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By their father's grace as well. As someone who lost his father less than a year ago; it makes me sick. These girls are pure sociopaths. Hope they burn in the depth of hell. And yea real equality would mean drafting women as wel
/r/MensRights30/08/23 06:26 PM
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Well you won the lottery LOL. Most women are too entitled to consider any of that
/r/MensRights30/08/23 11:15 AM
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The only male privilege I see is not getting pregnant
/r/MensRights05/08/23 01:19 AM
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I mean Trudeau also cheated on her
/r/MensRights05/08/23 12:20 AM
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Same as why men are expected to make the first move, initiate, spend on women, etc. We live in a matriarchy; as a result our female privileged gynocentric society demands that men centre relationships around the worship and honouring of women.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 12:19 AM
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Yep. Tradcons and gender roles are not good for men. They take kids away from men; force men into being providers; and send them to war. Neither the trad right nor the woke left work for men. We need real equality and emancipation
/r/MensRights02/08/23 02:15 PM
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Thanks!!
/r/MensRights02/08/23 12:42 PM
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Thanks. Hope you are able to get out of whatever situation you are in. The only reason I thought of it LOL was because I was unable to find a partner and as I'm getting older, now 27, I can see the writing on the wall
/r/MensRights02/08/23 12:41 PM
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It's legal in Québec where I live; the issue is stigma but there is more fatherly involvement in child rearing here compared to other nations and I can get references so I think I should be alright
/r/MensRights02/08/23 03:41 AM
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I met my dream girl in my final year of undergrad (2017-2018). We got along super well, insanely good vibes, almost out of a movie. We fit together extremely well. Both smart, ambitous, kind, caring, really good with kids, loved kids, wanted a career but also wanted to spend time raising kids. Both of us were non-drinkers, non-partiers, saving ourselves for special someone types. But she was attractive, white, and had wealthy parents. I was average looks, minority, and middle class parents. So b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:52 AM
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Single man here likely going for adoption due to bad luck finding love + rigged divorce courts
/r/MensRights02/08/23 02:25 AM
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Spot on; as is the list from u/Dilligent_Divide_4978 Would also like to add how women can the privilege to marry someone who outwards them and / or is higher social class and can just chill at home with kids. I'm really good with kids and would love to do that but was unfortunately born the wrong gender. Also the privilege to have kids from a sperm bank or a random hook up at will as a single person while men have to pay expensive surrogacy fees in a legally grey area. Also adoption is easier fo…
/r/MensRights01/08/23 01:09 PM
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Also have a Muslim parents - we'll just a mom now, dad recently passed. Yeah wondering how to tell them as well
/r/MensRights31/07/23 03:29 AM
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Congratulations!! I met a woman like her in school back when I was 21 and she was 19. We got along well, and had an amazing vibe. She was really smart, and is currently working as a medical researcher at a top hospital. Really kind person, and a fellow virgin as well; heck she even was a fellow non-drinker. In addition to all that she was really beautiful and quite well off parents (she went to private school, family had a cottage, etc). Oh and she also loved kids and was really good with them. …
/r/MensRights31/07/23 03:28 AM
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I moved from ON to QC. Common law spouses (or de facto spouses as they are known) in QC still retain some martial rights. But can't take your house or money earned during marriage: https://educaloi.qc.ca/en/capsules/common-law-couples-making-a-life-together-without-being-married/
/r/MensRights30/07/23 10:00 PM
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I never bought a woman a drink period. Had a woman buy me a drink once! And another buy be coffee
/r/MensRights30/07/23 09:57 PM
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Which country has this equality?
/r/MensRights30/07/23 09:56 PM
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Men are still held to gender roles - have to be providers, make the first move, etc. We also can't have kids at will outside of marriage, we can have our kids taken away in divorce court, heck we can't even babysit / work with kids / adopt without being discriminated against. And it is super hard to be able to find love Meanwhile women have been freed from gender roles, get more options in the workplace, not expected to earn and support the family, can have a kid at will via a hook up or a sperm…
/r/MensRights30/07/23 09:29 PM
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I refuse to pay; Principal Filters out women have a sense of entitlement. Looking for a partner; not buying sex. Standards are important
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:22 AM
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Thanks for the insight. Do you find anti-Russian discrimination to be a problem? Will definitely consider visiting it! Thanks!
/r/MensRights19/07/23 09:17 PM
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Georgia now, country Ah. How is it like there? Isn't the country under the Russian sphere of influecne?
