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| 1 | Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same?This election isn't really a good one to judge conservative/liberal for the most part. Trumps biggest voting block, when broken down by being politically informed, was the non-politically informed voter and that leaned more towards democrats. By far the #1 issue in America was "the economy" aka: shit is too expensive for my earning power. Low information voters just assumed Biden turned up the inflation dial for no reason and Trump (Mr "concepts of a plan") essentially said he would turn that do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Budget Macros | Affordable & Healthy Food for LiftingWhere are you finding such bulk oats? My local big box stores have 2 packs of oats (64 Oz I think, essentially 2 paper tubs) but that is it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/25 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".If it is not happening, how do you explain the rapid decline in relationship, marriage, The internet and other technological advances have given people more distractions and created an environment where people socialize less. and child birth rates? Developed nations have the mega wealthy absorbing all the wealth while providing little benefit in return. As a result people have less money to raise children. For example if you compare wealth distribution from the 1970's to now, the average worker … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".If you think that is happening in the real world, then you probably aren't in the real world. Yes there is idiot pockets all over the internet that do "kill all men" but if you think that is the real world that is your problem not a problem in the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 02:31 AM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".The entire messaging and rhetoric of the “progressive” movement is what does the “yelling” Pure fantasy. Man, how don’t my fellow people on the left see this? Probably because they don't watch the right wing grift-o-sphere that takes advantage of rubes. It wasn’t the right that coined phrases like “mansplaining” and “male fragility” and the like. No but they did make phrases like "boys will be boys" and "locker room talk." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".Andrew Tate isn't causing young men to become "radicals" (citation needed bytheway), society's mistreatment of men has produced an audience that finds Tate appealing. Tate appeals to loners that want to make lots of money and fuck hot women without actually doing the things that it takes to do those things. And like most grifters Tate offers them an easy way to do that. He won't openly say it's easy but offers something that seems easy but frame it as "this is the hustle real men have to do." Gr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 06:13 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".Young men are being told that progressives are pushing them out by conservatives looking to take advantage of them. Sure there are blog posts and whatnot talking about how all men are evil by some random feminists. But if any men went to some sort of actual sort of social collective(like volunteer to help raise funds for preventing domestic violence) they aren't going to be yelled at. The whole "men walk into a progressive space and they get yelled at by women" shit is strawman crap. The "rightw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Why Are Progressives So Bad at Marketing Their Values?So what is going on here is your definition of conservative is different than the the majority of the first world see it as. I think it's pretty important to define "conservative" and we can go from there. Because most of the first world sees the two US parties as right and far right. Going back to donations in 2022 4 of the top 10 are democrat. Then 7 of the top 20, followed by 10 of the top 30. It starts to settle to 50/50 by the top 60 but all the money is concentrated at the top donators. Le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Why Are Progressives So Bad at Marketing Their Values?With all due respect I think your ideals on democrats are insane unless you are currently living in a dictatorship. The donations from the richest favor the republicans which are surely more right than the democrats. Like in 2022 the top 10 donors.....7 maybe 8 were for GOP candidates. The rich lean more dem than republican Nope. Tax cuts/loopholes, lower regulation, less unions, don't raise the minimum wage, not allowing malpractice/liability lawsuits all favor the rich. The constant sticking t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceI don't think I have ever heard this argument anywhere in the political debate. It's boils down to conservatives that wanted abortion banned or didn't care it happened because they wanted conservatives to do something else. And the majority mostly blamed the religious right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 12:57 AM |
| – | Why Are Progressives So Bad at Marketing Their Values?Many of the US bourgeois believe in eugenics. Elon Musk is the most notorious example. But he also believes in meritocracy and is a conservative. So in research to find the word to I might be leading you down the wrong road here. I'm going by the marxist definition: the capitalist class who own most of society's wealth and means of production: Thats your American conservatives. I don't think I have ever seen anyone use the french/classic use of the word but I think that is where you are going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 12:44 AM |
| – | Why Are Progressives So Bad at Marketing Their Values?Conservative views are the ones that are all about hierarchy being an inherent fact of life. And those views are strong among the bourgeoise. Even if they don't believe in it conceptually they want things to be that way. Progressives strive towards largely egalitarian classes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:07 PM |
| -1 | Why Are Progressives So Bad at Marketing Their Values?Conservatives mostly control the news media as well as big corporations. It's madness to say progressives dominate in social and cultural power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs?Dating someone outside of your political beliefs is a recipe for disaster. Back in the day things were a bit different but the modern republican is far right and modern democrat anywhere from centrist right to far left. So two democrats dating can have drastically different ideals. A democrat and a republican will not work at all since based on the media they consume, live in two different universes. Which is whacky to me because finding a young conservative woman is pretty damn rare. Same goes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesThat first article mentions nothing a out jobs. Farmers lost on trade due to retaliatory tariffs and the government subsidized the losses with the gains from tariffs. And yes it is impossible to put a tariff on specific digital goods. You can't say that is a Chinese developed program you are downloading there is a tax on that. Its all the internet. How in the world do you take that article as a positive. We estimate the Trump-Biden tariffs will reduce long-run GDP by 0.2 percent, the capital sto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menI agree but I am %100 convinced RFK will be neutered. Big business spent big money on Trump. I feel like his ideas for our food supply would upend the food industry. Trump has multiple avenues to legally "economically sway" his opinion on things and I don't see them giving up their monopolies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menNo I’m saying when the test subjects on trials are reporting adverse effects then they need to stop covering them up so they can pass their vaccines to be used for emergency use. No one covered them up in the USA. The drug got to phase 1(again 50-100 human test subjects) and never got approval. It got approval in other countries so the USA sold their contracted amount off. And I am not surprised a giant pharma corp would try to weasel their way out of paying for......well; anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesTrumps tariffs are still in effect because government is slow and ineffective. The US federal government didn't even analyze them until 2023. https://www.cfr.org/blog/cost-trumps-trade-war-china-still-adding And here is the actual fallout: https://www.cfr.org/blog/92-percent-trumps-china-tariff-proceeds-has-gone-bail-out-angry-farmers More "analysis"(to be fair this is 3rd party) https://carnegieendowment.org/china-financial-markets/2021/01/how-trumps-tariffs-really-affected-the-us-job-market?la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menI think it's roughly been that situation for a long time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menAre you suggesting that drugs just don't get tested at all? It didn't make it past phase 1(as in the first phase.) Again the other "injuries" could be from the disease of covid whom everyone already has. Until someone does a real scientific study, and we have a lot of people we could study we can make that determination. But the numbers aren't there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menAstrazenica was never FDA approved for usage in the USA. Funny story about that. Operation Warp Speed gave out about $11 Billion to 6 different companies. 1.2 billion went to Astrazenica and they were one of the few that made something that went to market. in the end the USA sold off what is believed to be their total contracted amount of 60 million vials to another country. The USA had the manufactured vaccine for about 4 months in storage because it didn't pass FDA standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menForgive me she was border czar but my point stands as to what her job was. https://www.snopes.com/news/2024/10/15/was-kamala-harris-the-border-czar/ The pertinent quote from the Biden press release: "And so, this increase has been consequential, but the Vice President has agreed — among the multiple other things that I have her leading — and I appreciate it — agreed to lead our diplomatic effort and work with those nations to accept re- — the returnees, and enhance migration enforcement at their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to men“the state of democracy” was one of the hottest issues for democrat voters. What the fuck does that even mean? Trump and republicans talking like fascists, or in the very least defending Trump fascist talk. Jan 6th. Project 2025 supporters, several which will be joining his cabinet. And there is a lot of doom media that will take shit out of context or make shit up. Republicans have already legislated themselves into long term power in some states and they are worried they will do that at the fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menShe was the border czar She was not border czar. That is just right wing propagana for rubes. Harris was put in charge of finding why people are leaving their countries were doing so and to make suggestions in how we can stabilize other countries to keep people from leaving. And our immigration law now is the exact same one as under Trump. Need I remind you in 2019 Trump had the highest amount of border crossings in the entire 2010's, more than double the 2nd place. Because border patrol was bou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 01:30 AM |
| 0 | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menThats kinda bullshit. Trump focused on the economy and gave solutions that every economist is saying is going to make things much worse overall. Particularly Elons plan that involves a few years of suffering for the average American. And then there was immigrants being evil criminals ruining the country. And his deportation plan is just going to make a bunch of job openings in sectors that are low paying and often extremely physically taxing. It will increase wages in those sectors significantly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Wanting left winged groups to win requires more support to menKamala’s team spent 10 million dollars on ad campaign saying that if men dont vote for her, they won’t get laid. What the actual fuck. Are you sure this is a real thing or is this some phony bullshit you read on the internet. Men have issues regardless of if feminists want to acknowledge them, there’s higher rates of homelessness; less higher education; higher victim rates of violent crimes; way more depression resulting in being 3.5 times more likely to kill themselves; the draft only effecting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesLike %70 of people said they voted red because of "the economy" was better when Trump was in office. Trump was in office before covid and as a result the largest global economic crisis in human history. It says nothing about the blue team. It says the average voter is an idiot. And this isn't unique to America. Practically every single leader, no matter what party, that was in office after the covid economic crisis has shown to be very unpopular. People just think they are smarter than they actu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesIf taxes get cut without cutting spending(and spending went up all 4 years under Trump), then you are still paying the same price. It's just being subsidized by debt that (allegedly) gets paid down the road. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Politics and dating is so annoyingThe presidential election brings politics to the forefront. And this is the most divisive election in our lives in part because Trump has no filter. He is a stream of consciousness that says a lot of insane, stupid shit. And for some reason many people are very passionate about him as a person. There has never been a single politiian in our lifetimes that has this weird cult that buys shirts and covers their lawns with flags for them. This isn't disagreeing about how the government spends tax do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 06:46 PM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?Average (younger, the most likely to be single)men can't afford escorts, at least not attractive ones, unless they want to spend %90 of their expendable income on an hour of fun a month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 06:24 PM |
| 2 | I DON'T buy that men who date a younger woman do it because they're easier to manipulateI would say that manipulative dudes have better odds at manipulating women with less experience. Younger women can often be low experience. With that said I would put odds on most older dudes dating younger women because they are more attractive than older women and (typically) more outgoing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Jordan Peterson tells young men to sacrifice themselves and endure. Young men should suck it up. It is my belief that men have the right to opt out of a society that discriminates against them.Jordan Peterson is an idiot and a grifter. He likes to talk about various aspects of other species behaviors and hierarchy(sometimes incorrectly). Tribes would work together since they all contributed to a greater goal. We aren't exactly largely a tribe anymore, not in the traditional sense. Some have families or tight knit groups. Other people are essentially a tribe of one. Sure they pay taxes and follow the rules(in part to not be jailed but also ease of life) but they don't need to suffer fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 06:16 PM |
| 1 | What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like?Generally low bodyfat percentage and (sometimes as a result of the low BF% as well as youth) a good looking face. I can't say I have ever known any that I wouldn't consider pretty good looking and I have known many(casually) from my years working at bars in addition to regular social life. I wouldn't say all of them could be models but all were good looking and effortlessly pulled women. They don't need to be muscular and I would guess most don't go to the gym, just have good genetics. Height re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 07:08 PM |
| 17 | Where Does the Notion that "Men are More Romantic" Come From?Likely from the "traditional" courting process. The stereotype forever has been men woo women while women passively accept or reject the wooing attempt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 12:51 PM |
| 0 | Pick a woman (I actually think this game is fun)Yes but model could be fitness model, victorias secret model, or the weirdo starving to death model like the OP posted. Average for an 18 year old, a 24 year old and 29 year old are very different. Chubby but well proportioned isn't the picture they posted. With that said they did add the pictures to their OP so all is good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 04:22 PM |
| 0 | Pick a woman (I actually think this game is fun)I suggest you post your pictures of model/average/"well proportioned"(thats trap verbiage) in the OP(if you can edit it)because my definitions of the 3 matched none of your pictures. I would describe the 3 as runway model/deathly thin, average 24 year old and fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Men who have had a lot of casual sex have worse pair-bonding abilitiesPretty much every married/LTR'd guy I know who was a player before marriage sleeps around during their marriage/LTR. Can't argue with you on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 11:54 PM |
| 2 | I think if attractive women had to go through the online app dating experience of an Average looking guy (5-6/10) working a normal middle class job, this would make both a great social experiment & reality show.I disagree, it would be very boring because they wouldn't get any matches other than scam bots and maybe prostitutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 07:15 PM |
| 8 | A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average manI'm sure shes your type but under normal circumstances, where she wasn't the girl a lot of young boys grew up with she would be just an average woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 05:59 PM |
| 10 | A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average manI live in a college town and can easily see dozens of younger women that are(IMO obviously) way hotter than Emma at that age anytime I go out. That's not to say she can't be someones type but all she realliy is is someone in great shape and was lucky enough to star in the wizard films as a kid(which plays a large part in why people find her hot.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequencesYou waited 2 weeks to respond to this? Hows the group home treating you? Bro I'm a 40 year old man that uses adult words. I could say what equitable means at a definition level, but figured using the word would save typing. I could use the words equal/equally but that wouldn't be proper grammatically. They aren't "wokey-woke" words, just words normal adults use situationally. I don't even understand TikTok or why it's better than youtube. Notice how I make an argument and your return argument is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.I agree but hobbies are just a way to get be around people and socialize. That might lead to relationships with people which might lead to dating. The hobbies aren't the relevant part of the "get hobbies" advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 07:10 PM |
| 21 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.I never really noticed this but it may be a cultural thing. Most(at least %80, I am being generous) of all relationships I have witnessed in my life had 2 people that that had next to no hobby interests in common. Sure they watched movies together and went on vacations but the hobbies never really lined up. Sexual attraction as well as shared values and ideals seemed to be the driving factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 07:07 PM |
| – | Women that hit thirty are nowhere near changing their behaviour in this day and age. They act just like early twentiesPossibly but hair(usually for men), eyes and skin often have a lot of giveaways that can't be hid. You see these things even in actors/actresses when they aren't having makeup being professionally done. And dating apps people are often telling the truth in their age if not shaving off a few years. Not that there aren't people who look younger than their age but they are the exception to the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Women that hit thirty are nowhere near changing their behaviour in this day and age. They act just like early twentiesHaha, you assume correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 01:56 PM |
| 7 | Women that hit thirty are nowhere near changing their behaviour in this day and age. They act just like early twentiesAnecdotal experience here but I feel like I have a decent perspective on my area as I worked in the bars for over 10 years up until a few years ago. I now work a job that lets me travel my locale(I get to sleep in my bed %99 of the time) and work in all kinds of envionments. There is almost no hot +30 year old people. Women typically get from chubby to fat and men from skinnyfat to fat. I've been a regular gym goer for over 20 years at this point in big cities to where I am now in a smallish cit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Red pillers see women as dishonest / out to get them / subhuman / only good for sex, because due to RPers own behavior / attitudes, they only attract bottom-tier, psychologically damaged women, which then reinforces their attitudes and causes them to attract even more of the same in an endless loop.Yes but lots and lots of dating aged people do go to bars often. It's what normal young people, of prime dating age, do. Can't really make an opinion off of introverts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 02:34 PM |
| 8 | Red pillers see women as dishonest / out to get them / subhuman / only good for sex, because due to RPers own behavior / attitudes, they only attract bottom-tier, psychologically damaged women, which then reinforces their attitudes and causes them to attract even more of the same in an endless loop.People aren't born red pill. They are either taught(by "self help"/"man camp" grifters) or learn that is how the real world is. The real world beats them into submission. I have had what I considered a fairly lucky ability to observe the world when I worked bars for over a decade. You would consider me a socially adept man, but for for the topic of discussion I am significantly more red than blue. It's because I got to see hear and interact with hundreds of men and women from the prime dating ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequencesCaptivating argument. For that rubbish to make any sense that would mean that at one point there was equitable teaching, but teachers, who generally care about teaching children, chose to no longer teach equitably and chose to teach in non boy specific ways. All to avoid toxic masculinity(even though the article showed boys fought more and were more likely to get in trouble, like it always has been) Utter lunacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequencesOh a boarding school for boys only saying boys are falling behind because boys need to be taught in a specific way. If there was only a school out there that would properly teach in boyhood specific ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequencesAgreed that the term(s) is thrown around too easily. But as a person who worked in various schools(from the poorest to some of the richest) for a number of years I don't see modern boys being anything but normal boys. It's an outsiders perspective obviously but high school certainly looks like high school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequencesPeterson saw where there was the most money to be made. And that was taking part in the right wing grift. He traded his dignity for wealth. Blame right wingers for being such easy marks for "radicalizing" Peterson. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequencesAnd exactly how is this term meant to "demonize and bully men" effecting boys development. Every boy that I see is still roughhousing, playing sports, being dicks to eachother. I worked in schools for a few years and I dont see the feminization of boys happening in any capacity other than more overall "don't be an asshole to other people" messaging for students. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 01:35 PM |
| 22 | Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequencesWe are probably going to have to have a definition of "toxic masculinity" given to have this discussion move forward. Trump, Tate, Peterson have a definition based largely in fantasy. They aren't "positive voices", just sociopath grifters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Are married men happier and more successful because they’re married or are they married because they’re happier and more successfulI feel the more family shit you have going on in life the happier you are. Family shit is largely mundane, but it is VERY time consuming. It's also done with (most normal)people they love. I think it is a mixture of lack of time and the time being spent with a loved one. Single people often have more time, by themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How do the late 20s - 30s+ men even hold conversations with much younger women?I'm 40 and not only have co-workers that are my age but have various friends who date very young and (often as a result of those two thngs) have friends that are much younger. We get along great talking about regular stuff. Current events, sports, movies, video games, etc. The same stuff older people talk about. Doing normal things like hiking, seeing a movie, going to a comedy show, going to an escape room, etc. We relate on the same things older people relate on. This might sound weird but I t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women?This is one of those topics where you need to come a lot more specific on what a liberal/conservative man/woman are to get proper answers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 04:12 PM |
| 10 | Do alpha males ever regret not settling down when they get old?I am curious if your cousin thinks marriage is consistent "new relationship" adrenalin and energy and not the ups and downs that come with real relationships........ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 02:01 PM |
| 5 | Do alpha males ever regret not settling down when they get old?I would imagine those that don't time it right do have some regret but still do fine with women. They just don't get to marry that 10 of 10 perfect woman that they had the chance to settle with. They settle for the 8 of 10, with minimal regret. Most of the chaddish folks I knew settled with the right one and just cheated afterwards and I wouldn't be surprised if that is fairly common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 01:51 PM |
| 6 | How would you describe “lady game”?Dress hot and stalk the dude so that they always happen to hang around the same areas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 06:50 PM |
| 8 | Can we talk about the phenomenon of childless stepdads who are actually good?I imagine the pool of men willing to do such a thing is limited. For many guys it's an automatic disqualifier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 03:51 PM |
| 1 | When men call women “illogical,” do they genuinely believe she is literally not following a rationale?It's only illogical to everyone outside of the woman acting logically(in her mind.).......But people do illogical shit all the time. We have millions that follow religion(and there is nothing wrong with having belief in a higher power/being spiritual) based entirely on texts that man wrote. edit:Men can certainly act illogical too. "I'm mad, Im going to break this inanimate object that won't make me feel better and cost me money in the long run." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Why aren't large age gaps the norm in relationships?I think the reason the are not more common(and they will never be the norm) is that as dudes get older they panic as they get to 30ish and do the whole "I got to be an adult and get my shit together" and fast track marriage with someone who is good enough(in the very least.) As a result there aren't many older people to even age gap date. Anecdotally most divorced 40ish aged guys I know date 10-15 years younger somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you think different politics will keep men and women from dating each other?Largely yes depending on how passionately they hold onto their beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Must be why you can't go out to grab your mail without running into dozens if not hundreds of totally happy single women that don't have a fuckbuddy or three. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Most guys who struggle in dating struggle because they don't have a social life.Only C I have to your V is I knew endless guys who were bar(I worked there for over a decade) regulars that knew many of the regular guys and girls from the scene who couldn't get a lay much less in a dating situation. And that hasn't changed now that I spend most of my time on the other side of the bar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:18 AM |
| 7 | Serious question. What will you do with your lives if you don't find anyone?As you get older friends and family get involved in their own families and dating lives. The friends I would see several times a week a decade ago I now see once a year, simply due to adulthood conflicts. Outside of that is hobbies and whatnot but those lose their luster over time as well. Next thing you know is years of ones life evaporates with almost no notable benchmarks from year to year other than the body naturally deteriorating and the negatives that come with it. Decades pass and can be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Serious question. What will you do with your lives if you don't find anyone?There really is only two answers to this. Suicide or work/do hobbies until they die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 09:40 PM |
| 3 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in personAre we all supposed to act now if cold approach is where it's at? Because it hasn't been for almost 2 decades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:39 PM |
| 2 | The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?"The bar" is actually fairly low....... but "the bar" doesn't include everything that it takes to clear the real life bar for most women. "The bar" as is often touted here is more of a social bar that you need to be not a weirdo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allI used to work at bars in college towns for a decade. Have had hundreds of acquaintances in the 20-35 range. I can probably count on one hand the ones that were every truly single for more than a week. There is always someone on the shelf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 11:30 PM |
| 5 | Most men think they are more physically attractive than they areYou are probably right but I would assume most guys assess their local scenes/cities/etc and see that statistically they are average/above average/better looking than 80%/etc and assume this means they are attractive when that isn't he case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Most women are invisible to straight men just like how most men are also invisible to womenOnly upper class can afford to go there State colleges and community also exist. Student loans exist. I knew endless people that I would, in the very least consider middle class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Most women are invisible to straight men just like how most men are also invisible to womenProbably for the late 20's or 30's and beyond crowd of women but absolutely no way for the early-mid 20's crowd. I've lived in a college town for a long time now and it's a chore to find unattractive women. Even the larger ones are cuties until you get into double chin areas of fat. I worked in bars for more than a decade and known hundreds of people on a "regulars" basis. Finding a single woman was a rarity, single and persistent single dudes were common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Do TRULY average men actually struggle to date and have sex?As a former bartender that casually knew many average guys I feel this is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 11:11 PM |
| 2 | I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself.because what does a older man have in common with a woman half his age? The same things older people who are married have in common. Social compatibility. Probably enjoy some of the same hobbies(including media they consume.) Most married people I know have next to nothing in common. They watch a few shows together, maybe both like to go hiking, other common bullshit that everyone enjoys. The thing that sparked the relationship is likely physical. The thing that keeps them together is who they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 11:40 PM |
| 1 | 30+ year old women can be just as attractive as a 21 year oldI used to travel a decent amount for a previous job and I wouldn't say that is my experience. Typically more men than women but certainly not always 80% men. What I have noticed is the breakdown of age of men is spread much more evenly. When I see men it's like 30% under 25, 30% 26-40, 30% 40-55, 10% 55 plus. Women it's usually like 75% under 25, 10% 26-55, 15% 55 plus. I've noticed this for over 20 years at the gym. I do agree with other posters that women are definitely the types to do group t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Before you can get a partner, you need good friends.Not really, unless its of some urgency. Even then turnaround on texts can be several days. It's a 2 way street though they aren't contacting either. I think the mindset is we catch up when we catch up as adulthood is pretty boring. With that said if they breakup usually the communication goes back to "normal." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Before you can get a partner, you need good friends.In my experience people that pair off typically do a significant amount of cutting off of their friends. The guy I would see weekly I see 2-4 times a year when in a relationship. Its just the way of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 01:52 AM |
| 32 | Women who are in "alternative" scenes like punk rock/metal/raves etc, are more open to dating broke or short men but red pill men don't want those types.In the Punk scene girls mostly date band dudes and a lot of the girls there are strictly there to hook up with band dudes. The rave scene is full of plenty of attractive people of both sexes. .....And the metal scene has almost no women. Thats my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 03:41 AM |
| 2 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysWhat I am finding strange from the comments is we are seeing the response: "I don't like guys whos life revolves around the gym and they spend 100% of their time on fitness." That encapsulates 00001% of men. Even if they did like them there is only like 8 of them in a city of 100,000. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 06:20 PM |
| 8 | We live in clown world 🤡This one is at best classified as an urban legend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 03:34 AM |
| 0 | What women mean in words is different from realityI've been lifting for 20+ years and know all about diet. There is a reason why when you go to any given gym you see 1% of 30+ dudes in "fat Jason Momoa" shape or better no matter what gym. Age ravishes the body and without taking extremes(TRT/steroids/surgery) you can't beat genetics. Im 42 now and have seen decline every year for 5 or so years despite me training better and eating better than I have in my life. Sure I look better than most but I would look like complete shit if I followed your … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:24 PM |
| 9 | What women mean in words is different from realityYou can have that physique with a good diet, an hour of training a day five days a week, and a good diet. Complete and utter nonsense. If the bar was that low I would look like a god right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Wanna See What Average Couples Look Like? Check Out the Crowd at Your Local ZooI think when people are talking about whats going on in the dating world here they aren't talking about the family of 4 where the parents have been together for 20 years. I think most are talking about the younger/college/somewhat post college dating scene. You aren't going to see many people from that group at the zoo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Have you personally, or do you know any women who were only able to find success with men after lowering their standards? How do you feel in general about men or women lowering their standards to find success?This isn't something women admit but when I worked bars I have seen endless cases of women short term dating hot guy to hot guy to hot guy and finally ending up LTRing some average looking guy. But they would never openly admit they settled and its not really anything anyone would question them about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Women are valued for what they doGuys absolutely care about cool(in their eyes) hobbies. Most guys love the idea of a woman that has a hobby they can enjoy as well. But don't expect them to be jazzed about a cross stitching hobby. Plenty of modern women can't cook worth shit. Most men marry because the woman passes the looks threshold(this does not imply that the guy thinks they are a 10/10 or even a 6/10) and the personality carries the rest of the load. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem that blue collar and “average Joe” men have an easier time with female romantic partnership than money making STEM or forum guys?Those "blue collar guys" spend plenty of time on forums themselves, that isn't the issue. ......and the reason is that there is way more blue collar folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 11:26 PM |
| 4 | What advice do you have for women to avoid being pumped and dumpedThis is correct. As a former bartender I have seen the situation I posted above a 100 times over but, OLD is a total different animal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV The Domination of online dating, leads to less and less variety in Men. More and more Men are the „same“. I really wanna discuss this.I don't think it's exactly people emulating other people but more a numbers game. Get 1000 random, similar aged people, in a room and there is bound to be many that are similar to eachother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 08:00 PM |
| 8 | What advice do you have for women to avoid being pumped and dumpedStop fucking the guys that fucked over 10 other women you know. Despite your feelings you don't have a special connection that he didn't have with the other 10 and will likely end up in the same situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/23 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Dating women your own age is easier in your thirty's is a lie.It's harder simply because there is a significantly smaller pool of single women, much less alright ones. There is still a large pool of men fighting for them just like women in their 20s but not as large but still significant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenI would just comment that this is a sliding scale. I live in a college town and there are endless fit(more appropriately not fat than gym fit) good looking people. But it gets worse with age and after 30 its just brutal. I'm 40 and been a gym guy since I was 15 and having "be into fitness or living somewhat healthy" as a requirement eliminates 99% of singles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 05:08 PM |
| 34 | Where have all the good men gone?I would say part of the lack of drive in younger people is that they aren't being rewarded for their work like they were in previous decades. This has gotten worse and worse for probably 6 or more decades now. There was a time you could raise a family on one income. Imagine how great life could be being single during that time on one income. But all the sharks of capitalism moved the money to themselves at the top and now you need 2 incomes to have a lower middle class lifestyle if you want a ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 11:57 PM |
| 8 | Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do lessThis right here, I have known endless women that literally did everything for their hot boyfriends. She works so he could stay at a apartment she pays for eating food she pays for. It always ends after she gets tired of his cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you really want a stay at home wife?Posting this under the automod but this is easily the most puzzling thing about the tradwife/SAHM thing. It's probably doable if you can tolerate living in a dump and penny pinching on food and clothes. I wager for most women that would be up for the SAHM thing would want a nice suburban house and at least a few times monthly eating out/ordering in, a newer reliable car, etc, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Is playing video games an ick be honest?Pretty much every younger person is a gamer. I work a job with a decent amount of young person turnover and pretty much all, men and women game a decent amount. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?Sure based on the fantasy criteria. With that said your criteria feels unrealistic. Anecdotally, after going to the gym for 20 plus years in both major cities and minor(100,000-200,000 population ) ones there has been a strange consistent. The breakdown of men is fairly spread by age; 15% sub 20, 20% 20's, 20% 30's, 20% 40's and the rest over 50(these are rough percentages). With women it's like 85% sub 30, 10% 30-50 and the rest over 50. Again it is anecdotal and I assume there is reasons for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Most people are average and they are happyDoubt on the latter half on your title. I would say most are content at best. Most people I know(30's-40's aged) aren't happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 04:57 AM |
| 5 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.He also is fascinated by the skin of animals which we can all agree is the most fascinating part of any animal. OP is onto something here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 12:45 AM |
| 1 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?That 70% overweight/obese is heavily slanted because it encapsulates ages 20-65. I don't know if you spend any time around any 30+ people but they are almost all overweight or more and it the older the crowd the fatter they are. With that said looksmaxing is likely more effort than it is worth for most. I would guess many dip their toes in the water so to speak and try some things and they don't pay off at all so they don't "max" themselves out because a decent amount of effort didn't pay off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 01:58 AM |
| 1 | CMV: the purge is the only time this sub is interestingNo there is the bi yearly post that has new studies/research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Are chubby girls more forgiving when it comes to a mans LOOKS?Anecdotally I typically see chubby girls typically pair up with skinny but not muscular guys. Or skinnyfat. So I guess that is the other side of the coin for fat women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4M - What Goes Through Your Mind When A Woman Tells You She Is Celibate?Good for them but a red flag. Its not a conversation that comes up often but the last girl I heard say that mentioned why. I'm not sure why she felt cool mentioning it but we were talking sex in some capacity and she said she had fucked like 20 guys in a month and that it was a mistake.......which most guys aren't going to be super hot on. With that said she was(she had gained a good amount of weight since celibacy) smoking hot and probably landed someone once she was ready. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | A 4/10 dude asks 100 girls out on a date. Interesting results.Some of the yes's(and forgive me for not watching the whole thing) were essentially: "Yeah you seem like a nice enough guy, I would definitely have a coffee with you." It would be hard to have a real world view but it doesn't seem organic at all. It feels like the dude came up and was like "Do you mind if I film you for my youtube channel." Going back to the first paragraph I wrote it feels like the girls are thinking: Does this guy seem nice enough for someone to date rather than would they act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Is simping really that big of a problem?I only think that the normalization of simping makes humans(more so women than men) be more likely to be ok to use others. People need to be honest about simps, and while majority otherwise healthy, there are plenty simps that in need of mental help. Mental help they are unlikely to get while simping on people who string them along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Would most college-aged women be willing to date a 30+ year old man, or are they an anomaly?Actual dating is extremely rare. Being fuckbuddies on the other hand is quite a bit more common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 11:35 PM |
| -1 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?Not my experience at all. I live in a mid sized college town(100k students yearly) and by no means are most 18-20 somethings overweight. I worked as a traveling computer technician and every office I worked in was filled with fat older people. It also makes sense to me because older people are more likely to have given up on trying to look good and younger people are more likely to care about their appearance, either for dating or social reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 03:53 PM |
| 2 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?This number is greatly skewed by older people. That overweight/obese stat is an average of all from age 18-80. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 04:50 AM |
| 4 | What do you think the average bodycount is for a 25 year old college girl in 2022 ?"Evidence - General Social Survey 1989-2016" That raises a lot of problems with this evidence. What does that even mean? What is the distribution of the captured numbers? What age groups, what areas? There could be meaningful data here but with a loose term like "General Social Survey" that leaves a lot of room for misinterpreting the reality of the situation in either direction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Do you think lifestyle differences are overlooked as a deal-breaker within relationships?I would say most every person I know in a LTR/marriage has a rather different lifestyle than their partner. It generally seems to not have any effect on relationships. I couldn't tell you why they are overlooked but they often are with little effect on the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you genuinely think OF is easy/worth it?It's easy-ish(don't work 40 hours, make your own hours) work once you get a base built. Building a base can cost a lot of time and/or money. With that said it comes with most if not all the pitfalls of sex work. Once your looks go, or your fanbase drifts away you have a ____ year work gap ahead of you. If you are really famous people will notice you(and the various additional problems that come with that.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLDI am an idiot that never learned how to read this style of graph so can someone give me a quick explanation? Does that mean 6'7" guys show up in 90% of womens results after filtering? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 10:23 PM |
| 1 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?Definitely fitness. Pretty much impossible to find any woman over 25 that does that though around my parts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Why this misconception that less attractive men will treat women better?Who is more likely to take care of their shit. The rich kid who gets whatever they want when on their parents dime or the poor kid who had to work and save up for a year to get that one thing they want? While your 3rd paragraph(things that lead to being attractive) can be correct, most of the things in your 2nd paragraph can apply to attractive guys. Going back to my first point, people with lots of options are more likely to run when the relationship gets rocky. People with more options are mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Dudes should start approaching more average girls for better results.Great post but it isn't purge week. Hope to see what hot takes you have that week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | The average men does not want the average women (in the US)The average woman varies wildly by locale and more so age. I live in a heavily college populated area and there a endless hot younger women(and overall good looking/shape guys.) The whole 80% overweight(I don't think that is right it is closer to 66% I think) is an average of 21-99 so the number looks worse than it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women?I would take that trade assuming the risks were similar to that of the average woman. Not so if it was like a 100% chance those things would happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Women don't age like MilkDue to various factors I would say they are likely to age more poorly. Women put on weight easier and due to their stature wear it worse. I believe this has to do with hormone cycles. If you compare to average BMI men/women to eachother the man will typically look better(as in better weight distribution. I believe it is actually harder for women to lose weight than men, but don't quote me on that. I feel there are other social factors that ugly women at a higher rate but in large that is because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos?This might be a regional thing but I would say nearly every one under 30 has a tattoo in my area. It's like a rite of passage. I never got tattoos and think they are often ugly and often stupid. With that said women with tattoos in certain areas(very near sexy parts) or heavily tattooed women seem to get around a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 05:35 PM |
| 11 | Men underestimate the value a female friend could provide.Because it sounds like you're saying that your mind can't overcome biology and/or that you're confusing friendly affection with sexual attraction. I don't think it's just that. If a girl is outright attractive, they are attractive. If a girl is somewhat attractive, then you get to know them and they are passionate about the things you are passionate about, that can effect attraction as well. Can guys be 100% attraction free from a female friend; sure. Is it likely; not really. Now how a guy resp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Do overweight women struggle attracting men?It's all relative. Do they get the guys that they really, really want. Unlikely. Do they get the attention that Stacy does. Nope. Are their options, as far as numbers go, as much as the gym hottie. Absolutely not. Are their options, as far as numbers go, better than that of an average guy. Yup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:48 PM |
| 4 | Is having a "hoe phase" important for maturing ?I would guess being very very conservative here that maybe 30% men even have a chance at doing so, so I don't think this is the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Would you go out of your way to talk to a woman you had no sexual attraction towards?Not a rando but if it's a friend of a friend and we are all hanging out I sure will. Typically I think the only time I would make small talk with a rando is if there was sexual attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Are men actually the initiators?Women are really, really, really, really, really terrible at initiating, but that doesn't mean they aren't trying........unless you are like the hottest guy on the planet to them. I've seen it in action 1000 times, it's pretty funny to see them try their best though with their weird furthest thing from direct approach. Men are the blatant initiators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 03:40 PM |
| 5 | Men & Women of PPD ratingA lot of these are tough without seeing the body. I'm taking these at face value since I don't know what/if any filters are on whom. For the ladies: 2)7, not a fan of the eyelash(eyeliner) things. I know a few girls that do this and need to ask them what it is. Got the hots for the piercings though. 3)6 at worst but I am going to say 7. Love the colored hair. 3)Again probably a 6 a worst. Hair(which I like) and hoodie are covering most of the face. 4)7 nice eyes/hair looks to be in at least dece… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Dating your friend’s exI don't know if its immoral but it's a bad, bad, bad, bad idea. From jealousy from the old partner to the ex still trying to bang your friend, it's just better to stay away from. Save yourself the headache. I feel like in a lot of situations no single person is that amazing that you must date them. There is likely many if not dozens in your region that are just like that person. I put it the same way as dating sluts, it's a gamble just not worth taking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The only reason women claim that men only want to fuck them and not be in a relationship is because the bottom 80% of men that DO want a relationship are invisible to womenI would say your % of relationship minded guys are off by a bit but you are correct. Especially with the 25+ crowd. Younger guys are a different breed and typically loath the "tying down" that women often do in relationships. Most guys just want someone that likes them as much as they like them back. Shares attraction to each other and have agreeable personalities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 03:30 PM |
| 2 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesOh the great debate. I think what skews this one way or the other is that the true dating, worthwhile to date, low N women are well off the market by 24 at latest. Even before then they are dating and typically introverted. Once a woman is in a steady LTR they usually become ultra introverted. So the majority that is left for humanity to see is the girls who are eternally in STRs jumping from one guy to the next on a monthly to quarterly basis. Those are also the girls that people might date and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesI would say a persons "bubble" is more they locale they live in. At that point what does it matter that women bumblefuck Wisconson's N count is if the hundreds of thousands in the place you live is reality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 03:11 PM |
| 11 | Q4All - What does everyone thing about the Harry Met Sally-esque “men and women can’t be friends”?I would say it is less likely the older people get. Younger people have a lot stronger hormones, less experience and less self control. When you are older(I am 40) I don't think that you can kill attraction but it's often a non-noticeable to slightly annoying background thing. Like I would probably fuck 90% of the women I know, but it's not something more than an occasional passing thought. I do have women friends that I have no attraction to but they are usually in terrible shape. Your guy frie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you think advanced Sex dolls will affect relationships?I feel that this isn't true only because of the human-pet phenomenon.......mostly dogs. Dogs are insanely popular means of filling emotional voids. While they are living things, they are fairly brainless when it comes to making relationships. One of the aspects of domesticating dogs was to raise super loyal, super friendly breeds of dogs. When you buy a dog there is a 99.99999% chance that the dog will "love" you and be your best "friend." It is very similar to getting the love and emotion that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships?I have plenty of female acquaintances. I don't really consider more than a very small handful of people friends though so the label of acquaintance is not some sort of slight. Does it effect my view of women.......I'm sure it does but not in any major manner. I would guess, that like 95% of the people you interact with, you are getting their surface personalities. I am enormously popular with a lot of my friends girlfriends. I am not too sure why but it isn't uncommon for a guy friend to text me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 06:05 PM |
