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I’d say because there’s an emotional connection formed - especially because the women loved him. Scammers just take money from Joe Public.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/22 01:19 AM
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Can you share more on this story? It sounds intriguing if it fucked you up.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/22 01:16 AM
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This is purely in terms of 14/16/18 as I think I’d do the same thing. 25+, their brain is fully formed so I couldn’t tell them what to do, just advise them with specifics. In terms of incel and hating women, I’d try and help him be more attractive i.e. skin care, losing fat, getting a proper stylist and gym. Plus giving him some tips on how to talk to women, cash incentives if he asks girls out etc. Red pill, I’m iffy on. It has some good ideas but also it’s very negative and kicks the fun out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:45 AM
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If you can’t get laid in your late 20s why would you be able to get laid in your 40s? It’s incredibly late in your late 20s and you’re at your most attractive with the largest sample of women (40+ year old women are more likely to be married etc). Unless it’s a case of being super obese in your 20s and that changing when you’re older, I would expect things to stay the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:39 AM
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Some guys take pride that they can charm a woman or that they eventually convinced her to date him. Telling a guy he’s second or third best is silly, you must be aware of that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:33 PM
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From what I’ve seen and read it’s fairly common for that kind of thing to be spoken about. Like it’s not infeasible for a girl who’s mentioned she’s had a ONS to not fuck on a first date and the guy be cool with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:28 AM
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How is it disrespectful to be less attracted to one guy than others? One guy might give the tingles right off the bat, the other might only become sexually attractive after knowing a while. So I see why she’d fuck some guys soon and others later. As a guy, sure it’s annoying but there’s no disrespect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:04 AM
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Not liking to be fucked in the ass is a shit test? Lol, I swear to god so much rubbish just gets dumped in the pile of “shit tests”. She chose to do anal because she liked the guy more, had a different bond or he was persistent; there was no “test” on her part. Dumb guys falling for PUA gurus babbling on about shit tests do more harm than good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:01 AM
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If you want to date her; "I only really want to hang out romantically" If not; "I prefer not to be friends with girls I've had any form of romantic connection with"
/r/seduction09/07/21 12:17 PM
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“I’d like to get to know you over a drink. Send me your number so we can make it happen.” It doesn’t really matter how you ask in all honesty, as long as you don’t seem too gamey or try hard. It’d be better if you presented how you’d ask so we could say yay or nay, as your way would be better as it’s in line with your personality
/r/seduction12/05/21 11:45 AM
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My advice in dealing with it is just take the learning and ask loads of girls out, eventually you’ll get some hits to go with the misses so it’ll be worth it. It’s easy to say “man up” but it’s tough to get into.
/r/seduction11/05/21 11:24 AM
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She made a joke and you responded with a joke. Well done Chad Thundercock.
/r/seduction11/05/21 11:20 AM
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Second date ideas should just be stuff you enjoy, much the same as the first.
/r/seduction06/01/21 01:12 PM
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Yeah that’s a good one
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:48 AM
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Nobody is thinking a guy on Tinder is looking for friends lol. That really is the least of your worries
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:43 AM
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But you aren’t going to reap the rewards of work and study at 18.
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:20 AM
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Fun is often a euphemism for casual sex, so I’d reword it if I were you. Just any other word than fun
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:19 AM
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Idk if it’s you’re intention, but you’ve kinda made it clear you’re only after something casual.
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:15 AM
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You’ve worked hard for years? You’re only 18
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:05 AM
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Grammar and formatting is a bit shit
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:04 AM
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For the most part this isn’t something I’d subscribe to. If you get a girl back to your place and your in different rooms, that’s going to cause you getting friend zoned for not escalating more often than not
/r/seduction17/11/20 04:43 PM
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The barrier is in your head, proceed as normal. You’ve invented a problem, and the problem in the worst case scenario isn’t a big deal. “People in college said you weren’t very social” “Yes, I was introverted until recently” Your chance of success is up to you, but if you act like a pussy about minutiae then it’s a lot lower.
/r/seduction09/11/20 04:40 AM
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The issue with girls who want a challenge is that once you end up getting with them, you’re less of a challenge as they’ve achieved their goal and are more likely to move on
/r/seduction31/10/20 10:54 PM
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This is written by a 42 year old married lady. I wouldn't go to one for advice on pick-up, so don't care for criticism on the matter.
/r/seduction27/10/20 12:50 AM
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yeah definitely that's a shame. I just think it's all the more reasoning I push for a date in the first convo, once rapport has been built. If she turns out to be a bitch or boring, I can still cancel.
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:46 PM
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Yeah. You can't make money off be interesting in the moment, escalate and get rejected 1000 times
/r/seduction26/10/20 03:33 AM
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I assume they're a troll based on username
/r/seduction26/10/20 03:32 AM
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What's the point in making a guide for women to attract men when they don't browse here
/r/seduction26/10/20 03:31 AM
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I agree with the main point of this, that hot women are just the same in terms of engaging with as unattractive women.
/r/seduction26/10/20 03:31 AM
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I think struggling your struggles with the "really beautiful women" are created by the chode mentality some on this very subreddit espouse. "Hurr hurr you have to do this and that to get a 9 or 10 cos they're different". It just creates a mental barrier and that it's affecting users who actually do well isn't surprising
/r/seduction26/10/20 03:28 AM
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I think with dating apps, where women are primarily window shopping for a partner and there are lots of other options - instant connection is crucial before her attention goes
/r/seduction26/10/20 03:25 AM
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Or she could agree to the date which would be very excited to go on if she was halfway interested
/r/seduction09/10/20 01:25 AM
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Yes, it makes your skin much better. I used to avoid this stuff like the plague, as it's normally quite feminine - but I don't have to tell people I use it and it may be increasing my success with women..
/r/seduction05/10/20 11:01 AM
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Not every day is going to be a good day. But I'd take whatever steps you normally take to make yourself feel confident. For me I've started using facial scrub and moisturiser and feel much better for it.
/r/seduction05/10/20 12:22 AM
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With ghosting (if you choose) you can message the girl two weeks later and maybe have her be receptive again. With rejection it’s a complete dead end. Neither are a big deal to me, mind you
/r/seduction02/10/20 09:47 AM
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Value is subjective and depends from person to person. I’d say a high value bloke does what he believes will make him valuable though
/r/seduction22/09/20 10:58 AM
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I guess in your circumstance it can happen, but it is just one girl who is an anomaly as you’ve mentioned a few factors. I think for the most part, a guy will see a a male and female and not bother taking the risk of them being an item - or the possibility that they’re not and the guy gets jealous
/r/seduction14/08/20 04:46 PM
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Yup, it seems oddly fearful of other blokes and showing how alpha you are. Most (normal) guys who see a bloke and a girl in a club would just leave them to it, in case they get your head kicked in. Probably very difficult to tell if you’re an item or not.
/r/seduction14/08/20 01:57 AM
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How often does this actually happen? It’s never happened to me and I’ve approached 500+ women. Seems more the sort of thing they’d conjure up in some shitty PUA book. In any circumstance, if she fucks off to some other guy mid conversation then you never had much chance. Saved your time too
/r/seduction13/08/20 10:54 PM
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I’d get three sets of drinks in a pub. I’ll buy first couple, she’ll buy second couple, I’ll buy third. It’s just under £4 a drink so it works out at £15
/r/seduction13/08/20 05:04 PM
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Probably the sort of guy who sees a girl a saying “I have a boyfriend” right after approaching as a challenge
/r/seduction07/08/20 10:04 AM
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You’re mad if you don’t believe MM. Neil Strauss was bald and in his thirties and fucked 10s all the time without getting rejected. EDIT: since I’m being downvoted I should clear up that in the post I’m joking. I guess that must be unclear
/r/seduction24/07/20 04:30 PM
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Congrats on approaching. You should be proud considering how nervous you sound: She isn’t going to block you. The worst case scenario is she just won’t reply to your message. She seems kinda interested so I’d just message something to her account saying something like “Hey nice to meet you, busy shift?” She’ll either respond yes or no. Then say “I’d like to get to know you better, how does grabbing a drink at X at insert time sound?” It’s important to suggest activity and time as it sounds more …
/r/seduction19/07/20 12:52 PM
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Negging was first(?) coined in “The Game” to make the woman seek your approval by making a subtle dig at her. Maybe the meaning of the word has changed idk but that’s how I’ve made it out to be. Surely if a woman asks you if she thinks you’re pretty you’d say yes, if you’re being honest anyway. Why would you be pursuing her otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:20 PM
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Negging “works” because the woman seeks your validation. Why would she seek validation from someone she doesn’t really know?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:56 PM
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Negging doesn’t work on girls that don’t have low self-esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:49 PM
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That’s a silly straw man. In those cases there’s a “right” and “wrong” way to approach it, human interactions are subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:46 PM
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I cba with games altogether. There are enough women in clubs and whatnot to hit on for a one night thing. Obviously we agree women shit test you based on their expectations of you. I go up with my normal frame and as such I’ll respond in my normal way and “pass” shit tests as I match expectations. I feel it’s only an issue if you’re a chode and go with cocky funny, you’ll struggle with shit tests and hence fail them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:42 PM
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I think men who seek out TRP either have some deep oneitis or an easy fix to get laid, but either way I doubt they really approach women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:43 AM
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That’s not an answer to a shit test though is it, which is what the point of the post is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:41 AM
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“Betas” are betas because they cede power to other people. Surely if you are attempting to pass someone’s test you are appeasing them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:38 AM
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Well in either case pretending to be some alpha robot or being a chode and telling her she’s a princess you are changing your behaviour for her benefit, which is putting her on a pedestal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:38 AM
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I think if you set a cocky “alpha” frame like TRP suggest, you’d be expected to behave in that manner and deviations from that probably would result in less interest as you aren’t matching her expectations. But if you were to behave as normally would, you’d “pass” these tests as she’d respond to the frame that you’ve set.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:36 AM
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It’s not really a test. There’s just the first which is flirting and second which is just women playing games. It doesn’t strike me as worthwhile to learn the second one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:33 AM
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Second paragraph of the main post
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:31 AM
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Don’t really believe in alpha males. Stick a roided up Chad bodybuilder in a DnD meet up where the “nerds” are yelling about sorcerers and paladins. He won’t be very alpha there. Obviously stick a geek in a night club and he won’t be “alpha” there. There are situations for everyone where some will sit back and some will take control
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:12 AM
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The social science suggests that women date men who earn more than they do. So if the woman has a kid it would make sense for her on the lesser income to raise the kid. It depends on the dynamic however, there may be factors at play - like the mother might earn more or the father having flexibility and/or working at home provisions. And there’s the possibility of being a working mum That is working on the basis that women in relationships even birth kids. Personally I don’t want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:08 AM
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I don’t care about n count that much. I doubt a lot of men do either. Red pillers go with the explicit aim of sleeping around, bit odd that they won’t LTR women who’ve done the same. Personally, I’m not that bothered, a women with a low n count is more likely to “make you wait”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:13 PM
