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| 1 | Best content creators with PoV/Infield for night gameOP, the ' old stuff' is still relevant as today as it was 10 years ago - human social dynamics is still the same. The Ultimate Guide To Nightgame - only 2 years old with infield https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=242_K7YUbCc&t=119s Pick Up has fizzzled a out and social media has changed things, these guys - GRAFT KINGS are probably the current equivalent https://www.youtube.com/@GraftKings - slightly different but many similarities, all the thigs about chatting up girls - its the same info – althou… | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Best content creators with PoV/Infield for night gamehistytockky is a idiot manoshere type , he isn't really gonna help on pick up .... in answer to your question - these guys Todd Valentine https://www.youtube.com/@ToddVDating A J Hayden https://www.youtube.com/@aghayden Richared La ruina ( Gambler UA ) - old but good https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE Owen Cook https://www.youtube.com/@OwenCookFreeTour + as other have said Torrent the old RSD PUA programs | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: 9s are overrated - a 7 with a good body is worth moreplenty = tree fiddy | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 12:40 PM |
| 0 | What are some good book recommendations on approaching?watching viedos are much easier to pick up/understand the way to do it, books can't show you body language - try Todd Valentive, AJ Hayden youtube channels to start. | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 07:08 PM |
| 1 | I’ve discovered that I’m too nice/passive and not aggressive enoughsome links to start, you need to go out in the real world and try it out, to be honest its pretty easy and great way to speed to get girls ( especially in night game) https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/touch-routine-and-physical-escalation.15939/ https://www.girlschase.com/article/beginners-guide-sexual-escalation-pt-1-when-escalate-sex note - OP that took me 1 second to google " seduction escalation" , please take resposibilty for yourself and your learning - the good thing is that you real… | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 08:53 PM |
| 1 | “What you say” doesn’t matter to girls. THIS does | The 3 Layers Of Communicationbro - you attract what you are, not what you want.... | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Went to a bar last night, panicked, and immediately foldedOP,look at these you tube channels - Todd Valetie, AJ Hayden - to get started ... | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Went to a bar last night, panicked, and immediately foldedOP you are overthinking this, when ‘Out’ if you are talking to many people – girls , guys, old , young, bar staff – you will never really be rejected, you will develop a good sense If they are interested or not, if not you can move on. Same if you are with mates or alone. | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 01:13 PM |
| 1 | How much of an improvement did you guys see with women after losing a moderate amount weight?OP speaking from experience here, it helps somewhat - but the context matters, and your social skill levels also matter/ how much effort you put into meeting girls matters. In the right situations it can be a big multiplier. Girls who already like you will like you more, girls you are neutral probably not much effect. The best ROI for this is being able to wear clothes and look defined, anything beyond that is not great ROI in terms of game results. If you are normal dude getting in shape will b… | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 12:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you have "fun" while in nightclubs?Every once in a while, my friends drag me along. They're the type of guys who are good with flirting and stuff, while I'm not, mostly due to lack of confidence and low self-esteem. Bro is literally complaiing that he has Wingmen. no where else has such a concentration of women to meet, - but find venues that fit you as many venues are not the best for pick up. | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Why tf Cold approach is fucked up in UKI am little bit bad in having conversation. this is why ... | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Owen Cooks latest game material.im sure most people just torrent his stuff, im sure most did back in RSD days. | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Very bad nightgame results despite decent looksOP some good links for you AJ Hayden - The Ultimate Guide To Nightgame (how to get laid in bars/clubs) Todd V Dating - I slept with 100s of Girls from Clubs & This is How I did it Richard La Ruina | The Formula for Night Game ( already linked but worth bumping) Todd V - How to Know EXACTLY What to Say to Women: The First 60 Seconds Todd V - How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say - Verbal Game, Storytelling And Flirting | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Game changersWhat was the biggest game changer for you in your life with seduction? The thing that led to the most results? literally preservering and keeping going out, its a marathon, lots of nights out are shit, but overall you gradually improve and get better through experience, most people give up too easily. | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Another night - More FR'sits not just a numbers game - there is a lot of social skill and experience you are showing, Approach 8 was effortless due your skills, a "non-trained" normal guy would have not been successful. | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 10:50 AM |
