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Good point
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:03 PM
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It’s a very chocolatey shade of brown! 😁 But I do think it would be funny if everyone regardless of race started talking about their black asses
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:58 PM
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Try writing his name into your phone and see what autocorrect does
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:42 PM
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Maybe I have other goals in my life outside of dating. If I’m not a millionaire with tons of bestselling novels yet does that mean people shouldn’t listen to my advice on how to meet women?
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:02 AM
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Well the thing is she very well could have been busy. Life does get in the way for a lot of people, and just because she is interested in you doesn’t mean that you’re as important as any of the other hundreds of things that might pop up from work commitments to social events, family sports engagements or whatever else she has to do. The very fact that she is constantly apologising and constantly reaffirming that she wants to me is actually a very good sign. If she genuinely wasn’t interested in …
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:28 PM
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The basics I'm a strong believer that you can successfully open with anything in a bar or a nightclub, as long as your vibe is good. However, I think daygame needs a little more structure, as the intent of your approach is less obvious during the day. Either way, you'll find it way easier to approach if you're given a clear guide of what to say and what to do. That's why Mystery Method was so popular back in the day. Here's a three-step guide that I was given on my first daygame coaching session…
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:26 PM
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Sex never just happens. There are women who think it does but that is because they are never the ones in the driving seat, most women take a passive role during, and then as a result they feel like it is the same for men. What you need to do is learn to spot the signs, you need to learn to be able to tell when a woman is starting to become receptive to you physically and sexually. Once you start to learn how to pick up on these little cues, you can then know what to do next and how to manoeuvre …
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:24 PM
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I wouldn’t say that all women want muscular men, however vast majority definitely want tollman and loads of them do you want muscular man. So, to answer your question it goes like this; women for the most part want to feel protected and safe and secure. This is why they like things like money, a tall man, or a muscular man. Anything which implies that you are able to look after them in some way and protect them from danger is going to make them be very attracted to you. Now, if you are not tall …
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:20 PM
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Hey so the truth is that women for the most parts are the same all over the world. There are some cultural differences here and there, but 99% of the time you will find that women are just women. They essentially respond to the same things, confidence, strength, sense of humour, fun et cetera. If you can have a great time, enjoy the feeling of being in your own skin, and also show a willingness to learn about their own culture and a genuine appreciation for it, you will be exactly fine this is c…
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:18 PM
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Come on, you know what to do. Diet Exercise Fashion Makeup Build your self confidence This isn’t rocket science
/r/seduction27/05/22 05:58 PM
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Well you should have tried to kiss her tbh. Just touching her arms and stuff isn’t close to being enough if you want her to actually ‘want’ you. But tbh if she said she’d message you that was probably because she wasn’t interested. But you won’t know unless you find out
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:58 PM
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It’s his vibe. Essentially it goes like this, people see and treat you the way you see and treat yourself. Meaning that if you think you’re a loser, they’ll agree and treat you like one, but if you think you’re a winner they’ll agree with that too. Your friend knows he’s a king. He holds himself in really high regard and that translates into the way he walks, talks, and acts. People then feel his energy and defer to it.
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:37 PM
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It sounds like you need to level up as a man. Here’s how id look at it. Women are largely attracted to a number of things including: Looks Confidence Sense of humour Social status Wealth Fashion And probably a few other things I’ve forgotten to mention. Think of yourself as an RPG character and level yourself up in as many categories as possible. Then you’ll notice that more and more women are into you, and things like this will happen less and less.
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:30 PM
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Paragraphs please!!
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:25 PM
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Okay take a chill pill and relax for just a moment. If you ask a girl out and she said she’s in a relationship there’s nothing to feel done about it. She was just taken, it is what it is, and that’s life. You didn’t do anything stupid, there is nothing wrong with you at all. Now all you need to do is be completely normal and natural when you see her. There’s no awkwardness, there’s no witness, just you and her being two cool people. Showing interest in a girl isn’t strange( weird or unnatural, i…
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:24 PM
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Text her back if you want to, and don’t do it if you don’t want to. Honestly she probably does like you and just had life get in the way, or maybe it was a test as someone said. Either way if she has replied that’s a very good sign so dive in
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:21 PM
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Well tbh there’s a few things that come to mind. 1 - she didn’t enjoy your meet-ups as much as you and probably isn’t that into you. In fact, the fact you’re calling them meet-ups and not dates implies there was a very platonic vibe and nothing else. 2 - she genuinely doesn’t have free time to meet you again. But you know what? Besides all of that You shouldn’t wait for girls to make the first move because they almost never will. They want guys to take the lead and will act accordingly. Even tho…
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:19 PM
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The very fact you think that her being rejected by a maximum of 30% of men isn’t a big deal shows that you’re also a woman who’s completely out of touch with what life is like for men. If genders were reversed and she had the same level of shyness she’d get rejected 80% of the time easily. Anyway I’m done debating so have a nice day
/r/seduction26/05/22 08:45 PM
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I said at least 7 out of 10 would be very receptive to her approach. AT LEAST 7 out of 10.
