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I look for three genuine things I like about the person and incorporate it into the conversation. I'm up front about what I want, and I escalate by asking availability. Because of the pandemic, I articulate my safety protocols, and inquire about hers. After that, I ask them out and go from there.
/r/seduction28/02/21 03:21 AM
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If I'm setting up a date, my conversations are 10 to 20% sexual and the rest about whatever. I keep it in her mind that whatever we decide to do, up front I'm trying to fuck at some point. Touch barrier is broken immediately usually with a hug. Once we get in the car, depending how we are sitting, one hand is on the wheel and one hand is with her. Usually it ends up on her lap with her hand holding it. Before we eat dinner, we break the kiss barrier. Who wants the first kiss to be with onion bre…
/r/seduction28/02/21 03:18 AM
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You lost this one, move on. Your last response killed your chances for a steady booty call.
/r/seduction26/11/20 02:50 PM
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Ha, bro I feel you. I'm 40 but I'm constantly carded. . Tbh it never really works out if the age gap is too far south. So understand going in that even if this is successful it's a short term thing. If you're still interested, just ask her out. If you wait too long your chances grow cold. Clearly she knows you are interested because you looked her up on Facebook. Stop acting like you are waiting on lottery results and pull the fucking trigger and make a move.
/r/seduction26/11/20 02:43 PM
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I'm ok with her seeing other people. She's had long term partners, and yeah there's jealousy, but it quickly passes. We aren't leaving each other to start a new life with someone else. Same regard when I start with someone new, there's jealousy. You get past that by providing extra care. Especially before and after dates. I let her know that her place is and always will be at the top. Edit: I prefer letting each other know as opposed to don't ask, don't tell. There's something freeing about bein…
/r/seduction18/11/20 06:00 PM
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With my primary partner 11 years, nonmono for half. Marriage is marriage. It has its ups and downs, but neither of us are going anywhere. Juggling can be hard. Scheduling and communication with everyone involved is paramount. It's not that hard with 1 other partner, but with 2 or more it turns into work really fast.
/r/seduction18/11/20 05:53 PM
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Right around 6ft. Slightly taller
/r/seduction18/11/20 05:50 PM
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I don't see myself that way. I'm passionate about life and it reflects in my personality. I'm fortunate enough that women tend to go for it. Tbh It feels weird at times because the amount of attention makes me question if I'm a good person. Makes me wonder if there's some deception that leads to the attraction. It becomes a problem when personal and professional start to blend
/r/seduction18/11/20 12:35 PM
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I'm 40. The youngest I've talked to this year is 24, the oldest is 57. Multiple races and backgrounds.
/r/seduction18/11/20 12:31 PM
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I'm ethically non monogamous. From dating apps alone, I've connected with close to 50 people this year with the first 2 things they know about me being I'm married and I have a girlfriend. I'll take the Pepsi challenge against anyone when it comes to making a connection.
/r/seduction18/11/20 12:26 PM
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Anecdotal of course, but I'm a 9 to 5 guy. I'm overweight and married, despite all of this being known up front, I still get more action than when I was single and lighter. Job security and self assuredness are a hell of a 1-2 combination.
/r/seduction18/11/20 12:18 PM
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Dude you need to stop chasing girls and start working on yourself. What are you passionate about in life and are you working towards it? For an immediate confidence boost, lose 10 lbs or so. People around you will notice and the feedback will carry you forward. Long term, be honest with yourself, why should someone fuck you? Work towards having a good why and success will follow.
/r/seduction09/09/20 12:25 PM
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Then drop the insecurities and let your greatness shine. Dude, I'm not a model, no money, and close to 300lbs, but everyday, someone tries to fuck me.i didn't get on that level until i realized that nobody is perfect and your flaws are easily overlooked it you are likeable. I approach everyone the same, whether I'm interested or not. You've already got that part down when you said you can easily engage people in a friendly manner. As far as being interested throw some flirty stuff lightly into t…
/r/seduction09/09/20 12:14 PM
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Shot in the dark here, but what is your level of empathy in general for the people around you? Do you have trouble making friends or keeping friends?
/r/seduction09/09/20 11:44 AM
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Your only faults are your are out of my age range and not anywhere close to Orange County Ca. If it weren't for that, it would take a week for me to make you recognize what you are and then you'd never need the internet for this kind of questioning again. Work on your confidence. I haven't had a conversation with you to figure you out from that level, but you'll be fine based off looks alone.
