant to my post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 08:04 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Men: Well why do you date that man, it's obvious he's abusive Men: Well, choose better, it's obvious this guy has some issues Men: Just don't date shitty men Also men:...... Why women stopped dating average guys??? LOWER YOUR STANDARDS! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.well the process has started... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity."I’m not addressing your post," - and i didn't come to your house to chat about your opinions, i came to debate the thoughts i'm having. And by the rules of this sub the replies should address the post. Reported. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 07:54 AM |
| 0 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.All i see is that you fail to understand my point. Men want humanity, yet when they see it they are the angriest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Oh, right, so you do see some points and not a question "is dating a competition", good, i was starting to worry. Let me know if you'll want to actually address my post. But as i've said, if you need to cover basics - you do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.If you want to argue about my points - argue here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Typical male. So you decided to play weaponized amnesia and when it didn't work you decided to attack my points as something dumb. So you did remember them. Did you not see how that looks? I swear i saw 6yo have better defense than this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 06:41 AM |
| 3 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity."I’ll just say this: Women have a much stronger in-group bias than men, which means women are less likely to go against the grain, and unwilling to challenge their fellow women, especially if those women are bigots." - and saying how men behave i tend to think that people think this way only because they didn't look at men in the right angle and are blinded by their biases. Anyway, is there something relevant to my post, or you simply wanted to say women are bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.No, my point is apparently too advanced. If it is meritocracy, then their effort should already have been rewarded, and it isn't. The fact that there might need some other effort to give it a push is irrelevant. But you men argue that if a man has to put ANY effort means that it's meritocracy, conveniently forgetting the premise that it's already have been done and there is no reward. Your venom is noted tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Oh yeah,and the guy's fantasy completely makes sense, sure, it's me who points out the inconsistency is wrong. Well if you ever wonder why I barely reply to you, this is the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.I didn't sign up on lecture about what dating is. I came to debate certain aspect. But if you need to cover basic topics before going into details by all means do that, come to advanced topics later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.I don't know, it's another's dude fantasy, he should explain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Seems like I don't like him then, so the premise is false | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.no, they are working, I'm not with a man who I don't like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.why should I consider anyone? They don't fit my standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 07:16 PM |
| 12 | Enshittification of sugar dating is a sign things are badSounds like you don't offer enough sugar to be honest. But what do i know, i'm not experienced at all in sugar dating. And i don't consider you reliable narrator to take your opinion at face value and make a conclusion based on your observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.I didn't agree to this. I want who i want, and i'm not going to take a man for the sole reason to take a man, if that makes my life worse than without him. So no, your "fairness" can go fuck itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 06:48 PM |
| 5 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Playing dumb isn't cute. If you need a reminder my post is written and you can reread it as many times as you need to, I'm not entertaining weaponized amnesia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 06:05 PM |
| 4 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Maybe he would be happy because he enjoys her and sex with her. But for that he has to actually sto thinking about her as a prize to have, now soiled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 06:01 PM |
| 0 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Well, yeah. Only I call it men can't find slaves anymore, and you call it men have to bend over backwards. Still, they hate women for existing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.1) so men are not responsible for their actions if they react? 2) what is blue pill in your definition and when did it start? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 05:59 PM |
| 5 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.They might've been sometime, but men don't use it the way you said, or small minority does. Anyway, in your definition it's understandable, and yes, it exists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 05:35 PM |
| 5 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.If you have actually good arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 05:33 PM |
| -1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.It's on a spectrum. Are you saying that women can never tell insecurity or hate? Hell, I've kissed a guy who was shaking nervously, I don't have to be mind-reader to feel that, and guess what, it's turn off. What's wrong with me saying that I se insecure men? Oh man. That depends. Did his income change. Did his priorities changed. Does he show me that he likes me in every other way. What changed that he doesn't spend money in that pattern. You act like the only explanation is that he doesn't lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 05:32 PM |
| 5 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Then why their effort is not rewarded? The already did so much. N meritocracy it would be rewarded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 05:24 PM |
| 4 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Did you disagree with something or you just wanted to provide context and reasoning? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Famous men's accountability. Women are acting as sentient beings but men have no control, they can only read, and they have no control over how. But men buit the world, men are leaders, men are logical....so funny you don't see it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 05:19 PM |
| 4 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Again, do men say those things or not? If yes, then where is accountability. If not then it's a blatant lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.I don't know, whatever they want, who am i to tell them what to do. Maybe they like being like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 05:10 PM |
| 4 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity."Men are far more socialized than women are. Man are taught how to treat women, but women are not taught how to treat men. That is why men tend to be better partners: not because we're biologically better or anything ridiculous like that, but because we've been socialized to treat our partners better. "- I'm sorry, but i think my eyebrows reached the moon while i read that. Yeah, yeah, men are so great and that's why women starting to choose to be single en masse. That's why when women divorce t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Because my post is about things that MEN say, you should read it again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:57 PM |
| 5 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.So men don't say all of those things i mentioned? They don't choose the most hateful interpretations of women's actions? Well, famous men's accountability, what can i say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:56 PM |
| 5 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.So men don't say all those things i mentioned in my post? When was the last time you was in this sub? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:56 PM |
| 6 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Women are better at reading humans (in general they have higher EQ), and women are better at risk assessment. And men suck at listening to women, so i think that the whole "women intuition" thing was just a thing to make men listen at least sometimes. Can't really blame them, i would use a shaman dance if my life depended on ignorant baboon who thinks that i'm no smarter than a cow. Anyway, "if only women did X, Y, Z" isn't really responsibility for men's lack of socialization and hatefulness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.and how does it change my point? I love that defense. First it's women don't need experience to learn. Then it's obvious. Then it's men learn too, but you don't like it. And the most funny thing you don't see yourself doing it. "there wasn't anything, and if there was it's already gone, and you also brought it here so it's there because of you". lawyer. Again, do you think that a woman who dates lawyer wouldn't mind dating a criminal? she doesn't have any other criteria except looks (since you t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.And that's your justification for hate? Alright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:43 PM |
| 0 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity."You don't need "intuition" to know that the safe boring nice guy is going to have a lower likelihood or abuse and cheating." - not really. They have the same likelihood. "Too often women choose to go for the bad boy instead and shock pikachu they get abused or cheated on" - how dare women assume that men will be decent. i know, right, ridiculous idea. Especially if he has options. "If ride a motorbike 2x speed limit and die in an accident, thank god someone more worthy can finally get an organ … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:37 PM |
| 4 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Yes, sometimes the woman is oblivious, how does that change my point? Do you think that men wear labels about what they want and who they are? It takes experience to learn when you're lied to, who is that hot guy who doesn't want to commit, that there are ugly guys that oh shocker, also don't want to commit, etc. It's easy to play expert when you're not the one who has to live it. It's like me telling a medic that just find a tumor, and you need to study it, tale as old as time, it's obvious, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.I don't know about meetups, but try, i don't think it'll hurt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Nah, diamonds are just marketing company, genius since it stuck for that long. There are more expensive stones i guess, or so i've heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.There are some online communities too, and people can start just chatting about hobbies and it can evolve into feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:13 PM |
| 6 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Yeah. Ironically they put women on this pedestal of moral paragons, and at the same time they claim that "men are logical", "men are rational", "women are emotional", "women are hysterical".... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity."that's blue pills fault" - men and their famous accountability. But okay. Why do you think that? More importantly when do you think blue pill started? I don't think it was for example 100 years ago, do you? Like when this hate became responsibility of blue pill, and what is blue pill in your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:07 PM |
| 10 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Honestly, so many men i talk to are incapable of thinking deeper than in black and white. To not take anything literally, to see some complexity. Weirdly enough i don't see it that much in women. Granted, i don't date them, maybe it's also like that and i'm just biased because i talk to someone my level, but fuck it's scary to see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.True, women are status symbol. Did you know, that when men's fashion revolution happened and they started to wear their monotone suits, rich still had to show that they are rich, and for that service they either paraded their wives in expensive jewelry, or their mistresses/escorts. Some escort's job was to blow money so much, to show the wealth of her patron. and as always, thank you for your awards:) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.I disagree with your comment almost completely, but i don't want to argue about that. We just see the world differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 03:55 PM |
| 6 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.So any effort men have to put means that there is meritocracy? So their hobbies and whatnot, all that effort doesn't count and it's still meritocracy? Fine. If you want to fight for the view that it's not meritocracy unless men can lay lazy on their asses, i say that i can see some issues, but you do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity."Is it not simpler to assume men and women know less about what they truly want and more about what they believe they should want?" - okay, i can get on board with that. "And that the disparity between the two is what causes most of the issues?" - eh, yes and no. There are some issues because of disconnect, but i believe it's way more than this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 03:51 PM |
| 6 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity."is it realy weird to see their desire as a reward? " - yes. Sometimes it's obvious that personality is the issue. Women are not blind. Women are not mind readers, but they are also not blind. Which i guess is a hard concept for men. Mhm. Would you listen to your grandpa about how to apply to a job? Aren't you also the one who told that this sub is filled with older people who don't know how dating works? and not "listen to older women"?? But to answer that comment i do. I listen to them, and i … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 03:49 PM |
| 8 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Then a guy isn't the smartest, and well, survival of the fittest and all. That increases his chances, just as red pill advice about gym and style increases his chances, but thinking that this is all that it takes is simply means that he isn't the brightest light in the bulb. I didn't say something wrong with them. I said that there is something wrong. Could be anything. Because if they are great and can't get dates then something IS wrong, and it might be fixable. But to know what is wrong peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 03:40 PM |
| 8 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.It's usually the reply when women say that this guy is likely struggles because he is misogynist. And you know what? Sometimes it's obvious. Men like to reply that women don't care because they date some misogynists. Well those are more charming and less blatantly hateful. There are nuances. Men like to act that i can either see ALL misogyny or NONE at all, and that's not really true. I don't need to be phd to know that a man who on a first date will say something like "women should just stay in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 03:36 PM |
| 4 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.I made my post based on what i see from men. So even IF women tell that, men are still bitter and hateful and don't see women as people. But also women don't tell that, women don't tell that they see a bad person with 100% guarantee. It changes. I know, because it changed for me. Simply after i observed some behavior i felt like a switch going in my head and attraction changed to repulsion. And that happens more than men present. Anyway, they chose the most hateful interpretation of observed pat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.You should move it under automod, or mods will delete it. But yeah, that's my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 03:27 PM |
| 7 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 03:26 PM |
| 13 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity."Women want to advise men to be a good person, be themselves, have their hobbies, practice basic hygiene, have female friends. " - those are not really bad things, they are generic advice for strangers. "people don’t want to admit that a guy can be single for a long time with hobbies, friends, fitness, hygiene, and generally good character." - also true, but kind of rare. And to give advice to him people need to know what's wrong in his case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Men place women on a pedestal and in doing so they start to hate women for any show of humanity.Yes, there are other factors, i notice that too. Like inability to understand that there could be multiple factors to determine attraction. Or that people will not give ready and honest answers about their attraction and desires and sometimes simply because they lack self awareness. Some people see everything in black and white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.As european i want to argue that it's not okay that americans don't work. My source? Friends tv series. They spend all the time in coffe house. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 02:23 PM |
| 5 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.You really argue that media is accurate representative of modern dating? "Did I make a comment about Western culture as a whole, or did I simply say that this particular dating culture originated in modern Western media," - you did made a comment about western dating or an aspect of it. this level of defense is simply stupid and boring. If i wanted to have a conversation with gaslighting i would get a boyfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 01:03 PM |
| 8 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.Still doesn't explain why did you decide to argue about western dating? It's like me coming to india subreddits and arguing there about your life, politics, dating and whatnot (and i was never in India). For the mods, it's not about race, it's about experience and culture. People who don't have cultural context and experience can't really argue about things within this culture and experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:48 PM |
| 7 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.Easy. Asking someone's out is inviting them on a date. Your long time friend can do that. Your colleague can do it. Stranger can do it. Cold approach is when a stranger tries to meet you with romantic/sexual intentions. To be clear cold approach means that it's obvious and straightforward, not someone who meets you and then becomes friends and only then invites you. Cold approach is when a guy approaches i don't know, on a street, in the bar, in the gym, asks for number and invites on a date. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:46 PM |
| 6 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.Yes, but it doesn't mean necessarily cold approach. and your post is about them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:39 PM |
| 4 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.Why do many indians feel the need to debate about western dating.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance.I think you just don't understand what "asking someone out" means. "do people usually ask out someone from the sex they aren't sexually attracted to (the same sex for most heterosexual people or the opposite sex for most homosexual people)?" - What?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:33 PM |
| 3 | Asking Someone Out Doesn't Feel Right. It Simply Should Not Be Treated As The Universal Standard Or The Ultimate Measure Of Confidence And Romance."My point is that modern society manosphere often treats asking someone out as the default, or even the only, way to express confidence and pursue romance." - fixed that for you. No, really, women can't stop telling you all that cold approaches are not pleasant nor effective, that you should build some rapport to initiate some romance. I have no idea how many times i've seen men here arguing with that as if women take away their favorite toy. Which baffles me because they are no effective, nor e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How do you define a female friend?One quarter of that post, who will look at other data that tumbles that first quarter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:16 PM |
| 2 | CMV: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longeror i can find another man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 12:00 PM |
| 1 | AF/BB doesn't exist and is out datedWell yeah and no. Men call them alphas because they get what men want, so to them they are. But even so, some men are just average, there are those who are pathetic, and there are those who still meet requirements but simply don't want to be in relationships, and they kind of stand out because they seem great for relationship but they are also extra charming etc, that makes them successful for hookups. For the purpose of this discussion we can call them alphas, tho i dislike that word. That depe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 10:56 AM |
| 1 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵"I'm starting to think that western men have been psy-oped to think that crying is unmasculine." - yes. the ideas about masculinity changed overtime. Just like femininity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 10:43 AM |
| – | Men have to build their assets, but women are born with them."Really curious about that glow up." - i have no idea how to tell you more except i worked on my social skills, understanding of men, safety measures so could relax, and confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 09:58 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵"That’s a fair possibility but women who say this really just..." - so is it a possibility women should account for or not? "Most of the time the guy will be even angrier you lied to him" - sure, but that will be in some distance from me. "Obviously being violent about rejection is never ok, but if you purposely lead on guys if you’re afraid of rejecting him, most of the time you will just be a cunt to an unassuming guy, not actually protecting yourself." - i'll take my safety over some guy's fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 08:48 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That wasn't the reaction you had when you kissed me... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 08:15 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Which one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 07:41 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Oh cmon, not everyone who kisses me is my boyfriend... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 07:28 AM |
| – | Men have to build their assets, but women are born with them."when you find most women attractive you can focus on other things." - exactly. Men's lack of standards it totally their fault. Or their lies. I think the latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 06:40 AM |
| – | Men have to build their assets, but women are born with them.After all we had you thought.....you thought that i might like you??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 06:25 AM |
| – | Men have to build their assets, but women are born with them.I'm so tired of men who probably never talked to women think that women just have to exist and all will fall on their lap. I had a glow up, only my glow up wasn't about looks, it was about behavior, but men constantly tell me that behavior doesn't matter. Yet i saw it as day and night, when i had the same looks and was barely noticeable, and when i had the same looks and could wrap men around my fingers. And it took effort to change myself like that. Then i'm so tired of men ignoring that if a w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 06:23 AM |
| – | Men have to build their assets, but women are born with them.Well if personalities don't matter then how do you explain that i turned off by almost all men here without knowing how they look? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 06:10 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵He just isn't healthy (>6') | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Attraction isn’t a meritocracyHooray, they are just not willing to put the effort into talking with her. Who are you trying to fool? Using someone as a Fleshlight isn't "attraction", not where it counts. The same way I will say that women still talked to average men, they were still willing to date them. But that won't work for you, right? That argument is supposed to only excuse men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Assuming women are unattracted to most men, can we really be blamed for lack of attraction?Yeah, yeah, women lie, men telling the truth (for your money), men know better....heard that before. Hear me out (or not), all people lie. Men and women. And yes, those well-meaning men also lie about women. You have to have some socialization to sort through all information and observations, but as i've just said....men present themselves as autistic enough to miss everything, and that's not attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Assuming women are unattracted to most men, can we really be blamed for lack of attraction?Easy, asian. Because there are more asian women, and they will be into asian men because people are like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Assuming women are unattracted to most men, can we really be blamed for lack of attraction?Seems like men have to be socialized more. It's basically "we're autistic enough that we fail to see social cues and notice patterns on our own so accommodate us". No? Believe it or not that skill is important, so survival of the fittest, and in that case socially adapted people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 07:26 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: Would you truly spend a year or more with a woman with zero intention of being serious/ married? And let her think otherwise?"but in my opinion, a decent person will communicate their intentions." - so she wasn't decent too? Or is it only relevant if you want casual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 06:28 PM |
| 1 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Oh yes. Sometimes they tell me about what they fantasized about and i can enjoy it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Men on the whole are objectively worth less to date now than ever I believeIt might not be the case for OP's gym, but also there is a question about demographic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 03:50 PM |
| -6 | Men on the whole are objectively worth less to date now than ever I believeOP didn't say that they didn't help, they just formed an opinion about who asks for help often and why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Men on the whole are objectively worth less to date now than ever I believeCan it be cause there are less women in general? Can it also be because of what demographic uses gyms? Like for example men could come because of manosphere influence, and women come who i don't know, need some movement because they spend all day at work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 03:29 PM |
| 6 | Attraction isn’t a meritocracyI read about how lived native americans (well at least some, they have variety of tribes), and for example a man hunts, yes. Honorable, and gets food. But a woman carries a kill, a woman works on a skin. A woman cooks. Men did something else too, i don't remember, but i was kind of shocked to read about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 02:39 PM |
| 7 | Attraction isn’t a meritocracyHa, feeding and clothing. How about working too, because men and women were servants for the rich. They both were peasants, and worked in the field, only men didn't do it after birth and beating. Men might did more construction, but women created fabric, clothes and foods like cheese for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Attraction isn’t a meritocracyThere are species in which females are fully developed bodies, and males are simply drifting dick in the ocean with sole purpose of finding female and attach himself to her body.....just thinking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Attraction isn’t a meritocracyIf you feel that way, that doesn't change the fact that men claiming that they find 80% attractive a lie, and when you present that women and men find only 20% of people attractive, it stops being this venomous attack on women and noble place for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 12:42 PM |
| 3 | CMV: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longerWant to try again? "This whole discussion (in case you aren't paying attention) is about YOU finishing first and leaving ME hanging. That would be a YOU problem." - meaning it's premature ejaculator's problem. The title: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longer Meaning it's not premature ejaculator's problem. So which is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 11:18 AM |
| 5 | CMV: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longer"This whole discussion (in case you aren't paying attention) is about YOU finishing first and leaving ME hanging. That would be a YOU problem." Is english not your first language? This is your title: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longer" I can clearly see that this statement contradicts your comment, so which is it? Because i have been paying attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 11:07 AM |
| 5 | CMV: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longer"What do you mean better?" - i mean better. "It's a you problem if me hypothetically finishing first would be a me problem, a "better" partner would only make it worse" - this is just a salad of words that don't make any sense. "Where's the part where you do anything for anyone else other than "be a woman whose not fat or old"?" - if he doesn't want to stick his dick inside me i'm fine with it, plenty will because i'm a woman, and not fat or old or whatever else i'm offering. I don't see why i s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 10:52 AM |
| 3 | Attraction isn’t a meritocracySo they settled with a woman they didn't think was attractive and that's the value? No thanks. Watch what they do not what they say, apparently not when it comes to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 10:50 AM |
| 4 | Attraction isn’t a meritocracy"Because it's irrelevant to the thread," - yeah, exactly like a person who reads first part of the sentence and think that the next one doesn't matter even if it changes context. "Or men prefer the most attractive women." - so much so that they ignored other 60% they deemed attractive? Then what's value of that "attraction"? I say they lied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Attraction isn’t a meritocracy"i don t think most people do the bare minimum at all, perhaps we have different definitions of it." - bare minimum is defined by every person based on what if comfortable for him and what isn't anymore. If someone's comfortable level is "paying the bills and playing video games" i do believe they will just do that in 99% of cases. "as for withdrawing this behavior is pretty much being a hikkimori, and yeah i do believe someone who only leaves his house to work and gave up on socialization long … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 10:18 AM |
| 4 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's funny. But honestly, wedding industry is ridiculous anyway. People pay enormous kinds of money they usually don't have for a party with ridiculous attention to details. I never understood that decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 09:50 AM |
| 3 | Attraction isn’t a meritocracyI don't think shaming works at all. But maybe we're talking about different things. I do think that there should be like "fat awareness" when there is information what to do, maybe groups of people who support in fat loss, etc. Something friendly but what portrays being fat as an issue it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 09:46 AM |
