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| – | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toi mean at this point we playing word games. would you agree maybe not all men but 99,9% of men have a penis? just like maybe not all men but 99,9% of men have the urge to sleep with multiple beautiful women? There are so many problems with your statements aswell its crazy. You claim i cant know the urges of all men which is true because there are always exceptions but clearly i am talking about a so exceedingly high number of men that mentioning the few exceptions is just pointless which leads u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 08:31 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toyou dont seem to comprehend that someone can have an urge to do something like what i said men have the urge to mostly have as much sex as possible with as many women as possible but that doenst mean they do that 100% of the time. Just like plenty of humans have the urge to kill other humans but dont end up doing that. i am not argueing for what ends up happening there are 2 billion reasons for why this and that happens in a population i am just claiming that men have that urge nothing more. "I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toi dont disagree with your statements both of these things can be true at the same time they dont contradict each other. human babies need an insane lvl of parential investment. you just assumed that because men are biologically designed to have a high sex drive and want to have sex with a lot of women or atleast have the drive to, that means that they are all doing that and no man sticks around for their children. Which is obviously not reality because most men will never be able to have sex wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 08:40 PM |
| 2 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toyou are correct but i wouldnt expect myself to be able to explain a topic as complex as human mating dynamics in 70 words without over-simplifying greatly. I would probably consider myself to be one of the greatest humans to ever live if i was able to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Are relationship worth it?Depends on what kind of man you are certain guys get relationships with a certain woman while putting 0 effort and getting some benefits out of it. Another guy is going to have a relationship with the same woman but has to put in 2000 times the effort while getting half the benefit. Every guy has to compete and at the end of the day make the decision if the troubles are worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 11:37 PM |
| – | The idea women are loved unconditionallyLumping women in with pets and children is a way of infantalizing women- Women infantalize themselves all the time to avoid accountablity and gain priveledges, which ironically causes the issue of some women disliking this and wanting to be taken seriously and the other half of women wanting to play victim in order to gain special treatment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 11:19 PM |
| – | Why do so many female offenders get a boyfriend/husband easily?idk if you havent noticed but women have dating on easy mode, you could probably be a woman that killed hundreds of people you will always find someone that wants to date you the quality of those guys is obviously gonna vary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Society is finished, terminal stageWe have a lot of decline left this is just the beginning i think we could hit a way more critical point roughly 80 years from now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 11:01 PM |
| – | Why does no one link stats or supporting evidence for their positions?i mean anything that has the potential to make women or their sexuality look bad will not be studied for the most part. So the evidence for certain things often times doenst exist or you can just make a sementics game out of it. Also most people dont have the time or knowledge on how to read a study and interprete findings. I think it would just end up being a shitshow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 10:40 PM |
| – | Is the online dating phenomenon reflective of real life?Why only talk dating apps you can basically say is the internet real life now with instagram, facebook, snapchat, youtube etc. The answer to that question is unfornately yes maybe in 2010 you could ignore all sorts of apps and social media but in 2024 you simply cant without missing out it seems.(this comes from someone that doenst use social media) The problem is so many people are using it and it has gained such immense importance to the point your social media following can make you a multi m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 10:34 PM |
| 2 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toBiological roles of the 2 sexes: Men: have as much sex with as many women as possible to make sure the species continues. If men needed this talking stuff and other things to get aroused then humans might have died out million of years ago, hell there are even men out there that have sex with women they find ugly cause they cant get anyone else. Women: enforcers of natural selection have sex with the best men (there are multiple categories) and dont have sex with the worst men. Effect the terrib… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 05:42 PM |
| -1 | Is it wrong to "settle" because you can't get what you really want?Its really shocking how insecure women can be, they want a guy that is wanted by X amount of women and then to only see them and ignore everybody else like they are the most special woman that has ever lived while she has done nothing of importance her entire life. Imagine if guys were like that i want the most beautiful woman on the planet that is wanted by everybody to only be with me and ignore everbody else cause i am that special of a man and that is the only way i can feel good about mysel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Games and Goals?i would like to talk to those guys, personally i have never seen a guy that had a girlfriend that wasnt vastly superior to me in some category the woman cared about. If a guy looks bad and has a beautiful girlfriend i usually talk to the guy if possible. I always found the reason why the girl is with him comes down to he is truely exceptional in some way. Regardless of that, think about it if the woman could easily find a guy within 2 mins that is vastly superior to her current boyfriend why the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Games and Goals?do you use the internet? ppl everywhere are angry, there are probably tens of thousands of people