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Inner Game toyrph/r/seduction27/12/24 04:19 AM
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Depends on how you know her. Ones you’re familiar with will be put off by a sudden texting conversation. Best to give those a day or two. New girls will think you’re not interested in them if you’re not still trying to continue the conversation you were having that led to the two of you exchanging numbers. Quick, witty responses work well in that scenario. Don’t be lazy.
/r/seduction26/05/26 11:31 PM
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Flirting is a large part of it, along with riffing off of whatever she says. Keeping it light, warm, fun and engaging are key pointers. Be curious about her and ask thoughtful questions based on what she’s talking about. You should be able to feel the energy between the two of you. Know when the conversation it’s at its end too. You don’t want too much glaze, just the right amount. Some women enjoy the small talk, some women don’t. The ones who do won’t engage with you if you don’t do small talk…
/r/seduction13/05/26 04:15 PM
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Paying for dinners can be viewed like the price of entry. The date itself is only one factor in her determining whether or not to sleep with you, not to say it’s not important. Giving yourself the best opportunity by paying AND being witty, attentive, flirtatious and consistent across all other communications, including the date, is what leads to sex. Going Dutch isn’t a dealbreaker, but your communication needs to be top notch otherwise. You might just be surprised, as I had a woman take me sho…
/r/seduction12/05/26 05:56 PM
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In my experience, the type of women you date tend to need more time to get comfortable, and you need to screen for compatibility. Not all women of that nature are open to premarital sex, but the right ones are interested in a committed relationship. They don’t want to see you as a Chad that’s going to play her and dip once you’ve slept with her. You have to be willing to signal that you want something long-term. That just calls into question your ethics if you actually want a commitment or not. …
/r/seduction12/05/26 05:32 PM
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The way is to either have an account with real followers and 0 posts on it, or to just get her number and wait on the socials until after you’re established in her life.
/r/seduction11/05/26 12:21 AM
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This is the way, if you’re not enjoying the process, a simple break to focus on things you do enjoy until you feel like you can enjoy the process again will help. If you’re not having fun, girls will pick up on that and be turned off by it.
/r/seduction09/05/26 08:07 PM
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lol my b. Practice stoicism if you’re in the position to, otherwise work to get to a point where stoicism is beneficial.
/r/seduction09/05/26 12:53 AM
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You’re right. Stoicism only really works if you’re already doing attractive things in front of women (like Pilates) a lot anyways. It’s not all that practical for every day life if you’re not. More of a wishful thought than practical advice aimed at people with their life already on that track. That just points back to your lifestyle and how you choose to live it. It’s not required, but it helps broaden your horizons in terms of your access to women if you choose to engage in attractive activiti…
/r/seduction08/05/26 10:31 PM
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Anytime one interacts with you outside of planned or necessary interaction can be a good indicator of interest, there’s others too. You just have to flirt with them when they do in order to see if they flirt back in order to truly be stoic and figure out their level of interest. Or, you could just flirt with every woman you meet (privately) in order to see what works and what doesn’t. Flirtation builds tension that leads to more. Using it to your advantage will put you in the best position for s…
/r/seduction08/05/26 09:50 PM
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In this context, you’d have to be there for the Pilates, not the women. They will notice you, and the ones who are interested will make moves on you. You just have to give it time, and be ready/recognize when they do. Stoicism would be to not chase, and to let them come to you.
/r/seduction08/05/26 09:25 PM
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You seem like a decent guy, just in the wrong circles. You seem to do a lot of chasing. That’s not attractive. Tricking them is a quick way to turn them off also. It’s going to take some getting used to, trust me, but giving a “her loss” vibe if she doesn’t flirt back and knowing when to stop will do wonders. Just be present, and be attractive. Be cool and let them come to you at their pace. Women are a a pursuit where more perceived effort will yield less results. If the women you’re around don…
/r/seduction08/05/26 07:19 AM
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As J. Cole once said, don’t save her, she don’t wanna be saved.
/r/seduction26/04/26 05:33 AM
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Date first, then number. Be a man.
/r/seduction26/04/26 05:03 AM
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Your dating profile should be how I view instagram (as your own personal highlight reel) on steroids. Highlighting your best qualities, as many as you can fit on there, in a creative way, will get quality matches. I try to intimidate the lesser quality women away by appearing too “high status” for them. As far as pictures go, you should have 1 good photo from the shoulders up that isn’t a selfie, a photo of you doing your hobby or pastime, an action shot of some kind (think playing a sport or do…
/r/seduction25/04/26 05:39 AM
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You don’t have to choose a “date idea” that costs money. Window shopping at the mall, a walk in the park, feeding the ducks at the pond, or a picnic are all good options where you won’t be spending money on her. When the timing is right, ask her her reasonings for wanting something more casual, validate her answer, provide your own, and then pop the excuse question to go back to your place. If you’ve played your cards right up until that point, I don’t see why she wouldn’t be dtf after the first…
/r/seduction18/03/25 04:45 PM
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Be funny, lively, and a good time for her. Women generally don’t like being directly asked for sex, so finding a subtle excuse to ask her back to your place (to meet the dog, to see a collection of yours, to continue the party) would be ideal.
