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4

I always like to do a video call before setting up a date.
/r/seduction29/05/25 01:03 PM
2

If you wanna eat a girl out, you gotta go physician on her, digging into her lips and trying to find her clit. Press a little bit, and the little thing pops out like a turtle head. https://www.pornhub.com/video/search?search=how+to+find+the+clit You can also place your finger in her mouth and ask her to lick it like she wants to be licked, and just mimick her tongue.
/r/seduction29/05/25 11:02 AM
54

I am simply unable to read posts that are obviously written by chatGPT
/r/seduction29/05/25 10:07 AM
3

What happens mostly with me is that I acknowladge it being a shithole, put everything laying everywhere in the laundy basket, or tidy some more if she goes to the bathroom. My bed is always made tho. And a available candle also does wonders.
/r/seduction24/05/25 07:19 PM
17

But probably bro gave some insecure energy with his slightly messy room. So main lesson is to keep your throne room neat. Logistics issue.
/r/seduction24/05/25 02:02 PM
13

This is stuipid because it draws the attention to yourself when you wanna draw it to her. It also comes off as stiff. Best is just to joke, comment on - or ask about her.
/r/seduction23/05/25 04:06 AM
1

That is an assumption. If we're talking about the ones lurking here, we'd better take some responsibility, and might be able to prevent it instead of encouraging it.
/r/seduction22/05/25 05:26 PM
1

It’s not about the downvotes you might receive. It’s about the looneys that’ll go on to harass women using your advice.
/r/seduction22/05/25 02:36 PM
2

Be carefull. I once joked that if getting ghosted, the solution is to message the girl 42 times in a row and that like clockwork, they'll respond when texting them the 42th time. People tought I was serious. Poe's law gets no chill in this aspergers town.
/r/seduction22/05/25 02:03 PM
6

Women getting told to smile is like a bane of theirs.
/r/seduction22/05/25 01:56 PM
1

And that is all Ukrainians?
/r/seduction12/05/25 07:07 PM
2

Who are easy to get laid with
/r/seduction12/05/25 06:12 AM
2

That is simply not true
/r/seduction12/05/25 06:11 AM
4

That's nobody's business but the Turks
/r/seduction08/05/25 04:08 PM
12

Why they changed it, I can't say People just like it better that way
/r/seduction08/05/25 11:55 AM
-5

Now it’s Istanbul, not Constantinople.
/r/seduction08/05/25 10:40 AM
16

Can be anything, to varying degrees, and different combinations. Being there for your people. Discovering new shit. Trying to make the world better. You can make life whatever you want it to be. Still, there are indeed plenty of people who become hesitatant when asked what they live for, and come up empty. And that is like kryptonite to girls.
/r/seduction04/05/25 03:23 PM
1

It's one of those "scientists forgot to ask if they should" situations
/r/seduction03/05/25 11:35 AM
2

I'm not insulting your creativity, because it is absent. And that is what I wanna point out. If you instead write something personal about the girl, even when it is half assed, it will always be better than anything canned. And that is regardless of them finding out it was canned.
/r/seduction02/05/25 03:45 PM
3

Yeah what do you want? Why did you open this thread? We're telling you your strategy sucks and the two girls you've fumbled proves that. If it ain't broke, we wouldn't be discussing this. It is broken.
/r/seduction02/05/25 02:59 PM
7

You should not expect get some when minimal effort is too much for you.
/r/seduction02/05/25 11:37 AM
5

What is the difference?
/r/seduction02/05/25 07:05 AM
24

Girl find out he wasn’t even creative enough to type something himself
/r/seduction02/05/25 05:47 AM
2

Just finish your plate and anything she’ll add. It’s very tough.
/r/seduction01/05/25 10:11 AM
1

Just go slow
/r/seduction01/05/25 10:09 AM
2

Hello, human resourcses?!
/r/seduction30/04/25 06:17 PM
1

But this is not about handing over girls. This is about sharing strategy and tactics.
/r/seduction25/04/25 03:47 PM
3

Ah really? I cannot imagine declining to help someone with that.
/r/seduction25/04/25 11:30 AM
2

You tried asking, but you think he’ll deny you. Were you direct? Because assuming you’ll get declined, seems part of your anxiety.
/r/seduction25/04/25 10:44 AM
4

Yes.
/r/seduction22/04/25 11:36 AM
2

Thank you for your continued engagement and for taking the time to express your thoughts! 🌟 While interpretations may vary depending on individual heuristics and contextual biases, it’s always enlightening to witness the diverse spectrum of reactions that can emerge in digital discourse spaces. Your input has been noted and assimilated into the ongoing feedback loop of mutual understanding and experiential data synthesis. Let’s continue striving for clarity, authenticity, and constructive exchan…
/r/seduction10/04/25 10:34 AM
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"Oops, I dropped my phone with my bank account showing a hundred million bucks!" I don't see it happening any more discreetly. Your propsed scenario hinges entirely on women making an effort to check the phone screens of strangers, which simply does not really happen.
/r/seduction09/04/25 11:47 PM
5

Just imagine you're the owner of the establishment merely coming over to see it humming. Goes for any place you visit.
/r/seduction09/04/25 12:48 PM
13

TLRD by ChatGPT: Approaching women is about making them feel Accepted and bringing fun, high-energy, confident vibes. Act like your life is amazing and she’s invited to join — if she earns it. Be direct, enthusiastic, and positive. Give genuine compliments, show subtle romantic intent, and don’t chase. Approach head-on, then “step back” to let her invest. Keep things playful and challenging, not needy. Talk like a normal person, have fun mini-stories ready, and move to a second location if thing…
/r/seduction07/04/25 05:25 PM
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Downvotes are out of frustration. There is this narrative that women live easy mode and men are the unfortunate ones. With that, no responsibility has to be taken. One could say an incel phantom is roaming this subreddit.
/r/seduction05/04/25 09:00 AM
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This answer gives a bit of a unfairness mindset and is therefore the opposite of helpfull. It simply is easier for women because: 1) Men are more horny. This simply is because for a woman, reproducing is really draining, even a serious health risk, and can only be done about every nine months, were men can reproduce mulptiple times a day like it ain't no thing. 2) Within masculine culture, there is less emphasis on emotional intelligence or vulnerability. This leads to men being terrified to get…
/r/seduction05/04/25 06:42 AM
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Yeah, because break ups never happen! /s
/r/seduction05/04/25 06:32 AM
3

Because most men are just too thirsty to act normal
/r/seduction05/04/25 05:58 AM
1

Why would I need personal experience if scientific testing has already been done, and yielded no results?
/r/seduction04/04/25 02:37 PM
1

Sperm retention is pseudoscience, bro. Nothing wrong with busting a nut.
/r/seduction04/04/25 02:29 PM
5

Have you tried saliva? I just churn out some spit that I place on my fingers holding like 🤌🏻, and then place that on my dick before I go in.
/r/seduction31/03/25 08:10 AM
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them
/r/seduction30/03/25 02:22 PM
7

/u/yusupov1 has entered the chat
/r/seduction30/03/25 02:03 PM
8

Are you commenting here to give advice, or to roast?
/r/seduction30/03/25 12:40 PM
151

