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I don't think this belongs here
/r/seduction31/12/17 01:37 PM
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For future reference, keep it short and sweet. Also, don't ask when she's free; tell her. "Hey, let's [insert activity here] [insert day here]"
/r/seduction11/12/17 03:40 PM
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While I appreciate this post, I don't think that buying a sex doll means you're taking yourself out of the running. If you read even a part of that article, one of the first things you see is a guy who owns a sex doll that is married. Granted, we don't know what his marriage is like, but dude has a woman and a sex doll. I'm currently doing NoFap and I never fucked a sex doll, but I have spent about $300 on masturbatory aides (including a fleshlight I never used because I threw it out the second …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 10:40 AM
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It's taking you too long. I don't want you to read that and think it's your fault because it's not, but that happened to me all the time until I started meeting up with girls sooner.
/r/seduction20/11/17 12:58 AM
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THIS IS WHAT CHEMISTRY LOOKS LIKE. Don't beat yourself up if all your interactions don't go like this, guys. This guy is obviously experienced and many of the people that post on this sub aren't. And regardless of experience level, some people click and others don't. You can see that he has great chemistry on most of his dates and others not as much. Physical attraction is a part of it, but the other is the way you play off eachother. That is what we're all on this sub to improve.
/r/seduction16/11/17 01:28 AM
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That's exactly why I included the bit about how we may never be 100% free from external validation; because it is easier to have more confidence when everything is going right in your life than compared to when it's not. One of the most significant changes I made was getting rid of nearly all of my friends as I was in college when I realized the relationship I had with them was toxic. But I have kept one friend throughout all of the changes I have made in my life (not that he was necessarily the…
/r/seduction13/11/17 10:52 AM
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What you described are inadequacy issues. I was a chubby kid, so I got bullied and was socially ostracized. Didn't have a 'real friend' until high school. I also had a hard time believing people when they told me I was good-looking; it got to the point where I thought people were lying to me because I was so ugly, they felt like they needed to comfort me. I felt like my penis was too small. I had a whole litany of problems with me, and I still do as a 21 year-old. But it's gotten a lot better. I…
/r/seduction12/11/17 05:05 PM
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No offense man, but none of the advice you gave guarantees he'll get laid so you can't just shit talk him for having his own priorities. This sub has a quarter of a million subscribers, so there's 250,000 different styles of 'game'. Yeah, it's common advice that works for most guys on this sub, but that doesn't mean it's a magic bullet. This guy could be a total shut-in, 300 pounds, no job or school, few friends, and still get laid. I agree it's definitely easier when you meet a lot of girls (cl…
/r/seduction09/11/17 02:42 AM
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Have you had your first kiss? Because if so, then the least we can say is that at least 1 girl has been into you.
/r/seduction08/11/17 05:12 PM
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The best move I can teach to you to conquer LMR is to grab their hand and put it on your dick. I'm assuming that you're hard when you do this, right? Or does it not matter?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 11:51 AM
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Listen to recyclablebanthas, OP. He always gives great advice.
/r/seduction08/11/17 11:21 AM
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Download Tinder, man. As a 27 year-old, you'll probably be a hit with the college girls. Also, if I may ask, why are you still a virgin? Is it because of lack of opportunity or...?
/r/seduction08/11/17 11:18 AM
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OP, last year, I was a 20 year-old kissless virgin. Please listen to everybody on this thread and DON'T TELL HER. What are you looking to get out of telling her? It's not going to make you look good and shes not just gonna say "My poor baby! Let me fuck your brains out". It's gonna put pressure on her, and she might just back out. You met her this weekend; dont put this type of pressure on her just because you want a relationship with her. Trust me, if you really want a relationship with this gi…
/r/seduction08/11/17 11:15 AM
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It's hard to pressure a girl to go out with you by asking her out terribly. She likes you, man. That's a fact. Whether it's a platonic like or romantic interest remains to be seen, but either way, there's something inside her that told her "I'm gonna get coffee with him despite his nervousness". That, or she didn't even notice or care.
/r/seduction01/11/17 01:22 PM
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You want to pickup guys? Do what we do and just try to start a conversation with someone you fancy. I'll walk up to girls and makeup an excuse to start talking to them, it really is as simple as starting a conversation with them and seeing where it goes, even if this whole sub is devoted to the intricacies of that. When you study abroad, your excuse will be "I'm looking for [insert place here], do you know where it is?" Regardless of whether they do or don't keep the conversation going " I'm not…
/r/seduction26/10/17 11:18 AM
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Yup, that's a possibility.
/r/seduction22/10/17 04:01 PM
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Thanks man. I really appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 01:20 PM
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Just because everyone around you is into casual sex and you feel like you're a deviation from 'the norm doesn't mean it's not a normal feeling. Honestly, I've only ever had sex with all the women I've been with once or a few times. Have to say the effort I sink into each of those casual flings is effort I could have winked into my career/personal life and it upsets me to know I didn't and continue to make the wrong choice. LTRs have a place, whether they're open or not.
