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| 79 | In defense of being a “square.” My take on “corny” Russell Wilson and Ciara“She wouldn’t be with Russel if he didn’t get that bread”.... so? What? Were they expecting Ciara to go for an unsuccessful man way below her caliber? Men use “gold digger” as an insult as if we’re out here denying the fact that a successful rich man is hot AF. Heyy you broke scrubs lurking here, it’s true- women loveeeee (HV)men with money. Xoxoxo stay mad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 03:09 AM |
| 74 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseResidents can afford more than coffee trust Dont do a coffee date with a resident | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 09:42 PM |
| 41 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.100$? For dinner for two? And he finds that expensive? Where does this guy live? I get the feeling he hasn’t been to a restaurant in over 15 years lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 01:53 AM |
| 5 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Incredible take. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 11:41 AM |
| 612 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?His reaction was terrible. Massive red flag. A man having no restraint or self control is my biggest turn off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 04:29 AM |
| 159 | Lol, all these winners.When women say their husbands “babysit”... because it is so unnatural for their man to spend time with their child they have to act like it’s a summer job | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 02:28 AM |
| 36 | And I guarantee you men still won’t take the initiative for birth control, and put the onus on us.This is why I’m never going on birth control again :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 12:23 AM |
| 4 | Dear John lyrics by Taylor Swift (2010) are hitting different now that my age gap situationship has fully ended. I first met him when I was 18 and he was 33. We had stopped talking for some time until he decided to hurt me more from ages 20-22/23. Never again 💔❤️🩹Oh my lord | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 12:42 PM |
| 21 | Dear John lyrics by Taylor Swift (2010) are hitting different now that my age gap situationship has fully ended. I first met him when I was 18 and he was 33. We had stopped talking for some time until he decided to hurt me more from ages 20-22/23. Never again 💔❤️🩹It’s different with celebs. She has a LOT to lose if she ever gets married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 04:06 AM |
| 6 | Dear John lyrics by Taylor Swift (2010) are hitting different now that my age gap situationship has fully ended. I first met him when I was 18 and he was 33. We had stopped talking for some time until he decided to hurt me more from ages 20-22/23. Never again 💔❤️🩹Do u mean literally piss and shit? Have to ask lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 04:05 AM |
| 19 | Even the comments are clocking onto his weaponised incompetenceThis broke me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 01:43 AM |
| 73 | Ginger Dean @lovingmeafterwe on Instagram is an absolute queen. Following her page on healing from narcissistic abuse and codependency saved my life. This post of hers reminding everyone why she makes woc/female specific content and honestly resonates to why I think FDS also is a female only sub. 💜👑Ugh i love her so much. Not seeing gender/sex is like not seeing color. Aka a load of crap. Gtfo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 02:43 AM |
| 4 | SW is glorified on TikTok for impressionable teens and it’s disgusting. Her whole page is flexing the money she earns and how ‘fun’ her job is. Her mum even hypes her up. Also even strippers know that it’s not empowering - they’re so quick to clarify that they aren’t ‘escorts’.This is some dystopian shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 05:29 AM |
| 18 | Even tho you know they’re LVM and don’t want to be with them…Right there with ya sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 05:16 AM |
| 55 | I’m the girl who exposed him to his long term girlfriend. I believe he has more victims.Block. If you do one thing today, it is to block him. Nothing else. Second, no point in exposing him. Don’t get caught up in this drama anymore. It’s not like you have proof he coerced underage girls that you can report him to police for. Block and move on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 05:44 PM |
| 7 | The ad I got on a video about domestic violence. On International Women’s Day!Proof that society hates us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 04:09 AM |
| 48 | Tell me you've never actually been in a relationship, without telling me:“has you can see” 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 03:42 PM |
| 4 | Insecure Men and their Allegations of Cheating1) Projection. Aka he’s cheated/wants to cheat so thinks you do too. 2) I read in a textbook that delusions of jealousy occur when a man is with a woman who is much more sexually attractive than he is. 3) Also, he can be having homoerotic thoughts about men and then projecting them onto you because he cannot tolerate them in himself. :))) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 01:14 PM |