/r/seduction07/09/20 11:50 PM
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Depends on what you want. Physically from your pic, there's nothing you need to change about yourself to attract someone. It's more about what you want and what you're willing to accept.
/r/seduction07/09/20 11:35 PM
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I have the not so sexy, sexy talk the first date then either have sex that night or on the next date.
/r/seduction03/09/20 07:38 AM
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When you have the "Not so sexy, sexy talk" find out what she's into and then do those things before you take care of yourself.
/r/seduction01/09/20 03:47 AM
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Best thing that could have happened to you. You don't have to pine for her anymore and you get to move on. You're 19. She wasn't going to be your wife. You should fill good about yourself for having the courage to ask for what you want. Not doing it quick enough is what lands dudes in the friendzone.
/r/seduction31/08/20 02:42 PM
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Look at the first pic, read the bio, look at the rest of the pics, reread the bio. I look for at least three things I like (non physical) about her and I'll look for things about myself that she's seeking as well. I introduce myself and then I weave those six things Into the conversation I follow up with what I'm interested in doing and I ask for a follow-up i.e chat or text. As far as my profile, it has my baggage up front. If they are cool with that 1st paragraph, they tend to find that I'm ge…
/r/seduction30/08/20 02:41 PM
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I grew up struggling, so I had this insecurity for a long time. If you can look yourself in the mirror and honestly say that you are working on it, then you have to let it go. If you are taking steps to solve problem and they are consistent, then you will get there. As far as dates Covid should bring out your creative side. I normally don't do expensive dates after the first date and generally speaking my partners are cool with that too. Nobody is where they want to be, and dropping tons of cash…
/r/seduction30/08/20 02:33 PM
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They work for me. I'm good at crafting an opening statement, so I normally get responses back.
/r/seduction30/08/20 02:28 PM
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Because the book has multiple layers. It's up to you to get what you get out of it.
/r/seduction22/08/20 11:01 PM
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Pimp by Iceberg Slim.
/r/seduction22/08/20 09:17 PM
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Seriously this. My dating profile states upfront that I have 2 partners, and I feel like I get more attention than when I was single. You can be honest and still get what you want.
/r/seduction20/08/20 02:53 PM
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OkCupid is better. You can read her profile and craft an intro that will give you a better chance at a response. It might be anecdotal, but I've matched with 13 in the past 19 days as opposed to only 3 on tinder.
/r/seduction20/08/20 02:11 AM
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Texting is easy. Be honest, be direct, ask questions so she texts more and you respond less. "How's your day?" Is a great one. As far as dates, honestly dude every girl I've dated in the past 10 years, after the first date, I normally just go to her place. If she actually wants to do something as far as food or events, just pick something as far as food and because of Rona you can drive and talk, or Netflix and chill. The more you listen, the better you can understand how to navigate the relatio…
/r/seduction20/08/20 02:08 AM
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Pussyfooted instead of being direct. You put yourself in the"friend zone.* If you wanted to fuck, she should have known that before she showed up. You're not being polite, you are being passive aggressive. If you want her, you got to be prepared to let her go, and I'm not sure you are there yet. No matter how special you think a person is, there's always someone like them. Including you.
/r/seduction20/08/20 01:57 AM
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You don't. The gym is sanctuary. Catch her as you both are leaving, or coming in.
/r/seduction19/08/20 09:19 PM
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Ohh if you've ever had a conversation with anyone you weren't trying to date, you know how to talk to girls. You're just nervous because you think you have something to lose if this doesn't go right. You never had it in the first place. Relax, just go talk to her, make a connection, then ask for what you are looking for.
/r/seduction19/08/20 02:24 PM
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Tbh if everything is ideal, you need to size him up? Is he shy? Break the touch barrier during conversations. Shy dudes need underhanded slow throws to get the point sometime.
/r/seduction19/08/20 02:14 PM
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Friend zone her and move on. Don't have any expectations of moving forward with her until she makes the move, then decide whether or not to go forward. Don't eat where you shit is great advice. You should however take this opportunity to work on how you talk to girls. I used to be shy af, and sometimes I'm still am. But when I took the thought out of my head of ever crossing that line at work, all of a sudden all of my friends are women. Now that I'm comfortable talking to them, this translates …
/r/seduction19/08/20 02:07 PM
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Oh God no. I get their number the first day. Chat with them for a day or 2 and then ask them out. If I'm dealing with more than 2, then I'll stall on the rest while I vet the first two. You have to have them at the point where they want you to ask them out, not you wondering if they will say yes.