| – | Obesity has decimated the dating market in AmericaI just don't think that 60% is terrible. Of course it can be better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 04:22 PM |
| 7 | Discussion: what are the dating dynamics in your social circle?40M in a mid-sized college town. I worked at a bar for a decade and know a LOT of people 25-45. If I would have to guess: 30% married. 20% LTR, 20% STR/dating/FWB/etc, 30% given up. For the married and LTR's: I'd say most average is looksmatched partners.......except the really attractive ones, they mostly all settled with ones that were a few points down. Majority met in person rather than OLD(feels like a 60/40 split) and know a few that met due to meetup groups. Only about 10%-20% met during … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | I really think that most women are attracted to strength and fighting ability and turned off by a lack of either.Automodding due to my opinion/experience: Other than a few fetish driven women I don't feel this to be the case. Both things can turn heads but the majority of Chads and players I have known would best be described as skinny and unintimidating. The attributes you listed are positives but not on the list of "must haves" for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in AmericaOoops...... I guess what I was getting at in my OP was that most young adults seem to be in ok shape. Even on the bad end they just have a bit of fat, but aren't blobs and can easily dress their way around that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in AmericaMy BMI comment is mostly concerning an average young man/woman. I am assuming you are a guy(forgive me if I read this wrong) and a) Mens and womens BMI is calculated pretty differently for women and b) if you are athletic(muscular) in pretty much any capacity the BMI scale gets thrown way off. Im in the same boat, I'm technically obese but it's because I have spent most of my life being a gym goer that trains for muscle mass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 07:37 PM |
| 5 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in AmericaI heard an analogy that OLD is like a submarine coming up for air. Pop up get what you want and go back under. Between real life, IG and TikTok alone girls usually have enough options. OLD isn't really the place for finding premium partners for the young(this changes as lives get much more busy.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 07:30 PM |
| 7 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in AmericaI will die on the hill that that number is vastly over stated. All those surveys that say 70% take in statistics of 18-100 year olds. I think if you just honed in on average aged dating aged people, 18-30,(and yes it is really hard to find a breakdown of obesity by age groups) you would see a pretty dramatic drop in that number. I live in a college town. Literally 60% of the population is college aged/post grad kids. I get to work on campuses due to my job. I spend time at bars(and worked at the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 07:19 PM |
| 2 | We ALL settle, in one way or another. Worrying that you don't measure up to your partner's previous partners, is silly, counterproductive, and a never-ending source of insecurity.Automodding because it's based only on personal experience. Pretty much every average dude I know has settled down with someone they are head over heels for..........or at least they both talk about and act that way.........But these are just the types to have only had a few girlfriends(4-6) in their lives. The dudes that slept around a lot typically continue to sleep around. I can't really speak for women because I know very few that are married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Should men be judged on their history too?It's probably a pretty good idea, especially when looking for an LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Is Chad the only one getting casual sex ?No, but this category (Chad/players/etc) are most likely getting 90%-95% or so of it. This is for a lot of reasons though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 07:04 PM |
| 0 | Impulse Control Has Little To Do With High N CountsI'm putting this under the automod because I don't have it but I am pretty sure people have posted studies about how high N count people are more likely to have low impulse control. With that said, particularly when it comes to women, most with high counts get that from a string of short term relationships with guys. This is more of the poor judgment category than impulse control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 06:55 PM |
| 4 | As multiple studies suggest, High n count is a red flag for both genders. Impulse control is a preferable quality for marital stability and has nothing to do with gender.High n count doesn’t necessarily mean the sex happened in intimate relationships. This is true, but at least in personal experience knowing(in the very lease a semi-casual level) I've known endless women I consider to be high N who just go from STR to STR to STR. For every 40 of those I know a girl who just likes sex to the point where they are constantly after new sex partners. Even less so just looking ONS minded women. Even here pretty much all the women say ONS is universally pretty bad and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 04:48 PM |
| 3 | As multiple studies suggest, High n count is a red flag for both genders. Impulse control is a preferable quality for marital stability and has nothing to do with gender.And the more people they meet, the more they can learn and grow and see who’s best for them That or the more people they move on from the easier it is to move on from someone rather than work on long term things. Relationships are work there are ups and downs. Compromise. Fights. Selflessness. If there is always some exciting new experience waiting every time you run from adversity, the more likely you are to run when there is adversity. If you break up every single time you have a problem with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Age is an incredibly important and overlooked part of attractiveness/value.While I agree with you for LTR's I would say the hookup/STR/FWB scene allows for a lot wider range when it comes to age gaps. At least from first hand experience it seems there is no shortage of 20 somethings that want to "try" an older guy. It depends on locale too. I live in a mid-sized college town so there happens to be a lot more volume of younger women thus more open to various age limits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Men who care the most about women's sexual habits don't really care about women. They just use women as a scoreboard for their competition with other men.they usually have to dip down 2 points. I'm going to disagree here depending on the locale. If you are in a college or young professional heavy town there is no shortage of very attractive young women looking for "fun" with the right guy. I live in a mid sized college town(about 100,000ish college kids per semester) and there are endless 7's-9's(I'm not a big grading guy but these girls are otherwise very, VERY attractive) everywhere you look. Outside of that your post is on point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Men here are always talking about not wanting to date women with high n-counts. So what's an acceptable number?Just like men, can women not have fun when they're young and then want to settle? I cannot wrap my head around why that's an issue. How do you know the difference between the person who want's to have "fun" vs the person the person whom is naturally drawn to that, even though they say they want a relationship? How do you know that person doesn't quit on every relationship as soon as it gets rocky because they have a new person lined up in a week? How do you know that person wants the comforts of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 06:05 PM |
| 0 | What is the point or purpose of having a hook-up?Sex is fun and that is what a hook up usually leads to. Sex with a variety of people can be more fun to certain people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 05:53 PM |
| 11 | In your opinion, how does "Nice guy" stereotype affects actual good guys?I would say that the biggest hurdle of the nice guy(the actual one not the fake one) is that they are not as likely to make a move when they could/should. A nice guy is going to be hesitant to put a move on a tipsy woman because he doesn't want to take advantage of her, even though she might "want to be taken advantage of." They won't dare hook up with an ex of a friend of theirs, even though it makes no difference and their friend would not have the same reservations. They aren't going to put a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 11:16 PM |
| 3 | What Are Some Sure Ways to Prevent Being "Traded In" for a Younger Woman?A lot of player guys sleep around before and during a relationship/marriage. Every guy and girl that slept around a lot before marriage continues to do so during marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 03:45 PM |
| – | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestPersonal experience only but I have known plenty of women in my time and most can't go more than a few weeks without having a man in their life. Even when staying "single" they usually have one or more sex partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What should a woman do if she wants to punch above her attractiveness level?Gym is a tough one. I would never, ever do it myself even if age appropriate women of my age actually went to the gym. If you bomb, or say something stupid, or they take things the wrong way. Even if you go on an unsuccessful date.........this is a place you don't want to be uncomfortable in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Q4ALL: What should a woman do if she wants to punch above her attractiveness level?This sounds like a recipe for being skinnyfat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Be honest, in your personal life, do you see more women punching up, or men punching up?I feel with younger people women punch up. Older people women punch up. Womens bodies go on them quicker even if they don't have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship?partying and getting wasted all the time. It's not exactly that, but I probably want to go out twice a week or so.......but I do still want to do things that aren't that as well.....but still find time for the SO. With that said I appreciate the opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship?No, single life would be me doing that but not spending most evenings/nights with the other person. Probably spending more hours with that person than any other I know, but that is "single life" because I have friends and hobbies. Complete insanity. Why are people so god damn clingy and needy? Why so much jealousy and dependence? Were they not loved enough as a child. It's pathetic. What the fuck is wrong with people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship?Someone that will come out and drink with me. Someone who will not mind that I am out until 4/5/6 in the morning drinking/hanging out with people not with them. Minimal jealousy issues. Someone who has hobbies and a personal life and doesn't mind that I do my hobbies and have my personal life. Someone that has a dynamic clock schedule so that 9-10 PM isn't bedtime every night. Don't get me wrong there is plenty of "us" time but a lot of women want most of the time to be "us" time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 04:56 PM |
| 2 | How ACTUALLY common is it for Women to have a "Hoe Phase"For myself there isn't any women I would sleep with that I don't like. They are either women that I would hook up with and like or hook up with and like enough to date. If I am with a woman whom I just like and want to hook up with I will say I am not looking for anything serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 02:27 AM |
| 4 | How ACTUALLY common is it for Women to have a "Hoe Phase"In my adult life I've never had any kind of conversation about the future before sleeping with a woman, the 'something more' talk happens after sex every single time. My experience as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 11:49 PM |
| 4 | How ACTUALLY common is it for Women to have a "Hoe Phase"I live in a mid sized college town(about 200,000 students) in the northeast and also spent more than a decade working in the bar scene(but far from my only point of reference.) I feel it is very common for women to have a few relationships since they were young and after a breakup in their early 20's to have a "I'm not dating" phase. It involves tinder style hookups, hookups at bars, hooking up with guys that were "on the shelf" while they were dating and fulfilling whatever curiosities(older me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 11:48 PM |
| 5 | What do you believe is holding you back from a successful relationship?Peter Pan syndrome as they call it. I'm a 40 year old with the social life/spare time life similar to a 21 year old. In addition to there being slim pickings(painfully boring, has kids and/or "let themselves go"), age appropriate women are not willing to put up with my shit. Younger women whom are into me (I am assuming) have some sort of older guy fetish they want to fulfill. As far as I know I'm just a guy on their roster but/or not worth dating(reasonable due to age gap IMO). It's a crummy si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: can you succinctly describe PUA, TRP, black pill, and MGTOW and how they differ?PUA: The art of one night stand seduction, by any means necessary. Purpose: amass lots of sex partners. Target audience: Guys who already have decent looks but don't have the communication aspect down TRP:Mish-mash of PUA, science, misogyny, pattern recognition and sociopath ideals. A big fat mess. Purpose:Get laid or a girlfriend or wife or harem. Who knows. Called a "knowledge buffet." Target audience: Guys whom are unreasonably confused with the dating world. BP: Genetics above all when datin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better?I still don't buy the whole sex = validation thing for men. Sex/hooking up/etc is fun and feels great. Why does it have to be more complicated than that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 03:00 AM |
| 2 | What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better?While this is true at many times boy is it tiring and stupid.......from this guys perspective. They want someone to listen to their problems and offer them sympathy but don't really want to hear solutions. I just don't get it Sure I might do something similar but the purpose is to have an alternate perspective look at the problem and offer an alternative view on how to get out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | If online dating were so great for women, why are there more men on Tinder?Women are more likely to find themselves in short term to long term relationships from both the online and IRL community while men are more likely to get no action at all. The women drop out from these apps and the forever alone guys are there forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 12:33 AM |
| 13 | If a Woman's past truly does not matter, then Women need to start acting like it doesn't matterMaybe, maybe not. I am of the mindset that having a "complicated" sexual past usually does say something about whom the person is. With that said theoretically it could have no effect on who someone is. Someone below mentioned how them scraping their knee when they were 5 has no effect on who they are now. I agree with that but I don't buy that most people can have large promiscuous phases(which is what this is mostly about) without some sort of lasting change made to them. It could be positive … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 12:13 AM |
| 6 | If a Woman's past truly does not matter, then Women need to start acting like it doesn't matterThis question was not to me but I would, assuming I knew the situation, assume that the person in question has trauma from the bullying and shit upbringing that defines who they are now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 12:00 AM |
| 59 | If a Woman's past truly does not matter, then Women need to start acting like it doesn't matterWhen a person says that their past dosen't matter they mean "these specific aspects of my past don't matter." Not saying it's right or consistent, but it is what they mean. "These things that have happened to me in the past define me for who I am, but don't worry about those things that you are worried about, they mean nothing and have no effect on who I am now." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?This is a great comment but online dating and culture has more so expanded both regular and shadow competition. Pre smartphone, you had girls who had their realistic options but also the shadow options such as exes and whatnot. Now they have all that plus what you mentioned plus realistic direct competition from realistic online partners, and the online shadow stuff you talked about. You could say that men also have more options to approach but I don't think it's exactly even. The woman simply h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Woman's standards are to high - or perhaps men are just generally worse today?You can look into my post history and I've talked about my times working in bars many, many times. For clarity this is not the club scene, which might work a different way. I don't know if I can guarantee you if you will read what I write as incel content. It's just real life experience from an aging extrovert. Have you heard of the "freshman 15", these guys don't get that. Have you known any people who eat like shit and don't gain weight, this is them. Being at a good bodyfat percentage is like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 07:42 PM |
| – | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?Am in NY you are correct! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 12:19 AM |
| 19 | Woman's standards are to high - or perhaps men are just generally worse today?I used to work bars for over a decade in a mid-large sized college town and I disagree. There is never a shortage of hot younger women, in my opinion. I am not gay but I think the men are well within mid-average BMI and dress fine. Most were social obviously and social skills are obviously needed to be in the game. The guys who got all the girls were typically the best looking, facially, of those guys. Good heads of hair. Pretty much none of them every worked out in any capacity or played any sp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 12:15 AM |
| 7 | Woman's standards are to high - or perhaps men are just generally worse today?Also going to the gym and even getting jacked does not make you attractive. I worked in bars for many years and pretty much every guy that was super successful with women never once stepped foot in a gym. They had stereotypical attractive faces, good heads of hair, were naturally low on bodyfat percentage. Height didn't seem to make much of a difference either, but none were super short or anything like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:36 PM |
| – | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?I suppose it's all about locale as well. I live in a mid sized college town. The typical story is a girl dates a few guys, after a "heartbreak" they have a single phase, they hook up with a bunch of guys, eventually it loses it's fun(or whatever) and(potentially after an actual no guys single phase) they return to dating. Just like you I'd say a low % of guys are anywhere near the girls numbers......but honestly they don't seem to openly talk about it. Maybe it's because the guys I know are oppo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:02 PM |
| – | What part of the opposite gender's sexuality made you feel disgust?With women it's probably that if they are above 24 and still dating around, it probably means they have been with lots and lots of dudes. In between the actual dating around it feels like every single one had a sleep around phase where they fucked a bunch of dudes off of tinder to live out all of their curiosities and fantasies. There's some dudes like this but greatly favors women, so these women are all getting with the same guys. Then when it gets questioned by someone it's written off as eit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think men are more right wing than women?Heavily aligned with Trump to capture the conspiracy loon crowd as well. That is logic not shamelessly getting power at all costs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think men are more right wing than women?Due to what is likely upbringing and how we traditionally treat our children I would say women are more likely to have compassion for others. What I feel is one of the foundations of Conservatism is the idea that what is best for the individual(and usually close family) is what is best for the good of the country. Liberals are more of the mindset that what is best for the country is to make everyones lives better. "Fuck you I got mine" vs "A rising tide floats all boats." It's also why younger p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 04:19 PM |
| 3 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.I live in a college town and the population is a large 20 something crowd. I would easily say women of the 18-24 crowd 3/5 are very attractive to hot. Now this is different from area to area, but if you live/socialize/etc in that environment it's not hard to view things through that lens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 01:37 AM |
| 1 | The biggest dating hurdle for men is accessibility, the biggest dating hurdle for women is safety.I've known plenty of women in my life but I would say most have dealt with some sort of stalker type guy. I think that's enough to scare them into worrying about worse scenarios. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Is a pump and dump worse if the sex is fantastic or terrible?i cant believe he dumped me after that wonderful night of passion. It's a fools assumption to think that both people felt this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone know why there's a disconnect between OLD apps and real-life couples?most people date and have relationships with people they have things in common with. I'm going to be honest I pretty much never see this. Pretty much every dating/married couple I know have similar morals, are near eachother on the political spectrum, etc. Outside of that the only things they do that they have in common is watch TV dramas together and as time goes on raise their kids. It actually makes sense to me in the fact that men and women typically have very different hobbies. Still a bit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent of a 666 male?Hmmm I will go with <20<Me<30 woman Less than 20 BMI, shorter than me(guy in question) and under the age of 30 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 07:20 PM |
| 5 | How many people here have had their heart broken?I haven't been first party heart broken(cheated on/etc) but the horrors of other people, the selfishness/rottenness of people and society has certainly done so to myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewYou are running into a problem of pretty much all open social media. It really isn't much different that famous folks on twitter complaining(please don't take this as an insult) about how toxic it is. Essentially(/virtually) what you have done is put yourself in a personalized room, with pictures and info about yourself and said "Looking for relationship/dating/sex/etc, leave me a message." You have given this opportunity to hundreds of thousands of men(I am assuming the size of your area) and n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 11:42 PM |
| 7 | women on reddit: wOMEN do noT tHINK 80% OF Men ARe uNATtRACTIve, tHAt'S a myTh PeRpetuatEd By INceLs ON REddit". also women on reddit:I know dozens and dozens of women at an acquaintance level from various activities/friend groups/etc and while some are very well disqualified the vast majority would fall under the "I don't know, I would date them and see where it went" territory. This is simply because I know them on a surface level and would probably need to know them on a day to day intimate level to know if they are worth LTR/marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 09:20 PM |
| 11 | women on reddit: wOMEN do noT tHINK 80% OF Men ARe uNATtRACTIve, tHAt'S a myTh PeRpetuatEd By INceLs ON REddit". also women on reddit:How in the world do you know if anyone is marriage material without knowing someone a little if not for years and years? You can't ask "how many women/men are marriage material" and get a real answer since you would need to intimately know thousands of people to make that answer. Most people are only going to know maybe a few dozen of people intimately in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 09:08 PM |
| 20 | women on reddit: wOMEN do noT tHINK 80% OF Men ARe uNATtRACTIve, tHAt'S a myTh PeRpetuatEd By INceLs ON REddit". also women on reddit:If you asked men how many women are marriage material you would get a collective "I don't know." You know if someone is dating/marriage material due to a mix of looks and personality traits. Looks typically get a foot in the door if not kick it wide open as if to someone even qualifies for dating. Dating is seldom built off of "are they marriage material" but more so "could they be marriage material." The majority of early dating is built off the foundation of physical attraction for both partie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the average of 5 lifetime partners is accurate or outdated?Depends if you are getting a mean/median/mode average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Nice Guys in a nutshell.Ugly men don't have women approaching them. Normal men barely do either. They may not be chasing their looksmatch but they aren't getting approached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Do you think the average of 5 lifetime partners is accurate or outdated?I feel it's probably accurate for men. That's taking into account the 0 N guys your fairly average 5-10 guys and the 30 plus Chad types. For women that has not been the case in my experience. Pretty much every single one I have known has had a "I've been heartbroken too many times and just want to sleep around" phase which lasts at least several partners. My sample size of people is probably in the 100 plus range from both sexes ranging from introvert/nerds/etc to party/kink scene/etc in a mid s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:04 AM |
| 7 | The tragic fate of those poor ugly incels 💔Truth is that incels, and most men have to push forward in the face of the real world being a negative feedback loop. Sure some of the problems might be their of their own imagination, but many just can't keep moving in the face of constant rejection that the average man faces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 11:33 PM |
| 7 | Do women not realize that they are the ones who are choosing to sleep with the men that are not good to them?I still hear adults say to little girls that when a boy hits them that means he likes her. WHAT????? Please tell me you meant to say "hits on them" instead. Where in the world do you live that this is a common thing? Also get the hell out of there ASAP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 06:09 PM |
| 11 | Do women not realize that they are the ones who are choosing to sleep with the men that are not good to them?No they don't she felt "something special" with the 6'9" Chad whom had already slept with most of the other women she knows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 06:05 PM |
| 5 | CMV: OnlyFans creators are taking a massive gamble on their futuresWhile I agree that having no work experience probably will lead to low level jobs, I highly doubt that anyone within their workforce will notice any of the girls who aren't making absurd bank at OF. The ones making great money now can easily marry into money. The ones who aren't that popular and are making ok money will likely just be lost in the sea of smut that is the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 04:06 AM |
| 0 | People really do have a "type" when it comes to romantic attraction. According to a study, 50% of people’s preferences for faces is unique to them, and who we find attractive is most strongly influenced by our life experiences.You are confusing mean with median. Mean is take everyones age and divide by number of participants. More than likely (it did not give out any age stats) most of the participants are 40-50 than a bunch of 20-30 and 70-80 year olds. Is not "environment effecting attraction" The whole purpose of the study? It's why they study twins(who have high likelihood of finding the same people attractive) vs studying 2 non related participants(which agree on about 50% of the beauty of people.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 03:03 PM |
| 7 | People really do have a "type" when it comes to romantic attraction. According to a study, 50% of people’s preferences for faces is unique to them, and who we find attractive is most strongly influenced by our life experiences.The mean age of the participants being 45(and 41) kind of makes me not take this one seriously, at least when it comes to the topics normally talked about around here. There is something to be said about environment affecting your attraction to people but it seems the average participant grew up in the pre-internet age. The majority of the dating people today(younger, whom make up most of the disucssion here did grow up in the age of the internet, which (IMO)should make for a lot more consolidat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 01:12 AM |
| 6 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?I would guess that most average guys today aren't big on approaching under most circumstances, so that may be the reason for the issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 06:59 PM |
| 2 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?Maybe it is where you are looking, maybe just bad luck......don't lose faith in humanity just yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 06:55 PM |
| 4 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?I highly doubt that, and I highly doubt 90%(being generous) of dudes would just want you for sex. You would have to be borderline evil at that point. Move that % down to the 20's and maybe I can get that. Either you are way too hard on yourself or throwing out phony numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 06:49 PM |
| 3 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?I would say that most of these fears can be put to rest by dating average guys and not Chads/players. Most average guys are willing to give things a chance with any woman that they are attracted to that are in return attracted to them. It could be months if not years before another woman like that shows up in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 06:45 PM |
| 8 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?Are you such a terrible person outside of your looks? Your average guy can easily go months if not years without having any sex/dating/etc receptive member of the opposite sex cross paths with them. Are you sure that they don't just want to casually date/fuck you and see if things can work like most guys? Or do you exclusively hang around Chads and players? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | What are the young women who date significantly older men are like?From knowing quite a few through friends that were dating them. Honestly they seem to be on the same overall spectrum/variety as any other woman of their age. Perhaps they are a bit more introverted, but I find a lot of women, once dating, become quite a bit more introverted. With that said I don't know them intimately so I could be missing on similarities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Do men who are obsessed with dating much younger women seriously overstate the desire that younger women might have towards them? (Kinda NSFW)I would say yes to both questions.......but for the most part to be an older guy who wants to date much younger you need that mentality since you are going to have to approach a lot to actually get results. Approaching with a "shes not into me" mentality doesn't really do anything to help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 04:43 PM |
| 2 | If 40 percent of the American population is obese and makes less than 50k a year, is really hard for men to get women?About 50% of people 18-29 are overweight, 25% are obese. Not questioning you but where are you getting age based breakdowns on stuff like this. I have spent a significant time looking for health numbers by age and pretty much all do 18+ as the highest tier and no age range to age range breakdowns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Reasons why online dating sucks for both men and womenDisagree with: Women 1:Most guys know what they are capable of. Most know they can't just get sex NSA. Most(I ain't saying 99% but certainly more than 75%) are on dating apps, even hookup apps to meet women for both dating, sex and potentially relationships. Women 2: I am not denying that some statistically insignificant amount of men are dangerous to women, you cannot live life in that mindset. Hiking is dangerous because a tree can fall on you. Going to live hockey is dangerous because an erra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 09:24 PM |
| 53 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltMens version of slut shaming is telling their friends a girl is a slut and busting eachothers balls when they sleep with sluts. Also talking behind ones back when they are "dating" a slut. It's not the:Im going to call you whore to your face and tell everyone that I can that you are a slut. Thats more of a woman thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 04:18 AM |
| 0 | Is a Man Approaching a Woman in the Streets an Effective Way of Dating today?The only place I have ever seen cold approaching in public work is in low income urban areas. Seems to be a moderately normal thing for those folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 12:19 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?I once(and only once) had a discussion about the player/Chad that cries(not entirely sure it was literal or metaphorical) because he gets all these women but none want to commit. I also don't really see the most women want/demand height thing. Pretty much every "Chad" I have known came down to having traditionally good facial structure and was anywhere from skinny to in ok shape. Sure height might be another plus but it isn't a golden ticket with women. I also concur with the top post of picky l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Many women remain single because commitment-orientated women outnumber commitment-orientated menI just wished I saw this "women remain single" thing enough to believe it's a thing. Pretty much every unmarried woman I know from 22-40 is either dating someone or has a FWB. If they have a breakup they are legit single for one month max. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Almost all Chads are taking anabolic steroids. You can't really ever hope to be a Chad unless you take them yourself.Eh I've known plenty of Chads and they all had naturally good looking faces(often blue eyes), were skinny and had good hair. Height wasn't even an issue. With that said I would guess outside of the gym(I mostly know them from bars) I don't really see any dudes near in the shape of those pictures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Women like all types of guys!I'm pretty sure the bald guy is a crummy picture of Jason Statham. Not that should change anything but that might be one of his lesser pictures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Women like all types of guys!Motorcycle riders are bad boys in their heads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Guys would rather be fuckboys than seen as husband material because the former gets the best of both worlds, and the latter gets the least of both worlds.Pretty interesting. I can't really argue against what you said with this here other than nitpicking. It seems that almost across the board higher SO(scale) people are much more willing to date everyone above 4 partners. I do wish the ages were a bit closer to 25. The fact that the men were on average 22 and the women 20 makes me feel that the mens and womens numbers would align a bit more if the women were a bit more life experienced. Maybe that is because I am old but I feel 20 and even 22 are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Guys would rather be fuckboys than seen as husband material because the former gets the best of both worlds, and the latter gets the least of both worlds.Thank you!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 04:53 PM |
| 4 | There's no such thing as a teenage incel, so stop acting like oneIf it makes you feel better I was told Chad has had a ton of sex during that time but he cries because none of those women want to commit to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Guys would rather be fuckboys than seen as husband material because the former gets the best of both worlds, and the latter gets the least of both worlds.I'll accept that but it's kind of a throwaway without anyone being able to see the document without spending $50.......but it's the best you can do for free. These summaries often don't hold much water once you see the full thing. I do appreciate you looking that up though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Guys would rather be fuckboys than seen as husband material because the former gets the best of both worlds, and the latter gets the least of both worlds.High n-count people tend to settle together and they're doing fine. I doubt there are many studies that confirm or deny this but we do know high N people are most likely to divorce. I know a good amount of high N count people from my major bar(worker) days and at least for the men who have settled down, most are cheating on their SO's. The ones who haven't settled down keep dating early 20 somethings into their late 30's. While I've seen high N people hook up 10000 times I have not ever seen one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Should a man worry about his GF's exes if they all ended the relationship with herblurts out “ every man I’ve ever had left me” So not a good online profile tagline? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 02:45 PM |
| 11 | Why has the amount of sexless men 18-30 increased more than the amount of sexless women 18-30?It's interesting that the porn and vidya' crowd thinks that if those guys gave up the porn and vidya' and were more social that those women would stop hooking up with the guys they are hooking up with and going nuts over the reformed porn and vidya' guys. I worked at bars for more than a decade and still a regular to this day. For every Chad there are dozens of guys that couldn't get any sort of action and only a handful that would semi-regularly date. This wasn't due to lack of effort on a lot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 02:22 AM |
| 6 | Average men in long term relationships critiquing people who are single.Do you think this is common for average looking men who have never been single, To be unaware of how hard is it for average men in the modern dating scene? Most average guys (and most long 5+ year relationship people) in this situation are usually very much joined at the hip with their SO and don't do much outside of couple aligned things. For lack of better words they have their own corner of the world they stay inside of so I don't really think this is something that really happens that often.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Most people have real friendships. Worse case scenario, women will typically have fake friends and men will typically have no friends.Maybe it's my twisted little world but I don' think hobby friends = friends in most cases. For example I play(I don't know the exact word) "hobby" board games. I have a gaming group and a good amount of outlets for that, but the majority of those people I wouldn't choose to hang out with. They aren't bad people. They just don't socially align with myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | What’s causing decline in male sexlessness of recent?Why assume these people are trying to fill a void? Life, at it's core is a void. It does get filled by things in your latter paragraph in addition to work/responsibilities and obviously sleep. I'm not sure if you realize it buy you and myself pretty much agree on what started this particular thread of comments. The OP was saying videogames are some large problem because they are essentially keeping from doing the things they would otherwise be doing. In the end all of the activities we do(and yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | What’s causing decline in male sexlessness of recent?I have not met most people living on Earth obviously, but I am drawing this conclusion from a large variety of experiences with a range of people from acquaintances to good friends. I get the feeling most people are floating around with no real direction or purpose. They work a job they don't really like so they can afford a place to live and food to eat. They buy little things like Funko Pops, board games, books, and other little endorphin boosters to help prop things up. At it's core it's stil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | What’s causing decline in male sexlessness of recent?Most people without children do not have meaning or purpose other than to continue to live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 01:04 AM |
| 1 | What’s causing decline in male sexlessness of recent?Some of those things aren't "addicitve" due to the fact that they involve things that aren't totally in ones control. You can absoutley waste away reading and working on art. Much like the "addiction" to video games that speak of people do these things endlessly to fill a void in their lives with a distraction. The distractions aren't the problem, the lack of meaning and purpose is. The people who play videogames all day, wasting away their lives are depressed messes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 12:32 AM |
| 10 | What’s causing decline in male sexlessness of recent?This is some boomer shit right here, lets fix this one up for you: video games, television/streaming, reading, dicking around on the internet, listening to podcasts, hiking, playing recreational sports, making artwork, spending time with friends/family with nearly every other hobby other people have are a much larger problem because you can easily waste an entire day playing some dumb game doing some thing but still feel like you have actually accomplished something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] How big is the gap of SMV between Average men and Ugly men?I always have to add to things like this that the average numbers we get for men/women are based on stats of 18-99 years old. Typically the average person of 18-30 is quite a bit lighter than everyone older than that, being more in shape with youth. The upper standards can be a bit much though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | RP says we're in a "decline" right now. Decline... from what exactly? Doesn't it seem like the current situation is precisely what they wanted to begin with?If I understand correctly the enjoying of the decline is the participation in lots of casual sex with the modern women. The decline itself is the broken family unit(from single moms), lack of marriage and marry-worthy women as well as the the "dropping out" of men(who have done the vast majority of pretty much everything keeping society intact) from society. Maybe I am simplifying it too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 03:35 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W]Do believe average looking women get a lot of attention?This question really can't go anywhere because average is different area to area. I live in an area where the population is largely college aged people and thus the average women do get a lot of attention because average is younger in ok to great shape women. If average in an area is frumpy 30+ office workers, they will not have the same attention as average in my area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 04:19 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: Are you okay with your female SO regularly watching porn?I feel it's a running gag in the industry and everyone knows everyone is tired of the concept, but most people aren't there for the story so it doesn't really effect viewership. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 08:26 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Are you okay with your female SO regularly watching porn?The golden age of porn where step relatives rarely had sex with one another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 08:15 PM |
| 2 | why don't men date through female friends to avoid being with girls that they dont want ?because girls know everything about their friends First off I am going to disagree with this one(entirely based on personal experience, so take it FWIW.) I think women are more likely to know a lot of people but don't exactly have many more actual close friends than anyone else. This isn't a knock on women but actual good friends are few for everyone. Sure you can be set up, but I would say it will often be just slightly less of a crapshoot than OLD. As I am near 40 years old I know a number of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/21 04:31 PM |
| 7 | "When a woman talks to a man, she is thinking of his future (his earning potential, etc.), and when a man talks to a woman, he is thinking of her past (how old is she? her weight? her history?)." - The Book of Pook. How applicable is this statement some 20 years after Pook wrote it?As a left wing lefty, who pretty much mostly socializes with leftys, I would say we generalize as much as anyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 05:10 PM |
| 3 | A man who demands that his partner stops using sex toys is accused of everything from being insecure about his size to being an abusive partner, yet women who police their partners use of porn are seen as reasonable, proactive, and victims in the situation. Why?in liberal areas, would call a woman insecure for attempting to curb her partner's porn use. I am a very liberal person in a very liberal area and I would say it isn't uncommon to hear from one side or the other of a relationship that the man isn't/shouldn't be using porn. With that said this isn't really the most common topic to make it out in the open. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 06:17 PM |
| 2 | What is it about happy couples on social media that trigger some in the manosphere?If there is a twitter post to be made there are thousands waiting in the wings to shit on it. There is just a lot of people who get off on "trolling." A fact of life. If I put my money on it that dude was doing fine with women when they weren't together, and in fact may be doing fine with other women to this day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessThis sample may absolutely speak to this. This also would speak to the BP line of how "broken" women are more likely to date players/assholes/etc. It mostly speaks to younger women of this age group (average 22) having major depression(I use this as a catch all for a couple of things.) When you have multiple women giving themselves a 1-1.5/10(adjusted from the 72 point scale), most being rated as average or above and half being 6-8/10 it speaks to some potential major issues(but not what the OP … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessAt least in this they rate 94% of the men in the study in the 3-6 on an 8 point scale. Most women rate themselves as below average. 16 of the 32 women who gave themselves a 1-2 were rated above a 49(72 point scale.) Thats a 7/10 on the 7 point scale. This sample group isn't narcissistic, they are mental. These are likely the "broken" women BP folks say are always getting used by players/abusive boyfriends/etc. It may say something about (lack of)narcissism in(at least college aged) women, but th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 04:17 PM |
| 50 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessMaybe I am reading this article and graph(s) wrong but the only thing this study really says to me is that both men and women, much more so women, underestimate their attractiveness. Of the 14 women that rated themselves at the very lowest attractiveness all but 2 were rated as below average. In fact it looks like mens ratings of themselves is much more in line with what they were rated. 45% of the men and 80% of the women rated themselves as below average. 6% of the men and 9% of the women were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessIt is notable that whereas only 2 males gave themselves the lowest self-perceived attractiveness rating on the scale, 14 females rated themselves that low (see Figures 2 and 3). These findings are consistent with past studies that report that men tend to overestimate their attractiveness Most people could work to their natural genetic peak and will be no where near "overly muscled" the top fitness guys and body competitors are all on gear. I do agree for the most part with your "pretty boys" com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/21 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal to find the flaws in others to be attractive?I'm not sure how normal it is to actually be attracted to those things as much as it is for people to become attracted to those things due to positive experience. Little things that may seem as flaws in someone can become attractive once you get more intimate with them. This can carry over to that being an attractive trait in others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Can average men state what they want upfront and get it?I typically hop around because there is different scenes, different bartenders(you get to know them), more likely to bump into ____ at this bar, this bar has a dance floor and someone in the group wants to dance, this bar has great late night food(as you had mentioned). At least in my experience people in the very least like to keep the scenery fresh. I'm older and when I am out in the rare occasion my older friends want to go out we typically start somewhere, hit up a few places until we crash.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Can average men state what they want upfront and get it?if you're hopping to multiple bars in a night, you're already going into excessive obsession territory. You go out to bars to have fun and drink not just to hook up. It's not crazy for younger people to go out 2+ times a week. There is a select few dudes that have women approaching them multiple times in a night. The women demand the dude takes their numbers and it's a layup from there. That doesn't even include any girls they just have to approach. That all adds up. Again this isn't for your ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 07:50 PM |
| 7 | Can average men state what they want upfront and get it?Men are hardly going to MEET 100 very attractive in their 20's, let alone have sex with them. If you live in a mid to large college area you typically see dozens of very attractive women a day just doing normal things around town. If you go out to a few bars in one night you will see dozens of attractive women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Is there a "secret underworld" of sex going on all the time?but people lie about how much they're fucking so the less attractive loser men don't feel bad about missing out. It's not for the losers it's for themselves. The women don't want any negativity that comes with being a "slut" and the men don't want to be seen as players. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/21 08:06 PM |
| 6 | Women act like men when they switch seats at speed datingCool all that needs to be done is to get all women to approach and for men to become passive selectors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 04:21 PM |
| 5 | A big contributor to male desperation for sex is a lack of social skills and general lack of emotional intelligence.I think a major contributor to the problem here is dealing with rejection and the "get back on the horse" mentality that you need to have. Assuming these inexperienced social skills/intelligence people start to push through their social shortcomings they will often need some sort of positive feedback loop to continue that push. These people have likely already faced social and sexual rejection. Even if they haven't yet a string of rejection will create a negative feedback loop. Inevitably based … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 06:29 PM |
| 21 | Is college worse for dating than high school?College is much worse. HS is typically a smaller closed ecosystem of people made up of the school and ones locale(both of which can be very small to non-existant). It's the closest thing to an OLD free dating ecosystem that still exists. Since dating is new and fresh and no one it jaded, people are more likely to be loyal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 04:02 PM |
| 14 | CMV: Even if women date nice guys, they still find bad boys attractiveIn addition to this the nice hot guys are gone from the market as soon as they hit the market. The badboy assholes are apparent since they are constantly out, around and fucking many of the women you know since they are not attached to any of their women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 08:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men shouldn’t take dating advice from women online at all, until they consider what type of women they want to attractMost guys don't have the choice(as in limited to) in what women they interact with. So any advice would be coming from a small pool to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Young people don't want a "nice" partner, because of the similarities with their family, who they are in process of distancing themselves from, while in puberty.I don't buy it. I'm not going to comment on what women want but men, of the college age, optimally want "easy relationships" with someone who has common interests. By "easy relationship" I mean someone who doesn't take responsibility too seriously, doesn't constantly demand to hang out. Things of that nature. Low effort on their end but still dating someone they are attracted to. I don't think I have ever known any guy who wants a "bad girl" partner(I know they exist,) which makes sense since th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 06:51 PM |
| 7 | Do men enjoy being desired more?I would say across the sexes those who are desired less appreciate it more. I certainly feel comparatively as a a group men are desired less overall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 04:25 PM |
