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Tyler creeps me the fuck out. there are a handful of pickup guys that give me that feeling and he is at the top of that list. he just seems like an inauthentic clout chaser. all that being said, he has added a lot to the community and there are small nuggets of wisdom within his teachings.
/r/seduction22/07/26 01:51 PM
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It’s a numbers game. How many approaches have you done in 2 weeks? Get off the APPs. Get out into real world.
/r/seduction20/07/26 12:21 PM
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this is one of the best things I've ever seen on this subreddit. Big tiddy gals are fun to visit, but I'd never marry one. those things sag and look really gross. to each their own though
/r/seduction16/07/26 03:06 PM
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real easy. get better. read a lot. stay busy with extracurriculars. compete with yourself from yesterday. after failures, self reflect on where things went wrong and learn from it. that's it.
/r/seduction14/07/26 05:46 PM
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devote your life to a purpose bigger than yourself. that's an attractive quality women will get wet for. have something better to do than pick up women and picking up women will get easier
/r/seduction07/07/26 01:44 PM
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black pill should be a motivator for you to improve yourself.
/r/seduction07/07/26 01:43 PM
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Use Tinder as 15% of your time. 85% should be in the field shotgunning. Lots of bots, OF models, and clout chasers. Don’t waste your time. Real girls are out there. Use sparingly
/r/seduction26/06/26 09:43 PM
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Fucking a 4 or 5 is okay sometimes. Don’t make it a habit. Get it in and move on
/r/seduction26/06/26 12:36 AM
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when you're that tall, you have an aura around you. everyone is mesmerized. additionally, he had a reputation of a freak that did not care about what people thought
/r/seduction01/06/26 02:57 PM
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who you are. 1, 3, 4, 5. what you do. 2, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10. you are missing a key. it is when and how you do it, which is calibration. without a process of reflection, you will not get better.
/r/seduction28/05/26 01:44 PM
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im a bad conversationalist when I'm given nothing to work with and have to carry the conversation. see if you can strike it up with some interesting new folk and work backwards towards the less social people
/r/seduction22/05/26 02:21 PM
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i agree. no issue. get better. dont have AFC reversion syndrome either. get better. stay better. good for you for actually approaching!
/r/seduction14/05/26 07:07 PM
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next time you make eye contact, give her a small wave. the gym is not my go-to for 'hitting on her', however see if you can catch her on the way out or on the way in. strike up a convo. 'hey, i see you here all the time and I don't think we've met, I'm achyut, what's your name?"
/r/seduction14/05/26 02:30 PM
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I always gauge the interaction. if she seems super interested, you can wait a day or two. for someone who's very attractive and the interaction was 5/10 at best, it's best to jump on that ASAP
/r/seduction12/05/26 04:07 PM
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leg lengthening surgery? holy shit, we are off the rails. get a haircut, dress better, and improve your social skills. how about that?
/r/seduction11/05/26 01:32 PM
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this is terrible advice. you are putting waaaaaaayyyy too much into the approach and waaaayyyy too much into guys need to hit on women. there is a giant difference between approaching and hitting on the girl. just be a friendly guy. test the waters. approach and calibrate. if she doesn't want to talk, its all good. approach. approach. approach. be friendly. dont put so much weight into it.
/r/seduction08/05/26 08:25 PM
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I'm married to a wonderful woman. I wish my friends would listen to me. I hold the keys to the kingdom
/r/seduction08/05/26 07:38 PM
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chickenshits. approach. approach. approach. These fuckers dont have balls. young guys are such pussies.
/r/seduction08/05/26 06:26 PM
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put yourself out there. be friendly, confident, and say hi.
/r/seduction05/05/26 04:50 PM
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talkers generally do better regardless of looks. I think it's because of the confidence factor and they're just out there. Social proof it real.
/r/seduction30/04/26 01:51 PM
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put yourself out there. get rejected. it builds character.
/r/seduction27/04/26 01:21 PM
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all i hear in my friends excuses is fear. they are scared to put themselves out there for rejection. they are little chicken shits. you get what you put out there. You should work hard at it. I worked very hard to turn myself into a respectable man and the universe paid me back with an amazing wife.
/r/seduction20/04/26 02:45 PM
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dudes these days do not put themselves out there enough and are too sensitive. a rejection is nothing but a time saver
/r/seduction14/04/26 05:53 PM
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I’d put on some mass if i were you. As a former fat guy who’s starting to become muscular, the gals like in shape better than skinny or fat.
/r/seduction20/03/26 11:49 AM
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dominance is the one I've found to be the most true. guys these days are such pussies.
/r/seduction13/03/26 02:07 PM
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generally speaking, my experience with Asian women is that they're very shy at first. they may like you a lot, but it takes a lot for them to come out of their shell.
/r/seduction12/03/26 01:37 PM
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damn thats funny
/r/seduction12/03/26 01:36 PM
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My wife is keen on oral health. she told me that she'd never date anyone with bad teeth or bad breath. a few other tips for the gentlemen. Colgate makes a Pro Series with 10% Hydrogen Peroxide mixed in. It will make your teeth more sensitive, however it will make your smile whiter. And then for the sensitive aspect, i use Sensodyne to negate the effects of the teeth whitening and i rotate between the two. Never thought I'd be cycling toothpastes, but here we are. Another thing. Xylitol gum! Xyli…
/r/seduction11/03/26 02:08 PM
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biggest thing for me was retrospection. analyzing the actions i took in the field, self critiquing where things went wrong, and correcting next time. Your auto pilot responses are generally not great unless you're already a hero. get better about being in the moment and thinking through your interactions.
/r/seduction09/03/26 01:48 PM
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you gotta shoot your shot. put yourself out there. (my friends just do not understand this, which is why I have an incredible wife and they are all single)
/r/seduction05/03/26 02:42 PM
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the most dangerous mindset IMO is not putting yourself out there at all. All my friends are pussies scared of rejection. If you try, you are ahead of 85% of this generation.
/r/seduction27/02/26 06:59 PM
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How do you get an incredible woman? Deserve her.
/r/seduction27/02/26 01:09 PM
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Personally, I love going out alone. There are many key benefits. You’re not dependent on a group, so you can do whatever you want. I find strange people really interesting so i usually yuck it up with guys who have unique fashion. I usually go see bands, so i tend to just enjoy watching the live music. Chicks will usually check me out, realize I’m alone and start to make eye contact, dance close, or start up a conversation.
/r/seduction18/02/26 12:51 PM
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Be different. Offer more value than the choch to your left.
/r/seduction11/02/26 10:33 AM
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feels like a humble brag post, but I like your style. you must be hot or got some serious rizz. being 18 and time conscious is impressive, i was not thinking this way when I was your age. Point 3 on not dealing with BS.... this is great, it makes you the selector in a list of candidates, certainly a script flipper. To your last point... this is something I've learned throughout the years, reputation means a lot. Errybody got a hot friend/cousin, maintain your courtesy and be a good person. Even …
/r/seduction10/02/26 05:49 PM
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Putting yourself out there is great. Talking to strangers and being friendly are 2 things that my single friends just don’t do. You are ahead of 99 percent of guys if you’re just the friendly guy at the bar. Your philosophy is great. It’s a hard concept to explain to people. Not every interaction with a woman/stranger is going to go well. That’s okay. Some people just don’t jive. When you get good, you can be the selector. You get to put yourself out there and they put themselves out there to yo…
/r/seduction09/02/26 12:38 PM
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i think this is what most guys miss. sometimes game is nothing more than calibration. it's being able to distinguish between, "she's into me, i should push forward", and "time to go talk to someone else."
/r/seduction23/01/26 08:46 PM
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the worst that I've seen is when a guy thinks he is funny but he is definitely not funny. If you're good at calibrating, (reading the room, looking for IoIs, read her micro expressions on her face) you can usually tell if you're doing a good job or not.
/r/seduction20/01/26 03:17 PM
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go keto. i never fart
/r/seduction08/01/26 08:20 PM
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practice happiness. practice positivity. practice healthy self talk.
/r/seduction06/01/26 03:43 PM
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if you're anxious and working up to the kiss the whole night, it'll seem awkward and forced when it happens. however.... if you're lightly touching throughout the date, it will not be forced but seem natural. good luck
