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| 66 | 26 approaches - 1 success | Field Report | tinyservant | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 10:56 AM |
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| 10 | Lost Weight Again and Dating Instantly ImprovedCongratulations, you just confirmed the saying: "Jaw is Law and lean is law" 😂 | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 11:57 AM |
| 1 | I don’t get choosing signals from women anymore?As you enter your 20s your bodyfat percentage increases and it shows in your face. You could still weight the same, but the body composition still changed. You might not have noticed it, because it happens slowly. Check your old photos and compare it to now. If this is the case you should get in the gym and build muscle. This helped me and I get the same treatement as I got when I was a teenager. Currently 26. | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Rejection rate highBad breath: Take your time when brushing your tongue. This helped me :) | /r/seduction | 31/07/23 09:06 PM |
| 25 | I have had a higher success rate approaching women in malls than in nightclubs.Me too. Nightgame is just not my thing. | /r/seduction | 03/07/23 10:21 PM |
| 2 | 26 approaches - 1 successThank you. The power lies in caring less about what other people think of you. I recommend watching the videos from Mark Manson and Based Zeus who made very good videos about this topic if you haven't done already. | /r/seduction | 06/11/22 07:10 PM |
| 4 | Things I have seen "PUAs" and daygamers do that get them labeled as Creepy Pickup Guys.Very good post 💯 | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 10:28 AM |
| -1 | Is it weird that high school girls are into me ?You could still have saved their numbers just in case for a rainy day. Time flies. | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 06:09 AM |
| 3 | I have been getting approached by girls first but I can’t find confidence to approach girls first myselfWhen I was 15 years old it was the last time I got approached by 2 girls under pretense - you know how girls are - but I was too dumb to do anything, anyway. Later on in life girls just came and stood suddenly in my vicinity, so you should count yourself lucky if you get directly approached. Trust me, once you approach your first legit 9 or 10 you will feel that rush running through your body. You will feel proud of yourself, just go for it :) | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Is it weird that high school girls are into me ?I'm pretty sure you got the "pretty boy" looks. Teeangers like that shit ;) | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 05:54 AM |
| -1 | What are ways that women can increase seduction when they’re not conventionally beautiful?Sorry, but that's just wishful thinking. I can't speak for every man out there, but the power of a woman lies in her beauty. You won't have any fear though if you and your potential partner are on the same looks level or you're (way) above him. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 success1 I'm a big believer of AMS's saying "She either likes what she sees or she doesn't" and I basically just say that I find her attractive and ask for her number. Couple things right off. A.) Let's define our terms. What is seduction really? It's a form of social interaction between two people. To successfully navigate this social interaction, you need social skills. Appearance is not social skills. Period. B.) When you walk up to someone, there was something going on in their life. There were thi… | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 04:44 PM |
| 5 | Where should I start if I want to talk to more women but live in a small town with no friends or connections?I feel your pain man and I see many parallels with my life, but once I realized complaining doesn't help at all I just try to accept the things the way they are. Of course I'm still dwelling on all the missed opportunities I had and I still cry about it internally, but what are you gonna do about it? Exactly, that's what I thought. All you can do is not trying to mess up your future even more. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 successI believe due to my christian upbringing and later in life I just didn't care about all of that. I'm content, though. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 08:34 AM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 successI partly agree: I mentioned that she is black because logically I should have a higher success rate with them. When I was a teenager in school and didn't have a receding hairline I overheard two white females sitting next to me saying : "He is handsome". " The other girl (on whom I had a crush on, but was too shy" said: "I know, but his character... " So yeah, there is a lot of work to do. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 08:29 AM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 successI'm aware, if I were in Colombia dating would be on easy mode, but you gotta work with the stuff God gives you. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 08:22 AM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 successI will prolly post today a new field report taking in regard all your advises and will write as title "number" instead of "success". | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 08:20 AM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 successI don't drink nor smoke and I did visit a club alone in April and hollered at some girls, but got rejected every single time. | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 08:18 AM |
| -8 | 26 approaches - 1 successOf course and I will change, but you gotta remember there are billions of women in this world and there will be always that odd person who thinks to themselves: "I like this corny goofball guy just the way he his" Not my words, I just quoted AMS - again. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 11:11 PM |
| 6 | 26 approaches - 1 successI see, I see... Gotta face my fears. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 10:28 PM |
