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I’ve found more productive discussions and debates on purplepilldebates than here tho. Sure we can call the mods biased, but that’s like 90% of Reddit. Meanwhile this sub sends the downvote train towards most people who empathize with RP
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 09:31 PM
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post hoc ergo propter hoc thinking combined with the fundemental attribution error What is this lmfao
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 09:17 PM
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Hurting feelings and selling the dream. I’m all for dudes getting ass, but I’m convinced that there’s other ways to get it instead of lying to every chick you meet.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 10:12 PM
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Similar but difference is in their lifestyles and culture. Pookie and RayRay are known in black communities and are typically up to no good. They could be drug dealers, scammers, gangbangers, ex felons, or dudes who just don’t have any responsibilities . Idk too much about linecook energy (correct me if I’m wrong) but from what I’ve seen, they are typically the law abiding citizens who just don’t have much going for themselves but still get girls
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 06:56 PM
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Pookie and Rayray are the dudes who are underachievers and don’t have much going for themselves, but still clap cheeks. They are the “bad boys” that are adored by young & naive chicks and hated by the “nice guys”.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 06:37 PM
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Yeah they have the ability to get laid but they also don’t have much going for themselves either
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 12:25 PM
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mind your business Brother, I see this shit every other day. If that’s the case, everyone should mind their business when RP nonsense comes there way.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/23 12:42 AM
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He’s looking out for you. My sister went a year without insurance and when she got caught speeding, her fines and punishments made her wish she got it.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/23 02:32 AM
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Do you think that your porn addiction made you obsessed with seeing women shit on men ?
/r/ExRedPill29/07/23 02:28 AM
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Because black men are allergic to accountability and responsibility This just seems disingenuous especially when you consider everything that black families have endured in America. Sure it’s easy to blame it on black men or black women, but we all know that it’s not as black and white as that. Idk if you’re angry or spent too much time watching FNF or KS
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 12:50 AM
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It’s not worth suppressing emotions Accepting that some parts of a relationship are out of your control isn’t that. Example: cheating
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 12:42 AM
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Yes but don’t get too complacent with it and don’t use it as an excuse for not being accountable
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 10:46 PM
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I was in the military only working around men with the most fucked sense of humor and kinda had the same thoughts you have. You really just have to be socially aware and draw the same line as you would with any male workmate and if you’re still worried, just make it slightly more strict. As someone mentioned, you can’t be reported for being boring. Once you get that down, you’ll realize that some chicks are chill outside of the workspace and aren’t always pissed off as they’re portrayed on Reddi…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 09:44 PM
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This dude made a post genuinely questioning why he should date women when they didn’t accept him at his worst. Instead of giving a genuine and empathetic response, some redditor, basically told him he should be gay, he’s wrong, and seek therapy. People want to pretend that it wasn’t condescending but everyone is smart enough to know when someone is just throwing “seek therapy” to be disingenuous. Like sure, maybe he should seek therapy but those same comments that lack empathy is the same reason…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 09:26 PM
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From my experience, some women are just addicted to drama. Story: my ex’s best friend was dating my best friend. They were waiting for me to finish my surgery, and my ex mentioned that something seemed off in our relationship . Her best friend asked if we had been in any arguments and when my ex said no, she recommended that we should start having arguments. Another point to bring up is that a lot of people(not just women) take kindness for weakness. Other chicks that I’ve dated and have seen da…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:11 AM
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You’re showing me a board that’s specifically for kids. The adults are only participating to set an example for their kids. On the other hand, try that on a grown man and he’s going to be pissed that you’re treating him like a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:41 AM
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you can track all those things in your head? Yes if it’s worth remembering, like major promises. On the other hand, having a written down list of how many orgasms were achieved and who did X amount of chores is just off for the typical person. This gives me micromanaging vibes and I wouldn’t want those vibes in a relationship. There’s someone out their for everyone tho🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:59 PM
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RP: Because he owns 10 yachts, goes to the gym, and invests in NFT.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:21 PM
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Yeah a lot of the chicks I’ve met who had OF were barely making ends meet. A lot of them don’t even have OF anymore since they found better opportunities.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 11:11 PM
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I don’t put them on a pedestal but I can respect their hustle. I’ve went to school with some of them and slept with 2 of them and I noticed that most of them aren’t shameless nymphos that a majority of the manosphere depicts them as. Most of them are barely making ends meet because they didn’t take advantage of the opportunities earlier in their life or they didn’t have opportunities at all. One chick from HS hopped on the wave because her mom was struggling to pay bills from her cancer treatmen…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 11:10 PM
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True. Purple pill fell off when they got rid of RP. They still have productive debates challenging RP theory, but the influx of RP men sorta turned it to another echo chamber moreso for RP men.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 10:23 PM
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You’re being sarcastic and it’s obvious that you’re downvoting comments on this post just because women are being mentioned. You’re just trying so hard to come off as right and it’s funny because your last post is mentioning “empathy”
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 10:07 PM
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talking in general Yeah ok lol thoughout this whole comment section it’s just been you trying to sound like a smart ass to op lol
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 09:55 PM
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He just said that his understanding for RP is that man and woman can’t be friends, that doesn’t equate to his exact beliefs lol.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 09:31 PM
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As far as perceptions go, it would be nice to see purple and blue pilled men have productive discussions over RP. Apparently that used to be a thing on this sub but they always ended up terrible. Sure r/purplepilleddebate is a thing but the same happens their too.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 09:22 PM
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I don’t think too much about diction when typing on reddit
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 08:58 PM
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I wouldn’t be surprised if half this group was full of women
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 06:20 PM
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AMS definitely gives uncle or big brother vibes lmfao
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 03:19 PM
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All misogynistic content creators should die? Why ?
