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What makes me really confused is the main character situation going on. He talks about being deluded about his own genius, imaging that he’s an anime character, it’s like the internet fed this alternate reality to him so he couldn’t handle the real world anymore. I think this is becoming a huge issue not just with NEETS but with conspiracy theorists and the alt right. He’s consuming huge amounts of mind numbing internet nonsense that leaves him lonely and broken. Also “I’d treat her like a Princ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:49 AM
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Yeah lmao he’s catering to the lowest denominator: internet conservatives constantly outraged over their next conspiracy. Much like his poor wife they’ll gobble up 💩 and say it’s delicious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 09:57 PM
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She’s beautiful and clearly a kind person to have given this creep a shot. Why can’t he at least feign kindness to her in public?it’s such a shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 09:56 PM
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It’s really hilarious how mainstream media and social media create narratives that women who want a man with a stable job are evil. Apparently we’re supposed to marry and reproduce with men who barely make a living out of laziness or because they think amassing internet followers by spewing nonsense and conspiracy theories will totally pay the bills one day. And the ones who go on and on about “traditional marriages” spend an obscene amount of time on the internet and expect wives to pump out ki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:39 PM
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Christian women deal with a lot of these same issues. Men want to hoe around the streets, drink like crazy, do drugs whenever, but us women need to be absolutely perfect and if we want a man who has the same lifestyle we have maintained that makes us bitches or unforgiving or mean. Men think they don’t even have to answer to G-d but women are obligated to answer to anyone with a Y chromosome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 10:07 PM
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And for those of us who WANT a marriage and children, we’re constantly told the only way to get those things is to settle for a man who’s addicted to internet podcasts and conspiracy theories and figure out how to live off his measly income. It sucks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:09 PM
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Same here! What weirds me is how my pickme friends will boast about how they can either “take a joke” or respond to this treatment in kind. They think I’m too proud because I won’t tolerate a man I’m dating speaking to me disrespectfully. It’s so weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 08:36 PM
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That’s the thing, they want women who will provide for themselves and their households without working for a living. They want women who want nothing in return and that’s not reasonable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:16 PM
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There’s no winning against chronic resentment. Men like that enjoy the feeling of being wronged, they need an enemy/enemies and will make some up if they don’t have real ones. This is why podcasts and YouTube videos that shill conspiracy theories and anti feminist rhetoric are so popular among NVM, they give those men something to hate rather than self improvement. If you stay they resent you for existing, once you leave they resent you for leaving. There’s no winning so you may as well run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 04:54 PM
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The scales have really fallen from my eyes with unmarried celebrities. Why are they 40 and either perpetually single or creeping around 23 year olds? What’s wrong with them that even with their looks and money they can’t or won’t get married?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 03:08 AM
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He peddles that “we must be violent warriors” bullshit to his fans but he’s never even been in a fight, dude couldn’t throw or take a punch. And he doesn’t have to because society shouldn’t be government by the physically strongest! But this is what losers with extra bucks want to hear so that’s what he says. He’s a snake oil salesman who sometimes gives sensible advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:10 AM
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This!!! They blame women for having to be single mothers but are furious when other women are unwilling to take that risk. Makes zero sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:06 AM
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From what little I’ve heard from him he sounds like someone who got a really good education and had a grasp on male/female modern relationships, then tossed 80% of his knowledge to the wind to cater to the lowest denominator that would give him the most money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:05 AM
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And LVM who also live a gross lifestyle, refuse to work, are focused on video games and their next high look down on women who are just like them, and magically want HVW to come in and care for them like infants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:04 AM
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I think he’s the crunchy life guru for incels and losers who sometimes forgets who is audience is, this was a good point but he’ll abandon it if he loses $$$ by not subtly reinforcing their victim mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:02 AM
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She thought her internalized misogyny and colorism would neutralize his misogyny and colorism but that literally never works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 11:11 PM
