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lul
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:08 PM
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Lol please cut it out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:28 PM
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Cool story.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:23 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:23 PM
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Yes you can. Stop caring. More men need to just stop giving a shit. Say what you want, let the mods ban you. Don't associate with people who stifle you. You want to complain. complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:22 PM
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You're not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:21 PM
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If you want to date, deal with the rejection while you strengthen yourself. Men have to adapt. Or litterally stop caring, I know thats easier said than done.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:20 PM
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Move on to the next. Try alot. Numbers game.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:00 AM
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MOST men will be too old to do "anything".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:59 AM
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If you don't say anything after sex, or make plans again, it's casual. If you state that's what you want before sex and everyone's ok, it's casual. Women thinking there is more after sex without any conversation is dumb. Men having sex and never talking to the woman again is mean. We all do it. We both often want the opposite thing. So open your mouth and say something, deal with the rejection. Yes men want sex. Oooo spooky.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:57 AM
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it works. whatever lady says it doesnt, isn't having sex with you or dating women as a man. It works, it always has. Cold world, oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:41 AM
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Yo straight up. It's not crazy hard. Be attractive for the night, lie and be blunt about your attentions ( not unwarranted aggression, be a boy to her girl, no its not simple- practice this embarrassing step first, fail alot). If you smell good and look ok (press that tshirt or subscription box set up) , be a change in her daily/weekly routine. Yes it's that simple to have sex with a woman if your target is appropriate. No im not at all kidding. Lie and move on. *Lie alot. To her. be smart. Make…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:41 AM
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enough. stop this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:38 AM
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yes. at first
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:38 AM
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maybe just think about stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:35 AM
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muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:33 AM
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slut shaming isn't real
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:33 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:32 AM
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Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:15 PM
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I think your concern is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:42 PM
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Unless youre religious. There is zero incentive for men to get married. Not saying you shouldnt want what you want. Do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:39 PM
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Yeah, i guess thats true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:37 PM
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blech
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:36 PM
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Depends on the type of 40, but the second choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:36 PM
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If youre a guy, lie to this girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:30 PM
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Keep or fuck? What do you mean by "score", genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:29 PM
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Yes, out of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:22 PM
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They want commitment, we often want sex. Its just the way it works. Stop sweating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:21 PM
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No you dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:17 PM
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Some good things about RP for men, some really dumb things. I think overall its probably a good movement for men just be more skeptical of women vs hating and being bitterly obsessive about what they think
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:16 PM
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elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:14 PM
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Gotta practice to be good at the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:13 PM
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Learn the average male pespective and experience when dating. Thats where you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:09 PM
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No. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:06 PM
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Id let her ruin my life I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:06 PM
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When youre older, if youve done things right, you have the things women usually find desirable in a mate. Why wouldnt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:03 PM
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Staring at anyone is fucking creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:01 PM
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Number 2, absolutely. The rest, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:52 PM
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Dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:51 PM
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So you legit believe Pittbulls are inherently aggressive dogs? You dont think the culture around their ownership or the owners themselves are the problem? Ive had Akitas most of my life and had ignorant beliefs about Pittbulls too. Until I rescued 2 and they are litterally the kindest dogs ive ever encountered or owned. Idk I think the fact theres a subreddit with that many members is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:45 PM
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Its not the same or even close to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:37 AM
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Makes female/male dynamics more obvious on a macro level.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:35 AM
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Yes it is. Is there NO way you can think about how it is? I want to argue, but im legitimately more curious. Is there anyway you can think about how getting on to a dating app, posting photos and having some sort of attention might be better in some way?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:32 AM
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If the intent is proven it should be a civily prosecutable crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:29 AM
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I hate this post so god damn much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:20 AM
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A Pitbull is a breed of dog. Have you ever been introduced to Akitas? Cane Corso's? Not gonna sit and list dogs BRED for aggression. I thought this was like some 2003 shit lol. Both of you suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:52 AM
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Forget being a hoe. Youre part of a banpitbulls subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:22 PM
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Its not even that, its that she is delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:27 AM
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I 100% believe that she thinks shes a 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:26 AM
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Congratulations. Youre in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:01 PM
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life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:00 PM
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Just never any god damn accountability. NEVER.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:11 PM
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Why are you blaming the man, you had the baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:09 PM
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Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:02 PM
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Its made me jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:03 PM
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No, i dont want the debt that comes with keeping up with the Joneses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:58 PM
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It isnt just about the physical. Its doing something disciplined and healthy- that in itself will improve your confidence and self worth. Youre thinking about it very narrowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:36 PM
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Who bought the house you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:31 PM
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Oh ok, THIS is why? lol Yall are losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:25 PM
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im thankful for the trolls
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:14 AM
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WHO CARES WHAT PEOPLE ON TIK TOK SAY??!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:14 AM
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fun/gross
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:12 AM
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Desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:37 AM
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Its a sign of the times that men have to ask this today. Feels bad man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:31 AM
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Go cheat and keep it to yourself like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:43 PM
