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-1

what sub? link to it ffs
/r/seduction01/07/25 09:51 AM
1

you got old
/r/seduction24/06/25 06:49 PM
2

Try to the princess hand hold. what is that?
/r/seduction23/06/25 06:39 AM
21

Dude talking about women. It's very rarely been the case that a woman deciding to touch any part of my body of her own volition has not wanted to take things further. It's usually them casually putting their hands on my forearm in reaction to something I've said. Women are very good at avoiding men they don't like so if she's touching you she's just waiting for you to take it somewhere.
/r/seduction12/06/25 05:49 PM
-5

bachata dancer Of COURSE you are! Sleaziest dance around and also the worst music going. we both couldn't do salsa Of course you couldn't do a proper dance with real music. She's curious about the dating scene and is one of the reasons she's taking up bachata. 6 months down the line she will have fucked more guys than you've had hot dinners. And then she will leave the scene in embarassment. In all seriousness, the bachata scene is full of Asian late bloomer dudes, making up for lost time by cha…
/r/seduction12/06/25 08:55 AM
1

And we don't need penpals. Your post history suggests you're looking for penpals. Plus there's so many Ukrainian women in western Europe right now I can just go to my local bar rather than message you.
/r/seduction04/06/25 06:11 AM
18

I hate this
/r/seduction02/06/25 08:02 AM
10

I hate this.
/r/seduction29/05/25 12:04 PM
5

what about finasteride for hair loss?
/r/seduction28/05/25 01:59 PM
0

if you blow your chance with a girl and disappear completely, it’s obvious what your real goal was. Yes - romance. Shocking! How terrible! Instead, we should just be looking to torture ourselves by maintaining close friendships with women we are in love with but it's not reciprocated... if you only talk to women you’re attracted to, we notice. Why should I waste the time of a woman who I'm not attracted to? I know a girl with lots of male friends. They're all gay.
/r/seduction26/05/25 07:07 AM
0

and young. Don't be old.
/r/seduction12/05/25 05:44 AM
1

If your Instagram is such a weapon, share it with us lol you’re a 40 year old man Not yet, but it will happen to you too, son. who pays for bumble I pay for singles events as well. I pay for all kinds of things, when you have some money you will find out what you can spend it on. admits that they sit and wait for likes on Instagram Nope, I don't use instagram in that way, precisely because I don't want to turn out like you being turned away from bars in East London That was years ago and the ven…
/r/seduction05/05/25 09:32 PM
-2

what about your grade school macho language, calling an effeminate social media platform a "weapon" lol I mean come on
/r/seduction05/05/25 09:08 PM
-4

IG is an amazing weapon cringe! What does it do to your mental health? Particularly viewing who has seen your story, waiting for likes, etc.
/r/seduction05/05/25 08:05 PM
1

Wow, you have the words "pimp style" in your username.
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:30 PM
1

Yes I think every post should include the age of the poster. Gimmicks that work on college girls don't necessarily work after college. A lot of the stuff on here is orientated around dudes in college.
/r/seduction04/05/25 10:42 AM
14

most guys are willing to have sex with most women definitely not true of my self but true of some men
/r/seduction30/04/25 11:00 AM
6

I've read somewhere that men tend to have a wide range of preferences when it comes to being attracted to women Actually I think most of us are mainly attracted to women up to 27 and younger 😂
/r/seduction30/04/25 11:00 AM
1

how old are you? serious question.
/r/seduction07/04/25 05:52 PM
0

18 year old girls? Sure, dancing monkey works 30 year old women? they would laugh at you
/r/seduction07/04/25 05:45 PM
2

So setting unrealistic expectations from the outset - gotcha
/r/seduction07/04/25 05:33 PM
0

Be enthusiastic and high-energy. A corollary of “be positive” and “go all in” is “be enthusiastic and high energy.” For example, I will walk up to a girl and say “Holy shit! You look amazing!” like I had just seen a magical unicorn flying out of the forest. Or I might say “I fucking love your earrings” like I had just taken a bite of the most delicious cheesecake of my life. And no matter what she says, I act like she said the most interesting thing in the world. And I keep up that enthusiasm un…
/r/seduction07/04/25 05:21 PM
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for your ego, you feel you need to say something to make you feel better about yourself. And that's OK, but it's not going to change the outcome.
/r/seduction01/04/25 09:32 PM
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because the outcome is the same whether you do or not - easier to just not bother and not inadvertently end up writing more
/r/seduction01/04/25 07:43 PM
0