that get death threads every day via twitter, youtube, instagram, facebook this isnt something that only happens on this subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Games and Goals?why are you assuming women at a university or school would be a positive experience, i am a student and the women in my class basically just talk to themselves and try to make plans on how to make their boyfriends clean the kitchen better after he is done cooking. Their brilliant idea is to withold sexy time. Idk where you live but in a lot of schools women get told they are super oppressed and men are the source of all evil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Is there a Lizzo Paradox™ for males?if you are morbidly obese you might have curves but nobody can see them anymore cause they are being hidden by fat. This isnt rocket science you could take the most beautiful woman to ever live if she weighs 600 lbs nobody would be able to tell she is even beautiful, because there are literally hundreds of lbs of fat hiding what she actually looks like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 01:23 PM |
| 7 | Is there a Lizzo Paradox™ for males?i never understood this insane arguement have you seen some of the most beautiful 120lbs women on the planet? there have PLENTY of curves, what you are talking about arent curves, if you weigh as much as 3 people you dont have curves anymore you have lines going all over the place. A healthy womans butt has one line you could describe as a curve, a morbidly obese women has 3 different lines because of all of the fat hanging off of her. Stop using this euphemism its ridicilous, if anything you ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 08:59 PM |
| 3 | I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicityyeah if you are a cute woman you are going to get away with a ton of stuff a man would never be able to get away with. that being said the same goes for cute kittens if you compare them to dogs or what ever, if you are considered cute and beautiful you are more likely to be seen as worth protecting. I think men and women are mostly just as potentially dangerous as each other, women are just weaker than men and more cute so they arent seen as serious physical threats. If women were 3 times as str… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 08:40 PM |
| 1 | How can men prevent sexless, transactional or “bait & switch” marriages or long term relationships?step 1: never marry. step 2: dont be a sucker, show some backbone so you dont get used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 07:29 PM |
| – | Blue pill: "We are equal", Red pill: "We are different", Purple pill: "We are different, but we have to treat each other equally at least some of the time"I think red pill people believe "we are different" but in social situations will never say that and just say what is acceptable in society. So red pillers tend to think differently but will say "we are different, but we have to treat each other equally at least some of the time". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?Society demonizes male sexuality yeah. Womens standards and wants a probably way more difficult to attain nowadays than ever before so if you approach women espically if you arent attrative the attitude and responses you are going to receive are more hostile than ever before aswell. Those 2 factors combined make it less appealing to approach women so the % of men that are willing to do that goes down a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Which one is correct?being in love will definitely make you more happy its basically like a drug. being lonely espically for long periods of time is incredibly bad for your mental health and over all well being atleast for most humans. there are some very rare exceptions that dont get the negative effects from being lonely, but generally humans are social animals and suffer heavily from loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Why confidence is a meme.i guess incels and lonely people dont exist, or you claim "eventually" can be at any point of a persons entire life span and the most miserable people that ever lived still confirm your believe because at age 75 they had a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Why confidence is a meme.that true because we cant go back millions of years and argue that with certainty if we could i assume the numbers would be even worse considering stronger males would just kill weaker males back in the day. Nowadays marriage rates and birth rate are at an all time low. i want to argue this from biologial cause you cant deny that without looking insane. mens role from a biological standpoint is to impregnate as many women as possible in order to make sure the species continues to exist, obviousl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 11:25 PM |
| 3 | how is hookup culture accepted if you’re supposed to get to know women "as people" first?your job really doenst say a lot about a person, most ppl work jobs they dont like and plenty of people that work a specific job could easily just work a different job, a job is just a means to an end, there really is no deep meaning behind a specific field of work you chose. What sort of job you have is pretty irrelevant to what kind of person you are its just imortant to women because they are looking for financial security and what job you have impacts that. When it comes to the world i am aw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Why confidence is a meme.Also idk what study you are referencing but when it comes to dawn of time only about 40% of men have historically reproduced. that includes time periodes where women were forced to marry men they didnt want to, so if it was up to womens choice that percentage of guys being successful with women would probably be less than 60%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Why confidence is a meme.hmm maybe i can shine some light om it for you. you hear women sometimes say oh this ugly guy has this pretty girl why is she with him and they are annoyed or what ever and walk off. Well i am a curious man so if i meet a guy that is maybe worse looking than me or not exceptional on first sight in anyway i get curious why is this girl with him and not someone else. And after talking to the guy usually for idk around 10 mins it always becomes obvious to me, the guy might be worse looking than her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 10:48 PM |
