Another fun weekend and one thing I’ve been noticing consistently is before I approach a set; I take a look around the girls to see if there’s other guys attempting to try.

I can wait 5 minutes, 10 minutes, or even more and it’s clear that the guy or guys are too scared to give it a try. You’re at the bar, it’s a social setting, you find her and her friends pretty, take the chance.

This happens all the time when I go out.

So this particular situation, I noticed two dudes move towards a group of 3 girls. They placed themselves literally right behind the girls and I can see them talking to each other trying to decide who goes in.

I’m already occupied and after 10 minutes, still no one has opened these 3 beautiful ladies….

So I tell my friend whom I help every weekend that he should approach them. Of course he suddenly needs to use the washroom.

I say fk it and I open the set of 3 girls myself. Instantly greeted with a positive reaction and 100% focus.

I do my best to entertain the three of them by playing verbal games and have them guessing stuff about me. Building rapport. My friend comes back and joins in. We spoke for at least 20 minutes. Then secured all the numbers.

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While I’m talking with them, the dudes who are standing behind are just staring at me the entire time. I locked eye contact with them on numerous occasions because i cant tell if they’re mad or impressed.

The moral of the story is, take a chance. How will you know the outcome of something if you don’t try? Staring at the girls and other guys taking a chance; leads to nothing for you.

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Here is how the actual conversation went:

So pretty decently sized bar. Very packed on weekends. During the night, we’ve approached plenty of girls leading up to this but now Ive done a round in the bar looking for a potential target.

Found this group of 3 ladies. As I mentioned, I scouted out the set beforehand and then I walked up to the three of them with no drink in my hand. I said “How are you ladies doing?”.

The challenge here is of course keeping 3 girls interested in you. I focused on who I thought the leader of the group was and I guessed correctly. I first asked her where she’s from and then she asked back. I then complimented her looks and she complimented my outfit next. Following that, I asked her to guess what I do for a living because everyone guesses wrong. I chose this because it’s entertaining and the others can participate. She somehow guessed correctly. After some banter, she said to guess where’s she’s from. I instantly guessed correctly. Then she said guess where her friends are from. By this time I was thinking and then my friend returned from the washroom.

I told him to help out. We were able to guess 2/3. But at the end I did guess the last one correctly. From here, my main focus was distracting at least 2 girls so my friend can make a move on the one he is most interested in.

I did so by now asserting myself as flirty. I started asking her if she was single and if her friends were too. She said they are all single. So then I said, “your single, so why can’t I find you in my contacts”. She laughed and said “I don’t know”. So then I said do you prefer IG or Number and she chose number.

After getting her number, she went to the washroom and there was her two friends remaining. I then started focusing on the remaining friend and was flirty too. I quickly said she should give me her IG (I prefer it) and she did. Then I asked her what’s her type and she said she has no type. I then asked her if she prefers me or my friend I’m with. She said me and I said “why is that” and she said “you’re the type of guy I usually go for”.

Afterwards, we talked for a bit before the main leader girl got back. Then they said they were leaving the bar to go elsewhere. Me and my friend didn’t want to go as we weren’t looking for more from them and we continued approaching other girls.