What these noobs here are failing to point out is that you gotta turn her on some more. When you're kissing, place your leg inbetween her legs, allowing her to pressure her crotch on your tigh. This will get her going. Combine this with kissing her neck and biting her earlobe. This will get her going even more. She should go on and ride your leg, which you can answer with some more pressure on her crotch. This can be done in a laying position, facing towards eachother. Then you can place your ha…
/r/seduction30/03/25 11:55 AM
85

Overthinking < Underthinking
/r/seduction28/03/25 11:19 AM
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Yeah it is exactly what I mean. Something happens, is being said, and then you'll see the girl wait for you to lose balance. Keep that balance while keeping that laser eye contact. Shows them you're for real.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:46 PM
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Ok Dwight
/r/seduction27/03/25 12:49 PM
149

How remaining balanced is everything. You get pushed all the time, by your desires, uncertainty, judgements that bruise your ego. These are moments one tends to lose balance, and either go frantic or silent. Keep balance, and it'll be a walk in the park.
/r/seduction27/03/25 12:48 PM
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Idk about that one. For example, I want to do many things at the same time, but can only do one thing at the time, and there is also uncertainty involved. Wanting something doesn't mean I would.
/r/seduction27/03/25 12:44 PM
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If you want them to be your girlfriend, in my experience at least, girls tend to lose attraction. Instead, be eager to see them, but don't give a fuck about titles or anything. Make her want to nail you down. She will start talking to you about how she doesn't want to see other people anymore and then she will be your girlfriend.
/r/seduction27/03/25 10:58 AM
2

But the main reason for that high likelihood, is that attitude of yours. I got diagnosed with aspergers, used to suck with women, but got better and now my skills are way better than the average neurotypical. Believe in yourself, keep trying and keep learning. You'll go far.
/r/seduction26/03/25 11:11 AM
2

Autism shouldn't be seen as a disability. A disability is defined as something that prevents you from fully participating in society. As an example, homosexuality used to be classified as a disability by the WHO until 1992. Yet when society invested more into acceptance, gay people became able to participate fully. Same with transsexuality btw. Being trans is not a disability. What is a disability however, is experiencing gender dysphoria, which can be cured. Maybe we can view autism in the same…
/r/seduction26/03/25 11:07 AM
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Yeah its that feeling of not fitting in. After having been excluded in the past, it gets you assuming that you won't fit in to begin with, and that energy is like the opposite of confidence or the leadership energy that girls might be looking for.
/r/seduction26/03/25 11:00 AM
8

Nah this cannot be true because mine is actually diagnosed All jokes besides, the PUA community is one of the most aspergers thing there are
/r/seduction26/03/25 10:58 AM
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Yeah, I won't be able to read this, for sure. I will also downvote it, because there needs to be appriciation for effort.
/r/seduction22/03/25 12:40 PM
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They want to jump straight into “emotional triggers” before they’ve even built enough attraction for her to care. I plead guilty. Thank you for this observation.
/r/seduction19/03/25 10:27 AM
4

I think he want’s to find people in his vicinity
/r/seduction16/03/25 06:02 AM
-1

I guess that is the nice thing about Bumble. Passive matches get unmatched autmatically after 24 hr.
/r/seduction13/03/25 06:10 PM
-2

I'm in Europe, so maybe that is it. But when using Tinder on my last playtrough, I could notice it was the more, how do you put it, oblivious women still using the app, unbeknownst most people had moved to Bumble. This playtrough I wasn't even able to properly setup my profile because the browser app got too glitchy after adding more and more stuff in an attempt to survive compitition.
/r/seduction13/03/25 06:05 PM
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Tinder? Who is still using Tinder? I get everything from Bumble.
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:37 PM
1

"I am"
/r/seduction12/03/25 09:04 PM
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ChatGPT: Sure! Here's a TL;DR of the main points: Persistence with women is about balance – too much comes off as desperate and creepy, while too little makes you seem uninterested and forgettable. The Three Rules of Persistence: Keep pushing if she’s engaging with you – Assume attraction until she clearly stops working for your validation. Don’t overanalyze her words, body language, or facial expressions. Just go for it. Leave immediately if she shows disinterest – No begging, no asking why, no…
/r/seduction10/03/25 07:00 PM
4

It's a sad truth that refusing to say bullshit, will give you a disadvantage in this post-truth day and age.
/r/seduction08/03/25 11:00 AM
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If she was into you, you don't even need to seduce her and this subreddit loses its use. Stop thinking binary. Girls will be on the fence. We're here to discuss how to get them off that fence. And being part of a group will indeed be more attractive than going clubbing alone.
/r/seduction08/03/25 10:58 AM
8

dilute my depth of thought to activate her dopamine receptors the aspergers is strong with this one
/r/seduction05/03/25 07:28 PM
0

Just have a good excuse. Make her some late night snacks. Ask her to help you finish that open bottle of wine that will otherwise spoil, or offer to watch some video together that got mentioned earlier. Don’t be afraid. She might have a strong reaction. But what have you actually done wrong? If you realise you’re fine, it should be easy enough to maintain balance.
/r/seduction03/03/25 07:12 PM
1

Just have a good excuse. Make her some late night snacks. Ask her to help you finish that open bottle of wine that will otherwise spoil, or offer to watch some video together that got mentioned earlier. Don’t be afraid. She might have a strong reaction. But what have you actually done wrong? If you realise you’re fine, it should be easy enough to maintain balance.
/r/seduction03/03/25 07:12 PM
3

What’s working? The dude is only texting her, every day, without meeting her.
/r/seduction03/03/25 07:06 PM
3

Why tf are you texting to her every day instead of meeting her
/r/seduction03/03/25 07:05 PM
2

Saying this has nothing to do with skill is like the most coping of answers. No: it's literally a skill issue. Plenty of handsome men will fumble a girl becaude of any reason. And ugly guys will get the girl because they have learned to personify confidence and fun.
/r/seduction02/03/25 10:13 PM
1

Depends on the type of girl. Plenty of them love that emotional shit.
/r/seduction01/03/25 10:11 PM
3

Food works too. Late night pancakes or build a pizza together.
/r/seduction21/02/25 09:23 AM
5

You're in your golden 30s. Why feel rusty when you can feel rustic instead?
/r/seduction21/02/25 09:19 AM
2

Casual sex can be really nice with the right girl
/r/seduction20/02/25 06:15 PM
-1

She will not magically start to understand what exactly? I am skeptical about your approach, as I love to go for the kiss at the last possible moment. And that shit works fine. The point instead is not to lose your balance and to remain in your zone.
/r/seduction20/02/25 02:29 PM
1

None of this is true at all. I’ve used this technique plenty. Still get good matches. The algorithm only has to look at the percentage of people that like you. Because what would it add if you’ve liked them or not.
/r/seduction11/02/25 04:11 AM
0

