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Dealt with this for years. Why I literally moved to more niched apps basically. Twas in issue back in 2022 when all this shit started and seeing people get thrown under the fucking bus for nothing. Even looked into whether it counts as defamation which it sure as fuck does. Now that having been said it HAPPENED because when men that are married or in relationships were getting caught.....the PROBLEM is that its now bringing ALL the good guys into the drag net too. If you're sleeping around and s…
/r/seduction14/07/26 05:51 PM
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Its NOT nearly as big as they make it and I always kinda of counter this as women ONLY want you approaching in my experience unless you're a better friend or acquaintance. Absoltuely cold approach is still dead. Women keep saying they want organic but I tend to KEEP seeing for years that isn't true, outside of "prevetted organic" connections.
/r/seduction23/06/26 07:16 PM
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Lmfao do u REALLY think fashion models walking in NYC have dogshit bodies or something?
/r/seduction09/06/26 09:15 PM
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Again no.... If her face is an 8 but her body ain't anything she's NOT an 8 dude.
/r/seduction09/06/26 08:50 PM
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Uh....if her face is an 8 but her body isn't....she's NOT an 8 bro....
/r/seduction09/06/26 08:44 PM
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Get a bi girl first that's up for it. Then start looking.
/r/seduction05/06/26 03:32 PM
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Cold approach doesn't work NEARLY as well when temhe newer generations of women, at least state side. I've done a good bit of research on this too, gen z is so insanely risk averse it's almost not worth it to ever cold approach anymore. Best idea? Consistent and repeated exposure and connections. Aka, you consistently go to the same gym, maybe befriend or say hello and over time let that connection become something better. Or you're a regular at a coffee shop or bar or whatever, after enough con…
/r/seduction01/06/26 09:40 PM
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I feel like they're practically still the same thing....
/r/seduction07/05/26 07:10 AM
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Lmfao no it was looking at several different trends and data overall and likely where it all is pointing to or likely what the solution is.
/r/seduction01/05/26 05:01 PM
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No that WASNT been at all pre pandemic thank God. If anything it's WAY worse online now man. You can find people but it's a HELL of a lot more noise.
/r/seduction01/05/26 05:00 PM
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Gen z is a LOT more risk averse than previous generations and assume MUCH higher risk or worst case scenarios with cold approach than older generations do/did. I'm not gonna go into the full details on here publicly but game has DEFINITELY changed in some manners from where it was pre pandemic. I've also commented this issue here and have had SEVERAL guys say the same that it's like a flip just switched around 2022 or so and so I can confirm I'm definitely not the only one thats seen this. I've …
/r/seduction29/04/26 09:06 PM
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Lmfao right? It's kinda extremely base level depth of money. I spend money on women if we're hooking up but not directly if that makes sense. Like I might get us an Airbnb and snacks or such, etc....but I NEVER directly give the girl money....yuck. I also just did some research recently on a trend I started seeing post pandemic that completely shifted game from where it was pre pandemic and I came to some VERY interesting conclusions which were interesting as id been wracking my brain around the…
/r/seduction29/04/26 04:35 PM
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Riiiight....you're the one crying about gatekeeping and referencing goosebumps to try to get attention..... But sure....act immature about it lmfao....says WAY more about me than you. Maybe don't try to go into circles you know NOTHING about and try to act off like you do.
/r/seduction23/04/26 06:17 PM
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Honestly no, it's more so made me understand the psychology behind them better....like, they're human just as much as is. They're fucking animals....they have needs just like us. And JUST like us.....they have emotions and wiring that can be tapped into and understood better. I guess the best example would be like if you were able to understand the diagram of an engine and someone showed you how everything runs or how one thing over here is affected or connected to THIS piece over here. Does it …
/r/seduction23/04/26 02:40 PM
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"Hey, we've discussed meeting and youve told me you wanna see me and shown interest. I then give you a date....but then you wont respond until AFTER. This now happened multiple times. I get life happens and things happen, but this has happened repeatedly at this point and I don't chase people. If you'd love to meet up great, let's make it happen. Otherwise I genuinely never chase inconsistency and don't have time to do so. There's no point in us talking if you won't follow through and that's not…
/r/seduction23/04/26 02:10 AM
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Lmfaoooo this is an interesting strategy to try/test out....any stats on like the ratio of success at all? I think the guy should just let it be known he wants to see her again and that she should let him know when she's free. Then let her go and see if comes back. Kinda really nothing else if she's already saying she's busy. Over pursuit or such never works and usually backfires. Say he wants to see her again and let her communicate when she's available otherwise let the girl go.
/r/seduction22/04/26 04:54 PM
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Kinda crazy but I sat with some issues I've had since the pandemic that were completely unprecedented to how I did pre pandemic and I think i actually came to some pretty solid takeaways for an issue/problem I've wracked my brain around SEVERAL times for thinking through wtf I'm doing wrong and NEVER got anywhere solid..... Your first line in the second paragraph was basically the bigger part of the solution. Nixing the gym part....at least with gen z aged women or so, cold approach ain't shit c…
/r/seduction20/04/26 04:15 AM
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If you're funny youre likely fast on your feet. A great witty observation thats funny can do two things, show youre funny but also that youre smart. As someone that follows dating trends and such, ive been saying for years it seems humor is a LOT more attractive post pandemic than it was before. You also have a slew of comedians that have kinda blown up in the cultural zeitgeist as well since the pandemic too. Ive heard recently that comedy can really be a strong part of culture at times and I t…
/r/seduction19/04/26 08:19 PM
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Or proof that when they rage about sleeping with a high count of women, they didnt also likely pick up a few stds in the process.....
/r/seduction18/04/26 07:22 PM
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Lmfao?
/r/seduction18/04/26 02:44 AM
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Personally I think you're wasting your time. You're kinda already manipulating the girl to enjoy sex for your own sake.... Furthermore, women that grew up really conservative like this basically run into a lot of issues as far as their own concepts and beliefs around sex and orgasms. Aka there will be a LOT of guilt and shame around sex regardless of what you do and you'll only get through that if you know what you're doing. Basically homegirl was likely raised to few sex as bad and her "urges" …
/r/seduction16/04/26 07:18 PM
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Lmfaoooooo omg underrated comment....
/r/seduction13/04/26 01:33 AM
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This comment came off pretty insecure dude....just saying
/r/seduction13/04/26 01:31 AM
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One of the biggest issues I've kinda seen in game post pandemic, coming from someone with a LOT of experience and read up on gone and gone out for fifteen years and read up on it for like twenty or so. Getting numbers while out and then....they'll literally go NOWHERE. Im NOT dogging women here or anything just so it's clear, but like over a few years ago from going out I maybe got ten or twenty or numbers while out.....literally none of them....NONE of them turned into anything EVER. I get peop…
/r/seduction10/04/26 06:20 PM
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Lmfaoooo psychological warfare? You blame guys for not having it but then give an extremely basic view of sexuality allure that probably goes into an genuine or decent depth.....got it.
/r/seduction30/03/26 01:52 PM
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I don't really understand where what you listed really goes into owning someone's sexual allure or power or energy or enticement at all exactly. Sexuality is WAY more in the mind and understanding psychology more than anything and what type of experiences women want or how to give them ones the majority of men DONT come anywhere close to.... Which you uh.....didn't break down.
/r/seduction30/03/26 02:38 AM
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Had a girl that worked out twice a day and I AM happy to say that I think the first we had sex was EASILY one of the best rounds I've ever performed.... Nonetheless it didn't work out for long and she was ALWAYS late as shit and said it was just a quirk of hers.... Was annoying as shit given....I don't know were got damn adults?!? She was fairly sweet as well but it just didn't work out for long. Nonetheless I'll ALWAY be proud of how damn good my performance was with that one. I have had some c…
/r/seduction29/03/26 08:26 PM
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Makes me think building an online gravitational pull in a particular niche or such that guys can't replicate as such or so is always the best way to kinda bring women in possibly. Even if there's a lot less eyeballs the actual interest is MUCH higher basically.
/r/seduction29/03/26 08:19 PM
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Makes me think building an online gravitational pull in a particular niche or such that guys can't replicate as such or so is always the best way to kinda bring women in possibly. Even if there's a lot less eyeballs the actual interest is MUCH higher basically.
/r/seduction29/03/26 08:18 PM
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Already been said and I wouldn't prefer to avoid someone down that "far" basically but this is what's typically called a Slumpbuster. Sometimes you go for these just for the sake of getting off or such and we all have our seasons where things fluctuate. I was there a few years ago but I've DEFINITELY gotten back in a good flow in the last year. Sometimes life just ebbs and flows. But the consistency or such of the sex possibly, instead of being rusty, can make you better and then you meet a bett…
/r/seduction29/03/26 07:44 PM
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Lmfao what? You kinda beget your own point when what you're wrote here has no clarity at all. I can assume what you're saying but....kinda think it's hilarious you're asking this opinion about texting and then.....not even all that clear with your ask. Lmfaooo kinda crazy to ask this and literally be that unclear and completely overlook your own lack of clarity.
/r/seduction20/03/26 03:52 AM
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Lmfaooooo.... Hope no one loses their arm..... ....great white buffalo....
/r/seduction17/03/26 02:38 PM
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Right....cause this type of tone in a response doesn't moreso validate my original reply? Lmfao right....got it.
/r/seduction17/03/26 02:37 PM
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Lmfaooooo riiiight. Okay. So respectful yet you can completely talk me down? Lmfao....got it. I make six figures and have been with several dozens of women sweetheart. Maybe take the hatorade somewhere else and come up with a more interesting or viable comment? K great thanks!!
/r/seduction16/03/26 09:26 PM
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Interesting thought/comment to add as far as IMMEDIATE proximity to the house as I actually didn't think about that before and it's valid. If I got it I'd be giving any girls going in a robe as well. There is a deck at this place but I'm not sure if it could hold a hot tub or not at all as of yet.
/r/seduction16/03/26 09:03 PM
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Lmfao nice. Interesting story and feedback and info. I had em at my apartments during college and such as well. Thanks for the feedback bro
/r/seduction16/03/26 08:31 PM
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Lmfaoooooo
/r/seduction16/03/26 07:15 PM
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Lmfaoooo you never know
/r/seduction16/03/26 06:51 PM
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Lmfaoooooo. How am I flexing up on reading up on game at all? I was solely citing my experience to make it clear I wasn't assuming a hot tub solely in and of itself would somehow get me chicks vs just being another enhancer or bonus. Not even sure how the hell someone flexes up on reading about game either? Lmfao. I already have girls on standby I could have join me if I literally got the thing so yeahhhh your assumption is wrong bro. I have money I could spend and thought it just might be nice …
/r/seduction16/03/26 06:39 PM
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Heard. Appreciate the contrasting take. I've always been pro saunas for years and I believe hot tubs can have issues as far as heating your boys too hot as far as sperm life and such but also saw it mentioned when googling earlier today that hot tubs were supposed to be better for you than saunas were actually? Thanks also for mentioning a five seater is better for more space than being cramped valid thought. Thanks again for the feedback. Just make better money than I used to and VERY big on ha…
/r/seduction16/03/26 06:35 PM
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Lmfao damn okay. Valid.
/r/seduction16/03/26 06:05 PM
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Heard heard.
/r/seduction16/03/26 05:24 PM
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Heard....valid point. Thanks man.
/r/seduction16/03/26 05:19 PM
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Wasn't thinking of em as a lure btw as Ive already been with several women before so that isn't as much the vibe but more so like, if there were just ever times it maybe tipped the scales a bit easier basically. Heard on the fun for a few months and then kinda eh vibes lol. What I was kinda weary about as I remember reading years ago they were one of the bigger types of disappointment/regret buys for people during the pandemic Was just curious if it ever helped in any way. Yes game is still requ…
/r/seduction16/03/26 05:07 PM
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All good, why I said wasn't sure as counts as proven or not.
/r/seduction14/03/26 08:55 PM
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Not 100% sure what you exactly mean by can prove or not but.... You are contagious as a person. Your vibe, your energy, how you hold yourself. THAT is or is NOT attractive to people. I'm not saying like it determines your level of "hot" when I say attractive per se, I mean attractive as in like almost like your a magnet and attractive things to you in life or not. Can't exactly be proven per se but I've ABSOLUTELY seen that or felt before. The guy having fun and good energy is WAY more likely to…
/r/seduction14/03/26 06:46 PM
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Ehhhh....extremely biased information as your wife is literally already in a relationship, and an open one.....kinda begets the whole point about scarcity a bit man. Of course she views things differently, she already literally has someone at home.... I get what you're saying but there's also vastly inherent biases from her experience that you aren't exactly saying slant the data points/lessons here basically..... Not all "hot women" have someone theyre already banging on the regular....if anyth…
/r/seduction13/03/26 10:45 PM
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Lmfao no u don't....that's the ENTIRE point.... Also....if you know how to say something youre already saying something with humor or value.... You're reading things strictly from a lens of seduction as if seduction is the primary point.... Cool your jets there....the whole point is youre trying to make a CONNECTION. Youre trying to vibe with someone and connecting with them FIRST. The context and immediate lens is NOT the it's sexual right off the jump. Ive literally said of the DUMBEST shit to…
/r/seduction05/03/26 05:59 PM
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If you can't make her giggle youre SOL So much of seduction or success is about the emotional journey you're capable of taking her on YOU are contagious.....your vibe, your energy, your expression.....people feed off of it and go with it.... Maybe controversial but I genuinely believe and have directly seen a significant amount of women WANT to be used and LOVE it.....it's more about showing you have the restraint, awareness and experience to make that a SAFE, fun and ENJOYABLE experience for th…
/r/seduction05/03/26 02:51 PM
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People are genuinely contagious in so many ways
/r/seduction05/03/26 02:36 PM
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Lmfao um....what? So LITERALLY swapping fluids with another human being doesn't include any risk at all of transmitting bacteria or such between each other?. There's SEVERAL studies that prove bacterias and viruses cause disease for....I dunno.....over a CENTURY. But yes....go on about how germ theory isn't a thing. What else....the earth is flat too? Jfc. Microscopes can literally IDENTIFY pathogens from infected people so clearly "germs" ARE a thing and then can get transmitted between people.…
/r/seduction03/03/26 11:25 PM
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Uh....do I know or care?.....No.
/r/seduction03/03/26 11:18 PM
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150 girls by your age ain't the flex you think it is. Are you actually testing for STDs? Like it's literally IMPOSSIBLE you didn't catch something if not have HSV1 or 2 or HPV. Literally why whenever someone posts something like this about higher numbers that it's always left out how theyre doing this and actually engaging in things safely.....interesting thing to compeltely omit.... Also....if a girl comes over and sees condoms or another girls stuff left out.....id question how quality these w…
/r/seduction03/03/26 08:38 PM
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It's not about higher value or not at all, let's not frame it wrong. But if your own self view is dog shit in the first place....NO amount of proverbial band aids will EVER help and then that same person will go for destructive behaviors or write a post talking about bagging 50 women in a year yet never mentions the fact he likely picked up a few STDs cause he didn't engage in connections safely or left trauma for the women and things just harder for the guys after since he wasn't honest or such…
/r/seduction27/02/26 03:18 PM
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Lmfao WAY overgeneralized and "Bruno" lacks integrity. If he didn't BS a woman's time because he can't make anything happen he'd probably be able to level himself up but he's insecure and takes what is easiest because he won't do the work enough or has no idea how to attain true financial or success velocity. That's Bruno being insecure from the jump, nothing to do with women there. Also, the idea that you can't find better or if you're with someone possibly sub bar but will never find better is…
