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it's funny to read the last line and some of the other assumptions in this paragraph and at the same time you barely have any experience with cold approaching or with women in general at all. How about leaving all these assumptions at the door and go and find out what actually works and let your experiences shape these "assumptions" for you.
/r/seduction17/05/25 02:28 AM
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aren't there some sites for guys needing wings in certain cities? I would look into those.
/r/seduction30/04/25 09:29 PM
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the typical newbie opener. Hey miss I thought you were really pretty can I talk to you for a moment... something along those lines. I don't approach this way anymore but I was still clueless back then. Still clueless now but a little less clueless lol.
/r/seduction28/04/25 09:03 PM
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0 in terms of getting laid SMH. I was so close last year but my inexperienced ass fumbled the ass. This year should be better or at least I won't make the same mistakes.
/r/seduction28/04/25 08:58 PM
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I'm at 140+ approaches both night game and daygame. Yes it absolutely gets easier in terms of nerves and all but as far as succeeding, for me that's a different story. I remember my 3rd approach ever at a grocery store. It was the first one that didn't go absolutely terrible lol. Felt like my heart was about to explode out of my chest. My adrenaline was so high. I couldn't feel my arms after and loss all coordination of them lol. For me now. Yes there's still that bit of anxiety and nerves but i…
/r/seduction28/04/25 04:48 AM
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Cold approach is a tool to hone your skills with women. If you're terrible with women overall, no amount of social circle game is going to help. Cold approach is there to help you improve your skills with women with multiple chances over and over. You fail with one woman, You can try again on another. Then as you get better, you can transfer the skills you've learned over to your social circle. You can't do this with social circle. You fail with the girls in your social circle, you have no other…
/r/seduction26/04/25 05:10 PM
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Congratulations OP. Welcome to the club. Now do it again and again and again and along the way, you will start to figure it out including dealing with rejection.
/r/seduction23/04/25 03:25 AM
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Try being 30+ and having to learn this shit lol
/r/seduction20/04/25 09:25 PM
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if you do it enough times you start to learn it's the wrong approach lol
/r/seduction20/04/25 09:23 PM
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Anyone who thinks cold approaches produces better results over social circle, social media, etc. should not be doing cold approaches in the first place and I wouldn't recommend it. If you're doing this as an alternative to social circles, dating apps, etc. you're going to get very frustrated. Very very frustrated. Cold approaches should be a "complementary" source to your social circle game and overall your game with women. It's not supposed to be your "main" source of leads. That's not what col…
/r/seduction19/04/25 04:04 PM
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I will
/r/seduction09/04/25 02:30 AM
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I'm going to approach so telling me not to is pointless. You didn't even read my post. I've done a lot of day game. Just not at the gym. Just would like some tips and advice if anyone has any as far as approaching in a gym setting.
/r/seduction09/04/25 02:30 AM
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no you're supposed to be a Casanova immediately the first few times going to the club like every other activity you partake in. When I first started playing basketball, I told myself if I'm not hitting 3s right away like Steph Curry, I just wasn't cut out for the sport.
/r/seduction06/04/25 03:49 PM
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Thanks. Going to use this at the clubs. Been trying to work on my escalation game.
/r/seduction31/03/25 01:41 AM
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I'll let you know when I'm more seasoned and my game has reached a certain level. There's levels to this. I don't plan on stopping. I may not stop. It's becoming an addiction. I'll just say I saw enough success that was enough for me to keep going.
/r/seduction30/03/25 11:31 PM
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I did read your post. If your goal is to meet women in real life, you have to approach them so if going somewhere for the sole purpose of approaching is a waste of time to you, then why did you say "Id like to give up on expending most of my energy in finding someone through online means and FOCUS ON APPROACHING" "I would like to be out more so I'm in the mix but I really need a reason to be". The only reason you need is to approach women because you said you wanted to "FOCUS ON APPROACHING". If…
/r/seduction30/03/25 10:00 PM
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Dude I go to the mall and bring an empty shopping bag that I had previously just so I look like I'm shopping so I can approach woman. Sometimes I put an empty shoe box in there lol. Have some fucking creativity lol.
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:43 PM
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Just cause there's a guy and a girl making out in the corner doesn't mean the guy pulled that night. They might been a couple who already came there or were on a date or something. OP might be assuming too much.
/r/seduction28/03/25 09:57 PM
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yeah this is a bit surprising, the guy who's putting more effort is the one getting actual results. Normally this doesn't happen. It's an anomaly.
/r/seduction27/03/25 10:22 PM
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absolutely true. This is universal. This applies to friends. Coworkers. Everyone you've ever known. You knew in those first 5 seconds whether you would like that person or not... 🤦
/r/seduction25/03/25 12:06 PM
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I'm not saying you shouldn't do it. Just from my perspective, assuming you don't do much approaches / day game from your previous comment, I would actually commend you for starting them at the gym because I knew when I started, the gym and the workplace was not one of the places I had in mind when I first got myself into pickup. I started doing my first approaches at grocery store nearby a college where its always packed with college chicks, the mall, and also the night clubs but majority grocer…
/r/seduction23/03/25 04:59 PM
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and you're going to try at the gym which is probably one of the toughest environments to approach probably right behind the workplace. I just started going back to my gym to check out the women there but I've got 100+ approaches under me but the gym is going to be different since I'll have to see these women again. I've seen women that already rejected me at the club before and it isn't that bad so I think as long as I keep it cordial at the gym and shoot my shot I should be ok.
/r/seduction23/03/25 02:30 PM
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Being attractive is like being in a fast sportscar that's manual. If you only know how to drive automatic, your not going to do much with it. Once you do learn though, it can take you further and faster where you want to be.
/r/seduction22/03/25 11:26 PM
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it's absolutely true. I was with a gorgeous female all night at the club with a whole group of women. I had other women trying to steal me away from them. I would be chatting the pretty chick up and other women would come up to me and tap me on the shoulder trying to get my attention. I would go off to the bar and other beautiful women were staring at me trying to get me to chat them up. I do still get attention like this without them. I've had women approach me before just by myself but it was …
/r/seduction17/03/25 09:14 PM
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We don't really do wing approaches that much or approaches together that much. From time to time, I'll help him just distract the other chick and vice versa. My wing really just makes it easier for me to scope out chicks to approach at the club. It's easier to stand in the corner having someone to talk to while I scope out for girls to approach rather than scoping out chicks to approach just standing there by myself. I did a lot of solo night gaming in the beginning and the hardest part really i…
/r/seduction16/03/25 05:39 PM
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what can he say to the girl or what can I say if I'm the one fucking him up and interrupting him? something like "you guys don't have to go anywhere else, I will leave" or just leave before they can leave?
/r/seduction16/03/25 05:24 PM
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just focus on yourself bro. You will find someone. You don't need to improve yourself. Just be yourself and be genuine.
/r/seduction16/03/25 04:14 PM
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my other favorite is "just focus on yourself" lmao. Hey how do I get a better jump shot on the court? Well you just gotta "focus on yourself bro". Like WTF does that even mean?
/r/seduction16/03/25 01:26 PM
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Ever thought about professional help by now like a dating coach. Maybe it's something you need someone outside of yourself to analyze what you're doing wrong.
/r/seduction15/03/25 12:37 AM
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dating to me is very similar to finding employment in the job market and when it comes to finding a job, you have to be proactive. When your trying to find a job, you send out applications. You get either get rejected or they like you enough to hire you and depending on your resume and your interviewing skills will determine the amount of applications you have to send out. Your hobbies, your social skills, your social circle/friends, your style, your physical attributes, etc. All of these are yo…
/r/seduction14/03/25 11:53 PM
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How about you?
/r/seduction14/03/25 12:23 PM
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been able to unsuccessfully pull last year but I also made great progress. I could have pulled but I fumbled the closest opportunities I had just due to inexperience which is why I continue to keep approaching and getting those reps in. Last year really was my introductory year to approaching. I feel better about this year now I'm a little more experienced. Still not great at it but I'm learning one approach a time.
/r/seduction14/03/25 12:22 PM
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She joked "stranger danger" to me sounds like she's just protecting herself and being a bit paranoid. Nothing wrong with that and really nothing personal against you but your just a random guy to her. You can probably track someone down with phone numbers these days so I can see why some women play it safe and refuse to give a phone number especially to a random guy.