| 3 | First attempt at going out soloremember that this is a marathon, as long as you persist you will see gradual improvement | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Are night clubs/bars a trap?Night life is about going out and aiming to pull that night ( or make out and then meet up again later) , then turn them into FWBs, any good FWB can turn into a RL ( but you have choice then ideally between multiple FWBs). expecting deep conversations is setting up for disappointment. its a high intensity environment, learning game here improves your skill a massive amount. bars/concerts/social events all can be good or poor... bars are not a 'trap' approaching is not " ON/OFF" you should be tak… | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Are night clubs/bars a trap?OP, you need to be selective about venue, even when night life was better there were still good and poor venues, expensive flashy places were never good. where do you live, i cant believe there is no where good? you need to be social with all people (social proof) not lurk about for women to approach. don't drink more than one/two light drinks, + have some non alcoholics, else you are socially sloppy, learn to approach sober. | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Saturday 10/4day to day game can be very up/down, but long term you will improve, your best night now will be an average night soon. good job for going out, keep persevering, keep learning and fine tuning / refining, also keeping momentum is super important to progress. | /r/seduction | 05/10/25 09:27 AM |
| 1 | What are your experiences in Hamburg for Night Game?I am trying to get into the habit of going out alone from time to time, but I feel like I have rarely had success in this city in the past success requires perseverance, you need to go out a lot more to see the gradual improvement. I want to know whether thats just a belief I might carry with me, so I am interested to hear other perspectives on the matter :) yes you are correct, any big city will be full of opportunities, maybe different venues, or get your self "in state" before going out so yo… | /r/seduction | 20/07/25 08:58 AM |
| 1 | What are actual good ways of meeting women when you’re not at university/college anymore?OP where do you live in the UK ? be aware that if you only do day-game you will be missing many opportunities to meet girls. don't shy away from putting yourself out your comfort-zone and going to night venues. | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 02:57 PM |
| 1 | What should I focus on to improve my dating life?So I’m stuck: Should I try to improve my online dating profile? Focus more on building a social circle and meeting women that way? Or try cold approaching despite the challenges here? I don’t know, what to do and how to use my time wisely. go out solo daygame and night-game to start with if you dont have buddies... meeting IRL is always better. use OLD as a suppliment ( the best girls dont need to go on it) I also live in a European city where cold approaching is tough and dating in general seem… | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 02:43 PM |
| 1 | What should I focus on to improve my dating life?its possible to have a busy social life but (A) the social group is not productive for meeting new girls (b) you are likely too quiet/need to be more social/ask girls out, be more confident etc . The latter is easy to learn (i.e. learn "Game") the former well you might need to expand your socializing/venues. LMK if you want more. | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 02:36 PM |
| 0 | Advice Needed: How to know when to settle downyes, 20 is YOUNG people change a lot in their 20's. many people who get married early get divorced by mid 30's. ( imagine having to re date late 30's or 40's ? ) Dudes should generally wait longer to get locked down, this lets you pick a better long term partner, and you can have your 'fun' first. Men peak later, so also find a women who is peaking later, (their peak will have more longevity also). | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Advice Needed: How to know when to settle downdude 20f is young, she will change a lot in the new few years, re-visit this in mid 20's at the earliest. if you are still together. | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 02:06 PM |
| 1 | UK Cold Approach Advicemate im glad you siad this, i dot think many seaside towns are good to game (many old people/rundown) but newquay is a Resort, so it will be great in summer, it still has nightlife (any town don't anymore), lots of people up for partying and ONS. work out ways to "naturally" meet girls. good luck, night game and day game. for the local girls, you might want to work on social game a little more, get known. | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 09:05 PM |
| 1 | pretty much finished my testing of 3 Pickup artists.OP you need to take a mixture of ideas from various 'Gurus' a see what fits / works for you. you need longer than a few months to get this right - a few years usually of consistent practice. your expectation were way unrealistic, its not a linear training course you do... "then can do it" Todd V and Richard LA have great content.... most gurus say similar things anyway | /r/seduction | 08/06/25 08:57 PM |
| 1 | UK Cold Approach AdviceI'm curious what coastal town you live in, generally the bigger the town city the more locations/opportunities to game. having a mix of daygame, nightgame, OLD, socail circle is best (easier said than done) , if the area is quiet then its gonna be tough. | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Are there any PUAs that are fat/obeseLuke from Real Socail Dynamics is/was fitting your category/question, he was far from a chad in looks.... still he was a pimp and master of social game. he was a normal looking dude. Game over comes looks, but there is no reason to NOT make life easy for yourself and improve your looks e.g. from 3/10 to 6-7/10 is " easy", beyond that you need to improve social skills/go out and approach. Most guys are average between 4-6 ( bell curve distribution). average looks + game = success. | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 11:24 AM |