/r/seduction05/01/26 05:49 PM
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Self-pity is an extremely unattractive quality. Something is not adding up with what you are saying. Only you know the answer.
/r/seduction04/12/25 01:46 PM
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women, in general, want to feel safe and secure. The easiest dumb way to do this is be tall/muscular/large. If you're short you should make the woman feel safe in secure in your presence by demonstrating you make good decisions and that you're not a push over. I know a lot of shorter dudes who do very well. We are all doing the best with the cards we've been dealt.
/r/seduction30/10/25 05:10 PM
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Your top 2 spots are such target rich environments. i wish more dudes knew about those. Get out of your comfort zone!
/r/seduction21/10/25 02:04 PM
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I glowed up right around 30 years old. Lost a ton of weight and feel a lot better about myself. I still see the same old fat guy in the mirror, so its a grind to make him go away. The looks or attention from women is the validation i get to know I'm not the fat guy anymore. but honestly, i dont need the validation. I'm happy with myself and that's what matters.
/r/seduction09/10/25 01:46 PM
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lustful energy that repels is typical bro mentality. crude jokes/humor. gazing at the ass. low value male behavior. there's a way to be playfully sexual without it being gross. There's a fine line for sure. It helps if you're attractive, cause you can get away with more (sadly). On your second point, women just have a good intuition. they can read the room better than us.
/r/seduction08/10/25 06:07 PM
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getting IG/number is easy. turning it into a day 2 or a relationship in modern times is tough. women literally have millionaire douchebags flying them around the planet. want a good woman? you need to deserve her.
/r/seduction07/10/25 01:55 PM
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Catch them walking in or walking out. Don’t interrupt people during their workout
/r/seduction03/10/25 11:03 AM
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had a raver girl wanna fuck me at the festival. didn't take her up on it though. but that was pretty fast. she was dead serious too. it was about a 3 min conversation
/r/seduction20/09/25 04:13 PM
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If you've ever been to a bar with a really attractive man, you will witness this and it is a foreign concept to us normies.
/r/seduction19/09/25 02:35 PM
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when i call the cops on her and she answers the door naked and tries to fuck the cop
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:52 PM
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I know how NOT to respond... Get all pissed off.
/r/seduction10/09/25 02:41 PM
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yeah, you're going to fuck. chicks love your accent. just be fun, positive, and nice.
/r/seduction09/09/25 05:49 PM
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After studying this for many years…. Just based on looks alone…. Your body language must not exude confidence. Your sense of fashion makes you look “boring”. You do not exhibit social proof (ie you sit in the corner on your phone). Instant fixes. 1. Be well groomed. Fresh haircut, shave, trim nails, clean your ears, get rid of the hair on your neck and get your eye brows waxed. 2. Find your fashion style and go with it. Your shoes can’t be crocs or Birkenstocks with socks, either. 3. Be fun, hav…
/r/seduction09/09/25 12:59 PM
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act like they're in your league. you're in your head too much. just be different than other dudes.
/r/seduction03/09/25 01:50 PM
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I'd add to your prep.... Get into a talkative state (playing video games or doomscrolling is the literal worst thing to do before going out) Dress for the night and be well groomed Outcome independency and be lively and friendly
/r/seduction08/08/25 02:34 PM
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I know what I'd say to myself. There are a ton of hot girls in school. 9s and 10s. Don't go after those. All the guys like those girls and they get bombarded. Find the 7s with personality and just gain a ton of experience with them
/r/seduction30/07/25 05:53 PM
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if there's a cute girl at the gym, best approach is to be the not creepy guy at the gym hitting on her. best approach is to catch her on the way in or way out and just say hey. you can gauge interest based on that interaction alone.
/r/seduction25/07/25 02:08 PM
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The worst thing you can do before a date? Play video games or doom scroll. Get into a talkative state
/r/seduction08/06/25 02:52 PM
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dont force it. if you're not feeling it, move on
/r/seduction05/06/25 03:01 PM
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its not about what you say. it's your confidence and your outcome independency. I'd also argue be unique. approach and dont be boring. notice things others dont. flirt playfully.
/r/seduction02/06/25 06:41 PM
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Stayed in the club, listened to the band.
/r/seduction29/04/25 10:40 PM
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this sounds like mystery method 101, and a lot dudes might give you shit, but fuck them, if it works use it. If a chick is interested, she wont really care if she knows you're making shit up or if it's canned. if it's on, it's on. nice work my man
/r/seduction10/04/25 07:43 PM
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having a hot wife is my secret
/r/seduction07/04/25 02:24 PM
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Nobody’s perfect. If you make a mistake, laugh it off.
/r/seduction29/03/25 01:52 PM
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talkers generally do better. If you can get yourself into a talkative, friendly state, you'll have a better outcome. Sitting on your phone in the corner rarely pulls the hottie.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:42 PM
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False. The first 5 seconds she can determine if she is physically attracted to you and your vibe. In the first 20 min, she can determine if she likes you or not. in the first 4 hours, she can tell if you'd be exciting to sleep with. in the first 3 months, she can tell if you and her have a future. in the first year, she can tell if you are someone to marry.
/r/seduction25/03/25 01:22 PM
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just not ready to settle down, or was she a nut bar?
/r/seduction19/03/25 05:01 PM
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never supplicate
/r/seduction11/03/25 07:22 PM
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haha, yeah, you missed your opportunity buddy. learn from it.
/r/seduction11/03/25 05:47 PM
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Giving to yourself is the best thing you can do with the money. Let me dissect your list. I’d skip the styling consultation and just take girls on shopping dates to find out what looks good on you. I would then invest in my wardrobe. That’s a good one. Dental work is another good one. If you fix your diet, your skin will clear up. Professional photographer for dating profiles? That’s laughable, skip that shit and just do cool shit and have people take your picture. Toastmasters, dance lessons, c…
/r/seduction07/03/25 12:28 PM
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you seem like a talker. you've got spunk and an energy about you.
/r/seduction06/03/25 03:02 PM
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this reads very self-aggrandizing. i applaud you for being the campus seducer. makes me wish i could've pulled that off in college but i was a video game nerd back then. we all grow in different ways. may your sexual adventures continue.
/r/seduction06/03/25 02:47 PM
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pro tip: physical sunscreen is better than chemical sunscreen. dont cheap out. buy the good shit.
/r/seduction27/02/25 06:41 PM
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I’m a solid 6
/r/seduction26/02/25 12:46 AM
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it's purely situational. the last example i can think of was, there was a girl there who looked like Zendaya, so I pulled up a pic of zendaya on my phone, tapped her on the shoulder, pointed to my phone, and said "That's you". Her and her friends chased me around the venue the rest of the night. The frame of non-neediness was key though
/r/seduction25/02/25 03:13 PM
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Being a married guy and heading to a concert or something by myself, it is crazy to implement the ideas behind some of your frames. It is crazy watching guys chase the pretty girl all night, I say 2 words to the pretty girl and suddenly by the end of the night she is chasing me out of the place. Being unavailable and having a frame of disinterest is highly intoxicating to these women. It's so counterintutive, but it works.
/r/seduction21/02/25 07:23 PM
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getting him into state where he feels comfortable should help. what does he do to relax? video games? watching techy youtube videos? try doing these activities with him and get him in a comfortable state
/r/seduction21/02/25 02:00 PM
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My girlfriend from NYC helped me tremendously
/r/seduction20/02/25 10:06 AM
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Thanks for providing value to the subreddit
/r/seduction15/02/25 07:27 PM
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How old r u? The younger generation isn’t good at starting conversations with people they don’t know. They are glued to their phones.
/r/seduction15/02/25 05:26 PM
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I think the order of your list should be - 1. Charismatic, 2. Social Proof, 3. Ambitious, 4. Good looking. Other than that, what you're basically saying is that dating in your adult life is different than HS/college cause women mature and focus on different things. It's not a novel concept, but it has value on this sub.
/r/seduction07/02/25 09:07 PM
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this is beautiful and has been my mentality with dating since the beginning. I just never realized it until now
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:03 PM