| 10 | How common is guys getting into relationships because they want to avoid sexual dry spells?Usually in this case the guy feels that they aren't going to find anyone ever(stupid take) or have to wait years to find someone else. So it's a situation of :"This is as good as it is going to get, I have to find a way to make this work."........and some of them are actually right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 09:32 PM |
| 3 | How common is guys getting into relationships because they want to avoid sexual dry spells?I would say it's more often about having a relationship dry spell. Your average guy can go years without having anyone interested in them that they have any sort of attraction to. So you end up with: "Shes into me and this might by my last good chance for a long time so might as well try and make this work." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 09:29 PM |
| 3 | How do we explain all the happy couples in their 20s and 30s on social media and in real life?They exist but the savage churn of regular dating is what the majority of (particularly younger)people are going through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | On Sheryl Sandberg's advice to women on finding a life partner: be the first guyJust because this woman(not really sure of her importance to anyone) is telling women not to do that they will take her advice. I've known dozens if not a hundred + Chads, players, bad boys, rock star musicians, etc(no not al all are shitheads) and never have I heard the of the plight of the forever sex zoned guy. I have known publicly outed known abusers whos dating life has gone on without a hitch. How awful do you have to be to have 0 compatibility with anyone? All it takes is just a little f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 06:27 AM |
| 1 | On Sheryl Sandberg's advice to women on finding a life partner: be the first guyI guess I misread you as: Men also complain that they can’t find someone to settle down with despite having fwb options. as saying they can't find someone they want to settle down with. When I worked as a bartender I've seen the same story 100 times of a girl who cries about how her clearly shitty boyfriend is being shitty. When trying to say "maybe he's not the best thing for you" you always get the line of "but I feel something special"(IMO:likely hot and/or good at sex.) Not every woman is li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 06:06 AM |
| 1 | On Sheryl Sandberg's advice to women on finding a life partner: be the first guyThats quite a bit different than guy who fucks can't get get a girl to date him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 05:40 AM |
| 9 | On Sheryl Sandberg's advice to women on finding a life partner: be the first guyThe guys who get nothing but sex cry because they’re lonely and unloved LOL....what? The guy who gets nothing but sex does so because he chooses to do so. Not saying every women would LTR him but a majority would. If you are a good sex guy women see positive qualities in you that no one else sees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 08:42 PM |
| 4 | What are the prospects for Mr Average, realisticallyNot trying to entirely shit on you here but a 2002 study likely doesn't apply to today. The information age was just getting started, OLD was a very niche thing(often reserved for desperates and weirdos) the smartphone barely existed. The whole landscape has changed since then so the numbers have likely shifted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 12:56 AM |
| 1 | What are the prospects for Mr Average, realisticallyThey are Mrs Average and Mrs Below Average.....if he can stand out among the other 100+ options they have. This can be due to a lot of factors, luck being the biggest one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 12:45 AM |
| 1 | If it's fine for hot guys to settle on ugly girls for sex, then it should be fine for girls to settle on ugly guys for relationships.Women having STR's with guys hotter than them(including ugly with average) is typically(/initially) built off of physical attraction and the desire for physical intimacy on the end of the woman. It is the largest and most important part of the seduction process. You have Chads and dumpster divers on the other end of this process. So since this happens your average guy, fairly and deservedly belongs in a low attraction, low intimacy LTR to balance things out. Hot take........I don't even have to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Here's a calculator for women to find how many men fit their criteria, and the results are not goodI always say this when coming to this CDC statistic but that number takes into account all people above 20. I assume that if you took a normal dating age(18-30) that number would be quite a bit lower for men and women. With that said I have been unable to find any weight statistics by age groups. If you look at obesity rates in 12-19 year olds it is 21% and for 20 and over it is 40%. Due to this I would guess the 20-30 age group would be significantly lower than the 30+ group since this age is o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Empaths and narcissists tend to pair up, which is why people think women like bad boys and actual nice guys get treated badlyThat isn't the point. I'm just saying the study posted doesn't really point to what they are trying to point to. I do agree that women tolerate badness when it comes with good looks(status and commitment optional and unlikely.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Empaths and narcissists tend to pair up, which is why people think women like bad boys and actual nice guys get treated badlyThat study doesn't back them up it just says men tolerate BPD behavior for the sake of getting with a hot girl. For men, attractiveness was the most important factor in predicting dating appeal. Men viewed physically attractive women who were high in borderline personality traits to be more appealing than women who were less physically attractive and low in borderline personality traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Are women on dating apps truly the 30+, post-wall “leftovers” generally speaking when we’re in the middle of a covid resurgence?I am not really getting any connection between your problem and the question about 30 somethings but....... There is a very good chance if you are a 30+ woman who has a lot to offer, without a lot of baggage, you are in the top 3% or so of women of that age group. It's not that crazy that the best of us get snatched up at a younger age. You are 24 so you will likely have too many options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Question about “the wall”As far as I am concerned the wall is when some minor changes happen in a womans life. Her options for men go from 100's of guys to dozens. People are less likely to hold the door for them, smile at them and people wont seem as nice as they used to be. It's a change but it's mostly going from being treated like they used to be to being treated closer to an everyday man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 09:42 PM |
| 1 | It seems to be common knowledge that fewer men are dating and in relationships than women. But if the gender ratio is roughly 50/50, how can this be?I'm not following you here but I don't understand why you insist on including the entire data set in which old single women(least likely to want to date) are included. Only and only when you include the oldest subset of women, who are also have the highest percentage of "not looking for a partner" do the stats even out. Women live longer than men, so you have a bunch of really fucking old women that will never date anyone because they are that old. This stat also does not take into account the y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 09:09 PM |
| 3 | It seems to be common knowledge that fewer men are dating and in relationships than women. But if the gender ratio is roughly 50/50, how can this be?"But more young men are single than young women." Because people date across age groups. Even after posting this link, you have to post willfully ignorant statements like this. On average, using those numbers men aged below 50 are 39% likely to be single, women only 25%. When including the <65 group those numbers change to 35% and 26%. I don't think the 50+ market is covering the ground here. The high percent of single older women also has correlation with that age group(of women) saying the do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 04:25 PM |
| 0 | Men here don't chase "all types of women". Otherwise, they wouldn't complain about one type of female.The only conclusion I can get from this is all physically attractive women have the shitty qualities listed in the OP.........which is absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 11:47 PM |
| 1 | What will be the effects of the present dating market 10 years from now?Until advanced AI realizes the money and freedom it can have using OF........using filters only the thottiest of thots can dream up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 04:23 PM |
| 5 | What will be the effects of the present dating market 10 years from now?Working out daily and pumping themselves full of steroids in order to compete for the attention of a 350 pounder on welfare with five kids. Thats the most ridiculous thing I have read in my life..........we all know SARMS are the future of building men's physiques | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe single, straight women between the ages of 18 and 35 actually know what they want?but they can't handle adversity I would say for the women you have been dating(from an outside perspective based on what you wrote), it's not that they can't handle adversity, it's that they don't need handle adversity. This is not uncommon for women. They are so used to freely and easily going from one relationship to the next plus the initial high of being with a new partner(that we all get) that they probably have convinced themselves that they are doing what is best for them. They choose not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 08:53 PM |
| 4 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to DieWhat is it with all the "power dynamic" crap???? The vast, vast majority of women in porn are 18-24 or so. That is the most popular range where women make the most money. So by the "power dynamic" line of thinking, men are beating off to these women because of the theoretical/fantasy power dynamic, in their favor, and not because they are significantly more attractive than the vast majority of women that are older. Give me a break. Younger women are typically more physically attractive and adven… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | What exactly did TRP teach you that normal dating advice doesn't?I don't know who that is and just looked her up. She looks like an average, lower/lower-mid BMI, younger woman. She's cute but in the college town I live in she would just be average(compared to other similar BMI girls) and you couldn't walk to the grocery store without passing a few girls at her level. She actually kind of looks alot like an ex my roomate had and I never thought she was all that. Don't get me wrong, shes probably THE girl for some guys, but for me shes just another cute younger… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 12:18 AM |
| 8 | The new show 'Sex/Life' is one of the top shows on Netflix worldwide (US, UK, AUS, etc) since it's release. Is the extreme popularity of this show with its female audience, similar to best sellers like Twilight, 50 Shades of Grey and other media, yet another example of open hypergamy?Eh....Tiger King was pop culture for a small amount of time. I will say Tiger King isn't really a good example because it is a mostly real human interest story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Will obesity collapse the dating market? - in the year 2030, 60% of American women will be obese.Keep in mind that from these statistics it usually takes the 19-100 age group into account. The numbers for young, dating aged people, is likely(you really can't find many studies that breaks down the numbers) significantly lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 10:02 PM |
| 3 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?I'm older and have some exposure to that age group so my opinion is from a very limited view. IMO many under 30 somethings are somewhat introverted and their only outlet for dating is OLD, which is a cesspool mostly driven by looks. This cuts most average guys out of the dating scene for a number of reasons. Going out to meet people is typically a minefield due to how approaching women has changed over the last few decades. Second thing is they are poor. Under 30's are working just like the gene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 09:48 PM |
| 3 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?Skin rashes and dandruff I'd been experiencing for 6 months vanished almost overnight. So by changing your diet for the first time in your life, a problem you had for 6 months went away and you think the diet was the reason. What about the rest of your life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Women should do the "Pig Woman Experiment" on dating apps to really appreciate how worthless 'validation' is.I really haven't seen that. I did know one dude that would joke about her being "a big ride" and things of that nature. He married her several years later and now has 2 kids with her. Not that I am naive enough to think that it doesn't every happen......it's just not a very common thing. Most dudes would rather jerk off than force themselves through someone they have no physical attraction to. Somehow it seems a lot of people in this forum feel men only chase "Stacies" and thus never get laid an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Women should do the "Pig Woman Experiment" on dating apps to really appreciate how worthless 'validation' is.Whose fault is it, then? Are women sending themselves hundreds of message or are men doing it? Shouldnt you be blaming your own gender for apparently hyping up these women? Hot take after you just writing: And if it apparently "doesn't matter", why do you guys get upset about it? Why do you guys complain time and time again about men sending women thousands of messages? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 09:04 PM |
| 8 | Women should do the "Pig Woman Experiment" on dating apps to really appreciate how worthless 'validation' is.How is it flattering to be hit on only because of your gender and literally nothing else. Well it's also because the guys are physically attracted enough to the person to desire physical intimacy. That is often how most initial attraction in dating works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls?I agree with your latter sentence, it is not a fast food workers job to do so. Realistically it is not the job of the OF content creator either. I've already said the OF end user bears some blame here. Yes it's idiotic but these end users have (possibly a laundry list)issues that require (often professional)help. The OF creator sees these issues in people that require that help and finds it to be something they can exploit for their financial gain. It's a dick move. I've seen and heard a number … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls?Dude you are fucking delusional, an idiot, or arguing in bad faith if you think your mundane greasy food shit line worker job is equivalent to OF. I refuse to believe anyone is this stupid and can only accept the latter of those options. How many of your customers are talking to you about their day to day shit? Coming to you on the daily to fulfill their social/emotional/romantic/etc lives? 1%, .5%(it's probably .0X).....well these girls are talking about double digit if not high double digit pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls?Correct people are happy when they get the food they order. Correct loons that need help wonder the street willing to talk to anyone about their personal life. YOU likely wouldn't(and shouldn't) give them the time of day but did since you are working on behalf of KFC. You should be extremely worried if, as a KFC worker, someone goes to you to fill social/emotional/mental gaps in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls?Customer service is an extension of the corporate heads of corporations. Corporate heads are assholes for a lot of reasons. Do you know anyone who fills a mental/emotional/social gap via customer service? If you don't then your comparison doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls?Eh....not really. Some you gel with, some are light acquaintances, others you strictly work with and others you don't interact with(upper management.) Just because the job is the crux of the relationship does not mean the interaction is fake. There are plenty of people who fill social and emotional gap with the OF guys and girls. I don't think that most people would say that about their coworkers. Not that there aren't fake ass people in all walks of life.......that doesn't make them less of an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 05:07 PM |
| – | Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls?The whole bullshitting interest in who the person is then saying lifes been rough latley, bills, etc buy my latest video. One of the big drivers of OF is the whole pretend interest in your life shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls?I believe the big draw for most OF girls is that they "chat" with their userbase. With that said the highest earning ones I think just pump out a ton of sexy content with their top %1 of the population bodies/faces. I sure would do it if I could. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls?Personal opinion here but I think a lot of others agree with this. I guess it's an issue I have but don't really ever think about. I don't care if someone has a feed of naked pictures/videos they sell of themselves. No different than porn stars. I do think the women(and men) that are selling friendship/relationships(one of the main draws of the service over porn) are taking advantage of mentally fucked up people and what they are doing is no good for their long term health. If you have seen docu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Men should make women wait for sex if they want to avoid high n-count womenThis is a tightrope to walk. Don't show just enough of the right type of interest, she's off dating some other guy thats been on the shelf. So if a dude doesn't say or do the right things you are disqualified. Just not trying to initiate intimacy(which a girl may want but also definitely decline) is enough for you to show the lack of interest in her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 09:11 PM |
| 17 | Romance as depicted by media has set more unrealistic expectations in men than in women.I think that reality hits most guys pretty hard at a young age. So while I think there are possibly more tropes pushing guys in an unrealistic direction, the world sets them straight at a pretty young age. Quick enough where you won't become super blackpill. I feel this way about a lot of the dating world including how self care helps and how sex isn't a porn movie. A ‘build it and they will come’ mindset is a far better strategy that is not pushed positively enough. Probably would make for a cr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 04:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Sex robots, legal prostitution, improved sex toys etc. won’t have any major impact on dissatisfied men.Probably because they are socially/emotionally lonely. Sexual needs are met but there is more to life than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 02:34 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Sex robots, legal prostitution, improved sex toys etc. won’t have any major impact on dissatisfied men.This can be the case due to a lot of factors. An abused dog will not trust a new owner without a good amount of time. My roomate adopted a 11(estimated) year old abandoned dog and it was having terrible separation anxiety within the first week of him when he would go to work. It's a crapshoot with older ones but good on you for adopting one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 02:30 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Sex robots, legal prostitution, improved sex toys etc. won’t have any major impact on dissatisfied men.I agree about toys and prostitutes. I disagree about (hyper advanced, none of us here will live to see) sexbots. I think at a certain level of "realness" sexbots will be able to replace all aspects of a human partner, obviously toys and prostitutes(unless you have an enormous amount of money to pay for 24x7 service) can not do so. I don't think people really need the validation. I don't think most guys care about bragging. My best current example of people not really needing to earn validation i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Men are less interested in relationships due to changing gender rolesI think you are overthinking it.....and I don't think men are less interested in relationships at all. Women have more options than ever, men have to "compete" more so than ever. After putting in enough work for little to no results guys just give up on the whole relationship thing and check out of the world keeping busy with time killing hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 09:22 PM |
| 2 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.If you look at the top subreddits it is: default subreddits followed by a variety of general topics. It's not a bunch of nerd culture bullshit. I would argue that Instagram probably has more Jake Paul influencer types but below that is just as many average and below average users as Reddit. The IG population is more likely to be made up of people trying to look like their lives are better than they are and people living vicariously through other, more famous people. People posting pictures of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.Well that's just how the kids talk these days....a buzzword to be forgotten in a decade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.I have heard opposite to be a "Ken" when used in the "some entitled, privileged person" realm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 08:26 PM |
| 2 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.Reddit in general is dominated by well below average men LOL. If you are going to say that about Reddit you might as well say that about any other social media site that attracts several hundreds of millions of users per month. We live in the smartphone age. Spending several hours a day on social media is what average people do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 08:24 PM |
| 1 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.See when you add in the married people(%40 of that study) guys are having plenty of sex(at least one time a year.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 08:05 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] How would you feel if your boyfriend used to date Stacies?Women saying so many men marry ok girls as a starter wife and dump her 5-10 years later for a hot younger woman no where to be found in this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't have "different standards for different men". There's different standards for hookups and different standards for relationships.See. So you only wanted sex. If you’re guy b and you didn't tell her up front that you’re only interested in sex, that’s your fault you got ”strung along” I don't follow. I just don't get how you you are comparing a girl and guy going through a "single phase" to what potentially is a sugar baby scenario. Guy B isn't getting strung along in either situation. It's just a bad comparison you made and I am pointing that out. This was in my previous post. Not seeing that in your linked post. No matter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't have "different standards for different men". There's different standards for hookups and different standards for relationships.Men also love gloating about how "Yeah, I'd fuck her but I'd never wife her up!" You should write dialogue for 80's teen slasher horror movies, this line would fit in perfectly there. Let's say you're dating a guy for I don't know 5 months and he doesn't really like taking you to nice places to eat or.......... This isn't the opposite of the "sex with Chad" scenario. In that scenario both person A and B get physical intimacy. Mutual benefit. In your scenario A spends their money on someone and B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 04:52 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL]Do you believe average/below average people overstate how easy dating is for hot people in their gender?By limited I don't mean limited options everyday. I mean over a(active dating) lifetime. I empathize with you but you will have your day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 10:00 PM |
| 5 | [Q4ALL]Do you believe average/below average people overstate how easy dating is for hot people in their gender?Nope. The only thing difficult for both hot men and women is they are spoiled for choice if they are specifically looking for something long term. This allows them a higher non-negotiable list of things their SO must have, which can be hard to find. Average younger women are spoiled for choice too but don't nearly have the numbers a hot woman will. Average guys will have limited options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 09:18 PM |
| 6 | Western women are the overwhelming object of interest of this subreddit, yet are a less significant demographic with each moment that passes, and will matter much less as time goes onOk, time to shut down PPD. Things are going to be different several lifetimes after we are all dead so why dwell on the present. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 04:13 PM |
| 5 | Why aren't folks having sex?For pretty much most women, it's because they don't want to for a variety of reasons. For men, your top guys are drowning in sex. You above average(but not top) and below have a series of trials they have to go through to get sex. For many they think there is too much effort involved or they get so mentally beat up by the trials that they no longer have the will to give the effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 09:18 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierIt's somewhat hard to relate to this because I have never met a "happily single" woman. I am almost 40 and due to my prior job(bar work) in addition to other hobbies/social gatherings knew likely hundreds of women in various capacities across a number of various social groups. Pretty much every single one, even to this day is in a LTR/married, jumping from STR to STR(finding a LTR here and there) with a "single" gap of maximum 1 month or "single" while semi-regularly(again no more than a month g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 11:56 PM |
| 13 | Why do some women like "sad boys" ?Likely becuse the "sad boy" is also very attractive. Essentially tending to the hot wounded animal. They aren't into sad fat guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | The obesity epidemic is one reason for the rise in sexlessness among young people.They are effectively saying "I do not know what country you are from but in my country" not "I live on a college campus and never see that." Redditors tend to assume everyone is from the USA so perhaps some other country has 70% obesity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | The obesity epidemic is one reason for the rise in sexlessness among young people.Beacuse you said Idk why people have to argue with stats with "well i dont see that when i look out my window" in response to the OP saying I don't know where you live but 50% of 20-somethings are definitely not obese. Obesity is pretty damn rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | The obesity epidemic is one reason for the rise in sexlessness among young people.70%(USA stats) is overweight/obese. About 38% of that is obese. That also is the stats for 20-99 where older people skew the numbers in the fatter direction. The OP here is correct though I wouldn't consider obesity to be "pretty damn rare." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | The obesity epidemic is one reason for the rise in sexlessness among young people.Eh.....after 25 is around the age when people start getting married, have kids and locked down to full time jobs(which, in the USA, is very slanted towards low physical activity jobs.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | The obesity epidemic is one reason for the rise in sexlessness among young people.It's hard to get anything near solid numbers for the younger dating aged people but the statistics that most people pull from(roughly 73% of men and 66% of women being overweight/obese) is for age 20 and above. Those same statistics have the 12-19 range at 20% overweight/obese. From that we can assume that the overweight/obese numbers for 20-30 are not nearly as bad as the 20-99 number of 70%. Is it an issue.....probably, but overstated because the younger dating population is being lumped in wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 09:05 PM |
| 7 | You can't call a woman's change in her male preferences with age 'maturing' because the geeks she 'matures' to like get way less affection than the Chads she liked in young age. That is settlingIn this case you are comparing children to adults where a significant amount of brain growth occurs to adults to slightly older adults where a fraction of that brain growth occurs. Even then Disney and McDonalds are plenty popular among adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Are there men who actually PREFER an average woman over a stunning one?Well, yes people can prefer an physically average person over a physically above average person based on the other things they bring to the table. It's obviously not ideally the case for really any men or women. You are unlikely to find anyone who can't be improved upon in some capacity. I don't think these people are sitting around wondering about theoretical situations though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Are Sugar Daddies considered Winners or Losers?Paying for affection has always been a losers activity in my book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 09:24 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men should stop simping for any woman they any get.At some point in the hierarchy of men you are essentially asking the men who are starving to turn down what his last chance ever at food and in turn he might one day get better food, but no guarantee. As stated here more than once, as a coordinated effort by all men on the planet, this could work......but obviously this is something that will never ever happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Older men can't get women their age?Sounds like revenge fantasy bullshit. "He only goes for those young, messed up, slutty, crazy, fat, idiot, whorish women because he can't handle a well put together, stable, confident in herself, knows what she wants and gets it older woman." I am late 30's and older women are, for the sake of quick discussion, boring and slow paced. Younger women are more spontaneous and fast paced. In addition to looks that is why men are after them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Question to Women: how much of a factor is male fashion?A bit off topic but I think most younger men, interested in dating, are well aware of the benefits of fashion. On more than one article I read recently(post 2018) about dating stuff had questions for men about how important they felt fashion/how they dressed was. In both articles it was very important for like 60% of guys and overall important for more than 80%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 08:30 PM |
| 1 | What have you learned from PPD that has actually improved your life?within a few months By that point people typically know they are dating seriously at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 04:22 AM |
| 0 | What have you learned from PPD that has actually improved your life?means there is some I already said that about the girls chasing chads. Pay attention. getting pumped and dumped and/or being forever girlfriends or married wasting up to years of their lives In your twisted world dating people any period of time before marrying amounts to wasting time of your life. Absurd bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 02:01 AM |
| 1 | What have you learned from PPD that has actually improved your life?So in my experience there may be some "forever girlfriends" that have come from the situation but there really isn't anyway to prove that either way. In the very least there isn't much pump and dump going on as initially implied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 11:22 PM |
| 2 | What have you learned from PPD that has actually improved your life?What you consider "forever girlfriends" is just normal dating. It's not some robotic ask out > date 28 months > marry situation. I don't know any women that have married a HVM, since they make up like 1/100 guys. As is always the case most people are average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 10:41 PM |
| 1 | What have you learned from PPD that has actually improved your life?This place is usually a good reminder that my locale can be a canyon away from the locale of others. I just assume a lot of times that people here are in college/youthful city areas and clearly some people here are living in the sticks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 10:19 PM |
| 4 | What have you learned from PPD that has actually improved your life?You're gonna get a lot of guys who are thrilled about the opportunity to pump and dump you. I know a number(far from the majority) of women I know that do this and it hasn't really been the case. Most seem to end up dating for a bit if not a very long time. The ones going after Chads and players will likely end up here but with a good head on their shoulders they can usually vet their way into something more in line with regular dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 10:17 PM |
| 0 | What are your physical dealbreakers in women?Weight(certain women wear it better than others) typically obesity or extreme skinniness. Tattoos typically are a big ugly turn off, but most every girl has one so you got to roll with it. Too many piercings. Usually short or "boy" haircuts can do a lot to hurt a women's attractiveness so they can be a dealbreaker even though I would have the hots for a similar girl with a different hairstyle. Unhygienic but I can't say I really ever see that in the younger dating aged crowd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 10:32 PM |
| 1 | How much casual sex are the women that you know are having?Well I can't say this about every married/LTR girl I know but I will say the women most likely to approach me for a casual hookup are married/LTR'd to people I know. I must have some sort of attitude or look that makes women feel I'm the guy receptive to this. So fucking awkward cause I'm not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 10:16 PM |
| 1 | How much casual sex are the women that you know are having?There are pretty much two types of girls. The ones in relationships and the ones "hanging out" with guys in an endless line of STR's in search of(I assume) LTR a relationship. So if you consider months-years of STR to STR endlessly being casual(I don't) I guess it is a pretty common thing in my world. I've known tons of girls but very, very few were the "find a random guy at the bar to go home with" type or the "sleep with everyone" type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Young men and sexlessness: Why's this going on?I ain't discounting what you see but I know probably dozens of younger(20-late 20's) women, through various activities, friend groups and scenes in a college town. Pretty much every single one(including obese ones) go no longer than 3 weeks maybe a month without dating(this could be in various capacities) at least one guy(FYI it's almost always just one guy at a time.) I'm not super in the loop with every one but it's not uncommon to find a girl both broke up and is dating someone new since I la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 08:24 PM |
| 6 | Legalizing prostitution will barely change the dating worldSex trafficking is common in all areas that have legal prostitution. I've seen some articles stating that illegal human trafficking goes up in areas where it is legal(I believe because it is more likely to be reported, since it is a regulated/protected job.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 05:06 AM |
| 16 | Legalizing prostitution will barely change the dating worldProbably sex trafficking. It's a big problem in prostitution legalized countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 12:11 AM |
| 6 | I don't believe that a beta uprising will happen, instead, a beta downrisingI would say that they accomplished showing that, under certain circumstances, certain people know they can overthrow a "corrupt government." I think it showed to a lot of people that they are almost there when it comes to doing this but, they just need to take it a step further. Of course if you listen to the roulette wheel of right wing loon talking points, "Antifa" did it....or maybe the FBI. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 04:24 PM |
| 1 | NYT - Why American Women Everywhere Are Delaying Motherhoodthan ever in recent history since the great depression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 12:59 AM |
| 3 | NYT - Why American Women Everywhere Are Delaying MotherhoodPeople have less earning power than ever while both parties work full time. Child care is ridiculously expensive. We are pricing parenting out of the market in the USA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Women's argument that men want domestic slaves is nothing but strawman to justify their entitlementI do think a fair amount of men like this exist. Mostly in highly religious circles and in more "conservative" areas of the country. It is a strawman since I don't think there is a lot of crossover between the women of PPD and people of that culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Bloomberg - Fewer Young Men Are in the Labor Force. More Are Living at Home For 25- to 34-year-olds, the two trends add up to a failure to launch.Essentially means the consolidation of a nations businesses to involve less and less players. This is the direction that capitalism, unchecked to a certain degree(not making any statement here), will always end up being. Late stage capitalism is just a catch all for that idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 12:47 AM |
| 7 | Bloomberg - Fewer Young Men Are in the Labor Force. More Are Living at Home For 25- to 34-year-olds, the two trends add up to a failure to launch.Truth is, late stage capitalism has resulted in less well paying jobs and less room for advancement, so nothing really pays well enough to motivate a certain percent of people. This is a moving train in a lot of the first world so it isn't changing any time soon. The dating market is a factor but not the main factor by a mile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill awareIn addition to the right wing stuff I usually get a bunch of advertising that is far, far away from anything I am interested in. I also always choose none of the above when YT surveys me. It might just be a case of YT not knowing what to spam me with. Surprised I don't get more nerdy stuff, but maybe they don't advertise on YT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 11:48 PM |
| 4 | Most teenaged boys by 2023 will be red pill awarePersonally not my experience. I mostly watch nerdy stuff and fitness and I live in a very liberal area. For some reason I semi-regularly get far right wing shit. In fact the few things I do watch that tread politically on youtube are seen as liberal(John Oliver, Daily Show.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 09:50 PM |
| 0 | How would you feel if online dating and social media in your country was outlawed tomorrow?I get that but I don't think that was what the OP was specifically going for. He could have said how would you feel if the internet was shut down and would roughly be the same questionl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 09:39 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel if online dating and social media in your country was outlawed tomorrow?Again this definition would encompass pretty much every website on the internet. The internet as a whole is an "interactive technology that allow the creation or sharing/exchange of information, ideas, career interests, and other forms of expression"Also all online video games. Netflix as well. Text messaging I believe falls under this umbrella. I'm not arguing with you the definition you found by the way. It's a fucking stupid vague definition of what social media is but it's what the internet … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 05:43 PM |
| 2 | How would you feel if online dating and social media in your country was outlawed tomorrow?Reddit is a messageboard aggregate. Youtube is a video streaming platform. Social media is "I have a page. This page is about me and has pictures and posts from which I can curate a comment section." Just because something has a section where comments can be posted does not make it social media. In fact the OP saying that Tik Tok, and dating apps would be banned doesn't make sense either. If you are throwing that wide of a net for "social media" most television and news outlets would be banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 01:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repairedIn fact they were the Chads and real life Chad was looking all over the internet for dating apps like a fool since they didn't exist yet. How the tables have turned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Being "nice" is an evolutionary component for social bonding. The problem with the "nice guy/girl" argument is that these people aren't attractive enough for their niceness to matter in a sexual/romantic context.I hang around a lot of bars and scenes that are known for being very evenly mixed in the sexual preference sense and that sentence is a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 09:21 PM |
| 5 | How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning?I don't think it makes much of a difference. Most people are just trying to get by and want to be able to afford shelter. Endless, depressed, cogs in the system living a pointless existence of living because they don't want to die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 08:51 PM |
| 4 | Men get their nice guy ideas from high school movies and the anime harem genre.A fresh take on the old "guys get lied to by the media." No but it usually comes from girl complaining about dating "assholes", girl dating blatant assholes and crying over relationship woes or guy perceiving guys girl is dating to be "assholes." As a result of this they treat said girl nearly as well as they would if they were dating. I just noticed this pattern of men claiming women lied to them, but they can't prove that women said what they think women said. No one records every conversation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Women should plan for a future without a partner.This is pretty interesting. A fun read(and I appreciate the link.) This isn't a very good study but has some merit. First off it's based off a one question survey. A scale of 1 to 7 men averaged a 5(age 16) growing upward to 5.2(41+.) Women averaged a 4.8(age 16) growing upward to a 5(41+.) A difference in self reported "I have high self esteem" of 2.8% which falls well into the realm of statistical insignificance. The overall male/female split was 40/60 and 42 of the 46 countries were female pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Women should plan for a future without a partner.Yes I already said I searched. You would know that if you read my post. I just searched again now and the first post is from "The Atlantic" by two woman writing a a book about the lack of self esteem with no real credentials. The second post says is from psychology today by a psychologist saying that women do not have lower self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:32 AM |
| 0 | Women should plan for a future without a partner.In addition to this women this age aren't raised with the "man catching" skills that were part of the older days of society. Learning to cook is not some skill women are passing to their children unless it's a hobby they choose to have. I've hung out with 20something women that don't know how to cook pasta. This lack of cooking ability is probably pretty evenly split across the sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Women should plan for a future without a partner.Where do you get this from? In addition to looking myself, someone here who believed this tried to show this(in some capacity) to me but couldn't. Genuinely curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:19 AM |
| 2 | No hymen, no diamond: The sexual counterrevolution is comingMost men have a handful of choices when it comes to dating prospects in their entire lifetime. They don't get to really call any shots here. I suppose one should expect a counter movement to the age of sexual liberation, and especially to the widespread pornofication. Don't see this happening either. Sex-lessness is on the rise pretty much everywhere and it isn't due to to much liberation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 05:28 PM |
| 8 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?There is another side to this though. I would say nearly every time a woman approaches me(by this I mean: we have no outside connection and she comes up to me at a bar), by the end of the night they usually try to have us going home together. The same goes for men approaching me. I am not some Chad and I don't think I am some anomaly. Of course that is the bar and not some hobby meetup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 05:16 PM |
| 2 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.Read reviews until you find a girl that offers that. And be prepared to pay more for it........and again you have to be able to be delusional enough to buy into it. I watch pro wrestling. I don't pretend it's real, because I know it's fake and I can't undo that. That is a hurdle for people. You don't need to be on here whining. You need an older uncle to take you to a hooker and get over your hang ups. Listen you clueless fuck. I'm old enough to where my uncle has one foot in the grave and I am … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 06:42 AM |
| – | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.You're not paying for affection, you're paying for sex. And men just want to pump & dump anyway right? Affection is for girls. In most cases men are paying for simulated affection. Few men want to just stick their dick into a lifeless wet hole. They want genuine enthusiasm from the other person. If you ever hear from real prostitutes, plenty of men(in fact their best paying) want to hang out, cuddle, talk, etc. Very few guys are going to be all about banging a chick while she dicks around on her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 04:40 AM |
| – | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.There is a lot of reasons. I genuinely think the number one is that paying for affection is weird and not really satisfying. The human connection makes sex better for many. Then you have the expense issue(attractive women are expensive.) There is social stigma. There are scammers. Even under situations where it is fully legalized, it just doesn't seem popular. There is probably a mix of reasons in the end, but "just go to a prostitute" just isn't the answer here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 10:56 PM |
| 0 | Q4All: Explain to me how an older man manipulates a younger woman (18+)The conversation is about what you have in common with people not your age, particularly older than you. The "creep" discussion was never on the table. Just human compatibility. I'm just trying to paint to you how people, not even in a dating sense, can be aligned at a very high social and intelectual level despite an age gap. You are allowed your opinion on what relationships are creepy. Plenty of people find gay relationships and interracial relationships creepy. Everyone is entitled to their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: Explain to me how an older man manipulates a younger woman (18+)Do you have any hobbies whatsoever?????......because chances are you have the same hobbies as adults 20 years older than you. Thats generally all adults have in common. People have personality quirks, and lifestyle quirks but they aren't age exclusive either. So you probably have plenty in common with significantly older adults as well as somewhat younger(once you get to sub 13ish you are dealing with a child brain.) people than yourself. If you choose to write off the common ground you have wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Explain to me how an older man manipulates a younger woman (18+)This topic has been brought up before and it mostly comes down to women feeling it's gross. The manipulation thing it s cop out and allows them to seperate themselves from people who find gay and interracial relationships gross. Sure there is a percentage of guys who manipulate women but those guys typically have been doing that since their youth. Every other case it is a guy who gets head over heels for attractive younger woman, initially due to youthful beauty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 08:57 PM |
| 5 | Q4All: Explain to me how an older man manipulates a younger woman (18+)because I believe that older men that go for younger women are doing so because She is super physically attractive. That is usually the case, not all the other stuff you concern about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Explain to me how an older man manipulates a younger woman (18+)What could I possibly have in common with a male who is significantly more mature & experienced than I am? Hobbies. Books, movie types, hiking, making art. I hate to break it to you but there isn't much difference between a single 21 year old and a single 40 year old. Most people are just floating around aimlessly trying to get by and not be around depressing things. I know plenty of married couples and most have next to nothing in common other than they are nice to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 08:47 PM |
| 15 | Q4All: Explain to me how an older man manipulates a younger woman (18+)The whole age/in common bullshit always comes up when discussing this. People really aren't that different. Sure they didn't grow up with the same TV shows and pop music. People are boring and typically like the same things. Hiking, going to theater, movies, music, video games, reading. People like doing regular shit. Pretty much every married couple I know has next to nothing in common. They get each others personalities and watch TV/stream shows together. That's about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Is the primary sexual attractiveness for a woman literally "Dont be fat"?So in other words... it's not easy enough. Not exactly, one gives good feelings right now. on demand. Immediate results. I suppose for the impatient having things happen on demand is the easier thing. This is not, at all, why people squat in abandoned buildings and do crack all day and it makes me deeply sad that you think it is. I said it wasn't a great analogy. Don't play stupid. Maybe this is better: If everyone just decided that they were going to do what they felt like based on "because I e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 06:50 AM |
| 0 | Is the primary sexual attractiveness for a woman literally "Dont be fat"?It does when you also desperately want to do the thing but can’t stick with it. They desperately want the end results. They can't stick with it because losing/maintaining weight does not give immediate positive feedback. Lost weight often gives passive feedback(compliments, feeling better=feels good.) The Shit food most love(myself included) gives on demand immediate feedback(taste of cheese fries=feels good.) This isn't the best analogy but in an alternate reality these people would be crackhea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Is the primary sexual attractiveness for a woman literally "Dont be fat"?Just because you can do something you enjoy more than another thing doesn't mean that the other thing is hard to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Is the primary sexual attractiveness for a woman literally "Dont be fat"?It's not that people can't do it they would just rather do something that is easier and provides immediate positive feedback. For a lot of people it is the difference between eating yourself stuffed with you favorite foods all the time and eating set portions of otherwise good(but not favorite) food. As I said there are other factors that go into play but this is the single biggest one. No people cannot get a fitness model body easily but healthy BMI is not hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Is the primary sexual attractiveness for a woman literally "Dont be fat"?I still don't completely get what I would agree with but I assume that losing weight isn't easy because so many people are fat. I don't agree with that. Ah yes, but the mostly the answer is lack of self control and the want for (or habit of) immediate feelgood results......and not to be repetitive wanting immediate feelgood results isn't equal to laziness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 12:04 AM |
| 5 | Is the primary sexual attractiveness for a woman literally "Dont be fat"?I'm not sure what I would be agreeing(I replied to why are so many people fat) with but if you feel that it comes mostly comes down to lack of self control with some X factors, then we agree. Losing/maintaining a healthy BMI is an easy thing to do on paper. It's easy but people would rather do things that immediately get the good feeling endorphins going. Why fix lifes problems when you can drug yourself all day? I replied because too many people were painting it as laziness when that is a bit t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Is the primary sexual attractiveness for a woman literally "Dont be fat"?then why are so many people still fat? There is actually a lot of reasons. You have already heard laziness, but I think that is near the bottom of reasons. If you already work an 8(10 when you add in lunch break and travel to/from) hour day and don't want to spend an additional 45-120(depending on where you want to go) minutes at the gym, I don't exactly consider you lazy. Spending 2/3 of your day doing things you don't enjoy isn't much of a life if you ask me. Laziness can take the form of not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman being funny change her value in relationships at all?Having compatible humor will help. Non compatible will hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Straight men will not spend a significant amount of time/are not close friends with a straight woman in whom they are not sexually or romantically interested.Well from my perspective even if things done start out this way, they eventually end up there. There is women who I am friends with whom I was not initially attracted to but the better we got to know them, they moved from "not my type" to "would be fun to fool around with(or more)." So even if the intention was never there initially, due to the social/emotional bond with them you end up with a curiosity for a physical bond. The relationship status really doesn't matter to me. The sexual situatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 09:37 PM |