And who cares? If you weren’t butt hurt I'm not sure why guys in here are so quick to be abrasive in their replies. You're bUtT hUrT hur hur! The issue is that Ok, thank you for letting me know. All the best. often turns into a longer text for a lot of dudes. Sometimes it's better for some people to just leave it. I know that the outcome of either texting "Ok, thank you for letting me know. All the best." or not replying is absolutely miniscule. We're talking about early stage dating here.
/r/seduction30/03/25 11:59 AM
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Seduction is about communication. If she has rejected you then seduction is over. What you are suggesting is that people run away like cowards. It's not a battle. But it's over, so why hang around? If you reply the right way, she’ll think that even though it didn’t work you were a decent person that she respects. It's academic and you're never going to meet her friends. What you're describing is how for your ego, you feel you need to say something to make you feel better about yourself. And that…
/r/seduction30/03/25 10:51 AM
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acting like not responding to a rejection is some big win It's not a win, but it immediately stops you wasting your time and emotional energy so you can move on to the next. As for "sounds good" well that's an outright lie and "stay [hashtag] blessed" - what does that even mean other than you're religious, and that is irrelevant at this point too.
/r/seduction30/03/25 07:08 AM
-1

I don't see how leaving the conversation on her message is burning bridges. Her rejection text is a conclusion. She isn't going to lose sleep over not receiving a reply. She is already making plans to see other guys and her friends.
/r/seduction30/03/25 05:45 AM
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I like responding, because some people just ghost, and I like showing appreciation for not being ghosted. By not responding you are not ghosting. It's letting the conversation end on her message. Unless she has included a question in that rejection message, it does not warrant a response. The reason she responds is probably because you've said "great wanna hang out again?". I would respond to a girl if she asked me if I wanted to go on another date but I didn't.
/r/seduction29/03/25 09:29 PM
3

that's whack. you may as well say nothing
/r/seduction29/03/25 09:22 PM
1

You could also react with a thumbs up emoji, but it’s academic. She would probably appreciate no more messages from you, so why give her more messages?
/r/seduction29/03/25 09:06 PM
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I don't think there's anything toxic about not responding if a girl has rejected you via text and you've only been on a few dates and not even slept together. If a girl doesn't want us romantically I think it's actually a relief for her to not get another message from us. But from a selfish perspective not responding helps your own mental health, even if it seems like the ego wants to get the last word in.
/r/seduction29/03/25 04:12 PM
8

I know, it's the hardest thing to do. But it's really important to just let it go.
/r/seduction29/03/25 04:02 PM
2

That dating event context gives much better odds of success. Sure the events are shit but the women there are looking for something. Beats trying your luck with a girl from some other part of your life.
/r/seduction27/03/25 07:34 PM
3

How old are you? How old are they?
/r/seduction21/03/25 03:32 PM
2

you probably don't look your age, then. where are you picking them up? you must be talking about late 20s.
/r/seduction11/03/25 07:51 AM
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3.) college girls. Self explanatory hard to get if you're over 40, all the advice in this sub is for 20 something college bros who make mum jokes
/r/seduction10/03/25 10:51 PM
1

you're going to be so disappointed Professional styling consultation ($300-500?) DIY, ask on reddit Quality wardrobe basics from reliable brands ($2000) buy from ebay, lower cost, same items plus mostly returnable 12-month fitness program: gym + nutrition coaching ($2500) OK but don't pay upfront Dental work: professional whitening, fixing chipped tooth ($1000) Probably the best suggestion you've made Skincare regimen and dermatologist visit ($500) OK but check the skincare subs first Profession…
/r/seduction07/03/25 10:34 AM
2

I thought this was a sales tactic by an spectacle frames maker.
/r/seduction21/02/25 04:55 PM
2

I want to take the lead and make him feel like it was him seducing me all along. Do you think you're overthinking it? Instead, it might be worth mentioning to him that you find him attractive. He might be caught off guard if he hadn't anticipated this. Don't assume he can tell. Don't expect you can pull this all off in one seductive evening. Begin a dialogue, have a relaxed conversation and don't depend on him getting subtle messages. Don't be put off if he initially doesn't act on it but don't …
/r/seduction21/02/25 04:22 PM
5