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You’ll need to calibrate and get good on gauging when a girl is DTF. It’s a numbers game after that.
/r/seduction04/02/25 11:23 AM
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Being from Ohio, a lot of my friends just married who was convenient and did not seek someone who had long term compatibility. They saw the red flags and ignored because it was too uncomfortable to cut ties. I almost fell into that trap.
/r/seduction02/02/25 03:54 PM
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Here’s what worked for me. No more sugar. 1/2 hour jog and 1/2 hour weight session, every day. No excuses.
/r/seduction02/02/25 12:38 AM
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Everything that everyone posts on this one is meaningless. OP needs to make the decision to better himself. Until that happens, everything else is meaningless. Dude is full of excuses. I lost 100lbs, if I can do it…. Anyone can.
/r/seduction01/02/25 10:00 PM
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There’s always a constant want to sleep with other women, but there’s a comfort and security and different kind of happiness that comes with a long term relationship. The trick is finding a girl who also wants to sleep with women ;)
/r/seduction31/01/25 11:38 PM
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I had fun, treated women fairly, was honest and I'm now happily married. I can sleep at night with my integrity intact. you do you, though.
/r/seduction23/01/25 02:49 PM
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when super depressed, it's hard to have an epiphany as you did to just decide not to be depressed. when I was depressed, my brain didn't work like that. other than that, good write up. The last part is something I see time and time again. If chicks like you, they wanna hang around you, they are not creeped out by you... they're going to talk good about you to their friends and family. Social proof is everything. use it to your advantage.
/r/seduction23/01/25 02:46 PM
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Not advice per se, but Tyler Durden creeped me the fuck out. I dunno how any woman could find him attractive or not see through his bullshit. He seemed like such an insincere asshole
/r/seduction22/01/25 08:48 PM
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Sure. I like complimenting women on the way they carry themselves if they have good posture or elegance, their outlooks on topics of conversation, their positivity, their demeanor or mannerisms. When you’re in conversation with a woman, a demonstration of social aptitude or if they go out of their way to be a good person, I try to notice and acknowledge. A compliment of this nature will go much further because you’re digging down as to what makes them unique. It also displays that you’re not a s…
/r/seduction22/01/25 07:59 PM
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don't. doesn't really get you anywhere. they hear it from all other guys. compliment her on her mind or her spirit. it will go much further, especially if genuine
/r/seduction22/01/25 06:19 PM
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Be different than most boring dude she dates. In words, in conversation, and in your actions. Be unique. Have your own thoughts. Don’t be a social drone.
/r/seduction16/01/25 12:15 AM
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bring the fun in conversation and dates and you wont need a good social media presence.
/r/seduction14/01/25 02:07 PM
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I would say this about conversing as a whole. getting good at witty banter, small talk, flirting, etc... all takes time and practice, as with anything in life. Lot's of dudes want the perfect thing to say, but don't realize there's an aura projected at the time of the approach and this is half the battle. It's confidence within yourself and an outcome independant mindset combined with putting the woman at ease and not triggering her bitch shield or her defense mechanisms. She gets approached 10 …
/r/seduction13/01/25 02:24 PM
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Keep at it. Rome was not built in a day. Kudos to you for trying. Most guys are too much of a pussy to even do that. Hopefully you find someone that you click with
/r/seduction12/01/25 06:17 PM
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Isn’t it incredible how the successes stick with you? I have a handful of instances that i remember fondly and they always put me in a good mood when i think about them.
/r/seduction12/01/25 02:09 PM
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I've never gotten a 10 in my life. but my wife is a solid 9 and I am extremely happy.
/r/seduction10/01/25 03:22 PM
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Got ya. I read it. She likes you, yes. You like her, obvious. There is certainly chemistry there, however she owes you nothing because she likes attention from dudes. (not rare). I've had multiple instances with friends with benefits with co-workers. it never ends well. the phrase 'do not shit where you sleep' comes to mind. As an experienced man in the art of pickup and many years of career expertise, there is no good way to go about it. it always ends in disaster. people look at you differentl…
/r/seduction10/01/25 03:20 PM
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Which post?
/r/seduction09/01/25 12:43 PM
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I don’t think I’ve ever seen a 10 in RL
/r/seduction08/01/25 10:05 AM
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pop-ups. live music venues. speakeasies. shopping areas in small towns.
/r/seduction07/01/25 03:28 PM
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had sex with a girl on conference room table then immediately walked into the other lab and asked the cute girl there to brunch. i was a goddamn animal.
/r/seduction06/01/25 06:52 PM
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while there's nothing wrong with bettering yourself, the OGs always knew that through displaying personality and being a social guru, you could get any girl. getting in shape and having a good social media just makes it easier. I like both, but I prefer the old school way cause if you can swing it, it's way more impressive. All the new school PUAs are damn near models.
/r/seduction06/01/25 05:44 PM
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sounds like you attached bro. opposite of what she said she wanted.
/r/seduction06/01/25 05:31 PM
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Where in my comment do i say the girl you took out is not attracted to you?
/r/seduction06/01/25 12:07 AM
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You gotta show me where your total bill for the 2 of you is only $15, haha! No, your logic is spot on. If you ask a chick out, you probably should pay. Also, setting a good impression is important, even if she sucks. After all, she may have a sister or a friend who you are more compatible with
/r/seduction05/01/25 11:03 PM
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So this is just me thinking out loud. Yeah, you guys aren’t exclusive, sure. She can do what she wants. However, it is a super dick move to brag about getting it from a ton of guys to a guy you’re dating. I’m not sure I would want that person in my life.
/r/seduction05/01/25 05:06 PM
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I've never done it. keep them wanting more. don't be a clingy dude
/r/seduction03/01/25 05:42 PM
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Rave chicks are fuckin awesome. I know from experience
/r/seduction30/12/24 02:40 AM
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I disagree. To each their own
/r/seduction24/12/24 04:32 PM
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As a guy, this is fucking awesome. Don’t change a thing. Don’t listen to what anyone else says. We yearn for women like you
/r/seduction22/12/24 01:59 AM
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this is all very good advice. i bet you are very attractive.
/r/seduction12/12/24 08:15 PM
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I am against approaching at the gym, mainly because I wouldn’t want someone interrupting my work out. A chick has to be really into you for it to work. My advice would be to don’t be the dude who hits on girls at the gym, rather be friendly with everybody. If you so happen to run into the gal on their way into or out of the gym, or somewhere else in public, that’s your opening to pursue.
/r/seduction10/12/24 11:08 AM
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Do goth chicks like kinkier sex?
/r/seduction08/12/24 04:03 PM
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I'd like to add a few, be charismatic, have original thoughts ie dont be a social drone, be unique in language and fashion, offer value ie teach her things or challenge her life perspective. I also love the optimistim comment. If you can be her escape from the mundane and be authentic with it, it is a huge breath of fresh air from the typical dudes she dates in summary: shave your neck beard and grow a pair
/r/seduction06/12/24 05:06 PM
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Yuuuup. Still have nightmares.
/r/seduction06/12/24 01:40 AM
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She was not too shabby to look at. Probably about a 6 or 7, however, this was during the time where i was abstaining from JO’ing, so I lowered my standards a few notches. Let’s just say she was hella ghetto, non-hygienic, and a raging alcoholic. 0/10, never again. Worst sex I’ve ever had given all the circumstances.
/r/seduction06/12/24 01:36 AM
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A 3, but it had nothing to do with her looks.
/r/seduction06/12/24 01:31 AM
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Dont get overly committed to one woman. Better yourself and keep progressing. Small wins. Baby steps
/r/seduction05/12/24 12:15 AM
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tbh, I really suck at LDR. My wife however was fantastic. we talked on the phone I'd say 3-4 times per week and texted each other throughout the week. We lived on separate continents and we're long distance for about 8 months. It wasn't about keeping it interesting, it was about knowing that we were both committed to each other for the long haul and doing our part to keep it going until we could be together.
/r/seduction04/12/24 04:56 PM
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yeah, married mine. she was worth it.
/r/seduction04/12/24 04:23 PM
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6
/r/seduction04/12/24 02:54 PM
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smooth. kudos for approaching with the family present. most dudes on this sub dont have the balls to do so. I know I don't.
/r/seduction03/12/24 08:19 PM
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Man up bro
/r/seduction26/11/24 03:54 PM
4