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I tease everyone, including men. Just my personality and as far as I know, I'm pretty well liked. I think most people can ascertain where the line is tbh
/r/seduction10/07/20 11:52 PM
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I'm guessing you're a virgin. Not knocking you for it (we all start somewhere) but pretty much every woman you fuck will go down on you the first time you fuck.
/r/seduction10/07/20 11:48 PM
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I give them that quite person smile, if they widely smile back that’s my general cue
/r/seduction10/07/20 10:58 PM
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It’s possible that: she doesn’t read DM’s you look better in person is an anomaly ...or something else
/r/seduction10/07/20 10:57 PM
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This has been reposted to 18 subs. Christ
/r/seduction10/07/20 09:21 PM
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This isn’t the right sub really for dealing with this kinda thing. It seems very nuanced. Personally, I’d wait until you moved out to disclose your sexuality if you think you they’ll react badly so you have a contingency plan if things go south.
/r/seduction10/07/20 09:20 PM
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This is nonsense
/r/seduction10/07/20 09:18 PM
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I think clothes would be consistent across the west tbh
/r/seduction10/07/20 04:58 PM
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There are certain times when it’s not really socially acceptable to approach. You don’t want to pick up a rep of the creep who disturbs women while running
/r/seduction10/07/20 04:49 PM
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Good read, I’d maybe add a bit in about clothes before date - as that’s probably a question for some blokes.
/r/seduction10/07/20 04:47 PM
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Well this isn’t really great text game, a lot of guys need to use charm to form a connection and the most direct approach isn’t effective. you should aim for the date within the same convo you first to talk to her though
/r/seduction10/07/20 04:42 PM
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“Never chase a girl” Instructs users to “pass her tests like a pro”. Seems like a contradiction in the thinking here. The 98% thing is the biggest load of shit I’ve ever read lololololol
/r/seduction10/07/20 04:39 PM
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Very much disagree. Lots of women who make men wait do it because sex is all they have to offer. They’ll wonder why guys fuck then off after sex, but it’s because once they’ve got that - there’s no reason to continue pursuing them. Personally if I’m “made to wait” I just won’t bother. It is possible to get to know someone and sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 11:20 AM
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Form a connection with her the same way as if there’s no competition, if she likes you she likes you, if she prefers another guy so be it. “Competing” is a needy mindset and it’s best served to be dismissed
/r/seduction08/07/20 10:01 PM
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I don’t really believe in the wall to the extent red pillars go on about it. Once you get older dating is more difficult, but as long as you look attractive to a point dating should be fine enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 09:57 PM
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I don’t think women are boring, just general social norms means men and women communicate differently and have different interests. I have had some female friends who I’ve gotten on very well with. I can see how within the context of online dating, women can come across as boring as there’s more of an obligation on the bloke to drive conversation. And less interested females are less likely to make an effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 09:46 PM
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Just read any pick up book you like the sound of (stick to one). Then start approaching with the ideas taught. Eventually once you start approaching enough you’ll be able to work out what works for you
/r/seduction06/07/20 11:48 PM
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This is useless without context. Additionally, what’s the down side of not escalating?
/r/seduction06/07/20 11:43 PM
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Match isn’t very good imo. It doesn’t have the user base of Tinder/Bumble. Additionally, it seems more for long term which probably doesn’t match the goals of a standard user on here
/r/seduction06/07/20 11:43 PM
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It’s not necessarily acting dominant, just leading initially. You’d have better luck with women in your social circle if you really don’t feel up for that
/r/seduction06/07/20 10:51 PM
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It is the guy’s responsibility to lead in terms of if he doesn’t do it, he may be friend zoned or she’ll date a guy who does lead
/r/seduction06/07/20 10:10 PM
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Fair point. I can see how that a bit distasteful
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:06 PM
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Platonic friendships for preselection always sounded super chodey as a justification for orbiting. If you like her company great but those “I’m keeping her around so I can get 9’s and 10’s seeing how valuable I am” make me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:37 PM
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Lots of people don’t meet women in the week and don’t really approach on weekends. Just date nice girls they meet through friends and a one night stand every now and then before settling down in mid 20s. Casual dating certainly is skewed, and the average bloke won’t take 300+ rejections
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:35 PM
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It’s just not realistic at all though is it? There’s no evolutionary aspect because it’s nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:19 PM
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This just strikes me as red pill autism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:14 PM
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It’s no different to girls wearing make up. If all you’re after is a One night stand and you’re short, you have nothing to lose by wearing lifts realistically
/r/seduction05/07/20 09:38 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction04/07/20 07:42 PM
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Maybe try and get across more of a friendlier easier going vibe. I’m not saying to behave like a eunuch and not display interest, but be a bit more easy going and light hearted
/r/seduction04/07/20 12:43 PM
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She probably lost interest. I’d send something a bit briefer and probably not acknowledging the unfollow. Tbh I have my doubts this will work but you’ve got nothing to lose
/r/seduction04/07/20 09:50 AM
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Lots of people have autism. It’s harder but not impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 09:46 AM
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What an ignorant comment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 02:11 AM
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If she asks your living situation just say you’re living at home but saving for a house move. I lived at home briefly in my early 20s to save for a house and it wasn’t an issue
/r/seduction04/07/20 12:43 AM
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It’s not easy to get girls to cheat on you. Full stop. Idk why people bother with girls with bf’s.
/r/seduction04/07/20 12:41 AM
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Congratulations. It takes a lot of balls to do what you did. A minor note would be to establish a bit of familiarity when you visit these stores with the service staff
/r/seduction04/07/20 12:40 AM
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Didn’t watch. You should give cliffs if you want to shill your content
/r/seduction04/07/20 12:38 AM
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Do a dating boot camp. I can’t compare female assertiveness from now to 1995, but they certainly aren’t assertive now. You are expected to initiate and lead
/r/seduction04/07/20 12:37 AM
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“You can always be a girl’s back up if she’s desperate and doesn’t have a better option”
/r/seduction30/06/20 09:21 PM
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Hmm, yeah so it seems you’re going to have to work on yourself. So try and developing your dress sense, getting a sense of humour like copying jokes from stand up and not being afraid to polarise with risky jokes. The big thing is just accepting that you’re going to have to approach lots and lots of women while being rejected. I’m far from a master at this and have been rejected by over 1000 women
/r/seduction30/06/20 02:13 PM
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I’d focus on making a connection with your cold approaches really. Like when you bump into a girl ask her for an instant date, like for a coffee or for a beer? Being direct probably does harm your chances. Given you’re on a campus, if you don’t feel confident going for an instant date could just strike up convo. Say hello and initiate conversation when you see them and you have a better chance
/r/seduction30/06/20 12:27 AM
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1) I probably have autism too, so I guess so but obviously there are other variables beyond social skills so YMMV. Tbh I suspect PUA is to an extent targeted at autistic guys. A lot of the courses are for intelligent successful people that have struggles socially. 2) I don’t believe the method you initially use matters, once you start using something you’ll be able to build it into something that fits your natural personality better. Just whatever you like the look of you should use. 3) Being ex…
/r/seduction30/06/20 12:21 AM
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It’s up to you. If you’ve weighed up the cost of going to the club with the reward of picking up a girl and decide it’s not worth it - then don’t do it. If you hate the indoor environment a lot, you could take a few cigarettes and a lighter with you to the smoking area and talk to women there. Then once you find a receptive women there ask to dance inside the club and it’s an easy point to escalate from. Additionally, women who smoke are generally more likely to make impulsive decisions they may…
/r/seduction30/06/20 12:12 AM
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What are you talking about lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 11:01 AM
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Most “ideologies” are nonsense. But they encourage approaching which is 70% of the battle - so it can “work” and be nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 09:11 AM
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I don’t see why so many write off Tinder. The whole point is that you can do it in concert with other methods
/r/seduction21/06/20 04:04 PM
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She has one but she’s expecting you to make all the moves, so “it just happened”. She’d like to be desired in a sexual sense which is why she’s going over
/r/seduction19/06/20 12:54 AM
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That escalated even quicker
/r/seduction16/06/20 10:06 PM
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I see your point. Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:02 PM
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You were using women getting lied to as a point for women having it harder in the dating game. I was pointing out that it happens to both genders, so it shouldn’t have been included as a counter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 11:22 AM
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Yes, some men including those from TRP lie to and trick women, I wasn’t defending them. Just pointing out that both men and women do it, so presenting it that only men do it was one way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:58 PM
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Well lots of women clearly go out of their way for attention so noticed is something they often aim for. Being pursued (assuming not literally) is a ridiculous to claim is a bad thing. Tricked and lied to isn’t one way, so that’s just a one way narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:54 PM
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Why do you think this?
/r/seduction05/06/20 01:39 PM
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I think some advice here is parroted stuff that people like the sound of, not stuff that’s tried and tested
/r/seduction21/05/20 10:07 AM
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Why not play vidya or cook on the first date, nice distraction and easy way to make conversation?
/r/seduction20/05/20 07:17 PM
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The Game is fiction and shit. That said, it served as my introduction (and many others) into pickup so I won’t be too unkind.
/r/seduction20/05/20 06:56 PM
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It’s your own fault for blowing off a girl who expressed interest. All the options she cares about are scarce so she’s gone to you. Just go for a pump and dump imo
/r/seduction20/05/20 06:52 PM
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My stance is a guy shouldn’t expect to get a response when he texts a girl who he gives his number to, so I’d imagine the reverse would be the case with females and waiting for contact to be initiated
/r/seduction20/05/20 06:50 PM
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I’m not saying she should be in love with you or whatever immediately. The point was more that after a few conversations (at most) I’d make move to initiate a plan. If she says no, her loss - but it’d be a bit of a chore to keep a conversation with a girl who only responds once a week. Safe to assume she’s not that interested. I’d rather meet than text loads, because for the most part very little is crystal with a girl until you’ve met and even then you may not have that attraction in person.
/r/seduction19/05/20 06:25 PM
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His first paragraph implied that having people over wasn’t permitted. In addition, his prevailing question of “Where to go on dates?” suggests that most places are shut.
/r/seduction19/05/20 05:12 PM
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Most are a waste of time. Even here there’s a lot of BS.
/r/seduction19/05/20 03:57 PM
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Play the long game? if you have options why bother tolerating games from a girl? Especially if it’s going weeks without meeting. If that’s what you want power to you, but even if I had zero options I just wouldn’t bother
/r/seduction19/05/20 03:56 PM
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This is a forum for picking up women. You’re not likely going to get the best informed advice beyond that. Better off speaking to a therapist or someone informed. Maybe even having a look at some of the subreddits for the issues you have. Good luck
/r/seduction18/05/20 11:26 PM
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If you don’t care about social distancing but everything is shut, just offer takeout/cook a meal/drinks at your place. You’re on the right track If a girl is going to break rules to meet you, she’ll fuck you realistically
/r/seduction18/05/20 11:24 PM
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Date her despite previous relations. I’m 24, so look at women 20-28 and generally if they’re still a virgin it’s because they’re waiting for marriage or in a serious relationship and I’m not willing to wait.
/r/seduction14/05/20 11:34 PM
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How do attractive girls help you get other attractive girls? In my experience the only way it works is because her friends will be at gatherings. Otherwise in terms of wingwomaning, you’ll rarely get more than “he’s nice” or “he’s nice and funny”.
/r/seduction14/05/20 11:31 PM
0

