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CineSuppa/r/seduction16/10/13 10:24 PM
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Brother, your job is to be radically honest with your chosen partner and spice things up with role play. If you’re truly committed and honest, this is the strategy.
/r/seduction01/02/25 07:04 AM
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Whether or not a beard is fashionable is a moot point to the millions of women who are into them.
/r/seduction04/12/15 06:24 PM
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Eh... I wouldn't bring up the dating site if he's going to do this in person.
/r/seduction23/08/15 09:09 PM
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You seem to be internalizing an external problem, much like I did for years. There's good people out there, and there are bad people. There are those who are self-aware, and those who are not. You seem to be a good person who is not self-aware. Good people who are self-aware do things for others because it's simply their nature. In a world full of bullshit, you should take pride in your willingness and ability to help others. Your value can be in simply being a good person. You'll cross a thresh…
/r/seduction24/06/15 10:06 PM
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Because some people are exactly like you out there. They're good people for sake of being good people.. they find value in it. What you haven't found value in is yourself... you have things you can offer other people other than simply being nice to them. By resorting to being nice, you feel as if it's your only card you can play. It's not.
/r/seduction24/06/15 08:34 PM
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We've got to stop using the word "nice". It's not the right word. You can be a good, nice man and still stand up for yourself and have value. I do it every fucking day. You need to stop being a pushover.
/r/seduction24/06/15 08:09 PM
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I think he means this... where to put them in a collage.
/r/seduction21/05/15 05:05 PM
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Yeah, but who's to say he didn't learn how pyramid schemes work, that these girls aren't his friends and says to them: "Hey, let's make some money. We'll split it. I get 40% for the idea and execution, and you two play my girlfriends and can split the rest." He's been a lurker on forums like this. He's purchased books, tried out the theories. And now's his shot in the "big leagues". But he hasn't quite mastered the techniques, partially because he's focused on technique and not making them part …
/r/seduction22/11/14 12:20 AM
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Man, this reminds me of my younger days. These things happen. But then you'll get to the point where you're the one the girl chooses. And you'll get to the point you feel stupid for thinking the girl will always choose you. And then you'll find the one that you keep.
/r/seduction30/11/13 10:06 AM
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Your original comment's opening sentences were littered with finality. Inflexibility of stance and opinion is more often the result of experience, often limited and thus biased. Obviously I don't know you, but I was commenting on how you came across as much as the content of your post. I speak in generalizations because there's more to learn from a wider range of people than there is a limited set. Please correct me, as I am not sure of the crux of your argument anymore. Some people change, othe…
/r/seduction24/10/13 02:56 AM
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Your inflexibility in your stance led me to believe there was a bias based on your own experiences. You seem to offer a lack of understanding that people learn and/or change, which is where my assertion came from. Promiscuity is realistically only a bad thing if people get hurt in the process: emotionally, physically or both. Communication and compatibility are key. "Learning process" should not only be an inevitable stage in people's lives, it should be their entire lives. I mean no offense by …
/r/seduction23/10/13 11:09 PM
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How many guys has she been with? What has she done with them? Were they better than me? Were they bigger than me? What isn't she giving me? Am I good enough? Nobody wants to think these things. But we do. Even if we try not to. This is the problem with the naturally-competative male. We're collectively dumb in that way. I would say immature, but it's not a trait that easily vanishes with age. The real questions that are important should be: Is she clean? and Do we both care about each other? The…
/r/seduction23/10/13 08:48 AM
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You're bringing personal bias into an area of thought while failing to understand a lot of people do in fact grow up. We've all been burned before. Some of us even cheated on. Some of us have done the cheating. It's all a learning process, and there is hope for love in relationships despite past indiscretions.
/r/seduction23/10/13 08:39 AM
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Obviously my post is the result of my own experiences. This is an awful lot of unsubstantiated argument for someone who states he hasn't taken the time to read what I've contributed.