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Most people are not in healthy relationships. What are you talking about? Did you mean to say most people in relationships, are healthy? Even that has no statistical basis. I disagree with your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:56 PM
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Women can be in a relationship with you and not give a fuck about your feelings. A womans feelings and how you feel about them is all that matters to MOST women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:02 PM
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Nah its not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:59 PM
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Im impressed that this is your view. Refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:45 PM
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My advice to most men is dont date now. Just self improve. if youre in your mid to late 20s/early 30s- know that the market is littlerally forecasting the 30year old modern woman winter. Just bide your time, build your castle and rejoin when you have leverage. Women are learning that certain lies told to them by feminism and modern woman dating strategies are headed to tragedy. Things are changing, dont expose yourself to the BS right now. Work on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:38 PM
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Just say what you want and take the Ban if it comes. Dont censor yourself unseasonably.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:27 PM
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Most RPers just dont want to lose there self respect, independence and resources to predatory female dating strategies. Not "Just sex". "Just sex" with women who are playing games, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:26 PM
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Your name is Financial_Leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:24 PM
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Not anything. Just not everything to the detriment of men. Which is most of womens dating and mating strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:23 PM
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Youre in the game brother. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:00 PM
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There are arguments to make, but I basically agree. Dating sucks, but if youre not making any improvements in your life to build yourself into a desireable partner- stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:59 PM
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hahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:49 PM
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Youre basic as fuck. Nurturing, modesty, humility, empathy, emotional sensitivity, grace, gentleness. What the fuck else do you need? Men are attracted to FEMININE women. Argue with me more, im here for it. Sick of you weirdo white knights.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:06 PM
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Feminine is a vague term? Im done. Not having stupid ass semantic arguments. Too old for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:40 PM
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No. Im talking about men with their shit together who want a feminine wife. We must come from different cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:07 PM
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blech
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:58 AM
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Everything you said proves my point. Especially the "women dont even want to get married or date right now" part. AGAIN im speaking in generalities, the eceptions cant not be taken into account of we are speaking broadly. Female/male. "The female friends and family I have" - semantics. Women and girls, happy? I dont need confirmation bias. There is clear data, studies, field accounts from MEN. Getting the perspective of women is not as neccesary anymore, loser dudes to well to do men, understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:48 PM
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Im good on the amount of women i meet. Dont even. I come from a mostly female family, over half my friends are female. I date you. Like stop. Or say something else so we can have the argument. Corny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:49 PM
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Im not even arguing this. Youre wrong. TYPICALLY women want a man with money. TYPICALLY men want an attractive, feminine woman. I dont have ONE male friend who has ever mentioned a womans money as being a point of attraction. If he is doing well (sometimes not even that minimum) hes happy with a woman who isnt a bumb, but attractive and feminine. Theres always some Knight like you who jumps out and says something like "err actually men like career women too". NO THEY DONT. Men dont care. Women c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:47 PM
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A fellow oldy. Thanks for this comment. Your Tinder analogy is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:25 AM
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What are you saying??? External behaviors dont have to indicate internal anything. Actions are ALL that matters. You can think youre a perfect princess and go out finessesing and draining resources for dates etc (yes the extreme). How you feel inside about it means absolutely nothing. Actions are like constantly glossed over by women, its such a headache. What you do is all that matters. speculation tomAto.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:23 AM
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All kinds of cap. Women want men to make more money than them and spend it on them or things they do together. Stop the bullshit. Too old for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:21 AM
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Desperate for relationships with non shallow, non masculine, feminine, sane women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:01 AM
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I dont think yall are making it very far...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:54 AM
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jesus christ
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:52 AM
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what phrase?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:44 PM
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not saying that women want to be used and abused. Most men who obsess over a woman are not going to be taken seriously for long cmv
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:43 PM
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Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:00 PM
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No it wont be harder. You can be as hot as you want at 40. Youre still 40. A man can be 40 and if he has his shit together, date a 24 year old who can potentially give him children, have less baggage and boss lady quotes on her IG, and just generally have abbetter chance at starting a family. Be 40 and hot all you want, it isnt hard to find a man to sleep with, finding a man to settle down with is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:14 PM
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Choose better words for the sake of the mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:06 PM
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Most women are as parasitical as their options. See what i did there?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:06 PM
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If he made a contract to be monogamous he should honor it and just live the miserable emasculating life he decided on when he got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:05 PM
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Dont do this, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:04 PM
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I think average men just have to wait. The cold 30+ winter is approaching most women. Companies are litterally forecasting and investing in anticipation of the lonely single woman plague about to hit. Average dudes- just hit the gym, get your money up and plot your futrure happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:53 PM
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uh that guy was a beta
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:52 PM
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The women there act like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:50 PM
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Nah. If the guy is obsessed with the girl, hes getting used and abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:49 PM
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Our fathers failed us or just didnt live through a time where their advice was relevant to the current dating culture. Men are seeking answers and help navigating this new world. Its not going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:47 PM
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Exactly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:46 PM
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Man you need something else, im not going to say what services id like to describe, because i dont want to get banned. You took this into a crazy direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:45 PM
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The women men complain about on reddit are too busy making post on tiktok complaining about how there are no good men left.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:44 PM
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no. they hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:42 PM
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No I still believe im correct. The sexual market place is decided by women. A woman showing interest in you sexually is an invitation. I dont know why so many people argue with me on this, maybe its semantic. Women decide who they allow access to their bodies. Just because you may get sexual attention from women, doesnt mean it isnt so. MOST men are the pursuers of sexual intimacy, in general. You become of interest to women through youre physical, financial and status level. Women , in general,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 01:32 PM
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All short men should join jiu jitsu. Thats my out of the box suggestion. dont argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:24 PM
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I will VERY occasionally approach a woman and I think its something men should learn how to do. I have no arguments with anything youve said. I agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:57 PM