| 3 | She did that! A woman can’t even run a business without a scrote having the audacity. She cleared his ass and I know his ego was deflated.Omg i love her, who is she? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 12:06 AM |
| 24 | Anyone else disappointed by John Oliver's Last Week Tonight?I used to be super left but then the left just went crazy (see above) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 11:55 PM |
| 48 | Anyone else disappointed by John Oliver's Last Week Tonight?He’s very pro left and liberal so not surprising to me at all.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 11:44 PM |
| 47 | Fucking idiot 🤡THIS IS SO FAKE😭 pathetic losers have to create scenarios | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 09:58 PM |
| 13 | TW: nasty as hell. I don’t even have words..Why wasn’t one of the options she listed to RUN AWAY AND NEVER LOOK BACK?!?!?!?!?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 01:09 PM |
| 73 | New vetting strategy with all this third world war subjectWtffff is this true??? I guess more proof that men really get turned on by “girls” being in pain/in dire situations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 01:06 PM |
| 151 | Woman quits job to breastfeed boyfriend "full time", what in pickme hell?Cant bring myself to open the link | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 04:34 AM |
| 73 | Hopefully Sis finds her way to our sideNo orgasm in 5 years.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 11:59 PM |
| 151 | I wonder if these are high expectationsI had to restart reading this a few times cause it made no sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 11:58 PM |
| 186 | Men start looking for reasons to hate/intentionally misunderstand you when they realize you’re smarter than they expected?She was a lawyer. He was a sandwich. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 05:07 AM |
| 124 | Men start looking for reasons to hate/intentionally misunderstand you when they realize you’re smarter than they expected?Men literally do this to me via text all the time. Fkn weirdos. I’ve decided I’m keeping my profession to myself til I’ve met them at least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 05:06 AM |
| 57 | The occupation of men on OLDSooooo many lie about their employment on OLD. If it feels fishy it probably is. Once a man called himself a lawyer in his profile, I asked him about it, he’s like “I have a background in tax assessment law”. And when I pressed further his answers got even more evasive... Also I used to see a lot of men take pics in scrubs/mask, write “health care professional” and end up being NOT a doc (or nurse) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 12:59 PM |
| 18 | Why you can’t take men seriously…The first screenshot made me crack up😂😂😂😂 do men think we care if they love us?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 11:43 PM |
| 41 | Re-watching Buffy Post FDS Levelling UpThe logical part of me wholeheartedly agrees with you. Of course, all of the relationships Buffy was in (in her teens to early twenties) were horrible and toxic. But the fan girl in me who literally grew up on Buffy will always love these characters...All in all I’m team Buffy. I also loveeee the women on this show. For all the bad Joss Whedon’s done I still think he writes women much better than most male directors/screenwriters. And I think Giles is a good example of a HVM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 11:42 PM |
| 59 | Re-watching Buffy Post FDS Levelling UpThis. Xander is the most strikingly evil, even before i discovered FDS, just as an adult I hated him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 11:39 PM |
| 215 | If you can't see any good reason not to date a man with a female best friend, LET THIS BE IT! Selfish pickmeisha got stood up, so she ruined another womans valentines day. To add insult to injury, she & this mans girlfriend are related 🤢“Best friend” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 01:03 PM |
| 250 | The relationship subs have delivered on my expectations for Valentine's Scrotery but this one really hit me for some reason. I think its the massive cope at the end.She’s going to ask him if he can make her pancakes on Pancake Day? Pancake day? I truly learn new things on FDS every day, courtesy of these terrible relationships ppl are in lol. What’s really sad is that she is going to wait for the world’s most random holiday to ask her bf to lift his pinky finger for her... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 04:55 AM |
| 92 | The relationship subs have delivered on my expectations for Valentine's Scrotery but this one really hit me for some reason. I think its the massive cope at the end.Sounds like he’s doing alllll the taking and shes doing alllll the giving. Someone needs to tell her that that is not what they mean by “give and take” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 04:52 AM |
| 38 | What Kanye is doing to Kim right now is narcissistic abuse, and the whole world is feeling sympathy for him because oh poor guy has mental health problems and just wants his family back. Nah he went out and got a whole new gf and is just mentally exhausting Kim to get her back and keep torturing herIm seriously very afraid for her and her childrens’ safety. He is acting like an angry stalker and has a narcissistic injury. I pray she has top security guards and that her kids are not alone with him. And PS none of what he is doing can be blamed on bipolar disorder/ a manic episode. He is perfectly aware of his actions and is clearly not psychotic or out of touch with reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 04:24 AM |