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They will mull over perceived slights for decades, they’ll consume media from fellow creeps who go on and on about how the world is persecuting them and has done them wrong but LORD FORBID a woman dares show any kind of emotion about an event that took place more than 15 seconds in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 04:36 PM
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Men really think they’re gonna/they currently look like unmarried celebrities in their 40s and 50s. I’m in my late twenties and men in their 40s sketch me out. Why aren’t you married yet? What were you doing all those years, what’s wrong with you? I want someone I have a good shot at growing old with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 04:47 AM
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When she found out his texts while they were engaged he told her “I’m broken”, that should’ve been her immediate exit but women are socialized to fix broken men whereas men are applauded if they leave a woman for daring to age or for making any kind of mistake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 04:59 PM
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He was a complete loser who thought if he just had some cash he could be amazing. He had a pattern of going after successful lonely women to drain them of their cash to fund his stupid ideas. For Brittany, he thought he could control her completely and make her a superstar and make them billionaires but he was so stupid and useless that he wasted millions of her hard earned money, ruined her career with his horrible management, made her look like a fool with his bad makeup, and ended her life by…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 02:49 AM
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He could’ve got his ass run over and he would’ve deserved it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 06:08 PM
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Pick mes are just as dangerous as these kinds of men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:04 AM
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Y’all she was CRYING, clearly in distress, and those people do not give a damn. A woman’s well-being is irrelevant, what’s important is if a man is sexually satisfied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:22 PM
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I’m Latina, our interracial murder rates our through the roof. Latin America has several countries competing for the highest rates of femicide. Yet if we dare to exhibit any kind of caution towards men we’re told we hate our own kind, that we’re paranoid, that we don’t care about men’s feelings. Fuuuuuck that I’m not gonna have my parents bury me because I wanted to be a dumbass pickme and care for a man’s feelings over my safety. Tomorrow is not promised but I sure as hell am not going to give …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 06:47 AM
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Men want women to be extremely cautious around every man except for himself, for us to keep our guard up around “dangerous” men but be ready to immediately give our entire lives and bodies over to a “good” man in a heartbeat, and for us to magically know the difference. And if we get it wrong we deserve to be abused. There’s no way for us to win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 06:32 AM
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I hate how offended these men act when their wives from actually socially conservative countries expect to be well provided for. They want a woman to be a full time wife and mother, look good, keep up with her appearance, for FREE. It’s delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:55 PM
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They think threatening women with growing too old to bear children will pressure us to settle for them, but the reality is we’ve seen women waste their whole lives in a hellish marriage/baby daddy situation. Why would we reproduce with a man who will bring us nothing but struggle and traumatize our kids? We’d rather never have kids than have kids with the wrong man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:53 PM
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She’s already making jokes and downplaying it on the internet, “a little cake never hurt anybody”. Girl that heavy cake hit you with force, who does that? Who wants to hurt someone they love like that? It’s so sad seeing women internalize misogyny and gaslight themselves into thinking their relationships aren’t bad or dangerous as long as they have a ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:20 PM
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22 years old. She should’ve had another 60. I hate hate HATE how this ended. The police failed her because of misogyny, how many women are supposedly going around falsely claiming men are abusive? They’re acting like it’s an epidemic to excuse their refusal to help women, like women are the ones murdering their partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:50 AM
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I hate this concept! We’re supposed to “protect” “our” men by not calling the police in case they’re murdered. I hate police brutality but if one of us is gonna become a statistic/hashtag it won’t be me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:45 AM
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The answer is never because there’s no convenient hashtag when the news is running slow. The left always has some other more interesting cause, the right says we’re fascist communists for pointing out these issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:44 AM
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There’s also a whole lot of colorism and internalized racism in BIPOC communities that helps people see us as less than human. Our own people have less empathy for us than for white women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:43 AM
