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33

Dude just, no. Don’t fuck a married woman. And you don’t fuck your boss. Are you actually a fucking idiot to try to sleep with your boss who’s a married woman? Jesus Christ dude, this is stupid as fuck.
/r/seduction22/07/26 12:35 AM
2

I'm not sure being called a rapist is teasing.
/r/seduction06/07/26 03:31 AM
12

It's a book. Literally called Attachment Styles.
/r/seduction04/07/26 10:49 AM
-3

If it keeps happening, then it's definitely something you're doing. Women aren't just mean to be mean unless you are doing something unattractive. This can come in the form of bad/poor hygiene, you dress like shit, poor/non-existent grooming, etc. Like I know dudes who throw on their favorite band shirt and trip pants but just look totally unapproachable - or they haven't updated their wardrobe since high school and look sloppy. Beyond that it's general friendliness. Are you smiling? Stories to …
/r/seduction29/06/26 06:16 PM
30

Your friend broke bro code. He should be acting like a wing man not potential competition. It fucks with your frame and you get in your head. Lay down the expectation for him or stop hanging out. It's not cool at all what he's doing.
/r/seduction27/06/26 06:58 PM
21

Full on butt cheek drop? Quite the strat.
/r/seduction26/06/26 06:52 PM
1

Nothing good comes from knowing her body count. I never ask.
/r/seduction18/06/26 08:44 PM
3

It wouldn't surprise me if you're friend zoned soon. Don't put expectations on it but if you don't fuck by the 3rd date, I would probably move on. Candidly I think it's trashy for women to tell me about dudes they're hooking up with if we're being romantic but that's just me.
/r/seduction18/06/26 02:54 PM
1

She is the one who told me to call her lol and then freaked out after her boyfriend/husband tripped out when I started talking to her about AI. We don't even live in the same state.
/r/seduction14/06/26 03:00 PM
1

Yeah that's probably the move.
/r/seduction14/06/26 02:59 PM
7

Talk to them next time? That's probably the very first step you should do besides having other men tell you the obvious.
/r/seduction07/06/26 12:28 AM
16

Oh fuck off with your AI slop bullshit dude. This is so weird to make up a story on.
/r/seduction04/06/26 01:34 AM
2

Not with that attitude. Don't even need to read the self pity post.
/r/seduction03/06/26 12:48 AM
40

Why don't you set this boundary with your friend instead of acting insecure with your girlfriend?
/r/seduction01/06/26 10:50 PM
1

Naw. It just means you're operating at 2 different speeds. From my experience it's better to be honest about your intentions. Best move IMO is the next time you start kissing and turning each other on and if she pulls back, that's when you leave. I'll tell a woman "listen I enjoy your company but I want to fuck. We're still feeling each other out. If that doesn't work for you, I'm going to leave" You can definitely say it smoother I'm just really direct about it. Its just better not to waste eac…
/r/seduction29/05/26 10:38 PM
1

I'd try to not romanticize a future not earned. It's really difficult to snap yourself out of these jams when you've effectively love bombed a fantasy marriage with this woman you barely know. It's very difficult to mentally acclimate when that happens. As much as it sucks, I would try to detach yourself emotionally by not over investing in a future together.
/r/seduction27/05/26 09:19 PM
30

First time I had a threesome I was at a college party playing beer pong. Lots of drugs. There was some back and forth with cops getting called because the party got too rowdy and the host talking the cops out of arresting drunk kids. Me and one chic went to bang who was pretty slutty. After we banged, I went into the living room where my best friend was getting eaten out by a chic. It was a whole spectacle with everyone watching them. The chic that was tongue blasting my friend happened to also …
/r/seduction25/05/26 05:49 PM
47

I've had 3 threesomes in college. Overrated IMO.
/r/seduction25/05/26 08:32 AM
11

For me it's when I see her laughing. When I'm whispering in her ear and she doesn't move back. When I'm touching the inside of her thigh where I'm resting my hand or she has her hands on me. Usually you just know and it's usually when I feel relaxed. I think the fastest kiss close I had with someone I hadn't met was talking on the phone for an hour before our meet up and then kissing her as soon as I saw her in person the first time while we were going for a hug. I feel like a big aspect of thes…
/r/seduction22/05/26 04:59 PM
-1

I'm not suggesting it isn't good to self-reflect. What I'm saying is that it's not productive to be moupy around your lack of conversational skills. Go get therapy if it's fucking you up that much but it doesn't help to dwell on these things. The truth is nobody cares about your trauma except you. We're all fucked up. We all have a story. We started off terrible with women. Life goes on. Like you can't bitch about sucking at conversation and then you're not actually doing anything to improve con…
/r/seduction22/05/26 12:49 PM
-1

At some point you will need to stop blaming your parents for who you are today. Not knowing how to hold a conversation isn't your dad's fault, it's yours ultimately. Do interesting things and share about your life. Best way is just to engage with people daily. But all this talk about how your parents fucked you up, welcome to the club.
/r/seduction22/05/26 12:25 PM
5

Well you can't get her pregnant busting in her mouth. One act naturally carries more risk.
/r/seduction21/05/26 01:42 PM
488

Bro do it now before you regret it forever.
/r/seduction19/05/26 09:27 PM
3

That's just everywhere bro. Fatties be farting and fatting. Gotta deal with it.
/r/seduction13/05/26 10:32 PM
5

Fuck off scammer.
/r/seduction12/05/26 12:06 PM
29

Literally just approaching sets you up to be in the top 1% of men. It's about simple as it is nerve wrecking the first time you do it.
/r/seduction11/05/26 09:49 PM
9

She's using you because the attention feels nice to her. The second you stop showing her attention and start acting disinterested she'll either: 1) Move on 2) Will attempt to escalate Don't communicate it with her though. Don't tell her any reasons. Don't even text her. Don't justify her behavior or reward bad behavior by showing attention. Assume you're wasting your time pursuing her.
/r/seduction11/05/26 06:28 PM
6

Stop being a pussy and ask her out dude. This passive romantisicizing is unhealthy and a waste of your mental energy. Grab your nuts the next time you see her, even if she's with friends/co-workers/dudes and strike up a conversation. Just accept that women of beauty and value will always have people around them. That's just how it is. It literally doesn't matter what you say. I'd say something like "hey I've got to jet here in a minute but I see you everywhere. I'd love to take you out - if you'…
/r/seduction11/05/26 12:05 PM
22

You never stop approaching. Always Be Approaching.
/r/seduction10/05/26 02:06 AM
5

What the fuck are you talking about.
/r/seduction09/05/26 02:53 AM
0

You literally have made multiple posts that you say yourself that "you are ugly". It's literally all of your recent post history. I genuinely do not need to "see" you to understand you are insecure. Additionally judging by how you're dressing in one of the photos, you lack a fashion sense. Further, I am NOT saying you're not putting effort into your body. What I AM saying is you're not putting effort into your style and fashion. You can argue with me all day but if you're sexless, that language …
/r/seduction06/05/26 01:40 AM
-1

If you wouldn't fuck you, then why expect a woman to? Genuinely serious. You don't seem like you're putting much effort into your style or outfit or even your body. I know it's unfair but if you don't have a lot of money or a big dick, what else genuinely were you bringing to the table? Modern dating unfortunately requires more effort. You can still get laid but you will get laid far less than if you put in the work. I know men on this sub will try to flip the narrative for outliers but if your …
/r/seduction06/05/26 12:51 AM
2

Why else categorize it as sexual assault? The implication has severe consequences as a man that could result in jail time, loss of employment, and a host of penalties that could destroy his life. The fact you don't even know is frankly concerning. You didn't communicate it with him, how could he know? This is destructive.
/r/seduction04/05/26 08:12 PM
9

I'm sorry but this isn't SA. As the previous comment stated, the person you consensually allowed to have sex with you is not a mind reader. If you could not communicate "no" or "stop", how was he supposed to know? This is a very serious accusation that has extreme consequences. You're allowed to say "this was uncomfortable for me, do not do this again" - those are your boundaries. And if he continues after you say "no" then that's an entirely different argument. But saying this was SA literally …
/r/seduction04/05/26 08:10 PM
3

Man you're overthinking the fuck out of a conversation with a woman you haven't even met. Candidly the conversation was weak and you're jumping to a ton of conclusions about her when you don't know anything about her. You actively said she's boring, so you're forcing conversation with someone you already have friction with and doesn't compliment your communication style. You're 20 years older than her. Stop being a pussy and qualify her into a date or move on. You're acting like Nashville women …
/r/seduction03/05/26 04:05 PM
2