Were you hunter_foxe on another forum?
/r/seduction14/05/20 11:26 PM
1

Your options aren’t that limited tbh. I can only speak for myself but the difference in interest between me being average physique and the best physique of my life wasn’t that big. Also being 6’4” it’s not as important to be stocky as if you were 5’4”. Looks are important but without you saying how handsome your face is and what your dress sense is like we are limited
/r/seduction14/05/20 11:19 PM
1

He’s said he has a genetic disorder saying he can’t, advising him to lift weight (even if the condition is false) won’t achieve anything
/r/seduction14/05/20 11:15 PM
3

You should hold frame by being unfazed by the spray hence AMOG’ing the fruit chemicals
/r/seduction14/05/20 11:14 PM
1

Not sure why all teasing has to be interpreted as a “test”, just creates problems where there aren’t any. Just flirt and say something like “are you jealous?” or something
/r/seduction14/05/20 11:11 PM
1

How did she bring it up? Context matters
/r/seduction14/05/20 01:29 AM
1

Not sure why you even bothered replying to my post if you didn’t read it. Maybe you’re just being obtuse idk I never said gym was irrelevant. I said it was one of several factors which may affect success with women. I literally said in my post I disagree with the gym is everything notion - not that it’s irrelevant. In my own post which you quoted, I said the main factor in women is approaches and you said the reason I didn’t do better is lack of approaches ??? I also didn’t say I didn’t get no w…
/r/seduction13/05/20 09:14 AM
1

Don’t wait until the end there’ll be a better moment during the date
/r/seduction12/05/20 06:04 PM
2

There’s a bit of emphasis on games in here like people still mention push/pull and shit tests
/r/seduction09/05/20 10:57 PM
1

Quite sure a girl who was on a date with you didn’t see you as an ex-friend. Seems more like a joke than anything
/r/seduction05/05/20 10:32 AM
1

Literally every white woman who is under 35 and not obese probably has strange Indian men messaging her. I don’t really think it matters
/r/seduction24/04/20 07:19 PM
1

If she does have thousands of men supposedly texting her, all it shows is that she’s after attention. Even then some women will flirt with you and be uninterested
/r/seduction24/04/20 06:44 PM
4

She’s a boring attention seeking time waster. No amount of alpha behaviour, holding flame or blasting through shit tests will save it
/r/seduction24/04/20 05:55 PM
1

She isn’t interested, she just wants attention. She can GTFO
/r/seduction24/04/20 05:53 PM
3

Models was written in 2011. Everyone had a phone then and all phones tell the time. I’d reckon asking for directions to somewhere would be best. They may offer to walk with you or be heading the same direction.
/r/seduction24/04/20 05:52 PM
1

The mods need to IP ban this twat
/r/seduction24/04/20 05:49 PM
1

Where do you find 60 years of Challenge stuff? The site looks dodgy as hell
/r/seduction21/04/20 02:42 PM
1

Compliment the dress she’s wearing - say it shows her figure well. Not being afraid to break the touch barrier slightly.
/r/seduction21/04/20 12:20 AM
1

Make sure that she knows you find her attractive.
/r/seduction20/04/20 08:54 PM
2

“He makes out like he bangs tens and never gets rejected”
/r/seduction20/04/20 06:10 PM
1

I agree it’s your job to initiate and assume attraction, I was disagreeing that the better looking you are that the less chance that girls approach
/r/seduction20/04/20 06:09 PM
1

I think ratings like seven and nine are pointless because there’s so much variation. In any circumstance, the easier one to talk to would be the one who offered more. If it worked like this average guys would get approached and handsome guys wouldn’t. That’s not what happens.
/r/seduction20/04/20 06:08 PM
2

He never talks about rejection, which is the biggest part of game. He just makes out like he bangs tens and never gets rejected just by negging and BLASTING THROUGH SHIT TESTS.
/r/seduction20/04/20 06:06 PM
7

Lots of girls don’t wear bras under crop tops
/r/seduction20/04/20 01:43 PM
4

What is it? Am I missing something?
/r/seduction20/04/20 01:07 PM
4

The more attractive you are the less likely women are to approach??? I’ve certainly never seen evidence of this. If women were going to make the first move, why only on less attractive guys?
/r/seduction20/04/20 01:05 PM
2

No, not really. There are guys that train that struggle and guys that don’t train that do struggle. My results didn’t really change when I was out of shape to when I was in the best shape of my life. There are a load of things that women may be interested in beyond gym. It’s pointless preaching gym = all when there are other factors at play - the main one being the number of approaches
/r/seduction20/04/20 01:04 PM
4

The Game is fiction and shit. A bald thirty something who only fucks tens and never gets rejected. Lol
/r/seduction20/04/20 11:02 AM
1

I’m surprised shorter guys don’t wear shoe lifts. I’m 6’0 myself but even I noticed a fair difference in my dating app results when I bumped up my height from 6’0 to 6’2”
/r/seduction20/04/20 12:26 AM
1

The matching hypothesis says that people are likely to date others of an equal attractiveness level. Women have height as a big requirement for partners, so better looking girls will be with a taller partner. Subsequently the male’s height gene is likely to be passed on to the offspring
/r/seduction19/04/20 11:48 PM
1

But if a woman doesn’t like who you are it’s her loss. Why revise the way to pass a set of tests she’s decided you need to pass.
/r/seduction19/04/20 11:42 PM
1

I disagree. Why is passing shit tests good?
/r/seduction19/04/20 08:49 PM
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You're preaching to the choir - all guys would rather attract women than chase. The whole reason that guys chase is because they can't attract women. Also idk how feasible it is when you say that you can go from chasing a girl to making her chase.
/r/seduction19/04/20 08:48 PM
2

I don’t care about getting women to chase. I’d rather date/fuck them or whatever than waste time with high school games
/r/seduction19/04/20 01:09 AM
7

You’ll generally meet female friends at social activities and then you’ll join their friendship group slowly. In my opinion, having female friends doesn’t make you more attractive mostly. If a woman recommends you to her friend, she’s more likely to try to like you. But most women don’t understand how to wingwoman beyond “he’s nice”. The dating advantage is that you’ll she’ll introduce you to her friends, her friends of friends and it gives you access to more friends.
/r/seduction19/04/20 01:08 AM
2

Why apologise for being attracted to her? It’s better to make an awkward comment and own it than validate your attraction to her
/r/seduction16/04/20 10:24 PM
12

People are on their phones all the time, it’s 2020. Sometimes people are too busy to answer their phone. Pretty problematic to turn off notifications if someone needs to contact you, too
/r/seduction16/04/20 10:46 AM
1

If my girlfriend has petty thoughts about me frequently, then just ignoring them will cause problems. All women have lots of options, as long as the women manages to not be a fat fuck she’ll have loads. I’d say lifestyle is the bigger factor. In most social situations any woman who isn’t noticeably fat or ugly will get attention - the same is true of dating apps. In the most part, this seems to be going out of your way to not be needy and playing games which is a lot of work. If it works, power …
/r/seduction15/04/20 11:07 PM
1

Hahah that’s a good story $50 dollar each way, she must have been two hours away and she didn’t even have the kindness to give you a pint. Some people eh...
/r/seduction15/04/20 03:00 PM
1

If it’s a fuckbuddy where you go round chat for ten minutes then fuck then chat for ten minutes then leave it’s cool, otherwise I’d find it difficult. I’m 24 and I’m unfortunately not from the deep south, I’m English.
/r/seduction14/04/20 01:02 AM
1

I'd probably avoid saying outright that she seems good enough for him, I'd go with something casual like "I like what I see so far".
/r/seduction12/04/20 09:10 PM
2

It is just one girl you fucked, seems an anomaly. You're not that experienced with women which is why your bang was a drunk girl who did all the work. When you're left to your own devices, things didn't work so well as you're inexperience showed. Also it's probably best instead of asking for a peck on the cheek to just give her one. It's not great to get her to make the move
/r/seduction12/04/20 09:07 PM
1

I disagree with the premise of this post. Most women would fantasise about meet Mr Right randomly out and about - not a nice bloke they met through friends or flippantly swiping on a dating app. Of the women I have cold approached in the past, the ones that rejected me were flattered that a guy who wasn't unattractive or a creep showed an interest.
/r/seduction12/04/20 09:00 PM
1