| 2 | CMV: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longerIf you define that as a my problem - okay. But i will solve it the only way i can, which is through control of my actions (since i can't control anyone else) and leave to find someone who is better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 09:13 AM |
| 0 | Attraction isn’t a meritocracyThey always do the bare minimum. Everyone does except rare few (men and women, it's not gendered). But you don't get to redefine the words "men will withdraw from society" to "men will just live comfortably without going above and beyond". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 09:10 AM |
| 6 | CMV: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longer"I once went soft with a girl I found really attractive," - happens, i wouldn't say it's an issue if it's just occasionally happens. Men are not robots, they can be nervous, or not in the mood, or stuck in their own head about something. No big deal. I would say the same thing about premature ejaculation, if it's rare. Happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 09:00 AM |
| 18 | CMV: It is not the premature ejaculator's job to solve the problem, it is the other partner's, because they are the ones who wants them to last longerEasy. I want to have sex that i will enjoy. If i don't enjoy - i don't have sex with that person. I'm not going to dance around him to solve his issues. So want to have sex with me - become sex-worthy. Meaning if premature ejaculation is something that makes women not want to have sex with a man, then it's on a man to solve it if he wants to have sex with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 08:00 AM |
| 1 | There are similar patterns in men anticipating sex, and women anticipating commitment"Apparently I was a worthless piece of trash when I did it, but when she did it, I was somehow still the one in the wrong. Interesting how that works, huh?" - And in your situation with girls you wanted sex from, they were the "worthless trash" because they failed to get what society promised you will for your effort. And there are many men who will support that view. Don't pretend you're the only victim and judged here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 06:42 AM |
| 8 | Attraction isn’t a meritocracyAs i expected basically pretend like everything is fine and just pressure people to marry. And you think the issue is only that people are fat. And also you think that fat shaming will work.....alright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 06:16 AM |
| 13 | Attraction isn’t a meritocracyOn spot. I laughed at that: "Pussy is the glue that prevents men from devolving into raging, rampaging, raping and pillaging sociopaths". Because yeah, they present themselves this way, but they don't see the implications of what they are saying. Because the next time they will tell you how "ungrateful you are, and men built everything" without realizing that they just admitted that men would've been incapable of building anything if they didn't have pussy. I also remember a funny conversation, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Attraction isn’t a meritocracyThey don't understand the difference between what men are saying and what women are saying. To them "women have high standards, you should lower them so i can get some, why don't you date me" is the same as "i've observed men, and they do x, i don't like it". They lack either capability or desire to see the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 06:06 AM |
| 3 | Attraction isn’t a meritocracyWhat is your solution? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 06:04 AM |
| -1 | Attraction isn’t a meritocracy"Dating app study" - survey. "showed that men's looks ratings deemed most women average, while women's looks ratings deemed most men (80%) below average." - I like how all of you forget the next part of it. Where men interacted with top 20% of women and women spend their time chatting with 80% of men. So seems like men lied. And women either don't care about looks that much, or also lied. Since they used this rating internally, they didn't know the data will be pulled and that someone is interes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 06:00 AM |
| -2 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menI'm saying it as a slut, but "Casual sex isn't "not worth it" because men are inadequate" - no, it's because of that. Don't get me wrong, women also are at fault, i know because i improved. But i found that men have some weird "men are great" illusion that slips like that. Of course you can rebrand anything as "you want too much", but then what is enough? Is it reasonable to want pleasure? To not want to be sa'd? Where it becomes too much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 05:38 PM |
| 3 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menI mean it's personal. It's not good for you - so don't have it. I see a lot of downsides in casual sex, but i treat them mostly like necessary troubles. Just like when i want to eat something it's necessary trouble to go and buy groceries and cook etc. Also girl, always bring your own condoms, the fuck you rely on men when you're the only one who will suffer the consequences. And what if he stored his condoms with his keys and they poked holes? What if this a condom that he religiously takes wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 05:31 PM |
| 3 | JOIN DISCORD OUR DISCORD - N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADand i will fuck other dudes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 04:22 PM |
| 0 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵If looks matters that much then men are fucking lazy for not doing anything about theirs and that means they are the architects of their problems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 02:11 PM |
| – | Women what are your Standards for hookup vs relationshipTotally reasonable, king, slay! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Why don't men speak up more about male rights?I didn't get that from "if most men opposed the draft in Ukraine and supported the draft dodgers then something would be done about it." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 11:52 AM |
| 2 | Why don't men speak up more about male rights?well yes, but that has nothing to do with the point of "enough people rebel and things will change" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 11:51 AM |
| 0 | Why don't men speak up more about male rights?There was some election, where basically all people voted for an opposition to the current president. then the results were released, president have "won", people rebelled, like en masse, there were months of protests, people were on the streets. And now many of them are tortured in prisons, many ran and have some criminal charges against them, president is still in power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Why don't men speak up more about male rights?I laughed about "when enough men will oppose draft in Ukraine". To think like that is so....delusional. Did Belarus teach you nothing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 11:31 AM |
| -2 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I refuse to listen to any black pill until tiktok won't be filled with advertisement for 50 different skincare for men (for different parts of the body, and day/night), shape wear, fake bulges, pants that accenting their bottoms, eye lush curlers (for men!!) and ways to make them dark, shoes that add inches without being obvious and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 10:41 AM |
| -1 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No, they are attracted. Then they try to shape me into something that i'm not. The usual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 10:37 AM |
| 10 | CMV: If it's true that men don't pull their weight in housework in reversed relationships, it's a "fuck you pay me" situation"We also have data that male breadwinners on average share their spoils informally 50%ish with stay at home moms, but female breadwinners hog 85% of finacial decisions." I have a question. Because something doesn't add up. Who pays for the household expenses in the "men share their spoils 50/50"? Because if it's women who pay for groceries etc, and man just spends his 50 on himself, then it's one thing. I just don't understand how it's possible in a family with kids. " hog 85% of finacial decisi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 09:14 AM |
| 1 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I see men claiming that women don't understand them (poor babies), but i don't know. I think i actually do, so far the only things that are surprise to me is just extremes or extent of what i already know. There was a post some time ago about "women, would you change yourself to appeal to men" basically. And most replies were "no". And recently i saw a comment of a guy who mentioned that post and how women don't want to even try to understand men. But i think it's just not that. I personally kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 08:31 AM |
| 5 | JOIN DISCORD OUR DISCORD - N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADhaha, that's funny. What makes you think that he'll reach my count at all? I mean, I'm poly, he can ave sex all he wants, but 1) I don't like this motivation, and I would probably be incompatible with him simply because of his personality 2) I'm not going to sit idle and wait for years until he might reach my count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 06:18 AM |
| 7 | "Some men aren't given the opportunity to show off their personality" is a victim narrative myth and a red flag.Hm. I don't really think that's necessarily true. I'm a digital nomad, and since i've started to work like that, i had way less communication that i was used to. And with traveling it's just flew out of the window. I will not talk about traveling aspect, because i feel like it's not as common, but working remotely is. People are pretty closed off, and to make friends let alone start to date from 0 is kind of hard. Dating apps for men suck. I'm blessed with having friends and digital community, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 07:37 PM |
| 2 | JOIN DISCORD OUR DISCORD - N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNothing wrong as in he is entitled to that preference and he isn't hurting anyone, so there is nothing bad? - yes. Nothing bad as in it's good moral standard and supports good views? - that's debatable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 06:08 PM |
| 2 | The debate about age gaps in relationships reveals the double standard of blue pillers.is there argument somewhere? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 05:28 PM |
| 4 | The debate about age gaps in relationships reveals the double standard of blue pillers.I wanted to comment similar argument. Lets not forget that people can come with different motivations but they still will be in somewhat beneficial arrangement, and yet when we learn about motivations, we might judge one and not the other. I once saw two friend in uni, who spent a lot of time together and studied and so on. they shared interests too. but then i learned that one of them stayed because another helped a lot with assignments. So we have one of them who wanted to share interests and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 05:02 PM |
| 1 | JOIN DISCORD OUR DISCORD - N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI know, that wasn't me shutting you up. It was genuine question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 04:06 PM |
| 2 | JOIN DISCORD OUR DISCORD - N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADLike at least 20 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:45 PM |
| – | Men insist on being married and having children when they clearly do not have the means to.I don't know what's the point of debate here, but i actually don't think this is men's fault. I see this as a culture and economy vs biology. The optimal age to have children biologically is your 20s. Culturally people are too infantilized, so they spend their 20 learning hor to properly function in society and be independent. Economically children just a loss, and right now a pretty expensive one. Before people had children so they would have another working pair of hands and it was a good deci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 12:53 PM |
| 5 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Another misunderstood poor baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 12:40 PM |
| 4 | A man without female friends is a red flagyeah, it worth to pay attention to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 10:02 AM |
| 7 | Men nowadays want babies to grow up in paid careDoesn't matter. Men are weird. When women bring up sa and rape, which many women encountered, men like to "not all men", and "those are just small minority". Okay, even if i disagree, okay. But then "how dare you not mention men who want to be stay at home dads". when encountering a man like that is way rarer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 09:31 AM |
| – | My (35m) girlfriend (32f) broke up with me because I didn't "support her" and had "mental health" issues. I'm curious where I could have improved.He was sugar daddy, everything about money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 09:28 AM |
| 1 | JOIN DISCORD OUR DISCORD - N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI think men just have pussy envy. Pussy can get sex. So they are angry they don't have pussy. They subconsciously want pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 09:16 AM |
| 1 | JOIN DISCORD OUR DISCORD - N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAnd what if there will be, what then? What will you change? If nothing, then maybe stop waiting and go live a life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 09:15 AM |
| 4 | JOIN DISCORD OUR DISCORD - N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOnly if you fuck all of her personalities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 09:14 AM |
| – | My (35m) girlfriend (32f) broke up with me because I didn't "support her" and had "mental health" issues. I'm curious where I could have improved.Why out of all subs that you could've asked this question you chose a debate sub?? Like why? Might as well ask this in a comics sub too. And cooking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 09:11 AM |
| 5 | A man without female friends is a red flagI thought about that, and to me it isn't. I do see your reasoning, but i think i don't see it this way. I don't think that indication that if he has women friends is bulletproof, because he might just go with a flow, his friendships are not that deep, or he was desperate and any human would do for the lack of males. Or anything else. I've seen misogynists that were friends with women, usually women were also misogynistic. Then there can me many reasons why generally a good guy doesn't have femal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 09:08 AM |
| 3 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵'If you want to be heard you have to start listening first" - here you go, you see the issue then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 09:01 AM |
| 19 | Men nowadays want babies to grow up in paid careShe missed them because they are negligible minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 08:26 AM |
| 1 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yeah, yeah, we got it, you're poor poor baby. There is small issue with that, but it will fall on deaf ears. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 08:23 AM |
| 2 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Not what i meant, but this is another issue, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 08:16 AM |
| 3 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I bet. When people pointing out a color to a colorblind person i bet it feels like they imagining things and creating issues out of nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 08:12 AM |
| 5 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Sometimes i see men simply not understanding the issue because they lack EQ. Like they can't create some similar situation to imagine what they would feel, they can't read what implications are there, they can't read anything that isn't completely spelled out, and they miss the issue by miles. And that's completely different from when they are defensive but do understand the issue, or at least capable of. I don't know, i just see this clearly. Sometimes it's like we speak two different languages… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 07:25 AM |
| – | More women today have a disdain for men because the only thing women can offer today is sex, so they understand all of men's efforts today is just for her pussy, which fills them with contemptsoo, you're saying that women finally offering as much as men and you don't like it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 06:42 AM |
| -1 | Assuming women are unattracted to most men, can we really be blamed for lack of attraction?The thing is people already decided what to believe. Look at the guy who I commented, he decided that women didn't like most men. At this point there is no use of telling him anything, because if women tell them something else he calls liars, and if women admit that, he is throwing tantrum that others aren't honest. And I will leave out is this true or not, I'm discussing reaction. So he already has decided what's true, he already knows, what's the point of women telling him anything? No, seriou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Women, what kind of lies are not acceptable from men, and which lies do you expect men to be okay with?What about them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:11 AM |
| – | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Mhm. My point isn't about that. My point is how they see those men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 01:11 AM |
| 0 | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others.Ahaha, if you're going to "you can't understand until you have your own" me, then don't bother. I have eyes, and i saw what people did with their kids and called love. I don't need my own to realize that people call all kinds of perversion and cruelty "love". and i also saw how quickly that "love" turned to "hate" when a kid refused to do simple things. Or embraced themselves. So no, having kid isn't some magic that makes you love someone unconditionally, as much as you want to patronize me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others.1) i really doubt that, but there is no test, so i'll just stay doubtful 2) then it's not something i will call love, to me love is something that is attached to what kind of person it is, it's impossible to "love" the same when personal qualities are different. so we call "love" different feelings. Well, there were people who beat their loved ones and called that love, so i'm not surprised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others.And that question was too hard to mirror and apply to your kids? Alright, will you love them if one of them will kill another? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others.Will your mommy love you if you would kill your dad? If not - then maybe i'm right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 05:32 PM |
| 4 | Women, what kind of lies are not acceptable from men, and which lies do you expect men to be okay with?I'm outlier here, but depends on out relationship. If we are something like fwb, or casual in any form, i don't care if he lies about his name, age, job, bodycount...etc. I don't really care about this stuff. I do care if he lies about his intentions towards me. I mean if he for example knows my boundary and tells me that he is okay with it, but thinks that he'll make me change my mind - that shit won't fly with me. The closer we are the less accepting of lies i become. But i still think there a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others.Yes, i made plenty of posts criticizing men. And that is not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others.Like they think they value us. Their "valuing" us can only come in nightmares to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others.The question is are they willing to take those males or not? Because i don't like what men want from women, and i simply walk away because that means i don't like men as they are right now (except those who aren't). It's not the same as "i want a woman, but i want her to also approach me, what? why will she do that? because....because....you're fucking misandrist!!!" I know what i want to bring in relationships and what i don't, and i know that's valuable to some people. Those men don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 04:41 PM |
| -2 | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others."This quite literally describes you and practically every woman here." - not really. Simply because women aren't the one who complain about high standards men have, or how they are desperate, or that they want relationship and will take a man, any man, who will do x, y, z for them. Criticizing gender isn't the same as trying to humble them to take them cheap so to speak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 04:26 PM |
| 6 | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others."Is this not applicable to when like the most mid woman you have ever met in your life only wants a 666 dude?" - have you met a woman like that personally? Just curious. But yes, it's applicable. It's just i hear about those women only from men and they from podcasts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 04:07 PM |
| 5 | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others.For what should i be grateful, and how this should be shown? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 04:03 PM |
| 2 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I think it has element of competition, how big of a role it'll play depends on a man. But there will be competition, simply because we exist in society and people compare. for me personally? or for women in general? Tho i guess answer is the same. Yes if they want something from me/them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 04:02 PM |
| 3 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Men date for men, so they only care about what brings status among men. That's the issue with this status/leagues system, women have different criteria, so we just disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 03:46 PM |
| 1 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You think that if you add 5 peppers you'll survive? Well you know what, with the heat we have....i might share your diet. tho i have apricots, and i'm addicted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Guys need to ask themselves what value they bring to others.Ahaha, question of the week. I asked that multiple times and got multiple downvotes and "you're a misandrist". I think some men don't think that they have to bring value at all, they want to be valued intrinsically, the issue is even parents don't feel this way for their children, but they come close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 03:34 PM |
| 3 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yes, but i find it pointless to argue with men about it. They know better from their good vantage point near their phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 01:09 PM |
| 4 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What's funny about Af/BB thing is that men think that women can't lock down an Alpha, and he is just pumping and dumping women, and uses them at his convenience, and women think like that too. That they recognize that he is "superior" and what else can she, average Becky do....When in reality i've never heard or seen such behavior. Women who dated players and realized that they couldn't lock him down usually see him as narcissistic pos (due to his behavior) or in the best case as someone immatur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 01:00 PM |
| 2 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Is this all you have for this summer?? You'll starve!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 12:53 PM |
| 6 | Many women say that if a woman rejects a man, he should accept it and move on, never trying again.I have another theory, he might not be western. In some other cultures being a creep who ignores "no" is basically necessity for any relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 11:30 AM |
| 8 | Many women say that if a woman rejects a man, he should accept it and move on, never trying again.Because you have rich experience of men rejecting you as a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 11:29 AM |
| 5 | Many women say that if a woman rejects a man, he should accept it and move on, never trying again.And then men complain that they can't do anything without being reported... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 11:28 AM |
| 2 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm going to read my horoscope now. I don't believe in them, but i like to read about how everything will be great for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 09:27 AM |
| -1 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I found a better version https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i9hU5rqNGcQ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 09:27 AM |
| 7 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Just catcall them and tell them you'll make them pregnant, i've been told that's what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 09:25 AM |
| 3 | Assuming women are unattracted to most men, can we really be blamed for lack of attraction?Oh? I see. No, to me it isn't. And people can lie even when they know truth without malice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 09:11 AM |
| 3 | Assuming women are unattracted to most men, can we really be blamed for lack of attraction?Is this your example of showing how honest men are? Because you just told that world knows about men's nature, and as soon as I've pointed it out you attacked women. Really can't make this up, honest guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 09:11 AM |
| 3 | Assuming women are unattracted to most men, can we really be blamed for lack of attraction?What's so harsh about my take? Yes, people are self deluded, and yes it's painful to see the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 08:44 AM |
| 3 | Assuming women are unattracted to most men, can we really be blamed for lack of attraction?You want argument? All right. Men can't shut up about how good they actually are and how those murderous blah blah is some small negligible minority, so women are wrong for considering men dangerous. The world knows that men are dangerous not because men are honest butterflies but because there is statistics and women fight for their rights. So you lied. And doubled down. And the question is should I now hate all men for your lies? Because lying is important, right, not the actual actions that c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 08:32 AM |
| 8 | Many women say that if a woman rejects a man, he should accept it and move on, never trying again.I want people to stop respecting "no" of every man who does this shit. And by this shit I mean justify that no doesn't means no. I have no judgment of people OP brought as example because I don't know what happened there. But I do read OP.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 07:54 AM |
| – | Assuming women are unattracted to most men, can we really be blamed for lack of attraction?I am saying that you lied. And doubled down. No bonus points for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 07:44 AM |
| 3 | Assuming women are unattracted to most men, can we really be blamed for lack of attraction?Yeah, it just didn't make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 07:18 AM |
| -2 | Assuming women are unattracted to most men, can we really be blamed for lack of attraction?What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Assuming women are unattracted to most men, can we really be blamed for lack of attraction?"The whole world knows about the dark sides of the male nature, because men don't lie about them" - you just lied, congratulation. Bonus points if you can point out where is the lie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 07:11 AM |
| 5 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's interesting how men tell to "choose better" and simultaneously they also wallow that they can't treat women as shit because they are not attractive enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 06:21 AM |
| 3 | Assuming women are unattracted to most men, can we really be blamed for lack of attraction?"Because you lie about it" - i never understood that. If women said "we're not attracted to most men" will that make you feel better? Because some men here come with quotes like that from women, and somehow they don't say "well, they are honest, i like that". Then i also don't understand why it's so important? Everybody lie. Men lie. Women lie. Everybody is stupid too, even if they don't want to lie they want to believe some things about themselves so they won't tell the truth because that requi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 06:07 AM |
| 1 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's interesting how men like to tell "choose better" and simultaneously whine that they don't get to treat women as shit because they are not attractive enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 05:40 AM |
| 4 | When is it fair to say "you should have chosen better"?i can understand that chain of thought but it has issues. 1) its based on assumptions and if we're going to play "i'll advise you based on my assumptions simply because of your gender" you wouldn't like it. It's not generalization when it's personal verdict and advice, especially like that. 2) you give men too much credit. they say it in the most ridiculous situations. i was told to "choose better" simply when i described any negative interactions with men, like their messages on dating apps aft… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 07:14 PM |
| 7 | When is it fair to say "you should have chosen better"?I concur, it's about information. I think men here too often use it without any information about the woman they tell it to, or a man she dated, or what did she know. That makes this phrase simply victimblaming. I also think that the person who does something wrong shouldn't fall into shadow of "you chose wrong". Choosing is precaution, there is still active action that brought damages. That is my second issue with men who want to jump to "choose better". Overall if a persons moral compass is mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 06:21 PM |
| 3 | If a woman a man is dating or is interested in starts pulling away, his best option is to let go and stop trying."The situation is a bit different if you a woman dealing with a man than it is for a man dealing with a woman." - no it isn't. Either you care about your relationship and the person, or you don't. "In the context if the ppst there kinda is." - ppst? also based on what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 04:08 PM |
| 5 | If a woman a man is dating or is interested in starts pulling away, his best option is to let go and stop trying.That's too vague of a situation. There is no right fits all answer. I had relationships where i let people to distance themselves and let them go. I had relationships where i pushed for conversation and tried to solve issues. Honestly, more often than not, i don't think i let people go simple when they detached themselves. Unless i understood the reason and realized it's unfixable. But it's about people i like, i do value them, so i'm not too prideful to try to mend things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 03:59 PM |
| 0 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Then what's so good about you compared to other tables and why would i need the table at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 03:20 PM |
| -3 | There’s no point in women freely give away sexual attention when men dont appreciate it.You are free not to fix this. I am free to make my judgment of your character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 03:00 PM |
| 4 | There’s no point in women freely give away sexual attention when men dont appreciate it.oh, and here we are, you completely changed the meaning of what I said to atack me. I was right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 02:12 PM |
| 1 | The reason why a lot of men are struggling is because they do not want to date at their level. Below average men should date below average women. If you want better be better. Why are you asking another person to lower their standards for you, when you wont lower your standards?I honestly don't really know how majority of women look like in relationships, but I don't think they are innocent unicorns. I would say that if a woman will be as superficial as a man then yes, I would react the same. The difference starts when any of them stops reacting superficially. Because things that they want might simply not exist yet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 02:05 PM |