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And the few times the media talks about BIPOC women disappearing or getting murdered is within the context of implying that police violence is ok because we’re violent to each other. At 22 I wasn’t seen as a child, many of us WOC became “adults” in the eyes of our teachers and criminal justice system at 11. white men at 19 can murder people and the narrative is “why didn’t society help him”, but a 13 year old Black or Brown child has a meltdown at school and suddenly they’re on the path to a lif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:41 AM
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When pickmes stop sacrificing their lives and the lives of their children for the sake of a man’s attention/desperate hope that he’ll live up to her delusions about his character
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 09:30 PM
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Dudes are saying “someday” at 40 and 50. Sir your someday is today, the future is now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:29 PM
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They think they’ll be like the 40 and 50 year old celebrities who can get twenty something models, but those celebrities have looks, influence, and power, and their marriages are largely transactional. Regular men are delusional if they think they can mimic that lifestyle and lash out at us when they realize that’s not the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:24 PM
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Ok two things: what the fuck she talks about him like he’s a rescue dog she saved from the streets. And this is creating a horrifying power dynamic, she had complete control over his housing and food. This is awful! She had to practically raise a man to be her husband and the message is “ladies take note”, note taken, don’t pull a man off the streets, make a potentially abusive power dynamic where you meet the needs of a grown man like he’s a child, and when he inevitably wanders she’s gonna pla…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:56 PM
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“A woman broke my heart when I was 16 now I’ll lash out at you over what she did to me” Sir you are 37 you need some counseling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:43 PM
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“When we go out I pay for you, when we go to the store, good get you some shoes” lmao dudes like this take women to Chili’s for their 2 for 20 deal and target for some discounted flats and then want women to look like models and bend over backwards for their forever boyfriends. Hey “bro”, women don’t reject you because you’re too masculine, we reject you because you’re an unstable weirdo who can’t provide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:16 PM
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“Don’t build walls” is going on my list of huge red flags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:52 PM
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Lmao this is so true! They toss the women who were with them from day one and then complain women are shallow and don’t love them for who they are. Sorry some women decide to be the ones at the end of the line rather than the ones in an attorney’s office starting over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:33 PM
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He hates the women who want him and hates the women who don’t. None of us are safe from these incels, pick mes need to stop being so delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:46 PM
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She pick-me’d her way into his life, is doing everything to build a relationship with nothing, and he can’t even lie to her about why he lets her stay around him. It’s truly shameful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:43 PM
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This! He does not give a damn about her and is probably texting his sidechicks and friends about how easily she’s manipulated, if he even bothers to mention her to others at all. She’s nothing to him while he’s everything to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:21 PM
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Or when they help their god-husbands murder their own children. This mentality is contrary to humanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:19 PM
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She literally mentioned how she doesn’t need religion to come to her fucked up lifestyle. But she’s just stating what fundamentalist women and men truly believe: that the husband is their G-d and can do anything they want to their wives. “He is my G-d” fuuuuuck that I would rather die, truly. Let me be a martyr before I call any human man my G-d. No man is my G-d, no man should have that much control over another human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:19 PM
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This is also why I’m hella suspicious when women are encouraged to not get friends/family “involved” in their relationships by talking to them about what’s going on. LVM operate best when there’s no accountability and they can control the complete narrative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:13 PM
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It really disturbs me seeing how women like myself are super into men like Christopher Meloni whereas apparently the internet is teeming with men who always see TEENAGERS as sexual objects. This is so horrifying. Isn’t there an evolutionary gene against wanting to assault your own child? Or seeing them in any kind of sexual light? I’m in my late twenties and see guys 18-22 as children I need to protect, the fact that so many men don’t feel the same way towards women is terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:20 PM
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I’ve heard this: he’s a troll on social media lol it’s just for fun. He was also emotionally abusive to her, telling her awful things about her looks etc. but yeah he was just a troll on Twitter, such a coincidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 06:06 PM