/r/seduction12/03/25 12:25 PM
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I approached a 7 or 8 give or take at a mall. I asked if she's ever been approached at a mall. She told me no. She was past her mid 20s. Take with that info as you will.
/r/seduction12/03/25 12:18 PM
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If a beginner wants to get the most reps in very fast, a grocery store, Walmart, Target, Publix, etc. near a big university will be filled with hot chicks on the daily. It's the perfect training grounds to get started.
/r/seduction12/03/25 02:02 AM
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Cold approach in itself is very hard. Whether a beginner does it at a mall or grocery store, they most likely will mess it up. If you're going into this looking for easy wins from the start, I repeat to anybody who's starting, if you are looking for immediate results fast, you are not going to last and will quit as fast as you started.
/r/seduction11/03/25 10:35 PM
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I think it's highly likely she's signaling interest. I know if a dude came up and sat right next to me and I don't really know them well and there's a bunch of chairs on both sides, I'll probably give him shit for sitting right next to me like wtf are you doing bro lol? Same if a dude uses the urinal right next to me and there's 4 othr urinals empty lmao. Personal space is a thing as well as social etiquette and her getting close when it's not necessary most likely means she was interested.
/r/seduction11/03/25 04:36 PM
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I don't think parks are a good place to approach women. They're there to chill and relax, not meet people. See what I did there. It's just excuses guys tell themselves so they won't approach. I approach women everywhere....cept work lol. Some spots will have more success but you're just limiting the amount of reps your able to get in.
/r/seduction11/03/25 04:00 AM
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if you can approach women in grocery stores in front of other shoppers, you can approach women anywhere. I've done over a hundred approaches. I started my pickup journey at grocery stores. Yes, the woman will be more receptive in other spots. Clubs. Malls. But if you have the balls to do a grocery store approach, you will have the balls to do any type of approach anywhere.
/r/seduction11/03/25 03:55 AM
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Approaching women is a skill like any other and just like any other skill, you can break it down bit by bit. I started by just going up to beautiful chicks at a mall and asking for a number immediately after I said "excuse me hi". They would say no as expected but it helped me get used to walking up to the chick which is one of the most important parts. If you can't commit to walking up to her, how are you going to speak to her lol. And it eased me into dealing with rejection and discomfort. I d…
/r/seduction11/03/25 01:23 AM
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start conversations with other guys who are alone cause you won't be the only one. This is how I met my wing. He saw me by myself and started a convo and we've been on a mission ever since and now night gaming has been way easier.
/r/seduction11/03/25 12:54 AM
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I started off doing the phone number rejection challenge that I saw off of YouTube. I would go up to chicks at the mall. Approach them and say excuse me, can I have your phone number. 99% they will say no. You just say oh ok have a nice day. Walk away. Somewhere far away lmao. Find another chick and repeat. It eased me into getting rejected and becoming comfortable with that discomfort as well as the walk of shame lmao. The number of times you decide to do it depends all on you. I felt 10 was go…
/r/seduction10/03/25 11:43 PM
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I get nothing on apps so I have no choice but to approach lol
/r/seduction10/03/25 12:01 PM
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More I get into this. Less I care about leagues. Women in your league. Below. Above. Way below. Way above. They all going to reject you anyways so why bother caring about leagues? Just approach if you like the chick and hopefully you have the seduction skills to pull.
/r/seduction09/03/25 08:38 AM
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I'll be done with dating apps for good this month. I seen some good looking dudes with great physiques and facial structures complaining they don't even get likes or matches. That's absurd to me. I'll be sticking to daygame and nightgame. Save myself money. It just doesn't work for me.
/r/seduction09/03/25 08:34 AM
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yeah I'm currently trying to figure out how to approach one chick at work. She's given me two signals but still can be misconstrued so I'm waiting to pass her again and see if I can catch her staring and smiling at me again. She's in a completely different department as well so really there's no reason for me to interact with her but from my. intuition the signals she's given me were highly positive. I've never approached a chick at work before due to issues like HR but I only live once and she'…
/r/seduction09/03/25 02:43 AM
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Meh. I see all these guys doing advanced footwork advanced moves in the middle of the dance floor and their there all night by themselves having a dance battle lol. I'm just learning enough to dance with a woman and learning how to grind on her ass lol.
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:40 PM
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If I told you nobody does this. You shouldn't be doing it, would you stop?
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:38 PM
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Number one rule of seduction club. You don't talk about seduction club ...... To women lol.
/r/seduction07/03/25 01:32 PM
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No point in trying to tell these guys that cold approaching is beneficial. Let them decide it's not worth it. Honestly I'd rather they stop anyways and most guys don't cold approach cause it just means less competition for those that actually do this so guys don't cold approach. It's not worth it lol
/r/seduction07/03/25 01:31 PM
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Shitty salesmen will get no results. Great salesman do and you think the greatest salesmen started cold calling customers and got sales immediately?
/r/seduction07/03/25 01:29 PM
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This is something not spoken of too much. Cold approaching has improved all areas of my social skills outside of seduction. Also my balls have even grown in size physically. I would recommend cold approaching on that alone.
/r/seduction07/03/25 01:24 PM
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sidenote, how old was Neil Strauss during his time with Mystery while he was writing The Game? Anybody know?
/r/seduction07/03/25 04:27 AM
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I just checked my city's downtown bar area during the weekdays for the first time and it was mostly empty around 7-9pm time. People did start flooding the area a little later past 10 but I got work early so I left but I was hoping bars during the weekdays filled up a little earlier. Is this just not the case for weekdays and bars are still happening later past 10 or is it just my area? I just can't dedicate weeknights staying past 11pm.
/r/seduction07/03/25 04:24 AM
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my number one excuse when women would ask where my friends were or why I was by myself when I started at the time which was true was I just moved to a new city and was still meeting people. Another one I also used to was my friend backed out of going that night last minute but I still wanted to have fun and went out anyways lol.
/r/seduction23/02/25 01:03 AM
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I started solo when I started night gaming. When you go out, there's usually other guys who go solo as well. When I started getting used to going out solo, I would find other guys who are solo or think were solo and stand near them at a club or bar. They are usually the easiest to start a conversation with since they will appreciate you making their solo time a bit easier lol. Also sometimes I would just go near the outer edge of the dance floor and just vibe and dance a bit to the music while I…
/r/seduction23/02/25 12:59 AM
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could you give me some tips on how to lead to a make out during night game? Like how long do you wait into the interaction and things you say to lead to it?
/r/seduction22/02/25 10:18 PM
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Warming up and practicing will help your approaching skills on demand. If you're not willing to put in the time to approach, then there's not much to help you. You need to find the time. Make time if you have to. It's like asking how do I get better at making a game winning shot for my team? I can't really find time to practice cause time constraints. Take two basketball players. One who only plays pickup games every other week. Another who's practicing every other day and also plays pickup game…
/r/seduction17/02/25 05:21 PM
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Do it 10000 more times and you will become a master
/r/seduction12/02/25 12:57 AM
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I cold approach cause I absolutely get nothing on dating apps lol. Why do you want to cold approach if you're getting dates on the apps? If I actually got any matches and dates, I'd probably do way less if not any cold approaching at this point.
/r/seduction12/02/25 12:56 AM
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what I love about cold approaching that most don't really talk about are the benefits it has outside of game and seduction. Since I've started putting myself in these very uncomfortable situations and succeeded in doing some of them, my confidence and my balls have grown tenfold and I've seen it improve other areas of my life but forget I just said that, it's absolutely useless I don't need more competition out there so please don't cold approach lol ok maybe just you guys in this board can cold…
/r/seduction12/02/25 12:38 AM
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Yeah man just keep at it. You got all the time in the world looking at it from my point of view of someone trying to do this at 30+. I've been fortunate to still look like I'm in my 20s to have a 2nd chance at this when I should have been putting in the work in my 20s but I try not to think too hard about it and just focus on the time I have now.
/r/seduction11/02/25 04:29 AM
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If you need some motivation or want to read about someone who was in your shoes about a year ago, I wrote some field reports detailing my first 50 approaches which I called "The Newbie Chronicles" where I learned to get over my approach anxiety and overall beautiful women by just approaching them in malls, grocery stores, using direct game. I'm over 100+ approaches now and I can't wait to write and upload all of them one day but for now the rest are still stored in my own notebook but I got some…
/r/seduction11/02/25 01:29 AM