Should've just asked her out as soon as you brought up the date on day 1. Frankly the messaging is really dry and around day 4 you went on too long with this boring ass conversation. Saying you drive like a grandma lowers your value because it's such an odd thing to say to a woman. Next steps are just to make the move, ask her out and stop acting so passive. But candidly this conversation was so vanilla that I think she'd ghost even if she agrees. Have a location in mind. Ask - "for our date I w…
/r/seduction03/05/26 03:01 PM
142

Jesus dude get off reddit for starters. Look at your post history, motherfucker get out of the house for starters. What's the point of asking the same variation of the same fucking question if you're not going to apply the advice. This subreddit has years of content, read.
/r/seduction02/05/26 04:53 AM
12

Movies are a horrible first date because you're literally just sitting there for 2 hours not talking. That's some high school virgin shit. First dates should involve moving and fun. Go somewhere interesting. Bars are the easiest but you can also grab coffee, grab lunch, go to a museum, go to a park, get bobo tea, go dancing, go to the arcade, go to the hookah bar, use your imagination. Personally I find a location that has a lot going on and I turn that into a routine. The key concept is just to…
/r/seduction01/05/26 10:50 AM
7

Then don't worry about attracting this other woman, especially not a co-worker.
/r/seduction29/04/26 01:50 PM
15

I'm not going to help you cheat, grab your nuts and break up with your girl. Don't be a dildo about it. That's low value.
/r/seduction29/04/26 01:38 PM
12

I personally don't believe in dinner, especially fancy dinners, is the move anywhere. It's not practical to go out and do this weekly nor is it economical. That's just being bad with money. Personally, if your lifestyle isn't about eating fancy dinners on the daily, then you shouldn't frame the date like that. Fancy dinners are reserved for girlfriends not strangers.
/r/seduction27/04/26 10:31 PM
52

How does that mindset help you get laid?
/r/seduction27/04/26 09:42 PM
1

Yeah dude just have fun with them when you go out. Even indirectly they boost your status. Don't think about it too hard.
/r/seduction25/04/26 11:46 PM
11

It'll get weird if you try to sleep with them and it doesn't work out. If you play the longer game and befriend them, you can leverage pre-selection when picking up women going out. It's 10X easier.
/r/seduction24/04/26 09:50 PM
19

Use them as an amplifier as a wing woman and you'll be drowning in puss.
/r/seduction24/04/26 08:04 PM
6

No... Neediness is based on insecurity. Like if you feel compelled to message/call her, you orient your time around her unbalanced, you're seeking her approval, you need validation she likes you or doesn't like someone else. Neediness is a hugely unattractive trait. It's not literally about asking for something.
/r/seduction24/04/26 02:59 PM
3

That's you being able to read the signs. You should have enough calibration to know when a kiss will be received well.
/r/seduction21/04/26 09:43 PM
5

What is this? I think you have a misunderstanding of PUA and seduction if you think men are going into these encounters twirling our bad guy mustaches. There are lots of reasons a man may put they want a LTR but still have one night stands. It takes TIME to build a relationship. And men can absolutely go into an encounter with the intention and desire to get into a relationship but there are things that may happen in-between those moments where a man may change his mind. Same thing for women, to…
/r/seduction20/04/26 03:45 AM
25

Bro I've fucked in my car, in an actual field, on a truck bed, at parties in other people's beds, fucked in my girlfriend's parents bed, planned a stay to fuck at my house when my parents went away. If there's a will there's a way. I say this when I was broke as shit, too and was younger than you when I did it. And living on your own -> get roommates if the problem is bad enough.
/r/seduction20/04/26 12:40 AM
13

What the fuck is this? What a useless post.
/r/seduction19/04/26 01:50 AM
1

My toxic trait is I won't even acknowledge a 5 exists, so I wouldn't be approaching them. I mainly get annoyed when I see women over 36 with kids coming in with all these demands, just delusional, and I'm like fuck that noise. It's true though, the delusion doesn't magically change much from ugly to hot, so go with what you want.
/r/seduction18/04/26 09:53 PM
2

Move on. You're romanticizing the fantasy of this woman and have created delusions of a future in your head. Let it go. This is your price by allowing religion to set the rules and conditions for love. So either accept it or be proactive and move to the city to be with this woman.
/r/seduction17/04/26 03:04 PM
2

I mean go fuck cougars and milfs. If you have a baby face, compensate by being shredded if you can't grow a beard. There's also a thing called peacocking - so dress with intention. Mystery and Neil Strauss have an entire discussion on it.
/r/seduction17/04/26 04:58 AM
2

You sound insecure TBH.
/r/seduction16/04/26 11:38 AM
4

For me the best results come from just absolute hard boundaries and rules I set for myself. Only match with women with bios. Won't fuck with women with 2 or more kids. Instant delete if they mention alternative socials. No obvious thot photos. From there the screening comes down to how much effort they put into their profile. And then from there it's a toss up. If dating starts to feel dry or unrewarding, I'll delete the apps and start fresh in a few months.
/r/seduction16/04/26 02:32 AM
7

TBH if your husband wasn't attracted to you, he wouldn't have sex with you, much less ask you to be on top. Nothing anyone will say will make you feel better, so hit the gym or get active until you get over your mental blocker.
/r/seduction16/04/26 12:17 AM
17

What a weird post dude.
/r/seduction15/04/26 12:15 AM
1

Lol you deleted your comment, so I guess you don't really believe what you say anyway.
/r/seduction13/04/26 12:26 AM
1

Thanks captain morality for your monologue in a seduction subreddit. Gee, so insightful.
/r/seduction12/04/26 10:53 PM
5

I did meet up at a bar lol, we literally kissed at the bar, multiple times. Logistics fucked me up because it was close to like 15-18 minutes back to her place + grabbing snacks so the momentum was stunted.
/r/seduction12/04/26 07:46 PM
5

Hinge.
/r/seduction12/04/26 06:55 PM
11

We both took separate cars as we both drove. Logistically where I live the nearest 'good' bar is 15 minutes away from me.
/r/seduction12/04/26 06:30 PM
6

Holy shit my dude, way too defensive. I think I'm starting to understand why you can't get women. Dude was joking.
/r/seduction11/04/26 10:31 PM
2

I'm gonna call bullshit on that. Cigarettes are usually not associated with masculine traits, it's actually the opposite. I don't think I've ever heard any woman, ever, be like "oh he's so hot because of his cigarette". Come on.
/r/seduction06/04/26 09:16 PM
24

Be attractive. Don't be unattractive.
/r/seduction06/04/26 02:07 PM
2

Grow a beard and then it won't matter.
/r/seduction03/04/26 01:00 AM
4

You shouldn't drive either because you could get into an accident. If you go to restaurants you could get food poisoning. Life is filled with all sorts of conundrums that we have to figure through.
/r/seduction31/03/26 11:25 PM
31

What the fuck do you expect man? You know the truth dude. You're not bagging baddies without bankrolling a certain lifestyle. If that doesn't work, go to thailand for a buffet.
/r/seduction30/03/26 07:45 PM
2

I physically can't have sex with ugly women. So outside of denying myself pleasures, the experience trade-off isn't worth it. Not trying to be snobby but I can't bring myself to have sausage fingers anywhere near me.
/r/seduction29/03/26 06:12 PM
1

Candidly, factoring in the Uber or driving them in your car the real concern obviously starts becoming about safety more than logistics. I remember one time I pulled a girl from the bar but I lived like 30 minutes away and she understandably was anxious and it definitely killed the vibe. Then you're also bringing older roommates into the conversation past their 30s and it's just a bit much. I'd expect 30 year olds to have their own place, especially as a man it's weird honestly. It's just a whol…
/r/seduction28/03/26 11:40 PM
53

Stop being a pussy and let it go man. Grab your nuts and self respect and stop trying to talk to her.
/r/seduction27/03/26 09:40 PM
-1

Honestly bro you better be cool having money and being in shape cause that's how they're going to fuck with you. It's really not rocket science.
/r/seduction21/03/26 06:54 PM
1

You're ironically not being honest though. It's not congruent with your behaviors. Like I've literally been mid-makeout with a woman who turned me down when I wanted sex, so I stopped everything and told her she needed to go then and magically she wanted to bang. Funny how that works. You don't need to telegraph your intentions by stating "I'm not into serious relationships" and then trying to be a nice guy about boundaries you artificially don't have. Your boundary = expectation. You didn't con…
/r/seduction04/03/26 02:02 PM
8

