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| 1 | Balancing chasing and pursuing vs coming off as clingy or needy | Fundamentals | Pzseller | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 02:05 AM |
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| 0 | How do you reach out to exes?You don’t | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 03:52 PM |
| 14 | Why women don't chase men?Can I ask you why as a woman you feel that way? Like you know the chances of a woman being turned down asking a man out are slim slim slim. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 06:14 AM |
| 1 | You just are not attractiveYeah but I’ve seen some ugly ass dudes hookup and even have ltrs with hot ass women too | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Anti-seduction. Letting her down easy with "unattractive behavior" without destroying the friendshipI tried this once and it backfired. She thought she could fix me and then kept trying | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Lost Weight Again and Dating Instantly ImprovedI’ve had the opposite effect. I lost weight and my dating life went to the shitter | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Filtering for cool tall/thick womenMaybe they gather at WNBA games? I don’t know man. Just walk around the wild and if you see one talk to one. A lion hunts the wild, it doesn’t get its food at a grocery store. I feel you though on talk, thicc bitches. Mmmmm. 😋 | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Ex says we're over, but still picks up when I call.Bro. Stop | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 05:39 PM |
| 2 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?Bouncer at a strip club | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 01:12 AM |
| 0 | How Do Guys Actually End Up With “10/10” Influencer Level Women?Be a 10/10 guy I guess | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Balancing chasing and pursuing vs coming off as clingy or needySo what does that look like? And are you satisfied with the end result? | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Balancing chasing and pursuing vs coming off as clingy or needyBecause if I get clingy then all the work I’ve done beforehand is wiped out | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Balancing chasing and pursuing vs coming off as clingy or needySo ambivalence is key is what you’re saying? | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 02:20 AM |
| 8 | End more dates after 10 minutesI’ve seen intro scenes in pornos that have lasted longer than 10 minutes. Jesus H Christ this is terrible advice. Can’t even get a drink brought to you at some places in 10 minutes m. | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 11:34 PM |
| 1 | got 300 likes on a Thailand dating app with women aged 18-24. 0 Likes on Tinder in Europe. im in my 30's.Amen to that. | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 12:35 PM |
| 16 | First dates should always be on a weekday or Sunday?I start my day at 4 AM and go until 7 PM on weekdays. You think I have the energy to go out after that??? | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 03:58 PM |
| 8 | How to hide from "polite society" as a fuckboy (need help)If they shit talk you, they aren’t friends. Find a new circle. Your sexual life as a man is absolutely NOBODY’S business but yours. Fuck people who slut shame on men. | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 06:03 PM |
| 9 | How to hide from "polite society" as a fuckboy (need help)Be honest with the girl about expectations because if you aren’t then that’s how you earn a bad rep. | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date but girl didn't show up. (Need mental guidance)Overthinking it man. Block her and move on. It’s honestly that easy | /r/seduction | 26/08/25 04:21 PM |
| 5 | Here is the deal: I can’t imagine myself with a hot girlBro listen to me. I am 6’1” and in great shape. I have dated one, ONE, super hot chick in my whole life. She was a 6’4” polish model. I have a thing for taller chicks, maybe like you do from what it sounds like. I was super apprehensive about approaching her. But here is the thing, tall chicks are self conscious about their height just like short kings are but just the opposite way. My ex-gal, she couldn’t get a dude because dudes were intimidated by her height. Not me. I wanted uppies. So I too… | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 09:18 AM |
| 1 | The curse of vacations while datingSo you went on one day the first time. You only were dating the second for a few weeks. Bro. Come on. There is no level of commitment or expectation at that point. You can’t take this seriously at all. | /r/seduction | 22/08/25 09:30 PM |
| 13 | Normalize having neutral conversations with womenI’ve heard it plenty. Plenty! “I didn’t think you were interested.” “I just thought you didn’t find me attractive.” Etc | /r/seduction | 22/08/25 07:00 PM |
| 28 | Normalize having neutral conversations with womenProblem is that if you do that too long they’ll lose interest and put you in the friend zone while the guy who made a move earlier gets her | /r/seduction | 22/08/25 05:50 PM |