/r/seduction18/03/25 04:37 PM
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For me, it’s been the attractive ones who cheat. External validation is never truly enough for them it seems. That, or she’s looking for something her husband can’t/refuses to offer (ie emotional support, a fresh thrill).
/r/seduction14/03/25 03:03 PM
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It depends on her vibe. I either setup a date if she’s not giving immediate dtf vibes, or come up with an excuse to ask her to come to my place in a subtle manner (to meet the dog, to exercise the demons from my place, to see my curated vinyl collection, etc.) if she is dtf. As long as your delivery and execution are on point, it’s worked like a charm for me thus far. Don’t be discouraged if she says no, as it might just not be the right time for her. It all just depends on her details, you Rome…
/r/seduction06/03/25 04:20 PM
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You’re right that it’s taboo. That’s what makes it difficult. Being tactful about who you pursue in the workplace is what matters most. Idk what kind of healthcare place you work at, but the ones I’ve been at have been messy messy messy in terms of people sleeping around. High school really never ends.
/r/seduction02/03/25 07:55 PM
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Take a job in a women-heavy field ie healthcare, education, social services, Human Resources as well as law offices.
/r/seduction02/03/25 02:14 PM
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No offense, but this comment reeks of low-energy incel vibes. Never been to med school, yet work in the medical field and My social circle has never been larger. It’s provided countless opportunities for something other than platonic relationships. It’s about not just being “the man,” but recognizing which girls are crushing on you while they’re actively trying to hide it. Yes, it’s a numbers game, but you have to be alert and present in every moment, or you’ll be oblivious to the subtle hints (…
/r/seduction02/03/25 02:10 PM
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Yes! That sounds great, depending on her comfort level. Some women prefer dating in places where other people are nearby. It’s a safety thing. If it’s a popular spot, I’d say go for it. If you don’t feel like she’s comfortable enough to be alone with you yet, a picnic in the park, or just coffee are ideas I frequent. Given that she’s not head-over-heals excited about you (don’t worry, that’s quite rare), I’d venture to say she’s not quite sure about you yet, and would feel most comfortable if it…
/r/seduction26/02/25 04:47 PM
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You’re in a sticky situation, best advice would be to go straight for a date as soon as you’ve matched and exchanged 2-3 messages. In your case, there still might be hope. Come off as casual as you can in your next text, as that needs to be the one where you ask her out. Saying something like, “hey, who knew we were into such similar scenes/interests? I’m enjoying getting to know you and think we should take this to the next step. Would you be interested in doing x,y, or Z sometime?” would be a …
/r/seduction26/02/25 03:41 PM
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Is she following you on your socials? Story updates And posts are great little “reminders” to women that you exist, they also offer topics for conversation. I don’t feel like you’ve blown your shot just yet. Some people are just bad at texting. It sounds like she’s interested in you, so I’d try sending a text to set up a date. If you don’t get a response within 2-3 days, saying, “Hey [their name], I’ve enjoyed our previous dates and I was really interested in getting to know you, but I’m looking…
/r/seduction26/02/25 02:04 PM
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Girls find it weird if you’re just thinking about them and not reaching out. I feel it’s something women pick up on as part of how present someone can be with their feelings and emotions. They also think you’re a crazy person if you’re sitting back and obsessing. You don’t have to msg her every moment you think of her (don’t go crazy with it), just be sure to tie what you’re talking about to something you discussed the last time the two of you spoke. It also wouldn’t hurt to drop a few “hearts,”…
/r/seduction30/12/24 04:41 AM
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Right, I typically err on the side of being as attractive as I can be in hopes that someone will notice (it’s worked well for me so far). That’s why I didn’t attempt to find her after the show and was more content with trying to slide in her dm’s. It’s part of my strategy to stave of the one-itis syndrome. as of right now, this girl would simply be another notch in the bedpost, but I’m always open for more. If she goes for the “bait,” fantastic. If not, I’m not going to concern myself in pursuin…
/r/seduction28/12/24 03:22 PM
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Finding motivation for every single opportunity that presents itself can be challenging when in the throes of a depressive episode. I find making sure my self-care routine is on point helps with that. That includes getting the right amount of sleep, eating the proper foods that won’t make me feel like I swallowed a brick, and doing a few minutes of moderate-to-intense exercise. Exercise is just simply the outlet in my life that helps me cope with my emotions, it might be different for others. Ri…
/r/seduction28/12/24 02:53 PM
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The longer you wait, the weirder it will be. Just tell her how you feel acknowledge the fact that you know this is weird for coming up months after you’ve first been introduced as sexually active women that you see often try to get a feel for if someone is attracted to them or not relatively quickly. I’m sure if you mention something she did that made you look at her differently, that might make her feel special. If you feel like the two of you are close, I feel it’d be worth mentioning that to …
/r/seduction27/12/24 06:01 AM
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Idk about the drugs in the bathroom, but this is a very 420 friendly and similar sized crowd (the penjamin will for sure be making an appearance). I like the idea of the twisted teas. I’m making a note to introduce myself to all the other cast members present at this party as well. She won’t be the first one I say hi to, but not the last either!