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Try being 30+ and being behind lol. I would love to be in college again learning this shit.
/r/seduction09/02/25 08:00 AM
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basic replies might mean your matching with bots
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:16 AM
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I agree and at the same time, it's just a way for them to entertain attention and validation. I gave it a shot though. I can't say I didn't try. It's just like marriage and near 50% end in divorce. I know what I'm getting into but I still want to give it a go. If it doesn't work out, at least I know I gave it a shot. I'm not there yet. Don't even have a gf lol but ultimately that is the goal for me. When my subscriptions run out, I'll be using that renewal money instead on Duolingo lmfao.
/r/seduction04/02/25 04:58 PM
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I saw on the Hinge reddit of one guy complaining about getting no likes or matches at all and this mfer looks like he should be on TV. His profile was great as well and nothing and he said he had been swiping for 5+ months lol. When the last two remaining dating app subscriptions end for me, I'm done with them for good.
/r/seduction04/02/25 01:51 PM
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heavy eye contact and smiling are the biggest indicators. If she also turns her body towards you while walking in another direction. Really great indicators.
/r/seduction02/02/25 06:33 PM
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But YouTube keeps telling me men aren't approaching women anymore. Men don't go to bars or clubs and it's only women left lol. Yeah I saw this pretty much my most recent outing. I was in the bathroom taking a piss and this dude came in started yelling and complaining there were no girls in the club lmao he sounded absolutely frustrated. But this probably was a more severe case as this club had probably a 9 to 1 ratio of men to women lol. But on a random night, the clubs get packed and it's fille…
/r/seduction02/02/25 04:44 PM
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I saw one Hinge profile of a pretty chick that said she gets 2000+ interest which I'm assuming is likes. Dating apps are impossible lmao.
/r/seduction02/02/25 04:19 PM
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all i got were bots on Tinder. Scammers with fake AI pics on Hinge. Haven't got any matches at all. I have a good profile too. I've also seen other guys on the Hinge reddit complaining about getting no likes at all. One guy had movie star looks and great pics and he was complaining about getting no likes for more than 5 months let alone matches. Once my last two dating app subscriptions end, I'm done with online dating period. It's not worth it for myself. I have better luck with women IRL when …
/r/seduction23/01/25 04:19 AM
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For me it was simple. I conditioned myself by doing a lot of approaches in front of people. I approached this girl one time at the grocery deli line in front of a couple who was waiting behind her. I approached this chick at the mall as she walked by a group of 4 guys. The only way I get over things is just by going through it. Going through the pain and discomfort of it all until it no longer is a barrier. I still am hesitant when it comes to approaching groups of women. How will I get over thi…
/r/seduction04/01/25 05:21 AM
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stop trying to convince people to daygame.... I need less competition out there lol. I want to be the only one to do it if it were up to me lmao. Guys daygame and cold approaching doesn't work okay.
/r/seduction04/01/25 05:05 AM
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1,000? My goal is 10,000.
/r/seduction26/12/24 01:39 PM
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yeah there's about a week left lol. This year really was an introductory year to pickup for me doing my my first 100 approaches. I've been keeping track and seeing my approach rate increase as time goes so yeah next year my numbers should pickup.
/r/seduction24/12/24 05:39 PM
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so there's no malls or clubs in your city, u need to move my friend lol
/r/seduction24/12/24 05:37 PM
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Do u live in the Outback? Malls are still a thing. Grand malls are still a thing. I was at one the other day and it was packed with shoppers... and beautiful women lol. Don't believe all the youtube videos saying people are not mall shopping anymore. A ton of people still go out to shop. I'm thinking about heading out again on Xmas eve and doing some more shopping.. and sarging lol.
/r/seduction24/12/24 01:30 AM
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Unless it doesn't matter who u approach, as long as it's a woman I guess you can do that but I only approach woman I'm sexually attracted to and sometimes I'll go to the mall and not find one that meets my criteria for almost an hour walking around and we're talking a half an hour drive lol.
/r/seduction24/12/24 12:56 AM
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Most I've ever approached in a month is 15+. 25 women a week? Damm I need to step it up next year lol.
/r/seduction23/12/24 01:53 PM
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Have you gotten any great interactions from cold approaching yet or any results?
/r/seduction22/12/24 06:12 AM
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their bots and fake profiles that match with you to keep you thirsty and keep paying for the app
/r/seduction16/12/24 11:15 PM
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Congratulations bro. Welcome to the world of cold approaching.
/r/seduction16/12/24 02:05 AM
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that's normal when you're in unfamiliar territory. First time you rode a bike, you're legs were probably shaking. It went away as you kept riding. Same with women. When I started, I actually froze up in my earliest approaches. I couldn't even get a word out. I've done more than a 100+ approaches now. It doesn't happen anymore. Women don't scare me or make me nervous anymore. Only way to get over it is by pushing yourself through the discomfort and continuing to be interact with women your attrac…
/r/seduction16/12/24 01:54 AM
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Bro I was in the same boat just about a year ago. I've done 100+ approaches since then. I started day game though before I even worked night game. My biggest motivating factor in getting out of my comfort zone was and still is..... time! We're 30 now. We can't afford to be scared to approach women or scared to do anything at this point. I regret not doing this earlier in my 20s. I know why for me personally but I can't get that time back now. I only can take action with what I have left now. I g…
/r/seduction14/12/24 04:15 AM
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need some clarification, she approached you and hit on you before and you turned her down and this is what is the result of that? need some backstory here.
/r/seduction12/12/24 01:47 PM
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I get nothing on OLD so I have no choice but to do it during daygame and nightgame.
/r/seduction29/11/24 02:56 AM
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Yeah I think this will be the plan.
/r/seduction28/11/24 04:40 PM
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Yeah I'm going to be extremely careful. It's why I normally don't go for chicks at work but at least I can say I tried it once in my life lol. I already approached a chick who works same company but I don't count it cause I approached her outside and didn't know she worked where I worked when I approached her at the time lmao.
/r/seduction27/11/24 01:50 PM
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I didn't add all the details but there were more occasions where there was something I felt was more. Women smile at me all the time passing by at work. I never took it as they were interested. There's this other chick. She's always smiling when we pass by but I get this vibe from her that she smiles at everyone lol but this chick feels a bit different. But without getting too much into details, some instances that occurred along with the smiles in the hallways, my intuition says there's somethi…
/r/seduction27/11/24 01:48 PM
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wtf? lol
/r/seduction26/11/24 05:11 AM
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Yeah it's definitely them staring first. I don't try to stare at the women again but there's other chicks in vicinity I'm scoping out and while I'm scanning notice them still staring at me as they pop in my line of sight lol.
/r/seduction25/11/24 01:36 PM
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I'm not sure about walking back up to them. I'm thinking next time though is either I do the come over here signal or just hold eye contact and see where it goes. See who breaks eye contact first this time lol.
/r/seduction25/11/24 05:31 AM
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Is this a thing between "dancers" on the dance floor? I will usually see that one guy doing all these moves. Me I just do my little two step lmao but I've never had anyone try to aggressively push me off my spot lmao. Is it some sort of competition thing on who is the best dancer on the floor? lol
/r/seduction24/11/24 04:42 PM
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I need to learn to dance. Women dont wanna talk on the dance floor and even if they did, it's hard to fucking hear anything lol.
/r/seduction24/11/24 04:40 PM
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I can't do it. I don't get drunk to the point I'm slurring or can't even stand upright but it's just not fun for me. I know I don't need alcohol as a crutch to approach cause I did a ton of approaches daygame and nightgame without it but with alcohol, I think it makes it easier to approach although I'm not even sure if this is true cause I still hesitate on approaches while drunk. I just like to drink cause it makes doing activities much more fun. Heck I won't go fishing unless I got some alcoho…
/r/seduction24/11/24 04:37 PM
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I can cold approach mostly anywhere but the club game /dance floor is where I struggle right now cause I can't really dance. I tend to stick on the outskirts where women aren't really dancing and more talking but most of the beautiful women are on the dance floor. I see guys on the dance floor and they will put their hand out and try to dance. I haven't done that yet. It doesn't feel natural to me if I decide to try it. But I know the only way for me is to try it and try it a ton. Approaching at…
/r/seduction24/11/24 04:33 PM
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I have over 100+ approaches and I still hesitate from time to time which causes me to miss out on opportunities. Maybe 1 out of every 5 approaches. Last night at the club, it was 1 out of 4 where it took me awhile to pull the trigger. The only way I know how to overcome this is to do a ton more approaches lol. Usually it's the first approach of the day or night that takes awhile but once I get that first one, I'm locked in. Also when I haven't approached or done any cold approach day or night ga…
/r/seduction24/11/24 04:13 PM
1