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I dunno, i live in Atlanta. Shallow af city. I get matches. Im probably above average attractive and tall blah blah, but in atlanta thats meaningless. I think most of these guys take it too serious and their profiles make it seem like interviews. They have to have fun and if you dont look that great double down on the fun. I also agree with you that dating apps shouldnt be the primary place for finding companionship, SO MUCH EASIER SAID THOUGH. Men dont really approach women anymore, way too ris…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:51 PM
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The catwalk picture is clutch. Fun, gay, good stuff. Take the time to get better pictures dude, im sure that one helps a load.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:47 PM
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Most do. Don't do this. Asian women date asian or white dudes. Nigh on exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:46 PM
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Not white? Are you an alien? Im black, look at my little profile man. As midnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:45 PM
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I do blame women for alot. I also agree with everything youre saying. Good on you man. Especially these comments about "I just want to be myself". STFU. Put your best out there, go on a date or two or 17, get finessed and lied to like an adult and get your ass back to the drawing board at your local gym. Dating is a fucking game, play it right and eventually youll find success. Deal with the rejection, deal with the double tripple quadruple standards. If you want to get laid or potentially find …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:43 PM
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This is all perfect info.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:40 PM
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The thing many woman say about having professional pictures is BS. Show a full body pic, show a pic of you at an event or outing, show one with friends or people (not other women, or atleast not close to you). Smile. No gym or shirtless(unless at like a water park or some shit). Being "yourself" doesnt work. Its all a game. Women rarely post pictures of "themselves". The truth is youre in competition with so many men and all you can do is increase your chances of being noticed. Make your profile…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:29 AM
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🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:23 PM
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yeah 6'3 is the cutoff
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:23 PM
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Learn to unmatch alot if the conversation goes dead
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:01 AM
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I mean atleast your honest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:00 AM
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You were being authentic and it didnt help you? elaborate please
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:59 AM
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work with what ya got
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:58 AM
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Man i almost agree with you if the world worked with sense. It doesnt. A man needs to do the thibgs that allow him to be available. Youre asking for monk like behavior from the average joe. The attention from a woman is addictive. Im just asking you to imagine not being capable. Imagine not being alright looking ( hard for men to say theyre attractive, when most men like this are probably more attractive to these women out here ). Imagine it and extrapolate from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:46 AM
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apps*, im not drunk yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:43 AM
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yes, ok, what we doing about it brub?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:41 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:06 PM
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The concept of financial supprt for a child isnt terrible. The way its implemented in, in america atleast, is abhorent at times. The numbers are at the whim of a judge, the status and relationship of the parent(s) is barely taken into account, the funds are given to the child support recipient who doesnt even have to show how theyre being used. There are many reasons why the current child support system needs to be remodled in a more egalitarian non punitive way. Its 18 years of wage slavery man…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:17 PM
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People fuck people? No shit. Are you slow, whatbare you missing here? Wtf do guys do when they go out to a club? IN GENERAL? You can say girls go pick up guys too. ok no shit. We arent going to agree. Youre arguing absolute nothing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:20 AM
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You said nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:18 AM
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Child support is a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:40 PM
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i mostly speak in harsh generalities here. Especiall when engaing in some of the arguments. I 100% know not all women anything. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:50 PM
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Because im honestly willing to retract certain things. I agree with your comment 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:40 AM
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So i just read all this and agree with you. Where are we disagreeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:38 AM
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Here we go with this tired argument again. God damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:25 AM
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Yo you know what im gonna make time for your silly ass arguments. How many men get drugged and raped? Or atleast report it? Ive been drugged, if you count alcohol, and taken advantage of by a woman. I understand this happens. When you are speaking about the general majority of mens experience. Not even above average men, because being rated above average ( and i believe you btw, i honestly do underatand where youre coming from with this point ) still puts you in the upper 10% of men. The drop of…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:19 AM
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When you give up on trying to be liked or play the middle, not piss women off with LOGIC- connecting the dots just becomes easier. Like cancel me, dont care. Its the truth and its gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:08 AM
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yes its mutual. consensual sex is mutual. If youre not a shy beta or she isnt carry your sweet ass over a threahhold to a bedchamber. Shes down, she makes the final decision though. She doesnt have to voice it. I dont know what youre arguing. Ive turned down women too, that doesnt mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:58 AM
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look, now we are speaking such semantics I dont know where to start. If youre a good looking guy, if you are attractive to women- you obvioulsy are in a situation where women can definitely be the aggressor, pushy, thirsty, but its almost a given that men want sex. Outliers, the minorities (statstic minority), the exceptions, are not what im speaking for. Or we will be here all night. Women are absolutely the final decision makers when it comes to sex. If youre not a man worried about being drug…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:57 AM
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Ive been doing it all night.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:13 AM
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STOP SAYING THAT GOD DAMMIT. IT LITTERALLY ISNT TRUE. THE MAN IS OBLIGATE TO PROVIDE MONEY!!!!! THATS IT. HE HAS NO ROGHT OVER THE CHILD IF YOU ARENT A COUPLE, YOU CAN DO ANYTHING! TO TAKE THE CHILD AWAY FROM HIS FATHER. The other sycophant here talking about "fatherless children" again YOUR FAULT. You chose who to make a baby daddy. Enough of this coddling bs. you can do ANYTHING to be in an advantageous condition once youre pregnant, litterally ANYTHING. courts side with the woman something li…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:32 PM
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dont youre a lost cause. I already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:24 PM
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youre absolutely a user if you ate saying what youre saying. Fuck what men want. What is- there are no rights given to a man once he makes the grievous mistake of putting a bun in you. He is a slave. Whether you have the kid or not. hes trapped. Whole tik tok channels handing out tips on the subject. How can you live in both worlds???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:24 PM
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Im not your buddy pal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:22 PM
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Blech. You want your double standards to suit you. If women just admitted this shit full stop, men would atleast go ok then and behave accordingly. Aceppt yall lie like it isnt true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:19 PM
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Listen here buddy. Nothing is happening without a womans permission, they have words for that. In general using the most common sense, men pursue, women allow. The law and god above gives you the inalienable right to decide to produce life and to keep that life away from a potential father. In a fair run society, especially today where women have EVERY ADVANTAGE to produce a stable and economically accomidating enviornment BY THEMSELVES (girl power). Youre telling me that if a man wants to be no…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:16 PM
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oh jesus, i don hhave the energy for you again
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:07 PM
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how?????????
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:02 PM
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no. If you live in America. As a woman. No matter what happens. YOU are the decision maker when it comes to sexual access pr birth. Thats it. i want to hear your argument. dont just spout easy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:34 PM
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EXPLAIN how both decide. Dont just say shit. Tell me how in your world, the woman isnt the primary agent in who has sex between men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:32 PM
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No. Wrong. Incorrect. A woman decides who has sex. This isnt up for debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:31 PM
3