| -9 | 26 approaches - 1 successIt's because I'm scared shitless to start an actual conversation. Rejection hurts like hell if you drag something out, but sooner or later I will have to adapt, because I'm horny. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 successAfter taking all those comments in consideration I've already decided that I won't return to the gym, as long as my metabolism is still crappy / stick to junk food. Weight gainers and many protein rich food are a no-go for me, since I fart a lot (and I mean A LOT) and have digestion issues when eating this. Besides, I already discussed with a Redditor hear that my slow progress is prolly due to junk food and clean bulking is right now my only option to maybe reach my dream weight of 75 Kg. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 successHuh? | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 successThx, but 6ft doesn't mean shit. I would rather switch place with young Tom Cruise and I wouldn't be out in the streets and do tinder all day everyday. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 09:41 PM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 successBruh, not the 1st I was called that | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 09:38 PM |
| -2 | 26 approaches - 1 successDamn, my eyes got a bit teary after reading this... | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 08:42 PM |
| 2 | 26 approaches - 1 successThx for your encouraging words 👍🏿 | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 successAppreciate it 💯 | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 successYeah, sounds legit, but I was already struggling with the food I ate and now trying actual food would be too much. I am now humbly accepting defeat and after clearing this up I'm pretty sure I will never step foot in a gym again :/ | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 08:16 PM |
| 0 | 26 approaches - 1 successI had a theory that maybe it was because I just eat candy and junk food, but unless I'm being followed by a camera team or do a YT video about it we will never know - might do a video about it since it's frustrating as hell -_- | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 08:08 PM |
| 9 | 26 approaches - 1 success😂 | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 successI have severe doubts, but thanks for your uplifting words. I will return to the gym in 2023 anyway, hope things will get better. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 06:03 PM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 successYeah, I must admit most of you would find the majority of women I found alright not that hot, but I agree with everything you said. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 successEasier said than done. You can train like a mf, but as long as your caloric intake is not enough you won't get far. And eating above 4000 or even 5000 calories is just asking for trouble, I just can't take this torture :( | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 05:34 PM |
| -5 | 26 approaches - 1 successYeah, cause I know damn well I won't get far with my personality, hence I have nobody in my life. And I am scared to unnecessarily waste her time or upset her. It's a shame that I'm apparently an hypersexual person, maybe due to the lack of female in the past? I don't know, but you made very good points. I didn't describe AMS' method at all, I just agree with his statement that you won't "get an interview" if you don't fulfill her minimum attraction level. This is why I said she either likes wha… | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 successI believe that if you are not extremely good looking guy, direct approach doesn't work. If you are gonna go for direct approach, she must feel something right when she looked you in the eyes, your face or your body. If not, you will fail unless she saw you 5 minutes ago in a fucking lamborghini. I also believe if you are good looking guy and go for direct approach, the percentage of succes is still low. Its only higher compared to average looking guy. Also, most of the girls are shy and don't kn… | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 04:54 PM |
| 2 | 26 approaches - 1 successit's a game, one which isn't alway on easy mode. you play to win. As much as i agree with you on the last part, you do know that "shit tests" are a thing right? | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 02:19 PM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 successI just hope my metabolism drastically slows down, because I'm turning 25 in December and right now if I wanted to change my body it would take at the very least 4500 calories a day, 5000 calories sounds more realistically since I'm a super hardgainer (sedentary lifestyle), it's ridiculous. I couldn't care less about money, unless it is for brothels. I want pure,raw, physical attraction as Austin Dunham says, maybe I will achieve that with lifting. Yes, daygame is not a walk in the park and I hav… | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | 26 approaches - 1 successYeah, I could try teasing, but I'm not that goodlooking to say the "do better" part. I partly agree with the last part: On one hand, it's good to be pushy in certain instances, but on the other hand a girl that really is interested shouldn't put obstacles or offer an alternative, but I will try this on the next opportunity. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 01:18 PM |
| 0 | 26 approaches - 1 successI swear to god I tracked my calories with yazio for MONTHS (i still use it) and used my scale and it didn't do shit and I was stuck at 66.7 KG at around 3000 - 3300 calories. I should prolly be apart of a documentary since my case is supernatural. If you check my post history I wanted to post my case on "gainit" but it got deleted due to not enough karma or something like that. God clearly nerfed me or I would have been chadlite, haha :D | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 12:47 PM |
| -2 | 26 approaches - 1 successI don't know, for me it feels fake knowing that in the back of my head I'm prolly thinking about playing with her boobs etc. and it cuts out all the bullshit, but anyway. Did you ever sleep with someone from your indirect approach? | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Truth bomb - sleeping with women won't better your life by itselfFair enough | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 03:04 PM |
| 6 | Truth bomb - sleeping with women won't better your life by itselfTry not touching a woman for a whole year and tell me how good your life is then. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | It’s not rocket science💯 | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 01:37 PM |
| -1 | Truth bomb - sleeping with women won't better your life by itself🧢 | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 01:33 PM |