if you got the skills, you can play the gills
/r/seduction23/11/24 03:47 PM
2

College towns are your best bet for daygame. There's a huge university nearby where I live and they have some restaurants that are within the vicinity of the campus and open for the general public so it's filled with college girls. Other than that, there's really not too many places I can think of besides large malls. I think beaches would be filled with plenty of women there but where I live has no beaches at all but if there was that would be another spot I would be honing my skills at.
/r/seduction23/11/24 03:54 AM
0

Nope. Not yet. Like I said, the opportunities that I did come close to getting laid, I either messed them up or like the closest one I ever got, I fumbled hard. Still punching myself in the balls about that one. I also did have opportunities where women approached me on my nights out. I had this beautiful blonde practically offer herself up to me. She approached me and started telling me she thought I was handsome AF and she wanted me to keep her company that night but I turned her down cause I …
/r/seduction23/11/24 03:40 AM
2

So far my best results came from the mall as far as getting phone numbers but the grocery stores and Walmarts allowed me to get over my approach anxiety. I did a ton of approaches my first 50 approaches at Walmarts and grocery stores but I was using begginer game so not too many results but I did get a number from this gorgeous dancer at a mall on my 13th approach. I was still a massive begginer so I blew it during texting between us but it was the biggest eye opening experience I had in terms o…
/r/seduction23/11/24 02:43 AM
5

Go to a Target / Walmart near a college or large university. Those stores are packed with hot college girls. Especially on the weekends. I also go to the giant malls. And downtown park. Even a Publix near college will be packed with beautiful women to try your game on.
/r/seduction23/11/24 02:29 AM
10

I'm a handsome guy. I'm not tall (5'8") though but a blonde on one of my nights out at the club approached me and just started showering me with compliments of how handsome she thought I was. Literally offered herself to me. Women stare and smile at me too like gawk at me. Yet no matches or even likes on dating sites lol. This is my last attempt on Match. If I don't get anything by March I'm done with dating apps for good. I'll stick to IRL for leads SMFH!
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:09 AM
1

Paid for Platinum and all I got were fake bot matches. I didn't get any matches before. I'm off Tinder for good.
/r/seduction14/11/24 09:43 PM
0

I did a whole ton of daygame before I even set foot doing nightgame. I think doing daygame really helped me prepare for night game. Daygame is way tougher for me so far. And more time consuming.
/r/seduction27/10/24 03:00 PM
1

Always missed out on these. I gotta start making a move whenever these happen but it happens so randomly it's hard to stay prepared for.
/r/seduction27/10/24 02:57 PM
1

Often
/r/seduction26/10/24 07:34 PM
1

100+ approaches in. Probably 55% of mines are daygame. It's still takes more time for me compared to night game at the clubs/bars to approach a chick at a mall or grocery store. I can approach a 10 night game ni problem. See her at a grocery store, it might take me a minute or two longer to approach and it's caused me to miss out on a few. I think part of this has to do with day game being considered more unnatural to night game. At clubs and bars, men are expected to approach women. At grocerie…
/r/seduction25/10/24 12:53 PM
1