| 1 | There’s no point in women freely give away sexual attention when men dont appreciate it.I find it hard to believe. So either give me screens of our conversations, or I think you confusing me with someone. Or you took what I said out of context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 02:02 PM |
| -2 | There’s no point in women freely give away sexual attention when men dont appreciate it.Where did I do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 01:35 PM |
| -2 | Men gotta stop getting offended because woman don’t want them."either don’t realize the dangers we face or the extra things we do to get healthily male validation and relationships." - they don't, and they don't want to. Sympathy will destroy their world unironically. That will make them see women as people, and see lots of things they don't want to see, and pull up their ass from their victim throne. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:49 PM |
| 1 | The reason why a lot of men are struggling is because they do not want to date at their level. Below average men should date below average women. If you want better be better. Why are you asking another person to lower their standards for you, when you wont lower your standards?They believe that women are not in fact great in assessing their worth, and they try to lock down a "high value" man and when they can't they date on their level. To be honest i see both of those statements the same. Baseless. There are no evidence that women are chasing Chads, but also i don't know if women in their majority are good in assessing their worth. I also saw women who dealt with such shit in relationship that i wondered do they even have "self worth" in their dictionary at all. But … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.I'm not as dumb to think that men will answer me honestly. and yet, the answer is there, all i need is just open my eyes and ears. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:34 PM |
| -3 | There’s no point in women freely give away sexual attention when men dont appreciate it.Another day another reminder how delusional men are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:32 PM |
| 8 | Men don't have a natural instinct to protect womenI disagree, men also attack women. Lets not forget that this manchild in his tantrum of not wanting to do the dishes can kill you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:18 PM |
| 4 | Men don't have a natural instinct to protect womenMhm, and they lived on different continent, america is for women, europe is for men, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 09:22 AM |
| 1 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵To post or not to post, that is the question.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 09:22 AM |
| 5 | Men don't have a natural instinct to protect womenI mean yeah, "men are protectors" is shit. But also it's delusional to think that women weren't the part of the community and when men "get together" as you've put it - they didn't protect women also. Tho depends on a culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 09:16 AM |
| 3 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm still waiting for men who give this demands to women to actually name what do they bring to the table and why women should do anything for them. So far only downvotes and "you're a misandrist" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 08:08 AM |
| – | Modern Dating Is a Humiliation Ritual for Most MenYou mean i remember what you say and not let backtrack? Oh yes i am. Sorry, if you want coddling - go to your mommy, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 07:50 AM |
| – | Modern Dating Is a Humiliation Ritual for Most MenSo you yourself don't have an answer. Cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Which is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.If the only reason to get into relationship for you is to get sex - you definitely shouldn't be in one, and do just fuck around and not waste anyone's time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 07:08 AM |
| – | Modern Dating Is a Humiliation Ritual for Most MenBut my observation rocks. It's not like i see women who don't want to do anything with me and throw conditions on what should they do to make me stay. But alas, do you have the answer to my question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 07:04 AM |
| – | Modern Dating Is a Humiliation Ritual for Most Menwimin bad post. But what men bring to the table? Like if I'm bad because I don't want to date a man what's so good in dating man? Don't say children, because that's next question. Edit. Funny enough any time i ask this question i get only downvotes. If you can say nothing, maybe you're not the prize you think you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 05:33 AM |
| 3 | If woman understand there own attraction and stuff, why then people do studies?This is so funny. And crazy. But also funny. I remember teens, boys in my school knowing that periods influence women's cravings. And then there are people like you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 08:25 PM |
| 2 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory."know there's one of a myriad of reasons someone can choose to say "No" - didn't stop you from making a conclusion. "But if intelligence and empathy were really as important as women would say" - that doesn't mean that other things are not important. For me for example it's not enough, but still necessary. "confidence, a strong work ethic, a rugged body, the desire to provide, etc." - i'm just confused since when liberal means not confident, without work ethic, and not strong? Okay, i do underst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:53 PM |
| 0 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Not enough info. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 04:57 PM |
| 4 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense."Im not gonna argue with someone so pedantic" - I'm not going to argue with someone who won't let my mistakes slide and will tell me to admit when i was wrong. Here, fixed it for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Can you follow a conversation? How not giving bj is an assault? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.So you chose to mix two scenarios and can't separate them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense."here are plenty of ways to solve those issues" - literally what you said. And then "if it's something out of his control then I'd say they are just incompatible" when i asked to solve them. I know, it's hard to imagine, but i do have a memory. Where. Like read scenario 2 and let me know when she said it was kinky. What of her actions and words implied that she wanted that? Was it the new rule that new men have to wait for sex now? OP said it was kinky for HIM - which is the reason for my reacti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Are power imbalances in relationships really that bad?Well cool if you can understand what he tries to say. To me it's like someone just put their thoughts out without making them readable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:24 PM |
| 0 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You know there is this moment, when a woman decides to leave relationship, and a man finally realizes that she is serious (too little to late) and he tries to save relationship. And he does so by trying to negotiate, like "alright, you don't like me not doing chores, i will in the future but you'll have to have sex with me x times a week". Like they have leverage. Like another party didn't already packed their stuff and doesn't want to compromise anymore. That's how conversations with "desperate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.well it is since men see it as payment for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.so you realized that you talked out of your ass, and there isn't always solutions to everything. Cool. yeah, because that's how women behave after they enjoyed something. kink play. I swear, some men are delusional to the dangerous level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.I bite - understand and give me solutions. no it isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:08 PM |
| 4 | Are power imbalances in relationships really that bad?I do understand parts of the post, and i did answer specific questions. But aside from that i don't understand what he tried to say. What confuses you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense."Scenario 2 would most likely be making her current partner wait when she has sex faster with other men in her past. This one is also weird because it seems like what other men got early you suddenly have to wait for. A real scenario is I had a partner that spent years being some dirty fuckers “living fuck doll for years” (her own words not mine) from the start till the end. But for me she wanted to impose a six month rule. And it gave me pause. Why make me wait? I did the six months and when we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 03:05 PM |
| 5 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Does that "had a partner that spent years being some dirty fuckers “living fuck doll for years” (her own words not mine)" - sound like she is "freely, willingly, with consent, gave other guys that but would withhold it from him, despite saying that she enjoyed doing it"? Or do you think that i'm talking about blowjob? I commented about blowjob above, that's what i tell about second situation. also why, why men measure love by sexual acts?? It's so stupid. I might love a guy to death, but won't d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 02:18 PM |
| 2 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You are free to participate in this dance, god knows i do things that i don't want to so i will get what i do want. But that's really on me, there is always a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 02:10 PM |
| 1 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵alright, fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 02:04 PM |
| 2 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵"Imagine that jestering is being a class clown for 1 woman who does not like you." - then why are you not walking away and blaming women for being entitled to it, and like you have to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 02:03 PM |
| 2 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Then walk away? I don't try to "not be boring and entertain" the guys that cosplay lighting pole. I just move on. And if i would do that, that's on me. My decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.ahaha, that's so funny. Alright, i bite. Solve every of those issues, in plenty ways. Way to misunderstand. I said that "or next time i'll get raped" but since it's such a trigger word for you let me rephrase "or next time i will do something that i don't want sexually for any reason, he won't sympathize with me and just sulk that i didn't do the same for him as a punishment" Because that's exactly what OP is whining about. Some guy used a woman as a sex doll, she learned her lesson, and he is b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 02:01 PM |
| 2 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵So a man sees that he has to be different to get some attention, and that he has to try, and he blames women for that, and said that he has to be a jester? Make it make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:56 PM |
| 16 | Are power imbalances in relationships really that bad?"Are we, at the end of the day, just... not trusting each other with power?" - yes. "What if YOU were the more powerful one, do you think you would innately hurt the other?" - I don't think many women are ready for that conversation, but yes, women would abuse power too. They already do, just not with men, because they don't have power over men like that statistically. Aside from that i have no idea what the point you tried to deliver, it was too vague. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:39 PM |
| 6 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.If it's for breeding only then there is no checklist beside "put penis in her during ovulation and without condom". So think logically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.For me it really could be the number of reasons, i've listed from my experience, and when i think about it, there are more. Anyway, to expect the same sex that she had with someone is to basically admit that you're a robot that doesn't act differently and doesn't want anything different. I'll die on that hill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:27 PM |
| 8 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.sex isn't some checklist that you see and decide what's better. But shows what you all think and feel. Hell i had sex where i did only 2 positions and it was better that some where i tried 5. I don't know what else is in your checklist, but it really shows that sex isn't an activity for you, it's medals for being "good boy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:20 PM |
| 15 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Of course you don't have any idea, which is sad. But you wrote exactly what i said. You just think that it's normal, so you can't step out, imagine a woman as a person, and then see what i see. You think that she owes you something, that she makes you wait maliciously, like she knows your intentions just by looking at you, like she is punishing you before knowing you, when she simply learned her lesson, probably traumatized and wants someone who'll treat her well. You have 0 sympathy for her, an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:07 PM |
| 14 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense."being fuck doll for a years" kind of the same thing. It's not something that she want's to repeat, it's not good treatment of her, and you're sulking because you're not that guy who got to treat her that poorly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:01 PM |
| 4 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense."I do not believe that anyone has conversations with their current partners about being a “living fuck doll for years” for past partners while beginning to date." - i would've. And i would've used it as a test to vet guys who think that i owe them something now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 12:59 PM |
| 19 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.The way she chose to live her life isn't punishment to anyone. You are free to walk away if you don't like. Simple example. I was in a relationship where i was coerced to give sex certain amount of times a week. Now i simply won't tolerate this shit. But someone with your logic will say that "you gave sex X times a week and don't do it for me, why am i punished for his actions". You are not, i'm living as a want, with conditions that i want. Take it or leave it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 12:55 PM |
| 35 | Women being sexually selective with their own partners makes almost no sense.Your issue is that you treat women as property and conquest. Lose that mindset and the answer becomes obvious. 1) about first situation there can me many things at play. The guy might have poor hygiene, the taste might be off even if all is fine, she simply didn't like his dick, maybe he has too much precum, maybe he doesn't react in a rewarding way, maybe she needs to suck him for too long. Who knows. It's not a medal for being with her, not something she gives away because you were nice. It's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Women are not masculine enough.Can you give me an example of a situation, how women act and how they should? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 12:34 PM |
| 1 | REVAMPED DISCORD SERVER - AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵QfM Can somebody define what actions they call "being a jester for a woman"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Women are not masculine enough.My question when should they be masculine in your opinion? Like when it doesn't benefit them but they still should? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Women are not masculine enough.then it's not the answer to my question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Women are not masculine enough.So women shouldn't be masculine when it doesn't benefit them, then what's your issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 11:45 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI feel like all of those changes are done by changing lightning and camera. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 10:50 AM |
| 5 | Most Modern Women are Alpha Widows"i have no idea how women choose men, and men they claim to be the best are not the hottest i've seen" - fixed it for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 10:32 AM |
| 3 | Women are not masculine enough.why do you make it sound bad? When it doesn't benefit women to be masculine and they still should be such? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 10:29 AM |
| 8 | Women are not masculine enough."What incentive do you have now? Having someone to think for you, lead you and take the initiative?" - that's not the answer. "These are your own words." - yeah, lets pretend that you didn't insinuate this, lets skip that "not enough" has it's meaning, lets play dumb here. /s Edit to add. It's interesting when someone tries to change the conditions of the "deal" for the lack of the better word, without any understanding what another party gets of out of it. Basically: "Now i will do less and you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 10:08 AM |
| 8 | Women are not masculine enough.I'm stealing this phrase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 10:01 AM |
| 10 | Women are not masculine enough.By saying that women aren't masculine enough. Not enough means that they should change and take masculinity upon themselves. And then your last paragraph is basically how this "burden" falls on men. So men want to be unburdened (or you want them to be), and women should take it upon themselves. Then what men bring into relationships? What incentive do i as a woman should have to be in relationship with a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 10:00 AM |
| 8 | Women are not masculine enough."If women had truly become masculine in the traditional sense, we would expect to see them initiating relationships as often as men...." - wrong, because being decisive doesn't mean deciding what you want me to. If men are not attractive then you can make the most initiating and decisive woman, and she will just do something else instead of starting relationship with a man. "Instead, many of these expectations still fall overwhelmingly on men. Men are still generally expected to make the first m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 09:52 AM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵define jester? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 07:31 AM |
| -1 | AI is now banned and also join our discord come argue with incels, misogynists and misandristsDid you tell mods that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Dating Advice For Men Doesn't Work Because Women Don't Actually Know What They Want.my first thought about op is that those are loud words from gender that pride themselves in ignoring what women say and basing their advice on *observation*. So observe then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:24 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women shouldn't complain that men don't pull their weight in cooking + cleaning + parenting based on dubious self-reported statistics when they are willing to pay men for it.thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 08:08 PM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Before answer i will clarify for all men out there who needs this. Sex isn't just some dude who'll stick his penis in me, sex is something that i'll also enjoy, there is no point in looking for some guy who'll use me as blow-up doll. That really depends on location a lot. I, personally, don't feel like it's easy, takes a lot of effort to swipe and chat, vet, go on dates, vet there etc. I don't feel like it's impossible too, but finding good sex takes weeks for me. Finding meh sex probably a week… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 08:00 PM |
| 4 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADDepends, i don't have any loyalty lol. Lately i've been into bungee jumping. Not the extreme kind, but more like something like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 06:20 PM |
| 3 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI'm actually pretty low maintanance. Probably about 200 on makeup a year, then about 200+- a year on haircare, and that's it. I don't count clothes here or sports because i don't do sports for looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 06:13 PM |
| 9 | Its hypocritical for 🔵BP/Feminist society to be outraged at the likes of Bonnie Blue/Lily Philips or even Clavicular, since its just the end result of their own ideals (Sex Positive, Sexual Revolution, Sexual Autonomy).I, personally, have nothing against Bonnie Blue etc. But i'll argue the principle that you think should exist. I see it as you think in black and white. But there is no such things in life. There is no real extreme to sexual expression. Bonnie Blue isn't it. There could be more extreme cases. And more, and more. Same with prudishness, there is no level after which we say "there is nothing more prudish". We as a species are pretty creative, so there is no end. And then it's also not a straight li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 06:06 PM |
| 7 | AI is now banned and also join our discord come argue with incels, misogynists and misandristsI actually support mod's policy here. Because it's weird experience to come to debate when you don't see 25% of comments. It's one thing to block because of some stalking or something like that, but when you just don't like a person on a sub where 50% of people are like that... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 05:45 PM |
| – | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menWill we? How did you make that conclusion? You do realize that social mechanisms didn't just suddenly appeared without any reason? I'm not saying you're wrong, to be clear, i'm asking did you think about it more than 1 minute? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 05:41 PM |
| 2 | If you dont like women, don’t date them.What a stupid comment. Yes, some food grows in nature. But to forage it means working. To grow food means working. To hunt means working. To build a shelter means working. What you're doing right now is simply working differently to exchange it for the labor of someone who can grow, forage and hunt more efficiently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 02:51 PM |
| 6 | If you dont like women, don’t date them.You are a virgin as per your flair. Are you on a deathbed? Are you unable to move and function? What are your medical bills because of your lack of sexual activity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 01:07 PM |
| 14 | Q4W: Would you participate in or use a dating app that had no pictures of the person you are talking to?You can't show pictures to friends or police for that matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 11:36 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: Would you participate in or use a dating app that had no pictures of the person you are talking to?I met people sometimes like that, talked and only later found out how they looked. Had good and bad experiences with that. But i didn't met them to date, it just happened and we hit it off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 11:24 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: Would you participate in or use a dating app that had no pictures of the person you are talking to?🙄 No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 11:18 AM |
| – | Women need to stop acting like it’s men’s fault they have to workYou have to be clearer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 10:56 AM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Oh, it wasn't covert. He asked for the future, I wasn't clear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 09:00 AM |
| 1 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵maybe he'll finally be able to love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 08:04 AM |
| – | Women need to stop acting like it’s men’s fault they have to workI don't blame men for my necessity to work, after all women always worked, nothing new here. "Women decided cooking, cleaning, laundry, and child care were so beneath them" - not really, women decided that being dependent on men and giving them power to do anything they want is beneath them. Your average girl is still cleans and cooks. "that they wanted to have careers instead." - we wanted to finally be paid for our work. And recognized. "You can’t deprioritize domesticity in favor of careerism… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 08:01 AM |
| 1 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Why not? What if it was a dinner and not fuel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 01:01 AM |
| 1 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Well for her I don't know, but it takes me more than a week for sure. That depends on what someone prefer in sex I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 12:51 AM |
| 2 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Eh, i know men like to think that, but good sex for a woman isn't actually that easy to come across. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 06:41 PM |
| 1 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 06:16 PM |
| 2 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵QfA I have a friend who got into the situation. She was on dating apps to find some guy to hookup. There was this guy from another town that super liked her. She didn't like that he was from another town but decided to see how that will go. Well he said that it's not far, he has a car (it's europe, so not everyone has a car), he will come to her. She thought about it, and thought that if it's on that conditions then why not. He comes - they have sex, seems like all good. The guys comes again. An… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 05:58 PM |
| 9 | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menI literally gave link, if you bother to read it - you'll know. But short answer - everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 01:51 PM |
| 19 | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menhttps://findanexpert.unimelb.edu.au/news/2851-men-do-see-the-mess-%E2%80%93-they-just-aren%27t-judged-for-it-the-way-women-are Here you go. Now let's sit there and watch your opinion not changing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:52 PM |
| 28 | Women are to blame for doing more house work and not menno. There is a research about how men and women perceive cleanliness roughly the same. It's just it's women who are judged is the place is unclean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:34 PM |
| -2 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I admit that you can't understand what i've said. and that men can't take what they dish out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 11:29 AM |
| -2 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Oh yeah, if that one specific second (if you're to be believed) men didn't dish out their usual, i'm supposed to ignore everything else and context in which we talk about? Try something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 11:22 AM |
| -1 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵seems like men unable to take what they dish out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 11:10 AM |
| 2 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Honestly, at this point, i'm not against it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 09:41 AM |
| 12 | CMV: Women shouldn't complain that men don't pull their weight in cooking + cleaning + parenting based on dubious self-reported statistics when they are willing to pay men for it.This post is just some weird salad of arguments that don't come together, but arguing against it feels so weird. Basically i see it as "men usually don't pull their weight at home" - "nu uh! men are working as chefs at restaurants and you're willing to pay for their food". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 09:16 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Women shouldn't complain that men don't pull their weight in cooking + cleaning + parenting based on dubious self-reported statistics when they are willing to pay men for it.Is there a place where i can read more about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:55 AM |
| 1 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I watched tv series, there were two women, who worked together, and travelled together, sometimes in the same room. And i was like "oh, cool, they are friends", "makes sense, they are not exceptionally rich, so saves money". In the episode 7 it was disclosed that they are married. Well, i'm sorry, lesbians and bi girls, it's really hard to read women as a woman. I would totally do all of that with my friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:39 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Women shouldn't complain that men don't pull their weight in cooking + cleaning + parenting based on dubious self-reported statistics when they are willing to pay men for it.Oh, hi. It's unrelated, but i remember that you're pink pill, and you told that pink pill isn't red pill. Can you tell me a little bit more, in dm if you don't want here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:36 AM |
| 5 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.And then i just remember how the dating looks like from my side and laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:34 AM |
| 0 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Men and what they bring into my life, keep up with conversation or don't participate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 05:05 PM |
| – | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesBut to point that out they have to have that info. So far they just create some stories in their head and attack real people because of that. Usually with men being the victim and also the great guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 04:52 PM |
| – | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesAnd that's also ridiculous, simply because he doesn't know me, doesn't know my standards, and they don't have to be equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 04:19 PM |
| 3 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵And i thought i told you to stop playing expert on me, but alas here we are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 04:17 PM |
| 1 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵"Like what is the point asking, this is personal." - really? but correcting me isn't personal? Telling me i should want a man isn't? Telling me that men are fine and will make my life better isn't? The way i see it men talk out of their ass and then when they realize that they sound stupid they attack me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 04:08 PM |
| 4 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Why in the world would i be conservative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 03:55 PM |
| 1 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Simple. You claim that i want too much. So i ask what exactly do you bring that i should want. I want it voiced. And usually it isn't because there is nothing, and the answer i shouldn't want anything. But i have to want him at the same time like hw is the best thing in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 03:54 PM |
| 2 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵and there is a way to tell me i'm wrong in my impression? In for a penny in for a pound. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 03:52 PM |
| 3 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Am i like what? But interesting that you think i'll answer regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 03:51 PM |
| 1 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵"But again, if you feel jaded and you response is to turn shallow of course people will attack you for it." - All i do is state my experience, if i'm jaded, ironically it only proves my point. "I don't want to tell you." - i didn't ask personally you. It's an argument when men correct me that they actually do bring enough to the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 03:44 PM |