NO. Don’t. Laughing at our own jokes is something people do out of social anxiety. Just like saying sorry too often or avoiding eye contact.
/r/seduction03/10/24 06:34 AM
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Important formula, which isn't uneccecary to spell out for all us spergs out here is: set up > timing (to make the idea settle in, give some expectation) > punchline. Try to avoid making jokes that punch down on yourself. You can make jokes that punch down on her, but keep it lighthearted and have that tongue in cheek (methaphorical). It's about that balance between not giving a fuck but also not being too much of a jerk. Just a pinch of jerkyness. Also don't laugh at your own jokes, but you can…
/r/seduction02/10/24 04:42 AM
2

yeah this checks out 😂 You're actually spreading misinformation that is actively hurting women. Can you please stop doing that? Thanks.
/r/seduction29/09/24 04:25 PM
5

I've heard of women making false accusations because the man rejected her or just to be petty. And then they lost their careers, friends and family? Come on man.
/r/seduction28/09/24 03:08 PM
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Damn right. And the people out here already downvoting you. A year ago I was still working as a high school teacher. I got a whiff of a coworker having the nickname pedofile among the studends, aged like 15-17. I was told by my janitor friend, same age as me, who then refused to pay any heed to it. So I decided to ask some students if there was any teacher bearing this nickname. Immediately I got told they're expieriencing sexual harrasment from this teacher. He'd touch their hands, shoulders, w…
/r/seduction28/09/24 03:01 PM
1

The majority I met online
/r/seduction28/09/24 06:33 AM
-2

Gtfo with that self pity bro. As I said, I also have had my dry spells. Does this make me a loser? Yes or no? Plz answer.
/r/seduction28/09/24 12:36 AM
4

Fuck off.
/r/seduction27/09/24 09:07 PM
15

Don't worry bro. You can do it. I am also diagnosed with signs of aspergers (alongside ODD and PDD-nos) and people call me a weirdo all the time. So do the girls I hook up with. Still did 26 in the past 12 months and that includes dry periods. I am assuming you feel like there is indeed something wrong with you, which makes you insecure and you'll radiate that energy. I am also still dealing with insecurity, but you gotta supress that shit. Booze may be a medicine sometimes, but don't lean in to…
/r/seduction27/09/24 09:01 PM
1

"I clearly see you aren't preselected so I don't feel safe with you" Yes. So it should say "you aren't preselecting" instead, right?
/r/seduction25/09/24 02:27 PM
1

Oh I forgot the qeustion mark. I've understood, from the meta, that asking her questions to preselect, gives more success with women because if you're being picky, that means you've got abundance and are of high value. But you say that you can be denied for not being preselected by her?
/r/seduction25/09/24 02:17 PM
1

" I clearly see you aren't preselected so I don't feel safe with you" You mean "you aren't preselecting"
/r/seduction23/09/24 11:58 PM
1

Yeah its a 16+ rule tho. Not because it's about sex, but because if you apply this when you're 12, a 12 year old girl will be too young for you.
/r/seduction23/09/24 12:43 PM
0

Women can reproduce like 4 times in 3 years max. Idk what the max is for men, but it should be more.
/r/seduction23/09/24 12:41 PM
1

Nah thats grooming bro. Instead you should just do sth right away.
/r/seduction23/09/24 12:38 PM
1

Rule is your age devided by 2, add 7. Youre 31/2=15,5+7= 22,5. You're in the clear. And this is the rule, but the law in many places is like 16. Do with this information what you want.
/r/seduction23/09/24 12:36 PM
2

I've honestly have had a lot of success with trauma balancing. Like, the problem with trauma dumping is that you're putting all this weight on the other person, which results in inbalance. So what you do instead, and also explain the workings of this to them, is that you take turns to share a bit of trauma. This builds a lot of rapport and negets the inbalance.
/r/seduction22/09/24 03:31 PM
1

Did you ever meet her in real life? My only explaination would be that it was a male catfish.
/r/seduction20/09/24 08:10 AM
22

I actually have found out that girls that refuse to respond, you can make them respond if you text them exactly 42 times in a row. works like absolute clockwork. it has something to do with sparking curiosity by acting assertive. do you need help? send me a message
/r/seduction20/09/24 01:04 AM
0

thank you for censoring that horrible term. Fuck foul language!
/r/seduction19/09/24 05:33 PM
1

This is something people need to learn to do in general. Just listening to people instead of waiting for oppertunities to insert your opinion.
/r/seduction19/09/24 05:02 PM
9

My anecdote was made up and meant as a joke.
/r/seduction18/09/24 08:44 PM
2

I go with A. There might be plenty of cases where B is true, but then again, that cold shoulder method is way too manipulative and high effort for me.
/r/seduction18/09/24 04:56 PM
13

It's not about them seeing you talk to girls. It's about seeing you moving around in the room, searching for the next one, like someone in need for prey. Hence the need for subtility.
/r/seduction18/09/24 04:44 PM
20

I want to reply to /u/kelement, which I am unable to because daygamecode blocked me (I don't have a single clue to why they did so) if you’re at a party with many hot girls you don’t just approach every one of them. look for iois to filter the list down You're definitly right about that. If you go from one girl to the next, others will take notice and will see you as needy and creepy. Stay subtile!
/r/seduction18/09/24 04:37 PM
33

One time this girl was like: "do you even have a fucking girlfriend??!" Which means she's definily in to me because: She initiates conversation with you. She asks if you have a girlfriend. She asks personal questions about your life. She expresses curiosity about your love life.
/r/seduction18/09/24 04:35 PM
3

You're basically saying that women are disloyal sluts, so I'd definitly go with the misogynist part. Especially considering that studies have shown the majority of cheating in relationships is done by men.
/r/seduction11/09/24 05:24 AM
4

sick and dark Thats persimistic language. I'd say irrational and harsh. But sick and dark sounds too incel for me.
/r/seduction10/09/24 07:50 PM
3

Oh if you ask me personally, I'd dump my long term gf for some other girl, and then deplete all the attraction the other girl feels for me by doing the exact opposite of the meta here that I have sinceforward caught up with again.
/r/seduction09/09/24 12:37 PM
0

Don't take it personally. Some people are just really bad at remembering faces or names, like me. Met a dude in the gym the other day. Totally forgot him. Had him on instagram also, saw the artwork he posted and only then I totally remembered him.
/r/seduction07/09/24 12:28 AM
1

I've never heard of the concept of social game.
/r/seduction05/09/24 12:09 PM
-1

exactly. What you do then? Disengage or stick around?
/r/seduction05/09/24 06:56 AM
4

The place doesn't even fill up untill 1am. Asking her to leave at like 2am would hardly get a positive reaction in my expierence. Honestly, I feel that many times you've gotta stay till the very end to get some.
/r/seduction05/09/24 04:40 AM
2

yeah I guess thats the reason
/r/seduction03/09/24 11:25 PM
1

WTF WERE THE MEMES?
/r/seduction03/09/24 10:59 PM
0

Damn, you just changed the meta.
/r/seduction03/09/24 03:26 PM
2

Tips and tricks to talk about sex without sounding like a pig. Like I understand the meta being to talk about sex, but also aviod vulgarness. I'm trying to figure out how.
/r/seduction01/09/24 07:15 PM
1

Lmao, you don't know me. My problem is that I am too comfortable.
/r/seduction01/09/24 05:20 PM
1

“Maybe the thing is I am hungry and you are thirsty?” Gold
/r/seduction01/09/24 02:31 PM
1