/r/seduction27/02/26 03:06 PM
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As of now? Kink apps. Literally acquired over thirty toys over the last two years or so and doing a slew of DIY and such to make things on my own. Got an insane burst of creativity just a few weekends ago actually and have had several ideas and such specd out on my own for the last two years or so. Getting into more DIY and carpentry and such has been a huge target for me this year basically as well. It was at about some point last year where just the sheer amount of items I had started to gener…
/r/seduction23/02/26 07:01 PM
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Unpredictability is masculine? Ummm....isn't that a more female trait? There's a HUGE difference between being OVEReager vs bland and predictable. And yeahhhhh....the WAY more masculine move is telling a girl how you feel or show your interest at the RIGHT time. Not preemptively or too early. That has nothing to do with predictability. It's WAY more masculine to demonstrate or show interest and not give a fuck whether the girl completely buys what youre selling or not and be okay with whatever t…
/r/seduction22/02/26 06:21 PM
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I kinda call bs on this respectfully. Not trying to disrespect you OP but in this day and age with AWDTSG groups you'd get caught VERY fast. More so....um....dude have you gotten tested at all? There's NO way you did this safely AT ALL. Let alone if women aren't screening you either healthwise that means they're literally doing the same thing with others. Condoms don't stop everything either and a lot of STDs are asymptomatic as well. Could literally PROMISE you you caught something. Also....you…
/r/seduction06/02/26 06:03 PM
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If you get that many matches on on app its NOT your ethnicity thats the issue, its your vibe. If height is showing on the app girls are picking you regardless so unless youre hiding that, height isnt the issue. Almost without a doubt its likely coming down to your vibe or like insecurity or lack of connection while out. Nonetheless as overs have said, if youre doing that many first dates and barely getting past that your issue should be focusing on why you dont get to a second date at all. NOT s…
/r/seduction31/01/26 10:59 PM
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Having sex with a girl when she's sick is uh.....not the vibe my dude. Even further, a lot of women don't WANT all that much food before having sex....unless its kept to something VERY light. Respectfully you might wanna get back to basics man, you kinda seem to be playing fools game here. NO girl would say....hey let's have a ski date.....wait I'm sick....let me make it easier to have sex with you while I'm sick and just invite you over and let u cook for me cause I was sexy time still..... She…
/r/seduction14/01/26 08:52 PM
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No I get it. I get the fun of taking her home but that risk just isn't worth it to me anymore. Just be careful out there cause ive directly seen multiple women being fine with no condoms more in the last year or so as there's less protections for abortions and I'm pretty sure std counts have been going up. Nonetheless you can still take the girl home and play a bit safely. Just saying I've absolutely seen that be way harder post pandemic than pre. I'm also later 30s and I'm imagining your mid 20…
/r/seduction08/01/26 02:43 AM
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As much as logistics and such are obvious aids....and ive heard some good analogies on that maybe over a decade or two ago....I also feel like it's not nearly as valuable as it used to be pre pandemic. Like yes get a girl home but like....and maybe this is just me but....do none of y'all like ask about STDs or anything or like testing results when you do things with people? Condoms don't stop everything. I'm not saying this as fear mongering and yes distance or like location matter obviously....…
/r/seduction08/01/26 02:30 AM
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Be careful with this shit fyi. Go into it for the RIGHT reasons and to socialize with EVERY one...not just younger women or so. The bros, older women, married women, etc. As someone that got into salsa/bachata a few years ago and been to multiple different cities to dance....I can PROMISE you as I've DIRECTLY seen it myself....if you're there to just basically meet women they'll be able to tell....vs the guys genuinely being social and cool with everyone. I've seen guys try to do the former mult…
/r/seduction08/01/26 02:27 AM
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With AWDTSG groups and the way things go this day and age.....this is WAY more risky and likely not worth it. Yes host and enable a good vibe for people and be the connector. But if you're doing it CLEARLY for the sex you'll get a reputation VERY fast and ruin WAY more opportunities once it gets shared to thousands of girls in your community.
/r/seduction02/01/26 06:07 PM
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NOT a good idea in my opinion. NYE is an amalgamation of the WORST parts of a few holidays rolled into one. It's also extremely overrated and almost NEVER a good idea unless you already have plans or someone to see. Better off just getting sleep and making looking over your goals that night or the morning after in my opinion. It's SUCH an overrated holiday in my opinion. You'll be waiting for forever for drinks. Everything will be overpriced as is. Ubers or such will be stupid expensive as well.…
/r/seduction29/12/25 04:32 PM
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Id almost argue money and intelligence are greater than fame. When people hear money they think hordes of cash. I'm not referring to that. I'm referring to having enough that you're not paycheck money to month and have some stability and financial cushion. Further than that is attaining financial velocity where every decision isn't based on money or you can burn cash and still be safe. More money allows you to destress. It gives you gym access and access to better foods or fitness programs for y…
/r/seduction27/12/25 06:53 PM
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That's WAY too open of a question and we can't determine which will ACTUALLY make u happier at all.
/r/seduction25/12/25 05:05 AM
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Bad idea. WAY better off positioning yourself in a better city for better options over time. Trying to bang women like that in an extremely short time frame sends your std risk pretty high dude. And no, condoms don't stop everything. Not the best move or strategy tbh.
/r/seduction25/12/25 04:47 AM
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Lmfaoooo..... Lookmaxxing was supposed to be about SOLELY improving your looks but attraction capabilities as a whole.... Doesn't matter how you physically look if your soul and internal engines are deprived, needy, desperate and have no depth or esteem running solely on looks.
/r/seduction22/12/25 07:47 PM
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He's gotten surgeries before? If that's the case his argument is kinda null and the guy is no one to be used as a viable example AT ALL.
/r/seduction22/12/25 02:22 PM
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Lmfao dude....I'm sorry but like....if you think going after one particular group of women in a city....versus verifying the ACTUAL....OVERALL vibe of the city.....like you're going about this so wrong. I also say that as someone that is half Latino and dated a girl from Miami for 3 years. This post just comes off so asinine and kinda cringe dude. And no offense but honestly I think it'd make a LOT of latina women cringe if they ever saw that you SPECIFICALLY went after latina women in a particu…
/r/seduction18/12/25 04:21 AM
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What's your point?
/r/seduction17/12/25 01:25 PM
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Lmfaoooo you seem to have a toxic view if not borderline misogynistic saying the majority of women are extreme feminists.... Maybe go work on your views and toxicity a bit,.with all due respect, before you worry about gaming women dude.
/r/seduction17/12/25 06:23 AM
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Really depends. I think a LOT of it depends. Like people mentioned here theres a VARIETY of circumstances that could effect things. I think it's also just that life tends to come in waves at times and there's different seasons to every persons life. It also varies with the economy and different outside factors that can affect people's overall moods and such and trends within a city as well. Sometimes youre flush....sometimes you're bust. Sometimes you're working your ass over and OVER and get no…
/r/seduction16/12/25 04:24 AM
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If you can't do it without alcohol....you don't exactly have game.....
/r/seduction08/12/25 01:18 AM
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Not too old, this was about my golden era as well. I think some answers will show people also did better precovid than now (2016 to 2019 were probably top years for me). Be on a career with a good trajectory Be doing things youre curious about Exercise/gym 3 to 6 times a week Get up on your style Be out and about and making friends and what not. If anything id almost argue this is the top things to focus on. ESPECIALLY after a breakup. SCREW going for women right now, find some things that bring…
/r/seduction18/11/25 01:59 AM
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Whered you move from and to btw if u don't mind me asking?
/r/seduction05/11/25 10:31 PM
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And again backhanded compliments.....grow up dude
/r/seduction28/10/25 01:39 PM
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Lmfao so you have game.... Yet your first comment is to LITERALLY call me an afc..... You're literally contradicting your ENTIRE point about being nonreactive..... I also made no comment about being butthurt in reactions either..lmfao....yet you're reaction is immediately defensive and over reactive. You're putting words in my mouth. One of us is pointing things out logically....YOURE the one reacting emotionally.... You're literally contradicting youre entire point and the "lesson" you learned …
/r/seduction28/10/25 01:16 PM
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Ehhh.....AttractIntel? CringeAF. Account is less than a week old too..... You also try to tell people advice but then give NO actual pointers on how to do it. This feels like bait. Furthermore I don't get the whole vibe of the first two.....be non reactive and don't be needy. I kinda someone get them but at the same time like ....wtf. People have emotions. If I feel something or the girl is gonna be annoying or play games....by God....I will TELL her or communicate that. Acting like she's not an…
/r/seduction28/10/25 12:41 PM
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No you're playing fools game at that point and it'll show very quickly. Like you'll try SUPER hard or do things NOT better longer term if saying you're 0 for 5 and have to get the next one.
/r/seduction25/10/25 11:06 PM
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I'd argue your shoulders are more important than you arms. Upper chest if you wanna show it off a bit possibly (allows you to somewhat show off without coming off egotistical or a douche). If you're gonna work out anything do your shoulders and lower back. Shoulders show more with clothes on and let your whole body look bigger, and your lower back is vital for good posture let alone sex. Regardless, I think the vascularity of your arms and your forearms are almost WAY more important than how big…
/r/seduction25/10/25 09:23 PM
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Lmfaooo one of my favorite moments and such a me vibe is the kit Kat phone number reference in this ... "Where is the Kit Kat.....WHERRRRE IS THE KIT KAAAT!" Lmfaoooo
/r/seduction22/10/25 05:18 PM
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Thanks for this post. Couple things, I love this as this was something Ive tried to direct my life more into this year or knew I needed to, and even had a great idea about checking out some of these places as Im trying to verify the vibe in a couple different cities and whered id like to move to. I saw this as someone thats read up on Game for over twenty years and done pickup and such since the last fourteen and very old school. I have NO problem approaching women in person, give no fucks to do…
/r/seduction21/10/25 01:30 PM
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Major thing I've seen in the last few years that's confounded the shit out of me as someone's thats read up on the game since the early 2000s or so and then finally did so out in DC with a great wing in 2011 or so. Since like 2022 it's like a switch just happened and I've asked others about this as far as if they've had the same experience or not or what they're thinking it is. Since 2022 up until fall last year, I've gotten maybe like twenty numbers or so out and about? I texted, followed up...…
/r/seduction11/10/25 02:32 AM
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OP I think you should differentiate between like sexually desired vs otherwise or like seen... Options Her cumming in a way she never has and just blissed out into outer space in my arms after... In the middle of one session she said, "...You have the kindest eyes." Other....was literally with someone last night....we were in a SMALL ass studio of hers but it was just to feel out the vibe before we more intensely went at it the following night (tonight).....but we partake in some THC and I had a…
/r/seduction27/09/25 08:06 PM
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Lmfaoooo literally my comment. I said this is generally filed under "no shit" lmfao Dude gave no tips on literally how to do this at all either or get better at it or offer some next level details to help....
/r/seduction26/09/25 10:50 PM
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Ummm.... No offense but this should be filed under "no shit." You also didn't really give any good or viable Intel on how to get better at this. You just made an observation that the majority of men probably already know.
/r/seduction26/09/25 10:48 PM
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When its stop being worth it and when it stops being easy. More so though it also depends on what you got going on with your life, as well as if shes spending time with other guys or not. Long story short when you have vibes or a presence or a way of giving a woman things most men cant provide or an experience other men cant provide as easily....that women clamor for....it becomes a HELL of a lot easier to dismiss women that give half assed effort or when you bring a lot of effort to things but …
/r/seduction25/09/25 09:47 PM
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Define "guru"..... You also nixed my answer. It gives you access. Its a tool you can use to enhance yourself or put yourself into more circles and then use it when it's the proper time, not right off the bat.
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:27 PM
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Already said it, use it in ways to give you access or increase your surface luck ratio. Ie get you more into proximity with groups or girls you wanna be in. However I think that's also your problem with the way you're looking at this. Like you're orienting this more at how to directly get women instead of how money can make you better as a whole. You're also not looking at how money can let you provide more or enhanced experiences with women as a whole. More money allows you to open more doors o…
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:24 PM
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Personally you're too hung up on cash. So it's not the money itself that attracts then it's like....what you had to come to get there typically and the ACCESS it provides. However....make no mistake....men with more money aren't always less secure or have more or better habits than men with less money. It's genuinely more about the access and other things the money opens up. TYPICALLY but not always, it can mean you're less financially stressed or worried. It can maybe mean more trips our outing…
/r/seduction24/09/25 04:20 PM
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There's WAY too many variables at place here and it always blows my mind that dudes can control EVERY single one of them. It's stupid to think like that. This is also without going into like location but also how vibes in society change and what not. So, the bigger thing like people have said is people to get momentum with the girl(s) you CHOOSE to do something STDs are a thing so yes while one night stands are great, id rather meet the girl and lock the vibe down. Maybe chat maybe make out, may…
/r/seduction21/09/25 03:30 PM
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Ummm....she knows I'm gonna call her when I literally ask for her number man...lol. We basically just configure the time to call and make it happen. Really not that hard. Not sure what or how your vibe is but yeah I easily say I'm gonna call at some point. Yes I've seen some women so they find calls weird (I'm later 30s) which....I kinda understand but....NOT really given....in my opinion....if someone can't handle a phone call than to me personally, they can't do basic adulting at all. Like wha…
/r/seduction20/09/25 11:21 PM
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It can be a number of things tbh. Just because you hear it doesn't mean it's true. It also matters like what's the vibe. Getting a girl and going at it ISNT a brag if you haven't verified std status cause....in that case you didn't get a baddie you just got a flight risk.... NONETHELESS....ive pretty much done this with most women since I dunno ....2019 or so, don't remember. Nonetheless I've told SEVERAL guys here you underestimate THE SHIT out of a phone call. Because I do that early and a "qu…
/r/seduction20/09/25 07:01 PM
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Appreciate the response back and not chewing me out. Just genuinely think you're kinda trying to play fools game and go for the immediate win vs whatll ACTUALLY be viable longer term. Gain depth and presence more than anything as well as look into intellectual studies or so. You have to be like learning or doing interesting things to actually wow a woman at this age. Or just have phenomenal charisma and yet....can still can go deep on certain subjects or such.
/r/seduction20/09/25 12:49 AM
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Ay ya yi, immediately knew you were in the young side as soon as I saw the title. Alright, here's an answer you won't like. A lot of young guys DONT have the level of depth an older woman needs or wants. Women your age wanna talk about a LOT of shit that has NO depth whatsoever. Generally this isn't ANYTHING close to what an older woman wants.... Or as is mentioned in Jerry Maguire, there's a beautiful line between Cruise and Gooding Jr where it's said, "They been to the circus.... theyve seen t…
/r/seduction20/09/25 12:44 AM
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Or maybe dont even smash at all? If anything all your doing is giving them issues for the next guy to deal with and make them hate all dudes who cant treat em with honesty. Thinking youre the better person because they treated you like crap....and then you just use them for sex and let them go and just disappear isnt even close to a flex. Thinking its due to some type of "power spike" or so could be the wrong read as well. Yes sometimes they come back cause you look different or got better....WH…
/r/seduction16/09/25 09:33 PM
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I get what you're saying but thinking every rejection deserves empathy when some people are just assholes and full of shit and then saying it's all great is just..... No sorry. Yes generally just keep moving but some people ABSOLUTELY deserve to be chewed the fuck out for treating you like shit in the rejection.
/r/seduction15/09/25 02:44 AM