Fat fuck. I hope you die alone
/r/seduction12/04/20 11:52 AM
1

Not having social media is odd nowadays. I have an Insta which only has a handful of pics and a Snapchat with little on, just in case I get asked.
/r/seduction12/04/20 10:34 AM
1

If you want to fuck an ugly girl, fuck her. Nobody would care. In fact it’s a fun story if nothing else as opposed to pulling a 10/10
/r/seduction12/04/20 10:32 AM
1

But with a girl you’re still stuck with them for long periods of time where you obviously aren’t fucking, like trips away, holidays etc
/r/seduction11/04/20 09:27 PM
3

You could tolerate a boring girl in a relationship? Wouldn’t things get boring after a few months particularly if a better looking girl fluttered her eyelashes at you. In addition, depending on what your definition of bitch is - a lot of women could fall under that category.
/r/seduction11/04/20 07:22 PM
1

“Brah but tens are different”
/r/seduction11/04/20 07:19 PM
1

It’s still going to take ages. You’re better off making another thread with a specific problem
/r/seduction06/04/20 02:33 AM
0

Anyone who uses the terms alpha and beta is a chode.
/r/seduction06/04/20 02:07 AM
0

Nobody will be arsed to write everything they’ve learned over a matter of years
/r/seduction06/04/20 02:06 AM
1

Depends on the context, but for the most part compliments are rarely important unless they’re super overt
/r/seduction06/04/20 02:04 AM
1

Ignoring messages is a shit test? Lololol What is it with people and classifying everything as a shit test? Pestering non-responsive women is passing shit tests?
/r/seduction04/04/20 02:57 AM
2

Yeah I’m not a fan of this. It just seems to suggest not escalating by which time she might find another option. just seems playing not to los advice to avoid rejection
/r/seduction04/04/20 02:55 AM
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She probably wasn't interested anyway, but was happy to take a get out to make herself look great when she bitched to her gal pals about you.
/r/seduction01/04/20 11:24 PM
1

Cliffs?
/r/seduction30/03/20 03:39 AM
1

I’m not big on this post. First off, it’s dickish to insult guys in the community for being autistic. Tbh power to them for putting themselves out there if they’re socially awkward. Probably takes a lot of balls since they’ll get rejected the most. I’m not sure what your point is in the second paragraph. You moan about “neckbeards” criticising cringe PUA videos, but you’re also criticising the videos. A bit hypocritical, no? Julien Blanc was five and a half years ago, the world’s moved on. It’s …
/r/seduction30/03/20 03:38 AM
1

You’re a drain on society
/r/seduction30/03/20 03:29 AM
1

Because she was expecting you to come up with a reason to go around. So she could pin the blame on you for cheating with "I was only going around for xyz and then one thing led to another and it just happened".
/r/seduction29/03/20 02:49 AM
1

Idk if a girl has ever shown you her Insta DM’s but often even there she’ll have lot of guys messaging her. At least with Tinder you know they’re interested and looking for something at the very least
/r/seduction28/03/20 02:03 PM
1

By babbling on about shit tests usually uncertainty about them, you’re just serving to over complicate things. Shit tests are often part of a wider package that served nothing else but to waste your time Just work it out yourself; was she doing it as a passing comment or was it an obnoxious attempt at making you jealous? You’ll probably be right.
/r/seduction27/03/20 11:54 PM
3

Accept a lame sex life or move on.
/r/seduction27/03/20 03:15 AM
2

Why do you hate Tinder? I’d expect the same obstacles would apply there on FB or Insta - if not more because on Insta or FB the girl hasn’t shown interest.
/r/seduction27/03/20 03:09 AM
1

Yup. While many guys get stuck in the "conservationist loop" where they talk to a girl they like... then wait to see if they talk back, then another guy with bigger balls will take her.
/r/seduction19/03/20 06:00 PM
10

The best idea with the grey is to not be in it. As Mark Manson would say, the idea would be to polarise so it's a binary yes or no. With regards to conversations falling off; surely at one point it's just you invite her somewhere - if she doesn't give an enthusiastic "yes" then don't waste your time
/r/seduction19/03/20 01:22 AM
1

Right. Good to hear.
/r/seduction19/03/20 12:15 AM
1

Good to see you're taking this stuff well. I'd say ego is the biggest issue with guys in pick-up - it's why rejection is the biggest hurdle for 98% of men
/r/seduction19/03/20 12:09 AM
1

You're not unattractive due to looks, it's down to social skills. It's up to you how you lose your virginity, but my stance is that you need to build your looks and then once you have some kind of choice of what kinda women you want, the decision would be a lot easier. It'd probably be easier to fuck a club girl than a girl in normal life, as autism is probably a turn off to a lot of women - but they probably wouldn't notice you weren't neurotypical in a brief club meeting with alcohol involved.…
/r/seduction19/03/20 12:05 AM
2

She probably felt kinda awkward with the questions making it feel less organic and "it just happened" no longer being possible so her ASD might have flared up. She may have felt you might not have been that smooth escalating to a fuck, so probably dried up on the way on account of that too.
/r/seduction18/03/20 11:34 PM
2

Your physical appearance is probably okay, but you are still unattractive which is why you are unwillingly a virgin at 23 - which probably falls in line with your family setting you up with girls you don't consider attractive. Your issue is your social skills, the only way to improve is to practice them. I guess now obviously is a terrible time for meeting people - but yeah you need to talk to women and build your ability with flirting and such. Also considering you like heavy drinking and smoki…
/r/seduction18/03/20 11:30 PM
7

Unless you meet the girl on a night out it’s unlikely. Only a small amount of girls will agree to fuck you w/o dating them.
/r/seduction17/03/20 12:43 AM
48

Idk if women really choose guys. Most women won’t approach and outside of dating apps which women moan about anyway, they might not receive much quality attention anyway
/r/seduction17/03/20 12:41 AM
1

Not sure why the mods haven’t banned this guy. Lousy.
/r/seduction17/03/20 12:39 AM
7

What the fuck is this post?
/r/seduction16/03/20 03:43 AM
1

Please link it sounds comedy gold
/r/seduction16/03/20 03:42 AM
2

this cunt has posted this every day for weeks. Hopefully the mods ban this cunt
/r/seduction16/03/20 02:45 AM
1

We’re all nervous, she will be too. Probably a good idea to mention it. She won’t be unsurprised if you go for the kiss on a date though if it’s going well.
/r/seduction10/03/20 04:24 AM
3

Go for the kiss some point in the date - don't wait until the end. I doubt it's likely you'll friendzoned, you've made your intentions pretty clear that you're out for romance.
/r/seduction10/03/20 03:33 AM
1

The average bloke gets rejected most of the time, so even if you are good looking these numbers are to be expected.
/r/seduction10/03/20 03:26 AM
1

How many women have you approached, talk to or expressed interest in?
/r/seduction10/03/20 02:37 AM
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I’d largely agree, but it’s best not to get into a scarcity mindset. Women get caught up in the moment. It’s like how if you meet a girl on a night out, but don’t go home with her then she won’t reply the following day.
/r/seduction10/03/20 02:36 AM
1

Generally women message again to confirm, nearer the time tbf
/r/seduction10/03/20 02:31 AM
4

I don't bother with them. I like it that way as it creates a bit of uncertainty. This is the most minor shit to bother yourself with, though.
/r/seduction05/03/20 12:13 AM
1

Still seems difficult to get a read of tbh. She seems pretty non-committal. It is pretty impossible to escalate over text with platonic friends. Better you just invite her out/to your place and then “it just happened”.
/r/seduction16/02/20 02:23 AM
2

Download Tinder and find out
/r/seduction16/02/20 01:38 AM
1

What is this? No idea on the context so there’s nothing anyone can do to help
/r/seduction16/02/20 01:37 AM
1

No, don’t wait a week or two. If you don’t form a connection within the first few days, why bother? You won’t via message. It’s a dating app, so the whole point is to date. This is especially the case on most new apps, where the women have decided they find you attractive. You just have to accept it comes with the territory. There are lots of better looking guys out there and there’s nothing you can do about it.
/r/seduction16/02/20 01:06 AM
1

Because people will behave much differently on TV as there are over a million people who watch Corden as opposed to nobody watching them swipe on Tinder. Probably to show she cares about more than looks idk
/r/seduction13/02/20 05:29 PM
4

Ok cool. We get it, you get loads of pussy now fuck off.
/r/seduction13/02/20 01:03 PM
4

If the men here were getting chased, this sub-reddit would not exist
/r/seduction13/02/20 12:58 PM
2

I don’t think your problem will get much sympathy here
/r/seduction13/02/20 12:24 PM
7

This is on TV, so I don’t take it seriously
/r/seduction13/02/20 10:55 AM
1

She seems like someone who’d doesn’t really want anything serious tbh, so it’s up to you from here
/r/seduction13/02/20 10:19 AM
1

No Buying a girl chocolate and flowers doesn’t make you a beta provider lol. It’s not even a particularly expensive gift. He’s a “beta provider” if being a provider is the only way he’s using to gain her attraction
/r/seduction13/02/20 10:16 AM
2

No, not at all. Two friends knew/cared. One was already good with women, so didn't really care to learn and was happy for me. The other saw me doing better and joined in pick-up/whatever and does better than me. Realistically, it'll probably mean they're around more attractive women, as the girls you date will have friends etc so idk why they'd shame you. Maybe girls would shame you as pick-up/seduction sounds a bit seedy but I doubt they would notice/care.
/r/seduction13/02/20 04:53 AM
2

Why not just get your own place? Car sex sounds cramped and awkward.
/r/seduction13/02/20 04:46 AM
2

You clearly want to send her chocolates and flowers. I'd say it's more "beta shit" if you do the opposite of something you'd like to do because you want because strangers on Reddit talked you out of it. Also, you've mentioned you've spoken to her "every day" I assume that's not face to face. If that's the case, personally I would avoid it. It could be a bit forward, but then again you mentioned you were friends with this girl before the wedding of which we don't know the dynamic of.
/r/seduction13/02/20 04:44 AM
1

I didn’t think it was very good.
/r/seduction07/02/20 04:25 AM
2

Often if a girl gives you her number she won’t reply. It’s easier to just give you her number than say no a lot of the time. So she may give you her number with no intention to follow up
/r/seduction03/02/20 12:33 AM
1