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I know a guy who proposed to his now wife with a ring pop 🙃🙃🙃 this is not at all acceptable in my culture, he managed to find one woman out of the dozens in our local church who would accept that offer, and who also had a father and mother who would accept that kind of proposal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 12:53 AM
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I don’t have European features so a lot of men, especially from my community, don’t find me attractive. It is what it is, Jesus made me this way so I love it. I’m attracted to ugly/not conventionally attractive men and they are just as obnoxious and arrogant! It’s ridiculous. Guys have told people they’d have sex with me but they want to settle down with women who look like their long fantastical list of desired features. Years later and those dudes are still single and hate women more and more …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:20 PM
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Back when I taught Bible class at my church there was a boy who would constantly and aggressively police a girl’s behavior (they were late elementary school age). He would comment on how she completed her assignments, he was very nit picky. I picked up on it and stopped it in the same day! She sat behind him and I told him he wasn’t allowed to look behind towards her or talk to her. Pickme behavior damages girls and warps boys, and it truly sickens me when teachers allow that behavior to carry o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:55 AM
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So many men flip out when they realize “traditional women” have traditional expectations. Idk how men want a woman who is chaste but is also a pornstar, a stay at home mom who’s not a “gold digger” and will somehow pay half of everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:06 AM
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And when men try to use examples of women in “nurturing” jobs who married wealthy men, 99.9999% of the time those women came from wealthy families from the start. Money absolutely matters to men and it’s truly bizarre how they keep lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:01 AM
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As a deeply religious woman, I really don’t take a man’s self-proclaimed religion into account largely because religious men tend to do the following: Become obsessed with QAnon conspiracy theories, internet get rich quick schemes, and generally are easily led by internet nonsense The more religious they act the less they really believe in it. As someone else points out, the moment they see a woman is actually devout they bail Huuuuge complex about women actually wanting sex. Apparently if we li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:51 AM
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My parents told me the same thing, they said that I’m single until the marriage certificate is signed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:58 PM
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I’ve been called cruel, heartless, cold hearted, etc by women for telling them that I’m unwilling to educate or counsel a man. It’s one thing to grow together in a relationship, it’s another thing to “have to teach” a man that he shouldn’t call me by derogatory names.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:36 PM
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It’s so prevalent in Hispanic culture, even more so in Chicano culture! Generations of Hispanic men are growing up to be uncaring towards their mothers and be raised by their wives. It’s such a shame to see it happen over and over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:37 AM
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This is such a heartbreaking pattern. They burn bridges and bend over backwards for sons who abandon them at the end. It’s such a shame to see it happen, and seems more prevalent nowadays. Women have been trained to cater to male needs and fight against holding men, even their sons, to standards of behavior, and this is what happens. Generations ruined.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:35 AM
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Because: “No one ever taught him how to be in relationships, so I am obligated to tolerate this behavior in order to teach him how to be a better man” “I didn’t communicate my needs, if I communicate better than he’ll change his behavior” “My religion taught me that men are superior to women, so if I humble myself enough he’ll act better towards me” “I can’t leave him, he would be so hurt and that would be so cruel” “I don’t want to be alone. If I work hard enough things will be ok” “This is nor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:28 AM
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As a Christian this looks like idolatry. That’s a straight up shrine with offerings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:36 PM
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Lmao was about to make this comment. It’s actually terrifying how aggressive men get towards women they want to have sex with (or to) but they know they don’t have a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:42 AM
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Ok so let me get this straight: it’s good and empowering if a woman chooses to abort a fetus that has genetic issues such as Down’s syndrome, but if she decides not to be with a partner who has genetic issues then that’s bad. So terminating a pregnancy due to genes = totally fine. Not being with a man due to genes = absolute evil. I would only consider terminating a pregnancy if there was 0 chance at life outside of the womb, and even then it would break me. I personally wouldn’t take genetic hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:29 PM
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It truly infuriates me how silent the Christian church is on male abuse, lustfullness, and objectification of women. They’re so busy chasing political power that they don’t see a problem with generations of men becoming twisted and perverted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:09 AM