| 1 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I hate the table talk too, but i have no idea how to deliver the thought more clearly. Men argue that they are the prize and all my experience claims otherwise. They hear that and claim that i'm wrong. So that's the question i ask, what men do to make my life easie/bring to the table/make them good for me, however you want to phrase. If you think that you bring enough - then tell what it is. If your stance is "i bring what i bring" - it's fair, i have same stance, but then don't complain when ot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 03:16 PM |
| 4 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Is this a secret? the height topic is talked about everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 03:00 PM |
| 3 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What's to criticize about not wanting to date short guy? It's physical attraction, it's just is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 02:59 PM |
| 3 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I like watching men lose their shit about how women's standards are too high and then fail to answer what do they bring to the table basically. Tho sometimes they answer. The most hilarious so far is "i'm not ugly and i have job". I wanted to answer that he is allowed cookie after dinner then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 02:51 PM |
| 3 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I remember having the same thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 10:52 AM |
| – | Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection?So do you or don't you have female friends? If yes - why? Do they know that you see them as useless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 09:35 AM |
| – | Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection?So i'll take it as a fantasy. So you listed some imaginary scenario as a "benefit", a "benefit" that you don't get, and emotional support which i think we can both agree that every friend should provide and it's not really gender dependent (i hope). So that only makes me think that you're not friends with women for different reasons, that you don't say. But likely it's because you see women only as potential sex partners and you don't see them as interesting people at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 08:58 AM |
| – | Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection?Say? probably not. Run? Probably yes. Who knows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 08:56 AM |
| – | Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection?"Say I go out with my female friends and we got confronted with a physical threat" - how often does it happen? Is this real life scenario or you just making it up to justify whatever is true reason? Like men who say that "women and children first" is awful blah blah, but the likelihood of actually being in this situation and then actually be demanded to let women and children first is so negligible that this whole argument looks like fighting with bogus. I mean maybe you do live in dangerous pla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 08:49 AM |
| – | Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection?What physical support do you mean? What financial? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 08:31 AM |
| – | Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection?What's the benefit in friendship with men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 08:25 AM |
| – | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesNo. I believe that because i lived with women and i lived with men. But if you think that i'm wrong - explain. How men will make my life good, how women will not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 08:20 AM |
| – | Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection?I don't see why that would be bad. question tho - why platonic friendships with women are not beneficial? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 08:19 AM |
| – | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesI can complain all i want? Like how did you jump to that? I'm sticking to my principles, i'm staying single because there is no other way, and i'm staying single because imo there are no decent men. It's not like i want to be single. It's simply you think that i'm not entitled to my opinion of what is decent, and you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 06:00 AM |
| – | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesIt's pointless. People like him only say meaningless phrases and ignore whatever you say, and call it "wisdom". I don't know about him, but i personally wouldn't want 70yo man in a body of however he is old. If i wanted to listen to this shit i would go to some nursing home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 05:51 AM |
| – | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesYes, people don't usually look for someone from scratch. They already have community that shares something similar with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 05:35 AM |
| – | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesWhy? No seriously, why. I said my standards are unrealistic 100%. And you want what? Confirm that? And checked it out, this is hilarious. "exclude married"....because all women are okay dating married men. And then exclude obese.....omg, and you're so proud of that thing i guess. That what you use to humble women....Oh, it's also about guys in US...So it's not even applicable. My standards are unrealistic because i see men as people who can't really see me and treat me right and be on the same l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 05:24 AM |
| 8 | Handsome and Socially intelligent dude tries for 6 months in dating apps and failing miserably, shows that as a man if you want playtime, you must make dating your everything to get anything in the dating marketBut did this guy used it and did it work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 07:12 PM |
| 9 | Handsome and Socially intelligent dude tries for 6 months in dating apps and failing miserably, shows that as a man if you want playtime, you must make dating your everything to get anything in the dating marketI'm confused. You just posted that he got none, and then you say that he gets laid. Which is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 07:09 PM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵And now you just double down and change what i said to opposite because you can't admit that you just wanted to insult me. Well i will ignore that interesting conversation from now on, i my experience men never admit when they are in the wrong. I'll skip your "you can't take a joke" or other cliche defenses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 06:48 PM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵If you think so. That wasn't witty, nor prompted. It was literally just because. Typical. Or hateful if you just wanted to do it because it's me. Typical still. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 06:27 PM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Did you miss the part about opening and witty? Of course you did. I'm not a man to insult just because, it's your (mens) playground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 06:20 PM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I don't know who you are, but i don't really care about that. I care about ban. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesThe whole concept of leagues is about that. "i deserve better and people around me don't realize this so i will create "objective" reasoning and blame people" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 06:11 PM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Sometimes people are just asking for personal insults. Like today there was this comment with a perfect opening, and it would be witty, but....personal insult, so i kept my fingers to myself. Too bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 06:04 PM |
| 3 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI kinda see your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 05:37 PM |
| 9 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesthat might be, but solution isn't "women, place!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 05:01 PM |
| 9 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesFor me too, i just can't get what i want from men. So i have to live my life as is, it's not like i can create a man i would love. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 04:31 PM |
| 8 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesTo have kids all you have to do is fuck without condom and wait. Not much of a medal for intellect. And my mom lived her life to the best she can and unlike you I know the results. So yeah, i know better, would be weird if i didn't, i mean learning from mistakes of others is a sign of intellect and also parents should raise their children to be better. Try again with cheap manipulation, you sound just like old people who have nothing in life except judging passing people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 03:56 PM |
| 8 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic ones"the likely-hood of you ending up alone is almost 100%." - sorry, i laughed at that. It's when you try to pretend smart by stating the obvious. "you said that there is a picture of a blue ocean - the likely-hood of ocean portrayed on a picture is close to 100%" Gee, how did you get to this conclusion, what a dumb me to not realize it? "really know what "compromising" means to this situation, but i can assure you there is 100% a man out there for you," - well you can read my comment a bit more an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 03:54 PM |
| 18 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesYou sound like my mom, so far she was wrong on every account. But that seems like you don't have any answer to my question, just some "missing opportunity". I'll risk it. I better miss some opportunity than live in horror right now. About 50yo, i'm not scared. Women date when they are 50. I think i'll be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.I can agree or disagree but you didn't provide any arguments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.Still, how is that controlling anything. You are not forced to do anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.What you said is true, but how do women control it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 01:49 PM |
| 16 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesAt this point living with my girlfriends is better than with a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 12:30 PM |
| 3 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD"We can even disregard that gaining muscle, losing fat, fixing your bite etc. makes you more healthy." - i don't think when people talk about dangers of looksmaxing they talk about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 11:28 AM |
| 31 | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesMy standards are completely unrealistic. But the thing is men are optional. I can live without one. So why should i lower them to anything you want, if compromising and taking men as they are now will make my life worse? Can you explain it to me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 10:46 AM |
| – | Do you think "problematic" themes are more okay in women's smut than men's?There are romance for men, when they discuss basically gender swap of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 09:37 AM |
| 4 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNot that i think of myself as liberal, but the difference is kind of obvious. One is done for themselves and their mental health, the other is cosmetic and done to attract others. So one should ideally lead to mental health improvement, and another is going through surgery and taking risks (because every surgery is a risk) and making yourself less healthy to supposedly attract people, who might not even like that. I'm not going to argue about validity of those arguments, but the process are diff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 09:14 AM |
| 10 | Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do?"and sex is required to reproduce." - i don't think that it matters for arousal that much. I might be turned on by a guy licking pussy, and that has nothing to do with reproduction. Or anal. What about foot fetishists? It's about pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 08:51 AM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵And that's not the love you want your partner to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 08:21 AM |
| 8 | Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do?"the mere sight of a penis entering a vagina with his thighs smacking against the woman's booty and the man's ballsack smacking against her clit isn't enough to turn you on?" - no, not really. But also i want to say that ballsack slapping anything isn't something that turns me on or something that i even pay attention to. I know that men usually find it hot, that's something they point out in what they see or think (i would fuck you so hard my balls will slap your ass...) but for me it's just no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 08:02 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do?I use the same as men, because they are bigger. Depends. Sometimes i know what i want and how to look for it. Sometimes when i don't it can take a while or i can just give up. If there are sites catered towards women i don't know about them. The selection for women, that major sites have are usually not what i like. In another comment thread here another woman and I share that tumbrl were something like a space that women used for porn they enjoyed, but not anymore. But even with tumbrl it wasn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 07:43 AM |
| 6 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThat's like 2%!!! What should others do!!! it's not like we can control hair color!!! You do realize that you're just cutting off 98% of women!!! Your standards are ridiculous, cloud high! And you think that you deserve it?? You are probably some average guy. She would just dine and run you. Unlike some good average girl who doesn't have that many options. (for anyone too dense to understand it's a parody of how men react to basically anything women want) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 07:32 AM |
| 13 | What do you mean exactly when you say that men are “disappointing”?Disappointing in what relationships i can have with them and their character. "Are you comparing men to disney princes, men from books, celebrities" - neither. Men in disney were never stars of the show imo, and the relationship was never shown. I have no idea how celebrities are in life, and even the glimpses of their relationship is not enough to create an image of what they had. Books? Well i guess you can say books, but not smut as you think. More classic books? Where men are decisive, have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 07:25 AM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵To love means to know a person and love something about them. I don't think that men who present themselves as having "bare minimum" standards and willing to take any woman can take moral high ground about how better they are than those picky devils. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 07:18 AM |
| 11 | Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do?Not the woman you're asking, but since you said you're curious about women, i'll answer too. That would probably do nothing for me. I don't know why, seems too robotic? But for example i liked videos where a man first teased with his dick and then started to slide slightly, and then started to fuck. Same view, only dick and pussy, but different actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 06:57 AM |
| 10 | Ladies, do you get aroused when watching mainstream porn like men do?I watch porn, but I have to look for some that I would enjoy, so I have no idea how to answer. I usually avoid Brazzers or something like that because of how it filmed. I don't like women there, they are too fake. I don't like men for the same reason, and everything looks unpleasant and fake and I just can't. Usually I watch something where I can imagine some situation and it would turn me on, or some pleasure. I don't know which is harder to find. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 06:04 AM |
| 6 | The disparity between good men and good womenis that all you have to say? I've wasted my time. But to comment on this i don't care about relationship with anyone who would think of me as interchangeable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 08:46 PM |
| – | I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls".Cool, so now lets get back to your point of "women who are actually into...." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 07:46 PM |
| – | I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls".What a weird logic jump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 07:45 PM |
| 6 | The disparity between good men and good women"The amount of good men heavily outweigh amount of women who are potentially good. The good in this context is being a good partner." - you don't know that simply because you don't date men. And i can't really say it's the other way around because i don't date women. Then you write about your impression of women, and okay, i can't argue because i don't date women and you might be right, or might be selection bias, i don't know. What i will argue is with that: The situation will not change unless… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 07:44 PM |
| – | I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls".Everything to absolve men of their agency? Yes, it's legit for women to leave, if they chose so. It's also legit for them to do it as a chore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 07:26 PM |
| – | I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls".well, dude, it's hard to be into some guy who sucks at sex. I had fucked once a guy who was 10/10 but in sex....he was extraordinary in how bad he was. Didn't care about him since. So no, i'll better try to find someone who is good already or at least shows potential. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 07:25 PM |
| – | I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls".Then guys should choose better. Why do they choose women who don't like sex with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 07:20 PM |
| 6 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI'm mostly agreeing and adding my opinion how stupid this fixation on position numbers is. I fucked a guy who were decent size but i couldn't do half of the positions because of the curve of his dick. I talked to men in my community, and they tell me that they can do things with me that they can't do with others because of sensitivity issue, and i'm sure it's vice versa, because i don't like everything. And there are so many things to consider. As you've said - height difference, curve of the di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Social media encourages self-indulgent self-pity and that is why so many guys fail to blossomNice try, Jack Daniel's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 07:03 PM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYes, to an extent. For men it means they should be more extroverted and sexual but not in a creepy way, for example. They should be charismatic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 06:58 PM |
| 6 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADActually it's weird. There are no set manual and checklists on what you should be able to do with a person. Sometimes you have to work around height difference, some people are more flexible than others, some are stronger. Not every man can pull me up and hold me and fuck me holding my weight, but that's not criteria for having a good sex. People are different, and hell, i can't even find two guys who would kiss the same. This is such unsensitive take, like nothing matters, only measurements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 06:57 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI'll let you in on a secret, you also need one for hookups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 06:54 PM |
| -2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhen men don't have attractive personality, looks are the only thing that can compensate, and any man who is fixated solely on looks it telling. I will die on that hill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 06:47 PM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWe're not on the same side of media. I'm on the side where everyone fell in love with him and started to find him hot in a matter of two days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 06:46 PM |
| 6 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYou're simply wrong. I fucked below average penises. I'm well aware that not all positions are available. And that still doesn't prompt me to ask for dick pic before hookup in 90% of the cases. Because it's not that important. I wouldn't have 10 positions, but 1 good one is great if the guy can fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 06:42 PM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵what do you want to change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 05:39 PM |
| – | I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls".Agency of men, until they are lonely and cry for women to change their standards and start liking sex with them without any effort from their part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:34 PM |
| – | I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls".Both have agency. Women choose to do it and see it as a chore. Men who complain about should become better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:19 PM |
| – | I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls".Or maybe men should get better at sex so women won't see it as a chore. I don't know why you blame women for your lack of competence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:12 PM |
| 2 | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I know people who watched anime 20 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 01:46 PM |
| – | It's weird to date a gender who's general impression of dating your gender is mild disgust.That might be true, but that's one anecdote that does nothing to the pattern i've observed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skillsAnd i think you still missed the point. Or you're telling me that men don't want to date for relationships universally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:08 AM |
| 11 | Are women inherently superior to men?I mean it in a nicest way possible, but you're brainwashed. You think that women think of men as lesser (when i said i don't, literally my first comment), you think that women want to date only your image of top 5%, which is seriously far away from reality, and you think that women want to isolate themselves. This is just wild takes, and feels like someone feeding you hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 10:32 AM |
| 12 | Are women inherently superior to men?You: "why do you care that men don't respect you". Me: "i want to peacefully coexist with men" You: "fuck off, isolate all women" Me: "You want to hate me so much?" You: "How is this shitty?" Gee, i don't know, what a mystery. "I am literally encouraging women to solely date tall, fit, well-off men" - i will decide on ly own who to date, thank you very much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 10:16 AM |
| – | A new girl with huge tits was recently hired at the company where I work.Not a debate. Looks post will be removed. Maybe she is friendly and you have big tits fetish (as you've admitted before) so you're biased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 10:11 AM |
| – | It's weird to date a gender who's general impression of dating your gender is mild disgust.You're entitled to your feelings, and i do understand that it is hard. And you're right, that i can't tell you how to feel or deal with this (aside from keep it in legal boundaries, sorry, men have taught me that i have to specify) I want to argue that women don't deal with that "general disgust" as you've put it. Men like to talk about women as something they would use (yes, something) and they hate the idea to connect with a woman or (oh horror) marry her. Ball and chain jokes. Whipped jokes. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 10:05 AM |
| 17 | Are women inherently superior to men?"Go to female doctor, female cop, and a women-only workplace. Segregate completely." - basically you want to hate me so much that you want me to restructure society and isolate all women from you instead of extending basic human decency. I'll watch men who like not all men me ignore that comment. I will also watch men who "i like women, i want women, they don't want me" ignore it too. "But why? Unless he’s in the top 1%," - Oh sweetie, i know that big muscly men like to play experts, but they kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 09:53 AM |
| 15 | Are women inherently superior to men?"Are women inherently superior to men?" - No "why do women care whether men respect them or not" - they care because they want relationship with men. They also care because it influences their career and whatnot. "Should a man’s opinion and thoughts and respect essentially be moot" - not if it influences her life. I don't care if you personally don't respect me. But when i come to a doctor and they will tell me that i'm imagining my pain, or when i come to a police and they tell me that i wasn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 09:27 AM |
| 4 | Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skills"Yes, I am using sex as the reward here" - and that's my point. It depends on what is your purpose. If you pretend to be someone you're not, you can get sex more easily, okay, but with who and to what end? If you want to just have sex - okay, but that's not what dating is for everyone. If you want relationships then how getting sex will help? To illustrate my point, i'm poly, and that's not for everyone, like not at all. You will meet me, you'll lie to me that you're fine, and then you'll get se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skillsI said it mostly because it's not contradiction, meaning it's not an opposite skill for what you need in relationship. It's another skill, yes, i don't think you need it in relationship (at least nothing comes to mind), but it's not opposite. I do agree that shy guys or men who don't want to cause discomfort will avoid doing that, but i think that cold approaches not that successful of a method to cry over it. And then you say that men who will approach will win, but that's isn't so black and wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 08:53 AM |
| 7 | Going back to dating after a 10 years relationship helped me realized the reasons for the gender war - dating skills are the opposite of relationship skillsCold approaches. When women talk about it, most of the time they are against it not because of the fact that man cold approached her, but because of HOW he approached her. That's what women talk about when they point out how men are inconsiderate and make them feel scared. But since men don't care, it evolved into "don't approach us at all if you can't do it as civilized human". It could be selection bias, i, for example not a big texter at all. But to actually prove your point, that women want … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 08:07 AM |
| 0 | What do you think about the patriarchy theory being used in therapy?your mistake is that you don't look deep enough. women are "repelled" because there is gender expectation on men. and that gender expectation on men is placed on them by patriarchy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 07:42 PM |
| -1 | What do you think about the patriarchy theory being used in therapy?and why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 06:37 PM |
| -1 | What do you think about the patriarchy theory being used in therapy?and why is that?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itOh, i'm not against it at all. I'm against portraying it as good and "helping" average guy. It's just selfish and trying to use any advantage you have, nothing bad about it, but don't pretend you're some savior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itWhat a stupid rule. If he isn't a chad he obviously didn't talk to women, didn't they know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 06:04 PM |
| 5 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itso where lets say....vientamees man should go? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 06:03 PM |
| 9 | Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with itOh for fucks sake - go for it if you want, who is stopping you. But what average guy in those countries should do? Seems like you're taking away his chances. Poor guy. So unfair. But women to blame, because of course it's always women's fault in everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 05:57 PM |
| – | Society only "appreciates" men if they get married or get some kind of approval from women.No, it's more like "people who have children contribute to society" "so you're saying that childless people don't???" You "that is what she said". No, that's not. But i guess i have to spell it out for someone who isn't used to logic. It's not the only possible contribution but it is a contribution. Red is a color. That doesn't mean there are no other colors, or that blue isn't a color. Hope that helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 05:06 PM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD"there is NO way to EVER find out someone's body count or even estimate it" - i mean if you estimate something like 2-8 you will be right in most cases, so there is. "there are NO clues whatsoever" - i mean there are clues if a person is really a slut, like really a slut. Or maybe i just see it, i don't know. but to guess if there will be 2 or 5 - i don't see how. Or 20 or 30. same thing. "NOBODY asks about it" - happens pretty rarely, but yeah, happens. "even if they did you could always just L… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Boys are supposed to BECOME menI do understand your argument, but have you seen bodies of hunters? There is no possible way to actually determine that by picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Boys are supposed to BECOME menAlso stereotypes in that case are not the truth. It's just an image of ideal that people "should" aspire to be. So we can say that men are born to lead, but were they? There were leaders, of course. Just as there were losers, whiners, scientists, and just your average Joe's who just wanted to survive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 03:17 PM |
| – | non western women are better than western onesWhat confuses you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 03:08 PM |
| 7 | Boys are supposed to BECOME menHoly f that is a collection of stereotypes.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 03:07 PM |
| – | non western women are better than western onesExactly. I'm not surprized that non westerm men with their culture don't find me attractive. Of course not, and thank god, that's really a compliment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 02:53 PM |
| – | non western women are better than western onesnon western men talk about western dating from the pov of western men...... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 02:39 PM |
| -2 | What do you think about the patriarchy theory being used in therapy?Tell me you don't understand patriarchy without telling me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 02:08 PM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You faced the point and missed it somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 02:05 PM |
| 0 | What do you think about the patriarchy theory being used in therapy?Well considering that men supress their emotions due to partiarchy, or are unable to communicate about feelings in a healthy manner due to partiarchy....i would say it's relevant. At least sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 02:04 PM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Well if it's already at the point of there no women, then i guess it's on men to rethink it. But yes, it's men and women who led to this issue. It's just that even when it's this critical men double down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 01:30 PM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yes, and it's not the only horror. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 11:38 AM |