You need to establish that he is into you first. It's awkward for anybody if someone they are not into is expressing interest - you've been on the receiving end of that, I'm sure.
/r/seduction21/02/25 01:27 PM
2

You Me? I've never married. Not worth the financial risk.
/r/seduction07/02/25 05:14 PM
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if you don’t learn how to take control of your dating life, you could end up in the same situation as this guy - 45, alone, and unsure of how to even start. You can end up alone at 45 because you met the woman of your dreams at 30 and she divorced you 15 years later because of nothing you did. Could be her, could be perimenopause, mid life crisis... stress of being a mother... not in your control. Also, some people think they're better off alone. Being passive in your dating life isn’t just risk…
/r/seduction07/02/25 10:32 AM
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Another teenager post. It's easy to do this at any point in life: approach the least attractive women. Why would you want to do that, though? Focus on quality over quantity.
/r/seduction04/02/25 08:14 AM
3

Cool so I'll go and hoover up all the teenagers using tinder then, brb
/r/seduction27/01/25 10:56 PM
13

Most of this sub is playground BS. The guys never post their age but when you ask, it turns out they're always around 21 lol
/r/seduction27/01/25 08:08 AM
58

39 here and this thread is utterly irrelevant to me
/r/seduction26/01/25 09:35 PM
1

gets rid of some idiot that won't take no for an answer Yeah because blocking a number is really hard /s
/r/seduction25/01/25 10:08 AM
2

still, what's the benefit to giving out IG? What makes IG more private than a number? If I text or phone she can block, no great shakes.
/r/seduction25/01/25 12:42 AM
7

ask for the Ig dont go straight for the number cause I wouldnt share my number to a stranger who just said "Hi, I m Andrew" you know how stupid this is? If you give me your IG I know WAY more about you than if you just gave me your number. With your IG, I can find out your hashtags, interests, family members, ex boyfriend, job... plus cross reference it against Linkedin and other social media. If you give me your number, all I have is a fucking number. Still want to give out your IG to randoms?
/r/seduction24/01/25 10:59 PM
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you sound like an easily manipulated person. more fool you.
/r/seduction15/01/25 03:33 PM
6

Might have happened since all women got an instagram account, and how you look on social media became the primary metric for attracting younger women.
/r/seduction06/01/25 02:16 PM
5

are you 16?
/r/seduction04/01/25 05:40 PM
-1

One of my clients Oh of course. You're commercial. You're like girls who use dating apps just to promote their onlyfans.
/r/seduction01/01/25 02:03 PM
-3

When you're 38+ your game will suffer. Unless you want to date divorcees and single mothers.
/r/seduction01/01/25 12:47 PM
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I don’t even know how to explain it to you aside from it becomes fucking primal. It’s like that moment you finally manage to squeeze out a stubborn shit, but 100x better you're a real shakespeare, romeo
/r/seduction30/12/24 12:46 PM
-22

With Miami Latina strippers I learned how enjoyable snorting blow off a vag is. Bro. I bet it stank of tacos, hope you didn't get a disease.
/r/seduction28/12/24 06:16 PM
3

transactional relationship? could just go to a prostitute... if this one is good, maybe try to settle down with her lol
/r/seduction28/12/24 06:14 PM
3

yeah this is very hard to pull off with a girl like that if you are pushing 40 or over 40. so enjoy it whilst it lasts, I feel like this is something which is never said. there's this idea that you can go through life bucking the nice 26 year olds just with a bit of confidence, it doesn't work like that.
/r/seduction28/12/24 05:33 PM
2

she's 26, and how old are you?
/r/seduction28/12/24 05:24 PM
1

What about women who want to have kids within a year or two of meeting a guy... yeah dating at 38 is wild. also why guys go younger, a girl is less likely to want your kids within the first couple of years if she's in her 20s. 30 something women are fiending for kids.
/r/seduction24/12/24 03:15 PM
-10

Reason 8 Being over 40
/r/seduction23/12/24 10:49 AM
5

the problem is if it's a big deal for her
/r/seduction17/12/24 07:17 AM
1

what is it about elderly women that you are so interested by?
/r/seduction09/12/24 10:42 PM
-4