/r/seduction20/10/17 02:58 AM
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I'm actually 21 right now. I've learned and implemented all the mental aspects of game (Abundance mentality, not being invested,frame), working on others(like financial stability, getting ripped) but I feel like I'm at a point where I can't learn anymore just reading this sub/Seddit, and approaching the amount of girls I regularly approach. Got any advice for me that isn't keep lifting or approach more girls?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 02:36 AM
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I don't hate it, but I definitely noticed myself getting upset while reading this. Congrats, man. I'm happy for you, even if I'm jealous of you.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 02:28 AM
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Rollo's opinion, as qualified as it may be, is not rule of law. Times change, contexts change, rules change. Everyone has their own style of game and their own rules for a happy life. I find it to my benefit to be friends with some girls, but your mileage may vary.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 02:33 PM
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OP said they're good looking, but that doesn't nessecarily mean attraction. Advice to any TRPer is to be friends with women because you get benefits just by being friends with them (social proof, potential dates with her friends, expanded social circle, a female POV when it may be needed (or ignored when appropriate), and potentially a good friend. Also, they tend to be more open to certain activities then guy friends.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 10:15 AM
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Gonna have to beat me to get there, mate. And I won't make it easy.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 10:08 AM
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Flirting happens when you say and do flirty things. The Google definition of flirt is "behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, but for amusement rather than with serious intentions." With the girls you want to pursue, you have to be flirt with them in person and through texts. That means telling them they're cute, but like so much when it comes to women, it's more about the intricacies then outright saying you're cute. Ex. Someone tells you you're tall, you can say "I'm 5'11"…
/r/seduction19/10/17 01:38 AM
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Get 2 pieces of bread, spread some feminism over them and tell your husband to eat it.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 10:58 AM
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Amen, man. Being a RPer doesn't mean you can't do nice things for women/other people and fuck anybody that gives you shit for doing that.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 10:57 AM
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Anger is A fuel of change. Nelson Mandela didn't achieve change through anger, but maybe what he saw made him angry to the point he wanted to do something about it. Rosa Parks, Martin Luther King Jr., and Muhammad Ali wouldn't exactly be described as angry. Macolm X? There's an angry dude.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 10:54 AM
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This need to find examples of shitty women acting shitty needs to die. I don't know about die, but it's definitely too prominent in the sub. I feel like a lot of users here rally at these posts like it's some cry to get together and get angry at women. This is exactly why we get called misogynists. If you want to be better than women, do it by being different from them. Us getting together and shitting on women without trying to advance any particular goal or agenda is just doing the same thing …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 10:51 AM
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Step 1. Insert flaccid penis in girlfriend. Step 2. Let it grow Step 3. Make her feel sick Step 4. ????? Step 5. PROFIT
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 10:41 AM
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I think the use of 'his' implies a level of detachment, whether biological (came from another woman), emotional (bad mom so she doesn't feel attached to her husband's kids),or both (came from another woman so she doesn't feel attached to her husband's ex's kids. Bad step-mom)
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 10:36 AM
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They divorced or he died. Either way, can't say I blame him.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 10:33 AM
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It's definitely something I've been thinking to myself for the past couple years in the form of "Don't give a fuck about what everyone else thinks" but it's taking a while to drill into the deepest parts of my subconscious. I think within the last month or so, I've accessed certain parts of me I hadn't accessed before and it's opening all these doors and changing the way I see the world, so I'm seeing new changes within myself with the belief that more are on their way. I've also caught myself f…
/r/seduction16/10/17 06:53 AM
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That's peer pressure, man. That's when having a strong frame would help you. Work on your frame/confidence and you'll be less influenced by it. Not saying you'll become immune, but it helps.
/r/seduction16/10/17 06:44 AM
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I was about to get all defensive because I never said I was trying to be cool, but then I went back and read my post and that's pretty much what it sounds like. I'll try to remember next time I feel some social pressure that "I'm not cool so I shouldn't be cool"
/r/seduction16/10/17 06:41 AM
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I actually look at the poly/open relationship as the model I want for myself because I find I get bored very quickly when I settle down with one girl. Maybe I just haven't found the girl that won't bore me yet (whatever you want to call her). Anyways, I read your post and it seems like you really have your 'airport game' figured out. I appreciate you sharing it with me, and hopefully I start globetrotting more myself so I can put it to good use. Thanks for the comment.
/r/seduction16/10/17 06:37 AM
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Practice, practice, practice. The advice of the PUA community rings true that you have to fail 1,000 times to become a master. I had zero text game in high school, so I guess that means I learned it all over the past couple years with Tinder and everything else. If you're serious about improving your text game but don't number close enough girls IRL to practice your text game on, I'd say make a Tinder profile (fake or real, doesn't matter) and use a GPS spoofing app to set your location to some …
/r/seduction16/10/17 06:29 AM
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I've been aware of that fact forever which is why it bothers me so much that I was socially inept when I was younger. I also know neuroplasticity is drastically reduced after 24, so I've been loading my brain up with information and training my nervous system with random,eccentric movements to try to counter that.
/r/seduction16/10/17 06:12 AM
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If you're looking for straight up hookups, there's a few steps you have to do before you start messaging girls for hookups. Optimize your profile for hookups. If you're fit, you need a shirtless pic. Have 3 or 4 pictures. It should be something like 1 shirtless pic, 1 pic of you dressed all nice and spiffy, 1 or 2 of you having fun. If one of your fun pics is you shirtless, then that pic, spiffy, other fun pic. If you have some female friends, get their opinion on individual photos, not your who…
/r/seduction16/10/17 06:09 AM
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Thanks, I appreciate the feedback. No,actually, none of them are from cold approaches. 9 are from Tinder and 1 is from Facebook. On the bright side, my text game used to be TERRIBLE and now it's one of the aspects of my game I'm the most confident in. Doesn't mean I haven't cold approached, but to be honest, it's a rarity for me and I want to cold approach more frequently but I've been making so many other changes in my life that I don't want to go out just to cold approach in malls or on the st…
/r/seduction15/10/17 09:41 PM
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The kind that has the cardio to fuck for 3 hours.