disagree with this definition entirely. flirting is a playful underlying tension within a conversation by one or more people to convey romantic interest in another person. it can be verbal or non-verbal. It certainly isn't just a regular conversation. i talk to pretty girls all the time, I'm not flirting with them. If I did, my wife would be very upset.
/r/seduction22/11/24 02:19 PM
5

in this thread.... little bitches who would've pussied out. congrats my friend. hope you can hang out with her. For the record, I've never approached a 10, and I don't think I've ever seen one in real life.
/r/seduction19/11/24 05:27 PM
1

If it's not causing any problems in your life and everyone is having a good time, why stop? it sounds like you're crushing it.
/r/seduction18/11/24 01:36 PM
25

you made the right move, first girl was a nightmare. some people just have their priorities crooked. congrats
/r/seduction14/11/24 03:05 PM
3

I can think of a couple reasons. Your style is off putting. You come in too strong. You talk about uninteresting things. You come in with low energy. Your English is poor or you have a heavy accent where they can’t understand you. You are scary looking. You have a lack of confidence that exudes. The point is…. It can be a vast number of things. The point of everything is to LEARN and CALIBRATE. Re-think about every approach. Did you see in their faces where it went wrong? Keep improving, we’ve a…
/r/seduction14/11/24 12:59 AM
3

authenticity. non-bragging. funny/quick witted. unique perspectives. positivity. intelligent. non-sexual.
/r/seduction08/11/24 03:28 PM
3

after 10 minutes of witty and charming banter....... "we should hang out sometime, lemme getchure number"
/r/seduction08/11/24 03:15 PM
2

knowing that if I'm truly trying to find a partner, I don't need to supplicate or pretend. She's gotta like me for me. If I'm just looking to get laid, don't be a douchebag and have fun with it.
/r/seduction04/11/24 01:35 PM
3

parks or dave and busters. shopping. coffee. brunch. dance lessons. yoga. sporting event.
/r/seduction01/11/24 07:00 PM
3

lived in NYC for 5 years and went broke. this is good advice. the other lesson is.... chicks arent AS focused on looks as dudes. It's important, but not important as personality. bring your A-game on dates and you'll get laid.
/r/seduction01/11/24 05:34 PM
24

Pumpkin Spice Latte?
/r/seduction30/10/24 01:52 PM
-1

dude, what an odd response from her. she's 'seeing' another dude from the gym, but they've only been on 1 date??!!?? how stupid and odd. IMO, she's seeking validation. IMO, you probably escalated too quickly by making yourself too available and asking for number/dinner. Hot chicks like the chase. you're not totally cooked though, the best thing you can do is get a good reputation at the gym and have her catch you chatting it up with other girls and making them laugh. Don't go out of your way to …
/r/seduction15/10/24 05:04 PM
1

why would you do this? no.
/r/seduction11/10/24 01:55 PM
3

i dunno, i think there's some hot anime chicks out there. they're a little weird, but arent we all?
/r/seduction04/10/24 05:22 PM
1

you just fuckin them, and not have any connection to either of them? try to find relationships with purpose and a future.
/r/seduction16/09/24 05:58 PM
1

make it contextual. "hey, were you you paying attention when the teacher was xxxxxxx, i totally missed it, i was daydreaming" calibrate. watch her reaction, go from there. totally possible she has a boyfriend, but you have to shoot your shot bro. shit gets way more difficult after college btw. target rich environments become a thing of the past. you have no idea how lucky you have it. If i could go back and do it all over, i def would, knowing what i know now.
/r/seduction09/09/24 07:38 PM
11

if you're stressing about this, it's only going to get harder for you. this is cake walk. nut up and go talk to her bro. she thinks youre cute
/r/seduction09/09/24 06:07 PM
2

I think it can be very discouraging jumping back in the saddle and expecting to be back at the top of your game. the key for me has always been baby steps. celebrate the small wins as they come and learn from the mistakes. refresh your memory with some good books/youtube videos.
/r/seduction09/09/24 12:54 PM
2

Looks/bad boy satisfies their lust. Fatherly qualities satisfies their necessity to raise a baby
/r/seduction06/09/24 02:22 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0c5DIofZXAs
/r/seduction06/09/24 02:20 PM
17

you'll start seeking the validation from others. true validation comes from within and knowing you're worth it and that you deserve it.
/r/seduction05/09/24 07:57 PM
12

I see a lot of dudes in the gym pushing themselves to make their biceps bigger. if you talk to them, they're a box of rocks. self-improvement is all encompassing. as much as you work on your body, work on your personality as well.
/r/seduction03/09/24 01:53 PM
11

nah, ""you miss 100% of the shots you dont take -Wayne Gretzky" -Michael Scott" If we're being honest, she already has an opinion of you. It's either positive, negative, or neutral. She either would want to pursue something with you, or she would not. You could spend the next week trying to come up with the perfect opening line..... but ultimately, the conversation that follows will be more informative and how interested she is. dont stress it. shoot your shot. good luck my friend.
/r/seduction29/08/24 08:01 PM
2

negative, other way around. dumped my girlfriend who i had no future with, started dating the new girl and married her. my now wife just wanted to be friends with me, until I told her that I had a girlfriend.
/r/seduction29/08/24 07:17 PM
1

fuck em. on to the next one. dont ever supplicate
/r/seduction29/08/24 06:56 PM
0

it's absolutely true. now, new girl is my wife.
/r/seduction29/08/24 06:54 PM
1

I would guess just by your short little blurb.... that you make yourself too available for girls that you like. ie come off as desperate. Here's my advice.... I went out on a date with an 8/10, had a really good time, and as we're walking away smiling from each other... in her mind, there was no question we'd have a second date... she screams at me, "are we going to hang out again?"... every fiber in my being wanted to say "of course!"... but i just shrugged and smiled and said, "we'll see". IMO…
/r/seduction29/08/24 05:39 PM
1

i told her i had a gf
/r/seduction29/08/24 05:34 PM
0

from my experience, the 8s and the 9s receive a lot of compliments on their looks. also, not all, but a lot of them sincerely don't believe the compliments and have insecurity issues. My move has always been to notice something unique about them.... and notice that instead of their hot booty. they tend to appreciate it more.
/r/seduction29/08/24 03:04 PM
2

1000% my ex did this all the time. it worked. :)
/r/seduction28/08/24 05:23 PM
4

its a tough thing to do by yourself. talking with friends or chatting with strangers puts me in a better state. If you are by yourself, I've found good standup comedy, funny tv shows, or stupid youtube videos helps a bit to have a more care-free mindset. Good music can help too
/r/seduction28/08/24 04:39 PM
0

id also add... dont be an afc/typical dude. be different and unique
/r/seduction28/08/24 01:55 PM
0

she's probably nervous and using her friend as a social crutch. play it cool. be flirty with both of them. if they're both cute, you'll look like the man wherever you go.
/r/seduction28/08/24 12:49 PM
1