/r/MensRights19/07/23 08:47 PM
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From Russia, lol. Oh yeah then it was quite awesome that you were able to get out and not sent as cannon fodder! All the best in your new life here :)
/r/MensRights19/07/23 08:28 PM
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As a person who wanted to immigrate to Canada From where? If it is another western country you are likely better off where you are
/r/MensRights19/07/23 07:14 PM
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Why can't they just deport her? Cause Trudeau wants unlimited immigration to Canada to lower wages and raise rents / housing prices
/r/MensRights19/07/23 06:28 PM
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Had no idea. I knew it wasn't a rule before and to prevent scams they added it. Looks like it is gone now: https://juridiqc.gouv.qc.ca/en/separation-and-divorce/court/the-court-process/the-impact-of-separation-on-immigration-status/ "If you have already been granted permanent residence status, your separation will have no impact on your immigration status. This is the case even if your spouse sponsored you. You can remain in Canada as a permanent resident. Furthermore, if your ex sponsored you, …
/r/MensRights19/07/23 06:23 PM
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Edit: No longer true; see reply below Under Canadian laws if you split within 2 years of PR, her PR gets revoked
/r/MensRights19/07/23 05:55 PM
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I support dress codes and think people should be dressing nicer in general. And I think in offices and professional environments we need a dress code and those tend to have strict rules for men but anything goes for women and that women need to be held to the same professional standards. Schools, at least in Canada, have dress codes on paper but are enforced. Girls dress like they are out clubbing. I think we need to go back to uniforms. Also, for all genders, sweatpants are home or gym wear onl…
/r/MensRights13/07/23 01:30 PM
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Sure but it is a legally grey area. Also relies on the good will of someone willing to undergo this process Also it is not free and cost prohibitive for many which is part of the problem. Men should be able to reproduce asexually for free the way women can. Making surrogacy / artificial wombs a free government service will also aid gay men and women who cannot carry a child the chance to reproduce
/r/MensRights12/07/23 05:21 AM
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Love it. Single men, really want kids, but struggling to find a good partner. If women can reproduce aesexually (via sperm banks), then men should be able to as well
/r/MensRights11/07/23 01:29 PM
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100% agree. Men are the ones held to unrealistic body standards these days as dating app stats show. Instead of being valued for our personality, kindness, skill as a father, or intelligence; we are objectified and reduces to looks and money; and being held to increasingly unrealistic standards looks wise
/r/MensRights09/07/23 05:22 PM
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Are you implying that women shouldn't be allowed to dress like that at work? Yes. I believe that the office is a formal place and formal attire is needed
/r/MensRights07/07/23 01:21 PM
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ankle length skirts? Not sure I believe you tbh. I would've believed knee length. Good catch. Unless you are working for a very religious company; and for even to have to wear ankle lenght skirts it would be either a Muslim, Orthodox Jew, or Amish
/r/MensRights07/07/23 01:20 PM
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Hmm. In Ontario at least the dress code is the same except women can wear knee length skirts. Guess that is the advantage of formal gowns / legal dress
/r/MensRights06/07/23 11:34 PM
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Hmm. I'm in Canada; worked government and accounting firms
/r/MensRights06/07/23 06:01 PM
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Inetresting. In my experience and experience of those I've spoke with; Your office is an exception and not the norm
/r/MensRights06/07/23 05:59 PM
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At offices I've worked in women can wear anything. Casual attire, shorts, shirt shorts, tank tops, halter tops, mini skirts, even bare midriffs. Men: Dreas shirts and dress pants
/r/MensRights06/07/23 01:07 PM
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At offices I've worked in women can wear anything. Casual attire, shorts, shirt shorts, tank tops, halter tops, mini skirts, even bare midriffs. Men: Dreas shirts and dress pants
/r/MensRights06/07/23 01:07 PM
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University seems to be the default I've seen; once you leave school it's pretty much impossible unless if you are male unless you are hot enough for apps to work for you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:04 PM
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Oh for sure. I've noticed this. Some men like me like smart successful women; I'm smart and successful myself and would love for her to outdo me in these things. Other men like stay at home wives. But too many women attracted to guys who are good with kids and would be excellent stay at home dads (ie me)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:51 PM
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The consequences of hook up culture and degeneracy. Good men are unable to find love as good women much rather sleep around with frat guys than actually make themselves willing partners. Meanwhile they continue to demand men meet unrealistic looks standards and also continue to men and that men be providers while more and more women no longer offer anything of substance by no longer having the skill with kids / domestic skills that they used to