/r/seduction15/10/17 07:51 PM
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Damn OP, you got some moves
/r/seduction15/10/17 07:50 PM
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Completely agree with u/hardly_incognito. They're flat out telling you to ask her out. You're only interested in Jess. If you want to fuck all 3, you have to fuck 1 first. Go for the one you're interested in now. It seems like you know what you have to do, you just don't want to do it.
/r/seduction15/10/17 07:48 PM
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I 100% agree with /u/ImJustSo. Don't view it as a problem. It's a situation some guys would kill to be in. Use it to weed out the insecure women. Own that image of you being a player. When I used Tinder, I mostly used it to get 'dates' and closed from there, but I changed my strategy to one less time wasting of going for the fuck and it worked. Be direct with what you're looking for. If you're just trying to fuck these girls, don't make it seem like you'll have a relationship. If you're just loo…
/r/seduction10/10/17 09:11 PM
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What, in your experience, has the best effort to reward effort in the world of dating in your experience? Basically, I'm asking you what's the best piece of advice you can give.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 02:03 PM
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We're taught that a legitament means of passing shit tests is agree and escalate. If she gives you shit for a physical characteristic of yours, wouldn't self-depricating humor delivered in a confident manner be considered passing the test? Edit: Grammar
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 01:57 PM
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I can respect that. Still a great post, OP.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 01:43 PM
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I signed up for yoga classes the other day and the instructor asked me how many classes I've had before. I tell her I've had 4 and she exclaims "Oh thank God. We got someone that doesn't have any bad habits!". Self-improvement in general is about identifying your bad habits and fixing them just as much as it is about starting good habits.
/r/seduction06/10/17 01:32 PM
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I agree that the only person that can change how she sees you is herself, but I spoke in an absolute. 'Change the way she sees you' implies that you would put in the amount of effort you want to until that happens. Granted, it may never happen because it's not in your control per se, but there's a lot you can do to try, which at the end of the day, is all you can do. And I know I regret when I feel like I could have done more. This is why I phrased it as “Usually, the only way for you to change …
/r/seduction06/10/17 01:09 PM
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1: Without a pic of OP, you can't really judge his arms. 2: You don't need to be 200lbs+ just 'cause you're 6 feet tall. 8-10% is a great BF%, and it's one thing if you're a quarterback and you need to be 230lbs, but just a guy who wants to look good should focus on being in a healthy weight range, which 175ish is for someone that's 6 feet tall.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 02:37 AM
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Just avoid self-deprecating humor and being a clown. And that's easy. Gonna disagree with you on this point. Self-depricating humor can be used effectively if done correctly. I’ll tell girls my dick is 2 inches long and I'll keep making dick jokes until we actually fuck, and I'll continue even aftwerwards. Why does it work? Why do girls keep talking to me after I tell them I have a 2 inch dick? Because it's all about their perception of you. If I already established the fact that I'm funny/joke …
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 01:10 AM
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You see, that right there is when it crosses into 'unprofessional behaviour'. I agree it could potentially boost OP's fucks, but OP actually gives a shit about his job and doesn't want to get fired.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 10:13 AM
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Just meeting people. I'm not gonna give you a whole spiel about how you go about it, but I'll tell you how I met the best friends I have now. 1) Joined a club in high school that met every single day. Most of the friends I made in high school were because of that club, and I made one friend that I feel "is a friend for life" because I say that about him and he says that about me. Join a club or group. 2) I had a class 2 years ago and the professor divided the class up for one day by our gender a…
/r/seduction03/10/17 09:26 AM
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Well if anything, I'm more of a writer. So if I had writings I felt confident sharing, I would totally invite a girl over to get a "sneak peak at the book I'm putting together". It's not just "Hey, come over and read my book", you need to sell it to her like it's the best thing since sliced bread, and if you don't feel like your work is, than you're just not confident in your craft yet. That being said, I'm a parralel universe where I started painting when I was twelve (and didn't stop), I'd tot…
/r/seduction03/10/17 08:55 AM
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I haven't seen this discussed here, but I'm sick of hearing that you should just "dump her and start from scratch" for every single little thing. Yes, I understand someone with abundance mentality knows they can meet other girls just like that, but sometimes I find this sub goes a bit too extreme to a level I consider too emotionally calloused to be anything but a cold,calculating computer. "Oh, she forgot to make you your daily scrambled eggs once? Cut your losses and move on" I'm convinced par…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 02:39 AM
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Hey OP, I relate a lot to this question because this is an issue I've had in the past. I was gonna make a list of comprehensive activities you can do with girls, but I decided I'd rather teach you how to come up with activities on your own. I found that most dates, no matter what, are effort not because I don't date that often and it's foreign to me, but rather because I'm going out of my way and making a plan to do something I normally would not do and have no interest in doing. The dates that …
/r/seduction03/10/17 12:25 AM
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Not OP, but definitely relate to his problem. I've been on a lot of dates, and I'm fine not having a plan and freestyling it when she's just 18 (I'm 21 at the time of writing) or she's very interested in me because they don't have any expectations/ they don't care what we do as long as we do it together. But girls even just a little bit older that have more mileage get familiar with the routine and get bored. I always thought it was more about the company than what you're doing, but if what you'…
/r/seduction02/10/17 11:49 PM
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Alright, so I started watching this out of curiosity, but I was already not enjoying the video before he mentioned the first point, so let me summarize with my own take on it. 1: Ask for what you want. The example he gives is with a girl, instead of buying flowers or doing nice things to get her attention, directly ask "Do you want to hang out with me?" Any true Sedditer knows you wouldn't ask because Alphas don't ask. They command. "Let's hang out." I don't ask my friends if they want to hang o…
/r/seduction02/10/17 11:37 PM
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I just want to say that the situation in China is completely different from what's going in the U.K. The 'leftover women' in China are women who have already hit the wall, which is the point of this whole article, sure. But it fails to mention how women in China actually have higher SMVs as a result of the one-child policy making it so that men greatly outnumber women. China's marriage market is very competitive and mothers will literally auction off their daughters as though they're returning t…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 06:18 PM
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I always thought a good line was "Don't do anything you wouldn't have done with her before you started fucking". If you two normally had lunch together once a week or so, it would be weird to stop. You guys occasionally go mountain biking together or something? Don't stop, but don't just start if it wasn't already something you guys would be doing.