| 30 | Textbook Terrible V-DayIm in your same shoes lol. I initially thought it was some weird nerdy collectible item. Sometimes I really am grateful for my ignorance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 04:20 AM |
| 7 | Let’s talk hobbies! What are your current hobbies? What’s a hobby you’re interested in starting?Yoga, Just Dance (I play on the Nintendo Switch- such a great way to get exercise) and taking care of my many, many plants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 04:16 AM |
| 107 | Jordan Peterson + Childless WomenIt 100% feels like Handmaids Tale Aunt Lydia and Fred Waterford vibes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 04:13 AM |
| 73 | S/ she requires no conversation🥰 no effort❤️🔥I get to game while having a girlfriend who reads instead of having a relationship w her😽Love that he has minimized his girlfriend (a unique, complex human) to being a “bookworm” and telling others to date “other bookworms cause its the best!”, like that is what defines her. It’s actually so insulting to the girlfriend that this is what he thinks of her. Sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 04:11 AM |
| 9 | I'd leave. Straight up would not make it down that aisle if my man was dressed like thisTruly nothing worse than gray faded jeans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 04:07 AM |
| 14 | In Australia one step back. This timeline is need fudged…Sex work is work! Woot woot! So it’s cool if a 5 year old girl says she wants to be a “sex worker” when she grows up? It’s just work after all right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 01:46 AM |
| 48 | Scrote seduces his boss on a work trip, has sex with her, and shares her photos on Reddit in his profile for everyone to see. Someone needs to find her and tell her.Uuuu this sounds like a fake fantasy. Married to a gorgeous woman, sex with hot boss, wife aware... Also who the f calls it “f*cking and sucking”? I have literally never heard that in my life. He sounds like an attention seeking loser troll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 11:58 PM |
| 12 | Why does this man think that this is something to brag about? I already had an idea of what profession the women he was talking about was when I initially read his answer to the Hinge prompt. I've run out of words.TorontoManz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 05:46 AM |
| 381 | When your 11 year old son starts watching violent and degrading rape porn all you gotta do is let him know that it's totally not a guidebook nor an okay portrayal of women!Excuse me?!? An eleven year old?!?! I want to cry and vomit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 05:43 AM |
| 70 | He’s picky af! 7-8ths are only for banging not love.Hahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 05:41 AM |
| 7 | "Are you a feminist?" How do you answer this?This. My fave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 05:24 AM |
| 19 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.In between jobs? Yeah it’s a no for me dawg 👋🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 05:23 AM |
| 8 | You guysss 🤮🤮🥲 “Ugh- husband woke me up in middle of night for sex and it was gross”I would literally rather die than be in this relationship and have this man’s child growing in me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 02:46 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, I'm in desperate need for some advice. Please help!!!One day in the future, you’re going to look back at this and hit your head on the wall for thinking this was the guy for you (I’ve been there). Would you want the 5 year old you to end up with this guy? You have one life, make sure you know your worth and only accept the very best. PS: (re)read the handbook girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 02:42 AM |
| 72 | Trafficking disguised as dating or job offersThis is so scary because there was a literal paper stuck to my windshield 2 days ago and I left my car in the evening to go see what it was...... next time ill drive home and check there. Thank god nothing happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 05:12 AM |
| 102 | Trafficking disguised as dating or job offersThis is so terrifying.... I am so glad you’re okay and had good friends looking out for you. I’m never leaving my friends out of my sight when I go out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 05:09 AM |
| 9 | I got chucked off a left wing political facebook page I followed for years for challenging this. How do you vet for men who believe they are owed access to a woman, I'm starting to feel it might be all of them.“Provide them joy”... okay so that’s what we’re calling selling your body now. Good to know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 07:35 PM |
| 38 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪You did not overreact girl. Totally thoughtless. And his text message left my mouth hanging open. THANK U NEXT. Happy bday btw queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:15 AM |
| 24 | He’s just like every other man I’ve met, except this one has a working machine of complicit enablers.Yeah 100%. The pic she used for the article is from Taylor Swift’s “All too well” music video about Jake. His older famous sister, his blue eyes, his moodiness. I didn’t google about the play and Clinton because everything else fits perfectly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 09:16 PM |