Your bullshit take is heard and rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:30 PM
5

Exactly. The world doesnt owe you anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:44 PM
5

what
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:28 PM
5

It doesnt matter. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:28 PM
6

fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:02 PM
4

Which happens alot. Ive had a woman decide to have my child, which i would have supported- for many reasons the outcome of this birth was doomed. The inevitable happened. We were both emotionally destroyed from the experience. All that being said. The woman has every right to take this risk. If a man decides not to expose himself to this hell, in a free country, he should have that right. I dont even support absentee fathers, if a law gave men this right, I would have disdain for a man choosing …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:00 PM
1

omg. im bowing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:55 PM
4

This has nothing to do with the argument other than anecdotally. The whole process is emotional, from whatever side you come from. Im not arguing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:53 PM
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Traumitizing or not, in western countries a woman litterally is the only person with the right to decide the birth of a human being. I am not at all arguing for men to have a right in that decision, im arguing about the agency of a man to decide whether he wants to take part in that relationship. Ill go even further, if you decide to have a child with a man who wants no part of you, YOU should have to compensate the man. He shouldnt not be stuck to a decision that he has no will or right over in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:50 PM
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Are we talking about different countries or are we talking about the general standard in western countries? you want to keep moving goal post and using semantical arguments or would you like to stay on topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:47 PM
3

Again do not try to moralize. I do not care. "-for all i care" EXACTLY, you do not care. It absolutely is unethical to force a woman to get an abortion. So when you want to have a kid with a man YOU chose to have a kid with, unless you were SA'd it was COMPLETELY your choice, precisely because abortion exist and precisely because access to sex is ONLY in womans agency. Everything you said is 100× on YOU as a woman. Men do not get pregnant nor do they have the agency to decide whehter they want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:46 PM
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YOU brought the kid into the situatiom god dammit. You did. you want to have a kid by a man who doesnt want to be with you and then complain about it? You have that RIGHT, dont moralize me. That kid is being forced into the world under your poor decisions, DEAL WITH IT. make every adjustment and change necessary to accomadate the child, the father not wanting to be there already tells you enough. I wouldnt do this, but i think its absolute horseshit that you can have the right to bring in or del…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:18 PM
2

bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:11 PM
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100% if a woman has the ability to decide for a man whether hes a father or not, a man should be able to decide whether he wants to be stuck to your god damn hip for 18 years. excluding morality, men are not disposable wallets. Im so sick of this double standard. Women even use children and pregnancy as a weapon. you want to go here? we cant talk all kinds of statistics. Women get to decide the fate of men in so many different places today. You want to have his baby? He should have EVERY DAMN RI…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:10 PM
1

At 35, now and im at the point I couldnt care less. The shallowness disgust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:03 PM
1

She doesnt choose to marry. How many women propose to a guy they want or think they deserve? They choose sex, they dont choose relationships. Thats given.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:23 PM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:18 PM
1

I dont care what the excuse is. Taking advantage of someone to drain resources is scumbag activity. I am not saying im surprised, im not saying i dont get how the game is run, im not saying someone shouldnt expect it. Im saying that just it being a part of this whole shit show today, is gross. I benefit in many ways from the current dating scene, i still think its disgusting if i have to be flat out honest. 100% men should realize the factors at play and know where they stand, but when all is sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:12 PM
1

If you victimize someone who is genuinely interested in you because they have money and you play upon their want for a relationship OR sex ( BECAUSE THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH A MAN WANTING SEX, AT ALL). Then youre a scumbag and a scammer and you need to be avoided by anyone in the dating scene at all cost. You out here running game just because you know the nature of a man. Get out of here with this BS. "He gets to have sex with a beautiful woman". Yo whatever. The game is the game. You are wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:56 PM
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Why is it on the man to be either smart or dumb in this situation. It is, but to say that as if the scumbag woman thief, who is playing the dude isnt the primary villian. Like what.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:21 PM
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Most men should be doing this anyway. We are just so afraid of sticking to our standards and thirsty for female attention. If more men had the will to not bend or break on their standards, women would get starved of the attention they often dont deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:17 PM
1

we have tussled before lol. later when I have the energy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:39 PM
1

Don't try to meet women at clubs. You don't want any part of that mess. If you go to a club to find a woman, put on your best game face, get your lies together and play the sport. If you're not there for catch and release. DONT GO.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:57 PM
1

Nah. Just that if you're not shiny enough, don't be in the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:56 PM
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Red pilled out of experience. Facts are facts. Women can argue until the cows (!) come home. They love red pilled men, whether they know it or not. Once you realize you have something to lose and that YOU are the desired prize. It just becomes reasonable to think a certain way. Women will show you how superficial and shallow they can be once you get your shot together, not before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:54 PM
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blech. go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:13 PM
1

It is what it is. I don't fit the demographic I usually speak on the behalf of. Or argue with the women on here about- but as a man, especially when you're invisible (because all men know how that feels at some point), having the radical acepptance to know that well if my looks, money, status isn't finding me intimacy or love (they often make it seem like men don't want love for some reason), well it is what it is. It doesn't always have to be though. Go down the route of self improvement, put o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:13 PM
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I truly believe that having rituals is a good idea. Whether it's NOFAP, fitness challenges, whatever. These things promote discipline, that has nothing to do with a woman. It's about getting stronger as a man, within yourself. Especially for the invisible man, that lack of intimacy becomes mental illness, but practicing self discipline is a meditation that porn can't fix. Women aren't going to be able to understand your perspective, stop seeking it. Become good with yourself. Easier said than do…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:07 PM
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Absolutely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:57 PM
1