/r/seduction27/09/17 10:59 AM
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If you press 0 on your keyboard, it'll start any YouTube video your watching back at 0:00.
/r/seduction27/09/17 10:54 AM
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I'm definitely not a pickup god by any means lol. I still have a long ways to go, it's just that I feel like the only things separating me from being one of the pros is that I: 1: Still feel like I have a lot of intricacies to learn (everyone does, but more than the pros do). 2: My lack of desire to monetize the information I've acquired (I'd do it for free because I know what it's like to want that knowledge and be too broke to afford anything) 3: The fact that they have a lot more practice tha…
/r/seduction27/09/17 10:52 AM
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I'm straight and I get erections thinking of straight sex, so unless gay men are an entirely different species from straight men, then yup.
/r/seduction27/09/17 03:09 AM
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Thanks man, I really do appreciate it.
/r/seduction25/09/17 09:13 PM
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Yeah, but I've never had a relationship that lasted more than a month and a half, so I've never got to see anything pay off in the long run lol. Been trying to get a long term fuck buddy/friends with benefits forever because I don't want a serious relationship right now, but it hasn't worked out. Girls catch feelings or move to different cities and one told me sex with me was the best she's ever had and it made her realize that the emptiness she felt can't be filled by sex but rather by a relati…
/r/seduction25/09/17 08:11 PM
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Thanks man,I appreciate it. I think most girls don't want to feel like sluts, regardless of how slutty they may be. That's why I like your advice. I never minded putting in the effort before, maybe I've just been taking some bad advice from people that fuck less than me or maybe I'm just changing, but either way, good advice.
/r/seduction25/09/17 07:47 PM
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Alright my man, if you're asking for advice, let me give you the most sincere advice I can think of: I have lived my life specifically avoiding drugs and alcohol not because I don't like them, but because I've seen what they've done to others around me. While I commend you for your efforts in quitting alcohol, I'd also like to echo the sentiments of George Carlin by saying I shouldn't be giving you a pat on the back for not doing something you shouldn't have been doing anyways, but I know how li…
/r/seduction25/09/17 07:23 PM
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Yeah, that's my game plan now. Waiting for her to respond. I'm gonna make moves and stuff and then get her back to my place to do something innocent like watch a movie and from there ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) . Thanks for the advice, man.
/r/seduction25/09/17 07:19 PM
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Yeah, I realized that in hindsight, but there were other forces at play. I was more interested in talking to people and having a good time for once (never been the best at parties and clubs and stuff, just now staring to enjoy them), so at least I wasn't just tied to her all night and I had a good time. That was my first pick up in that type of setting, so I’ll make sure I get them next time. Thanks for the suggestion.
/r/seduction25/09/17 07:16 PM
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I think I'm doing pretty okay for myself, but the worst habit I have right now is I break eye contact with girls across the room or walking down the street. It doesn't happen when I'm in a conversation, but I feel like that fucks up my approach before I even approach. Also, I rarely cold approach, but I've been anti-social my entire life and my social anxiety has never been lower plus I've been doing okay for myself. We have to remember to not be our own worst critics. I've seen the progress I'v…
/r/seduction24/09/17 06:22 PM
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Let me give you your 2 options. Be stoic. This is my usual game. I don't express interest with my face. I just get closer and closer, some kino, and if she's receptive, go for the kiss and escalate from there. Be energetic! I got approached by a girl at a party tonight, and she just had an energy when she started speaking to me and I just matched it. Same exact thing: close the gap, Kino, kiss, escalate. Same exact strategy. Really, the only thing I can recommend is observe how she acts towards …
/r/seduction24/09/17 10:09 AM
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You shared the video at a specific time that wasn't the start and didn't include the tip, which for those of you reading this comment, is picking girls up literally. Works for tallers girls especially based on OP's experience.