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No because you're not challenging yourself enough if you're bored.... Inside seduction or out.
/r/seduction15/09/25 02:07 AM
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All good. Feel free to me pm if you never need advice or thoughts man. Can't always guarantee I'll have the time but still.
/r/seduction14/09/25 12:53 AM
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Really proud of you for immediately getting back out there man. If you're shy at all, definitely look into a combo of any of the following: standup, Toastmasters (or similar), or social dance lessons. Social dancing is one of the number one things you can do for your mental health, and then will easily help with confidence about a month or two into it if you're active with it and keep on it. Regardless, proud of you man. Dont even worry about direct results right now. You're main thing should be…
/r/seduction13/09/25 02:30 PM
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My main argument would be decades of positive reinforcement and possibly lower level of intelligence. I'm not saying the dude is dumb but if he's a more physical type of guy than cerebral, which his physicality MIGHT demonstrate a history kf....the dude has likely never had that many issues concerning confidence or overthinking things or over analyzing or worrying.....or caring.... Intelligent men tend to struggle more often due to the literal above. A decade or longer and it's continually reinf…
/r/seduction12/09/25 09:54 PM
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How the hell is AI gonna help?
/r/seduction10/09/25 12:58 AM
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As FUCK
/r/seduction09/09/25 11:14 PM
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FUCK no. If you can't objectively get an idea of this yourself u have WAY bigger problems. If it got out you were literally recording the audio of dates you can say goodbye to ANY potential of future love life anytime soon as well. Um....you're also literally citing you'd use this tool to make yourself better than the other guys....but....um....if you can't do that WITHOUT the tool.....than um....newsflash....you're NOT better than the other guys. The minute the women finds out it was only becau…
/r/seduction09/09/25 11:13 PM
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Way too dependent on the women and your vibe and there's. NonethelessWay too dependent on the women and your vibe and there's. Nonetheless, the obvious is that older women obviously get less attention so that can play in your favor. Nonetheless just cause the flirt with you is vastly different than being intimate with them or consistently so for a bit of time. Nonetheless Ivr absolutely seen older women be WAY more insecure than younger ones or more toxic....so again....it almost varies woman to…
/r/seduction07/09/25 01:34 AM
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No ...you need to establish some sort of momentum in your tempo or life overall.... If you're pursuing women before this is kinda defined better.....you will emotionally be pulled up and down no matter what....it's brain chemistry and chemicals in your body. Leave that be until there's a SOLID baseline established first.
/r/seduction03/09/25 07:23 PM
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Yeah soo... I've literally probably been with over 80 women. Been in the kink scene for maybe 8 years or so. Dealt with SEVERAL experiences with women. Crazy idea....the dude could nip this shit in the bud ASAP if he did this or at least talked to the girl. But sure....tell me I don't know what I don't know bro.
/r/seduction28/08/25 05:34 PM
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Can you not just ask the girl directly? A movie date meetup ask would jar a chick for a second date and that's what happened, it's "couple"-ish for a second date and screams more serious. She might want something lighter. You can ask the girl you know. Just tell her, "so you said you didn't want x....but you still want to hang out....so I'm confused what you actually want because you're sending mixed messages. If all you want is a friend then say so....but if you maybe more than that but not ser…
/r/seduction28/08/25 05:10 PM
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We've already been sexting or such a bit before we even do the call....
/r/seduction21/08/25 11:45 AM
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Right but then if that same girl goes out wandering in left field ...like yes maybe how well the conversation went sticks but....you only had that conversation that doesn't translate to others. Getting fit or whatever sticks with ALL women. Get what you're saying though as self improvement as an excuse. Guess I've mostly never had that issue but I get it. I only want to get to like a certain point mostly and then I don't care, I'm gonna enjoy myself and my life. Life is way too short to constant…
/r/seduction21/08/25 11:44 AM
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Yes! And I love that too and I hope people hear that! Competence in one area ABSOLUTELY bleeds into confidence in other areas. Women also genuinely will love when a guy talks about or discussed things with passion. It's very attractive and even magnetic.
/r/seduction21/08/25 11:39 AM
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Who said I was ever taking them to dinner? Lmfao. They usually always come over to mine....
/r/seduction20/08/25 05:10 PM
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No focus on one first and get it down and THEN focus on women. Establish a cadence and rhythm and vibe BEFORE women are involved. Much more grounding and you're liable to get distracted as soon as women get involved. Get the basics down first and THEN focus on women.
/r/seduction20/08/25 05:07 PM
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It pretty much ALWAYS is the case.
/r/seduction20/08/25 05:06 PM
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Id actually argue it's not going to talk to women when your life is shit, this is the wrong take. The action would be doing something to actually improve yourself. Go get to a gym. Go do improv lessons. Go do dance lessons or whatever hobby you wanna explore. Once you're kinda at least somewhat out of the rut and have a solid baseline THEN start approaching. If you have any flavor or vibe or mission that always comes PRIOR to women ....they'll be able to tell and be less interested. You're way b…
/r/seduction20/08/25 12:35 PM
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It's not that complicated dude you're way overthinking this...
/r/seduction20/08/25 12:13 PM
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Here we go again....a phone call before ever meeting up would help you confirm the overall vibe and then you can make the best choice...
/r/seduction20/08/25 11:56 AM
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Mhmmm..literally doesn't take shit to do. No verifying an outfit. No need to go lift before hand so u look on point. No confirming schedules. No driving or worrying about getting there. No verifying it's the right vibe or spot or like, requiring a back up plan or checking the weather or some other bs. Plus NO damn cost either. You can literally do it in your damn pajamas and she wouldn't know. If you're lucky and have a great voice she might end up playing with herself as you dirty talk her. Lit…
/r/seduction19/08/25 06:59 PM
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Man if she's too intimidated by a call....that's her problem. If a girl can't handle a phone call she kinda can't do basic life shit either. Like what if I go out of town for work or something, how are we staying in contact. I completely get what you're saying but it's hardly ever been an issue and if a girl can't handle something as simple and easy as a phone call....she sure as hell AINT the one for me.
/r/seduction19/08/25 06:00 PM
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Majority of the time they're coming over the first time we meet up. I've said this to people a NUMBER of times....but holy HELL do people underestimate the ever living bejesus out of the phone and calling someone. It's efficient as shit. There's also NO way for someone to hide behind a phone call either. If it's there it's there. If it's not you didn't lose any money or time or energy outside of how long that phone call took, unlike doing an official first date type of thing....ugh. NO WAY in he…
/r/seduction19/08/25 03:05 PM
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Lmfao....id be even more cold. "if you tell me ACTUALLY viable stories and we can have not quality time discussing how you get everything of yours laid for by hers and even get given money still by your family at your age ...I'll consider paying for another drink..." Like....this just reads to me as INSANELY oblivious, unaware and completely UNABLE to read the room. Plus this is SO douchey of someone to do. Like sure, let me take someone out to a bar or rooftop for a drink or so... and during th…
/r/seduction05/08/25 09:37 PM
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That seduction or game is about brute force. It's not, it's about strategy and knowing when to adapt and how much proverbial force or what type needs to be applied. You've already gone into basically NEVER focus on people that are already a no. Find your vibe find your tribe, and immerse yourself there and you're way more likely to find girls on your desired proverbial vibe. All this bullshit about being "alpha" is so insanely overplayed and misunderstood. NO ONE that says they're "alpha" is EVE…
/r/seduction05/08/25 09:23 PM
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It's not about as if they respect themselves as much as theyre more likely to have toxic tendencies and will be a bigger pain in the ass to deal with or solve for said bad and unhealthy behaviors or habits....
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:33 PM
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Doesn't prove at all they're women worth dating in the first place....
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:21 PM
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One of the first things I heard or remember really imbibing when I first started going out for pickup as far as nighttime at least, this was DC and in 2011 when I had a friend that like picked up I did Daygame when I mentioned it in passing with a mutual friend and he pulled me aside and asked if I knew pickup....and then this guy ended up becoming probably one of the most influential people in my life in my 20s at least. We went and did our thing. Nonetheless.....you NEVER go out JUST to meet w…
/r/seduction06/07/25 08:30 PM
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Eh I get what you're saying and some of it is obvious but ....I also have a hard time thinking you're getting an honest answer from reddit and that the answer couldn't have been affected by randos/dudes.
/r/seduction06/07/25 07:39 PM
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Then it's more akin to nightclub game cause it's....literally a nightCLUB. Being in a club during the day is literally the OPPOSITE of day game. JFC.
/r/seduction01/07/25 08:47 PM
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That's not day gaming you idiot. That's more nightclub/night time game. I do day game so I can specifically TALK to people and actually HEAR them. Why the HELL would I wanna meet women somewhere where I have to scream just to have any type of conversation? Which is gonna be a dull ass conversation anyways due to how loud the music is.
/r/seduction30/06/25 01:08 PM
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If you're "day gaming" in a club you're not day gaming genius.
/r/seduction30/06/25 01:02 PM
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Um....sure as hell don't know ANYONE day gaming in a club either.....lol
/r/seduction29/06/25 07:10 PM
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How the hell is the initial assumption gonna be that this is how dudes lead? JFC this is so stupid. I get it's a basic tenant advice but it's kinda obvious to anyone where it leads you. Regardless, I DIE for these types of conversation and vulnerability for a moment. Everyone has to put up so many bullshit masks and defenses to seem like they're okay when the overwhelming majority of everyone has some shit they're going through or don't really ever tell most people. If you can get a girl to do t…
/r/seduction17/06/25 02:18 PM
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Biggest one is likely sense of humor. I feel like humor has become a LOT more attractive since the pandemic or the last few years. Not sure why 100% but it just absolutely seems to be a much stronger advantage than it used to be previously. If you're witty or good with your words and fast on your feet when it comes to thinking of funny or sarcastic/funny AF shit on the fly, that's huge. Also... Style. Being emotionally grounded and not reactive. Being able to move with a girl or adapt to her emo…
/r/seduction07/06/25 01:19 AM
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I'm fine and not the one getting grumpy. You're the one sitting here giving "advice" yet literally trying to at the same time not even take STDs or your health seriously let alone talking about not using condoms, sleeping with chicks that won't even ask you about testing/status and then saying you only get tested once a year. You literally said you get tested once a year which is effing insane for someone not consistently using condoms with partners. Lastly your last comment shows it all. There'…
/r/seduction03/06/25 11:03 PM
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Lmfao if you're more worried about ruining the mood than catching an STD your advice is still atrocious dude. Hanging around friends that follow the same protocol as you doesn't make it any better and lord knows if either of you are honest about things, let alone since you barely get tested. Not buying this bs at all.
/r/seduction03/06/25 10:45 PM
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Lmfao do you even get tested? The idea that you don't even ask about STDs or testing literally COMPLETELY negates any of your advice and is NOT an example for anyone here to follow. That's not something to be proud of whatsoever. If you haven't already done a full panel to include both hsv's you likely already have one of them. Furthermore the fact that the women aren't even asking you anything at all either is just something else.... Like if they're not asking you at all they're obviously not a…
/r/seduction03/06/25 10:06 PM
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I'm having a LOT of trouble believing you've gone on over 400 first dates and that 1-You got them predominantly through cold approaches when I've easily noticed cold approaches aren't NEARLY as successful as they used to be pre COVID. Obviously that could just be my own experience or city but I've had a NUMBER of guys that were successful say things really switched around 2022. 2- Didnt learn to just call a girl and you basically have the cheapest date ever designed and then it's not hard at all…
/r/seduction03/06/25 07:36 PM
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I absolutely don't understand what would be attractive about a girl that prefers this vibe. If playing games and bs win her attention but being straight up direct and genuine scare her off...... Talk about a waste of time and energy. If anything the girl just showed me why she's not within my standards at all and is likely only gonna be a pain in the ass, has a terrible foundation for any type of a healthy relationship and isn't worth the loss of my time and resources. Regardless though, a LOT o…
/r/seduction29/05/25 10:43 PM
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Why the hell would someone grab coffee between 4 to 6? You can literally do all this with a phone call and save the time and money. You don't really to make some bs excuse to get someone over, women aren't stupid boys. Does it help to have a reason to go back? Obviously. Don't get too tripped up on it all though.
/r/seduction29/05/25 09:02 PM
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Tons of cities like that dude but I don't know the vibes you like and what not so ud have to do some exploring on your own or clarify better.
/r/seduction21/05/25 03:38 AM
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Always particular to the vibe of a person. Genuinely as someone that went traveling around the eastern US for months trying to find my next city, a city with a viable amount of variance/vibes. Like a city that's predominantly say clean cut and preppy with no alternatives isn't fun. On the opposite, too hype and yet you're a "square" if you so much as wanna wear a suit or suit jacket....not the right vibes either. You want a city with a variance of flavors. Then likely public transportation or wa…
/r/seduction20/05/25 06:01 PM
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Read up on the game/dating since about early 2000s. Started going out/practicing since 2011 or so. The change in the air that hit and left me going like 0 for 20 wasnt just a me thing but ABSOLUTELY something in the air has changed since around that time. Having other more experienced/weathered guys here comment theyve felt that switch in the air too was a bit comforting to know i wasnt the only one trying to figure an enigma the likes of which theyve never seen before and have yet to configure …
/r/seduction20/05/25 03:32 PM
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Hell no, if anything its like both sides of the age range unlocked after 30. Like i could suddenly go from ten years younger to ten years older no issue. HOWEVER, the other side of things is that eventually the amount of bs people play can get exhausting. Furthermore, different things can happen to your body as you get older that youre kinda not fully cognizant of until its kinda happened. Like your back is more sore or you gas out of oxygen faster or its more easy to feel bloated or such. Nonet…
/r/seduction18/05/25 12:04 AM
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Lmfaooooooo
/r/seduction05/05/25 07:41 PM
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Worked food and bev for years. Notes NEVER work bro. Become a regular at least for a bit or so or find out what she likes and then try to say, would u ever wanna go do XYZ activity she likes at XYZ place. Basically become a decent customer at least somewhat and get to get things out of the restaurant.
/r/seduction05/05/25 07:41 PM
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Based off your lack of experience, youre literally trying to jump ten steps at once which isnt how this works. Also um....kind of funny you call the women youre approaching the tourist when...youre the tourist yourself. Nonetheless, youre better off using these travel opportunities as a way to work on approaches ITSELF. Not literally trying to configure how to get laid, but how to actually APPROACH a woman FIRST. Get that down and then start worrying about getting laid. The whole I wanna jump te…
/r/seduction05/05/25 01:32 PM
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No idea why you'd think meeting women is only surface level. It's always particular to the person. Nonetheless, once you meet enough women though....you likely start to stop caring for trivial things or sex just for the sake of sex. It gets old. Let alone the inherent health risks of sleeping lots of women. That's something that doesn't really get talked about by this dudes banging "100s" of women....there's no way people did that without catching at least something. No shaming it, just saying. …
/r/seduction05/05/25 01:14 AM
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"...Drinking just not my thing. I like to go out, yeah....but I just don't drink ' Also given it's literally a health thing, I don't think it should really be a problem at all. If anyone can handle that, drop em out of your life.
/r/seduction04/05/25 04:32 AM
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True true. Yeah I picked up the genuine vibe the first time I visited back in 2014. Any top spots or anything you recommend in particular at all?
/r/seduction02/05/25 10:42 PM
1