It just doesn’t make me feel as bad about seeing guys do better than me when I do better than other guys
/r/seduction03/02/20 12:31 AM
1

There are guys less attractive, poorer and less socially skilled than me and that can apply to everyone
/r/seduction03/02/20 12:27 AM
0

Unfortunately for the most part numbers don’t matter either as you’ll find
/r/seduction03/02/20 12:24 AM
1

“Did your phone get snatched by an alligator?” “No, haha sorry I forgot to reply”
/r/seduction01/02/20 06:56 PM
1

I said go to lower market clubs, so there wouldn't be any girls wearing heels. Average girl is 5'3" or 5'4" and at 5'5" he is taller than a lot of the girls as opposed to shorter at 5'2". I said he's at a disadvantage and may struggle, but he'd have to try for himself while mitigating any issue. It might well be over, but he may as well try
/r/seduction01/02/20 04:08 PM
2

For the people saying he’s a novelty, he’s not a midget and Asperger’s is probably pretty common and for a lot of people unnoticeable. This is especially the case when people are drunk and less likely to notice this stuff. If I were you I’d primarily go for the lower market clubs and get some shoes to bump you up to about 5’5” ish so you’ve got a bit of an advantage. So youre taller than a lot more of the girls Yes, you’re at a disadvantage and you MAY struggle but there’s nothing you can do abo…
/r/seduction01/02/20 04:33 AM
1

She may just be busy and you don’t want to be playing girls early. I try to respond to everyone ASAP, so that includes women
/r/seduction01/02/20 04:28 AM
1

This was very funny, doesn't deserve the downvotes.
/r/seduction29/01/20 11:09 AM
1

Who knows? Who cares? Nothing can/will be done about it
/r/seduction22/01/20 03:11 AM
1

Not watching the video, but idk if the average girl wants an alpha. Most attractive girls have been with or fucked the “alpha” guy, but a lot of them are just dating guys they met in their friendship groups
/r/seduction22/01/20 03:04 AM
3

I slightly disagree with this. If they cba to respond past two messages they aren’t going to spend the time on their hair, makeup clothes etc and then travel to and go on a date. If the girl was already sold on you, then yes it works. I agree with the second part of the paragraph, a lot of guys suggest boring coffee dates. It’s much better to do something you enjoy.
/r/seduction22/01/20 03:02 AM
3

There’s no reason you can’t gain a friend group and cold approach. Your chances will be substantially higher with girls you meet through friends.
/r/seduction20/01/20 02:52 AM
1

No If you’re a creep and persist when she clearly doesn’t want you to e.g. says she has a boyfriend then the chance may increase 0.001%
/r/seduction20/01/20 02:50 AM
4

You don’t need to escalate much at all, just trade a few funny lines and then it should be okay. The biggest obstacle is the girl replying as the unfortunate fact is that most women do not reply once you have their number
/r/seduction18/01/20 01:20 AM
3

I doubt The Game ever held up, just seems like fiction and shit. That said, I was a teenager reading it and it was written by someone double my age ten years prior. I guess my wording was a bit clumsy, but I was hoping he’d put how he flirted with the girl.
/r/seduction15/01/20 11:46 AM
2

Video yourself approaching
/r/seduction15/01/20 03:37 AM
2

If just being a girl’s type was enough, then no guys would have Tinder flakes and would bang/date every match
/r/seduction15/01/20 02:17 AM
3

You’ve missed the point, then. There are lots of people with all that who struggle. It may have been all he needed, but it wouldn’t have harmed for him to elaborate on it.
/r/seduction14/01/20 11:03 PM
12

Waitresses, bartenders, front desk workers that are paid to be nice to you
/r/seduction14/01/20 09:12 PM
16

I’m aware how it’s created - I’d have just preferred that to be the central point of it as opposed to number closing.
/r/seduction14/01/20 07:34 PM
54

Not to shit on your story, but you’ve done nothing out of the ordinary here but giving your number which a lot of guys will do anyway. You mentioned you received strong vibes, so I’m more interested in how you created attraction
/r/seduction14/01/20 07:01 PM
1

I was answering the question. If all a girl has to offer is sex, the relationship isn’t going to work, so if the girl gives it to him there’s nothing to gain and if she waits a while the guy will move on. The point is by having something to offer beyond sex, the girl can avoid being pumped and dumped. How can by the third date a girl “see through a guys MO”. The modus operandi of any non-asexual guy in a relationship is sex. Or emotional attachment and sex. If a girl places a huge emphasis on se…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 06:58 PM
1

If a girl doesn’t fuck me by date 2, I probably won’t contact her again and will re-assess whether it’s worth my time. If she wants to “make me wait” she can fuck herself. Literally. I’d rather not wait until date 6262727 for sex. Generally if sex is all a girl has to offer, once she’s given that away then there’s no point with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 04:05 PM
1

How long is your semester, if it’s only three months or so I’d just focus on work and way for you to move to somewhere bigger with more women and options for friends.
/r/seduction14/01/20 02:29 AM
2

I find guys like this to be frauds more often than not. I’m sceptical if he’s even approached an 8, 9 or 10. Generally after a few approaches, you’ll find the rating of the girl is often irrelevant. In any circumstance, creating a rigid ordinal scale to describe attractiveness is very subjective. Surely one guys 9 is another guy’s 10 and vice versa
/r/seduction14/01/20 02:24 AM
1

I’ve read a few books, but for the most part there’s often a lot of contradictory and nonsensical info, which only serves to complicate things - so I’d say I didn’t use any resources Nothing really has changed. Some guys have huge appearance changes like new haircut, facial hair, clothes etc, but I didn’t have one. I occasionally wear glasses as my eyesight is weaker but it has a negligible effect on my results. I found out rejection isn’t that bad all things considered and that most girls are c…
/r/seduction14/01/20 02:20 AM
3

You did fine I wouldn’t bother myself in situations like that, but yeah nothing wrong with what you did
/r/seduction13/01/20 05:42 AM
1

Probably better off for him to go to Brighton if he wants to game. It’s not the largest town in the world, so he’s going to struggle. Might not be the worst idea to move to somewhere with more women. He’s mentioned his social circle have moved on with their lives and his other set of mates are losers.
/r/seduction13/01/20 03:20 AM
2

Idk why you got downvoted, I think this is a very good post
/r/seduction13/01/20 03:11 AM
2

She was probably horny and wanted to fuck that night, but since you didn’t make a move she’s probably lost interest. Shit happens, but don’t repeat this again. Always go for the kiss on the first date and don’t wait until the very end of it either.
/r/seduction13/01/20 03:09 AM
1

“Hey can I borrow you for a minute”, ask about some common ground. You’re in school, there should be some.
/r/seduction13/01/20 12:17 AM
2

Nobody cares how many women you fuck, it’s about whether you add value to the community
/r/seduction13/01/20 12:16 AM
1

How is ostentatiously rejecting you going to pass you tests, unless it means going to interested women. In any circumstance if “I have a boyfriend” is the most common shit test but this only accounts for 1% of the time it’s used, why bother learning them. The bottom paragraph you suggest is just flirting, I’m not sure how this is the same as an obvious rejection.
/r/seduction12/01/20 06:50 AM
1

In my experience I have to disagree that the girls worth of value have to test you. I don’t care about “passing” tests especially, already puts her on a pedestal if I have learn and memorise lines to appease her
/r/seduction12/01/20 03:34 AM
1

Why bother with the 1% of cases when following on with the 99% of cases could cause problems? Tbh I don’t care whether or not it’s true or the numbers, it’s the intention. If the girl is dumb enough to use it as a line to lead you on, it’s her loss.
/r/seduction12/01/20 03:20 AM
1

If “I have a boyfriend” which is widely considered the most common rejection isn’t a rejection, what do you consider her rejecting you?
/r/seduction12/01/20 03:11 AM
2

What’s the point in this post? Don’t game alone?? Some guys can do just fine like that
/r/seduction12/01/20 03:09 AM
1

I know. If a female makes me very happy who I very much enjoy the company of, and I feel is an asset to my life then yes I could settle.
/r/seduction05/01/20 03:43 AM
2

I'd just prepare a few conversation starters yourself on what you plan to say to open up a conversation with women and work from there. Reading a lot of (often contradictory) material often only serves to muddy the waters. Also the more you think about approaching, the less likely that you will.
/r/seduction05/01/20 03:40 AM
2

I've no idea if your race will be an obstacle - depends on where you live really, it might even work in your favour. Whites have it easiest in the dating game, but black guys certainly don't have it the hardest. Well looks certainly matter, so your height and race may be an obstacle but you may have a handsome face which supersedes both
/r/seduction05/01/20 03:38 AM
1

You'll get more rejection possibly but it's part of the game. If you're height bothers you, you can get shoelifts to bump you up two to three inches.
/r/seduction05/01/20 03:27 AM
1

Get the number at the end of the conversation. It's not indicative of anything if a girl gives you her number, the majority of the time they'll just give it to you because it's easier to just ignore your messages than reject you. In fact, by far and away; the majority of these approaches will just ignore your message after the approach. Even in clubs, unless you bang the girl there's no point getting the number as she won't respond. So you're in the pub, just something I'd have taken a stab at "…
/r/seduction05/01/20 03:23 AM
2

You could argue you could end up as a old, lonely motherfucker that’s going to die alone but tbh aren’t we all?? Why not play this game to the very end? It's not like there's a point where you can't settle down tbf. On topic, I don't plan to imminently, though I am reasonably young so there's no time pressure. But idk Ms Right could pop up
/r/seduction05/01/20 03:08 AM
1

I wouldn't even bother initiating a meeting. High chance she'll flake
/r/seduction05/01/20 03:06 AM
5

Super direct works in bars and clubs when girls there are looking to be fucked and will go home with the first guy that approaches who fits their minimum criteria
/r/seduction04/01/20 02:47 AM
6

There isn’t much correlation between attractiveness of girl and rejection rate, which is why I find it all the more far fetched when guys talk how they can get 6-8’s easy but 9’s and 10’s are oh so difficult. In my experience a lot of the hottest girls end up going out with not remarkable looking guys in their friendship group.
/r/seduction04/01/20 02:45 AM
4