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It’s both pathetic and vile how this pickme is serving children to grown men on a platter and warning grown men not to “spoil” children. She is SICK. 14 year old girls are children! The child I was at 14 and the teen I was at 18 were so different in terms of maturity and intellect. There’s literally no reason to advocate for age gaps at that age. And furthermore, to the creeps who read this page, children do not need guidance from you!!! People have been dating and having relations since the daw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:55 PM
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And this is exactly why “pro-life” people will shut down any arguments about insuring the unborn, not deporting women who get pregnant in the US since they’re carrying a citizen, or any of the other legal precedents that will need to be set once we establish that a fetus is a human being with its own rights. They literally do not care. This is about control and having a hit of moral outrage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:53 AM
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Texas government genuinely sees pregnancy as a punishment for loose women, they do not care about prenatal care, parental leave, our shockingly high childbirth death rates, and certainly have zero care for kids once they’re born. It’s just a source of easy moral outrage for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:29 PM
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What’s so interesting is how this new crop of tradwives are actively trying to encourage women into having low standards that most women historically never would have accepted. Tradwives preach that is a man is religious and authoritarian that’s all that’s needed, and they criticize women who want men who make good money, are intelligent, don’t have affairs etc. Women on the far left and far right are participating in this concept of dropping the bar to the ground and having sex with/marrying th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:19 AM
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Christian woman, and I’ve seen how incredibly immature and naive Christian men are compared to secular men. Christian guys will believe almost anything on the internet if it comes from someone who claims to be a conservative or has religious clout, and seem to think listening to 47 hours of podcasts/YouTube videos or reading Facebook posts is a good replacement for reading books. Not to mention the growing chunk of them who believe we’re about to have the apocalypse and won’t bother making long …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:46 PM
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All of the elders in my family who had good husbands and marriages dated a lot of men, some at the same time, before choosing one for life. The female relatives who dated and married one guy and didn’t dare look elsewhere have had difficult if not abusive marriages. It’s not about having a lot of sex partners, it’s about checking out the market to find the best fit for you. It’s not wrong! But now we’re told that to be truly liberated we have to have no demands or expectations and to have sex wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:41 PM
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This!!! Women having standards is disparaged in the media and internet, standards mean we’re shallow, gold diggers, needy, nagging, demanding, etc. Meanwhile men can expect almost immediate sex and attention from women without getting any flak for it. Because ultimately not being pursued romantically and cared for and married is “liberating”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:38 PM
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They want all the benefit of being the leader of a household but want none of the responsibilities. It’s ridiculous when men act like they can demand a stay at home wife but at the same time want her and her children and one day (as many traditional women will one day help care for their parents) her aged parents to live off of air and grass. I can’t afford a LV purse so I don’t have one. I don’t whine about how I should magically have one. If a man can’t afford to financially provide for his fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:18 PM
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Men who want women to raise their children, their “legacies”, pretty much solo, do the vast bulk of the housekeeping, cooking, and look the same for 30 years, are terrified of women making the demand that they live a financially comfortable life. I’ve never seen a man who truly wants to be a large part of the housekeeping and child rearing be afraid of gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:56 AM
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I have several friends who will insist that the problems in their relationships is that they don’t communicate with their boyfriends/non-label guy. It’s ridiculous! These women communicate fine, they’ve just convinced themselves that men are innocent and naive and at 37 years old still don’t know how to treat a woman because nobody taught them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:44 AM
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Chasing uninterested men for years will always ALWAYS lead a woman to an unhappy ending, whatever ends up happening. Either he would’ve found someone else and left her wasting years of her life, or it’s this situation where the desperation pays off and now she’s in a 3 children marriage with a guy who never really wanted her in the first place. Why did he even tell her he paid for his other FBW’s meals and wrote nice things about her? This man literally went with the person he knew would always …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:27 PM
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I’m getting so much secondhand embarrassment. 3 years a FWB with a guy who has other FWB but not you because you’re ~loyal~? Are you not ashamed of yourself? Are you not embarrassed, this is embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:24 PM