/r/seduction20/10/13 05:12 PM
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You can teach others what confidence is -- I hope my post reflects that -- but you cannot instill it in them. Confidence is something people must learn for themselves. Faking it only teaches it's benefits. You can learn how confidence works in the most general of senses, but true confidence varies from person to person because confidence is an experience-based state. "Faking it until you make it" is a fallacy. You can mimic confidence and reap some of its benefits, but without the trial-and-erro…
/r/seduction20/10/13 03:56 PM
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You have an extreme bitterness that you need to find the causes of. It won't be one single thing, but a whole set of negative experiences that you focus on. I'm sure you're aware this is unhealthy, but I don't know if you're aware the paradigm shift you need. Essentially, your frustration and disappointment has led you to a place of Ego where you've resorted to blaming others for your unhappiness instead of finding the root cause of it. First, actively try to stop the blame game. Catch yourself …
/r/seduction17/10/13 07:10 PM
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I like your explanation about the cycle. The only analogy I can make is a house cat. A house cat only knows the house, and has an idea of the outside world from windows and traveling to a vet. An outdoor cat will know the house and the surrounding outside areas... but even an outdoor cat can't fathom the scope of the Earth. Or the solar system. Or the universe. We're fortunate in that we can grasp these concepts, especially as we experience them. We know about the world and the universe, yet man…
/r/seduction17/10/13 08:59 AM
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This learning changed my life as well. And it never would have made sense if someone tried to tell me. Which is what made me initially hesitant to even post. The only discouragement you should feel is that you've lived this way for so long. But then realize that you finally got it; that you started to understand how and why to change. I know the difference because I was once that guy, too. I was the ok looking kid who had his first kiss too young. I thought there was an order to things. I was ah…
/r/seduction17/10/13 08:56 AM
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You're right, this is the epitome of "inner game". But that's the core of my observation -- it isn't game, it's who you are. We've all felt bad about ourselves for one reason or another. In middle school, it was my hair. In high school, it was acne. In college, it was weight. Drinking and self-affirmation are short-term distractions from deeper issues that need resolution. They're forms of escapism, and they don't really solve the problem at all. Don't get me wrong, drinking can be fun, and tell…
/r/seduction17/10/13 01:19 AM
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While it's still generalizations, this might be more of what you're looking for: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1olqmj/the_difference_between_me_and_you/
/r/seduction16/10/13 10:26 PM
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I was once a broke college student, too. The problem with the internet is that you have the entire world at your fingertips. It's a drug, an addictive one, like heroin. There's a lot of great things to see, read and learn on here, but if you don't get out in the real world, all of that information is useless. The car thing is just an example of an over-arching concept: learn what you're capable completely on your own. For me, it took a military backpack and a one-way ticket to Rome with no plans…
/r/seduction16/10/13 07:12 PM
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My journey is different from yours, but we're the same. There's a fine line between sugar-coating and being a dick. Moreover than anything else, I hoped to be the voice of reason and to inspire. And you have the idea exactly right. I learned more about myself over 4 hours in a Honda Accord in the middle of the night than I did through all of puberty.
/r/seduction16/10/13 09:05 AM
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Being unpredictable is a good thing. It means you're carefree and comfortable. Hone in on your abilities to teach what you know to others -- it's a great way for you to sort out your thoughts. You're right, you don't need a bunch of cool life experiences to hold a conversation. All you really need is one thing you're passionate about. But then again, that conversation will only work with a limited demographic. To be able to talk at lengths about topics to a lot of different people, you need to d…
/r/seduction16/10/13 09:01 AM
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ntc2e, girls like you because you're unpredictable, not confident. That will change; I hope you can change with it. damthatriver18, rather than saying "random shit", stop being boring. If you're bored often, you're lazy. There's so much to explore and experience in this world. Go do it, even if you're confined to a wheelchair. Go to a library and find a random book that interests you. Buy a random album and you might find a new band you like. Watch YouTube clips and learn to fix a car or build s…
/r/seduction16/10/13 06:38 AM
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Having female friends is always good from a perspective and experience point of view. There's a lot of merit in having high-caliber opposite-sex friends who have similar ambitions to you, but you have no sexual interest in. This keeps other women guessing what you're about, and why they're not good enough for you. I will agree that the sexual dynamic is a big obstacle, but it's really isn't that hard not to have sex with someone.
/r/seduction27/09/13 11:33 PM
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Not trying to be a downer; more of a realist. The biggest issue I have with this community is that the trend here seems to be hooking up with girls. Which is fine -- there's plenty of that out there -- but the vast majority of the real world doesn't work that way. It's why I clicked on this topic to begin with, because this is one of the times I've seen a discussion about the value of friendships. I've been with this girl for going on 4 years now, and didn't understand how this whole process wor…
/r/seduction26/09/13 09:40 PM
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First off, it's a bit pathetic that you only have two female friends (no offense, but I hope this simply isn't true). Second, it's not your friend's job to help you hook up. If that's the case, your friendships are completely based off of false pretenses.