Not really my question, because I genninuely like food more than sex. I said it with complete honesty. Yet it feels like she was comfortable enough to disagree with me, and go sexual. Good chance there was posibility for escalation, yet I fumbled, mainly because it's too risky to go all sexual. I want to learn from this.
/r/seduction01/09/24 04:58 AM
3

Wait. The moment you're talking about doing things in bed, how long do you reckon it takes them to get the hint that you're talking about sex, or trying to make a move? Like, what I'm kinda looking for... I've seen plenty people mention that steering the conversation to sex is the way to go, to get her in that emotional status, imagining things. My question might better be, how do you balance that with not getting pervy, what is an equal advice I've seen here, yet I feel like both concepts overl…
/r/seduction01/09/24 12:16 AM
1

This is great She responds: "Haha, okay."
/r/seduction01/09/24 12:12 AM
1

"When your having fun in bed what do you like to do?". It's more PG-13, I'd say. Because subtle is kinda different. But yeah, that's why I got stuck I gues. I was looking for subtility, but what I'm looking for is PG-13 dialogue. <3
/r/seduction31/08/24 11:44 PM
8

People get creeped out when I tell random predestrians I just shit my pants. I'm just spitting fax. And that isn't even as bad as what this dude said to his student, like wtf did someone drop him on his head because he does look like that.
/r/seduction30/08/24 12:09 PM
10

It looks like this guy is for real. But I also remain unable to accept that.
/r/seduction30/08/24 10:40 AM
9

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all people are equal!!!
/r/seduction29/08/24 04:33 AM
-2

Asking for help is a form of dependance
/r/seduction27/08/24 01:12 PM
10

This type of framework makes everything a lot easier, since you’re getting her to imagine and fantasize about the date, instead of trying to convince her how fun it’ll be etc. I am in my thirties and I approve of this great post. This is what I needed.
/r/seduction24/08/24 09:27 PM
5

You can combine them. Like improv comedy also has framework.
/r/seduction24/08/24 09:23 PM
26

Just octuple text her bro
/r/seduction24/08/24 09:21 PM
1

Nah they might love it when you behave like a dog, but not like a pig.
/r/seduction21/08/24 07:08 PM
3

I don't think he's gonna argue. Otherwise if you won't post it, I can. But what if you just post it and see what happens?
/r/seduction20/08/24 12:40 PM
3

Solid advice! You should make this into an original comment.
/r/seduction20/08/24 12:25 PM
3

But what if it was: how do i get gf -just stalk her I think it is better to ask her out. Here it is wise to reject advice. Even if you've asked for it. aCcEpT tHe aDvIcE aNd sHuT yOuR mOuTh! Thank you.
/r/seduction20/08/24 12:23 PM
2

Yeah. You're right about all that. But here we're not discussing if activily aproaching, or waiting to get aproached is better. That sould be a given. We're instead discussing how to increase the likelyhood of getting aproached. Like you said: if you're at some social gathering, being alone would be weird. But other instances it can be better. Like when you're standing on the corner, looking like you're waiting for your friends or something. A women would be more likely to aproach you if you loo…
/r/seduction20/08/24 12:13 PM
0

That this is a total waste of time, is a false assumption. What you're missing, is that there are other options besides 1 or 2. There is also 3 or 4 and so on. By asking others, you might find out a better way to do something. And this can save a lot of time!
/r/seduction20/08/24 12:08 PM
1

"Hey, do you know what is the best way to do A?" "You should do 1." You already know 2 is better than 1. How you can answer: answer A: disagree "But I've found that 2 is better than 1." answer B: lie "You are entirely right!" Note that in both cases listening took place. Because you can hardly disagree with someone if you haven't taken notice of what they have said. Would you say that answer A is foolish, and answer B is wise?
/r/seduction20/08/24 12:03 PM
3

Same expierience!
/r/seduction20/08/24 11:29 AM
4

Yeah, forbid people to disagree! That is what will bring us closer to the facts! /s
/r/seduction20/08/24 11:28 AM
-1

my last gf aproached me.
/r/seduction17/08/24 09:56 AM
1

Good stuff. Definitly gonna use that. Others that are gold: "How did you end up at [place/work]", "What do you value most in [relationship]?", "What would make your younger self proudest if you saw you now?", "What do you love about [A]" and "What have you learned from [A]?"
/r/seduction14/08/24 11:00 AM
1

Fuck off
/r/seduction14/08/24 06:26 AM
1

Yeah so now you are contradicting your previous comment, telling me to change something about the way I genuinely act. Because I love bringing up random facts. Like did you know that if Napoleon wasn't born, Italy, Germany, Greece and Turkey might not be nation states today?
/r/seduction13/08/24 06:40 PM
0

Because me talking about Napoleon and shit on a first date gets her wet like dry paper towel.
/r/seduction13/08/24 06:23 PM
3

Met some woman entrepeneur the other day. She was telling me her boyfriend fell in love with her only after her business started booming. Now he makes like elegant breakfast for her. She was showing me this video: "Doesn't that look like a man that is in love? ... I liked him more before."
/r/seduction13/08/24 06:15 PM
3

When you find the right person do yourself a favor and let game go to the back of your mind. Nah man. Women tend to still lose interest if you're a done deal. I've experienced that on both ends of the spectrum. One was a relationship of 6 months, that left her heartbroke when I broke up with her. The other cheated on me after a month. SnooHesitations4922 wrote some fire in this same thread.
/r/seduction13/08/24 06:10 PM
3

But why do you have to settle for girl you don’t love? Oh I know the answer! It's convenience.
/r/seduction13/08/24 06:08 PM
1

This actually makes sense. Recently moved to Barcelona, but the problem might be that I am too Dutch. I'll share my heaviest moments with her. But will do it bone dry, like I am discussing the weather.
/r/seduction13/08/24 05:34 PM
1

Good stuff!
/r/seduction13/08/24 05:31 PM
-1

"Hey, I know this burger place. Best burgers. Gives me multiple shivering foodgasms. 😉😉😉😉😉"
/r/seduction13/08/24 05:29 PM
0

Again bro, I am on the spectrum because they made me get diagnosed by a psychiater. What the fuck do you want to do about that? Because getting rediagnosed just gave the same result. I already said that. Can you read? I'm here just to increase my already considerate market value for some even badder baddies. Because don't worry about me getting some.
/r/seduction13/08/24 05:27 PM
5

So basically go Dr Phil on them from time to time?
/r/seduction13/08/24 05:19 PM
2

MVP
/r/seduction13/08/24 05:17 PM
2

It implies that it's mascular to focus on linear, systematic processes, while it's feminine to consider more holistic, interconnected factors. But all men have feminine sides too, and for women visa versa.
/r/seduction13/08/24 05:16 PM
2

Yeah this is the best answer I guess. My mind goes everywhere. But I should just remind myself to focus on being a listener. Her telling about what she cares about, should give plenty of emotions. But I also feel like if you have them chatting about their ex boyfriend or daddy issues, she will have negative emotions and you should steer clear from that.
/r/seduction13/08/24 05:13 PM
9