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Cue people running up and getting angry because you won’t give him a chance or you’re not willing to help him grow and learn and reach his full potential/heal from his past wounds. What is it about having high standards that makes other people upset? Hmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:43 PM
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Yeah, I have dropped or lost friendships with pickmes who lash out at other women. The only ones I still have are those who are always “not all men” and “awww poor boyfriend who says he doesn’t like labels he had past trauma and I can’t be mean to him uwu”. It’s sad to see but I stay uninvolved in their relationships lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:21 AM
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I have pickme friends who will pretty much debase themselves for men. Every argument is their fault for not communicating enough or not understanding what he was ‘really’ trying to say. When I encourage them to expect more from men they gets so defensive of men in general and tell me I’m being too harsh and critical. Overall I just don’t encourage women to do better or tell them that they deserve better when they’re in an unhealthy relationship with a LVM. I support them when they’re single and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:40 AM
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The age gap was weird enough to snap him out of this lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:04 PM
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If a Venn diagram of “things that make women feel Strong and Empowered” and “things that men find arousing” are a circle, you have a problem. Men will get turned on by anything, but women who see their “ability to arouse random men who want to have sex with me but don’t respect me as their equal” as some kind of superpower are just trying to use their chains as weapons instead of breaking them. I remember hearing Ariana Grande’s son Dangerous Woman and at first I liked it but then the dangerous …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:32 AM
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Oh for sure, I mentioned being Latina to specify my background but Latin men are absolutely just as awful in so many ways. Latin America has the highest rates of femicide, which I’m sure is why my male relatives are protective. And my family is full of matriarchs who led their households so again, my experiences are very unique and I’m grateful for that. It just sucks how I can never travel alone in Latin America because of how dangerous it is for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:50 PM
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Then they complain how women are shallow and manipulative because women in their early 20s get creeped out by these old and typically broke men 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:46 PM
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Am I wrong though? Where are the lies? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:39 PM
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😂 40 years old and still talking about somedays? I’m not even 30 and I stopped saying someday, it’s my life and I have control over when I do things. Best of luck to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:39 PM
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“Sir you are 37/39/43/47 your future is NOW”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:37 PM
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Absolutely bizarre how these serial daters will still be going around in their late 30s and 40s saying that they want to settle down and have a wife and kids someday/in the future. Like sir, you are in your future, you don’t have an infinite amount of somedays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:39 AM
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The sisterhood ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:57 PM
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Latina, if a man dared to send me these kind of questions I’d forward them to my male relatives and let them handle it in their own fashion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:50 PM
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Preach 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:47 PM
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👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 trauma bonding is unacceptable! And you said it, if a man wants out of the relationship he’s free to go. I can’t stand the idea of having to earn back my husband from his own desires. If I’m not enough, good luck to him, I hope he finds another woman who’s enough, or some pick mes who are happy with playing that song and dance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:10 PM
23

I always hear women say things like “WE had to rebuild our marriage” “WE had to grow from this” like no, I’m not gonna let someone stab me in the back and then turn around and help them learn to stop stabbing me in the back while also healing from my own wound. That’s some BS. Cheating in a relationship is a CHOICE and once that choice is made there’s no real way of going back. I have a lot of men in my family who cheat/cheated on their wives, and they don’t stop until age or health stops them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:01 PM
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Yes!!! I’m a Latina and the amount of Black men who hit on me by bashing Black women is absurd and infuriating. Men who do this are trying to find a woman who shares the same amount of racism as they do, then act surprised when the woman starts hating him/their kids like he wasn’t looking for someone who hated his race as much as he does. White men do this a lot as well, they bash white women like that will “prove” their passion for non-white women. It’s bizarre and sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:11 PM
45

Ewwww 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:16 PM