/r/seduction26/09/13 09:18 PM
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Man that camera operator needs a steadier hand and a serious look at that back focus....
/r/seduction26/09/13 07:56 AM
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The problem is that every male parent and every male grandparent knows your intentions, because they've been there themselves. So while you might have good intentions at the moment and at your age, they have vastly more dating experience and know those intentions aren't always the most noble.
/r/seduction19/08/13 12:33 AM
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Well in your case, the polo is fine then. But unfortunately, guys still do the popped collar thing, and not to be ironic. It's sad.
/r/seduction17/01/13 07:26 PM
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Yep. We're still talking about popping the collar of a polo here.
/r/seduction17/01/13 03:58 PM
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If you pop the collar I swear to god I'll invent a time machine and send you back to the '80s where you'll still look like a douche.
/r/seduction17/01/13 07:26 AM
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I've been reading a lot of these posts, and while solid advice for good living, they don't really solve your issues of who you're hanging out with. I had a similar situation a few years ago. I was hanging out with a guy I knew in college and his best friend, trying to form a solid group in a new town. Apart, they were both great guys... but together, there was a consistent "one-upsmanship" that was a never-ending cycle that started with simple verbal jabs and ended sometimes in drunken violence …
/r/seduction21/10/12 07:13 PM
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Psssh. I did this back in college to gauge if girls knew anything about alcohol. Never did it to close, but it was a bitter way to laugh at some snobby sorority girls' expenses.
/r/seduction09/10/12 02:56 AM
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I raise my glass of scotch to you.
/r/seduction14/08/12 07:36 PM
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I respectfully feel that learning new things strictly to get laid is stupid. Do new things for yourself!
/r/seduction21/07/12 09:21 PM
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A lot of people don't utilize their depression in that way. Those people are clinically depressed, and medication may be good for them. But I think overall, antidepressants are overprescribed. I've suffered from a self-diagonsed mild depression at different points in my life. But I think that's fairly normal. If you're happy all the time, you're probably an idiot. Or at least your "bar" is set a little low. Being down every now and then is healthy because it forces you to reevaluate yourself. Wh…
/r/seduction30/04/12 04:41 AM
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I don't think all Alphas are cut from the same breed. I think there are those of us who are naturally inclined to think on the positive side and strive to be the best they can be. And I think there are others who start off with a different mindset and learn through experience how they should behave and live. There was a study done a few years ago (I believe by MIT) that studied various forms of depression, and those milder cases cultivated greater levels of creativity. In essence, they studied w…
/r/seduction26/04/12 04:38 AM
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A true "alpha" wouldn't feel inadequate, he would figure out why you have something he doesn't (assuming it's something he wants) and then go about acquiring it and maybe even ask you for help. This is a good start, but there's a psychology behind it. Alphas exist because of supply and demand. There are always needs for leaders and those that follow. All Alphas are cultivated through this need, whether based on internal or external forces. When these forces are internal, an Alpha will create an …
/r/seduction26/04/12 12:03 AM
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This, without the rapist part. I understand the context of Alpha and Beta, but in the end, we're all human. Moreover, we're all animal. I know several so-called "Betas" who would kill if they had to protect someone they cared about, or themselves. And anyone who wants something bad enough will go for it. Life is entirely a road of trials, and individual experiences and environments shape the man. Alphas feel threatened when you have something they don't. This can be confidence, or it can be expe…
/r/seduction25/04/12 09:02 PM
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I didn't believe I was creepy personally, but I never found myself in a situation that warranted conversation with this girl. Sure, going out of one's way can have a charming effect on some, but in LA, people are very finicky... and this girl is absolutely gorgeous and in all the times I'd crossed paths with her at the gym, she didn't much look like she had time to talk to anyone.