"Wow, this place is fantastic! I love how vibrant it is. But wait, those neon colors are a bit much—it's like a carnival exploded in here. And the food presentation is amazing! But the taste? It’s completely bland. The music is perfect—so relaxing. But that last track was a disaster, honestly. The service is top-notch. But why is my coffee taking so long? This place is great and terrible all at once!" I don't really see how this would work.
/r/seduction13/08/24 05:11 PM
3

Nah man. Wishing rape upon women shouldn't be normal behaviour. Wtf.
/r/seduction13/08/24 05:08 PM
1

Can you give examples?
/r/seduction13/08/24 05:05 PM
1

Yeah thats not me. I grew up in a open household where my mom would always organise shit for all the kids in the street. I am definitely not socially akward, thats rather my stronger side, also having worked salesmanship. I just wanna know if someone can help me understand how you get a conversation emotional. That is all.
/r/seduction13/08/24 05:03 PM
2

Fuck you bro. Signs of aspegers, Pdd-NOS and ODD. I've been oficially diagnosed when I was 12, and then, in disagreement, got diagnosed again at 17. Didn't change anything. I would love to be neurotypical. But go talk to anyone who knows me. I'm not. Besides that, I love socializing. I developed speech early and I have been talking to anyone anywhere always. You don't know me.
/r/seduction13/08/24 04:56 PM
2

iga ena spiti kai kopella stin ellada, re malaka. etsi milou ellenika. ti ine provlema sou;
/r/seduction13/08/24 04:47 PM
2

ise malaka
/r/seduction13/08/24 04:32 PM
2

The Greek economy collapsed because the government essentially maxed out its EU credit card. Athens does have a really neat metro system because of that tho. Greek people will enjoy life and spend money for that. It also expected that your family will buy some real estate for you before you turn 30. Besides that, tax avoidance also used to be a national sport in Greece, altough the government has been cracking down on that.
/r/seduction13/08/24 04:26 PM
0

Thats what the barber in Exargeia told me at least. Les ime psefti; He has several clients that will come in that ofthen. To ellenika gineka teli ormofo adras.
/r/seduction13/08/24 04:16 PM
5

Just say what you want based on how you think and feel in the moment and don't worry much about how it comes across. Yeah. Bad advice for me.
/r/seduction13/08/24 01:44 PM
8

I guess I gotta find out what emotions are.
/r/seduction13/08/24 08:04 AM
27

Greek girls are the best, imo. They can be real angels. But you gotta work for it too. Like it's normal in Greece to get a haircut three times in two weeks.
/r/seduction13/08/24 07:18 AM
7

Talking about deep stuff is what always fucks me. It just makes the mood so serious. But how the fuck do I stay shallow?
/r/seduction13/08/24 07:16 AM
1

Me in real.life
/r/seduction09/08/24 11:44 PM
1

Bumble actually deletes the match if the girl doesn't message, or the guy doesn't reply, within 24 hours. I really like it because I ain't got no time to vet my matches and therefore like everyone. So when I am not interested, it is nice to have that plausible deniability that you didn't ignored them on purpose, and just forgot to check the app for the day.
/r/seduction09/08/24 11:42 PM
1

I'd throw in both the couchsurfing app with meetup (gotta pay like 1,50 a month) and tandem.net (gotta pay something to search for people by location). But I'd still prefer Bumble.
/r/seduction09/08/24 11:40 PM
3

Which means it's your 35th year on this planet!
/r/seduction09/08/24 11:32 PM
37

It actually also improves the likelyhood of girls approaching you
/r/seduction07/08/24 12:39 PM
12

Some say you gotta kiss on the first date, which was what I followed. But looking back, this might be a self fullfilling prophecy. I wanna find out if it's possible, and if it's indeed better to take it slow, but idk if I got the patience for that. I want that fire asap.
/r/seduction07/08/24 10:31 AM
75

You gotta look good. Fresh haircut, hitting the gym, nice cloathes and good style, maybe a chain, wristband, earrings or watch, or all of those. Makes such a difference. Add this with good photography for online dating, and success gets so much easier.
/r/seduction07/08/24 10:28 AM
12

Yeah, the other 43% would think I'm arrogant. I guess they still do. But I am also good looking, so that balances out.
/r/seduction03/08/24 03:41 PM
12

too many details
/r/seduction03/08/24 12:09 AM
28

This works like absolute magic. One night I was chatting up this girl in the line to the club. All of the sudden she starts talking with this handsome security guy, whom also was into her. I just started telling her how handsome and cute he was and that she should hook up with him. Idk if he got that, but I remember him smiling happily when I was telling her this. And that shit grossed her out. Absolute magic.
/r/seduction02/08/24 10:13 PM
9

since when is 24 considered late 20's
/r/seduction02/08/24 03:47 PM
5

challenge him to a duel
/r/seduction02/08/24 06:06 AM
18

That's why I visit this sub: weaponized overthinking 🔥
/r/seduction30/07/24 01:16 PM
0

Even if the evidence for dating apps doing this is entirely absent!
/r/seduction29/07/24 10:53 AM
17

Yesterday I aproached this lady whom into our conversation started to stumble, like you could notice that she wanted to prove herself to be an interesting person. Feels great.
/r/seduction28/07/24 04:15 PM
-5

If you go to visit Russia in this climate, you’re a piece of shit. Straight up. Tell your friend.
/r/seduction27/07/24 12:38 PM
1

People can lose their pulse and then get it back, or experience hallucinations. Some believe in gods, but the existence of deities remains unproven. The dress was black and blue, but many perceived it as white and gold due to photographic conditions, sparking debate. These are facts and part of the objective truth we can agree on in good faith. But you're not seeking objective truth in good faith, are you? You're looking for what feels nice to you, regardless of reality.
/r/seduction26/07/24 11:05 PM
1

But it is very much so a fact that many people experience this. It is an existing phenomena. And these facts don't care about your feelings. So idk man, try to do something with that displeasure of yours.
/r/seduction26/07/24 01:08 PM
2

Love me some LA-chicks. But also San Fransico-chicks, NYC-chicks, Texas-chicks, Florida-chicks, Pensylvania-chicks, Hawaii-chicks, Puerto Rico-chicks.. you name it!
/r/seduction26/07/24 06:30 AM
1

I understand that the term might evoke certain emotions, but it's important to focus on the objective facts and context behind its use rather than personal feelings
/r/seduction26/07/24 06:25 AM
2

I guess it's their confidence and the way they talk
/r/seduction26/07/24 06:17 AM
2

Indeed. Like, American chicks are my fucking favorite man. Saying this as a Dutch guy. The trick is not to get your own panties in a twist.
/r/seduction25/07/24 10:46 PM
54

I feel like 2 can be attributed to changing public opinion. Especially with Me Too, boys will be boys has turned into men are pigs. With this, logically women are less inclined to date men. I feel like it’s always a good thing to change for the better. But at the same time, while women have become more leftist, most men are turning more to the right on this.
/r/seduction25/07/24 08:29 PM
2

What are you trying to communicate?
/r/seduction25/07/24 12:03 PM
2

Why are you replying to a post you haven't read?
/r/seduction25/07/24 10:54 AM
7

No cheesy “wow you’re beautiful can I have your number”. Very low risk game. You perfectly demonstrated OP's point.
/r/seduction25/07/24 10:53 AM
1