| 4 | How does womens behaviour change when they get older (30s compared to 20s) and why does it happen?Im heading towards my 40's at this point and: I think typically around 25-30 people(women and men) get tired of socialization, tired of new experience and get set in their ways. Before that they are usually more open to excitement and spontaneous behavior. This effects dating patterns. No longer do they want to live for the moment or find adventure. They want to go to bed at 10:30 on Friday night and spend their weekend mostly with their hobbies. The chaos of youthful living takes too much energ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 10:51 PM |
| 20 | What does a woman have to work on in order to attract a man?Damn dude, you should write self help books. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/21 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Assuming you are an attractive guy, what are places to look for long lasting relationships?I think looks matter mostly in the hook up department but where would being attractive help with actual relationships? Attractiveness, in real life or online is obviously lead to more interested parties of the other(and same for that matter) sex. The more options you have the more likely you are to find a partner with all the attributes you are looking for without having to settle. Attractiveness across the board will lead to one having more opportunities at all kinds of things in life in and ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 11:44 PM |
| 1 | If women shouldnt feel proud about talking money from simps and losers, then men shouldnt feel proud about fucking Pick Me Girls and female losers.I've known, in various capacities, hundreds of women in my life and never have I met a "pick me" girl. I've seen plenty throw themselves at chads but I don't think that is the same thing. I've known what I consider gimmick guys. The fat funny guy always fishing for a laugh, the "crazy guy" always doing stupid shit for attention, gymbro always trying to show off his strength. Is that the male equivalent of a "pick me????" Because girls don't have to do outlandish shit to get attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves.All men who don't give a fuck about her as a person and would love to use her as a fleshlight and then ghost her. If you are assuming all men on the planet have no interest in dating or relationships......you are dead wrong. A lot of people(guys included)just don't have much going on and enjoy the company, the affection the little things that come with dating. Now maybe that is not your experience and if so it's because you are shit a vetting guys. There is more than enough guys within that pool… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves.Men are not confident in dating because no one wants to fuck most of them. Most get 1/1000 matches in online dating. So men are less confident in the dating arena. Of course women will have to vet for all your stuff in the last paragraph but that doesn't really have anything to do with valuing/overvaluing themselves. I am not sure how you can not see who will be more confident: A woman who has hundreds of matches in online/IRL simply has to whittle down her options to get one that fits her check… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves.Suituationally yes. This forum is mostly about dating/sex/etc so a study showing that men have more confidence than women in their professional performance has no bearing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves.This article has to do with job performance and ability. Not dating market confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves.Partially responsible. Women end up with inflated egos because they throw themselves at top guys(girls fault) and hook up with them(guys fault,) leading them to believe they can land top guys(girls fault) when they are just another girl in a long line of girls that have hooked up with him. The majority of guys have almost no options throughout their lives and are happy with anything they can get and thus have to throw out a wide net to get anything or live alone. This is a whirlwind of fault fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 09:54 PM |
| 11 | Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves.Simps inflate your Onlyfans and IG thots. Your top guys inflate way more girls by hooking up with them. Good luck getting those guys to stop banging the non stop women that throw themselves at them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Porn use negatively affects men's sexual satisfaction in actual real-life sexThis article seems to have all over the place results when it comes to couples(in the last paragraph of " Changes in Sexual Satisfaction".) There is too many paper citations for me to go through but I would guess that plenty of these people who have low satisfaction with their sex life aren't having sex with anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Heterosexual Men's hobbies are not constrained by women's expectations.come from escapism, I think it's fair to argue most people's hobbies are via escapism. Be it through work(keeping yourself busy working on your garden) or from reading or from gaming, or dicking around on the internet, or hiking, or fishing, etc, ect. These are all forms of escapism from the day to day grind. Most hobbies are escapism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/21 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Heterosexual Men's hobbies are not constrained by women's expectations.If you spend too much time with your "nerd culture" and gaming outside of what a particular woman wants from you, you will be branded a man-child by them. It's not that a guy does those things it's because he spends X amount of hours per day/week doing them. That does not make them an addict.....obviously until a certain line is crossed. That line is often decided by a SO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are more into commitment than women, that's why they can't find men to commitNot denying you but IME most dudes would take at most take a harem or a wife but could fuck anyone else they want(one way polygamous.) Many take value in relationship but the varied sex life for a lot guys means extracurricular activities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 07:51 AM |
| 18 | CMV: Men are more into commitment than women, that's why they can't find men to commitI don't agree. Ill put it this way: If everyone on the planet had a chance to hookup/FWB/ONS/relationship whomever they wanted as much as they wanted to most men would be constantly fucking new women or have some one way polygamous relationship and most women would be in a commited relationship with the guy who has the most money/status/looks/etc. I disagree with your car analogy. If women see men like cars they often start out with a modest car. When that breaks down they often go through a ser… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 09:21 PM |
| 3 | How much of a disadvantage is MALE PATTERN BALDING at a young age?Depends on if you can pull off the bald look. Also how willing you are to take hair growth drugs. No matter what it is a disadvantage but it will vary wildly from person to person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Female Privilege Exists?I'm not the guy to really complain about such things but typically white males are the people with the label of the privileged group that has been in power forever and controls everything, thus everyone out of that group gets a pass for a lot of things. I don't think it's very productive but it is just the way of the world these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | What is purple pills view on a young woman who is not promiscuous and doesn't want a promiscuous man?Finding ones who are not promiscuous is easy, most men don't have that option. Finding above average looking ones that are not promiscuous is unlikely, even if they are, they are likely in a relationship. Finding someone who shares the same values of what/how a relationship is, will likely be your biggest hurdle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 03:36 PM |
| 1 | It's better to date via your own social circleI agree about: Limited public interaction due to COVID, but typically at worse you will get a particularly harsh rejection. Under most rejection circumstances it's a pretty soft one as long as you take the hint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 10:50 PM |
| 13 | It's better to date via your own social circleThere are only so many girls in your social circle open to casual dating. You pretty much hit the nail on the head. Even if there are a lot of guys/girls in the extended social circle, word travels fast about the guy/girl who is running through a bunch of people within it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | If being poor/low income is what makes a man a loser in women's eyes, is there a singular (near) universal thing that makes women a loser and undatable in men's eye's?I don't think men see women as "losers" pretty much ever. I suppose if you are morbidly obese, can't get out of my bed, trailer park trash. Like the people you see on those crappy TLC TV shows about being absurdly fat. Maybe also single women who have a LOT of children and live off of government assistance. Other than that men may see women as unnatractive for a number of reasons but not "losers." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?95% 18-30 are either attractive or in the "would be attractive if they lost weight" category. Plenty of good looking after 30 but after 30 you are more likely to see "aged" faces, which aren't necessarily ugly but age appropriate. The 5% that are legit ugly are very noticeable. Truly ugly men are also very noticeable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 05:43 PM |
| 5 | Most moderm women seem to think that the bar is set extremely low for men. What do you guys think?I see girls all the time praised for enjoying things the guy enjoys: "She likes video games/board games/anime/sports/cars/outdoors stuff/etc.....marriage material!" You can add to that having any skills in cooking or baking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 09:13 PM |
| 5 | Why do so many men lust after the "goth" aesthetic/lifestyle?I knew a number of girls that went to the goth/industrial get togethers because they liked the music, the pageantry and the dancing. Outside of those shows they were just regular. Perhaps more often than not anime lovers. They aren't dressing up goth when they need groceries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 05:24 PM |
| 12 | Not believing body count?They don't believe it because your number is way lower than themselves and any other woman they know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Men in this sub focus so much on high-n women because they’re the women they’re viscerally attracted toFully disagree. Most men have few options and chase whomever they can since most women aren't into them. They base their experiences off of what they see and do. Work and social life. First and third perspective experience. There really aren't that many girls that give out a "fuck me" vibe across the board and put out that vibe clearly to guys they want to fuck. Just a general one.......you rarely see that unless they are the coked up binge drinking party types, which aren't all that common. Wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 08:43 PM |
| 7 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?10% I know of. Even with really close most friends you aren't likely to find out. I think most cheaters know it doesn't sit well with most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 06:42 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Cat ladies and older male bachelors are often not who people thinkIf you are asking about the overall number women I know I'd say it's 90-95% white. If you are asking about crazy pet people it seems to be 100% white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 06:09 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Cat ladies and older male bachelors are often not who people thinkI'm almost 40 and always a social person. I don't think I have met anyone that really fits the "cat lady" stereotype. I have known a number of crazy animal people though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Yes, there are two different worlds when it comes to casual sex (and everything else) . Inhibited and uninhibited. Most of you need to change (some of) your social circle.I would say this is common knowledge. If you are hanging around losers who don't go out, you aren't going to have a good chance meeting people due to the activities they do. If you are part of a frat, you will probably meet a lot of people due to the activities they do. With that said people put their friend groups together at a pretty young age(sub 21) and to get the mix with people thereafter can be extremely tough. In the case of OP, they had lived with them........but you really can't insert… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs.I don't know......obviously in these covid days no one really is, but I don't know why many wouldn't be. There are obviously some people that don't(not to mention the clearly married 30-50 somethings) engage but I think there are a lot of people here with legit experiences........but you gotta keep in mind the party/bar/dating/etc scene vastly differs between New York City and Jackson Hole Wyoming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs.I lived for about 5 years with a very active Chad. He always had a regular woman or 3 in his rotation but would fill in his gaps with women met that, as far as I can tell, literally would come over the house to fuck him(due to noise it would happen within 10-30 minutes) to never be seen again. I don't prod everything he was doing to cause these arrangements but this seems to be in the realm of the "male solipsism" situation I described. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 08:43 PM |
| 5 | Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs.I don't know these women. To be fair I only know(like on good regular talking terms) a few myself. I lived with a Chad for half a decade and he would fill in his regular roster with these tinder types. Week after week I'd answer the door for some young attractive rando: "Up the stairs first door on the right" and off to the races they went. They soon scurry out the door, never to be seen again. It's been a fact in my life that pretty much every woman I have ever known(working in a college town, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs.I'm not typically spontaneously horny and think, "hmm let me find some random dick on Tinder!" Your situation absolutely makes sense. Guy with attractive feature gets your motor going. You aren't and you are the type to own a vibrator(many, many girls do not dare use such things) but there are plenty of women who have been regularly having sex on a weekly/monthly basis for 5-10 years so why not go down to the dick store and find a hot guy to fool around with. It's not a craving for NSA sex it is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 09:32 PM |
| 5 | Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs.You are absolutely right that serious things can come about from tinder and women don't need it except: I know some people who use it to find people to hook up with that are outside of their social circle. In the case of your coffee shop example you don't want to have an awkward experience with a coffee shop random person since that may be "your place" and you don't want awkward situations to fuck that up. So I would say some(I wouldn't dare guess a percentage) women use it as a way to fuck all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs.If you have ever been an active party/bar goer you will know that this isn't some cheat code and common knowledge amongst younger people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.It is, since there is a potentially(depending on life choices and circumstance) good chance it will never come out; but it usually comes out naturally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 08:53 PM |
| 8 | Is there something wrong with fat girls?I think it's a mix of backlash against fat acceptance movements(which are primarily aimed at women) and a vocal subset of the fitness(or people that perceive themselves as fit) community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.In my experience most people are don't address this as an issue. If it comes out that one partner is high N, it happens well after they have been dating for a bit and it can cause problems. Even if the "judgmental" partner is pretty experienced(and holding a double standard.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 05:26 PM |
| 3 | The women that “Bad boys” pick up are also low quality like he is.All I can say to this is that the bad boys that get a ton of action are also born physically attractive, which is what most women chase anyways. The women that chase physically attractive men are of all kinds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 09:44 PM |
| 0 | Men who don’t value friendships with women also don’t value relationships. They just want sex.Not just sex but physical affection, which is a pretty great thing too. Enough to make relationships work but not the best foundation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 04:02 AM |
| 3 | RedPillers, what would you say was your "RedPill moment?"I don't think there are too many individual things but I would guess the first times I saw: Observing serial cheaters. Normal seeming women (likely)fucking in a bathroom with a guy they just met. People with wedding bands making out/feeling up definitely not their SO's. Girls going through a string of Chads then disappearing forever. Gay SMP interactions(this could be it's own thing.) Chad does nothing, girl approaches him, ok looking guy approaches week after week gets nothing. General life sto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think of this quote about opposite sex friendships?I don't want to be friends with anyone, I just am friends with some people. With that said: I have women friends and I would fuck most of them. I ain't making a move on them for the sake of staying friends with them, and the sexual tension(or whatever you want to call it) doesn't really effect things in any meaningful way. I am more than happy being friends and will be that way for as long as I know them. I am sure some people do apply to the quote above but I don't think it's that way for most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 09:56 PM |
| 2 | CMW: Most men (especially those who struggle with dating) vastly underestimate the importance of style and aesthetics in luring in women to date or have sex with.I kind of agree but: I have come across a couple of research articles(I'm in the automod because I don't want to hunt them down) that the majority(80% +) of younger men(currently 15-25) both see fashion/fitness/looks to be "extremely important." One of these studies also mentioned that many men suffer from depression that they cannot look(in their estimation) attractive with significant looksmaxing. I think younger people are well aware of how fashion can help them, but unfortunately it can only… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 09:14 PM |
| 8 | RedPillers, what would you say was your "RedPill moment?"I'm not full on RP by any means but I would guess most RP folks don't have a moment as much as they have experiences over a period of time. Most of my views on things come from going to college in a large college town as well as working in the bar industry for well over a decade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 05:09 PM |
| 1 | What double standard between men and women **should** exist?since most women actually like the "slut" unless she's actively trying to homewreck Nah some women just don't like each other due to some interaction they had in the past. High school shit being done by adults. 10 guys even that bad? 10 guys that you know personally is probably bad unless you are living in a 150 person population area. If you are in a city of 250,000 it's a bit odd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:07 PM |
| 3 | What double standard between men and women **should** exist?and women do not slut shame anymore really. Women do it significantly more than men, typically as a way to stick it to the so called "slut" since they don't like her. Men slut shame in the sense of "dude she's been with 10 guys you know, she probably isn't the one" sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 08:58 PM |
| 5 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?When you spend all your money on drugs you can't eat like a pig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 05:19 PM |
| 4 | What double standard between men and women **should** exist?Based on how we do it now slut shaming. Both men and women(arguably more likely to do so) slut shame slutty women. Slutty guy does not get the same treatment from men or women. It seems it is agreed upon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 39 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?Probably the one thread that connects all low value women is that they are significantly fat. That is a about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Coaches don’t seem to follow their own adviceRP coaches are right up there with the scam evangelical preachers. Con men taking advantage of desperate goobers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 11:44 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Would you be supportive of your son marrying a woman who has slept around?I'm an adult, not a child. They don't get a say anymore. If I want advice, I'll ask. You can say the same of well informed friends of yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 11:41 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Would you be supportive of your son marrying a woman who has slept around?First off this is an absurd and hilarious question. With that said the responses pretty damn funny. There are plenty of men and women that I know that if they were to be going the marriage route with friends of mine I would %100 want(depending on the situation I would act upon) to give them a chat about their otherwise questionable choice. I don't know why their parents should be different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a pagan/wicca girl?I know nothing about those religions but in general religion is a red flag, especially since you are talking about "crystals." I would consider a girl that does yoga or any form of regular physical activity to be a green flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 12:12 AM |
| 2 | When you go to clubs/parties/bars, is your intention to have fun, or do you just care about hopefully hooking up?I was always in it for the chaos. Might end up with a slow night, might end up hooking up with someone, might meet a rando with a crazy story to tell, might end up taking a trip to a local abandoned building to snoop around. I will admit I have tried to be around certain women if I knew they would also be a certain place but it's mostly about going out and finding adventure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 05:31 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Guys that don't benefit from it(most guys) aren't going to be too hyped for it. Guys that do benefit from it aren't likely to complain about it. It's that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 04:58 AM |
| 10 | A question for all these guys who constantly whine about women having high standards and never giving them a chance: Wouldn't you do the same thing if you were in a position of that woman or a high value man?And why are women always OK with being single while men flip out and go insane? I'll say the difference here is when women are single it usually means they have a fuckbuddy or someone that covers their "needs." If not they have plenty of options or plenty of options with near 0 effort. Most single men are literally single with 0 options with even 100% effort not guaranteeing anything. It's the difference between "I don't want to be with anyone for one reason or another" vs "No one wants to be wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 10:45 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]Whats your thoughts on the common Advice of joining clubs/activities with people of the opposite sex?It doesn't really help unless that relationship continues outside of the group. If you see someone you are interested in a group it is typically a bad idea to make a move on them. If you see them out at a bar you can chat them up and pivot the relationship outside of the hobby. Women don't go to these things as a way to meet men, they do it to do the activity and they have 1000 other ways to meet men for romantic connections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 09:51 PM |
| 2 | If most men would rather be fuckboys than have LTR, does that mean most men in LTRs are "settling", are not genuinely attracted to their partner, and would leave her instantly if he got ample casual sex opportunities?I think I consider it more being realistic than settling. I think settling implies you feel you have the ability to attract a person with attributes A/B/C/D but settle for someone with A/D because thats how things turned out. Since most men will not have the ability to experience a lot of partners, they are being realistic. The few choices they have are as good as it gets. They realize that they are not one of the chosen few that gets to "experiment" in the sexual/relationship realm so they part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 03:08 AM |
| 1 | People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature".Most guys report similar success across all major dating apps. Tinder isn't the most choice site for dating but it is something that can definitely lead to dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | if you're an unattractive man, you shouldn't wonder why an app that lets you choose a partner based almost purely on appearance gets you no success.OP said he was a hot guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 11:43 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]Just how easy are “ugly” women?I can say as a near 40 year old who spends time at bars, young(sub 25) fat women are a lot more likely to chat me up with hook up intentions. With that said fat does not equal ugly in my book, most would be pretty good looking if they were average BMI. I'm 6'2, a regular gym goer(ok shape depending on what I am focusing on) but I am also near 40 and clearly have balding issues(people say I wear the bald look well but whatever.) I make them aware of my age, and they still go for it. So I am guess… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Study: Most couples have ‘matching’ sexual experienceI will say that 106 people is way too small of a sample especially when: with the exception of cohabitating couples, romantic partners showed a significant level of matching in the prior number of intercourse partners. I'm just going to pull out of my ass that it's split 33/33/33 for the 3 types of couples so it's basically a sample size of 70 couples. What age range are these couples from? Are they all roughly from the same location. It's some data but not anything close to proof of anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 10:27 PM |
| 11 | Study: Most couples have ‘matching’ sexual experienceHow in the world do you know a woman is high n if she didnt tell you? Because you know a dozen guys that slept with here from multiple, non connected, friend groups. Not every girl has "tells" but there are more than enough out there that it's either out in the open or a poorly kept secret. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-offI think you are mislabeling hot girls as party/wild girls. Most guys don't want to put up with the shit of the party/wild girls, though they are a blast to hang out with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Percentage of women and men having sex in collegesThis is the problem with this sub. The story here is normal for weird(to me....and you) religious areas/colleges. I live in a pretty wild college town, so I could say that the op's experience isn't normal but there is plenty of pockets of "different" out there. I feel like a bunch of the people here are in ass backwards quaker towns where nothing goes on and their ideas of what modern dating is, is miles away from what I experience. Thus consensus almost never happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 09:54 PM |
| 10 | Percentage of women and men having sex in collegesbut this is uber duper rare. It might just be the people I know but pretty much every girl I know has gone through a hook up phase. They may go back to dating eventually(and also back to another hooking up phase), but pretty much every single one has a phase where they are hooking up with a bunch of guys. Men do the same if it is an option but for most it isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?It is not true in my experience. I know a handful that fit that description but they are either wealthy or high status(bands that plays/tours to 2-500 people per show.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 09:15 PM |
| 2 | The Bimbo Look that was popular in the 2000s and early 2010s seems to be going out of styledays where plastic balloon titties and plastic surgery adjusted faces were what was the standard. This was the look of the 90's(maybe even late 80's) not the 2000's(it was dying off then.) Pam Anderson, Anna Nicole Smith, Carmen Electra were a big deal then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 10:59 PM |
| 5 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?Women are taught since they are kids on how to attract men Let's put this in context. Women are taught how to physically attract men, through various different aspects. I think in a way this is a holdover from the old days. Attract a man with beauty. Man works hard and attracts a woman with resources. It doesn't really work that way anymore. In addition to that women using their beauty to get things they want is to this day a very powerful tool. Something most men, no matter how they looksmax, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | There's more male virgins than female virgins, but there's also more male sluts than female sluts.No automod here, where this belongs: I don't think a survey of 18-63 is going to do anything but fog up the numbers. Realistically we should be looking at people who are 18 in the last 20 years(18-40) due to the drastic change the digital age and smartphone age has made in dating. With that said (opinion from here on out)if we are purely looking at "sluts" you might actually be right, between the Chads and the dumpster divers. Women are more likely to jump from relationship to relationship(not t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 06:06 PM |
| 7 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."Most people have a job, friends, family. Anyone can get a pet. A house maybe not. None of these things are going to explicitly(though having lots of friends can help) going to get any regular guy laid, much less "constant endless casual sex on demand." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 04:08 AM |
| 5 | What do you think the worst part of being the opposite gender is?Pregnancy/menstrual cycle. No thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 11:08 PM |
| 7 | Women have more freedom than they’ve ever had in history, but they still choose to sell their bodies for incomeThere was a top 5% OF girl on a podcast I listened to recently(I believe someone here posted it) from 2019. She said she worked 3 hours a day and made about $150,000 a year(didn't mention if that is after OF cut or pre/post tax.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 05:56 PM |
| 7 | Women have more freedom than they’ve ever had in history, but they still choose to sell their bodies for income........ to make money off their sexuality without having to be intimate with their clients. Physically intimate. The whole draw of onlyfans is you can message them and for money text and so on. A large percent of OF caters to the faux relationship crowd. It's often a part of the job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?I respect you opinion here but I would say here in the USA, 95% of jobs are easily replaceable and have an over saturation of highly qualified people. There is no loyalty nor willingness to keep people employed. Making minor upward-lateral job movement is commonplace and spending more than 5 years in one place is uncommon. Focus on career is useless when there is no career, just strings of several year long jobs. People don't like to hear it but due to technology outpacing jobs(among other thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 02:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men settle for women more than vice versa. Most men would leave their partner if they had more options.I mostly agree. Most men would likely not partner up with their partners in the first place if they had more options. Most men aren't going to have more than a handful of options in life. I think this is a two way street though, much more favorable to women being choosers as we all know. Men would likely partner up with someone, and likely much later in life(late 30's plus.) After a while the sex drive lowers and the more important things a SO brings makes it's way to the forefront. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 06:47 PM |
| 3 | CMV - I think a lot of women's issues with dating could be solved by waiting, or abstaining from sex.The only guy that is going to dump an enjoyable(personality) girl if she doesn't give it up quick is Chads. Average dudes will wait but obviously you got to show some sort of physical affection(kissing) or you end up in a weird situation of "what exactly are we doing?" where the guy isn't sure you are into them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Us Males love "bad girls" tooI've always found that the bad girls are typically a ton of fun to casually spend time with at bars and parties, but usually seek out and have very toxic relationships with bad boys. Guys don't typically seek out such bad girl any more than they would a similar looking girl with a more conservative lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 03:20 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on "pick me" women?Ive known plenty of girls(was a bar worker) and probably 1/50 do what I consider tryhard behavior for general male attention. Women don't have to try hard to get attention and I think those that want to "work their magic" on people know what works at a young age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for.While most men may not expressly care about that, few make enough that it is not a factor when it comes to dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 10:41 PM |
| 6 | How sympathetic are men to women’s loneliness?I think your average guy is going to go through their "dating ages"(say 18-35 or so) knowing mostly women who are consistently dating(be it one, a few or non stop relationships)and knowing mostly men who are consistently single. So you are likely to find a percentage of guys who assume that any woman in this particular womans situation was a girl who fucked around throughout her 20's, wasted her youthful beauty(got fat) and is now crying because she skipped out on "good men" that could have prev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 10:16 PM |
| 5 | [Q4All] Just how successful are your close friends in dating/romance?Im nearing 40 so my close friends are pretty much all married. 1) Success was varied by the person. Most successful was a wreckless image(he talked a big game but was pretty tame overall) band guy and never went without a woman in his life, even though he LTR dated most of the time and didn't often hook up with the 100 girls trying to bang him. Others were from all different types, most were in bands and did the college thing as well(I think only 2 close friend did not go to college.) They all h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:20 PM |
| 0 | As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?"Life expectancy between men and women is about a 7% difference in favor of women. Likelihood of being overweight/obese(combined) is women being about 5% likely than men. It's all pretty much close enough between the sexes here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 09:50 PM |
| 23 | As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?"The way the CDC broke it down is more men are overweight than women. More women are obese than men. Roughly 66%-70% of the adult population make up those numbers so the odds are in no ones favor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 04:53 PM |
| -1 | As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?"The numbers on younger(18-30) people being fat/skinny are rather tough to come by. The average numbers usually come from too wide of a range (all ages or 20-39 where you have a mix of largely single and largely married/with children) to get an idea of what the average younger/dating aged American woman is. Your number will also depend on area. I live in what is in large a college area, and there are endless young women in the average BMI area. If you head 20 miles outside of the area it's probab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20%I always found the argument against this silly. With that said if this were the case there would be fierce competition for the new top % of guys due to wealth, but the overall situation would be no where near the amount of men would be struggling with dating(and FWB/ONS/etc) as it is currently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/21 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Promiscuity is bad for men and womenI said "girl" Because 99% of guys aren't going to be able to do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/21 01:28 AM |
| 7 | Promiscuity is bad for men and womenMostly agree with you but the discussion at hand is about if promiscuity is "bad" not where the blame lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 07:15 AM |
| 67 | Promiscuity is bad for men and womenPromiscuity is likely bad for the individual that isn't intending to do it. Girl who jumps from STR to STR in hopes of getting a guy to stick is usually a recipe for emotional disaster. Some people can want to be promiscuous while being successful and happy. Others can feel they want to be promiscuous and have it result in long term damage to their mental state, which will effect their relationships(this may include negatively effecting others around them.) I would guess it more likely to negati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Ghosters who come back, is it because they ran out of options or realized they made a mistake?Well I would say it is for all intents and purposes, true. Sure the person might have had some sort of other issue, but the truth is even then they just waived a red flag if you ghost someone, no matter the reason. I wouldn't exactly say the person realized they made a "mistake" and there is a good chance you were a B/C/D tier option to the A they thought they had already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 11:17 PM |
| 4 | Men and women's lives are too incomparable for us to find common ground on datingAt it's very core if you took all men and women of younger, say aged 18-39(....thats what the government does for obesity stats) dating age(which ), and had a big colored spectrum area for them to stand in, one end being no options at all and spoiled for choice you would have more women closer to the spoiled for choice range and more men closer to the no options range. Right there it makes seeing the other sides dating arguments pretty much impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | "Watch what women do, don't listen to what they say" doesn't work because you're not observing women in general. You're observing the women you want and the men you envy.How do you know they are sluts and players if you only observe them from afar? Part of the phrase is "don't listen to what they say." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 05:36 AM |
| 2 | "Watch what women do, don't listen to what they say" doesn't work because you're not observing women in general. You're observing the women you want and the men you envy.I wonder who these dudes are that spend all their time around sluts and fuckboys, yet aren't in those circles partaking. It doesn't seem to make much sense. I would guess like most people here, they make their observations based on the circle of people they know. Most people know and spend time with people that are at their level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Can men be alpha/Stacy widowed? Is it common?Yes but men are much less likely to punch above their weight in the SMP so you don't see it nearly as often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | The reason why women can’t admit that dating is OBJECTIVELY harder for men is because they feel it’s an attack on their right to complainI don't really think I have ever known any woman that could go more than a few weeks without some sort of partner(be it STR/LTR/fuckbuddy/same sex) in their lives. This is all anectdotal but for every 1 girl that I have ever went weeks/months without some sort of physical intamacy, I have known 10 guys that have gone more than a year without it. I don't even think it's something they are interested in, they just see it as part of being a average adult woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 10:38 PM |
| 1 | It's not that women are saying being nice is arousing, it's that they are saying they don't like jerks or assholes, but end up with an asshole anywayBecause they choose looks and sex over love and personality. Wrong. It's because men take what they can get. Many beg and do not choose. The girl looksmatches of most guys have 100 times the options(which may not all be the most optimal but there are a lot of time consuming ways to vet) of those guys, so the chances of them being the chosen one is very slim. So when one girl is willing to be together with a guy they have to give much more lenience to downsides of that relationship, since they ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 10:18 PM |
| 2 | It's not that women are saying being nice is arousing, it's that they are saying they don't like jerks or assholes, but end up with an asshole anywayI don't get why you have to take this off topic but to keep your stupidity to a minimum, sure 5's are drowning in pussy. Whatever. My whole point is guys have significantly less options than women and thus are more likely to hold on to "crazy" women due to this. Lest they spend a year before they find another woman with any interest in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 09:52 PM |
| 3 | It's not that women are saying being nice is arousing, it's that they are saying they don't like jerks or assholes, but end up with an asshole anywayNope 5's going for 5's and whatnot. Pretty much everyone here knows most men have less options than most women since men are physically attracted to a larger variety of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 09:30 PM |
| 7 | It's not that women are saying being nice is arousing, it's that they are saying they don't like jerks or assholes, but end up with an asshole anywayMen understand this, but have significantly less opportunity to date than women, thus try to make less than favorable situations work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Women are right about being to picky. That's the way of evolution.By the nature of things, women as the standardised models of humans, having "just right" attributes, not exceptionally good but neither bad, decide the best amongst men, that are experimented on by evolution, having far higher mutation rates, with their relative sexual value ranging from close to none to astronomical thanks to that. Many if not most dating aged women are on the pill. It has been proven on more than one occasion that the pill results in women more often than not choosing someone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | A Quote by Dr. Lundy Bancroft in “Why Does He Do That?”: Thoughts?The CEO sets the rules for how and why people get fired, not the schlub making $5 more than the lesser worker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | A Quote by Dr. Lundy Bancroft in “Why Does He Do That?”: Thoughts?No I don't think of low/mid level management of having any meaningful power in the scope of a business. You would have to be somewhat aware of the world and how businesses work to feel this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 12:31 AM |
| 1 | A Quote by Dr. Lundy Bancroft in “Why Does He Do That?”: Thoughts?What good does it do to tell him that only 5% of CEOs are women if he's never met a CEO and has to deal with women in authority in his actual day to day life? I guess I may be expecting too much out of an adult mind, but I don't think that my local boss is "in control" of nearly anything, much less everything once you see a stat like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 11:15 PM |
| 0 | A Quote by Dr. Lundy Bancroft in “Why Does He Do That?”: Thoughts?The cops, his bosses, the government people all have an effect on things. Certainly more than the broken relationship they have with their mothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 11:04 PM |
| 0 | A Quote by Dr. Lundy Bancroft in “Why Does He Do That?”: Thoughts?I get that part but through observation of who is truly rich and powerful in the adult world, it's mostly guys. I'm not sure how you can't make that distinction once you are no longer a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 10:38 PM |
| 1 | A Quote by Dr. Lundy Bancroft in “Why Does He Do That?”: Thoughts?I don't think enough of us know many known abusers, much less choose to associate with them to make this observation. I did definitely know 1.5 abusive guys. One was clearly known as one who beat the mother of his kid along with random people that would piss him off. One just got outed by an ex from years back and lost his business do to a picture she posted a month or two ago on instagram with an abuse story(not sure I buy him being physically abusive but can easily see him being psychologicall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Both men AND women are failing in today’s society.I find it hard to believe that there is some sort of overwhelming crossover between men "addicted" to porn and men who would be approaching and regularly succeeding with women if they didn't spend so much time with porn. So I don't think they are failing, they are just doing what they can to get by. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Both men AND women are failing in today’s society.Women are now 66% of college grads. I've seen this stat around here, do you know where it is from? I can't find it in any internet searches. I'm seeing 2014 stats showing similar enrollment stats between men(45%) and women (55%) but I can't find this 66% anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 10:08 PM |
| 2 | What proportion of the self improvement you do is solely for purpose of getting opposite sex attention?I would guess pretty much everything physical(I've been working out for decades) except sports are generally being done for dating/sex but also the social benefit(people treat "good looking" people better.) I would guess I would be a fatass happily eating myself to death on shit food all day if it weren't for these benefits. I would say most mental improvement is done for myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Why does the man-child seem to be more common today?I think it is because traditionally childish things from the past, now cater to both children and adults. Since many don't have what are considered proper "adult hobbies" they are seen as man children. We also have modern technology replacing so called masculine jobs so men aren't working like "men." The FDS "man children" are the guys they fuck and then those guys don't provide them with the attention they feel they deserve, thus making them children for "not manning" up to a relationship that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Women’s filtering methods are far more effective at eliminating HVM than LVMYou can come to a valid conclusions that pretty much everything/everyone is __ with minor variation. The nuance doesn't nuance doesn't change the overarching foundation of what something is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Women’s filtering methods are far more effective at eliminating HVM than LVMthat doesn’t properly reflect the nuances of realty Who gets to say what is "proper" reality? How is one to know nuances when every nuance points to a general conclusion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Women’s filtering methods are far more effective at eliminating HVM than LVMMy point is there are people that draw conclusions(correct or exaggerated) from things they do and observe. Sure things they don't do or observe make up assumptions, but it is an assumption of yours that people here are assuming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Women’s filtering methods are far more effective at eliminating HVM than LVMProof, patterns or whatever you might call it(perhaps a string of similar occurrences that happen an abnormal amount of times,) via life experience can narrow views. Our reality is defined by what we; locally know. Sure the person with views on ____ may not be overall true, but they may be the reality for where they live. Which in large is really all that matters. It's no help asking an Amish for dating advice of someone living in a major metropolitan area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 06:23 PM |
| 5 | Women’s filtering methods are far more effective at eliminating HVM than LVMTypically people come to these conclusions because they observe people not the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Women’s filtering methods are far more effective at eliminating HVM than LVMI would guess "chill girl" is somewhere the opposite of the spectrum of the women who consider themselves "divas". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20sGood point where do you meet girls now? Now, I don't really. Before covid bars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 06:16 AM |
| 1 | If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ?Ok to distill it further. $14.4K for sex, assume you live in a 1BR dump for $12K a year(utilities included.) You are out another $2K for bare minimum car/health insurance. Another 2.4K for food. 1.4K for gas. That leaves about $300 a month to pay emergency bills, 401K, phone and other things that I can't think of. So yes as long as you want to live like a bum and have no hobbies, luxuries or money to do anything social it is perfectly doable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 11:38 PM |
| 4 | If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ?Idk what it is but something about me attracts gay guys more than women so I can see your point making sense. It's probably not that. Gay guys, just like straight guys just have much larger attraction windows than women. Also women don't often hit on guys because they don't have to, unless it's a must have Chad type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 11:16 PM |
| 9 | If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ?From what I understand there is basically separate crowds of gay men who have very low standards and are generally not very attractive, Well, as a non gay man who has worked at gay and gay/straight/all welcome bars(these weren't the only types of bar I worked at) you are definitely wrong. The gay hook up scene has all types and it's a madhouse. From what I knew and observed and for lack of better words; pretty much everyone was fucking everyone. I'm sure the whirlwind of drug use played part in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 11:11 PM |
| 2 | If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ?Definitely affordable. The 50th percentile of earning brings in about $36,000 after taxes in the USA. That cost you put up is like 40% of that. This doesn't include rent/utilities, insurance, 401K, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | The reason PPD men don’t believe women who say they’re attracted to “personality” isn’t because we’re wired differently, it’s because they actually misunderstand which personality traits said women are referring to.I'd say it works both ways but significantly less with personality boosting attractiveness. In the very least it's a lot harder to personality your way into attractiveness than personality your way out of attractiveness both on a social and sexual level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | The reason PPD men don’t believe women who say they’re attracted to “personality” isn’t because we’re wired differently, it’s because they actually misunderstand which personality traits said women are referring to.Pretty much the way people view all of your category 2 stuff and some of the category 1 stuff are tied to how attractive they are. This goes for both sexes and even when non-romantically interested. In addition to this(when it comes to sexual relations) the more attractive you are the more people likely will, for lack of better words, create a personality for you that they want to believe in. Over time this will get disproved, but initially people will attempt a self fulfilling prophecy with hot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Womens dating standards arent as high as men act like they areI don't understand how women, particularly younger and in the mid average to low mid average BMI, are spoiled for choice. Why would they date average guys when they have access to so many top tier guys? One thing feel I have learned about women is that women, when going into relations with an attractive man, make up a character for that man. Well before they get to know them. So when they are dating not so great or shitty dudes they often don't fully process how shitty they are. They are dating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 10:00 PM |
| 4 | Despite men and women being roughly equal in population, attractive men are seen as scarce, why is that?I have a lot of trouble finding stats that talk about 19-30 and all stats seem to be for 19-39. I don't think the 70% overweight/obese stats are anywhere true the more you head towards 19 and become much more prevalent with the 30+ crowd due to marriage and giving up on life. It's only my personal experience/opinion but I live in what is otherwise a college town with my local area being near 50% of the population being college aged. There is endless hot young women and not fat men(can't really j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?It's probably a mix, but I would say if it was viable quite a few family men would prefer to be breadwinners. Having a family member take care of the kids(until they are teen/more self sufficient) has plenty of benefits across the board. Even if this means one partner takes a reduced work schedule or does not work at all. I cannot imagine many men(or women) just want to take care of someone else for no real reason, even though I have seen it happen endless times.. I've seen it myself with men th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 12:03 AM |
| 9 | Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine?in the David Bowie way In the "I'm an incredibly rich and famous person" sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20sYou are generally right, but there are good looking dudes that don't get their game together til they are a bit older. I'm almost 40 and can't say I have good game. I did well in my 20's since I was a bartender/bouncer/etc but I can't say super Chad successful. To this day I (did, pre pandemic)still get to hook up with 21 and beyond girls that approach me for some reason. I'm not super special but I am 6'2" and in pretty darn good physical shape. With that said I'm sure if I tried to chase young… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 10:53 PM |