| 1 | More approaches from last nightgreat post OP, your skill in approaching will gradually improve over time and with experience, but you need to keep going out and trying things. with time you will work out your own lines to use, i always used to copy RSD lines and modify them, worked fine. eg " hey"..." who are you"[break physical barrier], "you look like trouble"...etc Gave mysterymethod a good go but wasn't getting the results I wanted. I've since read Joshua Pellicer, gambler and a few others and testing stuff out. knowing M… | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Where can I cold approach after dark if I don’t drink?i recall back in the day many dudes would limit how much they drank when going out a lot for nightgame - many reasons to do so. once i pulled a threesome when i was driving that night ( only 1 small beer so sober) , helped with logistics a lot... | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How often do bar hookups happens?my man, from one UK guy to another - you seem very Jaded, you seem to give off a "half glass empty" vibe. its very possible to get good results from bars/clubs in the UK. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 08:57 AM |
| 2 | A lot of guys who lack confidence have this fantasy.Yes, I am on Reddit asking about that stuff right now no not asking people here, by googling "charisma" ( what is Charisma, how to be Charismatic ) = there are already many detailed answers on Reddit (other subs mainly) as a life skill you need to take what keywords you see and research on it, i'm not annoyed it has not impact on my life, but i see you asking and getting frustrated by the short answers. i am trying to point out do your own reading on topics. as i am trying to help .... here are … | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 01:26 PM |
| 1 | A lot of guys who lack confidence have this fantasy.Bro, you gotta take responsibility for learning, dont get annoyed when random reddit people cant give you step by step guide to follow. Google it, lots of articles, look on youtube, stuff on reddit.... | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Woman said she learned she doesn't want sex after being with me. I think I failedbro, this girl i damaged, get more dating options and you wont care so much, she is only gonna cause you hassle/grief... | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Struggling to Find a Social Circle That Matches My Energy – Anyone Else Feel This?this is a classic situation for dudes improving their life, you gotta go solo to start with, try and find some (non weird) guys who also like going out, in the mean time you have the grind it out yourself. i've met may cool brown guys, they are out there also "Like attracts like" , be authentic ( and reasonably cool) and you'll meet like minded guys. esp when out. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Best ways of cold approachingthe above comment is a rather extreme take. most people you meet in night game are ' normal '. these places are good as there are concentrations of girls ( often you don't get this in day game), if you go to reasonable venues there are a good amount of quality women ( layers, teachers etc), most people are there to socialise, if you bring a good social vibe, you will attract people/get good responses. | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 09:07 PM |
| 6 | Going to the gym is a game-changeryes, the OP is confusing correlation vs causation. he feels good about himself and is being very positive because of it ....many of us have been there.... get buffer and realised you gotta approach, even more so for the introverted dudes. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Going to the gym is a game-changerpeople are picking up on your positive arura you are giving out that you get from feeling good from going to the gym, now you gotta back that up with game and approaching, else its gonna fade. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 07:45 PM |
| 1 | looking better/more confident going out = less indicators of interest?you have some other good replies already and the above dude has great content. some thoughts... if you look really buff, some girl will disqualify you as arrogant/stuck-up/player/pretentious . i've also seen many jacked guys in a club standing posing hoping to attract women, they are NOT approaching and they have no social vibe - so they have no girls. They don't understand game/attraction, ( its sad ). i suspect you are also subconsciously more outcome-dependent as you feel like you should be d… | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 08:52 PM |
| 1 | How to step up my game?How do I attract hotter women? Go out more Consistently, approach more women, reflect on each approach ( have a diary to cement learning) especially do not wimp at approaching higher-end women and harder groups.., go to better venues ... even if you are not always begging the hottest you need to keep abundance and keep a solid rotation ( that you are refreshing regularly ). 'Abundance' will give you the subtle body language/behaviors you are a higher value male = hotter women. Work on voice tona… | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 12:52 PM |
