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| -1 | I notice bars/clubs/parties/hobbies/friends of friends have been completely replaced by internet dating, and I think that's dangerous.They're not funny. | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 04:52 PM |
| -1 | I notice bars/clubs/parties/hobbies/friends of friends have been completely replaced by internet dating, and I think that's dangerous.Aspbergers, huh? Cute insult. It's like you're threatened by my post or something | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 03:31 PM |
| 2 | I just wanna say this to all men of all shapes, sizes, and race out thereShe just doomed a lot of men with that post. Losing weight and improving looks definitely makes you more valuable to people on a primitive level. Press F | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 01:39 PM |
| 0 | Crush said I’m “Kinda cute” what does this mean?Means she thinks you're not cute. | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 01:28 PM |
| 3 | How do I get her to have sex in my car?A couple drinks after the bar, went back to the car. Nah, but I don't know, seriously. It's like when you're in the moment, and you both know it, it just happens without word. Like the flirting starts early in the night and just explodes into lust by the end of it. Usually the girl will make it effortless for you to keep escalating. Eventually I go in for the kiss. Sometimes I say " I want to kiss you". Sometimes I just do it when she takes initiative and inches closer to my face. Either way, it… | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 12:19 PM |
| 3 | How do I get her to have sex in my car?I've done car sex with 3 girls. Started pretty naturally. We felt it was right, and got hands on. One girl I was with even had an audience as we were doing our thing by three different groups of college kids that walked by the car. It was so hot. Good times. Public sex is awesome. | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 11:40 AM |
| 0 | How do I become an Alpha?The only comment that matters. It's action that creates real confidence, OP | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 11:38 AM |
| 10 | This movie will get you LAIDNext will read "Letting my wife fuck other guys will get you LAID!". This isn't what you did, this movie did it. Plus a 6 month dry spell with your wife? Wrong subreddit, mate. | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Am I not hot anymore?We have slow points and fast points. One month, I'm getting heaps of attention, the next, it slows a bit. Usually based on where you are and who you're around. The more women I'm near, the more attention I get. You might just need to put yourself in public more often, but COVID-19 won't allow it right now. Also, something I found recently is I revamped my posture to be better. Im all about self improvement, so I applied it and saw a massive spike in female attention. Chest out, chin up, shoulder… | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Am I not hot anymore?How wrong this opinion is. | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 11:17 AM |
| 1 | WHAT IS GOING ON WITH THIS SUBREDDIT? I dont understandYo, chill out dude. | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Do You Think Your Looks Are Holding You Back From Getting Attractive Women?Alrighty buddy, go forth and grab yourself a hottie. Best of luck to you. Sometimes, you gotta fail to learn anything. | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 03:49 PM |
| 4 | My father testing my inner game mindestI bet she would leave you as soon as she read this. | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Do You Think Your Looks Are Holding You Back From Getting Attractive Women?I. Don't. Care. | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Do You Think Your Looks Are Holding You Back From Getting Attractive Women?It's like you just pull this shit out of your ass. I tell you what, when you can back up your claims with actual scientific evidence, I'll buy it. | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 03:29 PM |
| 2 | My father testing my inner game mindestDude, your new approach sounds just as insecure as being clingy. | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 03:24 PM |
| 6 | Do You Think Your Looks Are Holding You Back From Getting Attractive Women?Jesus Christ, did I say looks we're everything? No. No I didn't. Also, I don't care if you think I'm cocky over some Reddit subject. I'm not here to impress you. | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 03:17 PM |
| 2 | My father testing my inner game mindestBeing right and effective can be one in the same dick head. Being racist, moronic, selfish and down right rude doesn't get you laid. | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Do You Think Your Looks Are Holding You Back From Getting Attractive Women?Fine whatever. I don't care what you think. Go continue putting no effort in how you look. | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 02:24 PM |
| 12 | My father testing my inner game mindestNo it doesn't. And you definitely never got laid doing it. | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 02:20 PM |
| 5 | Do You Think Your Looks Are Holding You Back From Getting Attractive Women?Who said any of us rely on only looks? If we took me and you with the same "game" or whatever that bullshit is called, my looks would blow your success rate out of the water. My problem with this post is that your title and message is just flat out not true. It's unfair to make men think that they can pull hot women looking like a swamp monster because they have good game. Men need everything to be top quality. Especially when pulling really hot women. Women are humans. Humans love good genetics… | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 02:11 PM |
| 5 | How do you become a good guy?Good to see that you've woken up from your bad habits. Only way for you is up from here. Because of this, I feel compelled to help you out. I've gone though the motions myself, and over the years, I've found that the ultimate way to be happy and attractive is to reorganize your priorities. For me, mine are 1. Self respect 2. Values 3. Goals 4. Women And women that compromise 1-3 is immediately written off. And women who have the same list of priorities as me is worthy of my time, respect and bod… | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 01:51 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]He's a cuck. I just read her post about her having a 1 night stand because her husband allows her once in a while, and now she's lusting for the new bull. Fuck this is so funny. Shit is so predictable. | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 01:08 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Sounds to me you made the mistake of putting her first above yourself. Marriage doesn't excuse you to put her on a pedestal. Ring or no ring, it's unattractive. Shift focus on improving yourself, and stop chasing her validation. | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 01:04 PM |