In my experience, sexual innuendo and tension and showing affinity are more important than a typical dude trying everything to get you in bed. You have a lot to work on, my friend.
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:49 AM
0

offer value to others.
/r/seduction27/08/24 02:30 PM
7

are you too available? are you too bland? are you a people pleaser? have you read 'no more mr. nice guy' by glover? one of my friends gets this a lot. i cannot speak for you, but in his case, he has no edge and is very aloof and carefree. have opinions and convictions. have passion. show passion when you speak. are you too available? do you get one-itis too quickly? look up cat-string theory.
/r/seduction27/08/24 01:54 PM
7

the benefits of exercise are more than just the pickup game. It's investing time and energy into yourself. The epitome of self love. I agree with your one point though. I see a lot of AFCs in the gym thinking that an extra inch to their bicep is going to make the women fawn all over them. Working on your personality and developing your ability to connect is a lot harder for dudes. It requires a lot of self reflection and getting uncomfortable.
/r/seduction26/08/24 02:23 PM
12

Why wait til spring 25? Get in the best shape of your life yesterday
/r/seduction25/08/24 11:05 PM
17

nah, man. happily married. we're looking for a unicorn. the game is a lifestyle. get good and hold onto it. don't let old habits come back. I use a lot of what i learned to keep myself high value in my career and make sure my wife is not married to a chump.
/r/seduction13/08/24 12:52 PM
1

congrats on the sex. look at it as a learning process. get better.
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:02 PM
2

yeah, the secret is to find a chick who's game for it and wants it. when we went to the bar, she did all the work. i was lucky, no lie I believe 75% of women are at least bi-curious, but dont want to deal with the social stigma (even tho Bi chicks are almost glorified).
/r/seduction06/08/24 03:01 PM
0

I got it from my momma :)
/r/seduction03/08/24 05:13 PM
2

blame yourself. it's the only way. get better. make yourself irresistible to women.
/r/seduction01/08/24 01:41 PM
14

beauty fades. dumb is forever. -judge judy I love his advice about being honest about what you're looking for. I've used that through my entire dating career.
/r/seduction31/07/24 02:27 PM
1

How dumb are you bro?
/r/seduction30/07/24 12:06 AM
0

this is called "getting lucky", or you're extremely hot yourself. congrats on the sex
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:18 PM
29

my dude. you asked if she a prostitute and she wasn't offended? awesome!
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:17 PM
42

gym game is a tricky one. first and foremost from my experience, you NEVER never wanna be the guy that just goes to the gym to flirt with women. be the guy that is dedicated to your fitness and doesnt interrupt women at the gym. also, dont oogle. what's worked for me, gym wise, is catching women walking in/walking out and doing light openers, smiles, and casual chit chat. from then, you've established a good report, where it'll be obvious they want you to pursue things further.
/r/seduction25/07/24 01:02 PM
1

I don't believe in 10s. 9s usually arent worth the trouble. they have too many options and too much baggage. I avoid and look for fun 8s
/r/seduction24/07/24 07:45 PM
129

I’ve seen it happen. You gotta be pretty hot or have a great vibe
/r/seduction23/07/24 11:53 PM
3

Also, the worst thing you can do before approaching is be on your phone or playing video games
/r/seduction23/07/24 11:27 PM
2

so either change yourself to be more appealing to the masses, or find a woman who likes you for you.
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:23 PM
14

All I can say... is that I saw a dude creeping at a girl at a bar the other day and it made me feel really dirty. I actually felt bad for her. the dude just had this vibe that was giving me the heebeejeebees. It was as his intentions were all about grabbing her or something. very hard thing to put into words.
/r/seduction09/07/24 03:16 PM
10

miss out on what? my wife is incredible. it's a joy everyday to have and hold her.
/r/seduction06/06/24 06:16 PM
1

from my experience, guys who talk a lot tend to do better.
/r/seduction06/06/24 02:12 PM
2

Just make sure dudes aren’t giant douches and you’re all good
/r/seduction22/05/24 11:40 PM
3

she thinks your hot. take it as validation and move on your marry way. you're going to fuck up your marriage and her marriage. the temptation is real. don't give in. it isnt worth it, especially if you care about your wife at all.
/r/seduction17/05/24 05:09 PM
4

from a woman's perspective, she's probably already made up her mind. be you. be authentic, if she's into you, she'll reciprocate.
/r/seduction16/05/24 02:09 PM
-1

If I were a hot chick cramming for finals, and some dude starts spitting, yeah, I might give him the time of day, but my focus is elsewhere. I’m happy you’re feeling More confident, but now you can spread yourself thinner next semester
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:55 PM
7

if they wanna be pieces of shit, it's on them. Their options have skyrocketed due to social media. focus on yourself. be authentic. become great and you will attract great.
/r/seduction09/05/24 01:53 PM
1

rule 1. be attractive. side note: I've been the average guy who goes out with the really attractive guy.... and if you play your cards right, you can do really well. Really attractive people are used to the attention, so it's nothing to them. They don't realize the power that they possess.
/r/seduction08/05/24 03:31 PM
129

I'm married, but I still talk to people. If you're a good person and just get out there, meet new people, I feel like that's half the battle. Not giving 2 shits what the other person thinks of you is probably a good chunk of it too. be authentic.
/r/seduction06/05/24 06:57 PM
1

best thing you can do is fuck Delores in accounting.
/r/seduction26/04/24 08:40 PM
0

yoga and pilates classes
/r/seduction25/04/24 02:06 PM
5

this is all great advice! overall, the sentiment is "don't be needy". A high value man wouldnt make these mistakes because he knows his self-worth. these all demonstrate low value. excellent post.
/r/seduction17/04/24 02:58 PM
0

i invested so much time into bettering myself and improving my socials skills. I have an amazing wife to show for it. Keep working hard and the universe will deliver you exactly what you are looking for.
/r/seduction12/04/24 03:11 PM
14

I’m a tall white dude and I suck with women. Own who you are. Make the best of it
/r/seduction22/10/22 03:31 PM
1

She’s rooting for you
/r/seduction22/10/22 03:31 PM
1

I say every place is a good milf wrangling location if you put your mind to it.
/r/seduction07/05/21 03:40 PM
19

Great advice. I’ll add to it. Gentlemen. Shave the back of your neck. It looks so gross when the hair starts growing in and growing down your back. Just because you can’t see it, doesn’t mean no one else can.
/r/seduction07/01/21 04:52 PM
2

Dude, you’ve got little time. Go knock on the door and get rolling. Look at it like this... if you fuck up, you probably won’t see her again. Or at least not until you come visit again. Balls to the wall my friend. Grow a pair and get your ass over there. Make a new friend if nothing else. Go talk to her, ya pussy.
/r/seduction02/01/21 05:44 PM
1

I can add to this. Don’t just compliment on her looks. Most beautiful women get those every day. Beautiful women appreciate 2 things. Being complimented on their mind or being complimented on their sense of fashion. Find something very unique about her and extrapolate it into a positive quality.
/r/seduction02/01/21 05:43 PM
2

Play it cool. Let her respond.
/r/seduction02/01/21 05:40 PM
1

Breathe, dude.
/r/seduction02/01/21 05:36 PM
1

2 things you can do: Accept yourself as the beautiful hairy ape that you are. Not as hard as you think, just requires a shift in your thought process. (Many women love hairy men) Laser hair removal. The more costly option for the damned dirty ape that you are. You’re 17. I know you think you know everything, but you’re so friggin young. The problem with the laser hair removal is that you can get it done with perfection, and you’ll be smoother than a baby seal at sea world, but the tendency for y…
/r/seduction02/01/21 05:35 PM
13

Hold eye contact and shit your pants?
/r/seduction30/12/20 01:35 AM
1

All I’m gonna say is there were some nights during sober October where I told chicks I wasn’t drinking for a month and they looked at me with puppy dog eyes like I was different than everyone else. If a chick smokes, I don’t wanna kiss her.
/r/seduction22/12/20 08:21 PM
4