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It’s so unsettling because women are human, we age! So when a man bashes older women it’s like, so does that mean you’re gonna dump me when I hit 30? 40? If all he wants are young women then he’s gonna get rid of me, I’m clearly not in his long-term plan, and if he hates older women well then I’m in danger because I’ll be older in a few years. Wtfffff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:16 PM
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I’ve also noticed that men who date much younger women constantly bash older women and other women, and I’m sure this is a way to isolate women from potential helpers once their boyfriends start acting controlling or violent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:46 PM
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The fact that there are so many “arguments” geared towards pressuring not influencing women to have sex with men early on in relationships or before marriage is so disturbing. Sex drives change over time and due to different circumstances, so why should women cater to the sexual desires of men after a date or two if people change over time anyways? And furthermore, not having sex with men still gets women slut shamed. We can’t win by playing their games and the rules they created.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:24 PM
8

Exactly! All this is is more manipulation and pressuring women to have sex when we don’t want to. Rape culture is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:24 AM
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And if “pure women” reject them, we get treated like trash and caked awful names. There’s no way to win with these losers! Sleep with them and you’re awful, don’t sleep with them and you’re awful. Men with this kind of mentality can choke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:09 AM
11

Did this idiot slip in from an alternate dimension? Almost everything a woman is taught socially is centered around “catching” and pleasing men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:59 PM
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These dudes are “traditional” when they want to belong to the streets but the moment women ask to be treated “traditionally” aka walked to our door with a chaste kiss, dinner paid for, etc. then suddenly they freak out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:45 AM
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Yes!!! And as someone who comes from a traditional culture, it’s really bizarre seeing my family come into conflicts with these wannabes. So many guys try to act like the men in my family regarding leading households, but are incredibly lazy, cowardly, and useless compared to men in my family. I see it a lot in religious fundamentalist circles, dudes making 20k a year and can’t fix a hole in a wall want wives who live like it’s the 1950s 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:01 AM
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The sisterhood tried to save her but she chose a man’s happiness over her own. The pickme volume is astronomical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:10 AM
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I agree! And I feel like the media plays into this by giving this repeated story of “yes he’s secretive and a loner but that’s because he’s so amazing and good, you just gotta break down those walls”. No sir, those walls must be there for a reason. Human beings are made to be social! Not having a few close friends who know him intimately is a very bad sign and like you said, psychopath vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:00 AM
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Yo!!! I just realized this. Social media is not at all a must have but super secretive men, men who have no online present AND have no close friendships tend to have major issues/be straight up dangerous. I always get suspicious when a man says he’s a loner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:42 AM
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Men claim gossiping is malicious because they know information about them can make them look bad. Gossiping has always been helpful to me in avoiding dangerous situations, watching my back for dangerous people etc. It makes men look so suspicious when they go on about how bad gossiping is. What they should worry about is lying, but they say gossiping because they know the information shared is factual and they don’t want that info going around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:39 PM
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I think that’s part of the reason why gossiping aka communicating with people is stigmatized. Men don’t want women to warn one another! They want us going into situations and relationships without any information so that they can control the narrative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:36 PM
21

Imagine thinking what you need to beat a virus is Courage. This man is dumb as hell wtf. So many strong, intelligent, and good people have been killed by this virus and this literal LVM thinks that wearing a mask and getting a shot is cowardly. Ok then, no more hospitals, seatbelts, or any precautions for you. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:53 AM
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Agreed! I remember hearing a guy who really disliked me wanted to have sex with me and I was like, that sounds terrifying and dangerous for me. And fictional depictions of hate sex never made sense to me. I can get having sex with a stranger who you’re attracted to, but having sex with someone you hate seems like a dominance thing that could get very scary very quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:22 PM
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The reason why secular movements are trying to 'accommodate' people of color is because they are now realizing that, for some reason, people of color are not really attracted to modern secular/atheist movements and are trying everything in their power to seem more friendly to non-whites. The issue here is that these groups fail to comprehend the reason why most people of color are not interested in joining their organizations. It's not because the groups are predominantly white, and it's not bec…
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