I hope you're not dating women in their 40s.
/r/seduction04/12/24 03:36 PM
-11

I hate couples. They're cliquey and more interested in each other. Third wheel is shit in social interactions (I'm a guy) and I presume it's shit for women in this situation too.
/r/seduction29/11/24 05:04 PM
-42

Why would an attractive young woman with options want to be a couple's plaything? You two are there for each other, not for her.
/r/seduction29/11/24 03:47 PM
1

Instagram is where women go for attention. Not to meet men.
/r/seduction11/11/24 06:10 PM
-1

I don't have time for the mind games, can read and respond to posts on reddit, sure.
/r/seduction05/10/24 06:14 PM
3

I hate this toxic shit. Always have. Unless you're trying to bang as many women as possible and are completely emotionally detached. I just don't have time for this.
/r/seduction05/10/24 07:36 AM
1

Lots of beautiful women in bachata, they dance it for an ego boost. They're being hit on all the time. If you want the ones in their 20s you ideally need to be under 30. If you don't like the music it will eventually grate on you. Also once you have been on the scene for over a year your potential really expires as you're seeing the same women every week. If you rely on conversation for game, forget it, because you will normally be in a noisy club.
/r/seduction25/09/24 06:59 AM
2

If your odds of success at something are consistently reduced, you don't have to quit, but you should adjust your expectations.
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:31 PM
0

Er, it depends on the person. I asked him how old he was out of curiosity. Are you OK?
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:17 PM
0

It matters plenty. Easier to get women in their 20s if you're in your 20s and 30s.
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:02 PM
-2

how old are you?
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:27 PM
-1

Many women in their 30s and 40s are looking for men who know what they want and aren’t afraid to say it. why would we want a woman in her 40s? unless we're over 60?
/r/seduction16/09/24 09:23 PM
10

Casual sex isn't fulfilling after a while. What if you're really horny? Surely it's always fufilling if you're as horny as a teenager.
/r/seduction16/09/24 03:32 PM
2

imperious English women, right? Can't think of any other nationality of woman who would use that word
/r/seduction09/09/24 01:27 PM
1

Hi man I think that another thing you can take from this is you need to wipe the mental slate clean now. By that I mean, don't think about this woman any more, put the memory out of your head as if it didn't happen, just take the principle you need of action and take it forward. Keep making opportunities and run with them.
/r/seduction03/09/24 05:55 AM
0

are you balding or bald?
/r/seduction02/09/24 02:31 PM
0

how old are you
/r/seduction02/09/24 07:02 AM
24

You have to be hot. Women in their 20s and 30s want a guy who looks good on their social media. You have to be instagrammable. You need to have good hair, if not you need to be jacked. You cannot just be an average looking middle aged guy, unless you're hitting on average looking women.
/r/seduction22/08/24 06:32 AM
1

The problem only arises when they ask how old you are. Don't lie but try to keep off the topic for as long as possible.
/r/seduction15/08/24 04:28 PM
1

I'm getting women, but they're not the women I find attractive. Welcome to being old, bro. It goes downhill from here. Look forward to single mothers, old women, and once you hit 40 you will encounter scepticism from any woman under 30
/r/seduction15/08/24 06:22 AM
3

31 or 39? big difference
/r/seduction09/08/24 08:39 PM
3

how old are you
/r/seduction05/08/24 04:20 PM
2

how old are you?
/r/seduction29/07/24 08:30 AM
0

they make it go south
/r/seduction27/07/24 08:05 PM
-3

why would you want to sleep with women over 35?
/r/seduction27/07/24 07:55 PM
-4

and in your mid 40s these chicks probably look like what you put on toilet paper.
/r/seduction27/07/24 07:44 PM
-12

you won't get shit pushing 40 so you better figure it out now
/r/seduction20/07/24 01:19 PM
1

how old are you
/r/seduction20/07/24 10:44 AM
5

desespararate Almost as good as covfefe
/r/seduction17/07/24 12:18 PM
2

I think about it every night and day
/r/seduction03/07/24 04:08 AM
36

I believe I can fly
/r/seduction01/07/24 08:17 PM
7

try to do more adult things to meet women at your age. Why would he want to meet women in their 40s?
/r/seduction16/06/24 05:58 AM
2

how old are you?
/r/seduction13/06/24 07:42 AM
1

whats your age
/r/seduction08/06/24 12:29 PM
7

Harder in London than Birmingham Asians are bottom of the food chain.
/r/seduction08/06/24 12:27 PM
1