| 4 | how is hookup culture accepted if you’re supposed to get to know women "as people" first?Women dont see men as humans they see men as success objects, you could be the excact same person. depending on whether or not you are a doctor or a jobless person women will treat you completely differently. so no i highly disagree that women treat men like "a person". on the women being eaten for thinking that certain trats make a man only suitiable for marriage. the reason why that is happening is because society tells men that being a good person is important to women and when you lie to men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 10:41 PM |
| 1 | It is okay to quit dating but not okay to quit striving in life.95% of people dont live a life of their own, they have to wake up at a certain time be at a place they dont want to be at and work a job they would rather not work. Most people do things to avoid suffering and being unloved and sexless your entire life is sounds like suffering to me. honestly if you want to make something a top priority in your life women is one of the best bets, because women want so many different things in men. if you want to get with a lot of women you are probably going to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Why confidence is a meme.the greatest martial artists, basketball players, soccer players, name any form of competion and their atheletes all of them release cortisol when it comes to performing in high pressure situations. did you never do anything difficult in your entire life? listen to any interview of any of the greatest most famous people on the planet all of them release cortisol in important moments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Why confidence is a meme.some people are obvjectively some of the worst humans alive at a bunch of different traits and havent improved their entire lifes but believe themselves to be better than everyone else. Happens sometimes with narcecists espically. also when it comes to social situations etc. or even working a job. your competence doenst matter that much you could actually be one of the worst employees but make the most money if you are charismatic and you can sell yourself well to the boss. i would agree that so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Why confidence is a meme.why do you believe that being "above average at something" is good enoguh to impress women. nobody fucking cares if you are "above average at something" the world is winner takes it all. no woman is going to be like oh your dick size is slightly above average omg bend me over. oh your math skills are above average thats so amazing. being above average at a random skill nobody cares about makes you a loser nothing more, since when do women care about procreating with " above average at some rando… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Why confidence is a meme.i think guys struggle more nowadays cause they have little help or role models in an ever changing world. also being told over and over that, men and women are equal and you can make the same decisions in life like women and be fine or you arent supposed to be better than women just hurts men. We are bascially telling boys growing up that there is no burden of performance on them cause there is no burden of performance on women and men and women are equal. If you geniuely told boys growing up he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 09:28 PM |
| 1 | I honestly just don't get the complainingits a coping mechanism to relief stress, if ppl stopped doing that eventually they would just unalive themselves, well ppl still unalive themselves but you know what i mean the rate would increase. honestly i would say its a mostly healthy coping mechanism even tough it might annoy some ppl but you will always annoy someone espically as a guy if you are simply existing and living your life so its a damned if you do damned if you dont situation. your idea that ppl should suffer greatly and litera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating strategy: Dating multiple people before being exclusive - Are males against this?Men have a naturally repulsion to this sort of behaviour, obviously unless you are a schizoprenic you arent going to walk around being suspicious of everybody you date. quite the opposite a guy could be going on dates with women that are bad news and even be told they are but will ignore it cause living in delusion keeps you happier than acknowledging the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Is personality more important to men or women?i kinda dislike the phrasing "if you can make her laugh you have a good chance at pulling her dispite your looks? dude if you are one of the best males to ever exist on the planet you probably have about a 50% chance at pulling a given woman. if you are in the top 20% of guys, you probably have around a 10 to 15% chance AT BEST. As a guy dating is just harder and ALWAYS a numbers game you never have "good chances" at pulling any singular woman. Also on the personality being more important to wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 08:54 PM |
| 4 | how is hookup culture accepted if you’re supposed to get to know women "as people" first?Well you use misinterpretations for your arguements here. Red Pill doenst say some women are only good for sex for no reason, they say some are only good for sex cause having a relationship with them could ruin your entire life. You dont want to date mentally ill, narcecistic, selfish women and commit yourself and your resources to a woman like that, thats why they are sex only. Also Women arent saying this guy is good for Sex and this guy is good for marriage, Women want the best guys on the pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 08:40 PM |
| 1 | If woman have the choice over abortion, should men have the choice over child support?Should humans stop murdering each other yes, will they ever stop murdering each other no. same thing here in a perfect world yeah you should be able to not pay child support if you didnt want to have the child in the first place and the woman doenst want to have an abortion that being said it will never happen cause the government doenst want to pay for all these children, they want someone else to pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 08:28 PM |
| 2 | How true is the Madonna Whore complex for guys?what you are talking about is extremely specific i would just say if a guy sees an attractive woman he automatically assumes positive things about her (aka halo effect). So he is going to think she is probably not stupid, a good person and a woman that doenst just bend over for terrible human beings and that chooses her partner carefully. Obviously those assumptions are going to get destroyed once you go talk to her and you figure out how she moves in the world, then guys realize oh non of this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 08:22 PM |