You're full of it. If you're walking around in a clown costume, talking like a clown, clown social media, and then jump into a clown car ass soon as one picks up- that doesn't say anything? Women think you're like expert chameleons. Most women have road every cowboy at the rodeo start talking like Cowboys. You think men don't have flags, just because we don't get on tik tok and cry about it? You want a hot girl summer, do you- but if you think by this time in the western world that shit isn't as…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:56 PM
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I've tried to state this before- if you date a number of women, they tell on themselves without saying a word. Forget that though- most women today just talk about it openly. They don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:15 PM
2

You're stating such a skewed view on the points brought up. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:14 PM
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As much belly aching as I do on this forum, I have to agree with you lol I just hate that women will come on here blaming men for their stated issues with dating. All that said, at the end of the day- Gym, work, personality, a couple pairs of cool jeans and t-shirts, will do wonders for you. Still not going to get on here and blame men for every single thing, like the vast majority of women do. These women today won't even LISTEN to what men have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:11 PM
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Jesus christ. Men are designed to seek out sex. Forgetting biology- the need for social intimacy is powerful in humans period. I absolutely hate your comments and think they're ignorant in perspective. Good for you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:09 PM
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You prefer dating younger men who fit most women's delusional standards. Until your gamble pays off, most women target the men that don't want or need them and make tik tok videos about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:06 PM
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This is such a dumb comment. The percentages you're stating or in regards to "throughout their lifetimes". Please think about this for a moment. You're comparing a lifetime and the ages being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:05 PM
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When the normal standards of an average woman are so delusional to the point of comedy, when there a dedicated tiktok channels dedicated to "finessing" men, when western culture makes you feel like a predator for saying hi to a woman, when dating apps are 70- 80% men who are chasing the 20- 30% of women- who are chasing the top 2% of men, when women want you to spend 100+ dollars a date knowing they'll never see you again. Porn isn't such a bad option, nor is it the main reason for the plight in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:37 AM
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I have never heard a man wanting a woman because of her money. Like who are these men? Sugar momma website?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:31 PM
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that is hypergamy...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:28 PM
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It's really hard for women to believe they are hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:49 PM
7

Why do you think this is the answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:49 PM
1

And research papers, polls, stats, etc ..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:21 AM
1

Mine is being a man who dates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:20 AM
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Crave vs action. The action is- the men women find sexually attractive, are sexually attractive to other women- Those men have sex with multiple women. Doesn't have to be at the same time, that's where female attraction is pointed toward. I'm not making any judgement. I'm 100% not an incel. There are a minority of men, being shared by a majority of women. This isn't debatable, there is sourceable information backing the assertion. I'm not sure if you're getting what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:19 AM
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It's not haremship. It's natural selection. What you call average men and average women, I just have no perceptable idea of - Women and men have different standards. I'm not talking about relationship, im talking about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:14 AM
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You stop. If you fit the standard seeking example I'm alluding to, you're often sharing the same guys, whether you realize it or not. Unless you don't trust the research done on this topic, it is what it is. I don't read incel forums, stop using that garbage as an excuse. If you're not in the demographic I'm speaking of, leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:08 AM
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Most women today are sharing the same guys. I do think there's many of the women today watching the direction most modern women are headed and are taking notes, to avoid the future misery coming their way. So there is some hope in the future. The average dude today needs to just stay out of the scene, focus on themselves and their happiness. Pendulums swing back and forth, just do your own thing for awhile. As much as it sucks, women set the trends in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:00 AM
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I'm just bowing out for the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:55 PM
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in the long run, if the goal is forever. it would. what is love? we don't live in a Disney movie, it isn't a flick of a switch. I think that mindset is what takes alot of people down a long road of possibilities vs probabilities. Love is built after attraction, not before.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:18 PM
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The first choice has caveats to potentially being a good choice. Honestly, having a woman love you is second to respect you imo. Ready for the downvotes. If she was willing to build a home and have a partnership. I would gladly choose that long term. Love can be built in whatever arrangement we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:08 PM
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You know ehat, I'm gonna agree with you. The second choice- if certain things that weren't mentioned were there. It wouldn't be bad. I'm fli flopping. You got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:07 PM
1

Fine... I'd pick the second ubder duress.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:04 PM
1

It leaves out so many pre vetting and decision making, why would this be my choice when it they aren't the only choices available irl. It's just difficult to have to choose between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:01 PM
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The choice between the two is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:59 PM
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Women would have a much more difficult time finding a ltr, because men would be concerned with things that actually improve their well being and not the standards women have placed on their perceived value to them. The "hvm" (God I hate that term) would do exactly what they do now, except even more selectively- Choose the women they think worthy of their time and resources. Men would in general, be much more content and happy with their lives. Biology sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:16 PM
1

It's made me more jaded, but the journey of self improvement has changed my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:12 PM
1

My height.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:10 PM
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These choices are wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:09 PM
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Women are much kinder and friendlier overseas. They aren't pushovers or stupid as western women want to believe. If you can do it- I highly recommend going overseas to potentially find a mate. Even if you don't, the experience of being treated well will do wonders for your mental health. I'm not talking about sex either. They don't look at you like a wallet, they are happy to get to know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:06 PM
2

I can't do this today. Ok. You win.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:20 PM
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I'm always reconfirmed on the idea that paternity test need to be mandatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:10 PM
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Why would a man who may potentially want to sleep with you tell you the truth about your ncount. Give me A reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:04 PM
2