I mean that's on you for failing to act. You wanted to fuck but didn't and now you're mad someone else took the initiative.
/r/seduction04/03/26 01:44 PM
-8

Shhhh. It's okay
/r/seduction22/01/26 11:05 PM
-3

Shut up
/r/seduction22/01/26 09:22 PM
1

Go all DENNIS method on her.
/r/seduction08/01/26 08:35 PM
101

Stop eating like shit? Go see a doctor if you're shitting so much during dates man.
/r/seduction08/01/26 02:55 PM
2

The more attractive she finds you, the less it matters at all what you say. Being honest, if your game is so bad that you can't think for yourself for your own opening line, you've already lost.
/r/seduction23/12/25 09:57 AM
2

Apologizing without actually being sorry. Super beta behavior.
/r/seduction19/12/25 01:50 AM
285

This is how people get fired from work. The fact you're asking a sub for permission to get laid shows you're not going to get laid regardless. Focus on the money, take your dick out of your hands.
/r/seduction14/12/25 07:59 PM
0

Get better game or make more money.
/r/seduction13/12/25 12:32 AM
3

You're an actual idiot if you do this.
/r/seduction30/10/25 01:47 AM
1

I mean, one of your posts is that you’re 28 and it’s been years since you’ve had physical touch. Personally, I think it’s a mistake to compare the situations of others and correlate assumptions of their success as evidence for anything. I also know anecdotal experiences of knowing couples who were friends before dating but their situation was different from mine. If these people met during college or at a party or knew the same friends, that’s different than trying to meet a woman off the street…
/r/seduction24/09/25 12:57 AM
52

Don’t put false hope into OP. Once you’re friendzoned, you have to distance yourself for a long long while. Whatever you do should be in service for yourself, not for trying to make this girl your girlfriend.
/r/seduction23/09/25 09:58 PM
29

Send a pic of “your new puppy” and reengage.
/r/seduction08/09/25 07:39 PM
4

You put yourself more into situations where you interact more with women. There’s not a secret to it, you just put in the reps and it becomes more natural.
/r/seduction08/09/25 02:07 AM
3

Do more.
/r/seduction08/09/25 02:01 AM
17

“Ex girlfriend”
/r/seduction04/09/25 02:37 AM
42

Women claim they want vulnerability but none of them have the emotional threshold to tolerate a man who actually tries to be vulnerable. Classic case of never listen to what women tell you what they want vs what they actually respond to.
/r/seduction04/09/25 12:35 AM
1

Don’t even waste my time. I’m shallow. Can’t force attraction.
/r/seduction02/09/25 01:56 PM
11

I don’t really give a fuck bro. I’m not the one here trying to validate myself to other dudes about who I’m banging. But sure.
/r/seduction28/08/25 05:20 AM
14

lol I’m calling bullshit. That broad does not text like she passed high school but whatever man, it’s your life.
/r/seduction28/08/25 05:17 AM
56

I hate the way you both text. Your game works with party girls that like drama and naturally have low self-esteem. You get blown out of the water with any moderately educated woman. This is stupid.
/r/seduction28/08/25 05:08 AM
367

Yeah I was with it until: “Half a drink in, she whispered: “I don’t know if I should invite you home.” I smirked: “You shouldn’t. I’m a bad idea.” She grinned, we downed our glasses, and ten minutes later we were at her place.” Then it’s like, dude really is trying to look cool in front of internet strangers and lost me.
/r/seduction27/08/25 10:18 PM
5

I fucked an ex stripper. I’m good never doing it again. Beauty is paper thin.
/r/seduction23/08/25 07:27 PM
4

It’s usually pretty obvious to me when a woman is ready to kiss. She’s usually giving a lot of IOIs throughout the date. I’m generally pretty certain a kiss will be received well but have been turned down in the past going against my judgement.
/r/seduction16/08/25 12:33 PM
15

lol why is mentioning your mom at the YMCA remotely relevant to picking up women?
/r/seduction11/08/25 09:19 PM
2

Do you text like you’re writing now because you sound like you’re uneducated as fuck, respectfully.
/r/seduction25/07/25 10:59 PM
4

The difference between men and women is that women often have multiples more options in being hit on and can be indifferent to outcomes. What you would consider semi serious is just another Tuesday for her because she gets way more male attention. Best advice is to just go cold and not react emotionally. Be indifferent about her and don’t get so attached to the outcome only a handful of dates in. Best move now is just to fuck off. Focus on someone/something else. Once I started to look at women …
/r/seduction18/07/25 12:05 PM
2

Fuck boys ask for socials, men get the digits. Play to your strengths, if your socials are weak it doesn’t help anyway. The point of getting the number is to have direct access to a date. Socials risk having you be a blur in a sea of hundreds of other dudes in her network.
/r/seduction13/07/25 11:43 AM
10

If you’re out of shape, eat like shit, don’t have much charisma — yeah, you probably should have money to offset the shit. If you’re in shape, decently charismatic, and eat well -> money is less relevant. It’s relative to where you are. Certain laws of attraction can’t be ignored. That said, you’re pretty fucked if you’re ugly, out of shape, and also broke. You wouldn’t fuck yourself at that point. Women certainly won’t pity fuck you unless your game is off the charts.
/r/seduction04/07/25 11:37 PM
8

You handled it like shit TBH. Those were super needy text messages.
/r/seduction28/06/25 01:32 PM
2

Hey bro, should I hug my girl or not? Does it make me gay if I eat pussy?
/r/seduction27/06/25 10:49 PM
186

$$$ Stability Older men have their shit together mostly. Younger dudes just look better.
/r/seduction26/06/25 03:21 PM
3

The statistical chance a woman gets pregnant without you busting inside them is nearly non-existent, especially with an IUD. You’re fine.
/r/seduction23/06/25 11:36 PM
-10

I mean, yeah — but I want to win them over with my stunning personality.
/r/seduction22/06/25 11:09 PM
1

That’s a good point. What I’ll probably do is A/B test to see the difference in interactions and see how much more noticeably I’m treated; maybe it’ll give me the necessary confidence boost to really take my dieting seriously.
/r/seduction22/06/25 11:07 PM
1

lol chill bro - it’s not that deep. No need to get aggro to give your advice.
/r/seduction22/06/25 11:02 PM
10

It’s just basic calculus. Passive people waiting for someone to approach them will have less relationships than someone more proactive around approaches. It’s not rocket science. If you go and sit alone at a bar, you’ll be approached by a handful of guys. You do not have control over which guys will hit on you. Therefore you will experience a state of gambling. Do you like gambling? Because that’s what this approach effectively is. Alternatively, if you approach 10 guys at a bar, you have approa…
/r/seduction21/06/25 03:07 PM
12

How exactly do you think you get into a relationship without meaningful numbers?
/r/seduction21/06/25 03:00 PM
16

Statistically women who approach partners experience significantly more meaningful relationships vs waiting passively for rando dudes to slide in your DMs.
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:47 PM
42

Yeah. This is what dudes have to put up with. For you though, your chances of finding a partner ‘you’ substantially increase with you being proactive. It’s much easier for women to pick up men than men to pick up women, even if you’re a plain Jane, it’s a very attractive trait in a woman. 3 dudes having girlfriends is like a single night. That’s nothing.
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:46 PM
1

For real bro. Dude is clowning.
/r/seduction20/06/25 01:12 AM
7

Villain origin story. That.
/r/seduction13/06/25 09:01 PM
1

Personally, I take my car and travel to new spots on weekends. Just go hiking. Do nature stuff in isolation or with your boys. Daily/weekend I personally ride my bike. Hit the trails or the road. But that’s just me. You need to find an outlet though to work off your anxiety. Walk a ton. Jog. Run. Listen to audiobooks to reflect.
/r/seduction13/06/25 03:57 PM
6

Man, this will suck for a long while. It’s going to hurt like hell. ‘All’ of your feelings are valid. That said, assume the relationship is dead. It’s over. Done. You logically will ‘never’ convince her to get back together. It’s finish. You are to never call/text/interact with her socials. None. Block everywhere. She’s dead to you. You are dead to her. She stays in the past. Workout. Go do manly things. Go hiking. Travel somewhere cool. Hang with bros. Go fuck women. Get some strange. Try to st…
/r/seduction13/06/25 03:38 AM
49