The belief that a relationship is a place where you go to give, not see what you can get. If both partners feel like that, the relationship can only blossom
/r/seduction27/03/20 02:46 PM
1

Well. Let me give you some advice. No one is perfect. You can study online for 20 years and not know the perfect thing to say. Best thing to do is not get oneitis and to practice talking to all women, so that when the right one appears, you’re prepared. Experience trumps everything
/r/seduction24/12/19 08:06 PM
1

Step up to the plate slugger. You can’t be your little bitch-boy self anymore if you want a quality woman.
/r/seduction24/12/19 07:48 PM
5

Have you spoken with her? Don’t let the fucking “I just got out of a relationship” stop you. You’re still young. Capitalize. Be the fucking man.
/r/seduction24/12/19 05:29 PM
3

This is most likely it. Best thing to do is move on.
/r/seduction29/11/19 06:08 PM
1

If anything it should help with the outcome independent mindset given the fact that you have something already
/r/seduction23/11/19 04:54 PM
2

Have read it twice. It has a narrative with pickup stuff speckled in. There are for sure some good tips, but it’s not content overload.
/r/seduction23/11/19 04:53 PM
5

Well with that attitude you for sure are going to get rejected
/r/seduction09/11/19 08:48 PM
-1

You’re a chick who finds Asian men attractive! You’re well on your way to being hilarious 😋 (this is a joke)
/r/seduction09/11/19 08:44 PM
2

Why not? I’ve been successful on the subway. Train stations usually have a lot of beggars tho. My thing is... if you’re a dude, going to pick up girls in a train station... you probably should be going somewhere. Don’t be the creepy dude that hangs out there just to meet women.
/r/seduction09/11/19 08:42 PM
2

Search on the open seas, matey. They’re out there.
/r/seduction25/10/19 10:11 PM
1

I wouldn’t. Tends to make you rusty and closed off. Go out once a week to practice
/r/seduction25/10/19 10:10 PM
4

We’re fortunate that women don’t value looks as much as we do. It makes life easier, but it isn’t a deal breaker for them. Be focused on being the the dude in your friend group with the best personality. Anything else is bonus. Have fun.
/r/seduction25/10/19 10:09 PM
6

My advice.... coming from a 34 year old who was in a long term relationship through 3/4 of his college career. Go party all the time. Make as many friends that are girls as possible. And just have fun. The women will come. Be the fun, unpredictable, guy who gets laid constantly. Talk to everyone.
/r/seduction12/10/19 11:37 PM
2

What do you want? If you want a full fledged relationship with her, I’d give it a few weeks. If you just want a piece of ass... have at it.
/r/seduction05/08/19 04:34 PM
3

Catch her on the way in or out. Never during a workout.
/r/seduction23/07/19 10:52 AM
2

Make sure she’s really heading away. Work place fucks can be dicey. Find out when she’s leaving and give it to her a week or 2 before she leaves. Be open and honest. Hope she doesn’t catch the feels.
/r/seduction19/07/19 12:19 PM
11

Sounds like a bot. Best way I’ve figured out to weed them out is ask them a question out of the blue. “What’s your favorite ice cream or some shit”. Usually let’s you know if it’s a real person. The catfish might be a bit harder to tell. Best to err on the side of caution and assume it’s on. Ask for phone or IG
/r/seduction07/07/19 12:20 AM
2

Don’t forget the algorithms man. I used to get matched to 20 girls a week on tinder. Now it’s maybe 1. They want you to pay.
/r/seduction21/06/19 03:17 AM
4

Girl called me creepy to shit test me. Was not acting creepy in the slightest. I really don’t want to amplify that? Do I?
/r/seduction21/06/19 03:16 AM
1

Catch her on the way in or out organically. Don’t force it.
/r/seduction15/06/19 01:47 AM
4

Samesies w the marshalls, tj maxx and Macy’s! There are certainly diamonds in the rough and not all marshals are equal
/r/seduction16/05/19 02:53 AM
3

Stop jerking it. Stop video games. Go for a run to start. It’s really hard to feel depressed if you’re helping other people. Duncan Trussel said “do the opposite of what your body wants to do to get out of depression “.
/r/seduction12/05/19 12:04 AM
1

Explain the excuse mindset....???? You’re going out with her, eh? Have fun! Who cares
/r/seduction11/05/19 03:10 AM
2

I’m sure you know this but I’ll state the obvious... hired guns are designed to feign interest. You’ve gotta be a master to swing that. There’s a Butters every night that thinks Cinnamon is his gf.
/r/seduction04/05/19 03:37 AM
6

Solid advice. I myself am not ugly. I’m not handsome either. I’m your typical dad bodded avg looking dude and sticking out and displaying some type of personality always helps I’ve seen some really bad looking dudes do decent.
/r/seduction25/08/18 09:38 PM
1

I’m too picky or I have high standards are my go to responses.
/r/seduction23/05/18 12:27 AM
1

Nuts are fine. Also, for those trying this, it is important to eat fatty meat and get the right macros of fat. Butter, oils and nuts provide this. I didn't know this going into it and started having dizzy spells.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 05:57 PM
6

Long time no see, how have you been? Get the conversation going. Don't overthink it. She thinks you're hot. Go for it.
/r/seduction17/04/17 12:50 PM
1

What's your line?
/r/seduction09/02/17 12:01 AM
1

I thought long and hard about this. Everyone will be wearing yellow, which is lame, so that leaves green or red. I think red offers more value, shows that you're a guy who is desirable and also lets you sneak in unnoticed. People always want what they can't have.
/r/seduction08/02/17 11:53 PM
1

Australia
/r/seduction08/02/17 09:41 PM
2

Oneitis. Here's a thought, change into the man she would want to be with. By doing that you'll attract many women into your life. If she really is the one, your paths will cross.
/r/seduction08/02/17 09:40 PM
3

Think of the reservations a woman might have about doing this. She just wants to make sure it's not a rapey situation. If you're a great guy, you've made a great first impression, I'd say go for it. She's going to be on guard though. There's somethings you can do to put her more at ease. Don't be overly touchy feely, ask her to help you cook, Pop the wine bottle in front of her and pour 2 glasses. A girl who can appreciate you cooking for her is a good girl indeed. Last tip, make sure it's somet…
/r/seduction08/02/17 09:15 PM
1

What I would do... find the one you like, get in their line of sight, smile at her and make sure she sees you do it and gauge her reaction. Make sure the smile comes off sincere and off the cuff and not creepy. Then, completely ignore her. Have a good time dancing, mingling with other people. Then, see if you can catch her at the bar or on the way to or from the bathroom and think of something witty to say to grab her attention. From this point, calibrate and push/pull. Could go a lot of differe…
/r/seduction08/02/17 08:58 PM
1

Find a stoplight party and make sure to wear red or yellow wristbands.
/r/seduction08/02/17 04:53 PM
7

I'm fully against the gym. Women get berated there and I feel bad for them. I'd say you have to see them around a lot and try and catch them on the way out or way in.
/r/seduction08/02/17 04:52 PM
3

That's the magic and the charm right there. If you're getting legit laughs and genuine IOI's you're in the right ballpark. Be interesting and stand out from other guys. I don't know you, so I don't know what you could use to your advantage. Here's what I'm gonna say, you wanna set yourself up for the win in advance. Ask for the 2nd meet up while you're talking with her and number close. Talk with her after you get the number. Text game gotta be on point too. I've found that most girls don't real…
/r/seduction07/02/17 11:42 PM
2

All forms of comedy really help with this. Exercise that part of your mind. Think outside the box.
/r/seduction07/02/17 10:24 PM
8

You're not giving them a reason for them to want to go out with you. Most girls will give their number to be polite, but if they don't actually remember having a connection with you they're not going follow through. Remember, the goal shouldn't be getting the number, that should just be a side. Talk with them for a few minutes after getting the number and display some of your personality. Establish report. Make them laugh. Be a little goofy. Do something, anything to make yourself stand out from…
/r/seduction07/02/17 10:20 PM
1