| 3 | How to get an ex or girl you dated who dumped you backBeta shit. The answer is you learn the mistake and move on. | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl messaged me out of nowhere, and then left me on read when I repliedContext. What did you reply? | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 12:58 PM |
| 2 | I understand the whole "don't put pussy on a pedestal" idea, but, how do you actually put that idea into action?My order of priorities: Self respect my values Goals Women. Gets the job done. | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 12:40 PM |
| 1 | How can I become a fuckboy?Fuck boys are actual losers who aren't getting laid or barely ever gets laid because women see right through his bullshit. | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 04:46 PM |
| 1 | How can I become a fuckboy?That sounds the complete opposite of a fuck boys. You're obviously a child, or a loser. Maybe both. Stop giving a shit and focus on your life, and maybe you'll get laid. | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How can I become a fuckboy?I bet you call every guy that gets laid a "fuck boy". | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 07:50 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]I'm a guy. You're friendzoned. Press F | /r/seduction | 06/04/20 09:53 AM |
| 1 | ONE OF THE WORST STORIES YOU'LL EVER READI don't believe this really happened. Seems like you're trying too hard to make us believe it by willfully agreeing with us how cringe this is. 10/fake | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Is being a male virgin degrading and a inferior trait?If a dude is talking shit and/or being negative, I'll connect the dots if I find out he's a virgin. Other wise, I don't care. Anyway, you're 17. Lots of you are virgins. Y'all are little kids. | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 11:52 AM |
| 7 | Three Months of Building AttractionThe big take away here is don't put any girl above what's important (you and your goals aka your class work) This certainly made her feel like you were a healthy and positive person to include in her life romantically. Keep it up. The art of not caring and putting yourself and values before any pussy is certainly the best way to live life, be happy and form attraction. Well done. | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 11:47 AM |
| 0 | Three Months of Building AttractionDoes it matter? He's obviously on his way to it if things keep moving positively. | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Am I too skinny for 6ft tall male? Get stared down a lotJust average. | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Am I too skinny for 6ft tall male? Get stared down a lot"foolish or harmlessly eccentric." -google | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Cold approaching women while I have a gf?Sounds like putting pussy on a pedestal to compensate your insecurity to me. You're always gonna have a tough time. Man up and solve problems directly (yourself) instead of nearly cheating and wasting other girls time if you won't date/smash. Because frankly, all I read is (I'm scared my GF will break up with me first). | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 02:10 AM |
| 5 | Am I too skinny for 6ft tall male? Get stared down a lotKilled me. Look man. You're not too skinny nor do you look too fat. What you look like is WEAK and goofy. Lose fat, add muscle. It'll change your life. It's gonna take a couple years, so best you get the jump on it now. Go on Reddit subs or look up decent YouTube channels to research how to lift and build. | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 02:02 AM |
| 2 | You guys need to stop putting women and sex above your values, self respect and goals.I said don't put women above you, your goals and your values. I didn't say make NO time for women. When you tell a girl that you first need to go to the gym after a girl asks you to hang out, then you've made it. No pussy is worth sacrificing what really matter. If you feel you're not being respected by a girl, drop her like you don't care, because you shouldn't care. We don't care for people who aren't decent. Asking for nudes over the phone is weak as fuck. And texting a girl that ghosted you … | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 01:13 AM |
| 3 | You guys need to stop putting women and sex above your values, self respect and goals.Mindset breeds action. Action breeds Attraction. It is an action to not drool over women. It is an action to not care about validation. | /r/seduction | 24/03/20 04:02 PM |
| 13 | **One Key Step To Not Giving a Fuck (Sidebar Post)**I personally haven't been friend zoned in a long time, but my strategy if I feel like dealing with girls bullshit for a lay, is to treat them like I don't care to be emotionally open or in any relationship ever, Because frankly, I actually don't trust nor see a benefit to do so. For some reason, this causes all men and women to be drawn to you more and respect you, even works when making friends. I guess it shows a high level of control in a person and that in itself is attractive to be around. … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/20 05:54 AM |
| 3 | **One Key Step To Not Giving a Fuck (Sidebar Post)**Yes, this is something that should be taught to everyone growing up. To add to that, it's important to not give a fuck about anyone that isn't your family or people you trust. In other words, the only women you should sacrifice your well being for is your family that you love. The moment you become dependant on someone else that isn't family puts pressure on them and encourages them to leave. The world is cruel, and has no sympathy for emotional people. It could win you the lottery one day, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/20 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Men and Women are desperate for validation and sex, so stop chasing those and you'll become more attractive.After the two of you have established a comfortable sexual connection already, yes, it can be good. But in the early stages, it's a great way to look desperate. | /r/seduction | 21/03/20 01:39 AM |