| 25 | Q4ALL: Do men actually say the nice guy quote in real life?I don't think guys say it but some think some sort of flavor of the idea: "But why won't she go out with me, I'm A,B,C,D" After complaining about her BF not being A,B,C,D. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Are simps 100 percent to blame in simping scenarios?The whole reason people pay for onlyfans is that guys to "get to know" the woman they are wanking to. They might be getting drunk but the reason why OF girls are so popular is the (fake) human connection. They might be getting drunk but that's not the point. Strippers rely on a churn of college guys birthdays, batchelor parties and business meetings where guys get to loosen up and shoot the shit. The same crowd that does OF likely has very little crossover with the strip club crowd. There is lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Are simps 100 percent to blame in simping scenarios?Pretty much but the majority of onlyfans(and cam) money is made off of the simpy guys that pay for faux friendship and socialization. Strippers make more money off the day to day customer that is there to get drunk and ogle them(and prostitustion.) There is a reason why OF is so popular and it isn't because you get to pay to see naked women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Are simps 100 percent to blame in simping scenarios?Damn dude. As you stated it you did things the right way and those dudes(or at lease played a part in) fucked up your thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Are simps 100 percent to blame in simping scenarios?There is a couple of documentaries out there on onlyfans guys. They pay for socialization, connection and affection from a hot woman. The nudes are a secondary to the personal connection. Deep down they have to know, but there is more fucked up to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Are simps 100 percent to blame in simping scenarios?for the most part men pay for their nudes and they receive their needs. The highest paying and most loyal customers pay for social interaction and higher connection than just nudes. They aren't just the $5 a month guys they are the ones buying shit from their Amazon wishlist. I think thats grey area simping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Are simps 100 percent to blame in simping scenarios?That is situational. Some go to such places and get what it's about. Then you have weirdos that strike up friendships with the girls and think they are closing the gap between those other customers and what they have. Those dudes are OG simps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | "Women invest so much time and effort in their appearance" — Women on PPDI feel like both sides point to stats like this but I really think the numbers get skewed by the older folks. I live in a college town and there is endless hot good BMI girls. Seems to be no shortage of good BMI guys as well. My job takes me to a lot of different places where others work and all the 30 somethings are fatasses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Women Have A Creep Threshold That Changes According To Who They're Dealing WithOn the other end men have a bitch/crazy(this one goes for women too) threshold that changes with attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Nerdy, awkward and/or ugly girls fuck ugly low smv guys all the time. You're delusional if you deny this. Incels aren't trying hard enough or just have standards too high.To simplify this further for you, this story being said by you and the "this totally happened" OP is pretty much rejected by everyone on this forum........but don't let that stop you from writing your own tale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Nerdy, awkward and/or ugly girls fuck ugly low smv guys all the time. You're delusional if you deny this. Incels aren't trying hard enough or just have standards too high.That goes opposite of everything TBP posters around here say much less the reds but sure thing man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Nerdy, awkward and/or ugly girls fuck ugly low smv guys all the time. You're delusional if you deny this. Incels aren't trying hard enough or just have standards too high.Sure thing man orgies every day for furries. The narrative now is nerds are getting laid left and right. Get the fuck out. Pure Madness. I know lots of nerds and they typically aren't fucking anyone but their LTR/marriage partners. Most of the time those SO's aren't really nerds themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 06:46 AM |
| 8 | Nerdy, awkward and/or ugly girls fuck ugly low smv guys all the time. You're delusional if you deny this. Incels aren't trying hard enough or just have standards too high.Furries are literally some of the ugliest people alive and they're out here having orgies. Weebs are usually gross, but they're wildly hypersexual and have very low standards. I don't know you but I am guessing you read this shit on the internet and don't know anyone who has experienced it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | i’m an aspiring tradwife, AMAOn a scale of 1 to 100 how good is your cooking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | 2 weeks in prison, reputation destroyed, women are all angels, believe all victims of rape.Maybe he should consider if he is a Chad or not before helping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Male rapists should have their penis' guillotined offFuck it I say any man that a woman deems creepy should have their penis' guillotined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 11:17 PM |
| 0 | What’s in it does the women?Well he loves their bodies and loves that they let him use their bodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Don't flatter yourself: you're not going to get "Me Too'ed"I think a lot of guys here like to mix the terminology of metoo with approaching in most circumstances resulting in a girl being annoyed or creeped out. It's low effort. As mentioned in order to be metooed, you have to be somewhat famous. I know hundreds of people from many different walks of life and the only one I know that was meetooed owned a popular local restaurant chain. If you are a day to day electrician, you aren't getting meetooed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 06:43 PM |
| 10 | Men are approaching way less than people here thinktheyll likely automatically think I’m a slut IMO I don't think that is the common thought amongst men. Most guys that get approached are bamboozled like the guy you mentioned. It's like someone randomly coming up to you and giving you $100. It's a WTF is happening situation cause it's not normal. With that said as a former long time bar worker I would say that most women that approach average guys at bars hook up with a lot of guys(maybe not by choice.) Most guys don't see the shit I've seen on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Men are approaching way less than people here thinkI'll agree most women who don't put themselves in appropriate situations don't get approached. Parties, bars/clubs, absolutely. Running game anywhere else is usually at best a waste of time. For a lot of women it walks the thin line of harassment depending on how good looking the guy is. We already know that most women don't even use OLD. They do use OLD. They just pop on long enough to get a guy and delete their account. So you have a week or two window before they get out.......and pretty much… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Is it fair to say most women wouldn't have swiped right on or hooked up with their husbands?Hilarious question but like %50 of all dating people met through "online dating." We can assume the modern marriage stats to be in that area at worse on the low end of double digits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Men shouldn't blame women for the lack of male solidarity in society. Men should rely on men for help instead of expecting women to solve their emotional and psychological problems(I would automod this if there was one) I don't see too many people here saying it's directly womens fault that men don't get support when they are down. What I do see is that women typically have people of both genders and sometimes special private or government groups that care about them and help them when they hit a road bump or fall down. Men are less likely to have some people or anyone that cares about them(and are less likely to use the private/government support groups.) I think this ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Research Paper claims: (1) Men tend to fall in love more readily than women; (2) women tend to fall out of love more readily than men. Seems to explain / describe hypergamy (and a few other dating phenomena).Makes sense to me. Most men have next to no choices for dating(SRT or LTR) and most women have lots of choice for dating. To be fair I think if men could attract unlimited women they wouldn't be falling in love. Chads are rarely falling in love. The whole "men only want sex from most women and will only date 11/10 Miss Universe" around here is a bunch of old ladies who have either been burned by Chads and/or fill in the rest with what they read in misogynist articles and forums. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 07:29 AM |
| 3 | Do men really know what women like physically ?My experience as well. Some of the better off guys I've known were 5'6" or less but had good faces and good hair. Some had skinnyfat bodies as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Men and women can be friends, the only reason you don’t think so is because you aren’t willing to be friends with someone you aren’t sexually attached to.I always thought the line of thinking was that men and women can't truly(I guess that means purely) be friends and I don't often remember the large majority saying that it can't be so at all. I'm a bit embarrassed of it but I would say I would hook up with nearly every younger(<30) woman I know and plenty of the older ones given the chance.......I think. So by that one could say I am not truly a friend even though I don't go actively go out of my way to do things for them in hopes of getting act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think most people compare past partners to their current partners all that much.The truth is people don't compare until they do. This also does not imply that someone will go running back to that person, but if a person has many dating options I think those past partners make leaving current, very good, partners in lieu of an partner that does an aggregate of all of the best things combined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 02:29 AM |
| 1 | How much do you value opposite-sex attention?What "male forums" do you speak of and do you think it is wise to assume every man on the planet follows the ideals of that forum. Even TRP(which is mostly about getting casual sex) tells people to watch what others do and not what they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 02:22 AM |
| 1 | I don’t think most people compare past partners to their current partners all that much.1 to 1 comparison or not a person is comparing past partners to current. Whether or not its "I loved the way ____ did this for me" and "I love when ___ is done for me" it's really all the same. Assuming ____ did anything well for you that no one can replicate you will remember how well that was done and by proxy who did it. It's not like someone deletes all memories once they move on. I haven't dated nearly as much as short term relationshiped(I know thats not a word) and and got around way more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 02:15 AM |
| 1 | The disconnect between the men and women of PPD is mostly because the women here don't understand that TRP is not about relationshipsI don't consider this place full of TRP 100% full believers. I think there is a lot of purplish red folks like myself and a lot of purplish blue folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 10:45 PM |
| 3 | I don’t think most people compare past partners to their current partners all that much.Funny enough all your M's can contribute to feelings, and many of the woman posters are saying that "how they make me feel" is the important thing. Don't get me wrong I know dudes hung up on their scalding hot looks/terrible personality exes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 10:36 PM |
| 2 | I don’t think most people compare past partners to their current partners all that much.I'm just saying that the reason pretty much every girl in my dorm hooked up with my cross the dorm buddy "Mule"(as in hung like a) probably wasn't due to his stellar reputation as a great guy. In the age of the internet any sexual experience a women wants fulfilled gets fulfilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 10:15 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think most people compare past partners to their current partners all that much.There is no point in comparing to something that you let go or led to nothing. There is no shortage of women who leave guys due to them not committing enough. So those men hit all the marks that would make them commitment worthy(and things worth comparing to future partners) except for the fact that the commitment would not be a 2 way street. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think most people compare past partners to their current partners all that much.I mean girls do talk and word gets around who has a big dick in a social circle/dorm/etc. Or they could just go on tinder and ask for a proof pic. It's not that hard to find for the curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 10:00 PM |
| 4 | I don’t think most people compare past partners to their current partners all that much.When guys here complain about women sleeping around too much, women here respond by saying things like "When you are young you are supposed to date lots of people. How will you know what you want without experience?" If dating people makes clear what you want in a partner, then people are comparing attributes of the old partners to the new. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | How much do you value opposite-sex attention?You can't really make that assumption of the apparently endless guys that are hitting on a woman. If they don't get their foot in the door(which they clearly do not due to the women here being overwhelmed by the amount of guys doing so), you can't just assume all of them want casual sex. Perhaps they are following the advice of the women on this forum that are saying to "go out and interact with women in real life." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How much do you value opposite-sex attention?Women this thread: I don't care about it at all. I get so much attention from guys on a day to day basis it's meaningless anymore. Women in other threads: Most guys are single because they only want 11/10 supermodels since their brains are warped by porn, Instagram and video games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing?Yeah you have to be civil to get by in society, not nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?It's unfair to paint an industry based on something that happens less than .01% of the time. Pretty much no one want's their porn based on the unwillingness of the performers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 08:45 PM |
| 8 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?What do you think of this? Most of this is old conservitive wive tale bullshit that, while a problem, only make up a single digit percentage of all the porn industry. This post reminds me of those "Try weed, end up a crack addict" PSA's they use to scare kids. Are deviant acts getting more mainstream? Yes. Likely due to both parties having more access to sexual material. If you've never seen sex before you won't know where to start. If someone sees a sex act they will be more curious to try it. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 08:37 PM |
| 11 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?Also dated a porn addict and it makes people into the most base, manipulative abusers. How do you know this person wasn't a base(I actually don't know what that means), manipulative and abusive person before becoming addicted to porn. Even here is being touted that near 50% of people regularly watch porn. Are they all the most base, manipulative abusive people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 08:13 PM |
| 8 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?I can't wrap my head around why women keep doing porn if they hate it so much. Because they make the same amount as a doctor while working a part time job. They love that part. They just hate the negatives that come with it. These usually feel pronounced when their porn career is over and they have no life skills and often no money since they blew it on living a party life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 07:55 PM |
| 5 | "Simp culture" is being normalized to benefit OnlyFans creators & Twitch streamers to the detriment of everyone elseI don't think simps have changed the landscape of much of anything. The Onlyfans/Twitch/etc panders to people that would otherwise be crushing on strippers/prostitutes/cam girls or completely introverted and removed from the SMP in the past. I don't think it has become more normalized, but the fact that you can do it at home has made it more known to be prevalent.The amount of shame attached to Onlyfans/Twitch/strip clubs/prostitutes/etc for the men is still the same but you can get metrics for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 04:17 AM |
| -1 | Feminist shaming tactics needlessly cause lasting sexual repression or guilt in a subset of men most sympathetic to feminist concerns.I feel that a subset of feminists(which in itself has nearly no meaning as it casts a WIDE net of ideals) pick really easy targets to go after and it doesn't really do any good. It takes a group that are already in large respectful of women and makes them walk on eggshells around them, resulting in them acting like weird "on spectrum" people. Now this does not encompass all so called feminists, which again lacks clear focus and identity but I think it doesn't help in the long run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 10:36 PM |
| 1 | "Be yourself" and pretty much all dating troubles started with Baby Boomers1910 The breadwinner style family was like the late 40's and 50's. Where dad could work and get a nice two story white picket fence house, retirement, and raise 2.5 children on one income. That shit is long gone. While the money(inflation adjusted) gained has risen the cost of living has risen dramatically more so. Don't get caught on the simple inflation numbers, they don't tell the story at all. The middle class is shrinking, the working poor are growing. I'm not saying that it's the primary r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/20 06:04 PM |
| 2 | "Be yourself" and pretty much all dating troubles started with Baby BoomersYou can also say the change in the workplace has added to that. We now primarily have the 2 income family making as much as the old 1 income "breadwinner" family style. When both parties get home, both are more likely to be tired from work and more likely to want to eat easy food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/20 06:22 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselvesEither way working hard on yourself isn't going to help a woman out of this common situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 09:21 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselvesNot always the case. If they choose to insist on hanging out with a guy who has 20 other lays, in addition to 20 other prospects on speed dial, 99.99% of women are going to stand a chance. A lot of the guys who pump and dump are just burning through bodies as a hobby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: "androgen loss, porn, and weebdom has made people worship excessive neoteny to almost pedophilic levels"I don't really get the androgen loss things. Naturally high testosterone dudes find the same girls attractive that the low testosterone dudes.....and those high test guys are more likely to chase women strictly based on physical characteristics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/20 09:47 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: "androgen loss, porn, and weebdom has made people worship excessive neoteny to almost pedophilic levels"Nail on the head. Teen girls and 30ish year old women are all trying to look like the 22 year old version of themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/20 09:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV : High body count partners aren’t good for Long Term Relationships.You do raise a lot of good points that most well adjusted men will completely ignore in the endless search to get laid in their youth......my point stands. Just because a guy is low N doesn't mean they see "sex as something special." It's typically they can't get laid at all or with the partners they want to get laid with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/20 05:52 PM |
| 3 | The female equivalent to porn is attention whoring and if more women engaged in it as frequently as men, they would not have it.Women only want to get attention from those who they deem worthy. The like system feedback loop/euphoria is well proven to be big for men and women. It's not the individual guys/likes, it is the chase for the bigger numbers and eventually cashing in on said numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 11:02 PM |
| 3 | The female equivalent to porn is attention whoring and if more women engaged in it as frequently as men, they would not have it.Most high level athletes do not have sex or masturbate before competition for this reason. That is completely made up old school bullshit long disproven by science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 10:59 PM |
| 0 | Why do men say they prefer experienced women IRL and not so much online?It is likely your experience is due to you being shitty in the sack. While I don't think most guys want a straight up virgin, few want a girl who has slept with a ton of guys either for a lot of reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 10:37 PM |
| 5 | CMV : High body count partners aren’t good for Long Term Relationships.If you're low n it likely means you think of sex as something special Disagree here. Plenty of low n dudes(and probably a few women too) that would take on full time jobs as porn stars if they could. Most men, even when maximizing their realistic potential, don't have a lot of options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Young women are less likely to intend to use a condom with a more facially attractive male partner, and over 50% of non-virgin women report having intentionally employed a tactic (excluding other preventative birth control methods) to prevent/inhibit effective condom usageI lived with a chad for a couple of years. Dude would have roughly 1-2 new women a week in his rotation for hooking up. One day he comes bitching to me about how this one new girl wanted him to use a condom. I'm thinking to myself how it isn't a big deal and he is just whining(which he was) but this adds a bit more insight to how the conversation came to be. With this said I don't think many girls are into condoms, especially those that are in the hook up scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/20 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Have you witnessed or been in a AF/BB scenario.It's kind of hard to know both parties in AF/BB situations so I think it's actually pretty tough to know that it is the situation. I worked at bars(doors and the bar) for more than 10 years. I've known countless women that came through and hooked up with many of the Chads in the bars I had worked at. They disappear and randomly show up with some guy who looks like a loser while she catches up with all these old "friends" that he likely never knew existed. My thoughts on the guy in that situation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/20 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men feel resentful to single mothers?You get the lack of responsibility talk from people that harp on about welfare/social services/etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Doesn't the low participation of women on online dating apps actually prove that women care about personality more than they care about looks?Those 4:1-10:1 numbers are just proof that more women are already hooking up with some guy. It is more proof that women are dating/STR/FWB a very small percentage of guys as well. The numbers don't exactly mean that for every 10 single guys there is 1 single girl but things are still pretty bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 05:43 PM |
| 4 | Why do some men seem to prefer being boyfriend material as opposed to casual sex material?Some men are fully content with their lives, friends and social lives and don't need the dating type relationships to fill any voids. They still need the sexual void filled. Some menfeel the want or even need to have a LTR/dating style partner to fill a void in their life. This could be due to a emotional difference between them and the type described above. Then there are grey areas between that. From what I have observed the good looking guys that could be Chads were typically introverted and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | The biggest reason why average dudes have low n-counts is because they're too picky ...pickier than ur average manwhoreHate to bother but do you have a link to said study? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 11:21 PM |
| 3 | The biggest reason why average dudes have low n-counts is because they're too picky ...pickier than ur average manwhoresuffer I suppose there are a lot of people that would rather have some sort of companionship and "suffer" as a result than live alone their whole life. I don't think that the idea is too crazy. I would guess solitude drives people mad more than less than optimal relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 10:41 PM |
| 2 | How often do you see a handsome man with an unattractive woman?I don't think your example is all that common. I think it's most common to see the guy be the better looking simply due to the woman being fat. You can find a dude like in your picture dating a fat girl who you think "If she lost weight she would be hot" but not some comic hollywood tier ugly girl meant to play the ugly girl in a movie. I think across the board you are more likely to notice women that look better than their men because across the board women are the better looking gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Is it harder to get a LTR after 30 nowadays? Why? How do you turn the table?If you are in your 30's trying to date similar aged women you are more than likely digging through the bargain bin. It's not harder to date but harder to find anyone worthwhile that doesn't have major baggage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 10:21 PM |
| 9 | The biggest reason why average dudes have low n-counts is because they're too picky ...pickier than ur average manwhoreMEN: HAVE SOME FUCKING TESTICLES AND HAVE STANDARDS FOR LTRS This sounds nice and all but your average guy is only going to have a small number of women that are both available and into them. Waiting for something better to come along could just result in one losing out on the best they can do. You are doing the same as asking a starving person to be picky about the food that they come across. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 10:02 PM |
| 2 | The biggest reason why average dudes have low n-counts is because they're too picky ...pickier than ur average manwhoreMost posts here talking about men's struggling with dating has nothing to do with them not getting laid in volume. Getting laid in volume in it's various topics is not directly connected here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 09:49 PM |
| 4 | Penis-size-manifesto: bigger is better up until the point of inconvenience?I've heard plenty of stories about current shitty and/or abusive boyfriends from girls when I was bartending. At some point during the conversation they will say something along the lines of how they "feel something special" for him. I will, at some point during the conversation will say "Let me guess, he has a huge dick." Most times you will get; "Yeah, but......" and go back to how they can't/don't want to break up with said shitty and/or abusive guy because they "feel something special." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Are pornsick men that common? Have you ever dated one? How was the experience?I fully disagree that women being able to make the decision to be sex workers is: terrible, morally wrong, and hurts society I suppose we will have to agree to disagree on porn being "terrible." Making outrageous comparisons is one of the easiest way to have people not take you seriously nor listen to what you are actually saying. You may have not intended to make a direct comparison between slavery and sex work, but it sounded that way and that is an easy way to get people to mentally check out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Are pornsick men that common? Have you ever dated one? How was the experience?It's also a extremely stupid comparison and a stupid response because as it stands it looks like you compare working in the porn industry to slavery. It's the same as me introducing you to a friend: lacyvulture this is Dan, hes an artist. lacyvulture: Hitler was an artist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Girls vs guys and double standards.From the little recollection and knowledge(I was a baby in the 80's) I have I think the general anti-gay lines of thought were anti-male gay. Lesbians weren't really part of the conversation. This is still likely prevalent in the more rural/"conservative"/"right wing" areas of the world. Girls dancing in any club/bar is likely to help bring in more guys and thus sell more drinks. So by that virtue it is more accepted. I don't really get your question as the straight men as myself will not find m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Are pornsick men that common? Have you ever dated one? How was the experience?That is a very, very, very, very, very stupid comparison but technically correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 12:14 AM |
| 5 | Are pornsick men that common? Have you ever dated one? How was the experience?That's capitalism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 12:10 AM |
| 11 | Are pornsick men that common? Have you ever dated one? How was the experience?"College towns" are overflowing with porn star tier girls. The thing that typically makes for a successful porn star woman is that they are young and anywhere from low to mid average BMI. The only thing that separates them from a large percentage of younger girls is they are willing to have sex on camera. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Men should really stop complaining about women who have "high" standards.I don't think most men are complaining, they just hate how unfair it is. If this was 1974 Sexlessness for men now is way worse than it was during the late 19xx's based on studies from then and now. Men have went from competing against locals who could only talk 1 on 1 to competing against every guy in a 250 mile radius who can talk to multiple women at once. The difficulty of dating has not been only been "more exposed" as you put it but also has shifted into being more difficult do do than most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 07:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older.If one person catches feels and the other is in for a STR it usually means breakup. "I'm not really looking for anything serious......." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 11:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older.The thing about girls/women is they don't want children until they do. I've known more of my share of women who have proclaimed to hate kids end up with multiple kids a decade later. As a result they are probably going to want to have a partner to help with raising this child. I'm older, in my 30's, but in general women that I know don't go long without having a man in their lives. This includes a number of women in their 20's. Having a man in your life is life. Not having one in your life is no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Seasoned homicide investigator claims that sexually successful men are more likely to murder/harm women over rejection and handle rejection very poorly. Does this line up with your observations? Why does this occur so much if a man has options?Can't really say anything about observations as I have only known one (known)abusive dude. He was very sexually successful and was almost comically went through prototypical "bad boy" trope(rocker, gang biker, stunt biker) phases. I think the main reason this all is; is that the incel/loser type isn't ever going to get their foot in the door with women to be violent with them. If you got every beta and every Chad in a room you may have a similar % of the group that have a violent side, but the b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Men who want to marry eventually need to raise their standardsI don't disagree with you but most guys don't have a lot of options. Either pick from the small pool of women you can attract or live alone the rest of your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 11:32 PM |
| 6 | How do you explain men redpill would consider 10/10s still getting horrible results with women?I have said this many, many times on this sub: TRP shit doesn't really apply to the Hollywood/high society types. Everything is strange in their world, or at least drastically different than the average person. Now I'm not picking on you here OP, because people in TRP say things like "Hugh Hefner/Leo DeCaprio/insert Instagram celeberity does........." That shit doesn't apply to 99.9999% of people on the planet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | How is hookup material much different to dating material?It really isn't much different but as time goes on the person on the one end of a hookup is going to have a smaller window of those hookup partners realistically be someone who can be dating material. Sure the 31 year old may get some 21 year old fuckbuddies but the 25 year old version of that person would be much more likely to find someone of age 21 that would be up to date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Question for Men: What about having a partner whose company you enjoy?It is a worthy goal if you want a quality LTR. It is possible but really isn't exactly likely. Most men have to pass the looks test for women, otherwise you are likely to end up in the good friends category(nothing wrong with this.) Most men have to get the best out of what they can attain and a lot of times that means living with qualities in a partner that they are not happy with. The reason TRP strategies are set up for STR's is that TRP mostly leans into the STR strategy, though there is tal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 09:27 PM |
| 0 | Do people IRL "really" care whether or not their partner have friends of the opposite sex?I'm not going to say it's something that is apparent on the surface or even common in early dating, but there is a significant amount of people that can't wrap their head around friends of the opposite sex. Hell there are a significant amount that take offense to spending time with any friends at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Why won’t you go gay for pay?I'm not sure why you think it would be as easy for men as women. I'm not too savvy on the gay porn scene but I'm pretty sure it is mostly made up of guys with boyish looks or guys with health and fitness cover model bodies. You probably would need a dick on the larger end of the scale. Right there it cuts out 98% of men. No the average guy isn't going to do fine, nor will the above average. Even if that were true you are asking people to do something that is often felt as disgusting and likely p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 11:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from makeup and their bodyweight, men’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from their geneticsI would say in addition to what you listed good hair and eye color(girls love blue eyes) are also huge. I would also say that mens body types % of attractiveness can widely vary. There are some guys who can get away with being thin and don't gain a ton of attractiveness from being in good muscular(not bodybuilder/mens fitness/etc) shape. There are certain guys who gain a ton of attractiveness from being in good muscular shape. Personal experience most of the Chads I know were guys with good faci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do ugly men flirt with attractive women?Most guys in general have to throw out a real wide net if they want to date. Chances if they are flirting with an attractive woman they are doing so with most other age appropriate women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 10:22 PM |
| 1 | If older man go for younger women because they aren’t attracted to women their age, what do they do when that woman gets older?Not really sure what you are getting at but we are discussing staying within ones age bracket since that is "normal" and others are "obsessed with missing out on a young sex life." So older people skew fatter than younger. Older people are more likely to be taken/involved. Thus the single "hot women beyond their 20's" is in VERY limited supply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 09:29 PM |
| 5 | If older man go for younger women because they aren’t attracted to women their age, what do they do when that woman gets older?there plenty of hot women beyond their twenties. Depending on where you live, having this be true for any significant percent of single women is downright false. %70 of women(and men) are overweight or obese and what really helps make up that number is older people(30's more likelty to be fat than 20's.) Also typically older people are more introverted, which many find less fun, which isn't attractive to everyone. On the other end of this younger women might be too active to keep up with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do men fuck ugly women ?I live in what is mostly a college town. I would say %90-%95 of women fall under 2 categories. 1)Hot/cute or 2) would be Hot/cute if they lost some weight. Personality makes for a plus on top of this. Since guys have super high libidos, men can look past flaws when it comes to having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | EVERYONE hits the wall at 30+. Men this age have unbelievable amounts of baggage which causes them to hit the wall so much harder than they even realize.Anger at their exes from their failed one year relationship back in 2009. AWALT statements subtly and overtly thrown about. One even mentioned the term “nice guys” and explained what an Incel was (I feigned ignorance lol). I'm going to be honest, I'm having trouble believing this part, particularly the first sentence. Who talks about their exes extensively in their "getting to know" phase? The answer is pretty much no one guys or girls. These men pretend to love the ride but instead expose thems… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 10:57 PM |
| 4 | This is kind of a sister sub of r/CapitalismVSocialismnew industrial revolution and new jobs will be created We are entering a post work world. Automation in the next 100 or so years will be able to do everything better and faster while working 24hours a day with breaks only for literally breaking. We can only have so many automated machine repair workers, but having humans do traditional work will slowly become pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Only Fans is “easy work” that isn’t actually easySmaller onlyfans creators play to the crowd that likes having someone that they can chat(this costs money too depending on the amount of time) to create virtual relationships. If they become too big those people leave and search for a new OF girl to have that intimate experience. People who pay for OF want to see quality awesome pics and videos. The smaller ones(and plenty of bigger ones) get by with smartphone selfies and videos. It's all about the personality and relationship with the girls fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Only Fans is “easy work” that isn’t actually easywilling to pay for nudes Onlyfans is for guys who pay for social interaction with the women they pay for nudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t women like video games or board games generally?Im a guy who likes video games(I don't know a lot of IRL videogamers) and probably had boardgames(know a lot of boardgamers) as one of my top hobbies pre covid. In my experience women tend to enjoy games that are non-competitive so that knocks out a lot of video games and board games. In this case I will be talking about non-mobile games since mobile style games are more psychological addiction feeders than games. Women in my circle seem to enjoy lower challenge games with lots of replayability.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 11:23 PM |
| 1 | "I have a job, a house, and a fine group of friends and family. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand." Is this a rational thought?Sex with a fit version of a person will under almost all circumstances be more enjoyable than a fat version of that person. This is because they are visually and sexually stimulating. You can have fun bowling with hot or ugly people, sure. I will likely have more fun bowling with a hot woman since she is visually and sexually stimulating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 10:06 PM |
| 1 | "I have a job, a house, and a fine group of friends and family. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand." Is this a rational thought?I would say many people don't have any if many close friends. Many don't have tight relationships with family. Jobs and a house can be gotten once again. While burning your current life to the ground isn't exactly something I would say is easy to do and easy to recover from, it is something I could see a lot of people doing in this case. So I say it is rational depending on your starting point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/20 05:37 PM |
| 10 | "I have a job, a house, and a fine group of friends and family. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand." Is this a rational thought?In my opinion the only reason it’s so sought after is because of the perceived difficulty. I'm sure you feel this way, but I can't help but laugh when people say shit like this. Hot people are hot. Sex is fun. No need to over complicate it. No dummy it's not about validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/20 05:29 PM |
| 23 | [Discussion] The reason this sub constantly repeats the same talking point is because of an aversion to studying systemic problemsPeople don't bring up higher costs of living, decaying small towns, overwork, the gig economy, the abuse of religion, untreatable mental illness, etc. People bring up mental illness. People sometimes bring up the financial situation of individuals. People constantly bring up modern technology. I think you are taking in way too many factors for what is otherwise simple. Up until the age of the popular dating app(late 00's-early 10's) the choice for dating for women and men was based on where you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/20 09:12 PM |
| 9 | Do some of you actually not care if a guy has hobbiesIdk how people can live like this without having some sort of existential crisis and realizing how pointless of an existence that is. This is the primary hobby of like %90 of people in developed nations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 05:28 PM |
| 1 | The link between male obesity and struggles with dating and sexI don't think these numbers fully apply to the dating market. Every stat I can find is 20-74 or 20-45 or some absurd range of age. I think if you took the normal dating aged men and women(20-30) not married I would put my money on those numbers being significantly lower. With that said pretty much across the board it seems that the amount of overweight/obese people are pretty well the same number across sexes so it shouldn't really effect the dating market too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/20 09:07 PM |
| 0 | The physical attractiveness of a male sexual "harasser" substantially determines if the experience is enjoyable or traumatic, according to womenThis only becomes more confusing as there can be a thin line between "acceptable" conversation and harassment. The more attractive you are the more likely you are to be in the acceptable area/less likely to be seen as harassing. This only takes the theoretical of once one has crossed into harassment territory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/20 09:24 PM |
| 48 | Women's reported sexual partner count dramatically increases when hooked up to a polygraph whereas men's does not significantly changeIt is also possible (if not much more likely) that they would lie about it more since the whole online dating thing has gone on. 2003 dating sites were a niche thing and you were much more likely to do dating within social circles and locale. Getting around without it getting awkward was much more likely before online dating became a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/20 08:46 PM |
| 7 | Why is there so little compassion in this sub?I think it's because it's mostly people arguing about their reality which for the most part is really all that matters. I live in area X where all the women slut it up. Other person lives in a conservative religious town where everyone waits 3 months before first kiss. We essentially live on two different planets. Having hard facts(actual studies) don't really mean anything either since our reality is essentially all that matters in these situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 09:23 PM |
| 5 | My [M24] experience having an attractive sister [F31] and analyzing her relationshipsOP is Russian posting in a second language. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 05:19 PM |
| 3 | [Q4A] What's so great about low-N women?I don't know if it is as much bonding as it is that whenever a relationship gets rocky, they know they can break up and have someone new, rather than work things out. Anyone who has a high amount of churn on anything is likely to continue that churn. It's insane that people don't get this. I always use the analogy that if you were an employer that was looking to hire someone that would stick with the company long term. Would you take on the person that changes jobs every 3-6 months for the last … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/20 10:41 PM |
| 2 | How do women treat their casual sexual partners better then their bfs?Relationships with someone means taking all the positives and negatives of the other person. Now I am not saying the positives cannot outweigh the negatives. I am not saying the positives(on their own not taking in negatives) gained in a relationship will not be miles ahead of that of a casual relationship. Casual relationships are typically almost all positive. Hang out have fun, cook together, watch movies and hook up. Simple straightforward fun where neither party has to struggle or make sacr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 09:10 PM |
| 0 | Do you agree with this? "Women look for men with a good future. Men look for women with a good past."I think it is an important topic to many (particularly relationship minded)people but there isn't any reasonable way to force the topic, it often comes out in time though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/20 10:36 PM |
| 0 | Do you agree with this? "Women look for men with a good future. Men look for women with a good past."no partner has ever asked about my n count or ex boyfriends. Yeah that topic probably is never going to come up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/20 10:30 PM |
| 0 | Do you agree with this? "Women look for men with a good future. Men look for women with a good past."So the guys you hang out with don't want to know anything about who you have been up until they met you. That is a red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/20 10:18 PM |
| 5 | Is it unusual or odd to not know/not care about your partners N count?It is unusual to know your partners N. It is unusual to not care though. As unusual as not caring about any other aspect of someones past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/20 04:32 PM |
| 15 | Hook-up culture and promiscuity is over-exaggerated, Women are more critical of high-count men, Gen Z is more conservative than previous generations on sexual partners and exclusivityYour study number 1 was based on data gathered 2002 and 2006-2008. That would place your youngest gen Zer at 6/10-12 respectively. Your number 2 is a mean age of 32 and even then its only 180 people total. So that barely applies to gen Z at all. With that said from the little observation I get of gen Z kids is that they are socially retarded. My buddy(35, don't ask) is dating a 20 year old. We get along well and occasionally over the last few years has invited me to parties and get together with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 10:37 PM |
| 3 | How Was She Supposed To Date You In Her Youth If She Didn't Know You Yet?men fall for them all the time. Men fall for bad apples due to lack of options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Women make up a majority of the dating over 30 subreddit but why?Probably because they are getting "post-wall" treatment and don't entirely understand how(and why) good they had it just a few years back since they took it for granted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 11:24 PM |
| 2 | If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage.You are comparing short term manipulation vs something long term which may not expressly be manipulation. I don't think this is a good comparison. Maybe compare divorce raped guys to "starter wives" is a proper comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 06:10 AM |
| 5 | Looks isn't everything, but for Most Men, it iswomen tend to be the more attractive party Women across the board are the more attractive party there are more visually appealing due to how girls/women are genetically made up compared to men. Women are obviously more likely to use makeup and be fashion conscious outside of areas where it required(formal events.) I'm pretty certain if you had everyone on the planet were to judge how "good looking" every single man and woman look the woman would win by a large double digit percentage. So if you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 11:05 PM |
| 17 | Q4Men: Why do so many men marry specific women despite red flags?It's already been said but most guys don't have many options throughout their lives. Many men go long stretches of adult life without any interest from women whatsoever. So when they do get one they cling onto them for dear life. They dial back(sometimes to 0) on friends and family in an effort to make the relationship work best, so the friends/family don't get to see or inform that man of them. Even if they see some flags they think it can be fixed when the real problem is you are getting to kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 04:23 PM |
| 2 | A lot of cynicism from men about dating revolves around the fact that most women are not consistent with how much effort the men they “let” sleep with puts into them, versus the men that are actually dating them. And why I like the 90 day rule.OP's girl is the goes on Tinder dates for dinner type. Haven't known any firsthand but they are probably out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | A lot of cynicism from men about dating revolves around the fact that most women are not consistent with how much effort the men they “let” sleep with puts into them, versus the men that are actually dating them. And why I like the 90 day rule.I'll put it this way. If you take the whole spectrum of dating from people that want to remain virgins until marriage(rare) all the way to fuck everyone on the first date types(uncommon) it falls outside of uncommon but not common. You can't put Depends on locale but I would guess in most younger College type areas such as where I live I wouldn't be surprised if it's 10%-20%. There is no shortage of people who feel that unless that it is fully expressed you are in a committed relationship that h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 08:46 PM |
| 0 | A lot of cynicism from men about dating revolves around the fact that most women are not consistent with how much effort the men they “let” sleep with puts into them, versus the men that are actually dating them. And why I like the 90 day rule.Not uncommon doesn't mean >50% do so. She doesn't want to move too quickly with a perspective partner because if she dumps sex guy it complicates that relationship, assuming she wants to return to it. She dumps FWB guy that she enjoys sex with, feels safe, low pressure with then things don't work out with LTR guy, she is out on her ass. Otherwise shes fucking STR(not every LTR prospect works out) after STR after STR til she finds something that works out to be a LTR(also not uncommon.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 05:35 PM |
| 13 | A lot of cynicism from men about dating revolves around the fact that most women are not consistent with how much effort the men they “let” sleep with puts into them, versus the men that are actually dating them. And why I like the 90 day rule.It's not terribly uncommon for a woman to have some sort of sex partner while they get a feel for other guys. The sex guy generally just covers her sexual pleasure needs but the other guys need to cover a whole bunch of other things before she cuts off sex guy. So she bangs sex guy while auditioning LTR's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 05:17 PM |
| 1 | A lot of cynicism from men about dating revolves around the fact that most women are not consistent with how much effort the men they “let” sleep with puts into them, versus the men that are actually dating them. And why I like the 90 day rule.In my experience there is a tolerance window within women to where if you don't make a move they assume you aren't interested(even if you are going on dates) or gay or something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 05:09 PM |
| 18 | A lot of cynicism from men about dating revolves around the fact that most women are not consistent with how much effort the men they “let” sleep with puts into them, versus the men that are actually dating them. And why I like the 90 day rule.I've never come across a chick that would make a serious prospect wait for sex while she was still having casual sex with others. Sounds like a shitbag of a person to me, if such a person actually exists You've never known any girl that has a fuckbuddy(/ies) that is also dating for an LTR? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 04:58 PM |
| 1 | In the past it was easier for 30+ men to date much younger women, now it's much harder because younger women increasingly see it as creepy.That is a bit odd to say "Hes had the same life experience as me, but more" as you not having something in common. Its like saying we both like astrology but that person knows so much more than me, we don't have anything in common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 05:02 PM |