/r/seduction16/09/17 02:42 PM
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To be honest with you, my sexual history has girls between 3 and 9. There has only been one 9 so far (and I would honestly say she was almost a 10 in my eyes, she just had hair too short for my liking), so she is still the hottest person I have gone out with to date. And she is also the human being I've had the worst experience with,too. She is the most infuriating human being in terms of the shit she did when she broke up with me and after we broke up. We went on the best first date I've ever b…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 12:02 PM
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Actually, in my experience, most women prefer critiques of poetry between thrusts
/r/askTRP08/09/17 02:07 PM
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Reading this over, it sounds like you did everything you needed to do. Nothing you did "messed it up". The only way to have kept this going would have been to concede a bit of power to her, but since you're on askTRP, you know why you wouldn't want to do that. It doesn't sound like she would reinitiate, so if she does, let us know OP
/r/askTRP08/09/17 01:56 PM
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Okay, Did you really need to take 'a break' from your relationship to figure shit out, or couldn't you have just said 'Hey, I'm not gonna have time to see you as much because I have there's things I need to do. If you want to go to the gym with me, that's cool, if not, that's cool too'? Just based on the fact you had to take it to this extreme, I feel like there's something else going on here. You want to radically improve your life. When you picture your ideal life, do you picture your current …
/r/askTRP08/09/17 01:39 PM
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Hypothetical here: A 50 year-old Anthropology professor is on her way to her car when a 50 year-old Finance major walks up to her and starts a conversation. They hit it off. They fuck. You think the fact she's fucking a student is a problem with anyone then? Rules about professors and students aren't there to prevent sexual misconduct. The school doesn't care about your sex life. They do care about academic misconduct though. It stands to reason that if I'm fucking you and not fucking the other …
/r/askTRP08/09/17 01:20 PM
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My understanding of monk mode is that it is supposed to be implemented when you feel like focusing on certain aspects of your life (personal life, mental and physical fitness, self-discipline, financial fitness, advancing in school/career) will benefit you more than others (social life, having game, being able to fuck plates/maintain an LTR). Ideally, a healthy, well-adjusted person has their own personal life down as well as their social life, but if you're someone like me who experienced their…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 11:02 AM
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Here you go buddy.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 08:38 AM
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How will that prove I fucked 10 women?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 10:39 PM
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I don't know why you're downvoting me for speaking the truth, brother. In your eyes,it may be statistically improbable, but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen. 10 girls over the course of more than a year is not particularly improbable. It's less than 1 girl a month. I'm sure somewhere in your social strata there's some guy that takes home a different girl every night, so why is it so hard to believe they exist? Maybe you just haven't met him yet. Go to a gay night club and ask anybody how many…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 10:33 PM
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Hey man, I hate to burst your bubble, but I have to agree with u/vandaalen on this one. I only started being sexually active within the last 14 or so months. I was a 20 year-old kissless virgin. Now, just over a year later, I've been with 10 women, 7 of them in a period of 2 months. That includes the fact that I: -Took/am taking several months off to do monk mode and focus on my chaotic personal life. -Don't cold approach on a daily/weekly/monthly basis (probably closer to once in a blue moon) -…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 09:56 PM
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I'm gonna call BS. I played around with the website. It isn't anywhere near granular enough to accurately determine your SMV, and that’s not its intended purpose. It just tells you what percent of people are similar to what you described. On paper, I could be perfect. I could be 6'4", have a PhD with an expected annual take home of $300,000 with 7 figures in the bank and a 9 inch dick, but it doesn't take into account my face is busted beyond belief, I'm currently jobless and I have a 3 inch gir…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 03:09 PM
16

Take a Friday off from work. Fuck, don't even wait till this Friday, DO IT TODAY. Pick up all of her stuff. Put it in boxes. Put the boxes in the garage/by the front door of your apartment. When she comes home, break up with her and tell her she needs to move out by tomorrow. Don't think about her work schedule, let her take a day off from work too. This girl has no respect for you. If she did, she wouldn't have fucked another person,let alone six other guys. This is the simplest solution to you…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 12:38 PM
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Joining a monastery and avoiding women sounds more in line with MGTOW or Incel. I see TRP as the communication of the true nature of women, and those 2 groups as communities that choose to react a certain way to that truth. Remember brother, she'll always want to fuck Chad, but whose to say you're not Chad? If you aren't, then you got some work to do.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 12:21 PM
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I don't think you can say it was fake. A 4 year old hasn't been conditioned by society as much as a 20 year-old or 40 year-old to be manipulative. If you're going to be afraid, be scared that her behaviour is real, and this is how certain people (both men and women) are from the very beginning, and how many people inevitably turn out. For some, this is their nature. For others, this is how they're nurtured.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 12:12 PM
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Repost, but I'm not even gonna give you shit for it because from the 16 minutes of it that I've watched, it's pretty good.
/r/seduction04/09/17 01:51 PM
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Regardless of weak stroke or not, that was a shit test. The only correct answer to this is get aggressive as fuck. Rip the phone out of her hands and toss it, wrap your hand around her neck, look intensely into her eyes and go as hard as you can. Maybe give her a slap to the face if she's into that.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 02:55 PM
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So about 2-3 weeks ago, I went on a date with this girl I re-initiated.When I re-initiated, she basically told me she was a hoe back when we initially spoke, but now she's reformed blah blah blah(mind you, this is just 3 or 4 months later). Read my previous conversation with her (that I saved in Snapchat) and I immediately saw why we never met up in the first place: I was failing her shit tests. So I just texted her, passed all her shit tests and setup a date. I'm not saving any of the messages,…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 02:43 PM
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The thing about PUAs is that they're very similar to Red Pillers in the sense that the more you read the material they're preaching, the more you either reject it or become it to a certain extent (as with most thimgs). I did not consider myself an RPer till I started reading articles and getting involved in the community. In just the last 2+ months since I started to consider myself an RPer , I've gone through a great amount of change in the way I view women and treat them due to reading all the…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 09:53 PM
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Hey, just letting you know you tagged /u/Zoidberg22 as a subreddit instead.