/r/seduction19/08/20 05:33 AM
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I absolutely use the skill set in my professional life. Being able to "charm" your way into getting the mission accomplished has gotten near impossible tasks done. Be that as it may, it has drawbacks. Turn it on too strong and you can potentially damage relationships.
/r/seduction17/08/20 06:26 PM
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Confidence with a foundation. My confidence comes from actual accomplishments that helped to give me a sense of self worth.
/r/seduction17/08/20 03:26 AM
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As soon as I worked on myself, it started falling from the sky. I'm overweight, not that good looking, and certainly not rich. It doesn't matter, I'm comfortable in my skin, and they go for it.
/r/seduction17/08/20 03:25 AM
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I get that this is the anonymous internet, so you can take this for a grain of salt. If you knew how much pussy is thrown at me, you'd understand. The last woman I told I was married to asked if that meant she needed to fuck my wife too. A lot of guys get hung up in ego about their s/o dating someone else. Especially if it's in a place where it gets around friends and family. I'm fortunate to be in a spot where there's a lot of opportunity to have this life without it effecting my not so private…
/r/seduction17/08/20 03:22 AM
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Turnabout is fair play.
/r/seduction17/08/20 03:11 AM
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Not really. We didn't cheat. I've never slept with someone without our partners knowing before it happened.
/r/seduction17/08/20 03:09 AM
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Yes. And i looked her husband in the eyes and grabbed a beer out of the fridge before I did it...
/r/seduction17/08/20 03:07 AM
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A little louder for the people in the back.
/r/seduction16/02/20 07:18 PM
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Tbh, people ask similar questions more often than not. I wish there was a sub for people that don't have issues with seduction, but maintaining.
/r/seduction16/02/20 05:31 PM
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I used to be introverted like you, until I took an arrow to the knee.... What are you looking for on the dating app? If you are looking for a relationship, these are probably not the right ones to respond to. You are free to shoot your shot at this moment and be completely up front and honest with what you want. You want to hook up? Make it known. You want to date? Make it known. If you are not getting back what you want even when you are giving, just draw the line in the sand and be prepared to…
/r/seduction16/02/20 04:30 PM
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Reading your post it's definitely you. Talk about privilege, "I'm white and I'm tall, give me pussy!" Seems like your matches don't meet your standards. Maybe you don't meet the standards of the people you would like to match with. Work on yourself and come up with something better than I'm white and tall, and you might find some success. Good luck to you.
/r/seduction16/02/20 04:22 PM
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Dude if she has kids, she's probably telling the truth. Don't overthink things because original plans didn't go the way they should.
/r/seduction14/02/20 10:06 PM
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You can absolutely flirt with and date every one of them. You just gotta be upfront about who you are and don't go down into creep territory. Clearly if they sure still interested in you, your fear is irrelevant. You should let go of the things you cannot change, and work hard at the things you can. That will help with the confidence.
/r/seduction13/02/20 03:29 PM
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You have a very negative demeanor. It's off putting. I'm not saying this to be rude, but if that's how people view you, it might not be your looks that you need to work on. After highschool, you are going to be in a new world with new possibilities. You don't have to be confident in your looks, but you should be comfortable in your skin. Work on the things that you can control.
/r/seduction12/02/20 06:55 PM
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That sub with less than 11,000 people that doesn't get much traffic? They got you pegged huh? Do you normally interact with people in this manner?
/r/seduction12/02/20 06:47 PM
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I actually work with homeless people for a living. I've gotten countless off the streets and into jobs. It starts with the belief that they can do it. Or you can believe your situation is somehow unique and your anecdotal experiences make you an expert beyond reproach.
/r/seduction12/02/20 06:33 PM
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Not with that attitude for sure. But you're in highschool. Nobody wanted to fuck me in highschool either. My head is fucked up, I was poor, and I didn't have any confidence. My head is still fucked up, but I grew dreads, got some confidence and now attracting people in general is not an issue. There are things you can't change. How you react to those things is what people will remember about you.
