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I had the same problem. I was really good at teasing girls and making them giggle but id get in my head when it came to going for the kiss. In hindsight, it was happening because i felt the girl would reject me if i did. Part of the hesitation was also because i didn’t have any experience actually pulling the trigger. 2 things you can do: 1. Understand you have to do it for your mind to get over the fear of doing it. You just have to. 2. Baby step it so it doesn’t feel overwhelming for both. Sta…
/r/seduction04/06/26 09:40 AM
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From the looks of it, you’re probably teasing and flirting which builds chemistry and gets them interested. But you’re struggling to make things more physically/sexually intimate. Right?
/r/seduction03/06/26 12:27 PM
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Left you a couple DM’s
/r/seduction01/06/26 06:14 AM
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Try it out. You’ll be shocked how well it works. Obviously you need to have a few things dialed in, mostly energy wise. Too elaborate to explain here but in a nutshell, but if you know how to speak with charisma, certainty, and can make girls laugh, you’ll do pretty well. Again, this is an oversimplification but works. I never used dating apps. All my girls have come through cold approach
/r/seduction31/05/26 04:53 PM
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Have you tried approaching girls? Way more intimate since it's in person+ gives you more control over attracting women if you know what you're doing vs. dating apps where you need to match, THEN text, THEN phone, THEN meet in person where the real attraction happens. With cold approach, you skip all the bs bec first contact itself happens in person.
/r/seduction30/05/26 11:26 AM
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AI bot thats been prompted to blindly comment “AI” on every post*
/r/seduction29/05/26 08:14 PM
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In the works, my man. Just making sure it’s as insightful, practical, and grounded in my experience as possible. Wanna do justice to this one since its a big topic so trying to capture all my observations, findings, etc
/r/seduction05/04/26 12:06 PM
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you're only just entering your prime as a man. tf's wrong witchu? 😅
/r/seduction15/03/26 12:06 PM
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Bruhhh. Might as well use AI to sleep with women too
/r/seduction04/03/26 01:00 PM
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"yeah, maybe" is a YES in women-speak. Take your cues from the way girls behave not what they say. The eye contact + friendliness was your cue. She was down for sure. I would've taken her number right there. What's wrong witchu?
/r/seduction04/03/26 12:52 PM
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Did you actively do anything to spark attraction? Did you tease her? Banter with her? Make tiny sexual innuendos? Even the way you communicate on a non-verbal level matters (tone of voice, eye contact, etc.) I don't have enough context yet, but sounds like you "played it safe" because of your lack of experience (which obviously, can't blame you for) and that led to no attraction. As a guy, it's your job to set the tone of the interaction (platonic or flirtatious). Attraction is born out of tensi…
/r/seduction04/03/26 10:25 AM
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I mean you're going to have to meet them in person at some point, right?
/r/seduction03/03/26 03:23 PM
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Looks is literally 20% of female attraction. Also, you're not balding so a bit of greying shouldn't be much of a hindrance. Main needle mover is how you actually communicate with the girls you talk to (non-neediness, charisma, flirtation, Girls feel attracted (or repelled) based on the way they feel around you. Not necessarily the way you look. And this comes from your behavior/energy. You need to focus on dialing that in.
/r/seduction03/03/26 03:20 PM
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Yeah, don't play any mindgames obv. Most of them backfire anyway 'cause girls are stupid either lol. As corny as it sounds tho, this is literally a by-product of how much value she sees in you as a man. That would manifest in the form of: - how much fun she truly had on that date (or was she faking it just to be polite) - did she feel any real chemistry/connection with you? - did she feel excited in a way where she felt slightly nervous/butterflies in her tummy? This is super important. (lots of…
/r/seduction03/03/26 03:01 PM
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Younger women actually gravitate towards older dudes because they're more experienced and mature. If you aren't matching with younger women on dating apps, why not go out and meet them in person. That way you eliminate the risk of getting catfished too lol. That being said, you're going to have to revamp the sheldon look if you wanna be seen as a sexy or hot older man. Lol. Not sure how much "game" you have but that will be a big part of the equation too. Otherwise you're going to be seen as a c…
/r/seduction03/03/26 02:46 PM
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If you look at things objectively, it just comes down to one thing- lack of enough investment from the girl's end. Or rather, the fact that she may have had some sort of attraction on the first date, but it died out when she spent time away from you. Has this been a recurring pattern with you?
/r/seduction03/03/26 02:18 PM
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THIS. It's literally this.