Damn. How long ago was this? Jw. Any favorite places or experiences?
/r/seduction02/05/25 04:38 PM
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As someone that's traveled abroad over ten years ago and has multiple exes from other countries.....this comment comes off as extremely toxic and black and white thinking for a number of reasons. I get what you're saying but this also genuinely solves NONE of the issues at the crux of the problem either....its simply fighting the symptoms and not the actual root cause. Also, lmfao, the way you describe Spain and Sweden....okay, Spanish women are KNOWN for being some of the hardest women to get..…
/r/seduction02/05/25 02:16 PM
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Yeah it's something I more so noticed when down there a few months ago. Have some friends that wanna move back or will see thing staying the women are hot down there and then like.....I'm like ....there's NO higher intellectual thinking or thoughts with the curiosity with the women down here.
/r/seduction02/05/25 02:09 PM
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Lmfao not aggressive, just states the common sense part out loud.
/r/seduction02/05/25 02:08 PM
1

Why though?
/r/seduction02/05/25 01:14 AM
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Why?
/r/seduction02/05/25 01:14 AM
1

Heard thanks meng.
/r/seduction01/05/25 09:34 PM
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Yeah kinda why ive liked it. Was up there like two or three times last summer/early fall. Have heard it described as just an energy as soon summer hits and everyone's out but also nice kinda just from being cooped up for so long basically. And yeah some of the most gorgeous blondes I've ever seen were in Chicago. Always semi shocked but how much of a latin community there is too. Nonetheless probably saw the most gorgeous of my entire life or last ten to fifteen years at Lyra last summer. If I w…
/r/seduction01/05/25 09:09 PM
2

