| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Stop making excuses and looking for an easy out. JUST GO FOR IT. | Claw-D-Uh | /r/seduction | 09/11/15 08:22 PM |
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| 2 | Girlfriend keeps flakingBingo! Sucks but you gotta be the adult sometimes. People respect that though. Would you want to be known as “the guy who just stopped taking to his girlfriend”? Girls talk and actions like that get spread around. Honestly is mostly always the best policy. | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend keeps flakingThat would hold true if maybe OP had been on a date or two with a girl she is flaking. There is nothing beta about being honest. It’s actually one of the key things Mark Manson mentions in his book models. He’s in a relationship. If you’re not man enough to properly end a relationship or tell them what you honestly need or want. I don’t think you’re mature enough to be in one to begin with. Also for context I am female. Females won’t play games and shit like that when you’re in a relationship un… | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend keeps flakingDon’t ghost her that’s cowardly. Just be honest. Tell her if she isn’t going to make an effort to put you into her life. Then she obviously doesn’t care and you deserve someone who will. | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Idk what to do when I first meet herPee on her and mark your territory | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Is getting into a relationship/sex all it's cracked up to be?I didn’t loose my virginity until I was 19. You’re not abnormal lol | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Is it honest (in Manson's terms) to be playing games?Sounds like to me you’re either not escalating or putting your true intention out there. Use kino while taking. Give a subtle compliment or two. | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 07:42 AM |
| 1 | How viable is it to flirt with someone taken or already in a relationship?Judging from your profile you’re 15. So I’m going to put this nicely since you’re young. Don’t be that guy. Don’t be a piece of shit. Women respect men with good morals. If she rejects you, especially knowing she’s in a relationship and you’re in high school (let’s face it high schoolers aren’t mature) you’re not going to be very respected. | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 08:05 AM |
| 1 | [Problem] I feel very bad when i reject people even though its their faultGlad to help :) I used to be the same way myself. | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 08:42 AM |
| 1 | [Problem] I feel very bad when i reject people even though its their faultJust my two cents is grow a back bone. Like no need to be mean but if someone crosses your boundaries tell them. And let them know what you will and will not tolerate. Give them a chance for redemption and if they continue to cross you. Drop em It’s not making drama it’s setting your standards. | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 02:27 AM |
| 4 | Don’t Be A Christmas Ghost: 5 Texts To Send Instead Of Ghosting SomeoneI was actually debating to text someone I went on a date with yesterday because I wasn’t feeling a spark. Just copied the first one and sent it to her. Ghosting is cowardly and I was about to just leave it but this is so much nicer than ghosting. | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Field Report: how to get a txt message back when she ghost on youThat’s so insecure and passive aggressive. You reek of desperation if you do that. If a girl doesn’t text you back after you ask her out she’s clearly not into you. | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Is it okay to make a move on the first date?First date is always best to make a move because you’re letting your intentions known. If you know this girl already, when you go to greet her give her a hug. Break the touch barrier as soon as you meet her. Then escalate from there | /r/seduction | 03/12/17 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Low confidence guy with ''above average'' looks seeking helpI’m a lesbian but damn OP is handsome | /r/seduction | 01/12/17 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Friends Secretly Hope You Fail?Someone who purposely puts you don't isn't really your friend. | /r/seduction | 23/10/16 10:57 PM |
| 1 | What are the best places to meet women for a guy in his mid-20's with no friends?Meeting friends is a lot like meeting women. Just with a different goal. If you're not into partying and clubs (I've made a lot of friends at bars.). You can literally make friends anywhere. Just say hello make some small talk and evolve it from there. If you have any hobbies or anything be sure to share them and ease into it. If you share the same hobby as someone just say "Hey, I'm new in town lets go _______!" Examples of places I've made friends The McDonald's I always go to. (Ended up going… | /r/seduction | 08/09/16 07:41 PM |