/r/MensRights02/07/23 02:35 PM
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Nice to see some good news once in a while
/r/MensRights01/07/23 10:34 PM
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Grew up in Canada; second Gen south Asian Muslim immigrant. Men and women both face issues growing up in this culture. Pressure to enter loveless arranged (well more semi-arranged these days) marriage and having to abide by a strict religion and infantalizing to young adults culture. Yes girls / women have to wear hijab (though boys / men can't wear shorts and in western workplaces are pretty much in hijab anyways while girls wear whatever). However, boys / men face the pressure to be providers.…
/r/MensRights24/06/23 02:58 PM
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150% agree. And since men have to put in Waaaay more effort, we end up settling giving women the intense privilege of getting a winning deal by putting in much less effort. And the fact that women on this sub can't even acklowdge this and work to mark dating fair (even simple as start to make the first move) shows wonders about the lot of them's characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:57 PM
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He doesn't want custody. That's why she raped him, she wanted a kid he didn't
/r/MensRights17/06/23 02:00 PM
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Yea QC has problems. But there is still less misandry than in English Canada from my experience The welfare stuff is a function of women having a easier time becoming single mothers than men becoming single fathers. Divorce courts ought to be unrigged and surrogacy ought to be a free government service giving men equal reproductive access.
/r/MensRights17/06/23 01:58 PM
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Go ahead 😃
/r/MensRights17/06/23 03:32 AM
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QC as a whole is a pretty nice place; moved there from ON in Oct 2021
/r/MensRights17/06/23 03:13 AM
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I moved there from ON in Oct 2021; conversant enough in French for basic day to day stuff but by no means fluent. It has issues no doubt but: - Ran into several women out earning their partners - Men seem to take on a much more active child care role - People are less judgey / skeptical of males spending time with and caring for kids - Had women by me drinks twice and pay for the first date (well it was just coffee but still) once!!! Yeah this is one place where if there was conscription I can s…
/r/MensRights17/06/23 03:09 AM
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This is completely spot on. Would gild it but I don't want to pay money to Reddit
/r/MensRights16/06/23 07:06 PM
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How does dating work? Everyone just gets with the only person of the opposite their age in their village?
/r/MensRights16/06/23 03:01 AM
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What makes Greenland gender equal?
/r/MensRights15/06/23 09:55 PM
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Says who? My dream girl would be a whole lot smarter than me and I'm quite smart myself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:08 PM
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Wow she's evil
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:07 PM
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COVID / lockdowns; doesn't count cause people were socializing less. Let's wait for 2024 data
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:31 PM
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If women can have kids at will it is only fair that men equally get that opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:06 PM
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Like paying for a fancy dinner and hotel room date. Buying them stuff all the time. Them not contributing anything other than their body and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:47 PM
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Sure likely will. My argument is that it ought to be a government service to give single men, gay men, and infertile women equal reproductive access
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 06:23 PM
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I might. Rather have love and at some level we all want our own biolgicila kid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:39 PM
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Yea that's way I said that surrogacy ought to be government funded
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:38 PM
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Right which is why I think the government should fund surrogacy; creating equal reproductive oppurtunity for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 05:20 PM
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Because I really want kids; can't find a compatible partner; and am not into hook-ups / whores
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:47 PM
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I think the issue is that men don't have egg banks. Women who can't find a compatible partner can still have kids. But men like myself end up having to settle if they want kids or adopt or hire a surrogate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:44 PM
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Are you just going to low income countries and indirectly paying women for sex? Or dangling immigration opportunities via marriage? Cause the first is prostitution that is cheaper due to exchange rate. The second is a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 04:32 PM
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Thanks for the info
/r/MensRights13/06/23 10:52 PM
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Source?