What else makes u say that or what made other cities worse and what not, in your own opinion/direct experience?
/r/seduction01/05/25 08:48 PM
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Why the hell would ANY man with any self esteem and making moves in life EVER want to waste his mental energy CONSTANTLY having to prove himself to a girl? Like seriously why the HELL would you ever want that? If a girl is doing that, THAT much....then there's something wrong with her or she's an idiot or WAY too high on her own bs.
/r/seduction01/05/25 08:02 PM
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Ive never really heard the best things about Miami. Yes there's gorgeous women down there but it's kind of pointless. A slew of em are stuck up and used to dudes with money. Guys with money and built out like crazy are insanely aggressive across the board and the competition will be high. Egos are high as well. Intellectualism won't be high either. On top of it's likely already starting to get humid down there. Also heard herpes is fairly prevalent down there as well. Basically that you're WAY b…
/r/seduction01/05/25 05:59 PM
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I get that but that sounds more like a tourist visit. I get going for more than women, completely get that. But I'd also wanna be somewhere where there's a vast upside on that side as well.
/r/seduction01/05/25 04:04 PM
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Heard heard. Thanks man. I might follow up with you later.
/r/seduction01/05/25 03:52 PM
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And u don't find San Diego is generally full of dudes? Jw. What area are you in btw?
/r/seduction01/05/25 03:44 PM
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Heard on DC. I've lived there for a year over ten years ago. Just also been wary as there's seemed to be a good bit of dudes but also as of rn, whatever repercussions there could be given how many fed jobs are getting cut rn. Where are your favorite areas as far as being in the heat of things or living wise, or places you recommend checking out as far as meeting people?
/r/seduction01/05/25 03:39 PM
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Heard on Scottsdale and Austin but I both imagine they'd be hot as shit once like May or June hit.
/r/seduction01/05/25 03:38 PM
3

Heard heard. I've stayed at the hostel in Wrigley predominantly if I need a place there and spent some time with a girl in West Loop that had a place within view of the sears tower which was dope. So yeah I was gonna ask, where would you recommend living as a side that's mid to late 30s, works remote, and is on more of a laid-back/lounge/house music type of vibe? (I don't mind clubs exactly or dancing at all, like salsa socials but....I also hate trying to chat up a girl when there's loud music.…
/r/seduction01/05/25 03:37 PM
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Literally was eyeing Chicago for June. One of my favorite cities to be in, in the US for summer. Went up there two or three times from the southeast last year as well. Any top things you recommend or anything?
/r/seduction01/05/25 02:57 PM
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Asymptomatic shedding is a thing with hsv though ...
/r/seduction29/04/25 10:29 PM
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Here here, same. Usually it's never worth it. It's never about how hot she is or isn't, but more so the attention she gets. It requires more of your resources to cut through and generally I nevee think it's worth it. If a girl wanted you she'd be clear about it generally instead of entertaining all the attention and what not. You're fighting a losing game basically. If you have all your life and confidence and ego absolutely in place and what not, then maybe go for it ....but I've never found ch…
/r/seduction25/04/25 04:25 PM
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Absolutely agreed. Ive read up on this shit since like middle school (circa 2000/2001 or so), and got more into it after college circa 2012 or so.....things have changed a LOT in the last several years. Im old school and dont give any fucks to go talk to any girl out and about if she looks cute and getting eye contact or proximity and what not. The amount of times those interactions have gone NOWHERE despite a great convo is literally the worst Ive ever seen it as of the last two years. NEVER sa…
/r/seduction23/04/25 02:39 PM
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No, because this is a blatant ad instead of genuine help.
/r/seduction23/04/25 02:36 PM
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This feels like a blatant ad. Nonetheless, this is something Ive seen more and more women do in the last two years or so, and no....doing what you said doesnt change whether the women will ghost you or not. It might help but its also assuming the outcome is literally always in your power which is absolutely NOT the case. Playing up the cocky/funny is literally nothing new and it sounds like you just watched Van Wilder for the first time. No offense dude but this isn't that great of an advice.
/r/seduction23/04/25 01:21 PM
1

Which is LITERALLY why everyone can do it and makes you NO different. Its a losing game and waste of time.
/r/seduction21/04/25 05:46 PM
23

As someone that is pretty much this and in the kink world, likely the amount of questions he asks about what you like or wanna try or always wanted to. Then basically communicating he'll give you that.....over and over.....basically being focused on you more than himself (cause let's be real, a woman cumming first a couple times before he gets his....makes for a WAY more feral/enthusiastic woman and usually makes everything WAY more fun). If you can get her to 25 or 30 through a few days then yo…
/r/seduction21/04/25 02:35 PM
2

Or DMing women on social media is generally always a fools game compared to actually working on your real life?
/r/seduction21/04/25 02:24 PM
2

Dear lord I miss this show sometimes.
/r/seduction20/04/25 12:03 PM
3

I dont necessarily think they approach more exactly. Does that likely increase yes? Is it just girls flat out going for the guy all the time and what not either though? No. Its more so, those women will be MUCH more open or flash their interest a lot more directly or it'll be a lot more obvious in general. Nonetheless, just because they might open or approach more often....its still on the dude to take things from there. The guy can still fumble things just as much as any average dude and be lef…
/r/seduction20/04/25 12:02 PM
1

Lmfao again ....make that make sense. I literally have everyone I get with get tested for it you genius. And again, if it's higher in the older population like I said....are most 20 or 30 year olds messing with that age group? No they're not generally. Also, you citing people with higher body counts as more likely having it isn't valid either. I've seen people with SMALL amounts of partners test positive for it, higher partner counts always account for being more likely to actually have it. Your…
/r/seduction19/04/25 04:37 AM
1

Huh? Make this make sense within the context of what I said. ....
/r/seduction19/04/25 03:02 AM
9

I think in this digital age actually I think this is increasingly more important. An introduction from someone else or mutual connection is WAY better than anything cold.
/r/seduction18/04/25 02:01 PM
1

Um....I'm not social incompetent or uncalibrated though. Ive waited tables and bartended for years. Whole point of the post was about using up money to open up more doors. I noted I already have several years of experience in this area, but just wanted some feedback.
/r/seduction18/04/25 01:22 PM
2

Funny the references you put at three and yeah thats part of why spooky movies are my favorite or always make a great choice haha.
/r/seduction17/04/25 10:45 PM
0

Because she already has someone thats clearly interested and now has you as another option. Why would you ever respect a girl playing both options? Thats an absolutely LOSING game to play for you as the guy.
/r/seduction17/04/25 10:20 PM
2

So first things first, I ALWAYS ask this with someone in the beginning....whether or not theyre currently seeing/sleeping with anyone....just so I can make my own health decisions (if shes banging multiple people, you ALWAYS have to depend on other people being honest AND knowing their stuff on stds/testing AND not being dumb, NONE of which I feel like really letting others make that decision for me personally compared to someone that isnt already sleeping with another guy). That always lets me …
/r/seduction17/04/25 10:19 PM
1

Right and I get what you're getting at but I'm also half Latin myself as well as usually date foreign women for the most part if I can. The only thing is that this doesn't exactly help me improve longer term since it's always location independent and more so it's not easy to get to these places compared to working on more things that'll genuinely help in the day to day.
/r/seduction17/04/25 05:01 PM
1

Yeah kind of basically what Im looking at. Like I was considering signing up for class pass to get check out classes in some of the more top tier gyms/places as far as just being around more fit people or ingrain myself with trainers and being more effective, but also increasing my presence radius if that makes sense. I was also looking at getting back into salsa/bachata lessons, as well as like maybe standup/improv classes and maybe joining a makershop possibly as far as like doing woodwork/car…
/r/seduction17/04/25 02:55 PM
2

So fitness/health. Photoshoots. Boosts on apps if they exist. Can you explain your comment about travel as far as meeting people? Obviously I know I can meet people on the road or explore other cities, but Im wondering if you meet going aboard or what exactly? (Im based in the southeast US mostly). Completely understood on for the most part dont buy material things but put more money into having a nice place/spot/pad, etc.
/r/seduction17/04/25 02:51 PM
1

Lmfao at the difference between organic vs walmart. Thats a great point I didnt consider though and makes total sense!!
/r/seduction17/04/25 03:52 AM
1