| 1 | What books do you guys recommend?You tube has good resources: Todd valentine for game Owen Cook ( ex guru) for mindset Charisma on command for charisma Then you need real life experience, and you need to keep this up for a long time. Other game youtubers - ag hayden, Richard la ruina. Look up old 'RSD' training videos. Go out and embrace the rejections and pushing your comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 07:48 AM |
| -1 | Why do so few men have "rizz"?OP you are not wrong, RIZZ is a combination of Charisma, Game, Drive/effort ( meeting new girls). Most people are average, its not that hard to be 'above average'. There are charismatic people with no game, most guys have very basic game, most people are happy with minimal effort - eg 1 girl (people are lazy and want an easy and comfortable life, minimal effort). The great thing about learning Game is : Any dude putting in the effort to learn game ( and improve their life) will also become more … | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 11:58 AM |
| 6 | Early 30s looking for advice on cold approach as a beginner.So I’m wondering... should I start approaching girls who I don't find that appealing really? Maybe it would help me practice and get more comfortable before going after the ones I really want to talk to. You should be talking to many people, not waiting for the " hot girl". by oly waiting for 'hot girl', you are more outcome dependent, more likely to mess up. By talking to many types of people you have a lot more social flow, more comfortable and confident, projecting better 'vibe' and are less … | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 10:47 AM |
| 1 | I Almost Went Home After 7 Rejections - Then I Met Herfrom experience, you only need one ( or two ) girls to turn a shit night to the best night.... | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 09:06 AM |
| 1 | USA way easier than Britain?"I get short one word answers or no reciprocal questions back so I bail." You need to get past the "hook point" of the interaction. You are probably playing it too safe, not cheeky/confident enough. Hard exactly to say unless we see you. Look up "Todd valentine"/"ag hayden" on youtube for good advice. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 12:06 AM |
| 1 | USA way easier than Britain?I could never do a solo night as good in the UK as the people are ruder and meaner. yeah UK people not as overly friendly as USA , but you cant be on holiday ll the time. yet UK isnt soo bad. people will pick up on your attitude if you think like this and they wont respond well. I’m invisible in the UK why is this? this is quite an extreme view. this shows to me you are not going out / approaching as much ( or somehow doing it all wrong) - what are you up to to meet girls. | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Is there a YouTube channel that records approaches in clubs?some good ones - "Todd Valentine" , and "AG Hayden" on YouTube | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Fucked up each time going to the club for over a year now. 23 (M)Just goes to show being attractive doesn't help. I just gotta know how to talk to women now or how to talk to them better/properly. you got it, seducing is about communication, charisma personality, vibe...etc its a skill you need to go out more often to get practice. more practice = more results. what 'guides' are you following to improve? | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 06:05 PM |
| 1 | I’m interested in learning more about seduction.try these YouTube channels: AG Hayden - this video to start - 5 ways to approach a girl you like (+REAL LIFE EXAMPLES) Todd V dating channel two good ones to start with, let me know if you want more. the main thing - you need to get real life experience. | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 06:36 PM |
| 2 | I used to think dating was a numbers game, now I think it's just a matter of luck or attractiveness.OP you seem like a 'serious' person, this can be counter to getting women .... watch this video of Todd Valentine out socializing , see how he banters and flirts , (then watch all his videos ). WINNER GAME - Chemistry and Connecting Emotionally I've never been to a club unfortunatley, nightlife can an easy way to meet people , game is a lifestyle choice, you should be meeting people in social situations. like no one wants to have fun or be interesting while I have to work to be the most interest… | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Tried a few cold approaches at a beach but no successI am still quite new to this game. What can I do better to get dates on the same day as approaching women? Yo my man you are gonna need to get more experience before you are seeing results. like any skill it requires practice and regularly meeting women/socializing. at least a year for most guys. | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 03:44 PM |
| 9 | Oneitis won’t let me enjoy other girlsyou need to cut this girl from your life, she is wasting your time, find girls that don't mess you around. when they mess you around => low interest and/or you are a back up plan. go no contact ( she might end up chasing you as she realizes she is low priority ) | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Struggling to Meet Girls in Clubs – Need Help from A to ZOP please look up these channels on youtube as lots of club game guidance - Todd valentine,Ag hayden, Richard la Ruina. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 09:58 AM |