"Hello, Human Resources?!"
/r/seduction25/07/24 10:52 AM
10

abundance mindset is like an exponential curve
/r/seduction25/07/24 10:51 AM
12

Yeah, mansplaining is real and I notice myself doing it all the time. I assume, as a man at the gym for example, that I know everything better. But most typically it turns out she knows fine herself.
/r/seduction25/07/24 10:49 AM
-1

ΠΡΟΦΑΝΏΣ ΕΊΜΑΙ Ο ΗΡΑΚΛΉΣ
/r/seduction24/07/24 08:59 AM
8

The girls that have approached me are literally the 2/3 I've became infatuated with.
/r/seduction24/07/24 03:36 AM
2

Compliments can be tricky tho. Too much of them, and they feel like you're begging for pussy.
/r/seduction22/07/24 11:20 AM
31

I'm just a humble motherfucker with a big ass dick.
/r/seduction22/07/24 11:18 AM
33

Especially the biological part will make me behave like a doormat. Just for the sake of reproduction.
/r/seduction22/07/24 11:17 AM
11

Weed, video games and porn, probably
/r/seduction21/07/24 07:56 PM
49

I am 13
/r/seduction20/07/24 11:06 AM
1

The game is rigged! But you cannot lose if you don't play.
/r/seduction16/07/24 05:15 PM
1

It allows me to hit on girls without them noticing I am not wearing pants nor I am being sober.
/r/seduction15/07/24 11:43 AM
4

No u
/r/seduction09/07/24 08:12 AM
1

Nice. Going to do that right now.
/r/seduction04/07/24 09:59 PM
5

Yeah, where are all these women that are into the manosphere like me? /s If you’re able to get into some critical theory about gender or other woke shit, you’ll be able to get mad pussy. You don’t even have to subscribe to the ideas. Just be able to understand it and talk along.
/r/seduction02/07/24 07:49 PM
1

I haven't recieved them
/r/seduction01/07/24 03:16 AM
0

Then how can we explains your lack of matches? I legit advice you to order a sex worker, and instead of sex, let her judge and advice your tinder profile.
/r/seduction30/06/24 04:47 PM
1

For dating apps you need to have good pictures.
/r/seduction30/06/24 02:54 PM
10

Why do you have to attack me like that
/r/seduction30/06/24 02:53 PM
4

Damn, why so negative? I was able to go from scarcety to abundance simply by taking what I can get trough dating apps. For dating apps you need to have good pictures.
/r/seduction30/06/24 07:42 AM
6

abundance mindset ftw
/r/seduction29/06/24 12:00 PM
2

Let me give you an example. I used to be bad with names of people. Then I've learned to care more about names and use them more ofthen. People tend to precieve me more positively if I do this more so than I did before. Using someones name liberally, is also a sales technique. Now, to understand you, what is the problem with me learning and conciously choosing to use names more than I did before? Because your criticism seems like a repackaging of "hurr durr, this stuff should come natural".
/r/seduction14/06/24 02:17 PM
6

First of all, then what would you call it when you introduce yourself to someone you desire, without knowing them trough friends, an activity or work? Termonology from sales coveres that situation perfectly. What gives? Because secondly, that I care and want to improve on how I am precieved by others, has nothing to do with fear. You sound like you're projecting. Lastly, no, I am not talking about women above me. I am talking about the type of women that would not be approached by a modeling age…
/r/seduction14/06/24 01:05 PM
7

Yeah, because you need to be a cold approach pro to ever go on a date with, or be liked by any woman, regardless of her league. /s
/r/seduction14/06/24 12:36 PM
1

Did you kiss
/r/seduction13/06/24 10:25 AM
1

But from what you wrote the rest, chances are high that she already sees you as a friend. I assume the indications of interest you've recieved are not explicitly romantical?
/r/seduction12/06/24 04:24 PM
0

It's like a running gag that people come here, saying they have success, like you making it to a third date, and then asking how to be succesfull. Anyhow, I assume you haven't kissed her yet? Because then you still have to do that, indeed. It can be tricky, but the most important part is to go about it calmly and confidently, just stop for a moment, give her that look letting her know you want to kiss her, while maintaining the frame that you two are gonna kiss (instead of the tempting frame of …
/r/seduction12/06/24 02:42 PM
3

The good part is that it is like a logarithmic curve. You'll start to see results very quickly, but afterwards will take way longer to get that perfect fysique.
/r/seduction07/06/24 05:26 PM
2

No! Never
/r/seduction03/06/24 07:33 AM
-7

It kinda contradicts what you wrote in your post tho
/r/seduction01/06/24 10:35 PM
6

You don’t need eye contact
/r/seduction01/06/24 09:55 AM
-1

1. No Posts about Specific Situations or People This sub-reddit is focused on broader concepts, not specific situations.
/r/seduction29/05/24 10:25 AM
6

Hey, what are you up to tonight? :)
/r/seduction26/05/24 06:51 PM
3

Anything less than a “hell yes” means to focus on other women. I don’t mind if a girl is timid. You might not want that, but don’t advise something based on personal taste.
/r/seduction26/05/24 03:47 PM
2

Then delete this post plz
/r/seduction26/05/24 03:45 PM
1

Depends. Prolonged eye contact can be sexy, but it can also be creepy. It depends on if you have chill eyes and if you’re able to hold frame. Eye contact can feel very uncomfortable for people on the spectrum, so I’d advice to try to hold eye contact with anyone. Even the people passing you by on the streets, because then you’ll notice neurotypical people looking away also. Realising this will give you the confidence boost you’ll need. If that’s still too difficult, you can always start practici…
/r/seduction25/05/24 04:15 PM
1

It's not that your current pictures are bad. It's that even better pictures will result more willingness, less shit tests, on her side.
/r/seduction25/05/24 08:07 AM
3

Try finding the right balance of cockiness, and have better pictures. Also patience.
/r/seduction25/05/24 07:15 AM
0

(I did not go for the kiss tho)
/r/seduction24/05/24 12:06 AM
1

If you add someone on Whatsapp, facebook will also suggest this person as a friend.
/r/seduction23/05/24 04:30 PM
3

There is no right answer. On one hand, you can hide it, but that is kinda disingenuous. Especially when women find out later there is already a #1. On the other hand, you can be open about it. But I wouln't put that shit on facebook for the world to see. I'd rather delete facebook, or make it like a skeleton profile.
/r/seduction23/05/24 04:29 PM
18

Don’t hide that shit. Just be upfront and find someone who won’t mind.
/r/seduction23/05/24 03:27 PM
0

👍🏻
/r/seduction22/05/24 02:06 AM
4

Same here. Don't apply logic to women. Just vibes. Keep approaching and eventually, when you gain enough contacts, the leaving them be part goes automatically!
/r/seduction21/05/24 10:32 AM
4

If you’re truly interested, wouldn’t you come with a date that works for you? As a man, obviously. You're either intrested or you're not. But you gotta understand that is not how women think. They are not on the objective like you are. Ofthen times, they don't really know what they want. So they just absorb your vibe instead, and see where things go. For now, she has told you she is saddend because she is occupied this weekend. So best you can do is show you're cool with her. No pressure, and th…
/r/seduction21/05/24 10:22 AM
4