/r/ExRedPill23/07/23 07:45 PM
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I’ve seen more RP dudes attract themselves towards stoic philosophers typically Aurelius and Epictetus.I think this is largely due to many of them getting introduced to stoicism(or philosophy in general) by dudes like Jordan Peterson. Considering that RP is aims living an abundance lifestyle, I wouldn’t expect for most RP me men to aim towards Nihilism. Only black pilled people or incels aim themselves towards that kinda stuff.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/23 07:00 PM
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Staying off of Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok decreased a significant amount of not only Manosphere, but everything including far left and far right nonsense. Other than that, Quitting the internet entirely will bring more harm than good, browser extension blockers won’t stop the algorithm, and online communities could work, but if it’s one of those blue pill “fuck the manosphere” groups then you’re still surrounding yourself around the essence of it.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/23 06:47 PM
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She always came off as a woman version of KS considering how much she supports marriage and 2 parent households. I think the difference between her and KS is that he actually seemed genuine about bringing black households together, despite his misogynistic nature. What a lot of people forget is that although his platform was built off of bashing (mostly delusional) women, none of his relationship advice correlated to 99% of men. Intentionally, If you’re not making all that money then you have no…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/23 05:38 PM
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Yeah Masculine frame won’t work if you’re planning on having a partner. It’s funny because as my relationship progressed, masculine frame just stopped being a thing. AMS also admits in his videos that a lot of his tactics aren’t for dudes looking for a relationship, instead, they are meant to help you attract the 9-10s that wouldn’t give you the time. As I moved away from the RP lifestyle I started understanding why he said that and that’s because it’s so damn toxic and deceptive. I tried with c…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/23 05:27 PM
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I totally agree with the second paragraph. I got into the AMS and KS when I got cheated on too and didn’t really have no father figure either unless you want to count athletic coaches. There was just something that pushed me away from Fresh N Fit. For one, they were based in Miami. Two, they seemed too angry at women. As a RP man, I assumed that all women were the same and “female nature” was something they couldn’t help. Later on, I realized that most of RP dating tactics just involved sleeping…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/23 04:34 PM
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I’ve never been into their content like that but, living in Atlanta, I can understand why some dudes around think they have wisdom understand women. I’ve accidentally seen some of their shorts outside of dating and it’s never pulled me in either. Just seems like generic motivational speaker talk
/r/ExRedPill23/07/23 04:08 PM
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That’s not what I was saying at all. To be specific, notice how OP questions womens attraction since he improved himself. Instead of being empathetic and giving him a genuine answer, the commenter makes a suggestion that he should be gay, says he’s angry at women, lectures him, and tells him to seek therapy. It’s obvious that the commenter was being insensitive and condescending by throwing that line in there. Like everytime I see someone question an RP theory, mainly women and some men raid the…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 10:42 PM
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my grandma remains with him. I see your point but that’s because humans form strong bonds through the time they’ve been together, some faster than others. You mentioning that she remembers him from the 60s, kinda touches on my point of people getting in relationships because they want to grow with eachother. 1960s is a completely different (for better or worst) time to be in relationships due to how our economy and way of life was. Less distractions, most women saw their potential in the kitchen…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 06:12 PM
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Empathy is too hard for most. Even outside of this sub, most people find it easy to call you a screw up and throwing in the “seek therapy” card. Maybe I’m being stupid, but it just comes off disingenuous and low effort. I’m not calling them wrong, but for posts like this it’s obvious that OP is looking to understand instead of just going on a “fuck women” rant.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 05:25 PM
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So let’s get this straight. Red pill targets Hypergamous women: women who ONLY appreciate you for your value. Attracting and only surrounding themselves around those type of women is why most RP men believe that ALL women are the evil goldiggers, which makes them think that they are only good for fucking. Not every women has this mindset and this is based on the women I’ve dated after my RP stage. Why do I have to “work on myself” to get in a relationship? It makes you a mature and more secure p…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 05:15 PM
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Actually you're right, losing a loved one to an Andrew Tate or Fresh and Fit podcast is truly a traumatizing and painful fate.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 03:59 PM