/r/seduction30/08/17 03:41 PM
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This is the key to smashing, ladies and gentleman.
/r/seduction30/08/17 06:04 AM
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Tl;dr: It's less than 2 minutes and would probably take less time to watch than to read this comment, but to cover the topics in my own words: "Ask questions". You ever meet those people that just never stop talking about themselves? How about those people that just tell you the extremely apparent,overly simplistic solutions that to all your complex problems? The way you engage others the most is by asking questions, not by telling me about your gay son that reminds you of me. Ask questions, but…
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:21 AM
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Nice, short, easy read. Tl;dr: Focus on improving yourself more than on getting the girl.
/r/seduction26/08/17 02:56 AM
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I have a few other comments in this thread, but I also agree so this guy too. Basically, I think if you really want it, go for it. But if you're not going to or it doesn't work out, just move on.
/r/seduction24/08/17 02:40 PM
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He said spark and I think it's hard to mistake spark for just those two charactistics you mentioned. Even if he is just some white knight with a skewed view, I think he should try to go out with this girl. Just my opinion.
/r/seduction24/08/17 02:38 PM
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I know I'll get downvoted for this comment because our society places a high value on monogamy and people tend to see relationships kind of as an 'owning of two people by eachother. Nobody wants their girlfriend stolen, but I 100% agree with this guy.
/r/seduction24/08/17 02:32 PM
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Well, you should send a message in line with what your intentions are. What do you want to do? Steal her away from dude or lose your 'rare spark'? I remember seeing this movie with Chris Evans called "Playing it Cool" about a similar situation. I know movies are movies, but I think you secretly (or maybe not so secretly) want her and you're looking to us to help you whisk her away. In that case, I would recommend doing what Chris Evans did in that movie, which was get her to 'hang out' with you,…
/r/seduction24/08/17 02:28 PM
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While I do agree that it's generally better for you to make statements when you're first getting to know a girl, questions do have a purpose. I don't want to seem conceited, but I actually addressed their funtions in a comment on another thread. If you're interested, here it is.
/r/seduction24/08/17 02:14 PM
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I like to consider my self in the "not the Sherminator" group. The thing is,on dates, I feel like it's better to let your actions do the talking then your words. If I'm on a date with you, I've been escalating physically all night. I saw your comment on that thread for one-night stand Tinder dates, and your first example sounds like something I might do. Make every excuse for physical contact and closeness, then just grab the back of her neck and pull her into me. The second example is nothing l…
/r/seduction24/08/17 02:09 PM
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I mean it obivoulsy depends on the context, but I think it would work on most girls (that I've gone out with). Some girls have been like 5 texts before we met up, so that's obviously not enough to get a feel for the person and how it's actually gonna go down. I've used it on one girl since I made this post, and it was because we had a pretty funny, somewhat different conversation where we were both engaged. I think one of a girl's (and even a guy's) biggest fears is you met someone through Tinde…
/r/seduction24/08/17 01:47 PM
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Accdiently deleted my comment. Can you PM it to me, or is that not how Reddit works?
/r/seduction24/08/17 01:32 PM
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So what's your stance on tension? Is there no such thing as 'too much'? I did it to some girl that was telling me how she was 'looking for a serious relationship', so in general, I avoided sex talk and just did what I have always done in the past: let my actions do the talking. Went to a movie. Physically escalated. Ended up fucking. That entire time, I barely paid any attention to the movie because I was too busy feeling her up and I'm sure she felt the same way.
/r/seduction24/08/17 01:25 PM
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This. You don't need to be with a different dime in your arm in every pic. For social media/ online dating, the concept is the same. You're a picture; you're "framing" yourself in a certain way so people will look at you a certain way. Think about how you want others to see you and what you need to do to your profile for people to see you that way. Be aware there is a balance. Don't go overboard with the sepia.
/r/seduction20/08/17 09:58 PM
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OP, I relate to what you're saying and I struggled with this problem before. I even had a hard time making my family think I was interested in them. Here's what I learned: 1) Ask questions. Seems a little counter intuitive after reading all those PUA materials saying don't ask questions;make statements. Instead of asking "Where are you from?", say "You look like you're from Kentucky". That accomplishes a lot of things. I got into a habit of doing this too much and I transitioned from a 'listener…
/r/seduction20/08/17 09:48 PM
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I feel like I lack actual experience in this department, so please take what I say with a grain of salt. But I recently ran into this situation and I felt like I handled it wrong. I believe the correct approach is something like 'After you guys bang the first time, ghost her for a week or two, then hit her up'. If you get no response, or she says no and offers no alternative, maybe try again another week or two later. If still nothing, move on. Some girls will just be one time things. Can anyone…
/r/seduction20/08/17 09:05 PM
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I see what you're saying, and I am now remembering the maxim of "It's not what you say;it's how you say it". Lately, I've been getting bolder with women and I've been seeing more success, so I'll make sure to try this next time I run into a similar issue. Thank you.