/r/seduction03/03/26 01:30 PM
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I think I know what's going on. Do you approach the 8's, 9's, and 10's with the same energy that you do with the 6's and 7's? Girls go off behavior/energy, so it's likely that the vibe you're projecting onto the hotter girls is not the same (self-assuredness, assertiveness, non-neediness, dominance, etc.) as that of the ones you don't deem to be as hot. I was in the same place 3 years ago. Took me months to break out of my ceiling. Turns out it was this ^
/r/seduction03/03/26 01:29 PM
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You're better off meeting women in person than dating apps. Take my word for it. About the hit and miss part, it will feel that way in the beginning 'cause you're still developing a feel for being smooth while approaching women (which really comes down to how much "electricity" you create at the outset) It takes a while to find your footing, but you'll get there with enough reps, just like any other skill. 100%
/r/seduction03/03/26 01:11 PM
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This may sound counter intuitive but start dating other girls. Make sure she knows about it tho but not in a way where you’re playing a mindgame. IG stories are a really good way to do this Girls are innately attracted to men that have options with other women (its called preselection) so its very likely that it will pique her interest in you (romantically speaking) Its worked for me ton and tons of times over the years
/r/seduction02/03/26 01:17 PM
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W
/r/seduction02/03/26 01:12 PM
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This sounds crazy but when you level up your energetic state, it actually manifests in the way you text girls on dating apps (word choice, cadence, things you talk about, emotional theme of messages etc). You’re alot more non needy and charismatic which is what will help you turn your matches into meet ups
/r/seduction02/03/26 11:36 AM
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ayyyyyy! Love how you slipped in your expenses to imply your ROI =D
/r/seduction02/03/26 10:49 AM
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If the attention isn’t going anywhere to begin with, why even care about the outcome? In fact, it’s the best time to drop your performative tendencies and consciously putting yourself in an “idgaf” type headspace. Unless you actually act on it, it’s all mental masturbation
/r/seduction02/03/26 09:31 AM
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You answered your own question when you said the “link has been created”. Once you’ve fucked you’re sexually familiar with each other. There’s comfort now, so its easier.
/r/seduction02/03/26 09:27 AM
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Yesss
/r/seduction01/03/26 06:49 PM
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Id actually argue that what women say doesn’t align with the way they normally respond. Everything i write is grounded in the way women respond (behaviour) not what they say.
/r/seduction01/03/26 04:48 PM
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Personally know plenty of short kings that pull beautiful women. Obviously girls have their preferences but aren’t as much about the looks as we men are. Theres a ton of things you can actually control. Your value is definitely one, like you pointed out. And your value comes from your energetic core.
/r/seduction01/03/26 04:41 PM
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I get what you mean. Took me a while to make sense of those books and apply them in my life. But when it finally did it, things improved very quickly
/r/seduction01/03/26 04:17 PM
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Your insecurities are a result of emotional blockages and unresolved baggage stored in your subconscious mind. Read Letting Go by David Hawkins and Power of Now by Ekhart Tolle- 2 gamechanging books that helped me dissolve my insecurities and develop core confidence. The key is incorporate mindfulness meditation (based on the principles of letting go) into your daily routine. I do mine for an hour in the morning after my tea and an hour at night after my workout.
/r/seduction01/03/26 03:03 PM
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Read the title again. It’s been written to give guys a generic understanding of what women like on a macro level. Not actionables on how to apply them in interactions. If you dont understand the macros, micros are going to be hard to apply. Get off your keyboard and learn to first read and make sense of basic english before vomiting on other peoples work.
/r/seduction28/02/26 12:38 PM
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if "all the internet noise that keeps guys confused, miseld, and lonely" had a face
/r/seduction24/02/26 12:06 PM
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my bad dude. just added #10.
/r/seduction24/02/26 11:54 AM
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🙏
/r/seduction23/02/26 11:09 AM
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You test them by applying those things to the way you communicate w women (with conscious intention) and seeing a tangible difference in the way they respond to you. Doesn’t have to be the same girl lol. These things can be measured over a large sample size, which is thousands of interactions with girls over last decade+. You rule out the effect of chance when these things get you consistency in results over a large sample size like i said.
/r/seduction23/02/26 07:36 AM
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Appreciate that dude. Glad to know not everyone here is a complete idiot😅
/r/seduction22/02/26 04:25 PM
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This isn’t a step by step framework. It’s broad strokes on what girls find attractive. Overcoming fear without being overwhelmed is almost impossible for someone who’s painfully insecure and anxious. You cant just switch off fear like that lol its a primal biological drive 🤦🏻
/r/seduction22/02/26 04:21 PM
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Anything you want me to expand on in a future post? Lmk here.