Yes terrific.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:41 PM
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I WASNT SPEAKING ABOUT YOUR VAGINA. I was talking about catching the man-fish you probably want, when you have a history of Spear collecting. jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:37 PM
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I can slightly agree with you being a man slut myself, if a girl had my body count it wouldn't be so much of a problem to date short term and see where things go. I have to admit I would still be wary, just because of the differences between male and female sexual dynamics. I would have questions, even though I'd be more willing to keep them to myself. They'd still be there though. Women call this insecurity- If you're a man who has been of value enough to gain sexual attention from women, why w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:36 PM
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wow... you completely missed my point and every man's. It's crazy. Reading this was LEGIT shocking. Not use of words, but that you think that I'm talking about your vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:22 PM
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yeah no, run away
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:22 PM
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You're comments are a waste of time. Do you have a salient point to make? no u
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:11 PM
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it's the anguage of many women. just constantly doing anything to speak bluntly. You stop, it's absolutely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:10 PM
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average
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:07 PM
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If a woman told me that, I'd be really repulsed or think she had some sort of major mental imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:07 PM
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This is such a delusional comment. Sex vs long term relationships. It isn't hard to find a man to have sex with, but to take you seriously rocking triple digits, you're going to be Spear fishing with toothpicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:05 PM
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This was way lighter and kinder than I would have stated it but you're absolutely right. Women keep trying to force men (especially the ones that say they dont care) to have no issue with high body counts. Of all the things women say aren't attractive to them, this being a commonly shared attraction for men is a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:03 PM
2

Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:41 PM
2

blech.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:39 PM
1

I absolutely know our experiences differ, specifically because men and women are imperically different enough for experiences to clash the way they are. I don't have my opinion for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:20 PM
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You keep saying I won't believe women. I believe actions and visible trends. You also left out "most" and "in general". What's the main word men use today- "accountability", If you have found a number of men with similiar experiences here, does that not tell you anything? It ISNT just me and my inability to trust all women (which I explicitly said from jump), it's that the experience and opinion is relatively common now. That's for reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:18 PM
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I dont understand what point youre trying to make. Media, what media and how is the data you collect relevant? Do you date women as a man? Are you a therapist, counselor, psychologist, biologist? Are you a man or boy? I agree with you, btw, that porn isn't helpful to male (and to a certain extent, female) social/romantic interpersonal dynamics- but saying something like "The real thing hurting men's ability to get women is porn", is such an insulting invalidation of everything men purport concer…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:09 PM
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I'm old enough and experienced enough to reflect back and observe the current enviornment around gender discussions in dating- to form an opinion, using available data (field and published research) to come to the opinion I have. I believe honest women, in the dating climate, are a rarity. If that makes things more clearer, I understand your differing opinion causing us to come to a stalemate. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:03 PM
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Right about the first part. Wrong about the second. I never said what specific things I'd have difficulty trusting, or the reasons why. I specifically stated dating, and if you want to stick to your assertion, as long as you keep to the point that I said "in general and most". Yup you got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:00 PM
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huh. Get a grip and read my other comments. I haven't budged.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:48 PM
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pendulum swings both ways. I'm glad younger men are standing their ground on their personal experience. Really not concerned with how it makes you feel. I've also heard and experienced women who tell the truth and are accountable to what they say. Those should be be the pillars you look to, instead you're concerned about how you feel. I'm specifically mentioning feelings, even though you didn't say it, because you said I stated things I didn't. I'm stating my opinion flatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:38 PM
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Yup. I absolutely think everything you stated is true, in general. Exceptions mean nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:23 PM
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I'm gonna go a step farther- women in general lie about Most things most of the time. Women's social currency is everything, especially today. Admitting to unattractive traits or being accountable to certain realities is SECOND to delusion, fantasy and good "feelings". I don't know what you're talking about when you say when women say something men don't believe it. It doesn't matter. We live in reality, our experience and value is the only thing that matters to other men AND you. So you can tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 04:14 PM
-1

Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 03:13 PM
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No. I learn from experience and observation. I stated my opinion. Agree or not. *more down arrows, good poll
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:04 PM
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No. I believe most women lie about experiences that don't benefit their feelings. If you put a specific moral judgement on lying, then yup I'm proving your "point". Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:57 PM
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You said that. Honesty on here, especially about dating. Women less honest here, especially about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:52 PM
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confusion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:46 PM
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I think most men are honest here. Especially when it comes to dating. I think MOST women are apprehensive to tell the truth or even broach certain topics altogether. *Downvote all you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:45 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:44 PM
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Sans the - "to getting women" part. Work on these things as a priority to your life and then choose which women you allow your attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:44 PM
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Everything you're sighting is skewed on so many different levels in favor of the point you're attempting to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:42 PM
2

Why is it always some woman who is an expert on how men feel about things?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:39 PM
2

With skill comes practice. A great man is skillful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 12:40 PM
1

The qualities that put a man in the position to be available to multiple women are qualities that a majority of women want in a man. Looks, money, status, charisma, etc Women need looks to get a man. Barely even that. At the end of the day, if a man is capable of sleeping with many women, he has most likely accomplished something in his life. One or all of the key attraction points were hit. Women don't need to do anything but allow a man to be with her. This is the reason. We are different. Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:39 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:35 PM
2

possibly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:24 AM
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will do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:20 AM
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I'm trying to find the study. but there was a recent one with reporting that women cheating has gone up in percentage. I won't fight this battle too hardly because I think it's deeper than just who cheats more. the reasons why is what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:15 AM
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Downvote all you want. it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:11 AM
3

Wow. This is just absolutely rational and a great way to start building towards a shared life. I wish more women AND men understood this. Hoping whenever I settle down, this is an understood implicit feature of my relationship with someone. It should be a partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:10 AM
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I still lean towards the man taking the brunt, but sharing is just building trust and loyalty in eachother. Women with this attitude are always the best partners and friends. It's great that you think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:01 AM
2

That's sincerely wonderful answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:52 PM
0

Who normally foots the bill when you go on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:48 PM
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We cheat at relatively the same amount, with a slight higher percentage for women according to many studies. There are also studies that have concluded women lie more on studies. Take what you will from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:41 PM
1

I was just replying to another person. Commented in the wrong spot, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:15 PM
2

