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| 131 | [deleted by user]That was me, you can DM me your number joking | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 07:24 AM |
| 2 | Life is so unfairPretty sure when you’re a billionaire bald or not your status signals so much social value it out ways just about anything else | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 11:51 AM |
| 2 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?Hey brother I know what it's like to feel like life isn't fair, like you got fucked over by life. I used to be addicted to stimulants/acid/benzos; I abused them so much my parents basically stopped supporting me in any way and kicked me out. I couldn't support myself so I was homeless. After a while homeless drug use got bad enough and I called my mom up and said please, look at me. I can't figure this out on my own. I begged for help and she said she would pay up to 800$/mo for my rent in a sob… | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 01:45 AM |
| 3 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?If a fact is true of 1 in every 3 people, then that fact being true about you is really not very odd at all. Roughly 1 in 6 man around your age are still virgins. In any case, we could argue over details all day long. Let me cut straight to the chase. One of your primary problems right now is your fixation on how bad you have it, how inadequate you and your life are. You have these external facts which are true of you're life that you are not very fond of. You can accept those facts as they are,… | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 03:02 PM |
| 4 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?Using tinder to fuck 2 average looking girls is not progress, its depressing. Anyone and their mother can do that, and I bet with a lot more success than my stupid ass Listen brother, just being straight with you this attitude is trash. Nobody wants to hang out with a guy who complains about his life all the time and doesn't do anything to change it. I've always been a pussy when it comes to this stuff, how am I gonna change that overnight just because everyone here says otherwise? You won't do … | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 02:30 PM |
| 2 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?I'll tell you how I started. A friend told me to go out with him, and get rejected ten times. "What?! You want me to get rejected?? Ten times?!" What a great friend and idea. I think I'm going to try out making this my goal. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 02:16 PM |
| 2 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?You will eventually find a damn girlfriend and shit and all of this won't matter cause fucking will be your new normal and you'll find the next thing to worry about or in which you're not as good as the 5 people in your family This is truth. People can be quite happy in lives other people would find quite unacceptable, and other people can be profoundly miserable living lives most people can only dream of. The lesson is if you have this negative thought pattern, this habit of comparing yourself … | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 02:12 PM |
| 2 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?You have not missed best years of your life. This is truth. Anybody who thinks the best years of their lives were when they were a teenager... when they were in high school... has deeply failed in life as an adult. Men's lives often peak in their 30's and 40's, especially if they are on good path of professional develop / good career path. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 02:09 PM |
| 2 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?It is odd for guys our age to get no action This is simply not true. At least 30% of men aged 18-24 have not had sex in the past year: https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2767066 especially if we take care of ourselves, and especially if you are actively approaching them and are confident in yourself Honestly though, are you actually doing this? Just being blunt, based on this post you certainly aren't doing the 'confident in yourself' part. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 02:07 PM |
| 1 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?Compare myself to myself from the past? I was a kissless awkward virgin. Now I'm a awkward guy whose had sex twice through unnatural circumstances and not once through my own efforts. That's progress brother, pat yourself on the back for the small steps you've taken and work on the following steps you want to take. I imagine you only tend to compare yourself to people you feel have it better than you - interesting isn't it? There are plenty of 20yo virgins; hell I was a virgin until I was 23. Pl… | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 02:04 PM |
| 3 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?Well put; Comparing yourself to others is in contrast to comparing yourself to the future you that you would like to become. It's mental energy not devoted to the question of what do I want to improve and how do I go about improving it. It also lowers self worth and motivation, thus it makes you less likely to actually do anything about the situation which you find so undesirable. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 01:55 PM |
| 1 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?Why wouldn't I compare myself to them though? Because quite simply this is a mental experience that has no utility for you. Comparing yourself to others makes you feel worse about yourself and it lowers your self worth. Thus it also makes you less likely to actually do anything about the situation you dislike. You can choose to focus on ruminating on how bad you have it and how much better everyone else has it, or you can choose to focus on what things you would like to change/improve about your… | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 01:52 PM |
| 3 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?I don't think there anything inherently wrong with still living with your parents. It depends on why you are there. If you're working on a degree, or working a job, saving money for a house, i.e. you're professional development is on track but it's a voluntary financial decision, I don't think girls interpret that negatively. It's when you're still living at home with your parents because you're not really moving in any direction in life, aren't pursuing anything, can't support yourself or affor… | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 01:48 PM |
| 1 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?Are you sure your problem is struggling with girls? It sounds like your primary problem is developing emotional connections to other humans i.e. making friends at all. I would consider making an active effort to put yourself out there in social situations and trying to make friends. If you're going to university, join clubs and go to their events. Make friends, hang out, get to know each other. If you do this there will naturally be girls via your friend group you will come into contact with. I … | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 01:43 PM |
| 12 | Why women hate needy menWhat about the value signal that being needy sends? You can afford not to be needy if you’re desirable. Neediness is interpreted as a social signal of low mate value. | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 09:29 PM |
| 2 | A Rant from a girl: Why it isn’t working for you…Well written, couldn't agree more. I appreciate working out what's actually wrong with this posters advice, instead of just personally insulting the poster. Even if wrong they had good intentions, so no reason to be a dick like some in here. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 08:22 PM |