/r/seduction22/02/26 03:24 PM
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Thanks for complimenting my writing skills. Also apologies for taking pride in putting out valuable content
/r/seduction14/02/26 07:03 AM
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Create passive attraction/interest. Basically sparking attraction without directly hitting on her - crack jokes and make her laugh - tease her/banter w her - indirectly convey to her that other girls are into you (if they are) - don’t hang out with her through out the entirety of the day. Distance builds mystery and intrigue
/r/seduction13/02/26 04:19 PM
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They could for sure. You have to take into account the context of what has happened earlier in the interaction l, obviously
/r/seduction12/02/26 07:20 PM
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Glad this is resonating with you guys
/r/seduction12/02/26 06:48 PM
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I gotchu bro
/r/seduction12/02/26 04:15 PM
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Facts
/r/seduction10/02/26 06:18 AM
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Inner game is definitely a thing. Its not about denying your feelings. Its about accepting them for what they are and being ok with them. What you resists, persists. What you accept dissipates. Sure, they’ll never fully go away, but with the right exercises you’ll reduce them to a point where they won’t overwhelm you like they do at present. Speaking from experience. Good Inner game will help you release your inner blockages and limiting beliefs so you can operate at peak efficiency while you’re…
/r/seduction09/02/26 04:29 PM
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Don't be so hard on yourself. You're only 28 lol. You've got ALOT of time. Also, this is how most people start out, by going out and taking 0 action the first couple times. That being said, mainly 3 reasons you can't get yourself to approach women: This is an alien situation that your nervous system is not used to which is why it's so nerve wracking for you (just like it would be for a first-time skydiver) you have negative assumptions about your approach will go (girl lashes out, people around …
/r/seduction09/02/26 11:09 AM
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Go out and execute man. No better teacher than putting in the work. You can make anything muscle memory, as long as you do it again and again and again. Practice is key. Ofc you need some direction and guidance to make sure you’re on track and learn fast without wasting too much time on guesswork, but unless you put in the reps and “do” approaches, you aren’t gonna learn. You need do condition your nervous system to feel normal and not freak out while talking to a beautiful woman and it can only…
/r/seduction08/02/26 06:18 PM
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The one dude on the internet that will dismiss anything and everything as AI
/r/seduction08/02/26 04:40 PM
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Word
/r/seduction08/02/26 03:05 PM
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Lots of free content online. Some good stuff here on Reddit too. But the most important component is reps. You gotta put in the work man. Most people are too scared to fail. Be okay with failing, treat failure as feedback, journal and optimize every single day. Thats how you make it muscle memory
/r/seduction08/02/26 02:20 PM
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You’ve literally used the phrase “what to say” a bunch of times in your comment, which is exactly where the problem lies. Give an insecure, needy, anxious dude mystery method and he just wont be able to execute it because well, he’s insecure. He just wont have the right energy to back whatever he’s saying and it isn’t going to land. Delivery is king. His jokes, stories, push-pull…none of what you mentioned would create the impact that it should because his inner world is wrecked. (I’ve experienc…
/r/seduction07/02/26 10:41 AM
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Mystery method follows a very structure-based paradigm, completely sidelining the energetic aspects of attraction, which are really what drive for 80% of your results with women. (speaking from over a decade of experience) It focuses on "what to say" to get XYZ reaction from women rather than helping you dial in the foundation of what makes you fundamentally attractive as a guy. If you aren't grounded, centered, secure, and socially intelligent as a man, none of those mystery method techniques a…
/r/seduction07/02/26 09:57 AM
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All of the mentioned will only work if she’s into you on some level. She needs to first like you to be turned on by you: being comfortable under tension that is created when you’re escalating things sexual innuendos (key is to be indirect and suggestive with them) touch, but in more erogenous zones. Also there’s an art to doing it (small of the back, neck, inner thighs) dominant/penetrative eye contact (mind you there’s a thin line between this and being creepy) getting into her airspace for a b…
/r/seduction07/02/26 09:28 AM
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For the guys that want to get laid, you've gotta learn to communicate with women in a way that builds intrigue, attraction, perceived status, and sexual tension. There's no 2 ways about it. "Looks" will get your foot in the door, but that's as far as you'll go. From there to taking her home/making her your gf is all game/rizz aka. how you navigate your interaction so she's actually investing her emotions in you.