Get what youre saying about the debt part/dont immediately spend cash. Ive been doing that but also just trying to get ahead and give things a bit of a bit of a kickstart in the process. I already take care of my health and do physicals already and what not. Literally got a colonscopy last year. Also, like ive noted Ive done the meeting women/pickup then since over 15 years ago so Im aware of practice versus theory. Nonetheless, given this job was a 45k raise I vastly disagree that there isnt a …
/r/seduction17/04/25 03:29 AM
6

Alright....Ive done a TON of research on this. Herpes is life long, even if the infection isnt active and a number of studies have shown it virally sheds asymptomatically more often that previously thought....HOWEVER.....I think after the infection has been two years or so....the shedding occurs maybe 4 days a year on average like max. NONETHELESS, I ask EVERY partner for a full panel before we do anything. The testing isn't always 100% and false positives happen but its better than nothing. NON…
/r/seduction17/04/25 02:55 AM
1

Never once said I know more about stds. You're likely not being honest with your doctor about the amount of new women you're sleeping with anyways, if this is even true. Furthermore I've talked to SEVERAL health professionals about stds before, but feel free to let us know how engaging in things with this many partners that are new ALL the time could ever be done safely. NO educated professional would ever yell you the way you did things was genuinely that safe. You citing people communicating t…
/r/seduction31/03/25 01:02 AM
1

Lmfao come up with a better retort that makes you seem actually genuine and honest and successful instead of being immediatwlt defensive and accusatory. That alone tells me you don't know game. But sure, it's basic biology and psychology?....Riiiight. Furthermore, you literally beget your own point. You cite meeting 4 to 5 new women a month and yet "attractive and high quality" always regularly get checked like "men who enjoy sex do" like yourself....yet you never once mention the cadences of yo…
/r/seduction30/03/25 08:51 PM
1

Its possible but EXTREMELY unlikely, like pretty much impossible. Not worrying about hpv and being okay citing the amount of carriers basically, when it could literally cause cancer is just something else. Regardless, IF it's true, there's NO way OP genuinely did this safely (like hsv takes months to show up on a blood test)....furthermore they cited only using condoms when they "believed" there's a risk when like literally half of all people with an sys are asymptomatic. There's like almost NO …
/r/seduction30/03/25 07:20 PM
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4 to 5 new women a month but its a low risk? You only rubber up if you "believe" there's a risk? Dude you're so full of shit. No one EVER sleeping with that many women that consistently wouldn't assume minimal risk and always use protection. Furthermore, you're not using a solid circle to do this? Again, bs. Also, you're doing that well on apps AND sex on the first date AND the girl is the initiating the sex? Dear lord the level of bs. Lastly, you have a "large network of women I'm on good terms…
/r/seduction30/03/25 06:41 PM
0

Don't know if you've heard but they don't stop hpv or hsv you genius.
/r/seduction30/03/25 06:27 PM
1

I put in my comment calling it out as well. NO way he slept with that many women either without catching an STD or two.
/r/seduction30/03/25 04:46 PM
2

TONS of guys already do this, so if this is enough to get you "120-150" women then clearly something else is creating your success. Also, literally sleeping with 120 women with 3.5 years is literally about 34 women every year, which is about 3 new ones every month...at least. No way in hell you ran through that many without catching an STD or two. Thinking the above alone got you the opportunities is extremely misleading, lord knows what the quality of the women are either. HIGHLY sus unless the…
/r/seduction30/03/25 04:44 PM
2

I think bartender at the RIGHT spot or possibly certain tourist spots make sense....but the BIG caveat of that though is that bartenders are the profession most likely to divorce as well I believe so it's a double edged word. I'd say get your money but use bartenders as gatekeepers or befriend them so you get the hookup or recognized whenever out. Surprised no one has said firefighter yet. But this question makes me ask, better seduction opportunities because of the job title....or more so the o…
/r/seduction13/03/25 10:41 PM
1

Eh I'd be Semi wary of thinking thatts due to the direct job/work. It might happen but you'll get a reputation FAST too.
/r/seduction13/03/25 10:35 PM
23

Go to a conference. Women will literally wear lingerie underneath to feel sexy...."confident."
/r/seduction13/03/25 10:34 PM
11

Humor crushes everything. Connect. Be interested. Present yourself well. Lead. Be touchy feely (NOT gropey).
/r/seduction27/02/25 06:13 AM
2

Atlanta, Houston and Dallas are calm? Effing seriously? Have you ever actually BEEN to any of those cities? I care WAY more about the livability of the cities than the women there. That always comes second. I know this cause I just spent several months last year literally figuring out the next city I wanna move to and was trying to verify the vibes of places as well as how the women were where I went....and streaked across multiple cities on the eastern side of the US. Your view of women is so i…
/r/seduction19/02/25 03:48 AM
1

I get your point but insta is toxic as shit and it seems egotistical as shit to me to need to talk about your life that much or broadcast it. Do yall really have the time to build that shit? Like I get it but there seems to be SO much better shit to do with your personal time to me.
/r/seduction24/01/25 05:58 PM
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The ability to chat/have a convo is pretty much gone so ehhhh.... I think it's a no for me dog. Like a viable place/good music to actually dance to. Yes. People trying to rave is very different from people actually trying to legit dance and not be on E or some shit.
/r/seduction30/12/24 01:59 AM
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Ad. All fairly basic information and not exactly anything new here.
/r/seduction12/12/24 05:21 PM
1

She'll always stay stuck on him and it'll get to her more as he seems elusive. She wants what she can't have. Honestly hate to say it but I imagine there's a reason she sees him in that light and not you. I'd maybe try to verify if you can see what this guy has that you maybe don't? Could be demonstrated leadership/dominance? Could be style/more handsome? Could be fitness. I'd maybe try to work on those gaps in the meantime and just let her go. Otherwise you will ALWAYS be back up....which, trus…
/r/seduction04/12/24 06:25 PM
0

YES!! Hell yeah!! Feel free to pm me if you need any other advice or tips or anything meng. Godspeed.
/r/seduction21/11/24 01:54 PM
4

Dear lord... 1-Having a phone call before ever meeting. Allows you to verify the vibe, see if your humor/banter work, develop rapport, etc. Makes the first date more like a second date and I'm not gonna go into that one much farther. 2-Typically, 2 or 3 spots over three hours over 1 for 2 or 3 hours. 3-Logistics/proximity. Get a place in town that's either in the heat of the city or at least viable places NEARBY you can grab a drink or meet up at. An ounce of logistics is worth a pound of intima…
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:01 AM
1

At least in the summer, say June to about mid September; it's literally one of my favorite cities in the US. Went there twice this summer. It's also one of the most diverse cities in the US I've seen and despite being so big, people are pretty nice there. It's also where House music was started and it gets played at a lot of places. Also, literally saw one of the most gorgeous women in my effing life at Lyra this summer. Lots of gorgeous blondes too (Midwest after all). I absolutely effing love …
/r/seduction18/11/24 08:09 PM
4

I'd honestly ask how much substance there are in the reactions hips with these women. I'd imagine they're more likely to be clout chasers than you're average girl. Nonetheless, I'm also someone who has thought shit like Instagram and tiktok type ish are extremely toxic and very bad for your mental health. There's WAY more significant shit to be pursuing in your life than going after material shit. Who really had their lives genuinely changed by what's getting posted or typically discussed on Ins…
/r/seduction18/11/24 04:35 PM
1

So I have a saying basically for this when a girl just basically drops off. What's the difference between....you ghosting me....and you not contacting me back or really communicating back cause you maybe had something going and just didn't tell me? I will be perceive BOTH of those in the same manner. I can't even fully remember this saying myself but I've had to tell it to multiple people this year. Basically it's that you actively ghosting....and you not proactively telling me what's going on a…
/r/seduction17/11/24 06:02 AM
2

Why does it take weeks for you to explain and communicate with me? Seriously no one is that busy. Days passing I get. Anything more than that or she doesn't give a shit or she's just not available or she has someone else. Regardless, stop chasing someone flat out not available.
/r/seduction17/11/24 05:54 AM
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I get what youre saying and theres nothing wrong with it, but the moment she leaves so does that feeling...which doesnt seem right. Your validation is still external, extrinsic essentially. The best high is when you hit your goals or annihilate problems out of your way. Focus on the those, the women should come as a result. Heres a great analogy, I could focus solely on my arms in a a lift session or workout in order to build my arms....however I can build a LOT of other parts of my body and yet…
/r/seduction12/11/24 01:25 PM
4

Lmfaooo. Absolutely days before, never the day of (lmfao). Days before also allows her to get more excited/know it's on like fucking Donkey Kong.
/r/seduction04/11/24 03:36 AM
2

I usually date older. I'm 36. I could date a younger girl but girls in their younger 20s....wtf are we gonna talk about? Tiktok? Yikes. Regardless, honestly i feel like being able to handle a phone call has been a pretty good measure on whether I'd even wanna engage with someone. I get that some people don't like phone calls and I've had girls say that...and I get it....but also, if you can't do a phone call...that seems like a pretty good sign I don't think we'd handle a relationship well. What…
/r/seduction04/11/24 03:32 AM
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You text her and just verify when she's available typically for a "quick call." That usually happens within a day or two. I just had one days ago that I think was two hours long. That's the longest but it was never atypical to go beyond an hour for many of em.
/r/seduction04/11/24 03:27 AM
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Phone call to vibecheck/verify before hand. Sweet jesus yall understimate the power of a phone call. Dates feel weird as shit to me without em now. It also makes the first "date" more like a second date. Next Level: Being able to modulate your own voice well acoustically over the phone has a LOT of benefits.
/r/seduction04/11/24 01:36 AM
5

More concerned about much more important things in general. Theyre not generally caught in bullshit, they're more seasoned and aware. Also, there's a big thing out there about how men just don't approach anymore so....if you're doing it and she's available, you might have made her day. I always want depth and substance. Girls at your age for the most part wont have that.
/r/seduction31/10/24 03:28 AM
1

So it depends. I actually immediately feel a lot of your frustration about dating. I've been with over 70 women and like literally two years ago I feel like everything became so much harder. I have no idea wtf ot is. I've talked to SEVERAL woman that have said they'd wish men would approach them, but ive literally gone zero for like TWENTY in the last few years. It's been insanely frustrating and exhausting. I've never seen it be this hard. And it sucks cause all I want is some damn intimacy. Ho…
/r/seduction30/10/24 03:32 AM
1

Lmfao nothing was ever getting said to the ex. I was considering what to tell MY girl to tell THE third in order to make her ex completely irrelevant or something she can say to completely negate that guy/get him out of the picture essentially.
/r/seduction26/10/24 12:14 AM
2

Lmfaooooo, semi funny. "Hey bro....I taught her how to deepthroat this weekend so she can show her appreciation to you for everything in the last week...." Lmfaoooooo
/r/seduction25/10/24 11:10 PM
2

Im still gonna see the main girl regardless, but it wouldnt hurt to have a threesome over a weekend either lmfao.
/r/seduction25/10/24 11:10 PM
-1

Being a genuine man and getting her away from a Toxic/manipulative POS is clearly beneficial for everyone.
/r/seduction25/10/24 11:09 PM
1

Dude it's literally a couple messages in, breathe.
/r/seduction23/10/24 01:04 AM
1