| 5 | I’m confused.Leave her alone asap. If she still finds a reason to bother you just tell her nicely you don't see in her a potential friend, rather someone you want to date and she can let you know if she becomes available. Everything else is unnecessary. Remember she is getting dicked down and you just get smiles and friendly conversations which absolutely serve no purpose. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 09:45 PM |
| 0 | “I’ve only known you for a day” how to go about this?Judging by the comments here you hold her in great esteem - She is JUST a girl. If you fuck up, who cares? There are even prettier girls out there. The comment by mjornir should be enough to know what is needed and to become good over time in something comes from failure and experience, so keep cool :) | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 09:19 PM |
| 0 | “I’ve only known you for a day” how to go about this?Now that you mention the last thing I'm starting to believe she wants to buy more time to make up her mind. You shouldn't be too tolerant and if she don't put out make her decision easier by letting her go. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 08:06 PM |
| 2 | “I’ve only known you for a day” how to go about this?In my opinion you should ALWAYS push for sex, unless she is making it very clear that she doesn't want to. But all in all you did everything well. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Am I(18m) misinterpreting friendship with my coworker(45f)?Please do me a favor and drop the delivery asap. With delivery I mean your shlong ;) | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 09:09 AM |
| 95 | I am able to sleep with a lot of women but only because they approach me. I have no game whatsoever. What should I do?I wish I had your problems... | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 07:49 PM |
| -1 | The guys I know who attract the most women are among the most deeply insecure, arrogant, narcissistic, egotistical people that I know ofPussy is the most important thing at the end of the day (at least for me) , of course I'm gonna hunt it 🦁 | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 06:03 PM |
| 45 | Surgery improved my appearance... I have no idea how to handle itEventually you will get used to it, but remember one thing - Take advantage of your new super power to the fullest ;) | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 10:01 PM |
| 2 | “Game only works if you’re attractive” - a message to all the incels infiltrating this subIt's not about complaining - It's about not trying to sugarcoat things, but to each his own ;) | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 10:35 AM |
| 1 | How to get over the regret of not approaching ?Tbh you can't, but it should serve as motivation to holla asap. | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Learn from me, Regret is a lot harder to live with than rejection.For real... | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 10:42 AM |
| 7 | I'm no longer introverted (It clicked in me today..)Nice, if you truly enjoyed the interactions you have my admiration. Sounds like you can look forward to a fulfilled future :) | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 12:40 AM |
| 2 | It’s not to do with looks, it’s how you feel about yourselfMaybe there is a misunderstanding from my part or yours, but it doesn't really matter. Let's agree to disagree. I would recommend watching the viral video "Being ugly: My experience" to see how harsh reality is. | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 06:08 PM |
| 4 | It’s not to do with looks, it’s how you feel about yourselfSure, I want to quote the great AMS: "Girls want to have sex with someone they find attractive and not wanting to staple their stomachs trying not to throw up while doing it" ;) | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 04:35 PM |
| 15 | It’s not to do with looks, it’s how you feel about yourselfSorry but I have to put it in here: 🧢 | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 10:21 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys deal with the depression of being an older virgin?I can repeat myself over and over again - Pay for sex and you will feel 5 pounds lighter and more confident after nutting inside her 😎 | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I have missed the boat when it comes to dating. And once that ship has sailed, it is never coming back. What advice do you have?It's unusual to enjoy sex with someone you are not attracted too in general. I know if I posted my field reports I would get criticiszed like hell, since I just directly ask for the number and can't be bothered with making small talk, unless she agreed to give me her humber or asks questions like "why you want it?" etc. I know where improvement is needed, but in certain areas I'm not willing to and this is not crying for help, just to make some things clearer. | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I have missed the boat when it comes to dating. And once that ship has sailed, it is never coming back. What advice do you have?Not 1 single friend and I only smashed 1 overweight woman last year from tinder. Not proud of it at all and never again will I settle 🤮 No success online. Tbh I had plenty of opportunities to get a gf, but I was too shy when I was a teenager. Cold approach is my only way of meeting women. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 12:05 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I have missed the boat when it comes to dating. And once that ship has sailed, it is never coming back. What advice do you have?I have been approaching since 2017. I don't count, but it must be over 100. It's not enough, though. | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 06:47 AM |
| 2 | How to get feedback and improve cold approach?Yeah, I had that in mind not gonna lie. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Tired of WomenI want to quote a youtuber called Auston Holleman who was fed up with it. He always says: "Get your passports". Maybe you will have luck overseas :) | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | How to get feedback and improve cold approach?I like your mindset, but it will be tough if you are only aiming high. Just wanted to let you know that sex with a girl you're barely attracted to sucks - especially the moment after you nut 🤮 | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 06:09 PM |
| 7 | How to get feedback and improve cold approach?Not trying to offend but maybe it's because you are asian? I'm black living in Germany going for white girls and I get rejected basically all the time and numbers lead to nowhere :/ | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 07:56 AM |