Have you considered that, just maybe, she can’t next weekend and will let you know when she is free? And if she doesn’t, just wait like two weeks, actually just legit forget about her, and then text her something like: i can’t believe you never got back to me completely shocked
/r/seduction21/05/24 07:26 AM
9

Hinge banned me, and I swear I’ve done nothing wrong. They refuse to give you the reason why.
/r/seduction19/05/24 10:02 AM
2

Ok guys, we're in her room, both naked, I'm fully erect and she is shouting at me: "Can you please penetrate my vagina with your penis ffs!" What should I do? I think she is in to me but idk how to make a move.
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:30 PM
1

Yeah this is bs. I just wait a week or two and send her: I can't believe you never got back to me Completely shocked or something like that
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:22 PM
21

Ok so next up, last sunday I was with a date and dropped a line I read here: "you're not the type I usually go for" and it drove her nuts when I remained ambigous. Homerun shortly after. But what are other things that one can say or do to her to give this vibe. Because it's definitly something like a balancing act.
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:15 PM
2

The other day I was walking with a KFC bucket, 20 hotwings on wednesday= €10.-, when I stopped and told two girls passing by "Damn, I thought this chicken was tasty, but then I saw you two!". Crashed like a mf, but still.
/r/seduction13/05/24 07:29 PM
1

You might have missed the memo, but sex is also something private. I definitly wouldn't like it if someone would share details about my genitals with redditors.
/r/seduction13/05/24 07:25 PM
1

Lol. Have you considered the sex wasn't that note worthy? You sound like you are dissapointed because the post didn't satifsy some pervy needs.
/r/seduction13/05/24 06:08 PM
3

That’s f’ng bs. Because writing out how you went from kissing to fingering to sex would be cringe af and not important for this subreddit. So instead you just write you did it, and that’s it. I dare you to find a post on this subreddit that goes into detail about the private physical. Because yes, I’ve once thought about adding that, but the immediate conclusion is that it would be cringe so I wrote “and then we had sex”
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:38 AM
4

Is this conclusion soley based on the assumption that no one would ever use that line? Because in that case you should hear the shit I say sometimes.
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:34 AM
3

So how do you break ice?
/r/seduction07/05/24 10:47 AM
1

Luckly your behaviour is prestine. Really adding to the vibe here /s
/r/seduction03/05/24 10:17 PM
-1

Wtf are you doing on this subreddit if you don't want to seduce women?
/r/seduction03/05/24 08:41 PM
-1

Get a load of this black pill dork
/r/seduction03/05/24 03:10 PM
53

You need that abundance mindset. It'll be like a exponantial curve: too many options make you forget about some, you forgetting about some makes them come to you.
/r/seduction03/05/24 11:12 AM
11

Thank you!
/r/seduction03/05/24 09:02 AM
-6

I try to hold the opposite mindset. I really want them to live their bast life, and their best life should include me. I am not asking for their attention. I am rewarding them with mine!
/r/seduction03/05/24 08:53 AM
61

A men's way of thinking. You like a person, or you don't. Very binary. Women on the other hand can have all kinds of reasons to pull back. Maily to assess who you are, and how you handle yourself in such a situation. If you panic in such a case, it means you're not stable enough. Women after all have more to worry about when dating. The answer is to not go and chase her. Chasing shows you don't have other options, which raises the question if women can even be comfortable with you. Just pull bac…
/r/seduction03/05/24 08:51 AM
5

lolwut, how?
/r/seduction02/05/24 08:05 PM
2

dirty sexy freaky freak
/r/seduction02/05/24 08:04 PM
2

At least ChatGpt lets us understand each other
/r/seduction02/05/24 08:03 PM
-1

Yeah the west is in decline, and will perish, due to too much freedom and equality, unless we can get back to our roots and get behind a strong leader that doesn't scare away of the survival of the strongest yada yada yada. Are you even having fun in life?
/r/seduction02/05/24 08:02 PM
2

Who of the two isn't playing around? Like maybe you can give me an example of a situation and how both would handle it differently.
/r/seduction02/05/24 02:04 PM
4

What is the exact difference between a good guy and a fuck boy?
/r/seduction02/05/24 01:17 PM
7

I don't think an actual guy that is good would not come here asking if he should stop being good, because that wouldn't be good. It is however definitly something that a "good guy" would do.
/r/seduction02/05/24 01:02 PM
-1

It says: I have yet to mature
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:56 AM
3

Quite imaginable someone stating their age with a feeling of sadness. Happens all the time.
/r/seduction02/05/24 01:01 AM
3

This. And if she is bothered by it, just be like: why? What is the problem? zzz.
/r/seduction01/05/24 07:52 PM
-6

Kinda sad tho.
/r/seduction01/05/24 07:48 PM
5

girls who ask me about my age and when I give them the answer they freeze out and I loose them. Yeah. I can still see age being used as a shit test. But that would look different than the situation above.
/r/seduction01/05/24 07:47 PM
15

Just tell her the Holy Prophet Mohammed (SAW) took Aisha's virginity when he was like 50 and she was 9. Then ask her if she is an Islamophobe. Works every time. edit: just to be sure, don't actually use this
/r/seduction01/05/24 07:40 PM
3

Let her hump your knee a bit. It really gets them going.
/r/seduction26/04/24 11:50 AM
9

You did put your knee inbetween her legs when making out? If that doesn't work, idk man. If she is solid girlfriend material, just roll with it and see where it leads.
/r/seduction25/04/24 11:52 PM
1

👍🏻
/r/seduction24/04/24 03:13 PM
22

You can always keep this rule of thumb: take initiative once or twice, until the other takes initiative. He took initiative the last time. So you can do the next one or two.
/r/seduction21/04/24 07:50 PM
2

She complains about everything
/r/seduction19/04/24 11:12 PM
16

“You bestow the moral guardianship upon women. Yet there’s none!”
/r/seduction18/04/24 03:48 PM
1

your dick might get soft. aint nothing to stress about. just let your hands pleasure her some, kiss her a bit and you'll be all stiff again. the basics will come naturaly. it's instinctive.
/r/seduction17/04/24 08:53 PM
1

Nah, thats just called autism.
/r/seduction16/04/24 02:45 PM
19

Goffman describes the theatrical performances that occur in face-to-face interactions.[40] He holds that when someone comes in contact with another person, he attempts to control or guide the impression the other person will form of him, by altering his own setting, appearance and manner. At the same time, the second person attempts to form an impression of, and obtain information about, the first person.[41] Goffman also believes that participants in social interactions engage in certain practi…
/r/seduction14/04/24 01:36 PM
0

It's a low bar to give a number over that
/r/seduction01/04/24 08:45 PM
1

I don't know why you would hope for that if all we know is that he made her feel flustered with his stare.
/r/seduction01/04/24 07:46 AM
14

I'd say you'd see a difference after a month or two. But that also might be due to muscle memory.
/r/seduction31/03/24 04:42 PM
2