/r/seduction15/08/17 02:24 PM
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That right there is the problem, man. The guy that feels like they're giving something has a completely different mindset then the guy that feels like they're taking something. The taker thinks "I'm fake as fuck with most dudes because I know they're dumbasses.". The giver thinks "I'm enlightening my people with my presence even if I'm not the truest version of myself. I'm adapting and I'm being who I need to be in this circumstance".The taker thinks "I feel shitty talking to chicks because I kn…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 12:43 PM
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I'm not new to TRP or seduction, but I completely fucked up the order and I actually focused on my outter game and kino/abundance mentality before I worked on my inner game (which could always be stronger). This post brought together some of my favorite resources I've been using to work on both my outter and inner game recently (Mike Haines' 'How To Get Laid Like a Warlord and The Illimitable Man's 'Shit Test Encyclopedia') and introduced me to some new ones I'll be sure to check out once I fini…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 02:31 AM
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told to you or you aren't ready for this knowledge. Told to me? Like I have a mentor helping me or something? No, we're not all that fortunate. Ready for the knowledge? So now, my worthiness of the information I seek is decided at the discretion of strangers on the internet? Well, yeah,because I made this post seeking advice. But it was for people like u/Kenic_In_MD or u/brianbria that actually offer advice. Look, I can tell that we're both too stubborn to admit fault within ourselves because we…
/r/seduction11/08/17 11:29 PM
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I don't think the atmosphere was right to call her slutty because I think that would have turned off my buddy's lady friend if I did. This is actually a good comeback, but I also feel like it's a bit too direct and I wouldn't want to stoop down to her level. Unless I have to. Should I? Thanks for the comment, man. Appreciate it.
/r/seduction11/08/17 11:09 PM
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This is also very helpful. I find my brain goes into fight or flight around exceptionally attractive women. I've been training myself out of it, but this is actually something I used to do and forgot about it. If it takes me too long to think of anything, do I fail the shit test?
/r/seduction11/08/17 11:04 PM
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I don't care. If I did care what that girl fought of me doing 50, I wouldn't have done 50. I mentioned it because I think that's part of what made her come to the conclusion I'm fat. Idk, girl logic like "Big arms but he can't even do half of what his friend is doing. Those arms must be 90% fat and 10% muscle" The main point of my post is I don't know if I handled a shit test correctly. It bothers me because I didn't even care about this chick, so I was kind of worried about what happens when it…
/r/seduction11/08/17 11:01 PM
1

Are you saying you don't care? If not, tell me your secrets senpai
/r/seduction11/08/17 10:54 PM
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Look at my comment history and you're gonna see I try to help people. I'm not being a whiny bitch because "people are being mean to me". My issue is I actually try to help people and none of my comments are me shitting on people. Shitting on other people on the internet rarely accomplishes anything. All those fucking 15 year olds that get bullied and kill themselves are dying over these cancerous comments. I consider myself one of those people that took everybody's shit for years and I'm not gon…
/r/seduction11/08/17 10:44 PM
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Tell me where in your initial comment is your advice to help me on my mission to become a confident man. Please, tell me. There was no advice. All insult, no constructive criticism. You fucking hypocrite. If I was the type that let strangers on the internet dictate how I felt (which I used to do to a much greater extent then I do now), I would feel like shit because of that. Telling someone their terrible or something about them is terrible and offering no advice/solution on how one can improve …
/r/seduction11/08/17 10:37 PM
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Most helpful comment here. This is exactly the comment I wanted. Thank you.
/r/seduction11/08/17 07:00 PM
1

Angry at the fact that people are reading that guy's "advice" and thinking that is a logical solution to my problem. If I could lose 7 percent body fat and wake up tomorrow looking like a male model, wouldn't I? It's physically impossible to do so. My two options are cosmetic surgery and exercise, and I'm opposed to cosmetic surgery. I've been working out for years. One bitch thinks I'm fat, but I've fucked 10 women that told me they loved my body. Then one cunt comes along and the advice he giv…
/r/seduction11/08/17 06:57 PM
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Woah, thanks for this reality shifting advice. Definitely appreciate your constructive criticism and your critical thinking skills. You are truly a god amongst men for enlightening me. Thank you.
/r/seduction11/08/17 06:47 PM
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Look, I came here seeking legitament advice. It happens in this sub. I know because I frequent it. The advice he gave me was just to cut. Like I'm not already working out? Like I didn't mention I do in my post? If -prepper- actually read my post, he would know I'm not asking for fitness advice. My frame would suck too if I need to be in perfect shape to be confident. I've been hearing that I'm skinny for the past 2 years and that's why I was caught off guard by that girl's statement. I was bulli…
/r/seduction11/08/17 06:44 PM
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Bitch, did you read my post? I lift. I'm working on getting in shape and I'm already fairly swole. You gonna tell me what I already know and addressed, or are you gonna actually be constructive? 10 minutes to write post about current problem. 1 minute to read and assume you magically know the answer to a problem I'm already working on and have been for the past 2 years. I asked about getting shit tested and how I dealt with it. Not if I need to cut or not. This isn't r/fitness.