| 11 | Women who choose to remain single are viewed as empowered, men are notThere are people who critique women for being single (starting with her parents usually). Have you heard about "the wall", "crazy cat lady" and so on? There are people who view this woman as someone broken and subhuman. It's empowering only in some circles, and it's empowering because before women didn't have this luxury, we're probably second generation that can afford it, and first that can actually choose it and choose friend who will support us. We remember out mothers and families of our pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 11:08 AM |
| – | Social justice for me but not for thee: Common female reactions to the 'hiplet' trend versus to heightshaming men are showing their double standards and inherent view of males as lesser beings - just as the trend intendedAnd that is always the defense. I observe patterns. Somehow when i say something unflattering about men or any observations there are many men who argue with me, and claim "well i'm not arguing with every stupid point", but there are NO man who argues with those "stupid points". I see it - i call it out. You can live in your illusions about men being protectors, men being against rape, men being against body shaming etc, but i need actually men to act like it to believe in it. So far all i see i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 10:42 AM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I read about China, how in the rural area they are more conservative (as i guess everywhere), so for the decades they allowed only for boys to be born. So those villages are populated mostly by men, women who were born there fled as if there is no tomorrow (understandably). And the men actually well want to have sex, and children, and family. They have to "buy" a chineese bride, and it's too expensive, basically 10 year salary or so. So they "buy" (or really buy, there are slave trade there) vie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 10:36 AM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵But that will make you a cuck! the horror. Just fuck fellow men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 10:23 AM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵True. I think men should avoid women altogether. Fuck other men! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 10:11 AM |
| – | Social justice for me but not for thee: Common female reactions to the 'hiplet' trend versus to heightshaming men are showing their double standards and inherent view of males as lesser beings - just as the trend intendedCommon suffering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 10:02 AM |
| – | Social justice for me but not for thee: Common female reactions to the 'hiplet' trend versus to heightshaming men are showing their double standards and inherent view of males as lesser beings - just as the trend intendedYeah, men want to believe in that too, just as men are against rape, men are protectors etc. No, they are not. Those men leave a comment here and comment there, and it's supported by other men or they are just ignore it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 10:02 AM |
| – | Social justice for me but not for thee: Common female reactions to the 'hiplet' trend versus to heightshaming men are showing their double standards and inherent view of males as lesser beings - just as the trend intended"That's not going to work. It repulses women automatically when men band together to hold hands and attempt their own version of that. It has always failed." - mostly because what unites men is hate for women. So women and men who actually like women will be opposed to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 09:43 AM |
| – | Social justice for me but not for thee: Common female reactions to the 'hiplet' trend versus to heightshaming men are showing their double standards and inherent view of males as lesser beings - just as the trend intendedHonestly when i read what men say about women i feel as an animal at the auction, and that makes me want to stay away from them even more. Ironically they still want me. They just want me to think that i'm so beneath them and they made me a favor for me to never ask anything of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 09:18 AM |
| – | Social justice for me but not for thee: Common female reactions to the 'hiplet' trend versus to heightshaming men are showing their double standards and inherent view of males as lesser beings - just as the trend intended...hair it too short/too long/untamed/wrong color, thighs too thick/too thin/wrong shape, body is too fat/too thin/not fit enough/too muscly, eyebrows are too thin/too thick, teeth not white enough/have gaps/not straight enough, double chin, weird nose shape, the waist isn't thin enough compared to the rest of the body, ribs are too visible, belly isn't flat enough, feet are too small/too big..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 09:13 AM |
| – | Social justice for me but not for thee: Common female reactions to the 'hiplet' trend versus to heightshaming men are showing their double standards and inherent view of males as lesser beings - just as the trend intended1) it's a look post, so it will be removed anyway 2) i'm not sure what do you want to argue here. You think women are not being criticized? I collect critiques about my body as a trophy. But since i was a teen i saw men commenting on women and there is always something: wrong eyelids, wrong tits shape, wrong nipples shape/color, wrong vulva shape/color, arms too thin, arms too fat, ass wrong shape/small/big, skin isn't ideal, skin wrong shade, lips wrong shape, not full enough, eyes too close/to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 08:56 AM |
| -4 | What do you think about the patriarchy theory being used in therapy?What is the question? Is it used? I suppose so? Do men not like it - i think so, it's men. Should it be used? That depends i guess. Therapy isn't about saying something that another person will like, it's about solving some issues, ideally. So depends on the issue and how it can be solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 08:48 AM |
| – | AFFIRMATIVE✅ AND ARGUMENTATIVE🤬 POSTS📝 MUST BE FLAIRED🚩 AS DEBATE🗣️ DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵happens when you write flat female characters and flat relationships with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 07:06 AM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADbe for real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 07:35 PM |
| 4 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAnd they should despise men who won fights, because it's easy for men, it's just shows that they are trashy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 04:28 PM |
| – | CMV: On Reddit, posts asking for emotional support get significantly more replies when they appear to be from women than from menExactly. It's not clean experiment. Clean would be posting that they need a friend as a woman and as a man ideally in a same space or similar. When i see "i want to talk about books" it doesn't call for any sympathy, it just a persona who wants to talk about books and depending on what in into i might want to or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 03:56 PM |
| 9 | Why do women so drastically change their mind about marriage?Right now men get basically marriage without making it legal. They get to have sex, to live with a woman, some have kids, and so on. It's marriage. The only thing that they don't do is make it legal and face the consequences. (i'm not pro-marriage at all, by the way, not against it either). Women who start to create family without marriage put themselves into really vulnerable position often without any safety measures outside of trusting a guy. and since men are infamous with their sympathy and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 02:20 PM |
| 4 | Society only "appreciates" men if they get married or get some kind of approval from women.Productive for who? And why does it matter if it's selfish? People do many selfish things that others can benefit from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 01:28 PM |
| 8 | Society only "appreciates" men if they get married or get some kind of approval from women."i like strawberry" - "Are you suggesting that people who like watermelon are disgusting" Read what i wrote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 01:14 PM |
| 8 | After a lot of self-reflection, I realised that men create their own problems and blaming women is counterproductive and harmfulWhat is weird is that i agree with general message, but it's so hateful at the same time, that i feel weird agreeing with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 01:05 PM |
| 8 | Question for women: When you genuinely like a guy and feel like the interest might be mutual, what do you actually expect him to do?I literally have no idea how to answer this question. There is no manual. Especially since everything depends on circumstances we're in. But generally speaking i think if i like the guy and he likes me back and i suspect this, then i think we already talking and flirting and things are escalating, because that's how it is i guess? So yes, i expect him to react to my flirting, i expect for communication to deepen and intensify, like i expect expression of his interest and reciprocity when i expre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 12:37 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Sounds a bit like magic. "It only works if you believe..." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 12:21 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵If i were a man i wouldn't want to marry. What for? Right now men can get everything when they just live with a woman, what purpose there is to make it legal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 10:17 AM |
| 14 | Society only "appreciates" men if they get married or get some kind of approval from women.Because that ensures that society gets workers, tax payers, someone who will pay for elderly care etc. What an odd question to ask. No children = no society. But if all of then isn't contribution in your opinion, what DO you contribute then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 08:41 AM |
| 11 | Society only "appreciates" men if they get married or get some kind of approval from women."Getting married and providing for a woman isn't contributing to society." ..." and getting children" - yes. But what DO you contribute then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 08:35 AM |
| 15 | Society only "appreciates" men if they get married or get some kind of approval from women.having children is. but what DO you contribute then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 08:17 AM |
| 18 | Society only "appreciates" men if they get married or get some kind of approval from women.I'm curious about this too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 08:07 AM |
| 5 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOf course: "Who tf cares whether you believe that or not?" - argument either sound or not. I don't care about your ideal world and how fast do you think you should get pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 06:58 AM |
| 5 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD"Who tf cares whether you believe that or not?" - argument either sound or not. I don't care about your ideal world and how fast do you think you should get pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 06:51 AM |
| – | Most women don't consider themselves average, and that's a problemIf women argued like men: "Every man should adopt the child! They don't do it because they are too ego centered and narcissistic and have overinflated ego!! Society suffers, we need to save it, men should start adopting children! They are just too picky and want them later and their own, with a woman who will care for them, fucking gold diggers. They need to care for a child on their own, like nature prescribed!! Where all the providers! Don't they know women want providers??!! Is it so hard?? W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 06:18 AM |
| 4 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThere are some men who justify slut shaming by "it's easy for women it's hard for men". So are you going to tell me that if that was easy for men then it should be shameful and you'd see them as used cars? Do you expect anyone to believe that? Do you see chads as used cars? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 05:58 AM |
| – | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?You haven't described anything. I showed what i mean and you didn't. You simply jumped to insulting me. Well, as i've said ironically typical. Hard to have conversation with a man and not be insulted in first 10 minutes if there is something of a substance being discussed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 06:34 PM |
| – | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?And instead of illustrating your point you jumped to insults. It's ironically typical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 06:29 PM |
| 1 | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?"Literally the objectified" - i don't see it to that extend. Men are not compared to the objects, women care more about experience with a man than owning one, and in general they are treated as people. At least i as i see it. "fight to be taken seriously" - in dating? Please. Men are so used to ignore women, or think that they are not "logical", "just mimic true thought process", "not smart enough" etc, and lets not forget competition for the title of the "man in the house" that they fight woman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 06:20 PM |
| 4 | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?What? Guys can say yes despite not liking a woman. that's experience of women. But i guess you see the error in your ways and wanted to deflect because i don't see the answer to my question. Don't bother, i don't expect anything interesting or honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 06:14 PM |
| 4 | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?What is false? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 06:00 PM |
| – | You can either blame slut-shaming or not.Depends. I don't have rules against it, but i don't have rules pro that too. I had hookups where i fucked them on a third date simply because it was more pleasant for me. I know it's hard to imagine that i'm not vending machine, but alas, i'm a creature of moods and desires and whatnot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 05:43 PM |
| – | You can either blame slut-shaming or not.Another example of black and white thinking. I am a slut. I have enough experience to make most men here faint. And i care and not care about slut shaming at the same time. I don't care if you slut shame me. I don't care if some stranger does. I would care if my landlord or colleague would, simply because that means more likely trouble for me. I'm not ashamed, i would think they are the assholes, but i would care simply because those are people who can influence my life. I'm not advertising that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 05:39 PM |
| 9 | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?I don't really know that much about men's dating experience (just as men don't really know much about mine, but that never stops them). Safety would be the obvious. More pleasure during sex too. During dating i wouldn't be expected to take the mental load of managing them or take extra house chores. No pregnancy fear. I will be taken more seriously and i wouldn't need to fight to be listened to. I wouldn't be objectified and my pain would be a dealbreaker. that's on the shallow level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 05:35 PM |
| 13 | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?"Id argue that 9 times out of 10 if a guy wants to sleep with you than he actually likes you." - based on what? It fascinates me, when men like to believe in some image of other men without any experience. Ironically they also can see some contradictions, and in another debate where the question would be phrased differently, there will be many who would say that men pump and dump and you'd agree. But when women say this - it's not allowed apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 05:31 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Many men were virgins at 22. It's not really that rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 04:34 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵You don't fuck unselected men, but you do had slutty past, and that is hurtful i guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 04:33 PM |
| – | Being coddled as boys has done the most damage to men’s social lives.You missed the point. What you said is right, but there is another side to how boys are raised, what Lilith called "coddling". It is well observed that mothers can create unhealthy attachment to her sons, and i'm not talking about sexual stuff, but relationships. We all saw "mommy's boy" and mothers in law who compete with their daughters in law for attention of their son. It's not good, it's not all sunshine and rainbows. But there are undertones that those boys/men are the prize no matter what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 04:28 PM |
| – | How undesirable are single dads?I think age is relevant too. It's one thing when the guy is in his 40 and dates around his age. Another thing for 25 and around his age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Being coddled as boys has done the most damage to men’s social lives.what men fail to understand about this argument is that nobody tells you to fuck other dudes. but if you want validation - why not get it? you certainly blame women for getting it when they are not interested in anything. but men don't. and then they claim to be so desperate, as starving person....but picky starving person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 02:30 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵be better then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 12:54 PM |
| 3 | Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructedYes, there is the point of introduction but that's not what defines cold vs warm approach, and pretending that men are talking about what i described as "cold approach" is simply obtuse and trying to water down a topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 12:41 PM |
| – | How undesirable are single dads?I don't think in terms of "his overall desirability or SMV". But i don't know what you want to hear. Of course children are huge factor in dating, is this really news? And then for some women it would be dealbreaker, and for some depends on other factors. Isn't this obvious? Like what answer did you expect? -5 points to your stats or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 12:23 PM |
| 4 | Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructedIt's not cold approach if we have something in common and there is something we can already share. Then also it's not "cold approach" if i don't just out of the blue approach a man with romantic intentions, it's exactly warm approach when i build some rapport and get to know him, and try to blend in some community | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 11:38 AM |
| 6 | Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructedYeah, what a mystery, because before that social circles were formed solely by cold approaches? I don't know, i found mine through hobbies and shared values. When there was an interesting conversation that led to another that led to introduction to more people. Then there are also.....school and work and uni, controversial, i know, no one meets there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 10:14 AM |
| 7 | Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructed"Warm approach through social circle is just not efficient," - less efficient than cold approaches? You want me to believe that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 09:34 AM |
| -10 | Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructeddid you skip entry submission and that's why you're so tense? I have some permissions left from the last meeting i managed, i can give them to you if you keep ot a secret | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 08:19 AM |
| -14 | Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructedDo you have monthly meeting with appointed women's representative that gives away approaches permissions? Do you have a week of competition prior to that? Just curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Men are incompatible with long term partnershipI never argued that human's mating systems are evidence against biology (tho in some cases i think it is). But i used biology in context of OP, which tried to spin off his preferences that are largely shaped by culture as innate and biological. If you're arguing about that, then it's obtuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 07:09 AM |
| 9 | Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructedI thought it was "women are picky because they have too many guys approaching her". Apparently not in this debate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 06:41 AM |
| 9 | Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructedWhy men are so fixated on cold approaches? It was never a good method to meet someone, and if someone actually managed, it was more exception to a rule. It baffles me how you so angry that women don't like to be cold approached, when it's not even effective in the first place. Feels like it's more about control and how dare women put some boundaries about what you can't do to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Men are incompatible with long term partnership"Anthropologists have documented a wide range of mating systems throughout history, including long term pair bonds, polygyny, and more flexible arrangements." - i would agree with that. Even culturally there are many variants. "The idea that humans universally formed 4 year relationships before moving on" - maybe you didn't understand me, or i was unclear, but i didn't mean that everyone did that. I said that it's another practice, but i don't think that it was "natural" in a way that everyone d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 07:26 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵They want kids just like children want pets. But with children it's somewhat okay (depends on their age), with grown ass men, not so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 07:22 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵QfW Do you see what red pill call high value men as actually someone you would highly value? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 07:21 PM |
| 19 | Saying asking for prenup means you dont trust your partner is hypocritical because the entire marriage system is based on lack of trust.That depends. "The only reason a marriage contract exists is to protect them in the event of separation" - no, not the only reason. Some marry for immigrational purposes. Some marry for tax benefits. Some marry for other legal benefits that married couples get automatically. So it's only hypocritical IF they marry with a thought about security in mind. But that being said, i actually agree with a main point. I think that many people do marry to create some sort of legal contract. And prenup is b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 06:42 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Could be, i don't know. It is a good question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 04:29 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I know that doctors are dismissive of everyone, but studies show that women spend more years undiagnosed, so they take men seriously way quicker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general)Well I don't know what will be the sourse. Even science takes data from people's experiences. Where do you want your data to come from I have no idea, not sure if I want to know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general)Didn't I say? Source : other women who tried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 12:34 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵At the same time a red pill man on ppd: <image> Why don't women want someone like him? He sounds like a catch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 11:01 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Just stumbled across this conversation <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Men are incompatible with long term partnershipYes, and also possibilities and independence and protection. I'm truly happy i didn't grow up in a time when my parent couldn't legally leave me alone, i feel a bit horrified thinking that children don't get alone time at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:50 AM |
| 6 | Men are incompatible with long term partnershipI think 4 is more realistic, at 3-4 years children are capable of doing work. In some societies they shepherd already. So i think it's around this age. but of course it's not set in stone and some couples might take 6 years, some 3. Childhood is also pretty recent invention. I had an old movies marathon recently, and i saw children there working. Like 7yo boy working. It's unimaginable in the world now, which is a good thing but also a shame too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:36 AM |
| 10 | Men are incompatible with long term partnershipThis is low effort, but i will comment simply because i recently was on a lecture about human behavior. Monogamy as we know it now is kind of recent in human history. Marriage was needed as political and economical alliance. Before that or in other societies humans mostly practiced serial monogamy. Men and women became couple for about 4 +- years, enough to produce a child, to care for them when they are the most vulnerable, and when a child stops being helpless the couple usually separated and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:17 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵don't cut in line, wait for your appointed distribution officer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 08:54 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵but what was he wearing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 08:53 AM |
| – | I think most men would prefer to marry a virgin woman.That's not nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 08:52 AM |
| – | I think most men would prefer to marry a virgin woman.I always feel sorry for men with that kind of worldview, because to believe that women are "used" after sex mean that any time you have sex with a woman you ruin her, and that means you're so innately horrible that you make another person worse simply for interacting with you. that level of safe hate is miserable to live with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 08:43 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Interesting defense. Would've worked if i didn't have interaction outside, but i do have experience with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 08:13 AM |
| 5 | For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevantprove it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 08:04 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Interestingly i saw a lot of times men claim how with the internet they now see what women actually like, what men they go for and so on, and how illusion fell. (good riddance if you ask me). But they never think that women face similar thing. With the internet we now see what men think. how they talk about us. We see that we're not alone in our struggles and other women also face similar things. We see men, and many just don't want those men anymore. So men complain that they now see women for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 08:02 AM |
| – | I think most men would prefer to marry a virgin woman.por que no los dos? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 07:46 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵"Meanwhile even small groups get arrested for protesting for palestine" - fully support that. "Whose ultimate goal is to neuter Irans progress" - and what progress is that? Progress in bombing everyone around? Fully support neutering that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 07:27 AM |
| 1 | If women put more effort into their apps, maybe theyd see more success too.I don't disagree. I think your friends complaints are valid, because that happens to any woman, no matter what kind of profile she has. But your argument is valid too, because there are decent men out there, and if she wants to attract them she has to appeal to them. Same with texting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 06:31 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵and what did it do? Seriously. i see many protests like this. When Ukraine was invaded in lots of countries were pro ukrainian protests, but what changed? nothing. This is just glorified party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 05:44 AM |
| 14 | How much does past sexual experience shape your current sexual preferences?Em, yes, it does? Just like any experience does. You find something that you like and want it more. You find something that you don't like. You find something that you didn't know about and now you do. (honestly you can think i'm talking about food here and the meaning will not change, that's how experience in general work). "do exes and past experiences really shape your sexual preferences that much?" - they can. "Can a person’s preferences change a lot after a relationship, or do they usually … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 05:26 AM |
| 6 | Would you date someone you met in person who didn’t match with you on a dating app?i mean if i like him i like him. it's just harder to meet me irl. but there is no check box about how should we meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 07:00 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Is this gooner? I think it's more like romance. anyway, i have the same issue, but he is right, women aren't the target audience because not many will pay for it. So i look for games that i can like. Like with porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 06:28 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Alright (there was a joke where i posted image of fleshlight, but it was removed by reddit) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 06:26 PM |
| 15 | For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevant"overwhelmingly women with their hypochondria tendencies" - i honestly can stop reading you right here. And i pity every woman who will end up with a man who treat her this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 06:12 PM |
| 4 | For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevant20 hours per month.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 05:57 PM |
| 12 | For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevantDo they? Did you count food? Spend on what? Because in feminists spaces food become a viral topic, meaning that 50/50 is usually woman paying for herself and about twice as much for her man. I saw a woman doing spending comparison, and with a man she becomes poorer. I only remember about food but there are other things she mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 05:54 PM |
| 8 | For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevant5 hours per week is huge difference actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 05:49 PM |
| 18 | For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevant"If she’s making an informed choice freely, shouldn’t she accept the consequences of that choice? Don’t feminists believe in accountability?" - I personally do believe in that. So tell me, when she looks at her life and sees this disparity and how she wasted her life on labor for nothing in return and starts criticizing that arrangement as unfair - what's wrong with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 05:40 PM |
| 19 | For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevantLets not forget that her money also becomes common, and it's a question who spends more... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 05:24 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I get second and third opinion, and if truly there is little to no chance of a sister wake up healthy - i would separate myself. It wouldn't be life neither for me nor her, and it wouldn't be her either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 05:20 PM |