| 4 | The Movie Star and Me: Very Well-Written Account of a Big-Time LVM Actor Messing with a 23-Yr-Old Intern's MindThis was an incredible read. Beautifully written and sadly familiar to most women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 09:15 PM |
| 48 | A Curated Selection from OLDDa fk is “ethically” non-monogamous. As opposed to? Unethical non-monogamy? People are dumb af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Pickmes really need to shape up and get a clue 🤢Soooo she basically compared using inanimate objects (that don’t have a face-for clarity🤣) to jerking off to videos of exploited women and trafficked women being degraded. These pickmes would benefit from a talk on neuroplasticity. What you show your brain repeatedly reinforces connections that alter your thinking and behaviour. You can see this on a brain scan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 04:44 AM |
| 6 | Trust your feelings and the strategyThanks so much for being a good example for all of us to follow! I haven’t gotten back to dating (partly cuz covid, dont want OLD, disgusted my majority of men) yet, but for the time i do go back, i was wondering if you had any advice on how to keep your feelings in check after 6 months? I would struggle with that... any tips are welcome. I appreciate advice to date many men at once, but without OLD, and with covid and lockdowns, dont see how i can find men to add the the roster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 04:36 AM |
| 9 | Porn ruins menAlso thank god the wife’s mom is in the house to actually support the wife. Poor thing seemed pretty right high risk for post partum depression given her sad excuse for a partner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 04:29 AM |
| 18 | Porn ruins menOne of the saddest parts of all this (so many to choose from) was when he learned to drive automatic for the sole purpose of getting blowjobs while driving. This man is a pathetic excuse for life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 04:26 AM |
| 183 | Same dudes who have/want to have casual sex will look down on YOU for having a history of it. The hypocrisy. Yet another reason to stay away from casual sex AND slutty guys, they're hypocrites with insane Madonna-whore complexes and STDs/STIs who think they're a prize to be won.“BE NICE” he shouts after casually dehumanizing women for a few paragraphs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 07:38 PM |
| 7 | Texting Adviceim in healthcare in a very demanding field and always have time to text the people I like. men in health care do the same. im surprised one of the highest rated comments here is suggesting you text him. he's not into it, I promise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 01:57 AM |
| 16 | FDS wisdom prevents DISASTERYou’re wonderful. Thanks for sharing your story. You saved not just your friend, but a lot of other women thanks to this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 06:10 AM |
| 11 | Reflecting today… The greatest gift I’ve ever given myself was dumping the age gap, emotionally abusive scrote who couldn’t even keep his side of the bathroom clean.Ewwwwwwwwwwwwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/21 12:10 AM |
| 8 | Venting about a recent dateWas he high? Is he of borderline intellectual functioning? Only two possibilities I have at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 05:42 AM |
| 35 | Things like this are becoming more and more common. Squeeze in the wrong area of the neck and she easily could have gotten real brain damage (from the lack of oxygen). Be careful out there ladies.How do you accidentally choke someone unconscious?! In what world?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 05:38 AM |
| 846 | Things like this are becoming more and more common. Squeeze in the wrong area of the neck and she easily could have gotten real brain damage (from the lack of oxygen). Be careful out there ladies.He continued to fk her while she was unconscious????? You know the societal gaslighting of women is bad when a woman has to ask the internet whether this is a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:46 AM |
| 128 | Everyone in this supposed feminist sub is telling her to propose herselfSeriously. A fkn pandora ring????? You mean what 14 year olds buy themselves? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 02:50 PM |
| 5 | FDS-approved TV, movies and books?Handmaid’s Tale, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Big Little Lies, Little Fires Everywhere, Inception, Interstellar, Girls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 03:19 AM |
| 29 | Be careful around maintenance men if you live alone. If possible, have a male relative with you when you need something installed/repaired. I’ve heard some ladies say to have used men’s shoes just in case they try something u could say ur husband will be back soon. Imagine if she was alone with him😳Ewww what a weak husband. Nasty. I hope if wife finds out and divorces his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 07:27 PM |
| 16 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can beWow. That last paragraph. I’m stunned that THIS is the result of millions of years of evolution. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 05:45 AM |