| – | Should paternity tests be mandatory?In a perfect world, yes. Will never happen tough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 07:42 PM |
| 6 | Female Behavior Rewards Manipulative Men Who Play The Field Or Date DownwardsWell i know a chad that occupies 6 women by himself, if every chad did that which most dont atleast not longterm there goes 60% of all women if you assume roughly 10% of guys are considered to be that attractive. i found it funny that you walked your arguement back aswell, you said women settle all the time, yes as women get older and become less attractive and also have to deal with the fact that some might be annoying etc. they cant command the same type of guy they once could and they are for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Why push for a relationship, marriage and even kids when you are fundamentally unable to trust your partner?fundamentally people always claim oh "dont you trust your partner", well it depends trust has to be build over time if you are dating a girl for 6 months you quite frankly shouldnt trust her as much as your wife of 10 years, which is basically just common sense. But women usually dont see any difference they feel like if a guy is dating them for 2 weeks he should trust her as much as if they know each other for decades. On the having kids point, most children are born out of wedlock or unplanned… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 07:29 PM |
| – | The more you meet women, the more you realize they're all the samewell yeah that is kind of true unique women are rare. obviously you can look at this in a positive way aswell, if you are a guy and you get tons of girls, chances are the next girl you see is going to like you too. I think that is where guys get a certain amount of confidence from aswell. If you have a ton of girls that suck you off with a smile on their face you will have more confidence with women in general and even if a girl rejects you she would probably hook up with you if she didnt alread… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 10:02 PM |
| – | How do we know what's natural to each gender, and what is the cause of society?#1 women in the past could never do work as good as men cause work was mostly physical, nowadays that is different women can do as good a job or even better than men, women didnt riot 300 years ago to go die in a coal mine for good reason. (also "why does the man usually provide" because women expect men to, why would you not want to live a life of luxury without having to work if you can easily do so) #2 Women are very emotional, often times having a guy next to them at all times is not actuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 09:52 PM |
| 12 | International dating is generally good for men and a life changing positive event for the women they marry. Scholarly research - mostly by feminists -has repeatedly proved this. Lonely guys should consider it - particularly otherwise successful guys who are a bit socially awkward or shy with women.every men that gets a relationship manipulates the woman to some extend, for women love comes naturally they dont have to do anything it just "happens" to them, if you are dating as a guy everything needs to be deliberate you arent gonna wake up one day having the life you want by just going with the flow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Does lovebombing even work when women do not like being put on a pedestal?idk man i think maybe family situations or other stuff play into it aswell. almost every single woman is insecure about her looks to some degree, maybe thats a natural thing for women so they try to look at good as possible to get the best guy possible, there are plenty of super attractive girls that are insecure about their looks that would never fall for something like this, its more than just the insecurity, maybe family issues, lower IQ or being socially inept are more relevant factors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 01:41 AM |
| 1 | The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood.he is talking a billions of men you know the 99%, hot chad is a specimen one of the most genetically gifted men to walk the planet, if ppl talk about a group they usually refer to the majority, not the exception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 01:34 AM |
| 2 | The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood.its not a double standard: men with high body count (espically if those girls are some of the most beautiful women to walk the planet) he must be one of the best males in existence. men who are virgins at 35 years of age: pathetic loser for women its the reverse cause men and women have different roles when it comes to the procreation of the species, this idea that women that have a ton of sex partners would be celebrated if they were men is laughable, most likely the daddy issues or what ever t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 01:28 AM |
| – | A major issue with the modern dating market is that immoral sexual behavior is heavily discouraged in men but either ignored or even outright ENCOURAGED in women in the modern era.well they are men, they are always going to like pretty women and nobody tells guys the truth, which is this woman you simp for would think you are absolutely disgusting if she saw you irl and wouldnt touch you if her life depended on it. Also a lot of girls try to be the "cute girl next door type" where she tries to make guys believe they could actually have a chance in some alternate universe, men that arent attractive to women dont want to believe that they are seen as disgusting subhumans an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 01:16 AM |
| 2 | A major issue with the modern dating market is that immoral sexual behavior is heavily discouraged in men but either ignored or even outright ENCOURAGED in women in the modern era.well its obvious that this is true, the reason for why is debateable i guess, you could say that we pamper women so if they do something wrong we treat them like children instead of adults, the other explanation would be that women are hardwired to have sex and be with the best performing and/or best genetic males. This need to be with a in this case genetically superior male is so strong that, that male could be a sadist that kills ppl for pleasure some women wont care, the intrinsic need and d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 01:09 AM |