Maybe you’re gay bro.
/r/seduction09/06/25 11:48 PM
1

Yeah people like Tyler Durden made his entire persona into a cult. The advice back in the day was basically “be yourself, own your identity, don’t worry about opinions” but drifted heavily into scam bait now.
/r/seduction08/06/25 12:26 PM
2

Does this way of thinking help or hurt you, do you think? Does it actually change anything? Do you know Vern, one of the worlds smallest men in appeared in Austin Powers? Dude had a mega height deficiency and he married an absolute diamond of a woman. Height is supposed to be the thing we’re all judged on. You choose what your reality is.
/r/seduction08/06/25 01:40 AM
10

Put on your robe and wizard hat.
/r/seduction07/06/25 02:32 AM
1

Which religion is ‘super chill’ again, enlighten me.
/r/seduction05/06/25 02:22 PM
2

I don’t get why you’re resisting your natural urges. Saving yourself until marriage, why? What purpose does it serve? You’ve already banged dude. There’s no celibacy now. Sexual compatibility is a thing. Imagine waiting until you’re married to find out your libidos are completely out of sync or there’s something off with the chemistry. I’ve had sex with women where their natural musk completely turned me off or they completely gushed while we were banging and my bed would be completely soaked. I…
/r/seduction05/06/25 02:20 PM
6

Says more about your standards if you’re willing to repeatedly fuck a woman you’re not attracted to.
/r/seduction05/06/25 12:58 AM
23

Big giant paragraph of nothingness TBH. You said a lot without actually saying anything of substance. You’re posting in forever alone subs and then telling men how men should behave when you still don’t know what the fuck you’re looking for. The truth is, most women have a material fantasy of what they want in a man but what you’re attracted to is functionally not going to be logical. A man with access to things you want will contradict all of the fake rules you’ve just artificially summoned. In…
/r/seduction03/06/25 09:57 PM
1

She’s just trying to have a good time. Don’t catch feelings for this girl, try to cool off.
/r/seduction03/06/25 04:59 AM
12

The only thing autistic is that there are people utterly incapable of realizing that not everyone lives next to a fucking bar within walking distance.
/r/seduction02/06/25 10:30 PM
0

The closest one to my home requires, hold on, driving. I know. Fucking crazy, right? I have to DRIVE to go to the bar. Damn. Can’t walk. Because I don’t live next to a fucking bar donkey.
/r/seduction02/06/25 10:28 PM
42

This is tone deaf and stupid advice. Just up and move to a the most expensive part of a city for pussy, it’s that simple. God the fucking perplexingly dumb things I hear as advice. Do me a solid, Google the prices of apartments downtown in any major city right now. Do it in yours. Compare that against your rent. In a city of about 200K my rent OUTSIDE of downtown for a one bedroom is $1950 a month. I don’t live in an expensive state. IN downtown is closer to around $2600-$2800 a month. In cities…
/r/seduction02/06/25 10:25 PM
41

This assumes you live downtown in the city; if you live outside downtown, this advice is less relevant. Believe it or not, not everyone has access to the same amenities. Crazy concept.
/r/seduction02/06/25 10:17 PM
6

Why tho? To waste your money? Access to my wallet is a privilege not an entitlement. I would never reward misleading behavior.
/r/seduction29/05/25 07:25 PM
57

Never pay for time you didn’t enjoy. Fuck being polite. Only pay for yourself. 9/10 if they only face shots, don’t take the gamble. Very rarely do they match reality.
/r/seduction29/05/25 01:55 PM
3

1) I’m shallow. 2) It lowers their social value 3) It actively wastes everyone’s time 4) If I match and have to play detective, I waste ‘my’ time 5) I can’t force attraction that doesn’t exist
/r/seduction22/05/25 09:33 PM
14

You’re basing things from a generalized statement. Obviously more went down that night, it’s not black and white and I’m leaving out details. But yes, I expressed my desire of “I want to fuck, I’m not interested in coddling your feelings” as she was a random one night stand. You’re overthinking it. Sometimes it’s fine just to say it for what it is “this is just sex, nothing more”. I wasn’t trying to have a relationship with some girl I met that night, I just wanted to bang. Now if this was someo…
/r/seduction19/05/25 03:50 PM
1

Needy behavior is trying to convince a woman logically to change their mind. I stated what I wanted black and white. That’s my preference. You don’t have to agree with it nor was I seeking approval of my methods.
/r/seduction19/05/25 03:27 PM
66

So many men do things because they think it’s what women want and are afraid of causing any semblance of friction. If you know you want to go on a solo date and a woman insists on bringing her girlfriends with her, just say “no, I want to go on a date with you, not hang with your friends”. I apply this logic if I know I will be unoptimal in conversation after work, I don’t schedule dates after work even if that timing is more convenient for her. I had a date scheduled with a MILF but found out s…
/r/seduction19/05/25 01:16 PM
216

Be someone worth fucking TBH. Be more selfish with what you want, set boundaries for what isn’t acceptable, be a leader in conversation, have the woman turn her brain off and lead. Embrace your masculine side. These are inherently attractive traits. They are the opposite of neediness.
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:53 PM
12

God man some people are so fucking weird.
/r/seduction06/05/25 11:26 PM
1

So hypothetically speaking you fuck this broad and end up getting an incurable disease that sticks with you forever, do you think it’ll be worth it in a years time? I have a general rule about things like this, if you have to weigh ANY sort of pros and cons to a decision and it’s not an enthusiastic ‘fuck yes’, just have a blanket rule to say “no” then. In this case you’re trying to justify if it’s okay to fuck a chic with a disease that can spread. The risk far outweighs the pros here.
/r/seduction30/04/25 01:07 AM
1

Ok
/r/seduction23/04/25 03:39 AM
18

Don’t go in with the frame of trying to fuck. Go in with the frame of trying to have fun.
/r/seduction22/04/25 05:25 AM
-4

What are you 16? Why the mall over drinks?
/r/seduction22/04/25 02:48 AM
1

Sometimes I see a steak but decide to eat a hot pocket.
/r/seduction16/04/25 11:56 PM
6

Props dude. You gave me the confidence to try this challenge myself but just for myself.
/r/seduction13/04/25 03:29 AM
6

Yeah dude don’t be so unimaginative and lazy. You can’t hack your way to authentic romance if you can’t even think of the first few words on your own.
/r/seduction10/04/25 09:43 PM
33

Did you use ChatGPT to write your responses? That emdash is the biggest giveaway. ChatGPT has a very specific way it speaks and doesn’t always translate well for flirting. Read the other comments, you’re not as slick as you think. This isn’t an episode of South Park.
/r/seduction10/04/25 08:39 PM
1

“Hey”
/r/seduction09/04/25 01:02 AM
4

Online dating is cooked. It’ll just get 20x worse with AI back to the basics.
/r/seduction02/04/25 11:52 AM
4

You probably are already friendzoned if you didn’t make a move in 3 years.
/r/seduction15/03/25 02:10 PM
4

That’s most women TBH. Be a leader.
/r/seduction15/03/25 01:57 PM
2

The married woman I got involved with was dissatisfied over her husbands lack of ambition and got enamored by me when I was mentoring her during her job hunt. They were pretty well off and had a family together and everything.
/r/seduction15/03/25 01:44 PM
2

You lost me at “theoretical”.
/r/seduction07/03/25 01:35 PM
5

lol nobody is reading all of that.
/r/seduction07/03/25 01:27 PM
7

Only virgins care about upvotes.
/r/seduction26/02/25 03:28 PM
3

Those dashes are usually nice indicators you used AI to write your post. So not sure what’s more pathetic, the fact you don’t have an original thought or the fact you’re so obsessed with trying to earn the approval of strangers over upvotes. lol what a virgin.
/r/seduction26/02/25 03:18 PM
5

Why are you trying so hard to get validation from strangers bro? Shhhhh. It’s gonna be okay.
/r/seduction24/02/25 09:41 PM
7

You’re really giving off “the strangler” vibes. It’s really probably how you’re dressing dude and your body language regarding how you’re carrying yourself. Mystery is like a 6’6 guy who towers over women but dressed using peacock theory. Look him up and watch his videos to gain some idea of Style. I’d argue his approach of wearing something that contradicts what’s considered normally socially would have women approaching ‘you’ more. Doesn’t need to be only structured for bars. Beyond that, I’d …
/r/seduction22/02/25 01:25 PM
2