It's selection bias and where those types of guys orient themselves anyways. All those guys started somewhere and it's probably not where they're at now. There's gonna be a level of showing their best selves no matter what since it's content too. But any guys that tend to improve with game are gonna start working on their fitness and style overall no matter what, it's part of how you level up. Can't expect to bag a Hottie if you don't become one yourself. Why would any dude doing this not wanna …
/r/seduction21/10/24 08:50 PM
15

Bro you went WAY too far down the deep on the "dark" stuff and it likely affected the way you see things. Make sure youre physically active and in therapy if not already. Yes the loneliness epidemic is real for men and nowadays its really hard to put forth so much for so little in dating. Nonetheless, your energy/vibe comes off a bit toxic so youre probably reinforcing bad relationships/people in general around your life. You use the game as a firestarter, NOT everything 100%. Find things you ac…
/r/seduction17/10/24 09:13 PM
4

I cant really help you. You have to explore and understand yourself. You have to go through hard personal shit and appreciate life. You have to know yourself emotionally or be okay with being open and raw. None of which are things I can tell you.
/r/seduction17/10/24 08:49 PM
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Being genuine, direct, funny, present yourself well, very touchy feely/heart on my sleeve (with NO fucks to give), emotionally aware and just make things fun. Being ballsy and having humor/a good vibe and dressing well usually puts you way ahead of many.
/r/seduction17/10/24 08:00 PM
11

Sweet Jesus no, if anything I've seen the opposite....women value humor or a guys that's funny WAY more than they used to. The idea is to be subtle with it or don't push it past a certain point. A lot of men in GENERAL do too much or say too much to the point that every further thing you say can take her OUT of things. You said too much or went too far. We have no context or proof of what you were like before so its hard to compare before or after. Nonetheless my immediate assumption is that you…
/r/seduction15/10/24 08:18 PM
1

So we need more context here. Are you referring to this being said in a general moment? Or like after youve been spending time with someone for a bit and then they tell you this? Now...what if....crazy idea....its the actual TRUTH? It doesnt mean someone doesnt want you per se and that its an outright rejection of you. I think Ive come to understand as Ive gotten older that so much about life when it comes to relationships just comes down to timing. Just because youre possibly not looking for so…
/r/seduction15/10/24 04:59 PM
4

Hmmm. Be flirty or make her laugh when you can, but know she has someone already. If anything, maybe use it as better gym fuel. If anything, her maybe saying no....show her you're still cool and just befriend the girl. Keep it flirty if you're able to but don't 100% go out of your way to talk to her. Nonetheless, hot girls in general likely have hot single friends. Befriend the girl/keep the banter funny and she might turn....or she might have friends she can hook you up with since she already h…
/r/seduction15/10/24 01:22 PM
2

This is a vastly wrong assumption and misread. It mote so matters the dating market/opportunities you have available to you. "Out of your league" literally has nothing to do with that, let alone when women get as much attention as they do for so minimal-the market starts to get retardedly inbalanced in THEIR favor. I've never really considered someone as ever out of my league anyways (cept the obvious like supermodels n celebrities etc)....if I like em or the way they look, I like em. Further, a…
/r/seduction14/10/24 10:22 PM
1

Because there's been way more push to get women into higher degrees and educated by society overall than there have been for men and now things have started to turn
/r/seduction14/10/24 02:15 PM
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Quick notes More women are getting more or higher degrees than men are. That's lead to a discrepancy in resources and women wanting more higher educated men, and correspondingly making more money. Tiktokification/cancel culture/are we dating the same guy has all converged at the WORST time and VASTLY put men on the back foot. Attention. It's easy as SHIT nowadays for a woman to get attention nowadays. This used to be a LOT harder. I think this is the major one. This is a subject I've been marina…
/r/seduction13/10/24 07:20 PM
1

I've been off feeld since that change the made last year. Haven't used it since
/r/seduction12/10/24 10:03 PM
3

Love Norway so I appreciate this and IMMEDIATELY letting it be known you're not selling/advertising anything. Better idea or how one up it....A/B testing between the pnotos and which work better or offering that clients and have all 10 of em or so testing out the different photos with a new set or order (or primary photo) every 7 days to find out which pictures, or types or colors/compositions tend to work the best. I did a mad scientist approach to this over a year ago with Feeld and kind of ha…
/r/seduction12/10/24 07:57 PM
2

Have some balls and dont lead someone on. You don't 100% need to tell someone EVERYTHING from the jump but genuinely be honest if she asks. The main big thing is just DONT lead someone on. I'm absolutely astounded and DISGUSTED at the amount of guys here that don't wanna be upfront but then are saying, "don't spread stds." So...to each of the guys saying that....Are ALL of you getting full panels with EVERY new partner? Stds are asymptomatic over HALF the time. You guys ARE aware herpes doesn't …
/r/seduction11/10/24 11:43 PM
19

He actually could be. I love how everyone wants to assume other people are always seeing others. It's insanely toxic and sophomoric. Is it possible? Of course. Is it a definite? Not even close.
/r/seduction11/10/24 11:39 PM
0

"Because I dont care? A lot of people play bullshit and Im not one of them....so Id rather focus on myself more than anything. If I find someone amazing, great.....but a lot of people wanna play games nowadays and I dont care for ANY of that."
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:09 PM
2

I've been with way more women than you and still feel these same vibes that you do at times. Everything is relative and sometimes you're hit and sometimes you're miss.... Regardless, I think improv classes and/or social dancing classes would help a LOT. Looking at improv more and then maybe go into social dancing.
/r/seduction23/09/24 03:45 AM
3

No it's not. A one night stand would be someone you met while out (NOT off an app) and about and bring her home. You have to meet her while out, seduce and go from there. It takes WAY more to do that. OPs whole point is the skills it takes to meet someone and basically bring them home. You could have been talking to someone for DAYS and over a week from OLD, and then met up and then went at it. You could have talked sex and preferences and all that jazz before then so you pretty much are already…
/r/seduction18/09/24 05:06 AM
5

Its not awesome once you find out what percentage of stds are asymptomatic. Hate being that guy but once you get a few people that think they're good to go find out their positive for something before you're about to go at it....you stop running the risk. Don't get me wrong, I genuinely miss this too at times....but I also don't want that risk anymore either and fine with waiting things out. Making a mff 3some with both girls cumming at the same time more than once is the real shit. OLD shouldn'…
/r/seduction18/09/24 02:02 AM
3

And yet why would I ever set up a boring date in the first place if she was so weary of a boring dinner date? Furthermore, why would I ever wanna entertain a girl that couldn't either A-Just tell me the truth Or B-Say something along the lines of, "Hey, i wanna spend time with you but would like to do something more active or involved or that's my preference for a date....." Or, god forbid, she throws out a date idea herself. I'd easily put this girl in the category of someone NOT to take seriou…
/r/seduction14/09/24 01:03 AM
4

All depends on the cities/areas you're comparing but uh....yeah, this is kind of obvious info. Basically, any one moving to a city is generally gonna be more liberal minded and open to new things than someone from a smaller town. Also very well possible someone from a smaller town isn't nearly as appreciative due to less life experience basically. WAY more options in a city.
/r/seduction05/09/24 01:30 PM
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Cause smart men are smarter so they're always gonna overthink shit or suffer paralysis from analysis. The dumb dudes weren't built with that feature because....there's barely anything there or no deeper level thinking. Not really that hard of a thing to understand.
/r/seduction04/09/24 03:08 PM
4

Thinking your energy comes from your eyes and not the entire rest of your body/brain and overall vibe is a vast miss. Furthermore, not sure if this is what you're saying or not but your eye contact is WAY more important than what your eyes look like. This is also without getting into the expressiveness of your face as well as your voice.
/r/seduction31/08/24 10:36 PM
12

One of the most genuine and real comments I've ever seen on this sub. I maybe kinda disagree on the end part here about kids but still highly value what you've said. OP there's a lot of glorifying about seduction and getting laid when....after a certain amount of women you'll always need to be concerned with bigger issues like stds and how you're using your time and trying to be a genuine person and not shady or a liar. As someone that's read up on pickup/dating/seduction/sec for over twenty yea…
/r/seduction30/08/24 06:15 AM
2

Humor or making a group of people laugh....or showing that the people around you/connected to you are having more fun, etc.
/r/seduction19/08/24 05:00 PM
5

Another plus one for dancing. Especially if theres older women in that scene barely talked to and you're always fine with dancing them/showing them a good time. Dancing also makes your body way more fluid, great first date idea too that you can teach someone OR literally show em while dancing and making out in the kitchen, etc.
/r/seduction19/08/24 04:59 PM
1

You don't go dancing just to date people in the first place. You go for a social connection.
/r/seduction15/08/24 03:09 PM
10

Go to the class but here's the thing with dancing classes. Unless you know it's on, back off and just keep it platonic. A lot of guys going into those scenes (dancing) and you can TELL the ones that are legit there for the vibe/dancing/social connections vs the dudes there for ulterior reasons (meeting women). DONT underestimate how much legit befriending the women there instead of hitting on em asap can open more doors longer term. Also, chick's DO love to dance. Being able to teach a girl on a…
/r/seduction14/08/24 08:27 PM
1

No I'm talking about something different/something new.
/r/seduction14/08/24 02:20 AM
3

Semi curious about this as well. Maybe not exactly "speed dating" events, but I definitely have a feeling theres a real marketplace for in person "events" akin to this and could easily see them overtake the place of apps if someone really knew how to manage/handle them well and make the events interesting. Could definitely see them being a new type of trend to make up for where dating apps started to fail over the last 5 years or so.
/r/seduction14/08/24 01:00 AM
5