Guess my father falls in that 5% cause my parents literally met at a mall and didn't know each other before that. I'll most likely be keeping up that tradition lol.
/r/seduction22/10/24 12:44 PM
2

Did u get anything close to being successful with those 150? When I started, I almost had something below 20 approaches. This gorgeous dancer. I was expecting to do 100 before I even got a number lol. I lacked experience though so when we started texting back and forth, my inexperience showed and I tried to move things too fast. I almost had more opportunities within the first 100 as well but each time, I either fumbled hard or just let opportunities get away due to inexperience.
/r/seduction17/10/24 04:35 PM
3

You posted in relationships section about a year ago.
/r/seduction17/10/24 01:07 PM
16

I just looked at your post history. How did you go from being a 24f in one post last year to now being a 34m?
/r/seduction17/10/24 12:59 PM
1

Absolutely. There are levels to "game" and "seduction". Levels!
/r/seduction06/10/24 06:15 PM
1

Really depends on many factors. These include attractiveness, strategies used, ability to fix mistakes and make adjustments, ability to stay motivated after frustrations and rejections, etc. Everyone won't have the same experiences or results. Really it's just up to you to find out how your numbers are and if it's worth pursuing.
/r/seduction06/10/24 06:06 PM
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How much are you paying average a Saturday night? I avoid the clubs with covers. They are the same as the ones without in my experience. Parking is the most expensive I've seen so far. Some areas charge as high as $25 which is a total ripoff but I know the spots that charge the least.
/r/seduction05/10/24 05:30 PM
-4

I live in a metropolis full of hot women!
/r/seduction05/10/24 05:22 PM
1

why you need that many wings wtf? Probably one or two is enough. 30?
/r/seduction05/10/24 03:36 PM
11

I feel you. It's about $40 a night on a Saturday night for me with drinks and parking included and I'm sure it will be more once I find a lady friend to keep going out with but I'm just talking as someone going solo or with a wing and spending on myself. Would be $50+ if I went to the clubs with covers. I am balling at this point in my life though so it ain't an issue but I'm still wondering myself how I could have ever done this during my college days back when I had to ask my friend $10 just t…
/r/seduction05/10/24 03:32 PM
2

I dont know if it's considered an accessory but I grew my hair out very long and I'm 10x hotter with it down. I have really nice hair and I always get compliments on it. It feels like "cheating" to me at the moment when I have it all out so I just tie it up for now cause I really want to "earn" my pickups. I already get women approaching me telling me how gorgeous I look with it tied up so imagine what it is like when I have it down. Last time I went out with it down, I got a few women commentin…
/r/seduction03/10/24 01:11 PM
2

How credible is this guy the author I mean? I just bought his book too and it's in my backlog at the moment but I remain skeptical of all dating and pickup advice since it's the only field where anybody can just spout a bunch of shit and really you have no way to verify any of this unless you try it for yourself. I mean I can probably write and release my own dating book now without any real credentials besides just trust me bro I get women lol.
/r/seduction03/10/24 12:53 PM
2

naw man there's definitely something wrong with these apps. I'm a handsome ass dude. It's not cause my mother told me either lmao but I still get absolutely no matches on dating apps. I'll get the occasional whale match lol.
/r/seduction01/10/24 03:39 AM
4

Are you sure they aren't bots? I paid for Platinum and gave it a 3 month try. I rarely got matches before and if I did it was usually with a whale. After going Platinum, I got more matches with beautiful women but either they wanted instagram followers or bots. I noticed everytime I matched, when I turned on the setting to only message verified accounts, every account I matched with wouldn't let me message them cause they weren't verified which made me think they were bots the whole time. Tinder…
/r/seduction01/10/24 12:53 AM
1

I think people should be experimental and find what works for them. One thing I've learned since taking this journey is to not discredit anything and try it out for myself with a good enough sample size before I come to a conclusion about any type of dating advice I come across.
/r/seduction01/10/24 12:30 AM
1

All your asking is people to be more specific but both situational and pretense are just different types of indirect openers that are on different levels of "indirectness" with one producing more chances of success than the other. Either methods still fall under category of indirect approaching.
/r/seduction30/09/24 12:57 PM
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The two openers you listed are just a type of indirect openers. Your either direct or indirect.
/r/seduction30/09/24 12:39 PM
2

I don't understand how being at a bar, club, where everyone is drinking alcohol and expected there to be levels of drunkness is seen as weak. I understand dudes who are completely drunk and can barely speak or stand but how drunk are we talking about here to be seen as completely weak lol?
/r/seduction29/09/24 07:31 PM
1

women usually want the latest hand bag that other women want, I think it also applies to men as well lol
/r/seduction24/09/24 05:13 PM
2

Just find your city's main club/bar venue area. Usually it's located downtown of a city. This is where all the bars and clubs are located in one section and usually the city will close the street down or keep car traffic limited for clubgoers. You can approach plenty of women in the bars and clubs and also on the street.
/r/seduction23/09/24 12:19 PM
1

Lol no they were all separate occasions. 3 different girls on 3 different nights. I haven't ran into one who did all 3 yet lmao
/r/seduction22/09/24 10:13 PM
1

The last two had deal breakers for me to reciprocate and return interest. Like one just had too many tattoos for my liking, the one who rubbed her hands across my chest. The one where a friend came up to me and pointed to the interested friend, I was in the middle of gaming another chick I was deeply invested in during that night so I didn't pursue that one. I just smiled at her and kept continuing my pursuit of another chick who I was very focused on. I only ask this question because I thought …
/r/seduction22/09/24 10:11 PM
2

I made one just going out solo a lot. Met another "soloist". We got to chatting and now we go out together and it's done my night game wonders. Really it just makes it easier to scope out women standing at a spot with someone else to talk to rather than standing at one spot at a club by yourself scoping out for women to approach. Really that's the big difference for me so far between solo and wing gaming.
/r/seduction22/09/24 01:56 PM
5

Are they interrupting your sets? I go out with a wing but for me, I use to go solo a lot. With a wing, it just makes it easier to scope out chicks while standing at a spot easier than it is by yourself but I'm still approaching girls on my own regardless for the most part. I will say to my wing, stay here I'm going to approach these chicks. He will do the same. Sometimes we do sets together but really the difference for me between solo nights and wings is it makes it easier to scope out the club…
/r/seduction22/09/24 12:48 AM
2

Tinder didn't work for me. All I get are bots. I think only one was real lol. Shutting it down for good. Going to give Hinge a shot but cold approaching is my go to.
/r/seduction21/09/24 07:14 AM
3

now compare those two to a guy whose done 1000s and answer the same questions.
/r/seduction21/09/24 12:36 AM
3

compare a guy whose done only ten approaches versus a guy whose done 200+, ask yourself which guy do you think feels approaching is more natural to them? Who do you think has more success? Which guy do you think has more fuckups?
/r/seduction21/09/24 12:28 AM
2

When you first rode a bike, were your legs shaking?
/r/seduction21/09/24 12:18 AM
3

Tried night game? I still do daygame but I use it more as training for my night game.
/r/seduction20/09/24 11:53 PM
1