I'm not defending cheating g, I'm calling it what it is. if you're in a monogamous relationship and have a verbal or legal contract for partnership under a set of conditions- you shouldn't cheat. Happy? I still stand on my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:51 PM
4

you also moved away from your false male pair bonding argument. Women cheat for love, men cheat for sex. They are both wrong. I'm not changing my position that women cheating is worse. It leads to violence, broken families, divorce (80-90% initiated by women). This culture of zero accountability for women taking advantage of double standards ONLY when it assist them is gross. If you were real you would just admit this and stop with your feelings about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:44 PM
1

Female cheaters ARE worse with support hard data. I'll go there if you want. Enough of this bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:42 PM
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Why do women who choose athletes and actors as spouses, men in the 1% with options, think that they are the one amongst a bevy of women who now want him for his money and status. Cheating isn't ok. Stop being surprised that when you pick a man with options that he wouldn't exercise those options. You're also just ill informed. The majority of partnerships at that lvl have a degree of understanding. When the cheating becomes public, that's when it's a problem. Choose normal people and then come b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:40 PM
1

Men dont have this problem. I'm not going to keep hearing this without fighting back. We don't have this problem, you do. we are not the same. You're absolutely incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:17 PM
2

The answer is yes. Deal with it. They are, flat out. Not all, but most.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:16 PM
0

nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:15 PM
-1

Nah. Men can't be sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:15 PM
4

Lol at 35 and the belly aching I do, I kind of do it on the behalf of younger men lol, not myself. When you're a bit older and just slightly (admittedly maybe more than slightly) jaded by dating culture and M/F interpersonal relationships, you can much more easily adapt and aceppt the plain facts and your own lived experience. The toxic miasma of dating today even works to my benefit in many ways as an older dude. Guys just need to wake up to the fact and do whatever self improvement they need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 09:12 PM
1

oh god
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:18 PM
1

Pig Misogynist Musclehead etc Dickhead Loser (you can say both of you want) manchild bum() scrub mommas boy pussy like wtf are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:17 PM
2

minority/majority
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:15 PM
2

I was ready to argue with you, but God dammit you made a rational salient point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:14 PM
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I don't walk around talking about how many women I've been with. That is super lame, id 100% want to know that guys advice though. WE ARE NOT THE SAME. Most men of similiar "value" to women probably have more bodies on their record than mine. I still just fundamentally disagree with you on this being an equal thing. Partly based on data, but also just on perspective AS A MAN. You can say "I don't care what men think", we hear it all the time now, it's meaningless. At the end of the day it is how…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:12 PM
18

"It is what it is" I wish more dudes would just get this and play the game, or for your sanity don't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:51 PM
15

I'm not gonna lie, 15 is low for most women these days
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:51 PM
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You can't say this. You'll hurt someone's feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:50 PM
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I'm 35 with an N-count of 33. I'm the man slut you speak of. If I wasn't attractive to women or had any sort of (VERY) mild status id be a bum. I never said men are bad at it. I said the game is rigged. Nothing will change that. The only thing that gives men access to female attention is improving themselves. You can call me a slut if you'd like. Im ok with it because I fundamentally disagree with you on male/female interpersonal relationships and the sexual market value. If I didn't do the thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:37 PM
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Men dont with to be sluts. Explain how men want to be slots. 1 and 3 men 18 to 25(+) are now either virgins or haven't had sex in a year (+) , on 12% of men in America report having over 10 partners. So MOST women are sleeping with the very few men. Take that and make your argument. Men and women are different. Some standards will not change. You only wNt them to change when they don't suit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:20 PM
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Ridiculous. It's not the same. we are not agreeing. You see it as the same, that's the problem. I don't, so right there is an argument. The standard work when they favor you, period. Your use of "hyperbole" was weak. Women say and do what you described, all the time, as a standard. We are not comparing things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 05:09 PM
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Yes you don't care about men. it's 2022, we are hyper aware of that fact. "Just give me money", Hence the current climate. You really cannot make this shit up, I'm just going to respectfully disagree with you and end this conversation. It's pointless, you're exactly who dudes need to avoid at all healthy cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:47 AM
1

Where do you touch grass, boss?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:44 AM
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Yes you do. You don't need beer money? You go touch grass. There's people outside. Yall are crazy. I have a back yard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:20 AM
0

They're playing the lottery until they're 35. If a woman is ok with that gamble, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:01 AM
2

except you're even more demeaning because you don't care for accountability. Say you don't care, you'll make fun. Yo who cared. It is what it is. If men could be honest they'd just tell you. But male preference is misogynistic some how.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:09 PM
2

You have that exact attitude on this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:08 PM
1

Who cares, they're not marrying you. Laugh away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:07 PM
1

There is no talking to you. You're going to have white knight the basketball team slayers. I'm just going to keep talking to men plainly. If you lined up 100 men and asked them what they'd PREFER, 90 of the 100 would have predictable answers. Free country, do what you want, women's liberation, hot girls summer, cold girls winter. Not arguing this anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:03 PM
2

Trust me, no one is making fun of anyone. A high five and a good job maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:58 PM
4

Double standards are only bad when they don't suit you. And warn young men to pick their battles, mates and bets wisely. Don't throw resources at hyper promiscuous women, it's often trouble. That's what.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:58 PM
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NO. It does not. I'm not agreeing with you nor do I "realize that". I disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:51 PM
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Just the wackiest way to lose an argument. you dismantled nothing. 🧂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:50 PM
1

You told women that. Following your logic I said sure. I don't know what your trying to prove here. Men don't like promiscuity in potential long term partners and there is PLENTY of reasoning behind that. Ok then fuck the studies. You keep moving the goal post. "Field data". Ask men. You don't have to care, you don't have to like it, you can be as triggered as you want. A woman who sleeps around is just a bigger risk to a man than woman who doesnt. If data doesn't help you see why I've come to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:42 PM
2