IF they are ACTUALLY playing hard to get with you.....I don't give a fuck how beautiful she is, why would you be into that? Naturally there's a back and forth in initiating things or progressing things regardless, but for me.....if she's playing hard to get I already lost interest. Why would I ever wanna chase a chick that's showing me she's unsure about me or interested? I'll contact her when I can/have a moment but I have NO desire to put my energy into women that won't show interest or act li…
/r/seduction11/08/24 03:42 PM
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Lmfao yes all the time. Will happen all the time in game, you learn different lessons from them and it's always up for different interpretations. Sometimes it's, "You only get ONE shot so PUT IT DOWN"....or "MAKE. IT. COUNT." And honestly sometimes you beat yourself up about it, sometimes it's, "Okay that one didn't work out but D&MN did I lay it down! Woo!" Bigger thing is always whatever you end up doing after it happens or how you react. Not gonna win em all and you either learn the lesson or…
/r/seduction03/08/24 01:15 AM
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Who asked u to go? A potential partner/girl or another dude/rando? If girl and you've already gone at it before, you DEFINITELY need to establish boundaries/limits before you go. If the girl wanted you to go she likely has an exhibition/voyeur kink. Anyways....things to consider.... 1-Look into the BDSM community first and what's happening locally 2-Likely go to whats called a munch/slosh first before going to a club. You'll verify the people/vibe first before going to a club. That choice to dip…
/r/seduction02/08/24 11:13 PM
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You definitely won't if you know this actual community
/r/seduction02/08/24 11:06 PM
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Not trying to be a jerk here but how many times have you been to a club before? 1-You shouldnt be that anxious just to go to a club in the first place 2-You should complimenting/talking to people (yes, ALL genders, not just girls) 3-Sorry dude but the idea about voice tone is just a smh comment. People will barely be able to hear anything in a club, thinking a tonal change is going to increase your chances in a club is just......not a smart idea at all. Away/somewhere quiet, yeah makes sense. In…
/r/seduction02/08/24 09:52 PM
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Lmfao right. I dont really follow any of the new guys at all mostly. Only guy I was really into/vibes I liked in the last five years or so was DJ Fuji/James Marshall and some 21 Conventions stuff. Do you have any links as far as those threads? What have been the observations youve been seeing or others were mentioning?
/r/seduction02/08/24 09:48 PM
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Lmfao and yet I do the same. I already said I've never run into this issue until literally this past year, and I never saw it be like this before EVER.....so I'm not exactly inclined to think I'm doing something wrong when i haven't really changed how I've talked to people or approached things since doing this for over 10 years (and yes ive already wracked my brains several times over what it could be, as ive done pick up for over 10 years and that wasnt my first rodeo). Yeah flakes happen....th…
/r/seduction01/08/24 08:24 PM
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Talk to us when you actually get a good date. No offense but getting a girls number or IG nowadays doesn't mean ANYTHING anymore. Not trying to down play this op but I went through a period last year where I got literally ten numbers or so while out and NONE of em ever turned into anything. My text game isn't crap nor are in my in person interactions bad, and I've been in game for over 10 years and I've gotten several numbers before. Flaking happiness but ive literally NEVER gone 0 for 10 from g…
/r/seduction01/08/24 07:32 PM
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Kinda gotta agree with TorT here, if you've never really been rejected before I'd absolutely you don't really know game or haven't actually experienced it as hell. Not hard at all to have your ish or make things work if you never act aggressive/open first.
/r/seduction31/07/24 02:52 AM
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Speakeasys/lounges are absolutely it. Can barely hold any type of genuine conversation at a club AND I get to lose hearing AND overpriced drinks. All out loss on all fronts. There's been a lot of videos online on how much people DONT club anymore.
/r/seduction31/07/24 02:51 AM
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JFC no. Youre trying to entice HER. Unless its specifically important to bring up an ex in the context of something youre discussing....just....no. I get IMMEDIATELY turned off if a girl mentions an ex (again, unless theres a context/reason for it to be brought up) OR discussing things they've done with previous guys. ME-Oh I could be driving you and maybe play with you a bit while I drive...hehe... Her-Well I love sucking dicks while in a car.... ME-Ehhhhhhh I didnt need to know that (and duly …
/r/seduction09/06/24 01:27 PM
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It depends and yeah sometimes this happen or peoole put themselves out there but just weren't ready or couldn't handle things at the time. Play it cool and they circle back. Bigger question is whether she went for someone else of not and now she's coming back to you since she knows what to expect. It's kind of why people come back versus having to put themselves out there when there's a LOT of trash out there these days. It really depends on the situation and the vibe on whether I choose to let …
/r/seduction09/06/24 12:44 PM
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Damn. This is actually some REAL shit. So many chick's will act or say things one way and then....act out a completely different way later. Something I've realized I should try to start working on lately which was just detaching myself, and I've been reading up on game and what not for 20 years or so, so I'm not some dude just new to the scene.
/r/seduction09/06/24 03:53 AM
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I feel this so hard dude on a recent situation. The way Ive looked at it and literally thought earlier today...feel free to judge me for the reference by quoting Infinity War here but... "Tony....there was no other way."
/r/seduction09/06/24 12:24 AM
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Looking into Coital Alignment position....
/r/seduction08/06/24 10:02 PM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with you, quite frankly you sound pretty amazing/genuine. It sounds like more so you need to disqualify the guys out. From the BEGINNING, at some point say.... "Hey, I'm looking for x. I can come off as too much to some people but I don't really know how else to act. I don't like to hide the fact that I go out of my way to take care of the guys I'm seeing. If that's (x statement/gonna be too much/be too jarring) that's fine but I'd rather be clear with that f…
/r/seduction08/06/24 07:35 PM
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You're thinking about this wrong if u want a quick fix. *Pay for upskilling for a better paying career or money making *Gym *Pay for a hobby to learn *Put money into your passion *Enhance your public speaking abilities or do improv lessons *Surround yourself with the right people *Eat decently *Hydrate more *Better fitting clothes/mixes
/r/seduction08/06/24 05:17 AM
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Reread what you wrote and ask if a girl would find that person attractive/would wanna consistently be around them? You seem more depressed than anything. Configure career/skills first and pick a path for your life or at least a plan. Anything else us only gonna be a band aid.
/r/seduction08/06/24 02:15 AM
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If changing is faking, I have a VERY hard time any of those people are actually successful in life or ever will be. Don't buy it.
/r/seduction07/06/24 12:02 PM
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I always bring this up as a side comment essentially. Not directly asking but making a statement about it? "Listen, I'm not trying to piss off your boyfriend or anything now (laughing)...." And then it typically gets clarified from that. "Oh I don't have one...." "Yeah hes...." Fairly easy, fairly straight forward.
/r/seduction06/06/24 10:28 PM
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So....you're perfect girl lies to you? Reread what you wrote. Imagine one of your friends writing this and asking for your feedback. .....come on dude. Id likely not date and focus on your own growth, fitness, maybe mma or dancing classes, etc.
/r/seduction01/06/24 07:22 PM
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Damn, thanks man. I really appreciate this. Just want it to be known this vibe isnt coming from just now/the situation, Ive been onto entrepreneurship/leveling up for maybe 8 years, and always had a growth mindset since I was a teenager. Nonetheless, yeah I think there's been some frustrations that have just shown me if I want the type of life I genuinely want longer term-I have to think of terms like force multipliers and becoming exponential. One of the easiest ways to do that is surround your…
/r/seduction01/06/24 11:43 AM
1

But how do you exactly do that if you're almost starting from scratch? Like I know I can be funny but if I don't have those social connections? I might have some solutions but not sure they're viable. I wouldn't wanna exactly build a skill that I don't valuable myself, if that makes sense. I'm NOT dogging this comment, as I actually appreciate it and get what you're getting at-but it's assuming momentum almost a bit....like I feel like it's easier to start if you have something to start from-but…
/r/seduction31/05/24 10:01 PM
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That's for the positive feedback bro, you don't even know me. Lmfao
/r/seduction31/05/24 08:18 PM
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Umm....I literally already said Id be bringing a solid attitude/skillset myself. Thats on top of finding out one of my ideas would have been a homerun had i connected with a particular friend in NYC working on a similar task around 21/22 that my software solved so um....yeah Im not a leech/sycophant bro. No one said I wanted a hand out, was literally trying to find people executing at a higher level so id be pushed accordingly. Nothing wrong with that and it doesnt mean I want a handout when Ive…
/r/seduction31/05/24 04:31 PM
1

Definitely not really into cars though. Was the idea behind this that people who have cars they can show off have money?
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:25 PM
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No I actually disagree with this. I've read about the community for maybe over 20 years. Got more into it circa 2008 to 12. I went through the end of a relationship in the last 12 to 18 months or so (done and then almost went back to it last sumer, so that's why for the timing). I'm saying this as someone that isn't experienced in game. I'm bullsy and give no effs to go talk to her a girl while out and about. I've literally had friends her me say some of the DUMBEST sh#t to a girl and yet I'll h…
/r/seduction18/05/24 04:10 PM
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Confidence and connection plain and simple. Make or have a girl look at you while she's having an orgasm.. or vice versa (or at the same time) and you'll know why it's powerful in general.
/r/seduction15/04/24 08:51 PM
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I'm a straight dude and literally CANT stand this myself, if like I'm at a bar or a gym and the guys are just clearly starting at a girl. Sweet Christ, learn some tact gentlemen. Also, I have a term for when guys do what you explain, "the two foot creep." They'll literally stand in like twos or so and have their back to the girls but literally only be standing a FEW feet away. Dude, they KNOW you wanna talk to them based off of proximity ALONE. The more you delay, the worse you make yourself loo…
/r/seduction11/03/24 05:37 PM
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"Are you interested in me....or the drink?"
/r/seduction10/07/23 03:18 PM
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When you catch them looking at you twice. Ie, you look around and lock eye contact for a second, you look away....and then look back and she looks at you again.
/r/seduction23/05/23 01:44 AM
2

Wdya mean exactly? I did digital marketing for years and honestly my opinion would be that your way behind the game. The hey day of digital marketing was pre 2017/2018 so. Costs per click went way up/FB just wasn't bringing what it used to after that. Throw in all the tech wars now between Apple and fb and Google with cookie advertising/reducing and its just not nearly what it was. It can be fun but thing is with paid media....you can run an ad one day and it's a COMPLETE home run....Run it the …
/r/seduction16/10/22 07:50 PM
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Heard. Not a bad idea but I only prefer name brand for running shoes. If I need a generic white flat top, I'll just grap a cheap/budget pair from Amazon. No point to me paying for name brand, since I'd rather just drop another $20/$30 next year since they won't be as white/will be a lil dull and not as fresh. Ps Use Mr Clean Magic Erasers to keep them white if you aren't already 🤗🤗
/r/seduction16/10/22 07:43 PM
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....nice bruv.
/r/seduction16/10/22 04:41 AM
3

Hmmm, good idea. Great idea for a piece to offset too.
/r/seduction16/10/22 04:41 AM
5

I don't really need help with my game/my personal skills. I just need to put myself into more physical opportunities to meet people basically, or optimize how many times I can do that, etc.
/r/seduction16/10/22 03:54 AM
2

True story. Trying.
/r/seduction16/10/22 03:28 AM
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Good point good point.
/r/seduction16/10/22 03:10 AM
12

Hahaha I REALLY wanted a 1 year old Husky/German shepherd mix I saw a couple weeks ago but likely shouldn't be getting a dog rn. Extra cost and then I'd have to worry about it if I traveled too. Awesome idea but couldn't do it...as much as I've wanted to and trying to do so in another year or so.
/r/seduction16/10/22 03:08 AM
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Hmmmm, super interesting take but SOLID idea. I'm already at biz events some so I'll have to do more. I do like hosting myself/been trying to host some local meetups. I wonder if there's any marketing meetups I can try to get to. I'm not worried about confidence or meeting people, just more so like....hey I'm through a hard chapter and now I wanna think smart about how I attack my problems I guess....if that makes sense. Why not use a hivemind of dudes that could have a SOLID point/creative idea…
/r/seduction16/10/22 03:01 AM
6

True. Already got both 😁😁
/r/seduction16/10/22 12:05 AM
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Already got a good bit of those. Could mayyyyybe grab some new henleys/ts though. More so trying to think of places/areas/activities or people to gain access to that would increase my odds, if that makes sense.
/r/seduction15/10/22 09:07 PM
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Polo Red. Have worn it for years. Did smell tests with girl friends as well and that was the one recd. Know I could find others but eh, if I got one go to I'm good.
/r/seduction15/10/22 09:04 PM
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True. I already have one good one.
/r/seduction15/10/22 08:21 PM
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I can dig it!
/r/seduction04/10/22 09:43 PM
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This is the type of answer I'm looking for... Jack Nicholson grin/smiling gif
/r/seduction04/10/22 08:36 PM
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