| 120 | “Not ready to be serious … but I want to keep seeing you!!” does NOT warrant any responseHe 100% means he has no more money for date number 2 but still wants to hit it. B&D 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 05:37 AM |
| 31 | Fawning like "How are you single?"/"You sound too good to be true!"/"Are you real?"I get this all the time and it’s just awkward to respond to. What do people respond to this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 06:51 PM |
| 44 | I don’t know what to do.You’re going to be okay, I promise. You will take antibiotics and it will be like you never had it. As for the guy, the universe wanted to show you that this is not the person for you and there are bigger and better things waiting for you once you are done grieving. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 06:27 AM |
| 76 | After this, she is still unsure if she should leave.What the f... just when I think I can no longer be surprised by men... they surprise me some more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 06:41 AM |
| 8 | Apologizing for or sympathizing with "cancelled" woman-abusers is big time Pick Me behaviour - From Vanity Fair: 'Dakota Johnson Calls Cancel Culture "Such a Downer"Lmfao good point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 01:56 PM |
| 52 | My family and friends push me to be a pickme & tell me I’m being too picky if I don’t want to date men I don’t find attractive.They are in the Sunken Place... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 10:56 AM |
| 314 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.I feel like he portrays his Parks and Rec character perfectly in this post lol... not good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 11:26 AM |
| 6 | if a beaver can wash his butt, pits, and balls then so can your bfWhy do I wanna date this beaver? 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 07:55 PM |
| 23 | Woman posts this pro-male post on a popular subreddit. Despite this, the comments are full of misogyny regardless. This is why being a pick me doesn't work!Type III 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 03:43 AM |
| 11 | This is why we don’t do hike or walk “dates”…he proceeded to MAKE FUN OF ME, before I unmatched. DANGEROUS.Mouth. Wide. Open | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:28 PM |
| 24 | He cheated because he “liked me too much” 🥺🥺🥺🥺Omg have we dated the same guy? His reason was also he wanted to stop himself from getting hurt, and he thought that I was cheating (that’s called projection) so he went ahead and texted random girls about sex asking to meet up. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 02:43 PM |
| 9 | Found one in the wild!Dirty John, anyone? The man showed up to black tie galas in scrubs claiming he’s an anesthesiologist and the surgeries finished late... (no one leaves hospital in dirty scrubs literally first thing they teach u in a hospital) he was actually a nurse anesthetist solely to supply his opioid addiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 12:21 PM |
| 12 | The nerve to be jealous that he didn't get the 'peak hot' version of her, what a shame for the poor woman.“Aged gracefully” at 29? Wtf did I just read? What? What! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 05:55 AM |
| 178 | Found one in the wild!Just wanna give a tip to whoever needs. Men will lie about career in a way that they can later backtrack on if confronted. Others will straight up just lie. When I see “dentisting” makes me think he is not a dentist but works as an assistant or hygienist. That way less embarrassing for him to say oh ya by dentisting I meant ... (and proceed to call u a GoLdDiGgEr for caring) Anytime they don’t STRAIGHT UP write their job title or give u lengthy excuses about their work “ya I have a background in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 05:47 AM |
| 94 | Why is it that the men you hoped to never hear from again keep popping up like Lestat from the swamp?Mercury retrograde | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 04:28 PM |
| 20 | Suicidal threats and threatening self harm, and staying because you are worried about your partner doing the unthinkable.My ex would threaten to crash his car into a wall, or to start smoking cigarettes again (he always said he quit for me lol) if I dumped him. Lmfao it’s so embarrassing looking back and seeing how worried I’d be😂begging him not to😂 you would never catch me tolerating that shit anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 05:04 AM |
| 154 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡It’s so good cuz it goes from talking about a tropical beach paradise to A MALL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 04:57 AM |
| 108 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡Omg wtf😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 04:56 AM |
| 37 | This is What LVM consider “great dating” and gaslight us into believing is acceptable. Hope the PickMe Woman Who Settled for these Low Effort Dates Wakes Up...Bahahahahaha this is why I love FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 05:07 AM |
| 30 | 🤬 Scrotes watch the flip side (and WAY worse) of this scene everyday in pornThank you so much for posting this. I love when my two favourite worlds (handmaids and FDS) collide. I’m so uncomfortable by people’s reaction to that scene, calling it r*** and cancelling the protagonist so quickly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:32 PM |