How old are these 20 chicks?
/r/seduction07/06/24 01:15 PM
4

I don't want to babysit someone else's kids.
/r/seduction02/05/24 12:57 PM
1

link?
/r/seduction02/05/24 12:56 PM
2

I think this about most stuff I read on here. I'm 38...
/r/seduction29/04/24 05:28 AM
1

how old are you both
/r/seduction08/02/24 03:55 PM
5

You did it because you're 20 and in your own words "a decent looking guy". Try doing it in 17-20 years time and see how far you go lol. You'll either be collecting dregs in their 30s or 40s, or nothing.
/r/seduction30/08/23 07:54 AM
257

Momentum.
/r/seduction19/06/23 12:35 PM
12

Dude, if you're going to contribute here have some respect for the people reading your words and even your own words. We cannot understand you if you don't punctuate. Wait until you're at a computer.
/r/seduction27/10/22 08:44 AM
-3

does she want me? Cuz I totally want her. When you see her naked you'll want to go back to girls your own age 😂
/r/seduction22/10/22 12:00 AM
1

Don't think about getting married until you're in your mid 30s at least.
/r/seduction17/10/22 10:59 AM
1

Stop expecting a girlfriend before you have sex. Have sex and then maybe you will get a girlfriend. That's how it works
/r/seduction24/09/22 09:56 PM
2

You can make a fake profile using a Chad and get nudes on snapchat the same day after you escalate the conversation into a sexual one. How do you know that? lol
/r/seduction22/08/22 01:41 PM
2

Doesn't sound like an ideal relationship tbh
/r/seduction18/08/22 05:04 PM
1

how does the body compare to 10 years ago
/r/seduction18/08/22 05:02 PM
3

She was at my wedding And now you're back on /r/seduction lol what happened
/r/seduction18/08/22 05:01 PM
1

I like dancing but the music is terrible
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:19 AM
-1

You do. This isn’t zouk
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:15 AM
0

Try dancing with a random girl at a random club and you will immediately become one of the most attractive guys. Except that they don't play bachata at "random clubs". What makes you attractive is that you can do something different from everyone else. Yeah you dance bachata in a bachata club where everybody is dancing bachata. Durr.
/r/seduction14/08/22 10:00 PM
2

Why on earth do you like wrinkly, saggy, varicose veined, stretch marked, makeup caked, insecure old women when you could sleep with women in their 20s?
/r/seduction14/08/22 09:22 PM
1

is that why you're a FORMER personal trainer? lol these thirsty women... just looking for a fuck
/r/seduction14/08/22 09:19 PM
1

And what if they all just don't like you? lol. Lower standards?
/r/seduction14/08/22 09:16 PM
0

The hospital. Sheltered accommodation. Why on earth do you like wrinkly, saggy, varicose veined, stretch marked, makeup caked, insecure old women 40-60 when you could sleep with women in their 20s?
/r/seduction14/08/22 09:05 PM
12

It's all an illusion. I've been dancing bachata for 9 months. Lots of hot girls but they don't put out on the scene because it's small and they see the same people every week (like at the gym). Don't underestimate how seeing the same people every week kills spontaneity. A lot of women get a kick from dancing sensually with guys but that's it. They get the sensation of being wanted, they get the thrill of dancing close, and yet they don't have to put out or have sex with anybody. It's only really…
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:43 PM
0

You’re a pathetic scrote. Jump into the back of a bin lorry when the compactor is turned on
/r/seduction12/08/22 06:52 PM
10

I was a 3 different ladies a day person. For years. two questions: What do you look like and What did the girls look like 😂
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:14 PM
1