/r/seduction12/02/20 05:54 PM
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Dude, when I was 17 I could barely get a girl to look my way. Today, if I showed you my Dating apps you'd think I was an athlete or a celebrity. My face still looks the same, I just worked on my inner game. No girl is looking to fuck obligation or desperation. Work on yourself, stop chasing women and let them chase you.
/r/seduction12/02/20 05:17 PM
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Are there any local blood banks, or volunteer opportunities in your area? Even part time work? You have a low sense of self worth at the moment. You'd be amazed at what selfless service can do to fix that. Interacting with people that need help, you will quickly find out how much you can mean to a total stranger. This can even change the way you think about yourself. Perhaps you'll find passion in that.
/r/seduction12/02/20 03:50 PM
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We all end up there. Might as well make it interesting before you go. What are you passionate about?
/r/seduction12/02/20 03:42 PM
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What do you want to be when you grow up?
/r/seduction12/02/20 03:38 PM
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Outside of therapy, how are you working on yourself? When I felt that way I got an outside hobby, and started working towards my dream job. That took away a lot of the feelings, because I had a direction I was working on and I stuck with it. It's anecdotal, but I hope it helps.
/r/seduction12/02/20 03:27 PM
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You should work on the shit that's got you fucked up before you start dating. Don't feel bad, that advice probably applies to a lot of people here. As for your last paragraph, in my life people come and people go. I prefer to be open and honest to a point, but I'd download my shit to either a therapist or a trusted partner in an established relationship.
/r/seduction12/02/20 03:10 PM
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On to the next one. If they come back, whatever.
/r/seduction09/02/20 06:58 PM
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Have you ever talked to a woman and asked her perspective? Contrary to rich and attractive, there are a myriad of reasons why women swipe right. As a dude, you need to very neatly answer the question "why should she want to date you?" I do that by a combination of putting my "baggage up front" (currently have 2 long term partners) and highlighting the things I'm passionate about. I.e. I'm in my dream career, I have little adventures alone and with friends on the weekend, and I talk a little abou…
/r/seduction09/02/20 06:47 PM
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For continuously responding to a troll, for sure. Take care bud
/r/seduction31/01/20 11:36 PM
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I feel as if you think women swipe right and match based solely off looks. The fact is they get tons of attractive people filling their inbox just as much as ugly people. Your looks won't set you apart more than the words you use. So many women are sent short messages like "hey" and "sup" that when I come along and open with a well thought out paragraph or two, they respond. I understand how you can find this hard to believe, TBH I find it hard to believe that you get laid if you talk the way yo…
/r/seduction31/01/20 11:22 PM
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I understand. Given your response, when I was your age I didn't think it was possible as well. At the end of the day, I'm some random dude on the internet offering advice. If what you got works for you, then certainly go for it. I'm perfectly ok with what works for me.
/r/seduction31/01/20 10:58 PM
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How would I catfish them? Truth be told I'm considered attractive. I put a picture there, that's an inanimate object. I explain why it's there and let them know that I will provide pics once we move the conversation beyond the site. They normally give me their numbers soon after.
/r/seduction31/01/20 12:05 AM
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I'm good with my words. My profile is honest and direct. I've literally matched with someone every other day this month, even though I start off explaining that I'm seeing 2 people at the moment. My advice is that if you're passionate about something, try and convey it in your profile. When you have conversations, go a little bit further than just pointing out what you have in common, find out how she got involved. Be authentic. Everyone wants to get laid, and women can sense you running game on…
/r/seduction30/01/20 01:41 AM
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Has anyone critiqued your profile or commented on how you approach online? Dating apps have been a gold mine for me personally, and I don't even use a pic of myself.
/r/seduction30/01/20 12:53 AM
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No. There will be another one tomorrow. Chasing women is the worst way to try and date them. Let them chase you instead.
/r/seduction28/01/20 09:10 PM
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Online dating?
/r/seduction26/01/20 06:38 AM
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Grieve the relationship. Even if it means going somewhere and crying about it. Process that shit and accept that it's done. When you're ready, put yourself out there. There's a difference between being genuinely interested in a woman and giving her the proper respect the relationship deserves and simping. Step back and do a self evaluation and then get excited. Those feelings will come for someone else. This one may stick longer.
/r/seduction26/01/20 06:37 AM
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