| 14 | What are your standards for a proposal and ring etc?Minimum 3 months salary, emerald cut diamond, white gold band, and I want to really be surprised by the proposal moment, it should include amazing food or an amazing location | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 02:17 PM |
| 29 | "My Ex accused me of rape"I dont get this... pity is not an aphrodisiac... i dont want to fck someone pathetic and broken | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 10:10 PM |
| 31 | Embarrassing reflection from my clueless dating days.I LOVED that these sentences were linked with an “and”. It’s so visual 😂😂😂😂 ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 04:42 PM |
| 22 | Bumble Encourages Women to Talk to Men who Commit Microaggressions And Explain to Him Why They Are Inappropriate : Further Reason to Stop Using OLDI just puked in my mouth. Are they seriously telling us to try and understand? Wtf lmao? Is this a customer service training? I’m getting “the customer is always right” vibes from this. Fuck online dating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Why are men so against using lube? I never want to have sex again because most men don’t want to use lube or do proper foreplay. (Rant)They are turned off by a woman enjoying herself/being wet and actually prefer when women are in pain/uncomfortable. They dont want it to slide in, they want to FORCE it in. It’s not about the money or about anything else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:44 AM |
| 63 | I love Reductress. They cover a range of topics, I just grabbed ones I thought you all would like. 👏I laughed out loud! Hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 03:32 AM |
| 19 | I blocked a man without a second thought.I was gonna guess Azerbaijani... let us know OP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 03:42 AM |
| 8 | Pick-me's vs Handmaidens -- an important distinctionThis was my exact thought. I love my handmaids ❤️they’re the resistance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:41 PM |
| 18 | Scrote's GF can't meet the same standards as his anime sex doll“Men, fucking pathological.” -June Osbourne | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 06:44 AM |
| 17 | For the women who love too much -- free yourselves!!This is great! This book is on my list. The book Codependent No More has a lot of the same messages and I’d highly recommend it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 04:48 AM |
| 4 | What podcasts do you ladies recommend besides the FDS podcast?I like Quality Queen Control. She also has a youtube channel. I find her superrr in link with FDS🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Do men that dont watch/dislike porn even exist?My first boyfriend did not watch porn. I was 22, he was 30 lol. But he would ejaculate in under a minute and would not try to make me cum, and this pattern lasted for 11 months. A week before he dumped me, he was complaining to me that we don’t have sex as much as before. I told him “well sorry I don’t want to have sex with a premature ejaculator”. When he broke up with me a week later, he said “the spark is gone”😂 It took me 3 months, and randomly sharing that ejaculation comment with my sister… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 02:04 PM |
| 3 | I shudder at therapists like this giving out this advice to vulnerable women.Therapists like this freak me OUT. And then I realize that before finding FDS, whenever I’d google topics like “what to do if boyfriend cheats on you” (yep) the advice from literal therapists would be cOuPlEs CoUnSeLiNg, rebuild trust, forgiveness, stop bringing the cheating up, etc........ it makes me so so sad when I think about how no one, not even women, consider women to be human | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:40 PM |
| 19 | Romantic NecrophiliaMy ex bf, at the time 23 or 24 years old, gave me a literal EMPTY card. I opened the card, saw it was totally empty, not even a signature, along with the generic card message inside. I asked him wtf? He was like, I didn’t know I had to write anything. The bar was so low... The relationship ended way after that, about 1.5 years ago, and for some reason the past few days I keep replaying horrible moments I put up with and it makes me sick to my stomach that I allowed this man in my life and body. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:34 PM |
| 7 | When people argue that pedophiles can be treated and healed.If by healed she means chemical castration yes they do that to pedophiles in psychiatry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 12:35 PM |
| 5 | Friendship struggles with a pick meYou should read Codependent no more! I did and it was a lifesaver. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 12:30 PM |
| 4 | TV shows with strong woman energy?I was going to comment thisssss. I grew up on this show and it made me a feminist as a 6 yr old. Buffy is still my role model | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:30 AM |
| 63 | He would rather have women settle for any old scrub who will give them attention. Sir, the "right" one largely means making sure he won't hurt or even MURDER me by the end of the night. I'd rather be alone on VDay and "touch deprived" than be dead.Handshake? Bruh this guy gives me murderer vibes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:03 AM |