| 2 | YOU FEEL CHEATED? LOL I'm done. Bro... I don't mean to be an asshole, but stop being a punk, grab your nutsack and move on. You clearly have no confidence if you think there's no other women to move on to. | /r/seduction | 20/03/20 11:09 PM |
| 0 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI don't mean to judge, but you sound desperate. Who cares if she looks hot? You'll undoubtedly see more through out your life. If it's not meant to be, then it's not meant to be. If you really want to, say hi, introduce yourself, and see if it works. She'll either make it easy for you, because she likes you, or she'll make it hard for you because she doesn't. But do know that looks matter with cold aggressive approaches, so if you're unattractive, it will almost always fail. | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 03:13 AM |
| 0 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI don't approach strangers because it always feels forced and needy and like I'm looking for sex. Let conversation happen naturally with no expectations and small talk with strangers, in my opinion. If I'm near someone, male or female, I might chat, I might not. Sex is not what should be a priority when meeting people. It's a turn off. Go to a bar with friends, and see what happen. Going up to a girl to clearly hit on her doesn't work very often unless she's low value who doesn't get attention a… | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 02:51 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Healthy women | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenDo things that build confidence in yourself. Get in shape. Find your style. with your fashion and hair. And have a goal or two that would improve your life with a career and hobby These things give people feelings of value. Once you feel good about yourself, take some friends and start going out doing things in social events. Bars, clubs hobbies, parks. You know, just throw yourself around people as much as possible. | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenThat literally just takes repeated practice until you get better. Just like a sport and anything with a skill. The more you do it, the more you learn and the less anxiety you feel. | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenThat's not what I'm saying. Lots of people keep thinking that I'm saying men have no right to accept or reject. I don't know where that's coming from. Think of it this way. You're a boat going to islands, and women chose which boat they want to get on. You notice they keep picking quality boats, and hop off when your boat loses quality or finds a better boat. You can kick her off your boat anytime you want. | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenA lot of suggestions, yes , but what is the goal? Simply get laid by anyone, get more attention from anyone, a relationship with anyone, or any of those from only guys you find hot? Because depending on the goal, the path may be different. | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI do. You're gonna have to do some self improvement and do what it takes to learn. Practice makes perfect. Self improvement is for everybody. Google how to let's a guy know you're interested, and try them | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenThat is definitely a you problem how is any guy going to know until you make it clear? | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenPushing her over the edge? Being the one most eager sounds like a good way to be chosen last. No girl wants a desperate guy fighting for her attention. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI re-explained in my post what that means. Also, I'm not fat. Definitely American though. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenIt's not difficult for you and I, but for many, they think this is a power move to get laid. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI have absolutely no idea where you got that. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenThat's fine. It's your opinion. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenIf you're a high value male, women have choose that you're a high value male. Make sense? Your friends case is rare. Definitely not common, and probably way more complex that the way you described. With the 3 high value males competing, the HVW is the judge, so she still chooses, and not other way around. It's 3 guys fighting for 1 female. 2 will lose. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenAt different points. Most men can decide pretty quick who they'll have sex without even meeting a girl. The few men that don't are rare and very high value. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenYes, I agree, but you either try something to become more attractive, or you step away from spending time and money on dating. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 09:23 PM |
| 0 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenSo then, women CHOOSE to date "top 20" which means you have to improve. You're saying exactly what I'm saying. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenImprove yourself and fight the system, or give up and learn to live without dating/sex. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 09:19 PM |
| 0 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenPretty rude there with the labels. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 09:19 PM |
| 0 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenDon't think you used "simp" correctly. I don't roll over on my back for women's attention. Men and women always choose the best prospect. It's part of being human. We seek good genes and comfortable lives. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 09:17 PM |
| 0 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI don't follow. Hookers risk pregnancy all the time. They do it in exchange for money. Not the same as dating. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenThe opinion is your own. After all, this sub is all opinions. May the best one work. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI think you misunderstood. I edited my post. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI had to edit my post because a lot of people are confused/miss understanding | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 09:11 PM |