Tinder Plus and then Boost. With no social circle, access to bars that’s your best option. You’re going to have to put your hand in your pocket for $15 to try and get laid
/r/seduction01/01/20 05:37 PM
1

Work on steps to improve yourself. Boost your looks, jokes, dress sense. Leagues is a large part of why I dislike chodes and fakes talking about how they can easily fuck 7’s and can’t fuck 8’s
/r/seduction01/01/20 05:33 PM
3

Stop wasting your time
/r/seduction01/01/20 05:31 PM
6

No, you should stick with the same generic opener 10 other guys have sent, many of whom are better looking.
/r/seduction01/01/20 05:31 PM
2

"If your game works the first few days and then if she gets distant... It means you are acting clingy or emo." She may have got a better offer or been busy or just like the attention. I dislike when we work in absolutes for human responses.
/r/seduction01/01/20 02:14 PM
1

For the most part you're going to lack social proof if you're cold approaching. Could you elaborate more on this?
/r/seduction01/01/20 02:11 PM
1

He's given so much away on his channel for free, I doubt he has much left to say wrt texting. For the most part, I think it's good stuff
/r/seduction01/01/20 02:10 PM
0

I’m interested
/r/seduction29/12/19 01:16 AM
4

DATING ADVICE TOP TIP: If you have a girl genuinely interested in you, act like an unfunny tryhard with some lines you stole from Reddit. excellent
/r/seduction27/12/19 12:30 AM
3

Always found this alpha response stuff lame. The idea of an “alpha” learning and remembering some lines to impress women and pass their tests seems ridiculous.
/r/seduction26/12/19 11:03 PM
1

Sorry no, I’ve said a few too many edgy/offensive things on here. My profile is a few pics of me at different uni events in my shirt and club tie, a couple of group pics, one of me by myself and one with a decent looking girl I met in a pizza shop. My main pic is just me in a shirt and bow tie at an event and has a 7.6 on photofeeler, so apparently better than 76% of males on there.
/r/seduction26/12/19 11:00 PM
2

If that’s how you’d play it, that’s your prerogative. I basically never encounter women bragging about Male attention because it’s not classy and why date an attention whore? They’re clearly mentioning it to make you jealous, so I wouldn’t bother.
/r/seduction26/12/19 07:03 PM
1

I get shit all apart from super likes and boosts, probably 10-15 matches per week. In real life 80-90% of women reject me.
/r/seduction26/12/19 04:37 PM
0

Probably not. I don’t really believe in shit tests. Just strikes me as attention seeking behaviour on an app widely used for attention seeking.
/r/seduction26/12/19 04:35 PM
3

When did I say people on Tinder only pursue one person? I said it’s odd they’d bring it into the conversation. There are various things that happen in your day to day life that you would opt to not mention.
/r/seduction26/12/19 04:34 PM
1

Have a gander through her FB/Twitter
/r/seduction26/12/19 12:44 PM
1

I considered it even after I first got laid. I’m not one of those that thinks sex is precious and valuable so should only be done with people you sincerely care about. If you want to do it, do it and don’t tell anybody. In a way it’s more “beta” to not do something because you’re scared of what people think and that it looks “beta”
/r/seduction26/12/19 12:43 PM
6

It’s very very odd they’d bring random men into the conversation.
/r/seduction26/12/19 12:39 PM
2

Women are far pickier online but it’s more convenient for irl. Advantages and disadvantages to both
/r/seduction26/12/19 12:39 PM
2

I’ve always thought a lot of seduction is nonsense. “The Game” which it’s based on game out 14 years and parts are ostensibly exaggerated
/r/seduction26/12/19 12:37 PM
1

There are times when I went into an interaction expecting to be rejected. And many times I was right. I just accepted most times I go for a woman she will say no
/r/seduction26/12/19 08:42 AM
5

Model looking guy. He’ll get approached and it’s just a case of not fucking things up. Average looking guy will already be considered unattractive by 80% or so of women.
/r/seduction26/12/19 08:40 AM
1

You just have to accept that you’re going to have initiate, lead and drive most conversations with girls until you’ve asked them out.
/r/seduction25/12/19 02:24 PM
3

Not being a part of a social circle MAY affect your social skills, but looking in a vacuum probably mot
/r/seduction25/12/19 02:23 PM
2

It’s probably not too early However we’re not mind readers and saying “we talked a bit and she seemed interested” isn’t much help.
/r/seduction25/12/19 02:22 PM
1

I've never understood the guys who show off about how they can slay 6-8's easily but a 9 or 10 is oh so difficult. This post is just a pointless and useless brag - and I'm pretty sure its BS too. It's just I'm handsome and going to smash a hot girl.
/r/seduction22/12/19 03:55 PM
23

What do you think constitutes creepy? Some could say being direct is creepy.
/r/seduction22/12/19 03:51 PM
2

I’m just giving you advice. No quicker way for her cunt to dry up than this chodiness. In any circumstance, this whole thing is baffling, you are supposedly only chasing “8’s” but a “9” comes and you’re flustered.
/r/seduction22/12/19 02:47 PM
3

Stop being a chode with your putting her on a pedestal
/r/seduction22/12/19 01:45 PM
2

Thanks for the reply. I've never really liked coffee dates. From my experience, girls are a bit more receptive after a couple of drinks and it's easier to escalate imo due to the atmosphere. Generally I'll buy the first round of drinks and pretty much every girl I've ever dated has bought the second. It'd be gg if she didn't buy the second. I think if the OP probably could've fucked the girl if he escalated differently - maybe she didn't like it. I find it odd that the girl would agree to go bac…
/r/seduction22/12/19 03:55 AM
1

I’ve got a bridge to sell you
/r/seduction22/12/19 03:17 AM
2

Why not drinks on the first date?
/r/seduction22/12/19 03:14 AM
2

Idk why people here think everything is a shit test.
/r/seduction22/12/19 03:12 AM
0

This post has more value than a lot of dross written here AND it made me laugh. Great contribution sie
/r/seduction21/12/19 06:48 PM
1

Just do a boot camp instead
/r/seduction21/12/19 06:44 PM
8

See a counsellor. You may still have the same internal issues even if you're fucking hot girls on a regular basis.
/r/seduction20/12/19 02:16 AM
1

Only date/fuck women if you find them at least slightly attractive, otherwise what’s the point? If you’re a Gigachad and less attractive women are still fuckable then why the hell not?
/r/seduction19/12/19 02:16 AM
2

Confirm the date for ASAP, tbh. I would struggle to keep text conversation going for longer than a week.
/r/seduction19/12/19 02:14 AM
4

I think you should have conversed a bit more before going into it, as being super direct may cause some problems. Also, talking about being a boyfriend right off the bat isn’t ideal. That said, she was probably flattered that you approached her and may even tell her friends about it. Also props for approaching, most people don’t have the balls for it.
/r/seduction19/12/19 01:58 AM
3

What exactly is over game? You seem to be over analysing this stuff. Perhaps if you are deliberately working to “push and pull” purposely, she can tell you aren’t being authentic. Also if you are serious about it this, you’ve only tested this on seven or eight girls, not the biggest sample size is it?
/r/seduction19/12/19 01:35 AM
4

Yeah, good on you for approaching. Possible she was just having a bad day. I’m not going to scrutinise or ask for details on your approach, but I would still look objectively on whether you think any improvements could be made.
/r/seduction19/12/19 01:30 AM
1

Yes, I’ve never been on one, but it’s a very good idea. Its active for touching and you can get drinks at the bar. Plenty of opportunity for teasing her
/r/seduction14/12/19 07:26 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction13/12/19 04:52 AM
0

They instinctively say it when they're not interested, as some guys don't wouldn't take no for an answer if they said not interested. Also natural step to the default thing girls say to "not interested" is to leave them alone. You can by all means continue the conversation, but it won't go anywhere.
/r/seduction11/12/19 11:59 PM
1

I grew up in Yorkshire but live in London Why’d you ask?
/r/seduction11/12/19 09:12 PM
1

idc if she has a boyfriend. The intention is that she isn’t interested. Even if she did have a bf but was interested, she wouldn’t mention it
/r/seduction11/12/19 03:12 AM
0

Tinder
/r/seduction11/12/19 02:34 AM
2

Yeah. I got good by talking to everyone as my social skills were shitty, this included makes. It helped me build social skills. I’d often build confidence in my chode day’s by talking to those super drunk blokes
/r/seduction11/12/19 02:33 AM
3

I have a boyfriend unless they’re clearly being ironic is the clearest no you’re going to get, so at that point just not bother. I’d liken sales resistance to token resistance a girl puts up to getting off with you.
/r/seduction11/12/19 02:31 AM
1

It’s okay, but I’d rather be with a girl in her natural self be someone who gels with me than her imitation of what she should be.
/r/seduction11/12/19 02:30 AM
1

This isn’t very helpful. You’ve given us no indication of the dynamic between you and the girl
/r/seduction10/12/19 12:27 AM
1

I never suggested ordering food and this seems an anomaly, anyway. The places I suggest to go, the drinks don’t cost much more than coffee. This stands for the big cities as I’ve had drinks in NY and London. I never said you couldn’t escalate in a park or whatever, I said yes you had a better chance in a bar.
/r/seduction09/12/19 03:26 PM
2

Drinks at a bar aren’t much more than coffee. And even then, there’s nothing to suggest you can’t cut the date short if it’s not going your way. I’m not sure how energy comes into a bar date, but not a coffee or walking around. No, going to a bar is just me and the girl - with the only thing there being conversation. It’s easier to escalate in a bar as opposed to a sterile coffee shop atmosphere. You want to give yourself the best chance possible. Coffee shop has a pretty sterile atmosphere, fri…
/r/seduction09/12/19 05:06 AM
5

Your local bar is ideal but NYU campus, Central Perk, the subway or New Jersey are all fine.
/r/seduction09/12/19 03:40 AM
2

Ask her out and make it clear you’re asking her out. “So how’s about I take you for drinks at X venue at Y time on whatever day?” “Tee-hee, is it a date/are you asking me out? “Yes.” By flirty, I mean tease her about various things and crack jokes.
/r/seduction09/12/19 12:33 AM
1