Not really. I bust a nut and still the same person.
/r/seduction20/02/25 05:09 PM
19

Wait why did the logistics go from picking her up at her place just to drive to yours to watch an episode of True Crime? What was the expectation? I would’ve left too because you couldn’t have done that at her place?
/r/seduction20/02/25 02:33 PM
29

Stop talking to her.
/r/seduction20/02/25 12:20 AM
2

Bro naw. Reading the context makes no sense. You were solicited into participating a threesome with another man from an ugly chic? I don’t get your point and what that has to do with the woman you’re trying to hook up with. You’re overthinking the fuck out of this and sound like you’re out of your element. For future reference: stick to the point because you sound incoherent.
/r/seduction17/02/25 09:07 PM
20

She was never ‘your’ girl if one rando man talking to her for a few minutes is enough to make her lose interest. Your question oozes with insecurity TBH. The second I have to start worrying about if ‘my’ girl is gonna cheat on me, I just don’t fuck with her.
/r/seduction17/02/25 08:17 PM
2

Don’t date right now bro. Take this time to enjoy being single and to figure out what matters to you. Not a race and there’s nothing wrong with you, it’s perfectly normal. Once you’re out of high school you’ll go through these emotions many many many times over.
/r/seduction13/02/25 11:33 PM
0

I am always against predatory high ticket sales/pick up coaches like this. He sells a service for $3500+, his entire point of this thread was to generate eyeballs to his content. That’s serious cash to drop on someone tossing out very basic and generic advice. Usually the men this targets are vulnerable and insecure with no guarantee for results. It’s always “you have to hold yourself accountable, no refunds if this doesn’t work out”. I don’t care if he’s a coach but the second I see someone who…
/r/seduction05/02/25 09:29 PM
3

It’s just weird that you’re married and still teaching pick up. I respect the need and desire to attract women but I don’t make it my entire identity. I like this sub for its balanced takes but I find your style generic and outdated, sorry if it offends you. I think charging $3500+ for insecure men is predatory and scummy. You do you but when do you decide to hang it up? Life is more than trying to get laid and you make it all your personality. I know this sub is about seducing women but I view …
/r/seduction05/02/25 09:06 PM
6

And you’re 45 selling pick up courses to insecure men, not sure what your point is. Shouldn’t you be getting your blood work and physicals done? You’re a bit old to be trying to make this as a career. Personally I think self anointed titles are lame.
/r/seduction05/02/25 08:59 PM
6

13 year old videos. $3500 tickets being sold to insecure Asian men. You’re 45. Well, good for you for at least having the receipts.
/r/seduction05/02/25 08:41 PM
4

Tell me, on your profile it shows you were featured on Harvard and Yale — show me the video or source where these universities offered you time to tell the world how to fuck women.
/r/seduction05/02/25 07:52 PM
15

lol 😂 your best friend wanted revenge sex? And you tell this story to get laid? Dont be a fuck boy.
/r/seduction05/02/25 07:38 PM
0

“Hi woman I fucked, can I interview you why you were stupid enough to fuck me?”
/r/seduction05/02/25 07:35 PM
3

Go move to a different environment that improves your odds then. Bigger cities have more opportunities.
/r/seduction27/01/25 07:38 AM
2

In what way? How would it consolidate your lack of success? It’s not like you’re exactly winning right now, unclear how this would hurt beyond gaining confidence and experience.
/r/seduction27/01/25 06:51 AM
7

You won’t fuck fat chics and you can’t get regular girls to fuck you, escorts effectively solve the problem you’re having.
/r/seduction27/01/25 06:12 AM
4

You’re way in your head right now just need to bust a nut. Honestly dude, just get a escort. Your wiring in your brain changes once you realize sex really can be transactional and it unshackles a lot of the pressure you feel over your anxieties and insecurities. Like it’s a mental frame you suddenly come into clarity. “I can fuck anytime I want, I don’t need you”. I literally do not care about getting laid because for about $300, I know getting laid is a certainty and you just completely detach …
/r/seduction27/01/25 06:11 AM
1

I say this sincerely, do not move to a completely different city just for puss. If that’s the case, grab a passport and go to Thailand or Dubai or some other country and have yourself a night out. Get hobbies that enable you to be attractive. I’d never move to a city exclusively just to get laid though.
/r/seduction23/01/25 03:21 AM
21

Women are the keepers of sex, men are the keepers of marriage. Or something to that effect. I doubt any dime has problem with proposals either.
/r/seduction19/01/25 04:57 AM
11

Absolutely neither. Bumble premium you get to swipe more but it means nothing if they don’t swipe back. And even if they do match, women still have to message first so it’s useless. I have the lifetime premium version of the app, they still want more money to get noticed. Pass. Tinder premium is also a scam because it exploits you to spend more for a potential to maybe get a higher chance at connecting.
/r/seduction14/01/25 04:41 PM
1

You should use Wingman to tell what to write to women because I know thinking for yourself is tough.
/r/seduction04/01/25 01:01 AM
2

Don’t give a fuck TBH.
/r/seduction03/01/25 10:41 PM
38

Feels like a shitty plug to go buy some shitty AI ChatGPT wrapper.
/r/seduction03/01/25 10:31 AM
6

Confidence is sexy. If you think you’re ugly, you’ll act unattractive. If you think you’re sexy, it’ll reflect in how you carry yourself.
/r/seduction02/01/25 12:19 AM
6

Get a wingman or don’t telegraph your intentions so obviously from the start and interact with the ugly friend initially.
/r/seduction29/12/24 05:07 PM
7

You’re literally starting off your marriage based on deception dude. If your mindset going into the relationship is to test for cheaters, you’re fulfilling a prophecy of sabotage. Confident men don’t need to do what you’re suggesting. Very insecure and paranoid men who constantly try to test their partners are toxic. If the roles were reversed and you found out you’d be pissed.
/r/seduction26/12/24 03:31 PM
7

Adults who do this are weak and projecting self sabotage for their relationship. It puts into question your decision making abilities if you’re such shit at picking partners that you have to stoop to shitty loser loyalty tests like marriage is a game. Assuming she passes, do you want a pat on the back? How do you think that will make you look? It’s manipulative behavior anyway. If the roles were reversed you’d be pissed.
/r/seduction26/12/24 03:27 PM
11

I’d let it go man. Let this live as a fantasy. It’s hard but you’re only going to trip yourself up. There’s too many logistics in the way to make this practical. Women generally only date locally. If anything, your best move is no love. Don’t go bleeding your heart out. Trust me, she’d move mountains to be with you if she wanted it.
/r/seduction25/12/24 05:32 AM
1

Does single mom count? If not, it’s kind of all over the place for me. Thinking about it, I’m not sure I really ask many questions about what a woman does because I’m seriously drawing a blank. They’ve all been pretty diverse in what they do.
/r/seduction09/12/24 06:53 PM
6

Uhh haha. Well. How drunk am I? I want to say I’ve slept with now like 40 women but I stopped counting. I think 3 you could subjectively say were pretty “meh”. The ugliest by far was this moderately bigger girl from a hotel party girls ago. I remember being PISSED when it happened I was pretty inebriated and felt like I was taken advantage of but it was mostly my stupidity. One girl I met up with online looked attractive until she got naked and her hips were unusually wide, but I was already the…
/r/seduction06/12/24 12:56 AM
1

I want to try to be respectful towards you but there are things you’re saying that make the deal with you kind of a raw deal. Respectfully, there’s a lot of ‘conditional baggage’ to unpack here. You’re mid 30s, semi divorced, you don’t have custody of your kid (as a man, I would ask why as it raises a red flag), you want a fuck buddy but you don’t want to seriously date because you got out of an abusive relationship (also a red flag because that indirectly carries more emotional baggage), a pref…
/r/seduction26/11/24 12:13 AM
-2

Not trying to slut shame but it’s hard to take women seriously who are mid-30s and still wanting to play the field. Looking at her post history she has a kid she’s still trying to do a custody battle over. She wants to go after men who are 40-50. So it’s like, is she a gold digger? But she doesn’t want the commitment? And also doesn’t want to put in the effort to meet men, she wants them to come to her? Sounds a bit delusional. Hopefully it works out for her though.
/r/seduction25/11/24 08:29 PM
1

Define what “long term casual” even means? You want a relationship without the commitment?
/r/seduction25/11/24 08:14 PM
1