| 1 | I Want to Host Parties But Don't Have a Place..You could always host a drink and board games night at your place or something. Cards against humanity is a good game for that. (My friend usually has wine night on Wednesday and we play that) | /r/seduction | 08/09/16 05:43 AM |
| 1 | If you’re asking women for dating advice, you’re probably making a mistake. Here’s why.Lesbian here I'm terrible at picking up women. Don't take lesbian dating advice they're awful at it too | /r/seduction | 06/05/16 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Selling a couple textbooks to a girl at my university, how do I and her out without coming off creepy/odd?No reward without risk right? Just text her and be casual about it. "Hey I'd like to get to know you better want to go out for a coffee?" Worst thing that can happen she says no and you move on. Even if they say no just be happy you got the courage to ask them out. | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Should I follow up?Just ask her out worse she can do is say no | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 10:42 PM |
| 6 | [19M] I can't get a girl, I feel hopeless and I'm thinking of giving up on dating!He has muscular dystrophy.... It means he can't build muscle. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Seriously need help, maybe wrong subredditThere's nothing wrong with going up to someone asking to be their friend. I've made many friends at the bar this way. In fact, most friends I initially had I met at the bar. | /r/seduction | 10/11/15 10:35 AM |
| 1 | A Lesbian Pick Up Artist?!We really don't as our dating pool is about 10% of a heterosexual dating pool. | /r/seduction | 10/11/15 09:34 AM |
| 1 | How does a lesbian get back on the horse?I remember there being a thread in AL about this a while back. I'd just go for it and assume she's gay until otherwise? Of course be respectful about it. Worst thing that happens is she says no and she's straight. Maybe you'll. Make a new friend, or she has a gay friend she can set you up with If you don't ask the answer is always no. | /r/seduction | 30/10/15 06:15 PM |
| 1 | I finally got a girlfriend and I have NO IDEA what to doI agree. I'm Canadian too. I thought OP was in high school or something. | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 06:20 PM |
| 3 | What do YOU say immediatelly after being rejected?Same here. Plot twist. I am a lesbian too. | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Sedditor Locator 2015Sup | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 06:18 AM |
| 1 | What is the best way to ask for a girls number?This is what I always do. I've only had a girl turn me down once. | /r/seduction | 11/07/15 11:54 PM |
| 3 | What to do if she has a boyfriend?If she cheats with you, she will cheat on you | /r/seduction | 11/06/15 05:09 PM |
| 1 | On what kind of girls you focused when you started your seduction journey?Stop putting yourself down OP. Honestly you're a good looking guy. (I'm not just saying that that to be nice.) But girls like guys with confidence. With that kind of mentality you're not going to get girls. Work on your self esteem first. Fake it till you make it | /r/seduction | 05/06/15 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Did I make the right call?You're a good guy OP. You made the right choice. | /r/seduction | 05/06/15 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Why Triangular Gaze WorksIt's like the "fuck me eyes". Basically the best way to describe it is to look someone in the eyes and try to see your own reflection in them | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Should you try your chances with a lesbian girl?Don't over think it man. Maybe she was being sincere when she said "You're the only guy I'd pick up in this bar." or maybe who was just messing with you. Who knows? From my experience, she was probably just being flirty and messing with you. I've had experiences where it's vice versa for me. (Me a lesbian. Hitting on a straight girl. Where she tells me she's not gay but if she was she be into me. Only to reject my advances.) Either way don't over think it. | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Any Edmontonian Sedditers out there? Wingman needed!I'm in the same boat as you actually. Just got out of a ltr Friday. Also living in Edmonton. | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Should you try your chances with a lesbian girl?Lesbian here. Respect for you for not trying to kiss her or anything. From personal experience though it can be really frustrating telling someone you're not interested, only for them to hit on you more. | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Pick up artist Julien Blanc has now been banned from Canada, UK and AustraliaNot sure if this is the rifhr subreddit to put this under but I do remember stumbling across a link on two of his seminars on here and I just wondering how you guys felt about this. | /r/seduction | 19/11/14 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How does one manage to get in with the gir who is "always busy"If they're "always busy" and was attracted to you, she'd make time for you. | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 04:56 AM |
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