Agreed. Have to figure how to break the habit.
/r/seduction05/08/15 06:22 PM
1

My grandma died a couple months ago. That knocked me out of it for a month or so. But it came back. I find everything funny. So I giggle at everything. Even everything I say to sort of soften the blow. I'm annoyed by it.
/r/seduction05/08/15 02:23 PM
1

Yeah. That's a good point. I shouldn't care about what people who know me think. It's all about new interactions.
/r/seduction04/08/15 05:27 PM
28

Hahahahaha
/r/seduction09/07/15 11:37 PM
2

What guys just don't seem to grasp is that if you're looking for canned openers on a website, lines/routines... Sooner or later the boring true self comes out to the girl. I guess if you're just looking for sex, it'll work with low value women, but who doesn't love the chase of high value top notch quality women?
/r/seduction26/06/15 12:18 PM
1

My guess is that girls always see you as the clown. Or maybe they just expect you have a girlfriend. Try throwing in things into your convos where you went on dates with girls... Yada yada
/r/seduction12/06/15 12:30 AM
1

Rough man. That's through puberty. My question to you now is how religious are you? Because if I were you, I would get religious about washing my face. Every 2 hours on the hour. Don't use a washcloth, only use your hands. My ex was a proponent of cetaphil and she was really smart. I would wash your face every 2 hours with cetaphil and do the towel trick on the pillow. Try it for 2 weeks. And don't miss a wash. See if it gets any better. Don't be lazy, be religious with it. If that doesn't work …
/r/seduction12/03/15 03:34 PM
1

how old are you?
/r/seduction12/03/15 04:35 AM
1

I just noticed your username and that's probably your #1 problem, huh? What have you tried? Have you seen a dermatologist? Acutane may be for you. They still offer the generic. Don't stay on it too long though. It messes with your liver and can cause you to go nuts. No joke.
/r/seduction12/03/15 03:14 AM
2

Face cleared up is a good start for sure. I went on acutane to get rid of mine. Wouldn't recommend that though. Try the pillow/towel method. Heard good things. Google it. I'd say the number one thing is hair cut. Make sure your hair style is current and looks good with the shape of your head and face. If you think you need a haircut every month, get one every 3 1/2 weeks. Go to r/malehairadvice for tips on products to put in it to make it look nice. Next is make sure the back of your neck is sha…
/r/seduction12/03/15 03:11 AM
1

there are no bitches.
/r/seduction11/03/15 12:21 PM
2

couple things. I'm not a model but I do okay. Your face may be unattractive, but you do take care of your body, that's step 1. Step 2 is making sure that you dress well. And 3rd but definitely not least.... Stay extremely well groomed. This is a must! Anyone can do those 3 things. And those 3 things make you way more attractive to girls. Theres an old marketing phrase... What you can't change you feature. Another way to look at it too... barring costly plastic surgery... it's the hand you've bee…
/r/seduction11/03/15 04:14 AM
0

This is crazy. Texting, you have all the time in the world to think of a witty response. Here's what I do. Type out what you want to say, but don't send it. Close out. Check reddit. 1 minute later, come back and read what you wrote. Important, read it as if you were her. If it sounds overly corny or stupid edit and repeat. Don't overthink things. Be funny. Be direct. Have fun.
/r/seduction28/02/15 12:03 AM
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A couple of my favorites are... Describe yourself without saying what you do, who you know or where you've been. Where's your favorite place to go on vacation? Style's eliciting values Ask her to make up a story about the couple sitting by you. What did you want to be when you grew up? What are you passionate about? What's the next thing you're looking forward to?
/r/seduction22/12/14 03:55 AM
0

It is. Have some class
/r/seduction18/08/14 10:22 AM
1

Ideal woman Like me for me Laughs at my jokes Charismatic Smart Funny Spontaneous Sense of fashion Family oriented Goal driven Intuitive Sexy Beautiful Freaky Classy Genuine Honest Loyal Caring Nurturing Strong Fit Friendly Warm Kind hearted Compassionate Loving Creative
/r/seduction16/01/14 05:36 PM
1

You're the man, Charlie.
/r/seduction10/01/14 06:56 PM
1

Probably a good line to say no matter what the guys look like too. If they're bums, she knows you're being honest, and if they're good lookin dudes, it puts her in another class above. I'll try it, what do I have to lose.
/r/seduction04/12/13 05:19 PM
1

Wait woah woah. You say that loud enough for the guys hear? Cause that's kindof a dick move. Also, she may be gorgeous but if she's got a box of rocks for brains, maybe those guys suit her well. Haha.
/r/seduction04/12/13 05:14 PM
2

Hey, I know this totally random, but I saw you on reddit, and I'd just be kicking myself if I didn't say hi. Edit: how's Brazil treating ya?
/r/seduction15/11/13 01:52 PM
3

Could not agree more. Guys like Tyler and some of the others just come off as total d-bags. Charlie and Ben are legit good guys and good teachers.
/r/seduction15/11/13 01:51 PM
1

It's also very frustrating because I can't figure out what I'm doing wrong. It's hard to correct sticking points if I can't figure out what they are.
/r/seduction10/08/13 01:38 PM
1

Here's the thing though. I really don't think I come off as needy. Needy guys hang around and bow to her every will. I don't do that at all. I will open a set, be there for twenty seconds or so, then open another set. When I return maybe 5-10 minutes later I can feel the interest and desire of the first initial set wanting to me approach and talk again, and I ignore it and dance my ass off or open another set nearby. I really don't think I come off as needy, but there maybe some underlying commu…
/r/seduction10/08/13 01:36 PM
2

Ugh, it's crazy that you said this because I was starting to do this naturally. A 4 set who was intrigued by my social butterfly-ness wanted to meet the bachelorette party I was partying with. I do this all the time too. I will walk up to an attractive girl and if I'm not feeling a receptive response initially, I will ask them if there's any cute guys in the bar and if they want to meet them I will gladly introduce them to him. This does two things in my mind, and tell me if I'm crazy. It slight…
/r/seduction10/08/13 09:15 AM
1

I'm different from every other dude. What's crazy is the girl that I kissed in the one bar tonight, shot me down later because I was being too friendly with these two unattractive girls. I felt like I lost social proof by being social with two 3's. :( I didn't want to be rude, but I was trying to get back to the other targets I'd already opened. I also feel that I spread myself too thin across the club. I love talking and opening everyone but can never stay with anyone long enough to build repor…
/r/seduction10/08/13 09:00 AM
1

Slick and Beautiful
/r/seduction27/07/13 09:53 PM
1

But ok, so then she's digging the vibe. Dance with her, then move her to a place to chat right? I get it. But in this place... no quiet corner. Anywhere! And the place was littered with gorgeous gorgeous females. I think I'm just going to talk to the ones standing in line outside the place.
/r/seduction27/07/13 05:58 PM
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This is so true. Stopped at Starbucks the other day before my night out. Weird creepy guy started talking to me. After talking to him for 5 min while waiting for my drink, talking to anyone else seemed way easier
/r/seduction21/07/13 04:43 PM
3

She gave me freedom to flirt with whoever I want. Do I let her work her magic on who she wants and just get social proof with another girl?
/r/seduction23/02/13 10:55 PM
1

It seems like to me you've rationalized it to yourself and see it as the only viable option and are looking for acceptance from the community. The vast majority of us are telling you this is a terrible idea. If 1 person agrees with you and said it would be a good idea it will just reinforce what you already believe to be true. It sounds to me like you're going to do it regardless of what people tell you on here. Don't. Just don't. You say you've tried everything? Bullshit. Try something else. Ch…
/r/seduction26/01/13 04:09 PM
1

Tyler creeps me out.
/r/seduction26/01/13 03:19 PM
9

we all join the gym to get in shape to look sexier to the opposite sex. i wish there was a gym to go to to make us smoother with the opposite sex... oh wait.
/r/seduction21/01/13 04:23 PM
1