I see the angle you are desperate to take. Pair bonding isn't a silly term, I disagree "Pair bonding is a behavioral and physiological bond between two mated individuals, and is rare among non-human primates. Humans also engage in social pair bonding, where two individuals will form a close relationship that does not involve sex." Sure go add 6 more bodies. What you do and what youre perceived doing are different things and if youre talking about being in a long term relationship or marrige, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:21 PM
0

fuck with him how. tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:53 PM
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Because men are getting wrecked. I'm not soap boxing, but someone should. Alot of dudes think they're safe and have a girl who's down for them and worth their time. It's crazy. Someone needs to warn young men, let them know facts not feelings. Porn sick men?? WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? it's not even SLIGHTLY comparable. Geez the delusion in women today is staggering. ALSO: Dudes today DO need to cut porn out. So I'm not even disagreeing there. It's terrible for your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:52 PM
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No I don't acknowledge that it is coercion, because I disagree and it's incorrect. The other points you've made are all over the place
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:19 PM
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I'm an adult lol. Lie to me like an adult. Don't say "people". Men say they don't mind often, and internally are grossed out by it. It is what it is. who's strutting around being blatant. I don't care if you're triggered by what I'm saying, but yeah, no one is strutting around. If it's known you're just avoided. That's all. If a man has goals and ambition in his life. If he wants to stay safe. Taking a highly promiscuous woman super serious in a relationship has a high probability of being to hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:13 PM
2

Yes it is safer to be around a "promiscuous man" than it is to be around a woman. out of the box here- Men are territorial. A promiscuous woman who's done her fun locally, is potentially putting you in all kinds of trouble. How many times have you heard of fights at bars between current and past partners over a woman, killings, assaults. women rarely understand or see this shit coming when bringing their mate into enemy territory. Pair bonding becomes much more difficult in women with higher n c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:07 PM
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Man you're reaching so hard. I don't know why. Most men don't want to deal with promiscuous women and there are PLENTY of reasons why it reduces risk for them. There is hard data supporting the decision as well. No one "Hates" them, it's just unattractive to most men. That's not going to change. We live in a free country.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:49 PM
2

You have to accomplish something at some level to bang trashy gross women. It doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:46 PM
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No it isn't my guy. There is nothing wrong with reducing risk. He didn't say he hates promiscuous women, he said, given the choice he would chooser a safer option for his life. ZERO wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:45 PM
1

Looks/Status/Money. The world sucks but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:42 PM
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Not having sex with them, dating, marrying, providing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:41 PM
1

No it isn't "peak male brain neuroticism". What an incredibly idiotic statement. I think having a high body count as a woman is truly neurotic. WHY are so many women confused about this? Who wants to deal with everything that comes with a woman with a high body count? It's not attractive. If you're fine with that be fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:41 PM
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If you're skilled, your sexy online pictures are only going to cause value issues with a potential partner. If you're producing results as an athlete, that's it. Businesses may not want to align with you, because they have an image to represent, but that's it. You make choices , just deal with what comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:38 PM
3

Women are master code switchers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:36 PM
2

She isn't ugly, but she is below my usual standard in terms of looks and fitness. I hate saying that. She's hands down more pleasant to be with than most women I've dealt with recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:32 PM
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I think you're doing the right thing by considering leaving him. Like I truly do. SAYING you're an alpha man isnonsense, if he fit whatever he thinks being alpha is he would be living it and not talking. People go through seasons, what would wake him up to changing in a way that is progressive to having a long term relationship with you- I can't say. Relationships are a risk. Flags are real but it doesn't matter, relationships are a risk and we are promised nothing. You are in a tough spot. All …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:45 AM
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Look I'm not even going to argue this. The conditions men need to be in to date without fear are extremely high. The awareness and boundaries they need to have is substantial. I think what is described is a situation that has a high probability of failing as a relationship. I just see you listing his inadequacy without assisting a potential partner into greatness and success with you. Yes you're right it's conditional. I wish this guy had some pre- knowledge of where he should be, before the hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:29 AM
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Men need to stop dating. Focus on growing up. Don't get in your feelings, women don't look at you the same way you look at them. Get your shit in order, no matter how long it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:19 AM
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If your girl goes on a girl's trip to Miami. she isn't your girl. Don't even debate it. It's done.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:52 AM
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No. You said ment think a relationship is alot of work and women don't see it as alot. This implies things. Semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:31 PM
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By the way, im exactly an "it is what it is" person. I am not an incel. I am not in my 20s. I am doing fine. I have seen, heard and experienced this from women time and time again and also seen,heard and experienced the tears at a certain spit on the clock. If you're observant or even truly care about data. Forget data if you actually wanted to know what men felt and thought, you could find out. You don't, there's nothing in it for women to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:28 PM
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NO this is not even debatable. Men and Women are biologically different creatures with inherent motivations that society is built to control and provide security for. Stop saying what men think. You do not know and I'm glad more men are actually done coddling these thoughts. Saying a relationship isn't work for a man or belittling the grievances men have for the CONSTANT lack of appreciation women have for a man's perspective on relationship is getting old. Resources, mental health, nigh on mind…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:24 PM
1

crazy bitchy women are attractive? news to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:52 PM
1

What is locker room talk? Talking about a dudes dick size? how much money he makes? the free dates you got out of him. Like please, stop. Women get on sites like this and don't get coddled and start using The buzzwords. Tired response. don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:51 PM
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The "concept". You need to stop right there. Men wear mask? wtf are you talking about. If you go through this subreddit and read the commentary from women and don't come out of it believing most women today are chameleons and manipulative, I don't know what to do for you. IF you choose to continue with the men being a different species bs, I'll maybe enlighten you with some data to strengthen your resolve in that idea. Because we are VERY different and you may choose to play for a different team…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:49 PM
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