| 1 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?Tale as old as time | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 09:38 PM |
| 5 | Best Cold Approach Openers – What Actually Works for You?“Hello” Otherwise be observant of the area and what she is doing and maybe ask someone a question about what they’re doing. Comment on their clothes, their hair, etc. I once got a girl’s number by simply asking about the book she was reading. We talked for a while about favorite authors and such. | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 05:15 PM |
| 7 | Men are like a moving train with a clear path. You either stop letting women steer your destination or you lose their respect.Oh yeah I do. I am the friend their wives and girlfriends won’t let them play with. I’m the friend who enjoys trips to foreign countries, strippers, motorcycles and very large guns. Their women act live slave owners and treat me like a runaway slave who brings news of freedom - keep him away. And it’s pathetic | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 03:56 PM |
| 27 | Men are like a moving train with a clear path. You either stop letting women steer your destination or you lose their respect.Women will take a masculine, authoritative, and good man and make him weak, indecisive and scared and then complain they aren’t the same man when they first met. Science has proven in multiple studies how men in long term relationships and marriage have significantly lower testosterone levels than their counterparts. And it’s no wonder. There is literally a nature based and science based foundation for the phrase “did you lose your balls or something”? How many times have you seen your married b… | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 03:51 PM |
| 25 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?That’s a…..solution | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 10:18 PM |
| 4 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?It never ever just stops and works out where people are friends again in the end. It just doesn’t. | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 10:17 PM |
| 13 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?Oh you can be friends again later once the sex has ended. 100%. Once it’s ended. But even your example of your friend he hooked up with a friend who was a girl and now they’re a couple - both of them caught feelings for each other. But it typically does not work out that way. I’m still friends with girls I’ve slept with. We don’t text or talk regularly at all but we see each other online from time to time and say hi and catch up. But it never goes back to the way it was. I’m so sorry, that’s jus… | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 10:07 PM |
| 40 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?Oh they were all NSA, “I am not wanting anything in my life right now”….yeah…buuuuuuulllllshiiiiiiiiiiid. If you give them a good dick down they want more and more. It’s rarely ever just sex. Even had one ask me for money and I was like “uhhh, no. You never asked for money when we were just friends and hanging out all the time. Wtf.” And she got super pissed. It’s a slippery slope. And if you know people who are “just FWB”, I guarantee you, one of them feels a lot differently about the situation… | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 09:58 PM |
| 126 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?Fastest way to lose a friend ever. Take it from my experience. I have had three women as very close friends and like the other dude said, got too boozed up, one thing led to the next and before you know it they’re coming over your house unannounced, they’re asking for texts all the time, wanting gf treatment but “still friends” but not really “just friends”. It’s a bad idea. | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 09:48 PM |
| 2 | The Traveler's Advantage: Why Seduction Abroad is so SpecialVery interesting take. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 10:50 PM |
| 4 | Approaching/dating when mental health isn't greatMy opinion - You need to fix that first. If you struggle with all those things it will make dating harder than it already is. You will question yourself over and over again and you will take things way too personally all the time. You’ll overthink and question and hesitate because of uncertainty from within. You won’t be able to give your best to the other person because you are not at your best | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 06:55 PM |
| 40 | Do Women Actually Like "Flirt-with-Everyone" Guys at the Gym?No doubt it is a watering hole. You are right. However for guys like me, the gym is also a place of solitude, peace and community. I have a group of people who support me and cheer me everyday. Risking losing that for some booty seems foolish. But I’m also a dude who thinks long term too. To each his own. | /r/seduction | 14/08/25 01:07 AM |
| 6 | Do Women Actually Like "Flirt-with-Everyone" Guys at the Gym?You’d be surprised what the power of mystery and illusion can do to people. Sometimes selling them an idea of something they never wanted isn’t as hard as it’s made out to be. | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 11:31 PM |