| 1 | London bars and clubs full of men?Most guys can't approach those that do are terrible at it, it was the same 20 or 30 years ago even pre OLD. Venue makes a difference, the clientele type/background/ages makes a difference. Some are sleezy and flashy locations, others are lowkey but good for game. I'm intrigued what club you went to in London. You tied a few approaches- good but doesn't really tell us if they were good or bad approahces, your experience level, or what the venue is like. How much do you go out? Anyone not going ou… | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Is there actually a seduction community anymore?Yo. Even back in the day many guys were a bit odd or difficult to hang out with. Realistically it will be easier and better to meet non-pua dudes who want to go out and meet girls, and have some existing skills and the drive to do it , or at least dude who like going out with you and don't get wierd about you approaching. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Advice on getting a quality girlfriendgood on the dance classes , remote - how does that prevent you going out and socializing mid week? i used to live in a smaller town for a while, the best advice i saw/took was going out midweek ( id go to student nights) and get some approaches in/socializing, keeps your social momentum high - weekends are much better, when only going out fri/sat i always felt 'rusty' on the friday. other options - Move to a bigger city , do daygame in town or in a bigger close by town , improve your OLD profile… | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Advice on getting a quality girlfriendyou need more time for a start ( time heals), and just have some casual fun with new girls.. Night game is a good strategy, but you need to be meeting more girls, if you are only getting basic numbers not going for hook ups/make outs then they will often forget you. Night game is great for hookups => easy to turn many into FWB = progress to RL if you both want. you need 'Abundance' even if most girls are not exactly right, you are more likely to meet better girls when you are not out 'looking' t… | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 08:51 PM |
| 0 | Advice for introvert that isn’t the most social?Seduction / pick up is a social skill - if you want to Improve you need to Practice. - learn/ fail/ improve/ keep trying = improvement. There is no shortcut. Introversion does NOT mean shy / not social / not good with women. Good you are going out, but you are only dabbling in this - you really need to commit , push yourself and expand your comfort zones, and locations, be comfortable in more busy place ( more women to talk to). You also need to believe you can do this, and not give up quickly. … | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Where can I find some old courses of RSD or Old dating coachesTodd V Dating ( ex RSD ) great content on YT Owen Cook ( tyler from RSD ) the founder - more general self help now now Julien from RSD - more general self help now Richard la Ruina ( Gambler PUA - from PUA training ) | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Where can I find some old courses of RSD or Old dating coaches" read social dynamics " and try adding some instructor names - tyler / jeffy / alex / max / julien / todd / tim | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Should I stop focusing on "my type" and just date other women who are attractive but I'm not super enthusiastic about?you need to look at this from an "abundance mindset", if you have a range of women available you will not be needy, you are more likely to be successful? if you only go for this exact " type" you will always be needy and outcome dependent, so in fact more likely to fail with them. every successful guy I have seem or known dates a range of women. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Dating if you have moneyI have given up on normal methods. => you haven't tried. if you really want something you persevere, and keep trying, or ask for guidance, even the most ugly offensive guy in the world gets some positive feedback if they try hard. | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 07:55 PM |
| 1 | The approach at bars/clubsHere are some great Youtube links - soo much more advice in these videos than anyone can give in a short reply. Copy what these guys do then adjust to suit your personailty. Richard La Ruina | The Formula for Night Game A.G. Hayden - The Ultimate Guide To Nightgame (how to get laid in bars/clubs) A.G. Hayden - 5 ways to approach a girl John Anthony Lifestyle - Making Night Game EASY! (seriously, just copy this) Todd V Dating - The Nightgame Gameplan: How I Win EVERY Night Todd V Dating - WINNER … | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 11:35 AM |
| 1 | What's the Value of Seduction?the value of seduction is giving yourself CHOICE in women, and control of your life. Most dudes don't have very much choice in women, its a lottery who they end up with, they settle and don't get the women they really want. learning seduction you can get - hotter women, better matching values, more giving and nicer personalities, ones you click with better, ones from better families, ones with better careers ( more wealth ). But recently, I'm struggling to see the value of seduction: everything … | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 02:22 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?I have before and he seems to just get lucky or have skill idk for every chick he has success with he is probably being 'rejected' by 10 + others, sounds like he naturally has some skills, and these people cannot really explain it.... he will just be trying various things to see what works, then hitting lots of chicks with the more success full lines ( over time gets better and better ) .... you are in a good situation here as you are able to look up online how to improve, then analyse your skil… | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 02:54 PM |