What’s your dating intention? Are you trying for something serious or more casual? Attention ≠ attraction, it means very little. It feels like you’re trying to assert a placeholder personality trying to fit into the mold of what men want vs being sincere and authentic with how your behavior is coming off. I personally love black women but many times I feel they are horrible at picking partners because the things they are attracted to ≠ aren’t men who are serious about dating.
/r/seduction14/11/24 07:36 AM
3

I haven’t met many shorter women that weigh 150 but look 120. Not trying to be a jerk but this is an area many insecure people try to skirt over and tend to make excuses why it shouldn’t matter. It does, unfortunately. because men are more physical. Not necessarily to your detriment. Being heavier isn’t a bad thing mind you. 150 isn’t subjectively even heavy. But bigger women, even moderately larger. Will always have a harder time attracting men. The good news is this is easily able to navigated…
/r/seduction07/11/24 03:17 AM
2

Are you fat? Be objective. Lack of attention in the beginning is purely based on physical attraction.
/r/seduction06/11/24 07:38 PM
1

Like 2 hours, maybe. We fucked in my car and then later the same night had a threesome. She also let herself get trained by I want to say most of the footballers in my dorm. Biggest hoe on campus. So not really a flex.
/r/seduction04/11/24 07:21 PM
28

Men don’t operate like women, when we’re attracted we make it known. It’s very black and white and no amount of mental judo you’re going to try to justify will change that. Leave it alone, let him come to you. Your desperation is reeking from just this post alone.
/r/seduction17/10/24 02:49 AM
5

You’re dating a bum. You’re getting exactly what is expected from a bum. No idea how any man in this day and age is fine not working. Who hates money? You should still be in your honeymoon phase. Maybe evaluate if your long term prospects with this dude actually will amount to anything or if he’s too immature for what you need.
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:56 AM
8

You sound super boring. This is an extremely bland profile. You sound like your identity is tied to your work and have little in the way of hobbies. There’s nothing really that describes your personality.
/r/seduction10/10/24 11:13 PM
5

Naw dude, if your intention is to have sex with the woman you’re pursuing, you absolutely need to express that desire sooner rather than later. Kindness ≠ Expressing your intentions. Communicating my desires does not mean I am not kind. On the contrary, it means I am being honest with the relationship. If you seek to have an eventual sexual relationship — then the moment you have physical attraction to the woman, is the moment you should and need to escalate. You can absolutely escalate while st…
/r/seduction07/10/24 09:20 PM
7

Because you’re not being authentic dude when your intention is clearly that you want to fuck. No “nice guy” is ever truly nice when they come ready with a hidden agenda, that just makes you an asshole. These other dudes are only jerks because you wait forever with your cock in your hand before making a move. Trying to white knight your way to pussy is so stupid. Seriously, be honest and direct with what you want and you’ll get what you want but this lame bullshit of wanting to be respectful and …
/r/seduction07/10/24 09:10 PM
7

I mean, I’m single at 36. It would be hypocritical for me to hold that standard against her.
/r/seduction11/09/24 04:43 PM
7

I mean I guess my preference is an exception, except those are the women I date. Sooo 🤷‍♂️ And please, if you build sexual chemistry high enough, a woman will absolutely move mountains and cancel their plans to be with you. It’s basic human nature. Accommodations always happen in favor of attraction. I’ll bet $1000 the dude that can make you cum erodes your sense of logic you possess. And on the opposite end of the spectrum, if sexual chemistry isn’t established within those first few critical h…
/r/seduction11/09/24 01:05 AM
5

Damn, it’s like having a preference for availability to be such a criminal thing. Never said anything particular about my needs except that I have boundaries for what is and isn’t tolerated for my stage in life. I will reiterate, I am not interested in dating someone so busy with their life at 36, that if finding a compromise to have time in a 7 day revolving calendar is so impossible, that is not someone I am investing my time with. Plus I want kids, so I’d question if that trait would be viabl…
/r/seduction11/09/24 12:36 AM
5

Oh please fuck right off. If you’re on a dating app and your intention listed is for a “long term relationship” it’s not unreasonable that you try and make time for said relationship. I’ve got my boundaries for what I want, that doesn’t mean I’m throwing a temper tantrum. The absurdity that a man dare also have needs as well as his own boundaries of what he wants! Insanity! I absolutely refuse to believe that someone who is serious about dating is so fucking busy that they can’t make time for a …
/r/seduction10/09/24 11:57 PM
7

Yeah she did say she had a great time and wanted to see me again. Doubled down with the text. But her actions aren’t congruent with her words. When I asked for the date and i get something ambiguously tossed in the wind for a possible maybe in the future, I’ll take the hint and fuck off.
/r/seduction10/09/24 11:46 PM
27

Yup, just the facts. I’m fine with that honestly. But the overly politeness is infuriating, I would much rather just be told “hey I don’t see us as a thing” then to be told “I’m busy this weekend but let me see how next weekend goes”. Like, I do enough following up with prospects, I don’t have the fucking time nor patience to play this game of tag with a grown ass woman. Such is life.
/r/seduction10/09/24 11:45 PM
3

Yup. I hate that courtship isn’t really a viable strategy for building rapport, have to fuck first before you can build anything meaningful. Total opposite of what I want but women universally pull this same stupid shit.
/r/seduction10/09/24 10:31 PM
5

This is a seduction sub Reddit man. Don’t get caught up on the details. I read your previous posts, you’re getting hung up on yourself. You need to make a move on this woman or she’s going to think you’re too timid to be her man. There is absolutely zero virtue in being so passive about expressing sexual interest and shaming others for whatever their political belief system may be shows ignorance.
/r/seduction02/09/24 03:48 PM
5

What does political affiliation have to do with your inability to grab your nuts and make a move?
/r/seduction02/09/24 03:42 PM
4

“Reddit, how do I talk to people?” Christ, what is it with women trying to avoid putting in any actual effort. It’s a fucking text message. If you legitimately need advice on what to do, I’ll give you the same advice I would give a man, suck it up and just send the fucking message. Living life so passively and as a backseat driver is so sad at 27. Are you really that helpless that sending a text has you paralyzed? You wrote an entire fucking biography about this dude but you can’t even write a s…
/r/seduction27/08/24 03:35 AM
-13

I’m aware of body cues. I’m saying it doesn’t matter if she moves her head up or down.
/r/seduction24/08/24 03:43 AM
-12

Dawg there isn’t a science to what direction I move my head that shows I’m interested or not interested. This is stupid, just talk to them.
/r/seduction24/08/24 03:14 AM
30

lol you pulled this fact out of your ass. Looking up or down doesn’t indicate shit except that she looked vertically. Best way to find out interest is to actually talk to them.
/r/seduction24/08/24 02:37 AM
286

If you’re attractive to her, yes.
/r/seduction21/08/24 01:23 PM
2

Think about it. Why put yourself through torture with someone this soon? Judge them on their actions not their words. Her actions and behavior betray the words she’s telling you. I don’t want to convince anyone to drag their feet to come be with me. It should be raw enthusiasm. Fuck yes or fuck off.
/r/seduction15/08/24 04:27 PM
3

My philosophy is if I feel worse having a person in my life than I do with them in my life, I cut them out. So if you feel bitter or angry or spiteful due to her shitty behavior, this early, I’d cut her out. Don’t give ultimatums and don’t make it dramatic. But it’s not worth your peace.
/r/seduction15/08/24 11:57 AM
19

Because the interaction is so mind-blowingly stupid, there are no other words to describe it. Saying you had “real sex” just comes off like a virgin had a power fantasy and badly wrote out what they think happens with pick up. Forget the other small details, it’s just such a stupid story.
/r/seduction15/08/24 02:41 AM
46

This is the stupidest fucking thing I’ve read all year and I work in a circus. Goddammit this was so dumb.
/r/seduction15/08/24 02:25 AM
4

I took dates to non sit down style places that encouraged moving from scene to scene and it helped me meet a handful of women more than once. That said, the culture does seem to be about ghosting anymore.
/r/seduction11/08/24 06:46 PM
1

Wait. Do you still live at home with your mom? Lmao And you’re trying to fuck her friend?
/r/seduction06/08/24 02:25 PM
7

What you’re doing is what single women do, not loyal girlfriends who want to be in a relationship. You got rimmed for your behavior in your other post as well, you crossed a boundary. Hopefully your boyfriend has better sense and chooses to date someone who doesn’t try to justify their shitty behavior by gaslighting him.
/r/seduction06/08/24 08:18 AM
7

