As we’re soon to be approaching 2023, and my lack of activity on here I felt like sharing some more advice for the newbies.

Honestly, I forget how hard it is for guys now adays and from the dawn of time to get girlfriends or have any physical experiences with girls.

Trust me, prior to going to college I was the same. “Why does everyone else have a girlfriend and I’m lonely”. Or “why does it seem like some guys have it so easy”.

Believe me, I was so deep in the self loathing part of my life believing girls are the problem and I’m the ultimate nice guy, so why don’t they want me?

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That’s the problem.

I blames girls for my problems instead of simply understanding why I’m not attracting women. You know how I solved this problem? I started taking more care of myself. That means starting from the food I eat, working out regularly, and understanding the game.

2023 of January. The day I started posting in this subreddit and also the day I decided to start forcing myself to go to bars and clubs alone to fight anxiety and learn how to pickup girls without relying on anyone else for help.

It’s about to be 3 years of consistent night game in my world country and others. I’ve had nothing but absolutely insane experiences which I’m thankful I documented here.

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Stop hesitating the first move

So here’s the story which I found so funny. The other night I went out to the club and I brought along someone from my city I’ve been teaching and fyi I’m so proud of how confident he’s become. He says “you’re the reason I’m this good now.”

Anyhow, we arrive and immediately he starts approaching girls. I leave him alone to do his thing and I sit back and watch. He finds his target, and within the first 20 seconds he’s in her ears and dancing. Then he’s already making out with her.

Now it’s my turn. The first girl to walk past me that is cute, I stop her by saying “Where are you headed to so quickly.”

She then says “I’m not” as she smiles and laughs. It was a playful joke I teased her with. I immediately continue and say “I’ve been looking for you all night.” And she says “Have you?”, and I follow up and say that she’s my type and it’s hard to find that in the crowd. Before she can reply, I jokingly say that I hope I’m her type too.

She says I am. About 30 seconds of conversation has happened up until this point. I flirt some more, say things she wants to her and I go for the kiss. We’re both getting closer to each others faces, I place my hand on her cheek, We end up making out.

It took less than 60 seconds.

After a while, I left the set because I have no further intention here. It’s all for fun.

So she returns back to her friend. Also yes I was doing this in a 2v1 so she had her friend right beside her the whole time. We exchange socials. I may hit her up if I’m bored one day in the future.

Later I see her approach the bar and some tall but still attractive dude speaks to her. I watch out of curiosity. 5 minutes past and I see a lot of him flirting with her. Nothing but after 10 minutes I see him ordering her a drink LOL.

So not only did he receive nothing but he also spent money on a drink for her. You can’t make this up.

Guys.. don’t be like this and learn to court women.