| -1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenwow, ok. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 06:11 AM |
| -1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI'm not unaware that looks okay a big part. But let's die trying. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 06:10 AM |
| -1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenOK fine. You think whatever you want think of me, I don't care. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 05:38 AM |
| 0 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI'm not here how to tell you to get endless sex... I'm here to tell people how to get dates at all. The number of partners is more corresponding to overall attractiveness. I'm not super hot, nor am I even on a position to even date at all right now, but there is plenty of bad advise that's keeping men lonely on this subreddit. Let's not compare dick sizes. Thats not the point of this post | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenBoth parties get to choose, but at different circumstances. Because men chase so hard, women have the say who gets to move further. You can chase men. The only men that pull that shit are doing it because all these idiots on the internet are telling them to do that when a girl chases them. It's pure insecurity that these guys do that. We all get ghosted. It's a defense tactic for punk and losers who have no confidence in solving adult problems. Maybe they are busy. So what? If they are, try agai… | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenRealtor and server | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 04:33 AM |
| 0 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI agree. It's not 100 percent proof, however, something magical happened to me. I met 2 best friends who started in the same place as me, and all three of us grew and learned together. The way we approach it has been very positive and rewarding. Admittedly, because I made a costly mistake, they're success is far better than mine. In the last 2 years, between the two of them, they have been with over 45 women in bed, and one finally landed his first Girlfriend after months of working on himself a… | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenHigh value male. Sorry, it's a bad habit. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI understand what you're saying, but I started and ended in the most savage dating arena in the world - bars and clubs. This culture undoubtedly gave me more experience and understanding of the human condition than people who don't frequently participate in this lifestyle. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 03:21 AM |
| 0 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI wouldn't say this is as common as you make it out to be. Young girls who don't know better might "swing", but I'm certain that a HVM is usually the one to end things with the girl for someone better. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenYea, you're allowed to chase women. Won't land you much sense chasing means putting them on a pedestal, even if you don't mean to. I like to call it, "talking to women like they're another human with human emotions." | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenOK? | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 03:04 AM |
| -1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenYes, Indeed. I'm not sure what point your trying to convey. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenBefore I had fucked up with driving under the influence and nearly going bankrupt (all my fault), in an 11 month window, I slept with 5 quality girls and made out with around 23 at the bars/clubs. (Some girls just like to kiss around). I started getting interested in women very late, and had a lot of catching up and learning to do. But I learned quick. These days, I'm always chased by women I'm not interested in. (That's fine). | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenPerhaps I'm coming across too certainly, but I'm confident in my opinion. Man can chose, yes of course, but let's be realistic here, women are choosing way more than men are. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 02:39 AM |
| -7 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenThat's rape. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenIt's logistics. Men can hurt women. Women can get pregnant. Men also have a hard time not sending dick pictures. This power dynamic means that women is who we gotta impress more often the the other way around. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI'm not saying men can't say no. It's self respecting to be just as critical as women are, BUT we certainly (in actual practice) aren't the ones being the chased. Men are doing the chasing, and have a hard time knowing when to stop. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenMy perspective came from the fact that women have more to risk, and are a more picky about picking partners naturally. But yes, the world is gray. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:59 AM |
| 0 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenYou only have a choice in a girl who has chose YOU. Takes two to tango. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:53 AM |
| 40 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenAgreed | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI agree. And us men have every right to say no, even after a woman has said yes. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:47 AM |
| 11 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenCorrect. You've rewrote my message. However, trying to get with the best women without doing anything to be someone she wants, and expecting a different result is insane, right? It takes 2 people to consent. Not one. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:43 AM |
| 6 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI believe you didn't understand message. Allow me to re-explain. I believe "game" is a fake manipulation tactic that loser men made up to compensate the lack of being a normal attractive person to begin with. So I agree, just be yourself, but the best version of yourself. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:39 AM |