| 4 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?what you are not doing => escalating, making it sexual, communicating man-to-woman, and be more polarizing ..... talk to your buddy / analyse how he acts, he will be doing this a lot ( even if he doesn't realise it ) | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Best sources for nightgame?good channels - watch , copy, learn succeeded - honestly its good to copy to start with, then make your own more authentic vibe AG Hayden: The Ultimate Guide To Nightgame https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=242_K7YUbCc Todd V Dating : The Nightgame Gameplan: How I Win EVERY Night https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBWtLFysmns I slept with 100s of Girls from Clubs & This is How I did it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ddfiZXyLM2Q&t=103s RICHARD LA RUINA: The Formula for Night Game | Full Length https://… | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 09:13 PM |
| 1 | New to the gamebro, you are ahead of most dudes here. many answers can be found in these great YouTube channels, there are others but these are good starting ones Todd V Dating - he has a video for everything https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCo9XJennsRNhyPbXCq6e8aw A.G. Hayden - https://www.youtube.com/@aghayden Richard LaRuina ( old school PUA ) - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsMzMM6gDS8ZiDIPmatGngg | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 05:04 PM |
| -1 | How tf do i make things sexual?This subreddit amazes me. You gave a perfect youtube reference to learn from, but instead of a thank you, you got downvotes :-)) thank you sane dude..... op is " give me written examples" - .... this subject can go deep, but can be easily googled, there is no specific question here .... most posts here are like this, most posters want to be coddled, there is no one answer, if people cant think for themselves they have no hope out in real time. the video has a 28 minutes of "example" .... you act… | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 05:37 PM |
| -4 | How tf do i make things sexual?Id like some written examples of M2W interactions really dude ? no one is going to spend time wirting out stuff for you lucky for you watch this as its already been done by Todd => THE DATE FORMULA: Platonic to Intimate https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YpMwUzAct48 | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 12:53 PM |
| 3 | I don’t understand clubsGOOD VIDEOS TO WATCH FOR NIGHT GAME: The Formula for Night Game https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE The Ultimate Guide To Nightgame https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=242_K7YUbCc I slept with 100s of Girls from Clubs & This is How I did it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ddfiZXyLM2Q&t=103s WINNER GAME - Chemistry and Connecting Emotionally https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NBpaoB8tshk | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 09:13 AM |
| 3 | 23M I never dated anyone currently in my 4th year of universitySounds like you need to talk to more girls Haha yes - this is literally the answer to most guys dating issues.... generally problems stop when you talk to more women/ have more options | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Night approach dynamic, help!OP watch the link by Hank Moody, also look at these Todd Valentine Youtube - Lots of good videos. | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Night approach dynamic, help!BUMP for this GREAT VIDEO !!! | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Ran some night game with 2 RedditorsI was able to bring out some people from an online community and turn it into a real life thing. amazing - this is honestly hard to do; find cool guys you get along with to game with , who are not 'odd' | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 07:23 AM |
| 3 | My therapist says I have to try talking to girlsOP watch this to start - 5 ways to approach a girl you like - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jHKdq3t1QoA honestly, treat this like a social experiment, nothing bad comes from approaching or even rejections, start off small: make a joke with them, do some like teasing, have some banter. | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 07:21 AM |
| 0 | How do I stop being a pu**y?5 ways to approach a girl you like https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jHKdq3t1QoA | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Big city's are SO much easier than small towns. Why is this?i lived in a small town mid 20's my advice " don't do it " . i still did OK game wise but not a good as a city would give. there is a big 'opportunity cost' not being in a city - girls, Social networks, jobs, things to do | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Student Introduction week18 and 26 is fine. your buddy is a (a) a white knight, (b) blue pilled and (c) is most likely coming from a place of jealousy. your buddy is lame | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a wingman for night game in LondonAlso, any recommendations for where to go in London are welcome. this answer depends where you live, you want some where that no too far from where you live. Central / soho etc is worth it but logistics are poor if you are not close. looks like you are near Kingston? - that has some decent night life spots. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Is it a good idea to completely cut off online dating ?bro you gotta be getting out a lot more, need to be putting yourself in situations where there are lots of women you can chat up | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 08:44 AM |