| 20 | Do Women Actually Like "Flirt-with-Everyone" Guys at the Gym?Believe it or not, it’s been proven that women are attracted to men who show interest and then pull it away and repeat. They subconsciously want men who other women talk to as well. So when girl A sees guy talk to girl B at the gym and then girl C and girl D but not her, it builds a subconscious desire: it’s actually been studied. | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 10:35 PM |
| 17 | Do Women Actually Like "Flirt-with-Everyone" Guys at the Gym?This^ I never get how and why a man would ever derive his worth from talking to women. My brother is like that and his main source of self worth is how many girls he can pickup. I don’t get it. I try to talk to him about stuff but it’s like a wall. | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 08:17 PM |
| 147 | Do Women Actually Like "Flirt-with-Everyone" Guys at the Gym?As a dude who works out six days a week….talking to that many women at the gym sounds annoying and a ton of work without much reward. And let’s say you did hookup with one…then if it doesn’t work out things get awkward | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 03:21 PM |
| 0 | Why Being a Nice Guy is a TrapEverything you just described is in this book: https://a.co/d/1r4rhtm | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 12:20 PM |
| 5 | 38, divorcing after 17 years—how do I re-enter dating in 2025?Photography at night is fun. Riding motorcycles at night is fun - so long as you’re safe. Movies. Spending time with friends. Travel and doing things at night with travel. I don’t drink. I don’t smoke weed. Pure clean and sober by choice which has also helped me gain clarity and helped me improve myself. There are so many things you can do at night. Read. You can go see a concert. Go talk a walk around the neighborhood. I’m not saying don’t do things with other people. I am saying, especially to… | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 08:42 PM |
| 2 | 38, divorcing after 17 years—how do I re-enter dating in 2025?There isn’t a timeline on healing yourself. There just isn’t. Some people heal quick and some will never heal. But if you don’t try to be the best of yourself first, you can’t give your best to someone else and therefore you will never receive the best from them. Period. The universe has no timeline on this. To force it or try to rush it will lead to poor results | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | 38, divorcing after 17 years—how do I re-enter dating in 2025?Gym. Photography. Travel. Bought some motorcycles. Stuff like that. Get yourself outside. But again. Learn who you are first. Work on yourself and then other stuff will fall in place. The relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have. Be the love you never received, and you’ll draw that love to you | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 08:34 PM |
| 6 | 38, divorcing after 17 years—how do I re-enter dating in 2025?Your story is the exact same as mine. I got divorced at 39 after 17 years of marriage and one kid. It is going to be rough….doesn’t matter if you’re the one doing the leaving or you’re the one being left. It’s hard. It won’t be easy so first step is understanding it is going to be hard. The best thing you can do is honestly work on yourself. You mentioned working on fitness, style and mindset. YES! Do that. Focus 100% of your time on that. You need to work on finding yourself again. You need to … | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 06:52 PM |
| 5 | Older waitress flirted with me at a salsa club, gave me her number, but our 'date' felt like I was just a ride for her — what happened?What this dude said 100% | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 01:42 AM |
| 1 | How do you build up A broken Man?That sucks. Have you looked into men’s support groups in your area or online. There are many that are free. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 12:13 AM |
| 1 | How do you build up A broken Man?You need a male therapist. Thats rule number one of therapy for men. Especially when it comes to these problems. Building yourself up comes from within. You can’t get it from anyone else. If you lack confidence you will never have luck with women | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 11:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you ever talk to an ex? To me it's just weird.They’re an ex for a reason. I haven’t spoken to my ex wife in a year. Not once. And we have a teenage son together with two more years of high school. I figured out that it is just easier sometimes to do it yourself alone than try to deal with a toxic person. I tried for years after our divorce to have at least a working relationship for our son but it never worked out because she would always pull some bullshit with me and try to be manipulative. My point is, if they’re an ex, there was a chara… | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 01:10 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with cockblocking friends at parties?You bring a guy friend. He has to be willing to jump on the grenade | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 12:52 PM |
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