I’d try and watch guys who are good with women. I’m not necessarily saying it has to be online, it can be observing what the guys who are good with women in your school/college do. Also as someone with pretty unremarkable social skills, I got a bit of help by watching Chuck Bass of GG
/r/seduction09/12/19 12:29 AM
1

Flirt and ask her out? If she’s still a virgin she’s probably waiting.
/r/seduction09/12/19 12:27 AM
2

We have no idea what’s going on with the girl. Have you got off with her? Kissed her? Fucked her? By the sounds of it, none of the above, so I’d just ask her out and flirt with her. I’d always avoid telling her you like her and show it
/r/seduction09/12/19 12:26 AM
6

I do agree with the general premise of being as direct as possible, but I have a few issues, namely the fact that from what I’ve seen - the biggest issues for PUA’s is being stingy. Coffee dates are lame imo, very sterile atmosphere and not much opportunity to push the boat out. “Hey, Victoria do you fancy coming on for a walk with me at Parker’s Park at 6 on Friday?” Sounds a bit lame. Just go for a beer at somewhere nice enough that it’s not ostensibly shit, but good enough to escalate in with…
/r/seduction09/12/19 12:23 AM
1

Women rarely respond after approaches and women rarely make the first move. Why combine both and make it even harder for yourself?
/r/seduction10/11/19 11:06 AM
2

How old are you chap?
/r/seduction08/11/19 03:18 PM
1

100+ lays guy
/r/seduction08/11/19 03:01 PM
3

I’m 6’0 so rarely see a woman taller, but if so why not. Who cares if it MAY look unusual
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:13 AM
1

If they’re mutual friends, you might as well tell them you’re interested in her. Probably less likely to badmouth you that way, and a recommendation from a close source gets you further. Then make your move and ask her out
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:12 AM
2

Flirt, then make a move. Or just make a move considering she’s already being flirty enough.
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:10 AM
1

How old are you if you don’t mind me asking?
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:08 AM
1

I always go for it if I’m feeling it. If I feel nothing, I don’t bother and I don’t see the girl again. If she rejects me - the same applies
/r/seduction08/11/19 04:54 AM
2

There’s a lot to take in here: Firstly, I’d suggest talking to some friends about your situation - particularly regarding being suicidal. None of us are likely therapists or know you personally, so their advice will be better particularly with regards to the suicide part. I’d also make sure that you are comfortable with who you, so talking to a counsellor, therapist or even friend as mentioned above may help. You mentioned you’re doing an MA and lots of universities have like a counsellor servic…
/r/seduction06/11/19 01:00 PM
1

You took a girl to a bar on a date and she fucked another guy??? F Not much to analyse, she got a better offer
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:21 PM
2

Oh fair enough, I thought you were a chode. I don’t know you’re age, but I’d suggest going for older women as they’re more likely to have their own place. Go to a bar or somewhere where it’s more likely that kind of thing would happen or wouldn’t be frowned upon. Like a middle of the range type one where you don’t have to be in a shirt and tie to get in.
/r/seduction31/10/19 11:51 PM
1

Get your own place if you are serious about this kind of thing. Only solution really.
/r/seduction31/10/19 11:35 PM
3

Is this girl local?
/r/seduction31/10/19 08:32 AM
2

No idea, you’ve given us nothing to work with.
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:48 PM
4

The guys obsessed with rating girls are usually the biggest chodes from what I’ve noticed. They usually use “high standards” to excuse lack of results. It’s not a trade off where you can fuck a 10 a month or a six every week, usually the guys who go for quantity also get quality.
/r/seduction28/10/19 06:36 PM
2

Just lie, there isn’t any downside to it. I dislike lying but really sometimes you have to
/r/seduction06/10/19 12:20 PM
2

Never known a girl do this I really doubt it. Maybe a very sensitive guy might get mad at being tricked idk. I just go for drinks. I just accept whatever I spend as basically a sunk cost Fraud is wrongful deception for personal gain. The wrongful deception is the suggestion of romantic interest and the personal gain is dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 01:01 AM
1

I wouldn’t date a 30 year old or over female virgin. At that point she’s waiting for marriage and I wouldn’t be willing to wait that long to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 12:57 AM
1

"To be honest, sometimes I'd rather just be on equal terms or even let her take the lead once in a while. Anyone else feel the same, or am I just weird?" My preference would be this, but if I let women take the lead, I'd still be a virgin. I'm not saying you should learn a list of behaviours to become an alpha like TRP, but you still need to take charge. As a man, you or I would have to initiate conversation, drive the conversations, escalate the conversation, propose and plan a date, pay for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 11:07 PM
14

Simply put; don't be reliant on friends. They can change personality, move away, get busy, drop you for a woman, find other friends etc Some you can trust, but even those I wouldn't rely on for happiness.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 03:00 PM
2

They do a load of “special appearances” in clubs for like £5K a night. Most of them probably do poorly paid jobs, so what does it matter?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 04:02 PM
1

Unless you're successful with the majority of women, it's largely a numbers game.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 02:42 AM
1

I said those men don't have game, idk what your point is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 02:42 AM
1

You don't know that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 02:08 AM
1

Yeah, I wasn't clear then, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 02:03 AM
2

I never said it was useless, I said it was overrated. I think most women start off in either positive, neutral or negative territory. The vast majority are in the latter category but will obviously not blow you off (most women avoid rejecting you), so it's about filtering out the interested girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 02:01 AM
1

I know. Most men don't follow that part of game, then. Go into a club; many men will mainly be stood in awkward groups like it's the school disco, many men will be stood awkwardly pretending to be on their phone. Many men in the club will be making awkward small talk to women and try for their number when the girl would fuck that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 01:56 AM
1

Balls. Most men don't do it and even in the minority that do, most won't be that direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 01:53 AM
4

Maybe it's more noticeable as they're fat. A gorgeous woman wouldn't be as notable.
/r/seduction12/01/18 01:09 AM
2

Two years of friendship was probably your failure, but we don’t even know if she was initially interested. As another poster said - move on.
/r/seduction18/12/17 12:40 AM
1

I’m aware. I think the idea that you have to bring women down to your level is silly.
/r/seduction18/12/17 12:38 AM
3

I read his first book it’s pretty good. I wouldn’t read too many books if I were you, it can lead to an overload. If I were you, I’d just stick to Gambler (since you already have him) and be done with it.
/r/seduction18/12/17 12:01 AM
2

Why do they have such issue with your freedom? Given you’re 17 and going to college in a year(?) I don’t know the system too well in North America.
/r/seduction17/12/17 11:43 PM
1

Why not? I disagree personally, but wondering on your POV.
/r/seduction17/12/17 11:18 PM
2

Could you not be up front to your parents since you’re 17. If you can’t do that or successfully lie, then I’d say it’s pretty impossible. If you don’t have a job, you could get a part-time one and maybe go with the angle that you’re using your money to meet women.
/r/seduction17/12/17 11:16 PM
1

I’d read Models by Mark Manson. Obviously you need to add your own spin, but this is the best.
/r/seduction17/12/17 11:13 PM
2

I never said don’t try it; I said don’t trust it. In fact I did try it when first getting into “game”, but I was more successful after I dumped it.
/r/seduction17/12/17 11:13 PM
2

How old are you j/w? Could you say you’re going out with other lads and not a girl?
/r/seduction17/12/17 10:24 PM
-4

I wouldn’t trust anything Style says. Him and Mystery were behind nonsense like negs and boyfriend destroyers
/r/seduction17/12/17 10:19 PM
0

I’d bite the bullet and move. Other than because it’s the norm, I see no reason to stay.
/r/seduction15/12/17 05:15 AM
2

Flirt and try to have sex with her. You’ll see if she’s interested.
/r/seduction15/12/17 04:29 AM
4

Ignore/delete their messages. There isn’t a filter for that stuff online. They have less options so will be more proactive about it.
/r/seduction15/12/17 04:28 AM
1

How come you can’t move out?
/r/seduction15/12/17 04:27 AM
17

Hey insert name can I borrow you for a minute?
/r/seduction15/12/17 04:25 AM
1

Yes it does close and if it hasn't closed already it's an eleventh hour, Hail Mary, bottom of the ninth move now. If a girl agrees to go on a date, she is attracted to you and wants you to be attracted to her. That's that.
/r/seduction29/11/17 09:33 PM
3

Very good video, much better than the rest of the nonsense out there
/r/seduction29/11/17 07:17 PM
1

Invite her on a date man up and kiss her, stop being afraid.
/r/seduction29/11/17 07:11 PM
3

You got in a swearing rage because someone had some of your Cheetos. He comes out of this story looking better.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 09:00 PM
1

What's the point in going up to a girl and being a dick? If you are a dick, then fine. Present yourself as you are as you can't pretend to be a dick forever and then you'll get the dreaded "you've changed". Going to girls with a phony persona is why you're going to get shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 05:14 PM
2

Her mood changed. She has a fiancé of eight years who she has much stronger feelings for.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 05:03 PM
1

Why not make the first move AND improve? I ONLY get approached by girls who are in the 6-7/10 range. I've approached and succeeded with better (and worse).
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 05:01 PM
1

I'm not saying you CAN'T get a threesome. You're just not at the level of a guy who can yet. Maybe after a load of rejections and putting your balls on the line, it may work.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 04:58 PM
3

Great list
/r/seduction14/10/17 12:53 PM
1

I worked in a bar during university. It gets you to speak to many attractive women on a regular basis. Also, if you are a virgin at 22, I think that it's unlikely you're the sort of guy that will be getting threesomes. It takes a lot of trial and error to get to that level. Maybe, you can be super good looking and offered them, but I guess you'd be getting approached if that was the case. It's good being ambitious, but you need to be realistic here.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 06:09 PM
1

What do you mean by tougher challenges?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 09:05 PM
1