| 0 | This might sound harsh but you guys seriously need to get off the internet and go outside more. It’s the only way you’ll get better.also wild that the dude doesn't understand that they should be going to where the women are - social places / night life / parties etc.... niche hobbies = very few to zero single/attractive women | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | What questions can I ask girls when approaching?dude you keep asking for examples of what you say - you need to 'Learn how to Fish', not be given the fish. google / look up " how to banter" => be quick witted in social situations, be charismatic, be funny, be flirty. etc.... | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 12:05 PM |
| -1 | How do I overcome seeking validationHow To Be "Grounded" In Your Own Validation And Experience Of Life: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ukCzSoFlxsw | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 11:58 AM |
| 6 | How to get friends with benefits / casual hooks ups in big city as an average at best guyOP this comment shows you know what to do. Don't need to be 'better looking', you need to get out there and meet girls. Less romance, more escalation push for one ONS. ONS are good for tuning into FWB. Find girls online who have this vibe too. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 07:14 AM |
| 8 | Looking for flings, hookups; but all the women i meet want a relationship.My man you are overthinking this. You are worrying about step 2 without having done step 1. Be a bit more 'selfish'. Hook up with these chick's...... but don't then 'do dates', or be too avaliable to frame the FWB situation, some girls will bail, some will stick around for FWB. Some will catch feelings, let them loose. | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with the boom/bust nature of this thing of oursi appreciate the reply, and you got this! maybe you just need more time to realize you are a top guy and build that inner confidence....... remember that the past does not define what you can be, or who you can become. Part of pick up mindset is that you have the self-power/self-opportunity/self-responsibility to become what you want - OP you are doing this already and taking action, more than 99% of dudes in the world and more than than 95% of the incels guys here. | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with the boom/bust nature of this thing of ours8 months to get good success is very good going my guy, you should be proud of yourself, fast progress there. ‘The Game’ is very Non-Linear, success and failure comes in waves, one month you are smashing it, then it can completely drop off… now you can either take a breather or grind it out to find another wave, still you have to ‘enjoy the process’ to prevent it being a chore. Your issues are with 'Inner Game'; your validations need to come from Within, at the moment your validation is from ext… | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 11:47 AM |
| -1 | Running out of optionsSocial events are my only option to meet people, but that requires a lot of social energy, which is difficult for me as an introvert. A great analogy by the RSD team back in the PUA days was that for introverts their 'Social Resistance' is like a muscle, over time you can build it up to last longer, and perform better for longer, but don not over-strain it. However, I haven't been able to go out and meet new people in the last six months due to lack of energy. You also need to Enjoining Going ou… | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Challenges of a Short King: Excelling in Long-Term Relationships, Struggling in Short-Term Flings - Navigating Nightclubs for Casual EncountersOP Watch these. Todd V - The Nightgame Gameplan: How I Win EVERY Night https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBWtLFysmns Richard La Ruina | The Formula for Night Game | Full Length HD https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE Night Game Masterclass 1 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9mVFtDiMyLY 2 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B7-VoyHvqrM Edit and this: Todd V - I slept with 100s of Girls from Clubs & This is How I did it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ddfiZXyLM2Q&t=103s | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Pickup partners/wingmenWhat's the best way to find a pickup partner/wingman outside of your friend group? Want to work on improving my game alongside someone else but none of my friends are interested in this typa thing a very common issue: expand your social circle to find dudes who like to 'go out' - (a) even if they are not approaching, use them as a base, (b) even some normal dude like the idea of going out to meet women. ensure they are fun dudes who don't hate on you when you get rejected (also common) go out al… | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Any average dudes here managed to score a threesome through straight gaming?I have, and it was a glorious night. Both were fairly good looking also. It also proved that persistence in going out to game will provide these rare opportunities. Additionally you don't need amazing flash game, often the best game is 'good enough'. Know how to react well, escalate properly, and close. Give off the right 'vibe' and you will attract people over. "Anything I could improve or do to increase my chances? " Keep going out, brining good vibes with good game, whilst I was at a normal b… | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Ghosted after a 3 hour enjoyable conversationCongratulations you made a platonic friend in this situation. | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Fastest Bar Lay"Definitely lucky" You are downplaying it here may man. You are going out to 'game'. You are directly increasing opportunities for this to happen. Furthermore your 'game' gave you the right vibe and social skills to ensure this happened. More inexperienced/normal dude could have easily messed it up by saying something wrong or reacting wrongly. You made this happen. This is success. You should be proud. | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 08:03 AM |