| 1 | In the past it was easier for 30+ men to date much younger women, now it's much harder because younger women increasingly see it as creepy.In my experience the only ones who seem to have a problem with such dating gaps is women. Typically because they feel the older guy is being manipulative. Yeah sister, there is no reason this older guy would be into this scalding hot 23 year old other than his ability to manipulate her....... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 04:59 PM |
| 3 | To what extent do you think that dating/sexual preferences are influenced by gender norms?Well for the height thing if you are a woman at 5'9"(average male height) you are in the 95th percentile of women. Statistically you are unlikely to date anyone shorter than you especially if you are an average 5'4"(95th percentile of men) woman. I think the attractiveness of men to younger women is due to younger women generally having better health/fitness due to youth and as well as actively paying attention to looks/style/makeup. It goes for both genders but there is a lot more fat 28 year o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/20 10:08 PM |
| 7 | Is it possible to combine a bachelor lifestyle with a long-term relationship?When I see people "change" as a result of a relationship I assume it means the person you knew wasn't who that person truly was and are now feel they can fully be who they are since they have most of what they need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/20 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Every attractive young woman will have an OnlyFans account by 2030 and be entirely undateableI'm just surprised this absurd topic has so many responses. The onlyfans thots will always be limited by SIMP population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Every attractive young woman will have an OnlyFans account by 2030 and be entirely undateableWhile the idea of people being exploited is, messy, to say the least, the money draw of Only fans is more often than not behind that of a simulated relationship with the girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Do men dislike being approached by women romantically or is that just a myth?Men don't mind but I'll put my money on a girl that approaches you at a bar has successfully done it with many men before you. Yes some of these woman are attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Has porn caused men and women to find different traits attractive in women?The thing that makes up most porn is the same thing that still does. Youth and low bodyfat %. Hasen't really changed in 20 years. The 90's were a bit weird as most porn girls and popular "it girls" seemed to have lots of plastic surgery but fit younger women has always been in style. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Do most men find that a friendship with a woman is pointless?No but lure of average says you are less likely to have less friends of the opposite sex due to different hobbies/interests. Likely why there is a large enough crowd of "friendship with women is valueless" is because every woman they know is doesn't have enough crossover of interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 08:46 PM |
| 1 | drinking and drug culture IS the casual sex culture in the west...Correct, typically sober girls only hang around sober guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 05:16 PM |
| 3 | drinking and drug culture IS the casual sex culture in the west...Only really one person has to be part of this culture to be true IME. I have known enough Chaddish "straight-edge" dudes that had no problem running game on intoxicated girls. I have not really seen this happen the other way around. This goes for Tinder and IRL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Why *shouldn't* we objectify people who dress sexily/skimpily?......and they all stick to the cookie cutter game shit you say they do. I'm sure you have a real varied friend group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Why *shouldn't* we objectify people who dress sexily/skimpily?no matter what you wear you’ll be viewed sexually. Unfortunately there is no real escape. I've seen plenty of girls who live in the area of the bars I used to work at show up in sweatpants/sweatshirt and get nearly as much attention as the girl dressed like a hooker. Truth is as a guy you miss %100 of the shots you don't take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Why *shouldn't* we objectify people who dress sexily/skimpily?Attractive men do not autistically amble up and spout weird sexual things at strangers. You must not know a lot of attractive men. They are all kinds and the ones who say creepy shit can get away with and be successful doing so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Why *shouldn't* we objectify people who dress sexily/skimpily?there are few iconic or popular characters which are not sexualized. Fully disagree. Like half of games with playable humans now a days have a strong female lead who isn't sexualized. If we were talking pre 2010 it's a different ballgame but now a days there is endless female leads to choose from, sexualized and non. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Do you believe that your time, presence and attention is inherently more valuable than a man's?entertaining, interesting, prosocial/ communicative, I would assume many women feel they are these things......even when not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Older men (30+). What are your reasons for going after younger women that are NOT LOOKS RELATED?They are more likely to be/go out and more likely to be single and open to meet new people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Be honest: Males and females with no kids do you automatically disqualify someone if you find out they have a kid?I suppose if they had grown up or nearly out the door kids that might be fine though if that is the case that means they made a really poor decision early in life, which in turn may mean they have made more since. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 07:46 PM |
| 1 | With the rise in women selling their bodies more directly, how do you think attitudes will change towards women who indulge in it?I always find it funny because (a certain group of) women long complained about how porn objectifies women. Onlyfans comes along and humanizes objectified women and it's so much worse(creepy) than porn IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Dudes Who Hate Insta-Models Follow Insta-Models?You are making a huge assumption that these men who hate Instagram models are following Instagram models. Without evidence of this, the entire argument falls apart. I think the OP underestimates how much these people can find their way into our day to day internet usage. Take the Kardashians, I'm pretty sure I can name all of them and I put 0 effort into attempting to know about them. I know about J(ake?) Paul. Dan Blizarian?....I barely know who these people are or what they do or why they are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Dudes Who Hate Insta-Models Follow Insta-Models?I don't think it's that crazy to be jealous of them. They do nothing and you see "Check out tik tok'er ____'s $20 million home" on some website. I wish I could do nothing and afford a $20 million dollar home. .....and just because they hate them doesn't mean they follow them, they just (as shown above) find their way into their day to day feeds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 09:21 PM |
| 2 | With the rise in women selling their bodies more directly, how do you think attitudes will change towards women who indulge in it?You can pay extra to chat, video chat, get regular(flirty of course) text messages. I think that is where the big money comes from. Kind of like those weirdos that pay for hookers that they just chat up........except they are not weirdos since they make up a surprisingly large percentage of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Does TRP truthfully believe that materially all women are incapable of keeping their urges in check, and ensuring they behave ethically in a committed relationship?These stories all seem to involve the worst of the bottom 20% of women You hear this all the time on this sub along with TRP constantly shooting out of their league by only chasing top %20 "Stacies. They are also men that don't leave their house and meet real women. BP: TRP is chasing the worst of the best made up women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/20 11:03 PM |
| 5 | Keeping boyfriends secret: why?She's probably not officially dating him for one reason or another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | To women that seek out partners a foot taller than them... Why?really don't understand why you'd want to hang out with someone which such difference life experience. I'm nearing 40 and I get to hang out with women from 19-30 more often than not due to whom my friends are dating(or their friends). I don't really notice much life experience issues when it comes to daiting compatibility. Most of these women are normal people that enjoy normal things and do normal things. What life experiences are you talking about that make people that are 20 and say 35(I woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Pair bonding isn’t ruined with high N countsAnecdotally I feel most people don't get to know the people they sleep with well enough to continue keeping contact. In order to have a bad breakup you usually need a social and emotional connection, which doesn't often happen in modern dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Pair bonding isn’t ruined with high N countsBad breakups where you are betrayed are a way bigger pair bonding killer. If you are hooking up with a lot of people chances you are going through a lot of poor if not downright bad breakups. How many people do you know that hook up with a lot of people and still talk to some or even most of them? .....And if you "bonding" all the time with different people that type of bonding isn't going to play a big part in your relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 04:51 PM |
| 6 | The 80/20 rule also exists for menAll women have to do to get anywhere from a fair amount to a lot of male attention is to be in the low to mid range of healthy BMI. In addition to that youthful looks take things further. Even on the higher end of healthy one should do ok and have a number of options. Of course BMI doe not take into account things like deformity or general ugliness, but I would say(and only due to personal experience) that makes up a low % of women. It's a bit hard to find static numbers by age but Ive seen roug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/20 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Does OLD Trick People Into Thinking Social Skills Aren't Still Necessary?No but I think that online everything makes it harder to develop social skills. Insta, Twitter, Facebook, Reddit, texting.....creates an environment where most every interaction is curated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/20 04:18 PM |
| 1 | The reason women receive "too much attention from men" is a symptom of the exact same problem that men complain about: Dating inequality.That was stated in my original statement that you replied to. Until we as a society do some sort of scientific study we can say everyones opinion on this (including whom I replied to) is anecdotal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 09:06 PM |
| 1 | The reason women receive "too much attention from men" is a symptom of the exact same problem that men complain about: Dating inequality.There and other parts of my life, but yeah. For all intents and purposes that is reality. I'm sure women that live in Quaker country or in super religious areas will likely be different, but my experience is more closer to the middle/upper middle class college & young working professional city life. I've witnessed outliers but typically women won't go more than a few weeks without having some kind of man in their life. As long as I live in this environment that will be the way it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 08:59 PM |
| 1 | The reason women receive "too much attention from men" is a symptom of the exact same problem that men complain about: Dating inequality.Nah they just attend the bars I worked at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 08:12 PM |
| 0 | The reason women receive "too much attention from men" is a symptom of the exact same problem that men complain about: Dating inequality.Women being able to go without sex for a long time isn't why they don't pursue. I hear this all the time here but I can't say, for the non-obese women I have known, to be true. I don't really know many or any woman that goes a few weeks without sex, even if it means having a fuckbuddy they don't really like fill the gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 05:45 PM |
| 1 | The red pill only teaches you how to attract Stacy, which does not work well on average women, and warps your perception of women.I really think people in this forum really overstate how often men see "Stacies" in the wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Women that give you mixed signals or aren't really too interested in you, or keep you waiting when you message them aren't worth your time.Probably because it was an ugly woman. If you know any hot guys you will see all kinds of women, hot women included doing the "take my number we totally should hang out!" thing. It's something you will see all the time to chaddish guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Women that give you mixed signals or aren't really too interested in you, or keep you waiting when you message them aren't worth your time.If you don't click right off the bat, it isn't worth your while. I would say a lot of women are terrible at flirting or showing interest. I get your point. You rarely see blatant interest by women in guys and it's usually only reserved for most attractive ones. I get your point where at some point you need to cut line but even a girl seeming unenthusiastic isn't exactly always what it seems. Most girl game is "be physically attractive" and they are lost when it comes to the social aspect of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Where are you meeting these "typical" women?These traits are usually seen in younger(sub-26) women. It's not too hard to find social media obsessed, club hopping, status chasing, self absorbed younger guys as well. If you live in a college town or an area with a lot of young professionals it isn't hard to find while doing social things or dating. I will say pretty much every woman I know(includes wives of friends) spends a lot of time on social media but not nearly as much in the self-centered/selfie-taking sense sense and more of the fri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD who are against porn, what is your stance on media that are voluntary like Onlyfans or not real like hentai or hentai mangas?OnlyFans, hentai, and IG, still make up the culture of the commodification and objectification of women, On OnlyFans: What makes it so popular is that many of the men who partake in it have a (simulated) personal relationship with the women. I'm sure you had regulars as a cam girl as well. Don't you think that is kind of the opposite of objectification? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/20 04:19 PM |
| -1 | Being a "good guy" will not get you laid. As a man you need to have an edge because"morality" means nothinghow many of them are getting laid on the regular? A LOT. Because they are visible too. That's not really a good example because of your second sentence. Women love guys on stages. I was in the bar(bartending) industry. I've also known terrible comedians, terrible musicians, amateurs pro wrestlers. All of them drowning in pussy. Women can't say no to a guy on a stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/20 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Being a "good guy" will not get you laid. As a man you need to have an edge because"morality" means nothingMost men are nice to be accepted, to be liked, not to be critisized, to belong, I disagree with that. I think in general most level headed people are varying degrees of nice, typically to become more jaded with age and only then are like the quoted sentence above. Nice is most peoples(by this I mean some number greater than %50 not like %99.99) default and the grind of life often makes them bitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/20 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Being a "good guy" will not get you laid. As a man you need to have an edge because"morality" means nothingSome women will never sleep with certain men who did certain things on principle (like a deadbeat dad) but let's be real....theyre a minority. And there's always one guy theyre willing to make an exception for. I will add to this, that often in these situations that women don't know about the shitty parts until they start feeling emotion for them. Once emotion takes hold they find it a lot easier to excuse past behaviors. If you are good looking enough people will be more than willing to give yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/20 08:17 PM |
| 1 | "Depressive symptoms were associated with engaging in casual sex differently for males and females. Males who engaging in casual sex reported the fewest symptoms of depression and females who had a history of casual sex reported the most depressive symptoms."Now the more important thing for a PPD discussion is how does this relate to modern dating. Does casual mean the same thing in the 1990's as it does the 2010's. A lot of the early stages of modern dating isn't far off from a casual sex relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/20 03:17 AM |
| 2 | The decline of the traditional nuclear family in the Western world isn’t necessarily the worse thing as there are alternative family arrangements that could work as wellIn the USA I noticed that people are less likely to have close contact with their extended family and single parents are more likely to be totally alone in the process of raising a child I disagree with this on personal experience. Most single mothers I know are usually pretty tight with relatives of the family that live nearby, in part from what I would guess is part of a circle of poverty(no money to move elsewhere.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/20 05:21 PM |
| 2 | The problem is not and was never your "niceness". It was/is every other unattractive trait you selectively choose to ignore so you can play the victimMostly agreed but niceness can result in guys missing out on potential partners for a number or reasons. Having some asshole-ish-ness to your personality can help you get laid. Being nice isn't the only reason why a guy can't get a partner but it can be a boon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Men don't stop playing the field by choice. They stop playing the field because their SMV plummets with ageMaybe. I more often than not see those that can "play the field" successfully often continue to do so after they are in a relationship/married. I think they want the positives of a relationship but also the ability to sleep around(which %99 of women in a relationship will not allow.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 01:53 PM |
| 1 | How Many Of You Would Ban Casual Sex if You Could?She isn't looking for a good lay in the bed anymore. Shes looking for someone that is stable, kind, would make a good father and has a good earning job. She understands that having amazing sexual chemistry is only a positive but not a demand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 07:44 PM |
| 0 | Mainstream deeming men with limited earning prospects "ineligible for marriage" or "unmarriageable" demonstrates that women seek to cast aside their own traditional gender roles while continuing to impose them on men. "Unilateral imprisonment".They likely have a small pool of poor and ugly guys that just want a relationship with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 08:51 PM |
| 4 | Mainstream deeming men with limited earning prospects "ineligible for marriage" or "unmarriageable" demonstrates that women seek to cast aside their own traditional gender roles while continuing to impose them on men. "Unilateral imprisonment".Men don't really take finances into account. Sometimes if the girl literally does nothing at all but typically the money issue thing is a non issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 08:48 PM |
| 2 | is there a link between exessive porn use and extreme fetishes.I only watch girl-girl porn. No interest in watching guys bang girls because I never see a woman I think is hot and think "She would look so hot with some other guy that is not me banging her." So for me I would think it's the complete opposite, as I watch porn for the attractive women and not hidden repulsion........or maybe I secretly hate lesbians in my subconscious mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/20 05:33 PM |
| 2 | I always wondered why women move on so quickly. I think the answer is simply OPTIONSI've had a few opportunities throughout my years You have had a few opportunities, so you probably aren't all that and trying to go through a "plating" phase of your life probably will be riddled with significantly more rejection and wasted time than success. Just like the %80 or whatever number you choose. Every player type guy I have known has been mostly aware of their situation. Any man will know by the time you are 18 if you are the type of person that even has the ability to throw away wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | I always wondered why women move on so quickly. I think the answer is simply OPTIONSNot only that but I would say the guys who are more likely to be "up next" options(those that are more likely to know how to flirt/seduce "taken" women without offending them) are probably more likely to be bad long term prospects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/20 09:02 PM |
| 2 | I always wondered why women move on so quickly. I think the answer is simply OPTIONSAverage women have lots of men who want to pump and dump or plate them. Do you seriously think this is a reasonable option for most men? Even if admitting that there are plenty of guys who would like to live such a lifestyle, how many do you think feel they can rationally pull it off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/20 08:53 PM |
| 3 | I've noticed in the media when people talk about ex's they always frame the ex girlfriend as crazy and a stalker and the ex boyfriend as abusive and a douchebag. What is your experience with this and what do you think it contributes to toxic gender roles and stereotypes.I've met and known plenty of young unstable women. I don't really have any proof of any stalkers, since that is easier to hide and something that doesn't really come out in public. I have also had plenty of women give me stalkers stories. Only high tier guys I know have stalker stories(witnessed a few first hand when one lived with me) about women. I've known plenty of douchebag boyfriends both known to me and told to me(believable 3rd party stories.) I probably say about 1 guy of hundreds I hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/20 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a misconception that men want sex, women want relationships?I would say that by in large it is not a misconception. For women, I dont really know many that sleep around without relationship like attachment. They just jump from STR to STR every few weeks/months. I don't think I have ever met a woman that chooses to stay single(the internet has talked about it) They may call some guys FWB's but they are just dating around. Sex it semi important but it seems spending quality time with a guy is a necessity to live. In my opinion women more enjoy the ups and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/20 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Do men value women who "invest early"?I don't know where this whole "starter wife" thing came from, but is there any numbers to back it up? I could only find some stats on where being married as a teen(15-19) aren't likely to last, but nothing based on sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/20 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Does the idea of OnlyFans feel kind of unsettling to anyone else, especially in the context of growing male sexlessness?What I find amusing is that a big problem and argument many groups have(had) against porn is that it objectifies women, makes men only see women as sex objects and is bad because of that. Onlyfans provides a personal connection on top of the objectification and it is a million times more weird and creepy than plain old porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/20 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Female obesity/fatness is the number.1 reason for datelessness among men in English speaking countriesI disagree somewhat because those numbers only because they take the whole of society to make those numbers. I for ease of explanation am a traveling technician. I live in a town with a large college population. I work on college campuses occasionally and there is endless girls in the average to god tier women walking around. Are there some fat girls, sure. Same typically seems for the guys. Not often do I see young people that I consider egregiously fat. I go to work in office buildings, police… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/20 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Women don't NEED to be successful, funny or interesting to be a valuable partner. That's the difference.Just the numbers of people who "dislike" or are "unhappy" with their jobs are (depending on survey) %70-%85 depending on survey. Then you have people who do jobs they are either content with or are happy with but not really a passion. I'm a bit talking-out-my-ass here since I am filling in the blanks but passion jobs typically don't pay(in the money sense, there are other positives as you know) that great. Most people give up their passion for some run of the mill job that pays good enough money… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/20 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Unsuccesful betas need to be more selfishnot possible for society to progress if we don't understand what each of us individually wants. If everyone had the want and ability to do whatever they want for their own good society would collapse. We already have too many selfish people fucking over the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/20 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Women don't NEED to be successful, funny or interesting to be a valuable partner. That's the difference.My career is my passion Well your are part of the %3 that feel that way..........don't let that downplay how awesome that truly is but passion-job people are an extreme rarity. It's possibly a positive trait too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/20 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many men so thirsty?It's pretty simple demand and supply. High amount of demand for relations with the opposite sex with a low supply of the opposite sex interested in having those relations with those in demand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 08:52 PM |
| 15 | Why are so many men so thirsty?I watched a short documentary on the topic. Essentially these guys prefer to pay for simulated relationship and guaranteed interaction rather than endlessly try and spend to deal with frequent rejection with no guarantee of a real relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Do women actually want to be sexually objectified?The answer is yes under circumstances. On the topic of sexual objectification(a thought I had recently): Women have complained for decades that porn is bad/evil/etc because it "objectifies women." The men only see the woman as a piece of meat and are objectified by creepy sex driven men. Along comes onlyfans, and not only proves to be popular, but the primary(or second to "escorting") income generator for many women in the porn industry. The guys that hardcore use it are 1,000 times more creepy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Do beautiful women realize they get the VIP treatment nearly everywhere they go or do they naively believe this is just how the world works for everyone?Probably not as aware as they should be. I've seen Chadly guys be aloof of preferential treatment situations as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Why are biological differences not considered valid arguments?There is a chance that if someone googles your name they will know if you killed someone or attempted to do so. Most people you get together with will never know your N count. They won't know you have/had an abortion. It's about the actual reach that shame has. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 10:17 PM |
| 4 | Why are biological differences not considered valid arguments?If a woman gets an abortion chances are next to no one knows. If a woman chooses to keep the kid, she will be seen as a strong single mother by the public and have government assistance in raising the kid. Chances are she will be less of a catch due to the kid but thats a fact of life. ....And who cares about being "shamed." We aren't children. It's not like you are being shamed and the local businesses will not accept your money or hire you. Being shamed just means some people aren't going to l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 08:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Escorts are not a good substitute to a girlfriend or a hookup where the girl actually likes you.but I can't tell whether that's real or because I paid them. That is where the "just get a prostitute" supporters argument falls apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 05:24 PM |
| 127 | Why do so many men find women boring here?Everyone is pretty boring for the most part and men are more likely to have hobbies closer to men, women closer to women. That is all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many dudes see sex as the best thing in the relationship, and other aspects as secondary or boring?many men and women don't have overlaps in things they like Good luck getting PPD to agree with this. Most couples true overlap in things they like are in stuff like tv/streaming shows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many dudes see sex as the best thing in the relationship, and other aspects as secondary or boring?They most of the other things or the level of fulfillment of a relationship from friends and hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Traveling brags in women's dating profilesIt means "I'm adventurous." Many aren't though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/20 07:08 PM |
| 5 | Hook ups and ONs are a touch overrated due to the influence of porn.Narcissists and sociopaths dont care about their partners so they don't need to meet any needs but their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/20 04:40 PM |
| 5 | Hook ups and ONs are a touch overrated due to the influence of porn.I think ONS work best for narcissistic and sociopaths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/20 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Who do you think gets the "best" out of a person? Someone's LTR or their FWB?I don't think I am normal, but people act happier when in FWB situations. I have my experiences. I have seen my friends grow and many get married. I worked at a bar for 1/3 of my life and had endless conversations with both sexes. LTR's seem to have endless shit to deal with and complain about. Much of it seems like nonsense or unnecessary drama. Everything seems significantly more complicated. FWB seems to have much less stress with less problems. With that said the people in LTR's seem to enjo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/20 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Paternity tests should be mandatory at birthWomen would agree with you that if you had nothing to hide you wouldn't mind doing a smell test. And also be offended if you asked for a paternity test. Just the way of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/20 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Is male predatory stalking behavior an inherently male trait?men will display stalkerish behavior even if you’ve never even spoken to them. Weird ones that have almost no human to human or opposite sex experience. I don't think there's a stalker in all of us. Maybe there is but contingent on unfortunate upbringing. some men seem to pick the women they obsess over just from seeing them. Those ones are legit crazy. Again with no opposite sex experience. Some believe in fairytale shit like your love letter guy. Literal love at first sight You are just more l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/20 03:35 AM |
| 4 | Paternity tests should be mandatory at birthOnly cheaters have a problem with it. You are using too much of your logic=results brain, it just doesn't work that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 11:59 PM |
| 16 | Is male predatory stalking behavior an inherently male trait?I'd guess a lot of women are more likely to have a selection of guys to pick from and men less so. So you end up with more weirdo alone guy stalkers. Women stalk too but I'd it's less visible since the guys being stalked are a smaller percentage of men. I think male stalkers are more likely to stalk any woman they feel some connection with and women stalkers more likely to stalk top tier guys. I lived with a Chad for several years and I've seen some crazy stalker shit. I would guess if women had… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | How many of you have a truly close platonic friend of the opposite sex?I have a few girl friends that are as close to me as any guy friends, which isn't very close on my end(as close as it gets for me.) All are taken or jump from guy to guy before I find out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 07:59 PM |
| 1 | IG & FB are better for getting dates than Dating AppsPositive and a negative. You only get so many shots in a group of friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 05:03 AM |
| 1 | IG & FB are better for getting dates than Dating AppsBut I guess it isn't ideal if your social circle is really small and you don't meet a lot of new people regularly. Not only that meeting through your social circle only goes so far until you have a reputation/history within that circle. Having an ugly breakup with someone in your social circle is bad. Sleeping around your social circle can be bad. Not expressly saying its dubious but meeting someone random online can give a fresh start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 08:48 PM |
| 2 | IG & FB are better for getting dates than Dating AppsThanks for this one(and your reply after this), I've actually gotten into arguments over Reddit being not social media and I couldn't put to blunt words why it was not. It's a lot closer to a messageboard aggregate and messageboards have been around since the late 1980's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 08:41 PM |
| 1 | What Is The Equalizer To Online Dating For Men?I get why you're doing it but I think it contributes to the high rejection rate. It leads to low quality first messages that deliver zero sign that you are actually interested in us beyond the fact we are a female. I get you. We're at a chicken or egg point. most messages women get are not from chads True, but there will be many. You are probably going to be competing against a number of attractive player types(this probably depends on the service) that are just looking for another girl to add t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | What Is The Equalizer To Online Dating For Men?The alternative is these men masturbate and end up going blind. Pick your poison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 05:34 AM |
| 6 | The Guardian: Barely one third of Australian men 18-24 have sex even once a month.They all have a good body in porn Typically the women in porn have 2 qualities. Young and on the lower end of average BMI. To be attractive to the average guy you typically need 1 quality. Be anywhere between the low average and mid upper average BMI. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | What Is The Equalizer To Online Dating For Men?Didn't know how much they cost out there. Out here legal and illegal prices are significantly much more.....so we don't know how that would work out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 09:11 PM |
| 1 | What Is The Equalizer To Online Dating For Men?If they already matched with you they found you attractive enough to chat I was a little mixed on my initial statement. Guys will bulk swipe/message to see if they meet the attractiveness standard. Once they get there, they will typically put effort into the messages. For Tinder a (giant)robot initially matches based on criteria(age,location,height) then you swipe to match based off of looks. Other platforms I believe you can show interest before chatting(winking, poking, other cutsey names I am… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 08:09 PM |
| 1 | What Is The Equalizer To Online Dating For Men?To be fair, in return, I don't use them either(I'm a IRL guy.) I do like to dick around on my friends Tinders for various reasons......maybe to convince myself to stay away. put at least some of their interests in there, right? Yes they do but.... Honestly you have no idea if it is based on looks With Tinder you have to match with someone first. You swipe right, they swipe right, you match. Then you can message. You can view profiles before that though. Now it's not like this for every platform … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | What Is The Equalizer To Online Dating For Men?I don't use OLD. Have you seen the responses from women here(and other forum threads) on cold approaching? They generally don't like it. Most have a bad story or stories from guys they have both accepted and rejected. Online dating is a low success game for men, so is cold approaching. Men have a duty to normalize real dating once again. If you ask me it's not coming back. The younger generation is growing up in a world where social gatherings like bars isn't exactly the thing to do anymore. I l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 06:17 PM |
| 3 | What Is The Equalizer To Online Dating For Men?Hate to go all redacted pill but it would probably be steroid use and cosmetic surgery. While personality plays a part in everything, looks go a long way at getting you in the door. Responsible steroid use(this includes diet) can get you the body you want both easier and quicker than IRL working out. This includes being able to build a body that your natural genetics do not allow. Obviously cosmetic surgery can rid you of many other physical issues that you may have (baldness, malformed facial f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 05:24 PM |
| 3 | What Is The Equalizer To Online Dating For Men?So there is recent studies(2016 and beyond) that say that about %65 of dating comes about from online(%45) and through friends(%20ish.) Another %20 from meeting at bars or clubs(to your point) and the last %15 from various other things(work,college, church.) Taking out online and set circumstance(both working at the same place, same hobby group) it seems meeting in public is a low chance proposition. If you aren't into bars/clubs/drinking you might as well forget about it. And lets not act like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 05:06 PM |
| 2 | What Is The Equalizer To Online Dating For Men?I see so many men going for quantity over quality I think you are assuming that women put up quality bios for men to search through. Either most women are incredibly generic and have nothing to talk about themselves, or thier bios are shit. So you are stuck with men who have nothing to work with. You are asking men to give a genuine fully thought out heartfelt message to women who give you nothing to work with. Since %90-%99 are going to reject you out of the gate based on looks you are asking q… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 04:53 PM |
| 12 | What Is The Equalizer To Online Dating For Men?Typically people meet partners through friends, at work, in school or in social groups. FYI Meeting online is the #1 way people meet(In the USA), by a lot. In recent studies I have seen it's about double the #2 and #3(friends and bars, online is more than those combined). Everything else is almost a statistical non factor after that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 04:46 PM |
| 4 | What Is The Equalizer To Online Dating For Men?when they could smash a model for a fraction of the effort, time and energy. ......and like 5-10x the financial price. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 04:19 PM |
| 5 | What’s with the trend of very attractive women being single compared to average women?If they are truly that attractive and single then it is by choice. Pretty much every college age girl of average to very good average to underweight I have known have never really gone more than a few weeks without some sort of man in their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/20 03:46 PM |
| 4 | Is "Thousand Cock Stare" real, a joke, or something that some men are imagining/making up?It's a joke but I think often crosses paths with women who "look slutty" also looking jaded in the particular picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Do you ever get approached sexually?Occasionally women will chat me up at bars, latch on to me for the night and hook up later that night. I dont know if sex was on the table out of the gate though. I get gay guys chatting me up and fairly quickly turning the topic to sex much more often though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 03:15 PM |
| 3 | I think social media and online dating is mentally ruining womenYou would have to admit that online dating "casts a wider net" than dressing nice and going out locally, while taking less effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Men here are the biggest perpetrators of the halo effectThis sub is USA middle(&upper middle) class/college/somewhat out of college centric. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/20 11:17 PM |
| 0 | Women are complaining men don't want to commit. But what do you have to offer exactly? Do you think the problem is only due to men, or might also be tied to what the average modern woman has to offer?No it means she did pursue him and hold on to him and keep banging him and crying over him but it didn't work. Commitment guy comes along, now rewrite history as "I didn't want him, he was an asshole" and now you can say you never had a problem getting commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Women are complaining men don't want to commit. But what do you have to offer exactly? Do you think the problem is only due to men, or might also be tied to what the average modern woman has to offer?Unlike the men here, the women here say “duly noted” and move the hell on. That is what they tell themselves. Since they are dating a guy they are happy with they are rewriting their memories of obsessing over previous guys, now labeled "assholes." "I didn't want any of those previous guys, they were assholes who just wanted sex"(that I spent countless nights crying over once I couldn't figure out why they wouldn't want more from me.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 05:15 PM |
| -1 | Women are complaining men don't want to commit. But what do you have to offer exactly? Do you think the problem is only due to men, or might also be tied to what the average modern woman has to offer?I am not saying that there are not smart women out there, but many are emotionally driven. This will not really effect their job, but will effect how they go about relationships. People in general like to rewrite their own history especially when it comes to dating. Now having the guy a woman wants will now disregard the previous guys they wanted and couldn't get. Thus that woman has no problem getting guys to commit, like every one in this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 05:13 PM |
| 4 | Women are complaining men don't want to commit. But what do you have to offer exactly? Do you think the problem is only due to men, or might also be tied to what the average modern woman has to offer?Well it's official OP, every single woman in PPD has had no problem whatsoever getting any man to commit to them. Check. Mate. Please disregard the many, many posts from women on PPD saying average young guys only want sex and don't want to be "serious." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | For all the downsides of the world as it is now, I’d still rather live now then in any other time period.With the right propaganda and the recruitment of the proper low intelligence and/or subservient individuals I can see it being as possible. We currently have a president, that a subset of people believe in that has essentially invented a terrorist organization(Antifa) and has blurred the lines of who is actually part of it. All you have to do is convince a certain percentage of the population to believe something and give them overwhelming firepower and you can essentially do what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/20 08:12 PM |
| 3 | For all the downsides of the world as it is now, I’d still rather live now then in any other time period.While I don't many other countries would sit by idly, I do think the countries that could make a difference wouldn't be able to offer much help. In the end I think this would never happen for a lot of reasons though. I suppose I could see a certain subsection(s) of the population labeled terrorists and hunted as so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 06:05 PM |
| 2 | For all the downsides of the world as it is now, I’d still rather live now then in any other time period.I'm pretty sure our military have intricate maps of the entire country, unlike the mentioned people vs military conflicts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 05:51 PM |
| 3 | How would you deal with a son or close male family member who struggled with the opposite sex?Oh yeah brah I'll just go below 10% literally never eat anything outside strict diet. If you want to make improvement without sacrifice I don't know what to tell you. Some have it naturally, some have to put in serious work. I'm on a fairly strict diet and you do get used to it. You're living in a dream if you think doctor will prescribe you test. You using kg's makes me think you are outside the USA, where getting test isn't really that hard. If you can get bloodwork and are actually low-t(agai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/20 08:06 PM |
| 2 | How would you deal with a son or close male family member who struggled with the opposite sex?what is the doctor going to tell me? If you are indeed low test, you should be getting injections/cream/whatever that will get that on track. A responsible doctor can provide that for you or in the very least an analysis of blood work that can tell you what you may be lacking(this may be other things than testosterone.) Are you telling me that no woman my age has ever talked to me because I'm not jacked? So if I hit 90kg with low 15% bodyfat suddenly will everything change? It's possible that in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/20 07:19 PM |
| 1 | How would you deal with a son or close male family member who struggled with the opposite sex?Post body. I don't own a smartphone. You want to say you were so incredibly fucking jacked that it could be seen with clothing on? No, but I was clearly on the leaner end. It's not the big muscles, it's the face being thinner(which in my case probably makes it look younger,) somewhat visible larger arms(muscular genetic strong point for me) accentuated by fitting clothes. Can you put on muscle? Are you eating enough to put on muscle? Are you training right? There is a good amount that goes into … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/20 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How would you deal with a son or close male family member who struggled with the opposite sex?Personal experience only here but: I've spent a lot of my life at bars. When I was in my 20's, when I wasn't working at a bar and people there didn't know me, women wouldn't necessarily ever make an effort to go out of their way. In my 30's got in pretty good shape. Probably the best I have ever been in considering both size and low body fat. I'm almost 40 and I would semi-regularly(I am no Chad) have girls/women almost half my age chatting me up. I am sure not all wanted to sleep with me. Some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/20 05:14 PM |
| 6 | How would you deal with a son or close male family member who struggled with the opposite sex?I would say all things considered, pretty much every couple I know do not share much in common other than they like each other, like to to have sex with each other and have some streaming shows or music they both enjoy. Typically you are not going to randomly bump into people of a hobby of yours unless you meet them doing that hobby......and a lot of people do hobbies that trend towards one sex or the other. If you are part of the opposite sex in that group(say the anime girl) you are probably b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/20 05:03 PM |
| 2 | How Are Women Viewed by The Average Man?Is there this mystique and specialness? Depends on how attractive the woman is and how much action the guy has had. The more physically/socially attractive the woman is and the more women a guy has slept with effects this. I've often seen players get super excited over the next hot young thing being in their vicinity, enough to mention it. Dudes that get no action are super happy any girl pays any attention to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/20 06:26 PM |
| 4 | Is it all about AF/BB or is it all about power?there’s this common theme, (especially in the BDSM community) whereby people who are in positions of power in their real life, tend to be submissive in their sex life, This is probably more of a movie trope of anything. Adds a somewhat humorous dimension to characters. Not that this doesn't happen in real life, but I don't think there is any sign or statistics that this is the norm for people much less real life "powerful" people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/20 05:17 PM |
| 2 | How many people do you know who actually don’t care about a woman’s job/intelligence?Intelligence sure, but job doesn't really matter. Most adult women end up in, at least, some low level office/professional job like working as a claims adjuster for health insurance, or other low level office work. After a certain age you don't really run into a lot of adults that work things like waitress or mall workers. In general guys don't care about the job the woman works unless it's something like a strip club. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/20 06:01 PM |
| 6 | If women are the less promiscuous of the two sexes, how come a greater portion of women than men are in the “past doesn’t matter” camp?If you fuck, you don't fight. If you fight, you don't fuck. Can't say I've known any high aggression guys that did poorly with women. That includes the street trash I knew from working at bars all the way to "Pro" MMA fighters that sweat trenbolone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/20 07:10 AM |
| 0 | Do you think women live life on easy mode/tutorial mode, like many red pillers claim?I would guess on average if you took all men/women that were in need of help, for all things across the board, the woman is more likely to get that help from society or network of friends. I would guess this is more likely to happen to the more attractive people men or women than the less attractive ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Have you ever tried OLD as the other sex? What was your experience? Woman goes undercover as a man on tinder and is floored by how challenging the experience is. (Video)I'd guess they do well dating eachother online. There sure is a lot of them out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/20 05:52 PM |
| 8 | Have you ever tried OLD as the other sex? What was your experience? Woman goes undercover as a man on tinder and is floored by how challenging the experience is. (Video)proudly proclaims that he works minimum-wage jobs and drinks & smokes all his money away, with misspellings & poor grammar everywhere. There is a subset of the USA that is very happy to embrace being white/black trash. This includes men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/20 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever tried OLD as the other sex? What was your experience? Woman goes undercover as a man on tinder and is floored by how challenging the experience is. (Video)They DEMANDED a date. What does it mean to demand a date? Like first message was "Hi you better go on a date with me or I'm going to fucking kill you"? Chances are the guys doing this were the ones that had any success with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/20 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever tried OLD as the other sex? What was your experience? Woman goes undercover as a man on tinder and is floored by how challenging the experience is. (Video)Because OLD is the primary way people are meeting each other now a days for everything from ONS to LTR's. Last I saw(I think it was a year or two ago) it made up %45 of people meeting. No other way was higher than %25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/20 05:21 PM |
| 1 | If a girl dresses slutty shes not doing it for herself.Sounds like a keeper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Most guys on here wouldn't be bothered by a woman with a high N count if all of her partners had been womenWhile I agree that guys would be less disgusted with a N of men only compared to a mix of women/men, I think the core logic behind being weary of high N will still be there. Why so much trouble establishing a LTR? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Q2Men: if you had easy access to sex, how would your behavior and lifestyle change?I'm super body dysmorphic, I wouldn't be surprised if I would be less so if getting sex was super easy with lots of women. My personality and what I do (other than go to the gym) wouldn't change at all. I think I would cold approach a lot more. If this were the case I think men overall would be happier and (mentally) healthier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/20 06:52 PM |
| 5 | Q2Men: if you had easy access to sex, how would your behavior and lifestyle change?The chase is why so many guys give up on dating all together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/20 06:46 PM |
| 1 | The level of student debt a girl has should be more prominently considered by men when choosing a girl to commit to.Executive Order to make our drugs cost the same as in Canada. The Trump executive order was a vauge direcive to have the Department of Health and Human Services work on creating a plan, to be submitted to house/senate to adjust and make law. FYI the Dept of Health and Human Services is being run by Alex Azar, a former attorney for the Dept, pharmaceutical industry lobbyist and executive. It's about a year after the executive order and there is no word of the Dept having any sort of anything clos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/20 06:30 PM |