It's easier to complain about dating than do what's required towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 09:00 PM
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I think saying that you think a girl is attractive is a little too forward. I think you could ask them out and show intention without the compliment. The way you ask a girl out has to be congruent with your personality. Say what is on YOUR mind in the same way that Mark Manson will say what's on his. The way you go about making friends and getting a girlfriend is different. There is never any rejection involved with having friends or whatever.
/r/seduction19/09/17 11:37 PM
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I feel that NoFap is a self fulfilling prophecy. A lot of the people say that doing NoFap increases your motivation for outside pursuits. What they often ignore is that many of the people who begin NoFap specifically coincide it with improvements in their lifestyle. Correlation not causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 11:40 PM
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You said you've never met any of the desperate guys online. I was saying that many of the desperate guys are probably normal guys and leave complaining for online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 07:22 PM
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Most guys in the friendzone aren't covert with there intentions, so there may be some ambiguity as to whether they're actually friendzoned. Also when rejecting, most women are likely to do it privately
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 04:35 PM
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A lot of the nice guys display their behaviour exclusively online. It's probably immediately after they were rejected, they are likely pretty normal otherwise in real life. For all I know, the guy I mentioned in my story earlier threw a hissy fit in incels after he got friendzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 04:32 PM
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Yeah, I was there. It was back when I was in university. I was in the communal kitchen and a guy and girl came in. The guy had an obvious crush on the girl, he said that he was cooking dinner for her that night. Being the arsehole I was, I asked "Is it a date?", she said "No haha, we're just friends. I think we should get matching t-shirts that say 'Just friends' on them." I think he got the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 01:58 PM
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Oh okay, so you consider any girl who has same night sex a slut? Seems a little harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 09:21 AM
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I'm well aware it isn't a literal pill, but there's no mention of "black pill" and I'm not watching the full video
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 12:30 PM
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I'm four minutes in and he hasn't mentioned a pill. Is the gist that looks are the only thing that matter to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 11:34 PM
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What is the black pill? The subreddit has nothing on and I'd only otherwise heard it mentioned on Incels which is private.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 10:29 PM
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What exactly do you consider a slut j/w?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 12:44 PM
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The age of consent in the UK is 16, which is what I was going off. In fact many do start before then anyway. Citing your example, if you're in school/college. It'd be a little hard for me in the back of my mind knowing that so many people had boned my girlfriend. The point is, it's difficult for me at least to say whether an N count of 60 is that high when age isn't specified.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 05:12 AM
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It depends on age, really. If she's 30, that may only work out at like four guys a year. If she's 20, it probably means she fucks a new guy every few weeks. If she's young, no. It's a bit weird to me dating a girl who would fuck almost anyone, she probably has little self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 04:09 AM
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I work on the basis that everyone is a situational alpha as opposed to a permanent alpha/beta
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 03:14 AM
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I don't think fucking other women is always the solution. I got rejected by a girl I liked, the same night I ended up fucking a different girl in the club. Such was my neediness was that I was thinking of my oneitis while I was having sex with another girl. For me, I just had to realise that I was too good to have a girl who didn't care about me at the forefront of my mind. On another note, thinking of my oneitis was a massive motivator in finding the strength for that one last rep at the gym or…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 10:24 PM
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I wrote something similar on alphas a few days ago. "There are always situations where "alphas" will fade into the background. Take a 'roided up bodybuilder type; you'd expect them to do well in a cheap club - at least be much more confident than a D and D player. But if you put the bodybuilder in a D and D all night session, while the folks there are shouting about dexterity and wisdom, he's likely to be in the background." I do also feel that alpha is often used by RP'ers to talk about how muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 10:18 PM
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Isn't pretty much everyone a situational alpha to some degree though...? There are always situations where "alphas" will fade into the background. Take a 'roided up bodybuilder type; you'd expect them to do well in a cheap club - at least be much more confident than a D and D player. But if you put the bodybuilder in a D and D all night session, while the folks there are shouting about dexterity and wisdom, he's likely to be in the background.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 01:29 AM
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I feel I align more with the red, I agree with the self-improvement. I was a bit off on the AWALT thing. They seem to suggest that all women are fine being plates and said women are fucking three guys at the same time. Obviously some girls are like this, but having lived with many girls in the course of university, I have to disagree. On a side note, I am sceptical about how many of them are actually taking home high five/six figures in their twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 03:52 AM
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Alpha has a fairly ambiguous meaning and there are so many traits, it's more than likely some will cross over, so there can be cases of one guy being only slightly less "alpha" than another being classed as beta. Even then, there are situational examples. Stick an incel type in a club then it's likely they will fade to the background and become "beta". If you put a roided bodybuilder "alpha" type in a D&D workshop they will likely fade to the back with the "neckbeards" talking about dexterity an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 03:42 AM
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I disagree completely with the post. The guy in the post is clearly a VERY aggressive individual, any sign of conflict from a bystander would have turned physical. Even if you "win" the fight which is unlikely as the guy in the post will likely be more experienced, you could end up with a criminal record. Isn't being "alpha" to do with thinking before acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 03:36 AM
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You're inviting her into your life, so do something YOU enjoy. As Sinslayer said, it is better to do something activity based.
/r/seduction23/07/17 04:55 AM
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Ok cool
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 03:48 AM
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Yes I do, I believe I alluded to that on my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 01:35 AM
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I was the one who initially posted about shit tests. I said there was no such thing - there was no "think" about it. It would have been much easier to actually reply to my post, instead of trying to criticise it with a load of daft assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 01:32 AM
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Women complaining about men is accepted in modern society whereas the reverse is untrue, I feel that MGTOW offers a "safe space" where they won't get criticised. Calling yourself a strong independent woman and radical feminism have taken over.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 12:10 AM
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If she mentions that she has a boyfriend at the start of the conversation, she is putting an enormous obstacle in front of you. Literally no woman can respond any more negatively than that. I never said that no guy will ever pull a girl who said that line. The odds are so stacked against you, it's not worth trying. People get struck by lightning and win the lottery, it still doesn't mean the odds aren't enormously stacked against you. What makes an enormously unreceptive girl SO important? Dialo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 05:38 PM
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Then you don't need to text her what you'd like to see her in. It's not one size fits all.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 03:48 PM
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If you have enough time to text a girl for a few hours, you need more hobbies.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 03:47 PM
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I do follow this to an extent. I feel that if "shit tests" were to happen, it would be because the guy isn't being genuine. I guess this could be in the case of a guy pretending to be a player. I don't believe that one instance of "failing" a shit test will make a woman reject a guy. Interactions have loads of comments and as such even the most "alpha" guy will make "beta" comments. If she really is going to write you off after one comment, then I'm sceptical she was that interested. A lot of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 03:23 PM
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If a woman has a boyfriend, why would she mention him in the early stages to a guy she might be interested in? It doesn't matter if she does have a boyfriend or not, as I said the message behind it is no - regardless of whether she has a bf or not. I don't know why you operate on the MO that you can seduce literally any woman. Right off the bat with some women there's nothing you can do: It's as simple as that. Just because she tolerates you for a few minutes more, it doesn't mean you're going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 01:04 PM
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Yeah, you haven't even defended your position. It doesn't surprise me that someone who spends the time to troll on Reddit would be the most clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 02:58 AM
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I dunno what the point in your contribution on the post was
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 02:40 AM
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God no! Anyway Studmuffin, name an off the bat rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 02:05 AM
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Well I must have subconsciously missed on half the experience or never dated a high energy woman. What can I say?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 01:37 AM
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How do you know the guys who were eager for sex weren't after anything? I would never start a relationship with a girl I haven't slept with, why would guys be exclusive to a girl who wouldn't sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 01:19 AM
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Yeah that's feasible too, I hadn't thought about that. The point is that all the reasons are nothing to do with the girl putting out to easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 01:17 AM
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Ah fair enough my bad, should have read that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 12:17 AM
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If we work on the basis that not literally every woman will be interested in you: What do you consider a rejection? Do you think a girl would have a "bitch shield" up with a guy who looked like a young Brad Pitt? In any circumstance the rarity with which you can get girls who display a complete disinterest to any form of partner simply aren't odds worth bothering with. Literally any girl in the club will respond more enthusiastically than complete disinterest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 12:14 AM
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If a guy loses interest in a girl he intends to get into a relationship with because she has sex, it would suggest emotional immaturity on his part. If a guy has sex with a girl and then moves on, it's usually either because he's not interested in anything serious or the girl has nothing to offer beyond sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 11:51 PM
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That strikes to me a response to a compliment which isn't perceived as genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 11:49 PM
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Quote from TRP itself: "Those who "pass" show they can handle the woman's BS and is "on her level", so to speak." If a women is giving you BS - that is rudeness and hence not teasing. "I have a boyfriend" is the most common and obvious indicator of complete disinterest there is. If she's saying this seriously, it's almost certain you won't pull her. I can't speak for every girl as all are different. Some people get struck by lightning, some get mauled by sharks, some win the Powerball etc. I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 11:48 PM
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I've heard girls refer to handsome guys as creepy. There is a line for how direct you can go with a girl you don't know, regardless of how handsome you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 11:29 PM
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Touché, I think I've played myself. Or J'd myself if you like.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 04:08 PM
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What a surprise you don't know the name of the pub.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 12:57 PM
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It shows a lack of confidence if you're not willing to be alone with a girl. There's also the idea that they might look a slut if they get with a guy in front of his pals.
/r/seduction21/04/17 01:31 AM
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Why read on this first? Try some stuff out yourself.
/r/seduction21/04/17 01:24 AM
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Women like sex. Part of the reason they're on Earth is to be spunked inside. With that in mind, even one of the best looking guys won't get approached more than once or twice on a good day. Assuming attraction is the big thing, you even acknowledge something similar. Flirt a little bit, see how things go.
/r/seduction21/04/17 01:23 AM
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Treat her the same as the "big girls" you are normally successful with. Nobody is more important than anyone else, so she doesn't have any more value than a fat girl.
/r/seduction21/04/17 01:19 AM
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They see you more as a friend, you should be more direct about your intentions so they see you as someone they could be with.
/r/seduction21/04/17 01:12 AM
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He's 17. It'd be reason to fob him off if he was 30, but to drop your main friend group is extreme. Most people on here will have had a bad relationship/oneitis at some point. It probably his first taste of pussy and when things go south he may learn from the experience.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 06:36 AM
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A clear bullshit story makes you think that women are attracted to rapists, right...?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:32 PM
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How is the first guy a "beta-cuck"? I'm new to this section, but I don't see the point in insulting him, when he hasn't said anything that people have disagreed with.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:25 PM
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