| 4 | A Rant from a girl: Why it isn’t working for you…One does not have to be Buddha to have philosophical insight. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Lets be friendsMove on and try again. Once in the friendzone it's unlikely you'll get out. Try to make your intentions more clear from the beginning. Don't just hangout, ask them out. On a date. | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Depressed because I feel like I'm missing out on fun with women at an early age.I wouldn't recommend starting out as friends; you should make your intentions clear from the beginning. That tends to land you in the friend zone much more than it ends in you hooking up. | /r/seduction | 31/12/16 09:21 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Tonight, I went out for the first time and got rejected 10+ times.I think you should congratulate yourself; this is a difficult step to get through in your process towards meeting girls, but it is a necessary step. Almost no one is a success right away, and the initial low success rate is a tough thing to deal with, but almost everyone who is successful with girls now had a beginning where they were terrible. | /r/seduction | 31/12/16 09:16 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Tonight, I went out for the first time and got rejected 10+ times.The pleasure you're going to get from some girls has value to you and he can offer that same value to them. | /r/seduction | 31/12/16 09:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Tonight, I went out for the first time and got rejected 10+ times.Surely there is some value; the pleasure you're going to get from some girls has value to you and he can offer that same value to them. | /r/seduction | 31/12/16 09:11 PM |
| 4 | How to get good at sex?Personally if I go a week without masturbating and then hook up, I'm going to last 30 seconds. I usually jerk off right before the date, helps me last a lot longer and doesn't seem to take any wind out of my sails. | /r/seduction | 31/12/16 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Girls hit meWe don't actually know why they're hitting you, you haven't given us any examples. It could be this, or it could be you're a dick and deserve it. Can you give us some examples? If it is the latter, wouldn't you want to know so you can change it? | /r/seduction | 18/04/16 05:52 PM |
| 26 | Girls hit meCame here to say this. I don't know anyone who's been hit or slapped by a girl where at least one of two things wasn't true: Guy's a dick Girl's fucking crazy | /r/seduction | 18/04/16 12:50 AM |
| 1 | The Complete FAQ for Game Denialists, Only Looks Matter, and "It Doesn't Work for Me" GuysMy question; If you purposefully change your behavior in order to get something you want from someone(sex), how is this different from manipulation? I know that largely the women approached with these techniques are playing their own game, whether they know it or not(ex hard to get), so it's in some sense mutually understood. My real issue is that pretending to be anyone other than yourself is a horrible way to find a woman you care about, but if you're just looking to get laid who cares. So can… | /r/seduction | 20/12/15 02:19 AM |
| -9 | Why alpha widowed women should be avoided like typhoid: they simply cannot be...This community needs a healthy dose of science to replace it's speculation and conjecture. I will try to do that for this post: Why do you assume the past men were alpha? She only said two things; that they were assholes and that sex was better. For women the pleasure of sex has a lot more to do with emotional bonds than physical stimulation. In men it is literally a spinal reflex, this is why paraplegics can still ejaculate. Roughly half of all women(depending on age, >% orgasm via sex at older… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 06:33 AM |
| -8 | Why alpha widowed women should be avoided like typhoid: they simply cannot be...Asshole with big dick = alpha? That's the problem with this entire community. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 06:13 AM |
| 2 | The Psychology Of Alpha...Great response. I see it all the time; I like to call it mental or intellectual masterbation. You're basically conjuring up thoughts that make you feel good instead of taking action. People who talk about not giving a fuck clearly give a fuck or they wouldn't need you to know that they don't give a fuck. It's like the myriad of lies the overweight person tells themselves to allow them self to continue the destructive behavior. "I'm waiting a week until near years to make my diet change." No you'… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/15 04:55 AM |
| 2 | The Psychology Of Alpha...I never understood people who claim to not give a fuck. If you truly don't give a fuck about what people think of you you are consciously trying to impersonate a psychopath. Also it seems like a contradiction to try to not care - you obviously care or you wouldn't be trying. The people who really don't give a fuck don't go around telling people they don't give a fuck. Edit: It seems you addressed this in the end of the post which I hadn't read when I wrote the above. To me it seems to be more ab… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/15 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Carousel rider lies to her husband about her history, gets busted after marriageThis is such an odd psychological story. First off why does her English suck a bag of dicks if she's American born? Overbearing Indian parents cause anxiety disorder then she goes into college sheltered. Bad emotional feelings from an anxiety disorder and strict childhood cause her to experiment enjoy drugs/sex. Mood and emotional affect get even worse as her anxious mind deals with the conflict of her sex/drug use and her parents + culture. Unable to find someone whom she would like to marry he… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 05:51 PM |
| 11 | Carousel rider lies to her husband about her history, gets busted after marriageThis part really seems like she left a lot of information out, probably because it makes her look worse. I had a fair bit of casual sex, drank alcohol, went to parties. In particular there was a group of guys that I used to go to parties with. The thing was a lot of times, if things didn’t work out they would pressure me to have sex with them. I would sometimes do it. One time they offered me a ride to the airport and then on the way there they told me to give them a blow job or they would leave… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 05:48 PM |
| 4 | Decent looking guy picks up model - smile technique (thoughts?)The girl has issues and for that reason messing with someone who needs therapy might be questionable morally.... but I found it hilarious. | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 04:00 AM |
| 50 | To those who do well on Tinder: Please share your pictures with us.One thing I notice immediately is that you're doing something fun/exciting in your pictures. | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 04:48 PM |
| 17 | John Cooper - How to deal with shit testsI lost it when he said Girl: "Where are you posting this?" John: "Dickuparse.com" | /r/seduction | 03/11/13 07:41 PM |
| 5 | [FR] week 3. Progress. first F-close from cold approachI don't know if you read his write-up, but his actions got him laid in spite of the girl being more attracted to his better looking friend. | /r/seduction | 14/10/13 03:34 AM |
| 1 | So you want to improve yourself... Here are a few tips that I found help me feel better about myself.Thank you for this. | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 05:51 PM |
| 13 | Is it possible to make a friend a fuckbuddy?It's Bill Clinton's sort of life philosophy. | /r/seduction | 18/02/12 06:45 AM |
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