kt1a Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Do you think men bring the more, same, or less to the table as they did in the past?	Discussion	kt1a	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 07:26 PM
10	When we talk about the "average" person - realize you're talking about a 50 year old	Discussion	kt1a	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 10:25 PM

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–	Do you think men bring the more, same, or less to the table as they did in the past? Can you explain this more in-depth? I'm not sure I entirely follow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 08:58 PM
1	Do you think men bring the more, same, or less to the table as they did in the past? Be funny, be supportive, help around the house. That's when she wants you. This seems to be focused on being what someone wants after you're already married. I think for the purposes of getting to marriage, this is an insufficient analysis. I think most of us are not focused on how to prevent divorce. We're focused on "how do you even get to marriage" - which for many I think is predestined entirely on, "how do I even get a date or a second date". I don't see many here complaining about women ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 07:46 PM
1	Do you think men bring the more, same, or less to the table as they did in the past? Relatively they bring less because women bring more now. I feel by definition men would have to bring less to the table otherwise we'd all say that any gender equality we have strived for has failed dramatically. Maybe there are some particular feminists who would argue that men still bring the same amount to the table relatively because we have failed to get gender equality to the degree these feminists want. I wouldn't agree but that's the only take I can imagine that would say men bring the s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 07:34 PM
–	When we talk about the "average" person - realize you're talking about a 50 year old People talk about the average weight, height, education, income, etc. here and they cite stats that are centered around 50 year olds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 10:38 PM
–	How often do you see relationships where the man is significantly more attractive than the woman? I've seen quite a few dudes with less attractive women and both were physically fit. This was more noticeable in places like San Francisco where it seemed like most men were dating down. That said, I'd argue that most couples tend to be looksmatched in most parts of the country. The only time I see a significantly more attractive woman with a less attractive man is when he gained weight and she didn't. That's really it. Honestly, most of the guys are usually looksmatched to their partner as soon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 12:48 AM
–	Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive? Being something that is wildly different from a homogenous population is what sets you apart. We are exposed to a lot of different types of people in many parts of the west. We have all races and types. Other countries outside of the west are usually more homogenous. So, as long as you're not whatever the primary race/whatever is in that country - you'll stand out a lot more than you would in the west. That said, there is fetishism of race in most countries. Whether or not that plays into your f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 07:14 PM
–	We all agree that women are attracted to men who display competence and drive, but are women also disgusted by the very effort it takes to reach the level of competence they admire? Just block that person. They're known to argue in bad faith.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 06:13 PM
1	Is it better to define average-looking by measuring how many people think you look cute vs. "scientifc set of physical traits"? The average you're talking about is one that is still a 5/10 but has a very large standard deviation. One which doesn't track with real life. The issue is that from what we've seen overall when people rate looks - the standard deviations aren't that large. Someone who is a 5/10 is not getting a bunch of 2/10 and then a bunch of 8/10. Someone who is a 5/10 is not getting 10% of each 1/10 through 10/10. That would still give an average of 5/10 but that's not what happens. That is really a bluepill…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 12:37 AM
–	Confidence is non-transferable Agree to an extent. I see this plenty with subject matter experts in many fields. However, having confidence over multiple fields tends to bestow one with general confidence. If you get good at multiple things and demonstrate your ability to adapt and learn - you can have general confidence in most any field even if inexperienced. The problem is that feeling comfortable with the situation does not mean you’re good at whatever it is. You might have learned how to speak five different languages. Y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 05:41 AM
1	Money 100% does help with dating and does compensate for shortcoming no matter what this sub says I'm not in PE but it is what I would suggest for anyone chasing money. It is more likely to return 7-figure incomes than most any other career. Just go look at the finance career subreddits or whatnot to get an idea. The 7-figure incomes in other fields like tech or whatnot are very often one-timey (IPO/acquisition/etc.) and not repeatable unless you are managing/head of 100+ people. Some other exceptions in tech but it's typically niche and not easily repeatable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 04:53 AM
5	Would most men cheat on their partners if given the chance? If the average man was approached by a woman, would he always take her up on that offer if there were no repercussions? What does it mean by no repercussions? If it means that the wife is completely fine with it. I imagine many men would take up the offer - assuming that the woman is attractive to him. If it instead means that the wife won't find out because it's a ONS and it's really on the husband to not say anything... No, I don't think most men would do it. Most men aren't cheaters even if g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 01:31 AM
1	Money 100% does help with dating and does compensate for shortcoming no matter what this sub says Most practical advice would be to join PE. Unrealistic for 99%+ of people but that's a pretty good path to it. And then the biggest second factor is: get lucky. Of course, you need to have been born lucky to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/23 01:06 AM
3	Money 100% does help with dating and does compensate for shortcoming no matter what this sub says They’re not anti-social. This is some weird IT crowd nonsense. Most of these folks are Ivy League grads and went to prestigious private schools growing up. They’re not anti-social even in the slightest because if they were - they’d be ostracized and unable to climb the corporate ladder. You really know very little about the area and industry. And yes, I was making 7 figures. Income has very little influence on most women outside of height. Again, looks, status, and personality are far more impor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 10:43 PM
3	People underestimate how circumstantial attraction is Once someone is adjusted to living somewhere - they go back into their shell and are not open to dating as much. Specifically, when actively traveling people are more open. When they’re settled/settling into a place - they’re not anywhere near as open. The same issues arise with someone who is temporarily in a country or wherever. End of the day, they’re planning to go back home and changing that is a big deal. It’s one thing to spend a year in a country, it’s another to spend your entire life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 10:42 PM
21	People underestimate how circumstantial attraction is You’re conflating women when they’re traveling with when they’re at home in a routine. It’s well known that people (markedly so with women cause of how big the difference is) are much more open sexually and romantically when traveling. If you’re a man who is traveling, your best options are finding a woman who is also traveling. You can live somewhere with a lot of travelers/visitors (like nyc) too. The downside is that not everyone is a good fit for a long term relationship when you meet travel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 07:02 PM
26	Money 100% does help with dating and does compensate for shortcoming no matter what this sub says You sound a lot older than most people who are “dating.” You specifically try to attract women in sugar relationships and probably create a profile for that. Good for you and I hope it brings you and your companions happiness. You post a lot about it on Reddit… For general dating for men who are 18-40 and looking to date near their own age, I would say it has little to no influence outside of a simple checkbox “does he make more than me”. I’ve made more than you and as a much younger man. I can …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 07:25 AM