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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Advice before divorce		ChoppaBear	/r/Divorce_Men	07/03/25 04:21 PM

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2	Checking in on everyone Thank you for this. Hard times for sure. I’ve dropped 20 pounds and 6% bodyfat in the last 4.5 months. We still do things as a family and I love my wife seeing me ripped. We have separated for 16 months and will get divorced one day.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/25 01:31 AM
13	I think I'm finally 'getting over the hump'. Amen brother. I’m depressed and will be divorced one day. My wife is an attractive woman but I am disgusted by the person she has become and now all I see is ugly	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/25 10:53 PM
1	I told her I wanted a divorce. It did not go how I expected Totally agree. I’m a very slow learner. But I’m 50 and in a couple of years I will be out of prison and on my own for the first time in 22 years	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/25 03:13 AM
1	I told her I wanted a divorce. It did not go how I expected Agreed. And we men that work hard and improving our lives through hard work and exercise and integrity will always become the better parent. Kids are not blind. They see what their manipulative mothers are doing.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/25 03:05 PM
2	I told her I wanted a divorce. It did not go how I expected Agreed! Get out while you can! The woman you married is not the same woman as even a year or two later.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/25 03:02 PM
7	I told her I wanted a divorce. It did not go how I expected There is no way this ends will for this guy. He should get out while the getting out is good.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/25 03:02 PM
8	I told her I wanted a divorce. It did not go how I expected If you have a chance to get out, take it. You can find ways to make money. You only live once. Think about what life 2.0 could be like for you. Doors will open that you never thought possible. Do you want to spend many more years in an unhappy relationship or do you want to deal with a couple of terrible years dealing with your divorce with the very good chance of finding more happiness that you thought possible. Marriage is a prison and if you are able to get out of it do it now. Eventually you…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/25 03:00 PM
2	Advice before divorce We haven’t paid this months mortgage and she has plans to travel all summer while I watch the kids. I think our situation is different. Neither of us wants it to get ugly	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/25 02:01 PM
1	Advice before divorce Right now I see my kids every day and my wife needs me to watch the kids while she does all of her traveling. She doesn’t seem not want to give that up. For the kids I’m going to do everything I can to keep it amicable.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/25 02:00 PM
1	Advice before divorce I don’t know what you mean by sneaky proof. I don’t think there will ever be any custody problems it will just be 50/50. Trust me she wants as much time on her own to do her thing as possible.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/25 01:53 PM
1	Advice before divorce Thank you very much. You are right and I am going to stay away from women for now. I left home a long time ago! I was using drugs and was unsafe to be around. But I work in my house everyday and can mostly come and go as I please just not allowed to sleep there. I’ve been clean for almost a year now. We don’t have any money for lawyers. We have been in debt our entire marriage. I am to blame for a big part of it. But in the past year I’ve been clean and not spending money while she is still usin…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/25 01:51 PM