ClaireBear89 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	The difference between submissive and passive You can be submissive to you husband's direction for how the marriage and family is going and still be an active and not passive partner in the mission. All your actions and the little decisions you make every day contribute to the overall plan. If anything is a big enough decision that it impacts the direction, run it by your captain. If he has delegated a task to you, take action, give it your best effort. At no point do I feel like a passive passenger, I am the first mate and I have full auth…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/10/18 02:23 AM
1	The women are are so BITTЕR, you're obviously very angry about how РATHETIC you are as female. Being less bitter is something we choose to be aware of and work on. All the womens forums have a degree of judgy which I've experienced too but get over it k	/r/RedPillWomen	09/02/18 11:00 PM
7	Will I even find one? Guys your age might all just want casual sex, have you tried dating men any older? Someone who has his shit together, has his confidence and is stable in his career and wants a steady girlfriend/potential wife might not also be 21. So if you'll accept the concept, where do you meet these guys? I reccomend in any athletic setting, an activity...met my husband skiing but I also mean the gym, rink, tennis courts, beach, hike, etc? You instantly have a thing in common and you know he's gonna be in s…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/01/18 08:11 PM
5	Gaining Social Grace Is there anything like charm school one could attend? I would seriously go if tuition was comparable to a course in adult / continuing ed	/r/RedPillWomen	14/12/17 01:05 AM
2	When did you discuss your timelines? My husband back when he was my boyfriend (for about 3 years) always was saying I was the girl he would marry. It broke my heart when that didn't ever materialize and we ended up breaking up (for several contributing outside factors too) and were apart ~2 years. We were amicable and kept in touch and I always felt I had screwed up and lost him and missed my chance. Well circumstances changed for both of us and we reconnected and he proposed as soon as I went to see him. So I guess I didn't go abo…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/11/17 06:56 PM
6	Will You Change Your Name? I recently got married and absolutely took his name. Yes it was a hassle with paperwork and I had to present the marriage license several times. Look this is just my opinion, taking the name of your husband is sacred and does signal a change in your identity, that you now belong to him and his family and not your father's anymore. Keeping your own name or worse hyphenation tells the world you put your father ahead of your husband, your maiden name was more valuable to you than identifying as you…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/17 12:24 AM
1	What would you do for marriage? What would you do for a happy relationship? I wear very little makeup and usually sandals but I do my hair and wear a dress almost every single day, for my husband loves it especially when he receives a compliment on my appearance. We live in Florida though so I'm blessed to still be in my summer dresses in November. I confess when I was single up north my style was basic most days (yoga tights/jeans boots scarf northface starbucks). I've always loved dressing up for men they tend to appreciate it. So I vote yes Make an effort!	/r/RedPillWomen	11/11/17 03:37 PM
3	Worrying about my value as a woman Try going to an esthetician or dermatologist if it is that severe. The weight you will have to lose on your own. If you are stressed out the exercise helps and gets you out of the house. Good luck	/r/RedPillWomen	29/09/17 03:06 PM
1	Are any of you childless? For now, we both expressed going into the marriage a lack of desire to surround ourselves with babies. But if he changes his mind within the next couple years, I will absolutely try my best to do just that.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/07/17 10:21 PM
-1	Do young men tend to go for women under their league and are non-threatening? Date older men.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/07/17 01:48 AM
1	Nail care I really like the biotin gummy vitamins for strong nails I've been eating them for a couple months and would reccomend.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/17 12:22 PM
-1	Childlike vs. Childish That's an insulting generalization	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/17 03:05 PM
10	Childlike vs. Childish It's not fair to say they fight because the age difference is too big. People of the same age can have incompatible maturity levels too.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/06/17 02:58 PM
1	Would bellydancing or ballet be seen as RPW-type hobbies? I call BS on this post questioning if dance is an approved feminine hobby	/r/RedPillWomen	02/06/17 03:52 AM
6	my fiance wants babies now, im not feeling the calling. how do i balance my feelings and desire to submit You're the opposite of a red pill wife. You are not married and your engagement is only valid with a ring and a date set, otherwise it's for show and you're kidding yourself thinking he has made any commitment to you. You are also supporting him, not the other way around? Finally, you say he suggested children and your question is about putting it off. Can you afford to do this anyway, how old are you? Look none of us are getting any younger and you mentioned previous problems. Or maybe you do h…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/06/17 03:25 AM