/r/seduction05/02/26 11:22 AM
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This was exactly me in 2016. My girlfriend dumped me, left me shattered, and completely clueless on how to navigate the dating market. As simplistic as it sounds, you HAVE to go out, approach and talk to women. That's the only way. No shortcuts. Reading books/Watching videos is great, but only if you're going to apply that stuff in the real world and real interactions. Otherwise, it's mental masturbation. A lot of getting laid comes down to reps and optimizing the way you communicate w women and…
/r/seduction05/02/26 11:05 AM
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I'd say the way you're approaching this is pretty solid. You're keeping it real w them but also being empathetic to the girls. Best part is that girls knowing you have options with other women is actually attractive to girls. It's called preselection. They might not like it consciously, but subconsciously speaking, you're going to be on their radar for sure as "that one guy who can get a ton of women". Plus you're being empathetic which shows you've got good EQ and are sensitive towards her feel…
/r/seduction05/02/26 10:55 AM
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Are you actually investing time and effort into actively approaching/flirting with women? Looks and fashion are great because they'll get women intrigued to give you their time of day. But if you don't know how to communicate with women in a way that demonstrates your masculinity, creates flirtation, polarity, sexual tension, and as corny as this sounds, makes them see you as "high value", you'll be stuck. All of what you did is good to look good but women respond to behavior and energy. You nee…
/r/seduction05/02/26 10:42 AM
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This is literally me lol. Had 0 game in high school and college. Lost my virginity at 21 (she did all the work). Only started to level up after the same girl dumped me a year later in 2016. A few key pointers: - There's no shortcuts. You gotta show up and put yourself out there. As in, actually approach women. - Most people focus on the wrong things. They focus on the tactical side of talking to women (techniques, scripts, canned lines, etc.)- All of which is useless if you aren't operating from…
/r/seduction05/02/26 10:36 AM
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Very presumptuous of you to generalise an Instagram famous girl as a “pick me woman” with 0 context of her personality, values, etc. Classic grapes are sour case where bitter men “reject”/shame attractive women out of their deep seated resentment from their advances bring constantly shot down by these girls😂 Looks like my man hasn’t had the best high scool Life. Part of me feels sorry for you
/r/seduction29/10/25 12:06 PM
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They’re the real victims of AI
/r/seduction29/10/25 12:00 PM
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Great example, love it A more apt description would be “emotional state” but yes, everything makes perfect sense
/r/seduction29/10/25 11:58 AM
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Finally someone gets it. You’re awesome!
/r/seduction29/10/25 11:34 AM
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Being grounded and possessing high EQ are synonymous. A lot of women say they want a man that has a sense of calm, composure, and patience vs. someone who’s reactive and thirsty. Grounded men don’t kill, rape, or murder. They channel their strength and aggression only when its absolutely needed- When shit hits the fan. Not to assert their dominance. Seems like your experience with men has been extremely terrible which has turned you into this bitter internet karen troll spewing hate over other p…
/r/seduction29/10/25 11:27 AM
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Facts dude. Meditation addresses is the energetic component of attraction. Gotta cover this in a seperate post But yeah, spot on!
/r/seduction29/10/25 10:36 AM
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Thank you my G, crazy how you put in all this effort to put together a guide only for a bunch of AFCs to spee hate the second they get a chance
/r/seduction29/10/25 07:19 AM
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Oopps, did i accidentally take your girl? My bad brah, she didn’t tell me she had a man. I can see why tho😂 PS: your username suits you
/r/seduction29/10/25 06:16 AM
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Coming up in a fresh post. Wont be able to do justice in the comments
/r/seduction28/10/25 07:53 PM
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Understand that women aren’t aliens. They’re humans just like you and I. Just of the opposite sex. Talk to them like you would with your guy friends (just be a bit more gentle lol) but there’s literally nothing to be awkward about. Girls overthink more than us guys and its your duty as a man to take initiative and start an interaction If you want something to start a conversation just make a light hearted comment on something she’s wearing, something she said, etc. Smile. Dont be weird when you …
/r/seduction28/10/25 06:53 PM
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Holding eye contact for just a bit longer than they normally would. Eyes = attention
/r/seduction28/10/25 06:30 PM
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You cant learn to flirt in a book or by reading someone’s comment. You gotta go out and interact with women. You’ll feel some internal resistance at first but as you open up more and more, you’ll feel more playful and “mischievous”. This is the exact flirty energy women are drawn to (:
/r/seduction28/10/25 06:14 PM
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Covering this in another post brother
/r/seduction28/10/25 05:46 PM
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Ok grandpa
/r/seduction28/10/25 05:38 PM
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Thank you, my guy. The level of ignorance on here is crazy
/r/seduction28/10/25 05:26 PM
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Word. Nothing wrong/disrespectful with helping men end loneliness and level up into their most attractive selves
/r/seduction28/10/25 05:24 PM
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Appreciate the love, brotha. Stay tuned
/r/seduction28/10/25 05:22 PM
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Coming up in another post
/r/seduction28/10/25 05:21 PM
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Umm…what’s your point? New people can’t join Reddit? :/
/r/seduction28/10/25 04:55 PM
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Facts
/r/seduction28/10/25 04:50 PM
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Love how some people just aren’t blessed with a decent enough IQ to comprehend basic english😭
/r/seduction28/10/25 04:20 PM
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I hate AI man, I’m def not an AI bro lol. Just curious what makes you think otherwise?
