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| 1 | How does a shy girl go about getting a one night stand?Come, young one. Let us know you the way | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 09:42 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to "I have a boyfriend" when she likely actually does and it isn't just a random girl who you will never see again?Ah yes, make it personal! "You're a woman, so you are automatically wrong." Aaaaaaand we're done. | /r/seduction | 01/03/15 06:04 PM |
| 3 | How to respond to "I have a boyfriend" when she likely actually does and it isn't just a random girl who you will never see again?Why would you even bother? Abundance mentality, bro. Just move on to the next target. Either way, she's not giving you an enthusiastic "Law of Fuck Yes or No" green light so move on. | /r/seduction | 28/02/15 12:00 AM |
| 0 | How to respond to "I have a boyfriend" when she likely actually does and it isn't just a random girl who you will never see again?OP, what would you do if an otherwise attractive girl was hitting on you and you had a girlfriend? What would you say? | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 11:58 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to "I have a boyfriend" when she likely actually does and it isn't just a random girl who you will never see again?If you go up to a girl and the first thing she says is "I have a boyfriend," yeah, that's rude. I think the average woman has a bit more tact than that, however. When I'm unavailable, I will totally make conversation and even flirt a bit with a guy in the interest of being friendly but I drop the 'IHAB' within the first few minutes so he can manage his expectations. That's way more courteous than sitting there and letting a guy chat up an unavailable girl for an hour when he could be off finding… | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 11:54 PM |
| 5 | How to respond to "I have a boyfriend" when she likely actually does and it isn't just a random girl who you will never see again?I mean, sometimes women like being treated like human beings. 'Cause, you know, that's a thing. | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 04:09 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Three dates in a day, two pulls, one f-close. The importance of personal boundariesCouldn't it be possible that the sex was bad because she just wasn't that into it in the first place? | /r/seduction | 13/01/15 02:00 PM |
| 2 | 2015's Official 30 Day Challenge Mega-Thread/u/Kitad, can girls participate too or is it guys-only? | /r/seduction | 13/01/15 07:40 AM |
| 3 | I've learned here a couple of maneuvers to approach and seduce a girl, which got me wondering. what are some tactics and techniques girls use on us?Am I allowed to chime in? These are some of my favorites: Touching. On the arm, on the chest, playing with a guy's hair. Slapping him playfully, pressing my full body against him in a hug, even high-fives and handshakes if I don't have any other excuse. Getting a guy to talk about his hobbies or interests. Why yes, tell me more about network security/hockey/Warhammer/other topic that has no relevance to my life whatsoever. The big-eyed request, aka the Damsel in Distress maneuver. I really don't… | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Any way to wing with a female friend or am I shooting myself in the foot?Are you friends with any (butch) lesbians in relationships? If you go out with a girl that you're obviously not dating, that works in your favor. I also feel like most masculine of center women are generally gregarious. I say 'in relationships' because you don't want to deal with a "Mr. Steal-yo-gurl" situation. | /r/seduction | 18/11/14 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Too ugly to seduceHow do you dress? | /r/seduction | 18/11/14 09:16 PM |
| 2 | How to dress at home?Why don't you go out and buy yourself some nice v-neck t-shirts like this http://slimages.macys.com/is/image/MCY/products/5/optimized/1684395_fpx.tif?op_sharpen=1 Or some nice henleys? http://www.countryoutfitter.com/products/29966-mens-lightweight-thermal-knit-henley You can still buy them in black if you want them to be slimming, but I'd also advise buying one or two in a color that complements your eyes (blue for blue, green for green or brown, burgundy for brown). As for what's on bottom, sh… | /r/seduction | 18/11/14 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Sedditor Locator 2014. Find awesome buddies for sarging!Woohoo! Me too! | /r/seduction | 18/11/14 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Looks don't matter. But they do matter. Comprehensive guide.Have you tried keeping a supply of oil blotting sheets on hand? I use them to give my nose and chin a quick touch-up every other hour or so. There are many different brands but I really like these. | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 02:31 PM |
| 1 | For those who have bald in there 20s, has it effected you in picking up certain women? Race? Age? Outside the USA?Personally, I think a guy who owns his baldness is much sexier than a guy who's desperately clinging to a rapidly-thinning head of hair. I find shaved heads very sexy on men, but if you don't think you can pull it off maybe a modern Caesar 'do might suit you better. After you shave your head, you may also find women asking if they can touch or rub your scalp, so there's that. | /r/seduction | 19/08/14 09:17 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Open to F-close in under an hourI think my response was the best I had all night because I said "I'm not going to push you into anything you're not comfortable with; I'm just enjoying kissing you right now".Not only is this line one of good character, but it gives her a way out should she feel the need to use it. THANK YOU for not being a total effing douchebag. Some of the guys here can get downright rapey with their "persistence" in overcoming the "anti-slut defense." | /r/seduction | 03/08/14 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Female sedditorsYes! Ladies who actually want to discuss pick-up, we need you! | /r/seduction | 08/05/14 05:11 PM |
| 7 | How do you respond to the "I have a boyfriend" without using the same old "well he's a lucky man"?"i have one too but you don't see me bringing him up" HA! I would be instantly charmed by any man who said this to me. | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 12:56 AM |
| 0 | Sex on first date for long term relationship?It doesn't work that way for all girls. For one thing, you're taking a big risk if you're not great at sex. The connection built over time can compensate for a lack of sexual prowess but it's not so easy to get the benefit of the doubt when you just met. But really, who knows they want an LTR with someone after one date? | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 12:47 AM |
| 2 | My Hookah StrategyThis sounds like something OP learned in an episode of "Gossip Girl." | /r/seduction | 08/04/14 05:56 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Messed up and broke one of the major rules we uphold as a community.Yes. Just keep it simple and to the point-- no more than a paragraph or two. She very well might not respond but at least you put it out there. | /r/seduction | 18/03/14 08:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Messed up and broke one of the major rules we uphold as a community.If you like her, it doesn't make you less alpha to allow her to save a little bit of face by apologizing. You don't have to apologize for your behavior but you can apologize for "not being clear" or "failing to communicate" or "assuming things" or whatever dignified way you want to put things. Young women especially tend it take it personally when they're mistaken about a man's desire to be exclusive. We are raised to believe a lot of bullshit about our abilities to "keep a man" as if women can … | /r/seduction | 18/03/14 07:43 PM |
| 5 | 1st date - just drinks or do you mix it up?Reddit has good threads already going with cheap, fun ideas-- try /r/dating_advice as well as seddit. Think inexpensive and activity-focused in order to stimulate conversation. Ice skating (if you can skate) or arcade games (is there a Dave & Buster's near you?). Science has also shown that the adrenaline released during competitive activities supports faster pair-bonding. A few rounds of pool is fun, casual, and presents opportunities for negging and/or kino. I've also had solid dates at live m… | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 12:36 AM |
| 1 | F/20: - Cold approaching guys (day game)?Something cool and nonchalant, followed by a quick exit. "No worries. Have a good one!" | /r/seduction | 22/01/14 11:41 PM |
| 3 | F/20: - Cold approaching guys (day game)?That's funny, this looks like a question for /r/fPUA | /r/seduction | 19/01/14 11:05 AM |
| 3 | Resources for dating multiple women?Yeah, dude, try honesty. There are more girls out there open to not being exclusive than you'd think. | /r/seduction | 13/01/14 04:16 AM |
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