| 81 | How to NOT date women in 2021!!He thinks it’s romantic to forget his wallet on Valentines day? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:48 AM |
| 154 | hOw dO i NoT eMbArRaSs mY HuSbAnD aBoUt hiS bUtT CrUmBsWtf did i just read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:45 AM |
| 1 | The whole TikTok account is her SO saying “Bitch, what’s for dinner?” And she gets mad at people in the comments 🙄Wtf that’s rape | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 02:09 AM |
| 8 | Woman is violently assaulted/raped by a Dom. The comments tell her she should have spoken up and stopped it. FDS gets a ton of heat for opposing BDSM, but it’s a world that is an a misogynist and abuser’s playground.The comment that suggested OP takes classes to stand up for herself has had my jaw hanging wide open for 2 minutes no joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 03:43 AM |
| 1 | How LVM parent.Wtf? He’s gonna get high while taking care of his infant??? As a physician that’s a duty to report to child protective services right there. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Help! My BF thinks jackhammering his fingers is foreplay and gets pouty when I tell him to stop! Will cOmmUnICaTiOn fix it?Disgusting it depresses me how widely spread this pickme/LVM mindset is....RIP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:25 AM |
| 4 | Just typical OLD LVM - when you have a pleasant conversation and then they show you their true colours 🤡 Thanks to this sub I know now how to handle these clowns instead entertaining them as I would in my old pickmeisha daysHummus on my couch? Wtf get outta here. Also zoomed into his pic and he looks like hes 5 foot 2. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:19 AM |
| 28 | Ladies, is it true love if you settle for the boring man of your dreams who hated you when he first met you, after you beg him to consider dating you for a third time?This reads like satire | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:02 PM |
| 54 | Scrotes tend to go for these archetypes in women.Cool girl. Let me copy Gilian Flynn’s perfect explanation: “Men always say that as the defining compliment, don’t they? She’s a cool girl. Being the Cool Girl means I am a hot, brilliant, funny woman who adores football, poker, dirty jokes, and burping, who plays video games, drinks cheap beer, loves threesomes and anal sex, and jams hot dogs and hamburgers into her mouth like she’s hosting the world’s biggest culinary gang bang while somehow maintaining a size 2, because Cool Girls are above al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:52 AM |
| 11 | I relapsed and I feel so ashamed of myself.Pleaseee don’t be so hard. Life is complicated, it’s hard to know the right thing to do in every situation. I think you learned a lot by what happened! Take this as a learning opportunity and try to see what made you “relapse”. What awesome things are there that you can add to your life to not have to resort to tinder for the satisfaction? You got this🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 07:21 PM |
| 10 | This is the kind of attitude we need to have👏🏼👸🏻This is so wholesome❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:03 AM |
| 37 | Things you do now that you're singleBut melanoma will be even worse vibes, trust me. I love the other points ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:20 PM |
| 13 | Something tells me that he spends all day on Instagram looking at “fat asses” and then wonders why his life is in shambles 😂Lol please go! leave these women alone! They prob do hate you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:53 PM |
| 47 | Things you do now that you're singlePlease be careful with the sunbeds sis. “The World Health Organisation tells us that using a sunbed causes skin cancerskin cancer Even one sunbed session can increase your risk of developing squamous cell skin cancer by 67% and basal cell skin cancer by 29%. Even more importantly is the increased risk of melanoma, the most serious form of skin cancer. If you have ever used a sunbed your risk of melanoma increases by 20%. Using it before the age of 35 increases your risk by almost 60%.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:47 PM |
| 8 | I can't believe this male combs through our sub and even dedicates time to writing future posts for when we hit 100k. Haha. I assure you buddy, there isn't any risk of us becoming "inclusive" or "average". You males have shown us what average looks like and we are not interested!I was shook that these scumbags equate getting divorced with rape lol. Get your money sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:57 PM |
| 50 | If you ever feel bad about having "high" standards, go to r/breakingmom and remember why you should vet menWtf which of those criteria is too much ???? 😂😂😂😂😂😂 they all describe a minimally functional human | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:19 PM |
| 47 | I can't believe this male combs through our sub and even dedicates time to writing future posts for when we hit 100k. Haha. I assure you buddy, there isn't any risk of us becoming "inclusive" or "average". You males have shown us what average looks like and we are not interested!WTF IS DIVORCE RAPE????? Omg cannot. Cannot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:17 PM |