| 2 | The reason why these guys think every girl is a social media addicted club slut is because they don't really know any women(have no female friends)Typically if you live in a college town/area you are going to run into all sorts. Even you admit the biggest ho you know is a nerdy girl. So you can assume everyone from the stereotypical hot mess clubbing(IMO clubbing is fairly dead compared to the late 90's - 00's outside of huge metros and New Jersey) girl all the way to the nerdy girl are all capable of being ho's. From that there is the realm of possibility that someone can know a bunch of average girls across all types of lifestyles that h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 09:06 PM |
| 4 | The reason why these guys think every girl is a social media addicted club slut is because they don't really know any women(have no female friends)It doesn't matter who you know. Your argument is "This is what I know from whom I know." So to counter your agreement all one needs to do is know anything different. Since we are supposed to take your observation of women as a fact based strictly on your personal experience, in return you must take others observation as a fact. Discounting it as "you choose to hang around those people" is an argument that can be used both for and against your cause. You put up a CMV for something that cannot be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 06:39 PM |
| 6 | The reason why these guys think every girl is a social media addicted club slut is because they don't really know any women(have no female friends)So to break it down. Your arguement is I feel this way about ____ because most women I know in real life are like this. You are asking you to CMV on something that is entirely based on personal experience. So I would say the only way to CYV is to replace all the people in your life with different people. I can't do that so I can't CYV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/20 05:56 PM |
| 1 | There's a good reason why FDS does not preach self improvement like TRP does - "self improvement" is constantly thrown at and practiced by women.High is a matter of perspective, but %50 is pretty high for the population in my opinion. The main factor was socioeconomic class rather than race. I do agree this the majority of college town girls being in pretty good shape in their 18-very early 20's. A lot of girls fall off due to booze by the time they are 22 or so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/20 06:41 AM |
| 8 | There's a good reason why FDS does not preach self improvement like TRP does - "self improvement" is constantly thrown at and practiced by women.12-19 year-olds: 20.6% obesity and 9.1% extreme obesity(2014 statistics.) that goes up to %36 for the 20-40 year olds. That is just obesity. I cannot find stats on overweight but if the numbers mirror the adults in percent you would have somewhere in the area of another %15-%20 being overweight. These are US statistics, the pill forums and most of reddit is USA centric. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do men avoid "sluts" for LTR/marriageThe problem is many try to reason around it ("hamstering"?) that previous promiscuous behaviour is an important factor in predicting future behaviour. That is true for everyone. All past behavior is an indicator of future behavior. I can tell how certain people will react to certain things in life due to their past behavior and usually be right. Yes people can change but do you want to be the person(giving up time/energy/etc) that is proving both to you and the other person that this is an actua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Male N-count Affects?I am going to assume you don't really know a lot of high N couples as it's more of an anomoly to: know both peoples N counts, know a lot of people with high N counts and know a lot of high N count people that happened to be ok settling with a high N count partner. I've known a number of fairly high N count people(worked at bars for years, so you can make assumptions) and most of the men haven't settled down yet, and I couldn't tell you about peoples partners unless I knew both parties beforehand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/20 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Your average single person in their twenties had more casual sex in the 80s, and 90s then todayBut I think you just want to believe “only losers used those sites” to label me as a loser and win the argument. Not everything is about you. Nothing personal but there was a stigma to it. I think it was somewhat paralleled to the meeting someone on and AOL board, or (dating myself since I wasn't of age forr this) using dating classifieds or those date by VHS tape things. I don't mean only losers(matter of perspective) used it, but there was a stigma to it that people didn't want to be associate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/20 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Your average single person in their twenties had more casual sex in the 80s, and 90s then todayI was in NYC in college at the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/20 04:40 PM |
| 5 | Your average single person in their twenties had more casual sex in the 80s, and 90s then todayOLD in the 90's and even the mid 00's was something that was seen as the thing weird people do. The public perspective on it has changed once myspace/facebook became the thing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/20 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Pessimistic thought of the day: People say they prefer to have sex with someone they feel attached to, but what happens is that they feel attached to any sexy person in their surroundingsThis is also often what manifests the "but I feel something special", when i hear people bitching about their shitty partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 02:28 PM |
| 4 | Saying “If you want commitment, go for less desirable guys” is like saying “If you want commitment, go for guys who can’t do any better.”at their core, they still wish to have no-strings sex with multiple women. While your average guy biologically is attracted to a nearly infinite amount of women, it does not mean they cannot be perfectly happy with a woman in a relationship. I've lost(metaphorically) many male friends and acquaintances to otherwise average women because they are happy with spending most of their time with that woman. Had they been attractive enough to get many women would they be a player, I don't know, but I ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 10:02 PM |
| 5 | Nobody's going to give a shit about sex bots, they will just be a thing for porn addicts and a novel thing men might try onceI think both (well) done AI companions will replace a lot of human interaction, but not in our lifetimes. The example I point to is dog ownership. People own dogs to fill a void of love, affection, bonding and friendship. At it's core dogs are stupid animals selectively bred to be super friendly and easily appeased. We(humanity) culled off endless millions of aggressive dogs to make this easy, no effort feelgood mechanism. You can beat a dog into a coma and it will be your best friend the moment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/20 06:50 PM |
| 7 | Mark my words; in 5-10yrs, we’ll have a new set of words for, “simp”, and “pick-me’s”, and they’ll mean the exact same thingsWhile there is some overlap none of these words are interchangeable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Just how important is height really?From what I have observed with super successful guys face is by far the first factor, followed by body fitness with height being probably coming after that. I think it's almost a universally attractive trait for women but certainly not the most important one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 08:24 PM |
| 2 | CMV: For the average man, dating has never been easier.I disagree. You are correct that if you improve yourself your chances with women will be better due to the population at large being the current fatso average. Self improvement has always been a way to looksmaxx. Unlike 2 decades ago, you have to compete with every man also doing that as well as the top tier men in a 60 mile radius as opposed to the guys that frequented the places you would hang around. I also don't think by in large that hobbies really matter with women unless it puts you on a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Why does reddit seem to tolerate misandry?I consider myself fairly on the left politically but one of the things I don't really agree with is the; "men have been in power for the last 1000 years so we need to even it out by letting women/POC(I hate this term too) being able to be (more)racist/sexist." Thats basically it. I also think there is the issue that if you have "angry male spaces" on reddit the media/politicians can point to reddit as a reason why some guy shot up a walmart. Women don't really do that type of stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Q4W Do women today feel pressured into having sex?It's a chicken and egg problem. Women give it up to a subset of very in demand guys really quickly so now that guy ghosts every woman who doesn't give it up quick. Most average dudes aren't going to have some strict 3 date rule, but they are not in demand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 12:32 AM |
| 0 | What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them?Just because that many guys are sexless doesn't mean women are single as a result. They are just jumping around in STR's/FWB's with guys outside of that %28. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/20 12:25 AM |
| 3 | People assume any approach is a sexual approach because it's no longer common to have casual friendsIt's where you are approaching to say if friendship is on the table. Pretty much in any situation where men approach women, sex is assumed. Men should not assume in the opposite situation. If you random approach at anywhere there is alcohol, people are going to assume its for sexual relations, less so if it's same sex. I have random dudes chat me up at bars and sometimes it is a gay guy but often not. If you approach in the street you kind of just come off like a weirdo, usually at a store, at a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/20 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Men don't approach anymore ...I agree with others here that most guys have a low percentage of success approaching but most women are kind about it initially. I worked in bars forever and seen a million rejections but usually nice enough. I think now a days approaching in public is going out of style. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/20 07:35 AM |
| 0 | Q4All: Was dating easier in the 80s?You might get a bit more action in this one if you asked the 90's. I don't think there is a ton of 50-60 year olds around here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 09:34 PM |
| 4 | "Too Many Men Are Addicted to Video Games" sayz da ladies...She feels that being near each other is spending time together, no matter if you are escaping from that time, interaction and intent is second to being in the same physical place. He is only frustrated when she shits on his alone time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 03:00 PM |
| 1 | "Too Many Men Are Addicted to Video Games" sayz da ladies...I wouldn't say they are exactly the same but they can be. Insta/facebook is often lifestyle/gossip porn. More than anything reddit is a messageboard aggregate. For me it's a one stop shop for news about interests more than anything else. It's a lot easier than going to 20 different messageboards related to specific topics. I'm sure you can find your way into lifestyle porn on Reddit, but there is plenty of other use for it. There is crossover. It's the attitude male "vidya" addiction is so much … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Men are fucking up the game by fucking ugly girls, fat girls, single moms, and other starter girlfriends.Isn't this a problem that starts at the top rather than the bottom? The top make up a small fraction of the total. Assuming(the wild idea that) all women are dating/fucking out of their league then all men not in the top wont have access to their league. Thats why at the bottom you have millions of dudes paying $50 a month for lewd pictures of everyday girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Americans, how do you even have an SMP at all when you’re too stupid and fat?Why do Americans think they are literally from Ireland or Italy? Just because neither of my parents are from there doesn't mean I'm not. I identify as an Irish-Italian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 06:18 PM |
| 23 | Sounds about rightThe Hall and Oates song "Maneater" is about this; despite the common thought it's about a golddigger. "She does kegels for the sole purpose of ripping their dicks off" was a line in the original song before producers said you can't put that on radio. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Men are typically uglier than women.I've seen a few studies around(I don't know if they were scientific or just done by magazines), but in general they have said over the last decade appearance has become very important(jumps from like %25-%75) in the smartphone/social media age for sub-30 people. The "it's gay" attitude is pretty far on the way out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 07:48 PM |
| 1 | This is the kind of cringe posted by the depressed and fat loosers at FDSWhy does she need 2 coffees? Why is the creep over the shoulder frowning and creeping? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/20 02:52 PM |
| 1 | The redpill is just a cope to compensate for how hard men are simpingMy thoughts exactly. Video games is pretty close to having no hobby and they aren't really worth talking about unless the other party enjoys them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Chad fucked me, but won't commit to a relationship, I hate ALL men!He probably just hasn't checked his phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it unreasonable to only date girls who have successfully completed a Stage 1 Gentoo installation?I don't know what you are talking about but if Gentoo=Stacy then no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Its the truth 🤡🤡I think ugly men and women are just mostly more likely to be ignored. Occasionally mocked for their looks/style and that usually goes away in the early 20's. There just happens to be a huge gap in the percentage that women find ugly and men find ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 05:01 PM |
| 0 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenOnly very very hvm will be able to attract mid 20’s when they are mid 30’s Personal experience only but I am going on late 30's at this point, and I do surprisingly well with hooking up with the 21 and beyond range. These are just women that will start chatting me up at a bar(I assume no young woman wants old men like me.) Dating is another story, and I think pretty much completely off the table, under most circumstances. So I don't think attracting them is terribly difficult, but dating them is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 04:57 PM |
| 1 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenI'd say for men 28 or so is your peak and goes downward. If you are in shape you will probably have your best pick(not pick of the litter, but most robust amount options) up or down several years. It's a time when women feel you are mature but still have your best looks and should have a decent job. For a woman I would say 22/3/4 is about peak beauty range. Since all men care about beauty first it should go downward once the face starts showing age. It won't make a major difference til about 28-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 04:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men believe the myth that "women care less about sex" because most men arent desired by women.Many of the PPD women are the ones saying women don't really care about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Are most people who can only imagine fucking young girls (18-24) around the same age bracket?I would think that most guys are like me and don't really complain with what they can get. Some might prefer that age range but most guys don't have a choice in who they get to hook up with. I'm mid 30's, there are very, very, very few women that are in their 30's that are both single and attractive, mostly because most in my area let themselves go(I'm sure this goes for both sexes.) I ain't no sex god but I'm lucky enough to say most of the women who hit on me are early-mid 20's, but I wouldn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Are there actually that many women who "rode the CC" without relationships and waited until their 30's to think about settling down?I didn't describe any specific length of relationships. Technically you are correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Are there actually that many women who "rode the CC" without relationships and waited until their 30's to think about settling down?I mean STR's can be the start of LTR's. People usually don't choose to have STR's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 02:58 AM |
| 12 | Are there actually that many women who "rode the CC" without relationships and waited until their 30's to think about settling down?SO attractive and SO obviously undateable, Regular dudes that fucked acquaintences/friends that cheated on them. Inconstant stories. Guys who constantly need to borrow money. Guys that only want to hang out for a few hours a week mostly having sex. The guys with 1000 touchy female friends. Guys who "lose their phone" all the time or "I didn't look at my phone." Guys that complain about using a condom. There is a million reasons. I wouldn't say all are trainwrecks but some are. Believe it or not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/20 12:39 AM |
| 46 | Are there actually that many women who "rode the CC" without relationships and waited until their 30's to think about settling down?I think the basic idea is a lot of women jump from STR to STR to STR x100 with hot guys completely and blatantly unsuitable for relationships for many years until their beauty fades. They no longer get attention from these guys and then start to convince themselves that they are "tired of playing games", "I know what I want" and tropes of that nature. Their beauty fading isn't attached to any number(30 is a placeholder.) and their willingness to vet is tied more to their ever shrinking number of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/20 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Do men have to always date down if they even want a slight chance at all?Nope, but it's a progressively harder road as you date equal/up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 03:09 PM |
| 2 | What's your minimum requirement in a women for you to date her?tattoos Hope where you live is far different from where I do. Easily %70 of women(and men for that matter) under 30 have tattoos in my area. It's a right of passage once you become 18 now a days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 06:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who want to date kinder women should volunteer moreThat is correct but there is a cross section of "care" workers that kind of fits alongside choosing to be a nurse. Not that far off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 06:46 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Men who want to date kinder women should volunteer moreCute nurses are a dime a dozen on tinder/bumble/etc. Most are crazy, my theory is due to insane never changing long hours and countless short term relationships that don't work out due to the job. I respect the hell out of what they do but I theorize the chaotic nature of the job drives them crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 06:30 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who want to date kinder women should volunteer moreI'll agree with you that it can lead to meeting new people but it it is not a guarantee. I did the Thanksgiving thing one year and it was mostly religious folks(kind but not everyone's type.) I knew a hippy pot dealer who did and I would visit him out there here and there and it was a mix of all ages hippies and religious people. I fully agree you can meet some hot young women doing the animal shelter thing, but animal "lovers"(not regular owners) are usually severely fucked in the head. It's a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 06:26 PM |
| 2 | People over-glorify youth. Specfically, the 18 to 24 demographic.IME 18-25 or so year olds are generally more attractive(obviously), more fun, less work and less demanding. This goes both ways for the sexes. Relationships are easier and more fun with young people. Less likely to be stable and long lasting though. Stupid maybe. Broke probably. What people consider best years depends on what they are actually looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/20 05:20 PM |
| 8 | Discussion: The sexual frequency of men and womenThe age of the SO is insignificant in this from what I can tell. It's just counting people who are "single" or married in that age range. LTR's aren't even counted here. Neither it "partnered" according to the article. With that said I am having trouble finding the source that is the foundation of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/20 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Do men not care about commitment ?Do men genuinely enjoy Relationships or it just a way for them to get laid ? I've seen enough dudes fall off the planet, leaving friends and hobbies behind to spend ungodly amounts of time with women. There is a balance between that and your question which is where the majority of men lie. I can't say for sure across every age range, but this is where the majority of men lie. Are there men who can get casual sex but can't get commitment? This can happen with individual women, but it's not really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Men: do you empathize with women’s issues?Do you empathize with the fact that women are almost always viewed with a sexual gaze, making them feel like sex objects 1st and people 2nd? How about the fact that a woman can’t be nice to a man without him thinking she’s interested? To answer this I would say most men have to look at these things from a perspective of them having this happen to them with gay men. Working at (sometimes gay)bars forever this happened all the time to me. It's both annoying and flattering, but I would say more so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Is the quarantine affecting women more than men?Maybe OP only knows prostitutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 02:19 PM |
| 5 | Is the quarantine affecting women more than men?While I do not doubt you, in general I think lots of people are seeing random people that they have not talked to in forever chatting them up. People are starved for socialization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 02:15 PM |
| 7 | Is the quarantine affecting women more than men?I think the core ideology of conservatives is I do and want what is best for me, fuck everyone else. Liberals have a rising tide floats all boats mentality. Conservatives do not care that them not sticking to ideas like social distancing is both unnecessarily killing people but also putting massive strain on our hospitals and health workers. Somewhat ironic given their argument about socialized healthcare resulting in wait times for hospital procedures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 02:11 PM |
| 0 | Are men upset about not being able to get relationships or causal sex?Men dont like women who are ugly, or who isnt a submissive doormat. They also cant stand the fact a woman might have been with another guy before him because hes insecure and unironically thinks sex ruins the vagina Your shooting 1/3 on this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Are men upset about not being able to get relationships or causal sex?From the dudes I know it's mostly the former. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 07:48 AM |
| 5 | [Q4RP] Why is the anger phase directed at 4 billion women?Some women date drug dealers so you're angry at all women. Maybe not all of I but I would guess a large percentage of people have lived through a time where they perceived(truth be damned) the largest percentage of any time in their life, women were dating assholes and men of that ilk. Then they come across an ideology(TRP) that already aligns with how they feel and tells them "how it is" = anger phase. I don't think the foundation is "Why wont all women sex me because I'm nice." It's more of a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: single mothers are not you problem.it's just paying off voters for political power of those people who exploit them for personal gain. If they are the person you are describing they are more likely to say "I don't follow politics" and not participate at all in the voting process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/20 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Did struggling with women in your youth change your political views?I can't find the exact stats but I'm trying to show you the pattern. Those are some damning numbers........ but going full circle here. If it was the advancement of women and workplace advancement, why do women still take more welfare than they pay in taxes in every age group? I'm looking at some (surprisingly hard to find)numbers here about American Welfare and looks like the split of welfare recipients is 60/40 in the favor of women, which is pretty close to the 25/35 percent of breadwinners i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Did struggling with women in your youth change your political views?How many sources would you accept and how many locations? USA because that is what we usually discuss around here. If you have reason to believe it's unique to New Zealand then share that. It's because I know nothing about the New Zealand tax system, education system, welfare system, culture, etc, etc and New Zealand is about %1.5 of the USA's population. But that isn't relevant to the stat. You can pontificate on why it is but the fact is what it is. That is entirely relevant to the stat. I als… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Did struggling with women in your youth change your political views?When women make the decision to leave men or have children while single its their own fault. While I agree it's not always that case. I would wager a very, very small percentage of women are raising a kid by themselves because they wan't to live the life of welfare queen. Though I don't have any stats to back that up.....thats probably a tough study to get accurate info on. The why is important in this discussion but I don't think we can get that. In a very dirty search, women are (%2.5-%3 of 18… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 07:13 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: Did struggling with women in your youth change your political views?It does. If you have a problem with children being supported by welfare that is a whole different discussion. Also that article that you link to, links to another article(which links to another article) saying the statistics are from New Zealand. Another thing that could be of note is that rich(top %1) individuals tend to be men so when you compare single men, single women. Women also live significantly longer(elderly get a ton of welfare) than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Did struggling with women in your youth change your political views?I'd like to see the stats behind that(google isn't being helpful.) Women are much more likely to take care of kids in cases of seperation, divorce or other situations(parents are druggies, so it goes to grandma) so I am assuming that may be the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 05:45 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: Did struggling with women in your youth change your political views?I struggled in my teen years. In my 30's now liberal as ever. I honestly believe if you're a college educated man who's average, or slightly below, in looks, your SMV will be a lot higher in a society void of a strong social welfare state. It's not the "welfare state"(check out the high quality women that take part in that) what lowered the average RMV(not SMV), it's the advancement of women in the workplace and schooling. Many of the hurdles that kept women from working have gone away over the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Do you think people should eventually outgrow RP/BP/PP?Fucking go out, meet people. The internet is a cesspool of negativity, why are you letting some random person with who fucking knows what issues dictate how you feel? It's not reality." The reason why people can go on endlessly in this sub is because they go out and meet people. Anecdotal evidence isn't exactly the best way to take in a world view, even though in a way it should. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe that using women for sex is equivalent to using men for money? Why/why not?Modern dating usually means you are fucking in 3 dates are so. There is no possible way someone can realistically think "this is definitely going somewhere" after a handful of dates. It's more of a "we get along and I'm horny." The way you hear a lot talk around here is that most every women need some deep emotional/spiritual/next level connection before they have sex. As if they don't enjoy the act at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s?It's what people bitch to me about when I was behind the bar(I bounced as well.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s?I worked at a bar for 13 years in fairly large college town. I still attend them pretty frequently to this day and have tons of 20ish to mid 40's acquaintances and friends from over the years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 08:47 PM |
| 4 | Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s?We want drama-free and respect with our sex, thank you very much. I'll tell you what I see most often. Girl meets hot guy. Girl knows next to nothing about him, makes an entirely made up persona for him. That falls apart quick. A few weeks later it's over for a variety of reasons, rinse and repeat. All too often I had to play psychologist to a regular who was nearly crying over a guy who had/is treating her like shit(or never cared or broke up or cheated or whatever) but she "felt something spec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 06:28 PM |
| 5 | Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s?I don't even feel that women care about the sex as much as they enjoy the emotional rollercoaster that comes with jumping around from partner to partner. I think a lot of women cheat because they think cheating is exciting, not because the sex is great. I did alright for myself with women when I worked the bar scene. The short 2-4 week <10 hangout/hookup sessions don't really give you much to take away. These girls didn't know me, I didn't know them. They are all experiences but I barely learned… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 05:42 PM |
| 4 | Why does it matter if a woman “sleeps around in her 20s” and marries in her 30s?Like a piece of her is being taken away or broken off every person she gets with makes ZERO sense LOL. I'd like to say a piece of us is broken off or taken by every significant(not just the guy who cashed you out at the store) person we meet. Every significant place we visit, experience we have. These all shape us in some way or form. I probably can't change your mind here but I would say that someone that has a time in their adult life of jumping from STR to STR is a lot more likely to jump shi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Tattoos are a red flag because they are linked to promiscuity. Science proves this.At this point the day you turn 18, getting a tattoo is a rite of passage. The days of tattoos being anticonformist died two decades ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Alot of men could avoid heartbreak if they stopped pursuing shallow relationships.Most guys don't really have that many options. Gotta take what you can get or it could be months to a year(+) until you find something else. Most men don't have the option to choose a shallow relationship over another more compatible one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/20 02:53 PM |
| 7 | Is the level of effort and focus that "Chads/Alphas" put into pursuing women compared to more "beta" males downplayed in discussions of women's sexual practices?his phone and DMs aren't blowing up with new women pursuing him. I've seen a million times in person "hey take my number we should totally hang out" from girls to chads/players who have outright ignored these women in my many years working at a bar. They weren't exceptional other than them being not fat and having good facial features. They absolutely do put in effort in some cases but have just as many no effort cases come their way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/20 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Waist circumference statistics suggest that women might be significantly fatter than menI'm not sure if this makes a difference on to of that but I am pretty sure, on average, men are more likely to have fat build in the gut while women are more likely to have it build in the hips/ass. Obviously it builds everywhere but certain areas should make up a certain % of where it lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 06:37 PM |
| 2 | TIL that men make up 78% of Tinder. What are the implications of this?There is very few non married women I know not on dating apps. Obviously this is anecdotal. Even the ones in LTR's or with boyfriends of various capacities(as far as I know they do not tell them.....no surprise.) Not all are on tinder but most seem to stay on some app, even if they don't regularly check into them. Now maybe this is because I am around more extroverted/outside hobby people, but I couldn't tell you where or how the introverts are meeting anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | TIL that men make up 78% of Tinder. What are the implications of this?I've had this discussion before but to me what it means is a lot of women are "dating"(TRP calls is Chads soft harem...ugh) a lot of the same guys, knowingly or unknowingly(probably more likely.) This leaves a lot of single men and a bunch of "taken" women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | If sex is a need, why dont more guys just go to hookers?Personal experience only but the once you cut out the passion of sex the idea loses it's fun. I've been told(by the internet) they could be very convincing. I will never buy that. You can't out act the fact that I know I am paying for this service. It's a two way street. I (again maybe not an every guy thing, but lots) like going down on women, not going to happen with a prostitute. I have heard a lot don't allow kissing. I don't know prices but have heard the attractive ones can cost several hu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/20 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Movies were the nerdy, dorky, "nice" guy gets the hot girl are almost always made by men for men, yet TRP still blames women for "misleading" themI think it's because these movies reinforce the real life things they are told by the women in their lives. The women are the foundation, real life is the foundation, much stronger than fiction can be. For a subset of men, these movies help reinforce that narrative. I would say the movies also reinforce %90 of the persons real life "love" plot. Girl dates asshole, is friends with/nice to average guy........but he doesn't get her in the end in real life. On a side note I think this kind of ties i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | If the population was now composed purely of Chads, would women begin to find 80% of men unattractive?To your main question I say no. The number would likely be lowered considerably. I believe that if men all improved their looks, they would then ALL be rendered attractive. Don't agree with that but mostly agree with: but most (99%) men can improve their looks I would a pretty large amount could make significant progress with dating if more people kept up with self improvement. This is obvious to everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/20 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Is this subreddit only for US cultural context?I think this sub(and majority of Reddit) is mostly represented by Americans. It's not abnormal for someone to say the thing you say and have it seem foreign to most of the replies. In the end it doesn't really matter since even in this country there is a massive divide in how people from different regions of the country are and act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/20 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Are men *really* attracted to average-looking women?Legit most are either hot or "if she lost some weight she'd be hot" in %95 of women. When I think average I think the average BMI 25-30ish woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/20 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Is becky buxx a thing?I've known a number of women who held on to, paid for rent, food, etc for hot guys that they "just felt something special about" while the dude treated them like shit. Typically it ended when the dude moved onto a new woman. If they listened to common sense or any of their friends or anyone else this could have been avoided. Many of these women were shooting out of their league but definitely not all of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 08:39 PM |
| 6 | Marriage has become completely obsolete for MenBased on the post I get the impression that by casual he means in the modern dating sense. Have sex within the first few dates and see where it goes. more FWB/STR and not exactly the meet in a club then ONS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Male thirst isn't given nearly enough responsibility when discussing the disparity in the SMP.What I am saying is for every 1 woman using dating apps 8 men are. Obviously it is not 1:1 in respect to every person being unwillingly single but pretty much all dating sites are heavily overrun with guys that are. This implies that there are significantly more men that are single and looking than women. While there could be more men doing the ONS thing, I can't imagine women having less relation time(be it FWB/STR or LTR.) I have never known any girl/woman that has gone more than a few weeks w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Male thirst isn't given nearly enough responsibility when discussing the disparity in the SMP.So 8 of 9 women are hooking up with someone they meet IRL. 1 of 9 men are too. 8 of 9 men are not dating anyone and using dating apps. 1 of 9 women are. I feel like there is something missing here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/20 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Male thirst isn't given nearly enough responsibility when discussing the disparity in the SMP.If there are 9x as many many men as women on tinder(and other x amounts on other dating sites) who do you think the other 8x(seeing the population is roughly 50/50) of women are fucking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Male thirst isn't given nearly enough responsibility when discussing the disparity in the SMP.If there are 9x as many many men as women on tinder(and other x amounts on other dating sites) who do you think the other 8x(seeing the population is roughly 50/50) of women are fucking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 09:35 PM |
| 3 | How many of you admit to being shallow?Your in the wrong place to avoid that. Thats like a top 3 insult for guys who can't get laid around here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Guys who prefer thin women vs. guys who prefer curvy/thick women: what does it say about the guy?I don't think it says much of anything. Typically I am going to find %95 of sub 30 women in the mid to low-mid average BMI attractive. Probably somewhere in the %80 of the higher average BMI attractive, while thinking the other %15 would be attractive if they lost some weight. I grew up in an age where the it girls were thin pretty blondes with giant fake boobs. Other that pretty, none of those qualities are preferred to me. Most every guy I know didn't really ever have a type that they consiste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 05:01 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is making men so unattractive to women?Video games are obviously a hobby many women enjoy.....no one ever says that here despite the video game industry touting that half its userbase is women. I'm not bashing social media, but it's a stupid time wasting hobby like video games(and ten billion other things people do.) I don't believe Reddit is a social media site though, it's a message board. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 12:08 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is making men so unattractive to women?The women on OLD sites aren't better looking than them. There are a billion obese women on those sites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 12:01 AM |
| -1 | What do you think is making men so unattractive to women?Both reading and video games are good for the mind. Video games also can include plenty of reading, problem solving, timing and many other things that are good for you. It's interactive stimulation, which is something that you cannot say about a lot of hobbie. Not that reading is bad or should be avoided. Being on the internet is usually social media......and most aren't getting 10,000 followers. They are looking at pictures of dogs, pictures of their friends meals, and laughing at/sharing memes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 11:39 PM |
| 3 | What do you think is making men so unattractive to women?Men have their stupid pointless time wasting hobbies but so do women. Average women are going to have hobbies like watch tv/movies, read, be on the internet for various things, crocheting, making artwork, making "artwork", social media. There really isn't anything wrong with this but it's not like women are any different in downtime than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 11:01 PM |
| 9 | What do you think is making men so unattractive to women?Those so called sexless women aren't likely to be responsive to most approaches since this type isn't likely to be in socially approachable places(bars/clubs.) There are hundreds of dating sites and all they have to do is put an average picture on there to get some hits......but they aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 10:47 PM |
| 26 | What do you think is making men so unattractive to women?They're boring, uninteresting and weird. That could be said about a significant amount of all men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Men only have other men to blame for the difficulty of dating appsI'm not exactly sure what you are getting at here. Even if men took into account looks + personality women would get endless hits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/20 08:03 AM |
| 3 | Hook up advice from women is 9/10 awful adviceThe most attractive/Chaddish/etc dudes I know have women regularly aggressively approaching. Women know what to do to get the ball rolling, they just save it for the very few guys they have to get with. The non verbal shit is for the B tier guys. I agree with not asking women how to court other women since most are not self aware of what actually gets them going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 02:04 AM |
| 2 | If a man continuously sleeps with a girl below his league, she’s not stupid for believing he might want more than sex.My experience with girls losing it over guys are either: hot guy in a STR or regular guy in a LTR. This coming from a bar worker perspective so it may skew a certain way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 09:30 PM |
| 8 | "Get out there and meet women" - what do people have in mind when they say stuff like this?It usually means: "I'm tired of/have no answer for this situation so go figure it out yourself." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Men aren’t angry because they realized women want Chad. They’re angry because they realized they aren’t Chad.Perhaps I stand corrected, he's definitely not a Chad but perhaps I jumped the gun saying beta bucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 12:40 AM |
| 0 | Men aren’t angry because they realized women want Chad. They’re angry because they realized they aren’t Chad.Haha, I suppose we could use static definitions of the more popular buzzwords around here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Men aren’t angry because they realized women want Chad. They’re angry because they realized they aren’t Chad.I was just refuting that Chad is only getting the 9/10's when hes more likely to end up with 5's, 6's and 7's. The 25+ Chads still aim young since the women their age are more likely to want a realistic LTR and have gone the Chad route enough times to know that they won't likely pan out. They don't really think in terms of age just either a)hot girl they want to approach or more likely b)girl approaches them. Of course they will bang a hot 30 something, but the 18-24 pool is bigger by magnitude.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 10:18 PM |
| 6 | Men aren’t angry because they realized women want Chad. They’re angry because they realized they aren’t Chad.Hefner is like ultimate beta bucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 10:05 PM |
| 11 | Men aren’t angry because they realized women want Chad. They’re angry because they realized they aren’t Chad.I think they are more angry because they hear women both complain about Chad after he treats her like shit only for her to STR date another Chad and another and another. This mostly being around the age of 18-24. Guys know where they stand in the hierarchy of looks for the most part. They look in the mirror and think I'm not bad looking, and I would never break her heart/hurt/abuse like he(Chad) did. The reality is those girls would rather be in shitty relationships with hot guys than good relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Men aren’t angry because they realized women want Chad. They’re angry because they realized they aren’t Chad."Chad," the actual one, has a steady stream of 9/10 girlfriends. Nah the 9/10's are hot enough to actually date and keep(for a reasonable time) the guys they go after. Chads banging the lower end of BMI 18-22 year olds, which are abundant and generally attractive to all men and make up a good percentage of average for their age group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 09:53 PM |
| 7 | What makes girls like dangerous man?I think a large enough percentage of women, especially when younger are addicted to emotion and emotional swings and guys like this provide this in excess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Reasonably attrattive men in their early 30s with their sh*t together are better off casual dating than being in a LTR?In general across both sexes, it seems as people age they lose interest in meeting new people or doing anything that spontaneous or exciting. That certainly makes up what I feel most late 20 to mid 30 something I know. Obviously you should do what you want but if you don't enjoy the chaotic nature of meeting and experiencing new people it's probably best you start thinking long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Dating in a politically polarized worldand often not on facts Hate to break it to you the GOP is now the party of "alternate facts." The GOP also preys on least intellectual of people(GOP won 46 of the 50 worst educated districts in the USA) as well as religious, neither group is known to care much for the facts over feels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Dating in a politically polarized worldIME most people of normal dating age(I consider that 18-30) don't really care that much about politics. I live in an area where most of the people are various shades of left leaning anyways. I'm pretty left and I don't mind a right-wing perspective but Trump lovers can fuck off. Can't get too deep into the discussion without having to debunk conspiracy theories with those folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Do you think that men are on average a lot funnier than women?Both that and you have more guys that show that side immediately so you are more likely to see a guy as a funny guy. People that work on being being funny are more likely to be able to read other people and know what to say. It's not like men are by nature funnier, it's just socialization pushes more to openly embrace being funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Do you think that men are on average a lot funnier than women?I think men probably seem more funny due to the fact that lots of guys embrace a "funny guy" gimmick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Testosterone has NOT been linked to aggression or hostilityMore broscience from me but I think that estrogen effects men much more harshly than women and test effects women more than men since our given receptors are less used to those things due to natural production. Hence you have high E2 guys and high test women acting more violent and irrational. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Testosterone has NOT been linked to aggression or hostilityI am going to say that I don't really like that every study linked here is over 20 years old, science really should re-visit this subject on a larger scale. With that said in personal experience only it seems the guys who have the worst aggression from taking high doses of testosterone typically also don't do what they should to control the estrogen that accompanies it. For myself high test doses(500mg/wk) typically reduce my anger since I sleep and feel better when active in that state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Testosterone has NOT been linked to aggression or hostilityslightly more testosterone Now this is just an average but most men on legal HRT/TRT(doctor prescribed testosterone replacement) can usually get to the mid to high end of healthy testosterone levels at 100(most common dosage)-200 mg per week. That would put people in this study at 3-6 times the amount of testosterone of the average man. Every single person in this study that took those 600mg per week would be in the top %1(probably smaller %) of all men on the planet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 03:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Wealth/money just doesn't attract Western women in the way it used to (unless you're mega rich)People tend to socialize, work, date, marry, and live around people similar to themselves. Mostly disagree with that. %99 of people I know(personal experience so like yours doesn't really mean anything) don't want to spend time with people from their work or for that matter line of work. Yes they have similarities(they like to rock climb or go to raves, etc, etc) but they link on those things and much less on how much they make(exception being extremely expensive hobbies.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 12:37 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Wealth/money just doesn't attract Western women in the way it used to (unless you're mega rich)It's nice to have a 6 figure income but it's not unusual or impressive at all. If you are making $100K you are somewhere in the top %12 of Americans. If you are making $150K you are top %6 of earners. Keep in mind the stats for these earners HEAVILY lean towards older people 40/50+ years old. You can break that down further by location and pay to cost of living ratio. So to find a person of normal dating(/first marriage) age(25-35) you are probably looking at a someone in the top %3-%6 of earner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 10:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Wealth/money just doesn't attract Western women in the way it used to (unless you're mega rich)I do not really notice this. Typically the guys who are flashy with money attract a certain subset of women. If they are good looking they don't really need to do that but the "something special" feeling that they get will likely be that much more special if the dude has looks and cash. Not going to lie as a guy I think it would probably be a pretty big plus if a woman I was into made good money, but I have never really met any women(and only a very few ment) that fall into this category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Erectile Dysfunction - Women blaming porn for thatIt's not exactly something people openly talk about but from every experience I have heard with deadbedrooms from the womans side is they were dating for some time. It's not like women are about to hook up with some new guy and he can't get it up(drugs withstanding.) It's hooking up with them for the 100th time. Roids aren't the issue and plenty of them can be the cause of a dead sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 02:41 PM |
| 0 | The Myth of the CarousalIt depends on where you live. You live in a conservative religious area and you have your 1-2 LTR example. In a big city or college town you are more likely to see it. There are plenty of areas where you sleep on the 1-3 dates and figure out where it goes. %90 the people find out they aren't compatible at all after they have already slept together and the break it off. Repeat this several times a year and you are on the carousel. Just because you don't see it doesn't mean it isn't happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 07:13 AM |
| 1 | There are a lot of jewelry commercials encouraging men to buy expensive gifts for the woman in their life... why is there no female equivalent to this?Not the 200,000 Christmas signs, sales, wreaths, holiday lights, mall Santas and so on(most of these things at a lesser and different extent during Valentines.) Men know when the major holidays are going on, maybe they'll forget the 20'th anniversary of when they first went on a date, but no one can forget the major holidays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 08:45 PM |
| 3 | There are a lot of jewelry commercials encouraging men to buy expensive gifts for the woman in their life... why is there no female equivalent to this?People need cars to get to work or other places. I don't think I have met anyone of either sex who has bought a car for any reason other than to get from point a to point b. The fast and furious crowd is like %.00001 of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:25 PM |
| 2 | There are a lot of jewelry commercials encouraging men to buy expensive gifts for the woman in their life... why is there no female equivalent to this?The lions share of these commercials are during Christmas and Valentines day. Men do not need to be reminded of these events. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:19 PM |
| 12 | Men do not want to LTR nice, chill, low maintenance girls.Most average guys I know date whomever a) meets the attractiveness threshold and b) is a woman. They don't descriminate against high maintence/crazy or other flawed girls simply because they work their asses off to get a girl that actually wants to stick with them. Usually they are afraid to lose them so they put up with their shit. Guys with options don't have time for girls described in your last full paragraph and they move on from friends of yours because of other reasons that may not make t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 09:06 PM |