| 5 | Had conversation with girl at bar. She gave me her business card but I'm getting mixed signals.I was talking to this girl at a bar for a fairly long time. She's a tattoo artist and gave me her card at some point. I asked if she was single and she said "it's complicated" and mentioned something about living with her (ex?) and trying to move out. I asked for her number and she said her cell is on the card she gave me. All good, but there was a pause in the conversation and she just got up and left... My Guy - good you are taking action. but don't talk for too long, set a flirty frame from t… | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 11:50 AM |
| -1 | The worst part about rejectionmy man - do you keep a diary? its great tool for noting what goes well and what goes less well. you will get a understanding or what is working for you and what isn't. game is all about going out trying, refining. persevering. when you write it down you cement this learning in your subconscious. game is up and down and a fair bit of luck, lots of stuff is beyond your control, but going out invites luck. more going out = more luck .... over time you get better and make less mistakes, you are more… | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Girls will also approach youman don't talk sense to the people here!! going out and being social ? taking responsibility and control of their own life? never heard such rubbish! (/S) also the fact someone downvoted you ...SMH. | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Success going outnice un-constructive incel /black pill comment you have there. shit loads of successful average/'shorter' height men around, who don't define themselves by this metric. you cant change it, so either ignore it a/ own it. => not an issue. its all in your mindset., this place is about bringing people up | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Pick up Relationship Booksthe best long term book is " the system" by Doc Love. it really cuts to the chase about keeping them interested in a RL, and stops you putting up with any BS. its quite old, but a bit of searching you can find it for free online. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Success going outI know my height inherently limits my selection of girls Absolutely it does not! anyone reading this remember this is your own limiting beliefs. unless you want tall women you are till as tall / taller than most women. your value is based on your actions, how you carry yourself, charisma, assertiveness, taking action...etc | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 07:25 PM |
| -1 | This is who I am, what can I do to specifically address my weaknesses and get to where I want to be with game?My weaknesses: bad approach anxiety, haunted by poor reactions from the past even when striking up basic conversation with women, a little traumatized as a young kid when bullied by groups of women, not a fan of nightclubs/bars as places to meet quality women (I don't find a ton of women who hold my interest over time in these places) To get good at Game ( and create abundance ) - You need to be creating a lifestyle where you are naturally and organically meeting a lot of young and single/availa… | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Why no success in clubs?My biggest passion in life is music and dancing. I enjoy going clubbing and listening to electronic music and dancing the whole night. This is great as you are enjoying being out, if you are giving out positive vibe + social value people want to be part of this. I'm fit and attractive, women give me attention, and I get a lot of indicators of interest when out and about or during social gatherings with friends. Keen to hear from you guys on what could help me get higher caliber girls. you NEED t… | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 12:06 PM |
| 3 | When did you start getting success?you need to define what success means, also you need to be realistic - you wont be a massive player straight way. "consistent progress" should be what you define as success, are you better than you were 3 months ago. fours stages of competence (1) unconscious incompetence - most dudes, no clue what they are doing wrong (2) conscious incompetence - you know what you are doing is bad, you are improving (OP now) (3) conscious competence - you can see your actions are bringing success (4) unconsciou… | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as wellOP needs to go out more and stop overthinking. Go out, talk to women. | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 12:46 PM |
| -1 | Bars and nightclubs are a huge waste of time. Thoughts?I’m sure this is not a revolutionary idea…but I’ve come to the conclusion in my personal journey that bars and nightclubs are a bust if you want to meet women. no where else has the concentration of correct age girls, many who are looking for a fun time and ready to hook up ..., you can escalate fast, and get SNL, much higher conversion rate that OLD , Daygame for most guys has a low success rate. Despite attending various different venues, there seems to be way more men than women. some venues … | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approach will SAVE you.Todd Valentine on you tube. watch and practice. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 11:36 AM |
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