I don't really want to make this a detailed field report. I just want to take note of a past weekedn experience and speak about it a bit.

Just recovered from a pretty long weekend of going out. It was a ton of fun and the vibes were right.

I want to discuss what happened on Saturday Night.

As many people may know who view my posts is that I love going to bars on Friday and Saturday nights. They are full of energy and the vibes are always high.

I don't want to make it seem like it's my first time being approached by a women but although it doesn't happen often, I feel like it has been happening more often and I will explain as to why I believe why.

Typical solo night going to the bar. Most bars are dark but still have areas that are more lit than others. What I sometimes do is stand in those areas with more light so I am visible to others and usually it's more open as people tend to be in the darken areas.

So as i'm standing there, a girl who appeared to be with 3 friends approached me alone. She briefly left her friends and opened conversation with me.

This is what she said:

Her: "Do you have instagram?"

I responded with yes and then she asked for it. She didn't even say hi or ask for my name until after the fact. There was only one other instance when someone did this exact thing. I find it so interesting how a girl shooting her shot will require absolutely no game but for guys, we need to be more smooth with it.

Anyhow, after exchanging instagrams; we proceeded to talk. We spoke, I made her feel good. Probably no more than 5-10 minutes after, we were making out.

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What I believe increases my approachability as a guy:

- Good Physique. I've been consistently in the gym for the past 4 months and i've not only received compliments on my body but I feel better, more confident, and look better in anything I wear compared to my fat/skinny build before.

- Clean haircut (self-explanatory. You do not want to go out looking rough on the head). If you're bald or balding, just rock it.

- Sense of style. I'm not referring to designer or anything expensive. Just a stylish top thats fitted and nice pants that fits the style

- Mysterious vibes. I was alone, that can make somoene curious who is already attracted to you. They want to figure out who you are. She asked for my instagram immediately. My instagram explains who I am. Being alone does not make you weird; I go out solo 90% of the time and have success.

I've been focusing on improving those points above these past few months and the results are truly paying off.

After you get approached, the goal is to now use the game you have been practicing over the year in order to secure the set. Game is extremely important for majority of sets.

It's officially been just over 1 year since I started learning how to game women from this specific subreddit. I browsed it every day and use what I read from you guys. Through constant practice, I've improved greatly. If I'm in a set, I feel like I know exactly what to say, what to do, how to escalate, etc.

This subreddit is invaluable for information as long as you are willing to put in the work in real life. The key take-aways from this post is, improve your mind, body, and game. This will help you succeed with women.