I love dinner, followed by drinks at a bar. Conversation is my strong point, I can get them to open up, and I can find out quickly whether or not she shares my values or is the kind of person I'm interested in spending time with, whether I want her sexually or not. It beats a gimmicky first date hands down. Also, I love food. "Oh, lets play fucking mini golf!" How about no.
/r/seduction12/08/22 01:35 PM
-1

um, OK dude
/r/seduction12/08/22 11:19 AM
-3

No, you just come across like a douche. Starting off a reply with "muppet" lol. What a dick.
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:36 AM
-5

lol what are you, some kind of negative copywriter? just coming out with snappy insults for people. your entire comment history is one liner shite.
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:35 AM
0

yawn.
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:27 AM
0

No it's not. I'm saying that in spite of being feminists (which is good, positive) they still want to sleep with the guy who is fucking everybody in the room, and trust me, I know these guys and they are always misogynistic. The whole point about feminism is creating a sense of equality, adding value to the woman, not treating women like disposable characters. But yet they are always attracted to the guy with a fuckton of choice, the guy who is fucking everybody. I've seen it. Describing this is…
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:15 AM
0

I never blamed feminism for my issues, read the fucking post. Christ.
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:57 AM
-4

Just follow the dance and then take the lead. What dance are you leading? Add value here buddy, post some content, make it worth something. Thanks
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:56 AM
-1

Did you even read what I wrote? I'm saying I want an honest, open, healthy connection with someone. Does that sound disrespectful? Go to a therapist.
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:55 AM
0

Can you make any kind of argument without making it personal? I mean, I'm interested to hear if you have anything of value to say rather than a personal rant.
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:40 AM
-1

Muppet stop masturbating into a sock. You're so alpha with these insults dude. You can't just engage in a conversation without being a dick. you're too good to work on yourself. Without hurling insults, provide some worth. What do I do, read some book about cat and mouse?
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:19 AM
-1

complaining of things that are VERY easily understandable I understand it. I don't like it. You still haven't told me what I don't understand here. I understand it perfectly because I've seen it.
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:16 AM
-4

Keep thinking as you do, rather than actually understanding how humans work How do I not understand how humans work? It seems like I've just showed you that I do understand it, but I don't enjoy the bullshit element.
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:13 AM
-7

Learn to seduce. Learn to enjoy the process. And you'll gain great advantage. Funnily enough I've never enjoyed something that I've been required to "learn to enjoy". That's not really how enjoyment works for me, it seems counterintuitive. For example, if I like metal music and you don't, and I say "learn to enjoy metal", well... is that going to work? You can be open minded to something but if you don't enjoy it, you can't really "learn" to enjoy it. Continue on this path of being angry for hum…
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:05 AM
1

where did you read all this
/r/seduction11/08/22 10:49 AM
7

If a girl says "maybe" you say "no problem, why don't you figure out your schedule and get in touch with me when you want to get together - would be great to see you again." Maybe is a no. You wasted your breath even replying. Like a girl is going to randomly contact you when she wants to get together. She will already have another option at that point.
/r/seduction03/08/22 09:56 AM
-1

all a possibility. get a backup today in case it doesn't work out and always be ready to walk away.
/r/seduction02/08/22 09:53 AM
5

Mama Khaos has entered the chat, lock up your sons
/r/seduction02/08/22 07:29 AM
-4

she loves my name, my culture etc. lol! Tell me that you're a POC without telling me you're a POC! Rich white mum wants some young black dick? How do you manage it? Be polite and mature, read the signs. Say less, listen more. It's not what you say, but more what you don't say.
/r/seduction02/08/22 07:28 AM
23

how do I tell the other girls that I can no longer talk to them? is that even a question? what do girls do if they don't want to talk to you? they don't reply... you do the same, lol
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:13 AM
1

It sounds like you are not going for women you find attractive or interesting enough. Be more selective. Sure you can sleep with them but don't do it just because you can! Find ones who inspire you. It might mean you only get laid once every few months or less(!) but at least you cherish the time you are with them and the sex has meaning. It's OK to reject women too and it's OK to turn sex down.
/r/seduction30/07/22 09:12 AM
0

Bs
/r/seduction25/07/22 11:03 PM
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Why the fuck would you want to fuck a 54 year old? Unless you have some weird oedipus complex and a fetish for varicose veins, loose skin and droopy body organs?
/r/seduction25/07/22 09:50 PM
5

"good looking face, successful but humble" haha sounds humble to me
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:06 AM
1

What if I'm not attracted to the women who choose me?
/r/seduction24/07/22 10:05 AM
6

wrong sub. you are looking for /r/dirtypenpal
/r/seduction20/07/22 04:11 PM
1

die
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:33 PM
1

Does he tell them he's 44? lol
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:32 PM
3