I was new to my city so I had a valid excuse in tje beginning. Then I just would say my buddy backed out last minute but I still wanted to go and have a fun night. Easy!
/r/seduction19/09/24 12:21 AM
8

DJ Khaled!!!!
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:51 PM
3

I'm in this boat. I still look pretty young so being 30 ain't an issue. But time is! lol
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:50 PM
2

Excellent tips. Will attempt these next time. Thanks man.
/r/seduction16/09/24 12:25 PM
2

"I focus on making her feel comfortable with me. I clearly succeed as she becomes touchy and so do I. When we became really close to each other, I went in for the kiss" Could you give me some details here on what types of things you did in this part? I'm still trying to learn to get more past the stage of just having a fun conversation and turning it to more sexual interaction but my transitions feel forced a bit. Example the last chick I got close with at the club, after creating enough rapport…
/r/seduction16/09/24 04:50 AM
1

I'll let you know after I get to 10,000 approaches whether this is worth it or not
/r/seduction14/09/24 08:40 PM
1

"culturally I understand White girls might just not like Asians" All my girlfriends in my life have been white chicks. Majority of the women who have ever shown me attraction signals and IOIs have been white chicks as an Asian man myself. The last women who approached me at the club was a white chick lol. The last woman who wanted me to approach her was a white chick. I don't let my ethnicity stop me from approaching any chick. My mindset is if I see a chick I like, I just approach.
/r/seduction14/09/24 04:20 PM
2

never has worked for me. I've been "not trying" for years and got me nowhere lol
/r/seduction14/09/24 03:58 PM
1

This isn't about women who rejected him. This is about women who did want him but instead of giving Marshawn the ball he chose to pass.
/r/seduction12/09/24 10:40 PM
1

I remember the first time I ever fucked up a cold approach early in my pickup journey. Went totally silent. I froze up. The cringe was off the charts. A couple minutes later as I walked to my car I realized it wasn't that bad. I survived. That is when I knew I could be successful at this. That is when I broke the "fear". I immediately went to do another approach after that lol.
/r/seduction12/09/24 12:31 AM
1

I've done it so much it's normal to me now 🤷
/r/seduction10/09/24 11:47 PM
2

Same night too, saw this model looking dude with long hair straight out of an Abercrombie magazine. He approached this very mid tier looking chick. Way below his league. He still got rejected lmao.
/r/seduction07/09/24 04:47 PM
1

I see plenty of attractive dudes just stand in a corner women just walking past them all night. Just saw two very fit good looking dudes try their luck with this very sexy chick the other night. They kinda stole my opportunity to approach but I waited too long to commit. But when I came back to this area, I noticed they were back to square one just standing there together sipping alcohol and I noticed the chick we were all interested in, she's cozying up to this skinny dude. Not as attractive as…
/r/seduction07/09/24 04:45 PM
2

That report will come out when the time is right lol. I've been writing field reports up to my 50th approach but I stopped for a bit since it got time consuming. I'm still keeping track of each approach but just haven't transferred them over here on Reddit for everyone to read lol. I think that night was my 70th something approach. For veterans of the game, my night probably happens to them almost everytime but for a newbie it was an eye opener. I also realized social proof is very very real tha…
/r/seduction26/08/24 09:48 PM
2

Yeah I've been doing night game solo for a while now. Recently found a wing organically through my solo nights and having a wing makes night game 10x easier but I don't think it would have been 10x easier had I not put myself through the challenges that my solo nights gave me. I will continue to go out solo as well from time to time because I know it works and I can have a great night. It took me awhile though. I went out solo about 4+ times every weekend in one month. I had some minor success t…
/r/seduction26/08/24 02:34 PM
2

If I could go back in college again, I would do both. Social circle game and use cold approaching as well. There's so many beautiful women in college just walking around and about. Why limit yourself and your skills only towards woman in your social circle?
/r/seduction21/08/24 12:41 PM
1

on my most recent daygame outings, very few solo women out and about in the malls but they are there. I'm only focused on approaching "solo" women at the moment but after hitting a certain number of approaches, I'm going to start approaching groups as well during daygame. If you only focus on solo women, your going to limit yourself.
/r/seduction18/08/24 04:54 PM
3

I enjoy the process of leveling up my skills. What keeps me going is the search for something better than the last great experience I had daygaming. I can literally feel myself leveling up with each new concept I apply. I think if you're just going out to daygame and wanting results immediately, most likely it's not going to be fun for anyone who takes on this type of activity. But if you're focused instead on the skills and practicing on improving game, then it makes it much more enjoyable expe…
/r/seduction17/08/24 04:13 PM
1

this includes women you're not attracted to?
/r/seduction17/08/24 03:49 PM
2

how did you get the LTR? through cold approach, social circle, night game?
/r/seduction16/08/24 02:46 AM
1

pffff try learning this shit in your 30s. I wasted my 20s lmao.
/r/seduction12/08/24 10:17 PM
2

Why not? I already work out at my work gym where there's nobody there. Getting a gym membership would create more opportunities for me of meeting more women. All the time? Well I won't do that. I will be discreet about it and yes once in awhile absolutely. But yes I am getting a membership for this sole purpose. If I didn't, I would just stay at my work gym since it has everything these franchise gyms already have lol.
/r/seduction02/08/24 01:20 PM
0

I'm getting a gym membership soon just so I can approach women at the gym lol
/r/seduction01/08/24 10:20 PM
1

Were these women in general or only ones you found attractive? I only approach women I find attractive. I think it's pointless to approach women you don't have sexual attraction for just for the sake of approaching. I would go to the mall sometimes, I'm talking large malls and I would be lucky to find at least 4 women I found attractive enough on a great day and I would say my standards aren't even that high. I'm talking girl next door beauty and even then there would be days I go to the mall an…
/r/seduction01/08/24 02:57 PM
3

you must not want it bad enough. If you want it bad enough and you want her bad enough, you will risk looking like an idiot, a fool, a blabbering idiot, for that one chance of success. Even if you don't succeed, you will come out even stronger knowing you have the balls to go after what you want. You took life by the horns and tried to make something happen.
/r/seduction30/07/24 05:07 PM
1

I'm working Tinder for now. I'm giving Tinder 2 more months. Getting matches there but most are girls who just have Instagram or Snapchat on there bios and don't respond. I did have one blonde who actually was responding and said she was in town for only the weekend and I think I fumbled a quick hookup there SMH. Going to make an Instagram and Snapchat and see if these leads go anywhere. Then may try Hinge after if Tinder doesn't go anywhere.
/r/seduction30/07/24 04:16 AM
1

all I get are fat chicks shown to me on Hinge
/r/seduction30/07/24 02:07 AM
16

really as early as my 20s. Was reading material and a lot of theory but rarely put it to practice. Just having so many other responsibilities and engineering school got incredibly tough I didn't put the time in. Now I'm putting it all to the test way later than usual but for me it's now or never I put the work in and I got all the time in the world now. I should have made time to dedicate myself on learning the "game" back then even if I had so much schooling going on. One of my biggest regrets.…
/r/seduction27/07/24 06:59 PM
5

this guy, OP, is very lucky for his first time. My first time out was ok but I didn't take as much action as I should have. Took me several times, maybe on my 4th time out solo to get a great night out but it was all I needed to let me know it's possible to have a great night. Just keep going and don't stop but also don't set your expectations too high as well. After my first great night out, I couldn't wait to go out again. The next two were complete busts lmao. Just focus on pushing great "gam…
/r/seduction27/07/24 06:53 PM
1