Women like you are the reason men stay insecure in their relationships because you do some stupid shit and disrespect basic boundaries and then are shocked when the man gets mad. Yes you crossed a line. Gay or not is irrelevant, if your boyfriend doesn’t want you pretend kissing another guy, and then you kiss that guy, that’s disrespectful as hell. You’re way in the wrong.
/r/seduction06/08/24 08:12 AM
2

Because I find dating to be exhausting and wallet draining. I might go on a dry spell but if I’ve got cash to burn, I can have a good time wherever I go. Right now though I’m focused on rebuilding myself. Dating isn’t remotely a priority.
/r/seduction04/08/24 11:24 PM
0

“Thanks, I let my mom pick out my clothes today” “Thanks, my niece actually did pick out my clothes” “I’ve got coupons if you want a deal on some new drip” I generally just play it off. If they call me gay, I double down on it because I’m extremely comfortable in my skin. If the dude keeps on negging, it’s okay to call him out on it. “You keep hitting on me. I’m already taken though bro”. Or buy the dude some beer and food. Be a bro. Either way though this is just how men interact with each othe…
/r/seduction02/08/24 12:08 AM
3

It literally doesn’t matter. You’re not exclusive either way. It’s dead.
/r/seduction22/07/24 06:59 AM
7

She doesn’t get to take trips while fucking other men. Trips are for loyal girlfriends. I basically frame some subset of this into the behavior I want to reward. It’s how I keep my peace. It sounds like she already made the decision to end things. I’d probably fight the urge to say anything at all. Assuming you just want closure - “hey it’s been cool getting to know you. Seems like things are getting serious again with your ex. I’m at a place in my life where I’m looking for something more concr…
/r/seduction22/07/24 06:58 AM
1

Her behavior isn’t congruent with her words. You HAVE to trust the actions behind the word. And you ARE simping dude. Waiting around for the girl to toss you a bone is what simps do. You’re not being honest at all with yourself. Being supportive would mean there is no expectation of getting back together with her but that’s not what you want. Your action items are to wait around and be supportive, put your life on pause, hoping this rando woman you’ve known less than 60 days suddenly prioritizes…
/r/seduction22/07/24 06:34 AM
39

Cancel the trip. Stop messaging her. She’s shown her true intentions. Trying to “show her what she’s missing out” just makes you come off as desperate without options. The truly best advice is to detach from this woman and move on. Honestly, this is doormat behavior. If she knows she can leave you anytime and there’s no consequence for her actions, she subconsciously loses respect for you. You gotta grab your nuts.
/r/seduction22/07/24 06:27 AM
4

Considering your previous posts saying “you want everyone dead” - I think you need professional help.
/r/seduction21/07/24 06:00 PM
1

How do I talk to girls at work?????
/r/seduction18/07/24 04:38 PM
9

It’s the easiest no in my life. Don’t even entertain it.
/r/seduction18/07/24 03:27 PM
132

Don’t think so much. Have fun. It’s not like you’re getting married.
/r/seduction17/07/24 10:55 PM
10

Listen gooner, you came to this sub asking for help. Don’t be so pretentious about it. Maybe you don’t get picked up cause you’re antagonistic.
/r/seduction15/07/24 05:47 AM
1

If you’re always searching for reasons to push away a woman, you’re never really be satisfied with what you end up getting. It does not matter to me as long as she is faithful and treats me with respect and love.
/r/seduction14/07/24 08:17 PM
3

Yeah, says more about you than anything. You’re projecting hard dude.
/r/seduction11/07/24 03:34 PM
1

Incel behavior.
/r/seduction11/07/24 03:33 PM
5

Girls that I want to fuck again I’ll eat that pussy like it’s a Sunday dessert.
/r/seduction08/07/24 08:07 PM
1

Why are you asking for advice then since you’re just going to give justifications why she didn’t answer your call.
/r/seduction06/07/24 05:43 AM
0

I’d just drop the expectation that you’re going to get laid and focus on having fun. But a 20 minute walk is better if there are things to see along the way. Map out a route ahead of time if that’s the case so you can make it an adventure.
/r/seduction04/07/24 05:56 PM
0

I’m saying the logistics of a one night stand and a woman taking an Uber to a strangers place is unrealistic and unpractical unless you have really tight game when there’s that much distance. Get a hotel. Now if you have a date scheduled and you’ve been talking to this woman for a couple of hours prior, it’s no longer weird. Not telling you not to try but I’d temper your expectations.
/r/seduction04/07/24 05:51 PM
0

20 minutes is pushing it but doable. Impromptu from the bar the first time they meet you though is a tough sell.
/r/seduction04/07/24 05:38 PM
1

You have to lead these interactions and be very direct with what you want. It’s very literal to autistic people.
/r/seduction28/06/24 05:08 PM
3

lol no way you’re this oblivious. Like you understand there’s a criminal element to it and you’re asking “hur dur can I send dick pics to start a conversation”. What exactly do you expect the reaction to be? Do you want to be labeled a sex offender? Because this is how you get labeled a sex offender. Not even exclusive to any specific countries. God, some people are hopeless.
/r/seduction07/06/24 05:01 PM
0

You refer to yourself as “nice” - from my experience nice people who are actually nice don’t feel the need to communicate this. I’m not slandering you but maybe you have a higher opinion of yourself than what is reality.
/r/seduction01/06/24 11:47 AM
3

2 things will happen by you doing absolutely nothing from here on: 1) Nothing and you have your answer 2) Something and you can wing it from there But regardless, don’t say or do anything. Don’t reward her shitty behavior. I won’t even pretend trying to explain it because there are a million reasons why a woman would suddenly ghost and almost none of them have anything to do with you.
/r/seduction29/05/24 12:22 AM
5

Didn’t you post about meeting some chic thru Hinge? Sounds like you’re fucking around on her and want her to decide for you so you can feel guilt free for it. LDR never work out, just drop it dude. Also, quit being a pussy about being honest that you just want to fuck someone else. No idea why you feel it’s relevant to play games when you are framing it under this context “I have too many options to hook up right now”.
/r/seduction26/05/24 10:41 PM
8

I didn’t, lol
/r/seduction21/05/24 01:21 AM
1

Format dude.
/r/seduction20/05/24 10:19 PM
32

Yeah not reading any of that. People really need to learn basic sentence structure. This is a cancer to read.
/r/seduction20/05/24 10:15 PM
7

Tell her you have reservations at Golden Corral.
/r/seduction20/05/24 03:37 PM
2

Last note: you’ve asked in past posts if unsending a text is passive aggressive (several in fact), so what you’re doing IS a negative behavior and IS self-sabotage. Your current frame is all out of whack and I think it’s stems from a place of feeling rejected due to your anxiety around your STD (again, your post history is right there). I think you should take a step back and try to look at this objectively. You’ve got yourself fucked up and you’re in your head right now.
/r/seduction20/05/24 02:53 PM
5

You came here asking for feedback and you’re acting defensive based on the context you provided. The fact you posted this same question multiple times to multiple subs shows you are in fact “thinking about it” If you’re going to spend your time defending your position instead of hearing it from a man’s perspective, keep doing what you’re doing I guess.
/r/seduction20/05/24 02:29 PM
3

I didn’t say shitty behavior. I said you are acting needy and insecure with your behavior ATM. Reverse the roles and a dude you were casually involved with started sexting you, you’re in a time zone with a 12 hour difference and you’re hanging out with your girls and doing fun things, imagine the dude acting exactly like you are now — how do you think you would react? The takeaway is that overseas depending on the country can be something like an 8-12 hour difference. You could’ve been sexting h…
/r/seduction20/05/24 01:41 PM
12

Naw, that’s definitely an ego thing. You got offended because he didn’t respond and you didn’t want to look foolish. You’re over thinking it and this behavior is a turnoff. If he read the message and then randomly it was unsent, how do you think that looks? It takes less than an hour to unsend it, you have no patience. It’s implied insecurity. You said it yourself, he’s overseas. Dude probably has other things going on. You’re going to blow this up if you don’t calm down and stop overanalyzing t…
/r/seduction20/05/24 12:53 PM
14

Without context, hard to say. It’s pretty weak to unsend a message though, if your ego gets offended that easy because he didn’t respond exactly how you want, this might be more of a ‘you’ issue. You mention he’s overseas, strong possibility he’s got other things going on. There’s going to be a time zone difference. If he’s occupied doing something, sometimes it takes time. Women like you are exhausting TBH when you expect everyone to always be on your level and if they don’t reciprocate somethi…
/r/seduction20/05/24 12:30 PM
5