Women in their 30s are super interested in money and settling down. That's what's wrong. My money is mine, not for sharing.
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:32 PM
5

is already balding in mid 30's that's not something you can stop, unless you're going to gamble your health by repressing your T levels with pills
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:30 PM
1

The amount of failed romantic connections on my insta is hilarious. Why is it hilarious? Hilarious for who? Sounds kind of sad. So many (not even particularly attractive) men that genuinely had a shot and got friend-zoned. It does sound like you're a bit picky. you can be replaced in 0.03 seconds The attention can be replaced, sure. But the person who pays you attention is not merely an attention-provider. If you discount people on the basis of superficial things because you can replace them in …
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:43 PM
12

130k on a house where do you live? the boondocks? a house where I live is about 10x that
/r/seduction16/07/22 10:41 AM
26

someone invited me to this group & I get an email once per day, I look at that post & comment & walk away. I don't debate or argue, you can take it or leave it. this is going to be my new "signature" on reddit posts, lol
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:32 AM
3

sure but if there's a small pool of women because the dudes are losers then it reduces potential options
/r/seduction11/07/22 04:33 PM
2

noticed that meetup is mainly full of loser dudes who drive the women away?
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:06 PM
2

The moment a guy makes me feel anxious and obsessed when the relationship is that new, it's a red flag factory Interesting. Whenever I find a girl who makes me feel like that I usually think it's a good thing, but usually when I get anxious it doesn't go anywhere and I have more success with ones I'm less interested in. Do you run away from people you are really into from the beginning?
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:42 AM
15

learn both. bachata music is fucking terrible btw.
/r/seduction06/07/22 08:47 AM
1

work on understanding and creating attraction how?
/r/seduction04/07/22 09:50 AM
2

She's a bitch and you dodged a bullet! You won!
/r/seduction02/07/22 01:37 PM
2

Calm down, Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ gets all the girls.
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:53 PM
3

haha I like this
/r/seduction06/06/22 05:17 AM
1

if it's a no or a decline then a follow up message is not required.
/r/seduction04/05/22 03:22 PM
0

bachata music is fucking terrible
/r/seduction04/05/22 02:46 PM
2

so true. it's a mirage. you can't talk to them because it's too loud. they turn up to the same club every week to dance, they don't want to shit where they eat. trying to get them alone or see them off the scene is impossible. but i keep coming back for more because i'd rather be hanging out around hot girls than ugly men in some general meetup somewhere
/r/seduction04/05/22 02:45 PM
1

hiking groups can be fun. in my university it's basically the Chinese society. So if you like Asian girls, great. Otherwise...
/r/seduction04/05/22 02:43 PM
1

Yup, /u/BassFridge why are you being a reactionary dick on this one?
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/21 08:41 PM
39

Literally zero source to this information. You're just believing whatever the fuck you read on reddit.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/21 04:43 PM
1

Go bother someone else. Suffering fools isn't my forte. You're a hard man
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/21 04:37 PM
43

It's not really pussy pass denied if his female boss suspends him for doing this. https://twitter.com/PolhomeEditor/status/1142014764564004864
/r/PussyPassDenied21/06/19 11:33 AM
1

did not deliver.
/r/seduction25/04/13 11:34 AM
1

You're right that "value" is subjective. Sure, if we were talking on a grand, philosophical, abstract level, I guess you would be correct. But we're not. This is like me telling Steve Vai "musical taste is subjective, so even if some people think you're good, it doesn't mean you're good". In this context, you saying "blah blah blah is subjective and therefore meaningless" is itself a meaningless statement. It's not that abstract man. Steve Vai's music brings value to some, but not to others. Thi…
/r/seduction16/04/13 09:44 PM
0

Nobody is claiming to have mystical psychic abilities. But people can read vibes. That is pseudo right there. What's a 'vibe'? bring value "value" is subjective, which is why somebody saying "you're not bringing value", is pretty meaningless... the phrase is a cliché I'm not looking to "attack" the community, I think that criticism can "bring value". If you don't agree with it, this does not mean that it doesn't- maybe not to you or people who think like you, perhaps, but again that's subjective…
/r/seduction16/04/13 01:17 PM
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Sure, Ever meet someone who, 5 minutes after meeting them, you already hate their guts? It's because they project the "I'm an asshole" vibe, and it doesn't need to be explicitly stated. I get this anytime I go to a "bootcamp" or hang out with guys into this stuff. And on a guitar forum it's fine if someone's a shit teacher, because it stops with the guitar, in the PUA scene you have douchebags who actually think they can give you advice on life in general...
/r/seduction16/04/13 12:53 PM
-1