| 9 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI've been with a hand full of attractive women, but most attention I get is from women I'm not into. If I were to want more high quality women, the solution would be for me to become a higher quality man. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:36 AM |
| 87 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenLiterally exactly how it pans out. A look at all the relationship and dating subs proves this exactly. It takes time for women to want a relationship, but when she's ready, it's usually the guy that hold the power of sticking around as the provider in being a loyal partner. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:29 AM |
| -3 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI'm fighting the wrong advise that you gotta be pushy and try harder with "game". I think that's insane. But history has treated people with different ideas even if they we're right just because it wasn't the normal. I think self improvement is the solution to everything including dating. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenPerhaps I read your comment wrong. I apologise. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:25 AM |
| 5 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI've been open to discussion and have been discussing. Am I sounding like a dick? Yea a little. Maybe because many men in here believe and spread stupid advise everyday that makes us men look absolutely terrible in the dating market. All this "you gotta push, you gotta act like she's worthless" It's insecure and sad. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:23 AM |
| 16 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenChump? Or perhaps considerate and respectful? If you yourself don't do things a 10 is looking for, why the hell would to waste your time? Go to the gym first, find yourself first. Improve and be the best FIRST before you chase "10s." Dating is simple. People match with people who match them with quality. I shouldn't have to explain that, but the culture of love and sex proves that everyday. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI don't even think drunk insecure girls find it hot. Ha | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:15 AM |
| -1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenYou'll know after the first sentence of speaking to a person if she's into you. No need to force a kiss to find out. That's sexual assault, and very bad for your reputation. But I see what you're saying mostly agree | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenIndeed. Something that people keep advising other men to do. It's gotta stop. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenExcept I'm not unsuccessful? Literally everyday, I get a lot of attention. But because I have self respect, I don't have sex/ date anyone that asks me. I only date women I'm attracted to and feel respect for. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 12:55 AM |
| -2 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenMy experience and observation has proven that wrong. If you learn the language of how women communicate interest, you'll understand when it's a go, or when it's a no. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 12:55 AM |
| 14 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenA girl makes it known to you within 10 seconds if she's likes you and can change her mind at any point. Being first to break ice is fine, but having expectations is the downfall of men. As soon as she gives you signs she's unsure, it's over. Time to move on. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 12:53 AM |
| 7 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenThe decision for the guy she picked came way before you. If you're not that guy, you'll know it immediately. Do not push. It's beta and desperate. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 12:50 AM |
| 0 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenThe gender dynamics support it, as well as on the Field. Women have more to risk, men don't. That's why it's not up to us first. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 12:46 AM |
| -1 | Is Dating Fatigue a part of the seduction game?It's only fatigue when you suck at it. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 12:09 AM |
| 27 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenYes, AFTER she gives you the go ahead. You really think you can just walk up to a loyal HVW whose a 10 with a BF that undoubtedly better than you and expect to fuck? (First off, don't be that guy, it's sad) | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | How can you use money to attract women?lol. Unreal. Dude. My man. My dear friend. Please, for the love of you, stop being petty about yourself. The only sex you'll get is from hookers in Asia. No girl wants you inside her with an attitude like this. I mean, I can't believe people like you are real. And there's so many of you. Do you give your money to e-girls? Like shit man... Use that money for diet and gym. A dental appointment. A good doctor. Fashion and tailoring. Hair and skin products. The whole thing. You're being a punk ass, … | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 12:04 AM |
| 0 | My improved posture has completely changed how men and women treat me in one dayYea OK, whatever. I don't need you to tell me your useless opinion, especially when I'm already on the road to gaining lean weight. You're telling me your useless view point about me only because you're insecure. There's literally no other reason. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 11:59 PM |
| 0 | Rant: Getting catfished by guys!Two things: it's because they're nervous (so stop judging so harshly) Or You're quite disappointing yourself in person. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Need Advice - a few days ago I made out with a girl at a party and I want to hang w her again, but in a private setting.Just be normal bro. Don't be desperate for sex. She'll ghost your ass if she feels like you can't control yourself. Just chat and chill out | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 11:44 PM |
| 1 | How can you use money to attract women?Why give her money AT ALL? The hell is wrong with you? Because you're scared of being competitive? If you're scare of that, how you gonna be rich? Money making is the most competitive thing on this planet. I'll tell you right now, you'll never take a women to pound town with this plan. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 11:26 PM |