| 0 | Why don’t women want men to help fix things?maybe i can help. women are emotionally and psychologically WAAAAAY more frigal than men to the point that they worry about things even if they are minor or there is nothing to worry about. So they just want you to confirm that they arent crazy for feeling this way and basically validating her feelings and helping her to get things of her chest. if you are telling her hey this is an easy fix she knows that already she is worried anyway tough they are scared of things that are completely harmless… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Why aren't men attracted to Dark Triad traits in women?women are into dark triad because those traits are benefically for one of the things women care about which is performance. If you want to control people and you dont care if you hurt anyone and you want to be extremely powerful and misuse that power to become even more powerful etc. you are going to be way more successful than someone he is a good ethical person who wont do what you are willing to do. On the other hand men dont really care that much if a woman makes a ton of money or is influen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Why does the media not say rape or statutory rape when boys are raped by women?Short version: Because nobody cares about men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Men are infantilised at least as much as women in modern discoursemen never were able to express themselves ever and will never be able to cause there is a burden of performance on men. if you are a giga chad that is one of the best males to ever exist, yeah you are probably gonna be fine with expression what ever you feel or have to deal with cause your life is basically perfect all women want you everyone wants to associate with you and life is just a fun experience. if you arent that then you are gonna have to become better and either do so or die trying (s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Men are infantilised at least as much as women in modern discoursemen are very much into self improvement but the things that men need to achieve take decades you cant just become one of the best men to walk this planet in 1 year lol. Also women usually dont notice any improvements on a man unless they are massive and very noticeable. Furthermore women arent super valued because they get a random degree women are inherently valueable trust me people arent gonna call you a loser if you are a pretty girl without a degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Western Women are the luckiestdepends where the guy is from law is very different in different countries. if this is going on in germany yeah go to court the courts are very worker friendly and its hard to fire someone, a lot of worker protection exists. if this is in america they can fire you for anything at any time its worthless to take that to court espically against a huge company that will just run you out of money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:34 PM |
| 7 | Western Women are the luckiestyes but guys are happy they arent born in afghanistan and are greatful for that. women act like being a western women is basically slavery cause patriarchy or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Western Women are the luckiestWomen i think for evolutionary reasons can never be satisfied they are just designed to be with the guys with the best genetics and performance, for example lets take leonardo decarprio he is just for sake of the arguement the most attractive man on the planet. if 4 billion super males came down to earth and they are like humans but with godlike powers, they are faster, stronger, taller, funnier, more charasmatic, better in bed everything males do they do 100x times better. if that happened no w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Love and romance is dead by the time people are in their 30severything is transactional its just when you are younger you dont realize it yet, the older you get the more likely you will see the world for what it is. So for that matter i got to agree younger love is going to be better cause you percieve it differently than when you are older even tough its kind of the same thing that goes on in both situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Isn't the red pill basically the same thing as the blue pill, just with less ass-kissing to women, more self-improvement, with a dose of sexism and manipulation?this is good advice but the wording is not great. every single person you interact with out of your own desire you want something from and they want something from you, this reality where people interact out of their own will while wanting nothingfrom the other person doesnt exist and has never ever existed in human history. the better advice to give is you need to not make it obvious that you want something from her, every single guy a girl thinks wants nothing from her wants the same thing he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Men pursue “fake” women the mosthonestly i think some guys look at girls that arent super hot but feel the need to fake every feature they have and think this woman has low self esteem i have a chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:00 PM |
| – | Q4M: Would you want your daughters to date a redpiller?blue pill perspective: "you have no say in who your daughter dates anyway and if she loves a murderer who are you to try to control her life". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 09:14 PM |
| – | Are ladies more likely to become infatuated with a particular guy in their life than guys are with a particular lady?women love men that are exceptional at a bunch of things they care about, that guy just wasnt able to figure out what these guys are superior in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Which parts of Redpill philosophy do you think have merit?looks are highly objective thats why models exist the vast majority of humanity agrees that in this case lets say male super models are attractive thats why people hire them to advertise products, if looks were highly subjective everyone would be considered basically equallly beautiful. morbidly obese people wouldnt be considered disgusting etc. i am honestly suprised people still try to argue that point i guess the coping is real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 09:01 PM |
| – | Gentlemen, if you don't NEED them, they don't want you.that woman is probably a "fixer" thats not normal female behaviour. Women in general want to be with guys that have the best genetics and are the best performing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:52 PM |