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Please take your self righteous bs somewhere else 😂 acting like these mfs on drugs
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 02:04 PM
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These are gonna be some neurotic stories, can’t wait lol
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 04:17 AM
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Yeah my fiancé just admired the leadership traits that I have. People could say that our relationship is patriarchal of course, but the difference to me is that I’m not oppressing her and I’m always considerate to her opinions even if it’s different. It’s basically the last sentence I said: Leading isn’t dictatorship Id assume that most people saw it for the worst since this is an ex Redpill sub but I tried breaking it down as best as I could so people wouldn’t have the wrong idea and downvote m…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 04:11 PM
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Don’t want your wife to fuck other dudes ? Don’t marry a porn star lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:09 AM
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Adam 22 is a dude who decided to marry a porn star on the rule that she doesn’t have sex with men. Her wife ended up getting blacked by someone who arguably has one of the biggest dicks in porn right now. Adam is rationalizing it by saying they are getting the bag and everyone else believes that marriages nowadays have went downhill. What’s funny is that they were both polygamous towards other women but now it’s bad because she decided to get railed out by a dude. Also, he married a porn star. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:08 AM
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Dated a virgin and it was alright. On one side, she’s awkward af. So awkward i waited 10 minutes for her to kiss me in the cold. Then on the other side, she told me how she’s only waiting on that guy to take her seriously before she becomes intimate. I honestly think that she was just awkward af and used the “waiting” line as a cover up. Ik some dudes that’ll be patient with her but I’m not the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:52 AM
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It’s meant to show you what you wanna see to keep you more engaged. It’s a good magnifier to some marriages but do you truly believe social media the only source you need to understand how marriage feels ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:41 AM
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Your source for marriages being miserable is based on TikTok ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:59 AM
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Why did you say actual ? You can disagree but it seems vulgar to deny another woman’s existence because they’re dating perspectives don’t match with yours. That’s similar to me saying “as an actual man, I disagree” because some dude has a different opinion from mine.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 12:05 AM
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why do adult women need to be led? I think it’s less about need and more want. There’s still women out there who want to be in a relationship where the man takes charge. This is my anecdotal evidence, but some of the women that I’ve interacted with always confuse the idea of a man leading a household with toxic masculinity. They get surprised when find out our family is traditional and no one is upset about it. I don’t hit my fiancé, I don’t abuse her, I don’t cheat on her, anything else abusive…
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 04:46 PM
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Military and a rough breakup(cheated on deployment) is what put me on the Redpill wave. Funny thing is that I was 19 like OP too. Crazy how a lot of us are so desperate and angry that we take this path but I hope OP grows out of this mindset. Edit: don’t forget too, if you’re in the VUnit, youre gonna be in the field half the time ur in the US.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 02:03 PM
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This is a more optimal way of asking for a number: “You are beautiful, give me your number so we can mate.”
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:05 PM
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It took me 6 months to get out of that mindset but everyone is different. Some of my boys have been on RP logic for years but normally hard life lessons will teach them. For me it was catching 2 STIs, seeing how much my bank account and potential had dropped, and realizing that I’m not that type of person.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/21 12:11 AM
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It’s an outdated social construct of men representing themselves from having the most toxic masculine traits to actually being a high value male. Most men who claim that role are really delusional average joes who think that they reached their peak. Well that’s how I see it.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/21 06:09 PM
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You explained it perfectly thanks. RP reaches out more than most influencers that try to uplift because most men who seek to become a better version are hurt. What do most hurt people do? Take it out on others. AMS is a good example. While few of his videos is him being genuine of reaching male success.. his RP characteristics (such as manipulating women and just being a toxic person) start to come out and then it turns to a shit show. That’s how they attract the hurt crowd.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/21 06:48 PM
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