| 3 | How can you use money to attract women?This post is a meme. If you suck at something, take time to learn to get better. Buying your way to sex will put you in simp territory. You know what? Nevermind. I'm overwhelmed by the number of unbelievably weak, low value men that do this type of shit. The large numbers of your kind make it easier for the rest of us to get laid because the bar is set so low. You really think for a second a girl is going to fuck you just because you roll up in a nice car? Seriously? Where's your self-respect? W… | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 11:02 PM |
| 1 | My improved posture has completely changed how men and women treat me in one dayApparently doesn't stop me from getting laid every once in a while. Also, I used to weight 134. I've put on 30 pounds, and have been continuously gaining month by month. How about you stop talking shit and fix your insecurity. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 08:08 PM |
| 1 | My improved posture has completely changed how men and women treat me in one dayMy BMI is normal. Not sure how I would look like I'm starving. Skinny? Yes. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 02:23 PM |
| 6 | Do you consider to have sex with someone even you're not physical attracted?I haven't gotten laid in a year and 3 months because I refuse to torture myself having sex with someone I find unattractive. By now, I could have slept with dozens. The obese women try their luck with me all the time, and I put zero effort. I really wish I attracted higher quality girls, but I'm sure it's because I'm not the highest quality guy. Only the very best looking are pulling attractive girls with no effort. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 09:18 AM |
| 1 | My improved posture has completely changed how men and women treat me in one dayChin up, chest up, shoulders back. Nothing to it | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 09:13 AM |
| -4 | My improved posture has completely changed how men and women treat me in one dayMy name is Chris. Not Chad. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 09:12 AM |
| -3 | My improved posture has completely changed how men and women treat me in one dayNot that simple. Obviously it's a collection of many things, but for me, it made a big difference, incel boy. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 09:10 AM |
| 1 | My improved posture has completely changed how men and women treat me in one dayI'm not good at actually talking to girls though. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 05:46 AM |
| 0 | My improved posture has completely changed how men and women treat me in one dayI did get checkout for sure. Just now as frequently | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 01:34 AM |
| 0 | My improved posture has completely changed how men and women treat me in one dayYea, this is some kind of magic. People view you so different depending how to stand/sit/walk | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Were can I fuck this chickWorth it. Look them in the eye when you do it. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 01:03 AM |
| 25 | What are some sexual things you can say to a woman during a cold approach that are not directly explicit but are suggestive and could have a sexual meaning?"put it in my butt" | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Were can I fuck this chickLol this was funny to me. Fuck in front of parents to show dominance. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 01:00 AM |
| 2 | My improved posture has completely changed how men and women treat me in one dayI think it makes a huge difference. I definitely think I look far more attractive with my chest up, back straight and chin never looking down when I'm talking/walking. | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 12:18 AM |
| 0 | My improved posture has completely changed how men and women treat me in one dayMy picture is my profile pic. Maybe it's all just lucky timing | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 12:12 AM |
| -6 | My improved posture has completely changed how men and women treat me in one day? | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 08:12 PM |
| 1 | I quit dating and will be rejecting all advances from women for a long while.How is taking a break to work on myself a victim mentality? Especially when everyone else is young and stupid right now? I simply am not happy chasing women for a lay, nor is it good for my current goals. | /r/seduction | 14/03/20 05:01 AM |
| 0 | I quit dating and will be rejecting all advances from women for a long while.And this is my ONE life. I value it a lot. | /r/seduction | 14/03/20 04:54 AM |
| 0 | I quit dating and will be rejecting all advances from women for a long while.Not sure what positive changes you're suggesting. Oh thing you've said is that "it's me". | /r/seduction | 14/03/20 02:43 AM |
| 1 | I quit dating and will be rejecting all advances from women for a long while.Perhaps? Not always something I can control. Based on the internet, women usually say "there was no chemistry" or they "found another guy" Been told that second one before. | /r/seduction | 14/03/20 12:33 AM |
| -1 | I quit dating and will be rejecting all advances from women for a long while.Yea, and none of them stick around long enough anyway, so your solution only sounds good on paper. Are you in a relationship? | /r/seduction | 13/03/20 11:41 PM |
| 0 | I quit dating and will be rejecting all advances from women for a long while.I thought I met a girl that had potential to be that person a few days ago. She's asked for my number, texted me she wanted to go out, but out of NOWHERE, she's ghosts me 2 days ago. It made me think she just wanted to see if I'd say yes instead of actually being interested in me. Never again. | /r/seduction | 13/03/20 11:02 PM |
| 1 | You guys rock!I know you said ignore your post history, but wowie. Pretty mint. | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Just witnessed a 29yo hot girl begging a 18yo guy for his number and it made me question lots of thingsSounds similar to the women on my Facebook desperate for validation because they don't get much of it. Props to that guy. That girls ego was hurting | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 09:04 AM |
| 3 | This is how bars really workIf only you knew where I started. | /r/seduction | 28/02/20 10:48 PM |