| – | Is true love even real…?"true love" as in disney love or an ideal love isnt real, just like world peace is an ideal that will probably never actually exist on this planet. humans in general try to chase ideals that can never actually be fully achieved and "true love" is one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do men sleep 'down' so much?to keep it short, testostrone is a HELL OF A DRUG + men have about 17 times the amount that women have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Giving Chances is Low Valuethat is why women never give chances unless she believes that he makes up for his short comings with other things but when she actually has to put up with it for a long time she realizes damn, i tought he compensated enough but its not true i cant live like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:44 PM |
| – | Women don't rate each other in the same way men rate womenthe confident part can be tricky, first of if she is super confident and actually competend its hard for her to look up to the guy if he isnt even more confident and competent as herself. Secondly if she is confident but not competent its a nightmare. You are going to have to argue with her so she doenst go with her terrible decisions cause she is so confident what she thinks is actually correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Are college educated, stable career men really having dating problems?i feel you brother if you work a job you dont like for 10 years, it will take more life energy from you than anything else imagineable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Are college educated, stable career men really having dating problems?slowly reduce your calorie intake, you can do it brother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Are college educated, stable career men really having dating problems?you try to make up for it, if you dont or cant you just live alone until you die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Are college educated, stable career men really having dating problems?i can give you a explanation for that. if you are really short or ugly or you have other unattractive traits, you can still get a girlfriend if you make up for your short comings hugely in other ways. I met so many guys that are worse looking than me and have girlfriends and since i am curious i usually talk to them at social gatherings, sometimes family events etc. 100% of the time without fail the reason why he looks worse than me but has a girlfriend is he is VASTLY superior to me usually in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Are college educated, stable career men really having dating problems?Honestly a lot of the criteria barely matter to begin with. If you have serious issues with women becoming a lawyer or getting a decent apartment isnt going to change much. This is usually a big cope where guys are like wait until i finish med school when i am a doctor the girls are gonna be head over heels for me! Then his dating life barely changes if at all. Or a guy is a virgin and he moves out of his parents place into a good apartment and he thinks now i am gonna get a girl and have sex an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 08:15 PM |
| 3 | For me to agree that virginity does not matter is to agree the past 8 years of my life have been for nothingi am going to try to explain it to you. Virgin man: loser because men have an inherently high sex drive and if you cant have sex women generally just see you as a loser. High body count men: assuming you arent sleeping with the most disgusting women to ever walk this planet instead you are sleeping with the most beautiful women this means that you are one of the best men currently alive, cause men have high sex drive want to sleep with the most beautiful women but only the best can. High body co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 07:54 PM |
| 2 | I Don’t Think Women Fully Comprehend The Shame of Being a Male Virgin As He Moves Through His 20swomen do not comprehend the life of males at all and they dont want to nor care to. this isnt just about being virgin this is about every issue that males face, that women dont have to deal with stop trying to get women to understand you or care they will never fully, just accept that and you will have a better life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | If mens nature is used to justify looking at sexy women then there's nothing wrong with women being wearythe thing is men are already shamed for looking at a womans butt even if she is basically walking around half naked if the girl doenst find the guy attractive. hell some women are offended if you look in their general direction if you are considered to be an unattractive guy. nobody is telling girls dont be worried its perfectly fine to be alone in a guys home you barely know, thats something you should avoid and you should never do at all cost, but being in public with tons of people around, so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Who do you think cares more about gender roles when it comes to romantic connection: men or women?women care more about gender roles, cause with being a man comes a burden of performance and women want men to perform and ideally be the best performing men in a vast variety of different areas they care about. A man acting like a women and thinking he doenst have to perform he doenst have to be strong he doenst have to work and be important, is the most disgusting thing a man can be from a womens perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Anyone using evolutionary psychology?you should use any knowledge you have thats reliable in all facets in your life. if you know human psychology you should use that aswell, otherwise you will just make mistakes and you wont understand the world. a big mistake people make is believing that if you treat people nicely they will treat you nicely back which couldnt be further from the truth. People respect strength if you think you can get by in life by being weak if you are just nice you will have a rough awakening, bullies dont care… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 08:09 PM |
| 3 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?plenty of people would argue instagram and facebook are the best dating apps even tough they arent considered dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonable"women arent cared for being "who they are" either", correct they are valued for being instrinsically valueable, which you could argue might be better than being cared for, for who you are because this way you can be a terrible human being and still be valued regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Men who are not obsessed with women are also demonizedmen are in general more obsessed with anything they do and women often times have issues with that cause they arent as "autistic" in the same way. You have guys study chess for 12 hours a day trying to become world champion, most women would never ever consider that. you also have guys playing competitive video games for 12 hours a day for years on end trying to make it as a pro, most women would never even try to attempt something like that. On the other hand if you do become great and make mil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 07:49 PM |