My favorite is I'm new to the area or my buddies backed out last minute lol.
/r/seduction24/07/24 12:20 AM
1

Yeah it never goes away but the more you approach, the easier it gets at overcoming it. For me, just getting in tons of reps has been the only way I've overcome it.
/r/seduction24/07/24 12:11 AM
1

have you tried doing night game?
/r/seduction23/07/24 11:48 PM
2

Was your first approach. Any new skill someone pursues, they aren't going to know everything. They aren't necessarily going to be good. Many mistakes will be made. For that to be your first approach, I congratulate you. Good job. And yes the anxiety will lessen in time the more you approach. It never goes away completely but you learn to manage and handle it with more reps and experience.
/r/seduction29/06/24 06:25 PM
0

Anyone who agrees to this or stops cold approaching because they agree to this would just result in less competition for the guys out there still cold approaching.
/r/seduction27/06/24 12:35 PM
2

Also on my very first approaches, before I went out sarging for that day, I would watch on Youtube some successful pickup approaches to get some motivation. Then I would watch videos of guys failing hard and getting rejected hard lol. It let me know if I messed up, I wasn't the only one in the world looking like a fool and many men have failed before me as well lmao. I don't need to do it anymore as I've done enough and have had successful approaches and I've also had my share of failures as wel…
/r/seduction26/06/24 10:04 PM
5

I got over it by doing it a lot and doing it consistently. I've done enough to know that the fear and anxiety is really just in your mind most of the time. Even after 50+ approaches, the anxiety never really goes away. My heart still beats fast and I get that adrenaline going inside me but it wasn't as bad or severe as the first 10 where I really had to push myself to do it. When I was just starting out, I had complete tunnel vision with the anxiety totally overwhelming me cause approaching was …
/r/seduction26/06/24 09:55 PM
6

Grocery stores, clothing stores, and stores like Walmart and Target near college campuses or in college towns are filled with hot chicks lol. Another one are the giant malls. Plenty of women there. Bookstores for me are a hit or miss. Bookstores in malls though are much better. Another one I have yet to really day game at but I noticed many beautiful girls walking were major large city walking parks. Also a downtown busy area as well.
/r/seduction26/06/24 02:14 AM
1

Yes I'm currently improving my dancing skills. Definitely facilitates more chances of interaction with a chick all though I was mostly doing a lot of grinding that night and I'm not even sure if grinding on a chicks ass at the club is considered dancing these days lmfao
/r/seduction20/06/24 05:43 PM
20

this is the right place to ask. You just gotta learn to be careful what advice you take in and as always with any advice, go and actually field test it for yourself. There's a ton of bad advice I read on the daily here but there's also quite some gems on here as well.
/r/seduction09/06/24 02:53 PM
1

Yeah my first lasted not even past a few sentences and my second time was told to fuck off lmao so this is definitely a great start in my book lol. Keep it up OP. Congratulations on making that first step.
/r/seduction09/06/24 07:27 AM
2

better now than never. Time is ticking. Get out there now and make moves.
/r/seduction07/06/24 04:11 PM
0

Social circle never helped me out of my shell with women. Cold approach has done wonders with my anxieties and also has boosted my social skills in general. I recommend every guy go through it. It takes a lot of cojones though and ability to push through frustration. Cold approach is exactly what I needed for my situation.
/r/seduction06/06/24 05:54 PM
0

Different places require different game plans.
/r/seduction23/05/24 05:16 PM
1

I deleted mines years ago but I recreated using same phone number recently and still absolutely no real results. I think and I'm guessing here that they probably keep phone number linked to shadow banned accounts which is why I'm going to give Tinder another run with a fresh new account and new numberr. Just need a new number to use lol. Now if it's linked to facial structure with all this new AI tech they have out there then we're probably screwed with the algorithm no matter what lol.
/r/seduction23/05/24 05:10 PM
1

I'm going to give a new account a try and see if I get better results. Anyone know a free or even paid good sms service so I can use a different number when I sign up.
/r/seduction23/05/24 04:25 PM
2

Most likely. It explains why all I get are whales lol. It's probably showing me at the top of their list lmao and the lowest on most desirable women. I just set mines to show me only on women I swipe now. Tired of subscribing after seeing 10+ likes and it's all whales smh lol. Tinder is also confusing to me as well cause from my understanding the women who swipe on u that u haven't swiped on yet will show up on the likes section correct me if I'm wrong. But I remember one time, I had nobody in m…
/r/seduction23/05/24 04:24 PM
10

I get barely any matches either. I did mass swipe in the beginning too I mean a ton of mass swiping and then I found out it causes a shadow ban lol. That was a while ago but I deleted my account and waited years but still using same number so I think they may have saved my shadow banned ass and still barely getting any results. I might try to recreate my account again but I need to find out how to get temporary text or some sort cause accounts are linked to phone.
/r/seduction23/05/24 12:40 PM
12

that's practically their duty. If you see a chick and she's out with her friends, that's basically their offensive lineman. Be prepared to have a solid gameplan to get around them cause they will get in your way. I approached a chick at a club one time and she didn't even respond, she just turned her back on me and walked away and suddenly out of nowhere her 2 linebacker friends came into view and started telling me how she's taken and that she can't talk to other guys lol.
/r/seduction21/05/24 12:40 PM
2

the one thing I find about this pickup thing is it requires a ton of patience more than any other skill someone is trying to learn. I've been going out day-gaming and night-gaming and some days at the mall I won't even do one approach due to not finding a chick I find attractive enough after driving to the mall for half an hour. Same at the club. Then I will have some days and nights where I approach a ton and get to practice my skills and learn what I need to work on. But the downtime in betwee…
/r/seduction14/05/24 04:35 PM
3

when you no longer can form a sentence out of your mouth, I think it's too late at that point lol
/r/seduction14/05/24 04:24 PM
1

it doesn't. You learn to handle them. Once you handle them. Those heavy feelings turn into light feelings.
/r/seduction12/05/24 11:16 PM
2

Nope. If she's attractive to me I go in and let the skills I have developed so far do all the work. Still sharpening them though lol.
/r/seduction12/05/24 02:13 AM
3

I'm not the best looking guy but the girlfriends who I've been with and made the initial move always told me that they found me attractive and that's why they even made a move so I can imagine a dude who's at levels of looks where they actually get paid for it, must have women approaching them on a constant daily basis. Yes women do go for looks to but if you don't have em, you gotta play with the cards u were dealt with. Work out, dress better, style ur hair, and work on your seduction skills t…
/r/seduction08/05/24 05:16 PM
3

need more context, are you approaching women and other dudes are walking up and stealing the girl you approached?
/r/seduction02/05/24 11:35 PM
2