| 1 | My tip when going for a first kiss (been successful with it recently)I usually say " I really wanna kiss you" and they jump at the idea. | /r/seduction | 28/02/20 07:50 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workSwitch bars at least. I'll tell you right now, women in this life are Savage. They see this shit, they'll grill you. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 09:43 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workOk then, why are you here? | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 09:33 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workYou do, just got get leaner. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workTry next day. Girl hopping is noticed by everyone in the bar. It's needy. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 08:58 PM |
| 0 | This is how bars really workObviously, there more to detail out, but it's the basics because based on this sub, it's needed. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 08:24 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workRight... Okay then, move along. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 08:20 PM |
| -1 | This is how bars really workGirls say they want to be "friends" first so they can get to know you before they make the big decision of they want to date/sleep with you. Girls go to bars for many reasons, sometimes for family, celebrating, with their BF, friends night out or because they're single. The real world isn't back and white. You should actually step in bars once in a while. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 07:33 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workYou went from "it never works" to "it might have worked for you". | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 07:30 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workI say lean, because it shows off your jawline, and also the V-shape of the male body. It's not a buzzkill for women to have a high fat percent, but at some point, it can get too high and sit terrible on a person. I'd definitely fight to stay at 10 -.12 percent body fat if you could. 8 is perfect for me. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 07:11 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workI have absolutely no idea how you don't find this decent advise? Care to enlighten me a bit? | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 06:50 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workOk, well me giving "bitch" advice actually worked for me and my friends. Let me give you context. In 11 months, we slept and made out with over 50 woman between the three of us. (Some girls just want a good kiss). Being a normal decent attractive human being works. Become a better person, or don't. I don't care. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 06:46 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workBecause the fact that she biologically has higher risk than a man. Also, if she decides, I can than decide not to if I don't want to. Either way, she has the first right of way. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workWhat's your problem? | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workWomen are humans just like men. What you're saying is to keep doing things the out dated old ways. I see no reason to do that, just like I see no reason why a woman was judged for expressing sexual interest in a man and making the first move 20 years ago. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workIn short, become a regular at a couple bars. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workI'm in a decently large city in the states. 3 big University. Average age is like 31 or something like that.the general people are great. It's the American southern niceness mixed with a growing city. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 06:23 PM |
| -1 | This is how bars really workBeing decent helps people feel comfortable with you, which makes it easier for a woman to feel attraction for a guy. It absolutely helps. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 06:21 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workI think tinder doesn't give me enough to work with for first impression. Looks hails absolute king, and you absolutely need professional photos to stand out. I've done this, and while I saw a huge improvement on matches, and quality of girls, it was impossible reading their personalities and expressing mine through texting. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workYour comment is false. I've had success, especially if she feels comfortable with you. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 06:17 PM |
| 4 | This is how bars really workI've given a girl my number with success. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. If you make her feel comfortable, she'll text you first. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 06:14 PM |
| 2 | This is how bars really workGirls notice when you girl hop, which seriously damages your reputation. That's why I said that. However, maybe you pull it off in a way that doesn't make you look like a desperate player? | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workIf you believe that, then place yourself in a high league through improvement. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 06:09 PM |
| 3 | This is how bars really workI see short guys with hotties Everytime I go out. Keep working on the best version of you. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 06:07 PM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workI chose a bar, and become a regular. At max, I drink 2 beers and dip out back home after. I talk to everyone. Eventually, a girl finds me. If it works, it works. If it doesn't? I had plans anyway. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Any tips on nightgame as a introvert?It actually could be considered as a mega weapon on how effective it is. I mean, even I melt when I smell something good on a woman. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 09:08 AM |
| 0 | This is how bars really workHe's not even close to capable of making believe I'm a "loser". | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 08:16 AM |
| 3 | This is how bars really workI can tell you have some experience in this practice. I agree. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 08:07 AM |
| 1 | This is how bars really workWhat else you want me to say? | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 07:46 AM |