| 6 | Maybe "Non-Normie" men shouldn't be trying to date "Normie" womenI think there are significantly less non-normie women than men for a lot of reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Would you, as an under attractive male, date an unattractive female?I mean if we are talking about face looksmatch only maybe you would have to get with an overweight person. You being %8(props to you for this level of discipline) and going to the gym for decades(implies you are somewhere around 30) puts you at the top percentile of guys. Your looksmatch should not be anywhere near overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/20 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Would you, as an under attractive male, date an unattractive female?There is online websites where people post pictures of themselves based on height, sex and BF%. These aren't that accurate. You can use the caliper system(look it up online) and this can give you a semi accurate number. There are health clinics that have scanners(dexascan??) that can give you a pretty accurate number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/20 09:27 PM |
| 2 | How are women supposed to appreciate male attention when it’s so cheap?I wouldn't call these women vocal, it's not like they are parading it on IG. Again, I am starting to think it's just a sexual bucket list thing for more women than one would assume. As I mentioned, I'm not a big deal, but it's happening at a much higher rate(which is in reality anything more than 0) than I would expect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 05:23 AM |
| 8 | How are women supposed to appreciate male attention when it’s so cheap?You just did admit that. You said your feelings on the issue were the same as a man who doesn't like a slut because they feel they are gross. Those men don't like them because they simply feel that way. You can't even string together any coherent reason why consensual sexual relations between partners with an age gap implies lack of self respect nor why old men are "gross" or "FUCKING DISGUSTING."..........other than what is stated above. This is the same line of thinking that you get when talki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 10:38 PM |
| 10 | How are women supposed to appreciate male attention when it’s so cheap?Most men like sluts, they just don't want to LTR them. I do appreciate you admitting the foundation of your arguement is based on your feels of "yuck!" rather than women not having self respect or older people being gross or any other thing . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 10:27 PM |
| 7 | How are women supposed to appreciate male attention when it’s so cheap?Why are old men "gross" and why is this disrespectful if it's two consenting parties respectfully having physical relations? What I am getting from your side here is that you find such things icky, simply because that is the feeling invoked if you were doing such a thing, which (easily assumed) you do not. No disrespect here, but I feel your end of this discussion is akin to talking to people who don't like gay people "Because it's wrong." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 10:09 PM |
| 7 | How are women supposed to appreciate male attention when it’s so cheap?I am not sure why this implies lack of self respect. They want to have a sexual experience and they make it happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 09:57 PM |
| 18 | How are women supposed to appreciate male attention when it’s so cheap?Personal experience only but I think there are more than an number of younger women that have at least a phase for older men. I don't know if it's just a checklist thing or what but it has been happening enough in my later years and I am still not really seeing any patterns(for example no father) for the girls involved. For the record I am heading towards 40 and while I might rate myself 5 or a 6 for my age group(very good shape, average/below average face) in the eyes of a 20 year old I would t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 09:39 PM |
| 3 | How are women supposed to appreciate male attention when it’s so cheap?Yeah, because male validation (something given freely and blindly) means so, so much. Well based on the bluepillers around here, there are plenty of perfectly normal average women that get no attention at all and men only want Stacies so you probably should be thankful for that validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Is sex a gift that a woman gives a man?It is if the woman isn't really that attracted to the guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t each gender see that BOTH sides have their own problems and get along?A doctor in a hospital will treat the guy with the broken bones before working on the process that is treating cancer. If a car full of people with gunshot wounds comes in that gets priority. At a global scale(much more difficult to coordinate) I think we should work on ending backwards ideas like being arranged to marry 12 year old girls over say women feeling uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t each gender see that BOTH sides have their own problems and get along?While subjective I think we should fix the problems of those who have it worse. Also a lot of problems are not ones you can fix like the men are larger than women from above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t each gender see that BOTH sides have their own problems and get along?Both may have problems but in the end, one of the two probably has it worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Do men still pump and dump if she’s less attractive but REALLY good at sex?I fully agree, and if they slept with a lot of girls before marriage they typically continue to do so after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Do men still pump and dump if she’s less attractive but REALLY good at sex?She mentions in another post that she has large breasts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 02:47 PM |
| 5 | Do men still pump and dump if she’s less attractive but REALLY good at sex?I'm not nearly attractive enough or the type to PND and just move on but I feel in general most good looking guys have enough options that they will eventually move on to someone new only out of boredom and the excitement that comes with sleeping with a new hot woman. In fact if he's as hot as you claim I would guess you are just one of many girls in his rotation. This guy might be different though. I would go in with minimal expectations and cut shit off if you start seeing out of place(in a da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 02:44 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Where do your views on women’s behavior come from?Most red pill stuff doesn’t pass 1). Most peoples claims here don't pass 1. Nearly every conversation on here is based on anecdotal evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 06:52 AM |
| 4 | What are the effects of having many sexual partners on men?I don't think it's all that different from women doing the same. On it's own it's not really that bad unless they are careless about having safe sex(IME guys who do sleep around a lot loath condoms so theres that.) They will typically not be good at retaining a LTR because: If a guy has many sexual partners under most circumstances it means he is attractive enough to always have one or more people lined up willing to date/fwb/fuck. If someone is used to have many sexual partners they are going t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/20 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Some people have it so good you don't even knowThats as much as women need to do to or are willing to do to chase.......typically. If a girl DM's you or insists on giving you her number with a "we should hang out" that typically all they are willing to do. Thats taking their best shot IME. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Some people have it so good you don't even knowHaha....thats not chasing but I suppose a sign that you've got something going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 03:20 AM |
| 3 | Some people have it so good you don't even knowSo are you just talking about stalking? Other than that, hitting you up on social media is about as much as women chase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 01:30 AM |
| 6 | Some people have it so good you don't even knowIf you spend any time around attractive men you would see them have many girls/women make sure that they have their number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 10:44 PM |
| 5 | Some people have it so good you don't even knowOf you are only getting chased by weirdos, you ain't that attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] how many of you can honestly say that you would date yourself if you were a woman?This question might fly better if you had said what type of women we were supposed to be. For example I couldn't think of a reason for a 10/10 woman to date me and plenty of reasons for a 1/10 to date me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 09:35 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating, what makes someone boring?I saw on a reddit thread that was something like this. The top answer was a person who really only has one topic they want to talk about. Their kids, or dogs or whatever but for some reason don't really like to go far outside of that. I can usually get down with most people because I'll pick their brains and find interesting shit somewhere in them. Realistically everyone is pretty boring in the end. We all have our jobs that dominate most of our time and there is really only so much time for our… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that body standards are rougher for women than for men?I'd say in general for both men and women, the lighter end of BMI is the body standard that is preferred. The roid guy in your picture isn't really the standard for men. Every Chad I have ever known has had 2 things in common. Thin(not jacked like your example) and a good face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that body standards are rougher for women than for men?but if any man gets really fit - he can attain a body that a majority of the female population finds attractive. You can say the same about women. Of course men love big boobs/butts/ratios/etc but they are far from a requirement for a girl to be attractive. If you are on the lighter end of average BMI for a woman you are probably going to be attractive %95 of all men you see in a given day. If you are just average BMI you are still going to be attractive to the majority of men. I say %95 women s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Do We Put Too Much Pressure On Women Because We are a Blue-Pilled Society?You may want to elaborate on what pressure you are speaking of. Thats a very generic term that anyone can easily spin any way they would like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 09:45 PM |
| 6 | [Q4RP] Do you want to be a manwhore or do you want to only bang hot chicks?I've said time and time again how this is how most average guys are. Many women on here disagree and say you are ignoring all the 7/10's that are into you since the average guy only notices 9 or 10/10's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 08:55 PM |
| 3 | [Q4RP] Do you want to be a manwhore or do you want to only bang hot chicks?You can be a manwhore and bang only attractive women. For example I live in a college town and I would say %98 of women under 25(and plenty older than that, but a lower % as each year passes) fall into one of two categories. Either, cute/hot or would be cute/hot if she lost some weight. In a town where there is a regular rotation of 20,000 or so new women coming in every year, it's not that hard for a manwhore to have a steady stream of attractive women. On fact I would say most manwhores I know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Would the arguments that work against high n-count women work against high n-count men as well?women with high n counts and they all were loyal to me, and women with low ones that straight up cheated on me. Women with high N counts are more likely to and better at keeping their cheating secret. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Would the arguments that work against high n-count women work against high n-count men as well?Personal experience theory only: I think that women meet these Chads, often very good looking, sometimes very socially charming. They get aroused and that kind of gets mixed up with emotions and they start "feeling something special." They are stupid or arrogant enough to "know him better than those other girls" or "I'm different than those other girls." Again this is what I have experienced time and time again when I see girls "dating" they guy who fucked 15 other girls they know. In the end I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Would the arguments that work against high n-count women work against high n-count men as well?Personal observations only but the married/LTR Chads I know seem to do ok with pair bonding since most are having sex for the sake of sex. I don't think there is any real emotional aspect to %99 of their hookups, and feel women are somewhat more likely to catch feels. Now these guys still fuck up their relationships because they can't stay physically faithful. I don't think they often move on to other women because of a bonding with them and that is more of a thing that your "normal person" chea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Would the arguments that work against high n-count women work against high n-count men as well?All of these apply to men: I know plenty of slutty women and a significantly smaller amount of slutty men. Pretty much all of them have cheated on their marriage partners and SO's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do redpillers ignore the grimy side of getting a high N-Count?Nah a just mostly college town. I'd say most of the community is MC/UMC with at least decent family ties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Should women fuck a guy who let himself go?You ever see a hot woman with a walrus of a man? Pretty much never. Walrus's seem to be with other walrus's for the most part. But no women should make it very clear that they aren't happy with weight gain. You can be nice about it initially "I care about your health" but eventually you got to outright say "I'm not finding myself physically attracted to you like I used to." Basic relationship shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Involuntarily sexless women exist and they are suffering as wellThank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Involuntarily sexless women exist and they are suffering as wellone 2016 study found This study doesn't have any source. I'd like to read this article. I find it weird how they word it: No less than 27 percent of 15- to 24-year-old men have never had any form of sexual contact (oral, vaginal, or anal) with another person, up from 22 percent in 2002. Meanwhile, 29 percent of females in that age bracket have never had sex, also up from 22 percent at the time of the last study. Are these supposed to be different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 07:39 AM |
| 3 | Why do redpillers ignore the grimy side of getting a high N-Count?I know plenty of women and other than the obese ones, I can't think of any girl that doesn't go more than a week or two without having some sort of guy in their life(this includes repeat business.) Call it short term dating or friends with benefits or whatever you want but if you ask me women have a tough time going without a man in their life since they pretty much have one in their life since they start dating in their teens. I would say women use tinder to date, it's just modern dating. Fuck … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Why do redpillers ignore the grimy side of getting a high N-Count?I live in a large college town(I think there is near 100,000 yearly) in the Northeast. It's kind of how it goes when everyone does the fuck on the first(second/third) date then figure out where it's going lifestyle of modern dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do redpillers ignore the grimy side of getting a high N-Count?.i've never seen TRP talk about any "scene" or niche as a valid way to casual I haven't been to TRP in ages but I remember them advocating being in bands, doing comedy.......pretty much anything that puts you on a stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 10:09 PM |
| 5 | Why do redpillers ignore the grimy side of getting a high N-Count?80% of women do not engage in the one night stands They don't but they do jump from guy, to guy, to guy, to guy, to guy for a very long time in 1-4 week STR's. Very few people are dating or marrying their co workers in the OLD age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Why do redpillers ignore the grimy side of getting a high N-Count?If you live in a town with a good population of college aged women there is no lack of good looking girls/women. No they are not all models but a large percentage of them are fairly attractive and in pretty good go great shape. I didn't know TRP is anti drug, but drugs are pretty much guaranteed to be involved. I think a lot of women in their early college years go crazy with at least alcohol. Many are into weed as well as coke. Tattoos are irrelevant they are super trendy at the moment, it's ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 10:02 PM |
| 9 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?Your common sense thinking has no place here in PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 09:22 PM |
| 2 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?The only guys who auto-dump girls if there is no sex by date 3 is dudes that have nearly endless options and would never be interested in dating in the first place. Normal guys are willing to wait while you go through the normal relationship stuff. Very, very few pump and dump men are going to play the dating game for a month or months just for that one crack at pussy, they already have other options(that grow by the day) that will put out quicker. It's not that hard to vet guys nor find guys wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 09:20 PM |
| 1 | How can women fuck you within 3 dates or on the first date even and also get a relationship/avoid getting pumped and dumped?I would say you have it right but you actually might miss out on some good guys by waiting 6 months, that is quite a while but if you take some time to vet and you meet a guy who is into you and looking for a relationship, this is the best route. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do weeb Red Pillers fetishize Japan and Korea when these countries have many of the problems they complain about?I'm a bit surprised there is any crossover between the two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Looks get women quickly, but personality reels women OVER TIME.I do agree that a personality can win a girl over time but during that time she has dozens and dozens of other guys that she is hooking up with/dating/putting on the shelf etc. So as the personality is chipping away at her, so to speak, your chances of you getting with her drop dramatically due to the passage of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 03:43 AM |
| 1 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.much or most of it unpleasant Unpleasant in what way? Having guys of all types hitting on you? Having people constantly complementing you on your social media? While attention from unwanted sources is unwanted all the same but I can't see the avenue where one would make the connection that "some of the guys hitting on me I don't like, I'm so ugly!!!" Being assaulted/bullied, as your elementary friend did to show affection is not a common thing. Was I supposed to feel flattered when a boy in elem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Do women "really" hit the wall at 30?There are so many attractive 30 year olds it's insane. I wish that were true for my area. You got the OLD crowd which is mostly made up of insane nurses(I blame the job) which has some cute ones but not much outside of that. Mostly fatties in the 30 year old crowd. Never see 30 somethings at the gym, no matter what time of day or what gym(I travel a bit so which gym I use and what time vary day to day.) I did make out with a pretty hot 30 year old at the bar last week but later found she has a b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 09:16 PM |
| 0 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.Do you think unlimited(obviously some more than others) attention from boys/men most teen girls get on and off of social media gives them a negative self view? Boys just get rejected by girls over and over(obviously some more than others) until they land someone which I think gives a lot more introspect into appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 04:16 PM |
| 1 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.I don’t know why it’s fucked - how attractive you think other people find you is the direct equivalent of how you think potential partners find you (AKA whether you’re a 5 or a 10 and thus what caliber of partner you “deserve”). This study doesn't take in account way too many factors. Same sex people judged eachother with a disproportionate # of women on women(again each group was 5-7 men and women.) How you think other people judge you, which can be effected by how things go in the social meeti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 06:17 AM |
| 1 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.The test was conducted in this manner. They took the 57 guys and 102 girls in 5-7 person groups. Had them (among some other things) have a 5 minute 1 on 1 time with each other, then they had them rate them rate how naturally beautiful(beauty devoid of sexuality), "sexy/hot"(they refrained from sexual attraction since they did not know the sexual orientation of the participants) and vocally attractive(no definition given here) they were on a 72 point scale. They took an aggragate of these 3 numbe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 04:06 AM |
| 0 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.The evidence in this article is a 161 college student age study with a spread of 57 men to 102 women. Thats a shit sample size and in further reading there is more questionable science(its only 9 pages long worth reading.) Don't waste your time living and dying by the concept of published articles when when a lot of it is shit. Whether or not what I said is evidence based every single woman on this board and probably any independant study you find(dating sites) will find that women as a whole fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/20 03:38 AM |
| 0 | believing in blank slate equalism is the root of mens frustration in dating.that they believe partners who are equally matched to themselves are beneath them. I don't think that is the case as women are less likely to find any group of men attractive. You could take 10 women and men dead in the middle of attractiveness and each of the men will find 8 of those 10 attractive. The women will find 2 of the 10 attractive. That does not make any of those women an 8 or nor any of those guys a 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are right to select for "Chad" even when it's just a ONS because low value men like those found in TRP are more trouble than they are worth.I appreciate you elaborating so much on your story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are right to select for "Chad" even when it's just a ONS because low value men like those found in TRP are more trouble than they are worth.They feel hurt by women from constant rejection and once they finally get a woman or women they try to break her down so she won’t leave or they mistreat her out of bitterness from what they went through. There has to be much more to this.......To have the reaction of "I'm going to break her down so she wont leave" is such an odd line of thinking(to me at least.) I know plenty of Chads, plenty of losers and everything in between and the only person that publicly showed these traits was a druggie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 05:44 AM |
| 1 | CMV: We're the weirdos. TRP/TBP/PPD views are too different to intelligently speculate on the "reality" of normies.While this line of thinking may not go along with your whole statistics presentation OP, I think in general it's not the individual members, but the cultures and communities that we live in that make up our views. It is why there is so little movement in thought in the PPD community. My experience in a well populated college city won't be the same as someone in a major city or bumfuck country area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 04:55 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Women are right to select for "Chad" even when it's just a ONS because low value men like those found in TRP are more trouble than they are worth.My assumption is that they have a scarcity mentality so they try to break women down to ensure that they still have a decent sex supply. It's probably a bad assumption that they have some devious plan. They just probably never get any attention from women and don't know how to deal with rejection after physical contact suggests that there was a sign of a connection of some sort. Hot guys don't really do that cause they don't really have connection between sex and emotion. Just another notch on t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Most men don't give a shit about how hot a woman's face is. As long as she's slim or of healthy weight (not fat) a woman can be considered 'attractive' even with a below average face.Cant C your V but for me most low average bmi/in shape <25(this is a general number can be quite a bit higher) women have good looking faces. I don't think you can really tell if a woman has a truly good looking face until she is in her 30's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 08:48 PM |
| 6 | Online Dating is to women as Strip Clubs are to menA)except for the women that do and B) hookup is the baseline for that, look inside that you will find %x that want or are willing to try for an LTR. No woman is getting hits and having single digit percentages that want an LTR. Strip club guy has %0 of going home/dating with stripper. Sure women have to vet people for what they are looking for but you often get what you deserve in the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 12:43 AM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] Do you feel like you have a "chip on your shoulder" due to rejection from someone of the opposite sex?I would say.....kind of. There is a lot of grey areas of rejection. I've been in enough situations of: Girl seems to show interest, not interested or even worse offended I showed interest. Girl doesn't seem to show interest, mad that I didn't show interest or enough interest. Girl wants to make out or fool around in the bathroom, has boyfriend or other scheduled hookup for that night. Girl wants to make out/fool around, gets mad I did it while we were drunk. Sleep with a girl, mad I didn't text … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 12:34 AM |
| 5 | Online Dating is to women as Strip Clubs are to menboth OLD and strip clubs create a false sense of abundance mentality I don't necessarily hang out with the strip club crowd but with %100 predictability, the normal people I know, don't think any woman at a strip club is into them. Most come out of it saying how scummy/weird/gross the whole situation is. OLD may be a minefield but with %100 predictability that each guy wants to hookup with a woman. Sure not all want to LTR, but there still is a fair chance some will. Strip clubs are often filled… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 11:56 PM |
| 7 | Why Womens High Standards are Good: Or How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Bomb"I am average, tolerate me." It's more "I am average, you are average we should get along well." Whether or not that is actually true is a different story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Why Womens High Standards are Good: Or How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the BombWomen cannot change their attraction styles They can raise their attraction standards though so they can change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 05:57 PM |
| 0 | Are men desperate because women are picky, or are women picky because men are desperate?Happens often with the OLD and pickup crowd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Are men desperate because women are picky, or are women picky because men are desperate?Some get tricked by fake personality, lifestyle, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 08:07 AM |
| 17 | Are men desperate because women are picky, or are women picky because men are desperate?Modern relationships often go from hang out for a few hours>have sex>see where it goes. I don't know how women can tell(or not easily be tricked) that a man is only in it for the sex if they fuck on the first date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 04:35 AM |
| 1 | "Women's attraction is more emotional, their physical preferences change for a guy they're emotionally attracted to." How true is this?Men and women have a bottom level for physical attraction. That bottom level becomes more acceptable based on personality. Women like to say that line in the OP because it sounds nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Do Women Appreciate Societal Protection from Men and What Would happened if it stopped?This is a really tough answer to give since I am not sure of the context of this. Are we talking about men never caring about women ever or are we talking theoretical magic laserbeam that as of today makes men not care about women. Because at this point western society is quite a bit more civilized than the tradcon weirdos in the middle east. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/19 12:14 AM |
| 0 | What makes a guy confuse lust for love?Women decided to make tinder the #1 dating hookup app for a reason. I don't know what part of the world you are from but here in the States it is most common for people to know eachother for a couple of hours, hookup and see where it goes from there. Hooking up is dating in America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 10:09 PM |
| 2 | What makes a guy confuse lust for love?In general attractive people are viewed more favorably(funnier, nicer, etc) than non attractive people. There is a good chance that the hot girls that guys are lusting after are also perceived as otherwise good and compatible people by the people lusting after them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 10:01 PM |
| 4 | Q4A: Do you feel you were ever "used" by some of your partners? For money, sex, emotional support which wasn't reciprocated or anything of sort?I can't exactly say I was desired solely for my looks but I think I was on a few occasions a placeholder while a girl looked for another person that filled their lives in a more meaningful way, as I was told in various words or found out later. Never really thought it sucks, just more of an: I got laid and had a good time but that time has come to an end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Changing physical(fitness) standards for men for sexual attractivenessAll things considered, the constants I have seen in the very successful men I have known is thin/low or low average bodyfat and attractive face. Personalities, hobbies, height, muscular fitness, fashion and so on vary drastically but those two are constants that have likely been constants forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Its Saturday afternoon and you're spending time at home with your wife or girlfriend. She politely asks you to make her a sandwich. How do you respond?My current house that I am in right now. I would say "Ok but you have to go to the store and buy bread, meat, cheese and a condiment if you want." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/19 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Has this sub actually changed anyone's mind?Hasen't really changed my mind much but gives me perspective as to how differently people in different places and cultures can be from my small part of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Both sides of the debate don't accurately take into account that a decent percentage of either gender are just garbage peopleI do think people are more likely to think of men as cheaters, but in when thinking of cheaters male or female they think of attractive people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/19 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Both sides of the debate don't accurately take into account that a decent percentage of either gender are just garbage peopleMost people imagine good looking people cheating because they have vastly more options and temptations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/19 03:04 AM |
| 5 | Q4all for those of you who disagree with rp tactics, what is the best most effective way for a man to obtain casual sex?Or a bouncer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/19 01:31 PM |
| 5 | TRP bitches about the rise of single mothers and yet promotes pumping and dumping?I am pretty sure under no circumstances does TRP promote becoming a deadbeat dad. That will get you a "wallet raping" or whatever they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Male orbiters are the cringiest people and do more damage than the actual thots.If you don't think there is a limit to what you can be you are naive. You can only get down to a certain body fat % and only get so much plastic surgery(till you get too much) to be the ultimate physical version of yourself. I suppose at the potential risk of your health you can have any body you want. Our minds have quirks and limits. This isn't The Secret and you can't just will everything you want into existence. This isn't kindergarten where you can be anything you want to be. We all have a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 04:41 PM |
| 6 | Male orbiters are the cringiest people and do more damage than the actual thots.Deciding to make your sanity totally dependent on an outside thing you can’t fully control is psychologically unhealthy. It is but it is a fact of living. People that go periods without real socialization go mad. We as humans are slaves to that outside thing. Men are slaves to a never ending sex drive. Combined with a need for socialization you end up with orbiters.......I do get there is a divide between dying and mentally slipping but if I have a choice I would much rather be dead than crazy. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Male orbiters are the cringiest people and do more damage than the actual thots.Part of it is not only improving but improving in the face of failure after failure. You have to let the world stomp the shit out of you over and over and over but still get up. Not everyone is built like that. For most no matter what you do your maximum potential has a limit. Since most women see most guys as average you might go from a 3-5 or a 3/4/5-6 but it doesn't mean shit because most women don't want a 6. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Male orbiters are the cringiest people and do more damage than the actual thots.I see both men and women, red and blue in this sub, in large numbers say that having intersex relationships is an important need(they always say need) for keeping people mentally intact. Not a 1:1 equivalent but being crazy is nearly as bad as you can get without being dead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/19 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Normal, well adjusted young women do not go for older men or significant age gap relationships.I think the whole "life experience" thing is overestimated by people. Sure you do have hard division like the person who has a wife and kids vs a person who doesn't but there doesn't seem to be much difference between the 25 year old single(not divorced) adult and the 45 year old single adult. People are generally boring and slog their way through life, and generally we are all going through the same day to day things. There is definitely issues like if you get married your partner dies X years … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 03:49 PM |
| 4 | Everybody is wrong here.So much of this "debate" boils down to the most animalistic "Us vs. Them" impulses. I think most of the debate boils down to "this is my experience" or even worse, "this is how I feel"(with nothing to back it up.) That is why you have half the women here saying that everyone hooks up with everyone while the other half says that women only value LTR's. We really can't get anywhere. My experience is in the northern USA in a large college town and to a lesser extent a massive city. I'm not going to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think Twitter and Jezebel Magazine reflect Real Life?everyone has to pretend that she isn't an imbecile moron and idiot who couldn't get a job out of college but should be taking over the entire US economy. Hope you don't find out who the US president is........... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think Twitter and Jezebel Magazine reflect Real Life?What you’re not entitled to do is silence people because you don’t like what they’re saying. Left wingers/liberals/whatever aren't silencing people and not afraid of disagreement. It's more of a you(not you) are a piece of shit and we will let everyone know you are a piece of shit, go live in the mountains mentality. If people agree with that they aren't silencing you they are just saying that your "toxic masculinity" or whatever behavior will not be tolerated by society at large. This is how so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think Twitter and Jezebel Magazine reflect Real Life?I am going to take a stab at this. I should mention that I am a liberal person in a liberal state in a college town. I don't ever see stuff like this outside of internet stories. I think in general this type of situation comes down to left wing folks openly opposing the right as an American to be a dick to people that the right wing love to do. Right wingers like to be crass assholes, they find offending people funny. Left wingers want an idealistic culture where compassion and baseline respect … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/19 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Men who want casual sex but shame women for having casual sex with "Chads" are shooting themselves in the footIn the strange world you live in that you live in I am sure that is the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Men who want casual sex but shame women for having casual sex with "Chads" are shooting themselves in the footI've lived in a college town for nearly 20 years. I worked various bar jobs for more than a decade. I know exactly how young people are. It ain't whatever nonsense you are spouting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Men who want casual sex but shame women for having casual sex with "Chads" are shooting themselves in the footWhat are you going on about. Of course they text, then have a drink and hook up or go straight to one of their homes to hook up. Once he has the number them hooking up is only a matter of time if he wants it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 09:22 AM |
| 3 | Why do Boomers and Gen X men honestly think Millennial and Gen Z women want to date them? The “Ok Boomer” meme came about because we literally can’t stand you.Those guys are just throwing out a wide net and that is how they live. It makes up for a very small % of guys. Sometimes it works I'm sure, but in general it's guys with a IDGAF attitude towards approaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Men who want casual sex but shame women for having casual sex with "Chads" are shooting themselves in the footDo you think that she'll do anything else than at most have an awkward conversation with him? If shes good looking the conversation will either end with him getting her number or her saying "take my number" "we should totally hang out." Happens all the time with the 20something crowd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Members of PPD what would your impression be of a woman with feminine tattoos?Almost every person under 30 has tattoos in my area. In general I think tattoos look bad and these are no exception. This type of tattoo is very common for women. Girls that want to get in on the trendy/cool thing to do but don't have any sort of/or want to have some deep connection tied to them. To me it's just another drop in the sea of stupid/bad tattoos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/19 07:20 PM |
| 6 | Why do guys make such a big deal out of women making them wait for sex--like are there not other women in existence to try instead?Most guys don't except for the guys who get lots of girls. Girls put out quick for them, and don't have time for a girl that doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/19 10:08 AM |
| 6 | Q4Men: Why all the hate for tattoos?Most look like shit to me and to me that means little sense for long term planning. But there is plenty of tattoo guys out there that are fine with them or love them. If you want to hook up with any girl <30 in my area they almost all have at least one. There are certain places, sizes, numbers of tattoos that are less acceptable than a lesser amount but they are mostly trendy ugly shit. To me it often feels like taking a shit on a work of art. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/19 09:23 AM |
| 2 | How do you explain the rp Madonna Whore Contradiction — men feel entitled to girls putting out asap yet disdain easy, high n women? Are they two different groups of people?I always thought the M/W contradiction was they wanted a high sex drive freak all to themselves. The only guys who expect-demand a woman to put out quickly are the guys who get plenty of girls. Girls put out quickly for those guys so they can't deal with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/19 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Do Red Pill Liberals Exist?Maybe this doesn't count but I am purple-red leaning and I would say very liberal. Trump is a huge beta. I just think women for the most part have their ways and you really can't do much about it. A large part of the stuff they say about women is fairly accurate for the women in my area. TRP worships some weird beta dudes like Trump and Hugh Hefner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/19 04:38 AM |
| 0 | Women Don't Make Men Wait for SexA lot of women sleep with a guy in a few dates after barely knowing them and thus other guys feel insulted that they can't get their chance. Sure they want a more sexually conservative girl but those are hard to come by. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Women Don't Make Men Wait for SexMost women sleep with guys they meet online within a few hours(1-3 dates.) IME if a girl is making you wait for sex(multiple, dateish/maybe not datish meetups) there is a good chance she is fucking another dude and unsure she wants to make the switch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 09:46 PM |
| 1 | How many dates would you go on within three months?If we weren't getting physical within a few dates I would assume the woman in question had a man of some sort already or wasn't interested. If a girl doesn't seem into escalation and doesn't escalate herself, we could end up friends and hang out a bunch but I might be dating elsewhere by then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 02:59 AM |
| 0 | Why don't more women get involved in sex work and the sex industry (including webcamming)?1: Very few women are comfortable with having sex so much so that they can just bang prostitute guys, which I assume for the most part are at least one of the following: ugly, creepy, crazy, etc. 2: If you aren't having sex with guys you are probably going to have to be at the very very top percentage of women to stand out in the camming game. 3: I would say a sizeable percentage of women do partake in the soft sex work industry. Sultry bartenders or waitress' is a very common and lucrative job … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/19 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Has the shift in average been affected by the rapid rise in obesity among women?I will see 30 year old smokeshows at the gym. But for every one of those I see a 100 fat office workers. People get married or LTR'd and often let themsleves go due to "love"/acceptance or having children it's just the way of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 11:39 PM |
| 5 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?red pill states that women will be able to easily obtain sex due to the surplus of thirsty men. Men are thirsty because they don't have access to women. So men as a whole, who are thirsty, are usually very happy to do anything from ONS to LTR a woman when the opportunity arises since it is something that does not happen very often. No thirsty dude is thinking, I'm going to pump and dump this slut so I can go on to another 2 year dry spell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Are red pill ideas about the lives of above average looking women totally disconnected from reality or am I doing something wrong?Then go on a more dating-centric site like Match or something. Or use Bumble. You say you can get hits on Tinder so you can probably get hits on anything else. It might be just your region/bars/culture/scene/people you hang around. I worked at bars for almost half my life and I know how it is in my area for women. It feels like women in bars my area are so used to being hit on that if I don't hit on them they will be anywhere from confused to offended if I don't make a move. I think that is wher… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Has the shift in average been affected by the rapid rise in obesity among women?I am curious how those statistics change based on age. Pretty much every woman I know above 30 that is married is fat or fattening year over year. I work in many different offices in my area and the vast majority of older(I guess 30+) men/women are fat. Pretty much every 18-mid 20's woman I know that is single(even most of the non-single ones) is anywhere from borderline too skinny to average BMI. I feel like the older people skew these numbers way out of proportion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Crazy levels of infidelity from women in my experience. Stats just can't be accurateI don't really care anymore. If you try to stop them they will just turn the tables and say that I tried to sleep with them and chances are most guys are going to trust their wives and LTR's over friends/acquaintences. They are going to fail, but having to argue a no win battle or fight someone over it isn't really worth my time.....all for the benefit of saying "I told you so" once shit falls apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Crazy levels of infidelity from women in my experience. Stats just can't be accurateI'm mid 30's. All I can say, as of the last few years, a lot of my friends/acquaintences wives and LTR girlfriends have tried to hook up with me. I don't exactly know why. I'm probably in the best shape of my life(got to counter the rotting of the body....) but it's not like I'm some mega chad looks wise. Some of these women are women I tried to get with a decade ago and ended up with other guys. The women are always good at keeping their requests vocal and don't do anything like text me so I ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 02:14 AM |
| 1 | are women uninteresting?I feel they mostly are, but I tend to hang out with a younger crowd. The older women tend to feel they are, and younger women are not, but I don't really see it. With that said I don't think most guys are super interesting. We all have our stupid hobbies, most have boring jobs, most have boring life stories. Most "adult" relationships I see and know are built around having someone to relax/watch TV shows with, go to dinner with(and talk about their boring lives) and do hobbies with(even if one p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Don't watch porn.This isn't a very good cautionary tale. Guy watches porn, gets girlfriend, has sex and enjoys it more porn. The end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Are guys really ignoring women or it just internet bullshit?I think we can all agree that there is now more stuff than ever to distract people from reality. I'm am sure as a result there is more men than ever that are not paying attention/attempting to date. I think this has grown alongside(disproportionately to) women making themselves harder to date and impress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 02:53 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Porn is the symptom, not the cause. The real cause for most porn addiction is an inability to have intimate relationships or a satisfying sex life.This whole week or two of porn is addictive/bad discussion just reminds me of the South Park episode from a decade ago about about sex addiction. Has anyone considered that porn addiction might be due to a alien wizard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 07:26 PM |
| 1 | The Biggest Issue with the Dating Market is the Men Hate the Women they want to dateNah most average guys are just happy to have someone they have mutual attraction(probably the biggest problem) and affection for. You are going to convince anyone that men have plenty of good options, but they hate women and thus can't find someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Guys who lack experience with women should shallow their pride and date ugly/fat chicksIME the fatter and uglier chicks that more often looking for love/dating since they don't really get that much attention from guys. You can game them but you got to be the type to do so. They aren't going to likely make good practice since they are very open and willing to having a man in their life. I think most guys without experience are also looking for someone that likes them as much as they like that girl. It's going to take some work put them in a "just hookup with someone" mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 04:41 AM |
| 3 | How difficult is it for women to be attracted to physically smaller men, particularly men who are smaller than themselves?Only real life experience I have is the one Chad "short" guy I know had a very good face and blue eyes but was also skinnyfat. Easily had 2-3 different girls a week over for sex. He was a known complete shitbag to women and still to this day(age 34) seems to have never ending options with women of all types while putting in minimal effort. Outside of that I think that all things considered a 5'4 guy and say, a clone of that guy that is 6'0, the 6'0 would do better but the success largely depends… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Before finding out about RP, have you ever thought about casual sex distribution?Under almost every circumstance I never saw those girls as a dating option, if I was to get to any sort of physical level with them. There is plenty of women around so I stayed away from even thinking about dating the girls living that life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 09:54 PM |
| 9 | Before finding out about RP, have you ever thought about casual sex distribution?I did after working various jobs at bars and hanging around bars for more than a decade. I would say 90/10 is more realistic. There were very few guy sluts I knew but the few I did know typically hooked up with dozens of women I knew. They dated average ones here and there(women typically jump from guy to to guy to guy and are seldom alone) but pretty much every somewhat good looking girl had a run in with the "Chads" of the area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/19 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Men consistently overestimate things across multiple subjects and dimensions.Men overestimate their own height How is this even possible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 11:30 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] how come jerking to porn "damages" male brains but high N-count doesn't "damage" female brains?You don't see how having social/emotional relationships(most every sexual one does) with 12 people is different than with 1? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Will the average person become increasingly red pilled in the coming years?Sadly I think the average man will become more black pilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What percentage of men do you actually find attractive?It's ridiculous that women say "thats not how it works" as if they speak for all women. OLD is one of the if not the biggest place for people to end up in all kinds of relationships. How do women choose from their hundreds of matches if not (mostly)looks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Would you agree this post (from r/OKCupid) accurately represents the online dating experience for most women who are 5.1 or better?but in asssessing correctly whether he is going to marry you or not. I would say the modern dating scene is > hookup > see where it goes. I don't think there is that many, at least younger, people thinking marriage or even LTR out of the gate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Women underestimate how ugly most men areEvery single Chad I know has 2 noticable features. A above average face(typically model type of boyish) and in shape in some capacity(skinny to normal muscular.) Height really hasn't seemed to be a big factor. I hate to sound like a blackpill, but it seems to mostly come down to having a good face, and you can't do much about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 04:28 PM |
| 3 | What the OKC study also said.E: THIS STUDY IS OVER A DECADE OLD PROBABLY BS ANYWAYS! Late to the party but in the past decade the landscape of online dating has changed drastically. A decade ago it was for losers, now it's the standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 08:13 AM |
| 4 | Are women actively hostile to low value men?Indifferent. Even when they become hostile it is when said low value man doesn't give up up after a (normally) polite rejection. They may shit talk said man behind is back(which could unintentionally be in earshot of the low value man) to friends and such but in general they will not openly be hostile until it gets escalated to that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Why are Men more affected by the "Society lied to me" Issue than Women?I think you should expand on what women are not complaining about. Men complain about stuff the women and other factors in their lives tell them about attracting women. What are women being lied to about? A bit more on topic I think guys are more upset since they feel, or were lied to by _____ and thus are not dating at all. In my experience women are dating from guy to guy to guy(etc until they find the one,) and dealing with a non-comparable set of problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 07:43 PM |
| 4 | Men who are 30+, what are your honest opinions of women around your own age?Initially most often seem like normal boring adults. Once you get to know them it's often easy to see why they aren't already snatched up. I don't think they are a lot different than a lot of single men of that age but due to most of their adult lifetime of dating guys they think they deserve better. I'd date in that range if I found someone on a similar level but typically my lifestyle matches better with younger women. I suppose I'll grow up one day and be more compatible with women of that ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/19 12:09 AM |
| 1 | I want to talk about this: https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/3b7j3j/fallon-fox-is-a-woman-get-over-it-925Her 5 losing opponents records are combined 7-21. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/19 11:34 PM |
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