| 2 | How to take the conversation in a flirting directionJust imagine all the time she did some freaky stuff with someone. She already knows what's on your mind, so why beat around the bush? ;) | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 01:59 PM |
| 2 | I'm 20 years old and have never had a girlfriend before. I would like some tipsIf he doesn't try he has already lost. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | I'm 20 years old and have never had a girlfriend before. I would like some tipsMy rule is to never interact with women, unless they put out. But if you are gaining something you really want (it does not matter what), then sure, go ahead ;) | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 05:48 AM |
| 1 | I'm 20 years old and have never had a girlfriend before. I would like some tipsMaybe it's me but in my past if I didn't make the interaction sexual from the very beginning most times I didn't ask them out in the end and girls ALWAYS distance themselves from guys who they have no interest in, unless she is an attention seeker. So why waste time? | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 05:39 AM |
| 4 | I'm 20 years old and have never had a girlfriend before. I would like some tipsIn my opinion you shouldn't have offered the option of turning in their work at all. Next time when you see her just be direct and say that you want to take her out / get her number. If she declines there is no point in interacting with her. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 05:26 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I have missed the boat when it comes to dating. And once that ship has sailed, it is never coming back. What advice do you have?A bad reputation or a reputation in general isn't an issue if you got nobody in your life, but it depends on each person. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 05:21 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I have missed the boat when it comes to dating. And once that ship has sailed, it is never coming back. What advice do you have?There are billions of people. Someone will always say yes and sitting at home with a boner will never be an option. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I have missed the boat when it comes to dating. And once that ship has sailed, it is never coming back. What advice do you have?If getting her number or making her put my number in her phone count as 'decent results' then hell yeah, a lot of times. But did it end up in a date and me fucking her? No, not even once, but cold approach is my only way of meeting women since I have not even 1 friend (my fault), hence I pay for prostitutes. | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 05:23 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I have missed the boat when it comes to dating. And once that ship has sailed, it is never coming back. What advice do you have?Had to get a overview of all the comments before I answer. I'm prolly autistic aswell since all signs are pointing to it and I'm mostly alone too but anyway. All I can say is you have to talk to women and don't mention that you are virgin. Yes, being "ugly" or being "weird" doesn't help man but you still gotta talk, try cold approaching. I'm not the most handsome either but I still cold approach because I'm horny. But it would be very helpful if you pay for sex ASAP no matter what. If prostitute… | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 07:20 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I have missed the boat when it comes to dating. And once that ship has sailed, it is never coming back. What advice do you have?Travelling may be the solution | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 06:07 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I have missed the boat when it comes to dating. And once that ship has sailed, it is never coming back. What advice do you have?Pay for sex and the confidence will come along. I did and my life got much better 😎 | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 03:27 AM |
| 5 | Women, and society in general, do not give a flying fuck about your problems.Fr | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | I feel like as soon as I started getting good with women, I started hating most men out there.Yeah, at the end of the day the most important thing is pussy. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 06:20 PM |
| 4 | If you’re hung up on one person who is not invested in you, think of the regret you will eventually have over the precious time, opportunities, and emotional energy you wastedFor real... | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 06:07 PM |
| 2 | I’m starting to get more attention at the gym. What do I do with it?Exactly 💯 | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 10:01 PM |
| -9 | I’m starting to get more attention at the gym. What do I do with it?Just go up to her and say that you find her attractive and want to get her number. Once a girl finds you attractive she's already fantasizing how it will be when you are ballsdeep inside of her ;) | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | I hate my brother because of his successBro, you won't be 21 forever. I'm currently 24 and if there is 1 thing I would tell my younger self is to get sexual experience with girls as soon as possible. You are missing out on releasing and thrusting in some nice chicks and the tremendous confidence boost - sex is wonderful! Maybe there is a difference between me and you since I don't genuinely care about women and only interact with them if they put out but to each his own. You can still move to Colombia (highly recommended) or anywhere … | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 10:05 AM |
| 2 | I hate my brother because of his successHey, I read some of your posts and this is exactly the same reason I cut off a good associate of mine and I've felt much better since that day. It will be 2 years in January and I told him why I am doing it since he has been always 100 with me. Anyway, I can only advise you to humble yourself and seek your bro for further advise or if you don't want his help distance yourself for him (but not cutting him completely off since he is still your brother) . If I were in your position I would ask him … | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 09:42 AM |
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