| 26 | For the most part, the idea of "unpaid domestic labor" either doesn't exist or isn't relevant"First, the hours worked. When stacked against each other in an adversarial point keeping way (horrible idea for managing relationships, but feminism forced us go do it) men's working hours/hours spent on domestic tasks are nearly equivalent to women's working hours/hours spent on domestic tasks. The distribution is different, but the total is nearly the same." Not the information i have. For example here Second, when a man and a woman are married, they cease to be individuals and become a singl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 05:18 PM |
| 3 | We are the same, but different (objectifying).then men are the target audience and they feel as they degrade me. And if women are the target audience they feel like they don't change men. here you go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 04:53 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhat answer do you expect? If you want some manual i can't give it to you. If you express surprise then i can only say that for any person who had sex with more than 2 people and also have some sensitivity in a body so visual isn't the only stimulation they get - the answer is pretty obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 04:51 PM |
| 4 | We are the same, but different (objectifying).I don't think you can use this analogy here because no one is selling, it's activity for two people and how they treat it matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 04:41 PM |
| 5 | We are the same, but different (objectifying).Men see it as degrading, haven't you heard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 03:42 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵question, how many books on anthropology have you read? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 03:31 PM |
| 3 | We are the same, but different (objectifying).I mean, that's not the worst i've read here.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 03:08 PM |
| 3 | We are the same, but different (objectifying)."However, I do disagree on how easily it is to understand each other" - it's easy because the tools are there. It's hard because they don't want to use them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 03:07 PM |
| 9 | We are the same, but different (objectifying).i remember similar post about a year ago or something, and i remember common reply was "but sex costs women nothing, and money are something a guy has to work for" or something like that. i'll check later if the replies are different this time. also, men could understand women's grievances easily. aside from pregnancy there can be found equivalent of situations. they just don't want to because it'snot in their interests | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 02:39 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.Like what? (not saying there aren't but still) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 02:31 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.Aren't you the guy who couple of days age argued with me and told how you pity women for being influenced by men's mind, and how unfair it is that men have to put an effort to get a consent for sex? Like...what changed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 02:19 PM |
| – | Women Get way more than men in relationships and Marriages."this whole idea of women only being in relationships of marrying only some chad-like men is not supported by just looking to the outside world." It's also not supported by math. Like how many chads are out there? And why those chads would marry her and not stacy? Are there less stacies? Even if yes, there only a small percentage of average women then who would marry chad. Like how do they imagine it? Unless we define a chad as every man who is somehow attractive - then it's simply not possible … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 02:10 PM |
| 7 | Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general)If there is nothing to address you could've moved on instead of making it personal, just saying. And no, pointing out ONE behavioral pattern and ONE reaction to is isn't "men are bad". But i'm not surprised, after all the myth that men can take criticism is just that, a myth. Especially if that said criticism comes from a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 02:00 PM |
| 9 | Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general)And you sound like you want to make things personal instead of addressing anything i've said. But to comment on this - yes, i am angry when a man tries to make me a "mommy" of relationship. You would be too. if you worked and there was a colleague who didn't do their job and you had to pick some slack and if you tried to talk to them they tell that you're a nag, i doubt that you would maintain perfectly calm composure and love for them. So maybe start paying attention to the issue and not to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 01:55 PM |
| 9 | Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general)"make a list" is a usual phrase incompetent men use to excuse their lack of effort. "i would've done it if you asked" basically. Only women who did make a list report that men still didn't do shit. And even if it does what it takes, why women should manage their grown ass partners and make a list of things for them to do? So when you throw things like "you have to communicate clearly" in the context of living in arrangement it kind of seems like mocking to be honest. Yes, this phrase sound good … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 01:47 PM |
| 7 | Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general)Then why are you suspecting a grudge? I don't know who you are either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 01:28 PM |
| 11 | Weaponized Incompetence isn’t intentional. (In general)"Relying on your partner to pick up on hints or body language is not a great way to have a successful relationship." From the creator of "make a list" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 01:02 PM |
| 14 | "Obsession" internet discourse proves one again how undesiderable shy men are and how gender norms are despicable only when they are unfavorable to women"It's quite clear to the viewer Nikki likes him back, but she does nothing to absolutely show it and she is just as meek as he is." - is it? If she did like him back then it wouldn't be the horror movie it is now. The movie doesn't reinforce stereotype that shy guys are dangerous. There is no stereotype like that at all. There is however stereotype about insecure guys, and entitled guys. And they can be shy too, yes. And this stereotype has a ground. Because abusers abuse not because they are se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 12:46 PM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADSome men treat partnership as some power play and competition with a partner. I feel sorry for people who will try to build relationships with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 10:30 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Then my point stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 09:41 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Weren't you the one who resented women for learning from experience and calling it bitterness and baggage and beta bux? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 09:17 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Predictable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 08:51 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The only proof would be to look for those comments, and you can look just as easy as i do. I'm not in the mood. And i know that you will tell me that this mean i lie, but i can live with that. You either want truth or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 08:31 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵"I don't see actual red pillers being surprised that looks matter." - and i do, now what? "The red pill always included material on how to best present yourself and draw attention" - yeah yeah, that's not what i'm talking about. I'm talking about men, who needed the red pill to actually realize that looks matter. See the difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 08:24 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yes looks matter. No it's not the only thing that matter. There are multiple factors to attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 08:14 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Because i mean red pill? Black say that looks the only thing that matter. But red pillers were also surprised that looks matter and they need to care about their. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 08:13 AM |
| 0 | if given two options, 99.9% of women would choose the shy guy over a serial killerHear! Hear! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 07:57 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What i find funny about red pill -ish men is that they will argue until their face is blue about how things "are" and claim that they are right because of their observations, but they waited until they were adults and they needed for other men to tell them that looks matter. Those a supreme observation skills that they are putting above all else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 07:51 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵"And I swear its the exact opposite. You have to be as physical as possible on first dates and ideally try to get them home, or they ghost you." - i almost agree. There is a limit. But yeah, men have to actually be sexual and interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 06:29 AM |
| 1 | What should be the appropriate punishment for a paternity fraud?Depends on a reason and circumstances | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 04:57 AM |
| 0 | What should be the appropriate punishment for a paternity fraud?Paternity fraud isn't white collar crime. But I digress, yes if the non violent crime is on that scale sure, some prison time might be optimal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 08:21 PM |
| – | Most here dont know what pump and dump means."Some men will date a woman while already knowing they have zero interest in a serious relationship with her. They enjoy the companionship, the sex, and the attention, but they never intend to commit. The relationship continues only as long as it's convenient or enjoyable for them. Eventually they lose interest, meet someone else, or decide it's no longer worth the effort, and they move on." This isn't pump and dump. this is friends with benefits. Pump and dump assumes that there is no connectio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 07:20 PM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI expected science and peer reviewed studies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 06:54 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAh, sorry, i thought you were a man, but apparently you are a woman with casual sex experience more than mine and countless honest conversations with other women who had casual and had no reason to lie to you. Okay, sorry, my bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 06:45 PM |
| 5 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADBarely 2 dudes in a month. That's low really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 06:41 PM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADFirst you're wrong. Looks have nothing to do with sex experience. So your average guy can literally better than some chad easy peasy. secondly. Same thing applies. Eh, not really. Being good at sex is only partly about experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 06:36 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADwell yes, the answer is you have to travel a lot to do that. Some clubs are not really advertised and you need invitation from someone who knows about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 06:34 PM |
| 5 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAs a woman who had casual sex, you're wrong. One of my best is ugly dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 06:21 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵and here i am, sometimes i could walk in to my friends fucking on the couch and i would just walk around them doing my stuff. And other people think about this. Sometimes it's funny how lives can be different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 06:14 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADSource? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 06:08 PM |
| 9 | Unpopular opinion: I think asking for a live-in relationship before marriage is a red flag—for meIt seems more of a debate than question. You are free to live as you wish, it's your right to put conditions on your relationships. I'm outlier, so i will try to separate a little bit my personal preferences and general reasoning. I would prefer to live with someone else because that would show what person they are. I can't count how many times common domesticity showed what a person really thought about me. Or it creates conflicts and i see if it's possible for us to resolve them and how easy. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Do most women feel they have to restrain their sexuality to find a compatible man?I want to say no, but who knows? Not consciously. The thing is i didn't think my surrounding influenced the way i lived before, but it totally did. So i can't be sure now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 01:43 PM |
| 3 | Do most women feel they have to restrain their sexuality to find a compatible man?"If you feel the urge for a man, you will sleep with him?" - i guess so? It's hard to say because my attraction doesn't work like that. "Did you ever want a man but decide not to sleep with him because you felt other men would be uncomfortable with that type of man that you chose to sleep with?" - no, imaginary men are not part of my decision process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 01:38 PM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADLast time we talked about it couple of months ago. What did you do to become more attractive for casual sex since then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 11:28 AM |
| 0 | Going Out Alone as a Guy in a New City Is BrutalI have a question for you. Why meeting strangers supposed to be easy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 10:58 AM |
| 2 | Going Out Alone as a Guy in a New City Is BrutalFuck....thank you And now we observe lonely men outside of their natural habitat.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 09:21 AM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Everyone is hangover | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 09:09 AM |
| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easierAnd i researched a bit, and what do you think? It's completely false information. Homeless shelters are for men and women. And right now there are about 55% +- of men there and 45 of women. You were talking about domestic violence shelters, and you know why they are for women? Because disproportionally so they are in danger. They and the kids. Men don't have to save their life with women usually. That's why 95% of dv shelters are for women. And abusers have a tactic when they pretend to be victi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 08:39 AM |
| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easierNo, i'm wondering why. Did you research this topic or you just jumped to "apathy" as your preferable explanation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 08:24 AM |
| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhere to find all those sex clubs tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 08:20 AM |
| 8 | Do most women feel they have to restrain their sexuality to find a compatible man?Not anymore because i realized that i don't need that life. But yes, before i did. And it didn't feel like i was this slut who would jump anyone if only i didn't have to save myself. It felt natural, like i just live socially acceptable life. I took some work to just untangle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 04:52 AM |
| – | Life as a woman in west is so much easierDid i call it a waste? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 04:50 AM |
| 0 | What should be the appropriate punishment for a paternity fraud?How? How pointing out double standard in men's reaction is "aspiring to be as bad as them"?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 04:49 AM |
| 0 | What should be the appropriate punishment for a paternity fraud?I would if the man is at blame, they still scream about "false rape charges". I doubt that infidelity would be better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 04:48 AM |
| 4 | What should be the appropriate punishment for a paternity fraud?all you need to know about men is their "choose better" when women gets abused or raped or anything, and "why do you put responsibility on a man to make paternity test muh duh" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 09:19 PM |
| -1 | What should be the appropriate punishment for a paternity fraud?No, but it might scam woman into having child with a man who "didn't cheat" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:58 PM |
| -4 | What should be the appropriate punishment for a paternity fraud?"I'm a bit confused on this part." - i don't know, that should be for the law to decide. To me intent means that there was without any doubt intent to fraud a man, not just a mistake or whatever else. It doesn't matter than mistakes shouldn't be punishable, we punish some, but not to extent of willful actions. Then also for example there is responsibility of a father, lets not forget it. He can easily take a paternity test and be done with the issue early, and not just trust. Maybe the law shoul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:08 PM |
| 20 | What should be the appropriate punishment for a paternity fraud?assuming intent was proven then i think it's financial matter. I'm against jail in that case because 1) a child basically loses both parents 2) it's non-violent crime, i don't think people should be in jail for this. About how much should be paid i think should be determined on case to case basis, depending on circumstances, loses etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 07:28 PM |
| 4 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYeah. I know some people who reached some hundreds, but a thousand? probably sex workers i guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 06:51 PM |
| 31 | Men shouldn’t have to be hypermasculine providers in order to get into relationships.But you basing this post on your experience which is also individual anecdote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 06:50 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 05:38 PM |
| 1 | r/Bumble proves men do, in fact, have optionsAnd when i tell that as a woman, it never counts as argument. Why does it count when men say it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 05:11 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 04:39 PM |
| 0 | Life as a woman in west is so much easier"Complaining that governments pay for playgrounds but men play more - is a cheap jealousy against men. The fact is that anyone is allowed to use the playground, man or woman." - and that is exactly the privilege thinking. I'm not even saying that it's malicious. It's simply privileged. It's like a husband who buys fishing rod as a family gift, and when a wife said that she doesn't use it, he acts like it's not his fault, she is allowed to. But the fact is that it's for him, and everyone knows it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 04:07 PM |
| 5 | Life as a woman in west is so much easierI see that you're mostly in the mood to ridicule and everything will fly over your head, so this comment mostly for others. It also highlights that uniform is made for men and women's are usually doesn't account for women's bodies which endangers them on their jobs. It also highlights that safety belts are also not accounted for women's bodies and they have more injuries in case there is a car crash. It also highlights that while women and men pay taxes, government builds sports grounds that mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Life as a woman in west is so much easierI can only tell you to read "Invisible Women: Exposing Data Bias in a World Designed for Men". Literally whole book about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 02:55 PM |
| – | Even if the Red Pill doesn't understand philosophy or the history of gender essentialism, it doesn't change the fact that its worldview is fundamentally conservative.Eh, and another man who plays expert on me. Tho i'm not surprized. The purpose of my comment was to show ridiculousness of the statement that height is a "role" but well, it flew over your heads. No matter. Will you edit your message again after my reply? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Honestly, to what degree do you want double standards?Already did. But if you didn't notice then repeating is pointless. have a good one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 10:36 AM |
| 6 | Honestly, to what degree do you want double standards?I agree. But i think we mean different people by "oblivious" here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Has your past/current female partners wanted more or less sex than you?I'm a woman (obviously), but my libido is usually lower than men i've dated. There were only few instances when it was higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 10:33 AM |
| 7 | Honestly, to what degree do you want double standards?Learn to build connections, what can i say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 10:30 AM |
| 7 | Honestly, to what degree do you want double standards?I can't say anything about those situations because i don't have enough info and yours is vague as hell. Anyway - if you don't like it - then don't date people who do things like that. Vet for people who act in a way you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 10:26 AM |
| 3 | What do you have to offer?Do you see the error in your logic or not? I'm not interested in you swaying the topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 10:24 AM |
| 8 | Honestly, to what degree do you want double standards?So basically "how much should i pretend" question. The answer is as much or as little as you want. If you don't pretend judging by your description your pool will be small. If you will it will be larger for a time, but more tiring. Now my thoughts about it is that your issue isn't double standard but more like lack of connection and emotional intelligence (no offense). First because i suspect your connection to your friends isn't that deep, and when you date the person you date should be really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 09:40 AM |
| 2 | What do you have to offer?No. I'm thinking that you lie. employer isn't just being alive, he brings money. Women aren't just being alive they bring what they bring. You just think that it's by default and not worth recognition to humble women as if they aren't enough. But you still want them, so you lie. But if they aren't bringing enough what are you even doing with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:41 AM |
| 2 | What do you have to offer?You said "I mean, we all KNOW women dont have to bring anything to the table" - but that's wrong. Reread my argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 08:00 AM |
| 3 | What do you have to offer?What is the answer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 07:47 AM |
| 4 | What do you have to offer?this is stupid. employer brings obvious thing to the table - money. That's why people want to work for him. Nobody wants to work for free. Same with purchaser. And ironically same with women. Men want women a lot, they cry about it, they are desperate (tho in my opinion not desperate enough). which means they KNOW what women bring to the table and they like it. They want it. This question is only used to humiliate women and tell them they are not enough (until women turn around and walk away). W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 06:53 AM |
| -1 | The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal changeWell even is not you can't refute even this one, so why give you something harder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 08:08 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵it was at first...but he persuaded me. And then i slowly started to overcome my fears | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 08:07 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal changeBut muh hypergamy, muh picky women, muh overinflated ego, muh bone structure, muh muh....lies... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 07:47 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal changeI think that people who actually want solutions wouldn't be attracted to rp right now. simply because rp doesn't offer a solution. go to the gym is just this, go to the gym, men can easily get more detailed advice in any gym communities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 07:26 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal changeYes, society has changed, it's always changing, but people not always catching up to it. "Because those are literally the people telling men not to follow red pill self-optimization." - pff, there be always someone who lies, maliciously or because of lack of awareness. There be always someone who has opposite interests. If that's your excuse to not take agency - then you never will. Which is my point. You can either choose to throw a victim tantrums or act. Red pillers choose tantrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 07:10 PM |
| 9 | The Red Pill's greatest appeal is that it offers immediate individual agency rather than long-term societal changeI wish. I'm afraid that currently red pill give anything but individual agency. red pillers blame everything, women, lies, society, bad advices, constellation, except finding something they can do. I've talked to many of them, and what they lack is agency. They have huge victim complex combined with rage. I did talk to some "og red pillers" and they did have some agency, and they weren't hateful nearly as much. Right now i feel like red pill sells hate. And that's why it's popular. It's easier t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 06:45 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵My last bf had tarantula as a pet. So tarantula big. I held it in my hands and petted it. fed it too. Literally helped overcome many fears. I'm still jumpy, but not to the same extent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 06:12 PM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themWho said anything about "morally obligated"? It's simple as if you want it - put effort into it. If not - then not. If i want omelet i will put effort and money into buying eggs and cooking it, if not - then not, nothing moral about it. If you're unsatisfied about women's effort to attract you and that's a dealbreaker - then don't engage with women. Literally simply your choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 06:10 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I just assume you cuddle with some daddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 05:37 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵ahaha, so familiar. I'm glad that i worked on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 05:37 PM |
| 8 | I feel like many women complain about not being able to find a “good guy” or steady man but are having sex way too early on.How sex determines if the guy is good? Like if i'll have sex with him on a first date he won't be good and on a third he'll respect me? I have news - he wasn't good to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 02:47 PM |
| – | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillYes. that's one example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Good men with a backbone > Bad men with a backbone > men without a backbone - Attraction hierarchy.I agree. The issue is those men without backbone think that they are good, but the lack of backbone makes them bad. They are used to avoiding conflicts, and if you will be with them, they will start avoid conflicts at your cost. They will push you to become a doormat too for others and for himself. It's another type of abuse really. Being a good guy requires backbone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 12:46 PM |
| 7 | People will claim “Just be yourself” doesnt work and then get upset when theyre encouraged to change.those "desperate" people are angry and blaming any advice, because they don't want to do anything, and it's easier to blame advice then their lack of actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 11:40 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Choice that being made to please another is still a choice with all responsibility that comes with it. Their fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 11:23 AM |
| 0 | Even if the Red Pill doesn't understand philosophy or the history of gender essentialism, it doesn't change the fact that its worldview is fundamentally conservative.This is how i found out that i'm conservative. So i'm poly, i hate traditional roles, but since i am attracted to taller men i'm conservative now. cool, cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 11:22 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Just as men, dude. Just as men. But sadly yes, you are right. Women and men for some reason like to display suicidal tolerance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 10:49 AM |
| – | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillAnd how many awkward shy guys have girlfriends? How many abusive guys don't? This is incomplete data to make any conclusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 10:47 AM |
| – | Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hillWell i can smell some now. Some people have black and white thinking. Either something perfect, or it's completely useless. There are no shades to someone's skill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 10:46 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I have no idea how my votes matter if i just speak truth. Look at sudden jump at rape statistics when europe started to let refugees in, except in countries that didn't let them. See how government cover nationality of criminals. Hell, watch civilan vigilante. Watch how police reacted on Henry Novak death. Watch rape gang report. And many more things. but you won't of course. Because while in gender debate it's women against men, in everything else it's far left against pretty much any thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 10:25 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No, wokists. Men are just as much crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 10:08 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Pfhahaha. Of course convicted are only white...who would do anything with those pleasant people of the peaceful religion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 10:07 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Oh really? Then we look at the different stats. rape gangs in England also done by white men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 09:53 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵And they are crazy imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 09:40 AM |
| 8 | Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger womenYes, and you can plant healthy seeds that will give fruits, or you can plant some rotten withered seeds that if they ever give fruits the crop will be so sick and crooked that better not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 08:24 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Hard to trust this, but okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 08:23 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I think european countries treat their citizens like dirt. Hate that or not, i don't care. but i do believe that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 08:12 AM |
| 12 | Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger women?? Where do i pretend to be a man?? And why would it matter if a man said what i said or a woman?? "logical" gender my ass, if the truth depends on your genitalia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 08:11 AM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵"why women don't want to date me? I just don't care if they are raped and killed, it's a minor flaw" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 07:40 AM |
| 15 | Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger women"A 50 year old man hitting on a young woman, cannot be made fun of, because it's fruitful." - no he isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 07:25 AM |