/r/MensRights13/06/23 09:14 PM
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All I can attest is that women walk into men's washrooms and inappropriately touch men when drunk a lot more often than the reverse
/r/MensRights13/06/23 01:01 AM
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Because dating was easier for me when young. More girls were into me when young despite me naturally actually having a job and owning my own home now. Had a lot of bad luck and all getting in the way but a lot more opportunities based on the above
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:36 AM
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A random couple of the street no you don't. But of the people I personally know, the only age gaps are from Gen X and older first Gen South Asian immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:01 AM
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As an FYI, as per RP / incel logo a BetaBucks is a guy who: was lonely in his teens / 20s, worked hard and gets a good job, and ends up coupling with and being the provider to a woman who slept around with frat guys (ie "alphas" / "Chads") in her teens / 20s during the time he suffered loneliness because he did the right thing and focused on studies and being a good husband / father instead of partying and athleticism. In short: The good lonely nerdy virgin guy ending up with the "easy girl" aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:44 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:57 PM
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100%. The hardest part (I the infamous OP) feel is that once I finished school people are already coupled and you don't get to know them as well
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:08 PM
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Well for me 18-24 was peak (did last school after undergrad so I extended the school stage, at least until COVID hit) I'd say but 14-18 was a lot better than now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:44 PM
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I agree that university is easier than secondary school; but secondary school is still easier than anything after. For me university was by best chance and even though I actually have a job and own a condo and am a LOT more social now I found I had more options as a teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:43 PM
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I was in grade 4, age 10, the first time a girl had a crush me. I didn't like girls till I was 14, grade 8 I'd say. Depends on the person I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:15 PM
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In my experience yes. I never had a relationship (various reasons) but my dating prospects were a lot better than now for the reasons listed above and I just found more women randomly into me then as compared to now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:24 PM
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Inetresting. And yeah she sounds formidable; I could never date someone like your first personally. But your second sounds amazing. Like I am open to dating say a 20-21 year old version of her but always worried about other age compatibility issues as well as if a woman would go for it. Wishing you both all the best
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:22 PM
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Did you find compatibility problems dating a 25 year old at 36? Just curious as to how you made it work. And congratulations!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:05 PM
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Re: logistics. Sure but I don't exactly find someone who slept around when younger to be appealing. So like they kinda always have had to have been serious minded for me to consider them. Certain values and all Also, are you dating someone much younger than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:53 PM
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Yeah something like that. Never seen that age gap IRL. Well I did have a couple of dates with a 20 year old when I was 26 but it was enough of abnormally that people took notice. And she didn't go forward, despite initially showing interest, I think in part because of the age gap. Who am I revenge fantasying on?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:51 PM
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Well I've never been in a relationship and I am a male. So who is my post a revenge fantasy on?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:49 PM
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Do younger women actually date older men? I see it a lot in RP circles as a revenge fantasy but never in action. Almost very couple I've seen is around the same age, even if the guy is good looking and rich Logistics is a big reason I didn't say make a move on people who were into me when you get and now I kinda regret it. Cause I was looking for a good life partner and great co-parent cause I was always in that mindset from the start. So I had high standards (not looks, and nothing I didn't hol…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:38 PM
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Sorry confused by your point on revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:37 PM
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They get a salary; they live off their spouse's labour. I'd love to be a stay at home dad; spending time raising my kids instead of being a corporate serf would be the compensation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:04 PM
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100% equality goes both ways. Men and women should have equal provider obligations and men should have equal opportunity to be stay at home dads
/r/MensRights29/05/23 06:18 PM
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Thanks for the encouragement and advice. Yea it is a reproductive right that is unfortunately overlooked and ignored. Congrats on getting primary custody!!! How did you manage that? What were some of the biggest challenges of being a single dad?
/r/MensRights27/05/23 04:34 AM
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As a single man who really wants kids it does all feel hopeless with surrogacy being prohibitively expensive
/r/MensRights26/05/23 03:05 AM
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Men slaved away for their corporate overlords. Women got fulfillment and joy raising kids. Yet women have the gall to claim oppression
/r/MensRights25/05/23 10:07 PM
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Have since always since as long as male provider role exist. Men labour and fight wars. Women chillax with the kids and claim oppression. Life must be amazing for the right 50%
/r/MensRights25/05/23 09:52 PM
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I think having government funded surrogacy for single men would be the best. Right now my options are hire a surrogate or adopt. Hoping that one day as a man I'll get equal reproductive access
/r/MensRights25/05/23 09:31 PM
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So why bother with passport bro stuff then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:02 PM
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How do you think you were able to date richer women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:43 PM
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So they are getting free rent? So you date young attractive women who make more than you in SEA than you do working in USD / EUR / whatever?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:07 PM
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What is the difference between this and a mail-ordered bride? Aren't you just Beta-Bucking with Gold Diggers, but it is easier cause the price you can pay is higher since you have good exchange rate and immigration status
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:53 PM
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Not at all. Intelligence is one of the most - if the not the most - important criteria for me (straight man) in a partner 100% dealbreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:46 PM
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