I like how this albino with a shitty haircut makes videos talking about how rich he is. You can tell he’s super duper successful because his entire identity is based around making staged videos. PS: Kissing a drunken girl who can’t give consent doesn’t make you a stud.
/r/seduction17/05/24 10:56 PM
1041

You’re both married? Leave this fantasy alone. This is such a stupid way to fuck your life up. Stop thinking with your dick. If the seduction community is telling you this is a bad idea - a community to give instructions on code combination on how to fuck a woman - if this community is telling you not to pursue this, maybe you shouldn’t.
/r/seduction17/05/24 11:18 AM
2

lol there’s no calibrating shit. It’s over dude.
/r/seduction16/05/24 11:06 PM
4

IG and insta are the same thing, just btw.
/r/seduction14/05/24 01:32 AM
1

Stop dating for a minute. Become the man you want to be so that you naturally ditch feelings of unworthiness. You’ve got to take that time for yourself though. Build on your career, your health, your money, and your situation. There isn’t a race to this. And if it takes you a year to get over it, great. Channel that rage into making yourself better. But your self-sabotage will never get checked without leveling up.
/r/seduction08/05/24 01:14 AM
0

He probably doesn’t want to risk his job. Use your head. You’re sending nudes to someone you work with. You’re trying to fuck a coworker. Come on, surely you understand how this looks? Leave it alone.
/r/seduction06/05/24 07:13 AM
89

Just stop. You’re coming off way too desperate and insecure, it’s a turnoff. Trust me, men are very simple. You literally don’t have to do anything. You could pop open a dating app and find 1000 guys who could occupy your time. Leave this dude be and let him come to you.
/r/seduction06/05/24 06:01 AM
170

I read a few of your previous posts, you’re pursuing a guy who isn’t interested in you and you keep sending him nudes. Believe me, if the man is interested he’ll move mountains to be with you. I’d lay off for a bit and give him some space. Stop texting him. Definitely stop sending pics that aren’t appreciated.
/r/seduction06/05/24 05:55 AM
3

Your first time is going to suck dude. Don’t make it more than what it is. It’s just sex. Romanticizing it will make it so much worse if/when it doesn’t meet expectations.
/r/seduction04/05/24 10:00 PM
14

Dude if you’re going to live in spreadsheets you’re never going to find what you’re looking for. Obviously there is more penis but you asked for meeting high income women. Tech is where it’s at
/r/seduction25/04/24 01:10 AM
4

Silicon Valley has a ridiculous amount of high earning women.
/r/seduction25/04/24 12:38 AM
2

You’re the same guy who made about trying to sleep with women at 5am after they’ve finished clubbed and acting like the predator. I wouldn’t be surprised if you carried roofies in your wallet.
/r/seduction22/04/24 03:18 PM
22

You sound like a sexual predator honestly. Why would your strategy involve picking up “exhausted” women at all in the first place? This is weird.
/r/seduction17/04/24 10:30 PM
180

Squats and lunges. Lift heavier weights. Sprint instead of jogging. All else fails, reverse the position and have her ride or angle her by the bed and fuck standing up. Or put her ass up over a on the edge of the couch or have her give you head. Get creative.
/r/seduction13/04/24 09:51 PM
25

So what I do when I’m going out solo is to completely detach from any outcomes. I literally go into with the mindset of just mingling. Start by striking up a conversation with a few dudes. Then go and start talking up fatties. The idea is you’re socializing. Make observations. Have a shot to calm the nerves. Once a woman has caught your eye, then approach immediately within 3 seconds. Don’t hesitate. By far the hardest part about this is just putting yourself out there. Game gets easier the more…
/r/seduction12/04/24 09:52 PM
2

Ask her out and you’ll figure out really quick where you stand.
/r/seduction10/04/24 10:42 PM
3

Nice guys with hidden agendas and ulterior motives who don’t communicate their intentions are not “nice guys”.
/r/seduction10/04/24 07:12 PM
2

Dont be an idiot, think about how this would impact your son if this goes sideways? Do you really want to chance fucking up your son’s social life because you’re feeling horny and awkward? What if the students find out? Do you have any clue how mean kids can get? These fools are ruthless, way more now with social media. This is something that could socially humiliate your son for years. What if you sleep with the teacher and things get awkward and she starts treating your son differently, are yo…
/r/seduction07/04/24 06:13 AM
4

If it backfires and the students catch wind of it, there will be social humiliation that could follow the son well beyond high school. Kids are ruthless and will torment other kids over the smallest details.
/r/seduction07/04/24 06:08 AM
1

Ignore her. Don’t text, don’t call, start dating other women. I literally just block women for months and then delete their contact details, I completely become a ghost.
/r/seduction07/04/24 12:10 AM
6

At least your condition can be cured with surgery, might be worth exploring. No comment here will make you suddenly have a change of how you see yourself as this is a personal struggle.
/r/seduction03/04/24 12:11 PM
8

You’re deep in the friendzone man, RIP. Only way to get out of it is literally to stop talking to her or start dating other women in front of her. As it stands, you have zero chance of fucking her. You weren’t honest with your intentions, you weren’t direct, you pussy footed around trying to get laid. You clearly want to bang and yet you’re lying about your intentions.
/r/seduction03/04/24 02:56 AM
6

“E-Pimp”. Has a picture of a woman photoshopped onto money for his background photo. So cool.
/r/seduction01/04/24 07:54 PM
24

“Hey would you like to go on a date with me” Same advice I’d tell other men, stop being a pussy and just ask for what you want. These little girl games are so annoying. Statistically women who pursue what they want have a significantly higher chance at happiness than waiting for the man to make the first move.
/r/seduction01/04/24 07:14 PM
-1

This sub is mostly for men, it won’t be helpful for you.
/r/seduction31/03/24 01:04 PM
1

I’m not familiar with this one, what is involved
/r/seduction26/03/24 06:50 PM
1

Religious reasons are bullshit. I’ve slept with married women who otherwise were in happy marriages, this girl would put out under the right circumstances. TBH coffee in itself is lame. I would suggest having multiple venues you can do. So consider a combination of coffee + shopping + sensory location, somewhere there are multiple things to do at once within walking distance. The problem with coffee by itself is that if conversation gets stale you won’t have a great way to recover. Venue changes…
/r/seduction26/03/24 08:54 AM
18

Mystery is charging almost 24K to run with him for a few months. 9K for 3 day events. The price is definitely up there.
/r/seduction26/03/24 04:12 AM
64

Mystery almost committed suicide several times. There’s a dark side to PUA that isn’t discussed enough.
/r/seduction26/03/24 03:38 AM
62

Which is a shame because a lot of good came from understanding attraction dynamics between men and women which wasn’t all about manipulation like the stigma suggests.
/r/seduction26/03/24 03:37 AM
5

Black from Rue 21 — $10.
/r/seduction26/03/24 12:09 AM
1

I told her to follow me to my room so I could grab something. You’re overthinking it.
/r/seduction25/03/24 05:40 PM
4

100%. I think how words are said matter more than what’s actually said. Keep the topic light and focus on imagination. Pick up lines definitely have their place but it’s less important than people realize.
/r/seduction25/03/24 01:27 PM
1

Funny enough, this is precisely the same flow as sales goes. Chris Voss talks about this in his book “Never Split the Difference”. There’s a specific section on labeling that applies here that beautifully weaves together conversation threads.
/r/seduction21/03/24 12:03 AM
1

Maybe your conversation is dry as fuck. The fact 2/3 women forgot about your date tells me you’re either boring or forgettable or both. Call -don’t text- your dates next time.
/r/seduction02/03/24 01:04 PM
7

Man dudes really like playing games for the sake of getting laid I swear. There’s more to life than the pursuit of pussy. Not everything has to be these weird rules, sometimes it’s fine being open and vulnerable because half of dudes on here don’t have the charisma to pull off not alluding to some sort of future or being affectionate. I’d rather be authentic and honest with my intentions and get less puss than trying to pretend to be this big mystery to get slightly more puss. It’s exhausting af…
/r/seduction02/03/24 12:31 AM
2

Dope as fuck.
/r/seduction28/02/24 03:46 PM
8

Adding her instagram lumps you automatically like every other thirsty nerd. Just ask her out.
/r/seduction10/02/24 02:54 AM
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