| – | Most men cause their dating issuesthe reason why guys are complaing is because society told them men and women are equal which isnt true. if a woman can be a terrible human being and unattractive but still have a tons of guys chasing her, guys that believe men and women are equal are gonna feel a type of way about that when they are way better than a woman like that but they get 0 partners in return. the way you fix that is tell guys there is a sexual burden of performance on men that doenst exist for women you are not equal you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Telling men that "improving" their "personality" will improve their romantic and sexual results is like telling a politician or a company that honesty and quality will get them successbeing a good person at best is going to keep your life neutral or in most cases make your life harder. you should only be a good person if you want to be a good person even if it doenst beneft you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 11:06 PM |
| – | Have you ever seen an all around "low-quality" man in a relationship? If so, why do you think she is with him?every single time when a dude that seemed "inferior" based on looks had a girlfriend that some might say is out of his league, the guy made up with other usually quite exceptional attributes that women care about. usually when a "ugly" guy has a girlfriend he is making up for that with other traits he has and is vastly superior in those compared to the other guys the girl could be with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 11:00 PM |
| 1 | What do women mean when they say they're attracted to intelligence?intelligence is womanize for able to provide resources. the idea is if you are smart you are gonna be able to make money and have a good life, if you are stupid you wont be able to achieve that, thats the thinking behind that this idea holds mostly true i guess obviously there are plenty of people that are stupid and rich regardless but in general on average you will find that the smarter you are the more resources you are able to aquire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.well maybe those guys literally dedicated their entire lives to making as much money as possible and you making more than them just made them feel like failures. imagine you dedicate your entire life to playing basketball for 20 years and then some girl comes along and completely destroys you playing for the first time. also could come from bad experiences maybe women that made more money have seen them as less useful or just treated them overall worse than women that made less money and appreci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Men are wanting women they don't measure up to and women are getting tired of dealing with it which is the main cause of issues between them.thats 95% of men, top 5% of men are dating the pretty waitress | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:40 PM |
| – | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward mensociety expects men to perform better than women and men have generally a harder life. more news at 11. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:29 PM |
| – | CMV: No matter how educated, on top of their career or wealthy a woman is, if she is physically unattractive, society never considers her as a subject of envy.this is a impotant point that only matters if you care about what random people in society might think of you. its the same men honestly if you are a guy and you dedicate your life to math for example but you dont become one of the best mathematicans and you just make low to median money teaching math but you enjoy it, society isnt going to celebrate you either. in life you need to make decisons and one of those is are you okey doing something you like but society isnt gonna celebrate you for it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:26 PM |
| 1 | The Difficulty of Dating For Average Men is Nowhere as Hard as People in this Sub Makes it Out to Bewhen you say less ways to express themselves, its weird in real life they express themselves all the time so shouldnt they just have girlfriends before even thinking about OLD to begin with?what you are doing is you are assuming these less attractive guys have exceptional other traits that would make up for them not looking amazing, i am here to tell you most guys arent exceptional people that would make any girl fall in love with them if they just spend more time together. hell i would strongly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:15 PM |
| 1 | The Difficulty of Dating For Average Men is Nowhere as Hard as People in this Sub Makes it Out to Besome people already stated the "average" problem. i think most people believe at this point that if you are "objectively" as objective as one can be a 5/10 women will rate you a 3/10. in general woman will usually subtract 2 points from the more "objective" as objective as a human can be rating goes would give cause they rate women or people in general on almost a perfect bell curve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 10:03 PM |
| – | Man aren't in fact the hornier sexmen are way hornier than women if we cant even agree on that idk what you want to talk about. testostrone is a hell of drug and men have about 15 times more of it than women do. if you injected women with testostrone they would become infinitely hornier than they are normally. hell if you inject men with testostrone they become way hornier and if a guy has extremely low testostrone lvls because of a medical condition maybe old age + obesity who knows he is going to be way less horny than if he h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | What is the main reason men are single 2023well there are tons of reasons but one reason that usually gets overlooked is most girls arent single. i went back to school for higher education after working a job for years and the girls i met at school almost every single one of them is in a realtionship already. its very difficult to find a woman that is a good person and attractie and single, those women are of the dating market within weeks of a longterm maybe 5 year relationship ending and even less attractive and more terrible women fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Most guys who struggle in dating