/r/seduction27/12/24 05:42 AM
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I’ll elaborate further by mentioning that she and I haven’t even so much as made eye-contact yet. She was nowhere to be found after the show.
/r/seduction27/12/24 04:51 AM
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Depends on how she’s saying no. If she’s not giving you any alternative date ideas when declining you, she’s not interested. No need to keep asking.
/r/seduction27/12/24 03:47 AM
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How recently have the both of you noticed each other? Are you in an apartment building, or what? Has she ever so much as waved at you yet? Does she know you exist? More context is needed. You don’t want to be too bold and approach her if no reasonable candid opportunities are available or if she hasn’t given you any friendly gestures.
/r/seduction16/12/24 09:03 AM
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One thing I’ve yet to see mentioned is that an instagram account is used to give someone social proof. Women want to know you’re a normal guy doing normal things in your life, whatever your normal may be. They’re afraid of the crazies, the next school-sh****r, people who are against their values, and an instagram account can let them know more about who you really are and what you’re about. The women I’ve seen you mention that seemingly lost interest after learning you didn’t have one probably g…
/r/seduction14/12/24 09:49 AM
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Just means you have current competition. Depends on how bold you are if you decide to still pursue. A little confidence goes a long way. You got this!
/r/seduction10/12/24 06:55 AM
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1 alcoholic drink can be found to lower approach anxiety. Not 2,3 or 4 drinks, just 1. It’s called liquid luck for a reason. Don’t overdo it or you’re toast. If you’re underage, finding a “3rd place” (somewhere not home or school/work) that’s popular with women would be a good place to get more exposure. Local intramural sports can be good, book clubs, even some (although more rare) gaming clubs I’ve been a part of have had a decent number of women in them. It can be whatever you’re into, you ju…
/r/seduction10/12/24 04:46 AM
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Idk about you, but it makes me more pro-social. I love having deep conversations with it. Maybe that’s just my kink, but it can be a bit awkward if you can’t form a coherent sentence and they DON’T know you’re stoned. Tread lightly, but don’t blame the weed for taking the “easy route” through life staying home and doing whatever it is you enjoy doing while stoned. Maybe treat it as a reward beyond just getting her number, a date, a kiss, or sex. Make a pact with yourself to either do all of that…
/r/seduction04/12/24 04:28 AM
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Snapchat is for girls you know are already dating other people and, for their benefit, don’t want their words to you being tied to them since Snapchat doesn’t automatically save all messages sent. Instagram is ideal for single women since they can view your photos to get a better idea of who you are (assuming your profile gives off the vibes that attract the kind of women you want to date). But, trying to pick up random girls that way is hard-mode. Easier for women you’ve met irl. Regarding your…
/r/seduction30/07/24 09:41 AM
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And for sneaksters who don’t want their convos saved automatically
/r/seduction30/07/24 09:04 AM
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Definitely the case. As long as you’re not a creep and give off a confident vibe, the right girl will throw herself at you. Doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll be into her tho
/r/seduction24/07/24 08:35 AM
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You: “Will I wake up tomorrow with all both of my kidneys?” Her: somewhere along the lines of “Yeah…? But you still didn’t answer my question?” You: “Well, so long as you don’t harvest my organs, I guess you have nothing to worry about”
/r/seduction21/07/24 07:35 AM
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Ah yes, under the assumption attraction is already established, yes. 100%. Upon second consideration I do see the creepiness in that part. I appreciate your input.
/r/seduction08/09/20 07:45 PM
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Don’t focus on specific subjects, take a look around your environment and see if anything around you inspires certain memories you may have that may or may not relate to said certain object. Tell stories from your past. Become a good storyteller, that’s how you stay interesting. “Nice weather today,” “was your trip ok,” “crazy times we’re in” are some of the blandest, driest, most boring conversation you could ever start. Don’t be that guy. Bonus points if you can drop some sexual double entendr…
/r/seduction08/09/20 06:40 AM
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Gotta love yourself before you can love someone else
/r/seduction07/09/20 04:45 AM
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Flirt with any and every girl you find attractive. Look for IOIs and don’t care too much about what others may think. Finding a way to give yourself a confidence boost might help. You’ll get the hang of it eventually
/r/seduction27/08/20 04:05 AM
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Agreed. Park as far away as possible next time y’all work together
/r/seduction27/08/20 03:58 AM
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It’s once in a blue moon that I’ll get messaged first from a girl who I know 100% sure that she’s into me. She’s wants to know that you like her back as she probably feels uncomfortable being the one to put their feelings out first. Your duty as a man is to make your lady feel as safe and as comfortable as you can possibly make her whenever you’re interacting with her. Just put yourself out there. Judging from your post, she sounds somewhat interested in you so I’d say it’s more likely than not …
/r/seduction27/08/20 03:53 AM
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From my experience, yes
/r/seduction14/03/20 07:15 AM
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