| 4 | This is how bars really workThe Scale is useless to me. Your 10/10 girl won't be my 10/10 girl. With that said, looks matter, but you have more control of it than you think. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Record of first time clubbing alone!Sorry to hurt your business. But dating isn't complicated. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 07:11 AM |
| 0 | This is how bars really workInteresting. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 05:49 AM |
| 6 | This is how bars really workNo problem. I was inspired by all the unusual "advice" I was reading in here. I can see why men are confused. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 05:30 AM |
| 7 | This is how bars really workCorrect. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Record of first time clubbing alone!Last time I was active in the life style, and open to dating, slept with 5 and made out with maybe 17 (some girls just want a good kiss) in a 11month window, using the method I call "being normal". All other methods I tried before I grew the fuck up failed. I've been inactive for the last year and 3 months as I have took a break from dating and going out. (It's expensive) | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Record of first time clubbing alone!I speak from experience that cold approaching pits women in an uncomfortable position because she knows absolutely nothing about who you are. It does not work. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 04:43 AM |
| 5 | This is how bars really workHas everything to do with what you said. Literally. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Record of first time clubbing alone!How many women have you been with after directly saying "I find you attractive and want to ask for a date?" All my success has been the method I suggested to OP. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 04:36 AM |
| 6 | This is how bars really workIf they doesn't give you her number, it means she doesn't like you. As whitmoww said, social media is used for her to escape you having her number. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 04:31 AM |
| 9 | This is how bars really workYea, that will end poorly for you. Good graces from women is very valuable in nightlife. Being pushy will not give good graces. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 04:28 AM |
| -1 | This is how bars really workK | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 04:25 AM |
| 12 | This is how bars really workNever push for anything. That is disrespectful. Read what whitmoww said as well. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 04:21 AM |
| -2 | This is how bars really workDon't care. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 04:16 AM |
| 7 | This is how bars really workI personally don't have a Snapchat, and very much hate it. In my opinion, it could be a trap for advertising premium. But it's up to you. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 04:16 AM |
| 31 | This is how bars really workI disagree. She has to prove to you that she's worthy of you asking for her number as well. We don't chase women who are red flags. (Self respect) But I knew what you meant. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 04:08 AM |
| 2 | I keep going for the “bad girls” and coming just shortGenerally, yes. Girls give subtle cues and hints when they are interested, which is up to you to learn when they happen. Example: the two of you gaze eyes across the bar, and a little later you notice she has repositioned herself closer to you in the hopes you will say something to her. (This actually happened to me last weekend) If this is not happening, you got work to do on yourself. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 03:59 AM |
| 2 | I keep going for the “bad girls” and coming just shortBecome sexy yourself. And stop getting in line like all the other men begging for attention. You need self respect, OP. These girls aren't gods. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Ability to pull women declined- how do you all feel about a FWB with someone you're not super attracted to?That's a RIP. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 03:36 AM |
| 3 | Any tips on nightgame as a introvert?I'm very experienced with the bar, and I won't bullshit you here on any of it. This is complex stuff. Pay attention now. For context, I'm an attractive 6'4 27 YO male. I'll try to make this short. Find a bar, become a regular. Don't be desperate, don't be shitty. Get a body that women actually want to fuck though diet and gym. Tailor all your clothes to fit you like a perfect glove. Find your scent to wear to smell good. Get rid of beard, or make it super nice and we'll kept. Same with hair. Wom… | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 02:58 AM |
| 17 | [deleted by user]It's not a shit test. She's really has a BF, or she's lying because she's scared what you'll say/do if she just say NO. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Ability to pull women declined- how do you all feel about a FWB with someone you're not super attracted to?Fucking a girl I'm not into sacrifices self-respect. You got some redemption to do, in my opinion. Also, move out of the small town. They're known to be shitty/boring places to live | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 02:07 AM |
| 0 | Record of first time clubbing alone!I have a lot of experience with this. First off, go to a bar alone, not a club. Second, don't hit on women. They know what you're up to. You'll get brutally rejected Everytime. It's best to become a regular at a decent bar and let women meet and talk to you naturally. That, ironically, turns them on sexually when you don't push a conversation to a sexual one. Yours welcome. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 02:01 AM |
| 1 | I 28F noticed that when it comes to no strings attached, I tend to have no problem but when men want more(like relationships or love), I close off subconsciously.He had a GF, but you made out anyway, but wouldn't give your number because of his gf? This dude is retarded, and you're definitely a future problem. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 01:54 AM |
| 1 | 19m, trouble not doing dumb shit around girl I'm seeingSounds like you care too much what people think and feel about you, especially when she challenges you. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 01:50 AM |
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