Would you have an answer to that question or no?
/r/seduction27/03/24 07:25 PM
2

What qualities do American women lack
/r/seduction27/03/24 06:32 PM
0

what is it about?
/r/seduction27/03/24 05:46 PM
2

It’s not a paradox. You just have to show her your interest in someone to have fun with while having other options too.. instead of showing her your interest in someone that will prevent you from being lonely and miserable, and her being your only hope because you’re afraid no one else will choose you.
/r/seduction27/03/24 12:48 PM
1

This is bs. In developing countries, you may have an easier market. But the reason you aren’t able to get loyal women at home, without being seen as a ticket out of poverty, is a total skill issue.
/r/seduction27/03/24 12:33 PM
2

The urge to text her something, to let her know you’re thinking about her and asking for some attention, is a solid way to make her lose attraction. So make sure to only text her to set up a date or when she is asking for attention.
/r/seduction27/03/24 10:24 AM
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The reason she is not intrested in you, is because you're too interested in her. It's a paradox. Only way to win is not to play. Getting other women intrested in you is a solid way to lose this futile urge.
/r/seduction26/03/24 09:02 PM
1

It has something to do with playing hard to get, but I’m still in the same boat as you
/r/seduction25/03/24 01:27 PM
2

Physical compliments have the chance of offending women, especially with the feminist influenced women of today. Sounds like you’ve told someone they’ve got nice jugs
/r/seduction25/03/24 08:35 AM
2

For me it is.
/r/seduction18/03/24 09:56 PM
19

31 here. I skip women on the dating apps that look too old for my taste. Only then I notice they are younger than me 💀
/r/seduction18/03/24 04:30 PM
1

Wtf does this even mean
/r/seduction14/03/24 06:23 AM
4

The girls you take to places where you won’t run into anyone you know
/r/seduction13/03/24 04:48 PM
2

It’s where attraction goes to die
/r/seduction13/03/24 04:46 PM
3

I never ask for numbers. I always give mine. Preferably after establishing you’ll be meeting irl.
/r/seduction13/03/24 04:38 PM
2

Yeah, she is entirely right because you're not in the youth league and she is.
/r/seduction12/03/24 09:26 AM
3

Yeah. I’m going home rn from a great bootycall that developed from a fun, hot and engaging conversation I had on bumble. What’s the problem?
/r/seduction05/03/24 11:16 PM
4

Hello, human resources?!
/r/seduction04/03/24 07:46 AM
18

They want honesty but also mystery. They want playfulness but also maturity. They want someone bold but also someone gentle. They want someone wanted by others, but don’t want competition. They want someone tough, but also someone emotional. It’s 0% logic. it’s 100% intuition.
/r/seduction26/02/24 06:09 PM
2

Hmm not really. As long as you apologise when being accused of inappropriate behaviour, it’s ok. The people that get cancelled are the ones to double down.
/r/seduction21/02/24 11:37 AM
3

I always wake up horny af. It makes me thirst for women. That’s not good. Let a wank be the cure.
/r/seduction19/02/24 10:05 AM
17

Yeah, I’ve seen many people start as a shy waiter to eventually become a confident or even cocky waiter
/r/seduction17/02/24 07:33 AM
2

The dates I feel like cancelling, always turn out the best
/r/seduction11/02/24 08:51 AM
1

Sure thing. But you can’t deny being approached by a woman always beats approaching that same woman.
/r/seduction08/02/24 05:08 PM
2

If the seduction advice here is rubbish, at least now I know how to cultivate watermelons.
/r/seduction08/02/24 03:43 PM
6

Or if they think you are someone else. Had this absolute 10/10 baddie walk up to me, all excited talking to me in Greek. I was just like “nai, nai” (“yes, yes”) being happy I caught especially her eye. Yeah, she thought I was some Greek bloke she knew.
/r/seduction08/02/24 03:39 PM
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...then we started fucking
/r/seduction07/02/24 01:11 PM
2

No worries bro. I get the misunderstanding!
/r/seduction07/02/24 12:38 PM
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Read before you comment. Jfc
/r/seduction07/02/24 12:19 PM
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Don’t worry bro. The dating apps got you covered. They’ll delete any picture containing firearms or replicas you’ll upload. That way you won’t make anyone feel unsafe, which is the opposite of what you wanna achieve!
/r/seduction07/02/24 10:07 AM
1

Ehhhh?
/r/seduction07/02/24 09:30 AM
2

Bro got too much autism
/r/seduction07/02/24 09:22 AM
0

It does say the charges were dropped.
/r/seduction07/02/24 09:16 AM
12

Yeah I was at the top of my game too, playing chess with grandmasters. But now it became so boring, that challenges for me became playing against elementary school children.
/r/seduction07/02/24 09:11 AM
46

I got bullshitted so hard two nights ago. Beforehand we were dryhumping on the dancefloor and beach. I walked her home and ended up in her bedroom. All of the sudden she is insisting I should leave while hiding herself under the blanket. Like wtf, but ok, your loss. I put back my shoes and coat. About to step trough the door when she pops her head out of the blankets and gives me that look. Then we started fucking. Like how typical can a shit test get?
/r/seduction07/02/24 08:59 AM
2

I don't know about Tinder gold. All I know is that it does not matter who you give your likes to. To the algoritm it matters how many likes you get.
/r/seduction04/02/24 08:53 AM
1

which day isn't? This is a grumpy mindset. Not a having fun mindset.
/r/seduction03/02/24 06:51 PM
1

Nah. It’s about what percentage likes you.
/r/seduction03/02/24 02:50 PM
6

It’s surprise her by taking her out to dinner or some shit. It won’t be a grand gesture that can scare her away and at the same time it shows assertiveness if you’re able to reservate a table.
/r/seduction03/02/24 09:24 AM
7

I got tinder premium for the unlimeted likes. Pair that with the browser app and OP Autoklicker 3.0 and the whole city gets a like once or before I arrive. It can take an hour or more, so I let my laptop do its thing while I go out or something. That way you don't have to spend time and energy in swiping. Some people are against liking everyone, but here is the thing: you don't have to have sex with the to you unatractive people you match. You don't. So it does not really matter if you see the u…
/r/seduction02/02/24 08:16 AM
7

Get smooth like a dolphin
/r/seduction31/01/24 11:54 AM
10

I was looking for this. Like i know cinema is a horrid idea, but a restaurant should be fine. People out here overthinking.
/r/seduction30/01/24 06:36 AM
12

That’s how all words once started.
/r/seduction30/01/24 06:32 AM
2

the cure is to become a sigma male
/r/seduction27/01/24 04:52 PM
4

in what context did they reject you and what are some of the reasons they have given?
/r/seduction26/12/23 05:42 PM
6

If they make money off you being lonely and pathetic, do you really think they'd train you out of their market? Yes, because no one would pay for shit if their product didn't work in the first place. With your logic any remedy for whatever, cloathes against the cold, medicine against sickness, wouldn't be for sale anywhere.
/r/seduction01/09/23 11:54 AM
11

Your point is that you have to get lucky and just meet someone that finds you attractive. I get that. Yet it's not true that anyone will never control a situation. You still have to find confidence. This PUA-shit has helped a lot of people doing that.
/r/seduction01/09/23 11:46 AM
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