/r/seduction22/02/12 08:46 PM
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I live in Los Angeles. I go to a gym near Hollywood. My gym is full of celebrities, models, pornstars and generally pretty people. Me? I'm good looking, but have a bit of weight compared to these people. When I was single, I had this one girl I saw at the gym that I really wanted to talk to. But, unfortunately, it's creepy. So I never did. The problem is that you're spending time coming up with a game plan of what to say. But the problem is... then what? You've exposed the bulk of what you've wa…
/r/seduction22/02/12 10:55 AM
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You're actually spot on. First off, it completely depends on the situation and the girl. Being arrogant in any way isn't going to get you the number of a girl you meet at the grocery store. But it might, depending on the girl, get you a number at a club or a bar. Arrogance works best on... well... dumb girls, abused girls, or cocky girls. And they're not always independent of one another. Sure, there's plenty of ways it comes off as confidence initially, and seems playful... but arrogance hardly…
/r/seduction30/12/11 03:30 AM
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You've heard of sarcasm, haven't you? ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction01/12/11 10:26 PM
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I know your type because I'm friends with a lot of guys like you. And as a guy unlike you in a lot of ways, I tried everything over the years to try to keep up with the group. As requested, here's my experiences, very abridged. I grew up in Southeast Pennsylvania and learned about sexuality way too young. I played 'doctor' a little too much with my precocious neighbor who was double my age. My first real kiss was in second grade to a very aggressive blond chick who was in my class. I'm still fri…
/r/seduction01/12/11 09:59 PM
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It is something. It builds character. A bit of character that you seem to have figured out. This is the clear-cut edge you have. You've experienced a lot of life at your age, and you've come to peace with a lot of your troubles. And THAT's what is attractive to girls. The fact that you live your life -- and everyone has battles -- but you've learned to be OK with that fact. You nailed it when you said a "lack of worry". Arrogance isn't confidence, and as you get older, you'll realize girls actua…
/r/seduction01/12/11 08:40 PM
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I think there may be a significant portion of this game that you're forgetting about. Based off what you've been posting here, I'm going to assume you're a guy in your early 20's who is either in college or still lives near a college town, with a lot of bars and/or nightclubs. You're in the US, but nowhere near New York, Miami or Los Angeles... you're probably somewhere on the East Coast or in the South. You've had a couple of LTRs, your fair share of hook-ups, and a great deal of flirting. You'…
/r/seduction01/12/11 07:44 PM
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Thanks for the response; there's a lot of great clarification in there. That said, I'm not interested in going through your long list of Facebook correspondences. Thanks for the offer though. I do stand by my stance that everyone needs to feel and understand rejection at some point. If you're not being rejected much, it's probably because you're not being picky enough. Again, I don't know how old you are or what you're interested in from girls at this point. But with a user name like TroubledSou…
/r/seduction01/12/11 07:26 PM
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This seems like a ploy for not-very-confident guys to feel empowered by... honestly... not taking the ball into their own court. There's almost no possibility for immediate rejection in the above-mentioned scenario. Which is attractive, I'm sure, to those with not a lot of confidence. Sure, it works. But if you're just going up to a girl you've thought was cute at some point, giving her your number and then taking off like the CIA is after you... sure, she'll be interested in what's going on, bu…
/r/seduction01/12/11 04:29 PM
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I feel so old when I come across posts like this, where young men have sudden breakthroughs that girls, even really hot ones, are self conscious about things, nit-pick themselves, and know there are girls better looking than them in the world. I did fashion photography for a few years in Florida and realized during that time that the extremely attractive models I worked with had concerns and problem areas just like "normal" people do... and that their perceived level of attractiveness actually i…
/r/seduction25/10/11 12:36 AM
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I was being aggressive, but only to make a point. My apologies for coming across as a dick.
/r/seduction23/10/11 08:43 PM
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I didn't write it... it's a Cyrano quote. But it's very true. Everyone will tell the hot girl she's hot. If your other tactics fail, make her feel something no one has... make her feel prized for a thought, opinion or act. If you're still looking at me with those shifty eyes after reading this, you don't know shit about women.
/r/seduction23/10/11 05:43 PM
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Hot chicks go for douche bags because of abuse from childhood or a lack of self worth. They go for artists because it's a niche. Not every hot girl just wants money/abs.
/r/seduction23/10/11 04:04 PM
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I get your seduction techniques and all... but does no one know the rule to make an ugly girl feel beautiful and a hot girl feel smart?
/r/seduction23/10/11 04:02 PM
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All of you should really check out a book called "OJ is Guilty but Not of Murder". Enough said.
/r/MensRights15/10/11 03:51 AM
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Congrats. It's a necessary and badass step in life.
/r/seduction23/09/11 07:09 AM
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You seem to be having trouble making the leap from the unattractive girls... this is primarily because you see (visually) the leap. Try the stepping stone approach. Gradually work your way up... start at the 5's and work your way up to the 9's.
/r/seduction17/09/11 05:32 PM
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