| 6 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵who calls men who ghost rapists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Most young women prefer bad boys, but they would almost never admit it"You meant it as an insult" - no i didn't, that's your interpretation and i would assume homophobia. I meant it as a comment that he might have some unclear view of the situation. I'm attacked for being homophobic simply because men are. I'm not the one acting like being into men is an insult, but your big defense is telling. You can't even ask OP am i right or not, you jump to his defense without knowing anything. because it's insult TO YOU. As i've said you are entitled to your feelings, but i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Most young women prefer bad boys, but they would almost never admit itIs it so bad? I'm not the one acting like imagining that there can be some attraction to a man is a deadly insult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Most young women prefer bad boys, but they would almost never admit it??? Is it so bad being into a dude? Honestly with you defending OP this much on this matter i think you just think that being into men is something criminal. No wonder you hate women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Most young women prefer bad boys, but they would almost never admit itNo it doesn't. But you are entitled to your feelings, i think they are weird, but you are free to feel them. Honestly it's so funny how you defend OP's "not gayness" as if it matters so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Most young women prefer bad boys, but they would almost never admit itThat's not the same. If i was a lesbian i would've dated my friend - one thing I wish i was a lesbian, but sadly i'm straight and have to date men - is another. How can you not see it?? One is show of affection one is frustration with dating issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Most young women prefer bad boys, but they would almost never admit itI can. I met noisy guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Most young women prefer bad boys, but they would almost never admit itI don't know how to pinpoint it, but that how it reads to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 04:33 PM |
| 17 | Most young women prefer bad boys, but they would almost never admit itHonestly, it feels like you have a thing for your friend. Now to the post. Is she wrong? Yes. Are there mental gymnastics - also yes. That being said you have no idea what their relationship were like from her side. You say that your friend treated her like a princess but you don't know what happened behind closed doors. I'm not saying that he abused her, i'm saying that there might be issues he brushed off. Might be not, i don't know. But neither do you. "I asked her what she saw in the guy she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 04:10 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 02:21 PM |
| 0 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Interestingly enough women outnumber men by 1 million. So who those women dating? Couldn't it be situationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:48 PM |
| 11 | The superpower most men would choose—after eternal youth and unlimited wealth—is the ability to sleep with any woman they’re attracted to just by snapping their fingers.I had debate with OP literally couple hours ago, and considering that he thinks that women's criteria for consent is the root of the issue, i suspect no, they do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 09:54 AM |
| 4 | The superpower most men would choose—after eternal youth and unlimited wealth—is the ability to sleep with any woman they’re attracted to just by snapping their fingers.You claim that women (all) rape. Prove. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 09:52 AM |
| 7 | The superpower most men would choose—after eternal youth and unlimited wealth—is the ability to sleep with any woman they’re attracted to just by snapping their fingers.cutie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 09:47 AM |
| 4 | The superpower most men would choose—after eternal youth and unlimited wealth—is the ability to sleep with any woman they’re attracted to just by snapping their fingers.I said that women don't bypass consent, and he said that they do. That is rape if you didn't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 09:46 AM |
| 5 | The superpower most men would choose—after eternal youth and unlimited wealth—is the ability to sleep with any woman they’re attracted to just by snapping their fingers.This question isn't proof of your statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 09:46 AM |
| 6 | The superpower most men would choose—after eternal youth and unlimited wealth—is the ability to sleep with any woman they’re attracted to just by snapping their fingers."They do actually." - i'm sorry i can't seriously debate against "women are rapists" claim. prove it or admit that you bullshitting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 09:38 AM |
| 9 | The superpower most men would choose—after eternal youth and unlimited wealth—is the ability to sleep with any woman they’re attracted to just by snapping their fingers.women don't bypass consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 09:30 AM |
| 11 | The superpower most men would choose—after eternal youth and unlimited wealth—is the ability to sleep with any woman they’re attracted to just by snapping their fingers.Hello, bear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 09:23 AM |
| 3 | Mongolia shows that traditional masculinity and relatively high gender equality can coexist."Historically, Mongolian women often had relatively active roles compared with many neighbouring societies. Nomadic life required both men and women to contribute to the household economy, and women could manage livestock, finances and the home while men were away." Historically EVERY way of living demanded both men and women to contribute. You think women in russia just sat in their wooden houses and sang cheery songs? You think women in england did nothing? In china?? That's bullshit. They did… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 08:49 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Just curious, how did he fact-checked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 08:40 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What i like about my post about hypergamy, you can simplify men's complaints to "women are not shallow enough, and they need for men to have so qualities and effort". Ironically since men can't shut up about how shallow women actually are because they also care about looks. Seems to me women aren't allowed to care about anything at all, and yet they should care about everything at the same time because "i would hate for a woman to settle for me" and "she should vet, choose better". Ironically sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 08:36 AM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themRead his replies to me and see who you protected. Tho i doubt that will mean much if you hate women too, and their ability to make choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 07:56 AM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract them" You're going around in comments and saying if a guy doesn't get a girlfriend so he never did "enough" - I'm saying this for two reasons - one because he didn't. And it doesn't mean i blame him, because i don't really give a fuck if he gets a girlfriend or not, it's not a moral characteristic for me. But the fact is - he didn't put enough effort to get results. And the second reason because those guys usually don't put effort at all. It's not like they are trying as hard as they can. They are w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 07:03 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The issue is that j makes different sounds in different european languages, so first time i talked to a spanish guy was when i was in germany, so i was for a solid minute thinking why he is extensively agreeing?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:51 AM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themHe never said that. You simply switching his message to yours. But if you want to talk about it - okay. You just discovered attractiveness? Oh wow, there are attractive people and other people like them, what a horror. We need to spread women evenly! It's unfair! Men were promised women!! was the short guy dealt with short end of the stick? Yeah. And? He can wallow about unfairness all hos life, will it bring him women? I don't think so. It's like poor people who instead of working and looking f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:43 AM |
| 5 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menHe disagrees. This is the tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:25 AM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themAnd? His question is literally "why should men put effort if they want to just fuck". You can imagine some hidden meaning all you want, i prefer to read the actual words. Hence my question. Your interpretation doesn't even make any sense, because he is angry that women want to feel good to have sex (what bitches, am i right? Can't they just feel like shit but stil give sex??) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:17 AM |
| 2 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themIf you think that your issue is your bone structure, then you either have crucial health issues and then i'm sorry, or you're using this as an excuse of your lack of general attractiveness and effort to put in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 06:00 AM |
| 7 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract them1) define hypergamy 2) prove that it exist 3) prove that it is antisocial 4) explain why it is a women's issue and why should they change it 5) not really, human nature is serial monogamy more like, and i don't see anyone restraining it since divorces became normalized. Aside from deeply religious and conservative people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 06:56 PM |
| 4 | If you were born male, do you think you'd be doing better than other men in areas that you criticize men for?You don't know who i want to date, so your "opinion" is worthless. Also food for thought, the question was "what areas that i criticize men i'm better". How do you imagine me criticizing men for their height? that would be stupid. I might like it or not, but i can't criticize something they literally have no choice in. But of course you want to assert dominance in conversation and bring me down, no matter what was discussed, typical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 06:38 PM |
| 4 | If you were born male, do you think you'd be doing better than other men in areas that you criticize men for?Can you stop playing expert on me? You have no idea about my political affiliation, my wants and needs nor my height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 06:20 PM |
| 3 | If you were born male, do you think you'd be doing better than other men in areas that you criticize men for?"What are those areas you’re better in?" - Treatment of women would be one. Not putting my mental load onto someone else. I'm decisive. I'm not putting blame for my actions on someone else. I'm responsible for myself. I care about people i'm with. It's possible to talk to me without being insulted. I'm not entitled to someone's time and attention. That's just from the top of my head of things that i criticize men for. Then i have a lot of other advantages that are niche, no point in mentioning t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 05:53 PM |
| 6 | If you were born male, do you think you'd be doing better than other men in areas that you criticize men for?Duh? And what good is that? I understand men and where they come from, i simply refuse to like it and absolve them from responsibility for their actions and choices. There is a point in everyone's life where "i was raised this way" doesn't work anymore and you bear personal responsibility for your actions. Some people were raised in the paradigm that beating children is okay, but when they have their own child nobody will listen to "my pops always did it" (aside from therapist) there will be con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 05:31 PM |
| 6 | If you were born male, do you think you'd be doing better than other men in areas that you criticize men for?Dating success among who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 05:28 PM |
| 6 | If you were born male, do you think you'd be doing better than other men in areas that you criticize men for?Define meaningful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 05:22 PM |
| 7 | If you were born male, do you think you'd be doing better than other men in areas that you criticize men for?"You said yourself "what would make me any different?" If you don't know how you would stand out from other men, then you probably wouldn't." - there is literally no way to say, but probably not, which is what i've said in my first comment. And there is no point of naming those advantages because they are niche. I can tell you some vague phrases like we share values and so on, but that will give you nothing. Will i be attractive to your average girl if it was me turned male? Probably not. But i … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 05:22 PM |
| 6 | If you were born male, do you think you'd be doing better than other men in areas that you criticize men for?"So you would be an unremarkable male that doesn't stand out in any way to the opposite sex?" - how would i know that? I would be a completely different person, and maybe i would've been someone who stands out, or maybe not. There is no way to tell. "So if you magically switched genders you think your female friends would find this male version of you more attractive than the average guy?" - Hell yes, i have a lot of advantages compared to them if we're talking about my friends. Hell, i would ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 05:08 PM |
| 8 | If you were born male, do you think you'd be doing better than other men in areas that you criticize men for?I have no idea how to answer this. If i was born male i would be in the same conditions as other men, and what in the world would make me different?? I would be socialized similar way, i would have same behavioral patterns, probably same thought process. So the question is would i be someone who is more successful for some reason, but how would i know that? I was turned male, then yes, simply because i'm already better in areas i'm criticizing them for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:56 PM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themYou personally can change trends or what you are attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:27 PM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themNo, i asked your explanation. But if that is the level you want to debate on, i'm not interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:27 PM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themYou're saying this like it was the women's choice and not simply powerful men's monopoly, often forced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:14 PM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themAttracted why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:07 PM |
| 2 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themYes, and men do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 03:33 PM |
| 2 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themNo. That's definition of hypergamy. Look it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 03:30 PM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themNo, up means dating or marrying a partner who has a higher social, financial, or educational status than yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 03:12 PM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themHow did you determine that they had put enough effort? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 02:33 PM |
| 2 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themEnough to be some satisfying results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 02:31 PM |
| 3 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themIf not, then there is simply never enough effort. I don't believe that it's realistic for one specific man to be able to put enough effort to seduce every specific woman. But a man can improve his chances, can put more effort into attracting women he like in general, and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 12:45 PM |
| 3 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themAnd why is that women dating up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 12:40 PM |
| – | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themHonestly, I'm getting tired of reporting personal attacks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 12:39 PM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themBut you are not interested in most women. You said it yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 12:36 PM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themYes. So you already are no interested in women who are not into you. All I said "become better version of yourself and put more effort into search". How following that advice will shrink your pool? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 12:17 PM |
| 2 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themSo women date up because there are qualities they admire? That's not definition of hypergamy. You are confusing hypergamy with attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 12:15 PM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themAnd? This is obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 12:09 PM |
| 2 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themSo you can't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:58 AM |
| 0 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themWhat? How it will shrink your dating pool? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:58 AM |
| 3 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themThen show how it was displayed because it feels a bit like you trying hypnotize me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:41 AM |
| -1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themYou can put effort into being better version of yourself or in your search | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:38 AM |
| 5 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themYou repeating that doesn't really make it true. Nobility married into nobility. Usually approximately the same status. peasants usually married to peasants. citizens to citizens and usually the same status. Sometimes marriages were unequal in a way that one brought a name and lineage and another money. But in no way peasants married rich citizens or nobility, or the couple were shamed and the doors were closed for them. So how women married up? and why men were interested in that??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:06 AM |
| 4 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themSo you can't really put it into words, i'm awful because you simply don't like what i say without any other argument. I can live with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 10:39 AM |
| 8 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themNo, this is using success as a measure of sufficiency of effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 10:38 AM |
| 6 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract them"It was absolutely necessary historically for women to date up" - no it wasn't. However it was necessary to date within their socio-economic class. "Back then most women were stay at home moms, not in the workforce." - women always worked. Peasants worked in the fields, and grandmothers watched the children. Noble women managed the estate while men managed the property. What are you talking about?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 10:37 AM |
| 6 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themAlright. Since i'm a woman, and my attraction works differently, i would simply tell everyone no except those who make me feel something. Just as women do now. That makes you angry, probably because you don't want to put an effort and think it's unfair that women are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:54 AM |
| – | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themPersonal attack isn't proof of your hypothesis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:52 AM |
| 8 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themAnd? Again, what should women do? Just spread their legs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:45 AM |
| 2 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract them"If your attraction is impacted by social trends it is literally definition of hypergamy." - no. the hypergamy is being attracted and dating UP. Not just being influenced by something natural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:43 AM |
| 4 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themProve that it's more valid than what i've said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:42 AM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themI agree? this should be moved under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:42 AM |
| 5 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themOh, i didn't ask for speculation, i ask why did you think that i'm awful. What awfulness do you see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:41 AM |
| 7 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themWhy are you lecturing me on attraction and not answering my question? Tho i shouldn't be surprized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:40 AM |
| 4 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themAhahahahaha. Sorry, if you think that it's something insulting then you are wrong. I'm influenced by others and i'm proud of it. I'm reading books and their ideas influence my mind. You can call it dead men's mind influence me. They make me feel different emotions. I'm watching movies and influenced by them. I'm spending time with people and i'm influenced by them. Honestly, i don't see any intellectual development without it, so if you avoid influence of others, i'm not the one stupid here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:33 AM |
| 9 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themYeah yeah, cool. But then you want to fuck me, and then what? I should just spread my legs because you want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:31 AM |
| 7 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themAwful because? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:30 AM |
| 3 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themSeems like he didn't put effort into relationship and thought that after he attracted her his work is done, i've seen many ruined relationships because of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:29 AM |
| 5 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themProve it. "You don't see average guys dating average women anymore" - i see. "Women in history have always dated up" - no they didn't. "a lot of men don't have an issue dating down" - yes they do, and why wouldn't they when they have better options within their class? "You say that women don't have control over hypergamy., when that simply isn't true." - then prove it and then prove that women can control it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:28 AM |
| 6 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract them"Enough" means having as much as necessary, sufficient to meet a requirement, or an adequate quantity. It indicates that something meets a need without being excessive, though it can also refer to a degree of satisfaction The question is how do you determine "enough" if it doesn't bring results? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:23 AM |
| 5 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themYes, and? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:20 AM |
| 4 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themSorry not sorry to use your logic to show that there are holes in that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:19 AM |
| 4 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themCry me a river? that doesn't change the meaning of "enough". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:18 AM |
| 3 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themThen you need to become better?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:10 AM |
| 7 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themAnd how it should be in your imagination? If a man wants to sleep with me i should just spread my legs?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:10 AM |
| – | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themI think you want to rethink what you just wrote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:09 AM |
| 2 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themLets assume it's manufactured by social media for a minute. How will i be able to control it? You do realize that social trends ALWAYS influenced attraction, but they are social and not individual. I have no more control over my attraction than you, no matter if it's produced by social media or biology. There is no "valid" reason to be attracted to someone. Edit. And i don't really think you want women to be attracted to same things that they were during mammoth periods anyway. and that also wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:08 AM |
| 8 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themI know what it means, i'm saying that it is bullshit, and that men simply use it as an excuse for their lack of effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:06 AM |
| 7 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themWell then i suggest if men get pissy about their own arguments - stop using that arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:05 AM |
| 9 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themThat's not how "enough" is characterized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 09:04 AM |
| 3 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themJust to quote "Parentage analyses of baleen whales are rare, and although mating systems have been hypothesized for some species, little data on realized male reproductive success are available and the patterns of male reproductive success have remained elusive for most species." Literally first phrase. Is this what you consider evidence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:53 AM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themIf you think that throwing a word "evolution" will prove your point than you're mistaken and also don't know anything about evolution. And to make you understand i will say "Universe". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:52 AM |
| -3 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themIf they fail to attract - they don't. "enough" is a characteristic of amount of effort that will get you results in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:51 AM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themdoesn't matter. Can attraction be negotiated? no? then they are hypergamous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:50 AM |
| 1 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themWhat?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:48 AM |
| 3 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themIf a man wants to wait for a spark - he is free to do so. Will that work? I don't think for many it will. Care to show why you link it to intelligence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:48 AM |
| 5 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themDo men use this argument or don't? If they do - they they are not fair. If they don't - then you're lying. Simple as. Women's actions are irrelevant to show men's consistency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:47 AM |
| 4 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themAlright, if you don't see, then i will claim that men are the hypergamous ones. Simply because they are also have someone they are attracted to, and attraction can't be negotiated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:45 AM |
| 3 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themProve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:44 AM |
| 3 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themLiterally first thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:42 AM |
| 4 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themgive me the evidence that most whales are sexless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:41 AM |
| 7 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themThis is so funny. "You can't negotiate an attraction - and that's how i made a conclusion that you want someone above you in status. " I see some missing chains in that logic, do you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:40 AM |
| 9 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themA blunt answer - because he wants to attract woman to get laid. If there is a different option - he is free to use it, but is there? Aside from sex workers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:39 AM |
| 3 | "Hypergamy" is just a way to blame women for men's lack of effort to attract themIt is probably true, the part that men are as boring as women. But the fact is still there, they are boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:38 AM |
| 5 | As a man who struggled to orgasm with partners, I really think the discourse around orgasm gap is unfair.I know a woman who is also struggling to cum with partners, and she is fine with that. And the fault is hers, also similar description. So yes, that is fair. But 1) if it's disproportionally women who feel like that - then something isn't right 2) that woman, who can't cum, still judges sex, and there is still good and bad, and most of that sex isn't good. So for all rights and purposes the discourse is still fair, just cross of orgasm to pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 08:37 AM |
| – | Some women are more loyal than men to their nationAnd yet it's recognition and showing gratitude and whatnot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 07:56 AM |
| – | Some women are more loyal than men to their nationOh, don't get me wrong, only men's sacrifice and duty counts, women as always just should do everything in the shadow without any valor, gratitude or recognition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 07:35 AM |
| – | Some women are more loyal than men to their nation"what kind of men let their women fight and die for their nation?" - the men we have? They are always done it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 07:31 AM |
| 3 | Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here?This is ironic, truly. But care to answer my question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 06:16 AM |
| 6 | Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here?Some red pill men cite the study that has nothing to do with the point they make, and then claim the position of superiority because they are backed up by "science". Well in their imagination yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 06:14 AM |
| 9 | Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here?Again. At what point it is safe to assume that the issue is general men's behavior and not women's choices? Like what evidence do you need to see to conclude that most women couldn't have chosen better because there is no better choice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 07:43 PM |
| 27 | Passport broing should unironically be illegalI think those "poor women" can think for themselves, many would be glad for the opportunity to be "exploited", many actually would be the ones exploiting. But in general i think grown up adults are free to be in any relationship they want, based on any foundation they want, be that love, money or comfort or friendship. I'm against all tyranny and other people sticking their noses in someone else's bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:28 PM |
| 9 | Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here?I sometimes ask men who think like you this question. At what point it is safe to assume that there way more bad guys than men claim it is? Like my experience shows that there are many. Okay. I'm choosing wrong or attracting wrong cround. But if EVERY woman has bad experiences, exes, stalkers, nice guys etc, at what point it is safe to assume that the issue is quality of majority of men and not some bad choices? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:22 PM |