Thanks for the kind words. :-)
/r/seduction21/01/13 03:11 AM
1

I'm in NYC. I hope this helps my odds. Thanks for the encouragement.
/r/seduction21/01/13 01:34 AM
2

1-2. Sloppy is not sexy.
/r/seduction21/01/13 12:53 AM
3

This made me smile more than any other post. Haven't smiled in awhile and it felt great. Much love.
/r/seduction21/01/13 12:45 AM
0

Signed up for ok Cupid. Almost had a date tonight. So close. I'll get er
/r/seduction21/01/13 12:44 AM
3

I love you man.
/r/seduction21/01/13 12:43 AM
1

Heh. In this case, I'm the idiot so I doubt they'd sympathize. I may check it out though. Thank u brah
/r/seduction21/01/13 12:42 AM
1

Style said something similar. Thank you much man. It's going to be soul searching city
/r/seduction21/01/13 12:41 AM
1

Been years since I've picked up that material. Going to feel like the old guy in college
/r/seduction21/01/13 12:40 AM
1

Right right right. I'm on it. Thanks
/r/seduction21/01/13 12:39 AM
1

Thanks dude
/r/seduction21/01/13 12:39 AM
2

Ha! That's sorta what caused the breakup. Thanks for the advice. I may need it.
/r/seduction21/01/13 12:39 AM
3

Thanks. I'm really bummed. Every person who gives advice helps tremendously.
/r/seduction21/01/13 12:37 AM
1

Thanks for the encouragement. I really need it now.
/r/seduction21/01/13 12:36 AM
4

Thank you for this. It's nice to know I'm not alone. You sound exactly like me. I'm in a really sad mood, and hearing things like this cheers me up.
/r/seduction20/01/13 08:47 PM
1

Thanks for your response. I don't know anything about meditation. I've been doing nothing but crying all day. It sucks so bad.
/r/seduction20/01/13 08:36 PM
2

Thanks for your response. It means a lot to me. I'm in a very sad state right now.
/r/seduction20/01/13 08:35 PM
2

Thanks for your response. It means a lot because I'm really hurting right now. I went to the gym and worked out but still feel crappy. I can't eat, sleep. This sucks so bad.
/r/seduction20/01/13 08:35 PM
1

thank you. i hate this phrase. so stupid.
/r/seduction01/08/12 03:54 PM
1

Five 2's adds up to a 10. Myself, I always advocate quality over quantity.
/r/seduction27/07/12 12:15 AM
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The script is pretty easy to follow. You just have to be in a good state of mind to get rolling. Try it out. As a famous bum once said, "girls are like buses, if you miss one, just catch the next one"
/r/seduction26/07/12 01:00 PM
1

I think good writers tend to be good at pick-up because they are good at converting thoughts to words. Women are attracted to integrity and if you can clearly communicate your thoughts to who you are speaking with, you come off as a genuine person.
/r/seduction26/07/12 12:58 PM
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just look at neil strauss.
/r/seduction26/07/12 12:57 PM
2

I think what was critical in this situation was "I don't do this a lot but..." and coming off as sincere when saying it. Not looking like a complete d-bag player helps a lot too. You don't want to give the impression that you were doing this all day and she is the 20th girl you've hit on. I also like how you were very forward in telling her that you thought she was cute. Cute is my go-to word. It gets the meaning across without over-doing it. And calling an extremely hot girl just cute will knoc…
/r/seduction26/07/12 12:55 PM
1

i agree. try convincing your girlfriend of that
/r/seduction11/07/12 06:01 PM
11

I'm in a 3 year relationship. I miss the game. I don't think you did anything wrong, except maybe the kino, because that's physical and you're girlfriend would take that as you being interested. But tell her that she asked for it. If anything it shows that your desirable to other women and can only help you in the long run. Nice work though. I don't think I could do what you did being 3 years removed from the game. I've definitely lost my edge.
/r/seduction11/07/12 12:01 PM
6

I have a friend who is the nicest guy in the world. He read this book. Nothing changed. It's all about application of the knowledge.
/r/seduction21/06/12 04:52 PM
2

not exactly what I was looking for, but guess what, you helped a ton anyway. went to /r/zenhabits and on the side bar there was everything i was looking for.
/r/seduction15/06/12 04:57 PM
1

What do u expect from turbo Christians?
/r/seduction13/04/12 08:01 PM
2

http://www.vancouversun.com/health/empowered-health/gluttony+trifecta+Burger+King+bacon+sundae+Pizza+stuffed+crust+pizza+Jack/6455311/story.html
/r/seduction13/04/12 08:00 PM
1

and theyre soo nice there!
/r/seduction13/04/12 07:07 PM
3

sort of. they dont make cute girls work the fry-o-later. Any smart manager puts the cute ones at the front of the business and the neckbeards hulling grease buckets in the back.
/r/seduction13/04/12 07:07 PM
6

I heard they put bacon in their sundaes now.
/r/seduction13/04/12 06:57 PM
1

The other thing that I've realized is that these guys deal with a lot of neckbeards. I mean just absolutely shy, video game playing, shut-ins that would never talk to a girl to save their life. And if someone pays you $600 for a bootcamp to get a girl or girls, the mpua have to become glorified motivational speakers at that point. It becomes a lot of fluff.
/r/seduction25/01/12 09:22 PM
2

How are these guys to hang out with? I'm talking about when there isn't a female present and they aren't talking game. Are they normal? Can you sense the AFC from most of their pasts shining through the facade? Have they become the dudes that they present? I'm just curious. I really don't like fake people, and I sense that a lot of these guys as you say "market themselves". I'm sorry, but when you market yourself as a know-it-all douche, I'd rather get my information from a guy who can keep it r…
/r/seduction25/01/12 02:10 PM
2

cant argue with what works.
/r/seduction25/01/12 12:11 AM
1

i guess im looking for more long term stuff than just picking up girls and having sex with them. i prefer women with value, so i would never sleep with a dumb club rat, as you call them. but if youre in it for the fun, i completely see why tylers advice would be beneficial. for some reason, i actually prefer the girls who dont fall for the simple tricks and games. i like the chase of the intelligent girls.
/r/seduction24/01/12 08:34 PM
2

Is it just me or do most of these gurus come off as douchey? ok, well i dunno about David D, but Mystery comes off as like a nerdy douchey, and Tyler just comes off as captain of the douches. It makes me wonder what caliber of women these guys pull... sure they might be 10's and models, but do they have anything upstairs? For me, a girl is amazing if she can teach me things, add to the conversation, and be creative and different. Sure it's nice to be seen with a hot model chick, but I look for s…
/r/seduction24/01/12 06:18 PM
3

if there's a ring on her finger, do not engage.
/r/seduction03/01/12 08:39 PM
1

most important thing is congruency. if youre a huge nerd, dont dress like a rocker, instead embrace your nerddom and dress classy.
/r/seduction19/12/11 08:43 PM
5

but he probably gets laid a lot
/r/seduction19/12/11 01:09 PM
-2

i hope ure kidding.
/r/seduction01/09/11 01:21 PM
3

dude, you're 20. this is probably ok until about 24, then it just gets sad. this is probably sending the wrong message to the 33 year old living in his parents basement.
/r/seduction01/09/11 01:20 PM
1

I feel like this article is written about me. Some of the things I see written on the boards to say to women, I just think are incredibly arogant and jerky. you can be alpha without being a douchebag. passive agressive alpha. totally my thing.
/r/seduction21/07/11 03:26 PM
3

This is a great post. I find it to be true to a point. Funny story about being friendly with women even when in a relationship. My girlfriend was really mad at me one time over something stupid. I decided I'd go hang out with this other girl, just as friends, no desire to cheat. She finds out through a 3rd party and calls me, and thinks that she's caught me doing something. I explain to her, we're just friends, and was completely honest with her. Now she hangs it over my head all the time, "I'm …
/r/seduction21/07/11 03:24 PM
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