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:45 PM
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First things first, never give a girl your number without taking hers. I learnt this the hard way when I was much younger, and my life experience up to the tender age of 39 has proved this to be extremely true. Even if she’s really into you, and wants to reach out 99 times out of 100 she won’t actually do it for one reason or another. So yeah, never give a girl your number without taking hers. Women expect men to make the first moves, women expect meant to be decisive, women expect men to take c…
/r/seduction26/05/22 01:39 PM
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Here is how you can tell if she’s ready to kiss you. Let’s say you guys are sitting at a table, you’re going to take her hand with yours and then rest your hand on the table with hers being on top. So like I just said, you will rest your hand on the table with her hand resting on top of yours, and make absolutely no effort to keep her hand there, her hand is on top, yours is underneath you are not holding her fingers in any way shape or form, she is completely free to pull her hand away at any t…
/r/seduction26/05/22 01:34 PM
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So instead of asking lots of questions, what you should start doing is making assumptions about the women you’re speaking to. What I mean is this, does the girl you’re talking to look like she’s sporty? Does she look like she’s a business woman? Does she look like a professional athlete? Does she look spiritual? If you can figure it out or at least make an opinion of what kind of person she is, and verbalise that to her it will take the conversation down different paths. People love to speak abo…
/r/seduction26/05/22 01:30 PM
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I’m going to be very honest with you, as a woman you are highly unlikely to have a man reject you if you approach him. If you approach 10 man and say hi I think you’re very attractive and would like to get to know you, a minimum of seven are going to give you the time of day. What is you are wanting to do, something that men actually fantasise about, men generally wish that we lived in the world where women would actually show interest in us, and we did not have to take all of the risks. So what…
/r/seduction26/05/22 01:24 PM
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Yeah something that will help you is observing something called the five second rule. This essentially means is that when you see a girl you wanna speak to you have up to 5 seconds before your brain will come up with all sorts of excuses about why you shouldn’t talk to her. You know all of the usual things we tell ourselves like, she’s not into worse, she’s too pretty she’s not pretty enough we look stupid blah blah blah blah blah. If you see the girl and approach immediately your brain won’t ha…
/r/seduction26/05/22 01:15 PM
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This is very true, and I would even go a step further. There is an experiment you can find online where they have two sets of people throwing basketballs, the first set are in white shirts, and the second set are wearing black shirts. At the start of the video, they ask you to count how many times the team in the white shirts pass the ball. But, what they don’t tell you is that a bear or gorilla he’s going to walk through the screen as well watching these two teams pass the ball. You would think…
/r/seduction26/05/22 01:12 PM
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Here is the thing, all any of us here can do is tell you how to do the thing that you want to do. What we can’t do, is tell you what you want to do. If you want to get with this woman, then get with her, and enjoy it very much. If you think to yourself, no I don’t want to get with someone who has a relationship, that is a breach of my ethics, then don’t do it. You have already said that she is into you, you have already said that you are into her, I’ve hinted greatly at the fact that she’s bored…
/r/seduction26/05/22 01:07 PM
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You need to wait until after you guys have stopped working together. Trying to get with them now isn’t going to work out well for you
/r/seduction26/05/22 01:05 PM
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I’m literally a coach, I’ll DM you
/r/seduction25/05/22 10:49 PM
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Greatly appreciated 💪🏾❤️
/r/seduction25/05/22 05:34 PM
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If that’s your magic number then it is what it is 😁
/r/seduction25/05/22 03:57 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to read it
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:47 PM
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Pretty much yeah. Be you when you’re at your best. That’s what it means
/r/seduction24/05/22 04:51 AM
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Bragging about my method?? Did you even read the post?? I never said anything about a method. It’s about the fact that shy people often look like they’re disinterested. If you could read the post objectively and remove your own biases you’d see that
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:37 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:35 PM
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Yeah that sounds like something I’d have said! Ok here’s some practical advice. Find situations where you’re not being yourself, like where you’re being a people pleaser or whatever. Then, mentally rehearse those situations going differently. Spend a lot of time practising acting the way you want to be instead. Visualise it in your head constantly and even act it out in your living room. Then your behaviour will start to change. That help?