/r/seduction28/10/25 03:15 PM
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I spent 2 hours putting this piece together, my guy. What makes you think it's AI? Looks like I was really articulate with my stuff haha
/r/seduction28/10/25 02:04 PM
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You don't have to be so logical with this stuff; that's the whole point. Plenty of other themes when it comes to teasing. It all comes down to getting creative. What's that one thing about her that amuses you about her appearance, personality, etc? Look for subject matter: - maybe she's a little too feisty (damn, those eyes look like they'll shoot out laser beams) - maybe she has a fat booty (looks like you squat for a living ;) - maybe she's tatted up (wonder where my name's inked ;) These may …
/r/seduction28/10/25 02:02 PM
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Almost a paradox of sorts isn't it? Definitely not easy, but possible, provided you put in the work and focus on the right things
/r/seduction28/10/25 01:28 PM
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appreciate that, my guy
/r/seduction28/10/25 01:24 PM
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It's cool, man, you don't have to prove yourself to anyone. We get it, you're the Top G. You made that abundantly clear with all your long paragraphs rambling and justifying yourself =D Don't worry, I'm not a threat to you, just here to share and contribute (:
/r/seduction28/10/25 01:23 PM
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Got it. So sounds like you're keeping things flat/logical/boring while talking to girls. Here are a few things that you can do to create a more flirty and playful energy with them: - The first thing is to understand that girls actually want you to tease them. It makes them feel alive and creates a sense of unpredictability, which creates excitement. That's the mindset part. - As for the how-tos, you need to make a conscious effort to start teasing them even if it feels awkward at first. A simple…
/r/seduction28/10/25 01:18 PM
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you sound like the stereotypical keyboard warrior/AFC who's mad seeing other people do really well. Sure I'm new to Reddit, just made an account about a week ago. But what does that have to do with anything lol? Your arguments make no sense. :/ Furthermore, everything you said is extremely surface-level, this stuff goes deeper than that. You point about calling women out on their BS is justified, but it's a lot more effective when it's done in an assertive way than being butthurt (which is being…
/r/seduction28/10/25 12:52 PM
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Yessir
/r/seduction28/10/25 12:41 PM
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Nope. I don't do pick-up lines. Keep things simple. A simple "hi" can work amazingly well if your non-verbal communication and energy is dialed in (: I don't do dating apps because of the exact same reason. Things move really slowly there. You'll be shocked how many dates you can land just by doing cold approach
/r/seduction28/10/25 12:16 PM
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u/IgorXY what do you catch yourself NOT doing? Where do you feel like you're lacking? Lmk so I can respond accordingly
/r/seduction28/10/25 11:48 AM
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I've dealt with the same problem and fixed it over the years. At its most fundamental level, it comes down to 2 things: 1. You care too much about what bystanders (who really, are just strangers) are going to think of your approach. More specifically, you're worried they'll judge you for being weird or creepy (tell me I'm wrong) 2. Having that kind of attention on you means stepping into tension. Looks like your ability to be comfortable with and to handle that kind of tension is low (for now). …
/r/seduction28/10/25 08:42 AM
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Spot on. A lot of guys see getting "friendzoned" as a -ve. But making hot girls, especially 9's / 10's your "friend" will only massively benefit you in the long run. Can vouch for this based of my personal expereince, especially in terms of getting your nervous system used to the kind of feminine energy that these girls exhibit which tbh, is extremely daunting for most men. If you're just starting out and you happen to get friendzoned by a hot girl, jump on it instead of getting butthurt. It's a…
/r/seduction20/10/25 01:40 PM
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