/r/seduction11/08/17 02:40 PM
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Even better, screw him. Then screw her mom and dad. Show her her whole family is just a cheap set of plates from IKEA you don't care about dropping. Then kick the dog.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 02:14 PM
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Alright, this is my area of expertise. Bring the date up as early in the conversation as possible. I don't mean opening with "Would you go on a date with me?", I mean making a joke or two and segwaying that into your date. There's no such thing as a 'golden rule' here because every girl is different, but as early in the convo as possible. I usually open with telling her that we're going on a date or something that would segway towards it. You usually should have a tailored message for something …
/r/seduction08/08/17 02:05 PM
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I think you're placing more value on arbitrary things like looks,money, and education then women do. You should be more focused on social skills. I don't know about money and education, but I know I'm good looking and I can backup As32b's story. If you're autistic as fuck and you can barely talk to women, it doesn't matter if you're a straight dime; you ain't gonna fuck. Women will throw themselves at you because you're good-looking, but if you can't be Chad or at least act like Chad because you…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 02:42 PM
2

Is your negative self-talk stemming from your issues with women or other areas of your life? I found that I derive a lot of my perceived self-worth from what I think women think of me. A good example of this is lifting: do you lift for your health or to feel good in your body, or do you lift to get aesthetic so you can get women? If it's the latter, I recommend doing what I've done, which is take a temporary hiatus from dating and approaching in general. Focus on improving yourself and don't let…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 02:27 PM
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I don't agree with that. What is considered "good looking" is not universal and actually varies from culture to culture. You're familiar with the tribes in Africa that think long necks are attractive so the women put rings around their necks to extend them? A perfect,long necked goddess to them might be a 1 to me. Remember, even the 1-10 scale is subjective. When you say "very little subjectivity involved", I think you mean "it's very easy to discern how in line a woman is with the Western stand…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 12:03 AM
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Dude, I'm either 5'11" or 6' (depends on who's asking and what I feel like saying that moment. We're already considered tall. Yeah, we're not 6'3", but you don't need to be 6'3", didn't you read OPs post?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 10:08 PM
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The guy in the video actually has a reddit account (/u/ministryofattraction) and he recently released a "premium" video for free on his YouTube. I've watched about half of that hour-long video and a few more videos he has on his channel and he does know what he's talking about. Skimmed this video. At the end of the day, the approach you use doesn't really matter as long as you close and he got the numbers. Also, remember this is day game on a busy city street and completely different from night …
/r/seduction03/08/17 05:59 PM
1

Started watching this earlier today. Couldn't finish it because I have stuff to do, but you got yourself another subscriber.
/r/seduction01/08/17 07:08 PM
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Simple Pickup's Project GO and Simple 30 are some of the best resources I've seen for this. Unfortunately, most if their videos were taken down from YouTube. PM me for access.
/r/seduction31/07/17 08:42 PM
2

Are you approaching them in the van or on foot? Dude, I have a fucking bicycle and it really doesn't matter.
/r/seduction31/07/17 05:30 AM
2

"Wow, that sucks! Why do you think it's late today? My theory is the bus driver fell asleep and drifted into the other lane and everyone is dead" I don't know if this is the right thing to do or just try to switch to another topic entirely, but I've noticed I have a tendency to say "over the top"/"random" things like this and it works. The best is when I run into people as ridiculous and me and we just say stupid shit for hours.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 10:55 AM
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One of the things people in this sub like to mention is abundance mentality. They'll tell you how it'll help you with girls but I've never seen anyone mention how it could fuck you over, which it has done to both you and me. You're assuming that every one of the people you follow or the people that are following you are going out every night having a good time, which may very well be the case. But you have to remember that social media only puts the highlights of your life up. Have you ever seen…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 03:44 AM
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No, that's the anticipation of sex turning you on. Because it's not as though you're reading this with an empty mind, you're envisioning doing all of this on some HB. Your brain is the most powerful sex organ.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 01:48 PM
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Quality post. Two modifications though. For me personally, it turns me on mentally when I give a girl an orgasm. I usually try to give her as many as possible until she's sore and she just can't fuck anymore. I know this can be interpreted as going contrary to the logic of the post, but I'm still focused on what gives me pleasure, which is giving her pleasure. I am stoic and quiet. The only time I talk during sex is to issue commands ("Lay down","Get on your knees",etc.). This works for sex with…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 01:44 PM
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Upvoted for visibility. Idk enough about club game, so can't help you,sorry.
/r/seduction28/07/17 01:08 PM
1

Also, the call is completely optional. I rarely do it. It's more of a last resort for girls you have the feeling are going to flake. I've done it with girls off of Tinder and it's worked, so girls you met irl should be no problem.
/r/seduction26/07/17 03:07 PM
2

Just ask them out. Something along the lines of "Let's get coffee Thursday" or "We should go do X". Notice those weren't questions. You've already gotten their numbers and at some point when you met them, you should have mentioned you find them attractive, so there's no confusion that you're taking her out on a date. You're supposed to ask this very early in the convo, usually after the first few messages. You'll be surprised how often women will say yes after just 3-7 texts back and forth, but …
/r/seduction26/07/17 02:53 PM
1

Hey man, thanks for bringing that to my attention. I've been having network problems and I guess it ended up posting 6 times. Deleted all the extras. Again, thank you.
/r/seduction24/07/17 05:48 AM
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What you said, I feel, is a universal truth.
/r/seduction21/07/17 11:51 PM
2

Hey man, I'm 21 and I was where you were about a year ago. I did some things that, in hindsight, were bad for me in some ways and good for me in other ways. I tried to lose my virginity to a prostitute just to get it over with, but I lost the nerve. I ended up losing my kissing virginity and my actual virginity to a girl I wasn't attracted to, but I was so desperate to get rid of my V-Card because I felt the same way you do now. I'm sure other people are giving you advice along the lines of "Don…
/r/seduction20/07/17 01:30 PM
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Yo, of all the people in all the subreddits that I posted this to, you've been the most helpful,man. Thank you, you made realize it would have been a mistake I would have regretted before I took things too far. Thank you. ♂
/r/askTRP05/07/17 01:24 AM
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Could you make the argument for why I should?
/r/askTRP05/07/17 12:39 AM
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