/r/seduction23/05/22 02:14 PM
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Well if you’re not getting laid at all I suspect you’re probably not being direct enough. For instance are you making your intentions clearly known from the get go? Or are you dancing around and hoping the girl will take the lead? Also, are you afraid to show your sexuality? Are you so terrified of being creepy that you act like a gay best friend and program girls to not see you in a manly/sexual light? I suspect things like that might be going on with you
/r/seduction23/05/22 02:04 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:58 PM
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Yep that’s very true and it’s something that doesn’t get spoken about often enough. A lot of guys place women in this special tier of existence Where it’s like they can do no wrong. And like you said most don’t even consider whether or not they’re into girls, they only worry about if girls like them. I think that’s a main reason why guys who got bored of their relationships lost interest. They didn’t think for a second about who the girl was, they were just happy to have anyone give them the tim…
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:58 PM
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This is good but what I’d like to see is more of a diary of your thoughts, feelings, and challenges throughout your journey. What are you struggling with? What situations have you encountered that you need help to overcome? Things like that. You’re presenting this information as though you’re educating us but it’s a two way thing. By opening up about what you’re struggling with, we can help you too.
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:55 PM
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Well when people say ‘be yourself’ what they really mean is ‘don’t try to impress the person, be the version of you who you are when you just don’t give a shit and are enjoying being in your own skin’. That’s easier said than done for a lot of people, but it’s what the phrase means and it’s good advice tbh.
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:52 PM
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Clever guy :)
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:03 PM
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The right thing to do is what YOU want to do. None of us can tell you what you should or shouldn’t want to do. We can tell you HOW to do what you want to do, but this is your life to live and nobody else’s. If the girl you’re currently talking to isn’t doing it for you then leave, if you want to stay, stay. Now I will say that in order to increase the chances of your messages being replied to you should spend as much time with the girl as possible so she builds a connection with you. But again, …
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:00 PM
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Honestly let me tell you something, women can and often do change their minds on things like this, so here’s what you do. Go out, meet this girl, and have a fantastic time with her. If the vibe is right, make a move, and if it isn’t, don’t. If she’s having a good enough time with you the sex has a great chance of happening, and if she isn’t, it won’t. Either way, just be cool and relaxed and don’t get upset, even if it doesn’t happen. That’ll only push her away
/r/seduction19/05/22 01:52 PM
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Honestly it’s like this, girls respect guys that have the courage to go for what they want and they’re turned off by guys who don’t. Let’s say you tried to kiss her and she refused it, so what? It’s only as big a deal as you let it be. I personally have had girls refuse the first kiss but eagerly accept the second. Also, even if she simply never accepts a kiss from you and isn’t into you that way (which this girl seems to be) she will still respect you for being a guy with balls. I did what you’…
/r/seduction19/05/22 01:47 PM
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Honestly you just need to be confident about it. If you’re nervous about where you live you’ll give off a weird vibe that will be off putting to the girls you’re with. But if you’re cool and treat it like it’s no big deal they’ll be way more likely to see it the same way. Also there’s nothing stopping you from getting an airbnb or a hotel if you’re really uncomfortable
/r/seduction19/05/22 01:41 PM
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You approach on your own and leave the wingmen out of it because they’ll most likely intimidate her. Walk up, say hello, do what you need to do, and have your buddies ctfo elsewhere
/r/seduction18/05/22 10:01 PM
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It’s basic because the main thing you need to approach a woman is a great vibe. That’s honestly it. If you’re enjoying the feeling of being inside yourself own body she’ll feel it and will gravitate to you. Any other techniques or whatever that you might read are nowhere near as important as this. Your vibe is everything
/r/seduction18/05/22 10:00 PM
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I’d suggest you accurately look at the girl in question and ask yourself what about her might actually be so troubling
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:57 PM
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Better late than never
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:38 PM
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Enjoy your time on this planet
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:24 PM
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That’s what an inside joke is, we actually agree with each other. I’m not your enemy, have a good day
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:20 PM
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