All I get are whales and sometimes a tranny every now and then as my likes lol. Same thing with Hinge. I now turned on that setting where only girls I swipe on can see my profile. I got like one match where the chick was hot but I never got a reply back. Might have been an old swipe or I just got lost in the pile of other guys lmao. I'll be giving Tinder 3 more months but if I don't get anything I'll be shutting down my Tinder journey for good or for a long time before I give it a shot again and…
/r/seduction02/05/24 11:28 PM
1

great read. Keep it up.
/r/seduction12/04/24 01:10 PM
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Damn man it must be so much easier with wingmen. It would probably be so much easier to approach women with other guys cause at least if u get rejected u have a group to walk back to and still be social. I just approached a chick tonight with her friend and they just both flat out ignored me in the club. I moved on and had no choice but to stand back at the bar by myself. I can handle it at this point but I'm sure it would be nice to just go back to a group to keep you busy. Maybe sometime soon …
/r/seduction06/04/24 06:23 AM
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You won't know what your doing wrong or need work on until you get that experience making those mistakes. I missed out on a few opportunities due to not being able to close. Part of being a newbie to this but it's why I continue to grind and continue to more and more reps.
/r/seduction06/04/24 06:07 AM
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Why not use both? I prioritize cold approach and actual pickups over online but why not also utilize online gaming?
/r/seduction04/04/24 01:24 PM
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Also is your opener "I thought you were cute" if yes, how do you follow up the "thank you so much" When I was going direct, I would follow up with asking if they were taken to which they replied with that they were. Only one girl replied she wasn't and then I just asked her why not and she gave an answer and I just kept the convo going. Most just said they had bfs. Some will even immediately just say they had boyfriends after I told them they were beautiful lol. Didn't even say thank you at all …
/r/seduction31/03/24 07:05 AM
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Does it feel weird? I've done it so many times now it feels normal lol. The one chick I was able to get into a conversation with while we were walking I tried to get her to stop and she said she was on the move and couldn't. If you feel it's weird to do this, let me just say that not one chick has said anything like "why are you walking with me? why are you talking to me?". I just keep walking with them and try to apply my seduction skills until they reject me.
/r/seduction31/03/24 06:54 AM
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Are they bothered that you've interrupted whatever they're doing to approach? Only a few I felt they didn't want to be approached, maybe 2 out of 50. You just have to read the chick but most seemed unbothered. As long as you approach appropriately. My 2nd approach ever, I approached very cocky. I just said "hey girl what's your name" to a chick and she told me to fuck off lol and her friends saw this and gave me very disgusting looks lmao. It was very aggressive approach so if one goes this rout…
/r/seduction31/03/24 06:48 AM
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Can I ask, are the women you approach just walking about in the street during the day or are they seated somewhere? Majority of my approaches have been daygame so far when I started my journey so these consisted of grocery store and mall approaches. For the mall approaches, most of these women were on the move so I got real good at approaching them as they were on the move but I haven't been able to get one to stop enough yet but I have been able to catch a conversation from one while we were wa…
/r/seduction31/03/24 06:40 AM
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For me it helped with overcoming the anxiety of approaching. overall. I am able to approach women with different strategies now. I'm approaching women indirectly at the moment and I'm having full blown conversations now with girls I approach in public but I wouldn't have been able to do this without those direct approaches I did in the beginning.
/r/seduction29/03/24 01:15 PM
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I still get approach anxiety every now and then but I'm about 60+ approaches in and I'm able to overcome it at this point and still commit anyways. One thing I learned is that the anxiety never goes away. Maybe after 1000? For me it just isn't as high as it use to be and since I've approached so many women now, I know that the anxiety is normal and I have conditioned my mind and body to overcome these feelings due to approaching so many women. At this point in my journey, I see an attractive chi…
/r/seduction29/03/24 12:57 PM
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Going to give this opener a try. Been working indirect openers lately in daygame and have been running the "where are you from?" opener and it's a nice and simple conversation starter but I'm looking to mix it up and I'm going to give this a try next and see how it plays out for me. Thnx man.
/r/seduction18/03/24 04:33 AM
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Talk to more attractive women that make you nervous until it goes away. Ever since I started cold approaching hot women even those way out of my league, my nerves have dissappeared... well they are still there but it's so miniscule and you can't see it through my body language unlike before where I would be stuttering or just freezing up. Not sure if you're up for cold approaching but only other way is to expose yourself to more situations where you have to interact with hot women and get used t…
/r/seduction13/03/24 05:27 PM
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With Non-Caucasian women, I just ask them where they or their family is from. It's a great conversation starter. I just went up to two chicks at different grocery stores and told them "excuse me, where are you from?" which resulted in about 5+ minute conversation. Usually they will say what country they or their family originated from and you work off of that. Women love to talk about themselves. With Caucasian women, I ask the same thing but conversation is more city oriented and not country or…
/r/seduction13/03/24 12:55 PM
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It's an ego and validation thing. Women looking at them feeds the ego and validation that someone finds them good looking lol. I know when a beautiful women smiles at me when I'm out and about it feels good! But I made it a focus to approach women I desire regardless of IOIs.
/r/seduction12/03/24 07:21 PM
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I definitely believe I could have turned that situation towards my way. I like the idea of being playful in that situation and holding her hand and telling the friend she doesn't want to go all playfully and jokingly. I'm going to try and execute these maneuvers lol next time the girl im with gets dragged out of my situation and if they don't bite I'll turn it around into getting a number out of it. It's happened three times now since cold approaching a friend out of nowhere drags my target inte…
/r/seduction12/03/24 04:12 AM
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You got it. Your in the right direction. Break it down to small steps if you have to. When I started approaching, I just started with asking for their phone numbers immediately. It was an automatic rejection but it got me used to walking up and dealing with the awkwardness and discomfort of it all and got me used to rejection. But I basically broke it down little by little. Now I'm able to approach women and have conversations with them. It feels unnatural at first. Going up to some random chick…
/r/seduction12/03/24 01:40 AM
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Missed opportunity. Not cause she rejected me. Her friend stopped talking to the dude and then she said something to my target chick while her and I were enjoying our conversation. Her friend tells her something and then she tells me they had to go outside to see their friends. I just said ok and that I should see her again. I could have done more at this point but still a newbie at this. They left and now it's just me and the guy there. I didn't talk to him. Maybe I should have and asked him wh…
/r/seduction12/03/24 01:13 AM
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Not every post has to be a field report lol unless it's tagged as a field report. You should search up field reports if you want those details lol. It was tagged as fundamentals.
/r/seduction11/03/24 12:43 PM
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I think this happened to me but on a smaller scale. I approached a chick on the dance floor. It was already a warm approach since she opened me first in another area of the club but when we finished our convo she went to her friend who was already on the dance floor. I followed soon after and noticed her friend and had to think about out how to approach her and her friend this time. They were dancing together and I approached the chick that opened me dancing up to her. I was going to start worki…
/r/seduction11/03/24 12:35 PM
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how many did you do as far as daygame approaches and are you also doing night game?
/r/seduction20/02/24 05:41 AM
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max looks AND max seduction skills
/r/seduction09/02/24 02:16 PM
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