struggle because they don't have a social life.maybe this might help to explain a few things, women are always confused at a "ugly" guy which usually just means average not actually ugly getting a better looking girl and obviously as a guy when i see a dude who is less physically attractive than me that has a girlfriend and i dont i go over and investigate cause i am curious right. here is what i found: every single time i met a dude that had a girlfriend and he is uglier than me he made up for that in insane ways and was WAY superior than i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:40 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men should stop caring that assholes have girlfriends.the reason is people get told you should be a good person all the time cause it is supposed to benefit society and obviously one other assumption is that if you treat people nicely they will be nice to you which couldnt be any further from the truth. if you wanted this to stop you need to tell people being a nice person is only going to result in a worse life, you should be nice because you want to be nice because otherwise there is no reason there is no advantage in being nice. obviously if you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:29 PM |
| – | Why do people think that looks matters so much ?i can teach you something about human nature. humans are very swallow we just pretend or think or hope not to be cause nobody wants to think of themselves as a bad person. i heard from doctors that did operations on the jaw or teeth etc. those operations werent done for making the patient look better they needed to be done for function, regardless one other side effect of those operations was that the person looked better cause the facial bones were changed etc. the patients were shocked at how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:23 PM |
| – | The real reason you were lied to about how society and mating works, and wtf you can actually do about it.you can pretend to be nice and backstab people for your benefit, dont you know guys that are terrible people but others still have to network with them be around them cause they are so successful they would just stand to lose too much money not dealing with you. if you and your business partner are making millions they will let a lot slide unfornately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:16 PM |
| – | The real reason you were lied to about how society and mating works, and wtf you can actually do about it.you would be suprised you can be extremely cruel to certain people that dont matter are under you have no power and get away with it cause the girl you are dating we never ever talk to these people or even acknowledge their existence. thats why you see generally terrible people that have beautiful girlfriends, the girl doenst know he abused some nerds for years in high school and or university. espically if the girl is really in love with you and you treat everyone you are friends with well. she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:12 PM |
| 2 | It does not imo make any biological/logical sense to claim "men age better than women", since women have evolved-very possibly through male sexual selection- to be highly neotenous. Considering physical ageing to be "attractive" in men is not equal to men ageing "better".the thing is a woman that is 18 is usually fully developed boobs ass etc., if you look at a 18 year old guy that is not the case at all he looks like a child, testostrone is a hormon that causes permanent changes to your body the longer you are exposed to it. if you go trough puberty and you have high testostrone lvls for 3 years you are gonna be way more manly and attractive after finishing puberty for 5 years or 6 years etc. there are basically 0 men that are in peak physical condition at 18 w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 09:39 PM |
| 1 | What self improvement does manosphere offer to men that fitness, finance, fashion, social skills, etc communities do not?thats the thing they arent promoted. most people arent exceptional people so if you do something to improve yourself in various ways people around you are probably not going to like it because you are holding a mirror in front of them of what they arent doing in their life what they really should be doing. if you have friends you spend time with its not gonna be celebrated that you cut the time you spend with them in half because you want to achieve something amazing in your life, you arent goin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 09:21 PM |
| 1 | The reason men think women's attraction is complicated and intricate and easily lost is because most of them are only on the cusp of being attractive to a womanDo you realise that women aren't a hive-mind and different women may like different 'traits'? If you are a man that is weak mentally and physically, easily scared, passive with narrow shoulders and wide hips i would say you should try to correct your mindset and psysical weakness try to hide your weak points and show off your strong points rather than trying to find a women that is into how you currently are because lets face it that is gonna be close to impossible. If the answer to the second q… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do most men associate beauty with arousal?The vibe i am getting here is women kind of hate healthy male sexuality and will never understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 09:58 PM |
| 3 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyCan you explain why you have this framework to begin with why would you care so much about a guy being masculine but not too masculine and aggressive but just masculine enough to i dont know appeal to you in the most perfect all stars of the solar system align at the same time kind of way. I can understand why a woman would want a guy to be a certain way so she can look up to him, admire him, respect him and he adds his masculine energy to her feminine energy and they fit together but why would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys.i agree with the post one thing i want to point out tough is the red pill advice of being an asshole to women means different things to different people. you see if you have a dominant assertive confident guy and you tell him to be a real asshole to women he is gonna go out of his way to be a dick to women and its not gonna work at all in fact that sort of guy doenst need any advice to begin with women already like him. but if you give this advice to a guy that is dormat someone that is waaaaay … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 06:26 PM |
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