| 11 | Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here?If you think i remember ever username then you would be wrong. Also as you've said no point in arguing because you made up your mind about what i felt and thought and about me in general. But let me ask you this. Do you think you have positive impact on women here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 05:17 PM |
| 9 | Do you think you have a positiv impact on men here?Some men are beyond saving what can i say. I have no idea what "positive" impact should i do and how. Like when i think about you how would i impact you positively? There is literally no way, and what is "positive" anyway? I do think that maybe there are some men here who are more lurkers who can get something valuable from women's perspective, but mostly i'm here for different reasons, and i think men who i would be capable to influence at all mostly not here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 05:09 PM |
| 6 | Q4A: If dating apps added conversation ratings, how do you think you'd score and how would this impact the experience of OLD?Oh, true. I like to use that as part of screening too. If i get "Hello? You're there??? ?????" and so on - i just withdraw myself. I have a life outside chatting with some stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 04:10 PM |
| 6 | Q4A: If dating apps added conversation ratings, how do you think you'd score and how would this impact the experience of OLD?Sure. If men need one more obstacle in their life. The thing is "more likely to unmatch..." could mean that there are some uninterested woman, or there might be me who screens for compatibility pretty actively. But that will give you assumptions and another reason for pity party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 03:47 PM |
| 5 | Q4A: If dating apps added conversation ratings, how do you think you'd score and how would this impact the experience of OLD?I would repeatably unmatch. How do you think vetting process goes. And i don't want to give explanation for every decision i make for someone to criticize how valid it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 03:41 PM |
| 12 | Q4A: If dating apps added conversation ratings, how do you think you'd score and how would this impact the experience of OLD?My rating would be pretty low simply because i don't tolerate bs. So i will unmatch fast, i will push back, and people are revengeful, so.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 03:34 PM |
| 4 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyIs this an answer to my question? Or your advice to me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 01:51 PM |
| 8 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyNo. and i feel like it's dishonest. I only yesterday talked to a guy who claimed the same thing in the beginning, which you might assume would be some sort of judgment to bad guys but no. but some messages later it became clear that everyone is at fault of that guys behavior except that guy, he is just force of nature. Police more at fault than he was. So no, i don't trust men who focus all their attention on what women should do, to actually have a decent moral compass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 11:45 AM |
| -1 | Fair feminists exist and they get hate from both men and many feminist womenExcept Chad. Every woman only wants Chad. Every. Woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 11:39 AM |
| 6 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyIt does. Almost. It's one thing when it's someone in your life, what is your general attitude towards men? Like when they complain to what reaction do you jump to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 09:42 AM |
| -3 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyNo. Women are also take a lot of blame, i would even say more, but as always, it just seems as something that should be like that, so no one acknowledges it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 09:38 AM |
| 13 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyWould you share same attitude towards men who constantly can't find a date/sex they want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 09:37 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Oh, now you're the expert on me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 08:43 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'm fine with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 08:32 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 08:11 AM |
| 16 | Men and women fail to take accountability fairly equallyI'm just commenting here to check later to see men failing to take any accountability | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 07:56 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADwhy not 6?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 07:29 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That's all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:43 AM |
| – | I would be happy if hypergamy was realI have bad news. If men are interested in every woman, then they need to choose better and take fucking responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:24 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Do tell what's so horrible about being a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:10 AM |
| -1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenCan you point me where did I say that men should? Because I see that all I did was calling men liars. Nothing more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenNo, reality in fact doesn't decide validity of feelings. Culture does. And culture can be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenI don't think you understand that it was an obvious thought and I just rebutted it by saying that for women it's nothing new, but it's comfortable narrative to make them guilty for pursuing their interests | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Men have no sympathy towards womenthank you for reposting this under automod. I liked your comment, i didn't want to lose it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 05:39 PM |
| -1 | Men have no sympathy towards women"If you feel scared carry a weapon or just say home." - why thank you. It's illegal to carry weapon where i am, so home it is, hooray, and then you will tell how men are oppressed because women don't want to have sex with them? "You as why men get angry ?" - where? I just pointed out that they are liars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Men have no sympathy towards womenAnd look at men in the comments. Hell i just got out of debate when a man called rapists just force of nature that can't control themselves but measure every ounce of sympathy to the victims depending on their actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenNo. When you claim that women treat men the same way, and women don't attack men while men attack women then you just lie. And now you're in defensive and start calling me whining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenYou said "men treating women how women treat men", and i pointed out that men attack women while women don't attack men, which you thought can be rebutted by men attack men, and i fail to see how that relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenBy a woman? If not, then it's not "women treat men equally" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 04:56 PM |
| 0 | Men have no sympathy towards womenNo. That's not my definition of sympathy. But claiming "men have sympathy" without any description and explanation of behavior in my OP means nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenYou can write that when men will be scared walk in the streets at night if there is a woman behind them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards women"Police. They are responsible for all crimes." - no, they are not. Do you know how i know that? I know that because when a crime is committed (and they actually persecute the criminal) - the criminal is responsible, monetary or physically. We don't put police officer behind bars for theft someone else has made. Anyway, since those men are animals we should treat them as such? Then okay, lets not discuss and shame them (tho animals are usually trained, but okay), lets strip them from their rights… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Men have no sympathy towards womenThen don't deteriorate topic on men being victim too. how is that relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Men have no sympathy towards women"Some men fail and they are judged extensively for it." - where? can you point that place for me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenWho is responsible for men? I know a woman who was bitten by a stray dog. She was wary of the dogs and scared of them, and avoided them for the rest of her life and nobody whined about how unfair that was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenYou say it like it's supposed to make me better. Those crimes are also done by men. If i hit you on the head with a frying pan and then tell you that "the majority of victims of being punched with a frying pan are italians" will that make you feel better or safe around me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenAnd you again shifted focus on victims. Yeah, measure how much compassion they deserve. And don't even think about putting your focus on the rapist. He is just a force of nature, why talk about them at all. They don't have agency. Just mindless drones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenOh, so it's okay when YOU do it. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenOh, that's dramatic. I stated my point in my OP and comments, and if you didn't try to deteriorate then you would've noticed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:00 PM |
| 0 | Men have no sympathy towards womenThe best part is that there is still no quote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenYeah, tell me about it. What do you know about women reporting rape? Because i know. If you want, you can watch Unbelievable to get some small idea what happens. I know personally women who reported their rapists? Do you know what police said? "well, it's usual place for rapists, they pray there on children, but there is nothing we can do". Cool? Care to repeat about "they are criminals, they will face their punishment"? Or will you blame women for not doing enough? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:55 PM |
| 0 | Men have no sympathy towards womenAll i'm saying is men dismiss this emotional outrage because they think that women are safe and there are only couple of dangerous men. and maybe they would understand if they tried, and maybe it's not the reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenPff, like you said - means it's true. Point out where did i say anything about generalization in my OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Men have no sympathy towards women"Voting rights, abortion, etcetera. Men have benefited women with nothing to gain for themselves plenty of times" - this is ignorant take. It's not like men gave away those rights to women (after previously taken it away, let's not forget this cute part). Women fought and forced, and there were some men who fought with women because those men were sympathetic. And they did gain women in the workforce, they did gain women not dying on them (believe it or not some men actually care). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:38 PM |
| -1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenWell maybe men are blind about what women face? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Men have no sympathy towards womenI don't have a case for that. All i said is that men lie when they claim that women get sympathy. So all i did was calling men liars, not forcing you to feel anything. Men like to tell how they are truth seeking. Well admit that then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Men have no sympathy towards women"So called "victim blaming" practically never absolves the offender. Criminal is guilty, crime is illegal, they will fet their punishment" - this is delusional. That's the issue. 99% of rapists walk away. Abusers walk away. From law and public eye. The only one who gets public scrutiny is a victim. So where? Where is this default that offenders get their punishments, and even so why public wants to punish victim and NEVER abuser or rapist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Men have no sympathy towards womenthe thing is it's only a minor fraction of what happened to me. And what i experienced is not as bad as other women. And when i come share my experience - reaction of men isn't usually humane. And then they come and claim how better women are treated and how they are sympathized with always. Yeah. No. I'm okay. But i've learned my lessons. Something, i know, many men hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Men have no sympathy towards women"Women hate men in general. And sometimes this hatred is focused on particular man by pointing a finger at him." - how is this not "shaming, bashing, generalization and bullying"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenSometimes men come with this and think that they actually argue with me. Where did i say anything about generalization? I actually have absolutely different opinion about it. You think it's an easy argument when it's simply just something irrelevant to the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards women"“Men” though, aren’t typically dangerous. A small percent are." - maybe to you. To me that's not a small percent. "I’m sympathetic to the genuine plights of women." - hard to believe honestly, after your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:57 PM |
| 4 | Men have no sympathy towards women"then there's feelings simply do not map to reality." - and who decides that? "It is also a dumb tool for women to literally dehumanise men" - Imagine your mother. imagine her breaking down in cries and saying that she doesn't feel safe with men, so much so that she will take her chances with bear. Not all men etc, she still loves you, but she can't pretend anymore. And you are like "but that's irrational. You don't deserve sympathy". There are breaking point for all people, and when you don't t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Men have no sympathy towards womenI'm not expecting anything. I'm pointing out that men lie when they claim that women get sympathy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards women"You are blaming all population" - and you excuse that population from crimes they commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:51 PM |
| 4 | Men have no sympathy towards womenSomehow men like you never silent when i talk about men. Food for thought. The thing is men here might be radicalized but how do you know that men in real life don't just cover same thing with niceness? Those men, that are here and saying all this shit - they are in real world and i'm willing to bet many of them act differently with real people. I had a friend who was a nice guy, and we were friends for years. I thought he supported me (as a friend) and so on. Until i told him about being raped … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Men have no sympathy towards women"I also think that society(women) have chosen a "we don't owe you anything" approach to life & people are now seeing the unintended consequences of that." - that's an ignorant thing to say, simply because there is nothing new. Men being danger to women isn't new. Men being unsympathetic isn't new. But it's comfortable narrative because it allows to blame women for being less comfortable for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenThis is reasonable reply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:02 PM |
| -1 | Men have no sympathy towards women"though some of the replies here do prove your point better than you could hope to." - exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:01 PM |
| -1 | Men have no sympathy towards women"Men don't make environment unsafe for women" - number one reason for death of pregnant women is being killed by a man. now repeat your statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Men have no sympathy towards womenMen aren't "wired" for problem solving either. Because any time i try to bring solutions to their problems they actually want to whine. And i do understand this. But this is not "problem solving", it's just another myth men tell themselves about themselves, alongside of being protectors and leaders and logical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:44 AM |
| 4 | Men have no sympathy towards womenI want men not to be dangerous. And then i want them to stop lying about being sympathetic and then react like you did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Men have no sympathy towards womenThat means you simply don't understand what this is about and make out women as hysterical, like if it isn't rational then it has no place in your life no matter what. The thing is men don't act like that when it's about their feelings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenThat doesn't negate men's reaction to women's fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:40 AM |
| -6 | Men have no sympathy towards women"So go ask the bear for sympathy" - another prof. You're so offended that women don't feel safe that you don't really care about any of the consequences. Well at this point i would more likely to get sympathy from bear than from some men with their victim complex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:19 AM |
| 5 | Men have no sympathy towards women"I dont care, I usually laugh in that situation." - exactly. that's what i'm talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Men have no sympathy towards womenYou could've just walked past this post, thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:16 AM |
| 5 | Men have no sympathy towards womenIronic comment under my post, you basically decided to shift the topic on how men are suffering without any details or relevance for that matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:15 AM |
| -3 | Men have no sympathy towards womenThis is bullshit. Men don't have "problem-solving mentality". it's their excuse to lack of emotions towards women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:14 AM |
| -4 | Men have no sympathy towards women"Man vs bear debate? Irrational." - wasn't supposed to be rational. But thanks for basically demonstrating what i've wrote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:13 AM |
| 6 | Men have no sympathy towards womenYes, and enough of others who protect men's feelings in their ignorance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:12 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵What a cheap trick. I thought that we're discussing reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:11 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Because it never was gender neutral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:00 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵There is a difference between "you need to rest once a month" and "you are a woman, this is too complicated for you". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:29 AM |
| 8 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Well if you think that you did answer then alright, we can just agree to disagree, i don't consider something on this level of vagueness an answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 08:00 AM |
| – | Why are women's restrooms dirtier than mens rooms?So you don't have any evidence that girls are socialized to think that their mess is someone else's problem, actually you have the opposite. So why did you made that statement i wonder. You can skip this question, i don't expect honest answer anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:22 AM |
| 9 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?Interesting. Men sometimes do that. They see people ignoring my questions, not answering it, but after a while they choose to blame and laugh at me for ignoring a question that is clearly meant to deflect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:21 AM |
| – | Why are women's restrooms dirtier than mens rooms?"Two, I think women are more used to being catered to in public and tend to see the mess they leave as someone else's problem" - meanwhile me, who was raised to think that every mess is my personal problem. seriously, you have no idea how women are socialized. but i'll bite. since you made this statement care to provide how it was taught? what phrases were told to women? what encouragements? surely, if this is mass phenomenon then there are patterns that everyone observes? I have another reason … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 06:55 AM |
| 14 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?You couldn't be more vague if you tried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 06:47 AM |
| 9 | What everyday disadvantages of feminism do you experience?What advantages do you see (for men)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 06:40 AM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADGrip? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 06:03 AM |
| 4 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADballs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Men Love Objectification, When it Benefits Themsadly this will be seen as circlejerking or trolling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:11 PM |
| 10 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemNo, you didn't. Because to debunk it you have to realize that that entails. If you don't - it's just your fantasy and nothing to do with what you actually want. I might fantasize about double anal, but if i never experienced even but plug and i don't understand what feelings would it be i can't say that "i'm part of people and i like double anal". Simple as. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemSo you don't realize that. Okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemSo basically it's not argument, it's you trying to throw a pity party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemEven if you are right (i don't know if you are) how is that related to my argument? Like it doesn't make me change my mind about what i observed in men's behavior, nor about objectification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:33 PM |
| 9 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemYou do realize that being "used" implies that your enjoyment isn't really necessary? And your pain can be fetishized too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:31 PM |
| 48 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemHonestly, when i see posts and comments like this, i realize that men (who write like that) are incapable of imagining women as people. Women don't love objectification, they like when they are perceived as sexy, there is a difference, that many men can't grasp somehow. Nobody wants to feel an object. And yes, sexual interactions require consent, news at 11. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:51 PM |
| – | If unselected men become a threat, society is more likely to get rid of them then placate themBut those men typically threaten this. Really, i saw multiple posts and comments and argued about it a lot. They like to tell that "if there is no chance of woman, then men will off themselves" or "they will withdraw from society". While i think thats a typical hysteria, it is a point and it can be refuted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:24 PM |
| 4 | How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom?"I just did." - what kind of level of discussion is that?? And i refuted. try something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Real issues get dismissed as hate because people are biasedStill millions... By the way, what do you think about men who fled and sunbathing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 04:02 PM |
| 7 | Real issues get dismissed as hate because people are biasedOh, so you can now demonize entire nation based on 3 women, and i can't demonize men based on my experience? I smell hypocrisy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 03:15 PM |
| 12 | How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom?Oh no, you don't get to "men aren't interested in story" move. If they weren't interested there was no need to even call it "stepmom", men don't care right? But they do. I see the difference is that you try to understand what men actually like, but you don't extend the same curiosity to women, you simply jump to hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 03:14 PM |
| 8 | Real issues get dismissed as hate because people are biasedThis is interesting demonization of ukrainian women. There are many ukrainian men abroad who either were abroad or fled and they also sunbathing. There are ukrainian women who fight for their men and don't let them go to the army. But who cares when it's easier for your (men's) hate to imagine how good it is for women when poor men are suffering alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 02:37 PM |
| 3 | How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom?If we use this logic, then i'm reading romance because i want to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 01:40 PM |
| 9 | How do you explain the "Dark Romance" Boom?But it's not step mom? If you use this logic i can also tell you that billionaire vampire is just a guy who loves a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 01:39 PM |
| – | If women cannot be at peace with being the more sexually valuable gender, heterosexual dating can't become better.maybe. And? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 12:36 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵yeah, they do, in a way that they show that men don't have to be this horrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:20 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's hilarious that you think that anti-male agenda needs to be produced by feminists like men themselves didn't do a fine job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 08:19 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Yes, women are. u/GridReXX posted a study about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 07:26 AM |
| 1 | I think that women highly value confidence and this puts men at a significant dating disadvantage.Attraction to healthy people puts people at disadvantage. Attraction to fit people puts other at disadvantage. Attraction to unexperienced women puts women at disadvantage. Attraction to experienced men puts men at disadvantage....It's like you just discovered attractive traits... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:59 PM |
| 23 | Modern Men Are Being Punished for a Past They Didn’t CreateMen just really unaware. When i started dating, i went on every date with expectations that i will fall in love, and how great it will be. I thought that i live in modern world and i won't have this weird dynamic from the past. Well i was right, the dynamic now even weirder. I have my opinions about men because of how they behave in modern times. It's laughable to think that i'm surrounded by great guys who show me with all their actions how great they are and i'm reminding them of victorian law… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Are you sure size doesn't matter?I'm sorry, but it's too stupid to dignify it with serious answer. I tried to show the stupidity on analogy, but apparently you really don't know what range means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Are you sure size doesn't matter?I had good sex with people from 20 countries. Here. Now i also said that those countries are the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 02:48 PM |
| 0 | Are you sure size doesn't matter?"She’s assuming that other women are happy with it too" - i didn't. I talked with many women about that (probably more than men did, perks of being in sexually promiscuous circles), and i've learned preferences of women, and i know that they vary. But again, not as men think. I literally know a woman who is into smaller dicks (not too small, but 6" is too big for her). I know that some don't like specific curves, to the point of dealbreaker. I know that what's fine for me isn't necessarily fine … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Are you sure size doesn't matter?Nowhere, but who cares. I couldn't imply that they are the same because even the same size dics are not the same. There is thickness to consider (i know a woman who is sucker for a short but thick dicks), there are curves, there are shapes, and they all feel different. Sensitivity too. If it was that easy as if you see one metric and you know all - it wouldn't be life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 01:38 PM |
| 6 | Are you sure size doesn't matter?How am i pretending? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 11:23 AM |
| – | Should I give up on trying to get my girlfriend to orgasm?sounds mostly like she doesn't have an issue, you do. what you want to do with that up to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 08:44 AM |
| – | Should I give up on trying to get my girlfriend to orgasm?Sounds like a topic to discuss with your gf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 08:13 AM |
| 15 | Are you sure size doesn't matter?Oh, it's been a while since we got size questions (or debates), i was getting worried about you all. Yes, size matters. No, not in a way men think. I had good sex with men from 4" to 7". Something less than 4" would be too small for me. Something bigger than 7-8" would be too big. The thing is with too big it's possible to still have pleasant sex if a man has a some awareness and can not push it all the way and be careful, sadly, men with bigger dicks usually are not that. As you can see 4"-7" i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 07:49 AM |
| 8 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIf men are so great how come sex with men makes a person dirty and less desirable? No matter man or a woman, no matter for men or for women. Everyone mostly agrees. Sex with women doesn't do anything of the sort. I think men who care about n count that much are actually admitting that they know that men are dirty and bad, and they ruin everything they touch. Everything else they say is just a marketing campaign. Check mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 07:17 AM |
| 3 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?Yeah, basically "be kinder and more patient and let man a train or be a bitch". Will you answer my question? How am i not wanting to be sex tool is treating him like he is disgusting? What would be my reason to stay? But who cares, am i right? What's important is that i should provide man with experience since it so happens i was someone who got the nervous kiss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 04:49 AM |
| 4 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?how am i treating him as if he is disgusting?? Honestly, that attitude is disgusting. I either have to be some tool for a guy to train on or i'm a bitch. No, thanks. I gladly be a bitch than some sex doll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 09:28 PM |
| 1 | No AI generated postsSame. I see AI slops here from time to time, but it is a useful tool still. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 09:27 PM |
| -2 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?How is me leaving is treating him like shit? what would be not treating him like shit?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 07:28 PM |
| -4 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?It's not my job to be there for men to train. He might've overcome, or not, i don't know, but give me a reason to stay? i'm not a service for him, i'm a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?I don't know. Maybe, maybe not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 06:03 PM |
| 1 | The "problem" with paying is that men here don't like the types of women willing to pay for themselves on dates.No, but that's okay, i don't expect people who play on defensive to understand. Just to be clear - pointing out issues doesn't mean you're hater if the issue exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?That depends. For example i like relationships where i corrupt a virgin guy and teach him things. But for that to be satisfying for me he has to be able to be honest and not put up some kind of "alpha" front that looks fake. And he has to be responsive. Now to my real life experience, where it didn't work out. 1) there was a guy who literally was shaking while he kissed me. That level of nervousness kind of is turn off. 2) there was a guy who acted like he isn't influenced by what i do. You know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 04:54 PM |
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