| 169 | How men subtly deflect.I’m not slowing down for anyone. No more excuses for adults 2020. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:51 PM |
| 26 | Rejection 💔 is (God’s) Protection 🌟I like to tell myself, if someone didn’t realize the epicness that is me, then he’s clearlyyyyyy not the one. I want someone to recognize what I am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:07 AM |
| 15 | Nice dates during COVID?Dinner or bust | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:01 AM |
| 23 | I know they are expensive, but this shouldn’t be a thing 😂Word. U can buy a pack of 3 at Costco for like 20$. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:07 PM |
| 20 | LV date Hall of ShameSooooo many car dates.... sooooo many.... that I had brainwashed myself into thinking I wanted that, i found dinner too much.. basically I really didn’t know my worth. Up until 2 weeks ago when a good soul introduced me to FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:52 PM |
| 15 | This what they think when they invite you out for coffee. Stay woke ladies.Bahahaah jeremy😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:49 PM |
| 24 | We went on one dateI’d cut him off if I were you. There’s literally no excuse to not text. I recently (last week) experienced a really good first dinner date with good texting convo afterwards, but his texts became less and less frequent and he hasn’t texted me in 3 days! Obv I’ve cut him off. We deserve men who are interested and want to talk to us. Remember, if you have to think about it, and question his actions, that’s all the info you need. HVM don’t leave room for uncertainty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:46 PM |
| 23 | Where is the lie? And, Who are the worst?? I’ve heard Pisces men...Alsooo Gemini men are womanizers, NEVER wanna settle down, pretty superficial too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:43 PM |
| 54 | Never once did my exes ever do anything close to this.. take note ladies.Srsly what the heck he was filming each thing he got. Like thx boo for going to the corner store. N she looked so satisfied and in disbelief... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:21 AM |
| 38 | OLD strategy for unacceptable datesLoveeee this! I have received countless offers for coffee, walk (I’m not a dog thx), drinks, “chilling” dates on OLD. I just stop responding. I’m not here to teach or raise a LVM. And lemme say the glow up is real, because just 2-3 weeks ago, I loved “chilling” dates. Now they make me nauseous. Thank you FDS for changing my life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:14 AM |
| 38 | acceptable covid-proof dates?This guy on OLD today asks me when he can take me out. I’m like what do you have in mind? He’s like “welll it’s tricky cuz of covid, probably a patio for drinks, you’d have to tell me what’s open though since you live downtown”. Nope thank you next I’m not planning a date for you, everything is open, and I’m not doing drinks. Last week, a guy planned and took me out to an amazing restaurant, by contrast. He turned out to be LVM too, but at least was capable of planning a date. Dinner dates are t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:08 AM |
| 80 | Where is the lie? And, Who are the worst?? I’ve heard Pisces men...Gemini and Leo men are by far the worst. To the point where I won’t even entertain the thought of getting to know them if they tell me that is their sign. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:00 AM |
| 6 | Do NOT blame yourself after getting ghosted after a first or second date!Same girl same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:42 PM |
| 53 | What the actual f*** is wrong with menThe demanding I take pics of what I’m eating and who with, demanding I reply to texts immediately even if i am at a restaurant with friends is something my ex always did. Jealous controlling behaviour that will only get worse. Let’s not forget that abuse can be portrayed on a pyramid and at the very top of it is rape and murder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:01 AM |
| 142 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?Saying “you’re pretty cute” or “you must be pretty smart” when I say I’m a physician. ??? Backhanded compliments= red flag. Gtfo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:56 AM |
| 17 | Go build me a table!This is goldddddd | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Practising FDS the spiritual wayThis is sooo important!!!! Thank you so much for writing this out. Life changing stuff. Bookmarked. I’m deleting my OLD profile this week and cutting off all men until I’ve done a lot of this work (months and months). Have a great day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Ladies don’t ever support a man through med school/law school, etc. Came across this Reel and you should see all the pickmes in the comments. I wonder if she will be making these same reels in 10 years when he leaves her for a younger woman ☹️Exactly what I was going to comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:33 AM |
| 2 | 🤢🤢 Imagine playing along with literal pedophilia.... “But besides that he’s great!”My mouth has never been so wide open for so long in my life :OOOOOOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Ask WHY a guy likes you - and pay attention to the answer.Asa a man says “not like other girls”, it’s over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:00 PM |
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