The scene is full of pseudo bullshit, amateur 'gurus', books written in obtuse ways...
/r/seduction16/04/13 12:49 PM
1

Yeah he said nothing about this.
/r/seduction16/04/13 12:16 PM
1

People stare for all kinds of reasons.
/r/seduction16/04/13 12:12 PM
2

because it implies that people can accurately read your mind based on what your eyes are doing in isolation from any other part of your body, and you "clearing your mind", whatever that means.
/r/seduction16/04/13 11:53 AM
0

and body gestures to compliment them. This is entirely different to what he was saying. He was saying just your eyes and not even another part of your face, it is clearly absurd
/r/seduction16/04/13 11:51 AM
1

English girls - as in those born in England, of English heritage - are not slutty, unless they are working class. In fact they are uptight. I much prefer American girls, eg California for open, easy time without bullshit. Can't speak for other Europeans, but there is a major difference between England and the continent.
/r/seduction15/04/13 12:12 PM
1

A safe space? An irrelevant, microcosm of UNreality. That's like telling someone to practice sex on a prostitute. You would learn more with real woman who you haven't paid.
/r/seduction05/11/12 10:48 PM
1

This, everybody, is the guy who "knows how to be attractive". I guess he just won that round didn't he? Amazing arguments. The main thing about being a DJ was multitasking. Sure, the music side was relatively elementary but there's also lighting operation, managing the rota (making sure the girls are on time to dance when they need to - tricky with lots of girls and alcohol), plus security responsibilities. It was a fun job, and along with the security and barmen, being staff was a far more effe…
/r/seduction05/11/12 10:42 PM
1

All she cares about is how much money you're paying her. She won't make eye contact with you at all if you persistently don't spend. If you spend loads she'll eye you all you want. She'll stay with you all night if you spend enough.
/r/seduction05/11/12 10:17 PM
0

If you got a rep from the other girls as a reliable spender (not even a big spender, but you say you're spending hundreds of dollars in an evening) then they will talk about you in the dressing room - so yes, you will get some coming to hang out with you even if you say you won't pay them. It's a game, they're still trying to get you to spend cash. If you get a rep for not paying anything then they won't talk to you at all. "Most guys at strip clubs are creepers because they don't know how to be…
/r/seduction05/11/12 10:12 PM
1

It's because I didn't tell the guys what they want to hear. That's what PUA is... and that's how you get commercial PUAs making loads of money - off the dreams of guys. Kind of like strippers really. And guys buy into it, because they want to believe it. Getting women is not about 'game', it's about being an interesting, decent person and forgetting all the bullshit you read in these ebooks. Don't go to strip clubs to learn about how to meet chicks. Follow your interests and succeed at them, the…
/r/seduction05/11/12 06:35 PM
0

"Who cares what they think?" It's actually this mindset which makes for being creepy and sociopathic, which in turn makes gives many PUAs a bad rep. Every decent person should pay some thought to what others think of them. The thing is not to care so much that you can't just BE YOURSELF. "One of the DJs at the club I frequent just got fired because he was forcing himself on girls, basically trying to rape them. Just because you work there doesn't mean the girls like you any more than they like a…
/r/seduction05/11/12 06:32 PM
5

You can practice being cocky/funny and not worry about failing. You can practice all the kino you want. You can develop good eye contact skills. This is why the girls hate the customers. Plenty of weird novice PUA types trying their hand at being something they're not. Trust me, I've worked in a strip club as a DJ (I'm male).
/r/seduction04/11/12 12:08 AM
0

This 'community' (which it's not) is also too wrapped up on being "a Man". GRRRRRRR. "Being funny, assertive, passionate, a bit mysterious, interesting, etc" are simply traits of being somebody who people want to be around. Stop fucking thinking about it so much.
/r/seduction30/10/12 08:09 PM
3

Only in a "seduction community" would this even need to be stated. Stay classy guys.
/r/seduction29/07/12 11:27 AM
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